The 85 South Show with Karlous Miller, DC Young Fly and Chico Bean - Good Pwussy Energy w/ Karlous Miller & Domonique Danielle | Ep. 172

Episode Date: March 2, 2019

Karlous Miller invites internet comedian/model Domonique Dani to provide a female perspective to the 85 South Show. From 21 Savage to Black relationships, Karlous and Domonique break it down. FOLLOW THE CREW KARLOUS MILLER - https://www.facebook.com/karlousm/ DCYOUNGFLY - https://www.facebook.com/DcYoungFly1/ CHICO BEAN - https://www.facebook.com/OldSchoolFool/ BILLY SORRELLS - https://www.facebook.com/billysorrells/ FAT AND PAID - https://www.facebook.com/Fatandpaid/ DARREN BRAND - https://www.facebook.com/darrenbigbab... CLAYTON ENGLISH - http://www.claytonenglish.com/ JOE T. NEWMAN - http://www.ayoungplayer.com CHAD OUBRE - https://www.instagram.com/chadoubre/ LANCE CRAYTON - https://www.instagram.com/cat_queso/ J.O.N - https://www.instagram.com/heeeyj_o_n/ CRIAG GRAVES - https://www.instagram.com/craigshoots23/ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an IHeart podcast. Join IHart Radio and Sarah Spain in celebrating the one-year anniversary of I-Hart Women's Sports. With powerful interviews and insider analysis, our shows have connected fans with the heart of women's sports. In just one year,

the network has launched 15 shows and built a community united by passion. Podcasts that amplify the voices of women in sports. Thank you for supporting IHart Women's Sports and our founding sponsors, elf beauty, Capital One, and Novartis. Just open the free IHeart app

and search IHeard women's sports to listen now. I knew I wanted to obey and submit, but I didn't fully grasp for the rest of my life what that meant. For My Heart Podcasts and Rococo Punch, this is The Turning, River Road. In the woods of Minnesota, a cult leader married himself to 10 girls

and forced them into a secret life of abuse. But in 2014, the youngest escaped. Listen to the Turning River Road on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Your entire identity has been fabricated. Your beloved brother goes missing without a trace. You discover the depths of your mother's illness. I'm Danny Shapiro. And these are just a few of the powerful stories I'll be mining on our upcoming 12th season of family secrets.

We continue to be moved and inspired by our guests and their courageously told stories. Listen to Family Secrets Season 12 on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. 85. 85. 85, high, hi. It's not the best, but it'll do. Safe sex. Safe sex.

Somebody have safe sex. I said, safe sex. Safe sex. Is anybody having safe sex, you need a latex conduct. Unless she's allergic to latex and get a lamp skin, because that might work. And put it on, so it won't hurt, and then take your time with some foreplay.

Rub on the nipples. Okay, you stop. Okay, are you ready to take this series? And we're back. Welcome to another rendition. Another rendition of the 85 South Show. It is your man, Carlos Miller. I am in one of the corners of the traphouse studios.

My man J.O.N. It's on the beat machine, taking us back, way back to, like, 86. Yeah, play that shit, bro. Let them hear it. Yeah, that's the beat right there for this episode. You got a rap like that. if you want to let me taste some things that you don't do like look both ways before you cross the street let me stop man we just don't here wilding this shit how y'all doing tonight man before we get started

the first thing i would like to say is three 21 seven three 21 seven that is the most random shit of 2019 already the 21 savage is British I don't know what to believe no more I don't know I tweeted that shit that shit got about 15 million impressions man I don't know what the hit free 21 even if he is from over there that nigger from right here in Atlanta that is the most Atlanta nigga I've ever seen oh before we continue let me introduce you to my lovely co-host of the evening this dominique daniel how are you ma'am hello hello where you're representing for tonight where you're from uh i am from east st louis but i've

been in atlanta georgia half my life so so all the people who are not familiar with east st louis is a small little fucked up town it's not in st louis but it's not necessarily not in st louis right but east st louis it's illinois it's his own little place it's a very special Special little place. It is. Red Fox is from there. Shout out to my man, Willie Lynch, Jr. He's from there.

A couple more people. I know a few comics from out that way. East St. Louis. It's kind of rough. Yeah. Yeah, it is. I'm glad you made it. Thank you.

Thank you. You know, I'm not pregnant or a stripper. You should have been a pregnant stripper. That's exactly how it ends up. Speaking of strivers, I heard that the dudes from quality control went to the Super Bowl party bold part in about a whole lot of money. Boosie was off. Pause this, we can talk your money right now.

Booty was off his whole head just going on. He said Q stood in one spot literally, 30,000 right there. Then another 100,000 in another, like, I. Yeah, I seen Floyd Mayweather to throw 100 by itself one night. He threw 50, then he read up and got another 50. Like I, you know, I thought to myself, like just being a stripper for just that night. I know, but you know. But when I like Lilbooz's Instagram, this is one of the most entertaining

rapping. Like I was talking about the most entertaining rappers also to me. Little Boos is definitely at my top five. He had a show in Alabama one day and this nigga, he had this video, he was in a Versaucherobe and this nigga was so serious, but he was like, the whole Alabama will be there. They already said, it's going down. Tuscaloosa said they come. Get your tickets.

He said it with a tone of seriousness that made me want to be there. The whole Alabama covered. They already seen it. The whole Alabama was on the phone together and were like Boise. We come. Don't worry about nothing. The whole Alabama. I fuck with Boothoodsett a long way, man.

Yeah, I do too. I do too. Smart nigger. You know, who else is an entertaining rapper that you follow on social media? You know, Plies always got something. Oh, come on, man. You know that. you know plies always got something like whether it's sweet push the saturdays is sundays

i love this niggins yeah i'm telling you this nigger come on and say the most random shit it just be laughing all right listen boy you find you a bitch who dry that awesome or what what a bitch dry that awesome oh oh my god oh they get the bonies like this is the giggling this nigger ever ever he'd be happy as hell they think he's been in the car for four years ain't going he never came out of the car in a video but most of the videos it looked like he actually driving like where is this thing going does he have a holder is it is it i just got a ticket from hold my phone let me tell y'all mother parking that's one motherfucker thing if i reach over there

in the morning and get some of that pussy and that purse ain't all way wait bitch you got to go back to sleep you've been sleep too long that pussy unthried up that pussy's Maybe that pussy dead The funniest shit that nigga ever said He was like he told a girl he said uh-uh this pussy too big for me you need to put some tape or some neo sparring on that mother I follow a lot of them yeah uh yeah it'd be funny yeah he do now I don't know he talked a lot about pussy which all men do right well most of us somebody told me i talk about pussy a lot is that is that is that is that is But I feel like as men, we don't have a lot of representation.

What is that supposed to mean? It's not a lot of famous men that actually speaking about pussy. I ain't never heard Denzel Washington say nothing about no pussy. You know, because he has other things to do. Like maybe you don't talk about some more. What's more important than pussy? I feel like if you're a man and you have been put into a spotlight and you're a representative and you a leader, you have a voice.

