The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast - Ashley's Girls Trip with UberEats

Episode Date: June 9, 2022

Ashley is having a girls day out with her favorite Bachelor besties!  Heather Martin, Krystal Nielsen, Tenley Molzahn, Becca Tilley, Clare Crawley and more are hanging out with Ashley and spilling all the tea! And to make things extra cozy, we had face masks, robes and slippers brought right to the room through UberEats! Plus, a mentalist gives the girls a reading and seriously blows their minds! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Is that it? Did I cover all of our guests tonight? Oh, Crystal Nielsen. How could I forget? Crystal Nielsen, all these girls are going to come on and chat with me. This episode is very special. It's sponsored by Uber Eats. I was packing last night and oh my gosh, our drugstore is so far away and obviously it's not easy. for me to just pack up a car these days, you know, you know, pack up and get in the car and just run an errand, you know, it used to be no big deal. Like, I'll just go and it's nothing. But now it's like, do I have the diaper bag? Do I have formula in fresh bottles and diapers? Strap them into the car seat, go there, get in the, oh, like put them in the stroller, put them in the carrier, keep them in the car seat, carry them in. Everything is lugging, logging, logging. I try to run as little errands,

as possible. So when I realized that I didn't have any, like, toiletries that were travel-sized because I didn't want to pack a, like, a checked bag, I decided to Uber Eats yesterday. I Uber-Eats toiletries, travel-sized toiletries. It was awesome because the next morning, before my flight, I just got on the app and I tap, tap, tap. And within an hour, I had my toiletries to my door, so much easier. I was able to, you know, kind of go about my morning in the calmest way possible the day that, you know, me, a mom takes off for her first baby-free trip. And then we utilize Uber Eats again tonight for this Girl's Night podcast. We not only Uber eats dinner, of course. We got the best food. We got like onion rings. We got mini sliders. We got

tacos and nachos from our favorite places in L.A. We also, we Uber Eats even things that we needed for Girls' Night that wasn't food because, again, Uber Eats is not just for food anymore. They're there

for convenience. They're there for toiletries. They're there for groceries. So we were able to actually Uber Eats last minute some robes some slippers, some face mass, even some nail polish, I think, for our girls' nights so that we would have not just some good food and drink, but also some, you know,

Girls' Night's Spa Essentials. And now it is time to bring in my guests after I blabbered about how we set the scene tonight. So let's welcome Claire Crawley, Danielle and McBride, and hether martin so i'm sitting around a table in california for the first time with some first time in many moons with a couple of my favorite ladies from the bachelor we got crystal nielsen to my left we have tenly wait what's your new last name leopold leopold leopold tenly leopold although not her Instagram handle, which we are currently working on.

And then we have Carly Waddell across from me. Carly, you never changed your last name, right? Yeah. Are you so glad you did it? Yeah. All right. So basically we have the mom crew here first. And it's, so this is not just girls night out.

It's mom's night out. We have, besides me, Crystal is the freshest of the new moms. So it's been, yeah, 14 month old. Yeah. it's what month do I have to look forward to the most and which month do I have to dread the most? Oh my gosh, you know what? I think it honestly just gets better as you go on. I would say that five months became really fun.

Okay. I think four months is starting to become really fun, but also very tedious because while he's becoming so much more aware and smiling and everything, he's also becoming like much more in need of entertainment constantly. Oh, well, you know what? Does he notice you when you walk across the room yet? Oh, yes, yes. Okay, because I found that so amazing and fascinating where I'm like, oh my gosh, she like can tell like I'm here in this room as opposed to just being an infant and baby just like staring into space. But I found that right at seven months, once she started becoming like really mobile and moving, it just became so much fun. And from there, it just gets better and better. Okay, cool. Oh, yeah. I'm excited. I mean, from my 14 month. experience. So let's try that right now. Well, then let's go around the circle because now Tenley has a two-year-old. No, not yet.

Please don't rush it. She's only one and a half. Well, she's like almost 21 months. Okay. When do we stop with the months thing? I don't know. I think you stop at two years, yeah. 24 months, right?

At two years? I don't know. I say maybe at so much math. I think at one and a half. It's so much math. Because it doesn't it sound, I mean, no offense, you just did it. but is it a little silly to be like 22 months? It's like, okay, she's almost two.

Well, I don't know. She's like, no, every month is special and different. No, at this moment, I totally am trying to like hang on to every moment that is like, I'm mentally. Four and a half year old month math. Really? Four and a half year old month? No, I do agree.

Every month is really special. Every month at this point, and every month from there on out is very special. But I feel like there is. such a there is something in each little month and they're growing so much in that like from I feel like from birth yeah from birth to even two years old there's so much that happens but I feel like rel in the last couple of months has just jumped from being like a baby to this little tiny human toddler thing monster amazing creation like that. She is so much fun, and she has so much to say and do, and it's so much fun.

But, like, so I feel like it kind of counts to count the months. You know, you make an interesting point because I feel like, you know, like, the big thing is to track, like, every month, like, from, like, from birth until 12 months, like, you notoriously posts their monthly photo to show how much they've grown and their development. I haven't done that. Right? Every time. Oh, every time as long as you have your own.

turn like a new month. I'm like, today's the day I'm going to do it. And that's like, not, haven't done it. It's been four months. Never done it. Yeah. And then I try to fake it a few times.

I was like, we skip it on six. If I do month seven is month six and when month eighth comes, I'll do it in month seven. And then I'd like skip it on, man, now it's all getting wacky. Yeah, that's a lot to calculate there. For your mama, like for your mama like hearts, like you have those photos because you're taking pictures like a thousand times.

times a day. That's true. You don't have like lay him laying on a blanket with a number. I totally fibbed. You know what I did? I actually tried to initially lay and darry next to my dogs waiting to show the size of her compared to my dogs, which only went like two months because trying to get an infant child and two dogs to lay on their back and make eye contact with a camera was a very

gregarious task that did not work. there's probably like 700 photos in my camera role right now and I've posted three I don't recommend it we have such a problem there I always maxed out on ICloud storage so the most you can buy

before he was born and I was like this is gonna get way worse now I don't know what to do like I have to I don't know how I gotta upgrade Is this even appropriate That's the thing I'm upgraded How many photos do you have? Like 70,000

You gotta go through and delete your old brand deals I know girl I know I try to do You're like, 2018 to 2020. Why do I find myself like almost sentimentally attached to some of that? You're like, I might repurpose this. And it's like, oh, look, there was like, oh, there's a FabFit Funbox with Nick. Look how young Nick and I are there. Actually, Nick's Benjamin Button, so he looks younger and I look older.

I have 90,600. 90,000. Then how do you have I cloud space? I have you on my cloud space. What do you mean you have me on my eye cloud space? Do you remember when we met up with Alana, that? like comedy thing. Yeah.

Like, yeah, all the way back. Of course. I can go back to like 2011 on my phone, but I can't even go back that far, but there's so many. Yeah, but I don't want to delete 2011 pictures. I really have to just do brands. Brands, but I don't delete anything. No, me neither.

I'm a digital pack wrap. Yeah, me too. Oh, yay. Yeah. We have a lot in common. You go through. Mimical attachments and all. I've brought up Wimsycle attachments so many times.

Do you want to talk about what a whimsical attachment is just to remind the audience? Let's touch. Let's touch about it. Let's talk about it. Touch on it and talk about it. That's what you were trying to say. Yes. I was trying to whimsical attachment about it. Yeah. So what is it? So when you have like a whimsical attachment, you're having like this like it's I feel like so many women go through this. When you just have this desire and ideal of somebody in your life like totally being a part of your life and you just attached to it. You are in a really. relationship in a sense in your mind maybe perhaps like the other person's given you a little bit of something and you just attach yourself to that i've had a couple different and i feel like actually you've totally taken that on but you've also proved my whole whimsical attachment thing wrong like you i know i know ashley i think you have a whimsical attachment to jared you know i think you think the ideal of him and you have this ideal of love for him and you were like you needed to meet him in order to know the qualities of people yes to be able to move forward you need to go and find

it another person and and look at you now and you are married and baby later and i have to go dig myself a hole in that sense i know i'm so happy for you thank you no you don't i love but a musical attachment i really truly feel like a lot of people uh any uh single girl like hanging out and listening and going like I just haven't found that person but I have this guy or oh Charlie Carlie do you have a single or a whimsical attachment

in your mind? No. Have you had a Tim Riggins in Friday Night Lights? Oh he is such my I mean like 10 years ago a whimsical attachment. No. Okay well so Carly has no one apparently

but Carly have you been on a date in the past six months? No. no dates no any dates since like you guys start split no no dates at all no oh my god so let's get you on a date do you want to yeah yeah i do it's it's really hard it's hard um just situationally because i have the kids so much that i so i have like six nights a month that i can go out where evan has the kids so he has the kids every other weekend so fridays i usually drop the kids off at three and then I come home and I order food and I watch TV.

