The 85 South Show with Karlous Miller, DC Young Fly and Chico Bean - MAN's BEST FRIEND feat. TATIANA CRUMP | 85 South Show Podcast

Episode Date: May 30, 2025

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all these women ain't shit. I know what else you said after that? I think about it. It might be like 17% of them. It's more than 17. It's 17. Think about all the ones in the world that we ain't never going to meet. The divorce rate too high. It's more than 17.

20. 20% of women 80? By 45. Damn. You got to take social media. You got to take social media. You got to take social media. Stay with mine.

I say about a quarter. I say 45. This is the thing, though. I don't met some great women. Those are the women I kind of fuck get up with. Because I didn't even know once I ain't have it. I ain't have shit to compare it to. I didn't know where it was good

until I went to some something that wasn't shit. You get what I'm saying? And then you start, as you get older, you start to realize the motherfuckers who really like you are the ones who do the most for you without you having a teller. Yeah. Every time.

They wake up trying to figure out how to please. Some women, like, you know the difference when somebody who like you, but when somebody give a fuck about you, that's completely different. See, when they like you, that's that motherfucker that call and say, I'm at the store.

What you do? You're like, I'm chilling. But the other muff will be like, I'm at the stove. You need it a day? What you want? Yeah. Yeah. It is a difference.

And then I'll be trying to say a lot of shit that will please us don't even cost you all nothing. Like if we get out, if you spend the night with me, man, we get out of bed and I go brush my teeth and I come back. And my fucking bed made up. Hey, man, be ready about something 30. Oh, you got this is in the thing when she came and not in a watch. Five shit. I'm coming with flowers.

We do. But y'all is like a lot of you, a lot of them be wanting you to show your appreciation with nothing to a Right. You come over here and fuck like I ain't been doing this shit since I was 14. I've been dry hump and said I was goddellate. I said I was four down here because I don't premeditated. You know, I worked my way up into the penetration. Man.

Just been humping. Yeah, I'm just saying, but it'd be, my fucker want you to show your appreciation with nothing to appreciate. Yeah, so I don't can't cook. You got to, like, this ain't, that ain't a problem. You can't cook. We'll work on. Do like that dude. You said that it gave you everything you want.

That man to give you everything you want and you know it and you can came on this show and called them a little bit. Oh, God. That's going to hurt somebody feelings. Yes, he watched it. Somewhere in the world. You did. What you say on that one?

And what you say his name was? She didn't invite nobody. You said to me and we want to buy y'all all that shit and take y'all. I don't like them. I know. Not attracted to them. That's because, yeah. But who are damaged, though.

If you like a nigga that don't do that's the same thing. That's all the nigger here when you say you're not a track. Who damage is for real? If you like a nigga that don't do everything. That don't make sense. I mean, I don't know. I guess different point of views and different perspectives on that. His preference is preference.

Oh, what's your preference? Somebody who's in the gym. It's a random person. He said, hold on the way, hold on. You say he's in the gym, touch you. In the gym. Okay. Mentally, financially and financially available.

Financially twice. Okay. Financially twice. Hold it. Right. You said you want a nigga You want a nigga like skinner, too Go ahead

No, I don't want anybody like that. I didn't say that. Oh, so she's one of the nigger that's mentally, financially, financial financiality. Mental, hold on, hold on. Let me say, able to able to just, you know,

do his own shit, pay his own bills and stuff. Don't need no hell with that. But he's able to, he's mentally and emotionally available. Like, he know how to conflict resolution. You don't have to, like,

get loud, get physical. You know what I'm saying? Like, stuff like that. Like, you know, know how to cook a little bit for the days I don't want to cook one or two meals took the niggins show up and he could cook one or two meals yeah you good yeah simple shit and be willing to learn what anything that I want to teach you because that's what you want to that's what you want to teach each other you know what I'm saying you got to teach each other

things it don't have to be it don't have to be I'm with that that's what really keep me entertainment if you could teach me something like you're teaching me shit I'm like Anything. Like, that's attractive to tell. Hey, them the baby. Hey, man, teach you how to get some mind of mine. Right. Yeah, I want to learn, like, teach me something, you know?

My fucking taught me how to stretch not too long ago. I ain't know how to stretch. Hey? Got you together. It'd be the little thing. It'd be the little thing. Ain't nobody ever taught you nothing? Yeah.

Women. I learned a lot. Oh, yeah. Knowing him, he's talking about probably something. What they taught you? What do they talk? What do you learn from a female? I learned that

you never know See, I knew it was going to be from along the lines. You never the fuck you think she is? You don't never. Never. Never. You never really know?

I learned so much shit. But I don't want it to sound like criticisms. That's what you go wrong yet. I learned that a lot of women not comfortable with some of the shit that they do

but they're comfortable doing it I don't know why that is like doing shit in the shame that you did it like be caught red-handed and never admit it like oh then you have to just raise up off of you like that shit means something to you

like you kind of oh that was your play that's what I learned but in all my years of dealing with when you learn a lot about yourself God. Yeah. Because sometimes men end up in situations where shit be in our favor.

What you mean? Sometimes you end up in great situations just by being a hell of a nigga. Yeah. It ain't got nothing to do with your status. God. Nothing to do with your money. Yeah. Your character.

Your words. It's just that you're in there on your own merit, though. Yeah. Sometimes you just, it's just like you. walk in there and then you start to see how motherfuckers got in there like she said a lot of niggas paid to get in there

some niggas was some niggas got invited but some niggas got in this bitch because they were supposed to be in them you get what I'm saying favorable situations I think I'm reading it just a little bit no it ain't nothing to read it's real

straightforward no but it's just like like we were talking about earlier right if a nigga outside and he looking for a perfect 10, right? He might not never find a perfect 10, but he might end up in the right room

where's a bunch of eight, nines, and tens. And just because he's supposed to be in there, now he can pick which one he wants. You feel what I'm saying? Spillow it, what you're for? Come over. It's just a different dynamic.

Some motherfuckers going to win off proximity, just being in the right. place at the right time. How you get her? That's never the question. That's never the question. You should like, as a nigga, you should never question what another nigga doing. You should just salute that nigga. But the

men who had, like you said, I don't know who these sassy niggas are, but I'd be around niggas who do that. You feel of it? Niggins who don't, who want to see you with something nice. Not just how she looked, but how she make your nigga act. How she make a

nigga feel. You could tell one of the niggas really fucking with somebody. Because that nigga whole everything changed. Nigel, when you start losing weight, Nick,

man, my girl had me in the chair y'all. We vegan over here. We're vegan over here, bro. We don't, me and my pair and we don't need milkshay.

Nick, you don't know about meal replacement. See, that was wrong with y'all, niggins all their goddamn spaghetti and shit. Like, damn,

this nigga then change everything. Yeah. And it's, like you said, it ain't just. And it ain't just pussy. Putz it by itself can't do that.

No, she got to be a hell. Yeah. I'm talking about the motherfucker that you actually enjoy being with. Hell, you know, bro. You got to like the person that you with. When you start doing shit that they don't need one of y'all do, but y'all do it together,

like y'all are up Saturday morning riding bikes and shit. Yeah. Not the club, not buying some bags. Right. Y'all getting up early going to the Black Friday sale and shit like that. Yeah. I said, you got to like the person that you would, like, like them.

See, I learned to slow down, bro. When people that they don't really like for real. Down. This is not, yeah, this is not, I'm not from the cray out right. It's a marathon. Because, good way, do what you fuck up at when you be with somebody and then, when you with somebody and then you want. No, this is what you wanted.

You said? What's up, what are, D.C. When you with somebody and say, hold up, hold up, right quick. Hey, man, welcome back to the eight time show. Yeah, we just having discourse today. Today we're having some discourse. We got the fellas in here. This is what you said you wanted.

Yeah, this what I wanted? You requested this. Introduce yourself. They got me fucked up. Pick you a camera and introduce yourself, and we're going to take it from now. I am Totsie, aka Boss Lady T from Louisiana. And, yeah, I just wanted to come on here and talk my shit because people got me fucked up. When they got you fucked up?

Because they're popping balloons and shit because I got three kids. Dang. Damn. Because of my tattoos. That's up. Oh, God. I'm a pop three. I got three.

I have three. I have three. And they won a fucking car of. How many baby that? Two. Give me some more balloons. Two. What you're looking for?

What you're looking for? Because obviously you went on the day show. No, I didn't go on there for to match with nobody. I went on there because I was asked to go on there. Because I was just. you know, trying to help out the people that's running to pop the balloon

and I went on there just as a guest. But I didn't, I didn't realize it was going to have so much backlash. Why you say that? What type of band left? Because they didn't pop a balloon when I first walked out. They was like, okay, you don't have no poplar.

They didn't do that. They didn't pop a ball in. They were like, boom, boom. They didn't do that. They didn't pop a ballon when I first walked out. She was like, they like what they see. So I said, okay. So it's women or done?

No. The lady at a host. The lady at a host. You know, ain't nobody. If anybody who got a YouTube page, it's in blue. No, this is the real one. Oh, the real one of her phone. She was on the real.

No, this is the Houston one. Yeah, the used to. So this is the, like, I'm not going to say the fake. It's a franchise. Yeah, you know, with the family all the blue. That's the way. That's the way. That's the way.

That's the way. So I asked the guy as a question. I asked them, I said, do y'all have kids and all y'all in love with y'all baby mama? Right. And then they put the question back on me. And then as soon as I said, I had three kids, that's one of balloons, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, Oh, all these people might be bird. That's what niggins were doing.

Yeah, but it sounded like a fucking... You want one? Water. Yeah, I take a balloon, too. I ain't going to pop a movie, sweetheart. No, we just fucking around. Okay, so what do y'all feel about a woman who got three kids? But with two different people, but if they came from, like, serious relationships, not just, like, I met this guy, had a baby with him.

Then I met another guy two months later, had a baby with him. You know, like, just popping them out, like, pop. I come up a little woman. How 40? 16, 13, and 8. Oh, man, he shouldn't be tripping. Two grown. Exactly.

That's what I said. Two girls. You got two grown, one preteen. Exactly. Exactly. Exactly. He can't go get out of the car. You're scared.

He don't know the... Any child that hold of the city of the car while you're going to stove? They're good. They're good. They're good. They're good. Yeah, no, man.

I was just about to drive seat. All that. No, he'll know. They can go either way, though. Their dad are active in their life. Oh, God. Y'all is hilarious. Because even if they're active, children is different, bro.

That's why they say both parents got to be in the household because niggas can correct some bullshit. When the son and the daughter are doing some shit and the dad ain't done, oh, oh, the child's running. But if the family structure is missing the father, the shit will work. If it's missing a father? Yeah. No, because you don't want to play step back.

to a motherfucker, you know that they ain't sure. That's what I'm saying. The whole family got to need you. But if you're hard-haired. That's a big feel now. The family got to need you if they're going to work. Like if they don't fight, like if they don't need a dad up there, they're going to like, man, get your bitch ass out of my mama out.

But if they need it, they don't like, bro, you didn't come by, you know, sometimes. You know, my game's served it. That's just a whole different setup, ain't it? But you're turning to bat lad. Like, you ain't my dad You're trying to run shit I hate it, but listen

That's my big a feel You ain't my dad A shit You know, I saw him One time I don't hurt I don't heard Listen, I ain't tell

What the little nigga did Right? What did you know? The same little nigga Yeah We didn't even like 17 now I can't wait

We didn't watch TV Bro Me having their mom We're chilling Dill back When I was Food and shelter

Right I need to be Yeah Hustle days But I love A little nigga I used I used to take

That nigga I just did I just did everything for the little nigger. You used to did everything. To get my point of cross, I used to did everything for that. I worked one of my kids for nothing in front of him just to get my point of cross

and I'm looking at. Get what I do to your ass, keep for and shit. That's stupid. But y'all, for real, though. I don't have a good line. Come in, my. I ain't. You're going to get your ass more for him. Well, listen, we watch a bullfucking TV. And the nigger

mama like, hey man, go to sleep. He ain't moved. I said, Hey, man, you heard your mother, man, go to sleep. That nigga got up, that nigga said, I miss Terrence and walked off. She's like, nigga, I ain't talked to Terrence in by year. He's just being petty. That's her way to cover it up.

