The 85 South Show with Karlous Miller, DC Young Fly and Chico Bean - Lamar Odom in the Trap! With DC Young Fly Karlous Miller and Clayton English
Episode Date: June 18, 2021NBA legend and champion Lamar Odom from Jamaica Queens is in the trap! You know Dc Young Fly and Karlous Miller had to kick it off with another classic freestyle then Lamar Odom talks about his supers...tar team with Ron Artest before they hit the NBA!Lamar talks about making his NBA dreams come true and how he navigated the come up! Lamar gives advice to the young people watching on how to make it to the league and breaks down what it was like playing with Kobe Bryant. Odom attributes much of his success to the Mamba mentality. Lamar was drafted by the Clippers and talks about how the owner Donald Sterling was really weird in the locker room and the crew gets to talking about great coaches like Doc Rivers and Tyron Lue.The whole crew get into the debate about who is going to win the NBA championship this year and get to repping the Atlanta Hawks and show love to Trae Young and Lous Williams. Then DC and Lous break down the city of Atlanta. Lamar breaks down NYC living and talk sabout who got the better women! ATL or NYC! Lous gets start talking about them grandmas living in the living room! And small ass NYC apartments!Lous exolains his hometown and Missippi and talks about economic racism going on down south. Dc and Lamar get to talking about NFT’s and talk about some options for things that Lamar could sell from his career. Plus, Lamar tells a story about Kevin Garnett that you will not believe!Lamar remembers Tracy McGrady and other players that he were dogs! Plus Lamar shows his support for the New York Knicks! And tells the story of him trying to play football in high school at Christ The King high school.Lamar talks about the fight with Aaron Carter and breaks down why he knew he wouldn’t lose.Lamar made some great friends in the league and tells the crew his favorite friends made while playing basketball and breaks down some of the best perks about being in the NBA and gives a classic story from the draft.Lamar talks about how Khloe Kardashian bought him a Rolls Royce when he won the NBA championship. And DC asks if he wants to get married again and everybody gets into the marriage conversation.You cant forget streetball so Lamar talks about playing at the Rucker for Jay-z’s team and Lebron at the court. The crew gets into a whole lot more cuz this is the coldest podcast!Hit Our Website for more info: https://www.85southshow.com/Get our custom merchandise: https://85apparelco.com/Subscribe To our Channel: bitly.com/85tubeWATCH KARLOUS' MILLER's COMEDY SPECIAL! https://vimeo.com/ondemand/karlousmil...FOLLOW THE CREWKARLOUS MILLER - https://www.facebook.com/karlousm/DCYOUNGFLY - https://www.facebook.com/DcYoungFly1/CHICO BEAN - https://www.facebook.com/OldSchoolFool/Director - JOE T. NEWMAN - www.ayoungplayer.comProducer CHAD OUBRE - https://www.instagram.com/chadoubre/Producer - LANCE CRAYTON - https://www.instagram.com/cat_corleone_/It's Jon - https://www.instagram.com/holaj_o_n/ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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What are you doing?
Work with the city, that's magic.
He's trying to work with the city.
That's magic.
We all love.
Bro, and they call me, I'd be excited.
I'd be forgetting to charge him.
You got to sign the table, bro.
You're in a trap.
Hell yeah.
No, we had, I think Young Buck was the first one.
I don't know why we never...
How long have you had this ball here?
This year number six, baby.
Six.
Six.
We started this podcast with a dollar and a dream.
We still got the dollar, but now the dream is a reality.
Six years.
Tracking.
How long we've been over here about three?
Yeah, about three.
He's not blunts and shit.
Oh, y'all smoking, bud.
No, we ain't.
Not today, man.
I saw you on the podcast.
They were blowing weed all on.
Y'all like, man, my niggins don't want.
be around all that.
I've seen it.
We're just beautiful.
I watch everything.
We, it's beautiful.
Hey man, it is.
It can be.
J-O-N, you off today or what?
Oh, Kett?
Yeah.
What we sounded like?
I want two, I want two.
Everybody on?
Yes, sir, I said, is everybody on?
I said, is everybody on?
The 85 South Shell, we're ready to turn it up.
Have a drink.
Can't believe it ain't bring no candy in here, man.
Oh shit.
D.C., what's heading?
What was heading in gang vitamins?
Damn, you big as hell?
Oh, they've been playing an old nigga shit all night, bro.
Yeah, nigger, man.
J.O.N. Give me some new shit.
Everything been in 70s and down.
D.C. is in here, man. He won't hear some of that player shit.
Yeah, maybe some boozy, man.
You hear some violence.
Yeah, I want his shit.
All that old little shit.
Now, what I'm talking about.
What is?
Now, they're my boy, Jay-O-N and shit.
You're gonna rock, me?
Nah.
Jay-O-N, that's your, oh, you got the game playing.
What you gonna do with?
Play a line, nigga.
Plain-pong.
Yo, can't bring no guitar at not play.
What you mean?
That's like you.
You got to get right, J-O-A.
That's what I'm talking about.
Okay, then.
What's that hat is how they goo for me.
Yeah.
Co. Winnie get right, what's room for me?
minute, listen, hold up, let me take my time, let me go ahead and fin it.
Come on, then.
Come on, oh, them going to mind being.
You already know, I'll like if you hear me.
We're talking.
Yeah, fuck, nigga, they be walking.
She in a lot, but we talk up, but we're talking.
Listen, me and my bitch, we're chilling.
Yeah, we winning.
Trying to let's go ahead and stack up some big.
Come on.
Give you a couple of bitty.
Uh-huh.
I ain't mind no burking bags, feel a little dish.
What?
What?
Because you don't need work your bag, stupid little, this shit.
What?
Huh?
He never had a 95, but the pussy lie.
Ain't going to tell you boy one more time.
Why ain't had it going to hit twice?
Oh, she's charging $40 for the only thing.
The only person sleeping with is white men.
You know they're going to pay it.
You know they're going to trick.
I don't want free pussy because they ain't giving an out free dick.
No.
Uh-uh.
I am.
Not me.
Yeah, D.
Uh.
You want the park?
Uh, uh, you gotta pay the fee.
Damn.
That's how I'm living.
Fuck that.
You gotta pay.
You gotta pay.
Everything, you got to pay.
I guess I'm giving my dick, I'm crazy.
These bidsies don't never have no money.
They'd be special.
They be like, I can't live.
Hey, but they be hungry, though, so we take them to make these on the load.
No, I'm talking about get your two, my fault.
Man, your kids, hungry, go on get some more.
I'm lying, but I swear to God
it ain't no cap. Before
I hit that pussy, I check
my cash out just to see
if she didn't pay
in full because I'm broke
sometime, but my money
ain't, don't even tell them.
Hey, what, hey, because
you know they're listening.
And I don't like everybody, what?
All in my business.
Hey, man, welcome back to the
85 self-show.
Oh, my God.
All right.
Hold on, hold on.
Wait, just wait, just wait.
Hold on Jay-O-N.
Just wait, J-O-N.
I don't think you understand, man.
No, you don't understand.
This nigga had to live every black nigga dream, man.
Brough, this man, that we got in here with us today?
Right now?
Getto legend, man.
Certified.
I'm gonna put my first nigger, man,
to have ever done this shit.
You did what I'm saying?
Come on, man.
Well, I'm a legend.
Shit.
Any nigger who went from being a regular nigger
to being like an NBA star?
Right, come on.
Just off the top.
Right.
And then you kept it hood by playing in the streetball league.
I don't feel like people even highlight that enough.
You got some of the coldest highlights in the, you know, in the history of this shit.
You play with the legends, the most legendary team.
He's a champion.
NBA champion.
He's a champion.
Man.
A lot of nippers can't say that.
Charles Barker.
I fought with you.
Hold on, man.
Don't do that.
I thought with it.
Don't do that.
Bro, you're one of the only niggas that we seem to get more famous
while they was already famous.
Like, everybody knew you, and then you got even more famous.
Oh.
Hold on, hold on, hold on, can we, can we say it?
What's up?
You don't know?
Do you say what?
Can we say whatever, but we're gonna keep a jeep.
My boy, hit one of the...
Yes, ma'am.
If you know, you know, hold on.
Why do you know?
If you don't know, maybe you know.
If you don't know,
No, what?
I'm glad.
Every hood,
niggins is exactly what I'm saying.
You out here thinking that this is regular shit,
but niggas from the hood is like, go, go, go.
We room for you.
Brough.
That's my life.
Every time.
Ladies and gentlemen,
Lamar Odom.
Come on, man.
Come on, man.
Lamar Odom.
My blood, man.
Bro, we've been seeing you on all kind of press runs
and hitting little shows and podcasts and shit.
And we see they keep asking you a bunch of shit
You don't even want to talk about
Like, nah, fuck that
We gotta get them over here, man
Just to let this nigga know
That we just like us
We fuck with you, bro
We fuck with you, bro.
We fuck with you, bro.
You didn't know what I'm saying?
We ain't about to fuck, nigga, man.
You got an amazing story, man
Let me read off some of these mother
Some of the other accomplishments
We got paperwork today, man
Jamaica Queens
First of all
That's a legendary place, bro
What happened to the license?
I've been traveling all since 19 years over.
Shit.
But I always go back to the hood.
I always go back to the hood.
They don't get more hood than Jamaica Queen.
They sell the big dushes in Queens.
