The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast - Almost Famous OGs: My Ex-Wife and My Ex-Girlfriend with Rebecca Budig

Episode Date: September 11, 2024

Our Bachelor Nation OGs Bob Guiney and Trista Sutter are sitting down with a crucial figure in Bob’s life… his ex-wife Rebecca Budig! Rebecca tells us about her role in the upcoming season of “T...he Bold and the Beautiful”, we get into the tricky world of balancing a career with parenthood, and Rebecca reflects on how the acting world has changed with the rise of social media.  Plus, find out what happened when Trista introduced Bob as her “ex-boyfriend”!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:57 Hi. Hello, Rebecca Buddy. Oh, my God. Hello, Bob Kinney. Welcome to Almost Famous the OGs. Hi. Hi, Trista. Are you?
Starting point is 00:03:09 It's been so long. I know. This has been a really long time. I'm like, I'm 500 years old. I've aged appropriately. Oh, please. Oh, you look amazing. What are you talking about?
Starting point is 00:03:21 Oh, my God. we were just commenting on the girl you would not be on a soap opera if you looked bad you know i never wear i don't wear makeup so when i went back to the show and i put makeup on i was like wow wow i have a lot of wrinkles that's okay i'm you know i'm 51 i'm supposed to have wrinkles
Starting point is 00:03:40 so whatever you know what you have a lot less wrinkles than i do today i'm 53 but i think it's important to point out i was up really late last night watching my uh lions dismantled the los angeles rams in overtime and I was very excited and I was like I was like well I'm going to look like absolute dog shit today on my interview but you know what we're going for my god that's so awesome wait it went into overtime for how long was it like yeah for a good while I mean the lions took control the ball they drove 70 yards for the game winning score it was I was still there
Starting point is 00:04:13 it was pretty crazy and uh what's really funny is um my wife Canyon who I I know that uh you both know her or no of her. When Trista and I were on this trip, we went to Tahoe. Trista shocked me one day when I met her son, Max, and she's like, Max, I want you to meet my ex-boyfriend, Bob. And I thought it was so funny and caught me off guard. And he was just like, oh, hey, what's up? He didn't care. And so I told Canyon, I'm like, yeah, I'm going to interview Rebecca. And Trista and I're going to interview Rebecca. And she goes, oh, my God, you should subtitle the podcast, my ex-girlfriend and my ex-wife. And I'm like, oh, nice. okay so there you go there you go that's uh it's canyon stamp on my god that's hilarious
Starting point is 00:04:59 true story that's so funny thank you for coming on our show i'm so excited for you going going back to the bold and beautiful yeah i know i'm exciting um i'm very excited i actually you know i had told my agents you know i can't leave town i'm you know my husband is a full-time and I was like I'm here and as you know nothing shoots in LA so I've basically been doing nothing going to acting class whatever and I was going to go back to school for study psychology and I finally get my degree and then this show came along and so I'm super grateful I'm really excited that I can be with my kid and also do something for myself which as you both know being parents is a challenge sometimes to do things for yourself so I'm happy yeah good for you
Starting point is 00:05:56 I will tell you I the one thing that came up when I first saw your return to the show was I had to call our very good friend Ridge Forrester uh of course Torres and Kay and I'm like hey dude what you mean making out with lish all those years wasn't enough now you're going after my ex-wife what are you doing bro he literally was so funny he's like bobby you know ladies love toasty i'm like i know he's amazing because you know we didn't we work together but we never like had one-on-one scenes so right um we we've we've we've been like laughing our asses off and and also at the same time he's an incredible actor so it's been like very very rewarding yeah he's a he's a emmy word winner last two years i know i know i know that's awesome
Starting point is 00:06:45 I know. And I always think you guys both have such, like, great personalities and sense of the humor. I bet you two just have a blast together. We do. We do have fun. And we talk about old cars. Remember the old pickup truck that he got me into? And I've since sold and got a different car or whatever.
Starting point is 00:07:03 Oh, my God. Yeah, he was. So, Torsten K, for people who are just, you know, listening in, he's a very avid, you know, in car restoration and things of that nature. and he's got a bunch of really incredible interesting habits and like you know or hobbies i should say not habits and uh you know he's a huge red wings fan so he did this whole car with all the red wings memorabilia and stuff it was so cool and and then yeah the pickup truck that was pretty cool too you guys have you guys have such a history i love it yeah it's fun yeah i think it's funny that you were going to go back to school to study psychology and aren't you playing a psychologist
Starting point is 00:07:40 on the bold and the beautiful look at like look at my background i I mean, I have my big, my big water over here. I mean, seriously, this is like, I, my, so my husband, there's my dog. My husband's staying, he, like, is working from home today. I'm like, you're working from home? I have a Zoom. Anyway, so, um, whatever. Look at my dog.
Starting point is 00:07:58 Um, my dog. So, um, you asked me, you, you, yes, I was going to, I, I, I play a psychiatrist. And so, and I, you know, I've always gone to therapy for whatever. I just, for years. And so I'm very. interested in it and I believe in it and so yeah I was going to go and I mean I still might actually just because I never got my degree and I want it and so I've got to study something yeah got to do something that's going to be a good one though I mean I see the but in your background I see your
Starting point is 00:08:32 beautiful sister as your centerpiece of your art collection and I remember that do I do I do the Christy buttoe I love it I love it the Christy buddick it's gorgeous I'm just like I'm in the playroom, so I'm just kind of like, whatever. It is what it is. It's all good. I mean, my daughter's like playroom, essentially. Yeah. Yeah, it doesn't matter. It's all good. Yeah. I think it's cool how our lives have all gone so full circle, because I don't know if you
Starting point is 00:08:58 remember this, Trista, but when you first met Rebecca, I had brought her with me to Denver. Do you remember? I think. And you were in. Well, I guess the last thing I remember is ABC family. But tell me about this, remind me. My band was touring, and our tour bus was literally parked out in front of like the soiled dove or something like that. Is that a place in Denver? I think that it might be. God, do you remember the name of it, Bob? You remember the name of the place?
Starting point is 00:09:25 I do. I know. It's incredible, this memory that I have right now. I can't remember a thing, you know, anyone asked me to do this morning before I left the holiday. Yeah. But I'm remembering this one. And you and Ryan were on the bus, and you came in and Rebecca was there. And it was kind of cool because the two of you had never.
