The 85 South Show with Karlous Miller, DC Young Fly and Chico Bean - TOOSII LIVE IN THE TRAP | The 85 South Show

Episode Date: May 5, 2023

Young rapper Toosii pulled up to the Trap and talked about growing up in a house with musicians, his upcoming album and more. MoneyBag Mafia & Toosii talk about doing a song together, DC acts a fo...ol as usual, & Karlous drops gems like the sensei should. || 85 SOUTH App: www.channeleightyfive.com || Twitter/IG: @85SouthShow || Our Website: www.85southshow.com || Custom Merch: www.85apparelco.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:03:08 Who are? I'm like, who you? I'm like, stay here. You're taking the trip down memory, like. Bro. That's what I'm saying. I'm telling you, like, I know this for a fact. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:03:21 Wasn't nobody fucking nobody. Like, they might be getting money, but they wouldn't get no business. Like, like, And that's why I fucked up at. Yeah, I don't know. Listen, it's a lot of nicks get money, but not get a pussy.
Starting point is 00:03:34 But still, they can use what they got to get the pussy, they just tripped, though. Yes, they do, they just suckers. I'd rather have the money than the pussy. That would fuck me. Yeah, they know it. They don't know how to do it though. But still, though, man, I'm, I was having what
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Starting point is 00:04:18 I'm glad we grew out of the rats. We were some rats. Whoa. Whoa. He didn't grow out of yet. Come on, let not do that. He didn't grow out of yet. Rat whisper. I'm talking, we'll see a rack.
Starting point is 00:04:27 Let not do that, because I just told her, but I get what? I don't turn. Hey, boy. What child considered to be a rat, though? Exactly. See, he'll be a little bit more punches. Anything that respond to this. Yeah, okay.
Starting point is 00:04:39 Yeah. She look up? You got to call that one like a pick. Nah. I ain't never really been on that. Listen, we'll turn them up, you got to watch Tom and Jerry. Oh, they love Tom and Jerry. His girl from the hood.
Starting point is 00:04:54 I know he's like hood babies, bro. You ain't going to do that. I mean, you don't like no green, baby, but you like one with a little spitz-ass to her, you know. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's all I'm saying. Like, she'll know her little slow. Like, she don't know her.
Starting point is 00:05:04 She'll be like, uh, I'm like, yeah, I fuck with this, bitch. He-h-h-h-h-h-h. I like her. My love, my name, she's a little. I got a good one. That's she a good one. Yeah, we ain't gonna say too,
Starting point is 00:05:16 because we want her to stay. I don't want to. I mean, I don't want to. I mean, shit, no, but at the end of the day, though, you know what, I don't want her to be like, My, man, listen. My grandmama had sold anything you was on there.
Starting point is 00:05:29 Man, listen. I'm not a rat. I'm gonna fucking know what I've been through. Right, everything in the past. Like, nigger, these young girls like, huh? You been through some shit? That's all he rubble about. Yeah, that's all he rubble about.
Starting point is 00:05:44 These young girls, like, look at the nigger like, who, who, how old you, you said, how old you were? I'm 40. Who was that, like, nigger, like, like, like, When it came, I guess, like, you could say, like, the R&B, like... Uncle Luke? He canceled that, you know, R&B. Luke had a hose, niggins.
Starting point is 00:06:02 Not R&B. Coochia was hairy. I'm... I'll fuck around damn there be him to these new girls. Real shit. Like, that's how real this, like, you ask a girl that's around, like, this age generation, like, who the...
Starting point is 00:06:16 Like, it's gonna be, like, the two-seys, the ride waves. You know what I mean? Yeah. Pop your shit, OG. Yeah, I mean, real shit. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
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Starting point is 00:07:16 Oh, we're ready for part too. Oh, y'all. We ain't booze here. Hey. Hey, man, I got to make sure my shit. Stay in my pot. Look around this nigga here. Yeah, mine in the truck.
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Starting point is 00:12:28 But you gotta go in here and be serious. It's like, yeah, because they already know me for being funny. So now how black people look at it for, they're like, well, we know he's funny and we just, we want to see. Instead of just saying, right. Respecting the crowd, bro. And then I ain't easy to come in here and play. I'm gonna shoot tea, nigga.
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Starting point is 00:13:21 but you know I'm just in care of though. But I'm dead-ass. I'm gonna pop-y-all-ass. No cap. And you? Yeah. And we were down loud? Yep.
Starting point is 00:13:29 Yep. Yeah. Gotta be like that, though. No, but they're fine, bro. Like, you gotta tap in. And when you tap in, bro, that shit be beautiful. Just like, how you tap into the music, like, you tap into that shit at.
Starting point is 00:13:42 Yeah, I was just about to ask. You said you wanted the niggies that are going through this shit. Nah, real shit. What you've been going through, man? Cause you put them shits in your rats. Oh, regular shit. Regular shit. I rap about the shit, you know,
Starting point is 00:13:54 niggas scared the rap, bro. Right. You know, but I mean, I just mix it up a little bit. I don't know. Like, it's regular shit, though. It ain't nothing too special. It's the same shit a lot of these niggas go through, you know, with these females.
Starting point is 00:14:08 The same shit, a lot of these niggas them went through and life come from where the nigger come from. It ain't nothing special. You know what I mean? Difference is, you know, you know, it's my own story. It's organic. A lot of nigs want to tell other niggas story
Starting point is 00:14:23 that somebody already telling in their shit. Right. They try to, you know, that shit can't be duplicated. But you got your own lane, right? You know how you got the sound, but your average song that you talk about is like you talk about the ladies. Yeah.