No, yeah, probably. So I told her, I never take that nigga to school again. That nigga had me in my feeling. Now, next time, I'm going to woof your ass. This time, that's crazy, man. That shit hurt my feeling, guy. I'm like, damn, my nigga, I do everything for you. You're like, I mean, you just said it for the hell.

I've been with your mom for two years, probably, supposedly. The nigga Taryn Popper just over the last night, you know what, that night, both. But yeah, he said that shit. I was like, damn with me. One time, I was 19, Delaware. Uh-oh. Her son was in the Tim.

Damn. Damn. Damn. Tim. You was 19? 19. In the hood. Oh, I'd have been there.

No one in me come a car in the driveway. So, my nephew, like, I know you, I know you fucking. Why you know? How you know? I swear I'm being discreet. He's like, Uncle, I see your car in the drive way. I said, you got it about that. You forgot you.

You got it. I'm the only nigga that guy in an ugly-ha green car. You're right. And you're great, boy, bye, he was cool, though. He was in 10 grades. You can't say nothing. What can you do? Hey, what can you do?

But damn, they were popping the balloons on your shopping. Yeah, but I didn't have a good lineup, y'all. They was, like, 25, between, like, 25 and, like, 28 years old. None of them had kids, but one person. Oh, they sent you up for the Hokka don't. That wasn't going to, that wasn't going to work. You should have told them put you some old niggas on there. I got three kids.

Don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. Long as they're Dallas Cowboy fan. My youngest daughter, 27. Don't worry about none. Don't worry about none. Put some play over there. You need some money.

You need some money. You need one right now. A nigg one of them old nigg would have grabbed your hand and They don't walk off. We ain't got to talk the rest of the room. Come on. Give you some keys. Find out which key creaked that car.

It's yours. Hilarious, dog. But, yeah. You want to redo the show. We'll find you. No, I don't want to do that shit. Ever doing that shit ever again. He was what you were of those colds soda back in the back.

We got out of these. Take some of that sandwich meat back in that, how old kid. I know the kid was some of that sound with me. They're going to have neat. The old nigga wouldn't get that night. Baby girl, I got five-bedroom house And I stayed up by my goddamn self All y'all was spending that with me

Go get everybody Brand the dog to That's exactly how they're on them Go get, go get it You don't like old a nigga You don't like wrinkled niggily Well, you're just going to have to wait Until the niggas you like get older than

A lot of girls who like older guys They want them to do stuff for them They need help I'm self-sufficient, you know, so I don't need that Oh, okay That's why I don't need a You need it in your life. Stability.

What you did? Stability. Yeah, consistency. Yeah, consistency. Whatever you meet, that's what you want to keep. Exactly. And I can reciprocate whatever I want, whatever I require, I can reciprocate. Physically, mentally, financially, financial.

Oh, what happens? Finance two times. Exactly. She said he got to be mentally, physically, financially, financial. So what financially, financially, financially mean? Give her money. Just self-sufficient, able to do for yourself. without me.

No, that's financially, financially. That's too much. Well, that's the answer to him, but still, I didn't, I didn't did the whole taking care of people. You took him out of a nigga before. That's what. I bet he was shit. I'm talking about stupid shit. Don't do.

Shit. Then give money. Everyone take that how you got to people. Let me get that guy. I swear everything. I'm a hit. You're like, hit what? You just lying.

And why y'all be going for the suck of like, they would never get a hustling on money. You don't understand the shit. be telling her when he by himself, you think you have heard this niggas best lies. You ought to hear the one that he told me to get home. Look, I'm telling you, all I need

to 13,000, I was just down there with D.C. now. Give me, D.C. going to put up 13. They ain't going to put up 13. Then we got, look, we're going to do the movie. Please, look, I know. Yeah, that's Harvey. Guess who I'm going to take you up first?

Who? You, me. You should be off top. I'm going to give it back to you, and so. Over the mind, what's the most you never live in this? The plate is, we can just sign the movie for a million. And then they can be out of it.

Like all at one time or just like, space up. Like a guilt time, shit. Like $25,000. Damn! It was my baby daddy, though. It was for Father's Day. 25, right? Yeah.

Damn. You're the 25? And y'all ain't together? No. I'd spend another 25. Get his ass ass. If I was you drink, it is.

They might use that for some. They might use that for a real. Yeah. They're going to use it on. Don't do it. Don't do it. Don't do it. My boy, you're in real, my boy.

He's lying. He's lying. He's lying. He's lying like this. You don't need to write a book. I didn't see that motherfucker. That nigga didn't write a book, ground. That nigg is written for himself.

I think he didn't write a book, boy. He's watching this shit. Hey, my boy. He just went up in that motherfucker whine. She gave me $20,000. She gave me $2.5. She gave me an income tag. Money, what?

$3,000, $2,000. Right. Demi kid, dude. Did my birthday, man. She did get the bottles on my birthday. She did that. Brut that ain't but like $12,000, $13,000, bro. Nah, $25,000.

So what the most you gave? Polo outfit, the Burmere shirt. Them of marriage, Jane. Edit, all together, probably, like. A honey K With their time With their time Was together

Probably about a hundred K If you count the chain I got them From Aviani That was another 25K You were crazy You don't sold the nigga You got money to blow

Yeah You're stupid I mean he was living When I didn't have nothing So I want to understand That was one naked That was

You're trying to take your head Back Two rings Brits Brue I still got them I still got them Yeah

Yeah, you still got it. Yeah, he still got it. You ever go check his Instagram see if he'd be winning. No, I know he wearing it. Story's crazy. He's not going to be on. Hey, I know what the fuck going on, man.

I ain't got to have a broke it, bro. I know what going to go on. It's great, man. He made me. This, bitch, he's going to be doing that. Bish, if you can't give me 25K, see me another day.

Why ain't that old? He liked this head time. He's going to get the kid. He's going to get the kid. He's going to get in the woman. It's my little change, bro. Your motherfucker, man. My God, my God,

I bought me then, bro. Come on, man. You're like spending that on this shit. What you, what it is? Three times. What the hell? What the hell? Look at the neck.

Look at the neck. Look at the neck. Oh, God. That's me. That's going to be having this shit. Damn, guy. That's a look right down, Sean. And all the men who popped the balloon, didn't he know.

Then he ain't know you gonna take care of. They didn't know you gave a nigga 25K. They didn't. They bought the balloon right on chase for them. I ain't taking care about. You ain't doing what? I'm not doing that no more. That's bullshit.

Hold on with that. I guarantee you. Why not? No. I guarantee you. You're going to take a kid. It just depends on like the dynamic of the relationship, how I'm being treated. Like all that matters.

For real. You know, I'm not, I'm not just going off. Just like, oh, here you go. You know, I'm not doing that. You're one of them mature gangster bullfucker. I can tell you got them paw prints on them paw tattoo prints. You're a given nigga, you're a given nigger, you're a given nigger. Oh, shit.

Yeah, I'm not going to. That's a grown woman right there, boy. It's going to be some fives in. Oh, God. You're going to be surprised. There's some tea. There's some good ones. It's going to look like...

It's going to look like a lot. It's not going to go by it. No, it's a lot. That's a nice... That's a nice appreciation. I don't want to do that no more, D.C. That was... These niggas going to find you just off this.

Yeah. I think I'm... No, that ain't... I think I'm damaged from that. Like... Why? I'm not damaged. That's not the right word.

I think I'm, um... What's the word? What's the word? Traumatize. Scar. Yeah. You said it right. Well, image control or that way, like, like.

You said it right. It's kind of, yeah, like, yeah. It's damage. Yeah, damage. Damage, yeah. I'm trying to change the narrative because they said I'm uneducated because I got tattoos. Who said that? Hey, I only had it too, so what I said?

The people in the comment. They said, I'm very, I look uneducated. And send me back to the hood. Why are you paying attention to me? You know, them bots. I'm nine, 10-year-old of the creative profile there. They're told shit. Sassy niggas in the comments, it's definitely sassy people in the comments for sure.

It's definitely sassy people in the comments for sure. She got out of tattoos. I don't believe none of that. That's why I'm like, I want to, you know, but some of them when they went to my cage. You feel me? You skipped all the niggas got, being sweet. The nice niggins. You did.

Okay, you see it here. Who are you calling them? You're a real guy. How's going to lie? You're on to him. You brought your friend with you from back. Yeah. Just in case she'd get around.

What y'all are from? No. I'm from Louisiana, but we live in Houston. Both y'all are from Louisiana? No. Oh, for me. What part of Louisiana are you from? New Orleans.

New Orleans. What are you from, shop? Cisnaz, man. So hold on, hold on, hold on. Oh, you ain't really from. Oh, so why you late. Hey, we fuck don't be late. You say that shit in the world.

The fuck have a mouth full of a go on, oh, oh. I'm like, is that serious? Is that serious? Those folks don't play. At all. Not when to come to that. It's in the world, bro. Oh, wait, I'm for a Greg.

Oh, oh. That's that hard thing, shit. You know he's talking about lunch? Why is it? Why is it? Oh, hey! See, she can't get it? Oh, hey!

All right, boy, boy, you better get right. Man. This nigga is a damn, man. Hopefully you find love, baby. I ain't really like, I'm cool. I don't even, come and come. if you don't, you know. I'm not settling, you know, like most people do, so.

She, might have to settle. My heart to go on Christopher Columbus. She ain't not going to Christopher Columbus that moment. We're not doing it. But think about it. When he settled. In a sense, you're going to have to settle anyway. Because even when you find the motherfucker that you like,

it's going to be some shit you're probably going to have to overlook. And compromise on. Yep. See, see, you know what? See, everything on the planet here. Everybody. Everybody ain't perfect. On God.

Yeah, because you can be a man and like a fat ass, but it's a lady with a little ass and you be like, I like that little ass on it. Not that you just like asses because of the shape. You just might like asses because they vary in different aspects of the game. Right. See, one nigga, like, I'm like, I'm an ass man. They don't mean that he's just like big asses. He's just like ass.

He's like all time of ass. He's like the upside down looking ones and the ones that's right side up. too. He's like all kind of ass. He's a connoisseur. It's like a cigar and shit. He'd know all the different variations. He's a cuba. It's a cuban ass. A gruban-haired ass. Look at it and tell. That ass running the family.

So where are your standards? I thought I said this already. She said she just don't want to help a nigga. I don't want to have to help for real. She needs a stability. She need a nigga who Don't mind three kids Whatever the situation there

What do you mean? She giving good That means that she Go support That you know That does believe in God You know First in his life

Because the relationship It's not going to work If y'all not You know Because I have known people In relationships In the dude Like he don't believe in God

And no girl believes in God It's like how y'all even works You know what I'm saying Like Y'all don't even have God In your household Or in your relationship

So I don't know how you make it that for I don't really have a lot of standards for real how you make it that far with somebody don't be tests probably so yeah just to see

like they just like all this shit don't work down in that son as you're with and you know I don't believe in that shit because it's all about if you're gonna steal keep going on now

would you go against your beliefs you don't think you'll be able to sense that shit around like you could you've been around people you can read the energy, you can tell who fucked up over the phone. But see, that's the thing, though, if it don't be brought about or be speaking on, then you'll never know. Like, sometimes they're talking, the first thing you say, hey, how you doing what's your name?

Hey, man, you believe in that? We're going to get it on that way because this ain't going to work if you don't. They usually have a certain look, though. Yeah. I think you can tell, though. Like, if you're a big energy person, I feel like you can, I feel people, you know what I'm saying? Like, all sneaky motherfuck got that same look.