Well, like this, huh?
Searchmasters.
Yes, sir.
Exactly.
Exactly.
High school parade player the year.
Come on, man.
So you were playing in the parade?
No, that's just.
No, man.
I'm like, niggas, you're going down the street player ball?
No.
Even with a moving basket!
I'm feeling good.
You're like, this nigger did.
No.
Parade magazine.
Oh, okay, okay.
Same AAU team as Elton Brand and run our test.
That's a team you don't want to see with three future NBA all-stars on that bitch.
So how it was, like, even when they were kids, like, did y'all have that?
No, we conquered.
That team, that team, yeah.
We're crazy.
Yeah, we conquered.
That team, I think we only lost, like, like, that team was, like, 63 and, like, three.
Sixty-three and three?
How long was- How-long?
I was like four-year span or something.
That was like a two-year span we played.
That's a game.
Yeah.
1997-98, University of Rhode Island, first team all conference.
Atlanta top, Atlanta 10 conference in the MVP, drafted by the Clippers in 2009.
Who?
NBA rookie, all first team.
Go stupid.
Man, traded to the Miami Heat.
I was deaf.
Trade it to the Lakers.
I beat it.
I made it.
One, two chips with the Lakers.
Come on, man.
Two thousand ten, man of the year.
Six man of the year, 2010.
Nika, love candy.
Been all over the TV.
Right.
I want a six minute a year when I was shooting a reality show, too,
my ex-wife.
That's a big stunt.
Big stunt.
Come on, man.
That's great.
That was great.
So, bro, this is what we really just, man,
we came to kick it and talk about some of this amazing shit you've been up to.
What was it like being a project kid,
and to be able to live out your hoop dreams
to go all the way to the NBA.
I mean, the dream come true.
Damn, weather's crazy, right?
Oh, gee.
So with Atlanta, man, with the weather.
Man, that's how it be, man.
You got to wear you some swim truck.
Some shit with a hood on it.
You never know.
Your umbrella and some tibbling boots.
You never know, and a knife,
could he cranked here for real.
You do, you're in a life around this, motherfucker.
Now, it was a dream come true, though.
For real.
But I think the blessing of it all was knowing what I was going to do
from a young age, you know what I'm saying?
I think that was a blessing a lot of the people
don't find their love ever, you know what I'm saying?
So I was able to find minds at a love at a young age.
Man, the NBA life gotta be different, man.
You got the world coming at you so fast, man.
How you, exactly, at the height of that shit,
like, how you navigate through it?
You gotta be strong.
Yeah, it's hard, you gotta be strong wealth.
You know what I'm saying?
You gotta depend on God, most of all.
First off, yes, sir, good sir.
And your family and your friends, your loved ones.
Yeah.
I don't think you could do it by yourself.
So when you got to the league, bro,
all your cousins and shit from Queens
was just showing up at random games.
Bumbleclad.
Nah, I mean, you know, once you make it.
But when you make it, your family,
I always feel like you're gonna leave.
My cousin, you try to take care of everybody
as much as possible.
Yeah.
You know what I'm saying?
But of course, you can't take care
You can't take care of people that want to take care of their self first.
Right.
Try to bring some opportunities back to the hood.
Yeah.
Well, definitely.
You say you always go back to the hood, man.
Always.
So if that one kid that just walk up on you and be like, Lamar, man, how can I do it?
I watch you, and I know you're from Jamaica.
You know what I'm saying?
Queens.
You know what about you?
But like, what is it that you can say that young kid that's inspired by your life?
You know, you just got to be persistent.
be persistent, you know what I'm saying, and consistent, you know what I'm saying, at whatever you
want to do in life, feel me?
Right too.
Mamba mentality.
Speaking of the Mamba, man, what was it like playing with Kobe like that?
Legend.
That was incredible, dude.
Did you hear everybody talk about, you know, the actual Mamba mentality and how he just
never came out of, you know?
Yeah, putting his best foot forward and everything he did, man.
It seems simple just to say it, you know what I'm saying?
but a lot of people can't do it.
Dude was like that with everything now.
Early in the morning, he was a thug on that basketball court.
He was there early before everybody.
Everybody. And the last one of the week.
And he was a thug out there.
Like he was talking and talking.
Banging on breakfast, elbows in the morning
before the jump ball go up.
Going in.
Let y'all know that this is my court and y'all interest.
This is practice, but we're just pushing you.
You know what I'm saying?
For greatness.
He took us there.
That's up, man.
Man.
Man, what took us there?
Oh, partner.
What's up, man?
Mary, you said some shit on
that Blad TV recently.
That's going crazy on me.
Uh-oh, what did he say?
Because I ain't been watching.
The Donald Sterling shit.
What happened?
What I said it, when you said he was coming
in the locker room.
Oh, ha-ha-ha-ha.
Yeah.
Galking that people and shit.
They just like, calling the motherfuckers handsomeness.
Yeah, sizing his players up.
Literally.
We got the most handsome team and the league and all that.
Oh, look. Who were that?
The white dude that owned the clippers.
Well, he used to own the clippers.
He just, like, extra eyes on the players.
Wow.
You know what it?
A little uncomfortable, yeah.
But his whole style was chumped.
Real?
I used to, you can't.
Could they find out?
God Rubber, man, because Doug Rubber was a knick, man, he was doing this thing.
They let his ass go.
Then they did.
They got Tyrone Roo now.
The fuck that's going to do.
They're trying, though.
That's the same nigga who Averson walked over.
They don't act like Lou wasn't a dog, though.
Lou had moments.
Look at that that nigga like he was like, Yarky Pooh.
I hate that that's the only shit that people got on Lou.
He was a dog, man.
No, don't get me wrong now.
I ain't going to lie.
That boy, Lou, he was, you know, he was a little.
baby fish.
And they,
niggas sleep on dead fish,
dead fish,
a whiffel motherfucking boy.
Tritin'clock.
What you want to be on the top of the key?
Here me go.
Who y'all got taken it this year?
Now that's red fox.
Something's the red fox.
Who going to win that shit?
Shit, I don't know.
Fish or the nigga
that were running from a,
I don't know.
I'm thinking the Lakers
go win this shit again,
bro.
That's what I'm talking about.
They got the...
Man, they got the Hops,
niggins.
Shut your ass up, boy.
Shut your ass up.
Hey, y'all ain't talk about still.
My boy, that boy had Trey shooting that bitch from out of bounds.
Yeah, Trey got a geezer.
Come on, man.
You know we fought them hogs, bro.
They got, they got my boy Lou on there now, Lou Williams.
Lou Williams on.
Lou, what's wrong, gal?
Yeah.
Good nick, though.
You know, up there.
You know, we fought.
You know, we fought.
I don't even really understand how the whole Atlanta thing go.
Like, episode.
What you mean?
You got Atlanta's the city.
Right.
City.
city. That's it.
So what's up with all these other...
Them other cities!
They're not...
It's not Atlanta?
No, what it is, we might share a county.
So if you live in, um...
Give me some different places with.
Okay, so if you live in, like, Gwinnett.
That's far.
That's that way.
Hour.
Up there.
Gwinnett is the city.
No, that's the county.
The city is, uh, uh...
It's a bunch of them.
It's a lot of...
So what about?
So Douglasville, you're not from Atlanta.
Have you from Douglasville?
No, you're from Georgia.
You're from over there on four and old.
But y'all have over those cock.
See, he's from Atlanta.
Marietta, but y'all have some Murri-O-Batt.
If you're living fourth and counting, you ain't Atlanta.
It's not what school we fuck with it in Marriola.
And then Peppleboro, other than that,
we don't know the name.
And cut that bitch on the West Side.
You got Marietta.
You're like, y'all, y'all get down there.
Say what?
You got Marietta.
I'm trying to think of some other towns that I heard the name.
What about, what about?
See, I'm gonna tell what the east side big is.
big and fuck them. The east side really bigger than the west side.
Because the west side really lena and west side only clean.
Atlanta shit. Because the west side can go further like
myriotta and all that shit because it's on the I-20 waist back.
But that shit cut off after Marlou the king, but yeah.
Okay. Basically everything inside of 285, that's Atlanta in the middle.
Everything else is actually.
Yeah, yeah.
285 is the freeway.
Yeah.
Big circle.
Everything inside the circle is Atlanta.
Everything. But on the outskirt, it's still Atlanta, but then that's one of the other cities gets.
Like, Decatur is another city, big, but it's on the east side.
And Decatur has a zone county called DeKal County.
But the east side, Forte County, does run on the east side a little bit.
And Atlanta runs on the east side a little bit.
But then they got Decatur with, then they got Lothonia, then they got a stone mound, then they got stock there.
So the east side over there.
way bigger than Luis, which really is in London.
It takes some while to, it takes a while
to learn the geography around this spot.
Yeah, you got to know.
Because the airside of town is different, though.
It just really depends on where you're at.
And you know where you at, too, once you get there.
That's it way different from New York.
Because New York.
Y'all got barrows.
Yeah, but if you, if somebody say, yo,
it's five minutes away, it's five minutes away.
No, it's not.
Not in New York.
Out here, somebody tell you it's five minutes away.
He line.
You want a freeway.
No, okay.
He lying like, he's still laying in the bed, bro.
I'm in the car.
I'm pulling up, bro.
Oh, it's a wreck.
It's a wreck.
It's a wreck.
