The Bechdel Cast - Tootsie with Nori Reed
Episode Date: April 23, 2026Hey Toots! This week, Caitlin, Jamie, and special guest Nori Reed are talking Tootsie (1982)! Follow Nori on Instagram at @norireedSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
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Hey, Tuts.
Hey, doll.
Hey, honey bunny.
Hey, excuse me.
That's actually not cool.
That's not cool when you do that.
And then I'm surrounded by women that are like, wait.
What?
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They must also have names and the exchange should be meaningful in some way.
This is like 0.05% of what we talk about on the show.
but still my favorite way to find out that someone has actually never listened to an episode.
They're like, yeah, that's you.
And then you just kind of, what, we go through the script, right?
No.
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And one of those episodes that you're like, you think it would have happened earlier, it just didn't.
And I don't know if I've had this many notes in quite some time.
Pages, pages and pages of notes.
So much to say.
Oh.
So much to do.
So let's get our guest.
Let's get our guest on the mix.
We need her desperately today.
Yes.
She's a writer and comedian.
It's Norie Reed.
Hi.
Hello.
I want to start just by giving a really huge disclaimer that I chose Tootsie.
I chose Tootsie.
I have never seen the film.
I've heard of it in pop culture, referenced in shows, and I've never seen it.
And Caitlin and Jamie did not reach out to me to,
to do tuxy, okay?
So save the hate mail.
I appreciate that.
Put the pens down.
Put the pens down.
Do not cancel this show.
I did this.
I did this.
Are we recording on Trans-Day of Visibility?
Yeah.
Yes.
Yeah, it is.
Put the pens down.
Put them down.
There was a part of me that was like, should I text Nori and be like, you don't have to do this today?
You can find another time.
Any other day is fine.
Yeah, they asked me to do Tutsi on Trans-Day Visibility.
Yeah, I was kind of like, I mean, if you want me to, I guess.
We sort of gave you no choice.
Yeah, we were like, you have to do this.
You were going to call my agent.
It would be really cool if you did this.
You guys had guns.
It was so weird.
It was like weird.
Yeah, we kind of tied you up a little bit.
I like that.
That part was nice.
Well, that part was hot.
Light bondage.
Yeah.
Which Tutsi, that pervert would have loved.
Oh, my gosh.
Okay, so you had not seen this movie.
So when you said that in the email, when you were like, Tutsi, I've never seen it.
I was like, well, let's just see what happens.
Oh, my God.
First of all, like, who, like the fact that the whole movie, you have to suspend your disbelief that, like, people don't know that Tutsi's a man.
Like, what, like, that's so funny.
Like, everyone's just like, yeah, that's a, that's a, that's a cis woman.
Right.
It's like, no, that's Dustin Hoffman.
What are you talking about?
That was wild.
That was so wild.
The, yeah, the world that this movie takes place in, you're like, what are the rules here?
There's, like, even on the idea of like, oh, it would be way easier for an older woman to get a job than a white guy in his 40s.
You're like, where am I?
He's so difficult to work with.
And men who are difficult to work with famously, they can't find work.
Just kidding.
Yeah, the premise that there is a deeply empathetic maternal figure inside of every frothingly angry
cis man is just such a strange premise.
Yes, if a man is short enough, he has to become a woman.
And that is the message of the movie.
I'm obsessed with like acting class culture.
So like I did love like the the footage of them in acting class.
And like I love Barry.
Like I have such a soft spot for like actors.
So I really did love that part of it.
You know?
Sure.
Yeah.
I mean there are this movie I think it has its moments.
But there's so few.
So few.
So few.
So this was your.
So this was your.
First, yeah, what, what, give us the, give us the cliff notes.
Yeah.
Are you a fan?
I, there were, there were moments where I was disassociating.
I'm going to be honest with you.
Like, there are moments where I had to get on my phone and like go on Instagram because
I was just so overwhelmed with like what was going on.
Yeah.
He like also was like such a bad person.
And like, I was just like, wow, like, you were awful.
And like, that was rough.
like he was just such a bad, bad person to everyone in his life.
Bad guy.
Yeah, like he was just sucked.
Like, the one part that made me laugh that I really, maybe I shouldn't have laughed,
but it really got me is towards the very end when like, when the horrible, like, older actor on set, like the doctor, um, what's his name?
Oh, Dr. Brewster.
He goes, whenever it's finally revealed this whole time that Tutsi's a man and then he gets the button and he says,
Does Jeremy know?
That really made me laugh.
Like I was like, that's funny.
That's actually funny.
Oh, because he's talking about his roommate.
Bill Murray's character.
Right.
Okay, Jeff.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Jeff, I'm so sorry.
He was like, he was like, he was like, does Jeff know?
Like that really, I was like, that's, that's funny.
Yeah.
That's objectively funny.
Yeah.
That's a, that's a moment.
That's a moment in a long movie.
Yeah.
Yes.
And like the fall character.
like his his love interest like who uh is like the dummy like I just hate I hated that I hated that
like she was being pushed around and like lied to and was like the dumb character I just like hated
that I yeah the crime of of because Terry I think Terry Gar is giving a really good performance
in a movie that just like doesn't deserve her at all yes yes yes that scene where she's
yelling at him. I was like she's so good in like her big scene and then she disappears. She falls off
the cliff. Oh my god. I have so many notes about her. There's there's too much. Jamie, what is your
relationship with this movie? This I feel like probably a lot of people have it. So my mom loved
this movie, which I watched a, there was like a free version of this movie on YouTube and I was going
through the comments because there was a ton of views on it. And I was seeing that a lot.
of like, oh, my mom loved this movie and we watched it together.
So I remember my mom sitting me down and watching this movie with me in probably high school.
I remember liking it at the time and I hadn't really come back to it since.
So I came back, Leary being like, well, a lot has changed since I was in high school.
I'm a completely different person.
and this could just go so many ways.
And I did not like the way that it went.
I am not a fan of this movie,
but it's one of those movies that people still,
I mean, in people our age,
still will really go to bat for in a way that,
I don't know, I was combing through letterboxed.
I was like, what do people say about the movie Tootsie in the mid-2020s?
And it is still, I think, like, kind of delethora.
I'm illusionally praising the elements of this movie that just, like, maybe it seemed intriguing in 1982, but I'm like, I don't think that there's really a case for it.
I'm sure there's a nostalgia component.
I'm sure.
I mean, for the time in 1982, there were hardly any movies that were addressing gender as a concept and feminism and women trying to stand up for themselves and be empowering and, like,
this just was not a thing that was happening in most movies of this era.
So I imagine that's why like people of our mom's generation and especially women of our mom's generation really hold this movie close to their hearts.
But yeah, revisiting it now.
You're just like, mom, we need to circle back.
Like what's going on in this movie.
I like Dorothy.
I hate Michael Dorsey.
Dorsey. I couldn't hate Michael Dorsey more if I tried. He's a piece of shit. And I just, I object with the, I'm like, Dorothy would have nothing to do with Michael Dorsey.
And she is hot. I mean, like, like, the most unbelievable part of the movie is that Dorothy and Jessica Lingling's character.
Julie. Yeah. The fact that they didn't hook up is so, is, it's like they would have hooked up. If this was real life, like, they would have had sex. Like, like, like,
Dorothy's so hot.
She's like really like she's got it.
And like exactly what Julie is looking for to.
Like Julie's inviting her over late at night.
Literally.
They're having so much wine together.
Like, come much wine.
She's like, you're so beautiful.
Like, come on.
Stop.
The soft focus meeting her like family.
Yes.
She's in love.
I have the character.
I mean, I don't know.
I don't like the movie.
I think some of the characters are.
interesting but they're just like where they end up is so like Julie's ending is so depressing.
I'm like do not under any circumstances state Michael Dorsey. No. Get away from him.
Sandy Lester's disappeared from the movie. Anyways, I don't know. It's a weird one.
I under yeah, I think that this is a big nostalgia movie for people, but if it's been a while,
give it another watch maybe and get back to us. Caitlin, what's your history with Tote?
I saw this during the great Caitlin movie.
movie binge of 2005.
And...
Major.
Huge.
Yeah.
Huge.
Yeah.
I thought it was corny as hell and low-key bad.
I did not like it at all.
I thought...
Good for you.
And not for the same, not for the exact same reasons.
I don't like it today.
But I think there is some overlap.
I've never liked the Michael Dorsey character.
I don't care about his problems or his journey.
And like you were saying, Nori, I was having a hard time
suspending my disbelief.
Also, they just, like, promote Dorothy to showrunner.
Like, out of, no, they're like, well, she's going to do it.
She's going to do.
I was like, have you ever seen how people treat actors?
They're like, shut up, meat puppet.
Get it right.
Like, it's so weird.
And, like, there was just so much about, like, I don't think Dustin Hoffman was
doing a good job because there are a lot of roles where cis men play women in
a movie or a show, I'm thinking of
Louis Anderson, especially in
baskets. Well, that's because that's his truth.
Constantly forget that that's Louis Anderson.
I mean, at a certain point, you're like, okay, that is a trans woman,
and we have to be honest about that.
