The 85 South Show with Karlous Miller, DC Young Fly and Chico Bean - WE TALK BACK PODCAST in the TRAP| The 85 South Show

Episode Date: June 30, 2023

The ladies of the We Talk Back Podcast joined Karlous & Moneybag Mafia to discuss relationship horror stories, fat dudes having all the bad chicks, unrealistic relationship expectations, and oh so... much more. You dont wanna miss this episode of The 85 South Show! || 85 SOUTH App: www.channeleightyfive.com || Twitter/IG: @85SouthShow || Our Website: www.85southshow.com || Custom Merch: www.85apparelco.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:38 Would y'all like some refreshments or some Kool-Aid or something before we do this? No, no. Need a little more, you need to tighten your cup up? No, I might be all right. I might need to tighten my little cup up a little bit. Before we start, please, can we get a cup, tighten up the cut, that is? That is, tighten up the cup, please.
Starting point is 00:03:10 Yes, sir. You want something? No, I'm gochy. You good. Alright, yeah, oh. I'm gonna be lonely tonight, you know. Huh? I'm gonna be lonely tonight.
Starting point is 00:03:19 I like tequila. I got you. Thank you. So we're not talking about a little stuff, sir. Oh, okay. Thank you. Thank you, Daddy. And before we proceed with this episode, these are grown women who are making their own decisions.
Starting point is 00:03:34 They ask for this liquor. And if they put anything in it, they did it. We consent to the liquor. They brought their own shit. Don't give him shit. He need to stop smoking. He need to leave that dope alone. The daddy said...
Starting point is 00:03:49 No, I'm just talking shit. Hell no. See, she's a shit starter. I see why you partnered up with her. You need her. Yes. Where y'all from? Charlotte.
Starting point is 00:04:06 Well, she's from Charleston. We originally, I'm from Columbia, South Carolina. Oh, where? Had to get about it up? No, not really. I just moved, I moved to London and then came back. What they were talking about? You went to London?
Starting point is 00:04:21 Yeah. What part? you know a beckham at? Beckham? Yeah. No, I don't know Beckham. Is that like a really urban? Is that an urban part of London?
Starting point is 00:04:33 I feel like it's the hood of London. You know they got bloods and crips out there? Shut the fuck up. Sweat and everything. Yeah, I'm never right. It's like six popping, five dropping blood. I'm like, what? So a nigga asked me like what size shoes I had on?
Starting point is 00:04:47 You want to start some shit in it? I couldn't see it. I'm talking to you, brother. I'm listening to you, Nick. to you, Nick. Hey, close. I put it on the big creek, man. Niggins sold me a little piece of weed like, they compressed their weed over there and broke
Starting point is 00:05:01 that shit down and that shit turned to a pound. I'm like, what the fuck? I'm like, what the fuck? I'm like, what the fuck? It's weird over there, bro. I've been a few times. How you feel about it? You know what?
Starting point is 00:05:13 It's actually pretty dope. Because in my mind when I go, I'll be on like a mission, but it don't really be one, but that's how I keep shit excited. So I just fuck with it, let it be what it be. No, I'll fuck with it. It's really a lot the same as here, but it's kind of like the left-handed version. Facts. This is very New Yorkish with the small spaces and things of that nature. People room here.
Starting point is 00:05:37 Yeah, I don't know why that shit be so small over there. They have plenty of space. That's my white cup. Oh, okay. They got plenty of space. It can be just as luxurious. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:48 Yeah. London is cool. It's just too jerry. The weather is just terrible. It's terrible. You fuck with your mood. Yeah. It's straight, like that? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:56 I feel like the food real. You like the food out there? I hate the food out there. Oh yeah, it's terrible. But here. That food ass. They hate the food here. Huh?
Starting point is 00:06:06 They hate the food here. They do. You know why you don't like the food there? Because it don't have none of the shit that'll kill you that this shit has. We used to eating the shit that'll kill us. It's delicious. It's like it got so many drugs in it. We don't even know if it's full.
Starting point is 00:06:20 Your body doesn't know if you eat. eating food or doing drugs. Right. We're so fucked up. Well, I've been vegan for like, never. What do you think most of the vegetables is fake, nigga? No. You don't want to accept it.
Starting point is 00:06:34 I don't accept it. You know, broccoli not even a real vegetable. Talk to him. It's a hybrid. I just found out that lettuce has no nutritional value to it. Eat that shit. There's water. Water.
Starting point is 00:06:44 Drink some water. So wait, what's broccoli then? It's like some type of, like a hybrid of another type Collegreen and... No, mixed with cauliflower. cauliflower and what else? A collard green? Perks it?
Starting point is 00:06:57 Perk. See? Four three. Y'all be purks. Y'all take perk. Y'all from purr. No, I'm a little bit. Hey, man.
Starting point is 00:07:05 That's what I tell people all the time. Eat what the fuck you eat. It is what it is. It's all going to turn in the shit, one way that. Yeah, I'm fixed. It's all going to turn do-doo. Duky. Hey, whatever, whatever it is that help you shit, slay.
Starting point is 00:07:20 that help your shit slide man do you need a vitamin to do it take your vitamins but if you need some lettuce eat lettuce no no jane way and that's the pimping we proceeding with oh little valentine's day so i guess we should you know by the time they see it it won't be that no more but we need to let them know that today we celebrated you know we did some amazing things in the community went around hugging all the women who didn't have a man real y'all did that right y'all didn't call me That's a real hugged save lives, you know. And it wasn't like, it wasn't like a stranger hug.
Starting point is 00:07:55 I made sure to put a pelvic thrust in it. So you're just giving out your energy all around the city. Not a grind. Not a grind. A pelvic thrust. I just let her know that I was present. You feel? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:07 I'm sure they appreciated that now. So you're putting your dick on people's leg all day. You were so nasty when you saw, you're so graphic when you talk. That's not really what it was. I said I let her know it was present. You said you gave a pelvic thrust. It was kind of. of like I didn't move it.
Starting point is 00:08:22 That's a hump. You was a one-pumpin. You said thrust. You're kind of just like a- I stepped into the hug. Back up after the hug? No, it wasn't. I said I stepped into the hug.
Starting point is 00:08:29 They wanted to be two-suching. But there was a, I let them know it was present. You know, I was hugging all these. You should have called me, nigger? Nah, I did my part. It would have been a group. Nah. We don't do this.
Starting point is 00:08:40 You don't do this. I could hug her for the back. However, you would set that up with her. We had a line, bro. We can't have time to get into all this shit. You really did this? You really did this? hugs? Yeah. Where y'all was in?
Starting point is 00:08:52 Y'all was there? Now, I don't want to drop my location because I don't want nobody to be over there. Hucking all the single bitches? Yeah. I was thinking about, you know, just starting like a late night pull-up, you know, like a cuddle service. That's a real thing. Yeah. For real? We were starting. We're about to start Uber Dix. For real? Yeah, y'all. Y'all can be our first
Starting point is 00:09:12 guys on. Yeah, yeah. Sign up. You on, you want to sign up? Yeah, yeah. Uber meets. Well, we just, y'all drop dick off. Nah. Too risky out here. Because you don't know who the fuck ordered it. You drop a dick out. You don't know who we fucking ordered it. I don't give it down on that.
Starting point is 00:09:26 No, they've been in catfish you too. You get over there, it's a dice game going on and shit. No, no, we're trying to order the little burgers and shit. It's Atlanta, too. We're going to drop a dick up. No, you can stay, though. Don't. Fuck, we're out to drop a dick off to a dick.
Starting point is 00:09:43 No, hell not. Y'all keep y' eyes. Rash. Hell no. So no Uber Meets? No, do your thing, though. I think it's about time that I say, Welcome back to the 85 shout show.
Starting point is 00:10:02 We're going to talk plenty of shit today. We got a lot of shit talkers in here with us. All right. See everybody got their cup. And it's going down. I got my man Money Bag. Mafia in here with me today. Oh, in 85 hours, that, man.
Starting point is 00:10:19 Yeah, yeah. And the lovely latest from We Talk Back. Yes. We Talk Back. Yeah. Now, before we proceed, you know, with the top half of the show, I would like for you to introduce yourselves
Starting point is 00:10:38 to the 85% of us and let them know who we have and here with us today. All right. So y'all, I'm Tam Bam. I'm official Tam Bam on Instagram. I'm co-hosted if we talk back coming from Charlotte, North Carolina. And I'm A.J. Holiday, Charleston, South Carolina. Hey.
Starting point is 00:10:55 We're excited to be here. Word? Very excited. Yeah. Now, what's all this excitement about? You're famous. Y'all are famous. Ooh.
Starting point is 00:11:04 I ain't talking about shit. I'm trying to get on the Uber dick. Shit, you're in there. I don't like how that came down. You got to send a picture first. I'm trying to get on. Yeah, you got a consultation. Do your thing, bro.