It don't matter if you you act like you were believing your ass is on some other shit. You look just like them. Right. You see what I'm saying? So that comes with a look. I don't even want to have the debate

of whether you do or don't. I just move away from them kind of people. Yeah. Because you can really see the difference. Now, I don't help people find a closer relationship. You know how some people just be lost. It don't read. It don't be that they don't believe

that they be so, or with life and doing their other shit like they want to, they just really don't have no type of structure or foundation. So sometimes you don't help people like, hey, man. And they'd be like, man, you know, my relationship. Some people life ain't set up where they have ever had to have that moment, though. Right. You get what I'm saying?

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Exactly. You see what I'm saying? They don't have moments. But you can't fault the man who doesn't have the knowledge. Right. So that's why sometimes we got to be like up and be like, hold up. Now, it's just a test for us to see what's going on. See, life will give you certain tests and put you in certain places where you ain't going to have to ask.

nobody but yourself about whether you believe or what you believe and why you believe it. Right. Have you ever got that feeling where it's like, oh look, maybe I was put here to help this person believe. Not because on me personally

my philosophy is everybody who's even existing right now is living a whole different existence. And a different perception. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. We don't all see the same shit. We don't don't feel the same shit we don't go through the same shit so for whatever relationship they got whatever they've been through led them to that right maybe my path is just different

where it's maybe more direct maybe they don't have the same struggle that I have so therefore they're not going to believe in what I believe and it can be just simple shit like some people believe in working hard it's going to put you in the position where you want to be, but some people believe that you got to be the boss to be in the position. And then some people have dream paths even working at all. Right. Do you get what I'm saying? And some people don't even want to work.

Yeah. They think that shit really do fall out of the sky. Right. Supposed to be handed to them. And so I'll be thinking of it like that. See, everybody is on their own different path. I probably been the motherfucker the other day, right? I forgot what the fuck I was doing.

And they made, oh, now, I was in, uh-huh. I'm buying some fucking pancakes and turkey sausage. I just so happy to see the lady got the dishes on the back, right? She just squirt the water. So, you know, my eyebrow raised, I'm like, hold up. That's how y'all watch this? You feel you just squirt the water, and then you're like, re-used them, motherfucker? She's like, nah, but you wouldn't know nothing about that.

I was like, what you mean? I wouldn't know about washing dishes. She's like, yeah, you know, nigger of your stanching. I said time, time, my time, my time out. Time the fuck out. Do you people really think when a person get to a certain statue, they forget shit like washing dishes? Like, in what reality do you live here?

Or where you come from, period. I said, man, you just eat it throw your dishes in the cup. So I just said, fuck this. You just eat the dishes. I just had to walk on like, man. You got to stop thinking people is really smart. They believe whatever you sell them. And that's just what it is.

I can say you whatever. I can make you do whatever because I just know it. You don't have, you can't think for yourself. Anybody who can't think for themselves, you can be sold whatever. I just walked off like, this motherfucker really think I know nothing about washing dishes. And she's so, like, so wholeheartedly like, nah, bro. Like, you know what nigger gets money? Just pay somebody so you say, I'm going to get done it.

And tell somebody come grab this shit off my lap and wipe it off? Yeah, that's crazy. Come on, gang. That ain't need hot this shit. I wasn't even fuck it off like that. Gang. I just got through watching this before I came and got a hot, nigga. My head wrinkly now, nigga.

That's why I ask you, is this how they're watching this? Because that's not how you properly. Watch. This shit. Hey, man. You know what? Hey, man. Life is hell, man.

That beat, like I said, this motherfucker's edited, Jad. Hey, man, I told you, people out here on a whole different existence, man. You can't help everybody. Sometimes it's kind of rude to even interrupt whatever cycle that they own. Let them have it.

Right. You got to let them win it. Absolutely. Let them win whatever they think they win it. Because they don't win for a lot. They go and don't win for a lot. I don't even know nothing about it. You want.

You're right. That nigger don't even know. You want nothing. You want in your world. Everything else. Everything in you. You don't even know how that story's going to get told. So I'm down there.

And I'm, you know, arguing with this nigga. About what, bro? Man, I said, Michael Angelo was the best ninja turtle. You ain't never even heard that part. Now, he didn't convince. Now, hold another nigga that you were wrong. You'll never see this motherfucker again.

I don't be interrupting shit, bro. I'm not even there. That shit be crazy, bro. I was just getting some gay. Niggas, like, 20 minutes ago. They're just like, that shit crazy, bro. You just out here, like, a normal person. I said, what the fuck I am, a robot?

Like, y'all think you start to miss me, y'all, bro. Y'all make me feel like how I don't belong with this motherfuck. Like, hey, you can't get no more. Hey, niggie, nicket me, man. I need gas, bro. Hey, man, what you doing? I can't fly, motherfucker. I know that DC young fly, but that shit, that shit ain't real, bro.

Instead of just, hey, told your dishwash. Hey, we're parents watching them dishes. I need some gas. I need some gas in. Like, you know what? Right, I don't know what I'm in with y'all? They're flying with. What's fuck am I doing here?

You're right? I don't go why I do you guys. I got weed. I'm tripping. I'm tripping. I'm tripping. Fuck that car, man. No, man, it ain't like that, people.

Hell, nah. People choose to have a peace of mind because that's just what it is. That's how you stay sane. You feel, me. Keep that balance, bro. Yes, I'm supposed to be in here. Don't stay sane, though.

You got to go a little bit crazy to achieve some of your dreams. No, you got to be a little bit crazy. Nah, because it's a nigga who's really crazy. You got to tell the nigga like, that's right, man. You got to be crazy, man. No, not you, nigga.

What I'm saying? He might fuck around and make it, though. We're not talking to that, dick. Yes, we are. Right before you have a breakthrough, that's where you're going to go a little bit crazy. Yeah, I see what you're saying. You feel what I'm saying?

You're going to feel like you're going crazy because you're going to cross over like, who me? That shit worked. You ain't work, nigga. That's the only way you can get successful, though. You can't be regular. motherfucking regular people don't get successful. You have to be fucking out your mind a little bit.

That's not true. You got to go out your body to make it. That ain't true. To the other side. I don't agree with me. So you think if you just stay normal and you just don't make it. I'm an example sitting right here on the couch. You could be normal, but it takes a certain way of thinking for you to understand that.

Oh, okay. I was tripping, though. You have to trip. I was tripping because, damn, it seemed like it's that easy. But it's not that easy. You just got to be tapped me and minting it, bro. But you know what they're disguised and they got another word for it. It's not just, see, if I would have said you got to be passionate, it would have gotten a different response.

See, I see. But see, when you passionate, you're going to look crazy to the people who ain't who just doing this shit. So you know what I'm told me, yeah, you're going to look crazy. The motherfuckers who make it to the other side are the motherfuckers who go in there and just go crazy. They take the normal shit and go way beyond that. Right. Yeah. you to do 50 hours, but this motherfucker

had been in here for 500. Right. That's the difference between good and great. You can be good. But the motherfuckers who be great be the ones who put that whole... Insta. They embody that shit. That's why motherfuckers can win awards

for giving you the best portrayal of their favorite people and shit like that. How can you tell this story? That's why they have to congratulate that shit, man. Don't nobody fuck with regular. Regular shit don't move nobody. But when you got some shit that inspire other people to go and try to do the shit that you're doing, now, that's the shit that's different. That ain't the people who just dial it in.

Them the motherfuckers who put in the extra effort and went crazy, they was eating, sleeping, and breathing that shit. Right. That ain't, that ain't crazy. No, that's passion. Right. You see what I'm saying? That's why I'm offended when she said, you know, about watching dishes. I'm like, bitch, I'm crazy.

I know my wife What? I was passionate with what I did, so that's why I was passionate with what I did, so that's why you were able to have a breakthrough. I do credit repair. So you're really taking this shit out, man? Huh?

You taking this shit off? Yeah, I'm taking it off. I've been doing it in the game for 10 years. I've been doing this for 10 years straight. I've helped thousands of people all over the world. Nationwide. Look me up. Y'all can look me up on Instagram. Y'all can look me up on Facebook.

Y'all can look me up on Google. I'm everywhere. At what? Huh? Oh, Predicare 360. I'm sorry, y'all. Predicare 360. That's my reason.

We should be able to be around. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Credit care. I got to get in my phone.

I'm sorry, y'all. It's credit care 360. Yeah. Follow me. I'm nationwide. Nationwide. And then I'm a real estate Asian. I've been doing real estate for five.

years. I'm a mentor. I'm a stock investor. I got a couple cause on two-a-row. I got a couple of Airbnbs. I do a lot. Talk to her. Auntie? Yeah. Auntie. Damn.

Oh. And she's ordered a $25,000 giveaway at the end of the show. How are you? I'm 33. I'm not in the, I'm not auntie. Age bracket, yeah. I think that's like 35 December 21st. I'm sad.

Sad. Sad. We're the best. She won the cream of a gift and a birthday. Exactly. both of them, both of them. You get one, one in one. That's how it was when I was a child.

I only got one gifts. Well, really, I didn't get no gifts because my people with Jehovah's Witnesses. In real. Damn. Yeah, I didn't sit down. They were trying to teach something good for you job. Turn 10.

Yeah, so I didn't get the shit. I'll beat that. Drive my car. Drive my car. Oh, my God. I don't know, man. Telling you. Can't be regular.

You can't be regular. But I definitely understand because you're going to be looked at ass crazy. But you've got to tap into an overdrive where he's like, you got to be frustrated with something so something has to motivate you to be like, man, all right.

If I got the job and I see there as a manager spot and I see there as a supervisor spot, that's already showing me there's levels to level up. How do I level up? I just got to be a great work for a motherfucker that care. Or I got to get myself into a position where this shit can live with me up. Right.

You feel me? Right. But check this out. Say you get to be the manager, right? Right. All you want to do is be the manager. You might fuck around and take this manager shit. You might want to go get another job.

But it's another manager in that bitch. His dream is to own this motherfucker. Right. He's going to outwork the fuck out of you. Right. That nigga going by the book, nigga. He want to own this motherfucker. He handling this shit way different.

This is your job. But in his mind, this his restaurant. Since you want a regular job, you're looking at this nigga like, he's crazy. You're like, brother, this ain't, too. He's like, what you mean? It ain't mine. It ain't mine. Yeah.

I cut the lights on. I cut the lights on. When you got here, who's that word? You came ready to leave. You're feeling like that. Look at me. On the plot. Hey, since you know every motherfucking thing,

where your name tag? How are they going to know? How do they go ask the service? Managing. You don't know which one of the owners going to walk up here? Manager. Digger, do you know the chance

that the folks have in a mystery shop of the day? No, you don't, dude. How many burgers in the freezer right now? You don't even know. You don't even know it. You don't even know it. See? I got a thousand two hundred fifty fries right now, ready to go.

Two hundred fifty fries, digger, right now. I'm telling myself! One thousand, two thousand. My biggest sauntered in a motherfucker, nigger. Boy. One thousand and two hundred and fifty fry, ready to draw right now. All I got to do is say it. Stop.

That's a little damn stupid, man. All I got to turn the grease on. And we're ready to go. That shit's stupid, man. That's the difference in drive, though. You see the nigga who, he looked crazy, right? The nigga look crazy. No, that nigga is trying to go somewhere.

Y'all bullshit. And guess who? Who gonna be paying attention to that? The nigger who actually owned the establishment, I need a nigga like you to cover like 30 of them bitches just like that. And the nigga be like, how you get the job? One day somebody said, you crazy motherfucker. How you know it's 1,000 or 2505?

It'd be the difference in the decision making. Man. That's it. That's always going to set people apart. How bad you want it? You got to do that. Damn shit, we were crazy a while now. But see, you gotta be, that's what I'm saying, bro.