Yeah, so it can be done very well,
not to the same degree, but I think John Travolta
as the mom and hairspray, like, sometimes I'll be watching these characters,
and I'm like, I forget that that.
Summer Heights High, Jamev, like, you're like, that is a high school girl.
Like you just.
That's a girl.
That's a teenage girl.
Yes, for sure.
Yeah.
And then there's Dustin Hoffman doing whatever the hell that is with Dorothy.
That accent.
His idea of what a woman acts and moves like.
It just felt so cartoonish and goofy to me.
Because unlike you, Jamie, I do not like Dorothy.
I think she's better than Michael Dorsey, but I find...
Maybe it's by comparison.
And I also, like, the character that Dorothy plays, Miss Kimberly, I find her grading, like, the whole performance, I just, I don't, I have never liked this movie.
I never felt compelled to watch it again.
And so revisiting it for this episode, like 20 years after the first time I saw it, I also was like kind of, I think I had like Mandela affected.
myself with this movie.
I thought it had,
I thought the themes of like,
and he lives as a woman for a while,
and that really teaches him a lesson about how sexist he used to be.
Well,
I think that that's what people thought the takeaway was at the time.
I think that is a popular narrative around this movie.
And then you watch it.
And then you watch it,
and that barely happens.
Yeah.
No,
he invent,
the movie would have it that like,
he invents feminism and then ignores it.
And then ignores it and learns nothing from it.
Yeah.
Yes, that is the trajectory of the story.
So anyway, yeah, it was a very interesting rewatch.
We have so many notes, so much to discuss.
Let's take a quick break and then we'll come back for the recap.
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Well, what happens in Tootsie?
I'll tell you, we meet Michael Dorsey.
Boo.
Played by Dustin Hoffman.
Boo.
Michael is an actor
who we see teaching acting
classes, putting on theater
makeup and fake mustaches
and all that stuff. He's auditioning
for various roles
and stage plays and things, but he keeps
getting rejected. They're always looking
for someone else.
For money, Michael works at a restaurant
as a waiter with his
playwright friend
slash roommate Jeff, played by Bill Murray.
Yeah.
I totally memory hold Bill Murray being in this movie in a pretty large role.
I was like, I just, I didn't remember.
Also, in my memory, Gina Davis is the lead, not Jessica Lang.
There's so much Mandela effect with this movie.
Yeah, including it being good.
Like, there's so many weird things about this one.
But yeah, yeah, Bill Murray, we can't get around it.
There he is.
He's there.
he and Michael are trying to raise $8,000 to put on a play that Jeff wrote.
Also, a part of this production that they're trying to put on is their friend Sandy,
played by Terry Gar, an actor who is prepping for an audition for a soap opera.
And Michael coaches her, but she doesn't get the part.
Then Michael finds out that he didn't get a part in a play that he was supposed to
be up for. So he goes to his agent George, played by the director of this movie, Sidney Pollock,
to be like, what the heck, George? And George reveals that Michael has a reputation of being
very difficult to work with and no one will hire him. But you know who people do love to hire?
Middle-aged women. They're the most workingest people in the world, as we all know.
So off-screen, Michael decides to start presenting as a woman to try to get.
So we cut to him in a dress, wig, makeup.
He has decided to become Dorothy Michaels, since no one will hire Michael Dorsey.
But he's only going to do this for auditions.
he's not going to like live as a woman because he is still a cis man yeah he goes for an audition
for the same role that sandy got rejected from a soap opera called southwest general
dorothy also gets turned down at first because she's seen as not the right type she's too
soft and delicate so dorothy gives an impassioned speech that shows that she can be tough
She invents feminism.
She invents feminism on the soap opera.
Yeah.
And the director, Ron Carlyle, played by Dabney Coleman, is impressed by this and casts Dorothy in the role of Miss Kimberly, the hospital administrator.
And so just to clarify, we've got Dustin Hoffman playing the character of Michael Dorsey, who is playing the character of Dorothy Michaels, who is playing the character of Miss Kimberly.
Yes. So there's so many layers. It's like Shrek with onions. Onions have layers. Very onion-like performance. Yes. Yes. So during the audition, Dorothy meets Julie Nichols, played by Jessica Lang.
Who what an Oscar for being in this movie? Which, I guess. I sure. Weird wind to be. I mean, she's like good, you know, like,
Yeah.
She's doing a good job, but I'm like, was it, huh?
It's not like a standout performance or anything.
No, I thought she was Gina Davis for half the movie.
Yeah.
Yes.
Okay, so Julie is a cast member who plays a nurse on this soap opera.
And Dorothy slash Michael takes an instant liking to Julie.
He's got a little crush.
then Michael still dressed as Dorothy approaches his agent George and reveals like oh it's me Michael
and tells George that he auditioned as Dorothy and landed the role of Miss Kimberly and George is horrified by all of this
he thinks that Michael's sick in the head then a short time later Michael as himself is hanging out with Sandy
she doesn't know that he is pretending to be this Dorothy person,
especially because Dorothy landed the role that Sandy was trying to get,
and that would be a huge betrayal to their friendship,
something that Michael keeps secret the whole time.
So, yeah, now we're introducing the classic element of deceiving women for most of the movie.
It's so bizarre, because it's like the movie tries to rationalize it.
in this way many times it almost seems like intentionally to keep sandy excluded from being anything
except a like desperate love interest basically yeah where yeah like she is like bill murray's in on it
the whole time bill murray and the agent they're making these nasty little comments with to to michael
that are i think intended to make michael look like a better person by comparison even though he
fucking sucks. But like Sandy, the whole like premise of it is like, oh, well, she's too emotional
to handle knowing that I did this thing. Like, and, and did it, you know, after she failed to get this
job. But it's like, they're like, well, I would tell her, but she, it's just so old school. Like,
they're like, I would, but she's too hysterical to handle the plot of the movie Tootsie. I'm like,
well, then what is she doing here? Right. Well, you called her a love interest, but she's a love interest that
he's not interested in.
No, she's interested in him.
I mean, that's, I feel like that happens to a lot of, like, comic actors a lot.
Like, Terry Gar, undisputably haughty, right?
But, like, she's presented as too emotionally fragile and less desirable than Jessica
Lang, just, like, by the story and by the fact that Michael is, like, not interested
at her and therefore feels comfortable treating her like shit, because he's not attracted to her.
So no need to trade her like a person.
Certainly.
Yeah.
Although they do have sex because what happens next is she leaves to take a shower.
They're about to like go grab some food or something.
Michael undresses to try on some of her clothes because he's been shopping for women's clothes to play this Dorothy character.
And then Sandy walks in on Michael while he's almost naked.
And he plays it off as he wants her.
He's attracted to her.
Cut to they've just had sex.
And then she's like, you'll probably ignore me now.
And he's like, no, I won't.
And then he does.
And then he just does for basically the rest of the movie.
Yeah.
And then he'll show up and be like, hey, sorry, I'm late by seven hours.
And she's like, oh, all good.
I was like, Sandy.
Sandy.
God.
Yeah.
Yeah.
that scene was disturbing.
I did not like that scene.
And it is not the most coercive, disgusting scene in the movie.
They saved that for the very end.
Yes.
Oh, my God.
Okay.
So Michael as Dorothy heads to the first day of shooting the soap opera.
Dorothy finds out that her character on the show has to kiss a man.
We'll talk more about this.
but Dorothy is uncomfortable because my goal is uncomfortable with kissing a man.
So Dorothy stands up for herself and she changes the scene, goes off script,
and everyone's like, sure, okay, that works too.
And this is the beginning of Dorothy.
Have either of you ever performed, like, where you're like,
hey, I would like to make an extreme change to the script.
And everyone's just like, all right, we have no choice.
Like, it is just so bizarre.
Yeah, I think that usually does not happen like that.
I don't know.
I don't know.
Any soap opera heads in the crowd?
Can you just be like, actually no?
I know that that's not true.
But it is very weird that they present it as true.
And the fact that no, if this, that this is true and no one else has ever taken advantage
of it before.
Like no one else goes off book for the entire unless I, unless Julie does it at one point and I'm not remembering.
I think only in response to Dorothy.
Got it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
No.
Usually that gets you fired.
If you're just continuously going off book for the role that you, that lines are written for you're expected to say those lines as written.
If you don't do that, you get fired.
But people love Dorothy Michaels.
People are going cuckoo for Dorothy Michaels.
Yeah.
Which I, again, like, it's, I guess, like, an interesting idea that, like, they're
like, oh, Dorothy's character, not even her, but, like, Dorothy's character seems to
really appeal to, like, working in single women and, like, appeal to middle-aged women,
which is an interesting idea.
Unfortunately, there are no middle-aged women.
there are no middle-aged women in the movie to really engage with.
Like, you meet a producer at the beginning.
There's like two women on set who fall into this age range.
And I'm like, well, I wonder what she thinks about this.
But they, you never really find out.
And so it just becomes this weird detail that Dorothy Michaels appeals to middle-aged
women because the women we meet are like hot young women.
So, I don't know.
Yeah.
Right.