Starting point is 00:11:14 No, I got a dick. That's all you mean to know. No, that's not enough. That ain't enough. So we got Uber meets, y'all. We're starting that, and then we're going to be selling meat, and you got some meat to sell? Okay, now, if I steal out of her house, what... You are a prostitute.
Starting point is 00:11:33 Where's your pride? But why are you caught the plane stealing out of bitch house? No, I'm just saying. That happened to me before. That's what I'm saying. What's? It's like real trauma. What do you steal?
Starting point is 00:11:42 Like $2 to $5. Or her purse. $5? I don't really carry cash like that, but I had a few dollars in my bag, I know. Oh, you're dating a motherfucker crackhead. I know she's got two hours ago. Give me that goddamn money. While getting head, he was stealing the money.
Starting point is 00:12:02 Oh, he really just... Wait, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. You were giving him head and he was still... No. Oh, I'm sorry. I basically paid two to five dollars for some head one time. From who? Oh, he was giving...
Starting point is 00:12:14 Yeah. Yeah. At the same time? At the same time. Oh, that head was smacking. You ain't no one for going on. Your head in the sky. You like, oh.
Starting point is 00:12:22 You niggas are despised. He thought he had came up. He probably thought he had grabbed two nice bills. Got out in the hallway head, ran a little bag. It was a 10 and a 5, still in enough. Damn, you got you got you. You ain't never had nothing slow at your purse?
Starting point is 00:12:38 No. I don't bring people to my house like that. Well, you still getting your pussy in somewhere. Damn, bitch. You're trying to sit by me. No, nothing. I just don't. Okay, so when you're in the location getting your pussy, your purse is there somewhere. Yeah, but I'm typically with people I trust.
Starting point is 00:12:54 Yeah, I ain't had nobody steal from me. Why you want a nigga to steal from me? You said, I'll be having people over my house. Like your house, the only place fucking go on there. No, I'm not saying that. That is what you said. Nobody ever stole out of my purse or anything for me that I know of. Okay.
Starting point is 00:13:10 That's fair, right? That's fair. Yeah, yeah. She'd be stealing that. That's what you're saying. You ever stole something from a nigga? No, absolutely not. Not from my, no.
Starting point is 00:13:22 Look how your friend looks at her. That's her karma. I had never saw her from a nigger. I'm stilled. No. No. Now, one time he and my friend... Look, look.
Starting point is 00:13:34 One time I took something back from a nigger, is that stealing? No. If I give it to him. Did he know you had it? He didn't know I took it back. That's stealing. How is that stealing? I know you had it.
Starting point is 00:13:47 Right. Well, I gave it to him and I repossessed it. Oh, that's what you could. Whatever make you feel that? Yeah. Is that silly? No. I did, like, some chicks invited me and my home, bro,
Starting point is 00:13:58 to the career one time when he was in college. And, you know, he, the friend didn't like him like that. And then she just kind of played him off and, like, went to bed. And he stole, like, five DVDs. He was like, my little girl wanted to see this shit anyway. He's looking at the glad Hal Fools instead of half dip. He ain't head of him now. Five DVD.
Starting point is 00:14:16 That's crazy. So you ever took something from a woman? No. You ever had somebody steal from you? Hell yeah, this girl stole my rent money one time. This one there wasn't but one rent money. This was all of it. She stole it.
Starting point is 00:14:32 She took that shit. You got you waiting to sleep? No, we was arguing. We stole my fire stick. That way you were talking about with people you trust. I trusted her and she stole the rent money. In cash? In cash.
Starting point is 00:14:45 Was you getting head while she was? You were stealing? No. Oh, that's fucked up. I didn't think that she was gonna steal it. It wasn't, it wasn't like it was hidden. Would you just had it out on the dressing? Right.
Starting point is 00:14:55 Exactly. Stole the money order. You went, oh, the money order. Yeah. She stole a money order? And cashed it. No. Damn.
Starting point is 00:15:06 But her whole argument is she didn't steal it. She just took it. That's stealing. That's true. That's true. That's stealing. That's stealing. I forgave it, though, because you know,
Starting point is 00:15:16 God bless me. And you kept fucking with her? No, that was one of the last days I fucked with it. Everybody said, this sounds like a Simp series. Yeah. No, no, no, we broke up. So we got a segment on our show called Simp Series, and that's where you share a time that you got played by a woman for sure.
Starting point is 00:15:34 Oh, I got a long list of that. Shit. It happens, though. It can be from high school. Yeah, because a lot of school. In my adult life. All right, share another one. Oh, you want the shit to keep going?
Starting point is 00:15:48 Yeah. It's a lot of... You got one? I do the playing, baby. I don't get played. Oh, you ain't never been played. Not once. Says a nigger who been played.
Starting point is 00:15:58 I fuck for food and shelter. I used to fuck for food and shelter. Oh, you're a dinner horse. Yeah, yeah. Wherever they cook, you're there, and hot, you know, a nice bed. I'm there. Okay. I get the fuck on in the daytime.
Starting point is 00:16:11 You can't play me. Can't play a nigga like me. Nine times out of ten, the niggins you call yourself cheating on me with, I'm no one told them about you. Oh wow. I didn't gave him a resume on you. Oh wow. Yeah, that type of shit.
Starting point is 00:16:30 So you never loved a woman and didn't want a nigga to fuck one? Yeah, yeah. Okay. You can't stop nobody for fucking. That's the first rule of the game, you know. You gotta know that. It ain't never about the pussy. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:16:44 10 die hell no hell no sometimes a lot of times nigger ain't created just be the payback yeah women need a reason men just need a time and a place now you got to know the nigga that you're dealing with I feel like before shit get bad you really supposed to learn this nigga and learn they don't be paying attention though because that's a lot because y'all be different with your friends that y'all are y'all be a whole different niggins so what you mean learn them you're supposed to be a whole different niggins i'll be demotized the head was so good she lost five dollars two the head was not actually not that good your head you had you had you had
Starting point is 00:17:24 yeah that's all i paid for it's like a deal a little discount head a little clearance group front head that ain't even that Crack-head, rack-ahead. Y'all, y'all's just getting this one? You should collect the d'nig's from the shelter. You got some free head, but you had to give a tip. The nigga lived in my apartment complex. It wasn't a random person.
Starting point is 00:17:46 You got some clothes at the time. You had some clothes at. And so you can knock on that door like, what about $5? No, hell no. Just get in there. You got to give somebody there. Do you still face every time you see him like? You can't.
Starting point is 00:18:01 I never talk to that thing again. Hell no. And the reason. the $5 was missing is because after I got the head I went to the gap this is when this is before vibrators had rechargeable batteries I went to the gas station to get batteries and a couple dollars was going that's how long ago they were yeah they got rechargeable batteries now yeah oh you could just USB that shit yes I'm gonna get me a robot they're gonna get me a robot they got something they got all kind of stuff for y'all you could just say it on the Apple watch
Starting point is 00:18:34 charge up the vibrator it starts charging so you only want a real woman you want a real one but i want a robot a pocket pussy to do what huh what kind of robot like a full-sized one yeah that's why they're not really working on no fake pussy technology like they got fake pussy they got all kind of they like from the 80s yeah for sure they're not they're not even close to y'all y'all got way like you can get a whole half of a bitch body from her don't nobody see that's creepy that ain't what we want that creeped that ain't what we want that creeped here That ain't what we want. That ain't what we want.
Starting point is 00:19:07 Niggas ain't buying that shit. I had a niggins about that shit. He broke this shit one time. They ain't even really working on fake pussy technology. They got way better towards us. Because they know men going to be, they're going to stop going to work. There's going to be a deal. There's going to be no traffic.
Starting point is 00:19:20 There's going to be no traffic. Man. Ain't nobody going outside? The moment some shit hit the streets that feel like real pussy, it's over with. Oh my God. Not this old plastic rubber-ass shit. So that's all you need one for. Don't let them make a robot bit that can come out.
Starting point is 00:19:37 If they had some shit that is good for men, that's like the shit they got, it's over. It's over. So y'all wouldn't need a woman no more after that? Man, what do they make when they know how to cook though? It ain't going to need a woman. But watch how fast these goddamn dates and shit start ending. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:19:53 Oh, it's good. I'm good. I ain't coming in. I got to call them. Exactly. You come and come to your sentence. You got the cold dude and the pussy at the house. I think you can come through and drop some dick off.
Starting point is 00:20:03 No, you gotta get to know me? What long have been on you? It ain't been night at age? I'm not giving nothing. Oh, no, you're gonna get to know all my end of thoughts. Listen, I wrote this poem earlier. Listen, shut your time. Tell me what you think about this.
