The 85 South Show with Karlous Miller, DC Young Fly and Chico Bean - Valentine's Day with Sheneka Adams | Ep. 9

Episode Date: February 12, 2016

In the name of love and the female perspective, Karlous & DC invited Sheneka Adams (@iamshenekaadams) to the show to discuss Valentine's Day. She takes on all topics with no filter. Tune in. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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85. 85. And it's spelled everything right. Oh, everything. Why, Siri do not fuck with me. Bro, my phone get over here. I'd be like, call mama calling her probation officer. Hell, no, that's not who I want.

They're not who I want. Why didn't? Thank you to the game. I had to turn that shit off. Come on with ghetto. I ain't hell Siri. I got Sharita on mine. Called Mother.

Mo. Who the fucking Mo? Okay. I don't know, man. My Siri is a man and he understands everything. So your Siri name, serious? A nigger said the nigger understand better. He do.

He did. He really does. He really does. The woman doesn't understand. Sergio. Oh, are we live in this bitch yet? Hey, welcome to the 85 South Show. It's your man, Don Gris.

That ain't my fucking name. He would say Don Quine King. I was going to say Don Grissel, but who the fuck is Don Grissel? I don't know. That's what shit you made up. I know, man. You know who it is then. It's a nigga who's making up names.

It's Carlos. What's happening? Fly you back. Hey, man, I'm back. Get my nigga to claps, man. Give me some. Get my nigga to claps right now. sound man drunk

I am y'all sound man drunk as hell mother-in-law's favorite son boy hey we don't been in the top ten every week for real are we top ten man we out here

fuck you mean I don't even know if we are that shit just sound good all I do is promote that's it they just be like we doing numbers y'all check this out bro when we first started this shit

yes what were we you was doing the other movie yes I was now you doing the other movie Yeah, it's editing now Nick, you're the new Bobby Brown of these streets, boy My paragonetam

Ain't I walk around No draw Just like Bobby What the hell In sweats I let that print show It's Valentine Day You got to

What the hell I let that print show You got to print For Valentine's Day Show the print Put the medium draws on The day fellas No you got to put the small ones on

Put the little ones on Man It cuff it Be proud of your dick man Cuff it I'm telling you Yeah your shit Do what work for you

Don't do it for others. Happy Valentine's Day. Guess who we got in here today, man? You ain't going to believe this shit. Who? People don't believe me and you know real people in the real world. Let them know. Man, this is my home girl right here.

Your home girl. Man, she then made $13,000, 866,000 new followers. Who? With her new weave line. Man, what, a black woman that own her own weave. You know she's bawling. The nigga Adams is in here. We here.

What's up? Cheneika. What's up? What is going on? Everything. I'm so glad you here. I've been sending you rude messages for the longest. I just got one quick.

What? Where do you find all this hair? India. So it really do be bitches selling their hair. Yeah, they go. So you got a bitch right now with a red dot in the middle of her forehead. Stop that shit. Wait.

You don't get a shot. No, they sacrifice their hair because they believe that. you know, it does some good. So it's a part of their religion that they sacrifice their hair. You found a hundred women to volunteer. How did you come up with that number? I'm just saying.

There's a billion people just for her company. She found a hundred. Hey, so you found 100 people to volunteer your hair. They have. Yeah. And you sell it. Absolutely. They trust you.

Go on in business with you. Yeah. They trust you. Jules. Well, see, the Chinese people had the plug for the long time. Hold up, hold up, before you break down the game, because I know there's a lot of sisters listening, like, bitch, I need my own weed, too. How you do that? Look, break it down.

Break it down for the hood right quick, how you made your transition, aka the come up in the hair game. And why? Yeah, what was the inspiration for your own hair line? The money, of course. Of course. I mean, what else? But, I mean, I was making other people money, so I was like, you know, fuck it. why not do my own thing?

Right. And I didn't do it by myself. I don't want to be one of them people that's like, oh, you know, because I turn five. You better give your award speech. You got to say, thank you. No, I got to give props to the people that helped me get here because I didn't do it. Yeah, God. God.

And the people that helped me because I didn't do it by myself. So do you use your own product? Absolutely. I'm running it right now. Okay. I was doing a little research. The we've been doing, do we've been jumping out the gym since day one. What?

Look, I study. Tell me if I'm right The weave doing good The hair doing good It's the closure The closure The closure That's the new crack

That you said I have on one now What is that? I wouldn't have never knew What is that? Oh Bro she got She got the convertible

She got a wade cap on It's a weed wade cap on It can come on I take this whole thing Off at night And I put it back on So if your man So if your man

Would have been in you Since today is Valentine Day And your man would have been hit you from the back And with a grip See, I'm a man that like scalp And I would have grabbed this scalp And I would have grabbed my bitch head Pull it back

Do the noise again One more time That's when it's in there You know what I'm saying The extra inch in the house That's when it gets in there And you're telling me If I would have pulled that weed wave cap off

I would have just kept it in my hand And rodeoed that motherfucker Yeah, it comes right off Damn That was so dope Do it like, is it tight? Don't do that again. I'm too happy.

Do it again. Ah! I can't. You're crazy. Hey, man, that's hilarious. She got another wave to cap under it. I have on two wave caps, actually. Do you know why that's funny to me?

I do it. Because I know it's some chick somewhere. They're not even going to have the hairstyle. She's just going to have that little part. That's it. Like, literally, it takes me two seconds to get ready. But you got to find the skin. Because your split is perfect

And it matches your skin So we're thinking it's your step No I have on a stocking cap And then it's my hair And then I just lay it down And it hurts You know

Like it looks She got a white stocking cap I don't know To match her skin tall I just keep saying The bald head chick With that the cover You know what

No no no No Looking like blinds It's gonna look too Oh stop Listen to me Give me a water That was beautiful.

I mean, my boyfriend was very, he was very, like, he almost passed out when I first took it off. Amen. Because, you know, we met, and he was like, damn. Then I got home and I took off the wind, and he like. You got to warn me. You got to say, babe. This shit finny get arrested.

Like, how did you do it? Did you, like, did you surprise a tech? Or did you just lay down and try to act like? I was like, shit, my head hurt, and I just took it off. For real? You ain't tried to prep them or nothing. See, that's, I am. You got to.

You have to. You have to accept me. You have to accept me as I am. Y'all better stop getting so damn comfortable, man. But have you ever, like, hit shit up on that shit, like money? Yeah. I say for your lad, love, huh? I hid blunts on here before to go in the club.

Wow. Shout out to all the ladies. Shout out to all the ladies that were had a blunt in her wig. I did. For her man in the club. And where you do, when you went to the bathroom and took it out? Yeah, I just took the wig off and took the blunts from on the area and back in the party. If I ever hit a big head.

Because they're not going to pat my head. If I ever hit a bitch head. again. I know it ain't breaks. Ran off on the plug twice. Nick, be like, bitch, I know I had a 3-5 in. Where is that? My nigga, I'm going to be starting checking their whole head. Come here. Come here.

Hey, man. Now you got to start checking their weed before they leave the crib. Oh, man. That's a corn row. That ain't going to be one to pat down there. That ain't no corn row. That's a 3-5. Bro, we just went into so much game right then.

Oh, man. There's a whole, I never knew that they were sneaking stuff in their hair. Now you know Shinnik. Well, they're not. but I probably am the first person to do it. Oh, no, you ain't the first. Probably not. You just told the truth.