Starting point is 00:09:43 met other than the ABC family thing and then and then um they changed the format after that and so I went on that's how I met Rebecca was going on with Jamie Blythe and doing the behind the scenes ABC XYZ'd right yeah no I know I know your story but I didn't do you Rebecca do you remember this I do remember this oh gosh I remember me to you I am so bad I am so bad but who knows maybe you would just maybe you just had one of your 15 kids and like you don't you have like four do you like four kids how many kids do you have i know i have two i have two okay well i don't know why i thought you had like a bunch of kids i feel like everyone i know has a bunch of kids pregnancy didn't agree with me so i said well avoid a girl perfection
Starting point is 00:10:29 we're done i only have one i wish i had more i wish i had two that would be amazing but whatever i waited too late no i wait a later than me guys horrible i cannot remember i don't know about that Well, yeah, it's true. You did wait a little late than me. Yeah, I was 48 when we had Grayson and then 50 when we had Blake. So, yeah. And then, you know, anytime anything comes up about another kid, I'm like, is someone smoking crack right now? There's no way.
Starting point is 00:10:58 You know what? You know what, Bob? My same age when Charlotte was born that you are. And so he was like, I'm so tired. like I can't and he had already had two kids from a previous marriage so I was like and I had postpartum so I there you couldn't you'd have to tell me to do it and I would have done it but I would there was no way I was just in a stupor but that's so hard yeah how's your mom I know we shouldn't catch up on the deal I mean you guys you guys just take over.
Starting point is 00:11:28 Oh my god everybody is doing great. Little Jack oh my little Jack is now a 26 year old marketing executive. in Chicago, graduated from grad school at Virginia Commonwealth. I mean, he's just crushing it. So, yeah, that's pretty crazy. But I know, it's so fun to get to catch up with you. And I was telling Trista, because Trista was like, I know you guys get along really well and stuff.
Starting point is 00:11:53 I'm like, I was actually texting with her husband yesterday. True story. I really love. So it's like, you know, Rebecca happened to marry two of the nicest guys in Hollywood, from you know me and then of course afterwards Mike Benson who I just I really love Michael Benson he's a really great guy and I'm so glad he's doing it so well in his career too I mean you guys have got a lot going on
Starting point is 00:12:18 I mean you know we take it a day at a time you know how this business is and I mean how any business is really like you just you don't know how long it lasts so we just like staying in gratitude but you know we do we are on a lake now so we go to the lake I know it's so funny because you live a lake life. And my daughter, if she'd had her way, we would not be in L.A. We would be living in Minnesota on a lake.
Starting point is 00:12:45 But anyway, we'll talk about that later. But yeah, so we've, so we just try and enjoy our life as much as we can. It's so crazy and hectic here in Los Angeles. I know. I know. I was actually just there hosting an event last weekend. I flew in on Thursday night, hosted the event Friday night, and it was on a 5am flight out on Saturday.
Starting point is 00:13:05 because you know it's nice to come back and like spend a little bit of time but everything was like I was I couldn't get around yeah every time the car service came to get me they dropped me off at the wrong hotel I'm walking down you know I'm walking down with my bags from the Waldorf to the to the Beverly Hilton which is where they have me for this event I'm like only in L.A. would this happen to me you know I'm like sweating at 105 yeah it was 100 it was 122 the other day when I was driving in the valley I mean this is the most boring conversation It was not like the weather, but like it is literally, it is literally so hot here, you guys. I, it's not, it's just, oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:13:43 Well, you know, so like we were talking about, we met, of course, through the Bachelor X, Y, Z, when you were doing a lot of hosting back then, and you were doing, you know, so much with all my children. And I remember, then you went from all my children to, well, you started off the guiding light, right? And then you went, all my children, and then general hospital. Yeah. And now to come back to Bold and the Beautiful, but you've done so much in between.
Starting point is 00:14:07 I mean, tons of, tons of episodics. And then you did the thing with Gabriel Union and. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, Jessica Alba. That was really cool. Yeah, so I thought that was awesome. And a bunch of CSIs and not to hold different things in between. But, I mean, the life as an actress nowadays has got to be so different in that everyone's a hyphenant now. Everyone, you know, I just saw Rob Lowe's hosting a game show.
Starting point is 00:14:30 Like, stay in your way, Rob. Like, come on, bro. Give me a, give guys, I got a chance. I'll tell you what's so different now than what it was when I started is, is like the internet and social media. And I, I mean, I was just looking at my Instagram. I'm like, God, Lord, I got to post something. So there's like that.
Starting point is 00:14:48 Pressure. Yeah. I am not, as you know, I don't love, I don't love walking my carpets. I don't like taking photos. I don't like sharing my life with people. And so that's what it's become. If you want to succeed in this business, you need to be more active on social media and all that.
Starting point is 00:15:12 And I just, I don't subscribe to it. So, you know, if I had to get in the business now, I never would because I couldn't self-promote. It's just not part of my psyche. I feel that way about. I don't do that. Yeah. I don't feel like I wouldn't be.
Starting point is 00:15:31 been done the bachelor or bachelor's had there been social media like really yeah oh yeah because of the pressure you know like just people are mean and judgmental and like you're saying like I feel like I need to post it's like a full and it's a full time job and I don't want to be on my phone with my kid like oh I got to post this and posting pictures of her I do not want her on I don't want any photos of her on there I took them off and I mean I never really posted many anyway but um I just let her make that choice when she's 18, you know? Yeah. Yeah, she's at that age.
Starting point is 00:16:07 I'm sure that it's like, you know, she's getting older, right? So it's like, you know, she just turned 10. Oh, my God. She just turned 10. Is that fourth grade? Yeah, she's in fourth. Amazing. I have a 15 and 17 year old.
Starting point is 00:16:21 Boys or girls? A girl younger and a older boy. And he's a freaking junior in high school. Like, oh, my God. I can't, I said that this morning. and I was like, I have a junior in high school. Like, we're seriously talking about where to look at colleges and what he wants to do after high school.
Starting point is 00:16:40 And like, what is happening? And they're going to leave me and I'm going to be so lonely and sad. Oh, my gosh. It doesn't seem possible, Trista, that you could have a junior in high school. I know. I hate it. I hate it. But which is why I kind of wish I would have had more children too.
Starting point is 00:16:56 Because I'm like, no, I want to stay with. With them, they're just, I just love them so much and it's going to be a whole different. Well, you could, you could be like me. Not that I won't enjoy it if my husband, but. You could be like me, you know, I have a three-year-old that we're working on potty training. And I said recently to my wife, I was like, you know, this is what every 53-year-old guy should be doing because I'm going to, because I'm going to fast-tracking my way back to diapers. So then, like, next year, he can start helping me with mine, right? Because that's, that's where I'm going.
Starting point is 00:17:26 I'm fast-tracking my way back to diapers. It's like, you know, you work so hard to get your kids on. Oh, my God. I'm just in time, you know. Stop it. Hi, my name is Enya Emanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom.
