The Adam and Dr. Drew Show - #1935 You're Out Of Words

Episode Date: October 31, 2024

Today, Dr. Drew continues exploring the concrete jungle, Adam dissects his clairvoyant crystal brain, and they explore the different stages of life for women. Plus, they examine the ongoing plan of separation between heritage & gender groups,Drew enjoys Posh Spice getting shut down, and they take a voicemail carving out "It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown". Leave us a voicemail: SpeakPipe.com/AdamandDrDrew OR Click the microphone at top of the homepage, AdamandDrDrew.com

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Dr. Drew Pinsky. You're listening to the Adam and Dr. Drew show. Yeah, get it on. Got to get on. That does board survive. This isn't express special. So they're coming from New York's home studio in New York. So, you know, I was walking around the city yesterday, uh, and something occurred to me, you and I never really talk about or never really make explicit. I know you're very focused on chick think, chick thought.

Well, can I jump in real quick? Sorry? Yeah. If you notice, Drew, I float theories. I'm like a soothsayer where I just put my hand up on my forehead and I go I'm getting messages and bits and pieces. Somebody with the name M. Yes, yes, yes. And I start, I lick my finger and I try to figure out which way the wind is blowing. Also I'm like an American Indian in a book, you know, right? Just go, got a bad feeling here. Got a bad, and they go, what? That is your main thing.

All of a sudden you go, hold on, what, what, what, what? Bad feeling, but there is a reason. It's not, I'm not speaking to the dead. I don't have psychic abilities. I'm tuned in a way that is more sensitive than others, you know what I mean? It's like a truffle pig can find truffles, a greyhound dog can't and neither can you.

Well, what's the truffle pig doing? Well, it has the ability to sniff something. Well, is there something invisible? No, it's there, you just can't see it, but the pig can. So what is that? So I'm just tuned. People don't like when I talk this way, but I'm tuned to see things before things happen. I think people will be able to accept that you as a truffle pig. I think that analogy. Now, what ends up happening, Drew, is I start saying these things out loud But there is no basis for them. There's no it's great that we're talking about talking to the dead on Halloween

But keep going I say the shit out loud and then everyone looks at me sideways and goes What are you talking about? And I just say here's what I know and Give you a class. But. 1996. I don't know what's going on, but Bruce Jenner's turning into a chick and we all attacked you. We were all like, what?

He goes, you gotta know. I don't know what it is. But he's trying, I'm just telling you, he's turning into, we're like, what is that? What are you talking about? Yeah. That was 1996. Yes.

Now, what did I see? Well, I saw something that other people don't see when they looked at Bruce Jenner. But I felt it. I didn't have any certificates or medical essays on it. And I didn't talk to him about it. I just saw something was happening. That's all. Patterns. Yeah. By the way, for that, people should come to me and seek my advice. They do not. They do not. They do not seek the advice of the crystal brain, but that is fine. I, now what ends up happening, the crystal brain is speaking. What ends up happening is other members of our society start speaking about the things

I was talking about 10 years before that. Yes. Let's be fair. I've seen that at least 20 times. More people are now kind of talking about women and chick think and how this is kind of leading us to a place that isn't fantastic yes so I talked about it initially and now you hear others speaking about it yes it's it's sort of it's like a cloud that's forming it's not got a clear image yet but it's the material that you've been discussing for quite some time. Yes. There's an aspect to it that I thought, wow, we never really talked about this. And this is kind of interesting to me, interesting psychologically,

biologically, and in terms of the stuff you're talking about, which is way more than men. Women have different stages of life. Like they are different when They are little girls when they are pubescent, when they are young adults, when they are adult adults. And when, and I was walking with some women my age and we walked by some 25 year olds and I thought, Whoa, the difference there, this might have been the women I'm standing by might have appeared like that. I'm not talking about attractiveness.

I'm just talking about the presentation of the person. It's a palpably different personhood. And it's all under the influence of these hormones that are just massively influential at different ages. Like I said, I've picked age 12 for a reason, and then young adulthood for a reason, and adulthood for a reason. These are different hormonal environments.

And it creates different affects, different personality styles, and different priorities, and different thinking. We never talk about that. No, we don't, you know, so there is an attempt to kind of remove biology and even sort of, there is a sort of overall, I believe, attack on sort of kind of science, biology, medicine in the... Well, certainly as it goes, it starts with the gender stuff, right?