Yeah. So like really, you have six nights, but you really have three. Yeah. Because like one of those nights is for me. Yeah. Right. And then like Saturday night is a good night. And then Sunday night I'm kind of like doing like things because I get the kids back in the

morning on Monday. So I don't have a lot of time to, I don't, where do you find people? I don't know. I don't even know how to do it. And I don't really know when I have the time to do it. But I'm like really doing. doing okay alone, but yes, obviously it would be nice to have somebody around. Yes.

Crystal, Tenley, can we get you guys on the bandwagon of Carly for Bachelorette? I was just going to say, almost a famous bachelor's at least. Like, you guys should do a full on thing for Carly. Like, I don't, I don't know, Carly, would you want another season of the show, whether it be like Paradise or Bachelorette or either one? You guys, I haven't proved to be very successful. No, you did. You have two kids because of it.

You wouldn't take it back. Sorry, sorry. I would redo everything with Evan again. My children are like my most prized possession. They're beautiful. They're the best thing that's ever happened to me. But I don't know. This show is so odd.

And I don't know that I don't know. I'm a mom. We're all moms. But like it's so weird. It's different when you're a mom. You need to do an Emily Maynard season and bring the kids aboard. Oh, my gosh. I'm dreaming big.

But I don't know, but like, would you even want to go back onto like a reality dating? Like, so. Like, what if, I mean, I would love to watch it. I would love to watch everything go down, Carly. I want to see Carly recap her dates because she's so real and raw and, like, unfiltered. Oh, no, that's like, I'd actually be terrible because I'd be like, oh, my God. He was gross. Yeah.

And then they'd be like, you can't hate him. Yeah, I know. You have to like him for too. more episode. I cannot. But you're the Bachelorette that we've always needed. That would be so good.

That would be so good. But I remember like even our season of Bachelor in Paradise where you would come back and you gave us all the details. It was so good. Sometimes I'd say too many things. Oh, well.

No, well, the cameras can get all of the details. Because we only have so many minutes. But I think it would be so much fun to see you as a Bachelorette. Or at least. to get to experience you going through it as long as it was good for you? You know, who knows with the future

holds? Now, do you think you'd be nervous going on dates now? Are you dreading it or are you excited? I'm not dreading it. I definitely feel like I know people say this all the time, but I do feel like it took me a really long time to figure out

what I actually need as a human and what works with. me and I feel like what there was a lot of things that's that just previously didn't work and like now now I know what that is you know and I feel like I maybe I needed to like I hadn't had a lot of long relationships you know Evan was my longest relationship I've ever had so I think I needed that kind of navigate the future so at least I'd feel like I know a direction now which is good Yeah, and you've literally never looked better.

Like, she is getting hotter as she gets older. It looks so great. She's like Botas. Such a name. That's amazing, though. Send me all your units and everything and all the things because I'm going to start soon. You haven't started, Tenley?

No, she's still nursing. You're still nursing. Yes. Tonight's my own drug hero. Do you see these things? Really. It's the longest time I've been away from her. baby. So has breastfeeding come easy to you? It was like the hardest thing at the beginning. I hated

it so much. I remember my mom wasn't down and I looked at her and I went, I don't know how I'm going to do this. Like I was seriously like so apart from my own body. Like what is this that's happening? And since then though, um, yeah, no, I love it so much. I what do you love about it? I love that. I love that. I love that closeness. I love that I'm giving her something. But at the same time, just so everybody out there knows, I think that is best. I think that it's so amazing. Whatever way you get to have that bond with your, with your child. Carly and I are like, we love our formula. I never felt that closest. That's what Jade was always like. I just feel like such an attachment to that with my baby and I never felt that. Well, and I totally think that it's so cool to have.

that ability to have that freedom too. But this is new to me. And maybe it has to do with the like last year in like or last two years even just to be most of our lives have dealt with just being in our own home space. Like I just beat her. Like yeah. And I don't have any other option. I mean I had pumped for a long time and Taylor would give her a bottle like.

like once a day for a while and then I looked at him and was like why are you doing this? Like there's no point. I'm just going to feed her. And so he stopped giving her bottled milk and I kept nursing her and I just love it so much

and I miss her so much. But my boobs are filling up. That is something I so want to talk about. Okay, what's your biggest body insecurity post-partum, post-baby? Oh. You know, I would say You are like the body, I mean, the body, you know?

She's showing her body. Thanks, guys. Shout out to peddle and pup for the crop top. But I would say, on it, speaking of boobs, maybe we're just talking about it. But I think it has been like my breasts because I nursed and are until 11 months. And I love nursing.

And I love the routine of it, actually. I loved waking up. I loved having dedicated breaks where I could just take a time out from work and just sit with her and be present. And then I also would sometimes use those blocks initially when she was in the very like newborn stage where I would kind of work or do emails like while she was nursing because you're nursing for like 45 minutes. But coming off of nursing, which has been like, I guess what, five months now, I feel like my boobs are a lot different. And I put on this top actually and I had to adjust the straps and I was like, wow, the last time I wore this, I was like just five days off of weaning her. And to see like the difference.

So I've noticed that, but I've also addressed it as an area where it's like, hey, my body has changed and I'm going to love myself no matter what. This is just an area for me to like to work on and work on those pushups and some chest presses and accept myself as I am. And I'm not going to think less of myself because of becoming a mom. And I think a lot of times I heard I was so scary to become a mom because of what you hear, how your body changes. It's really scary like until you know. And then you go through it and you're like, it was so worth it. Like every little change was worth it. Yeah.

Henley, is that your insecurity too? And not my boobs. I feel like, honestly, right after I had my baby, I felt sexier than ever. And I, um... Oh, she's one of those. No, I was... Actually, I feel pretty good after giving birth. But like, I, as everybody who has fallen,

me on social media think it's the biggest bullshit ever to be like I feel so beautiful pregnant like with this glowing motherly figuring. No, no, I did not. I was in so much pain when I was pregnant. I was in so much pain. You never told me like why you're in pain because you weren't nauseous but like why were you? You said you couldn't sleep. Do we want, okay, Ben was on the thing and I didn't want to talk about it. Oh, you did it. Oh, what was it? My bones were like broken. Like I felt like my pubic bones were about to bust. I had SPD, which is like, I don't actually, symphysis, pubic diastasis, or something like that.

Basically, you know what happens to your abs? They separate. Your pubic bones separate. And I, it's so debilitating to where I was basically crawling to the bathroom, like on my hands and knees, like you could barely even do that. I couldn't even sleep at night because I couldn't find a comfortable place. No, it's, it's, it's actually debilitating. And, um, uh, and then I actually suffered through it for a couple months after

Rell was born, but it was way easier. When did that set in in your pregnancy? Yeah. Uh, 14 for 15 weeks. Like, all of a sudden. The first 15 weeks. So, so I will take it. You guys might have been throwing up.