Are you going to venture off and start selling some of those new male male hairlines too? I actually do have men that have purchased hair pieces from me. I ain't said, none. I'm talking about them. Like, have you seen, like, them new LeBron James, Jamie Foxx hairlines? They got brand new hairlines every time you see them. No, I think that's surgery. That's hairplant surgery.

You know what you all have, you know, y'all remember you used to go skiing. They used to have them little skate covers. I swear that will remind me. Can you do it one more time, Can you look into our camera and show them? No, uh-uh. And show them. You ain't going to show them?

This shit, this shit, this is we selling your product? We haven't been selling a product. This is the new closure from the Shinnika Adams collection. I hate you all. No, the wicks are good for people that suffer from hair loss and everything like that. And I do suffer from hair loss, alopecia. So I wear wigs. to cover that. What is alopecia?

Alopecia is when you lose your hair and it doesn't grow back in the same spot. So, but how do you get alopecia? I mean, it's just a thing that people get. I know so many bitches alopecia. You're stupid, dude. Well, not everybody don't have alopecia. Some of them just ball head.

Your mama put the rubber bands on too tight. Yeah. But now, a lot of women do suffer from it. You're stupid as hell. Do you see why I can't take this nigga no way? I thought he's got alipia. You're a little niece name alopecia. Stop that shit.

Why are you playing? What do you mean? No, I'm not. I'm, get what? I'm proud of your baby and I'm glad that you you found the way to get you some money, you know what I'm saying? Absolutely. And build yourself confidence back up.

That's dope as hell. That's dope as hell. We game. Bro, that shit is too funny, man. We've, shout out to all the ladies out there who got to close your game together. Absolutely. Then shout out to the ladies out there who need they have done.

And if you do, that's what we do here, Shinnika. We give people. Drop it one more time. Sadams Collection.com. Hell yeah. That's what we do here. They still laughing about this. Look, they're dying.

They are dying. I'm telling you, we did not know shit about closure. We mean. It was the real of shit. I never seen. That's why we brought you here because you always keep it real. Do you know how many of these I sell a week? Are you kidding me?

What's a guest estimation? Just, I, hundreds. Hundreds. At $120 a piece. Guess how many you're going to sell after this podcast come out? A thousand. One more? Thousand.

That's what's up. Thousand, man. We're going to make sure of it. But I was saying, on this show. I'm about three. You know what people have been sending me the feedback on fly? Alopecia. They love when we give the shoutouts, the random shoutouts, man.

Drop some shoutouts right now. First of all, I'm going to give a shout out to my little niece. We got alopee. Shout out to DC Young Flatneese I can't That's it That's it It's about a time day

Okay Shinnika Give some random shoutouts I want to shout out To my Uncle Earl He got gout Oh shit But he's all right now though

Oh okay You're in my prayers I love you That's what's up So Shinnik I made a promise To all the dudes That I know on social media You know what I'm saying

You know We're tired of you ignoring us We know you got your little boyfriend But that ain't gonna stop us from making you promises. Is he smart? Is he like one of the old nerd-ass? Because I told all the thirsty niggas I was going to tell him.

Look, just because you got a boyfriend, that is not going to stop us from leaving Thursday's comments on your pictures. Definitely not. Pull up on Instagram. Pull up on Instagram. You've been fine since you was a man. I got to see.

Do she be in bad to see? Been a fan before she even met this nigga. I'm more professional now. I have a business. I don't be a on naked. Why this nigga, why this nigga is selfish, though? Your boyfriend? He's not selfish.

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Bro, you can't go in the audition with your hands. Oh, okay, I feel like that. Just thinking I got to shave his back when I get back home, too. You're going to shave your nigga back? You're going to hit the balls, too? Goli. You shaved your man balls? Gargoyle.

Yeah. He's going to have to marry you. Hey, I ain't even going to lie, though. You know, you know, them hairs, like right up under the balls. Them the hardest to get. Them all for dirty, Jake Cole. But they're the hardest to get. He didn't ever just look.

He'd be like, damn, look, that brown shit. You still. I ain't. I'm not. Bro, you got mud flaps. Bro, it don't matter how much you clean them, bitch. That dirt from years, nigga. I don't get what you.

You know what that's called? That's the struggle. I be in the rule. I be in the rule. stretching that shit trying to scrape me that shit ain't coming on

what the fuck is that you see what I have to deal with on the hey man this is the 85 self show ain't no fucking telling

what you might on her hey it's bad at that lady check that check that put in shout out

to all the ladies that shaved their men's backs so like I was saying on behalf of all

the thirsty niggas worldwide sometimes sometimes you're gonna have to just take

a few that's her that's her that's me I'm all natural that's you too that's her she's been like

that since the first day she came But like I was saying, y'all go ahead and talk. One day, you need to take one day and just respond to all the thirsty niggas

who've been leaving your comments all year round. I told him I would tell you and you'd take that back to your boyfriend. I'm glad you're one of the women who taken up a bill. You know what? You got my respect for that show. His niggas reading the Instagram comment.

Go ahead. Y'all keep talking. So, speaking of Valentine's Day, why don't you get a fella some time? God, damn! God, damn! You're just going to leave comments. comments on the show.

Go ahead. Do you think. He's the vocal comment. Yeah, I know. Hell up. Let me give you a minute. It's you. That's her.

Yeah. Yeah. The damn, damn. Shit. Somebody put that song on there. I think it's a church song or something. That ain't fake. No.

My body is 100% natural. Can you please give the women to speak on it? Let's speak on it. Please give the women. Because it's Valentine. I know it's a couple of nigs out there that hanging them brick asses and sucking on the brick-ass tities. Uh-huh. On them fake-ass tities.

Can you please tell the women what to do to get it to get a body like this um a lot of corn bread and anal sex anal oh I'm just gonna be real anal yeah slow down so hey hey cat can hold up hold up stop can we get some soft music you got some real soft

we need something there you go turn that down a little bit set the mood corn bread turn it down a little bit hold on that's the recipe so look everybody on this Netflix and chill shit So what is this cornbread and ain't a sex talking about

Well Turn the love song go I want to get gutter You got no You got no boosts over there Everything is real My cousin You know why

I think my titty's big for real Let me just put it out there Because my step sister told me that if I rubbed butter on my tities And ran around the table five times They would grow

And then they did I did it You all hear that Get you one on Ladies What kind of butter was it Baby, you heard that? She said

What's you say? You got to rub butter on your boobs. We're going to get some butter. Run around the table five times. We're going to do it 20 times. We're going to super fast. That's the code to unlocking tithes. What type of butter?

We're going to get all the damn butter. We're going to blow them tities up. No. What if it was going to blow? I can't believe it was not butter. You know, the butter that I use, you know, like, at your grandmama house when they have like that old old. I want done, nigga.

Oh, here you go. Thing back in they refrigerated with the butter. water in it? That's what I use. And the brown. She's taking it in the ass. Wait a minute. Shada says she's taking it in the ass. Hold on.

That's how you get your ass. I just put it in the push. Get that thine fat. I can't. Taking in the ass. So with this cornbread anal sex. Yeah. Does one have to make the cornbread or is?

And does one have to really put that shit in your ass? Yeah. I make my own corn bread. We can't put a finger. Any point is you want to give the ladies on Valentine's Day for this? Some ladies is going to hear this shit and want to try. She already doesn't say to Carlos. Eat cornbread and get fucked in the ass.

Yeah, but it's not that simple. What else you got to do? You know, you got to ease it. That's why I was trying to ease into this, because I was just trying to. Like, I didn't just like that. Like, I wanted everybody to just breathe and relax before I started. Because, you know, I ain't going to push.