You should speak on male issues like pussy. We need people to speak for us. In what way? We just need to. Sometimes he just needs to look at one of them. and be like pussy real good and just walk on you know because he's a man can you tell you from looking at a woman sometimes sometimes you can just sometimes women just sure with good pussy energy just take over the whole room just walk in with good pussy energy

hell yeah what is that what does that feel because I'm not understanding you don't know you may never walked in the room with I don't I don't know I like I don't know let me ask you this before do you think in your heart of hearts that you have good pussy like would you bet actual money like my money um i mean okay i'm not a very cocky individual it's not about being cocky you know if that pussy good or not oh i'm right okay now now do you really think a nigga is out here looking for some all right pussy no okay at least you honor no i feel like i'm right I'm gonna let I'm gonna let the pussy speak for itself. It's not gonna say nothing, though.

Mine does. Your pussy talk? It does. A talking pussy. Yeah, it does. Now. That's why you're a guest on the show, actually. I brought you on here.

I didn't want to have to bring it up. And I don't want to tell you how I know, but I did hear about the girl with the speaking pussy. You did, and that's why I'm here today. Can you play some talking pussy music? I feel like that needs instrumentals behind it. Please. But you really, you just think it's just all right, though.

I mean, I feel like, okay, it's enough to keep somebody who, like, won't leave me alone and shit. They always going to fuck with you anyway. I don't think. You don't think, pussy is the type to keep me. I don't think that's a good gauge. I don't really know, besides the niggas not leaving me alone. Like, and then I'm crazy, too, and they still won't leave me alone. Like, I'll cut you up and stuff.

And then they'd be like, but can't, can we, uh, fuck? So they'll still be trying to work it out. They'd be still trying to work shit out. Like, hey, I'm crazy. You didn't, I'm crazy. Like, I'm wrong. Nicking might go out of his way for a talk about. I don't know, but when you say, all they're stabbing and shit, I wouldn't feel at that part.

I don't really stab you for real. I just probably beat you up, you know. I'm just really disappointed that you said you, your pussy is just all right. I mean, I'm saying it's all right because I'm not a very, I let it speak for yourself. How could it be better? How could your pussy be better? Fuck you, Carlos. Okay, first of all.

No, you. You, because you didn't have the confidence in it. Like, you didn't speak up for your pussy. This bunch of good as a motherfucker. You were just like, you was like, mm-uh. See, most of the women who do all that talking probably got vaginosis and it probably got an yeast infection in this thing.

Wow. So I don't feel like. I'm glad you said it, because if I would have said it, that would have been, come off as wrong way as bashing. No, no, because I feel like. It's a lot of, it's a lot of salt pour out here. They be bragging, like, hard. And as soon as they do this, you be like, oh.

They don't even have to do that. They just stand up. You be like, you know. Whoa. No, that's bad. That's bad. The stand up with is bad. Wow.

That's when you really know it's bad. Yeah, but like I was saying earlier, someone could just walk in the room and just spread good puts the energy all around. I mean, you know, I probably got that. You know who I think got some good pussy? Who? What's that lady's name from How to Get Away with Murder? Um, do not tell me.

Fences. I'm going to tell you her name. I'm looking dead at her damn face. I can't always call her Alfred Woodard because she was... They're similar, they look alike. What's her name, bro? Hold on, let me get, I'm going to get her name right now. You got to pull her name.

Chad, what's her name, bro? I'm getting me to pull her name, but... The lady from How to Get Away with Murder. Oh. She got some good. Why would you say, okay, okay, Viola Davis. Yes, yes. Viola Davis.

Yes. Wait, what gives you that impression? And you know she's married to a white man, so don't. First thing, first thing that jumps out to me is the name Viola. Okay, her name's Viola. What does that mean? What is that mean? Anytime you meet a woman with an old lady name that's not an old lady.

She got that good? What? What? Everybody knows that. Just off the top. Shut the fuck. Okay, what's the next thing? Because that viola alone is not good.

She's the perfect shade of brown. Okay. Right. Okay. Like, she's real brown skin, right? But you know the bottom of her feet, light skin is hell. Yes, that's good. Stop it.

Why are you so ignorant, though? Why are you so that's what qualifies somebody is. And I just feel like she wear burgundy lipstick. Any man know older ladies, like grown women that wear burgundy little. It's about their life. Oh my God. Yeah. You know she's married to a white man?

I don't know why you keep saying that to break my heart. Had I known that. I mean, it doesn't change my love for her. It doesn't, but it does. Like, that shit is, what? She just found love in a different race. Don't do that. That is, that can't, ain't no way.

She liked this nigga. When I see a black woman with a white man, I'd be like, ain't. There ain't no way she liked this shit. There's no way she's enjoying. She probably enjoyed the good parts of it, like the stability and the money and shit, but I don't really just don't think that she's out enjoying

herself with this white man. I refuse to believe this. Oh my God. What's the Tia and Tamara? The one that's married to the white man. Yep. What's her name? Adam.

Tamara. It's Tamara. That's why I only like the other one. Ain't no way she liked this, nigger, bro. It's that. No way. Not possible. It's possible.

You mean to tell me this white man walked in the room. No facial hair, booty face with a fucking pimple and shit looking like fucking Sergeant Terry. And she was like, oh my God. He's the one. He is the one I like. It's probably the way he treated her. Get the fuck out of here.

Shit up. I'm telling you. This is the thing. I love black men. No, you don't. I don't wait. But I'm going to tell you something. There's not no way.

I'm going to tell you something. It's not possible. Pride. Pride is black men sometimes can really destroy something they have great. Girl, shut up. You know it. Don't you lie. I ain't gotta laugh.

I know, because that's why you're denying it. You know, it's so true. A lot of times pride in a black man can destroy something he has good. Just because he's trying to save face. Give me an example. It's like, okay. A lot of, I'm not gonna say all white men, because some white men are dogs.

It's not according to race, really. It's character. But a lot of times, within our culture, black men have this, this, this, this aura that they have to keep or this this this this thing yes that you have to keep in order to seem strong and to seem in control but what if it's not what if it's not what if it's not what if it seems what if to be a black man you need all of those character flaws to be to go outside and survive what it survived the world do you have to survive having seven to

eight different motherfucking girls at the time yes because seven or eight of the motherfuckers you got to have seven or eight because you get one thing you like from this bitch, one thing you like from her, one thing you like from her, you never meet the complete motherfucker. Yes, okay, statistics has already said, a person's going to only have 80% of what you want.

But y'all ask, what if you meet somebody who don't have none of what you want, just a fat ass. You just got motherfucking bad, you got bad, bad, bad taste. She don't have nothing that I want. That's why you got to pick the right one. Ain't no right ones. That's just what I'm telling you. It's the right one, because it's the right one.

Right one right here, baby. No, they're not. You're out here berating around with white men and shit. First of all, that's what I'm saying. My soulmate is out here eating motherfucking avocado salad and shit. That's what you're trying to tell me. It's a white dude somewhere telling. Probably.

Because your ass. It ain't me. Fuck that. Because your ass. And your pride. Everything is our fault. Yeah, well. I need some pride.