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Starting point is 00:21:50 Honestly, these are going to come out so freaking amazing. Be a part of my new chapter and listen to the new season of the Overcomper podcast as part of the MyCultura podcast network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I mean, I want to ask, like, you guys must have just laughed and laughed and laughed in your marriage. Like, how could you ever have broken up? No, I'm just kidding. Yeah, no, you know, I will say this. I mean, I get asked that a lot, actually.
Starting point is 00:22:25 People would be like, oh, even last night at the game, but someone walks over to us, and my wife is so cool because she's like, here, I'll take the picture for you. And the lady's like, I loved when you and Greenlee were together. And she's like, nice to meet you again, Pastor Bob. And I'm like, you know, it's actually really not Greenlee, and mine's actually technically not Bachelor Bob. But, you know, okay, thank you.
Starting point is 00:22:45 You know, it's still nice. It was meant as a compliment. But it's really funny. It's one of those things. Like, you know, we were actually living on opposite coasts. for quite a bit of time during our relationship. I think that that just happens. It's just a tough disconnect,
Starting point is 00:22:59 but it's funny because I said to Tristo, ahead of time. I was like, we've actually remained very friendly. I think you and I, it shouldn't be the exception to the rule when you care about someone so much that you're willing to, or you're wanting to marry them, that when it doesn't work out, that you just all of a sudden are just like done with that person. Like, that shouldn't be the exception.
Starting point is 00:23:18 No, because there's still a lot of love there. And to answer your question, and we did laugh a lot. And I was probably more serious, like more like, you know, you need to come down to earth. You need to be like, you know, you know, the voice of reason or whatever.
Starting point is 00:23:34 But, you know, whatever. But we don't text and call every day or whatever, but like your dad passed away. I reached out to him. I mean, very kind. Very kind. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:23:46 I still think about his family and I still, I care about Bob, but we're not like, you know, he's got his life and I've got my life. but I wanted him to be happy and I wanted him to find his perfect person and which he has and like have kids and I don't know I'm like so happy that yeah no same I mean I feel the exact same way I was like I mentioned before I am a big fan of your husbands as you know as I know that you know and um you know it is kind of interesting when you when you're going through that and in
Starting point is 00:24:18 but we both kind of had that vision for each other because I remember when when you started dating him and I was like, I get it. I get it. He's so awesome. And you guys just fit each other, you know, whereas I think we had a lot of fun and we were a great couple and we fit each other for a period of our lives. But, you know, we kind of had grown apart and it was nice for you to find that person that made you whole again, you know?
Starting point is 00:24:40 And so as someone who cares about you, I was so happy to see that. And, you know, I think at the end of the day, I know that you're happy for me too. And that's, I think that's the love that we send out here at Almost Famous, the OJ's right that's what we do here trista i mean you somehow got over me i still don't really know how but i will tell you i will tell you bob like the the my sweet sweet sweet our nanny mariella she'd be like bob it's so do you remember you remember paula paula marshall you remember her yes of course yeah okay so mariella was her nanny and so when i had my child we we shared her she let me and then eventually she didn't need her and so whatever and she would just be like
Starting point is 00:25:22 like, he's so handsome. What happened? Why don't you stay with him? And I'm like, you know, I'm married, right? Well, you know what? I think I might have paid her to say that because that, you know, I'd be like, Hi, Mariella, I hear your nannying. A lot of people will say that.
Starting point is 00:25:42 They're like, he's so cute. He's so funny. And I'm like, oh, my God. Wow. Well, that's very kind of them. And they clearly don't, they haven't seen me today. because they say they'd be like, because you're so tired from the game.
Starting point is 00:25:55 My emotions. Yeah, my emotions are going crazy. I'm in bed by 9 o'clock every night now. I mean, if I'm in bed at 9, that's late. Yeah, yeah. Really? Oh, gosh. I'm a night out.
Starting point is 00:26:09 I'm a morning person. I get up at like 4.30 to work out and I'm a crazy person. Oh, my what. Like, could you share some of that mojo with me? because I can not. I am not a morning person. You know, you're built that way. Is Ryan a morning person?
Starting point is 00:26:28 I bet he is. He is. I mean, he kind of has to be just because he leaves for work so early. You know, their shift starts at seven and then they don't sleep. So, yeah, he kind of has to be a morning person, but he's way more of a morning person than I am. I hate it. I hate waking up. I love dreaming and just laying a bed.
Starting point is 00:26:49 it's funny I have a friend he's a doctor and I said is there truth to being like a morning person and a night person and he said he said there actually is he said it it um he was like I'm a night person and I had to train myself to be a morning person because I'm doing surgeries but there really is like just like your circadian rhythm or whatever some people are just like you know you're in that certain sleep zone um in the morning and some people I don't know. It just, it all happens differently for different people. There's truth to it, though. I was like, so am I crazy. Yeah. No, I don't think, yeah, that makes sense. I mean, I know that I don't need a lot of sleep. Like, that's one thing that, but I don't know if I'm necessarily a morning person or a night person. I think I become a morning person because our son Blake, you know, he's three, right? So he's up at like 455 every day. So I'm like, I am too, you know. But I'm not sure if I'm a morning or night person. It's just what happened. So what's your schedule like? Like, I I feel like with the soap operas, I had a couple of friends that were in soap operas back in the day. And I feel like it was constant. But is it constant? Like, do you have a pretty good schedule to where you can be home with your daughter? Listen, I, it's all changed over the years when I was on my children. The days were long.
Starting point is 00:28:09 But as it's evolved and as they try and do more and less time, they, they, well, I, The Bold and the Beautiful is even different from the other shows because on G.H. It was, I didn't work super long hours, actually. They had you in and out. And it just kind of depends on your storyline if you're working or not. But the Bull and the Beautiful has a great schedule. They're like two weeks on and then they're one week off. And then they have like, they have a bunch of weeks off.
Starting point is 00:28:38 They have like four weeks off in July and they have three weeks off in April, three weeks off. I mean, they have a lot of dark, dark days and weeks, which means that they load up during the week. So if it's a five-day week, they do like 10 to 12 shows. If it's a four-day week, they do like, I don't know, eight to 10 shows. So it just kind of depends on your storyline, I guess. Yeah. And so when I came back to the show, that was probably the hardest part is like learning all the lines, especially when you're like paramedipausal and your brain fog.