I'm going to let you push. You push back. I'm just going to stay here. I know the rules. So you don't fuck in the head before. Just like your mixtape, you don't supply pressure. You just stay there. You know what?

I ain't fucking in no ass. But I have. There you go There's nothing wrong with it I'm in a new gang I'm in a new gang though I ain't fuck no ass I ain't like how you tried to flex though

When Because I did see you post that you And eat a booty game Oh I'm deaf to tell I'm part of eat booty game Yeah well I would say you were flexing though You know we keep it 100 on the 85 South show Baby didn't I take it down with that shit

I check out You're gonna bring the booty with you I did I brought the booty to work That what happened when you When you eat the booty you bring the booty To work So bro hold up

No it really it follows you So hold up bro Rudy follows you. You didn't ate ass and now you're going around like, I just ate ass. Come here, tell him. Let's just her right here.

Bro, I was one of them, like, bro, I ain't doing that shit. It really won't like. You're going to talk about it? Yeah, I'm going to talk about it. Describe, go slow. Take your time. Set it up.

Fellas, it's not playing. It's not playing. It's kind of like you, you, you, you lay on the bed, you lift the legs back. You put your hands under that ass. You lift it up like a platter. Yeah.

So you, you. That's when you smell. They ran's dressing. No, listen. You eat the pussy. You eat the pussy. Before you know it, you didn't even know that the booty and the pussy was like a centimeter. They're next door neighbor.

They're not even though neighbor. They're roommates. They live in a duplex. They're there. They always, she's been in the house. You just ain't know. You thought it was a closet. The pussy stay upstairs.

The pussy stay upstairs. The booty is in the hallway. You just ain't know. You feel it. They're right. So before you know, I was like, what the fuck is that? I'm like, shit, I'm here. I'm here now.

Shit, ain't no turning back. Right. And when you realize what they do to them, you're like, damn, I've been missing out the whole time. Hell yeah. I'll give you a Spanish nickname if you eat of a booty. That shit sped me time because I'm about five minutes or fuck in me. So that just spared me a couple extra minutes. Right.

So I'm good. My sex game doesn't win up. A whole four moments A whole four moments You're a 10 minute fucker Get my nigga to claps right now Give me the claps right now No I've been to 10 minute

I eat the pussy for 5, my 15 Go y'all How long should a nigga fuck On Valentine's Day? She's fucking ass with shit She's gonna say all night Valentine's Day is special So

You get the same shit Like January 30s bitch You gotta fuck for an hour Because it's Valentine's Day? No, not just because it's Valentine's Day I mean for me That's what I want How many nuts you bust?

Five? On Valentine's? five or more so it take you at least five so it take your man an hour to get you five no it don't take him a hour how many how many nuts i make you bug like in the little four five i give she just shook her hit that's right that's right he did whatever you say she gonna agree with didn't i make you nut 36 times yep damn show she gets 12 exactly i don't give it down how many how many time that body shake i'd be counting count 12 yep that's what's up no that shit So look, D.C. just started eating booty.

Any points you want to give him? You can't give me shit. No, but I'm eating the booty. From a woman's perspective, it might be different. Yeah, I got to learn. I got to learn. I got a few points. You out there? You're out there.

You just said, fuck it. You feel me. I might be sending like 20 bags for 10 right now, but once I get my hustle on, I'm going to find out that they're 20 bags. And I'm going to be getting my money. Right. Yes.

So when did you, Shinnika, when did you understand that cornbread and, anal sex was just the way to go. This is my last question about this. No, we got one more question. There ain't no way you can just say some shit like that and expect me not to say nothing. What the fuck you mean? Walk up, you were asleep?

No, I mean, when I woke up and looked in the mirror and I was like, oh. This is working. That shit ain't working. It's just, you were skinny hair back in the day. You know, some people just sprout later. Getting fucking in the head, don't give you no fat ass. Yes, it does.

You're going to be having a hole out of the fat asshole looking like an app pile and they ass flat as hell. It spreads. Maybe they're just not getting hit right. Okay, so this is Valentine Day. What are the dudes and don't to approach a woman? Yeah, this is going to be good. I just want to know.

I just want to know. I just want to know. I mean, for me, when a guy approaches me, the first thing... She says, fuck me in the ass. No, the first thing I look at is a guy's teeth in his shoes. I'm an oral person, too. I look at each mouth. Niggas with no shoes just lost hope.

Like, fuck it. No, I look at a guy's teeth and his shoes. And that tells a lot about a person. Like, if you care about yourself or not. When I meet a woman, the first thing I look at is what condition are her tithies in. That tell you everything you need to know about it. If you meet a woman that's 24 with some saggy ass breasts, leave her alone because she irresponsible.

She couldn't even take care of them tities I don't That's my gauge I mean my boobs don't sit up to my chin I didn't say nothing about sitting up to your chin I know because see look I was real good at geometry So I know the natural slope of a titty

Like if I see your titty beyond your natural slope I gotta but you know what I hate them tities You know how you might see a bit with some big tetties But you know how you can Like she got that bubble Where it's not in the bra Right Like some whole shit just sick.

You're like, damn, you got some big-a-titties, but up here, it ain't even feeling the goddamn, the top part of your, bro. Yeah, you ever seen them untie titties? It looked like you got two packs of cigarettes and some shirt pockets. You ain't never seen? Am I the only one ever seen them? They're just sick. You never seen, like, the lunch lady titties?

Yeah. The Lone lady titty be huge. You're trapped. All in the food and shit. With the little gorilla nipple on. Yeah, nothing but the nipple. Hey. Speaking of Tittis,

I was on media takeout the other day, right? What happened? That's who I seen on that boy. We got to talk about it. Can we talk about it? Who? Shanika. Let's talk a lot.

So Shnika on there, man. Somebody leaked them news, man. Let me see. They stay leaking your news. Why don't you just send them to me? Let me see. And I'll keep them safe for you. Pull them up.

Pull them up. Pull them up. Pull them up. Pull them up. Pull them up. Pull them up. Pull them up. Pull them up, pull them up, pull them up, pull them up, pull them up, pull them up.

Let me see them news. Or you can just flash us right now Well, did you at least like them? Yeah, I saved them But I save a lot of news Let me see the titty that everybody else saw On the neck Can we see them in person?

Yeah, they big. Yep, show them. I lied. So you matter of well, the museum. So listen. What's up? Like, how do you, like, at this point in time, who like you?

Sometimes you just be like, oh, fuck it, whatever. That's how I am now. That's how you handle that shit now? Yeah, like, who hasn't seen titty? You got to figure out how to capitalize. up this shit. I just want to know, is your ad hole big.

Stop. It was intact when I saw it. I didn't see the ass, bro, I don't see a hole who get fucked in the ass when I'm here from the back.

My butt hole is still tight. Shout out to all the ladies. No, because I go to, no, because you can go to the J-Jew and you can sit on this little thing and it'll tighten your vagina

in your butt. Hey, ladies, I need y'all to go to the J-JU. Hold up, man. It will. Wait, wait. Shinnaker, I don't, what type,

what are you fun in this shit? I mean. She'd be scrolling. Excuse me. I mean, what do you find the time in the day to be like? I got to go get my ass tightened up, my lips wax. Excuse me. Are you guys having an appointment so I can get my ass tight.

Yeah, can you insert? I want my pussy to smell like the mountains of Colorado. Actually, you can pick the flavor in the smell that you want to like. Bro, they got a jiffy lube. They're going to be mad. They're going to be mad when they get them real dick extendals. That's what it is. Dick extenders.