I'm going to make sure you take, you got to take accountability for the stuff. I ain't got to take accountability. Yes, you do. That's your problem. You're trying to fix it. Yeah, leave that nigga how he is when you found it. How about you want to better yourself for you? Better.

How about that? Better. Bitch, I'm great already. No, you're not great. I can't get better. I'm already great going to change. But you're going to fuck up. I'm not, you're not talking to the average niggas.

Yeah, okay, well, you gotta know something. I'm great. I'm great. Don't mind keeping just one woman. What the fuck? What I look like? Okay. That's too close to having none.

I make this bitch man, now ain't no pussy in the house. That's so stupid. Look. I ain't text back fast enough. Now I got the dry dick all week. Stupid, because she mad. But see, that's the reason right there. That's the reason that you definitely.

There ain't no reason. This is the real reason. You want to say it. You just like white men and shut your ass up. It ain't nothing that I did it. That is not true. That is not. Ain't shit that I do it.

I don't have a preference for white men. I have a preference for a good man. Ain't no such thing as a good man. You better find somebody good enough. That's so, that sounds so sad. Like, I'm so single. You're going to keep being single. Yeah.

You're going to change a thing. I think he's going to be better. I don't want to change him. I want him to be great before I get to him. Good luck. I want him to already have the right reception. Then you're showing up with I-a-pussed in all these demands. You don't even have a right shit to be asking this man for all this shit.

Fuck you. Just some all right. All right, pussy. A nigga gonna change for that? No. Shut up. Yes, he is. No, he not.

Because I'm bragg on how good it is. He gonna know how good it is wants to get in there. Uh-uh. What if he don't? Then he ain't do it. What if it's just a-a-e to him too? And then you're like, so. Oh, he never hate.

You see what you fucked up at? That's your character, for you. You'd be a great woman, but you're a pussy. Aye, now niggas gonna keep all your great woman qualities, woman quality but he got to go find a business with good fuzzlers because you don't have none wow don't do this to me don't do this to yourself don't do that I asked the question I made you told me it was all right I say it's all right because I that's why you think niggas ain't

shit because you out here giving them all right pussy and expecting them to be great men first of all I'm not giving them no pussy first of all that's the second flaw well just all right then you're not giving nobody none then when you do it's all right wow you would think and off we'll make it better. It's just mead. Damn. For my heart

podcasts and Rococo Punch, this is the Turning, River Road. I knew I wanted to obey and submit, but I didn't fully grasp for the rest of my life what that meant. In the woods of Minnesota,

a cult leader married himself to ten girls and forced them into a secret life of abuse. Why did I think that way? Why did I allow myself to get so sucked in by this man and thinking to the point that if I died for him, that would be the greatest honor. But in 2014, the youngest of the girls escaped

and sparked an international manhunt. For all those years, you know, he was the predator and I was the prey. And then he became the prey. Listen to The Turning River Road on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Pretty Private with Ebeney, the podcast where silence is broken and stories are set free. I'm Ebeney, and every Tuesday I'll be sharing all new anonymous stories that would challenge your perceptions and give you new insight on the people around you. On Pretty Private, we'll explore the untold experiences of,

women of color who faced it all. Childhood trauma, addiction, abuse, incarceration, grief, mental health struggles, and more, and found the shrimp to make it to the other side. My dad was shot and killed in his house. Yes, he was a drug dealer. Yes, he was a confidential informant, but he wasn't shot on a street corner. He wasn't shot in the middle of a drug deal. He was shot in his house, unarmed. Pretty private isn't just a podcast. It's your personal guide for turning storylines into lifelines. Every Tuesday, make sure you listen to Pretty Private from the Black Effect Podcast Network.

Tune in on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Your entire identity has been fabricated. Your beloved brother goes missing without a trace. You discover the depths of your mother's illness, the way it has echoed and reverberated throughout your life, impacting your very legacy. Hi, I'm Danny Shapiro, and these are just a few of the profound and powerful stories

I'll be mining on our 12th season of Family Secrets. With over 37 million downloads, we continue to be moved and inspired by our guests and their courageously told stories. I can't wait to share 10 powerful new episodes with you, stories of tangled up identities, concealed truths, and the way in which Family Secrets almost always need to be told. I hope you'll join me and my extraordinary guests for this new season of Family Secrets.

Listen to Family Secrets Season 12 on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome back to the 85th Shelf Show when we don't condone all right pussy. We only like great pussy. This is my own girl. Oh shit, because guess what?

She ain't shit either. Guess what? All the bitches that be like, Yeah, my shit's the best. The bitches be lied. You can keep it, though. The bitches be live. You think it was white man.

It probably smelled like garlic. Chad, shake your head all you want you. I don't give a fuck. That's why I created this form. You can say whatever the fuck you want to say. Which has been getting people in trouble a lot these days. They've been saying a lot of the wrong shit. This is why.

This is why I fuck what you don't. Why? Because you're real. That shit ain't... It'd be funny as him. That shit is holding my career back. Because you're real. You can't be real in the fake industry.

Not too real. You got to know when... The industry fake, bro. How are you going to be real? And you're asking for a motherfucker to let you pretend with them? It's politics. You got to know how to say it, when to say it, and what to sell. No, it's not even about this.

What? Sometimes you just can't say it. They don't have... They don't like the person who's going to say the shit. That's who. That's who. That's who. Sometimes you just have to... ignore the obvious and that's a hard lesson to learn me too for me too yeah just ignore the

obvious if somebody don't fuck with me and I'm in that vicinity I just feel uncomfortable I don't want to be there without this the business that's what one this is the thing a lot of people have to learn about business when somebody don't fuck with you personally you still can't let that affect the business like we get we can like we can personally disagree but we still here to have this business now you go over there and do your thing and I'm going to go over there and handle mine and if we have to meet in the middle we shouldn't let our fucking personal difference mess up the business because we're here because of that i agree with that i agree with that and i feel like as um

as a whole i think black people the only ones who let personal vendetta's like fully like keep them from they they come up i don't think it's just black people i just think that we have been tricked and criticizing everything that we do i think it's like some other people who way more fucked up you know of course but you know and then it's i think on a business aspect i think i think this is it right i think it's a lot of element that uh you know unspoken on or you know unseen uh-huh that you know there's other factors that are in place that got the black community in such a disarrate i agree and you know hard you know niggas out here really trying and i don't think that the people who are really putting

for the effort or the focus they just focus on the failures to make you think that we failed or they focus on the negatives to make you think that we ain't making no progress or sometimes they'll make you feel like you're not the winner that you are so that you won't know you know that's how it is some people can be intimidated by you disappointment a lot of things will do whatever it takes you win and then once you win and you realize that it was just a setup anyway then it don't feel like that right like a lot of motherfuckers feel like win is the ultimate end but you know like on your birthday yeah my motherfuckers did let you had it because it's your birthday it's like your day yeah that's what the whole game is when

you once it's over it's like all right it ain't your turn no more somebody else turn to win damn that's a strong that's the old shit yeah damn all right pussy didn't inspire none of these all my thoughts is inspired you all right pussy give you some funny shit to talk about no it don't I don't possess all right pussy. You said it. Now you want to change it. I let it speak for itself. You said it.