Starting point is 00:20:15 The earth's still spinning as the wind blows round. What? Yeah, I've been writing poetry. I'm just deep in my bag, you know, keep my mind off. Pussy, you feel? Okay. Got the robot pussy. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:20:27 Linnke's gonna be in the club for 30 minutes. Ah, fuck this shit. They ain't seen you in much. FaceTimber, ain't going no goddamn way. Got my social security set up. Been a drag in a bit. What? You thought they bought Jordan's name?
Starting point is 00:20:48 Shit. They be lined up. There are actually things like that. Y'all just haven't been researching them. We can visually inspect this shit and be like, nah, it ain't there yet. Uh-uh. I'm telling you it ain't there yet.
Starting point is 00:21:03 Yeah. The fake pussy level that they get is like the Nintendo. How you know? Have you tried the pussy that's out here? We don't want, it's not even visually appealing. We talked about this earlier. I saw a post online from somebody said that, sorry to break it to you, but all pussy feel the same. That's cow.
Starting point is 00:21:19 That's a nigga ain't, that was from a young nigger who ain't had enough pussy to no shit. That's what I said. Yeah. Probably ain't no nigger for real. Probably wouldn't no nigger for real. Probably a woman. It's so many different. Pussies out here.
Starting point is 00:21:30 What's a different? It's different, shout. They got that good bones. Come on now. Bones, all of bones. Oh, you're a fucking lie. Bone in. They got that bone in.
Starting point is 00:21:39 Hell yeah. If there's a bone in it, it might not always been a pussy. Every nigga ain't here to know what I'm talking about when I say a good piece of bones pussy. Yeah. That's a new pussy. That's snatch. You're old word.
Starting point is 00:21:55 Pussy do not feel the same. They got some pussy out here, you think I'm lying. Watch these men in here. They got some pussy out here that feel so good. It's the little shnatch. spot in your back, you can feel it. It's like right up in your, right between your shoulders. It's like a chakra. Like in the man back. That bitch, you ain't in your chakra. I'm talking about it. You ever had it? I don't even know the kind of pussy you got and I ain't even
Starting point is 00:22:17 asking, but there's some pussy in there. It's some pussy outside that you can just go straight in. You know how niggins that go to the pool and just die straight in. You start swimming. Don't even warm up. But there's some pussy out there that'll stop you at the dough like they got security. You'd be like, whoa. You gotta take the little shower before you get in the pool. My apology together. This shit good. Yeah, yeah. Dinner, mother.
Starting point is 00:22:39 What? Eat it for what? What? Eat it. What? You feel insulting. I'm confused. Stop you at the door as good, pussy.
Starting point is 00:22:46 Man, I'm talking about that, but as soon as you get in there, you be like, oh. Yo, oh my God. You gotta put a game playing together in like, this is nice. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. They got some of that shit out.
Starting point is 00:22:58 Yeah, it exists. Yeah. It exists. Man, they got some pussy out there that'll make a nigger just start helping that around the house. You feel? I'm good. That's good.
Starting point is 00:23:07 Nicking. Dishes sweeping, mopping. Even left that little light on over the stove. I'm talking about the kitchen cold. He cleaned that light. That nigga that's laid the dish rag on the middle. I'm talking about. I know what you're talking about.
Starting point is 00:23:25 For My Heart Podcasts and Rococo Punch, this is the turning, River Road. I knew I wanted to. obey and submit, but I didn't fully grasp for the rest of my life what that meant. In the woods of Minnesota, a cult leader married himself to 10 girls and forced them into a secret life of abuse. Why did I think that way? Why did I allow myself to get so sucked in by this man and in thinking to the point that if I died for him, that would be the greatest honor? But in 2014, the youngest of the girls escaped and sparked an international manhunt. For all those years, you know, he was the predator and I was the prey.
Starting point is 00:24:12 And then he became the prey. Listen to The Turning River Road on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Pretty Private with Ebene, the podcast where silence is broken and stories are set free. I'm Ebeney, and every Tuesday I'll be sharing all new anonymous stories that would challenge your perceptions and give you new insight on the people around you. On Pretty Private, we'll explore the untold experiences of women of color who faced it all, childhood trauma, addiction, abuse, incarceration, grief, mental health struggles, and more, and found the shrimp to make it to the other side. My dad was shot and killed in his house.
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Starting point is 00:25:30 Your entire identity has been fabricated. Your beloved brother goes missing without a trace. You discover the depths of your mother's illness the way it has echoed and reverberated throughout your life, impacting your very legacy. Hi, I'm Danny Shapiro. And these are just a few of the profound and powerful stories I'll be mining on our 12th season of Family Secrets.
Starting point is 00:25:56 With over 37 million downloads, We continue to be moved and inspired by our guests and their courageously told stories. I can't wait to share 10 powerful new episodes with you, stories of tangled up identities, concealed truths, and the way in which family secrets almost always need to be told. I hope you'll join me and my extraordinary guests for this new season of Family Secrets. Listen to Family Secrets Season 12 on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. The OGs of Uncensored Motherhood are back and badder than ever.
Starting point is 00:26:34 I'm Erica. And I'm Mila. And we're the host of the Good Mom's Bad Choices podcast, brought to you by the Black Effect Podcast Network every Wednesday. Historically, men talk too much. And women have quietly listened. And all that stops here. If you like witty women, then this is your tribes.
Starting point is 00:26:49 With guests like Corinne Steffens. I've never seen so many women protect predatory men. And then me too happened. And then everybody else want to get pissed off because the white said it was okay. Problem. My oldest daughter, her first day in ninth grade, and I called to ask how I was going. She was like, oh, dad, all they were doing was talking about your thing in class.
Starting point is 00:27:07 I ruined my baby's first day of high school. And slumflower. What turns me on is when a man sends me money. Like, I feel the moisture between my legs when the man sends me money. I'm like, oh my God, it's go time. You actually sent it? Listen to the Good Mom's Bad Choices podcast every Wednesday on the Black Effect Podcast Network. The IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you go to find your podcast.
Starting point is 00:27:30 Do you remember Vine? It changed the internet forever, and it vanished in its prime. I'm Benedict Townsend, and this is Vine, six seconds that changed the world. The untold story of genius, betrayal, and the app that died so that TikTok could thrive. From overnight stars to the fall that no one saw coming, we're breaking down what made Vine iconic. Listen to Vine on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts. You ever had some of that pussy's so good, she didn't even have to ask you to do shit? Yeah, for sure.
Starting point is 00:28:06 She's just coming home from goddamn Ikea and Home Depot and shit. Yeah, put my ground desk together. The bed. You love a surpriser. I love a nigger who could do some shit. You love the surprise. Yes. That can build some shit.
Starting point is 00:28:21 I whipped the shit out your kids. I took the garbage out. Whip your kids. Don't do that. You know your pussy good one, a nigga tell you he on his way, and you ain't even sent the address yet. Come on, huh? You're like, yeah, the gate code.
Starting point is 00:28:33 He's like, I'm in there already. I'm mad. I follow him a nigga here. She's like, hit seven, six, eight. I ain't hit a motherfucker fucking man. I'm calling the piece of man in this motherfucker. I got my pocket spot.
Starting point is 00:28:47 Tail gate. Tail gate. What? That good one that ain't tailgagin. Then there's some pussy out here that the nigga niggins say, bitch, don't call my own that stupid that shit. That mean it good, but it ain't worth what she's doing. And then some of that shit is just like,
Starting point is 00:29:08 you know how you be hungry, but you know you're about to eat good later on, so you just eat some little shit, some of that. Just some person who cook that won't be on feel no type of waste. So what about it makes it different, though, the owner. The owner. The owner.
Starting point is 00:29:22 The pussy can only be as good as. the owner. Now I want to say all that. So that's more emotional than it is physical. See the pussy, see sometimes when me and say pussy we're not talking about vagina. Sometimes the good shit that you do from your man it feels like pussy like a nigga flying and you pick them up at the airport ain't no way like you right through like bam bam like you can coordinate. The motherfucker love you they pick you up on time. No, you're too deep. See we don't like that's the only we so abused all we know how to like say some good shit like that's pussy talking right. Uh-huh. You're too deep for the intro.
Starting point is 00:29:55 I know. But I don't want nobody to just listen to me talk and then feel like it got to be that. You need to disagree because we ain't lived the same kind of life. I told you I had the pussy that make your back tingled before. I've been there.
Starting point is 00:30:07 I ain't never had that. Your back ain't never tingle? That nigga nerve bad. That she hit me right now. That ain't got sciatic nerve. You know? Bad dude. No, because in my mind,
Starting point is 00:30:18 you know what song was playing. You are the last dragon. Had some of that pussy made me believe in myself. That's the best kind. Pussy does inspire. Look at some of the shit I didn't have to do. I'm talking about performing in front of thousands of people who didn't even know me at the time. You can only do that.
Starting point is 00:30:35 You can only gain that kind of confidence. From a woman, not pussy. What she was giving me. She was giving you motivation. She was inspiring you. And what I just said. All that mixed together. Pussy talk.