Yeah, that's a good.
Any way you want to go around this motherfucker is at least 27 minutes away.
Brough, and then New York is crazy.
I lived in Jersey and had to travel for two years.
If I wanted to go two miles,
nigger, it's going to take me 40 minutes.
I can see where I'm going.
Literally.
If I get out of the car, I can live.
walk to that motherfucker and make it before, if I stand in your car.
That's probably in Manhattan, though.
Yeah, it was.
In Manhattan.
I'm so from the South.
I don't even think I could live in New York.
It's hard, bro.
Now, you could.
I love New York.
You're a king, bro.
Y'all aggressive, brother.
Y'all aggressive and y'all rude as fuck.
I fuck with my New York motherfucker.
I swear I do, but I give it to y'all every chance I get.
Y'all some aggressive, every time I get out there airport at JFK,
I get the argument with one of them little cab rodels.
They pass me every time.
Every time.
And when I go to the bodegas.
You gotta be aggressive motherfucking living on top of you.
Hell yeah.
I fuck in New York, y'all got some bad dick.
You like that shit?
You like that shit?
I love that shit.
I'd be like, cause you know she ain't no ho when she leaves.
You like, ain't nobody finish your chump, my bitch, y'all.
Not for no New York.
I don't keep it real with you.
What?
What?
What?
Say it.
Say it.
I know what you're about to say.
Say it.
You know we got the bitch.
This is my name.
You know who got the...
The South.
The A.
You just like that home-suffield.
We'd be like, come on in, baby.
He ain't never had a hook.
That's the one thing about it.
Around this point, you know.
You can meet the girl of your dreams every day.
She might have more money than you.
Exactly.
I just.
You can break up with your chick
and find another chick look just like her.
They could.
Even better.
That's what made me stay so long.
I fought New Yorker, though, because these bitch is so aggressive
and they cue it for.
And they're Dominican.
I think they're what it is.
That's right.
Oh, you like the span.
Yeah.
Get the fuck on my face, poppy.
I was like, what I do?
I couldn't do it.
I couldn't do it.
They live with too many people.
They did one of three minutes too many.
Well, you go over there, her grandma live in the living room.
You're like,
her grandma don't never live.
Grandma don't never leave the living room.
Yeah.
Me and tell me, somebody's stay in every room of this house.
You're crazy, huh?
She's in the room.
He's stupid.
They think she's at the little room.
She live in the living room.
But she peed at last room.
She lived in the living room.
It's starchy here.
It smelled like pitch.
I said, that's grandma.
Boy, y'all still.
That is funny, bruh.
That's facts.
Yeah, I think I'm with the Coney Island,
nigga, with my partner five, my nigga.
He was a project, nigga.
And I just embraced, like, hood culture.
Like, I look, because it's, like,
everything I see on TV, then when I go to it,
I'm like, but this shit real, like,
elevator don't work.
Like, you literally got to walk.
Like, my man stayed on the 10 floor,
and I'm like, my nigger, I just embraced,
like, we had to walk up 10 flights and stay.
Like, you gotta do this shit every day to live, my nigga?
Bro, when we went up there, went into a nigger's spot, bro.
It was literally the bedroom, in the living room,
in the same room, and the kitchen, like, on the opposite wall.
And I asked the nigga, I said,
and the nigga had a pool table in that bitch.
See, it would be the extra shit like that.
Okay, they weren't making, you know what I'm saying?
Like, that's what I made it fast.
Go like that, that they got a food table.
You know you can't take this more, but I don't even like.
I'm telling you, but I asked my guy and said, bro, how much this shit will?
He said, and the crazy part about it, down here, you live in the hood,
you're paying $2.50 and shit like that, since you're paying $1,500 for the, you're paying $1,500.
For the, you know, the one, the studio with the pool tape.
$1,500.
And, like, I couldn't feel sorry for him for him like, nigga, you make it $1,500.
My homeboy had an apartment.
He stayed on the third floor.
Like, you walk in.
ain't shit on the second floor
it's like they demolished the second floor
it looked like a horror movie
then you get up there to his shit
you're like this nice
but I don't know about that shit
under you
there's ghost in that monster
but then they said all the builders
in but this one I don't like
they said all the builders in New York
now it's the
what's the shit that's coming from the paint
that was killing people
espestos
yeah that asbestos shit
and over time as it went out
the espestos from the paint
was kind of like killing the people
Fucking people up, bro.
That's some shit, I ain't heard nothing about.
Yeah, I ain't.
I ain't enough of the trap since the day they built them, bitches.
Man.
But that shit can make you gritty, though.
I'll give you that grand, bro.
Because it's like, shit, nigga, you gotta get up and walk 10 blocks.
One thing I can say by a nigga from New York,
man, y'all, should be getting money,
flashing-ass niggins.
I don't give a fuck about it.
Y'all are the first nigga that I know that,
the first state that I knew they had,
like, every nigga in that can give to me.
A couple thousand.
Straight up, you could be from Queens.
Brooklyn, nigga, Harlem, you don't mind.
You're just about you're wrecking that shit.
Brother, this is how cold New York is.
You could be a legendary drug dealer in that bitch.
Fad.
But some of them didn't tell them.
A lot of them, they had to.
They had no choice.
They had to tell it.
They had a choice.
They just chose to tell them.
Yeah, life of death.
Yeah, you're going to get both in it.
Why are you from?
Where are you from?
Mississippi.
Mississippi?
They shit down there.
Nothing.
Killing, nigg.
Exactly.
That's the South South.
That's the real South.
See?
Thundee even know.
You don't fuck with Mississippi, man.
I don't know.
I don't know.
I don't know.
You got to roll past a sign when we left Mississippi show, nigger.
It was seeing like a master of 1866 or some shit.
But when the white people came to the town and kept a whole bunch of the things.
No, there ain't no telling me.
That could have been 1960s.
It's still bad now like that?
I don't know.
I don't think it's bad as people think it is on that.
On that.
as part of like the Mississippi Burning
and the KKK type of shit.
I think it's more,
they got that economic racism
where it's like, all y'all doing
good. Everybody over here fucked up.
It's like, you can see the color line.
Like, nigga, they're living over that bitch.
The motherfucker got the big-ass cribs in it.
Like, everybody over here got the same shit.
Right, right.
So it's more in your face.
You get what I'm saying?
I get it.
It ain't even no illusion like a nigga
can get some money around that bitch.
But you're looking for it's about that.
Because I know you ain't any out there.
There ain't any out there.
Nah, down here, I'm living somewhere.
Well.
You hook me up?
I'm a relative.
Shut your ass.
Man, where are you trying to be, where you're trying to go.
Who you need to, nigger, I'm the nigger, need you know.
Bad credit, no credit, get a prune.
Let me know when you're trying to move.
Commercial coming soon, man.
Matter of fact, that is a commercial.
You're selling houses now, my boy?
Man, come on, man, I am the landlord.
I hear that, my boy.
What?
I pull up, be outside like the mob.
Hey, man, tell them bring that $1,200, man.
That shit feels like a nigga selling dope again.
I'm gonna go, I feel like I got a couple of spots
to go pull up on.
Mm-hmm, two months behind, you bullshit.
Yeah, man, you've been doing a lot of interviews and shit
later.
I was trying to get the bag, bro.
NBA is over, man.
You got to go crazy.
You feel me?
You feel me?
I don't think I'll leave the NBA and go look for a slow money.
I'm just trying to work, man.
I'm just trying to work, man.
Fuck a job.
Amar, trust me.
Just chill.
Just chill?
Yeah, man.
Invest your money, man.
Some credit on money?
That too.
That too.
Get a lot of it.
A lot of it.
NFT?
No to NFT?
Hell yeah.
You probably got a bunch of shit people.
I'm not to fuck NFT.
Ethron.
Ethron.
Yeah, sir.
Ethan gonna be like another Bitcoin in me.
Yeah?
Keep going on.
Dog corn is going crazy too.
I'm gonna fuck with NFT strong.
I fuck with NFT.
What would you sell on that bitch?
Probably.
I know you got some memorabilia around.
They like strange shit.
Yeah?
Yeah, like socks or something shit.
He's the socks I had on in my 37th birthday party.
It gotta be some exclusive type shit.
Ooh, some exclusive type socks.
Yeah, like a jersey that's musty, one you never want.
Shit to bring 2.6 million.
I get them something.
Maybe I draw some shit.
You draw?
No.
Do it.
There you go.
about the first painting from Lamar Otter.
Real right.
Real right.
And don't even finish the bitch
because it's artistic.
Half faces.
Half faces.
Yeah, man.
You got to put another nigga face on it.
Bro, who are some of the players
that you played against
that are better than people
than the average NBA fan, though?
You know, it's always that one dog-ass player
that don't get proper respect.
Like one on every team.
Who are some of those guys to you?
Damn, nobody that gave you butterflies,
nigga.
Come on, man.
I mean, have you ready, intense?
Right.
Like, you know you can't come to bullshit.
Ain't no such thing in.
Kevin Garnett.
That's a dog-ass-niggin' right there.
That's the perfect matchup.
Like, to guard you.
Kevin Garnett.
I would definitely say KGIL.
On both ends, too, because we got to put it together to get past that, motherfucker.
Was he saying wild shit to you?
Oh, my gosh.
I heard he told the nigger his wife tastes like hunting near Cheerio.
A legend.