Right, right. It starts with the gender. No one is... It's because of how misrepresented sexual preferences were by the medical system. Yes. That's why that they get cut with that brush. It's also, it's always about the verbiage,

you know what I mean? It goes to, you know, your gender assigned at birth, oh, the old white guy decided you were male, you know what I mean? And then this weird kind of parsing out, like, well, now then there's sex, male, female, but then there's gender. Now I say, I'm gender fluid, you know? And they just, they start, male, female, but then there's gender. Now I say I'm gender fluid, you know?

And they just, they start, again, it's previously housed. You know what I mean? Atmospheric bomb, you know, whatever, river. It's all extra double nothing talk, just nothing. We just heard AOC in the last show say nothing for four minutes, right? Did she say anything? Dude, come on. Dude, I mean.

Never say that. Dude, like, come on. Like, seriously, come on. Okay, you're out of words. You're out of words. Then stop talking. And stop talking. You don't have things to say. You know, we should really look at people's behavior. But let's, sorry, but let's get back to this. But go ahead. Let's get back to what you're saying. There are differences between men and women.

And they're- What? How dare you? You are spewing hate. And there are differences and they're better at different things. That's- More hate. More hate. How dare you? That was the plan all along. Nature's the- More hate, more hate. Right.

How dare you? That was the plan all along. Nature's no fool. Plan now? Oh my God. Yes, that was the plan. So there are certain things you'd rather have a guy do and there's certain things you'd rather have a woman do.

And that's fine. It doesn't make one better than the other. It just means different skills and also different interests. You know, I would never want to be a nurse. I would never want to be a nurse. I would be, I just wouldn't, I would hate it. I just would. But I liked being a carpenter. It was, I found it fulfilling and I still like it. And again, this is how Jordan Peterson got himself in trouble. Let's remind ourselves that history.

What he kept saying was Scandinavia has the most gender equitable environment for particularly job selection amongst other things. And the more equitable and the more resources you put at both genders disposal, the more they segregate into classic patterns that you associate with those genders. And oh my God, how dare you. So it's continued. That was what, 12 years ago we said that, 14 years ago. It's still the same. Still the same. Right. So what they need to do is kind of break everything down and then they can start the process of rebuilding in their image. You know what I mean? And the thing that's interesting about their process

is men and women, they're trying to meld into just sort of one thing. But heritage and ethnic identity, they're trying to define clearly and break off into separate groups as much as they possibly can. They're not crazy. They're into morphing men and women but they're not into morphing black people and white people and Indian people and Mexican people. You know what's even more crazy? That's as we are co, um, we are, uh, creating more ethnic diversity amongst the kids that are being born. Right. While they are busy separating people,

we are busy biologically merging all the different ethnicities and regions into these, whatever we are in America, that, that number is going up fast. Yes, it would have to. I mean, it's just gonna happen. So, the plan is, they have a plan of separation and then define, and also they like groups. They like the gay community and the lesbian community

and the whatever community. I never, it always seems very weird and tribal and sort of racist and scary to do this group, you know. You know, like, you know, when Obama's like, come on, black man, what's going on here? Scared to vote for a woman? It's like, well, maybe they have agency. Maybe they don't like some of the policies also Kyle can look it up, but You know you think about that statement Obama's like come on black guys do do black stuff Cuz I'm half black and

And these people are gonna and Kamala Harris is half black, which is still a little dubious. Someone's gotta, there's something going on there. She seems a lot more Indian than black to me, but that's okay. The point is this. He's basically saying, hey black man, come on, I'm black, and I'm telling you to do black stuff, so do it. Now, black men vote, I think they're probably like 70% for the Democrat Party and then black women are like 96%, which is always remember women

always nuttier. I think black men can look it up? It's probably the high 60s, low 70s in terms of the Democrats or Kamala Harris, right? So when I'm saying to Obama, who turns out not to be a good guy, I mean he's a race hustler now and so is his wife, which is sad. I feel disappointed in him because he could do a lot. And I said a million times, Oprah, LeBron James, Obama, they could do a lot if they wanted to, but they don't.

They hustle. They hustle race, and they get paid. But just listen. There's 10 black men in a room right mmm how what percentage is that do you know it's about 70% still looking give me a second hmm so you said the internet works I'm never sure how it works cuz that thing's a thing that I'll be like oh that's gonna take 10 seconds to find on the internet. Kamala is about 90 something percent with black women and maybe 69 or 70% with males.

77% black men vote Democrat or vote for Kamala. Is it that high for Kamala though, is it just Democrat party? Okay, Kamala, 77%. Okay, so here's what's going on. Are you ready, Drew? Yeah. You listening?