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Starting point is 00:14:54 I used to make nothing but street shit. I was, like, I'm not going to make no soft shit, like, no other shit. But then, like, I had one on tour with Summer Walker, and I'm like, I don't even know how we got on tour with someone walking first off. But, you know, I ended up. Nah, like, I was on tour with, you know, a few other people before. But then, you know, they asked me to be on someone walking tour, when I started going to the concerts and I,
Starting point is 00:15:16 in the crowd, like, this is what a show supposed to be. Yes, sir. That shit was the best feeling ever, every show. Bad bidsch, bad bitches, bad bids. Like, nothing. Girls in the crowd, facts. You know what I mean? Like, when I seen that, I'm like,
Starting point is 00:15:33 I've been a young nigga that was like menish that, like, fuck with the, like, girl. Like, I've been, man's my whole life. I had to switch it up, and then, like, as, like, it kept going and kept going, kept going like you know the ladies been like in the nigger and stuff but the concerts just made i was out that bitch yo you swifted it up but i was out that bit put the gun down bring me some roses bring me roses what bring me roses real you sweat this shit like that are kelly you tell me that
Starting point is 00:15:59 you tell me that shit all the time bro you need sign i'm like nah man i gotta get this shit off my chat nigger these nigg i know i said that's dope nigger and that be the thing though like yeah real shit that be that's what be the thing though like what and then another thing i had notice like, bro, when it comes to that street shit, you gotta live up to that shit every day. Right. Feel me? Like, you got niggas that come around
Starting point is 00:16:23 and they gonna want to see if you on that, for real. Like, or you got niggas that come around and they think you on that, so that's what they, that's what they're trying to try you. I'm gonna see you really about that shit you're talking about. And me, though, I don't be, like, bro, you know, we, I feel like black motherfuckers that got to walk around and really look
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Starting point is 00:16:58 Yeah, like, I don't allow, though. But, like, you know, being paranoid wouldn't keep us. But at the same time, it's like, you got so many white motherfuckers that just live, like, so peaceful, bro. Like, they ride around, drop up. We got a black boy that live like that too gang, don't think that. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:17:17 Don't think that they ain't, yeah. We're a target once we become a celebrity. We got a successful. And now on that, we talk about that gang-and-shy shit. That's just the thing. We ain't never been around the people that live like that, for real. We ain't never seen. Oh, no, for sure, so.
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Starting point is 00:19:03 I'm a whole lot of what I got to say. I'm talking to you with this shit all over there. Hey, bro, that's the damn. You're talking about, yeah, man. You're just the people that we know. I don't know. I'm trying to get ready. He's going for like 10 minutes out y'all.
Starting point is 00:19:22 I'm gonna hold him for breath and everything. Ah, these niggas like that though. I was holding breath to my chair. He said, oh, guy, he's just the people that we know. You just, hey! Yeah! The niggins did his best to hold that shit in the end. He's gonna tell ya.
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Starting point is 00:20:00 They told you yesterday? Yesterday, bro. Oh, boy. What? What? You, that's the last shit you need. Listen, I'm gonna tell you.
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Starting point is 00:24:42 a neck, definitely spirit. I don't know what money bag, Monfi over there going through it, but he's going through it. And I want you to know
Starting point is 00:24:51 that you're not going through this shit alone. He said in the chair. Oh, you brother. He's seven in the chair. Yeah, each seven of the chair. to stop.
Starting point is 00:25:00 That's what it was. You had one of them called us. They were funny. Man, how you get started fucking with the music? I used to play football, all that shit. I used to be like real heggling sport. I'm all fucking. My brother and my dad used to make music.
Starting point is 00:25:22 And like, shit, I just, niggas was going through a lot as a young. I just started writing music and just like cope with the shit that I was. like cope with the shit that I was going through. I feel like that's how a lot of us start doing that shit. You start wrapping about the shit that we're going through and all that. You still hit me hiccup at all, man. But I got the hiccup, bro. I can't help the shit.
Starting point is 00:25:49 I'm trying to fight it. I can't do it. Loose, don't I'm trying. Why, this nigga is. I'm trying, bro. I'm trying, man. I'm trying, dude. That shit ain't help holding your breath.
Starting point is 00:26:05 That shit ain't help holding your breath. Bro, that shit ain't helped, man. I need my apple for. Dude, bro, I'm just having to fade this weight, brady, damn in here. How you get started? Everybody in the house was making music. No, everybody was making music, bro.
Starting point is 00:26:24 That shit, you feel? It's just, it was my coping mechanism. coping mechanism. I mean, I started when I was probably like 13, writing at least, you know. Yeah. But after that, like, you know, I just kept going with it. Who's your inspiration though? Because you got a flow on you. You got a unique flow. You feel what makes you stand out? Because you talk about the female, but the way you be rapping, it's like, ain't nobody sounding like you. Yeah. Ain't nobody doing what you're doing for real. When it comes to like the melodic R&B, you got ride away, but it's like, you got your lane, you get on your G-Bel.
Starting point is 00:27:02 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Mine really a little bit more melodic. When I get on the artist, I kind of like go video for video, for video, for video, for video. Yeah. I probably went to scene like, 80-o shit, like, back-de-bat, bad-de-bat. I was like, God damn. I thought I'm gonna, like, be done. What I was gonna do?
Starting point is 00:27:19 You was even what I'm talking about. And I went to all about what shit, bitch. Yeah, I remember. I remember when you first, I remember when you first head hit me. You know what I was like, you know, that shit. Because I remember, I remember probably being like, I was in high school watching your shit. I don't know, I make me feel old, my boy.
Starting point is 00:27:35 Like, real shit. Go ahead. Not, real shit, I was in high school. But I ain't that old, I ain't that old though. So that's why, like, high school was. Oh, you in this shit? Because I won this school when I'm doing this shit. I'm gonna lie.
Starting point is 00:27:49 How old you were? You're about to be the third or one? Yeah, I'm, I'm, I just turned. 923. Young niggas up in that big game. Money, man. I congratulate that, man. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:59 Yeah, yeah. So you've been doing this for six years. We had them. Yeah. How long have you been doing this shit? Yeah. Yeah. Real shit.
Starting point is 00:28:10 I remember being in high school watching this shit, though. Man, big nigga and the apple were like, yeah, bro, I've been fucking with you said, elementary. Nah. I said, elementary? He said, I said, how old are you live? He said, I'm 22. Think about it, four years in a high school.
Starting point is 00:28:27 Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Three years in middle school, that's seven. What I'm the other three years when I were working my wife? Yeah. You was in the third, right? Yeah, that's your real. Yeah, man, you've been in the game for a minute, D.C. I didn't know you since you got them 22.
Starting point is 00:28:42 Yeah, all right, shit. God is the greatest, man. God is the greatest. God. God is the goodest. The goodest, the goodness. That's the on Jeffers right now. No, my dad.
Starting point is 00:28:54 But what? You got the same, you got the same energy, though, bro. You 23. This is the year that it just started to pop off for real. Like he said, I don't think I'm getting money. That's a different taste right there. When you don't have that shit, your whole 20s. That shit dope, bro.
Starting point is 00:29:11 That shit dope. Big advantage of that shit. Don't spend. Yeah. Keep that shit. I don't lie, I had that, I had that phase in me, though. I had that phase. I did.
Starting point is 00:29:21 where I used to fuck up money. Like, bad, like business, bad, cars, clothes, jewelry. I, shit, at one point I didn't have like five cars at once. This was when I first got in the game. It was like a serious addiction. Yeah, too bad. I have cars. Nobody needs fucking five.