They're going to be mad. When they come out with some shit for fellas and them dick is still. Nick, Jack, I'm going to have my shit just coming out of my pants leg. I don't want that. That's just, no. I'm like, yeah, y'all hold these fake ass and tears. Look at this shit.

I got a funner. I feel bad for all the fellas with big penises for Valentine's Day. So what should what do you want to say to the guys who leaked news and shit? Is there any message? Yeah, I think it's whack. it's pretty whack But you had some fire-ass news though

You blessed us But that's why I'm not mad Because they were tired If I had them first They wouldn't They would have never got out No my ex-boyfriend did it Because he's mad

Because I don't want him no more Not my current ex-boyfriend But an old one How do a nigga feel like Hey yeah the world For to see this shit See them titty But then that's what I don't get

You lick the news But then you're the jealous Nigger You don't want nobody to talk to them But you're going to slick the news Make everybody say something. Yeah, not everybody's like, oh, yeah. So now you're saying, oh, yeah, about it.

Let me see. We're going to pull them up. I don't have more pictures in my phone. Shit, they're in here. So what are you playing on doing? Talk amongst yourself. I'll find them for you. Keep the interview going.

What you plan on doing? So I have something special plan for my boyfriend. Let's talk about it. Talk about it. He's never had a threesome. Oh, shit. It ain't a real threesome if you want to eat the puster, though. Okay, whatever else?

Yeah, I know. Don't just be in the threesome. Be in a fake threesome. I'm like, ah, I suck the titty. Happy birthday. No. So I went and booked one of the Instagram models. Oh, shit.

They're selling pussy like that. How do you know which ones selling pussy? Because I'd be trying to see which ones got to look at planes. It's a secret code. They're called. Text me. Tadish angels. They're pretty cool people.

I ain't going to say that. Oh, shit. There you. You ain't about to believe this shit. What? D.C. Young Flap. But let her finish what she was talking about. Okay, all right

You, we're gonna get that Okay, okay Go ahead, finish You gotta have a threesome So my boyfriend's never had a threesome So I booked us an Instagram model Mm-hmm And I went and bought me some lingerie

Oh shit, boy And it's going down And it's going to fuck Damn It's going down That's what she's going to For her nether I'm just a real husband

I'm giving my girl The eye y'all Because it's going to I don't even want to participate I just want to watch though Oh, she don't even want to participate But she doesn't want to watch her man, fuck this shit out of another bitch. What is wrong with you?

We're going to try and accept that we don't keep it on with you. They're 85 South, baby. That's what we do. 805 South show, man. This is, wow. You're all crazy. But y'all don't do that. I try to keep this.

Don't do that. This program. It'll keep your relationship. It's real. Turn it up. See, that what happened. There we go. Oh, shit.

We back 85 South show. D.C. Young Fly. Fuck you mean. Fuck you mean. You mean. I mean what the fuck? The mean of the fuck mean. Yeah, yeah, man.

You're a crazy-ass-nick. We're in here with Shannika Adams, aka. Assums. Assum. Ash and corn bread. Shinnika Asim. What's up? Hey, Shanika.

What? What's going on? Not everybody wants some cornbread in this bitch. We've been sitting here. So what do you do if your man don't want to put you in the ass? Would you be like, oh. shit she better hit me on Instagram and be like this nigga tripping

why are you so angry no see you don't do I ain't in the move for that shit today so you even have sex even when you're on your period because the ass is just always available this nigga is retarded man babe we still have sex

look I'm not drinking water around this ignorant and person man. Hey, what I used to? So, shinnaker, tell us about, give us the whole rundown

of this, this Valentine's Day surprise shit. Okay, so, like I said. Like you said. My man's never had a threesome before. Never. How old is it, first of all?

He's 44 years old. That nigga deserve a threesome. I'm going on the highway. Get this man some claps. Get that man to claps. Yeah, he's 44. Yeah, he's 44. He's all of you.

I'm 26 And I'm his sugar mama I get a twisted Shout out to the boss bitch's wife and niggins Yep First of all You 44

Am I on? No, she's 26 Hello I'm 26 Hello knock Who's there I'm 44 of y'old And the 26 year old

At the house Right And this 44 year old ain't never had No threesome Ever He must be a decon at the church Nigger

She knows with Dick of Johnson Brough I don't start Dick of Johnson He said, see Shinnika ad. You don't fart in the ass, this bitch. Why, you're stupid as hell, bro. That's a lot of farted in the ass.

Boy, you're stupid. This nigga, this nigga is 44. You can't have no threesome with him, Shinnik. I mean, I had to take two days off work. Hey. What's going to do with you, Larry? Shit, fuck around with Shinnika. Hurt my whole side, slip on that bitch wrong.

That nigga chart's going to be filled. What? I'm like, damn, d'ap, dicking Johnson. Oh, I like that. She's on the side of the bed. Oh, babe, everything gonna be better. She's a nigga out here killing these old niggins. I love, I love old men.

For real? Why? You like old balls? Because I have daddy issues, motherfucker. God. You don't get, like, uncle. She got a dad-ass shit. She got a daddy issue.

Is you on the nigger life insurance? Yeah. Oh, we got a killer in the building. We got a murder. Everything. In the building? In the building? For real?

I'm on it off. Yes. So look, let's talk some shit. What? Let's talk some shit. Feta attraction. If we see Shinnika on feta attraction, I'm telling y'all. Let's tell you all.

Shnicki, you know I'd be fucking with you on the social media. Everybody knows I like old men. My ex-boyfriend was 42. Well, yeah. You're 26. Like, don't you know these nigg was almost dead? Don't you know these niggins almost dead? Like, you can't have no future with a nigga who's about to die?

You ain't never been fucking an old-ass man and was like, this nigger been out here fucking holes since records was out. You don't never, you don't never think. I like to, I like to, I ask them about their sex stories. You got to hear about it. You're 20s and he's 4 to 4. So when you were born, it was a nigga, 26, like, I'm gonna fuck the shit. I hope when she gets old.

Right. He was looking at you like, this is a pretty ass baby. What the fuck? I'm telling you. In 89, shit, I was born in 89. He was. He graduated. He was a grader school.

That thing was in grad school. That thing was in grad school with your ass. It was 31 million. Fuck you mean. With three. You ought to hear his stories from 89. Nick, I had an I rock. I had just got home from a National Guard.

I was pimping. I had a two-bedroom and a pit bull puppy. I never forget her. Are you in love with this nigga? I am. We are witnessing murder. I don't care what you guys. See, look.

See, look, I don't know. The bank account. She's going to get this nigga from animal free and kill this nigga. You didn't hit it. You don't, you got, look. What? On the fucking social. media, right? She didn't post it a picture

with this nigga and blurt this nigga whole face out. There ain't nothing but hands in this nigga picture. That's all you to see. This nigga hands. Nicker hands old as fuck. He got concrete under I don't want nobody knowing about him. Do y'all? He's special. Hey, ladies, if you want to find

his nigga's nigga, he's a nigga with the concrete under his fingernails. He's a great guy. That's what's up. This nigga don't need. I bet you that nigg's still motor on, though. With suspenders. You're stupid. That nigga being suspenders. Look, you are not going to disrespect Mr. Fred on this show.

Hey, he the Cadillator, ain't? Mr. Fred, the Cadillator, my name. You are not. You are not, look. I can't. I should have never told you how old people. But I live in my truth. Who stole my grandma boyfriend.

Yeah. First of all, Deacon Johnson. Deacon Johnson. Shout out to them old school niggers out here still spitting games. No, shout out to the old heads that put you on your life insurance. That's what's up, though. This is your murder. I don't care what you're saying.