Starting point is 00:29:04 And you're like, oh, my God, what am I learning? But, but, yeah, like I did eight shows in four to three days. Was it three days? Oh, my gosh. Yeah. So it was a lot. but they they're so great there they're just like I don't know they give you a minute if you guys need to run your lines really quick before the scene or whatever yeah it's good that's nice I literally can't imagine I literally can't imagine having to memorize especially being like you're 51 I'm 50 almost 52 and Bob is 53 like we're right in it and I the other day I might have shared the story already Bob so I'm sorry if I did but I had to see your moment where we have we're changing banks and I went to our previous bank to close out
Starting point is 00:29:54 an account and they were like it's already been closed. I literally closed it already and I forgot. I do that a lot. I do that a lot. I do things like that. Yeah, but the brain fog. How do you do it? How do you do it? It's just kind of like anything. It's like a muscle, right? So I just now that I've been doing it a little bit. It's getting easier. Plus, I'm knowing I'm getting more familiar with the way they write. And so, um, and Brad is great. The producer, he's like, as long as the intention is the same, it's okay if it's kind of, you make it sort of your own. But I mean, you know, you can't change the whole thing. But there's just a little bit of leeway. So it's great. So that's nice. That's got to be a little comforting. Is this, is Bole and the beautiful one of the shows that
Starting point is 00:30:47 goes to Monaco, too? Yes. Oh, that's so cool. Well, that's what I've heard. Yeah, not so cool for my kids. She'd be like, ah! A little separation issue is going, but, you know. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:31:01 Yeah, I remember that. There was a couple of the shows that did that. And I was like, God, that'd be the one. Like, you know, to get to go to Monaco and do the film festivals and all that stuff with these super fun. Yeah. Did you overdo that, Bob? No, I wish.
Starting point is 00:31:14 I've never been to Monaco before. Because there was, I went one time right after the show, Ryan and I flew, not to the film festival, but they have like a TV festival. Yes. Yeah. And I was there with that guy who ended up, he was on like one of the, like with Keeper Sutherland or something. And then he ended up doing those insurance commercials. Do you know what I'm talking about? He was on 24. Yes, he played the president. Yes, yes, 24. That's it. Oh, yeah. We watched 24.
Starting point is 00:31:44 That was one of our children, Bob. That was one of our. Bring it back for memories. I love that guy. Yes, that his voice is solely, he's got such graviton. Oh, my God. Yes, he's the one with the really low voice. But yeah, we went with him.
Starting point is 00:32:00 Like, we were riding in a helicopter with him. It was so much fun. I wish, I don't know if they still do that. We need to, like, put out the vibes and have them invite. We should do our podcast from there. And we can have, Rebecca can help us. bring you know some of the bold and the beautiful cast on that would be amazing that's right well i'm sure torsden goes i don't know i think they they invite you but i don't i don't know
Starting point is 00:32:22 i haven't heard anything about it hi my name is enya umanzor and i'm drew phillips and we run a podcast called emergency intercom if you're a crime junkie and you love crimes We're not the podcast for you But if you have unmedicated ADHD Oh my God, perfect And want to hear people with mental illness Psycho babble
Starting point is 00:32:50 Yes, yes Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you Open your free IHeartRadio app Search Emergency Intercom And listen now A foot washed up A shoe with some bones in it They had no idea who it was
Starting point is 00:33:04 Most everything was burned up Pretty good from the fire That not a whole lot was salvageable These are the coldest of cold cases, but everything is about to change. Every case that is a cold case that has DNA right now in a backlog will be identified in our lifetime. A small lab in Texas is cracking the code on DNA. Using new scientific tools, they're finding clues in evidence so tiny you might just miss it. He never thought he was going to get caught, and I just looked at my computer screen.
Starting point is 00:33:36 I was just like, ah, gotcha. On America's Crime Lab, we'll learn about victims and survivors, and you'll meet the team behind the scenes at Othrum, the Houston Lab that takes on the most hopeless cases, to finally solve the unsolvable. Listen to America's Crime Lab on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Jennifer Lopez,
Starting point is 00:34:01 and in the new season of the Overcover podcast, I'm taking you on an exciting journey of self-reflection. Am I ready to enter this new part of my life? Like, am I ready to be in a relationship? Am I ready to have kids and to really just devote myself and my time? I wanted to be successful on my own, not just because of who my mom is. Like, I felt like I needed to be better or work twice as hard as she did. Join me for conversations about healing and growth.
Starting point is 00:34:27 Life is freaking hard. And growth doesn't happen in comfort. It happens in motion, even when you're hurting. All from one of my favorite spaces, the kitchen. Honestly, these are going to come out so freaking amazing. Be a part of my new chapter and listen to the new season of the Overcumper podcast as part of the My Cultura podcast network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal
Starting point is 00:35:01 boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this. This was the choice he faced. He said, you are a number, a New York State number, and we own you. Shock incarceration, also known as boot camps, are short-term, highly regimented correctional programs that mimic military basic training. These programs aim to provide a shock of prison life, emphasizing strict discipline, physical training, hard labor, and rehabilitation programs. Mark had one chance to complete this program and had no idea.
Starting point is 00:35:36 idea of the hell awaiting him the next six months. The first night was so overwhelming, and you don't know who's next to you. And we didn't know what to expect in the morning. Nobody tells you anything. Listen to shock incarceration on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Super Secret Festi Club podcast season four is here. And we're locked in.
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Starting point is 00:36:18 Our new super secret bestie is The Diva of the People. The Diva of the People. I'm just like, text your ex. My theory is that if you need to figure out that the stove is hot, go and touch it. Go and figure it out for yourself. Okay. That's us. We're going to be it.
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Starting point is 00:36:47 As a part of the Michael Tura Podcast Network available On the IHeart Radio app Apple Podcasts Or wherever you get your podcast Okay, I have a question This is a very random question Okay
Starting point is 00:37:04 so for soap operas do you guys and i have backstory do you guys sell um your the clothes how how does the wardrobe work do they i assume they get you clothes but do they sell them because i'll i'll tell you my story after you answer that no so um they don't but there is a fan out there so they don't provide your clothes anymore no no no no they provide it no no they provide us close they provide is close okay that's one thing i loved about my character is that I'm wearing clothes that I don't normally wear like I'm wearing suits and I'm wearing like pants and I'm not I don't I don't want to be the sex pot you know because she's a psychiatrist too you can't if you're psychiatrist and you know flaunt and fluntin your boobs that I don't have it's you know not the best I don't know but they do they do get clothes for you and and I think there's a fan out there and I don't know who or what her name is but she will um find the what you're wearing and like list it for people. Oh, that's so crazy.
Starting point is 00:38:17 I mean, at least she did a general hospital. So I don't know. I'm sure she does it for a lot of the shows. So like for example, like, you know, you could get this outfit at Bloomingdale's or whatever. Oh, that's cool. Right. That's really cool. That'd be actually a full time, like, fun job.