He was like, we was playing with Darius Mavs, so...
Shout out to Dary's Mousin.
Oh, G. What's up with it?
So we had Darius Mows and we had a real athletic team.
And we was playing the Timber Wills one night.
And we was like, a lot of dunks.
You know what I'm saying?
We was like really going at them.
And KG was like, ooh!
These young niggas got my dick hard.
What the fuck?
Yeah, he's a little bit.
Yeah, he's a wild nigger.
Nobody would have ever thought that's what he said.
Of course, you know what I mean?
KG brought at the house like,
why he chose that to him?
I'm a goddamn story.
That's the way we're saying.
He's just extra intense, man.
Yeah, extra intense.
You had to always come with it.
Let me know you go to a move, KG.
Hey, T-G.
Hey, Tracy, Tracy.
Oh, uh, don't you say that shit tonight.
Don't you say that shit tonight?
That nigga get powering up.
No, not the night, KG.
Say that compliment for another T.
Tracy McGrady was a dog, too.
Well, T-Mack?
Hold on a good eye, bad eye.
Yeah, he was tough. Both.
Woo! Because niggins don't know Tracy had a lazy eye.
Both.
That's probably why I was so ill
because you ain't no...
Way, when he was going to get aggressive.
You know what I'm saying?
So it was like, put your ass to sleep.
Like, but he jam in your ass down.
That was a good one.
That was a good one.
He gave me like 47, though.
Damn.
Real rap.
Probably like 35 of the month.
Team back was a problem, though.
A whole problem.
A prime, like Prime Timak was doing 45 every night.
You know what I'm so crazy?
When I was in high school,
I was the number one playing the country.
Right?
Until.
Talk yo talk, nigga.
No, until that dude came around.
Because at ABCD, he turned it out.
And he caught up to me that year.
So I got parade player of the year.
He got Gatorade player of the year.
So we had to, we had to,
We had to split that.
But he was a dog.
Because he was me, but he was just more athletic.
He had all the same tools that I had.
But he was just jumping on the chair.
He didn't have the handles like you, though.
No, not at that age.
Not at that age.
You're the first big man that really had handles, though.
The first.
I'm talking about that can dribble.
With the streetball shit.
Yeah, I don't know.
That's about I can dribble.
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Probably so, because it was a part of my career where I was like, I tried to be more like Kenny Anderson.
You know what I'm saying?
To anybody else.
I never really thought, I never thought, yeah, growing up in New York.
Well, you were a next thing growing up?
Hell yeah.
Growing up in New York.
You're gonna...
Why are they funny to eat?
Man, y'all love them siren, d'n so much.
Like, I ain't never seen niggins that.
Like, I ain't never seen niggins that love Saurant T.
Like, they just want to learn that.
Nah, we got pride.
For what?
They're bowling right now.
Now.
The dad, the whole friend, it took they at 80 years.
They're gonna hate me for this.
I don't get my fuck.
I love you, niggas, man.
No, we're bowling right now, though.
Now, y'all definitely is bobbing.
But in New York, um, growing up, playing,
playing playing ball you gonna have to like you gotta have to have a handle but who
inspired you to be a dog like who who gave you like when you was on that court of
course you did you I think just watching basketball when I was growing up I
played every day you know what I'm saying and whenever I played whether it was
21 or two on two three on three I wanted to win the game right you feel
me I was just wanted to win the game even with football and football I was a dog too
What you played in football?
Peeley, quarterback.
Quarterback?
Backs.
That dirty left.
I was a beach.
Word.
So when you made the decision, when you were like, you know what?
No, what, hell.
Um, ninth grade, I went to, um, I went to Christ the King High School.
Right.
And it was, like, really known for that basketball.
But I went to football practice.
Right.
Um.
One day, and I think it was in the football.
And I think it was, when school first started.
And in the morning, you know, Lamar come to Mr. Oliva's office.
So that's the coach.
He was like, Lamar, right, we ain't really bring you in here to play football.
So that's when I was just like, fuck the football.
Just about locked in the moon.
They worked out.
I don't know, I ain't get to enjoy no shit like this.
Hey, come here.
You ain't here to play no goddamn football.
What's up, man?
Who that?
What's up, fool?
Rush trying to get in this motherfucker.
Now, so, damn, I'll finish it as you some.
What's up?
Don't let it fuck you up.
Don't let it fuck you up.
What?
Oh, the fight.
I forgot about the fight.
You, Polka Beach, fighting this nigger, Aaron Carter.
There ain't gonna be no fight.
Everybody know that's the baby brother of Nick Carter.
He'll scream a nigga up.
No, he's not.
You're gonna whoop his ass, man.
I'm saying that he's a Disney child.
Eric Carlisle of a screened.
You know the fuck he wasn't.
Everybody knows my name.
You're basing it on the kids' bob video?
Everybody know my name.
It's Eric Carter.
Yeah.
You can't tell him that white boy was not in his set of cocaine, man.
Everybody know my name.
Nah, fuck no.
Ain't gonna be no fight, man.
Man, you gotta whip his ass, man.
He'd need an ass whoop.
He'd been hard-headed a long time.
He don't listen to nobody.
He don't?
Hell no.
Ain't gonna be no fight.
He's suited, mama and dad and everybody.
He beat up his brother.
Nick.
That's how he got famous.
And he used to fucking Britney Spears.
Damn.
And Rick Carter used to fuck with Britney Spears.
Hmm.
You stupid.
I ain't on the gossip, but you ain't hearing with me.
I didn't know this shit.
I didn't know that.
I didn't know.
Man, he ain't Nick, baby.
You weren't growing up and licked to the boy, man.
I was already grown.
Yeah.
He doesn't know fucking boy, man.
I forgot you was already 30.
That goddamn right.
Damn.
You been out here for a long, man.
You got to whip piss.
It ain't gonna be no fight, man.
They're paying me to, come on, man.
Go with your gut, D.C.?
I know you're gonna knock his ass out.
I just need to know, I need to know your fundamentals
is up to pop.
Wump his ass.
It's Aaron Carter, man.
We can't allow these folks to have anything to say about.
Were you training right now?
Six in the morning, huh?
Nah, I'm training.
Go to train every day.
I got to train in the morning, six in a morning.
Not to sleep on that white man.
No, you can't sleep.
If you get in the ring, you know that you can't sleep.
You be put to sleep if you sleep.
I'm coming to the fight.
Yeah, he's crazy than you, though.
I ain't no fucking way how we'll fight a nigga damn that's seven feet tall.
You got to be right up under that, my fucking.
And he ain't posting no videos of him training, so I don't trust that shit.
Y'all need to call and see what they doing.
He probably smoking cigarettes and everything.
I'm going to fucking kick his ass, man.
She's going to fucking know.
You got to turn your hat back.
That's the beat.
I'm Eric Carter.
Everybody knows me.
You're like, bitch, that bitch, man.
That nigga had one song.
What that shit wore, man?
White people.
What's the name of the song?
There's no white people in this bitch.
The lightest person in here.
This Atlanta for real, for real, here.
I was really talking to Ryan.
Ride.
That's the only whitest person we got in here.
He's a Philippian.
Are you Philippine?
Vietnamese.
Vietnamese.
Vindamine.
Vindamine.
By eating the sauce
Eggline big for us
This is gonna fuck it
bro
You can't take him
No fucking way
He's stupid man
He gonna find the way
He's silly
man
What day is the fight
It's um
June 11th
June 11
You don't know when you find man
Nah
He got to take this shit
To see him all
You start to scare me man
It's in Atlantic City
Where you fight man
Showboat
Casino.
Is it going to be like live, like on streaming or some shit?
Paper view.
Paper view.
I'm going to buy that shit.
I'm going to buy that shit.
Buy that shit a hundred times for me.
I ain't going to do it once.
Do you got a cold?
You got a cold?
It ain't because I wouldn't.
It's that they only let you buy that shit once.
Cousin, grandma, uncle.
Everybody.
You got a cold?
The hood, Mississippi.
I'll tell them that.
Everybody.
Everybody got 59.
Do you got a cold so we can help?
I don't know.
I don't know.
You know.
Because you might tell you.
Do you have a cold so we can punch it in
that's go straight to you?
I don't know.
You need to ask these questions.
Bro, have you thought about this?
Like, worst case scenario.
What did you mean, where's that?
Aaron Carter, whoop your ass.
How the fuck you're gonna come back to?
How you gonna explain that?
Now, I thought we was just gone.
Man, he got up on the man.
Man, I don't know, man.
We're coming back in August for part two.
That's funny.
I mean, there ain't gonna be no money in the rematch.
Ain't gonna be no more money in the rematch.
I'm coming to the fight.
If you lose, I'm swinging on his family.
We gotta win.
We gotta leave with a W.
Don't swear.
Listen, my dude.
I'm just saying.
It's just, you want me, I'm gonna ask you,
the first round, second round or third?
It's only two rounds.
Y'all, don't do it.
How many rounds is?
There's only three rounds.
It's celebrity box.
Well, I mean.
Don't go out and give all your punches off in the first round, fool?
I'm asking you, bro.
I'm what I didn't box.