Because Dorothy's episodes of Southwest General
start airing on TV and people are becoming like huge fans of Dorothy. They're flocking to get her
signature. Her co-stars Julie and April Page, who's the Gina Davis character, also really
appreciate Dorothy's work on the show. Ron, the director, isn't so grateful because he's sexist and he's
always being condescending to Dorothy and to Julie. Yeah, he's very much a like the worst guy ever.
character. Again,
that like we see all the time to make
the other shitty guys in the room
seem nicer by comparison.
Like he's just so awful that you're like,
well, no one's going to see themselves in this guy.
So maybe they'll think Michael Dorsey
is awesome. Right.
Is that the actor who plays the
horrible sexist boss
in 9 to 5?
Oh. I think it is.
Maybe. I haven't seen 9 to 5 since
we covered it a long time ago.
Yeah. I've recognized him. And then I was
Like, I think that, so he's basically playing the same character in both movies, if I'm thinking
correctly.
Wild.
Okay.
Yeah.
But anyway, then Julie invites Dorothy over for dinner to run some lines as well, which is
exciting to Michael because he's got a big crush on Julie.
But he shows up as Dorothy.
They bond and have a nice time.
But, oh, no, Michael remembers he was supposed to have dinner with Sandy.
This is the second time, and there will be more after this, that he has blown her off or forgotten that they had plans.
Yeah, I can't tell how much of this.
I know that, like, we're obviously meant to feel for Sandy.
But sometimes her being stood up, I feel like it's like visually supposed to kind of be a joke because we see her like alone and drinking alone and she forgives him so quickly.
I'm just like, I don't even know how I'm meant to be feeling right now.
I feel bad, but like, I think we're meant to pity her more than empathize with her.
Sure, yeah.
That is a great way to put it.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, I think we are sort of encouraged to view Sandy is kind of pathetic in a way that is, like, upsetting.
Yeah, for sure.
Terry Gar deserves better.
Yeah.
Okay, so Michael rushes over to Sandy's place.
She's still upset that she didn't get that part on Southwest General.
she thinks that Dorothy and her character, Miss Kimberly, suck.
And this is partly because she doesn't strike Sandy as the tough character Miss Kimberly was supposed to be.
So Dorothy starts changing the script even more and making up her own lines that are more, quote unquote, empowering to women.
and the fans are loving it even more.
Dorothy gets a bunch of fan mail.
She does all these photo shoots.
She ends up on the cover of several magazines.
Then Michael goes to a party where he sees Julie.
And even though he's there with Sandy,
he goes up to Julie and tries to hit on her.
But she throws a drink in his face.
We'll talk more about the whatever.
the love story between them.
But then Julie invites Dorothy
to spend the weekend with her
baby and her dad,
Les, played by Charles Durning,
who has taken a liking
to Dorothy.
Old Les has a big old crush on Dorothy.
Yeah, him in his bad politics
and his dead wife.
Yep.
And then this weekend getaway with all of these people is I think one of the corneous sequences ever committed to film.
What the hell is that song playing?
I think it's an original song for this movie.
I'd never heard it before.
Yeah.
I don't know.
What the hell was that?
It was no good.
And the whole time Michael dressed as Dorothy,
because Julie doesn't know that Dorothy is actually Michael.
But Dorothy is like looking at Julie longingly.
They have to sleep in the same bed because even though this house is huge,
there's only one bed in one bedroom for them to sleep in together.
Meanwhile, Les is pining after Dorothy.
Yeah.
This fucking guy.
He goes on a tirade about gender.
and he's very pro
traditional gender roles.
Yeah, he starts it like many
scary fathers
slash grandfathers where he's like,
so let me start by saying, do whatever you
want, but, and then says
something extremely regressive
or hateful. So I'm like, okay,
so don't do whatever you want.
Anyways, it's firmly
1983. It is the Reagan
administration
in this movie. Yeah.
In this movie.
It sure is.
then Dorothy finds out that her contract is being extended on this soap opera for another year,
but Michael doesn't want to keep playing this Dorothy and by extension Miss Kimberly character.
So he's trying to get out of it.
He wants to go play like lettuce off Rideway or whatever the fuck.
I kind of, I'm like, you can just tell, and I think this is intentional, you can just tell based on the description.
of Bill Murray's play that it's fucking awful.
Like it just sounds rank.
And he's such a pretentious piece of shit.
Yeah.
Then Julie asks Dorothy if she can babysit for Julie's baby
while she goes and breaks up with Ron, the director,
because Dorothy has empowered and inspired Julie
to not put up with Ron's bullshit in his mistreatment.
And then Julie returns home after this.
she's sad that relationship is over, she's feeling lonely, and Dorothy tries to kiss Julie
because Dorothy is actually Michael and Michael is in love with Julie, but Julie doesn't know any of that
and so she thinks Dorothy is a lesbian and she's like, oh, no, thank you, yucky.
I don't want to be friends anymore.
It feels, I'm sure this comparison's been made before, but it feels very similar.
in, well, not similar in tone necessarily, but like, it's like a Moulin thing going on here,
where I feel like they're towing this very specific line to, like, reinforce.
Well, ultimately, all of these characters are straight.
Yeah.
Where it's like, oh, there's an attraction between these people, but something isn't quite right.
Like, and so the movie can, you know, have it all, always, and we can still end with, like,
a sisterate couple at the end of the movie.
Right.
So then Julie's dad, less, is like, hey, Dorothy, will you marry me?
And Julie is all like, oh, my God, you're going to have to tell my dad that you're a lesbian.
And all this stuff.
Yeah, it becomes all of a sudden so urgent for Dorothy to out her.
I mean, at least in Julie's mind, for Dorothy to out herself to a guy she's met one time.
Like, you're like, that's no, there's, no, what?
It's so ridiculous.
Yeah, he's, he's proposing after knowing Dorothy for like two seconds.
Then there's a scene where John Van Horn, who is the actor who plays the doctor,
Dr. Brewster, in the soap opera, he has stalked Dorothy all the way home.
He's trying to get into her apartment.
He manipulates his way inside.
then assaults Dorothy.
Oh, yeah, he tries to rape her.
Yes.
It's, yeah.
And only doesn't when Jeff comes in and he handles this whole thing.
Everyone handles this whole thing very either poorly or bizarrely.
Yeah.
But John just kind of drop it after it after it happens where he like Michael's just like, well, I'm having a wild night.
Yeah.
John leaves.
But then Sandy shows up and Michael has to hurriedly, you know, like shower off all of his Dorothy makeup.
And Sandy's like, why aren't you returning my calls?
And he's trying to play the whole thing off.
He continues to lie to her.
She calls him out for his dishonesty.
We'll talk more about this scene and their whole relationship.
But she ends up storming out.
And so now Michael is at a loss for what to do.
His friend Sandy is pissed at him.
His love interest, Julie, doesn't want to be friends with him slash Dorothy anymore because she's homophobic.
Michael doesn't want to be Dorothy anymore, but he's stuck in this contract on this soap opera.
And on top of all of that, the editor of the show spilled celery juice.
And now I learned that celery juice exists.
And I'm like, it's been.
What was happening in the 80s?
I don't know.
But the editor spilled celery juice all over the footage.
So they have to do a scene live on TV.
So Dorothy takes that opportunity to remove her wig and makeup and drop the falsetto voice and reveal that the character, Miss Kimberly, is actually a man.
Her brother Edward, giving this whole soap opera.
explanation for why and everyone is like oh my god julie walks up to michael and punches him and now
michael is really really sad he pushes over a mime in a park i forgot about that and i watched
this movie yesterday he does push over a mime in a park he pushes over a mime he meets up with less
to give the engagement ring back and less is disgusted and humiliated
because he's also homophobic, like father like daughter.
But Michael's like, well, I'm in love with your daughter, Julie,
and Les is like, eh, all right.
But just so you know, she never talks about you or anything.
So then Michael, despite that, approaches Julie to try to like smooth things over
and she's still pissed at him.
And he gives this like barely an apology.
And crucially, she says, I miss Dorothy.
And then, which is intriguing.
But then he's like, well, I'm Dorothy.
You're my girlfriend now.
And she's like, hmm, maybe I am.
And you're like, what a bleak ending.
Yeah, yeah.
And that's how it ends.
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Okay.
I mean, where to begin.
Norie, is there any place you want to start?
I don't know. I don't know. Yeah. I don't know. I don't know. There's just too much. Should we start with a little bit of context, I guess, for this? And then we can really dive in. There's not a whole lot, but this movie was inspired by a play that a writer named Don McGuire wrote in the early 70s called Would I Lie to You about an unemployed male actor who crossed dresses to find jobs. The script,
was shopped around Hollywood for years.
It went through different rewrites, different producers and directors were attached, different
stars were attached.
And then the script eventually was shared with Dustin Hoffman, who wanted the role and also
wanted complete creative control of the project.
Dorothy Michaels coded behavior.
Yeah, he's like, I'm just going to do whatever the hell I want and no one can say anything
about it.
Yeah.
And he wanted Sidney Pollock to direct.
And to try to get him interested, Dustin Hoffman approached Elaine May to do a rewrite of the
script.
And she did a couple things.
She added the Bill Murray character, Jeff.
She fleshed out Sandy's character.
So Sandy was even less thought out than she currently is.
That's so, what a bummer.