I am. Obama is in a room with 10 black men, right? Yeah. 2.3 out of the 10 men are not voting for Kamala Harris. 0.3 out of the 10 men are not voting for Kamala Harris. The other eight men, or more than seven and a half men, are voting for Kamala Harris. And he's walking over to the two guys that aren't voting for Kamala Harris,

and he's going, what's wrong with you? Why don't you do what black guys do? And the answer is A, fuck off. B, this is insulting. C, maybe these guys are real estate developers and they work in New York City and they have a job that they think would benefit. Maybe they're high income earners

and they don't like the corporate, they don't want the corporate tax rate raised. Maybe, I don't know, maybe there's a bunch of people from Honduras that moved into the YMCA across the street from their house because the borders are open. I don't know. Maybe they have an opinion that's different than yours,

perhaps. Is that okay? Yeah. No, you're not. It's also bullying. You're not talking about bullying. You're not gonna tolerate the two black guys that don't vote as you see fit.

But by the way, your party's done nothing for these people in 50 years. They're starting to catch on. So maybe they have a different opinion than you, and they're not doing what you want them to do, which is vote their skin color, which is pretty racist to me. 73% of black women support, I knew it was lower than 70, 70 some bitch. All right, 73%. Yeah, it might be lower.

My analogy, all right, listen, whatever, I said 70%, god damn it. The point is, the analogy still works. There's 10 black men in a room and Brock's talking. Seven of them he's got no problem with, but three don't think like him. Yeah. Yeah, that's bullying.

That's the opposite of democracy, but okay. And speaking of gender, they now know that masculine men, guess what, they're gonna die masculine men, guess what? They're going to die younger. Oh, good everybody. They, so don't be masking because it's, it's life threatening. And we've known forever that, that, you know, certain kinds of guys are more likely for heart disease and aortic dissections, and they also smoke. They also are stressed out working really hard.

They also take more risk. So please stop it with the masculinity is now a life, now threatening your life. Not crazy. Well, is that, where is that study from? It was out of Chicago. It's a University of Chicago study. But really what I think they're saying is traditional masculine traits, like what they're defining is not showing emotion, not seeking help, you know, trying to show strength, that they're at risk for a

lot of poor health decisions because they're not seeking out the help. Mmm. Yeah. So again, exactly like I said, those are the guys that we've always known do less well for a variety of reasons. This is not new information. This has been going on forever. It's why when we started talking about testosterone replacement, there was great concern about the impact on heart disease. And this whole narrative about stress and heart disease

has been largely, if not entirely, debunked. Really? It's bullshit. Except guys who have stress smoke more, drink more, that kind of shit. But where there is stuff that masculine men are that we've again also always known and you'll appreciate this. Men, particularly independent minded men do not like going to the doctor. That's all of us and all men don't like one of the doctor.

And this is a constant chronic issue in healthcare. don't like one of the doctor and this is a constant chronic issue in healthcare. Well, you know, women start early by going to the gynecologist. That's exactly right. That's exactly right. And so we've known that. We've, and we've tried to figure out, you know, how to get men used to this thing. I'm guilty of it. I shit, I waited until I had prostate cancer to just get my proper care.

So you know Yeah, but also there is an element an element of Guys who really work For a living. Yeah work. They wear their bodies out. Yes, you can see it You know, they've spent way too much time on the roof Yes, you can see it. You know, they've spent way too much time on the roof Roofing, you know every day the Sun gets them the posture, you know the bent over the whatever and They're eating off the lunch truck back when the lunch truck was not the gourmet lunch truck. That's not stress. That's hard work That's life. Yeah. Yeah, you you you short of

You know their cars You know you get into some of those New York cabs back in the day and you can feel there's 300,000 miles on that suspension, you know, I mean you can feel that car. You know what I mean? Yeah it was always interesting because You'd look at the yellow cab and it looked fine Yeah, you'd crawl the climbing of the back seat and as you drove from the airport to the city, you could feel that that thing had hundreds of thousands of miles.

You couldn't see it, but you could feel it when you're inside of it, you know what I mean? And there's people that just work. Yeah, I hate this whole lunch truck thing, you know? The reason I hate it is because, you know how everyone's trying to get the street cred? I was talking to you off the air about this yesterday when we were talking about everybody grew up poor

and everybody was hard working, middle class. I mean, look, Kamala Harris has two parents that were both elite professors at elite universities. Just like you. Right, so she's trying to work this middle class thing all the time, which is middle class is your dad drove a truck and maybe your mom was a school teacher or a nurse. It's not elite college professors at Berkeley

and going to prep school in Canada is not that either, but it's all an attempt, right? It's all an attempt. I was telling her about this clip, I'm looking at Emmy. Remember we're talking about Beckham and Posh and she was trying to pitch this thing, Emmy knows, about being middle class growing up and he tuned her up and Drew's never seen the clip.