Starting point is 00:38:32 I know. I know. I know. I'm like, does she making money? I mean, because this is like, it seems like a lot of work. Yeah. I bet she is making money. I bet she posts it on like to know it or something like that and gets a commission whenever someone buys something.
Starting point is 00:38:45 Yeah, just mentioned code lady that does the fashion stuff or whatever her code would be. Yeah. That's interesting. So on The Bachelorette, I secured a bunch of clothes for myself. And long story short, the producers were selling them. and like I was like wait what is happening to my clothes like these are my clothes that I figured out and why are you brought these clothes to the show that not the show did provide wait wait wait wait yeah yeah yeah wait wait it was your clothes that you picked out you you so sacks essentially gave me
Starting point is 00:39:21 clothes so they like gifted me clothes so yes they were my clothes essentially that I had been gifted by sacks and I figured it out I coordinated it and I looked at my closet one day and I was like where is this jacket or whatever and they were like oh well that that was sold or whatever and I'm like um these are my clothes like I got them and they told me that there was like something that like all the soap operas do where they like resell all the clothes in L.A like you can go to this like auction house or something yeah yeah yeah it's called I know I know exactly what it is because when all my children ended okay yeah they were like um so if you want your clothes they're going to go to this place whatever it's called and you can go there
Starting point is 00:40:05 and you can get it and they're going to give you a discount now trista these clothes have been fitted to you like tailored and everything yours too right yeah oh yes for sure guess who showed up and guess who never wore a thing that she bought that's right because i'm like for you're different But for me, I was like, I'm not Greenlee. Like, I don't want to wear Greenlee's little skirt. Yeah. But whatever, I did it. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:37 Oh, I want to know what it's called. It's called, it's called, oh, it's going to, it's really going to bother me. I have to look it up. That's so funny. I want to know. It's, I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to find out. Okay. And I'm going to send it to you.
Starting point is 00:40:55 Oh, it's so interesting. You have to. Like, I want to know if it's still going on. I wonder if some of your stuff is still there. I don't know. I mean, the place is massive. Massive. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:41:07 It has to be. If there's, there's so many, I mean, how many soap operas are there? I know. I know. And how they have to use a new outfit for every scene that they do. And there's a million scenes. So, well, I mean, I always, I'm like, they try and recycle some things like now. Like they put, you know, you don't wear the same thing.
Starting point is 00:41:27 But like, they'll put a different, a pant. with a different jacket or whatever, but yeah, yeah, yeah. That's interesting. Yeah. Man, I'll tell you guys, none of the wardrobe, well, well, the Bachelor wardrobe, I thought was kind of cool, but every show I've hosted since then, the wardrobes have, they've gotten increasingly worse, A, and two, I'm always like, what are you guys doing? Like, are we really on this type of a budget?
Starting point is 00:41:55 Everywhere. Everywhere. Everywhere is. It's amazing. I know. And it's all like sandpaper. So, like, for me, I'll put on like a dress shirt that I essentially am getting exfoliated while I'm wearing it. I'm like, yeah, I don't really want to, I don't want to buy this.
Starting point is 00:42:08 And, you know, I'm on a hot soundstage all day, sweating. I'm like, yeah, I don't think anyone else is going to want to wear my formerly pitted out shirt either. Oh, yeah, they're going to buy it. They're going to buy it. Oh, my gosh. I think about that stuff all the time. I'm like, maybe it doesn't work that way for guys clothes. Maybe with the ladies, you know, it works that way.
Starting point is 00:42:27 but oh my god that is i don't know i don't know it is it is like a thing when you can actually keep the clothes like i think it's i just did um i'll be uh actually maybe i shouldn't talk about this but i'm going to appear on a show in the future and they actually gave me the clothes and i was like oh this is a nice surprise because i don't feel like it happens that often you're like thank you yeah it doesn't happen that often anymore so you're like oh my god it's christmas Yay, bonus. I know. It's terrific. Yay. I got to keep all my clothes from my season of The Bachelor, and I will tell you the, I will not name the suit brand, but the suit brand did not hold up particularly well. I think it was literally, like, possibly like sewn together by hand as I walked into the, you know, into the fitting room. Because it, man, I think I shipped them home and they, like, fell apart. I'm like, what is going on?
Starting point is 00:43:22 Oh, no. Yeah. Oh, no. Oh, wow. Yeah. So, needless to say, that was like, I thought it was, you know, I thought it was so lucky. I negotiated to keep the clothes. And, yeah, no, no, I know why they let me keep them now. Yeah. Well, you were a few sizes bigger then, right? Yes, yes, probably. Yeah. Yeah. Well, well, definitely on The Bachelorette, you know, I was, I think you might recall, you were going on a day two, to San Diego. I think you're going to, what's that called the Sea World? And I'm like, wait a minute.
Starting point is 00:43:56 She just named like a bunch of people, but she did mention Shamood. Does that mean I get to go to? Do you know, I remember. You did say that joke, didn't you, Bob? Yes, I remember that. Oh, yeah. He just did. You showed it.
Starting point is 00:44:10 She was just like, what are you talking about? Oh, my God. Oh, I get it. I get why you would choose Ryan over me. The dude is like molded out of clay. I mean, even to this day, you know, like still he's like 0% body fat. He's like, hey, whatever I want. I'm like, huh?
Starting point is 00:44:25 I eat nothing but lettuce, and I'm at like a 40%, you know, closing it on obesity with every passing minute of the day. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Ryan is a man. Oh, my God. He is just a beast. Oh.
Starting point is 00:44:40 Really is. Yeah. Yeah. You did all right there, Trista. You did all right, Mr. Sutter at Ray Ren. So did you. So did you. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:44:48 Yeah. Yeah. I think we all did. I think that's one thing we can say here at the OGs. We all did. pretty damn well for ourselves, including our lovely guest, Rebecca Buttock. That's right. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:45:00 I love it. I love it. The whole role goes full circle. So, Rebecca, now with your daughter and with everything that you have going on, I mean, do you have time to make it back home to see your family? I do. I do. You know, my, my, yeah, so, yeah, my dad has Parkinson's.
Starting point is 00:45:23 And so it's, it's, you know, when parents are aging, they're going to be 88 in a couple weeks. And I know. And so I try and get back as much as I can. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I definitely, every three to four months, I go back. Oh, that's amazing.
Starting point is 00:45:45 And it's getting harder because there's only one direct flight and it's a red eye going. and coming back, I wish, you know, wish they had more direct flights. So last time we went there, our flight, we didn't make the connection because the flight was delayed. And then we got like, we had to go to Atlanta and stay a night in Atlanta
Starting point is 00:46:06 and then like make our way to Cincinnati. And it was, it was rough, rough on my kid for sure. Oh, yeah. That would be a lot. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:16 Yeah. We are, we're all about the direct flights in the Guinea household. And I will tell you, it's even at that. It's like, you know, that whole thing they say it takes a village, right? And I agree with that. Unfortunately, sometimes the villagers on Delta Flight 105 didn't sign up for helping babysit my kids.