Starting point is 00:30:50 Come on now. Now you're feeling me. It's not just pussy talk. Man, I'm not just saying the whole, like, I'm not just saying women just represent pussy. I'm just saying like the positive shit that you be given, like that women be giving us, they don't even know. So everybody don't have, every woman don't have pussy you, what you're saying. That's what made it good. You say what made it good.
Starting point is 00:31:09 Yeah. All that good shit, that motivation and inspiration and shit y'all see. The pussy pot. That's what made the rest. That's the recipe to that shit. You can't have good pussy and you know, motivate your nigger. You ain't inspiring this nigga. That's fair.
Starting point is 00:31:23 showing up with the bone-end pussy I don't know about that bone-in pussy I ain't never heard of that what is a bone-in pussy that's boneless chicken pussy I never heard of boneless traditional that shit falling out of the bone traditional you know you never been a turkey then hurt when you pick the bone up and all the meat fall off it that's what it is okay it's just falling off the bone sound like Arby you know of course the anatomy it's a act what I'm saying sometimes that shit just be feeling like it's falling off the the bone in that moment.
Starting point is 00:31:54 Okay. Is this boneless? This has to be boneless the way this motherfucker is doing too. What? What? You got a left and the right and all this fucking boneless. All of me, I don't, it might not be the right words to use, but somebody out there in the atmosphere.
Starting point is 00:32:15 I get what you're saying. But it's all about passion and connection, really. Do you think so? That's what all you said was. For you? No, but that's all you really. said was like this person I'm saying that's what make it yeah yeah that makes fun yeah y'all some very attractive ladies do y'all have men like trying to like
Starting point is 00:32:32 spend the block a lot absolutely that shit is you mean spend a block like come back come back and fuck with you no absolutely that shit is a fucking problem it went number five dollars like come on Noddy. You know what's the fuck-am, five dollars? Two years ago. Right. Your fucking.
Starting point is 00:32:52 Damn, I smoke two girls, miss. Like, what's the success rate? You know what? When I was younger, they could spin the block. But now I ain't no spinning the block. Just one. Once you fuck up. Damn, y'all's strict down here.
Starting point is 00:33:08 Yes. Yeah, we're too grown for that. Yeah, like, who got time for that shit? We got a good, how many more years? People make mistakes. It's okay to make mistakes, but... I'm trying to get to that point, man, but letting somebody make a mistake and then I'm like,
Starting point is 00:33:21 okay, we can keep going. I'm gonna try to know. I find it offensive when a nigger be like, man, I shoulda, I shoulda woulda, coulda. That shit is highly offensive, because why didn't. Niggins ain't through growing yet. Right. You know, it took us a minute.
Starting point is 00:33:32 It'd be after they'd be done, got married, had a kid with somebody else. I still don't mean they grow up, they grow up. Man, I should, I should have, I should have wanted, because niggas married a safe woman. They do what? They're married a safe one. What's the difference?
Starting point is 00:33:44 And then y'all still fraternized with the real ones, with the depth that y'all should have married. Right. And then try to circle back. I don't know. I ain't never seen a happily married black man before. I ain't seen a motherfucker happy enough to make me want that shit. And why don't think the women happy? Shit.
Starting point is 00:34:02 That's not. I don't know. I don't know if you just said some shit. I don't know. You've never seen a happily married black man? I ain't never seen a nigga happy enough to make me get married yet. I ain't never seen a nigga out there. Because you're seeing a nigga in a new car like, I'm going to get that bit.
Starting point is 00:34:12 And plus. You don't see the ones that's happy. That's the thing. The ones that's unhappy be in the streets. The ones that happy be at home. I got a theory, but don't nobody want to hear it. Come on with you. Okay, let's hear it.
Starting point is 00:34:23 Tell me something slick so I can slide. What he said? Make you fart smell blackies. Niggas that marry funny looking women be the happiest. Huh? Men that marry funny looking women be the happiest. Funny looking? Funny looking.
Starting point is 00:34:35 Funny looking. What you mean? Funny looking like that don't know. No, like would nobody else like her. That's you fucking married. Wow. They look, they both funny looking people. You got a marriage.
Starting point is 00:34:43 I ain't, I ain't. never seen two motherfuckers who was like cement attractive yeah like a bad-ass chicken did like this nigga that everybody won't it don't never work like that it'd be a fine-ass woman and a little fat dude yeah and then end up with all the bad bitches I don't care what country you live in that fat dudes got more money than regular same niggas fat dudes got they work harder women know that shit yeah and they be embarrassed to like fat dudes until they ready to get a street so no You don't know what we're saying that on camera.
Starting point is 00:35:16 It's three fat niggins somewhere in New Jersey. I tore her ass up in college. Nick, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was playing defense in time. Huh? Huh? My head was so good, I went in a purse. He got a nickname only he called, look at Pooch on here, talk shit. Pucci.
Starting point is 00:35:36 Pucci. Put you. A fat nigga hit in the work truck. 18-wheeler. We just dug this shit. That shit can't have a lot of health issues, man. Fat niggas end up with all the women. That's facts.
Starting point is 00:35:54 You can look it up. Go to get it an old jet magazine. Look at the beauty of the week. Then look at the people who got married that week. Fat niggas. Fat niggas. They end up with the finest women. Or maybe they're the only ones who,
Starting point is 00:36:07 want to get married. That could be that too. The rest of y'all niggas is bad bitches. What the fuck? It ain't even really enough bad bitches for everybody to have one. It's all an illusion. It's a lot of bad. Especially in Atlanta.
Starting point is 00:36:19 When it comes to bad bids, we plan to scratch off. Is they everywhere? Nah, niggas gonna never win. You just get free T. We'd be happy with that. Oh shit, you got another free T. I'm telling you. You ain't lying.
Starting point is 00:36:36 I'm telling you. That's why we gotta get us a fat woman. But that's not what y'all want, though. They all take it. Niggas like fat bitches. I see you. But they cheated on the camera and say this. Don't nobody cheat more than big women.
Starting point is 00:36:50 Damn. Big women got too many options because they everybody fucking type. Think about it. Big women can attract any group. They got Hispanic niggas. They got the white men who'll be giving them a bunch of money and shit. Then they have a few like NBA niggas. Some cash shop and little secret big girl sites they were.
Starting point is 00:37:06 big girl sites they won't even know they'd be having a little freak big girl parties where they just walk around and lingerie eating rotel and shit they'd be having all type of big girls pool parties that they don't want nobody come to a niggins be paying hundreds of dollars just to swim with the big girls
Starting point is 00:37:24 and take a picture. You'd be seeing this shit on the ground? I'd be trying to get with there. They'd be having a little sneak on cruises and shit. You be on that? My mom told me my soul made a BBW. BBW. Your mom big? What kind of shit is that? Your mom chunky. Niggas really hypocrites when they come to big women, though.
Starting point is 00:37:40 Because they kind of from a family of big women, but you don't never see them with none. I ain't against that at all. I don't see none of. I think men who have big moms usually date bigger women. I think a kid a little bit of big women, though. I ain't going to lie there. Yeah, they do. Don't just push them off.
Starting point is 00:37:55 I love me a big woman. I fought for food and shelter, nigga, yeah. Food and shelter. You really be talking for food and shelter? What do you think the best kind of big woman is? I don't want you to, like, say it right, so they don't get mad. One that smells a black pretty woman. Most of them do smell, but they be the skinny one.
Starting point is 00:38:13 Just the pretty face, like the big woman with that pretty face, though. I feel like you're in a real big girl if you can't sing. Oh, would you prefer a big pretty woman or a skinny ugly bitch? Big pretty woman. Right. I feel like you're in a real big girl if you can't sing, though. That's not a thing. That's not a thing.
Starting point is 00:38:31 No, that ain't it. A little mermaid. A real flexible, too, though, what they don't talk about. Niggas don't talk about that. Those bitches are definitely flexible. I don't like big women that can ruin a pair of flip-flops, though. Everybody can ruin a pair of flip-flops, though. You're in the way, clasp.
Starting point is 00:38:50 You're in the right way, class. You're in the right way, class. I need to see your flip-pops. I don't like big women who swing on niggas when they get mad either. I love it. That's what 90% is. You like a woman that had a swing on you? Yeah, see, big women, see, big women, they let you beat a little spoon.
Starting point is 00:39:06 I can't just talk about big women too. You gotta throw the skinny women too. You know they make men who like to get spoon, that mom issue. As long as you don't have that kind of ass where your pant is sag in the back. I'm gonna be under, I don't like to be touched. Like if your pants fit right, you're straight. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:39:20 But if your pant is dip a little bit and it'd be loose, ugh. Like your booty to boot. I don't like that. Your booty look wet when you, when I see you, I don't like that little sag part in their pants, though. I'm gonna say that for the big women. You know, someone will be having that little sag in their pants in the back. I always want to see like a skin.