If we wasn't just did. We would have had half of the shit they said, dude. It wouldn't hit like that. Man, we was in there like, bro, being delinquents. We didn't know we were risking our job. Every time we looked at each other, like, hey, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, you feel me. We ain't know.

Sometimes the shit we were talking in here. Nothing to do with the game. Never. That was crazy. That's fun. Credit 360. Credit care 360. I knew.

You gotta add, you gotta say the whole thing. Credit care 360. Credit care 360. Credit care 360. And I held with business credit too. So if you got a business and you want business loans and business capitals, I held with that. I do everything. I'm really about like helping people level up, you know, because we wasn't taught credit in school.

Right. I go to schools. I go to the schools and talks to the kids. I'll be in conferences. Like, I do this shit. I feel sure not too. Like, people got to know. You got to be educated on credit.

You got to be educated. educated on finances, generational wealth, all that. That's what we fucked up at. We can do a lot of shit. And that's the thing, though. I don't think niggins know how much money we be touching in the black community. Niggins just be spinning. You be like, man, slow your head down, man.

You can come down. Money management. Why do you think no nigga tripped out when we start going to turn? Why do you think the nigga tripped that when we stop doing anything and they see the black dollar the black dollar spending some it's we spending it somewhere yep you know we've kind of fucked up because we was behind on the life insurance game yeah yeah we got to this a lot of little shit we got to do a lot of little shit we got to do that's been you know that we got to relearn and reteach you know and don't think we're placed somewhere and

where it's like oh dude oh niggas just come it's the only way we can get approved yeah yeah Remember that. Right. Yeah, we're still figuring out where I can get approved that. Right. Niggins tried to get approved. Well, that'd be the whole biggest thing. They're like, well, I can't get that little proved, boy.

They don't never talk about that financial racism. A little proof. That's a little financial racism. See, we ain't starting physical, but we is. We is. I ain't gonna say we ain't. The verbal, we ain't. We are.

But financial racism? It's real. Is, what? It's real. Oh, my goodness. You're talking about Kilbonda. Bunda. Just pay attention

Go out, all right. Go on your local main street in your neighborhood, right? To look at like two lights to the left and two lights to the right. And you just point out and count out how many black owned businesses. You're going to see about at least 7-8 gas stations. I'm talking about

East Combs. And you're like that. And when I was young, I didn't know, like, they could do that. Like, on East Corner? Okay, you got a Matt daughter right here, Matt Doer right here. Okay, you got a phone. Right here, Dollar General cross the street. I can always tell where black people live. When I'm out of town, it's so easy to find out where black people live.

I'll just be paying attention to shit like this. Right. Nick, if you see two gas stations across the street from each other, that's some hood and shit. If you start seeing AutoZone, Family Doggers, Popeyes. Popeyes. That's all right. You see O'Rour.

Oh, you see the churches, you're in too deep. Yeah, you're deep. You're super deep. You see the churches for a show. Yeah. You see the church, liquor store church? Chirches. Nigel, when you see two churches on the same block, you know,

that needs to be help over there. When you see a blip in inside the gas station? Matter of fact, it's not stupid, it's blip it. Get on her. And the laundry man with the dirty window out there? Yeah. Mm-mm. Yeah.

If you go to the gas station and they got them little gambling, family machines in there. Mm-hmm. Oh, yeah. If you go to any gas station, it's a crackhead to do. That's the security. Don't fuck with it. He's watching everything.

He letting you know. Don't worry about the car. Like, how you know I was thinking about my car when I walked in? No, I watch everything. I don't watch everything. I don't go to the gas station if there's a lot of people there. Yeah, I keep going. I don't go.

It's an empty gas station somewhere like that. I keep going. Mm-hmm. That ain't don't stop people getting no gas. Yeah, I find me an empty gas station. It's a empty gas station. Too many of them. Yeah, I find one.

It's somewhere on these block. Yeah. The one that's stupid. Two car maximum. I got smart to the point. I'm going to put my guy in the car in Cobb County. Then I'm going to come to the city. That's how you do it.

About $40 of that motherfucker I'm good for the night. Get it in the morning. Ain't nobody ever heard of it. Late night, two car maximum. Late night, two car maximum. Two car maximum, what? Gas station. I'm not going to no fucking gas station at night.

No. Inside the gas station or two of gas station period. I'm not going to no gas station period at night. They ain't gonna like it. I got, I got... Fuck no. Too many niggins then fell for that one.

Oh, damn. Fuck no. I need change some shit around. I see what you're saying? I would. I refuse, man. Hell no. I'm getting some bad.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm getting a joke in my hand. Yeah, but you hear me. Hey, boy, let me get nothing. Chop, chop. You're not doing me. No, I go outside.

Excuse me. I'll tell me. I'm getting me all good. Nah. I'm getting the fuck up. You know what? Oh, I don't you know why. drove in this motherfucker.

I don't know what I'm gonna be drive my cup drive my cup you met that chick like uh-uh I'm not doing that Hey I don't know what you're

Oh man I think he'd be doing that shit I don't let my tank go to that motherfucking eat I don't know bro that shit 'd be like

it'd be surprising it'd be hitting to eat like you know look at you like Hey boy you got a good game then you just ride on me like

Bob your bullshit right Right. My shit be drinking, ma'am. She's drinking, guy. You got the bigger-head truck. He's got to. Mom, I turned to.

My dad, dude, he wasn't going to be tripping. Oh, yeah. He went down, like, they don't even want me to drive. I got an AMG, too. That's a motherfucker. Well, I was sued. I get out of the car. He said, they don't want me to drive.

Oh, you know what? You're right. They need to fly. The nigga old me to drive. I mean, I feel you on yesterday. You got a put 90-3 of that bitch. But that motherfucker, like, he got a fuel league with some for you. I'm talking about this shit horrid.

She'd be like nine gathers, but mom. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. They ride around four. That man. I mean nine miles. Yeah. Oh, me.

Go car. Get a head, got down. Yeah, got a little rascal, motherfucker. Damn. And little rascal, motherfucker. They got that little rascal. There you go. Oh, darling.

Oh, darn. Oh, darn. Oh, darn. Yeah. Man, boy. Driking. No. Only won the moped.

Don't do that. Keep the gas full. Just in case, bro, I'll be watching too much TV, like walking dead or something. What if something happened? I don't want to go like, like, what if I have to get out of them? And they ain't got enough gas to get out of them.

All right. You know it late, too. He's like, I ain't got shit to do. I was scared to get. I just like that. I just like that. I'm just playing. I'm like, I ain't know you can fly, man.

Like, I ain't know you can fly me. I didn't want to eat a couple times on the interstate. Real? Not paying attention? Tripping. And women do that a lot. Yeah, they do shit like that. They do that.

Not being pulled over. Yeah. Listen, we can't flat tire. They run out of gas. Yeah. Being embarrassed. Trip. What?

Tremping. Now you got to act like, you're trying to use y'all sexy pills because you need help. That's all the way you get. Can you help? Yeah. I'm going to fuck around my

shit what they call it there's nobody that's stupid ass you get called people like and sit there and wait fuck y'all

fuck y'all she'll pop the hood I don't know what's me on with it she bit she didn't know with her hey she got an ass out on the spray

with you who your ass out of the spitz walking on the other side crazy and grud I don't know what's wrong When they're wrong with you Triple-A Flat-tide

A, hey, AAA be Taking $2.00. It just depends on your insurance I feel like You got good insurance They drive them out You got to care You got to get them

You know what you talk me Yeah, I'll be there in 20 minutes Yeah, I was dead down to speak You can't be out here Running out of gas and shit I think it only happened like once or twice Or twice It was probably

I'm being honest I ran out of gas in California I admit me some tragic shit but I was by myself no one of them's tired I really wanted to call now what I got to call 12 to bring you some gas

yeah they will and they will I was so fucked up and then I had to run to the gas station kind of like got to argue with the nigga at the gas station but to send me a gag can let me get some gas I'm putting the gas in wrong

at the pump so this bitch wasted. I'm smelling gas, four, five minutes' scrape. Diggick, I'm in a call out there. I need help. Nick, for the past act. Diggas for the face.

I called out of one. They're like, where are you at? I said, nigga, I don't fucking know. You're my location. What the fuck is wrong with y'all? How would we know, bro? How do you know what the fuck I met, bro? If I call your phone.

Bro, how the fuck you run out of gas? Man, my own, bro, I was tripping in L.A. That was during the time I had no security while just outside by myself, bro. It was just in LA, not even looking at the gag can. You know, you're an hour away everywhere you're at L.A. I've been driving all day, did not look at the Gahead at all. My shit was like, who I'm like, I know the trend bitch thing. I'm like, what?

I look at the Gahan but the E like this. It just don't happen, bro. I'm like 20 feet away from, so I break down in front of the gas station. That's closing. That'd be that. And he don't want to send me shit. You can't pay at the pump. He's like, no, no, me.

I'm like, bro. You're going to send me a gag cab, bro. I'm in the middle of LA. I'm stuck. I'm stuck. What I'm going to do? I got to call 911. I need help.

I don't know about that. It ain't. It ain't. I don't know about it. My other folks didn't show up. I'm like, I'm like, how to fuck? I know they ain't covered that. But I said I need help, man.

Send the ambulance and saw my pants out. I may smell the gab and four hours. Me, I'm on the bottom of the car like I did, bro. Right. Folks that ride by my stupid. Oh. I'm sorry. bro.

I never run out of gas again, bro. Ever. Ever. I ain't never ran out of gas. That's what a shit in the world. That make you feel like a real loser. I feel it irresponsible. It's fuck.

You feel like, bro, there ain't nothing wrong. This is the worst thing to do, bro. Your wallet, your phone, and you run out of gas, bro. In an ice car. I mean, your keys, but you...

Your keys dangled. And that's like some sounds. You can hear that. The light go off, though. Man, what? The light. That's why I need to want my like. My shit ain't on automatic payment.

My shit got cut off a night too long ago. And I had the money. I'm like, what the fuck? Everybody's shit still lit up. I don't know. I ain't shit. I mean that bitch of the dark, damn. And I had money.

You're driving that shit on the car. I was like, I'm trying to troubleshoot some shit. I'm like, hey, y'all in trouble shooting, y'all work in the area. No. Weather clear as a motherfucker. I'm like, oh, God damn. I don't forget it. That didn't happen to me, too.

Hey, brother, I don't play a motherfucking gay. Then my daughter ain't there too. I had to go and kick her a little lie. Yeah, man, some nigger ran into her pole. I'm going to go and take you home tomorrow, man. You're giving me 30 minutes. You got to go get up out of her. You got to go to some light.

You're going to do shit in the whole day. Damn. She's like, everybody else's stuck in the phone. Fuck out the blind. Fuck is you doing. Get out my damn blind. Get out my blind. It seemed like every time we rain around, this motherfucker, the power was around.

This nigga, man. That shit, Jeff. Oh, the wind blow a little bit. Man. Like there in Texas, too. My motherfucker A. He hadn't kicked off. A unit.

A unit. That shit burned up. Oh, my love. Oh, my love. Oh, boy, I took the family out of that ace out. But I'm in the hot life. But you got the couple. Niggas, these motherfuck on one on three.

And this is 11 3rd in the morning I need you now But we didn't even got started Y'all brolin What? Fuck bacon, y'all. Yeah, I'm waking about my sleep Bro, you can't sleep

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And that's the only thing though. I like the one woman. I hate being hot. I get agitated. They when you start tripping. You'd be like, I think I'm gonna feel the goal. And you were like, brush it to me. That nigga scared me. That d'all got a goal game. That need you scared me. You just fuck with that nigga anxiety. Nick anxiety Who that dinkin'1-05 degree That dink on true I hate being hot

Nah Who's fucking around Hey, that's real life shit though Who knows? Damn, low Pay the motherfuckers back Yeah, I did

I pay Then you gotta pay a whole Another deposit, don't Had to call the bitch I didn't even like though, I had called a bitch I did cut off, cut off bad too Fuck you

I don't need you I ain't madho fuck wrong with you Not you had to bar of money. What's up? What's you doing? Mm-hmm. Man, you ain't going to believe this shit.