What a bummer.
So I'm guessing Elaine May added like Sandy's one good scene, maybe.
I don't know.
I, yeah, let's go with that.
Let's go with that.
Yeah, so she made different changes.
Elaine May is not credited as one of the writers, but she did this rewrite.
Of course not.
Of course not.
We don't want to get the, the ugly idea that women were involved in this production.
Yeah.
Yeah, the credited screen writers are Larry Gilbert and Murray Shishkel.
And then before production began, Dustin Hoffman,
worked with a voice, speech, and body language expert named Lillian Glass to learn how to speak
and have the body language of a woman, which again, to me, the performance he gives feels very
just like weird and stilted and like he is capital P performing woman or like his bizarreo idea
of what a woman is like.
Yeah, and the accent was just like, it really blew me away.
It was like so strange.
Like there was a stutter that he put into it, which was so, like, what was that choice?
Like the, he would stutter.
And it was like, why is that part of this woman's experience?
I don't.
He's just like, he's always doing too much.
Like there's just always this energy of like Oscar nomination for, for me in all.
of his roles. I mean, I think Rain Man is the most egregious of those, but like, he's just always
trying to get an Oscar. There was an interview that he did maybe 10 years ago around this. And
you can listen to other Bechtelcast episodes for, you know, Dustin Hoffman fucking sucks as a person.
Bad, bad guy. But there was an interview he did about this because, like, I don't know. Once the
credits are rolling, I was just like, who is this for? Really? Like, who is this for? Really? Like, who
was this movie four and I feel like he kind of gets at it unintentionally in this interview because
he gets very emotional talking about titsy he's crying oh my yeah and you're like god I love actors
but they give you so irritating he's crying crying he's crying and he says this he's talking about
the process of like you know finding dorothy basically and the accent and all these things and
towards the end of the interview he says that he's
He was feeling emotional and talking to his wife about it and said that the reason the character
appealed to him is because, quote, there are too many interesting women.
I haven't had the experience of knowing in this life because I have been brainwashed.
That was never a comedy for me, unquote.
So what are you saying there is that he has never in his life considered talking to a woman he's found
unattractive.
And so by playing a woman that he did not find attractive, that actually was life-changing
for him and he was crying about this.
And you're like, okay, so I guess the movie is for whoever feels that way.
Sociopaths?
Like people who don't experience the emotion or feeling of empathy and they have to actually
become that human being to feel any possible empathy.
So Tyra Banks, I think that is who this movie is for.
Oh my God.
Yeah, Dustin Hoffman and Tyra Banks shirt.
really sit down and try to define empathy together.
And just, I don't know.
First of all, I don't buy that this movie changed his views on women.
Anyways, similar to how him playing a woman in the movie, like the Michael Dorsey character
seemingly learns no lessons.
Yeah.
The movie wants you to think he learns a lesson, but when you look closer, what growth
does he actually clearly demonstrate?
I would argue very little.
I just want to go through, I have a monologue if you'll indulge me.
Not unlike Dorothy giving all of her monologues.
Yeah.
Okay, so we have Michael Dorsey, a cis man, dressing in disguise, more or less, as a woman,
so that he can try to get acting roles.
So first of all, he's literally taking, a man taking away jobs and income from women.
While playing into all of these like horrific still persistent stereotypes around drag.
Yeah.
And through this character, through Dorothy and again by extension Miss Kimberly,
all these fans fall in love with Miss Kimberly because she's bold, she's assertive,
she's empowering, she stands up to sexism.
Women want to be like her and the show is more popular than ever because
of this Miss Kimberly character.
There's even a producer who says something like,
you're the first woman character who is her own person,
who can assert her own personality without robbing someone of theirs.
And it's like, okay, well, that's a fault of the writer's room for not writing any dynamic
women characters.
But anyway.
Well, yeah, that, again, that producer character, like, I was interested when she first
shows up, but then, like, you sort of are led to believe she has no power on what happens in the show that it seems like she's in charge of.
You're just like, wouldn't this be within your power?
Maybe I miss something.
I don't know.
Shrug.
But anyway, so Miss Kimberly is regarded as this beloved, empowering woman, the only woman character like that on this soap opera.
But again, the actor playing her is actually a cis-men.
And so we have to think about what are the implications of that here?
And I like,
when I have a whole list of options.
I'm curious what y'all think of this because of the specific choices that Michael is making for Dorothy slash Miss Kimberly.
Like he's the one changing all of these lines of dialogue and like making this character more assertive.
And so is the movie suggesting like, oh yeah, well, only a man would think to like take these creative liberties and do something like that.
playing into the notion that men are just inherently more assertive and dominant.
Or is it suggesting that because men are socialized to be more assertive and dominant
and women are socialized to be polite and delicate,
that a man pretending to be a woman is the only way a woman character could be assertive
and dominant because of the way people of different genders are socialized differently.
Or is the movie trying to comment on the one-dimensional, tropey ways that characters who are
women tend to be written, especially by writers who are men, because the Miss Kimberly character
is originally written to be more flat and stereotypical. Julie's nurse character on the show is
similarly flat and stereotypical. But if this is commentary, I would argue that it is not very
effective because, again, a cis man who has lived his whole life as a misogynist being the one
who sheds light on this and opens everyone's eyes to the way women are being represented on
screen, you know, not the best person to deliver this message. Yeah. Or is it saying that people
will finally listen about sexism when it's a man pointing it out, because this happens all the time in real life, where people who are oppressed and marginalized will point out that they are being oppressed and marginalized and no one listens until people with privilege point out that others are oppressed and marginalized, and then everyone starts to listen to that. I don't think it's that one, but there's just all these.
Weird.
I wish I had asked my mom what her takeaway was at the time because I think that's a good, interesting study.
But I think what they're trying to do here and then like in the context of the story, it doesn't really work or make sense.
I mean, so much of this doesn't work or make sense.
It's kind of upsetting.
But that like I think that it's like, oh, by the Tyra Banks thing, by embodying Dorothy, Michael's able to learn empathy for women.
But that's really not how the story plays out.
But I do think that that was maybe a lot of people's takeaway.
If I were to hazard a guess at what my mom took away at the time, I think it was that.
And if it, yeah, like if it was that, then the reveal would be so much different.
Like in his like reveal where it's live on camera and he's revealing that he's actually a man,
it would have had some dialogue around like, and I learned that.
from being my sister that you guys treat women a really bad way because I'm her brother and I'm a man and I like there would have been dialogue around how he played he was his sister and he now knows that you know women like but like literally there was none of that and like after he's revealed to be a man there's no reflection nothing it goes directly into him trying to
prepare any relationship that he can to have sex with Jessica Lang.
And he literally, like, goes to the bar.
Like, the bar scene with her father is one of the weirdest fucking scenes.
I think I've ever.
When he's like, he's like, I am a man.
Like, like, it goes back to like, don't worry.
I'm a man.
And I'm going to.
And I'm not gay.
I'm not gay.
I'm not gay.
And I'm wanting to buy you a beer as a man.
And like, we're a man.
I'm going to have sex with your daughter.
I was like, what the fuck?
is going on? What is happening? Like, merely 15 minutes before, this father was trying to have
sex with Dorothy. And, like, literally now Dorothy's like, I'm a man. I was like, what is going?
It's so the people who the movie lets us see their reaction versus the people that we don't is so
telling. Because it's like, personally, I don't give a shit what Wes thinks of all this. I am curious what happens
with Terry Gar.
But the last thing we, the last we see of her, she's like, what?
And that's it.
Like, she's gone.
Yeah, this movie is like, it's just so ultimately around like, whatever, anything it might
that people thought it was trying to say, I feel like it really backpedals on at the very
last minute where it's like, but to be clear, we were all straight, sis.
All straight rhyme.
No worries.
Let's drink a beer.
Let's crack a cold one.
Let's let's let's, let's, let's, uh, let's put some pee and to V and go not.
Men are men and women are women and don't get it confused.
Okay.
Yeah.
He shows up to her place of work and he's like, you're my girlfriend now and let's get out of here.
My favorite character was like, I feel like the beginning.
There's a crew member who has a headset.
She's black and like I feel like she's like the only character who like knows that Dorothy's a man.
Like I feel like there's moments where she's kind of like looking around kind of just like.
You all seeing this?
Like, what are we doing?
Like, what is happening?
Like, I feel like I trusted her with my life.
Like, I was like, this woman knows exactly what's going on, but no one will listen to her.
She's the smartest person on set.
In the way that black women are almost always the most discerning people in the room.
And if only she was given any lines of dialogue.
Literally.
I kept waiting for her to have something to do.
And it's, I learned a little more about the actor.
Lynn Thigpen, who passed back in, she died quite young.
She died in 2003 in her 50s.
But she had, again, just like, it is so frustrating, especially when it's like the,
this is really the only black character with, like, meaningful dialogue and she still
has nothing to do.
And of course, like, she's played by a, like, Tony Award winning, like, incredible actor
who had, like, won an Obie, won a Tony.
She, okay, iconically to me, two millennial things that she was a part of, she plays the chief in where in the world is Carmen San Diego.
And she also plays the moon in Baron the Big Blue House.
Right?