Starting point is 00:39:36 any woman naked with the stretch marks on her booty. That was like that booty was trying to be fat. It would try. It had potential. Yeah, it was going to be fat. The trickney booty is what it's called. Trick me. Some of the ad be soupy, it would be at the bottom, but it still be ass when you take them jeans up.
Starting point is 00:39:48 Supy? Be at the bottom. You got to get your big woman with that, you know, that, them little booty cheeks at the bottom. You know what I'm talking about? You know what I'm talking about? Like a chicken breast. Yeah, the little booty cheeks at the bottom. That's the whole ass, but then the booty cheek is just small at the bottom.
Starting point is 00:40:06 That's fucked up. You can sit there and say that, but did you know, if you get out the car and your ass crack show, that woman to lead you, man. I know. I'll be trying to tell all my partner, man, when a woman see your ass, it's over with you. You're lame as fuck. You're lame. That's not true. That's true. You know. No woman has ever said that shit, though. But y'all don't be thinking, you got to hide. You got to hide your ass, babe. You think you do. You think you do, but listen. And all these look like tadpoles.
Starting point is 00:40:40 Come on. Yeah, I think it's like what your ass ate lately. Come on. That's a new thing I see. No, don't put that on me. I ain't never asked for that. Ain't never asked. No.
Starting point is 00:40:50 Hey, man. How you hide it? Huh? How you hide it? I just don't get up. I don't get up no more than night. If I get naked, I ain't getting up to the phone. Who the fucking got.
Starting point is 00:41:01 Black 100? That nigga was laid on his stomach in the hotel room. She got out. She found. niggins on Clubhouse? Feet to the city. Too comfortable, bro. That niggins was like kicking his feet back.
Starting point is 00:41:13 I can tell that they got an Audi for a belly button. Ah, shit. Boy, you're crazy. Motherfucking. Yeah, don't never want to see your eyes, man. That did real tall right there. I'll never let to see you butt cheek on. That's crazy.
Starting point is 00:41:26 I need to see. Yeah, I want to see. There's so wrong with y'all in Ead. A lot of women are obsessed with men ass in the day, and I don't like it. She said, niggas. been asking her to eat it no I didn't say that was asking me to eat it I said I see a lot of people talking about getting their ass eight men on social media oh
Starting point is 00:41:46 that's don't put that on me these niggas are weird you see how these weird niggas be having us we and then we got to answer questions about this shit it's them that's what what what you're talking about to get your ass eight as a man like yeah look at him see he like his ass hate that nigger was born in 90 so I'm checking on Jack. Nick, I'm crazy. I'm checking on Jack, man. Yeah, yeah, that's a different thing.
Starting point is 00:42:13 Yeah, no, I don't do none of that shit. I don't even like... I'm just trying to understand. So you never had your legs back? Put your legs up or bend over. You don't never try me like that. I get on all foes. I'll get back.
Starting point is 00:42:24 I just laugh. Hey, Betty, you need a whole shit. They'll be backing it out. There's a thing now. I'm not into that though. That's the thing, most definitely. But a lot of women are like intrigued by ass, men at be there. I'm not. A lot of women be strapping up.
Starting point is 00:42:47 That's for the people born after. Yeah. They're going through a face. No, it's them old niggles. My old partners used to tell me about that shit all day long back, we wouldn't think about this shit. You see, that's the thing. You see how times have changed.
Starting point is 00:42:59 We're letting the freaks represent the majority now. Ooh, it's like the prison is running a prison. Used to be a little group of motherfuckers who just did a group a bunch of freaking shit now it's more of them than just people who regular fucking out here right no more it's because of porn man it ain't porn people don't watch porn no more not niggins people watch twitter they're fucking on the dark that's porn too they're fucking on the link and go to the full video you ain't watching the full video you're gonna watch that you're gonna throw
Starting point is 00:43:27 find another trip but i knew that's a sad life if you think about it that's a sad life if you think about it you gotta get on online and be fucking every day. Who fucks every day? Come on, man. People who getting paid to fuck? Hell no. Niggas who fucking for food and shelter?
Starting point is 00:43:48 Every day. This is a hole with me before I got myself together, though. Can you imagine posting all those videos or you fucking doing your best fucking and don't nobody buy none of them? You then lowered your price every month that you didn't have. You got two views of video.
Starting point is 00:44:04 Your shit, really? Really, it's just, at this point you just want some people to see you fuck you and your girl on here y'all fucking like here ain't made no end no money 299 a month nothing no money damn even the spam done unfollowed you I'm talking about zero comments I'm gonna fuck out of here man you gotta be fucked up if they flagged your content on only bands Facts. Facts.
Starting point is 00:44:38 I thought about making the OnlyFans page during the pandemic. I have too. I ain't going to cap you now. For real? Yeah, I did. Think about it. I wasn't going to put anything, like, sexual on it. Yeah, you weren't going to make no matter.
Starting point is 00:44:51 I'm going to do one too. I was going to just get on there, just be going live, just listening to other, other motherfucker, just listening. It was going to be feet. You should do it. You got nice feet? That's going to get you paid. I was about to say that nice shit don't go.
Starting point is 00:45:05 Yeah. All the shit you're insecure about, like, did you hit that motherfucker on the dresser? Ooh, I like that. Like, explain why your shit is what it is. That's what's going to get you in the paper. You got to take shit to the extreme. That's where it is. That's what we're at now.
Starting point is 00:45:24 Regular shit ain't going to go. It ain't going to go? Mm-mm. Okay. Niggas are tuned in to that feet porn, though, type of shit. Yeah, it's a fetish, yeah, that I see. be surprised the type of shit the internet I had you up watching facts I almost went to rehab one time for the internet for what because I was watching some porn one night
Starting point is 00:45:46 and then I just I stopped because I looked at the title and I was like why am I watch this is disgusting what was it pregnant ebony gang bang yo see I always found myself in the BVW section no I'm talking pregnant emmody gang bang yeah i'm dead a it got to the point where you know you just got to do something you don't know you thought about it that's what i knew what my line was at is the like that's the line okay now i don't want to go i don't want to cross it going back now i'm going back that was a good choice that stopped i was whoa you know well you know where you know where you like pregnant women no i'm telling you it was just a series of clips
Starting point is 00:46:32 It wasn't like I got into the shit. It was like, whoa, this ain't my section. Right. This ain't even my section. He ain't never wand it off into the garden. No, I ain't supposed to, can't fuck the ground beef. They're playing with me. What I meant by the plants and the fish?
Starting point is 00:46:52 They're playing with doodle and shit? Yeah, like that. Did somebody pee on her? Hey, hey, get me out of this. What the fucking cartoons, fucking, what the fuck going on? Cartooooos. Is that Mark Simpson? Let me get my shit together and get the fuck out of it.
Starting point is 00:47:07 The little mermaid bussing it. Okay, now we gotta leave. Right. Now we gotta go. No, you've been that bad. So you were addicted to porn? No. Hell no.
Starting point is 00:47:17 How are you gonna be addicted to porn? My ex-boyfriend. Internet ain't even reliable enough to be addicted to porn these days. No, my ex-boyfriend was addicted to porn, and this is how I found out. So I worked a lot, right? I had two jobs at the time. Is your fault? See where this story going.
Starting point is 00:47:31 What's going? That niggins. She had two jobs. I had two jobs. I was traveling a lot. It was just a lot of work. Every time I would come home for work, I would find two little pieces of tape in the stairwell. Two little pieces of tape in the bathroom.
Starting point is 00:47:45 Two little pieces of tape. Yeah. Like mask and tape. Two little pieces all the time. I'm talking about in the stairwell, in the kitchen, in the bathroom. Every time I come home, it's two little pieces of tape and I'm throwing it out all the time. So finally I said, baby, what is all this fucking tape? his fucking text.
Starting point is 00:48:01 I'll bust the nut here. I busted nut here. I busted nut here. That's where it landed. It was one day. Like a fucking crime scene. I'm going for distance, girl. Put a piece of tape right there.
Starting point is 00:48:17 This nigga used to cover up the front and back camera on his phone because he heard that like people could record you watching porn on your phone. Get the fuck out of him. People are like, I'll be doing that. For real? People can do that for real? That's what he was told that they could extort you and record. Oh, he was in too deep.
Starting point is 00:48:41 Literally and figuratively. Put two little pieces and take after that. Somebody pop up in that moment. Yeah, we got your red handle, man. You need to go on cash after that money. We're putting the footage out. Hey, man, go off that bullshit, man. They ain't got nothing, man.
Starting point is 00:48:58 They ain't got this, bro. The fucking Rupa's about to start doing that. Hey, man, fuck it. Put it up. Stick of this shit. You didn't got that d'nikov like, Bob. Go ahead, go ahead, though.