Figure that nigger out
It Aaron Carter
You are in no more pain he's at
But I just want to see where he at
If I throw a jab
If I thought he's gonna act
If you see him sleep
Attack, don't go in there
Rah Rah Roo Me to be your corner man
Have y'all there
Come to the motherfucking corner
Lam! What this ain't what the fuck we practice
This ain't what the fuck we talked about
I'm hopping in the ring
Put your shoulder up
Put your mother
Put your shit up and roll that shit
I'm just saying
Okay if I could say anything
Because I tell how Aaron Carter is.
I ain't no professional.
He's about five, six.
Right, he bought your height.
He bought my height.
I told you.
I'm not, I'll say feet.
Don't lean in, my nigga.
He's about your height.
Don't do one to you.
Ooh, back your ass.
Oh, do not lean in here.
Could you bite it all way, halfway down?
You hear me?
You made that motherfucker coming you.
He's going to get agitated, Trishman.
I'm going to get any more than you.
You got to reach, man.
Just keep him that way.
Don't let him get close.
And protect your nuts.
Man.
It's the number one rule in any fight.
When you're up?
Protect your nuts.
Y'all watch January.
They're 18.
You got to.
You got to go up on that hit you.
Yeah, man.
God protect you sack.
I believe in you.
I'm gonna put 10,000 on fuck.
I still ain't got, I still ain't got, I still ain't.
I think this.
Who want to bet me?
For charity?
Or just for what?
What is this?
For charity or?
Yeah.
Which one?
My pockets.
Oh.
I was just by the same.
You're afraid.
You never heard of that?
Yeah, great out there.
That's a good reason to whoop somebody here.
Yeah, let's see.
Hey man, welcome back to the 85 South Show.
We over here,
Parmachia with a more older
trying to promote this next fight.
Clayton, you jumping in here?
Mm-hmm.
You better not take Aaron Carter side either.
I had to bring you in.
Yeah.
First of all, what's up?
What's up?
What's up?
Eric Carter got to be on.
He tripping.
He's tripping.
He on that Jake Paul shit.
Whatever Jake Paul do, he saw that.
He saw that.
Oh, fine, fuck that bullshit.
We ain't gonna add like that that thing ain't fine, man.
That's what I'm saying.
You gotta get a fight with their credit.
That's what I'm saying.
Fuck that.
He isn't an embarrassing niggum, man.
You hear me?
Who, Jake Paul?
What?
They can say what they want me to say.
Hey.
He didn't take steroid test, though.
Hey.
Hey.
My fucking Jake Paul out here who'll be people ass.
Him and Logan.
I bet they grew up, scrapping like a woman.
I don't know about Logan.
I ain't seen Logan.
I ain't seen Logan fight yet.
He didn't won his fight.
Who he got to find with?
Somebody didn't want him white boys?
Nah.
Jake out here whooping ass
from having on private jets
flying, just flying.
He ain't even going on the way.
He's just like, fuck it.
Put me in the house.
What we're going?
Just go around.
Just do a loop.
And record video.
Like, do it.
Like, this niggins make him from that light.
What the hell wrong this bad?
Where do you come from?
Hey, man, what's you missed the most about playing in the NBA?
Besides the check,
it's clear to you out here.
Like the checks and shit.
Beating up Eric Carter.
Yeah, uh, bro.
You're staying up like that.
Nah, the camaraderie, man, my brothers.
You know what I'm saying?
You were around these dudes more than your family.
Who are some of your best friends that you made playing in the league?
Ah, Luke Lawyer.
For real?
I would never expect that.
Who he played for?
Who he played for?
For real, the ladies.
He was on the team for a long time.
Yeah.
this devil, like wins him and shit.
I swear he started coaching halfway through a game.
I'm not listening to Luke.
He's not listening to Luke.
He's not listening to Luke.
Hey, man, run the triangle.
What do you know it?
But I'm not listening to Luke.
Kobe Ryan, right.
Of course, Colby.
Yeah.
Barry Brown.
Quentin Richard.
My brothers.
They got a dope-ass podcast over there.
Yeah, they do.
Yeah.
They do.
Fuck with all my.
No kids, right.
Fuck with that.
Yeah, they do.
Steve Jackson, my Barnes.
Yeah, yeah.
Oh, gee, I just got through talking to man, that.
And then, you know, when you're playing with the Lakers,
it's like, that's basketball royalties.
Yeah, what was that like, man?
You over there, and you know you have to,
it's a certain standard you have to be able to play by.
And it's, you got to make sure you're keeping this legacy up,
because this stuff.
It ain't just grabbing anybody.
You got to be one of the chosen to go over there.
Yeah, I mean,
the town is you know everybody love you right you know what's crazy about the leg of game though
that everybody that you're a fan of is sitting right there front row sharing for you
you feel everybody move with you watch music you listen to they do now they're there
for you that shit is yeah that shit is crazy that's the best part about it though if you
really like performing you know what I'm saying so that's it the so so the love
Lake show.
That's the thing
where I'm like,
And then you go.
You're bastard.
Bitches.
They're there.
Speaking the bitches.
I mean, don't give me those little bitches.
I mean.
I don't even like, y'all like Mike.
And I don't even really say the bitches.
Right, right, right.
I want to be down.
Beautiful, beautiful feedbell that love us.
The ladies.
I mean, the women, you're going to get the cream of the crop.
Ooh.
Yeah.
Coming to the game.
Yeah.
Some of the most expensive.
Mm.
You know what I'm saying?
They squissed.
So it's like.
If that can't motivate you, right.
Nothing can.
You don't want to be.
You don't want to be.
You don't really like that game.
You didn't do nothing?
You don't love it.
You didn't do nothing?
Nothing.
You don't love it.
You did nothing.
Somebody was there.
It's just, you know, that you're on the beach,
atmosphere, man.
It's crazy.
So when even when you realize, like,
I'm about to be in the game,
like that moment when you realize,
I'm about to go to the NBA.
a draft or it's a team from the guy.
Speaking, I just want to know like
because that's every niggahood dream.
That whole little process of, oh, I'm in the draft.
Oh, okay, now the draft is up
and then your heartbeat and the anticipation
of what team going to call your motherfucking name.
How was that in the spirit?
Like, where you think you was going to get drafted, too.
Right.
I thought I was going to get drafted
probably third.
No, I thought it was going to be second.
I thought Van Kuh was going to take.
They took Steve Francis.
And then I knew I wasn't gonna go to Charlotte
because I didn't work out for them individually.
I know the clippers would probably take me.
But that's just like a dream come true.
For real.
Tell you a story, secrets.
So I'm getting drafted. I got drafted, right?
Right.
Named, I called, or whatever.
Um.
You know what I'm saying?
Everybody, my family, uncle, aunt, whatever, huh.
Last one I get to my grandma, grandma, I made it.
Give a kiss.
She looked at me, she's like,
don't get these niggins shit.
That's the best advice.
That's the best advice.
Never in the world.
Don't do shit
Put in his neck.
Fuck these motherfuckers.
Everybody behind me?
Falk them out of me.
What?
You got there and you got that first big check, man.
What did you start buying then?
What was your first big purchase?
Lambo.
Straight up after that.
No, no, I always wanted to, um,
my dream car was the, um,
excuse me,
the wide body bins of $500.
That's the only thing I ever wanted.
That wide black motherfucker.
You know what I mean?
That bit.
All right, honey.
That's it.
Then when you got it, what was next?
Had it all black?
The six.
Nah.
You got another one?
I want that X-6, motherfucker, though.
If I do, if I had any dream cup,
it's the Porsche and the BMW 86.
That's an idea.
The Porsche?
The Porsche.
You know what I'm saying?
Every hood, nigg.
It's something about the Porsche, motherfucker.
I can't see.
That's what I was about the same.
That's what you get.
That's what you get.
That's what you get.
That's not.
That's out the window for me.
Yeah, you're too big.
I can't do that.
Most you catch me and there's something spoilt like that,
probably the Panamara Porsche.
The four-door is a four-door one.
That's nice.
He's a pan-a-meree with the cayenne.
Chiang me.
Anybody need to be in my car.
You had got a Rose Royce as a gift?
Yeah.
What happened?
You all got a what?
They won the championship.
His wife bought him to Rose Royce.
Ooh, somebody need to read a book.
Phantom.
My girl need to read a book.
Yeah, my wife, hey, boy, hey.
I can't hold you.
You get me?
Get me an old shit money collar or something?
She's about me an aspirin.
She's talking about, she's rotated.
A pharaoh?
What the stars?
With the stars?
What the stars in it?
Yeah, that shit was crazy.
I don't know what the fuck made me.
Man, how I blow that?
Whew.
What the fandom?
Or the...
Everything.
Oh.
Damn.
Man, players fuck up.
Just happened.
But the bounce bag is always beautiful though, you get what I'm saying?
That's a fact.
Yeah.
Factor.
Motherfucking facto.
That was rude, bro.
The fandom of the championship?
Yeah.
That was royalty.
Play.
Chill with them, yeah.
That's dope, man.
You ever think about getting married?
Yeah.
That's a hard-ass question.
Take your time on now.
It's all right.
All right.
Don't never ask no black man that shit, right?
Yeah, that shit can catch any nigga off guard.
My girl.
I love you.
Hey.
Hey, you ask me that.
Man, no, be acting like I'm the nigger that's asking these questions.
I asked you that.
You asked me that, and I'm saying, I'm going to change that conversation.
We should have just handled the conversation then.
That was off camera, bro.
All right, well, let's talk about it off camera, nigga.
Damn.
But when I told him, we're going to talk about it off camera.