Starting point is 00:29:40 You know? You got like a hundred car. Why the fuck me? You got the same picture. I don't know. I had a lamb truck. uh, uh, demon, uh, track hawk, a hell kept wringled. I had a Bentley GT at one point.
Starting point is 00:29:56 All at the same time? Yeah, all that hell, yeah. What else I, what else I don't have? A G wagon. You know what I mean? I had all that shit. All my call. Two thousand seven and blow.
Starting point is 00:30:09 I checked out for shit. I didn't get any new. It's like two guys a titty. You know. It ain't worth it, though. It ain't worth it. It ain't worth it. I'm at the point with now,
Starting point is 00:30:20 I'm just buying all of my favorite cars from my life. Nah, real shit. They're like, why the fuck you need this? I'm like, shut up, bitch. My grandma had one of these. Real shit, you get to a point where you start to realize, like, that shit ain't, I mean, I think once I had my son,
Starting point is 00:30:37 or once I, like, realized that my son, like, once I had found out about my son coming, like, I, that ass just set. And I was like, boy, I don't need none of this shit. Yeah, the maintenance on all of them cars that you named that. It's like, if you, you, especially like some high dollar shit like that, I wouldn't buy all that shit at once. Well, when your mission time come around you, that's when you really live, fuck, you call.
Starting point is 00:30:57 That's so much attention and maintenance and storage and shit like that, it's like, man. And then the taxes come back to me. Exactly. You know what I'm at the point in my life in? Getting shit away. Yeah. Yeah, he gave me some shit. I brought it back.
Starting point is 00:31:11 I get him to him. I said, man, I got a scholar, man. It's just sending my yard, man. Guess if anybody gonna do it take care. Close. I know for it. It's big loss. It took that nigger two days.
Starting point is 00:31:23 Yeah. My shit and whistling. He, he, he. I said, God, damn. You just gave it to me at the right time. I had a molder that I had just pulled out. I was like, it'll be perfect for this guy. When I sat that motherfucker down there.
Starting point is 00:31:38 That me giving shit away. That little nigger voice in my head. That nigg said perfect. That bitch is on the way back. I'm like, fuck it. I'm like, fuck it. Nah, hell yeah. That's what I'm glad I met you at this point right now.
Starting point is 00:31:51 I gave it all the way. No, hell not. I said that I'm at the point of my life while I'm giving shit away. I don't gave it away. Give it all away. I got it. I'll take it. I'll take it.
Starting point is 00:32:01 I'll take it. I'll give you that. Free of charge. You got it. You got some hit. You got some whip put up somewhere. Oh, no. No, I got one, one car now.
Starting point is 00:32:12 I got one car. Yeah. A limbo truck, though. Hell no. I know you got something tough. Like, I know you're from drop. I know you got some tough. Is there a track that you want the people to listen to or you just want to give out?
Starting point is 00:32:25 You're like, man, they can't hear this shit. You bullshit. All out of the track that I had that was like that, I just dropped it. But then I got like another one. That's right. You know what I mean? Right, right, right. Yeah, to the side.
Starting point is 00:32:40 Who you want to work with, though? Because, you know, one thing about it, when the motherfuckers say they want to work with somebody on this couch. This couch, specifically, That's why we ain't changed it. Yeah, we ain't changing it. Yeah, we ain't changing it. Motherfugger, it happened.
Starting point is 00:32:51 Cisle. Oh, that's nothing. Cisor. I bet you that shit's gonna come about. Yeah, it's. You didn't know you wanted to work with. Yeah, nah, I don't think she's saying it. You went on tour with, you were on tour with it though.
Starting point is 00:33:02 I went on tour with some of Walker. Some of Walker. Some of Walker. You don't want to, uh, you did something. You don't want to, um, double platinum. Ooh. Yeah. See, what's up.
Starting point is 00:33:12 I ain't gonna cap me. Some walker. But you get scissors? Yeah. That shit, that shit. We're gonna make that work. Yeah. I promise you.
Starting point is 00:33:23 She watched the show. She tapped in. Yeah. I won't lie, I had made a tweet about it. The tweet got like, damn man, 2,000 retweets. Like, that shit. She gotta see it. We gonna make shit she see it.
Starting point is 00:33:34 Ain't that the right, scissors? Yeah. You gonna see this shit. Nah, please. You know what I mean? That's like she's one of the top ones on my list, though. Other than that, I really don't care of work. You know, right, bro.
Starting point is 00:33:45 That's fine. Not because I don't, but. Only because I really don't listen to music like that. I make music, but I don't listen to me. Bro, I ride in silence. Mm. You know, feel me? I don't, I can't.
Starting point is 00:33:55 You ride in silence, bro. What wrong with you? I don't know. You ride with him? There's something that got to be right. Dude, turn that fucking radio off. Yeah, Bido, sometimes I want to ride this. Not all the time.
Starting point is 00:34:10 I be vibed. Nah, I've been real all the time. That's crazy. I be vibing, bro. So who told you, you didn't tell us to your inspiration? Who are? Yeah, I don't really don't got no inspiration. My inspiration, like my brother, other than now, I really don't got no inspiration.
Starting point is 00:34:25 When I do listen to music, I listen to like pop shit. I like motherfucking Billy Olish, Jason Moraz, Tim McGrawl. They need to hear this shit because you putting niggins up on gang because I don't know now one of them. No cow. You don't know Billy Ollish? I know Billy, but I don't listen to Billy. You know Jason Morris? I know Jason.
Starting point is 00:34:41 You know, like, train and all them. I know, uh, I know, uh, Green Day. Green Day. Yeah, Green Day. I fuck Green Day. Yeah, Green Day. I would like every hood, niggins. I love Green Day, though.
Starting point is 00:34:53 I love Green Day, though. Limp Biscuit. You said, who? Limp Biscuit. Y'all ain't fuck with Limp Biscuit? Nah, that ain't nobody. That ain't nobody. No way.
Starting point is 00:35:03 You know who Lump Biscuit is. Fred Dirtz. Fred Dirtz. Come on now. Yeah, no. What's the other one? It Green Day and this another motherfuckerugugly. All right.
Starting point is 00:35:16 Fall out, boy, I like all that shit. Oh, come on right before say you by the bell, bro. It's Green Day, and it's another motherfucker. Is it Nickelback? No, it might be... Who you say? Who? Not cold play.
Starting point is 00:35:33 Is Nickleback something? Yeah, Nickelback had a group. No, nickel back had a good... Yeah. Because I'm not... It's a knickleback. That's a knicker. That's a knickleback.