Like, I was like, okay, a legend.
But of course, like this movie just completely squanders her talent and doesn't write her a character.
It's just a mess.
It's a mess.
Yeah.
I think the reason the takeaway for so many people, even though by our standards today,
feels like scraps, it's peanuts, it's almost nothing.
But at the very end, when Michael approaches Julie and he says, I was a better man with you as a woman than I ever was with a woman as a man.
I just got to learn to do it now without the dress.
He really thought he was doing something.
Yeah, he was like, I'm cooking.
I'm cooking here.
And she's just like, he might say that and he might feel that, but we don't see evidence of that.
We're not shown anything to that effect on screen.
Yeah.
So it falls really flat.
I had something I went to, there was a ladder boxed review from a user really like
Sally Jane Black wrote a review of this movie, a couple of,
I think a couple years back
that I think like kind of
captures a lot of like why this movie
doesn't work. So I just wanted to share
a little bit of it.
She says quote,
feminism is not men learning to empathize
with women by using them.
Feminism is not a man praying on a woman who has been
his friend for years to keep up a lie.
Feminism is not using Michael's disgust
at being kissed by a man as the inspiration
for his changing character to be stronger
skipping ahead a little bit.
There is an undercurrent of
turf thinking here. In the service of making a film addressing the plight of cisgender women,
this film presents the argument of those right-wing misogynist parading as quote-unquote
feminist, that men will dress as women to invade women's spaces, prey on them, lie to them,
manipulate them, that a man presenting feminine is nothing but a predator. While this is emphatically
not a film about a trans woman, it still rings in the hearts and minds of those who want to
hate trans women. The argument is not and should not be walk a mile in our shoes. It should be
patriarchy holds you back too.
It goes on from there.
We can link it in the description.
I thought it was a really thoughtful review of this movie
that of course random letterbox users
were being absolutely unhinged in the comments of.
Oh, God, I bet.
But I think she sort of expands on
all of the very regressive, homophobic and transphobic
and misogynist stereotypes that appear in this movie
and sort of try to tell you that it's like a progressive thoughtful character.
I don't know.
I really, I really like that so much.
It reminds me of, do you guys watch Real Housewives of Beverly Hills by chance?
I have, yeah.
Well, there's a nonprofit called like Walk a Mile or something.
And there was one season where Taylor wants all the husbands to be in this like marathon race where the whole premise is that you're going to
run in heels.
And they're all cackling
and all the husbands are going, that's crazy.
Like, we have to wear heels like you.
And like, it's supposed to raise money
for like survivors of domestic abuse.
And it literally, the whole thing is like how funny
that this big man is going to
wear these stupid little
heels that we wear.
And it's like the whole thing
is so gross and so
like, like to me this is the same culture.
is Tootsie. It's like, it's this such, so, so strange. And it's about how different gender
experiences, like, are supposed to relate to each other and in like this like umbrella of
misogyny. And it's really weird and gross. And it just reminds me of that. Like, how funny that
these men are going to put heels on. And it's supposed to like raise money for women survivors. It's
like, weird. Yeah, that's insulting and bizarre.
Yeah.
Well, similar to, again, even though Michael Dorsey is a cis man pretending to be a woman,
there's still transphobia inherent in the way that everyone who knows about what Michael is doing
thinks it's weird and that he's sick in the head.
Oh my God, you're going to wear women's clothing out in public?
Well, and like crucially, he really only ever talks to other cis men about this.
Right, because it's George and Jeff.
And they're both like, ooh, yucky, what are you doing, you weirdo?
And Michael's just like, shrug.
Shrug.
Yeah, like, they never explicitly say it, but there's just weird underlying feeling of like all the men being like, of course we want to do this too.
Like, obviously I want to wear a dress too, but it's disgusting and shameful.
And there's this like weird underlying current of like, yeah, of course, like men would be wearing dresses if we could.
like, but we're not supposed to.
And like, it's just like their whole relationship to like cross-dressing is this weird feeling of it existing and it being very inherent in culture, but so shameful that like you obviously can't talk about it or do it.
But like the way they talk about it is like this weird like knowingness that it's there and it happens and that people do it.
Do you know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
Yeah, no, I, it's so, like, and I think going back to like something you said earlier, Kitlin, it's just like if this was the best that like pop culture had to offer at the time, like, what a sign of how bleak things were at this time where there is this.
And there are two other movies that I honestly have not seen either of them, but they came out in either 1982 or 1983 that explore similar themes.
at Victor Victoria with Julie Andrews comes out this same year
and then Yentel with Barbara Strasan comes out the year after
with what I understand to be similar premises.
I have not seen the movies but it's like this was clearly like on like this was
something that's in the zeitgeist.
Yes, there it is.
It was in the zeitgeist at this time but like not in a way that
it just feels like it's stopping short of saying anything intentionally or like
in this very Reagan-era way, presenting something, and then at the end saying, well, but never mind.
And let's restore the quote-unquote normalcy and let's restore order.
Yeah.
Everyone take off your costume.
Yeah.
And live as the gender you were assigned at birth.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It was, it was interesting to watch this as a trans person and kind of like see the progress that has been made.
Like, you know, we are regressing so much as a society, obviously, if you look at anything that's, if you're awake and you can see anything that's happening in our country, it is terrifying for trans people.
But with that said, like, it is crazy just to see the progress.
Like, as a trans person who's like in the industry, it's like, wow, like, this is where we were at that moment.
Like, you just, there was, like, the jokes that were made.
the only way people interacted with him cross-dressing was through like psychiatry of like,
okay, you need to see a psychiatrist.
You need to like fix this and figure it out.
And it was crazy just to see that like there has been progress.
Like there has been, it's been amazing to see that there's progress and that it, I don't know,
just like I forget.
I forget that like, you know.
We have come away.
Yeah.
Comparatively, possibly a long way.
in 45 years since this movie came out, but also with all of the legislation, we're going
backwards.
Yeah.
But culturally, there are significant differences where we actually have trans characters on
screen played by trans actors.
I just remembered, like, was it last year or something?
Like some right-wing production company, they released a movie about like cis men,
basketball players having to do drag and be cross-dress and be women to like play basketball.
Really?
Wait, I didn't.
I just not hear about this.
Yeah.
Yeah, I saw ads for it.
And I was like, wow, like, we are back at Tutsi, huh?
Like, like, that's so funny.
Like, we're back.
We're back in Tutsi.
And now we're correctly classifying it as Republican.
That's so bizarre.
Yeah.
Yeah, I don't know.
I rewatched a section.
of disclosure just because I remember Tutsi coming up quite a bit in that documentary or like there's
multiple clips from it. And the section that I watched, I think it's interesting that and just like a
point that I didn't consider on this first run, but how men in drag in the 80s specifically were kind
of often positioned as a way to make it in a way that we see all the time seem like women had it
better than men at this time.
Women had more opportunities.
And there was, I forget what the other 80s movie was, but they used Tootsie as an example of
like, well, a man in drag has a chance of being more successful in a professional
environment, which is just like so ridiculous on premise and would be treated better and paid
more and respected more than if they were just a random guy.
And then there was a different movie that was cited that I wish I could remember the name
of that is even more ridiculous where it's like men in drag that are like the plot narrative
is that they're trying to get better housing and you're like in what world it's I don't know
I'm sure that someone has written a like doctoral thesis on why exactly this was happening in this
moment but it was like you see it again and again it's just bizarre it just reminds me of the
80s in terms of like in terms of women's liberation of like you know sexuality
power. Like I feel like it was, you know, the 70s, the 60s, like, now I'm going back
multiple decades. But I just feel like with like liberation, it must have been some sort
of pushback and some sort of like pushback against this like women being sexually free and being
like, oh, so now you're like, because, you know, with misogynist, like only viewing women as
sexual objects. And like, I just feel like there's some weird relationship between like women
being more sexually liberated and being like, oh, so now you have privilege.
And now you can, like, have more than men because, you know, I can only look at you as a sexual object or something.
Right.
And that threatens people.
And that's why there's always these cycles of progress and then backlash and then progress.
I mean, it's why there's so much anti-trans legislation happening right now because trans people are more visible and freer to exist in the world.
than they once were, and that upsets a lot of horrible people, and hence the pushback.
Yeah.
I mean, yeah, like what you were saying, I know you were talking specifically about drag,
but in terms of like the trans experience, like I feel like there is a lot of hatred of
specifically men towards trans women because men are miserable.
And they, even with all the privilege that they experience, they're so deeply unhappy.
And when they see someone feeling liberated, someone taking their destiny into their own hands
and a symbol of freedom, it makes them angry, so angry that they're still stuck in that
prison of masculinity that even with all the privilege that they get makes them so deeply
unhappy because they can't be allowed to feel and have emotion and all those, you know,
whatever the weird gender politics that we have.
And then it comes also from cis women where like they see trans women and they go, you're just a man and you have all the privileges of a man.
And now you were a woman, but you, but you were socialized as a man and there's a lot of anger there.
And, you know, trans people can't win.
It's like, you know, you're just, you're really put in that position where you're just like, I don't want to be a symbol for anything.
I just, I'm just a person and I don't want to be.