She's waiting for him to die. All right. You're in a relationship who's waiting for you to die. I'm not waiting for him to die. D.C. Youngblood. We're going to have kids and everything. My girl is not. If he can have them, you better make sure that shit work.

It works. Trust. You're going to have, you're going to get pregnant by these old nigger. Your kids are going to come out with some shit that they cured already. Your baby going to have polio. On lapitia. I can't. I'm done.

I'm glad. You said, you should name your. child, Lapecia. Lepecia. That's fucked up, man. We named, we named him sick of cell. What's wrong with your baby? Why you, how to fuck your baby get smallpox?

What the fuck? My baby got rickets. What the fuck is rickets? Dang. Okay, let me ask y'all, D.C. Young Clack. I am Shanika Adams. I feel like we in a guy interrogation.

What are some of the signs that you can tell that you in love? When the motherfucker put you on their life Yeah, real shit. When she made the cornbread and put the rest of the butter around my ass, ran off on the plug twice. Literally. For real?

What are some of the signs you can tell you in love? When she started swallowing and you don't even ask her to. When she just come home and take her cut off, like, I feel like looking some balls today. It's like a feeling you get, like, I can't explain it. Where is the feeling start? Put my hand where you feel. I feel like you're in love when you just tell your bitch to shut up in front of her family men's like man shut the fuck up when she just shut up but you know how they're

her family member looking and you're looking at them like I beat y'all laugh that when you in love that is horrible no it's just a feeling like a tingling feeling in my body where is it in your body that's called the devil but you know what I just told him that I was in love with him last week. Oh, that's what so. Shout out to this. Wait. Okay, how long y'all were dating?

We've been dating for almost the year. And he did not put you on your life, when he put you on the life insurance? No, within four weeks. That nigger is real. And she loved him a whole week ago. Flag, tell me how the nigga put on the life insurance. What do he say when he did? Hold on.

What did he say when he put on the life insurance, flat? You were like, come here, baby. Daddy got something to tell you. Now I'm going to pull out this umbrella. Look, what's in this amylobe going to change your life forever? He's going to change your life. He's slid it to it. He said, now listen here, you see that?

Oh, my son is hurt. You see that? Oh, this is yours. When it's all over. Say how they're going to go. When it's all over, all this is yours. No, look here, when it's all said and done. It's all over.

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Yo. Let me tell you some. If I see you going to a wedding within two years, you did it. Bro. I'm going to just say that. But how you sneak the life insurance paper up on your little young bitch? Yeah, we're about to go and take this shit to the next level.

David Buster. Maybe that David Buster. Oh, baby, you bowled so good. Come in, let me show you something. Let me show you what I got. Look, I'm going to need your first in your middle. the name if you want me to put you on this paperwork you see now write your birthday out phonetically that mean you got to spell it Howard town you see this here this right

here when it all over how you call your young bitch in the kitchen like come here I want to show you something you ain't never seen before what's that do y'all go by nickname this is the deed to some property yes yes I call him daddy and like let's call him granddaddy no I call him daddy Paul boy child number three this right here when it's all all over. He can always say that when it's all over. This is yours.

I can't. You got a nigga that's older. My own mama and he got this. She got a nigga that's older than her mama. Yeah, he is, actually. I saw your mama. Your mama in the wheel.

Her mama in the wheel. Bro, I'm 32. He said, look, I didn't erase everything and put you on it. I'm 32. Her mama ain't but like 37 for real. Your mama ain't. It rain, man.

My mom is not 37 for me. Whatever. Nica, I did not know you like the old Nica. What? My ex-boyfriend? I didn't even really think you liked that nigga for her. Her ex-boyfriend is dead. Why not? I did not. Her ex-boyfriend did. Why didn't you think that I liked him?

I did not. So what you thought it was because of the money? No, because I know you and I know like, you got money already. So I was just like, I don't know what the fuck. Maybe he's a great person. But see, I know that nigga. He's a great fucking dude. Who?

My ex-boyfriend. Her ex. I ain't think she liked him, though. Because you're like this one day I thought you ain't like him, right? Because y'all went on a trip. It was you and Carucci. I was on the boat. The sun was all beautiful.

You had on this black-ass bikini and shit. And then the curves was looking good. You had cocoa butter on and the sunset. And then this nigga was sitting over there with just a t-shirt on and some titties. I was like, nigga, you fuck the whole. That shit was like postcard perfect. And then this nigga over there would. And then you could tell there it was titties because you don't see like with a t-shirt

and it took under the t-shirt a little bit. I was like, bro. Damn. Why you just want to let her be great, bro? I love to. That moved in way a little bit. But he's the reason why I have my business. Man, that niggas is a cold name.

You should. Oh, so when you get through sucking that wrinkled dick, you're going to suck the other wrinkle dick. Do you ever look down at these niggins feet while you giving them head? She don't care. Oh, shit. This nigga got feet like he diabetic. She is paid.

She is paid forever. She's going to check, and she always know that we, when it's, It's all over. So you really, you prefer old niggas. Yes. So I've seen you, there's a few rappers on there.

Rappers be sliding in them, in them DMs and shit. And you're skipping right over them niggas. I'm not into rappers basketball players. I'm going straight to the auto mechanics. I mean, I'm sorry,

a regular dude with a 401k. No, you want you about to be dead dude with a 401k with a million dollars to be like that. Too bad. Ain't no old niggas.

There's nothing but a number. It's all about what's in the heart. Let me tell you him. That nigga is six years away from 50 and you four years away from 30 right yeah we're gonna have a great that means you got 20 more years to live

he has one right just think when you 50 this nigga you're gonna be 91 and I'm gonna still be taking care of him you gonna wipe that nigga ass no what it is she getting a nigga that close to me in the scene whatever shit nigga

I don't believe being the union you know I know about all them old for my older guys want a younger girl let me tell you can be gone my dad we both would have been fucking y'all. You feel what I'm saying? Bro, that mean...

That means... I'm watching this bitch. She's trying to kill you. If I was the... Look, that mean, like, say I'm your dude, right? Mm-hmm. At this age right now.

That means my girlfriend is like six right now. Real tip. That's fucked up. I told you when she was born, the nigger was in the baby room. Like, I'm gonna shit out of her. It aren't disgusting when you do it. Hey, somebody,

what do they call women that fuck old? old men. What do they call those women that fucking old? But I'm not a gold digger because I have my own money and I don't need his money. You're on his life insurance.

Of course. He got to make sure me and the kids are straight. My kids. Bitch ain't no kids. Go digger. Chinagga, do you have any advice for the sad chicks on Valentine's Day? Find a man and get on their life insurance.

Um, um, no. It's just going to be a sad day for you all. It's just, it's going to be a sad day for Deacon Johnson when you find out you done killed his head with an free. Flat. You got any advice for the side chicks on, um. Why would you want to be a side chick, though, for real? Why not?

Why? Do you not think you? And I be, I would be so happy if that life insurance is fake. Bro, you can't have. How do you know, you don't, you don't win up on it? You can check that on it. Of course, I know it's not fake. Did you find the policy number and call them?

Of course. I was there when we signed the paper together. You and the lawyer ain't shit. If I'd have been that long I'd be like, Deacon Johnson, I need you to come talk to me by yourself. Fuck that bullshit. I don't know this young woman.

Flah. No, Deacon Johnson, no. What church is he in digging at? You're going to have to fire me, Deacon Johnson. I would not allow you to let this bitch sign this shit. Ebenezer Baptist. What church is here digging at? Ebenezer.