She didn't give a foot when I said the light would cut out, but I was like, man, and my daughter over here. She's right. Oh, you got to go out here, that nigga I'm stupid the fuck. You had to borrow the money. And then you had a last thing he had. Oh, I had to go out. If I added money to the paint of the day on automated paper,

they just slipped my mind, bro. I had throw my paper up in there, brother. Like, yeah, we need to come. We need to come take a shower and shit. She treated me like a P&A, both of us sleep. We both slept down, stand together. How did you motherfucker? Hey, man, I need you.

You was just cuff me that night. I'm sorry. That night you was just cuck. I had to tell my door, what did you go in? I got a gold goddamn dude I need to do it. I'll be right now. You down bad, man.

I got to go to work. I got to go to work. I never thought you had to see me like this. You're out of this shit. I didn't remember Daddy Lugie. I did this for you. That's what I got to do, no. Damn, I ain't know you was living like that.

That's why women are essential. I ain't one of them, I need. You know what I'm, I don't know what I'm. You need. I need. That's what God put me here for. I need. Yeah.

need that was one of them time where you needed something yeah a helping hand that's great other hand I can never I can never get no one another one one time I was like I was fucked up about 19 she probably had she put those too she had about she probably about one seat oh she loaded I tripped that I took $120

$160 and that was too much I never noticed I took all this. I overly did it. I was like, I crashed out. You brought up to talk all in. She said, man, she said, who, where you got to go? I don't know if I got back out of the head. You didn't hear the first.

Well, I got about 10 million, yo. 10 minute dial. She's talking about, you ain't take my money then. I'm like, who? No. Take, stop. I don't come back. I'm staying walking where I'm going.

I don't come back. I said, I was me, boy. Because she got a car, she can catch me. This the nigger terrible, man. Nigger ain't rock. And I know he ain't bullshit. So now he's on top of a car door, bro. I'm scared for you.

Can we get on them bug? Yeah, I think it's stupid and bump, bro. I seen it later on, I gave it back to him. I felt bad. Damn. You a hell of a thief. You know what? I was wrong.

You know what? I had it into it, too. Like what is it? Man, you know, man. You know what I... You remember what you called about? You know what you're talking about? Yeah, man.

You couldn't even look at eye. You know, I couldn't look at it. Yeah, man. You know, man. Some of it's a little X on top. Man. I'm a good nigga, man. I'm fucking up.

I'm going through this shit. I'm fucked too. Oh, my God. I'm glad you ain't living like that. I mean, get that fart that I left. Man. Let me get that fart in that I didn't take. How much you got left?

Let me hold it. You don't make the dollars hundred and sixty dollars by the time. I get this. Hey, boy, I know you got that fart. Come on, huh. You're in my spades. I could have took it all. I left you with something.

Come on now. Come on, man. Yeah, that's stupid, bro. If a woman like you, you ain't going to have to ask, though. She's going to give it to you. She's going to want to help. You got to be a certain type of man. You got to be a certain caliber of man.

You can't be still in love to her up? No, you don't. Yeah, you do. No, you can't. Hey, you can't. Hey. You don't. You got to be a certain caliber a nigger to you.

You got to be a certain caliber a nigga. For a woman to just, like, want to help you, you got to help you got to help you. want to help you, you got to be, you know, playing your role in other areas that you ain't even got to ask her. Like, she's going to see what you're trying to do. She's going to see, you know, she's going to want to, you know what I'm saying? Because you, you know, you want to do buy. I think some women just don't know.

Some of y'all just don't get it. Everybody, you want to go do bad. Some of y'all just don't know. It would be hard to hold that against y'all. But see, as a man, you got to get your life to a point where you don't need no help before you even start worrying about trying to have a whole woman and shit. I don't feel like that's too big for you. You don't feel like that.

No, what he's saying is, you got to get yourself to get like, listen. Scream. That's just like if a nigga trying to find himself, right? But then you don't even know the essentials of how to even keep a relationship. You can't even keep yourself together. And you're trying to keep you at a woman together? No, but if you are able to sustain and take care of yourself and you just have goals, I feel like it's okay for you to be in a relationship?

He's just it. Okay, what you said? say it one more time. You want to get to a point where you don't need help, right? Right. But it's okay to need help sometimes. It ain't about to need help.

What he's saying is a niggins who out here is still in $1.20. You don't need no girl from my wife. No, you don't. No, you don't. You didn't get your head down and see you got to.

No, you don't. You know what I'm saying? I didn't say that you couldn't ever. I didn't say that. That don't need to be your. No, that don't need to be your priority, no. But if you're trying a woman

that's down for you. But I'm just, Even if you fucked up, there are certain kind of relationships that you can be in. Yeah. But if you're thinking that you're about to go out here and meet these extravagant expectations that you have, somebody who's just supposed to settle because you don't have the shit, that's crazy. You believe in fried. That's what I'm saying.

A lot of motherfuckers believe just because they can't do it, that it just ain't going to be done. Right. Don't nobody got to adjust their shit to fuck with you? You take it out of the recipe, you need. You just got to find somebody that's on your level. Right. And slow down. Slow down.

And there's a lot of people out of it. But if you're struggling, then you can just be somebody boyfriend. That mean you can't even fuck with her every day of the week. Right. If y'all slow it down, y'all will be all right. See, what basically what you need to do is find a job, and you just fuck on something at the job. Oh, God. That's a win-win.

Then you're like, I got a job I'm trying to get myself together And then now I'm fucking a little baby At the job, so now you really want to come to work You're like, I got to get a little baby He don't even want the money Got the simple baby I got the teeth at the junk

We fucking at the job Oh man Nish, you worry about the check That'd be talking Don't worry about the cheats We're worried about the cheese Fuck the cheats What a cheats

What a cheats? What a cheats! work be born in hell when your little work girlfriend ain't done man you need you need some some got a like some got to motivate you if you ain't got that crazy drive then some got to motivate you had to do something so you got one nigga being crazy want to be there and you got the other nigga really coming to work for the cheats but at the end of the day you get the same color of the cops you got two different dreams work work be easy as hell when your little work boo at work but don't let her talk start talking to another nigga at work now they can't even work He's in the cut.

He's telling on your shit. He kept walking by. He's like that, right? He said a little lame shit. Late again. I'll see you crave. I'll see you crave. Later again, huh.

Hey, hey, he can't get the nigga you talk to. Hey, they need you up there. They don't need him. You just want him to start talking to him. You're right. To these cheek. To these cheek. I don't get the chick, egg, cheek.

Cheek. Cheek, cheek. Cheek, cheek. Welcome to cheeky check records. When you can get a check, yes. When your little work boo at work, he didn't do it. Cheeky checks.

Cheeky checker raga! Cheeked check at the gentleman club. Look at the chicken chichot rosa. Oh, God. Welcome to chigi check worker. Give you some cheese and chit. Signed the paper right here. And I'm not about you.

you wrote now. I don't know what type of cheese you wrote. But we don't have a type of cheese, man. Don't work situations. Don't you got to be toxic. No, I ain't never had one, but I know other people that have. He didn't help been somebody at work, boo. Hell no. She had entrepreneurial.

She worked for herself. I had regular jobs at the hospitals. Oh, we heard, we saw a shit on Instagram by my motherfucker be fucking in the hospital. Nah, I wasn't. Y'all be hip in the seat tresses and fuck. Yeah, that's not. The nurses and stuff. I wasn't fed.

Okay. I ain't never looked up like that, though. What? The fuck on no nurse while I'm in the hospital? How many times have you been in the hospital? I've been out there to be a couple of time now. God now. Shit, that's why I started to take me and my daughter with a life with an hour and I started.

Because I didn't want to call that bitch. I would have just went up in a hospital to the gym. Damn. How long did you take to get your shit back on? To my four days. Damn. I take my daughter back in that day. And then I went in the other day.

I stayed. in there just to feel it. This shit ain't going to never happen again. Facts. Got me some candles and shit. I was all right.

That nigga done to him. I remember that she used to happen, bro. She used to be like periodically, though. It's going to, we're going to do by six times a year. That's a lot. That ain't a lot, but over the time,

it ain't like, it's like too big, you know. It ain't like, who shit. Like a week and a half. It's like, oh, like how he said,

mom forgot. You know what I'm saying? Like, my mum forgot. Water, though? Oh, no, that water shit, that water shit, man. I'll tell you something, what you don't understand? What? My man, forget.

My man, how did that shit? But you run that stintichael up in your house, you cut the high house out, that long-ass titty-court? My man. Now, I assume I like could have. I said, I need a motherfucker woman, dog. This shit, not the pet shit, but this is the type of shit. Hey, man.

Remind you. Yeah, did you pay the light bill game? Can relate. I grew up black people rich. What do they mean? Oh, black rich. Nah, I don't know what that means. Right.

What's black rich? I know they got like hood rich rich rich rich I don't Categories but I ain't ever heard of black rich he one of the kid that really had to won't but he stayed in the hood no he stayed in the hood no he did they did he did you know he was all right he won the friends you want to have yeah he got the game I'm going to Romney house yep apparently don't let that don't let that boy don't let that big in my house I'd be like no I can't come here oh every time we got some more money we moved you know the time You know what I'm gonna be rejected as a kid?

I can't come in your house, bro. What that's what that mean? What I do? Hey, man, shit. Don't let that. I heard my partner for them to tell them that don't let that big of my house. I'm like, that's, that be like them, uh, the, the fucking, your mama, your mama, the, um, Prince Prince.

That'd be, um, what's my carly? Uncle Fields. Uncle Fields. That'd be the Uncle Fields. Look, I can't, what the fuck. Why your mom, why was she saying? That shit hurt my feeling every young, nigga, those. Why would your mama say something like that, shall?

I can't cover you. I can't come in your motherfucker. How? You'll be in my house. We do a lot of shit together. I can't cover your home. You're laughing. You know, you know, that nigger mama takes.

That nigger mom won't even let you. Well, look at you. She'll tell you, you ain't even parked in front of her she is. She'll tell you why you ride by. Don't park in front of her house. You're like, Tell me better got there. She got there.

She's all the only one today. She's three. That niggins go, don't park right there. Those shit loud. Don't park right there. There's a little spay for that. P.T. Cruiser, that's it. That P.P.C. crew check on.

They could have put four more car right there. It's not happening. That they ain't happening. Don't park that shit right in front of my shit. All that way. You're going to pull it down the street. He's the only nigga that put that green car behind the PT Cruiser. That is it.

He's the only the only nigga allowed to put another car right there. Everybody is your ass. All right. Don't pull in the drive way. Man, she'll tell the whole murderer, man. Hey, turn that music down. Did she know. Everybody on block, though.

This nigga didn't kill 20 nigglers. And get what the nigger going to do. Turn that my fucking down. Yes, ma'am. My mom would say with like the neighborhood mama, bro. She wanted to baby, everybody. She had to miss me, bro, everybody, bro. I was on pins and the news.

Every time she did shit like that, because I'm like, you know, you just sitting there too? Yeah, yeah. I'm like, come on, man, why the nigger be like, what? I'm like, bro, don't do that. But that my pop, you know she, you know what she loved? Don't do that. Don't do that.

You know your mother don't love you like that, my mom will you like that. My mom don't do that. Don't do that. Right, come on. You know, man. Like your ass stupid, bro. My mom was a hoarder or no, bro. And one night, she just don't want you to her house.

You catch her a hoarder. She don't want you to see with the living room like. What? I had the force, I had no force. I said, listen, ma, I can't keep playing with my friends outside. Someone got to just come in. She said, well, just take it to your room. Don't let them.