Yeah, I just, you know, in today's Trans Day of.
visibility like right now visibility sucks it sucks to be visible as a trans person right now because
of all the attacks and all the you know horrible stuff that's going on against trans people the
trans day of visibility as a phrase is so weird it's like I don't know who wrote that but they it should
have been punched up like trans day of visibility is so weird like well like what do you mean
visibility like trans day of empowerment like there's so many better words I
I feel that way about a lot of taglines of that nature where sometimes it's like, even when someone's like you are valid or whatever, you're like, can we like do a little better than that?
Like, I don't know.
It just feels like a given.
Of course everyone deserves to be visible.
But then what?
It's so weird.
I almost feel the same way about like international women's day where I'm just like, okay, thanks for being nice to me and acknowledging women this one day.
but like what if we could just do that all the time or that I mean I whatever like let
women exist like the word exists bothers me too you're like yeah that I don't think we're asking
for enough I think we should be asking for more than visibility and existence also if you can't
like afford groceries or like gas or like if you can't have like healthcare it's like who
cares how like visible or invisible or like if it's your day or like it's like who the fuck
cares if none of us can survive like you have to survive to exist like you can't exist without
food like it just I feel like it's so patronizing to just like try to have these days
highlighting people when it's like we just as people are trying to like survive like yeah it just
be very angry against like the billionaire class.
I'm sorry. I just get very angry. That's exactly.
Yeah. It's like, okay, for the other 364 days of the year, can you pay me enough?
Yes. To like live? The patronizing like how so many social movements were like co-opted by like companies for like one day out of the year to be like, oh yeah, today like Shell Gasoline loves trans people.
And you're like, what the fuck are you talking about?
I got an email.
Halliburton for trans women.
I got an email from an escape room place that was like, happy international women's day.
Women get 40% off of an escape room.
And I'm like existing in patriarchy is an escape room.
Oh my God.
That's so funny.
That's great.
I remember one of my favorite commentary on that kind of like patronizing representation.
Haitian,
politics stuff
was,
I think it was
ify Wadiway
during the
George Floyd protests
in 2020,
he made a fake post
from Spaghettios.
Spaghettios says
Black Lives Matter.
And it just like,
it was so funny
and like just perfectly
was like,
what does it mean?
What does it mean
to say SpaghettiOs
believes that Black Lives
Matter?
What is SpaghettiOs
doing about?
My favorite version
of that,
and this was not even commentary, this was real life.
There was one year for International Women's Day where Burger King tweeted and was like,
we think that women belong in the kitchen.
And then it was like highlighting their like management program.
And it was like, this is nuts.
This is nuts.
You can't do this.
You can't do this.
Oh, wait, they think women belong in the kitchen.
Yeah, it said, we think that women belong in the kitchen.
And then it had a link to their.
like program. Yeah. What are we doing? What's going on exactly? I feel nostalgia for those days. We've,
things have gotten so bad that I'm missing the performative representation. I miss it. I miss banks
celebrating pride. I miss Bank of America pride. Because that, I mean, like speaking to your point,
Norie, like that isn't even really happening anymore. Like they're like, oh, we don't need to pretend to be an
ally anymore. There's no more pretending.
I mean, it's, yeah, I do feel weirdly this.
I was, I think when that like 2016 trend was going on, it was miserable, but you're just like, wow, people used to fake allies should better.
Like, billionaires used to pretend like they didn't want us all dead.
Like they, like, they used to be like, no, we want you to be alive.
And now no more of that.
It's like, no, we want you to die.
And like, you need to die.
Yeah.
It's like, what?
Well, and I think that, like, getting back to Tutsi, like, I think that there is that energy there of, like, the feminism that Dorothy Michaels represents is catchphrase feminism.
She's a Republican.
For sure.
Let's get that out of the way.
Dorothy is a Republican.
Sure.
Oh, yeah.
For sure.
There's a scene where Dorothy as Miss Kimberly on the show in one of her what is supposed to be an empowering speech that she gives on the show.
set, she's talking to a patient who has been violently abused by her husband.
And Miss Kimberly is like, if you're being beaten by your husband, then you should just beat your
husband back.
That's what I would do.
It's very.
And she's discouraging her from extracting herself and her children from this abusive
relationship.
She's like, no, just beat him back.
it's all very like and and also the the actor there was like it disagrees with i don't know it's just
always like dorothy has to be the most feminist in the room even though michael's behavior bears
this out negative 20 percent it doesn't make any sense speaking going back to dorothy michaels is a
republican the second you said that noria i was like oh she kind of like dorothy michael's kind of
looks like Anita Bryant, like homophobia era Anita Bryant.
That's so true.
That's so true.
Like the costuming.
Yeah.
Like that is her.
Yeah.
Like she's a friend to no one.
I just don't under,
I don't know,
Dorothy Michaels at best is talking in these platitudes that are also clearly written by
men,
which,
you know,
I could see someone arguing is commentary,
but it's not because it's like,
it can't really be commentary on TV.
much because we don't really know who's making the TV. We can assume that it's a room full of
cis men, but we don't see that. We don't understand why this woman producer has no power
on her own show. We don't know what the one black woman in the movie is thinking at any time
that the actor isn't like, you know, putting into her eyes, basically. I have a question.
Oh, please. If this movie was made today, how do you think it would end?
Okay, so I have sort of an answer to that because this movie was adapted for Broadway recently.
Yeah, within the past like six or seven years, I think, right?
And like one Tony's and all of this stuff.
It's weird because not very, there were lines that changed, but there was not a lot about the plot that changed.
Sorry, I have, I did this research about a week ago, so I need a second to pull it up.
But I think the main difference was that there was a lot of queer criticism of the Broadway musical being like, well, what the hell?
Like, what was that?
Because it was once again written and directed by cis straight guys.
The Broadway musical was praised in the general sense.
It was nominated for Tonys.
It did well.
The setting was changed from soap operas to, I think.
think Broadway, but there was a ton of criticism around how little changed.
Oh, my God.
It reminded me of a conversation we had on our Tu Wong Fu episode, Caitlin, because that
had a similar trajectory, as did Priscilla Queen in the Desert.
They were also both adapted into Broadway and, like, didn't do a lot of course correcting
on the flawed source material.
Thanks.
Yeah, I don't know.
I feel like depressingly, the answer is maybe I don't, I don't know how.
differently it ends what what do y'all think yeah yeah do you have a pitch for yeah i haven't thought
too much about it but i think like i think there would be the speech would be different i think it would
include what he learned maybe this is more hopeful than maybe this is like what i would hope rather
than like what would actually happen as you just said with the it got rebooted and nothing changed
but like i just would hope that like there would be a different speech like there would just be
some different speech.
And him and Julie would not get back together.
They would not,
he would not be able to get with her.
He would have a really hard conversation with,
with the character,
the woman that he was leading on.
Sandy,
I think he would not win in the end.
He would win nothing.
He would have lost everything.
And I think would just have to like live with like that that was weird.
That he did a weird thing.
Right.
Yeah.
Which is like not even punishment enough, really.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
He should donate all the money he earned on the show to a cause that supports women.
Yes.
The way I'm curious what you both think about Julie's storyline, I found Julie to be so perplexing.
There are elements of her that like, I don't know, there were like little commentary bits to Julie's character that I was like, that's interesting.
We won't be getting into it, but that's interesting.
One of like the more subtle things is that she does not discuss publicly that she is a mother.
I thought that was a kind of, that felt like actual effective commentary of like, well, being a mother and being an unmarried mother, you would be perceived as unattractive or old or whatever it was.
And so she doesn't talk about her child publicly and only sort of tells people that in the 1982 version of a green circle because there is clearly some stigma.
with that.
You know, there is some light commentary on how poorly women were represented in TV at this time.
But again, it's completely undercut by the fact that, like, I mean, in the, I think when we meet Julie,
she's like, hi, I'm the slutty nurse.
And then you're like, well, because, yeah, that's the character that has been written for her.
Right.
She has to play.
And it's not that she isn't aware of that.
It's that she is accepted that, like, she, or, you know, it's like sort of position,
like she's accepted that there, she will never be treated differently.
So, so, like, might as well laugh about it.
Which is, like, sure, you can fall into complacency when you're, when you don't think
you'll ever be treated like a person at work.
But then the movie sort of posits, like, and so what she needed was Michael Dorsey to
make her realize that wasn't okay.
To teach her about feminism.
Right.
Yeah.
Yes, that is baffling.
Also, later on, she's talking about how much she values Dorothy as a friend and how much Dorothy has taught her and inspired her.
And that's why she breaks up with Ron.
And I'm like, okay, but like that breakup scene happens off screen.
I don't really have any other indication.
Didn't she come back and say she didn't or did I make that up?
I feel like I have a memory that she was like, I didn't do it.
Or like.
She does eventually.
And then she says like, I'm lonely.
Who am I going to have dinner with now?
And I think she says something that almost implies that Dorothy teaching her about standing up for herself and being empowered as a woman like has made her lonely and made her because of the awareness she has.
She's now like unhappy with the world and power dynamics and stuff like that.
Which fair, like people who are aware and informed and enlightened are also often deeply unhappy because of the state of the world.