I was telling you about it over the phone. It'll make you laugh. It sounded impressive. It's perfect. It's part and parcel of exactly what I'm talking about. Yeah. Hey, I'm Adam Kraw. That's Brad Williams parcel of exactly what I'm talking about. Yeah. Hey, I'm Adam Kroll. That's Brad Williams and Jay Leno. Hey, everybody.

Over there, we're doing our third annual comedy, Fantasy Camp. That's going to be January 23rd through the 26th, right in Hollywood, California. Where else would it be? These guys are going to be there. So remember, two out of every three comments, make it big. Oh, one and a half. Do I get paid for this? Please tell me I get paid for this. Go to comedyfantasycamp.com and get in on the fun. So, I had to eat off a lunch truck, Drew.

So, I had to eat off a lunch truck, Drew, back in the day, back when those things were just shit boxes with cold sandwiches on them. And now there's the Kobe beef lunch truck and all the cool gourmet taco lunch trucks and everything. So now when I go, I ate off a lunch truck they go cool All right, well play this clip watch this clip drew. I'm ready and and you have to ask yourself Why is Posh spice saying this and then why is your name posh? Right interesting. Okay, but here we go. We're very working, working class.

Be honest. I am being honest. Working class. I am being honest. What car did your dad drive you to school in? So my dad did. No, one answer. My dad. What car was it? It's not a simple answer because. What car did you get your dad to drive you to school in? It depends. No, no, no, no, no. Okay, in the 80s my dad had a Rolls Royce. Thank you. Thank you. Oh, okay. By the way, that's how life has to work

because these people won't do it. You know what I mean? Like Beckham needs to interview Kamala Harris and go, you worked at McDonald's. Which McDonald's? Just tell me the location Tell me the location. Tell me the person who what's your manager's name? He may still work there. My manager's name was ken

He was a large man of color and I could name three other people who worked there with me And I can tell you exactly what I did and then also If you work at the mcdonald's drew,, I cannot stress this enough, you will learn the lingo. Oh yeah. Just like, you know when you look back, you played high school football, right? Yeah, yeah. You can kinda go down, set, hut, you know.

There's a cadence, there's a thing, or you played Mike and you played stud linebacker and we ran a five three or five two, and then later on we ran a four four defense, whatever that thing is. You learn that in McDonald's, they have a rap. Of course. And I remember mine from a million years ago.

You're part of a team, right? Part of a team and you, sounds better than it is, but what I'm saying is, is you can't just go, I can't walk up to the front and go, hey, the burger thing, how many of the, not the double ones or the big,

the one patty ones ones how many of those you want with the cheese on there they just got a whole thing yeah and then you got a you don't yell the stuff is ready when you're done with the burgers you say burgers up rap please yeah so that's that's how it works. Now if Beckham was interviewing Kamala, he could get the answer out of her and he could ask her about basically growing up in Canada versus Oakland. But none of the 60 minutes people can figure that one out I Guess they had a dr. Kamala Harris

Photo circulating pass with who doctored the photo. Yeah, apparently we're gonna put it up. But yeah, they had a photo Circulating of her in a McDonald's outfit and they found out that it was a doctored Replacement from this original who Who circulated it? Just sort of fans? Well it's up in the air. It might have been Trump trolls who got it out there in the first place so that people would carry it, but we don't know who doctored it. But this went around this last weekend. It was kind of funny. Oh I didn didn't even I didn't even those outfits look like Sort of era specific or appropriate. I can't remember mine were brown Yeah, the brown ones Brown polyester pants and brown they yeah, they may have had a different color for the women But again, once again, you'd go in the side door You'd go down to the basement where the laundry was, you'd get your uniform,

you'd change into it, you'd come back up and then you'd punch in. I remember that super clearly, clock in. And all- Well, even that part's interesting. You had to be suited up before you could clock in. I kind of remember being bumped by that. By the way, I'm getting $2.44 an hour, so. Hang on a second. People think you may be exaggerating that amount. That's about, 250 was, we went up to 250 and it felt like big money at that point, remember?

I've looked it up before. Maybe it was 260. In 1980- My first hourly wage job or minimum wage job was $1.63 I think. In 1980, what was the minimum wage, Kyle? I've looked it up for it, and maybe it's 283 or something. The point is putting the uniform on

and then clocking in versus clocking in because the time clock was right by the side door. But you'd have to walk past it to go get dressed and then go punch in. Oh, 310, look out world. Wow. So the tax is the 244. I have problems.