Starting point is 00:46:36 I'm like, I'm like sprinting up and down the, you know, because Blake and Grayson are going opposite ways while mommy goes potty. And the next thing you know, it's an absolute shit show. Oh, my God. No, don't do that. I remember those days. I remember those days. Well, she's 10, but she doesn't like flying. Oh, that's rough, you know.
Starting point is 00:46:58 Yeah. Yeah. Overnight flights are brutal, no matter who you are. I agree. Especially, I don't get home as much as I'd like, but I do go home. Yeah. Well, that's good. Well, please tell everyone I said hello and give them my love. And, you know, I'm, I will tell you that I have many wonderful memories.
Starting point is 00:47:18 And I talk about Grater's ice cream, Montgomery and barbecue. you. I talk about all those Cincinnati greats and they're always like, how do you know so much about that? I'm like, oh, I used to go there you know, the five way chili, the three way. You know, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I talk about those places and people like, how do you know so much? I'm like, well, you know, I used to spend some time there. How's Nora?
Starting point is 00:47:40 Nora's doing really well. Nora's doing really well. She's, you know, after my dad passed, I think it was one of those things where she really kind of didn't realize. I don't think any of us really realized, quite frankly, how big of a role my dad played in that confidence level and all of that that my mom projects, you know? And I think that was one of the things that we found out that was kind of like, oh, wow, okay, dad, you know,
Starting point is 00:48:09 dad was more than just the rock of the family. He was also everybody's confidence, you know, including mine. So it's like it's one of those things you, you know, you don't realize, you know, the impact of some of that until until you have a chance to take stock. And so she's doing all right. I think, I think that she misses, misses my dad terribly, you know, much like your parents, they're together forever, you know. And it's just one of those things where it's like, you know, when all of a sudden that person is gone, you're sort of like, the hell am I doing here, you know? And so she definitely enjoys. But she's still able to
Starting point is 00:48:44 live alone and like in the house and yeah yeah she's still in the house and she loves her little grandkids you know she's it's a pretty big age discrepancy you know she's got a 26 year old and then a five year old and a three year old for her grandkids oh i'm sure she's in heaven though that's all she wanted oh yeah that's all she wanted and how are dd and jd they're doing great they're doing great they're empty nesters now of course and you know so they've got their they've got a bristling social schedule to say the least they're always they were at the game with me last night they were at the game with canyon and i last night oh yeah yeah so it was a lot of fun and you know and being back in tell jadie i miss his lima beans and i miss um i do i think about them and his brussels ross right
Starting point is 00:49:28 two of the gaseiest vegetables you could ever make and that's what jd is like cooked them on the regular did he still make those oh he makes everything i mean he's he's added several new items to his repertoire and i will tell you the canyon is a fierce cook too so they like they have these little cook yeah yeah yeah they're like it's like oh yeah it's so good like thanksgiving is a smorgish board of deliciousness that that's so sweet so it's a lot of fun it's uh i'll definitely let them know you picked out those two items because i i will tell you growing up eating brussels sprouts right and it was like i swear all they did was boil them and serve them on a plate you're like what's this soggy plant.
Starting point is 00:50:08 I'm not eating this. My dog wouldn't eat them. No one would eat them. Now it's like you go to restaurants and it's like Brussels sprouts are like the key to the whole restaurants. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:20 JD brought that to the to the guinea house early on with, I mean, throwing the garlic in there and the parmesan. Oh, now I'm hungry. See? I'll never be hungry. Now you guys are making me hungry. I know. I'll never be built like Ryan if I can't have that garlic and parmesan. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:50:36 I'll never be built like Ryan either. It's okay. Well, yeah, that's true. I guess you got to do the work, right? He's also like running pentathlons and everything else, and I'm sitting on the couch eating bonbons. Not still, but he does. He just finished a workout.
Starting point is 00:50:51 So, yeah, he's, I mean, he tries. He keeps up with it, but. Yeah. I don't know about you, Rebecca, but paramedopods has hit my, like, motivation. I just, you said you wake up at 4.30 in the morning and work out. Oh, my Lord. I just, I can't even get a workout in by five o'clock. I'm like, oh, the motivation.
Starting point is 00:51:11 I love it. I love it. I love like the weight training and the bands and stuff, but I'm not great at cardio. Like, unless I can go outside and walk with my dogs, but it's, you know, 5,000 degrees here. And, you know, unless I can get a good walk in with the dogs. I was just thinking the other day, I'm like, I got to do something for my heart, like cardio, but what am I going to do? Maybe a dance class. I don't know, something.
Starting point is 00:51:37 I'm looking for dance classes too. Dance classes and also like meditation. I want to do that. Oh, yeah. See, I can't do that either. I just can't stick to it. Hi, my name is Enya Emanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips.
Starting point is 00:51:56 And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast. for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom's the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. A foot washed up a shoe with some bones in it. They had no idea who it was.
Starting point is 00:52:28 Most everything was burned up pretty good from the fire that not a whole lot was salvageable. These are the coldest of cold cases, but everything is about to change. Every case that is a cold case that has DNA right now in a backlog will be identified in our lifetime. A small lab in Texas is cracking the code on DNA. Using new scientific tools, they're finding clues in evidence so tiny you might just miss it. He never thought he was going to get caught, and I just looked at my computer screen. I was just like, ah, gotcha. on America's Crime Lab
Starting point is 00:53:03 We'll learn about victims and survivors And you'll meet the team behind the scenes at Othrum The Houston Lab that takes on the most hopeless cases To finally solve the unsolvable Listen to America's Crime Lab On the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts Or wherever you get your podcasts The Super Secret Festi Club podcast season four is here
Starting point is 00:53:26 And we're locked in That means more juicy cheesement Terrible love advice Evil spells to cast on your ex. No, no, no, no, we're not doing that this season. Oh, well, this season, we're leveling up. Each episode will feature a special bestie, and you're not going to want to miss it. Get in here!
Starting point is 00:53:44 Today, we have a very special guest with us. Our new super secret bestie is the diva of the people. The diva of the people. I'm just like, text your ex. My theory is that if you need to figure out that the stove is hot, go and touch it. Go and figure it out for yourself. Okay. That's us.
Starting point is 00:54:00 We're in the head. That's us. My name is Curley. And I'm Maya. In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreak, men, and, of course, our favorite secrets. Listen to the Super Secret Bestie Club as a part of the My Cultura podcast network available on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, I'm Jenna Lopez, and in the new season of the Overcover podcast, I'm taking you on an exciting journey of self-reflection. Am I ready to enter this new part of my life?