This nigga go to a house church. The church is that used to be a house. Nigger be an auto zone bragging. Yeah, you know, I'm with a Shinikwa. She's all on Instagram. Yeah, Shinigua Adam. You know the one that make them weird. Yeah, she got them wigs.

You know the girl with the piece shit. Yeah, the girl who got the eyebrows that come off. You know? Yeah. Yeah, yeah. She fucked with a nigger. She fucked with a nigga. You know what I'm saying?

I'm fucking with her later on. She on my life. I'm going to put this alternator in and then I'm going to check that transmission floor. Then I'm going to get up with Shinika. I see you diggers later on. Did you put him on your life insurance? No.

Oh. She said. I'm like, no. No, not like that. I didn't mean it like that. Is your mom still saying? Why won't he? Like your life is probably like 100K.

Hook me up. Huck me up. Life isn't that damn important? Probably like 20 Gs. No, it's more than that. Like 40? No, it's more than that. We're really going to discuss insurance premiums.

I can't. Shout out to everybody with life insurance. Exactly. Your worst Valentine's day. A nigga under 30. I should have never told you. You stupid. I don't care everybody.

She is a murderer. Hold up, clap. You don't hold off on murderers. You give them the business. I promise you're going to have a life sentence in between three years. I'm the best thing that's happening to him. I'm going to see her ass on the news. To all the chicks that's listening to the show, where is the best place to meet old niggas?

Bible study. Yeah, turn to you. Church is a good place. Turn to the books of Lord and mercy. Look who's just, God, it's good all the time. How she come up to him? Look, fuck them quirobs. What's up with that dick?

Young lady, don't talk like that in church. If you want some penis, you got to see me outside. We're going to collect the offering for all the fellas who are trying to get in Shinika. Shaniqua? That man is outside for you, Shinikwa. To all my people in the struggle, you think God's forgotten about you. Here's some pain medicine. Kay, you're in shit.

Your ass ain't shit. Chinika, what was your worst Valentine's Day experience? I don't want to know what the funeral show is going to be. You're stupid. My worst Valentine's Day? Yeah. Oh, my God. Tell it.

Couldn't find a skillet to make no cornbreadth. He said no. No. I would not fuck you in the ass. My worst. I haven't had a bad Valentine's Day, though. You never had one? No.

See, you're lucky, man. You're lucky. You're pretty. You had big titties in the book. Shout out to the ugly holes. Who don't have a lot. Like one Valentine's Day. You know what I mean?

You ain't used to shit. No, Shaniqua. It's not about the gifts for me, though. Who still wear the little ponontail on the side. No, side to the bitch you got that pony tail at the top. Much love to all the ladies who got random how on their pussy. It looked like the barbershop flow. Listen.

No. What about the bitch you got hair around their titty? Like the nipple. I hate this. Hey, nigga, one time I was fucking this fine-ass girl, she had a long hair on her nip. I just sucked the titty and bit it off because I cared. I just bit the hell. Nasty nigger

I knew she knew Because she looked at the tit And it was gone I was like bitch say something I'm the nasty one I bid it off I cannot No but listen though

For real On Valentine's Day For me It's not about The gift And how big it is And how much it costs It's about the thought

So what The thought of it What is the thought? Okay like I'm gonna tell you something Thoughtful Did you thought I was gonna get you something

No Like I'm gonna tell you something Thoughtful life For Christmas Like We're talking about Valentine Day Okay

Well for Well, we haven't had a Valentine's Day. I'm just going to, because I know he's going to do something special, so I'm not worried. You sure. And what if he don't? I don't know what if he don't? And if he don't? I'm wrong.

A life of shirt. Nah, damn. What else? I'm looking out for your future. I'm looking out for your future. You won't give us right now or in the future. No. So what going on?

It's just, no. Well, see, he listens to, like, the things that I say. Like, I never had a mint coat, right? So I wanted him. Me either. So he bought me one. But I said that, like, a year. ago. He just saved up enough to get

it. This nigga's smart. This nigga win. You'll buy your girl shit right once she wanted. You buy her shit when she forgot about it. I'm going to remember that men coat? Told you. Who made it happened? He went in his life insurance. No, I'm going to tell you what he's doing. She thought that he's spending the money on her.

No, he's going to the life insurance money. He's going to the life insurance money and spending the money. Everything he's back. It's coming out of the policy. So when he dies, he's going to like, $150. What the fuck is $150? What the fuck is $150. She's going to owe him money when he... Because you're talking about him like he's so old. He's not old.

You act like you're going to show us a nigga with a young face and old feet and it's going change our mind. I'm telling him that nigga's old, be. Old nigga. Yo, son, he's like three years away from being a senior citizen. No, he's mine. Listen, your boyfriend is in the union. That shit is hilarious.

Old niggas are the only one that's in unions. Thank you for we tell. That's old niggins shit. Thank you for telling us. I'm in love. I'm scared to even get a lot of insurance girl. Bit might sneak up there and pull her. After he and that, I'm just about to chill for 12 years.

Just wait for my bitch to get out of high school. Now, I'm going to start asking a bitch. I'm going to start asking a bitch. Look, you ain't with me for my life and shit. For real. Why she wanted stick me for my papers? I ain't got no pictures of us in this time. I know because that nigger, oh, don't show up on the phone camera.

It's just be a shirt. So what old niggas like get you on Valentine? They like, we have the gifts beside our men. Some old niggas. I mean. Like I said, it ain't even about the gift. It's just about. She says she just like to be thought about.

Just, just to let me know that you're thinking about me. I'm cool. Like, it don't have to be nothing. No, that you ain't cool. Yes, it is. Like, it really don't have to be nothing crazy. Like, I'm not even. Yes, it is.

You're a real life and shirt. That's crazy. That's the bad thing. Out of all the shit, out of murder. That is crazy. I'm all fun. My, my sister is not even on her baby daddy and shit. I don't even think my mama was ever on my damn daddy.

Hold up. This is the perfect time. give a shout out to all the bitch that's still using that peach care yes Obama yeah yeah the peach care that's that ain't that ain't

that ain't the Obama care that's the shit you use when you're a single mom man damn oh my bad y'all need to get in these streets get more active in the community well I have Blue Cross Blue Chil

you got Blue Cross Blue Chil yeah you just insured huh you just insured yeah you have to be so you got insurance for her arms

If I ever lose my arms, I got insurance to get some of them. No, you want to know what's crazy because, like, you have to be because I got sick. What was you doing? No, I had surgery. For real? Yeah. What happened? I had to get my right ovary removed.

Damn. I was going to suck that out. It was probably a sign. No, it wasn't. No, I got sick, but just think my hospital bill was like $45,000. Then that niggins showed up with the papers like, bitch, I guess you. No. No, for real, though, it's like, it's important.

it is how you told you never happened again I'm good hey play the clap so Shinnika left over it it's the right one she's got the other one took out it's not she's just the left one okay I understand my sister

it's important to stay in sharing back I'm glad you're back I'm glad you're back I'm glad you back if you need the other one sucked out I do it for you that means she ain't able to live she needs no she don't need an over it you can live without office you can live without her have kids I know you can't live without their life

You can't live without that That shit What's y'all getting your girlfriend Sometimes? Did it? I ain't got no girlfriend So I'm like Did dig and the booty lid

I'm gonna have to What's here? I'll probably get some pussy About February 16th Yeah she gonna wait about two days I'm gonna fuck into it I ain't gonna get I'm not gonna get no

12 o'clock here I'm like I'm not gonna get no I love you pussy I'm gonna get some revenge pussy Oh that's what it is Watch me fuck Carlos That's what's going to end up. True.