He said nothing.
I'm trying to be responsible young man out here.
All right, dear. Be responsible.
Do I want to get married?
I don't know, man.
It'll take somebody really understanding.
This is therapy, man.
I don't.
The last chick I had, loved her.
probably a little too much, too soon, too fast.
You know what I'm saying?
It ain't worked out right.
I'm a feeling shirt.
I ain't really about that.
Damn.
I'm the man.
I'm the man.
Not a man, I'm the man.
Talk your shit, gang violence.
So I'm not really trying to put my feelings on the line for somebody to hurt them.
Short term, long term, just fuck me over.
Right.
I can't have that.
See?
So, right now at 41, I'm going to say, do I see myself getting married?
You said all that shit
And still was like, yep
Yeah, yeah
I'm gonna take me on a roller coaster ride right now
My emotion is just went weird
And then he was like, you know what?
Fuck it!
I'm like, I do that shit
That nigga said, boy the one
Oh yeah
It's hysterified
I don't talk about, get that shit out, dick
Since you said you would do it again
What is some shit that you learned
why you were married
that you know it's going to require
if you ever do it again.
That requires long term.
Yeah.
Now, what was some of the lessons
that you learned from the first?
Don't put that shit on TV?
Uh-uh.
No.
Nope, not that one.
That wasn't one of?
Not that one.
Put the other one.
The second one that you're thinking about.
You got to keep your dick in your pants, man.
Oh, so it was you?
Because, I mean, you know.
It ain't going to admit it with them now.
Hey, man.
That's a big, that's a big.
Real nitty shit now.
Ladies, there you go.
He admitted it.
It was his fault.
Damn.
I mean, if you, you know if you deal with women.
Right.
Who said that?
If you like them, you need them to trust you.
Right, right, right.
If you want to be around them.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
Trusts everything.
Yeah?
You know what got me here.
You've been here a lot.
You got kicked out.
If it's somebody that you like that you want to build it.
I like how you said like instead of love.
You feel what I'm saying?
It's two totally different things.
I be telling motherfuckers all the time.
They don't hit me when I said.
If I like me, I want you to be around me.
And who knows what it might grow to?
Right.
It might grow to love.
The vibe.
Yeah, if I just meet a girl, she's talking quick.
I love you.
That's weird.
You say you was the one who fell in love too fat last time.
Oh yeah, I did.
I did.
How are you not there doing shit like that?
Stupid.
Stupidity.
Open.
Vulnerable.
Woman don't know if you make a nigga feel good.
Nigger feel like you love him.
That's because we're gonna fucking bare minimum.
We may be getting the bare minimum of shit.
And then you fuck around and get a whole lot of big shit.
Sometimes, you know, when you meet somebody, you meet and they're representatives.
Say that again, Gary, right?
House are represented.
That's the manager before you really meet the person.
Jay, man.
We need to play.
There's a pet behind now.
That was one of them ones.
That was one of them ones.
That deserves a good talk.
Because I think everybody feels like the beginning
to always be the best.
Oh, man.
And after that layer, pill off, he'd be like,
Yeah, motherfucker.
You're like, what?
It was lovely.
Man, that shit is.
Would you marry another famous woman?
I would, I'm not going to say I would never,
especially when it comes to a woman,
because I would never block a blessing.
Talk your shit.
You feel what I'm saying?
What the fuck?
Talk your shit.
I'm right.
But you don't have the best, where it was like, all right,
you the caretaker, and now your girl got money.
So.
I mean, you know.
I had some women that had, you know, really good jobs.
Talk to your shit.
You know what I'm saying?
For real.
That was a nice way to say, wait that.
Speaking of women with good jobs.
That's, I would say, to get married, that would be a requirement.
You have to have drive.
Yeah.
Just as much as me.
You gotta be equally yoked.
Yeah.
Just as much as me.
I don't see my...
You gotta want to do better.
You feel me?
Can't be a settler.
What you mean about it?
Can't be complais.
Yeah, you have doing the best, everything.
Every year has to be a progress.
Why not?
Alright.
I'm with that.
Sounds like a lot.
lot.
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Yeah, everybody been asking.
It sounds like a lot.
Why, you ain't got married yet, Carlos?
You love that.
Don't try to throw me away.
What is it?
What do you mean?
I'm up there.
My dick, work?
What do you mean?
No, I was poor.
Don't rush me.
Shit.
Don't rush me.
I said, I gotta pace myself.
You know, I'm 29.
In my last time, like, my last little time in my 20s.
Hey, man, don't rush yourself.
I'm thugging.
You know? You talk exactly what I'm saying.
I treat, I treat, you know what I'm saying?
You know what I'm saying?
You know, I got girlfriend.
You know, I wasn't saying, you know, we're good.
Every bit about around me, you know, they just, they will take care of,
something like that.
You better say it right.
Bro, she watched this show.
this show. I know, and they're going to send it to her.
What, what?
Because I run my house home.
Go on ahead, take the clip, send it to her.
And then send her this one. I run my house home.
And she will take care of her, man, she loved.
She lived with you.
Because that's the thing with the people out there, right?
They want you and the woman who you previous with to be at it.
angry, enemies, they can't, even if we were to be moving on,
we still act like we together and they're like,
how does that happen?
Why?
Because we got love for one another.
We know what we act, peacefully and spiritually
and physically, you feel what I'm saying?
That don't mean we have to be enemies.
The fuck.
Oh, they hate that.
Some people only know we can't flip back.
Hey, D.C., this is your bag right here,
you elbow deep in now.
I mean, that morpun, I'm gonna stay right down.
I'm talking about you, you like.
I ain't gonna go no one.
You go deep in that motherfucker right now, man.
That's the point.
Well, people don't understand how can you continue to love someone,
even if y'all ain't even having sex with intercourse.
That's why I try to stay off the streets, man.
Because once you get the fucking with me, she ain't gonna like none of these niggins no more.
You did.
Damn.
That's just what it is.
Has she ever played your play class?
Has she ever, like, broke your heart and-
That's the bitch of Darwan handshake.
You know what I'm saying?
But when you find that you fuck with another nigga that way.
Bro, it really just depends on how I'm feeling.
I could see a motherfucker like in the wrong motherfucker
and never look at it again.
You know, fucking with the wrong people
bringing stock all the way down.
All.
That's why we was miscommunicating
because you like them kind of niggas.
I could never be that.
You feel me?
I couldn't even shrink myself down
to be your type.
You like regular shit.
The value don't win down.
You can't damn your life, man.
No, you can't damn your life.
Fuck, no.
I hear that play.
I'm talking the negative.
It's in the reds, baby.
Ooh, you just went out a couple of dollars.
Yeah, she had a small vision
She didn't see the whole picture
Damn, like what?
Simple bitch
She talked to sell right out of the game
Talked herself right out of frame
Damn, man
Hey, we'll do that
You hate to see it
You hate to see it
But it happens to some of the greats
Let's talk on listening
Come on, listen, come on man
Everybody can take a
Can I even say this before
Remember we was talking about earlier
That
God made Eve
for Adam and he told Adam to guide Eve, uh-huh.
But the moment we start listening to Eve is the day we get kicked out the garden.
Amen.
Amen.
See, that story was deeper than rap.
Is it coincidence that Deceive has the name Eve in it?
Amen.
You're crazy, brother.
I didn't even read that one in the Bible.
Now, see, the moral that whole story is, if a woman won't listen to God,
What the fuck make you think she gonna listen to you?
She only gonna listen to you if you're a snake.
You see your bag?
You got to be a snake.
You elbow deep in it.
Listen.
You by then, you by then much.
You elbow deep in it.
Your feet sticking out.
Ooh.
I'm telling you, now.
You're in it.
She won't even listen to go.
She listened to a snake dog.
She listened to a snake though.
She listened to a snake though.
You got both of your feet in it.
That means she wanted to hear what she wanted to hear.
That means she wanted to be like to be like to.
Act two. Sometimes.
Bitch is like the four talk.
And that was really number of the subconscious.
Lamar Odom started all this shit.
No, I don't say that.
You start saying all that real shit about marriage and shit.
Yes, he did.
Lamar Odom started all of this, man.
You ain't going to have him knock on my door.
They're coming, bro.
There's somebody out here that's watching.
They're like, I know exactly what type of love he needs.
Watch this out.
Because it's somebody who's been through it.
This is somebody who's been through a lot.
Why she's saying like that, though.
She's fine, though, but it's that.
She didn't been through some shit.
She's been through the shit.
She got one of the same thing.
Oh, man, no.
I can't fucking.
She got one of smoking joints.
She got one of them smoking joints.
Everybody runs me.
They won't have all types of people knocking on your door to them.
They ain't going crazy, bro.
I'm telling you, bro.
Hey, man, this is good with the phone.
Fuck, we do.
People get married off this show.
All kind of crazy shit.
Bro, you know how many people
don't got back with their baby mama
just about watching this shit?
Facts.
First date material right here.
Facts.
Yeah.
85 South show.
Internationally known.
Bro, I got them playing this shit
deep off in the jungle.
Yeah.
South Africa playing this mom and fuck.
Yeah.
In the jungle with this shit.
Indonesia.
Yeah.
You can see me a video
doing the crazy leg.
D.C.
We do family.
I said, boy, what the fuck?
You kick it up a lot of dirt.
What the fuck you at?