I said, I said, it's all right. I let it speak for itself. You have a personal relationship with it. I said, how is it? And you said, I don't want to be, I said, I don't want to brag. I don't want to, you know, because I'm not a cocky person. No, this is the 85 self-shundership.

So I got to be like, yeah, this motherfucker. This is it. Every episode, the best dick in America, sitting right here. this guy I don't give a fuck if you've had a bigger dick you've never had a better one and I'm talking to all the ladies in America no I never said I never said somebody had a bigger dick I didn't never I said it wasn't better I didn't I didn't never I said the best the best no you got a medium dick no I don't but you said it's the best I got the type of dick bitches argue with their best friend about why are they arguing with their best

She cussed that bitch out for trying to speak down on me. Or even asking about me. How are your little boyfriend? First of all, bitch, yeah. This is the type of dick that break friendships up. Oh, my God. That is nothing to be proud of, first of all. The type of dick, she don't trust a mom in them around.

She don't leave me in no room with no women. Come on, go with me. Yeah. All that. Well, at least you know. Yeah. I know the dick good. So then when you're done, you ever have.

They start dropping keywords when the dick good. See, you play too much. When you're done, what she said? I ain't never done. When I'm done, she said it feel like it's still in there. Wait, what? Yeah. So it's the never-ending story?

Yeah. Good day. I'm talking about, get your plate fixed. Like, this I'm good my day. Okay. Safe for essence, I got comforted, right? And I'm doing my laundry. Uh-huh.

When I bring them clothes out the dryer, guess we're not going to do it. Who? Me. That's how good my dig is. She's going to do it? Right. My dick's so good, she thinks I don't know how to do laundry. Just her excuse for doing it for me.

Doing all everything. Right. What else? What else? What else? Because that ain't enough. Okay. That still seems medium to me.

Okay. This dig right here's so good. When I asked my girl what she wants to eat, she already knows. I don't know. I don't know exactly what she does. She won't because good dig didn't make her decisive. She's good at making decisions now. No, I would like a hint of tuna.

There you go. There you go. Well, actually she said she wanted that, you know, Cobb salad, extra blue cheese. Oh, that's what she wanted. Mm-hmm. What else? She's into fitness and things.

Oh, oh, she's in fitness. My dick's so good. When a bitch says she's gonna call me right back? She called me right back. Uh-uh, first of all, wait a minute. Wait a minute, wait a minute. Yeah, this thing called right back. You said that your girl is fitness, right?

She's a fitness person. First of all, if you're getting good dick, you ain't fitness, that's normally when you gain good weight. Oh, you thought that's when I was talking. That's when you get thick. I said fitness. I said fitness, fitness dick up there. Don't talk over you.

I didn't know how this, I hate you. Don't talk over with you. Yeah. You just switch that up. Yeah. Okay, I see you. Uh-huh. Uh-huh.

Uh-huh. You tell you this. I tell you this good good. Okay. I know it's good. How is that? Because anytime I introduce a chick I'm fucking with to another chick, she don't like the bitch. She barely.

She don't trust nothing. Nothing. It ain't that she don't trust me. She just knows how hoes off. That's what I'm talking about. And that's why we live on the 85 South. I ain't stopped smiling since I started talking about this. I get excited when I started talking about myself because I don't do it a lot.

But since you ask, I'm just taking a time. Take a time for me. Yeah, yeah, take the time. Just, you know, to let these on fucking, I am still out there. Okay. And you know, black men don't cheat. 2019, it's a movement.

You've seen it all around the world. I've seen black men don't cheat. All around the world. I've seen that lie. All away from South Africa, they sending me videos. Kudos, black men do not cheat. I know, I know this. I didn't walk the spirit up, man.

It's Black History Month, too. And they've been trying to make the Black's history for all these months. Tell me where you got that from. What? I'm not understanding how you came up with the whole black men don't cheat them. They don't. You just literally told me that when you got seven, you can find everything you want in all seven.

How you do that? How you do that? If you deficient in some area and whoever you're dealing with finds a way to compensate for your deficiency, you can't hold them accountable for them. accountable for no shit like that like what like what you mean like whatever the fuck like all right pussy i'm not about to say a nigga cheated on you because he wouldn't have got some better i ain't never got cheated on before i'm just thank god thank god that you've been dealing with people who respected you enough to let you believe that i don't think no nigger has ever done that for all right

pussy though anyway um yeah okay you got it you got it have you ever respected all right pussy First of all, I'm not the one who labeled it. Now, if you want to change your answer, that's completely fine, but you're not about to try to make it seem like I made a mistake. I'm just saying. I responded to what you said. And I actually double-check to make sure you wanted to go with all right. And you confirmed all right.

I said, I'm not going to brag on it. Okay. That was after you said it was all right. You said, do you want to change that? I said, I don't want to brag on it. Okay. Okay. I'm not here to judge you.

That's not my thing. It's not my thing at all. Good. I've never been a judgeer. You know. You've never been a judgeer? Ever. But that's why this podcast right here is so popping right now.

It is. You know why? It is. Because this is the 85 South Show. This is a podcast for niggas who know that all right, pussy. It's better than none at all. Hey, there's always that. Right.

You could be getting it from a guy. You know the fuck I couldn't. Right. I couldn't. I couldn't. I couldn't be doing that. Okay. I don't know why you're bringing that up.

Especially in a time where you know this is a very sensitive topic. Okay, it is. No, we don't do that. But you said, all right, pussy, as if, you know, something's wrong with that. No, man, you know, it is something wrong with that. Just all right? Right. Because I feel like, first of all, you can't have good pussy if you're not a good owner.

Wait. You got to be a good owner. Owner of the person? Yes, yes. Okay. Personality has a lot to do with pussy. And sometimes the pussy and the personality don't match. So that's why you see a lot of men put up with shit.

And every dude that's got home boys, I always have that moment where it's like, I don't see how you put up with this shit. Oh, yeah, yeah. But you don't know. Yes, she's emotional and she's gonna cry every time we go out. Yep. But she's a whole squirder, my name is.

A real one. A real one, a real one. Okay, okay, so I, you know what, I think I'm better than I right then. Yeah, she petted, because she go, la la la la la la la la. You ain't never been here with that la la la. Aaron nigger wants me.

What? You know what I'd do for some? Tonight. What exactly is that? Oh, that's, that's not pussy, that's head. That head, that's head. That head, that's head. That's head, that's head.

That's head. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. All right. So, pussy or head? Both. They go together. If you had to choose.

They are combo. If you had to choose one. Shit, you don't go to, go to McDonald's, and just get the burger. You got to get the burger, the fries, and the drink. All that shit goes together. You got to choose one, Carla. Shit, yes. I want both for them.

The head going to make me want the pussy. I'm exactly what I'm getting at. I want them both, both for them. I'm a both for them. Bofer. I can't pick nothing. Teddy's ass. Both of them.

Pussy head. Both of them. You or your friend, both of them. I got to have both of them. I'm a terrible person when it comes to that. Don't give me options. You got to trick me. So you're just like, look, you get this.