Well. Well, I ain't going your house to round about buying them buying days. It was years before. Well, it was growing up and he came out. He was like, bro, you know, I ain't never been here out. I don't know. Hey, that's, that's going to be up. Oh, my God.

It wasn't, okay, this is what y'all got going on. Make progress. Hey, tell them foot about the boo. About the boo. Oh, yeah, man. The nigga that one, they wouldn't get your shit, man. They wouldn't give you a goddamn thing at that motherfucking howl, man. Nothing.

You can't go on the fridge. Man, you, the shit, they couldn't go in the motherfucker. Ain't nothing end up. You want to start eating? She got apples, isn't it? Damn. That shit. That's like hospital food.

We are hospital food. They had the pit bull and then they had the pit bull and that didn't have a chain on the edge head. They're going to jump back in the bumper and then y'all like, what are there? They ought to come get that motherfucker and that. Where y'all get their dogs from, man? That was a circus dog knew he had no chain. That was a circus dog, man. The dog just stopped, man.

If I had a chain, this about where to stop me. My dog was a lens game, bro. I swung everything, bray. I had two girls. No, Blue is, I'm talking about the two, C.C. and Phoebe? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Cici was a whole stud. Whole stud, nigger, humping the hell out of Fici.

Every time Blue wants some pussy, she's like, man, get your ass all, man. Your dog, get in here. CC can get something in this shit. Yeah, dog. I'd be like, damn. You fucking like a mother. Somebody kicked C.C., man. For real?

Tired her ass up, put her at the bottom of the head. Damn. I'm going to work that shit, but I'm trying to leave me. Damn. I mean, I can't be a fuck like that shit, what the fuck? I mean, I can, but what the fuck? My neighborhood had the coldest dog. What?

This dog named Pimpin. Pimping? Pimping. He had puppies by every dog in the whole neighborhood. Yeah, pubbing by every dog. Oh, he pimping for real. What about Kujo? Worst dog ever in life.

No, you're talking about Kojack. Cojack? Oh, my. This nigga, this nigga had a roo jack, bear. Bear. Yeah. These nigga had a wolf bear. Human.

Child. Guerrilla. Guerrilla dog. It was some days that was, I know I ain't come outside because of the dog. This motherfucker was different. But they used to treat the dog like shit, man.

I'll tell you. Nigel might just pick the dog up the box. Oh, man. Don't do that. Listen, don't tell you. Don't tell you. You're going to get some suspending. Listen, listen, I ain't talking about that.

No, no. I ain't talking about that. Like, the chick that stayed next door to them was like the hood, like, nobody wanted it. You ain't had no many coming out of the house. But when you jump out her window Nick, the fit's right there And the dog right there

Like this dog gonna literally chase your ass So everybody gonna know You don't know you don't care about this motherfucker Cojack out there going You know what I'm like Man come get the dog I had to call me Hey man I was in there

I was in there You know what you're talking about I'm gonna keep you to the center That woo shit Hey come get this dog That's a window You don't want to be coming out of Because I don't want to be coming out

They're coming out They were wild like that They all know who I'm talking to Yeah they know what going on That dog was a wolf But I'm saying the dog was so tough. Like, this motherfucker was built for that shit. Like, I wouldn't even come outside if it were loose.

Come up it outside. Coach that different. Yeah, I've been bit by a dog before? You've been chased? I've been chased. I didn't know. I didn't know. They don't do that day, man.

They don't do that day. I'm been chasing. And that motherfucker was, I'm talking about, I'm going to get you. I'm going to get you. I was like, oh, that d'n'clock. I'm on a bite, too. I'm like, boy, no, sir. To red metal, crazy-a-pick bull, let's eat.

That motherfucker was slow. Oh, that different, come down with me. I ain't a dog. Well, you got a dog. My auntie took my dog. She said he could just come to my house. And then when you can get him out of life. No, you really want that.

That's your way of saying. You want the dog. Yeah. I'm going to get me one of them old country dogs, though, man. Remember pistol I had? Get me a blue dick or shit. My dad ain't ever fuck. That guy got bit by a snake.

Remember I walked him down? The last one I had was a Frenchie. 10-20. Yeah. He got bit by a snake. I had to get him back to the time. My dad came out about that crying like my dad said. That nigga looked at the dog.

The dick said. Yeah, later on in life, I'm going to get me a dog from every TV show. I said, every TV show. What that mean? I'm going to get a dog like Lassie. I'm going to get a dog like penis. from the little rascals. I'm going to get me a dog

like binge it. And I got to get me a dog like wishbone. That nigga had an adventure. I won me a wishbone dog. I don't know what kind of dog did. Do you remember that man? Wishbone? A Jack Russell Terry. I need one of them. I need one of them original

Chihuahuas from the Taco Bell commercial. Dog, me and a pill. Are they going to bite? That's what they do. I got a Yorkie. What I mean? What's a little cute doggy? What the fuck wrong, man?

See ya. From every error. Hey, I don't count. Hey, my old house. Then I'm going to get that count. I did my dog buried back there. There's somebody that about that. Oh.

They'll bark a late night. Come on. Oh, man. I got to get some better friends. Y'all are some terrible men. That, nigga, I'm going to be bad up there for a minute, too. I got them deep down in that hole in the whole area. I need to know he back there. I need to go tell the folks, man.

They're my fucker back here. It's a back. Yeah. He's some neck that you need to know. Y'all didn't see that little stick cross me. y'all came, I had put a little stick crawling back there. About this big. They threw that shit away.

Somebody just stepped on it. Damn, I don't know where he's at no more. Oh, boy, that's funny. What I don't even know he back there, gang. Oh. Amen. What a room, Chip. I told you in here, like, kid back that part of the phone.

They got that kid, too dirty, noise, and they don't. All right that bitch. This is you. You fucked up, man. Oh, shit. Oh, shit. I remember all that, bro. Then that shit just flared, man.

I was like, bro. You know, you're supposed to stay over there. Yeah, it's stupid. Yeah. That niggas says, fucking up, man. My dad made me being that hole with myself. Craying like a motherfucker.

Man, why I just told my dad a while outside? I said, man, I'm holding that nigg. A man, he got bit by his feet. Ah, come on, man. Yeah, but it hurt my heart. That nigga out there, like, huh. Like, the dog got me a past minute?

Yeah. I'm holding his hair. I'm like, man, oh, man. No, he's trained that motherfucker. I let him walk out of that door. He said, that nigga looked in the backyard, that nigga said, I might want to dig your hole orders.

I don't say that fuck. I don't say that fuck go faking. Damn, cold hard. When that shovels are shoveling that guy down with that walk back in the house, I was like, damn. Damn, boy. That cold heart. Hey, but the great part about the guy.

I don't love it for real, though. If you ever don't lost your dog, but that shit, devil's nasty. That shit, devil's saying for real. My neighbor's poison my dog with chocolate. I hate people that do stoo, bro, that shit, boy. I can't, man. He's about putting hot dogs on the grill.

Shit like that get the motherfucker hurt. Yeah. Because that means you'll do something else. That's a message. Well, you're killing him. Niggas pull up your dog. He's trying to tell your ass on them. Man, he's like, hey man.

He'll kill your ass. Yeah. Maybe that's a dog. Yeah, on God. They try to send you a message. For real for real. For real. Well, they probably just be tired of his dog.

See, my dog, she used to dig holes on the defense. So I think that was the thing that they didn't like. And then the dude was a Navy. He was a Navy. Oh, that nigga, though. He was in Iraq. I don't know, but. That shit's a booby truck.

He said, I got some. I got that fuck, though. They gave it away because when we got back home, they was like, well, did y'all leave chocolate at the house? You didn't tell me what happened now. We're like, no, we don't leave chocolate around house. We leave chocolate at the house. Y'all got some chocolate in your house. Y'all got some chocolate in your house.

Y'all be choking in your dog. No, no, look. Oh, see, that would want to talk. Too much chocolate is toxic for dogs. And we was telling her that we was going to go get it like an outsized day on the dog and she was like, well, did y'all eat chocolate around the house? That's probably what happened. That's what it was.

That's what it was. Yeah, too much of it is toxic for dogs. Damn. You give it a Hershey boy and they're going to fuck it up too. They're going to fuck it up. Wrap. Yeah. You got to get all up tossing.

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Oh, it was an expensive dog. Yeah, she was it. She was real hyper. But when we came home She was like laying in blood It was like a puddle Damn! It was tragic

It was tragic And we see it on the camera We seen everything That happened Because I had a camera in the house Y'all seen the nigger put the chocolate Out of that team? No, we didn't see that for it

Mika threw that bitch over the game It'll be like a bomb It's coming He said Y'all don't do the opt-tops It was chocolate You're just throwing a little her some years ago with that all day. That ain't crazy, bro.

You can sit up there and just do shit like that, bro. Oh, wow. Motherfuck's so evil, bro. That's how my dog get junk. About six walls. I don't even know how these motherfuck came my nose. That would be blue. You remember passion?

Oh, damn. This back beat, passion, man. My child, man. That was my baby. That was a little bit of dog. With the tongue, had the black shit on their tongue. They don't jump passion. She's a girl.

They get sick on my neighbors just so happened to catch it. I hear my mama banging on the window like, stop, stop out. They're sick dog, jumping on my dog. My neighbor come on the other. God damn, he ain't hitting the dog. He just hit the ground. Like, God! I'm scared for him.

I'm like, nigger, they're doing that to the dog. They're going to turn on your stupid ass, man. You're crazy. He's scared of that. Got the hell on. Man, my dog, that shit, draw my dog crazy. When my dog beat her arm off. It kind of like made the dog go delusional type shit.

man we took it to the vet to try to like clean up to make sure like all the bites they're like man yeah man i don't know what happened but man just like how you said man it's time to put this motherfucker's sleep oh my god damn god damn he thought to cry that was that was my first dog that's cried though i don't know why i'm just trying to get a lad dog way out here bro i cried My dad didn't get a foot. That cry. What? I don't cry for shit.

I'm crying for my dog. And he told me to dig a hole. Hell yeah. It's like you losing a child for real. Like, especially the dog. Yeah, they're part of the family. I didn't have to get my lad dog where I had a friend. It was a baby.

Get that bit away, man. My neighbors got down. He's like, hey, man, gay dude, they're cool. Hey, man, look, we put up with everything else. Everything you do. We don't say nothing. But that dog, I can't do that dog.

You got to get rid of that dog. I said, man, I'm going to get rid of that. I'm going to get rid of that. Because they're cool, I'll be saying, Mom, you're loud and full. They're going to be tripping. Damn. I was like, yeah, when I leave it,

you'll be crying all motherfucking babies. I can't do that. I can put it up with anything. A kid, you got, you got, you start reading my email. You got, you got like, you got like three kids, right? I'm like, I got five. You're like, yeah, I be hearing them. I'm like, I don't say that.

I don't say that. I don't say that. I don't say that. Music, he'd be playing music. Yeah, I don't say that. I don't say that. Not the music, do I. But that damn dog.

That damn dumb. I can't do that, the damn. Nigg said walked out. I was like, all right, he's serious. Oh, he been busy. He made business.

Get my dog away, man. I got a dog, man. That motherfucker been in the border for like eight months. That's them big ass, ugly ass. No, they're not ugly as hell. No, they got that one with the long noses and shit.

Yep. Snoop dog. Snoop right. Snoop dog. The real one is long and skinny, but the European one is fat. People don't know. Okay.

I never seen the European one. You don't see one? They look the same, but they're just different by the nose. Narrow head. Oh, okay. My name, Auntie, allergic to dog, okay? Allergy. I'm like, brother, bro.

I need him a dog, Auntie. You gotta figure this eye. Damn. You got to take a minute. You were going crazy with the dog for a minute, though. You was going crazy with the same thing. Yeah, you got to take better at this. I'll tell you what you can do.