One nigga sent me a clip.
His country is just a squiggly line.
I don't know what the fuck that is.
Just a squiggly.
That's not real, man.
We're getting over there.
That's crazy.
That's crazy.
That's how we living, man.
We appreciate you for stopping through.
It's love.
Blessing us with your presence, you did.
Yeah, we appreciate it, man.
Anytime.
Yeah, man, we'd be out here watching all this shit, you know, just in the world.
Sometimes we'd be like, damn.
I just wish I could tell that, nigga.
Check up on me.
How much we fuck with him.
Yeah, we fought with you, man.
I'm out here.
Well, you're the first big man with handles like that.
See?
We're just saying that shit.
See?
Do I mean?
Come on, somebody.
Come on something.
Are you going to tap him up and then dat me up?
I said it first, motherfucker.
I said it first.
I said it first.
I take an NBA story.
Did y'all talk about the Rucker already?
See, I'm late.
No, we ain't talking about D Rucker like actually at the Rucker,
but we're talking about a little bit.
I'll take any basketball, whatever you want to tell us.
How important was that for you as a player to be able to go hit the ruck at the streetball leaving shit like that.
Oh yeah, 100%.
I always want to show off in the rucker.
Plus that day was special because I got to play with on the JZ team.
They were young LeBron was at the game.
Tracea McGrady. It was on the bench.
They was on the bench.
No, no, no, they was watching.
They came to watch.
Oh, go, go, go, go.
So I had to at least show out.
You know what I'm saying?
At least give him one move.
Right.
You're busted.
So did you hear about LeBron, you know,
before he actually hit the league and shit like that?
Did he live up to all the shit that you had heard before that?
Yeah, I think he's probably surpassed.
I'm real rap.
Like, everything he said was.
I mean, proof and putting, man.
So a lot of things even niggas was coming up.
19 years, man, 20 years.
But that's because, you know, social media and all that changed that shit.
You feel what I'm saying?
So a lot of these days you got to see them.
before they even hit the league.
Yeah, I watched the niggins so much.
I swear in my mind, my cousin.
I've been watching this niggins since the 11th grade.
Real right.
It's only three people that I've really been watching since school,
bro, like I can call from back to back.
I've watched Kevin the Rett for school, Chris Paul from school,
and I watched JJ Reddick from school.
Like I know.
You could have left J.J. Reddick, go.
Yeah, you're crazy.
Dude.
Yeah, but you watch the kids.
But I'm saying.
Listen, listen, I don't care.
A lot of nigs probably ain't live up to their name.
But, and Duke, my nigga?
Yeah, he did his thing.
And Duke.
And he got down.
And he won, like, this nigg was, like, four-year
consecutive champion.
They hated him, too.
They hated that, you motherfucker, boy.
But LeBron didn't go to college.
No, he ain't fucking.
They ain't go to school.
That's what I'm saying.
That nigga didn't go to eighth grade.
He didn't go to college.
That nigg didn't go to college.
That nigga just grew his hell.
I ain't had cable.
I just had to watch the game that TV allowed me to fight.
Damn.
Yeah.
You ain't have cable.
The nigga just got Camel.
He was 40-year-old.
That nigga tried to make it seem like this was the 80s.
This was in the 2000s, y'all.
They had cable, niggins.
You didn't have cable in the 2000s, me.
We did not have cable.
God damn y'all was behind.
Cable had just came around.
We had dish.
When it rained, we went to sleep.
God damn.
They gave us a bundle.
It was like 200 chattels for $180.
$180.
They didn't.
Eight minutes were paying one alien, steal that hell came.
God damn!
Because it rained a lot in my area!
That's racism.
He's stupid.
That's why.
That's when telephone had minutes on it.
Oh, shit.
What cat won the NBA story?
Oh.
I already tell a mental world peace story.
That's the folks from where he got anything.
Meadow World Peace.
Do you call them that or you still call him wrong?
Huh?
You call that nigga Meadow World Peace?
No.
He's still asking Ron out there.
Call him Ron.
Yeah.
I know Ron since I was like 12.
Y'all from the same?
You just started ignoring Ron one day.
Y'all from saying?
No, he's from Queens Bridge.
Okay.
I'm from Jamaica, Queens.
He's from, um, Ron, always been aggressive.
Um, always love playing defense.
I've been playing with or against Ron since like 13 years old, 12 years old.
That's great.
That's good, see, like you grew up with in the lead too.
Yeah, in the league.
I told you, we're here, we're here, nigga.
I know you, nigga.
Facts.
Yeah.
Delaney?
Hey.
Yep.
Shout to a friend.
Get to share that shit.
Yeah, Ron, yeah, I'm glad I got to win one with him, too, though.
But you want an NBA story?
I sum it up real quick.
We're on the bus one day.
I don't know.
We have to.
They might have been after a gang, something.
They put all y'all tall ass niggas on a butt.
That's the stupidest shit, hell.
Everybody in this motherfucker is over 6'3.
Just arms and legs in that motherfucker.
Anybody be having their own little two seats, though.
That is hilarious.
It don't be that bad.
What the fuck happened to the story?
I was waiting.
I was...
I mean, we are your tired, though.
I didn't want to say that.
Nick, we was on the bus.
So we all know, we're on the...
Nah, so we on the...
I can't remember...
I can't remember it.
I can't remember if it was after a game.
And they told me to behave.
That's a bullshit.
Or one of his performances,
but Bing was just like, yo,
I'm better than Mike.
Who?
Who?
Who's what I said that?
Oh, Bean.
Just out of nowhere?
I don't know.
What made him say to?
I don't know if it was after a game that we had.
So it's just niggas on the bus.
Yeah, I think I was the only one that heard him, though, too.
He would just say random shit like that?
I'm not.
It was just, I don't know if he was talking.
I can't really remember how I went down,
but he was like, y'all I'm better than Mike.
I was like, all right.
That's a lot.
But if you think it, man.
Go great.
You like it, I love it.
Right.
Feel me?
He believed it.
Hell yeah, he believed it.
Yeah, yeah.
100% he believed it.
He was the only one at that time, like chasing Mike.
Really like, yo, I'm gonna be better than Michael Jordan.
To the walk, to the fade away.
Yeah.
Everything.
Yeah.
He practiced the game to the T, though.
He got it right, but he was still competing.
Right.
It was like Kobe.
It was still Kobe.
He made it look like it was Kobe.
Even though you knew who he watched and knew who he studied.
Of course, he was his mentor.
But he was just like, I am.
Fact.
have to go on the court and outdo my mentor because it's like this is the game he's teaching me
the rules and the books why i go out here and play it's the ultimate competitor wow if anybody
we're trying to be the ultimate competitor is you want to be better than the one the only one that
they even could compare you to to right yeah right you feel what I'm saying not comparing you to
nobody else yeah right because I'm not even gonna lie to fro Kobe
Can nobody fuck with Kobe?
The fro?
The number eight, ma'am?
Nick, nigga.
Bray, we've seen Kobe come out
and he had, like, little lint on this shit.
He's gonna go crazy.
That nigger used to have a little lint.
He's crazy.
Even the dog y'all at, I swear you for the dog your ass.
Bro, when you see an NBA player, like,
with no line off, them he's gonna play,
fuck.
Who it is?
It's a nigger shit fuzzy.
He can't go crazy.
That's like common limo.
Bro.
Look, Katie, been killing these.
He's things since he got there.
He never seen that
nigga shit lying up.
For real.
Not for real.
Not an official
cut-cut.
No, hell no.
It's just been there.
Nick, Rishie Wallace.
But you know, he got a patch.
No, that's a burmunk.
That man used to come.
That shit was spot.
When that nigga shit was flat in the bag,
you could tell he had been laying down.
That nigga finished shoot three
from everything.
He's stupid.
Where Air Force Wars are.
What?
You ain't seen Steph Kurt
when that nigga had the widow's peak
like Eddie Monster?
That's when that nigga beat.
Hey, he did get rid of them brains.
What?
The brains wasn't for him.
You.
That thing is stupid, man.
He said he had the widows peak.
When the nigga grow the little piece of beard
right there?
Going up.
that little piece of beard.
This thing going crazy.
Can't fuck with a
nigga who need a cut.
This nigga
only care about who?
What?
That's it.
We don't care about it.
All right.
Last example
I'm going to give you.
Ben Wallace.
That nigga shit wasn't
even even.
All right, what about
Andrew Biden when the
nigga had the little beaters?
What were talking about
in my home?
You're from the NBA era of everybody's suit being too big.
Who the fuck was y'all buying them draft day suits from?
That they were just hanging all off there.
There's some pictures of you.
You had a suit on Lamar.
That bitch had 36 buttons.
I'm like, this thing got more buttons.
He's stupid.
He should win.
And in the last for five years, fashion change,
dramatic.
Even from how them sweatpants, I would like,
I would never wear those when I was in the NBA.
Yeah, because they were in the big of them.
That'd be too tight for me.
No, man, but now it's like, it's it.
Right.
You feel me?
Yeah.
So you got to go over with this.
Who was the sireness nigga?
Like, everybody knew he was a siren nigga, but he said,
keep getting the NBA.
You're like, how the hell they get that you in?
Kobe said it was smush.
Who was smoo?
Yeah, nah.
That niggie used to just talking about him.
I don't know.
I don't know.
I don't know.
I wouldn't say who was the boss.