Yeah, I need the pussy and the head. But if the cycle on, I got to have the head, head, head, to the pussy come back on line. Then I need both again. Then we got to start over. Oh. Because the pussy will be all blind. Like the Wi-Fi wouldn't happen. Shark week.

That's funny. Shout out to all the ladies who understand that when your cycle come on, you're supposed to give your nigga a lot of head and shit. Yeah. Damn, you're going through it, uh-uh. You've been through the, you've been through the, yeah. I feel like that's what's missing though. I feel like good head falling off.

Oh, that's terrible. I feel like this. I hate to hear this. Like, because I've been talking to my partners and shit in the streets, seeing what the street's doing. The reviews are down. The reviews are down, bro. Really, ever since this Instagram popped off,

a lot of the good head give us them went, like, underground. I feel like it's a lot of good head give us with private pages and shit. Probably so. I don't know. They must still be on Snapchat or something. It's falling off, though. I'm sure. And they're probably doing it on Snapchat, too.

That's terrible. Ain't that the worst shit? Finding out that you fucking with a girl who got a premium Snapchat. I'm not saying it's me, but I know it's somebody. Who? Who watching? Sorry, you're going through that. I'm not.

I'm not giving condolences no more. Because, man, people have to go through their own shit, and they don't need sympathy. They need empathy. Okay. Yeah. So what's you going to say to him? Nothing.

Because this is crucial to your development. any real nigger tell you you're not a full developed nigger until you're went and went through it with a hope and I don't mean that no disrespect right I'm talking about I know what you mean oh like when the woman do you like you be doing chicks and then you find out she fucking three-fold niggins and yeah you really like oh my god I was so stupid was you faithful though yeah that's the part that's that's the real that's ironic to the heart because you really are even if you ain't you still ain't cheated much as this bitch she didn't cheated more than you so you now you really feel cheated right

and that's the type of nigga that is stay with a bitch after he found out to cheat cheating because it ain't that he just like a weak nigga he just want to get some payback he might be petty so if you ever cheat on the nigga and he stay with you just no then they're probably trying to fuck your mama ain't that real I ain't never cheated though I ain't never had that problem you ain't never did shit I've never cheated before never ever ever ever You ain't never, like, broke up with a nigga and he wasn't your nigga, but you were still fucking with him, like, a new nigga. No.

So you're fucking with every nigga one every time. Yeah, I do. I don't trust you. Oh, my God. I can't. Because you're not human. Okay, I swear on my life. You ain't never had two niggas in your life together.

No. When I was done, when I was done, I was done. Okay. I move on. And it take me a minute to move on, too, when I love him. You think I'm lying. I can't believe that because I've seen the type of niggies you fuck with. What is that supposed to me?

I've seen them. I've seen that shit. You see me talk. Wait, you see me have one boyfriend close. I know, that's enough. Just one. I don't need to see no more. You like that kind of nigger.

Now in my mind, every nigga you didn't fuck with would fit that profile. It might have been the same, that's the first. That's the first that I've ever. I'm just saying, all the niggies you fucked with prior to the, they're looking at you like, I knew this, I knew that shit. I knew she was. shit though first of all that was the first white man i ever talked to just see i didn't even say that you see how she guilty but you know that's 85 south show that's the only

boyfriend you know bring them around real niggins they start telling you shit you ain't even ask you first boy that's the first boyfriend the only boyfriend you've ever seen me had you don't know what i seen what else you seen nothing okay i ain't been to you saying i'm really just fucking with you i don't care what you do with your life oh i'm living my best life oh i ain't going back and forth with no niggins not a lamb it ain't a nigga I go back and forth with I just be like you got it my nigga talk your shit girl yeah they don't know what to do when you on his side in the art man fuck this shit exactly I was gonna say it but you said it I was gonna fuck nothing no more I don't give a fuck I just I have a different way of giving

the fuck I'm at the point of my life I'm just looking everything like old people on the porch I don't even out there no more I don't you fucking what happened i was like blessed they hard i'm gonna fuck i can't change this shit fuck that you're just gonna smoke weed and laugh at it everything yep yeah makes sense i mean you got to laugh though that's what i was laughing so hard about the relationship shit bro i'm to the point now if i fuck with you i ain't even gonna leave the next bitch that cheat on me i'm just gonna stay because i'm petty what if she what if she cheating on you with the niggins she really like like she didn't meant the niggie you like no

No, I ain't ready to give up on you. So wait, you're going to keep her. You can just stay out of spite. No, no, no, mm-mm, nope, nope, not only going to let you go that easy. So wait, are you staying to get her back? Are you staying to be an asshole, just to be petting, just so you can't be all the way happy. Oh, my God, you know, that's terrible. That's one thing, you know, I think that's one of my fears, y'all.

That's one of my fears, that a man wanted to keep me around, but he really, want some of those that used you fear that yeah that's why I'm crazy you you crazy okay well I hate to be the bear of bad news but the nigga I really want something else he just fucking with you until something comes along look at all the motherfuckers you than fuck with ain't nobody else coming back they go that's like that's not true they go they can still call me they do they just want to make sure you still they still they still you know how fucked up if you call your ex and she ain't on earth No more?

Who? Who? Who? I'm a nigger. Wait, so you just want to call somebody? You called your ex-distance to the same? Don't you have to check on your ex once or twice a year to make sure the bitch ain't got fat or fell off or pregnant? That's all?

For what? Craig, don't you check on all your old bitches from time to time? Why? Can't ask Chad. He's a different type of nigga. He don't eat. I like that, Chad. Thank you.

No, he got a woman. He liked her. He ain't fucking with you. That's good. No, I know. Fuck you. Got to start looking out for our home boys. Don't fuck with it, Chad.

This is just an eye. I actually root for men who are faithful in their relationships. You should. Well, root for everybody in this room. You ain't no motherfucking faithful nigga in the relationship. I'm the nigger who put the shit in the atmosphere. You're gonna come on my soul in the atmosphere. You put a fucking lie in the atmosphere.

It's the one for me, niggins like Chad wouldn't be possible. Who gonna be their champion? I said. Black man don't cheat. That's right. I ain't doing this shit for nothing. That's why I'm not. come here you're not about to keep trying to talk down on me uh-uh you know that ain't right that's real you even said chad is a different type of nigger so for you to know that you know

you ain't shit you ever heard of the extremist chad the type of he give him and his lady takes showers together because he just want to be around her that you go chad i'm making this up you're so gullible i bet you it's true though if he's fateful if he's a different type of name how to fuck what i know that because I've dealt with that I've had that once whatever you just bipolar but I was crazy so no way you go you don't get to be crazy in the relationship I'm crazy yeah all right pussy and then be irrational like come on man you're blowing me first of all you already know what they got to say about a woman who crazy ain't nothing all right about a pussy that's crazy

whatever period point blank that's that's that's fucked up just like you say you know some niggas out here watching this right now i've had your pussy ain't ain't good enough for you be acting like that yeah that's a quote for you know what just like you said i have dated someone who literally they friends be like bro you don't need to put up with that shit bro just leave and as soon as he broke up they hit me up not like can you look back and admit that you was on bullshit on which one on which a lot of the bullshit i can admit that I've done some shit that wasn't right that wasn't right yeah I ain't part of growing up yeah it is just having to admit it what some of the pettiest shit you've ever done okay so one of the pettiest thing

like don't incriminate yourself or nothing but like he he like don't do no illegal shit because I don't want to be your downfall you remember that time that house caught on fire yeah no no no no I ain't never did no shit like that but petty shit I've done one time I went through a guy, my boyfriend at the time, phone, and he lied to me about talking to another woman. But if he had told you the truth, wouldn't have been any different? I just, he, I wouldn't have never even been in that situation. Because I feel like he was lying to me and I, I was right. But at least he had enough respect to, like, lie.