I was like, well, I mean, I can, I didn't just be at that part.
So I'm not even criticizing that.
That's my, perhaps my lived experience.
That's exactly how I feel right now.
So, yeah, I'm not criticizing that.
And I'm also maybe just reading into it because she doesn't explicitly say that.
But what we do know, or what she does say is that Dorothy has taught her so much because Dorothy's always herself.
And the joke is, well, Dorothy isn't herself.
That's not even Dorothy.
That's a guy named Michael Dorsey.
But Michael Dorsey as Dorothy has taught Julie how to be an empowered woman.
But I'm also just not really seeing evidence of that.
So I don't know what she's talking about.
Yeah.
I think like any progress in Julie's character.
is spurred by Dorothy and at the end that just ends up being like kind of sad um when you say sad
like one of the saddest scenes for me is when michael is so late to that dinner that um with sandy
that sandy makes and then like he's like you should be mad at me be mad at me like don't apologize
and like them putting her character in such a low point that the perpetrator is telling her like
why are you not mad at me?
It's like, yeah, like you wrote the scene.
Like you wrote the scene and you wrote it to where she's that pathetic.
That really was sad.
Oh.
It really bummed me out.
Yeah, where it's like, I don't know, for the only, like, Julie and Sandy, both hot, white, blonde ladies.
So already you're like, okay, this is what the movie is doing.
But Sandy is just treated so horribly by the plot in a way that like, I think that we're supposed to, I mean,
obviously Michael having sex with her is framed as a joke, even though it's like weird coercive
sex. And then he treats her poorly for the rest of the movie. It just made me so sad. Yeah,
watching her with the food alone and then immediately forgiving him. I do, I like when she
lashes out at him. I like that when she says, I never said I love you. I don't care about I love
you. I read the second, this is all very second way feminism. I read the second sex. I read the
Cinderella complex. I'm responsible for my own orgasm. I don't care. I just don't like to be lied to.
I feel like there's something in there, but it doesn't pay off in any way. It's just sort of like
lip service. Because like Terry Gar is selling me on it. I do think that there is, I mean,
going back to like the idea that like being empowered can also translate to feeling kind of
isolated and lonely. That's sort of what she's saying here. She's like, I am a feminist. I
you know, I've done the work.
I'm doing my best.
And I just, I feel like shit.
I just want to be treated like a person by you.
And like there's like, there's like truth in that.
Unfortunately, he never does that.
So like, why bother?
He never tells her he was lying to her the whole time.
He never apologizes.
He never comes clean in any way.
She just never appears on screen after that scene.
Yeah.
So there's no resolution there.
Yeah.
Like you said, Jamie, like them having sex.
feels very like he tricks her he lies about his intentions of why he was naked there's also a weird
thing where she sees him and she's like michael parentheses horrified but then she's like michael
parenthesis in tree warning i'm like okay what the hell is this and then he's like yeah i want you
and then so they have sex she says something like men have sex with me and then they lose interest
and they ignore me and i don't want that to be this way
way. But also, the movie is so all over the place with how it characterizes her, because for most of the time, it seems like the way she's waiting around and constantly being stood up by Michael, the movie wants you to think that she's pining after him and expecting to get into a serious, committed relationship with him. But then at the end, she says, I don't even care about any of that. I just don't want to be lied to, which,
fair, but then what was all that other stuff where the movie makes it seem like she does deeply
care about that stuff? So yeah, I just feel like the movie cannot make up its mind on how we are
supposed to perceive her, how she actually feels about the situation. Well, and also there's a big
to-do made of like she doesn't want to do the play with him anymore because he's been so deceptive.
And then at the end, the only indication of her existence is that she does do the play.
There's like a sign with their names on it.
So they, I mean, everyone is just so trapped.
Because she says like, normally I would say screw your play, but because I'm a professional,
I'm going to do it anyway.
So I'll see you at rehearsal or whatever.
And then she says, I do like, this is just like, I love Terry Gar.
But like when she when she does that whole speech and then she goes, are these chocolate
covered cherries?
I laughed.
I like it.
Also, there's a part where he, so Michael is talking about.
Sandy to his roommate Jeff.
And he's saying something like, well, I never promised her that I would be exclusive, but
I'm kind of letting her think that so as to not hurt her feelings.
So he says that.
Then in a later scene, Michael as Dorothy is talking to Ron, Ron regurgitates that exact
same thing about Julie, where Ron is like, well, I never promised I would be exclusive to her,
but I'm telling her that I'm exclusive so as to not hurt her feelings.
It is wild.
And you would think that would be a moment of Michael being like, oh, my God, that's so shitty.
And I did that same shitty thing.
But then he just keeps packing.
He has no reflection, no introspection whatsoever.
He's just like, well, you suck, Ron.
You're a shitty guy.
It's like, you're all so shitty.
Yeah.
The only change that we see, the only progress that we see is that Michael just starts liking dresses.
like more? Like he just starts to have more of appreciation for the craftmanship of like humans wear.
Like like, like he like by the end, he's like, this is a Houston. And like I love Houston. And it's like,
oh, so like literally the only thing that you change is you like like designer clothing. I don't like,
like it was so bad and superficial. There were so many opportunities for him to learn the many, many
ways that women are oppressed and marginalized simply because of their gender.
And he learns basically nothing except for, he says something like,
it's so expensive to buy all these clothes and lingerie and handbags.
That it does remind me of a date I went on years ago where it was like a guy
emphatically explaining to me how expensive skincare products were for women for like,
and then at the end being like, kiss please.
Like I did it.
And you're just like, okay.
I don't know.
There's just so much going on in this movie that makes me very sad for all marginalized people of the 1980s.
And I feel like this is something, I know we're running out of time, but something that feels actually very in conversation with, not the Bechtel test, but like Alice in Bechtel's work, which was, you know, happening throughout the 80s, the idea of like for many people.
and I saw this in the comments.
I saw this on Letterbox,
mostly from older users,
saying that this was the closest they saw
in a very successful movie
to lesbian representation.
And how depressing is that?
There's been a lot of pieces
written about this over the years.
One I'm going to quote from
is from a blog called Diva Drivel,
kind of a good name,
kind of a good name,
called Looking for the Lesbian in
Tootzy. I just wanted to share this perspective because I actually I like I do I do see the appeal of Julie's character even though it resolves in the most Republican way possible. So from this piece in spite of the baggage that comes with a film that presents dated ideas about gender and sexuality, I still find myself drawn to Tutsi because of the unresolved ambiguity of Julie's sexuality. Julie is blonde, beautiful, moderately famous and already entangled in a front relationship, blah, blah, blah. Despite Julie's.
aversion towards seeing Dorothy out of her clothes as Michael pleads, she confesses to having, quote,
the same impulses, unquote, as Dorothy. In a curious statement, she tells Dorothy that she is
responsible for the encounter because she is just not well adjusted enough, which is such a
specific choice of words there. It continues, what does Julie mean by this? Well, adjusted to what?
I just got one thing to say, I just want to say that Tutsi walked so that Carol could run.
Okay.
They're in conversation.
Oh, yeah.
But yeah, implicit in her statement is that lesbians are not well-adjusted women because they indulge these impulses while well-adjusted women learn to bottle them up and put them away.
Which is like, I have, honestly, I have no idea what we're supposed to think.
about Julie by the end of this movie.
It seems like Julie herself is very unresolved about what this whole experience has meant to her.
And the movie kind of doesn't care enough to give us any sort of meaningful resolution.
I think we are just supposed to be like, well, now she has to date Dustin Hoffman.
Like, that sounds miserable.
She threw a drink in his face because there's a scene.
Oh, yeah.
Where Dorothy and Julie are hanging out and Julie is talking about.
her relationships with men and run and just dating in general and how complicated it is to be a woman
in the 80s. And she says something like, I wish a guy would just be honest enough to walk up to me and say,
listen, I'm confused about this too. I could lay a big line on you. But the simple truth is,
I find you really interesting and I'd really like to make love to you. So later, when Michael,
who is, again, at a party on a date with Sandy,
blows Sandy off, goes up to Julie, says that exact same line.
And of course, Julie throws a drink in his face because that is a nutso thing to say to someone.
He's coming on so strong.
And then he's like, oh, yeah, but it also kind of makes Julie seem like she doesn't know what she wants because she just said she wanted that thing.
I don't think Julie does know what she wants.
And the underlying message is that women are liars.
I think like there was a very male, very misogynistic message there that I was hearing around like women say they want nice guys.
But then when nice guys, they say, yeah, da, da, that like I heard that like gross manosphere kind of language, you know.
Totally.
Yeah.
Michael is manosphere code.
Yes.
Yeah.
Like it is presented like Julie doesn't know what she wants.
But the movie doesn't care about that.
I would be willing to engage with a character who's like unsure about like what do I want out of a relationship like what is my sexuality what are my preferences blah blah blah but like the movie doesn't care so it's just like you're presented with all of this stuff it's also kind of like weirdly like Dorothy's doing some like mommy stuff on the trip and like in a way that felt so manipulative where she's like talking about her dead mother.
and then it felt like Michael as Dorothy was like,
I'm your mommy now?
It was just really confusing.