Yeah. I didn't. I was like, oh, I'm great. I'm, I'm, I'm just still running my normal, like, five miles. or whatever and then all of a sudden I no no and then all no I was crawling on the that was sleeping on the bathroom floor that was my normal and all of a sudden I felt like a caveman like going on all fours calling back to my car to get home from my my run turned into a walk turned into crawl because it was so what happened yes like what I don't understand what so

so what I what I understand is the relax in your body that's made to create that separate, like to open up your hips and like open everything up to help birth the baby, like set in really like quick for me. But I also have like a lot of dance and ballet like prior injuries and my hips are very slippery and a lot of like stability is not in there. And then the pelvic floor comes in and you're like, that's just a mess. So I've got a lot of stuff I have to deal with. And I don't. Do you wear a pot is proud of? a day? No. So it's not like I'm leaking. I actually have full on like nice, nice, nice drop. You know, it's a big deal. Carly's just sponsored by Poise, but I have been a huge, huge poise fan over the past

couple months. No, I love poise, but I haven't dropped anything for a while. No. You haven't dropped some be in a while? No, I haven't. I can hold it in really good. But the Poise pads are there. Okay, boy, then what else is going on? You said that you're like, you're dropping things. Was that mean? No, I'm not dropping anything. She's not dropping like any. I'm not dropping anything. I can hold it all in. My everything's good. It took me a while for recovery to feel like I could even walk again. I remember coming back home after postpartum past the six weeks and like sobbing like Taylor, I can't even walk around our house. Like I was just in distress. Like I can't. even walk and this is really hard and I don't even know what to do. Oh my gosh. So everybody's story in their pregnancy and postpartum is so different. Now I'm running again. I'm so happy. I still have some of that SPD filling and I feel like it should be talked about more because I feel like there's I've never heard of it before and I thought I was like basically an honorary OBGYN. You are pretty

much you are the honorary germ but it's no big deal oh and i would come to you for derm for sure but like like my crotch hurts sometimes oh um but it's it's really hard to uh just be able to get on and move forward with your your body when it feels like it's broken like it's so painful but um sounds so tough to deal with this is Are you feeling good right now? Oh, I feel pretty good. I'm like, oh. Yeah, you look limberman.

No, I feel pretty good. But, tell me. No, I don't even remember where that started from. But, like, that was my postpartum. We were talking of postpartum insecurities. Yeah. Oh, oh. So I'm going to tell you my insecurity was the SPD was really, really hard.

But my insecurity was my lower abs. Okay. So that's same of me. Because, like, you and I both, like, we like showing up our tummies. Yeah. You know, our tummies are. Yeah. At least for me, it's always been my favorite part of my body.

Right. And it was definitely, like, I got back to my, I know I'm blessed. And I can't believe I've even saying this probably because I feel bad about it. But like, I got back to my normal weight pretty fast. I gained 25 pounds during pregnancy. And I got back pretty fast. Don't know how it's just kind of like, you know, thank you mom jeans. My mom's, she did.

But like, yeah, there's just like extra skin and like a little bit like just the tightness wasn't there, my abs. So then I went to the med spot. I got M-Sculpt Neo. And holy shit, did it work? You guys. Oh, my God, I don't want whatever you just said. Crystal's like, you can also do this in the gym.

Yeah. No, I would be in the M-Sculpt Neo. You have. I have. Isn't it? We are not sponsored by M-Sculpt Neo. And it was amazing because I agree it was I did the pelvic floor training. I worked with pelvic floor physiotherapist.

This worked for my pelvic floor. floor yeah tell me everything after once you do six sessions it's basically like this weird thing that like contracts your stomach guys it's supposed to be the equivalent of 20,000 sit-ups in like with one 35-minute session and after one treatment I realize I wasn't peeing my pants anymore wow I know I was dribbling everywhere until my first session that is okay I still have such an Body control, too. This is an off-brand usage for it. The M-sculpt Neo is like, this is not what we are made for, but I'm telling you, that's

what was so amazing, too, was like that, you know, I could contract, even when I was like eight months, nine months pregnant, I could still contract my upper abs. But my lower abs, zero control over. None. And so exactly when I did the Neo-M-sculpt, I could actually feel my lower abs getting worked, which is so important, not just, I mean, there's like the material aspect of like, you know, wanting to be toned and like pulling the muscles but like it's your core support it supports your back it supports your pelvic floor like it's so critical for bending over reaching picking up baby

picking up the the car seat and the stroller like it plays such a important role in your overall lifestyle it's like it's not just an aesthetic thing it's like your physical health yes can i and rock in a crop top 1,000 brain carding can i please just throw something in there for all the people who are listening that never had apps I've also never had abs. I don't know. You still have always been able to rock a crop top. You're doing okay and you don't, you also don't have to feel like you have abs.

Everybody's also different the way that they lose the baby weight and all that. Yeah. It's, it all happens in its own time. And if it doesn't happen, it's also fine. I will say, my, I didn't really feel like myself until at least seven months postpartum, but really until I finished nursing in 11 months that I really felt like I was in my own. body. I remember you asking. It took a lot longer than I thought, surprisingly. But you know what? It was such an amazing journey. And, you know, I don't regret a single second of it. It was all really special.

I love that. And I do remember you asking about when, like, that would, like, kind of hook with how you would feel yourself. And I didn't have an answer because I'm still, like, I'm still sacrificing my body. But I love it so much, too. I don't know. I feel like there's a whole bunch. different ways to go about it. I will say this, like, for anyone listening that's pregnant or postpartum and advice to myself for the next round is that that postpartum period, I'm going to soak it in so much more the next time. I'm not going to stress and try to get my abs back, like, as fast. And I think there's so much pressure as limited to do that.

And also, like, you just kind of want to feel like yourself again, right? Yeah, that's that element too. Feel like yourself. I want to feel like me. I want to wear a crop top. that's my thing. Yeah. And there is also like a lot of pressure,

but I'm so excited for like for the next round where I just want to be so much more in the moment with a baby. Because I know now how fast it really goes. Yeah. And it's like it's going to be great. I'm going to enjoy that first month where all they do is eat sleep and poop. Me too. Me too.

You're like you're like I'm like, motherhood is easy. Motherhood is so easy. All I do is hold this baby. and then all of a sudden they come awake to the world at like five or six weeks and then you're like oh oh motherhood is definitely the opposite of you think but i okay Ashley like I feel kind of sad that you and I both missed out on that it sounds like like the sense of like motherhood is easy um because I just don't know what's going to happen that second round and I feel like we're going to have these other little babies running around going mama mama mama and then oh my gosh And petrified for that. Yeah, I know. I just, oh, and I just want to be able to soak it up the same way.

Yeah, well, Carly, my last question is for you, is for you, because you're a mom of two. And sorry for everybody who's tired of the mom talk. You know, we're going to have lots of talk about relationships and other girls stuff later. Carly, how the heck do you throw up while having another little one around when you're pregnant around two? well that's a loaded question for my experience but I would say just you have to have people to help you yeah like you can't you cannot do it alone like you just can't so get an army okay yeah yeah I agree okay mom you're living with me but but I mean Jared does a fantastic job you know he has to work you know but I got a full-time grandma here she got no other job

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Crawley next to me This is an amazing group of ladies I love tonight So much fun I feel like I can do an hour podcast with like every panel For this panel let's do like not like truth or dare but like sort of like it like okay go around i want to go around

the circle and well okay for the two single okay daniela is in a relationship she has two she has a set of twins that were born eight months ago yes um and you're in a relationship how long you've been in the relationship for seven years seven years yeah but you guys aren't married uh we are not married but we're committed for life yeah committed for life okay Okay. Okay. Now we have, so my question was going to be, when was the last time you kissed a guy? So I'm talking to Claire and Heather. No. Not Daniel. Because Danielle, I'm assuming you probably kissed your. Probably today. Probably today. Yeah. Okay. So Heather, you're notorious. You're notorious for only I've said. I don't kiss and tell anymore. No, you have to because it's Girls' Night sponsored by your breeds. Wait, is that what you're notorious for? It's not, not kissing somebody?

No, she'd, her first kiss was Colton. How does it feel that your first kiss was with a gay guy? I didn't know that. That was like the thing. I love it. So now how do you feel that he's come out? I mean, I was like, it doesn't count. I'm like, what do you mean it doesn't count?

Are you kidding me? I think it counts. Why would that not count? He's still a hot guy. I've gotten that a lot of times. I'm like, yes, it counts. Are you kidding me? That was like the best first kiss I've ever.

Like, Flood record and Tyler. Fireworks. Oh, that's so cool. It for sure count. okay so so was the that your last kiss because we all know you tried to kiss mad james you try to kiss matt but not like you didn't make a move because i don't know if you guys remember she made a cameo appearance on matt season no i i literally am learning she's so beautiful yeah she's stunning well she tried to make an appearance and date matt but it was it was a little

late it was too late can i ask why why didn't you kiss i i have no idea the background on it I mean, it wasn't like, it wasn't anything like I was like, I just hadn't. You just hadn't. Yeah. Well, okay. It wasn't like I was going to kiss random person in a bar. Yeah. And do you know what?