What you say? What you said? Go back then. Doberman. You did the first one I, yeah, put it in Doberman, American. You're going to see the different. See? I'm trying to get one in the bar.

That's about going to help me with it. That's what you appreciate. That's what I'm doing. You see how I skinned that with it. You see how I'm getting out. So when I get it, when I leave, I just take it over there. You know what I mean? Because I love it.

Remember that little crack-haired dog that had sweet it, that little black dog that you ride around with it. And the little J dog, bro, had a little black thing. It looked like a little rat. Yeah, my man, bitch, man. That my fuck, get up on their feet of starting door. Hold on, look. They're going to be got to.

I forgot you. I got to get hot, my fucking. And I'm watching TV. But the dog will walk pan of TV on their high and leg. Right. I forgot you had that motherfucker. That one of my goodness, bro. Man, that one my bitch, bro.

He's a little bit. Somebody stole that bit out the car. Damn. The dab bowl. God damn. Strolled out the dab folk and she was to ride up in the dab on top of my dad's brunt,

in the window. She used to be in the window like that. That's fucked up, man. If she had one of the dog would stick a hand out of the window, she's in the window. Watching the windshield wife with this shit, she'll crew in.

Man, nigger broke the window. The goddamn tough. See, he got to get that ball. Bro, just a ghetto, bro. I forgot you had that. But that dog was cooling or what? That dog was cooling. Mom, you get out of it, like that in.

You feel me? I'm talking about on their high lid. You're like, hold up. What was it like a ghetto Taco Bell or dog? Yeah, one of those Cato Bell, motherfucker. Nika said, ghetto Taco Bell. One of them got that Nacho Bill Dundee, motherfucker. Get on Taco Bay.

That's shit Wawa. That dog made Taco Bell fame. That's shit Wawa. That shit woo. That shit whew. That shit made me on the Chihuahua. Two-I-Wha had. Yeah, bro.

I'm telling you, bro. had three of them. Y'all know she had a little bit of dollars. She said, I love the bitchy. Felling love with the bitchy, bro. Like little rats, she loved a bitch. My cousin had about 20 of the month

for her that one time. That's a lot. That is a lot of dogs. That's a lot of dogs. That is anxiety, that's too many dogs. Twitty Chihuahua. I heard of the lady with the cat.

Twin Chihuahua. That's a little bit. Twin and Chihuahua, you don't need no friends. You don't need nobody. Hey! 20-any-any-any-any-thing. Set it out.

20-any-thing. I won't even want to stop boobit anymore. She had 20 of them, man. Everybody in the family had one. 20 Chihuahua gave me. I gave her two Yorkies. They ended up having some puppies. They had like 7, 8.

They were like, yeah, well, we appreciate these puppet. I'm like, I bet you do. They're expensive. Yorkies are expensive dogs. They're like, we're going to get another one. I'm like, y'all. These motherfuck. What the fuck?

And we only do this shit three times. They thought I had 21 put Damn, crazy Kept all in a I know they sold, ma'am Crazy hair She got like three phones Like a little family

And shit And they went They had that bitch Like nine years Some people like to have a lot of dogs And shit I can't see it It's a

It's a controlling mechanism though Because you can control the animal People be trying to control Humans like animal Well, yes you can I'm not talking to know What the fuck she wants you want to do

Crazy hell, nigga, I said, sit no, oh, damn. They're doing it now, right. And they be like, hey, darling, what you want? You want something to eat? Okay, I'll be in the house in the minute. What, sit your hat down, boy? And he sits still. My dog, man, I train a nigga three days.

All you need is some treat, bro. Some treats? See, my dog, she don't like treats. My dog don't like treats. What? Oh, she just don't like them. No. She just don't listen.

Yorkies are, or, Yorkies are dog. Yorkies are dog hard dogs. You have a dog, like, you're going to get that nigger $25K but get me a motherfucking biscuit? Yeah. Mm-hmm. What about? This nigga gave me, bro. Dogs is funny as hell, bro.

They are. My cousin who had the 22 wallwans, they had this one that really didn't like my other cousin, right? So he used to always wait until he, like, late. his clothes out. Right. And then go in the room and shit on his clothes. Wow.

The chihuahua and shit on their clothes. And then you don't know we're in the blank I don't know looking like. Which one did? I'm talking about it with like

always shit like on the collar his shirt. 20? Let me say, it was just one. The dog man,

close on the bed. They do have feelings all my dogs like she put in tea on my rugs and on my couch

when she But the dog know what's up but when I went to go see my dog getting a motherfucker

old vet head and took me a picture and sent me a picture of my dog man my dog was so

happy bro and like he came to visit the nigger in jail and he like

I didn't get me shopping boy well boy came so showed up

show up he he went back to he went back to he went back to ooh he went back to

A little cock, hold the dog. So did he see you? Woo! Yeah, he got the dog, hold the ghost. My niggins were red it, boy. That niggins so elk, no, man. Then caught the dog, hold the ghost. What do you say, Gary?

I'm gonna hurt. I'm afraid. Don't this is not hurting me. Oh, shit, man. I'm gonna happen here, but. Take up off your video. Remember that video? Oh, man.

Oh, I got a picture I have, bro. That shit was hilarious, my dog didn't fuck with me, too, though. That should go right now. That shit goes right now. My name was sweetie. I'm a gangster that man. You're going to live, bitch, and dad.

You've been out fuck with it on, so I'm going to go on 10. Why the dog got done to you here? Man, listen. Did you see that shit? Yeah, she don't do. I saw that bull. Oh, keep that big with me, dog. They were neat.

On the knees. That man, that shit, that made you choke. But I love he done to hell, bro. Well, let them know what they were fine you at then. Credit care. I told them already on Facebook, Instagram. You know, Tiddy folks did, they smoke weed. They forgot.

On Facebook, Instagram, boss lady T, credit care 360. I'm nationwide all over. All right, then. Bad, you're stupid. What you had all these balloons for, for real, though? Like, this was really part of the problem for that was... This was just... I wasn't going to keep popping these balloons

and then get you PTSD. Oh, okay. It's just to remind you that we've seen this shit. I don't need a reminder. I get reminded every day. No. Because people still send it screenshots for the episode and letting me know, like,

hey, we sent you and all that. That motion to be right. You got motion? No, I don't like all that bad movies. They say any type of publicity is good, but I don't like being represented in that way and in that manner. You worry about the people who ain't going to put no money in your pocket. That's true. And my credit didn't tell me it.

They ain't got no credit for it, no. They need you. They need you for you for you, do you do. They ain't got no credit to fit. Oh, who. That's my dicky, too, boy. That's gonna be born for me. Yeah, that credit fucked up.

Don't worry about them. It's all good, but still. I just changed the narrative. Everybody who got tattoos, all women who got tattoos, that I don't mean they're uneducated. It's because you got two baby daddies with three kids. That don't mean you've been passed around or you bopped out. You know?

Right. You can't listen to people that ain't gonna never pay your bill. That is hope. I got five, baby, mama. my fuck still love me whatever you gotta tell yourself to go to bed at night I know it's true

damn man you ran through I'm ran through I'm ran through I'm gonna ran through yes sir in the face and everything I don't give a fuck what nobody said

you see this shit you ain't gonna never see another nigga with night sign a minute's face you ain't gonna never find a nigga that don't give a fuck what another nigga think as much as me I don't get a fuck

let's see my boyfriend Yeah, what about me? Oh, I know. I don't know. I don't get a fuck. Listen, I start sliding right now. I don't get a fuck. I'll give a fuck.

See, me? I give a fuck. What? You give a fuck? My shit's still smooth. I still give a fuck. Man, I got this tattoo. They didn't look at me.

You said, man, y'all had to get a fuck. You don't get a dime in there. What are you in? What are you in? I'm coming in here. he was coming out and he rolled the window down and he said

I won't give a fuck either I was like nigga what the fuck I'm like how the fuck would you do that to your fake eye what the fuck you're gonna give me a speech

but see I thought that that was gonna be a thing when I had got like my neck tattoos I was like they're not gonna respect me but my but I didn't work with so many people

like they respect me you know what I'm because it's like when I open my mouth and I start talking they're like oh you're smart you know what I'm saying like you got a lot of knowledge

I told me when you're arguing with people that's 12 years old. Mm-hmm. Everybody under the world. What I have to do with the internet? With the negativity and stuff. You can't control that shit. They're going to say what they're going to say. Well, I'm going to be bad.

But that's your opinion. Okay. You don't even know me. Yeah. Yeah. That's why I feel like that's why celebrities ain't looked at how they looked at today because they act in regular. Like, why the things?

fuck is you going back and forward with people in the coming? They're you motherfuckers sitting in an apartment gang, you in a whole goddamn what the fuck? I'm not arguing with nobody. Get out of here with that. They don't understand. Get out of here with that. If the shit funny, I'm gonna laugh at it. I'm gonna laugh at it. I'm laughing. I'm laughing. I don't know what's funny.

They said I had a beer belly. Let me see. No, I don't have it now, but I was bloated in the video. You were bloated? Yeah. Oh, okay. And it did looked like a bare belly. That was funny as hell. But they was wrong. But do niggas be gay for real. I don't know. I don't even say that. I'm a My bad, I heard me, man, no, y'all don't, you know what, y'all made, because, you know.

I ain't going to have all the niggins. Now what we got to do with? Yeah, they're going to not make all you know, they're like, I saw you the videos. Say what you're saying. Yeah. I'm going to be like, ooh. Yeah. Get out of there.

Yeah. You're going to be a big misunderstanding about that. I ain't like that. I'm just saying for some nigger to get in the company and then talk about the baby. about the babies like that, like, that's crazy. No, to be honest, I think it's a lot of men against women in this world, and there's a lot of women against men. And we need each other.

You know what I'm saying? Like, it was mind-boggling to see a lot of men that was, like, self-like degrading, you know, me and didn't even know me for real. You know, I didn't want to see the world. Those d'n't want to see the world. That's all some of them like that. They ain't going to never, you know, running in that like this

and really have a conversation with that. That's why they do that. But for that men versus women, shit, and women versus men, I just want the world. the end. I want that to happen. We're going to figure out. We're going to figure some shit out.

When the money don't mean nothing, I bet your ass listen to you. Yeah. You got, you got niggas. You got wolves and you got sheep. When you ain't got, because you know, a lot of niggas know a lot of niggins.

Come on, man. You got birds. You got dogs. Come out of here. He said, the money don't mean. You got dogs. Come on, man. I'm just saying imagine the whole world here right now

and niggas had to really go get everybody had to go get these y'all independent of that women you got to go find your own fucking food in this world out here with it's ruthless well you might be food for real like sell the food wouldn't no good we can't there ain't no more plants or none of that shit

what would y'all do y'all would fall in line and the man ain't supposed to do a goddamn thing to take care of self and that's that's with this life too we ain't got to do shit But if everything was the end, then what? Y'all ain't going out there.

Y'all will be way more humble than you. Because if they stumble upon my land, I'm a damn too. Man, man, hey, what's your name? Get out of my land, gal, I ain't doing out of that. Oh, hey, hey, Red, hey, Red, turn around. Turn around, Red. God, yeah, I know you're hungry. I know you hungry.

Red. Turn around, Red. Turn around, Red. Hey, let me see it. Lift the shirt up with somebody that shirt. God damn. Yeah, come on up in here. I said, get off my property.

You ain't some young-ins. You packed them young and y'all all get off my property. I'm sorry, Mr. Carlson. I got a bad ass, sir. I don't give a damn. I got a fat ass, sir. Ain't try to jiggle it. You stop shaking that ass.

You stop shaking that ass. Matter of fact, come back. Come back up in here. Did you hear me come back? We're the trouble yourself. Before the round start, hit, horse. Do, I got to go get that. Twerk.

Twerp. We got potatoes in here. You looking for money bags out. Money bag by four miles of yelda. I'm yelling. Hey! He's going to take you two days. I got potatoes over this other night.