That's what we call lies. Okay, good. Anyway, so. He lied to you. Okay, and let me even switch this. Let me make sure I get this right. We wasn't together. We weren't.

We weren't. We weren't together, okay? But he gave me the impression that he wanted to work on something and that he was no longer talking to other women. He was trying to fuck you wrong. That's exactly. Okay, so would a nigga do that for just all right, let's wait, what?

He had to take the rub off to see if it was good. First of all, he didn't have to do that at all. He ain't have to do that at all. going to let him fuck row anyway well no no because first of all we we were no we were no longer in a relationship and I didn't know what he had going on he was trying to fuck no I'm saying outside of what he had else going on I'm not I don't trust that shit I'm not doing that raw no it's it's for faithful knickers and you ain't faithful stop saying that anyway I'll fuck you with a condominy

base building what you're saying to we get the truck no no no it's just no you got to get checked you got to get checked that you got to get checked I don't know what they're I mean, that's a given. It's a two thing. You both got to do that. You had the white man all in your pussy. You might have blice or anything. Oh, my gosh.

Shut the fuck up. No, that pussy ain't the same. Probably got dog hair all over it. First of all, white people are more cat people. Anyway, that's not the point. Ever row with your white frame? Like, bro, you got to clean this Cherokee out. Oh, my God.

This whole goddamn Labrador dog pile of hair back here, my name. For My Heart Podcasts in Rococo Punch, this is The Turning, River Road. I knew I wanted to obey and submit, but I didn't fully grasp for the rest of my life what that meant. In the woods of Minnesota, a cult leader married himself to 10 girls and forced them into a secret life of abuse. Why did I think that way? Why did I allow myself to get so sucked in? by this man and in thinking to the point that if I died for him, that would be the greatest honor. But in 2014, the youngest of the girls escaped and sparked an international manhunt.

For all those years, you know, he was the predator and I was the prey. And then he became the prey. Listen to The Turning River Road on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Pretty Private with Ebeney, the podcast where silence is broken and stories are set free. I'm Ebeney, and every Tuesday I'll be sharing all new anonymous stories that would challenge your perceptions and give you new insight on the people around you. On Pretty Private, we'll explore the untold experiences of women of color who faced it all, childhood trauma, addiction, abuse, incarceration, grief, mental health. struggles and more, and found the shrimp to make it to the other side. My dad was shot and killed in his house. Yes, he was a drug dealer. Yes, he was a confidential

informant, but he wasn't shot on a street corner. He wasn't shot in the middle of a drug deal. He was shot in his house, unarmed. Pretty Private isn't just a podcast. It's your personal guide for turning storylines into lifelines. Every Tuesday, make sure you listen to Pretty private from the Black Effect Podcast Network. Tune in on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Your entire identity has been

fabricated. Your beloved brother goes missing without a trace. You discover the depths of your mother's illness the way it has echoed and reverberated throughout your life impacting your very legacy. Hi, I'm Danny Shapiro. And these are just a few

of the profound and powerful stories, I'll be mining on our 12th season of Family Secrets. With over 37 million downloads, we continue to be moved and inspired by our guests and their courageously told stories. I can't wait to share 10 powerful new episodes with you, stories of tangled up identities, concealed truths, and the way in which family secrets almost always need to be told. I hope you'll join me and my extraordinary guests for this new season. of family secrets listen to family secrets season 12 on the iheart radio app apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts okay anyway let me continue so what's the shit you did so

when he was gone he had went to go get a haircut and while he was gone I went through that phone that other phone he left the phone it was an uh iPad type of thing and you know iPhone everything connects to each yeah so what you see bitch he was texting bitches he was texting bitches Sexting and everything else. They were sending news and shit? No, no, he ain't seen no news. She didn't see no news. No, I ain't seen no news.

But they was definitely talking like they didn't had sex. And this nigga didn't lie. But what then what? So you got mad. So I called them. All the bitches? No, not the bitches. I called him because he was gone.

And I was like, bitch, you better bring your motherfucking ass there before the house is on fire before you get here. And so. He rushed home. Oh, he was there so quick. he was there so fucking quick it was hilarious I've never seen him move that fast they got there in 2.5 seconds I just I just tore stuff up and then you know because I'm a thrower so I threw all the shit in a while after that it was probably like two

about a month and then I was done I was done after that matter of fact it wasn't even a month because when we got into a real because that was the thing that sparked the real big you know the real big fights where you'd be like yeah this shit's bad I gotta go that sparked a real big fight right yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah so yeah I think the pettiest thing I've done is like probably go through his stuff and then threaten to fuck up everything and and tear his house up and go yeah so after you do all that then what's supposed to happen I just go home and I cry and cry why because I'm miserable I got to happen to be done fucking what a nigga though

It still hurts because you love a person. You still love a person, even if they do you bad. You love them. I must be built different. Really? So the moment somebody do you bad, you just, your feelings are gone? How? How does that work?

Yeah, sounds about right to me. That is how that worked. I don't see how you do that. Like, I wish I could have. So let me get this straight. Okay. You fucking want somebody. They do you wrong.

you get mad and make it seem yep you go home and cry yep ain't that the equivalent that he gonna cry in the car that's some pussy-ass shit yes I'm gonna go home I'm gonna cry and cry and cry until it don't hurt again and then when it comes and hurts again I'm gonna cry again I'll never give that much of a fuck ever again in life so you have given that much of a fuck oh probably but I'll never let nobody take me that no more Why is that? Oh, for real?

That's what you're doing? See, that's what right there. Bless you. That's that pride shit. I don't have no pride. That's right. I'm just not about to act of fucking fool. Like, what I need to get all in my feelings for I ask you all these repetitive ass, goofy-ass question that I know to answer to.

You lied to me? You fucking him? You're shooting? Yes. All of that. Everything you can possibly imagine has already happened. He got to pussy faster than you. She slept this dick that day.

In the car. In front of the house. You know what's really bad about? Real disrespectful shit. You didn't took it out. You're a boyfriend. You didn't took it on eight dates. Waited four months to fuck with a condom on.

Nicar pulled at the club. Got some head in the parking lot. Gomp, gnom. She liked it. Oh, my God. I'm supposed to go on me crap. Two consenting adults made some decisions together. I just need to get the fuck away from over there.

That's the best thing for me to do. I agree with that part. Mm-mm. That's just sad. You know how that's fuck with people. This thing is there and caught their bitch cheating to kill everybody. Shoot the dog. Everybody.