I'm going to be the revenge fuck for somebody. I'm going to keep an eye on your ad, though, Shnick. Why? You should. Because I know you're going to be on the news. Hell, yeah. Do you got any new news that's coming out? What?

I can't wait and see. You know, I got that ex-finite. You know your news be dropping like mixtapes? Oh, Shinnika got some of them. That's what I'm saying. I want to see them new titties. I ain't seen them tithes in about three years. Let me say some.

I got them 2016. What them 2016 tits is talking about. You got a better phone and all that. Listen to Mr. Ney. I got that cable where I can pause it now. If I see your ass on the news, I'm going to pause that shit. I'm going to tell you, bring that ass here, boy, and R-I-P to your goddamn husband. Because I know what time it is.

I'm not. Shout out. I'm not one of those. Shout out to all the old niggas who go jogging every morning and still old. Just old, nigga. You came to birthday. So you fuck him or you jack him off. I'm an old nigga.

They just like being touched. very, very sexually active. They don't want to fault. They just touch me right now. No, he'd be wearing me, y'all. I'll be like, God. Just too. Baby girl, baby girl, just get naked.

Look at my face. Look at my face. That's true. He be what? No, he wears me out. No, not. He's done. You say anything since you're on the life and shit.

Oh, big daddy. Wait, wait. You is killing that's pussy. I'm tired. Flag, you got to keep in mind. This nigga been doing the same stroke for 30 years. That's what I'm trying to do. He might be killing this.

He's killing this. He's killing me. He's killing himself. This nigga been in the game for 44 years. He's taking away life span. This nigga's on a 9 on the attributes. Y'all are going to be 44 years old. One day, my bitch's going to be 43.

You damn right. My bitch's going to be 43. Right. That's for you. I like old men. You're right, Chinook. I make a promise to you. When I'm 44, I'm going to be established in life and I'm going to have a young

bitch on my insurance too. I promise you that. Do he fuck you with a person in his hand? God damn, fly. What, will you come on with this? Because I don't trust him. I'm fucking with a pussy in my hand. She's trying to kill me?

No. They've got to make sure. Hey, man. If we got that motherfucker right up on her pillow. We teach each other a lot of things, so we do. We teach each other a lot of things. Like what? Teach us.

Teach me, what you're all teaching over there? I teach him a lot of things. Like what? How to put a picture on Instagram. Look, you press this, Daddy. It goes straight to Snapchat. No, I had to set up his Facebook page and teach him how. You set up his Facebook page.

And teach him how to you. This nigga just got a Facebook page. They ain't been together, buddy, yeah. He just got one. She got to put this nigga clothes on. This is how old he is. He didn't want a Facebook page. Now that nigga real kids going to find him.

Do he got kids? Yeah, his son is 23. Nick, you ain't between 26. Oh, he ain't it on it too. Hey, look, I want you to kill my son. How the hell you're going to get the money and I'm going to put a shit out of you? And guess when his sons calls me, um, mom. Man, he trying to fuck.

What's so with them telling him, mom? See, this is the book I read like four pages and throw this shit out of the world. Why I got a lot? This is real life right here. This is the worst book in the world. His son ain't never said nothing disrespectful to me. You know what? I can't even say that on the world.

Hold up. Hold up. That thing ain't never said nothing disrespectful to you. 23-year-old son, you're 26. Because Carlos, he's the G word. He ain't never tried to fuck you. That nigga ain't real. I wouldn't give a fuck.

I would try to fuck in front of my daddy. Yeah. Keep leaving that home by yourself if you want to, nigga. He respects me. Trying to fuck me, dad She's on a video She's hiding up on the pillow She's trying to break this family up

She's a whole pop She's trying to break the family up They get quiet at the family on at the family Yeah, that they go I was worried though When I first met his family Like if they would accept me being that They're gonna fuck around

And put out of food in your shit But they like me She's playing with Dickie Tommy like that She introducing him to her dad To his dad and his dad And then saw the pictures on that Yeah, that's that girl that was on the, uh, me didn't take out. I see them.

I seen that half. I see, I seen them titties. I remember them titties. I remember them titty. That's that shit. That's that girl. Her name, Shinniko. She'd be doing them video with Gucci Man.

I see him. I can't. I know Shinnikua. Mm-hmm. Oh, my God. Shit, Shinnikua, uh, Adam. It's popping that pussy. Popping that pussy.

She was on that video with a little boozy. I don't think his family knows about those things. Everything is popping that pussy. Man, you're crazy. Everybody knows about that shit. His sisters know. Hey, when your news Lickison an alert in my phone

I'd be like, oh shit New titties I fucked with you You did Until I realized you're a murder I got a whole other aspect on your ass She nigga

It's a lot of women out there That's what I'm saying And they're doing 25 years of life too I get I'm not going to kill them We're going to live a long Happy Prosperous

Did y'all hear that shit That it was a murder line I'm not going to kill We don't live a long happy You prospered his life. Fly, you ever put a check on your insurance? My mama. If you had some insurance.

My mama. My mama. So you will put your girlfriend on your insurance? Wow. My mama. What if you put her on your insurance? My mama. Right.

Shit. I always pointed at that child just for the mind of him. You see that shit. Don't never let me have to use that shit. You got your girl on scared straight. You fucking right. She'd on me if you want to, bitch. Your insurance is over with it.

You see that? I load it. I load it. Rock it back. You see that? Clive. I kid, yo. Yeah, you see this shit?

Let it be you on the other end. Shout out to Bay. I love you. No, shout out to all the real couples out there. That nigga named Gerald. Deacon Gerald. No, he doesn't have an old name. What his name?

I ain't going to say it. A little nigga about to die. Shout out to all the old couples out there. He has a sexy name. Who then got beat up before and still stayed together? Hey, bro, you and your girl ever got into the fight and trying to act like y'all wasn't before the police get there? Ain't no poli been.

By the time. And the police get that y'all are made up. No, that must have been upstairs. That wasn't else now. You ain't even calling the Uber. You at the wrong house. Nick, I turned to Uber one time. Me and my girl got it to her right.

She called the Uber. I say, fuck, nigga, drive over if you want to. I'll bust your shit. He was like, excuse me, ma'am. You have to call somebody else. I'm like, yeah, fucking right. Yo, drive over if you want to. Fuck, niggle.

You better delete that. Declining. Ex-out. You just lost money. Fuck, niggled. Yeah. You are angry ass. You have been through some shit with these girls

Tell me some of this shit you didn't I don't think of somebody crazy that girl Man you're gonna fight my woman You feel what you do to get back So one time she would got down We were tussing in this shit She hadn't popped me in my shit right So I'm like

Ooh man in the industry I'm like if I punch your ass I know you ain't gonna You're gonna post a picture You're gonna take like two months For that shit to go down That shit gonna come back on a nigga So then what I did

She tried to kick me So I grabbed a leg Put the leg up That could have been your face. I'm like, I'm like, I'm sorry, babe. I'm sorry, babe.

Do you hear this shit? I hear it. I can't, y'all. That is petty. I don't move up. All right. She tried to kick me. Hey, one thing about this,

you got to believe what he's say because he's... I believe everything. Bay, am I line? Off that leg. Off that leg go. I'm like, what on with you? And she called an Uber.

Fuck, nigga. You better not drive over y'all. Beat your ass. As you ever know, as soon as they find out that you don't hit women, they beat your ass. Every time you get man.