Starting point is 00:49:16 What happened? So, you know, when I came to him about it, he admitted what it was. And I was like, you are masturbating entirely too much. And he was like, you're working entirely too much. He was a stay-at-home husband. No, he was a stay-at-home husband. That's what y'all do when we go on too long.
Starting point is 00:49:32 You fuck. Hey man. At least he was jacking off. Yeah. He could have been cheap. Come on, huh? That's fair, but it's still like too much. That's too much.
Starting point is 00:49:41 Every day. No, he, that was a loyal nigger right there. Perhaps. Because that tape would have been at somebody else how, you know, on somebody. You know what I'm gonna bust two nuts right here. I'm gonna leave you with this. Two feet. Hey, getting stronger and stronger.
Starting point is 00:50:02 He jack it out the whole time. Yeah, my girl, lucky, he ain't put this one on a room. This motherfucker harder than a turf shell. That's cold, though. Do you think he watched this show? Give him a shout up. He definitely watched this. Say that nigga name right now.
Starting point is 00:50:23 No saying, man. I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that. Right, I'm not doing that. He's a cool guy. Shout out to the niggie, bro. He ain't gonna watch this.
Starting point is 00:50:33 He can watch the tape, man. I heard it in the background while I was watching Pinky. He's gonna be setting this shit up, pulling the tape out while he watched it. What the hell is? That's talking about me? Oh, shit. I don't like the point today, man. one of the day, man. It's too, it's too plotted out.
Starting point is 00:50:59 Back in the day, motherfucker might just be barbecured and a big walk up like, you want to fuck? You're like, yeah. It's too plotted out today. You're in the classroom, the teacher walking, y'all talking. Don't nobody even watch that shit. That's what you just fast for. You like a plot. I prefer like a set up.
Starting point is 00:51:15 Oh yeah, he freaked out. It's weird to just be like, how much I'm getting paid for this? What the fuck? Y'all ain't fucking yet. Yeah, no. I need the plot. Black one I don't have no plot. She just showed her head on be done.
Starting point is 00:51:27 What time we started? Can we all the fun of me eat? The camera cut off. Then she come back dressed like a strip with dancing in somebody living room. It did two play. It's thought out today. I don't like it today.
Starting point is 00:51:40 Then let's direct some porn, man. I said we could do that shit. For Uber meets. Hey, boom. But he's got to have a plot, though. You pull up and get your, you pull up and get your, I have a good idea for y'all. Yo, yo, yo, yo, uh.
Starting point is 00:51:54 Because I would never. do it but y'all can have it i'm gonna give it to y'all okay y'all can start our only fans right and get girls to reenact sex scenes for movies and then they can like put cardboard cutouts of like jada pink it on their face from from poet like what was the movie that she was in here that shit way i need the that ain't it yeah that ain't it no people will watch that people will watch that no and then the women have anonymity no all right fuck it is I'm going to put it out there and then it's going to be big and y'all going to wish y'all was on. Hey, little, don't forget it about me.
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Starting point is 00:56:18 all they were doing was talking about your thing in class. I ruined my baby's first day of high. school and slumflower what turns me on is when a man sends me money like i feel the moisture between my legs when the man sends me money i'm like oh my god it's go time you actually sent it listen to the good mom's bad choices podcast every wednesday on the black effect podcast network the i heart radio app apple podcast or wherever you go to find your podcast do you remember vine it changed the internet forever and it vanished in its prime i'm benedict townsend and this is vine seconds that changed the world, the untold story of genius, betrayal, and the app that died
Starting point is 00:56:58 so that TikTok could thrive. From overnight stars to the fall that no one saw coming, we're breaking down what made Vine iconic. Listen to Vine on the iHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts. You're letting the wine win, AJ. What you was drinking? They got that. What was there? See, you didn't get quiet. That shit hitting in. You're thinking to yourself now. That period of reflection. You know I was just think about during a pandemic I have put on Instagram like would anybody pay for a virtual strip club? They do. And a month later everybody was on my fucking. Exactly. I thought about it first. You see that's why when you think about some shit you got to put in the universe you got to go do it. You got to go
Starting point is 00:57:42 do it. Because it's like the 100th monkey thing like soon as one thought everybody is just spread. Yeah yeah. You got hurt and put it out. The only dad I was thinking about doing the quarantine is like now it's just like social media is just burnout at this point that's the shit that got us through the pandemic like now it's just what's next what these niggas ready for the metaverse there's a lot of people who don't like being themselves so they can't wait to be somebody reinvent themselves as a if you a man you want to be a grown woman avatar in the club in the metaverse no I already know my 40th birthday coming up I'm about to reinvent Who you gonna be?
Starting point is 00:58:23 Who you gonna be? He's about to get on Facebook with a jacket on? Facebook is like real life, right? Instagram is like for finesse. Black comedy where all I gotta do is get that old style microphone in a blazer in me. Oh. You're not doing that, I can't say. I'm gonna go crazy on that.
Starting point is 00:58:41 I'm like, man. That ain't even him. That ain't even him. No, they wouldn't waste a clone. They clone Tyrone. What do you think the old me? You think the old me will be quiet long enough of them to clone me? enough of them to clone me no no I'm gonna show up nigger that ain't me y'all don't
Starting point is 00:58:58 even fuck with your real partner nah but the clones still be you they just change you up no it'll still be you it wouldn't be a new body it'll be your body I find the way that you know they upload a new carlos I might not be able to physically say it but I would write that shit down like get out go help Carlos How can't he keep saying that for? This ain't me. I ain't shit in three weeks. I feel like that's what would be happening with Kanye.
Starting point is 00:59:30 Like the real Kanye will be coming out sometimes. I'm going to let y'all know something ain't right. I ain't shit in three weeks. Yes. I'll be scared when we don't hear from that nigga for a while. I miss him. My way, yeah, man. Say something, man.
Starting point is 00:59:41 God, damn. That nigga is somewhere like, let me see the footage of the hour, acting crazy last. I got the world thinking I'm crazy. This is the best shit ever. to be at home being regular than a motherfucker. Tadden the motherfucker.
Starting point is 00:59:54 I had some big-ass-a-boots on all day. Shit, turn that goddamn terrible-ass song. Who on that shit? Tide. Long day fighting the white, man. We're going to get him tomorrow, right? We got to get Ye in the trap. He'll come.
Starting point is 01:00:10 But he's going to say some shit that's going to make us have to just delete the whole shit. No, man, have y'all some real niggies? Y'all ain't going to delete it. I don't put it. I don't feel like he couldn't do that. If y'all are real niggins and you can do that. He couldn't delete it.
Starting point is 01:00:20 He couldn't. He couldn't do that around y'allelows. I don't think he'd come here and talk like that. That nigga was on Clubhouse a couple of weeks ago. That's Clubhouse. That nigga would come up in here, I probably. Not face to face with them. Yeah, he would.
Starting point is 01:00:31 Why not? I'm saying he'll come here, but he wouldn't say, man, just out of body. Yes, he would. He would. I think that's just him. Yes, he would. Now, see them drink chap, nigger, everybody was drunk.
Starting point is 01:00:40 Them nigger don't drink. Everybody was going to be sober. Kanye was hitting that shit and drunk. That nigga said something crazy up here. That nigga wasn't drunk. He was on point. He was hitting it. He put it to his mouth and sit it down.
Starting point is 01:00:52 He don't want to talk to us because we don't understand. We don't have the answers. You don't have the answers, Carlos. I don't. I'm not the nigger asking you, no question. The answer is love. It ain't. That's the answer.
Starting point is 01:01:05 Love. It's always love. It's always love. That's always the answer. That's beautiful. Let's clap for love this Valentine's Day. I clap for love. Maybe that is the answer.
Starting point is 01:01:18 Y'all was giving our hugs. That's love. people be going through shit and you get on that person that you feel comfortable way you could be vulnerable with what you start doing crying right when you get that hug from that person that's real love that's what the world needs yeah yeah we don't have enough love to go around that's the problem we got no structure to go around people don't grow up with love this realm hate prevails you think so nasty people prevail yeah absolutely evil shit prevail it's free thinking to me
Starting point is 01:01:50 Like, you can't pull somebody to the side and be like, hey, what you're doing this wrong? You can't do that no more. Why not? Because now it's like, you know, who the fuck are you to judge me? Let me do what I want to do. My truth. You know, because being wrong is so profitable. Right.