I was 19 with my first kiss and I've told this story a number of times in this podcast. You know, it has been five years in the podcast. So obviously stories are repeated. Yeah. But I was 19. And of course, my thing was I'm not just randomly going to kiss a guy in a bar. Really? A guy randomly kissed me in a bar.

And that was my first kiss. It was grossest, sloppiest. It was not even anything different. They were just straight tongue. It was like a hookah bar. It wasn't a hookah bar. You guys, it was funnier than a hookah bar. It was a burlesque club.

Wow. Yes. So there was... Wait, could you be there at 19? No, I could not have been there at 19. I knew the owner. I was like burlesque. No, I knew the owner.

So he was 21. You snuck in. Oh my gosh. And he was just like, this guy was with me and he was like total like you know like a rocker dude like long hair he was not my type at all but he was hot like now in hindsight i'm proud of it anything last year i could actually go okay so this is so silly like lots of people keep um tallies of like you know the notches on their bed like how many people they slept with right well because uh we all know that like i'm limited

in that department i have like i had before i was married like a kiss list and i can can go down my kiss list and I'm pretty darn proud of almost every single one. It's like a good quality list. How many guys of you're thinking, okay, so this is how I'm going to trick Heather again. How many guys can you think of that you regret kissing or more then? Oh, well, first of all, I have so many years on you guys. No, that is not a fair question. Yeah, but you've also been in long-term relationship. I have. Yeah. So there you go. You should knock them out. You know what? I would love to say, I mean, there's a few that were not the greatest, but they're what I wanted at the time to find out. And there's only one way to find out is by doing it. So do I regret it? No. Is there

anything I would take back? No, because at the time, that's what I wanted. And I would have not known that if I hadn't gone for it. Okay. Okay. So let's just, let's keep it to the Bachelor now. Claire, did you kiss anybody on the, on, you know, any of the seasons? Just give one name of all the guys that you kissed on the show that you were like nah that one was a nah um oh she kissed my husband so that's funny you should keep him on the list yeah did i did i did you guys there's one kiss i remember no i actually kind of like love that it's like really weird like he's like you know for the record i don't remember it that's hilarious it was pretty pecky like it was pretty pecky y'all i remember that i remember that okay that's so funny you guys were about to bungee

we did bungee jump yeah that's right that's right you know what my ears were ringing my toes were purple I was not that's why I don't remember because I blacked out we were about to bungee jump over the ocean that's right oh you just brought up a topic that I'm going to bring around in Lizzie my best friend Lizzie from not she's my best friend since 19 so like half my life she's going to come on we're going to talk about moments we've blacked out with guys and I don't mean blackout because of drunk because it was so embarrassing but Claire one name Just give one name. Oh, my God, I have a good name for you.

Okay. Should I give you? You're probably your most embarrassing kiss? You're most, like, the kiss that you regret the most from the Bachelor franchise. Okay. You can give it to me. What do you think? What about that guy from Winter Games, the one with, like, the accent, who's like, Claire.

Glare. Christian? Christian. Did you kiss him? I don't think like. She didn't remember her good. If I did, it was not memorable. So maybe that's one.

Wait, is that the guy you dated on? No. Oh, engaged my fiance, my ex-fiance, Benoit. Oh, Benoit, but you don't regret that kiss. Oh, I remember a question. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. Benoit's amazing. He really is amazing.

That's a non-regard of that. Not at all. He is one of the, still to this day, one of the greatest guys I know. Aw, that's such a gentleman. He is the perfect example of when a relationship doesn't work out. He is so graceful and he is so humble and he is the sweetest kind of, kind of human being in the entire world. So, he's so wonderful.

So of your two past fiancés, do you like Benoit the most? Yes. Yes, that times 10, yes. Times 10, I will tell you, even though that relationship, because there's a lot of relationships that run their course and serve their purpose and not all relationships are meant to last. But I think if a relationship doesn't last, that's okay. You get what you get from it at that time.

and it serves some sort of purpose and our relationship Benoit and I did not work out but just logistically and everything but he has so much respect for me and I have so much respect for him and we both just it was the most mature thing ever because it was honest and real and genuine yeah on both sides and that's what made it special and that's what still makes it special oh I love that yeah me too so things things don't always work out it's it's the truth that matters it's how you He's from France, right? He's from Canada. I was going to say there's something about guys that I'm not trying to stereotype because

I'm with someone who's American, but who's European or Canadian or something. They're like more real almost sometimes. I don't know. Like romance-wise. I'm just thinking like maybe that's where he brought in like a difference a little bit. I don't know if it's authentic. I don't know. If it's a cultural thing, it's definitely.

I think it's human to human. It's human. You either have it or don't. Integrity or you don't. Yeah. You know? So I don't think it depends where you land on the map, you know? Yeah.

True. But I don't know. Okay. Let's go around. I'm going to let Heather off the hook. No, I'm going to let her off the hook because I used to hate my biggest insecurity when I was like super innocent and I had no experience was when people. When I was Heather, this is. And Heather, I was here for a very, very long time.

I didn't have my second kiss until I was, I guess I was 20. Okay. Oh, no, no, no, maybe I was 19. Maybe I had two kisses at 19. But, like, I was not experienced in that department until, like, 21. And if you watch best, you watch Crystal season, it didn't seem like I had too much experience going into that one either. Anyway, so, but yeah, my least ever thing was when people would, like, play, would you, like, have, never have you. never have I ever and I was like oh my god everybody in this circle of people is going to know exactly

that I'm the most virginy virginy entire world so I'm not I'm not going to go that I really care but yeah yeah it's okay oh you of course okay so let's go around the circle for a second and talk about a moment in which we were so embarrassed while flirting with a guy or trying to be flirty with a guy because maybe you weren't successful in the moment okay Heather would that be Matt What that means? Probably not. No? There's a more.

There's a time that you blacked out. That was more embarrassing. Oh my gosh. Probably. I'm trying to think. I mean, like you, Ashley, like I was a very much fan girl. Of the show. No, just in general.

Oh, it's like all things. Just like, yeah. Yeah. Like your Jonas brother is like that. Yeah. My story actually has to do with a Jonas brother. Yeah. So I'm going to bring you back.

I'm trying to think. Lizzie, I'm going to tell the story. Do you remember the story? Do you never remember? She's having to cry. The jingle ball? The jingle ball. Yes, yes.

We're going to get to it. Oh my gosh. Okay, so the question is when I was embarrassing. I've been so embarrassing. Like, I have the most embarrassing stories. I can't, I don't even know what's the most embarrassing. No, come on. Just pick one.

No, I've done like a lot of like celebrity stocking like with like teeny bopper. Oh my gosh. I didn't know we had this in common. No, we totally do. Oh my gosh. Yeah. Like I can't even talk about it. I'm embarrassed.

But. there was this one guy that I was, like, obsessive. Can you give us a hint to, like, his celebrity? No one knows him, probably. Anyways, I was not 21 yet, but he was, I've been to, like, three of his things. Like, his concerts. Okay. No, like, they were, he, like, he, like, didn't even have concerts.

Like, it was like, like, he had, like, something at Capitol Records. I was in college, like, my freshman year of college. And I went and there was, like, me, I took my two sisters and, like, my two best friends. that was like a big thing we were the group there was no one else two other people i've into like four of his things and then i snuck in to his concert before i was sending one with like a fake eddy because i wanted to go so so bad it was so embarrassed i just i feel like you're getting very flustered right now i'm talking about it like his mom so i ended up like knowing his cousin okay down the road wait did you like try to get in through the cousin right

out don't worry i've done such embarrassing things as well i'm like on a podcast i feel embarrassed talking about this yeah it's okay i've done it i've made my sister hook up with guys that were like siblings and teammates and brothers and all that anyways yeah like long story short i went to like a million of this guy's things ended up like yeah sneaking him before i was sending one he knew his mom said i was a super fan like i went but you're so pretty like was he like looking at you i have no idea no probably not i was embarrassing I was so embarrassing but I just like I'm like fellow fan girl I'm just pointing to her over there I just like yeah like went to so many things and like snuck in

stared at him like thought I was like the only one in the crowd yeah I mean I've definitely done that he knew I was his mom yeah yeah yeah his cousin knew I was and like me and his cousin are still like one of my like best guy friends called me a super fan but did he like ever give you like did you ever try to like talk to you he like talked to us I remember like one time one time like I went to his like third concert like he knew who we were like we're super fans like quote unquote he like said like oh my gosh she's like beautiful darling I went to the bathroom and like fell to the floor like literally against the wall knees down yeah best thing of my life um yeah that was like my life okay great well that was

my life too so embarrassing I've never related harder like it makes me so happy like thinking about those memories oh yeah I still do it to this day Oh, yeah. Like, I think, I think back on how embarrassing I was as well. So, like, I thought it was super cool, too. Like, we would be, like, three years older than most Jonas fans. Okay, maybe, like, five years older than most years is. Yeah.