Starting point is 00:35:43 That my white side kick then. It's knickleback, motherfucker. Yeah, yeah, I don't lie, so it's a few motherfuckers I fuck with, but it ain't like, I don't really be You don't like rap for real? Nah R&B? All that shoot them up, bang, bang, shit. R&B, I'm saying with, bro, I, listen, if I get with a bitch, like, early, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
Starting point is 00:36:04 Early in the morning, like, I can't hear all that man. I'm gonna say, let me go ahead and see what I get to say. Like, if I get with a woman that, you know, playing that games and shit early in the morning, I'd be turned off. be turned off. Yeah. Like, they're just 7 o'clock in the morning. You're taking me to the airport, huh? Oh, I want to lie.
Starting point is 00:36:20 You were able to rap on full, like, all that shit. Nah, I won't want to lie that shit. I can't hear that shit all day long. All right, man. Make 20th. What we're going? Louisville, Kentucky. Man, to the who?
Starting point is 00:36:32 The KFC YUM Center. We ain't got no KFC yet. But it's going to be at the Yom Center. Is it Louisville or Louisville or Louisville? It's Louisville. Louisville. Louisville. No cap.
Starting point is 00:36:44 It's Louisville. I need KFC to bring us some chicken, bro. Is that close to the Kentucky Derby? It's in Kentucky. I mean, but is it close today that we're going to be there? Hey, man, fuck all that. Bring me some bluegrass. For real.
Starting point is 00:36:57 If Bubba Johnson going to be there? Bubba Johnson? Yeah. That nigga. Bubba Johnson ride horses? He did a NASCAR. Kentucky, I thought that was the car. No, Nicky, that's...
Starting point is 00:37:06 Hey, man, come to the Joey. Come to the Joey. Look for the joint. No one man. What's your horn? Ignorably. Yeah. You can't.
Starting point is 00:37:15 Yeah. You can't take a derby with the car. Yeah. I thought the kid taking derby with the car. No, that's the... That's the Daytona 500. Nick, nigger. Ain't nobody told me.
Starting point is 00:37:26 That's why we want to take you in the fucking well. Hey, man. Get your tickets. May 20 of K.C. Yom center. Shit, take me to the horses then, nigg. She got that y'all. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:37:36 She got that. But I always thought the kid, was a horse, I meant with a horse and Call. Play, play for Solve me. First of my, I don't get old. I don't want to hit you shit. I don't want to hit you shit. That's going to make me think about nothing that I already forgot. Right. Yeah. I want to hit some old shit. My, I don't lie. Yeah. T-K.O.
Starting point is 00:37:57 Ted the Pentegrat. What? Turn off the light. That's what I'm talking about. Turn up the light, bitch, and light a candle. What's the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning? I pray. That's very. I pray. But I do have a bad habit because it's muscle memory. of grabbing my phone and getting on whatever app that I'm on but the thing is I have to stop that but the thing is though a lot of us do it a lot of us that's in what we're right I don't lie you can't really fault us for that this is where our
Starting point is 00:38:24 money at now what it's discipline it's discipline though like when you get up like watch yourself in the morning when you get up you're just I do it every morning every morning faithfully five six a.m. I have to grab it. I wake up 6 a.m. faithfully and jump straight out my phone. I have to get on it for what? No, get up. Fuck that got down phone.
Starting point is 00:38:49 Just check, make sure you got to be called. You don't have to go to the bathroom to leave your phone. Oh, I get up. You go get my motherfucker phone. Boodieh! Turn. You pair of dog. You parrot dog.
Starting point is 00:39:00 You got to get it. You got to turn. You got to turn. You got to turn. I got to get it. Make shit on drop. I'm squeating. Banklick.
Starting point is 00:39:10 You're going to break the cycle. I got to get that phone, man. But that's the same way. I go to the battle and sit out. Like, damn, I forgot me for. Yeah, got to go get it. That's sad. That's sad.
Starting point is 00:39:23 That's it. That's what I like to travel. When you travel outside the country, shit, you forget about that phone. Yeah. Oh, yeah. You go out of the country, though, yeah. You forget about that phone, bro. That's why I like Honduras so much, bro.
Starting point is 00:39:34 First of all, service bad. That shit, put your phone out. All the country service is bad. You got to put that phone out. Got to put your phone out. now and it's just peaceful and everybody living on the land and it's just like man fuck that i don't even care what's on instagram bro that's just like to make me feel like life fate though no on his faith this is real life this is what we not tapped me into and this is what i'm saying
Starting point is 00:39:56 it was like to feel like a dream like i don't lie like when i when i when i was like in mexico because i ain't never really been out the country like that but like when i was in mexico i went to mexico in jamaica but when i went to mexico i ain't had no service like that but mexico who was so motherfucking beautiful. That's. Feel me? Like, I wasn't on my phone. I had to realize, like, bro, like, damn, like, this real life.
Starting point is 00:40:20 Like, I'm out doing shit. I'm swimming with the Dolphins. I'm walking out of Mexico streets. Like. Yeah, it was, like, it was like, like, not their real streets, but, like, you know. The touristy streets. Tourist street. Right.
Starting point is 00:40:33 Type shit, you know. But it was a bunch of, like, us out there. It wasn't nobody else. Right. But, like, I'm walking around. We walking around there. Like we're on a resort, like we just having fun, we're doing regular, we're waking up every morning, the breakfast in bed, motherfucking, like, shit was just, you know what I'm like, damn, like, if life was like this, like this would, I feel like that's what retirement look like, like. But see, that is like, we just, uh, the phone has our attention.
Starting point is 00:40:58 The moment we put it down, we're back in the real life. You got to face yourself for real. When we go into this, we're a tap into a reality. You get to know of your own company. It's other people living in faith. That's the thing about it. You can't keep yourself. But you know what though?
Starting point is 00:41:12 I have. You don't never finish. You grab that motherfucker because you know you said some shit before you put it up. Or you was looking at some shit before you went to sleep. It's like I never in this story. Yeah. It's like, shit, even if you ain't getting on shit, you still gonna grab that motherfucker and see what time it is. I think the biggest thing with me, like, when I had took a break from social media one time.
Starting point is 00:41:35 And when I took a break from social media, it made me feel disconnected. disconnected. Okay, how deep were you into the social media before you had to decide? I was hosting two, three times a day. Right. I was, I was like real active on social media. I was interacting with fans, like talking to fans, responding to fans, going live, damn there every day. Like I was like, I was deep in that shit. Right. But then, you know, engagement stopped being how engagement was, like on Instagram and all that. They fucked everybody's shit up. Yeah, fuck everybody's shit up. You know, people don't really use Instagram as much as they
Starting point is 00:42:08 YouTube, Instagram, you know, like Twitter and TikTok, the new apps that motherfuckers really on. Like, a lot of shit just changed and like when it made that shift, I like kind of like fell behind. Because like the world shifted into this like negative space where motherfuckers start making it cool to be a hater. They heard you say that shit. No cap. You can't even address that shit. Yeah. No, the lights, the time, the lights on the timel.