Oh yeah, because they get into bed together and then.
Yeah, which is, I mean, I love sharing the bed with a friend.
And I hate movies that discourage me from doing that.
Fair.
I cannot share a bed with anyone under any circumstances.
I would rather sleep on the floor.
We've shared a bed.
I know, but I'm so bad.
Well, because I'm the worst sleeper.
This is how I find out.
You hated it.
I was like I hated it, Jamie.
That's where I found out you hated sharing a bit with me in Seattle.
I didn't he hated it.
In Seattle, Caitlin, you hated that?
She threw up.
We've shared multiple beds together.
I think also in Washington, D.C.
I don't know why Seattle stuck out with me.
See, you remember where we were.
I don't know.
It meant something.
Let me tell you something.
I have such bad insomnia that if someone is in the bed with me,
unless I have taken a smorgas board of sleepy time drugs,
I will not sleep.
I have laid awake until 7 a.m. because a man was next to me in a bed.
I hate to hear that. And this has happened on multiple occasions in my life. Anyway, they share the bed.
Dorothy starts like petting Julie. And she's like, no, don't stop. My mom used to do this.
And I'm like, that could be a nice moment in a different movie, but it's in this movie and it's weird.
And then this all culminates in Dorothy trying to kiss Julie. Julie pulled.
pulling away the scene we've been talking about. And then the aftermath of that is Julie being like,
I'm too homophobic to be your friend anymore, basically. Which is kind of couched in the like,
it's not that I'm homophobic. It's that I need you to out yourself to my dad today.
Yeah. And I feel like I'd be leading you on because the mentality of the time was that
queer people were so sexually aggressive that you can't even be friends with them. And I feel,
Yeah. I have to confess something. We have limited time left. I have to confess something. Tell us. I was so actually attracted to her dad.
Less? I don't know. I don't know. I mean, no shame. But I did gasp. He was so sweet. He was so sweet. And his wife died and he's a widower. And he just like was like so nice to Dorothy. And like he just wanted like to be happy and like live like a joyful small life.
And that really, if I was Dorothy, I could not have resisted and I would have gone with less.
Wow.
He should have been so lucky.
He was just like, he was solid.
He was the only man in that film that was a solid man.
I hate him.
Did he do something bad?
I'm forgetting that he did something bad.
Well, his last, I think his last appearance is like sucks.
Oh, yeah.
Because he's weird and homophobic.
But then even before that, he goes on this tirade about how gender needs to be this rigid thing.
I couldn't stand.
He's also like, he keeps being creepily, like touching Dorothy and invading her space and crossing her boundaries.
In real life, Les would end up with a trans woman.
In real life, less is trans attracted.
He finds out later in life.
He finds a woman who's trans and he lives a beautiful.
beautiful happy life on the farm with his trans lover.
Like that is, that's real life.
That's real life.
In the movie, it's really weird and there's a lot of weird stuff going on.
But in real life, Les, he has a beautiful trans wife.
That's just, that's, that's, that's life.
That's beautiful.
I'm here for it.
Maybe that's, maybe that's how it ends in the reboot.
Everything else is exactly the same except Lenz has a beautiful trans wife at the end of the movie.
He takes her dancing.
He just wants to dance.
I know.
Like the way he's presented is very sweet at first.
And then the layers start to peel back.
They do peel.
They do peel.
And Julie, this family, like, I don't know what the hell is going on with this family.
It's a mess.
There was sexual tension between them.
Yes, I was going to say there was a very, like, the way she, I also just think it's, whatever.
I, you know, I want my mom to have a nice boyfriend.
Sure.
Of course I do.
Why not?
But I wouldn't be like, I'll leave you two alone.
Good night.
Like you're like, oh, gross, gross.
Like I want her to have a great relationship that has nothing to do with me.
Like, what?
Gross.
Like, people love to hypersexualize their relationship between fathers and daughters.
It's their favorite.
Oh, God.
Wasn't that a thing?
Weren't we talking about that in like say anything or something?
Oh, my God.
Say anything is one of the horniest father-daughter relationships ever.
Because he gives her like a ring at the beginning of the movie.
Yeah, he proposes to his own daughter or something.
Yeah.
Oh, gross.
I know we're running out of time.
I just have a few quick things.
I want to rattle off.
First of all, I think this movie suffers from too many subplots.
There are like seven and it should have been maybe three tops.
but the subplots that we haven't really talked about are the quick thing with the actor John Van Horn who plays Dr. Brewster.
Oh, yes.
He attempts to rape Dorothy.
Oh, my God.
And that's written off with what is definitely intended to be a joke.
Sally Jane Black talks about this at her review as well, where Michael says, rape is no laughing matter.
And then there's like a literal pause for laughs for the 1982 audience that's like, sure it is.
It's the funniest thing in the world.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So that's, that's a mess.
There's a tiny, tiny little Gina Davis subplot where it's, I guess it's more of a
through line than anything.
But the whole thing there is that she keeps being almost naked in front of Dorothy, not realizing
that Dorothy is actually Michael.
And so she's like in her bra and underwear all the time.
And then when she realizes that Dorothy is a man, her eyes bulge.
And she's like, oh, no.
I've been naked in front of him the whole time.
And that's played as a joke.
There's a few instances where Sandy makes fatphobic remarks.
Right.
Always about Dorothy, but she never knows that she's talking about Dorothy.
And also Dorothy, not for nothing, Dorothy, isn't fat?
Skinny as hell.
Yeah, like, because it's Dustin Hoffman and Dustin Hoffman is very thin.
Yeah, I mean, that's just, again, the, like, absolute, like, crippling depression of the
1980s we're just like what are you even saying it's it's mind-boggling yeah there's just there
I know we're we're there's more to say but yeah we're we're running out of time so I'm like
but I've had a great time here today I have this fall me too does this movie pass the back
does I don't even like no no it doesn't unless someone were to count Dorothy as a female character but no
No way.
No.
Because without that, like, there was no scene where two women were talking, right?
I can't remember one.
I don't think so.
And if it did happen, it was a coincidence at best.
Yeah, like, all of that, like, all of Sandy's friends are men, which as an actor doesn't
really make sense.
It doesn't seem like Julie, in spite of being a sweet person, is friends with any of the
other women on set.
It's just, like, is yet another example of every woman in the story being just, like, narrow
There are these little narrative baby gates around them so that they can never speak to another woman.
And yeah, I don't think it passes the bechal test literally or spiritually.
No, but what about our nipple scale, the scale where we rate the movie on a scale of zero to five nipples based on examining it through an intersectional feminist lens.
This is tricky.
Again, for the time, this was probably a feminist masterpiece.
in 1992.
Such a bummer.
Bleak as hell.
But obviously looking at it in 2026,
everything that it is maybe trying to do falls absolutely short.
There are so many issues with all of the text, all of the subtext.
Everything about it just is kind of rotten to me.
Yeah.
So I think I, I'll give it a half nipple.
for its legacy of being a quote-unquote feminist work for its time and paving the way for
other better stories that explore similar themes about gender and misogyny and things like that.
But again, by today's standards, it is not really doing anything.
So half-nipple, and I'll give it to Terry Gar.
Yeah, I'm going to go half-nipple to.
If this is like a movie that you loved a nostalgic premises, like revisit it.
I think it is, this probably was considered very like different.
And it, it, I just have only really ever seen in the broadest possible way this movie presented as a tale of empathy.
And I think if you go back and watch it, the empathy just isn't there.
Where is it?
Where is it at?
Is the empathy in the room with us right now?
It is just a Reagan relic that like you said, Caitlin, I think, you know, if you got something out of this movie and it led you to actual empathetic work, then great.
But yeah, for our purposes, it does not do well.
Half a nipple also going to Terry Gar.
What about you, Nory?
Yes.
I, okay, so I'm going to give a quarter nipple for nostalgia.
Like, I really did like, you know, the grainy camera.
that like I was really loving the style, the colors, the, I was really into that nostalgia element.
So a quarter nipple for that alone.
You know what?
Another quarter nipple for the love of my life less.
So half a nipple.
Okay.
In terms of transnipples, I'm going to do negative 10.
It was so painful to hear some of that dialogue.
It was so transphobic and really hurt.
and also Dorothy was brick as hell and no one's believing that that's a woman okay um so negative 10
I'm gonna give my half a nipple to my boy less you know before the the onion peels you know
before the layers were shown he seemed like a nice guy but unfortunately we did see who he was so that sucks
but yeah but in the reboot he will be on the farm with his gorgeous
trans wife.
Yes, played by Sasha Colby from Rupal's Drag Race.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
Wonderful.
Well, Nory, thank you so much for joining us.
Yes.
Oh, my pleasure.
Thank you for enduring Tutsi.
We're sorry.
I'm going to need some therapy.
I'm going to need to do some therapy after this.
No, this was a delight to talk to you guys.
Thank you.
Oh, my gosh.
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Yeah.
I'm on Instagram.
It's just Norie Reed.
Find me there.
I'll post about shows I'm doing.
I'm always performing in the L.A. area.
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with that
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we could
we could fix less
we could fix less
yeah let's go to his farm
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couldn't fix Michael
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put less in a dress
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