Because to make it there, you gotta be someone to say.
Nah, it's only, it's only, it's only.
You had to be the man somewhere in high school,
middle school, you were the man.
It's only what, 200?
No, when they kicked me out, because I had to,
I was doing like a little press release on LeBron
and I was trying to fuck with him and shit,
just to ask me a question.
And it was a nigga, he was like,
getting out of shower and shit.
That what?
Who the fuck are you?
Like, you ain't even get in a game.
Like, why didn't even get in the shower?
No, you gotta take a shower.
You gotta take your eight.
You gotta take your eight.
I'm gonna take a shower if you get in.
He did not get in the game, bro.
He was like one of the big one.
You're gonna lay-up line.
What lay-up line?
You ain't sweat?
The lay-up line in the warm one?
That was three hours ago.
Exactly.
You're nuts still staked.
You mean right.
For what?
You're not.
Okay, okay.
You feel what I'm saying?
Okay, don't need me that day.
Not the quarter.
All right.
All right.
All right.
He was always looking at the cookboard.
All right.
He was seven and six when he was.
He was seven, six, but he wasn't, he could play.
It's a, it's a well-known nigga that was sorry, but kept getting in the league.
I don't know what I kind of believe.
I don't think you can get there and suck.
To be, I mean, the suck.
The niggas who are sitting down who don't get in the game on every team, them the niggas are talking about.
Them niggas will embarrass you in real life, they will.
Because they're good enough, are they good enough for y'all to play defense again?
They're for y'all.
They're for y'all.
They're for y'all.
You're on the team, but you're really getting played to play defense and pray.
He's stupid.
Like, I know you, nigg.
because the coach told me
what type of player I was
I was a defensive player
for y'all
he's crazy
he's like you on the team
but you ain't getting in the game
but I need you
so they can get in high school
yo
I had my call
I said why you won't ever put me in
he said you good
but you're good enough
for the players
so you really defeat
the coach trying to keep him going
I ain't needed you yet champ
I ain't need you
you're a good locker roll
hey you're a good locker room
You're my secret weapon.
I mean, what about?
We ain't needed you yet.
You're talking like, you're my secret weapon.
Hey, hey.
Hey, keep your head up.
It's early in the season.
Early.
We're early.
We're going to make some changes.
Nantation.
We're going to find out who really wanted.
I heard all this shit.
Don't never think, because of the motherfucker on the bench,
that they ain't the truth, bro.
It's a video of a, huh?
Shorty yawning over there.
Who?
With shorty.
With the bucket?
I remember one time they got in, I still went in anyway.
That was six players on the court.
I went on.
I said, I'm going to get on.
And the referee was looking like, who getting out?
I said, ask him, because I ain't getting off.
On this place, I'm going to be on this one.
Everybody.
Everybody.
He's like, here you go.
Oh, do you want me to shoot?
That's my cat.
Let me get the ball.
That's that for me.
That shit do be confusing, man.
You out there bawling.
Then they come in.
I got you.
What the fuck?
What the how do you ain't got me?
I remember the best play.
I ain't even tired, man.
You can't have me.
I'm sorry.
You don't need to be checking me.
I remember I switched one time.
I got him.
I said, no, you don't?
You good.
Check him right here.
He real good.
Because if he checked me, then we can lose.
I can't get me.
Everybody.
She's sleepy
She'll be with him all day
They've been lying to you in it
They'd say they would drop you all right
Hey Ryan with me somewhere right quick
Another fucking mating
My God
I just met with Luriani today
He's treated me like his manager
I thought we're good luck on your upcoming fight.
I don't need luck, bro.
You don't, don't, man.
I'm bet $10,000 on you.
You're gonna whoop his ass, first round.
You play with skill, good luck, or happen.
There you go, man.
That's what Hobbs said.
Fuck that.
10,000 on my nigga Lamar, who won't that bet?
Nobody wants to say that jab.
I believe it just because Hoves said.
That nigga ain't lied to me yet.
Think about all the fuck, niggas who hated on me over the past years.
You whooping his ass.
I feel sorry for that little white boy.
That's gonna be like,
Like work. They'll be quick.
Then when you beat him, they can be like, oh,
he should have got on somebody his own size.
Fuck that. He shouldn't even say nothing
to my palm, man.
That's what they're going to say.
What if he was Aaron Carter say? He fucking right of this.
Fuck those 85 South boys.
I'm like, Nick, you're going to get another ass with him.
Put out the money. I'm going to hook his ass to.
He called you out, though.
That's, he called you.
Celebrity boxing, they made a house.
Oh.
Oh, okay.
Your name just came up or they knew you.
Like, are you known for having them hands on the street?
Or did they pick it out like a hands of shit?
No, but I always use boxing, training, you know, my best shit is Lakers.
So I know what to expect.
Do you take, like, all the training, always in boxing?
Like, ju-zit shit.
I tried ju-zit shit, I couldn't do that rest of the shit.
Yeah, you can't just say the shit right.
That didn't know you did say, y'all.
That man made the shit sound like some shit you cook in a skillet.
That damn jujoo.
That shit good with them noodles.
With cheese with cheese on me?
Maybe.
Maybe smart at Jiu-J-J-Zoot.
I can't do that shit.
We'll take two J-Jitsu.
Two J-Jitsu.
Y'all got some Judo?
Y'all got some judo?
Y'all got a J-J-J-Zoot.
You got me fucked up.
He wanted me do a kick in a roll.
I said, man, I can't do that, man.
If I got to do that to whooping the ass,
I might be, I'm a lose fight.
Fuck that.
Well, Lamar.
I can get dirty.
You got a hell of a story, man.
Thank, brother.
I'm sure you learned a lot over the years.
Appreciate that.
What type of advice do you give people
when they ask you for it?
How to keep going, how to stay motivated,
how to stay focused, how to navigate through the bullshit.
Stay sober.
You know, and keep God first, put God first.
Amen.
Yeah, overcome anything.
Man, you overcame a whole lot of shit.
I had 12 strokes, six heart attacks.
You did this shit.
And in a coma, man.
You know what shit?
Twelve strokes.
This is the both of me.
Man, can we, can we give it off from my life?
Hold on, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, wait.
That's, that shit, you said 12 strokes and six heart attacks?
I woke up, I couldn't even walk or talk, my guy.
I'm a big, strong athlete.
Imagine that.
Imagine how you would feel.
Damn.
How long do you feel?
Man.
Yeah, somebody poisoned.
Three days?
Mm.
Bro, they don't know.
They always leave that part out.
Yeah, because I mean, I had a, you know, like, a,
the reputation, you know, doing drugs and party and shit like that.
So, you know, so I guess somebody took advantage of that.
Yeah, they believe that part.
Yeah, they definitely left that part up.
All right.
That's a real shit, man, nigga.
I'm real.
I couldn't walk old talk.
I'm gonna finish you.
I'm glad you get my mom.
Put on my bow.
But that's why even when I go out, like, I'm real big on that.
Because I know like three people that are weak to me, you bounce back.
You know what I'm saying?
I know people that don't bounce back.
Man, that's a lot.
I don't drink, I don't smoke with my motherfucker.
I smoke my own weed.
And I don't know because that is what I'm scared of.
Because I'm not, I ain't tripping on you physically doing something to me.
I'm worried about the sneaking motherfuckers.
Yeah.
You know, they hate to see a nigga prospering than anything and they just want to stop God's plan.
But I'm gonna tell you right now you can't stop God's plan.
That's right.
How many, you have any 12 strokes and what?
Six orders and still ain't being stopped.
You hear me?
That right that let you know that guy real.
Come on, man.
Real for real.
Damn, man.
That's a lot.
For real.
I was all the way down.
Told my family say your final goodbyes and all that.
How's you going on?
That's what the doctor said.
Huh, you mean.
Shout to me to queen.
That ain't what the Lord said.
You did what I'm saying?
Come on, man.
But we're glad to have you.
I'm glad to have you.
You know what's up.
The bounceback story is amazing.
You feel what I'm saying?
You still here.
You still prosper.
And if you ever need the 85 South Show,
you want to come kick it and just talk you with shit,
you can come here and come here.
You get what I'm saying?
Whatever you got going on, man.
It's much love.
Love it, bro.
There you have it, folks.
85 South Show, Lamar Odom, we out this wish.
Let's get a flick.
Let's get a flick.
Let's go.
Come on, get a pick, man.
We're not standing up with you, bro.
Oh, yeah.
No, man, we got to do it.
You can do it.
You can do it.
You can do it.
You can do it.
No, I won't do it.
You six four.
I ain't six nothing.
We don't get, we don't get NBA playing.
I'm sitting to fuck down.
You got to have a comparison.
I'm not standing up next to this man's waist.
Fuck you're talking about.
Come on, dead.
Yeah.
My dad down, believe.
Go on.
Hold on.
Yeah, go, go, go.
Can I go smoke my wheat dead?
Can you go smoke my wheat dead?
Hell, yeah, W.
Hold on.
Yeah, man.
I don't even know my own phone.
Whatever you're plugging?
You want to come and tell some more stories, please do, bro.
I hate I missed it.
Hold me.
Want me sit down?
That's true.
I just want to give me some money.
Everybody knew you what's handing.
Say cheese.
I know what I got to obey and submit, but I knew I wanted to obey and submit, but I didn't fully grasp for the rest of my life what that meant.
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