Starting point is 00:42:40 Y'all hate it. They did, no, I'm glad. We did pay the bill, though, them. Nah, yeah, though, like, that shit. They had got to a point where, like, you know, the world had just fake, like, made it cool to be a hater. You get all these spam accounts hating, saying negative shit. You get motherfucking blogs doing more than what the fuck they are.
Starting point is 00:43:00 So she made it become a fun as it was as it was at first. Yeah, it's not as fun, because now it's like, y'all, y'all not even trying to be fun. just being haters yeah for sure that shit ain't like fun y'all being real dick eaters right but you know what you know what i try to do though because since it do have my attention i try to go find shit that i like or find shit that's interesting right so i do that so i'm like i instead of me being on instagram i'm just fend of going to read a bullfuck i'm going to read something right instead of being on instagram i had to unfollow all the blogs niggas ticot all the information i don't
Starting point is 00:43:34 I don't follow everybody down to zero. I'm trying to this day. Yeah, I don't follow everybody down. TikTok way more information. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm trying to ban that shit in the U.S. though. I'm like, yeah, I heard. It's like, I don't want to be on there if they banning this shit.
Starting point is 00:43:49 Like, they're going to block everybody from ban that shit. You have some motherfucking haters. We, like, that's some hating that shit. Why the hell would we ban TikTok? Because what the hell TikTok them did to us? Us in China ain't really that cool. They're going to go to the war with us tomorrow. You heard me.
Starting point is 00:44:04 Tonight, at 4 o'clock in the morning, they're gonna drop up. A nuclear missile, you heard that. My great girl, my girl, man, I can't sleep that. In my real dad lost my stepdaddy, you slept on fighting. My little cut strad on crack sheet number three. Yeah. If I had Tina came out with me in us, not three hunt on,
Starting point is 00:44:23 yeah, I'm fighting. Yeah. Oh, God. Oh, my. Hell, shit. You gotta get on that, dude. Wow, will I. No cat.
Starting point is 00:44:32 We'll go up with that bitch. You know what I'm saying? You pull somebody on that shit already? No, you want to get on? I'm ready to take that shit to the moon right now. Say, let's, nigga. Hit the bird one more time, too. My great-grandma got hit with Draco.
Starting point is 00:44:43 I can't sleep at night. Damn. And my real dad lost my step dad. You slap my fight. Damn. Come on the country. I'm cracking number four years. Oh.
Starting point is 00:44:52 My aunt Tina came back from Vietnam. She all three of her toe. Yeah. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. I come behind that bit like that. Yeah. Yo.
Starting point is 00:45:01 Come on, dude. I'm behind that bit like that. Say, look. Yeah. We got the studio right there in the bathroom. No cap. I'm like, God. Hey, we should go.
Starting point is 00:45:13 Shit, man. Come on, go ahead. Go ahead. Do you think. Come on, man. Go ahead. Do you think. Come on, man.
Starting point is 00:45:21 There ain't nobody's happy in the toilet. I did the Instagram video. That was it. That shit went on, bro. That shit was on everybody, babe. It's still going crazy on that. See them going crazy on TikTok. In sitcoms, when someone has a problem, they just blurt it out and move on.
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Starting point is 00:49:56 the game how to make sure business is right but still stay motivated even if the business ain't right you got to keep focus if I gave you 10 million dollars today would you be happy they said yeah he said would you feel like you're on top of the world they said yeah probably what if I told you I gave you 10 million dollars but you can't wake up tomorrow would you feel still for the same way they said no he said well why don't you wake up every day like that if life is more valuable than money. So when it comes to that. See when I hit shit like that, I think it's a trick.
Starting point is 00:50:33 Why? Because this is bullshit. You can't tell the thing. You can't, you can't tell me like that. Nothing. The limit is we got money. I always try to talk to the money that the money who don't have none, but you can't wake up.
Starting point is 00:50:45 What kind of fucking proposition is that? Nah, this is the thing. No, this is the thing. Give me the money, man. You don't know. How would you feel? How would I feel? How would I feel?
Starting point is 00:50:55 You're saying, though, basically what a nita is trying to trick you, man. He's, he's a phrase. But I'm telling you, boy. Hey, listen, nah, the thing is, though, is basically a nigger telling you like, nigger, don't make this money more valuable than what the fuck you got going on every time you wake up. But you were saying this to motherfuckers
Starting point is 00:51:19 who don't got shit going on. That's a fucked up situation to put somebody in. put somebody in and i think anybody will tell you this though real shit you make more money when you're not thinking about making money and that shit easy to say when you got money right but when you ain't got a nigga got money when you ain't got not listen to that no i not listen by that's exactly how you get money don't get money and then try to convince you can't get money and be like hold on let me get them switch the pay the more if you chase the money
Starting point is 00:51:52 the money the more that shit run away The more you chase that more fucking, the more that shit, run away. I feel like if you're a hustler, you already know that you can get some money. When you focus on the money, you just most of the shit, you're like, when I'm going to get my next check, nigger, I work. I'm not stutting when I'm going to get a next check. I am going to get another check. It's coming. It's coming because I work.
Starting point is 00:52:14 Yeah, like the thing is, when you constantly think about that shit, it's like, it's like sitting and watching the clock. Like, and it seemed like it just take forever for that shit. keep coming. But when you're out living life and just having fun, man, I should be rolling in. I want a lot of life. It's got to be an entrepreneur and be smart. Yeah, man. That be smart. If you got one income, then you're not going to be, you never going to have it. You got one. But see, that's what I'm saying. It's levels to that shit. It ain't just like, well, it's like selling back. It's not as broad. There's the staterhouse. And you got weed, crap, pills. And you scrape. Nigg, you scrape. Niggas so on a nigga come.
Starting point is 00:52:54 Come, nigga, you. You ain't sitting in the nigger up the street and down the street. You one-stop shop. All right, your weed, going to be your bill money. Your bill is going to be your going to out money. Yeah, that's the thing. You got to be more than that. Because there's going to be niggins who hear that and think that you're talking about just drugs.
Starting point is 00:53:10 No, I didn't talk for a little sense. Yeah, I get what you saying. Yeah, I get what you saying. So I'm just trying to break it down the lame in term. Yeah, but whatever you want to sell weed. I'm like, maybe you need you crap. You got to sit there. You got to look at what you're selling and compare it to that.