Starting point is 01:02:05 Loud and wrong. But some shit, some shit might not even be wrong. It's like, that shit has to exist, right? So we know what the fuck right is. So everything has a place, right? Exactly. So we can't condemn motherfuckers who don't necessarily. to do the shit as we see it's the ying and yang we just have to do a better job of avoiding
Starting point is 01:02:25 that type of shit not avoid no that's not fair you just find your people right right that believe what we should condemn them yeah but i'm saying not necessarily doing wrong but just no that's not my job that's what's all of our job they'd be like who are you to say that i'm doing wrong what's wrong though it's no structure yeah we're all living at free will because everything it's okay that's fair but you know the difference between wrong and right some people on the on the path the wrong that's their destiny they have to make these mistakes so they can know what right is so you don't feel like you can be in a position to help people correct their wrong yeah but sometimes it's not your position to help people until they'll accept it help won't even help until the
Starting point is 01:03:09 person is willing to accept it you can do everything you're not there doing it they're never going receive it right you see even if you help you still can't prevent people have to go to a certain phase and whatever they're going through before they realize that they may need help. Y'all let that run their course. Exactly. Just be ready to help and being ready to help and being available and having resources to help. Now that's that's the way that you can be prepared for that. Everybody ain't ready for help. Everybody ain't ready for hello. Right and that's fair but when you're speaking about adults when you're speaking about young people I think it's a different
Starting point is 01:03:42 story. I think adults and young people are the same people. I feel like adults need to ask what more than young people are. Sometimes it take people longer to get to the point of adults who your age don't have nothing to do with adulthood right I agree you can be a certain age and still have a childish mentality you know what I mean people get stuck at the phase where they had the most fun so y'all saying that y'all don't feel like y'all can get with a child and change the trajectory of their life just by being helpful actually but you still ain't going to be able to beat genetics and things that like that like that depending on the age of the child that's why all people be like like man who is his family who his people is to make sure you
Starting point is 01:04:17 meeting with some fucked-up jeans. Right. That should matter. Yeah, I don't like that. Jeans matter. You can't tell the motherfuck are they doing wrong these days. You can't, it's impossible. But you have to understand, though.
Starting point is 01:04:29 You can definitely give a child the resources to have a better future. They better be your child. Right. There's still going to be things and life and decisions that they make that aren't going to be the right ones. Right. That's part of growing up. That's fair. I don't see that.
Starting point is 01:04:43 Some of the people who did the most horrible shit had all the chances in the world to be great. Mm. Mm-hmm. I agree. I agree. And think of all the people that made it out the hood who didn't have shit, what they could have been, that they would have had two parents in the house. They wanted. You got to just somebody who cared. Right. And then once you get to the point of your life where you start taking accountability for yourself, that's what a real change. What you think of drinking a red cook? Accountability, that's a big word. Or yourself. Once you realize that your life is nobody's fault but yours. That's what people don't want to do about. That's sound like accountability. That's what we talk about. Ooh, that shit is sickening, man.
Starting point is 01:05:19 Accountability? Yeah. I don't like it. I see why the nigger stole from your ass. It's hard. Shut up. Accountability sucks. I mean, I do it, but I don't.
Starting point is 01:05:27 Who likes to be accountable? Like, especially when someone calls them out on some bullshit. It's hard to accept it, right? I'm glad you speaking your truth today. For all the women out there who I just dare that. Listen, that's everybody. That ain't just me. Because niggas, niggas can't stay mad for long type shit.
Starting point is 01:05:41 So we'll come on there like that. That's a lie, dog. I know some nigg is mad at me. That's a lie. Br, niggas been bad. Not in the relationship. Like, if y'all stay together. Niggas been mad at the niggas forever.
Starting point is 01:05:52 I'm not talking about mad with a niggins. I'm talking about mad with your war. Niggas don't get over shit. That's all you got to lie to them. Right. Don't ever tell a nigger the truth, okay? Most women know how to end the argument. You can't, she can end yours.
Starting point is 01:06:06 You can't end yours. You can't end her. You can't end her. Nope. Because you don't have the, see, that's what I was saying. The truth is. Dick ain't the same type of politics is. No.
Starting point is 01:06:17 All you offering this is a dick, uh-uh, do something else. This is a lot of shit in the stove. Nope. But if a man is really upset, pussy ain't gonna solve it. It ain't, but it'll help. It'll start, it'll start bringing that tension down. Yeah. That didn't work for.
Starting point is 01:06:32 That's not true. Yes, the fucking will. Facts. Yeah. I feel like that shouldn't have some slow head. You gotta have some slow head and a full plate. Okay, that's fair. Get that pussy away from me, bitch.
Starting point is 01:06:43 Yeah, that's the name you. Yeah. Okay, that's fair. We get to cover in our eye while y'all taking our draws out. But listen, y'all do, y'all have sex and then be mad after the sex. Yeah, yeah. The same mad you was before, so it don't change nothing. No, about two days.
Starting point is 01:06:59 Two days, man. That's a damn lie, man. No, that's a lie. It depends on what they mad about. Men hold grudges. Big ones. You can't tell niggas, nothing. Right.
Starting point is 01:07:07 You ain't figured. They got you fucking. They don't listen to me. They got you fucking imaginary niggas. All the type of shit. No, that'd be real. I don't hold no grudder, man. That'd be real.
Starting point is 01:07:15 That'd be real. No, that'd be real. That ain't up in that bad turn no head down. Right, that don't exist. Fuck that. You can't live like that. I'll be telling motherfuckers all the time, you cannot stress yourself over no shit like that.
Starting point is 01:07:29 No, man. Right. What'd y'all feel about open relationships? Hey, I ain't in one. You in a relationship? I'm not in no kind of shit like that. People who be in them, that's a different level. That's a special interest group.
Starting point is 01:07:43 That's a special interest group. So you don't ever want a relationship. you never want to be in a relationship just you and another woman what you mean like you and just a committed relationship like a committed relationship man now that's told a young men back then now wait till that dick stop working and you want to get a wife yeah that's exactly that's what my mom to say you don't want to write no more that's right there's too many pills out here for we ain't gonna go down that like pills you know that's some hating shit too because they make shit for men but they don't make shit for women they do make shit for women because pussy is all right
Starting point is 01:08:15 They're already too good. What they make some women? They got a pet pill. They got the honey. They got a hundred packs of women too. Yes, sir. They got all kinds of stuff. They're already too good.
Starting point is 01:08:24 They don't need to do nothing to it. Shit. Mm-mm. But you avoid in the relationship questions? No, I'm not ready yet. I feel like a nigga dessert. My leg hurt like a mom. If you had a wife, she would help you get that leg better.
Starting point is 01:08:40 You know, y'all niggas be out here, not eating properly. It ain't even that. your pee smell like goddamn ammonia. I feel like that you don't have a wife. Women keep women alive. Women keep men alive. But then here's the thing, women die early when they're married. Exactly.
Starting point is 01:08:55 For real? Yeah. Statistically, women die earlier when they're married. Niggas die early, period. See, that's why you get up. The Bible said, Don't do that. Don't do that.
Starting point is 01:09:06 Don't do that. Man shouldn't be alone. The Bible don't say nothing about women loving men. But you know why I say men shouldn't be alone because he need more than two people. more than two women. Y'all can't even say nothing. You didn't say that.
Starting point is 01:09:18 You just made me have like one of them life flashes. The epiphany? Hell yeah. What you think about? I feel like thinking about how you could be with something. Like you said, you get married, women live like their life expectancy is shorter. Can you imagine like your lady, she like on the deathbed
Starting point is 01:09:33 and y'all still arguing, you're trying to die and be with that nigger? Like y'all never let it go, you feel? That's like, men, home. That was shit. Yeah, no, I got the dad, his bitch thing is over. And look, no. Yes, the man go shortly then after, that happens. Them the niggas were so generous, they want to go see.
Starting point is 01:09:55 They want to go see what they did she doing. No, I think you're about to go disturb that nigga, that bitch's life. He wants to see what she's doing. He's going to cheat in the after life. Oh, that's what we're doing. They're going to have an afterlife. She's going to him. He's just in him.
Starting point is 01:10:06 They're chilling with Elvis and all these motherfuckers. Excuse me, God. So he said he better than me. My bad, I ain't mean the cousin in your shit. I mean your church, I mean your heaven, my man. I take out here in my first night. I'm sorry, I'm tripping already. But this bitch gonna die six years ago on me, homie.
Starting point is 01:10:25 This ain't said by nothing. We're gonna look over at the kids and blow it. Bitch ain't said nothing to me. I don't mean to call that bitch in your church. I'm sorry. Now here I am. My first day up here. You're gonna be cast out.
Starting point is 01:10:40 God ain't want to hear. Go to hell. No, let me talk to me. Can I talk to my wife? Can I talk to my leg? Can I talk to my lady? Can I talk to my wife? I can't talk to mom my fucking white.
Starting point is 01:10:54 You made that thing for me. I ain't mean a sick. Come on, come on. Take me to jail. Take it here. Take me the hell. Come on. Come on.
Starting point is 01:11:03 They're like guilty. I think a nigga deserve more than one. Then you get down there, the devil's advocate. He didn't let you say by to your wife. Yeah. That's fucked up. You want to talk to? Man, that's that.