And we would show up in, like, the sluttiest outfits and the highest heels and be like, they're not looking at you. They're looking at us. It was, like, the most embarrassing thing ever. Yeah, yeah. You do what you got to do. It makes you so happy. I want to die inside.

I can't think about it too deeply because I want to die. Yeah. Okay. Daniela. Embarrassing moment with a man. Okay, I actually have a celebrity one. Yeah. So I'm trying to relate to when you guys said the dating one.

I hope it's not the story you just told me outside. No, I will definitely never tell us to the grave. Yeah, that I can't share. That will go to the grave. We have multiple celebrity ones. I like it. That one's a good one now. That one's a really good one, but I don't know if I could share that.

But I will say that I was an intern at Entertainment Tonight when I first moved to L.A. and I remember I was at the bucket list for Sandra Bullock and Tim McGrath's. It was like a movie they were doing. And Tim McGraw, I thought, was just like, obviously he's so much older. He's like, you know, but he's just so sexy and cool and whatever. And I was so young. I was an intern. And I just seen him interview.

And all of a sudden, like, somehow I'm... He's got to be for the blind side, yeah? Blindside. Yes, blind side. And somehow I end up at an elevator. with me and Tim McGraw. And I'm like, oh my God, Tim McGraw and me and Elever, no one else. And he's like,

hey, how are you? And I was like, I'm good. How are you? And he's like, yeah, what are you doing here? And I'm like, I'm like, I'm an intern. And he's like, oh, really? I'm like, yeah, I'm like, when you did really great in there, like, you remember after that like elevator ride? Like, he's like, all right, well, it's so great to meet you.

And I was just like, I left it thinking, like, I am mortified. Like, why would I tell him he did so great? his interview. And I just remember it was like a moment for me. I'm like in the elevator with Tim McGraw. And I'm like, this is my one time. And I told him he did good in an interview. It's okay. Because he's so married. So it's like, you could be embarrassing. You could be fan girly. One time I went up to Henry Cavill at the Justice League premiere. And I said, you were so good. You were the most superman-y Superman you've ever been. And he was like, thank you and then i walked away he had no interest right you know what though i feel like

that says a lot i feel like that says i get what you're saying on you thank you i absolutely get what you're saying on that basically you're always saying you're the most christopher rey you could have been so there are so many other options as superman correct yes it's not like he's the only one right so he's the closest to like what you would idealize as the biggest compliment i know I understand that. Exactly. Yeah, I would agree. Thank you. That's a proud moment right there. Thank you. He does not know his Superman, you know? Trivia. Like get a grip. Thank you. Thank you. All right. So, Claire, now, now your story. Okay. So, tell me the question again.

Okay. So, like, a time that you blacked out because you were so embarrassed by flirting or anything like that. Okay. So this one was super embarrassing, but it ended up really at the time, really good. So there was this, it was a while ago, but there was this actor that I just, he's like all celebrity stories. Good thing finds a celebrity story too. That's why they're so, that's why they're so cringy because it was a regular dude, we'd be like, whatever. Yeah. Okay, moving on. So this one, he's, yeah, so somehow we ended up talking on social media and found out what city he was in. And it was happened to be the weekend that I was going to be in that city. and I just did a little bit more research

and found out where he like I think was social media but found out the bar that he was going to be at and I tried to act so quiet about it and I'm telling you this definitely paid off but I walked in and I was like

I could not play it cool I was like what do you do and he's like you knew I was here because I had commented on his social media. Oh, my love. That's so funny. And then I showed up. And he's like, I was like, well, just I could not play it off at all. But we ended up laughing about it because I was not, not even cool about it at all. Like, it was very obvious. And then we ended up just talking that night and then became friends. Oh, my God. That's awesome. And when I say friends. Yeah. Yeah. We became friends. Awesome. This is the whole thing I wanted. Okay. So, mission accomplished. So without going into too many. details of my friends like experience with

the Jonas brothers let's just say that like we were friendly at this point you know I had been on a couple bachelor seasons we had hung out with them at like they'd been hung out with them a few times and she was always

like having the best time and Joe was always Joe is like my guy okay so Heather is you understand like when we talk about like you know band guys like she had somebody and then i was so obviously like nick was her crush and like my crush was always joe yeah so but joe always had a girlfriend and whenever like the few times that we hung out with them he always like had the girlfriend there so i was just like you know at that point in my life i was like you know what i am just thrilled to be invited okay i was just super thrilled to be invited it's okay um but then there was a time when i was a time when i

I was single because, duh, I was always single until I got married, basically. And then, and he was what I presumed was single, but he was actually, like, dating Sophie Turner for, like, maybe, like, I don't know, six weeks or something leading up to this. It was a jingle ball after party. So it was right across from Madison Square Garden, our friend to the show and fellow Iheart, uh, amazing woman, Tanya Rad. She was like, you could come to the DNCE after party with me. And Joe was over by the, and he, like, and he like. knows my name and everything. So he,

did you watch Bachelor? Or he's... No, this is like, because I was a super fan. No, it's because honestly, it started as me. Nothing to do with The Bachelor. I think he may have known my name

before The Bachelor because I was an insane super fan. Okay. I mean, remember, like, when my Bachelor picture came out, it said Ashley Acadetti has been to over 27 Jonas' Jonas Miller concerts.

So, like, he knew me as a creepy fan and then all of a sudden it's like, oh, she was on TV. Maybe she's not creepy anymore. I don't know. So, anyway. I thought he was like single and he was standing over by the bar by himself and like my friends were talking to other people and I was like, I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. I'm going to go. This is your shot. I love a girl who knows what she wants. Yeah. Okay. Oh, and actually previously in the night, he was getting off stage and we were backstage and we pass each other backstage and he was like, I think he even said hi, Ashley and like gave me a hug. Oh my gosh. Yeah. You're like, this is it. I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm going to. I'm like, I'm going to. I'm like, I'm going to. I'm going. I'm. I'm. I'm. I Well, I'm like, oh, my gosh.

This is worth the weight. 1,000 percent. Yeah. Yeah. So I was like feeling gutsy, you know? Yeah. And then I went over to him by the bar and I go, hey, you know, my friends talking to your friend. And I thought, you know, we've always been in like each other's presence, but we've never really talked.

So hi. What's up? Yeah. Okay. And that's bold. Yeah. I know, right? I just went up and I like did it and I like said it.

and then he turns to me and he goes hi and just stares and then nothing else oh as you say and then i said hi hey and i walked away stop yeah no no he literally said hi and then no way wanted to engage in conversation with me so i just like took a sip and i got out of there are you sure he heard what you said did he hear what you i don't know all the music is just taken your toll is nodding over this she knew he knew he knew I think that he was probably just like dating his future wife and was like I know this girl's trying to flirt with me and I'm not not down right but at least you had the confidence to go up and do I respect that's cool I definitely I think that's cool but do you like do you look back on that moment and you're like I wish I wouldn't

have or do you look back on and going yeah I'd still do that I'd still do it it's a really funny story And it's weird because I like blocked it out until my friends brought it up a couple weeks ago. And I was like, holy shit, that is so funny, so embarrassing. But bold and like a story to always tell. So bold. And here I am even like openly talking about on the podcast because I think it's, you know. Did you like feel happy after? No, I felt demoralized.