Starting point is 00:54:33 Like, am I ready to be in a relationship? Am I ready to have kids and to really just devote myself and my time? I wanted to be successful on my own, not just because of who my mom is. Like, I felt like I needed to be better or work twice as hard as she did. Join me for conversations about healing and growth. Life is freaking hard. And growth doesn't happen in comfort. It happens in motion, even when you're hurting.
Starting point is 00:54:57 All from one of my favorite spaces. the kitchen. Honestly, these are going to come out so freaking amazing. Be a part of my new chapter and listen to the new season of the Overcomfit podcast as part of the MyCultura podcast network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this. This was the choice he faced. He said, you are a number, a New York State number, and we own you.
Starting point is 00:55:37 Shock incarceration, also known as boot camps, are short-term, highly regimented correctional programs that mimic military basic training. These programs aim to provide a shock of prison life, emphasizing strict discipline, physical training, hard labor, and rehabilitation programs. Mark had one chance to complete this program and had no outside. idea of the hell awaiting him the next six months. The first night was so overwhelming, and you don't know who's next to you. And we didn't know what to expect in the morning.
Starting point is 00:56:09 Nobody tells you anything. Listen to shock incarceration on the I-Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I wanted to bring up the fact that one of my favorite shows of yours was skating with the stars. Oh, yeah. I totally remember that. You were one of the few people who watched it? That's so funny. I think it was right after dancing with the stars,
Starting point is 00:56:42 because I was on the first season of dancing with the stars, and I think it like, right? Didn't it air? It was the same people that did. It was the same people that did dancing with stars. Of course, they asked me many years to dancing, and I'm like, no, no, no. And then skating with the stars.
Starting point is 00:56:56 Like, I'm like, I don't know. and then I put on my old skates and I was walking around the house in them and stuff and I was like, I guess I'm doing this. I always wanted to do pair skating. That's so sweet that you watched it. I mean, seriously, like, no one. I totally remember it.
Starting point is 00:57:11 The one and only season. Well, you are the one and only champion. One and only champion, one and only season. She's the one only champion of skating with this. She won the Crystal Mirror Skate trophy. Like, what was the trophy? The bronze skates. The bronze skate.
Starting point is 00:57:24 She won the bronze skate. I remember that. Yes. that is a claim to fame right there yeah that's a claim to fame that's so funny yeah it was hard but it was fun it was like one of the best things i ever did i mean i don't know about you but um the only thing that i think it was different than dancing well you could have fallen too but like they would um they would put that water on the ice so that it would look
Starting point is 00:57:47 oh glistening yeah and i and we had to go down this ramp to come out like when they announced your name oh and i'm like like, I'm going to fall. What have, what am I done? What have I signed up for? What is wrong with me? Why am I doing this? I was like, shaking.
Starting point is 00:58:05 So I'm like, I'm going to fall. I'm going to fall. And then someone fell and I was like, okay, they fell. Now I can fall. But I never did. But I was so stiff. I wouldn't bend my knees. Like I was so stiff.
Starting point is 00:58:15 I was so nervous. Oh my God. But I ended up, I ended up doing that. The guy, the choreographer, he ended up in New York. And I ended up moving to New York right out. after that shortly after that and I started skating there with another guy who was even more he was just my partner was very safe Fred I loved Fred but he was very safe and I went in um he hooked me up with this guy Jonathan and we were doing the craziest I was I was skating with all these Olympians
Starting point is 00:58:44 and Chelsea peers it was like there's Brian there's brian botano and there's Evan Lysichick and well Evan Lysichick I mean I wouldn't skate when Evan was skating I'm like I was like on the side because he was like a train. It was so crazy. I've never. That is so cool, though. But yeah, all the girls, they were all at the rink. Everyone would, they would just skate.
Starting point is 00:59:03 And I would go and I would skate with this guy. And we were doing, I did a handstand on his arm while he's skating across the ice. What? Then I got pregnant. I was like, done. I'm not doing that. No, no more. No more triple sow cow for you.
Starting point is 00:59:16 No. Not even close to a single sow cow. A single sow cow. Well, those are tough. South Pals are tough. Anyway. I love that. And you speak from experience, Bob?
Starting point is 00:59:28 No, no. No, but I'm a skating enthusiast, you know, when the Olympics come along. I'm dialing it up. I got my, I got my critiques going. Oh, my God. Oh, that's awesome. I remember that when that show came up because we had been, Rebecca and I were still together at this point, and they had talked to us possibly about doing dancing as like the
Starting point is 00:59:49 husband and wife team. Do you remember that, Rebecca? No, you mean when dancing came out, not skating? When dancing, not skating. Oh, yes, yes. Yeah. But dancing, I don't remember that, really? Yes, I wanted to talk to you about it.
Starting point is 01:00:00 They're like, well, they were like, do you think you guys would be interested in it? And I said, well, I think I probably would, but I don't think Rebecca would do it. No. And they were like, oh, okay, well, we're thinking about doing a husband and wife thing. And they ended up doing Jewel and Ty Murray.
Starting point is 01:00:14 And I don't know if you remember that. When Joel was on the show and her husband was like a rodeo guy. And he was on the show as well. And I was like, oh, wow, interesting. It's just, you know, When they asked me to do dancing, I was like, I'm an actress. I'm not, you know, I want to act. I don't want to do it.
Starting point is 01:00:31 And now, in retrospect, I should have said yes. I mean, I would have, I say yes to anything right now because I'm like, why not? Yeah. It's good experience, right? So whatever. You live, you learn. You're young and you're like, no, I'm not going to see. I'm not.