I went on her face. She's talking like, you ain't gonna do then, eh-e-e-e-e-e. I was like, hold up close. She could really hit me like, eh-e-e-e. I was up close. You could really hit me like, eh-e-e. That the bitch didn't hit me my face, man. I don't see it out.

I tried to get out. I tried to get down, but I tried to take the cab most with me. Brough. Those girl punches don't even hurt. They just, they catch you all going. Like, this motherfucker doesn't punch me. She hit me with the phone one time. one time a girl punched me so hard,

I switched two lanes. I'm like, I'm going to get away from this bitch in the car. You're tripping. Let me get over. Because you fucking, you fucking around and hit me in that lane. Let me tell you what you did.

That's the abusive lane over there, bitch, don't you hit me? She had my phone, all right, so let me tell you something. If your girl ever checking your phone, roll your windows up. I'm on the expressway. And all of a sudden,

she's like, really, nigga? I'm looking at the river on the window. I'm saying car, running the fuck all my shit over. I'm just like, you know what? Wait till I get home. Wait until I get home. It's like getting a whipping. I'm gonna turn that leg up.

I can't. Don't go to sleep. You better go to sleep standing up. Shout out to all the old dudes that save their pennies and quarters. Yeah, man. Them ain't the niggas you fuck with. No, he gives them to me and then things cash up. I want to give a shout out to it.

I just cashed to me and it got like $500. You did? You been saving for like a year. You know what I see. Bro, she cashed in $500 worth of change. That nigga been collecting that chains for 13 years. You got money. You signed up for money.

You cashing everything the nigga got. Babe, give me everything you don't want. Shenequa then took all my change. They ain't got no change to watch my goddamn clothes or nothing. Shinnequah got all my coins. All my coins. All my collectibles.

They call collectibles. All my collectibles. Hey, man, he going to listen to this shit. Bro, we was just making fun of you. No, I'm trying to save you. Stop. Cancel that shit. Call the policy.

He's too far gone. He's madly in love with me. Listen, do you hear this shit? Do you hear her tone? Counsel that shit. Counsel the policy. Shout out to bay. Let her go to sleep first, nigga.

See you later on. Fly, before we get out of here, throw the people a few more signs and let them know they're in love, man. Hey, man. On the way out. And you ain't got to be fucking. You just your bitch and get in line.

You're in love. Hey, what's up, bro. If you fart on your girl and she just fought back on you, you're all in love. Now, if you can dig in your, your toes and still finger your hoe, you in love. If you jump, if you

in the shower and she come in and pee, y'all in love. Real niggish shit. Real niggish. Hell yeah. Bro, if you, it don't matter what you're eating. If your girl don't want a piece, she don't love you, bro. Now, if you can walk around the house in your drawers and her friends

at the crib. What? What? If you can walk around it in your drawers and her friends at the crib. Y'all in love. I don't know what type of fucking. You have him in life, you're looking at. Hey, I'm like, I'm going to

Who are there? She, I'm going to take a shower. And I'm going to the kitchen. Hell yeah. No, I knew I really loved him when he ate the last little bit of my caramel popcorn. I ain't get mad. Do y'all hear that bullshit?

I didn't get mad. When he ate the last of my caramel popcorn. And I ain't get mad. Because you signed the life insurance. What are you getting mad? Because caramel popcorn is like everything This nigga is retarded, bro

Hey, we're gonna get you back on the pills fly No No, we're getting you back on the pills Listen to me We are talking to a mass We don't know who else she done did this shit too Are you a widow? No

What the fuck she is? No, how? The last nigga paid for your wigs He's about to die You on his life insurance This new nigga you want his life insurance Y'all have been together for you I'm telling you I'm telling you

I'm telling you're all the time What if that's her thing? She just finds niggas to put her on different kind of insurance. I'm going to send y'all an invitation to my wedding. I come too. I'm darned. I'm going to call. Soon they say who I'm going to call.

All that shit, I'll play. Drop your social media one more time, Shennika. I am Shanika Adams. Flag, what's your, what's your? Do you want to be any more famous? Man, I'm going, bro. I think it's a $30,000 reward for these motherfucker right here. I don't see her picture somewhere.

I can't know. It's at the post, though. Don't wear. She can't write checks at foot locker either. What? Can't write no checks at foot locker. What does that make? Is the credit cards in your purse in his name?

This nigga is. No. That was all mine. Y'all got joint accounts. We have one. This nigga is great. You got it misunderstood. I got my own money.

You got a joint account with the last nigga. Y'all broke up. And you still got the damn account? Oh, no, not him. My current. We have a joint account. I don't really speak to my expert. See, we're going to bring you back.

for the financial analysis. No, bring her back next year. I want to see if she's still with this nigga. And I'm gonna be. Is he dead? I'm gonna be. He ain't gonna be dead, but he's gonna be wheelchair bound.

Yeah. That arthritis is a motherfuckerucker, bro. When that shit started working on your bones. And I'm gonna go get us a town and country band and I'm gonna roll him around in it. That's what's up, but what if he get in a hover round? You ain't gonna want to fuck no nigga on a hovering around.

Hey, baby, let that ride. You want to see this shit go down to step? You ain't gonna want to fuck no huffer around. Help. I'm falling and I can't get it. Do he got a lot She got a fuck one of the diana got a life Alert

One of them tubs with the With the dough on that bitch You got to take the damn seat Out the damn shower just to give you shower Do not take Cialis if you take Nitrates for chest pagan Do he take Viagra? No

He doesn't have to. That's what's up man. D.C. Young Fly It was always a pleasure, man. Hey man, we're in the studio Shinnika, you don't come back? Absolutely. I know you hang with other bitches that's just like you.

Um, my best friend is 38. Bring out them, bitches. Bring out them hoes. My other friends. Bring all them slats. I want to talk to him. I don't hang with sluts. All right, bring them bitches and hoes.

Hey, for real, though. Me and D.C., when young fly, we've been doing this show for a minute now. And you know what, Flack? This was crazy, though. Sheenica actually listened to the show. You do? I do.

I can't wait. That's why I. That's why I was like, y'all, for real, I got to get on this. We go, you know what we're going to title of this? What? Made it right. Uh-uh. You know the name of this episode?

Shinnaker. It's going to be Shinnika Adams, ass insurance. Yes. Uh-uh, it's going to be Shinnika Assis, afterlife. Ooh. That's it right there. Afterlife. How about we do Shinnika Adams, peanut butter, and K.Y jelly.

She don't know. use k y no it's another kind that i use i forgot the name that means that puts it dry no use in there k y is dry first of all when you have anal sex you can't just go in there wild like that

he don't know he don't know you have to use k y jelly if you're gonna hey baby do we use k y why I spit on that dick get right on in that don't how you gonna ask her a question to ask baby don't we be fucking damn show be fucking feed all in the app, balls hitting

a booty, don't it, baby. Baby, when I'm eating that pussy and fart, don't I just keep eating it? Don't it? Don't it? Baby! Shout out to all the men with the gray taco meat on their chest. Yes, indeed. I love y'all. And you're not listening to 85, shout, man. And that's conclude. Much love

to all the women who got nipples that look like sorry game pieces. If you ever played sorry, that's hilarious. Yo, I'm done. It's Adams collection. Check us out. Hell yeah.

Much love to all the ladies who don't own a lot of panties. You got like three, four pairs. You just work them out, switch them out. Much love to all my bitches with only two bras. We're not going to say nothing, but, uh. And we go. Much love to all the lesbians with small fingers. Oh, shit.

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