Okay. I ran up to Lizzie and I was like, yo. That wasn't it. Yeah. Your friend. Yeah. No. Not, no, I'm like, let's get out of here.

Let's get out of here. And I'm done. Yeah. Oh my gosh. Did you chalk it up to a win or a loss? I definitely at the time, a loss. But I think like now in my like more mature state, think it's probably a win. Of course.

How many girls do you think have had that opportunity? Yeah. You took it. Thanks. You know, like if I see you're bold in that, like that's like it never feels that. That's a thing. Like I went up and like my voice wasn't even shaking. You're like, I can do this.

Just so confident. Heck yes. I feel like you manifested. that moment. The most fun ever. I don't want this podcast to end. But it is time to say goodbye. You know, it sounds like the Mickey Mouse Club song.

And bring in another group of girls. Yes. Love you guys. Thank you so much. Thank you. We are now joined. We are now joined by Becca Tilly and Kendall Long, which both of you are in like, well, you're not in new love relationships. Becca's in an old love relationship, which is still

fresh and beautiful and young, but like publicly new. And then Kendall, you just also had like a hard launch with your boyfriend. This is like this hard launch thing. This is like, this is a new thing, right? They call it hard launch. I didn't even know that was the thing. It's the Gen Z thing that we're trying to like pick up on. Yeah. So like, apparently, like what is a hard launch? So you just posted him. I'm like, what am I supposed to do? Oh, that's me. You gave no hints before hand that you were in a relationship or did you no i mean i don't know i yeah no it was for me i was just like i wanted to get confidence in him in our relationship like feel really solid and i was like then we're just going for it yeah and becca had the the softness of launches for a long time lots of

clues i guess yeah i mean i talked about being in a relationship yeah and i think there was speculation but it was um i that's why i didn't even know i was like is this a hard launch or a soft lunch. I don't, I don't know. It's a launch. It was a launch. Um, you guys, if, uh, you're listening and you're like, I'm lost right now, well, then you obviously don't listen to the almost famous podcast very regularly because we talked about both of these, uh, newly released relationships. Becca, um, has been with Haley Keogh for four years now. And Kendall has been with her boyfriend. I'm sorry, what's his name? Mitch Sagely. Mitch Sagely since Valentine's Day. You guys made it official on Valentine's Day. Yep. How long were you?

dating before Valentine's Day? Since, like, early-ish December on his birthday. Well, the day before his birthday is when we met. Aw. Yeah. Okay. So you were telling us earlier, this is Girls' Night, you know? This is, thank you to Uber Eats

for the most amazing Girls' Night. We're going to have a really cool mentalist in the next segment, but right now we've got to catch up on like the Girl Talk, right? And that's, Girl Talk always has to do his relationships. So, you got to know about how you met and, like, the sparks you felt early on.

and all that. So we met through mutual friend, one of Mitch's volleyball friends. And we did a little pregame before going out. And the one thing that really had me impressed by him is that we were talking about life that could potentially be on other planets. And I was like, oh, there's this moon off of Jupiter that could potentially harbor alien life. He's like, oh, yeah, Europa. And I was like, no one knows that. Or at least like, for me, it's like, I'm like, cool people know that. He automatically, I was just like, yes, he's a nerd, this is me great. He's an aerospace engineer, so knows way more things about space than I can ever imagine. Did he say hi, I'm Mitch, and, like, quickly in the conversation said, I'm an aerospace engineer,

in which case, Kendall's, like, Candle is like, okay, I'm officially turned on. Oh, completely, I was like, bing, bing, like this guy. She's like, lady, bar. Honestly, yes. And then he brought the whole thing about, like, you know, Europa. And I was like, this is just like in the bag. No, he's, yeah, he's just like a sexy nerd. So it's been lovely.

So, so cute. So, I mean, I love to jump ahead of things. But we saw you very, you know, there's lots of, there's lots to what happened in paradise that, of course, we didn't see. And you were just on last season of Paradise. And I'm sure lots of lots on like you going there and trying to like ruin Joe's time, blah, blah. But we all know that like despite whatever your thoughts or whatever the whole story was that like you definitely left there like upset still broken you know broken hearted to a certain degree, you know, like were you, did you consider yourself fully healed from Joe after that or did you get fully healed because of paradise? Oh, I mean, I felt like I was fully healed from that past relationship before I went or else I wouldn't have gone. And I think being back definitely brought up a lot of feelings. But I left feeling really good. good about how everything went and that it ended on more of like a positive note with a lot of clarity. And both of us, neither of us were interested in like rekindling anything. It wouldn't

have made any sense. But yeah, no, I actually left the beach thinking like, man, like, dang, that was hard. But I feel a lot better because of it. And I think we're both kind of like on the right path to where we need to go. And it wasn't until, you know, a little bit later in that I was, you know, there's always a different interpretation of events. And so. Yeah. That's when it kind of became more of a, I guess, an interesting situation, like reliving things in a different way than I had expected to. So we can safely say that you left Paradise knowing that Joe was not going to be your person. Oh, no, yeah.

So now that you're with Mitch, I mean, give me the tea. Like, is he your person forever? This is like the full circle moment I'm trying to have right now. Oh, my gosh. I don't even know if I'm fully like told. I mean, I know that's like really intense for him to hear if he ever listens to the almost in his podcast. I mean, we, I think we started talking about babies since day one. So, I mean, our first date, I think we're both on the same path of where we went to be,

what we're ready for. And he just continues to impress me with who he is and how he views life and how he challenges me. So I'm really excited. I just keep getting excited to move forward with him. You know, I don't think it's ever like a definite like, this guy's been, you know, husband, babies. Although, like, I definitely envisioned that. But I'm just excited to take the next. step you know i just can't wait to get to to keep moving forward oh exciting what what is the next

step that you foresee well um for me i don't want to live with somebody until i'm engaged i think that's so smart somebody recently told me i think i shouldn't live um with a future boyfriend until we're engaged and that was the ultimatum i kind of gave jared it wasn't an ultimatum we were only together for three months but i was like i don't think it's right for us to live together until we're engaged. Yeah. And that's what we did. And it worked out perfectly.

And I hope the same for you. Thank you. Yeah. I'm excited for it. We were already talking about different places we'd want to live together. Okay. But, I mean, I've lived with a few people in the past and it's always been, when you move in with somebody, it just changes the dynamic of a relationship.

And if you're not ready for it. It's not romantic anymore. Okay. It can be romantic, of course. But there's a lot less romance and there's a lot less excitement over, like, hearing their footsteps or like the knock of the door when they get there. Yeah. You know?

But also, I like being too. two completely like individual people and you know really enjoying like our own independence and doing whatever we you know want to do in our time being you know separated and we have the rest of our lives to be together so I'm really excited for that to be um the next step I would love to live with him but we'll see so the next step is engagement okay got we got we got okay so Becca you've been with Haley for four years but you guys don't live together and why is that and do you have any plans to we don't we um Both have, like, separate, I have a house and she has her place too.

And so I think, but we always, like, we spend every night together just like, so we basically have two places. Do you feel like you're wasting money on mortgage or? Well, not on mortgage. I feel, because I feel great about having a house. But I think it's kind of, I think eventually we will move in a direction where we live in one home. And I still, like, we basically, I mean, we essentially live together. And I still. feel very much like excited to see her oh my god stop now i feel horrible actually you know what now that you say it like that i tell jerky so i don't know if you remember during our wedding ceremony alon you guys know former bachelor bachelor paradise crew basically like basically like founder like brain

master um he was the officiant at our wedding and he said ashley's a goldfish you know like you like hurt her you make her happy or something happened happens and then like she has like a rebound rate of two seconds and before you know it she's like added again she's like she was rejected and she's sad for a second she cries really hard then she's added again i tell jared all the time ago this is this is what happens so he comes home really late but every single night like when he comes home from work i get so excited for him to come home and then he comes home and he's like a bump on a log he's so tired and i'm like oh man today wasn't the day today wasn't the day that like we had like a great night together with

such a blast but like tomorrow tomorrow he's going to come home and he's going to be excited again and he's going to fall asleep on the couch so yeah i guess you know i still get very excited for him to come home and that's really cute that you guys are the same way four years later yeah it's i never thought i would be someone who felt that way for someone after so much time didn't we always say like we don't know how we would ever live with someone yeah because i get so annoyed i mean i get so annoyed with people like i need my space and she's like the only person that i don't need like space from yeah you need like your fart bubble like your fart I'm not a farter you're um good for you I'm jealous for every Haley good for everybody's Haley's not in front of you either we're not

yeah oh Mitch farts all the time. Wait first I have to say his name sounds like a rom-com like the star of a rom-mitch Sageley are you kidding? Mitch Sageley it does actually. It literally sounds like a movie name yeah I really like his last name yeah it's a really good name I might steal it at some point. Yeah. My borrow it. Pendle sagely. That's cute. Yeah. It's really cute. That's nice thing. Yeah. All right. So, um, let's end this segment with just saying the, a couple things. One to two, the three, whatever you feel like. Things that your partner, um, has as a quality that you were always looking for. And another one that they have that you never even thought you needed. Hmm. That's a really good question. We're looking at each other like, you go.