Starting point is 01:00:45 I'm not doing. It's actress. Oh, yeah. You know. The only things I was saying, though, too, back then were like, celebrity bull riding and i'm like no no i'm not doing that i'm not doing celebrity fear factor what was the boxing show didn't you can ask to do celebrity fear factor i did and and tris and ryan ended up doing it and i did not i didn't do it no i did not i said no because i didn't
Starting point is 01:01:12 want to eat any bugs and then they ended up getting bugs anyway um but long story short for charity um but ryan won it i know ryan is that ryan is the champion of that one. I mean, we're around so many champion caliber people right now. We got the bronze skate winner, the guy who ate, you know, turtle eggs or whatever. See, that was my problem was, I was like, I'll, I'll jump out of a chopper. I'm good with that. But, you know, I'm not afraid of that. Put something in front of me that's moving. I'm not eating it. And I'm automatically off the show. Yeah, I'm like, I will not do that. I was so stressed. Yeah. And the one time I met Joe Rogan, he made so much fun of me for it. And I was like, I know, dude. I know you're
Starting point is 01:01:50 right i should have just done it but i was just afraid you know yeah so yeah don't blame yep me too uh that joel rogan yeah he's funny guy funny guy well we are very excited that you came on the show thank you so much for joining us and thank you for giving us the time i mean i'm sure you got a ton of people that really want to talk about your return to daytime oh yeah i've got they're lined up out my door how did you not know that well you know i am very proud i'm very crowd that you're going to Bold and the Beautiful with Tourston. I think you guys are going to be so magic together. You're always been such an electric, you know, a pair of friends that I know that'll translate so beautifully to the screen. I can't wait to watch it. Thank you. You're very
Starting point is 01:02:36 welcome. Thank you, Trista. Oh, my gosh. Congratulations. It's so good to see your face. I want to look up this place. I'm going to tell you. Oh, yes. I want to see. I totally. I want to look it up and see if it's actually still um still um existence because because you know what i love my tj max and actually i think i would love like this kind of warehouse even more because yeah it's um it's called hang on i'm looking i'm literally it's a wrap it's a wrap it's a wrap okay done i'm looking it's a wrap yeah it's a wrap It's your, it says your opportunity to purchase, hang on, I'm, I literally, I just clicked on it. What is from your favorite movies and TV shows? Yeah, wardrobe and props from your.
Starting point is 01:03:30 And props. How crazy is there? Nice. General Hospital tells you what shows. Secrets and Lies. That's so funny. Conrad, Michelle, TV shows I've never heard of in my life. I was going to say, I'm not heard of.
Starting point is 01:03:46 Street, 61st Street? Oh, yeah. That's a, that's a riveting series. American, American Gigolo. Oh, my gosh. That's a good one. So there you go. Monday, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays. That's it, though. Oh, and Saturday or something. Bullitt train. I'm totally. I'm going to look. I'm going to look. I think that's hysterical. Maybe I can buy some of my old clothes. You know what? Wouldn't that be amazing if you walked in there and you're like, wait a minute. I wore this, you know.
Starting point is 01:04:16 On that spot date with Bob. When you're like, I wore this in 1987. What is it doing here still? Not in style anymore, I will say that. Yeah, I'd still have, like, my suits will look like MC Hammer's, like, giant balloon pants at this point, the way they were fitted. I mean, it was like, give me a break. Hey, that's coming back, though. It's all coming back.
Starting point is 01:04:37 Yeah. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Well, thank you, Rebecca. Thank you, guys. Thank you. Tell your family. I said hello. I will say, please. Bye. Bye. Bye. Thank you. Bye. I love. See, I love the episode of my, uh, my ex-girlfriend and my ex-wife. I think it works. So fine. I love her. I'm just, she's good people.
Starting point is 01:05:05 She is, man. And you know, I think it's, it's nice to reconnect with her because we haven't really talked in since my father passed. And I think it's really nice to, um, you know, I've had more interaction with her husband, which isn't a ton either, but just he's just a really great guy. And, you know, I think it's nice when someone you cared about finds the right person and you genuinely feel good for them. Like, and I know that she does for me, you know, and it's so nice because I always say that I hate to use this term, but, you know, just because your relationship doesn't work out, you don't have to throw the baby, throw out the baby with the bathwater, you know, that expression. Um, you know, and you don't have to do that because you can still celebrate the things you cared about with that person
Starting point is 01:05:47 and root for them, you know, and I've been rooting for her. And I know she has been for me. And every now and then she'll reach out and be like, oh, my God, your boys are so beautiful. And, you know, so excited to see this or whatever. And, you know, so it's actually a very, I think a very mutually respectable relationship, which I think is nice. Yeah, that's awesome. Or respectful. Yeah. I'm not sure exactly what I don't talk about. I don't know what you mean. yes thank you thank you I mean other than me other than me I mean I'm probably you know
Starting point is 01:06:18 one of the bigger ones in your life but are you friends with any of your exes not like the the major ones in my life like before Bachelor and Bachelorette not really I mean I get I should we share Christmas cards my high school boyfriend but that's like the extent of it yeah that's it
Starting point is 01:06:40 Like, and I was burned. I got cheated on by my grad school boyfriend, so I have, I have no reason to talk to him. No, no. And that's what I mean, right? That's a great point. Like, in those circumstances, I get it why you're like, you know what? Done. But when there's nothing like that, it's like, yeah, no, good for you.
Starting point is 01:06:59 So, no. And honestly, I feel like there's no, there's no reason for it unless for some reason we ran in the same circles or had some kind of, or had a kid or something. but um no i i i think that you know just focusing on my current relationship that's right is what is my happy thing yeah you get rid of the toxic stuff you keep the stuff that's good and you know and then like you know like she like she said too it's not like you know we're still very friendly we speak very kindly of one another but it's not like we're you know speed dialing each other every week. You know, I mean, I haven't talked to her. I haven't had, you know, even in exchange with her probably in three years. So that was really nice to catch up with her. And I, I didn't know
Starting point is 01:07:43 about her dad's situation. So I'm so sorry to hear that because he's such a wonderful guy. And, you know, for him to not be doing well and not feeling well. That's tough. But, you know, yeah. So excited for her. Excited for Bold and Beautiful. I really did reach out to my good friend Torreson, who he plays Ridge Forest around the show, who will be her love interest. And, you know, I thought, I was like, wow, okay, Toasty. I know that you requested this pairing. And he's like, I did, I did, buddy. Just, you know, he's just a funny guy, you know.
Starting point is 01:08:15 He should be doing comedy as well. He's just a graded drama as an actor as well. But it'll be nice to see them reconnect on the screens. I think people are going to fall in love with the two of them, you know. Yeah, I haven't watched soap opera in years, decades, really. But maybe I should do it just to watch Rebecca. Yeah, there you go. You know, I think it's a remarkable, it's a remarkable, their fan base is so strong.
Starting point is 01:08:42 It's kind of like Bachelination to a lot of degree. Like, you know, the people to love Bachelination, they are in it. They're watching it. They're committed. And that's the way a lot of the daytime fans are as well, as they're like that, they're watching their shows, their stories. They're not missing them, you know. And they're very passionate, you know, very passionate about it. You're right.
Starting point is 01:09:02 You're right. Yeah. All right. Great to chat. Good to see you again. I'm glad you're out of Lions won. I am too. Thank you so much. Well, I love you, Trista. Thank you for being a part of a really fun episode. And I can't wait to talk to you again soon. Bye, everybody. Tune in again soon. Actually, we do have another interview coming up soon. So hopefully you guys will tune in again. Yeah. Have a great one.
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