Not the fucking dog for. Not the dog. Fuck that dog. He watched it at. He knew the bitch was cheating. All that shit. That's exactly how I feel to. It's a cold world.

I air this bitch out. That's how I feel. Basically. That's the feeling. It's raw out here, man. Yeah, it is. It's bad. It's really bad.

Got to be careful. But you know what? At the end of the day. The day is over. It is. It is. It's a whole 24 hours past. All goddamn day in the book.

Everybody said. That is true. Damn, you sound cold now. You sound like you have no heart. For love. No. You don't believe in love no more? I don't believe in shit no more.

Well, why? Because love is fake. It depends on who is coming from. Who told you what love is? A whole bunch of other motherfuckers. You ain't make your own definition. Well, it's not perfect. Because I want to know who set the rules to be like,

okay, guys, here are the rules. What's that bitch's name that hurt your heart so I can beat her ass? All of. What's her name? What's the main one? No, shit, it ain't no one. Yes, it is. It's one that turns your heart cold.

Man. Who she is. I'm gonna fuck her. I don't know the bitch. I just know that one night it was raining. was raining and my home boy golf men don't hit this business was putting him out me and my home boy shoot down now keep in mind we three grown men we're trying to get the shit before she'd throw it outside this one later is moving shit three times as fast as three humans that's her man she is you motherfucker right i get that man we after about three trips we just stopped

and just started catching shit and she was throwing it outside bro i never seen they get put out this fast is that what changed the whole but just the thing she put him out for catching her parking off I was like what oh yeah that's he called he just like you said he went through her phone and found out she was with a niggins she broke up with him oh she didn't want to be with him no more she didn't want to be first of all she did I can kind of I could kind of see the logic though what what that's a betty shit well yeah I'm gonna throw you out for No, it ain't doing nothing to break up with you for God damn finding out.

But I am going to break up with you for going through my goddamn phone. The fuck you're wrong. The nerve of you. What gives you the right to lie to me? What? Who the fuck is you? Why are you got to? Who is you?

Why don't get me the chance to make the choice? You don't want to hear the truth. I lie to you all day. Oh, my God. I would hate it. You like selected lives. You want to hear the lies that benefit you. You don't want to hear the lies.

You don't want to hear the shit. I want to hear the truth. is the truth is a goddamn lie. That's the fuck, their part. The truth is a goddamn lie. Why you say that? The truth is only what the fuck you believe. No, the truth can be what happened

and what did not happen. Man, the shit ain't true until you believe it. You can believe all type of shit it's true to you if you believe. Wait a minute, that's so fucking not true. I don't know what to do. That you aren't make something true. You aren't fucking.

You gotta believe it. You gotta accept it. You gotta be terrible. So here it is. I ain't just tap you no you didn't but the truth is you did hit me you didn't tap me you hit me that's the truth oh my god whether you tap me or hit me the truth is you touch you touch you at all bullshit now is that a lie or is that not a lie truth to you because you believe it that's the fucking point that I'm trying to make no but it's still a lie do you believe you didn't hit me

just because you don't no no do you believe that you didn't hit me no I know I know I did I'm just telling you I didn't because I don't want you I don't want to reap the So you believe that What? Like I know I hit you But I'm not going to tell you that

I'm not going to admit that I hit you So then you can tell somebody I'm suing If I ask you if you believe As long as you believe it, it's true That's not true And you know what That's the sign of a

Of a motherfucking habitual liar Right I'm not the sign of a habitual liar No it's not Here it is You came to find somebody else's truth. That's why we're having so many outrages in social society right now. There's some people out there who really convince themselves that they are something else

and they want you to be a part of it. Uh-uh. Yes, it is. A fact is a fact. A non-fact is a non-fucking fact. You ever watch the biography or like A&E or something shit? I have. The person who they interview, what they say, soon as on the preview, I'm here to tell my truth.

That don't mean this is the universal truth This is the truth That's why I don't like that fucking saying To this day I fucking hate that saying Because first of all My truth can be You can determine that I'm just saying How I feel

No man you If a nigga slat my ass I'm just saying The shit is just not real Because I'm smoking But you have Because you are arguing the same shit That I'm telling you

Do you not hear yourself? No because you say No you I am literally saying the opposite but I'm saying it's similar to you believe it no okay you don't believe it well shut the fuck up why you're trying to do this and shit you don't believe wait I know your ass is your ass is half-ass here I'm saying if something is a fact oh my god I couldn't imagine dating you I would have a heart

attack you had you see how you off topic because you would know because you just want to argue you don't even have shit to say what the fuck you saw this Because your ass, you went from, it's true to you believe it, to date me. Which one is? Wait, no, because your ass can switch shit up. I didn't switch. That's why we have people around. You can switch it on.

That's why we have a camera. I didn't do shit. You talk about something. That's why people say it's your truth. There is a such thing as a actual fact and something that's actually opinionated. And then there's something that's true as far as it's not true at all. Okay. But listen.

People argue facts all the time. Some, it's, it's fucking half of the people on earth believe this motherfucker is flat. And the other half is like, what the fuck is wrong with y'all? I didn't make that a fact for them. But there are people who would say, you don't believe the earth is flat. Let me give you the facts and show you the truth. Like, nigger, it might be your truth if you believe it. I'm the type of motherfucker who would take both of them and meet in the middle.

I think the fucking earth is flat at the top and round on the bottom. I don't know. It's not for me to decide. It could be both. It could be round in some places and flat on some side. It could be a diamond. It could be shaped like a fucking egg. I don't know.

I would want to strangle you. I would want to strangle you on a regular basis, Carlos. No, because that's my line. I'll be strangling you on a regular basis. How can you not love me? Oh, my God. You have, like, literally. I would be insane, because you would literally make me insane.

Man, whatever. Like that right there. That's why your ass, that right there. That's why I'm single. Are you single? You're not really single. You got about four or five of them. I'm just a handsome, intelligent motherfucker on my way to some wealth.

Okay. You know. That sounds amazing. And, you know, I'm just can't, you can't talk to me like a nigga that makes $23,000 a year. No disrespect to him, but it's just me and him have two different sessions. a problem and what kind of problems do you have his problem is he listened to that shit mine is I refuse to it ain't a lot of niggas like me and I think they made it like that for a reason yeah yeah because God knows I think it is a lot of niggas like me but they probably in jail

for being so outspoken and fight back and knowing that there's a better way there's people like that like Nelson Mandela he made a difference you should make a positive difference like that shit he did I don't know if I could do 27 years though the cause the cause I fuck the cause fuck the cause yeah if that's what it takes for me to be big and great I'm not doing that God got to give me something else not going to just not going to I'm glad you could tell God what he needs to do. No, I'm just saying I can't fucking do that. Because that's not, I'm not, I'm not living like that.

And the way that my life is set up, I couldn't go back to anything left than the comfort zone that I'm used to at this point in my life. What's your comfort zone? It's fucking so amazing. I do what the fuck I want to. Are you comfortable doing it? When the fuck I want it. But the way that I do it now, as opposed to just when I wanted to do it.