I'm going to say the one quality that I, the first one is the one that you felt you needed and the second one, you didn't need, you didn't think you need, but like love having. Okay. I think the first one is something that I've always wanted to have in a partner is someone that challenges me and I learn something new from them and they can teach me new things. And with Mitch, he's so excited and so pumped to show me new podcasts and different things that he's learned and I do these little science videos and he always gives me good ideas for them and he loves researching and just broadening our minds and discussing crazy topics. So I've really admired that in him and that we continuously challenge each other and stimulate each other in a lot of

ways. And the one quality that I didn't think that I needed, you know, I love that he holds me accountable for what I believe and why I believe it. And whenever I have an opinion or a view about something, he always says, well, why do you think that? Or what got you thinking that? And sometimes I'm like, I don't know. I just thought it because maybe like that's what people are doing. And he really challenges me in like holding, like standing behind what I believe and actually researching why I believe certain things. And I just find that to be really fascinating because I'm always continuously trying to understand myself, like as he's understanding me. And yeah, I'm just really impressed by that. That's good stuff. Amazing.

Both of those are... I should have gone first. Stop. You had more time. This is a hard question. I would kind of need a minute. I think the thing that I was like hoping to...

What was the question? Something that you needed that your partner has and then something that you didn't know you needed that you love that they have. Okay. Something that I needed was someone who could help me learn how to communicate.

Okay. I'm like such, I shut down, like, and I don't like confrontation. I don't like to talk things out. And she's very much like, let's talk it out. Let's try to understand each other and understand the situation before we move on from it. And it's really helped me in so many ways, like with every relationship in my life. And the other thing would be she has brought different worldviews to my attention that I never had before. and I don't think I ever would have had, had I not met someone so different than me.

And I really, I always thought I wanted someone who had everything the same as me and that we aligned on everything. And I think it's, it's really like, there's something really cool about getting to learn about each other and hear each other and experience different worldviews and views on different things and opinions on different things that, um, I'm kind of the same way that made me think broader. Oh, I love that. Yeah. Yeah, that's a great answer. Okay. Well, next up, we have a mentalist coming on, and maybe he'll know more about our relationships than we do. Let's get him on. All right. We have a very special guest.

We have Nevo, the youngest mentalist in the world. How young are you? Oh, my goodness. I would not have guessed that. Wow. Okay. That was your estimation if you had to like say how old they're like. Wait, what?

I was going to say 22. Yeah, I would say like 23ish. I thought I've guessed around there too. Yeah. But that means you can you can pull, you know, you can pull from all age groups when it comes to the dating pool. Well, we need to have them another year before we encourage that. That's right.

I'm so inappropriate. Well, I am so excited that you're here. And I've never. met a mentalist before and it's and we hear so much about psychics mediums but mentalists can you define what that means well actually it's a mind reader when i'm studying my show i'm saying i use three main techniques mind reading mind influencing and bullshit how much bullshit do you do well i can tell you but i'm an entertainer i'm performing in front of big crowds reading people's minds having fun so it's like it's very different than psychic or stuff like that well thank you for

joining our girls night this is truly like the most unique cool thing we could have for girls night like i'm so excited this is a new thing that we should use for bachelorette parties now i love that idea instead of bringing strippers in which no girl really wants no no no let's bring in a mentalist way more fun way more fun it's actually yeah it is i'm from israel and I'm the youngest artist in the world, as you said. And I'm doing it when I'm performing in Israel. I'm doing a lot of like, cool parties or, yeah. Oh, like Bachelor.

Oh, so you do a lot of parties like that. That's awesome. That's so cool. All right. So we heard that you guessed our producers first kiss. You knew the name of the boy who gave her her first kiss, which is so amazing. So we're going to keep with the theme. And we're going to go around the circle.

here. It's me, Ashley. My name's Ashley. This is Kendall and this is Becca. And you're going to tell us the names of the person that we first kissed. And can you give us more detail? Like, can you tell us the environment in which we were in? If that's what we're thinking of, like if I were to put myself back in that place, are you able to say, Ashley, his name was this? You were in a room that looked like this and you were this old? Or at least can you give me the age that I was? Well, let's start. with a quick warm. He is like, please come in just calm down, lady. Let's start with a warm up.

Okay, warm up. Making sure I told you all producer to ring an envelope, is still the envelope. Is it there? Yes, yes, we have the envelope. Can you show it to the camera? Yeah, just like, don't touch it. Oh, don't touch it.

Okay, okay, okay. We see, we see. But he cannot see. Audience listening, Nevo cannot see the, what's on the envelope paper. No, I know what's on the envelope paper. on the envelope paper. Actually, I have it here as well.

But just put it face down. Okay. This will be the prediction. Okay. This will be the end of the old game. Okay. Let me tell the audience, since this is a podcast and it's audio, Danielle flashed a number that was typed out on white paper for me,

and it was a long number. I'd say there was like eight digits. I only remember one. Okay. She remembers one. And apparently Nivo is now going to, in his, His house in Israel is going to show us the same numbers on a piece of paper halfway around the world. So we'll try to do it, but just before that, I wrote something here on this chalkboard.

Let's say, Ashley, you can go to anywhere you want in the whole world, which country you would like to visit. Just give me the name. I'd like to go to France. That's the place I've never been before. That would really like to go. It's France. Yeah. Very interesting.

And Candle, can you think of any person's name you'd like to visit in Franceville? Like any name. It can be someone from your family, from your friend. I have a friend. I have a friend named Killian that lives in France. Is he supposed to say the name, Ella? You can just say the name. Oh, okay.

Oh, yeah, I know. His name's Killian. He lives in. I already wrote something. It's kind of a prediction. It's here. Okay. What's the name?

His name's Killian and he lives in France. Killian. Yeah. Very interesting. So Killian, France, and what was your name again? Sorry. Beka. Beka. Nice to meet you, first of all. Nice to meet you. I told you I can go with the older girls for me. Beka. Just think of any amount of money you would spend with Killian, her friend, in France. Any amount of money. I can, I say it out loud. Yeah. $25,000. It's a big trip with me and Killian.

And look, Killian is a very unique name. So if there's something with that name, you're a unique name. But you said 25,000. You said Killian and you said, France. I couldn't predict all of those. No. But I hold it a chalkboard from the start of the show. And I told you that I wrote something before the show started.

And I must tell you that I wrote France. What? Yeah, and 25,000. That is insane. Oh. I have chills. Like my whole body feels like. And he didn't touch it at all.

There was no way he touched it. No, we were watching him the whole time he did not touch his board. How did you know this before you even met us? Like I can even, I could almost. I have to kill you. Killion you. That was good. Wait, Killion?

I'm so, so, so, so weirded out right now. I'm so weirded out. Because, okay, Kendall's just saying. that her her ex was a magician this is not joe guys another ex he was a magician and and this has been the greatest magic trick of all time this is yeah this is actually on par with some of the best magic tricks i've seen it's been different than magic because people are a bit confused about what is a mentalist what is like is it a magician well i'm using nLP that's a neurolinguistic programming i'm using body language reading so I'm using more psychological techniques than sliding hands that's different

from a tissue that's interesting but when did you write that down yeah I thought you were that wrote that down before you even met us before we did a call yeah then how did you get her party language how did you get our body language you read our minds no that was how to influence you to think about the certain things but as I told you if I'll tell you how to kill you actually I'm sorry last show I told someone in the crowd, if I tell her, I have to kill you. And then he stood up and said, can you please tell my wife? Oh, my gosh. Okay, you said that was the warm-up.