So I remember just thinking it's really only about 11 cents, whatever time it takes for me to go, you know, get this stupid thing on, then go back up and I could kind of trace my steps in my mind at that place. They've got, pardon the pun, seared in and speaking of searing, that's part of what I would do. You know, you'd hit the burger thing, you'd punched a button and it'd go me me me me me and speaking of searing, that's part of what I would do. You'd hit the burger thing, you'd punch the button and it'd go me, me, me, me, me, and you'd sear after one minute and then me, me, me, and you'd flip it over and then me, me, me, second sear, like whatever.

Just that stuff that you would recall and you get really specific about. But it's the same way that if someone said, Adam, you're not really a carpenter, are you? Come on, people say you're not. I wouldn't go, well, people have their opinions. I'd go, all right, well, how about I walk you through framing a house and you can go get Norm Abrams over there and he can tell me if I get anything wrong. How about that? But they don't do that, which does suggest they're lying. But all part of the Beckham prophecy, Drew, which is I worked at McDonald's.

My dad didn't have a Rolls Royce. We were very middle working class. Working class people do not drive Rolls Royces ever. And working class people don't have two parents that are professors at elite universities. Which is something to strive for everybody. I'm not putting it down, but part of the problem is we are putting it down. I would like my, I wish my parents were professors at elite universities and had a Rolls Royce. And that I didn't work at McDonald's.

Those are my wishes. None of those dreams came true, Drew. They were all dashed. All right, we have one more voicemail, Drew. They were all dashed. All right, we have one more voicemail, I believe. Yes, we do. Adam, you should take a deep dive on the Halloween favorite,

it's the great pumpkin, Charlie Brown. As compared to today's children's vocabulary, several complicated situations and four syllable words, 1963 versus 2024. Let me know what you think. Hmm. All right. I don't understand the question. I don't get it. He's saying, Drew...

Yeah, Adam? When you read letters written during the Civil War from 17 year old soldiers back home who have a 9th grade education, they're very eloquent. And so he's saying Civil War soldiers with 9th grade educations were much more educated because of our old fucking system. I mean we just listen to a We just listen to what's her name speak AOC right? Yeah, she's like man. That stuff is bad and stuff, you know, dude Dude, come on dude. Come on with your stuff with it and it's all bad. I mean, come on, dude Like okay, that's the product of our modern

education system. See what I'm saying? So he's saying, now do you know what he's saying? Well, he said something about, I didn't understand the four letter word part. He said something about, I think the Greek pumpkin Charlie. I think he said syllable. Okay, I couldn't hear him.

Okay, so they're here. No, well, play it again. Let's see see because this is an interesting little experiment, Drew. Yeah, I could he was faint for me. I can't hear him very well, so I missed it. Adam, you should take a deep dive on the Halloween favorite. It's the great pumpkin Charlie Brown. As compared to today's children's vocabulary, several complicated situations and four syllable words 1963 versus 2024 okay stop it so it's interesting but here's an interesting thing people say four letter words yes they don't say for

the adage is that guy said a four letter word not like I said a four syllable word so You may not have been hearing it volume wise, but also you did it you did an auto fill in your brain Yep, I have auto correct to my brain. That's not you complain about all the time. It's not good. It jumps jumps Well, I'll tell you why it's not good I'll tell you why it's not good. I knew what direction he was going with this comment. Yeah. He wasn't saying they used to swear a lot on prime time children's television in the 60s. That wasn't what he wasn't going there. So by the time he got to four syllable versus four letter, I was already there.

Yeah. And I knew what he was saying. He slurred a couple things before the four letter and I was trying to figure out what that was. And then I didn't hear the four syllable because I was trying to figure out something he said like three words before that. I do find myself frequently standing in between people

who are having conversations explaining to each person what the other person is getting at. Yes. Constantly. And I knew where he was going to and that's why I was confused by the whole thing rather than concluding what he intended. If you spend a lot of time with Mike August you will have to get in between him and whoever he's talking to and sort of explain what the conversation, what is happening in this conversation.

I didn't be able to in the field experience. Yes. I'm like a triage nurse in a mass unit. I've been doing this my whole life. Also, I've been around a lot of babbling women too, or have to, you should be tuned up because your wife drew, we have to explain constantly is I'm like a UN interpreter, but I only tuned up because your wife drew, where you have to explain constantly. I'm like a UN interpreter, but I only speak English. But I speak logic fluently.

So that's why. So that's why I have adopted a policy, I don't wanna say this too loud, just to keep our distance away. My policy is hold on and I walk over and I stand right next to her to be sure I can hear what she's saying Because it has to be interpreted so I can't miss anything. Yes. All right, uh

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