Starting point is 00:53:24 Exactly. Yeah. Well, how about this? Because this the Greg. You take your weed money and you ask to go buy a dog, a bully. And now you have made an investment. Not only your dog who has spurred or you have a girl dog who can carry dogs. Now if she gets pregnant or your dog be a stud, nigger, you can have more than one bully.
Starting point is 00:53:45 Every dog is $8,000. Yeah, I mean, this is... Now you're starting your business off the weed money, so not a dog money is your vacation. money is your vacation money the weed money to keep shit flowing the dog money is the one you stack on you're gonna move your whole family out of the hood off some goddamn dogs and you ain't got to work you ain't got to think about it mark getting hit with a drako yeah we're right okay ready we film it hey nigg pop your shit hey homie pop your shit homie pop your shit honey yeah we're a player real player Hold up, my nigga, you're being hella boozy right now.
Starting point is 00:54:25 Hold up. Poppy a shit, honey. Uh. You already know what it is. Niggi. Niggins. You don't be there. Throw that shit up.
Starting point is 00:54:34 Yeah. Yep. You pop my pee's gonna want to be. Yeah. I might be. Yeah. It's enough. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:54:42 You brought with. Yeah. Nigg. Look at this. Cookies. Nick. See. You got cookies.
Starting point is 00:54:50 Oh. We got cookies that's a carry-on, nigga. Cuckies, niggins got shake in the bottom. You ain't never had no chocolate chip shake, nigger. What day we're going on? Mugmas, nigger. Fuck you're talking about. Oakland Arena, niggins.
Starting point is 00:55:02 Yeah, niggins. June 4th, 3-headed monster tour on Seethers. Nigger on your baby, nigga. What fuck you're talking about? I ain't never seen your baby. Hella niggas, niggas. Out there. The bitch is already got their tickets,
Starting point is 00:55:15 bitch is already out there, nigga. Hella bitches. Hella bitches, nigger. Not few, but a hella. I ain't never seen. Nika on the town. It's gonna be hella bitch. Oh my mama, man.
Starting point is 00:55:24 Oh my mom. I'm gonna see this, nigga. No cap. And two is not hella. Fuck you're talking about, nigga. Get your tickets, niggins. Yeah. Town business.
Starting point is 00:55:34 Huh? What it is? Three-headed monster tour. And. Show them the cookies, niggas. Oh, mama. Somebody mama's made these. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:55:45 Yeah. Yeah. That nigga ain't on no dog. Who ain't on no dog? I know you got dogs. I know you got to fight that dog for his home. I laid over some jello. I got 15 dollars, man.
Starting point is 00:55:58 What doesn't got dog, you got dogs? You got 15. I'm talking. Dead. English bulldogs. The boy was selling drugs. You're selling no dogs. You got to understand me.
Starting point is 00:56:07 You sell. You go let the dog's for sale. No, what I'm saying is you sell drugs. But this is why I'm a hustler because I sold drugs, but I understood how strategic and serious you got to be to be a you got to be an Afro. I was a, let me tell you some, I was a local joker drug dealer.
Starting point is 00:56:24 I had a couple streets, and I had a couple of streets in other neighborhoods, but that was good enough for me. Yeah. Because you know why? I kept a couple hundred dollars in my pocket, I had a couple thousand saved up, and I ain't about to take care of me,
Starting point is 00:56:35 and I had food stamp, and I put food on the table. I was paying my phone bill, and I'll pay my car insurance, nigger, couldn't nobody tell you. But you were selling drugs to make ends meet. No, I wasn't setting drugs to make ends me. It was for security. I was sending drugs to get off my ass
Starting point is 00:56:47 and start waiting for a handout. Okay. So that's what taught you. And not only that, when I started from scratch with zero, like, bro, no why I can't hear excuses. I don't care, because you can give me an ox cord and a speaker, nigger, I swore and everything I turn this bitch in the best by.
Starting point is 00:57:10 You're right. Because I'm going to take the ox cord and steal a kid and sell it to my partner in them. You see what I'm saying? He saw me, though, like, he saw me. He saw me. While they were doing that shit, I couldn't jump in their lane because that what they were doing.
Starting point is 00:57:26 I tried, but that one of my lane. I needed consistent money. They were out every night doing what they were doing. I was out every four, five months with these niggas. I'm like, I'm still. Right. Damn, man. My man, man, man.
Starting point is 00:57:42 God damn, me. You haven't told you that I sold them. Damn, though. You stole off. But hey. My bad. Y'all ain't supposed to be friends. Y'all are doing two different kinds of crap.
Starting point is 00:57:56 How did they find out your soldier? We're just in two different lane. We were just in two different lane, though. You see what I'm saying? But I see the dedication that the niggins was happening. And I'm like, I need some dedication. I need this whole of shit. You know, you jumped out there.
Starting point is 00:58:13 I'm like, shit. You know, you jumped out there. I'm like, shit. doing it every night and it was times when they leave and forget like oh shit done done now he did tell us to tell him and i got to hear about all the good shit y'all didn't think about i'm like i knew i was supposed to be with y'all y'all y'all hit for how many radio and now i got to come up with my own plan to get me some money you feel because i came by the damn but when i started selling drugs right i was like okay it's my lane it's cool when i
Starting point is 00:58:46 It was like, all right, you need to turn up because they're just about sending grueless. It's what you're doing. Right. Is you stacking money? Like, nigger, I had to literally break down a three, five. It's too intense. Eight times a day. It's too intense, man.
Starting point is 00:59:01 You can't go through the whole drug game. As young kids watching this shit. Oh, yeah. I can't have you know my story. We don't ever know all that parts. I didn't still anything. I'm just saying any documentary or something. I'm gonna let me know how this shit go.
Starting point is 00:59:14 You want to go back drug, back drunk. I had none. 30 cents. I split them up 15 times, sold him for $3 a slap. I had two, three, five. I made six mix, kept some, smoked some, made my money. Because you can't smoke, though, you're going to make some money. I took that man.
Starting point is 00:59:35 Come on. I know a lot of niggas who smoke more than they sell. You see how you turn this into a home? I'm gonna say that again. I know a lot of niggas who smoke more than they sell. Some people only sell wins so they can have enough. So they can have enough to smoke the other half. I don't see niggas put shit to the side.
Starting point is 00:59:51 And I'm like, no, you need to put that with the private. Man. No, that little piece you put on that? Yeah, that's a 60. Put that 60 with the profit. I don't even fuck with niggas who do that, man, because there's so many pets. Some niggas just sell weed just to be selling weed.