Cairn goods, that's what you need. Come on up in here. Yeah, oh, oh, you fucking for some canned good now. Oh, y'all ain't, y'all ain't you and them can't ate sick day? Can't go crazy. Some of that little chicken have to be. That's a corn. Got some corn.

We eating bread sandwiches. Serap sandwiches. Come on, man. It'd be way more humble around here You're way more humble That's a hell of a scenario The money changed the mind That's all that is. See how you say I can do all this shit for myself?

What if the money wasn't nothing? Gone It couldn't help you You couldn't do shit with it It really ain't no And this world was just upside back on some purge shit Y'all wouldn't make it You know what would make it

We'll be going crazy Nick, it's six choppers in my motherfucking stole right now. Don't tell me what I ain't going to make. Oh, no, I'm saying. I'm saying, we're going to make it, but everybody's going out here. I said, hey, where you going? What I'm saying? You ain't got to be outside by yourself.

I need you. You need me. You know, Miss Wilson, go get that. Yeah. What? I ain't in that ass going to win. I'm taking everything that comes to my door still. Get in here.

It's going to be a lot of men that can't go out there. Huh? It's going to be a lot of men that can't go out there. Don't go. I'm going to go. They take them from her. The women need to know how to grow vegetables and shit.

Damn, she's not all of the four. Yeah, definitely there's a women. I ain't going to say they're going to do that women woman. And we have a lawless motherfucking world. Niggas going to dominate that world. Stop.

Let's not do that. There's a worst jason there. It's going to dominate that world. A lawless world. And we got to go hunt five food. You mean to tell me it's going to be a group of women that a group of niggas ain't going to try to get it. That's what I'm saying.

Whether they want to be in why I can't come together. That's what I can't come together. That's what I'm trying to tell you. So why we can't treat it like the money don't mean nothing still today. You see what I'm saying? You feel a certain type of way because you make your own money. If that couldn't help you, I would have to be that nigger. Then that's our natural state.

We're going to do that without you saying that we know we got to go feed our family. A nigger is going to be like my kids and my wife at home. That's no problem. But if you by yourself, how long you think you're going to last? That's all I'm saying. I don't know, friend. But then you got some hair and tep me, motherfucker. They come out of nowhere.

Hey, tell me, y'all got some 10 gills on here, I got a hundred bitches. We're ready to eat? I'm like, yes, sir. I ain't said it can't be done, but it's going to be wrong. Niggins going to dominate that world. Women can grow vegetables and fruit. You can survive our vegetables and fruit.

It's a man. Women have to go around. Women make it go around. It's a man world. I ain't going to be out there hunting this shit. I'm going to be the motherfuck of a trade and everything. I got all kind of shit. I got gooks.

I got gooks. You want to. I'm going to get it. I got some. We're going to have lambsops. You ain't seen. We're just waiting on those babies to drop. I'm going to get it.

I'm going to get it. Dirty magazines. I got a whole stash of dirty magazine. You got a whole stash of dirty magazine. Hey, what's your bag? Hey. Now I've trade you some of them dirty magazine. He'll go down there train the dirty magazine.

I'll take a packet of them backwood. I'll be right back directly with you. Order. Yeah, I'm going to have all kinds of shit for trade. I'm going to get it. And my neighbor, if you see this shit, you're the fur house. I'm going. I swear to God.

I love him there. They called police on me two days ago. No real. Nothing about about five days ago. What you got going on? Man, my son would just, man, babies run. I don't know if y'all know this. Neighbors upstairs, but when kids learn how to run.

move like they don't stop. They take out. Hell, yeah, you run outside. They can run everywhere. So what they call the police? She's like, because of noise. She's like, yeah, I can't, hey, she's a white letter. She's like, I had my noise canceling Dre beats on and I can stop shut the door

that bitch. She's like, she's going to come downstairs with the headphones on. You know what I, you know what I have my noise canceling headphones on and I can still, I can still, I'll say, fuck, hold that bitch. When I'll still, I start, she hit the doorbell. I started talking their ass through the ring camera. I'm like, what? Get the fuck out my toast.

Hey, what, man? It's a baby. Yeah, I know it's a baby. They call the Polly on a baby. It'll be standing, bro. And then I did the Polly get to the door. I'm like, man, this is what it is. I said, too.

That nigga can't running like a little bit. Yeah. You see what I'm saying? That nigga came hauling at. They're all in that. You know, where is the young man? Can what you say? She's like, man, I don't know, man.

Just get them. That's a head writer. Hold it down. So I do petty shit. Like, I'll watch clothes. I put a load of clothes on that four in the morning. Put shoes in that, blah, huh? I put two boots in that bitch.

Popo. I don't put a gawk in that motherfucker. With all the bullets loose in that bitch. Pong, bong, bong, bong. Yo, y'all, I'm gonna spin this load about three, four times. What you're talking about? Go sleep. Yeah, the little shit you can't say nothing about.

You want to call Polika on washing clothes? Yeah, that's crazy. Oh, wow. Oh, my God, I did not. I yell out. Bull shit! Fuck, this was is so good. Bits, I hate you.

Oh my God, I'm for the bus or nuts. I'm coming up, bro. This nigga's stupidly fuck, bro. A cop, bro. Maybe you get on my nerve. It'd be the entitlement. Oh, man. You got to do that.

You got to do that. You like that dick, don't you? White lady named Carver and they're working in the bank. From 4 to 9, money through 3rd. Hey, miss. I be doing a little petty shit so left to let's live. So, that's longer, bro. You know how when you, like, if you have a white neighbor,

when I pull up, we pull up at the same time. So she won't get out the car unless I get out the car. So every time she opened her door, I'll open my shit a little bit. She closed her back in. But we started out there like, about it out. Well, 45 minutes, bro. She gets halfway.

I open my shit all the way and get out halfway. Then I'll get back in the car. Then I let her get out. I'm walking close to hell behind her. I'm like, y'all get in a hot. I'm on her hand, she's like, man, you got to get the fucking over, doesn't know. Y'all really like you, Joe.

Well, you got to fuck around that, fuck. But hell, no. What was you doing all that for? Not what she needs, though, for real. Don't know about a crunched on it. No, what she needs. You like this?

This is all you want. You like this, pussy. You see, they wouldn't know if you come. from. I'd be fucking. That thing is stupid, bro. She ain't that type of white lady. She wanted to walk. Yeah, you got to move, man.

Lillian white woman. She's trying to get your butt in. Yeah, she's trying to get her. I don't have been that way before her. Like, fuck. But then now I know she was crazy because she, like, she housed the neighborhood cat. Cat crazy than the motherfucker, man.

She just grabbed the cat. Man, the cat jib be in the window like he'd be on. You know the cat walked shit out of you. I'm coming home. Why I feel pressure and walking home? This dix is in the window. Get on your head. You got to get the fuck out of the game.

I'm like, bitch, how the hell you're going to house the neighborhood cat? The cat was like, you know, the cat got down. They like the gifts and shit. And they motherfucker be leaving dead rats and shit on the porch. Hey, man, hey, man. Hey, hey, hey, hey, come clean this shit up. Come clean this shit up, man. I don't know they love you though.

They try to say you, I hate that. Why to hear you that they did something good? Yeah, I'm protecting on them. Yeah. Yeah, they need they bring presents and shit. They're going to put it in front of it. But the motherfucker put it at my door. Put it at her door.

She loved you. That was their way of telling you. Hey, Nick, I protect your little whole ass. Nigety's right with them fuck you up. I got two words for your ad. Shine a cafeteria. Keep motherfucking black. Shine a cafeteria.

Keep glad. They can't wait in hand. Side of cafeteria. They can't wait. It'll be a daily stress on the dog. They mean, like, yeah, I slid on the ops for you, you, nigga. So that's what a cat do, anything they kill,

they kind of, like, show you. Yeah, they think they're doing you, they're protecting you. Yeah, but I got kids and shit looking at this shit like, hey, what the fuck? I'm gonna grow up. I'm gonna grow up.

You're gonna have a cat. You're gonna have a cat's in a real. Never. There's no cats over there. Oh, man, we had a cat named Twinkie. That was a bad motherfucker. Twinkie? Twinkie?

Twinkie. He was cold. All right. not play. Hey, somebody wore that piece that sent out

down that on that song. Yeah, we've been talking shit for a long yeah. Yeah, we gotta wrap this

up. We'll look here, man. Fuck with them people talking about online. You're a real one.

You're a real one because you came on here just to talk shit with us. Yeah, just had to, you know.

No. Said the registrate. Yeah, change the balance. You're like your second respite F'all you hold and be told you all now.

I'm a bad bitch. I'm a bad bitch. I don't need nobody. They know. A lot of them, they went to my page and they was like, oh, I'm sorry. You're not really what they're seeing you are. I'm like, no, I'm not. What show you said you came to?

I've been to all y'all shows. Real? Yeah. From Louisiana and the ones from y'all here. You talked about my boosty A top at the last show y'all was in. Yes, she did. In Atlanta? No, in Houston, September.

You said I got my shit from City Trend. Oh, I'm sorry. I was gonna chase shit like that. That shit sounded like nobody's funny like that. He can't eat the night

and you're all right. I said it's sorry he said she got on one of them she got on one of those types they all go get from the city tree oh sorry and my shit was not

from the city tree I was just in nothing. What the fuck you was doing in there? I just be said I just be saying, uh oh a city tree yeah

I don't want to see what they didn't do in them I don't remember when City Tree was the shit. Yes, they used to be. I'm talking about, that shit lasts in for like six months. You're a popper in a night and I get your little fit. You're a pop in City, Trit.

You're going to be able to see the little fitter. You're trying to get yourself from there. They had the dickies in there. I don't know. What the fuck happened? I don't know. I think they got the fighting with the warehouse company or something. They just started getting shit very well.

And all the good shit just faded out. And then they were just like, what the fuck in this? They ain't got nothing in that. They start having niggas. They might have party shirts and gold grill. Look at Char with the gold grill now. With the rannstones on the teeth, move.

They didn't have a shirt. Sponging for the same shit. Watch the goddamn faces, you don't even know. Who the fuck this is? They got big and small right here. They got their work at the store. Nigger worked in the store. Your face on the shirt.

No. You know. You're there to be. You know. That's funny. That's funny. That's what. City train is fucked up.

City train fucked up, man. I got a nigga in the stud. It's you, bro. Yeah, you need in the media. You need me in the small. You need me in a small. You need me in an ex-law. Let me get three mees.

He wants three means. We got a whole box of them there. Got a whole lot of me in here. Oh my God. They fell out bad. All that shit closing. in the roasts about to close. They're from the Colorado.

See a party city. People ain't having that many parties no more. Shit sad. That's good. Stop celebrating all that clown-ass shit. No, my fucks used to just have a lot of parties, man. They're birthdays. Party City for Halloween.

That's a seasonal store. I don't know why they just won't make it seasonal. Nica, every day is a party. Hell no. Yes, the fuck it is. Not paying 30. Yeah, they don't. Bro.

They'd be mismanaging the fun. You need me in small. Hey, bring one of the bees in the spot. Maybe one of the me tees. That's what I call. Meeteed. It's a lot of bees in. Oh, not move that guy.

Oh, man. This nigga here is stupid, man. You need me in there. Well, you see, this is all we do over here is talking shit. Put me on you. I said, before y'all even, like, going live, like, going to, like, different cities when y'all was just, like, filming, like, in the studio. We used to sit, smoke weed, watch, you know, watch all shit. It's been a while.

Now we out here. Now, y'all out here. Amen. Hey, man. Hey, man. Hey, man, man, he's gonna start whooping your head,

that's how he's gonna start whooping your ass, man. Oh, God. He's sweet. Yeah, motherfucker, I want to piece a piece of now. It's time, ain't it? Huh? All right, man. Look, you already know how we get down, man.

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