I have the means to make that shit so dope to my liking. Okay. And that's why I can refuse to go back. Because I can't happen. That's why I'm single too. Because I can't let somebody interject them to my personal habit. I don't feel like nobody's going to bring it to it. You can't bring nothing to it.

What you from? What? Can't bring shit. sounds sad. No, it's not sad. It's just cold. No, it sounds sad for any moment that's going to try to shake your heart.

No, she's, leave my fucking heart alone. I don't need you fucking with my heart. I don't want all that pussy and shit. That is the, that's the part I'm talking about. You've been looking for that shit this whole time. It's been there the entire time. Man, don't try to come into my life doing a bunch of shit you've seen on the weekend.

Don't be judging women who date men, don't be judging black women, good black women who date men of another. the race because they date a man that don't have that mindset first of all good black women don't don't date men of other race yes they do no they don't yes they don't yes they don't first of all to be i'm not going to be mentally emotionally and and just physically abused yes you are you're going be all of that especially when it comes to that oh no no no if anybody should be uplifting and be great and awesome today black women is black men shut up you would don't try to come over here

criticizing us because the nigger took you skin one time. I'm about to give a fuck about that. Try to tell us we ain't great. I didn't say he wasn't great. I said pride is what keeps you, is what keeps certain things. Pride is what keeps us alive. Without no pride, we have nothing.

You be alive but dead and sad. You know how long it took for us to establish a black pride. That's what the whole fucking 60s was about. Say it loud. Not about that. I'm black and I'm proud. Somebody had to put it on wax. We need another one of those.

We need one of those. We need one of them every year. We ain't had one since the pimper butterfly came out. But, you know, don't get me on my soapbox. That's kid you the mind. Don't get me on my soul bottle, you know. Okay. That's all I'm about is uplifting the greatness in every black man.

And that's good. But you also have to know. But you're not about the criticizes. We are working. Oh, no. Oh, no. We're going to get correction. You're going to get corrections so you can be great.

You're good, but you want to be great. us leave us alone we're getting our shit it's coming i'm telling you the movement has already started all you all you got to do is just and it ain't know all you got to do it and be good to your woman any plan that starts off with all you got to do is the fucked up plan everybody knows that all you got to do it shut the fuck up it ain't know all you got to do how it's going to be all you got to do it's never been done before that's why people are visionaries they create it really just want to just come on to show and criticize. I'm not criticizing black men.

I love black men. Yes, I do. You let us down. No, I didn't. You did? You know what I didn't do? I didn't stick around. Long enough to see the progress.

And then you've been over in the other community. First of all. And you don't know what the fuck we've been doing while you've been gone. That's the point that I'm making. Don't say that. Well, you might have been left you want to leave. We might have been standing there and watch you leave and be like, damn, fellas, now is the time.

We've lost one, two minutes. Oh, really? They got Serena, Rihanna, Highly Berry. They stole all of them. Now, we've been over here like, bro, this is the move. We get, this what we're doing. You don't see us drinking all this good water and shit. Carlos.

Smoking this organic weed. You know, you know that, you see that mean where it says, God, it set your hair line back every time you cheating on the woman. No. Are you bald? They don't have nothing to do with God. You got hair? Me being bald has something to do with my father and my grandfather.

No, no, no. And she, in line to me. Lying to, well, if that was the case. Just payback. If that was the case, women wouldn't even find bald men attracted. I get more pussy now than I'm ever. They be fine. They be throwing pussy at the ball head.

Oh my God. They be fine. Can I touch it? That's so sad. Sad. I just wear my hat to get these other niggas a chair. They just be throwing pussy at me. That's why I can't understand all these fucking,

all these weirdos out here pissing the women off. Be a better nigger. Wait, weird niggies. Weird niggas out here just jumping on social media just to say anything to get a reaction. They don't feel like that, but they just run out of ways to get her attention. So they got to criticize or say some fuck shit because that's the shit people who's far to, negativity. Interesting. Yeah.

You can't blow up without no haters. How are you going to go viral without the haters? You can't. You get more clicks off people saying that this shit ain't good than people who actually like it. That's true. Yeah. For the most part, yep. I'm telling you, man, you can't have no love without no hate.

They're just like light and dark. You got to have one to appreciate the other. Ain't that ironic. That's irony. But see, hate is such a strong emotion. But love is an even strong one, but you feel the hate. You can feel the hate. You ain't never walked in no spot and feel the love.

Yep. Until you get around your family, people you know love. You like going on for a holiday. Yep, yep. feel that love but when that one motherfucker walk in the hate feel the room up fast because everybody know oh that's true that go to haters that's true yeah i've seen that but some people like it's just like the way that people react to it is different some people just have they feel like they have to stomp it out or they can defeat it you can't defeat that shit some people be haters because

they ain't never been loved before. Oh, yeah, you got to spread love so the people who ain't never had none, know what it feel like. Oh, shit got quiet. This is an 85 South show. That's real. Podcasts, the niggas who say some real shit, then shit get quiet. Okay, like, I had to soak that in. You need to.

Yeah, I had to soak that in. Clearly you've been laid wrong. Oh, my. Oh, my. Who your OG? My OG. Who do the niggins who put you up on gun? In what?

In life. My mama. Your mama put you up on the game. What she said? So much shit, like if I started right now, we'd be here for hours. Oh, okay. Yeah, that's what you say when you came thing of shit. I mean, that's...

Niggas so much shit. Okay. If I start telling you, like, we'll never leave. My mother tell me, never tell your age, because then people feel like they know how to treat you. know how to treat you. Exactly. That's just life game. Or you see them?

You see what I'm saying? Or she'll tell me some shit. Like, and it'd be real. But sometimes you have to experience certain things so you understand why it is what it is. Oh shit, hold on. Hold on, hold on, hold on to my other guess. Pause, pause. 85

85 85 85 85 Oh come on why is this taking so long This thing is ancient Still using yesterday's tech

upgrade to the think pad X1 carbon Ultra light ultra powerful and built for serious productivity With Intel core ultra processors Blazing speed and AI power performance

It keeps up with your business Not the other way around Whoa this thing Stop hitting snooze on new tech. Win the tech search at Lenovo.com. Lenovo, Lenovo. Unlock AI experiences with the ThinkPad X1 Carbon, powered by Intel Core Ultra processors

so you can work, create, and boost productivity all on one device. Join IHeart Radio and Sarah Spain in celebrating the one-year anniversary of IHart Women's Sports. With powerful interviews and insider analysis, our shows have connected fans with the heart of women's sports. In just one year, the network has launched 15 shows and built a community united by passion. Podcasts that amplify the voices of women in sports. Thank you for supporting IHeart women's sports and our founding sponsors, Elf Beauty, Capital One, and Novartis.

Just open the free IHeart app and search IHeard Women's Sports to listen now. I knew I wanted to obey and submit, but I didn't fully grasp for the rest of my life what that meant. For IHeart Podcasts in Rococo Punch, this is The Turning, River Road. In the woods of Minnesota, a cult leader married himself to 10 girls and forced them into a secret life of abuse. But in 2014, the youngest escaped. Listen to The Turning River Road on the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is an IHeart podcast.