Starting point is 01:00:07 A lot of diggas do that. I don't like when the nigger try to put a limit on how much you can get. And I can't even do all that, man. Man, I'm gonna be out. Ain't that the point. I want to buy the other day. Yeah, I can't do that, man. You know what you're piss me out?
Starting point is 01:00:25 Niggas would pull out the scale for a ground. I'm like, niggas, you don't have all that shit, put it in my hand. I didn't ever forgive them, niggas who did that. I remember each and every one of the niggas who ever pulled the scale out on me. And ever since the tapes have turned, I don't fuck with them. You don't fuck with them. No. Yeah, they put my shit on the scale.
Starting point is 01:00:44 scale. This is me, buddy. Hell, trust you. That's me. That's what I suck. That's what I'm saying. That's like, nigga, that's, I feel like a customer at this. He'd be like, he'd be right and the junkie be like, that's it.
Starting point is 01:00:56 I was like, oh shit, let me get you smoke. Don't act like we cool if you know you're gonna go to scale out, me. I suck that that shit. You gave me your whole ball. I don't get your whole ball. I didn't get your whole guy. I didn't get your whole guy. I didn't get your whole guy.
Starting point is 01:01:09 Yeah, that's gonna shit you on that. You're like, man. Yeah. I want the niggie you want to get weed from. If I, you are my friend, you will never get what you're supposed to get. Never. Three five. Never.
Starting point is 01:01:22 You're selling weed three five. Three five. You have two sums so fast. I put it up, I put it in the bag. That niggins has a good bad bad too. I swear to my pocket full of money. I'm like, bro, what the hell is you selling over here to run up for a bad like this, man? That you got a pocketful of money, man.
Starting point is 01:01:43 These are the worst thing. right here I swear guy that was I could smoke for free you want a black boy yeah about like three sacks for me bruh bro out okay chip come halfway fill though listen bro if you I had I had sacks for whatever money you had what you got eight dollar I got a set for eight dollar no cap I got a cent for eight dollars you got a seven no cap I can't take that cell no cap but I give you a knick no no cap hey that was one of the most fun summer that I had around him when they had them goddamn one dime bags was three for ten
Starting point is 01:02:20 oh yeah the fat bad too they fuck the game that that's that shit really piss me y'all that was that zaza fuck the game when I realized he has niggins of loud zaza fucked the game up and I'm gonna be trying to sell my shit for $20 a ground uh-huh and I'm watching my cousin would walk pad me oh I'm so glad them days that that's when there was a weed yeah the nigger of the street was When the old day, when the loud was $20 a gram, there was some, the old day, weed was just, the kind of me was fucked up.
Starting point is 01:02:48 That was the same summer that they shut buckhead down. They $15 of all my shit, god damn. I mean, the day of weed was just weed. You give you the old brink? Nika. Nick, I just want to get high. They want to put out, I had a nigga tell me, this weed here gonna clear sinuses up.
Starting point is 01:03:06 Never been high before. Don't never get high, man. Fuck this shit. They're talking about. This at the time. No, this is tired, nigga. It's 20, 23. This is the time.
Starting point is 01:03:14 No, wait. If a nigga tried to get half nine, 20, 23, cut that nigga loose. Man, cap. We could go to one tonight at 4 o'clock in the border. Get high, nigga. Ooh. It's with China tonight, four o'clock in the morning.
Starting point is 01:03:25 Don't do it. Man, don't do it. Life's some bullshit. Get high. Don't get high. That's just bullshit. Do some shrews or something. You know, nothing too much.
Starting point is 01:03:34 Hell, no. That ain't ain't it. That's the one going to turn the nigga upside down. How you want to do that's, what you've been doing. bro you already successful don't do shit man get hot drink water drink water man man take your own water in the club yeah man keep you some good motherfuckers around you yeah yeah yeah find you two women that love you and get hot that believe
Starting point is 01:03:54 in you yeah too well I don't mean like a little two of them that really fuck with you know orange juice and the cranberry juice that they give and get a bottle I don't trust that shit find you too they don't be having no top one I went to the fire academy they used to always tell us who is one and one is none What? Just anything. What the fuck? That's why you don't need to get high.
Starting point is 01:04:17 No, it's like two is one and one is none. Because look, we used to have to have this rope. And when you tie off your safety route, you have to tie off two safety knots. And then you think you one is enough, that ain't enough. Because two is one. That's my off of Mississippi. And one is none. So.
Starting point is 01:04:34 Having one hole too close to have no hole. Yeah. Because you find you. Huh? You learn out of Mississippi. Yeah. No cat. Don't act like you can't learn shit in Mississippi.
Starting point is 01:04:41 I don't want to lie, no. I ain't gonna say. I learned a lot of shit in Mississippi. You know everybody. I learned for a little actual fact that fact. Meat is indeed greasy. Where you're from? Some place that I start with a beat?
Starting point is 01:04:54 Why, what the fuck would it start with me? What type of game related? You got some location, shit? Yeah. I'm from Oxford, the good part. Oh, okay. I'm from the sedative part. It's real nice up there.
Starting point is 01:05:05 The grass, real green. Really? Yeah. I thought you had like that. We got money up there. I'm from the projects. This was before the stimulus came through. So like nice.
Starting point is 01:05:17 I'll tell you my story. We came up out the project. This is a great story. I don't like telling people how it happened, because it made so many movies about it. Niggas and think it's unbelievable, right? Like I started out in the projects, though, right? But I was never poor.
Starting point is 01:05:32 I just, that's why my family was just from that side of town. So I always had, like, it was real nice on my head. Lottery ticket. It was as ghetto magnificent, is the word. I don't know a couple of friends like this. Stayed in the hood, but you didn't really feel the shit. I mean, I'm talking about, nigg, we weren't feeling no pains. We wouldn't feeling nothing.
Starting point is 01:05:51 We weren't missing no meals or no lights. It wasn't nothing, no shit like that. I'm living in a man. Oh, hey, yeah. I come from a bloodline of ghetto royalty. There ain't nothing wrong with that, no. Yeah. Good luxury.
Starting point is 01:06:09 No, we were never fucked up. We were fucked up. I didn't realize I'm fucking up to it. I got out of it. I was like, damn. Right, so I got older, nigga. I used to come visit my park in Atlanta, bro. This nigga was homeless.
Starting point is 01:06:21 I stayed with him for a whole summer. This nigga was homeless the whole summer. Where the fuck you're staying? In a van. I'd be like, bro, I'm tired. He'd be like, shit. Go back there. Go back.