Starting point is 01:11:19 Now you see why I don't like the niggas. Yeah. This is what... You see what I'm saying? That's what I'm telling you on? That's what I'm telling you on? Like, you know my heart. Like, you know my heart.
Starting point is 01:11:34 That's my brother. Nigger, on him. You don't believe in me, but look, on me, that's my brother. You still believe in me. You still believe in me. Come on, man. So y'all then guard his man? He didn't say y'all.
Starting point is 01:11:46 He ain't you say nothing. He never fuck with that. He never fuck with y'all, man. Y'all ain't even goddamn start getting free, you motherfucker. Hey, look where ya. Look where ya. Who got your free? Who got your freak?
Starting point is 01:11:58 Hey, my nigga, real nigga shit, real nigga shit. Is it hot down? It ain't even that hot now, Eddick. It ain't that hot now, Eddick. That ain't a t-shirt, well? Come on, man. They're their t-shirt, well. It t-shirt, well.
Starting point is 01:12:14 Y'all got jokes. Hey, give my nigger T-Tac-top. You thirst for my thing, gonna walk? They swear when you got this shit down here. Ain't that motherfucker cold. Feel it, feel the ball. All right, there. Oh, that you're hell, man.
Starting point is 01:12:29 And they swear when you got this shit down here. They're sweating when you got this shit. People in hell don't want. Little girl, feel that ball. A little girl, ain't it go. It's cold. People in hell, hell, won't ice walk. People in heaven want to come down here?
Starting point is 01:12:43 Yeah. Crazy. Oh, goodness. I think God is a man. Really? Y'all think God is a man. I don't think God is a bad or woman. Y'all can say he.
Starting point is 01:12:59 We had a conversation. He's the superior. Why he can say he? Obviously, you think it's a man. Right. Who on this earth can give life? She. Don't do that.
Starting point is 01:13:11 Right. Don't do that. Let's do it. A birthing person. Are we going up? We don't want to get deep. This is. We didn't get super deep.
Starting point is 01:13:18 Let us. You see that? So why y'all think God is a man? We don't. Why do you call me? I think whatever y'all. Because I only can reference to God and me. Okay, that's fair.
Starting point is 01:13:29 Period. That's why I used. This is nothing. It's like poetry. This ain't poetry night back there. He's like. He's like. Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 01:13:40 That's fair. that. And just like you said, women can create, like, that's the card of God, that's a baby. If you come in a sock, is it going to make a baby? I'm going to just ask one question. Hell no. Has there ever been a woman that created a man? Uh, anybody without some type of sperm, seed. Yes. I'm going to tell you all the word for it right now. Let me tell you. A woman could just get pregnant at nowhere. Yeah. There was one that they speak. Mary, bitch. Remember? Remember? That Jesus mama. Jesus mama didn't have sex. Joel is a fuck married.
Starting point is 01:14:13 Amen. And stole $5.00 by the person. I didn't. I didn't want to get this deep into the Lord now. No, they did not. You can't be on here talking about Jesus' mom. Yeah, no, I can't do that. Can't do that.
Starting point is 01:14:24 Because. Look, she was the virgin married. No, see, what you didn't have sex to get married. You asked the question. The virgin refers to her purity and her intentions. There you go. Virgin does not mean not. And it's actually not like she's a physical woman.
Starting point is 01:14:37 That wasn't the word for that means. She is a representation in the Bible. Like all of these people are Reparied. Her purity meant unmarried. Unmarried. So all of us who are unmarried are virgins
Starting point is 01:14:47 Yes. Facts. Maybe. No, every man you don't have sex with is a husband. Raw is your husband. That's why they said they had many wives.
Starting point is 01:14:57 They didn't have ceremonies with these women. They just had sex with them. This thing got real. Yeah. They were having sex sex. Every man deserved more than one one woman.
Starting point is 01:15:05 I'm just being in. No. All right can have many wives. I just don't care of. All men just don't. I got one, men created monogamy, first of all. I got one daughter. He didn't get no women.
Starting point is 01:15:15 Yeah, exactly. Yeah. He was ugly. Ugly, a little ugly dude. So y'all, if you're ugly on the inside, you're ugly mouth. So women be like, ain't no niggas out here. They just might be not as attractive. Yeah, you got a slug.
Starting point is 01:15:29 Sometimes, you know, you gotta fuck with somebody. I don't mind an ugly nigger. They got good spirit and can make me laugh. Bitch, y'all don't got no kids yet. I mind an ugly nigga, okay? My kid's gonna be. beautiful regardless. Both y'all don't have kids. I don't have any. I don't have any. What happened? My kids are going to be beautiful regardless. I just feel like I'm a bird.
Starting point is 01:15:48 And that's all they need to be. Everybody. Ain't nobody here to look at their baby. I'm tired of everybody. Everybody's beautiful. Knowing that ain't true. Oh, look at the baby. But they ain't cute. And then you know, it's easy to get a job when you got one. It's easy to get a job when you got a job. Yeah. Sometimes you need to look. You have your started kid you work your way up oh i got the word it's called parthiogenesis is when is when a woman can create without the spurns it doesn't exist but and it happened at one point it never happened oh me no i ain't never heard it that she has she said it happened she found the one person that it might have they said it happened one time they said they went to the moon
Starting point is 01:16:30 they said they went to the moon you all heard about the amazon women that's a bunch of women y'all take the two of us we don't get enough credit as men we don't get enough That's all I'm saying. Technically, we're pregnant right now. Facts. And look how y'all are you treating. When you born, you're pregnant. What a baby coming from?
Starting point is 01:16:45 My nuts. Facts. I got to put them, I got to put them in. But what she leaves it is no longer yours. We split this. You can't do it. You can't do it.
Starting point is 01:16:53 What I'm saying, though, is you got to look, y'all are you coming in dirty teeth tops and wife's feet of this shit. It's not a baby coming from here. You got the liquid baby. You got to cultivate life as a man. I got to put this baby in you and you
Starting point is 01:17:07 and you cook it. The seed. But when you release it is no longer yours. You can't cook shit to eat without no groceries, ma'am. They got to have a supply for us. Mine. Y'all, y'all niggins. Once we release it is hours.
Starting point is 01:17:19 We're on pay child support? This is your baby. Yes, women need to pay child support too. My, nigger. I said for the men who don't want to pay child support, this is your baby. He came out your nuts first. First. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 01:17:31 That's right. I carrying that nigger for 34 years. So you shouldn't be your own child support. You should be asking for a receipt. For a receipt? Yep, yeah. Came out my nuts first. I gave you joy.
Starting point is 01:17:42 Right. You are trying to make me pay for it, making you happy. We should easily be able to get custom. Come on, now. That's already mine. It's all right. It's my baby. She cooked it for me.
Starting point is 01:17:53 I thought that could be an argument. That actually is an argument. That sounds good. She put the banking soda on it and made it a real baby. Wipped it. She whipped it up. Water wet. You got to plant seed, though.
Starting point is 01:18:04 That's cold. But we got to do this shit together. That's the same thing. That's all I'd be saying. say. Right. Women shit out. Right.
Starting point is 01:18:12 We're walking around here with your future generations inside our nuts. Inside our ballsack. But after they come out. Your grandson is in there somewhere. On the left side. Talk to me knife now. Hey, hey. You're going to be a lefty.
Starting point is 01:18:25 Hey, we could create millionaires of fucking flunkers. Come on, man. It's all in about how you want to go about this. But you need me. Come on now. Yeah, that's true. That's fair. You got the other half.
Starting point is 01:18:37 It's 50, 50 guys. We got the bigger half. Can y'all admit that we have the bigger half? Yeah. Okay. As long as y'all can admit that. Yeah, yeah. Y'all got a very important hat.
Starting point is 01:18:47 Mm-hmm. It's kind of like that. I don't even know if it's half. I was about to say it's probably about a three-fourth. Yeah. That's all good. We got you on the back end, though. The front end, actually.
Starting point is 01:18:57 Yeah, yeah. Yeah. You know who really got over? All the niggas who went to the NBA and the NFL and, like, played baseball and shit, who didn't have no daddy. That means their mom got a hundred percent return on that child. Your dad tried to pop up later on. Hell no, don't get that nitty shit.
Starting point is 01:19:16 Buy him a truck. Roberto. All you're going to do is buy that a nigger truck and get his tea fix. You don't remember how water butt daddy showed up later on. It's me. It's your daddy. Roberto. By that nigger a truck and get his teeth fixed.
Starting point is 01:19:31 That's how you really got to do. A truck and a teeth fixed. That's it. Because he's going to be trying to talk shit. Yeah, 10 rack. Yeah, that's it. A huge truck, too. Nutra.
Starting point is 01:19:39 It's new, though. Damn, he ain't never had shit. Mom living like a fat rat, though. As she should, right? I like how y'all think. Y'all more than welcome to come back over here anytime. Channel 85.com. Go get the app. You got an hour for free.
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