Starting point is 01:06:32 Yeah, we brought around for hours. We'd ride around for hours. That's what happened. Listen. And then my niggily, I'm like right not know you were homely. I just told the other day. That you were really, you know, you're dumb in here, you ain't. I'm like, part, you were homeless.
Starting point is 01:06:50 I just put it together, you put it together, you were homeless. We were in the van, we were put it up in front of people how we never went in. We put up, he's like, yeah, you're great go-mom. I'm like, that was suck. Every home we get told him, I'm sleeping. He got the same answer. Go on back there and let your head. Look, go on lay down, man.
Starting point is 01:07:13 That's it. That's funny, right. I promise my devil would hold something I did not know. I had no clue. Damn, I hate you had to go through that. We were never fucked up. We were fucked up.
Starting point is 01:07:25 No, we looked straight. My mom was a hoarder, boy. Didn't give him . I'm like, I told him I was going to pay it. I'm like, that ain't, that ain't going to keep it on, no, baby. Like, you told him, you were no parents, did you? I told him. But we're better one bullshit, no count.
Starting point is 01:07:44 You couldn't. I didn't know, bro. First time with this, nigga, how. He ain't like, they were horrid for real, bro. Like, when you walk in through that nigga house, it's like you scaling the side of a builder, bro. Because this shit on every side of his house, bro. Okay, okay.
Starting point is 01:07:58 Like, dead ass. Niggas scared. I ain't know how you felt about it, my little one. That's crazy. You know we want to get that out of this. Listen, listen, listen, because he was saying it. I never heard this. He was saying it.
Starting point is 01:08:12 Listen, he was saying it, but I didn't believe that shit like that. He's like, Ray, I'm telling, man. You don't want to. Well, he's the type of nigga, if you come outside, he's like, bro, go give me some water. Go give me some water. Get hot outside. I'm like, we need got no cups.
Starting point is 01:08:26 He's like, man. He's like, man. He used to be lying like a motherfucker. I'm like, bro. Oh, no, bro. Go give me some water. He's like, we ain't got some water. bowl. That niggum like wick. Put the water in your hand.
Starting point is 01:08:45 Bro. Go ahead, bro. The niggins ain't want to do nothing for you back at day, bro. I was like, God, leave, bro. I know you don't want to do it. I know you don't want to do it. I know you don't want to do it. I'm like, you need you stop walking up there. You're not that way. This thing they got, I was like, I got those saints? That's like, we ain't got those saints.
Starting point is 01:09:08 Y'all got some ice cream, that one guy. For real, for real. We ain't got a house, for real. We didn't got that. Ah, ha! I just be like, that thing, you get on the ass, God. D.C., man, fuck that.
Starting point is 01:09:20 Man, fuck that. That thing was different, man. That thing was solid by his shit, go up. No, man. I grew up in the Clint's house I ever been in my life. I would love stand there. We had all that shit.
Starting point is 01:09:31 No doubt. We had all this shit, bro. I love that. I'm for a project, too, though. Yeah. You're stupid, bro. That thing would be dead ass here and don't want to do nothing with your ass. We'll walk up the screen, me here, how's, and be like, hey, bro.
Starting point is 01:09:46 I'm thirsty. I ain't got to say that. I ain't got to throw those shit up in here. You don't give me some of that. I don't know. My dad did drop out. My dad did drop out. He's gonna spit him up.
Starting point is 01:10:04 I thought he'd come around. That man, he's got an uncle, and no other than to him. He's gonna do with your uncle. He's gonna be walking out of the street, he's just like a regular break. Then 10 years later, but you know that my uncle. That's your uncle that you're walking around. Yeah, man, I just ain't what to tell him about.
Starting point is 01:10:21 That man, he was like, nephew, he's like, hey, eh, eh. Hey, yeah. That ain't you with that shit. Y'all have a hell of a hell of crack ride. Ain't drinking. You're big a Jay-law and that bitch. He's going to rock all that dick to death you. He said, what are the fuck?
Starting point is 01:10:36 That guy, boy, he's going to death you outside. What? Oh, shit. That's a story, bro. That shit be funter, bro. He, he's stupid around. These motherfuckers are crazy, man. Wow.
Starting point is 01:10:54 No, for real. These type of niggies need to be around for you right to say that, so. No. No, no, I don't need to run no sad ass on. I don't need to be around y'all. We didn't know what's sad. Y'all need to trouble. How to fuck we trouble?
Starting point is 01:11:09 We won't fuck rats no more, my boy. Shit. What's all the fuck we trouble? Y'all need to trouble. I ain't trouble. Yeah, I need trouble. Let me hear the next song and talking about you about to get married and shit. Hey, I don't sport it.
Starting point is 01:11:25 You're going to get married game? Nah, oh, no, that isn't it? I don't sport it. Don't do that. I'm going to get married, man. I want to walk down and I with you. Man, hell no, nah. I ain't gonna say hell no.
Starting point is 01:11:44 Now what she's saying on 85 star two. Uh-oh. You're both going to get down. He's fucking married. Hey, I'm going to marry. You can say I this bitch. That's my accent. No, I said, yeah.
Starting point is 01:11:56 Right. But it's a problem really. No. You got to pee, nigger? No, hell no. Wow! You stop her! Oh, he went to go get some sugar.
Starting point is 01:12:04 Nick, grab, too bad shit. Yeah, oh, we grabbed the plane snacks. Cheetos and Frito. Ain't the niggins he ate plain fri-doh? My name you. This isn't what I meant to grab. You did, he used to make your own sandwiches. I meant to grab the other shit.
Starting point is 01:12:18 I'm gonna get the plane. He grabbed Cheetos and Fritos and too much. He got a sandwich. I'm trying to grab some Doritos. I want to fucking say, the original, the corn, dude. You need some Dorado. I'm going through something over here.
Starting point is 01:12:36 Snacks getting low. Y'all, the other month. Yeah, that make a difference. That ain't never seen a nigga smell a candle off the page. That's a little bit. You got some stuff, bitch, isn't? Y. That ain't the one that's the real heavy center.
Starting point is 01:12:50 Yeah, I'm like, I don't know that's. Y'all, I'm gonna have the good shit. What are the good candles at? Originally and calling chips. Which one? 320 cats. You fuck with that? Fuck with that.
Starting point is 01:13:00 Yeah. Wow. Where? Go ahead. Oh, we got you some shit. Pitos. Whatever. Cheetos.
Starting point is 01:13:09 Oh, you got those too. Oh. Oh, yeah. You know I know about Sepritos. Okay. Bucker ride me and as a cheetah. Okay. Okay.
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