So I am very, very excited for the future of this conversation. Let's continue. So the envelope will still be here. By the way, this is my cell phone. We'll go to do something with it in a couple of seconds, but just before that. let's say beka can you think about just imagine in front of you a watch starts to spin and the shorter dial just the shorter dial start to spin and stop in a specific hour what hour is it just tell me an hour no what just don't say anything just think of it okay okay and Ashley can you

think of, let's say, think of number of minutes. So together, you'll create a certain time. Okay. So she thinks of the hour and I think of the minute hand. Exactly. Okay. Yes. Got it. I'm holding my wristwatch and look at me. Don't change your mind. Can you come a little closer to the camera so I'll be able to see you? Yeah. okay now we can see you properly just think of it say it again and again what is the number what's the hour five five what's the number of minutes 36 36 well I said this watch you'll go crazy five 36 exactly there's no way there's no

way that's insane even in the same room with us for some reason it'd be more believable if he could like channel brain waves or something but he's across the world that's insane and you guys his watch of course as as our reaction alludes to it says 536 that's crazy wow wow let's play more yeah actually the whole part of the of the world i mean he's Israel right now. Actually, I've been the Israel's finalist of Israel's got talent. And I'm now starting my career abroad. And next week, I'm coming to Los Angeles to do some shows there. So I'm like very Oh, we have to see you in Los Angeles. Yeah. Seriously. You've got Bill be there. I have like a few performances in the La Factory, you know, on Sunset. Oh yeah. Oh yeah. That's right near where I live.

Welcome, yeah. Actually, in like three hours, I have a flight to Dubai. Oh, wow. My goodness. You're a world traveler. So are we able to go around and you think of the name of the boy that we first kissed, or are we not alone? This is the last game we get to play with you. I know we have to let you go. No, no. Then we'll do another one because we still have that envelope there. But let's do it. Oh, okay. Multiple games left for us. Okay. This is fantastic. All right. Everybody think about Think about your answer. Look at me. I think I want to do it with, who wants to try to do it?

Who wants to do it? Well, Kendall should go next. I'll go for it. Yeah, yeah. Kendall, look at me. Just making sure, Kenne, because the viewers will be 100% sure. We set it up. Everything is like, did you tell me anything before the show started?

No, no. I just, I met you as soon as the mic was on. So do we know each other personally? No. You seems to be very happy about it. No, it's just it makes it more authentic, you know? You know nothing about me. Look at me.

Just think of the name. Well, I'm going to... Do you remember what was your age back then? Oh, gosh. Not really. I'm trying to think. I know the grade. Some hair, am I right?

I'm sorry? I had like a little hair, something unique maybe. Answered by yes or no, Kendall. He had, he did have hair. Yes, that's him. He drew a picture of a stick figure. We'll do it here with this time. Look at me.

Yeah. I think just how many letters. tell you the letter oh don't say just think how many okay yeah you don't have to do like that oh no i was really trying to channel the brain waves i had like my fingers and my temples like you will know the name yeah well i hope i wrote it the right way for the first time can you say what is the name i'm holding like this okay kyle kyle yeah and i couldn't predict the tool still kyle right you you couldn't no there's no way what was your age back then i was in eighth grade in eighth grade you kissed kail for the first time yeah this is what i wrote the name

amazing insanity the best day of my life i am so i can't i don't even know how to react i am so how is this happening that's actually really insane before we got on the podcast i was telling the girls that like one of the most like entertained moments of my life was at my senior um like graduation party where we had a hypnotist and like these kids really went under the spell of the hypnotist. And now here I am about half my life later. And I think I'm even more flabbergasted. Yeah, that's pretty insane. By the way, I have a surprise for you, Kendall. So you'll go crazy. Kyle, come in. Oh, my gosh. Yeah, that'll be insane. Wait, wait, wait. What do you say? Oh, he's like, Kyle, come in. I haven't seen him since forever.

Not that. All right. It was a peck, okay? Have you still have that envelope there, am I right? Yes, yes, yes. We need to wrap up, but we have to do this envelope. Yeah, I'm very excited to see this. Okay, so I told both producers from the start of the, before even started, to write something and to put it inside the sealed envelope. I have an envelope here, and on my cell phone, my cell phone is opened and it shows the calculator. I wrote a number in the calculator.

We will do some calculation. I hope the listeners can, like, follow with us. Let's try to look like this. Ashley, can you open your calculator? My calculator on my phone? Yeah. Okay, yes. And can you just give me two digits?

Make sure to write the same digits as we say. As you tell me to. Okay, yes, go for it. Just give me any two random digits. Okay, got it. Tell me. Oh, 62, 62. 62.

Okay. Candle, give me three digits. 8.13. 813. Make sure I'm writing the same numbers you say, okay? Okay. Should I do something with 813? Yeah, you should add those.

Add them? Okay. To 813. Okay. Exactly. Plus, let's say. Can you please give me back four digits? 5-489.

five, four, eight, nine. Okay. Do you have someone else with you in the room? Yes. Yes. Right here. Okay. Tell her to think about five digits.

Tell us. Wait, I hope I just added it right. Okay. Yeah. Say it out loud. Say it out loud. Digit by digit and make sure to add those numbers. It's like tell me.

Okay. Four, six, nine, nine. two two seven okay okay so this number right did you add this number yeah i i hope i didn't mess up on the calculator if we did does it do you guys somebody else use a calculator and add that up just so that we can make sure it will do it one more time don't worry and kandal can you give me six digits um okay uh nine seven three eight two six okay and for the last number i would like actually give me two digits two more digits okay 36 and we will continue this number so don't press the equal yet beka give me five digits

six four five nine one that's it that's it i was like i lost count i was i had to count my fingers i'll like six this long number yeah okay so you know what we used at one let's add one let's add one okay plus one okay so this is what you did this is what you told me right i couldn't predict all it no and i told you that i wrote something on my calculator on my cell phone before it started and it's still here right i want to show it to you it's 1 722 8 4 2 360 can you add this number to this whole score. Add that number to the, okay. Yeah.

I definitely messed up on my calculator somewhere along the line. But I'm going to continue. And if it's off, then we're going to re-add. And it's okay. We're going to figure this out. Okay, let me see real close. Hold that close close to the screen. Okay.

So that's our number plus 172, 842, 2. three six zero okay can you show me this score I must have messed up darn it maybe what what do you want me to show you so me the cell phone make sure it's close to the camera this is the score for all of it something happened something happened yeah okay let's add let me add up shirt at the beginning. Let's add up. Really quick.

That's good. We'll recontinue everything. Look at Danielle. Danielle, they're all making fun of me, guys. You know, sometimes you add the ad button twice and then something happens and you forgot that you pressed the ad button a couple times before entering the new number. Okay. So, right.

Thank you. Thank you. 62 plus. Is that 8. 13. One. Oops. All left to me.

Okay. You know what? Kendall? I feel like she is the left brainer of all of us. We'll see. Okay, 8-1-3 plus. 842. 842.

842-3-6-0. I had it from here in the start of the song. Okay. Yes, I have a number. It's 210-734-068. when I told your producer to bring an envelope with a number it can't be it's impossible

it's impossible well we just all separately came up with a whole random number absolutely random I want to show you what I had in my envelope from the start of the show he's going to show us first we should open at the same time oh god oh my gosh I can already see it

same time It will be the number. The number. Yes. 704.068. Exactly. That is insane. You guys, I'm mind-blown.

I believe in everything now. You know, like everything in this life, I believe. That actually blows my mind. I'm a little of science. Dang it. It is the score, but it's not just a score. You created this number and this is the bachelor. Oh.

my way so when you turn it around the way you wrote it oh that is so crazy what in the world you guys you need to screen record that are we screen recording this that blows my mind on our Instagram on our yeah we can do it wow wow you're inside my brain you guys we just came up with the bachelor in number form that actually really blows my mind because I have no idea how that you guys if you're interested in what we're seeing because like yes numbers can in your head look like letters and he created and we apparently all came up with numbers that looked like the bachelor when you turn it around and we're going to put it up on our Instagram. Wow. Yeah. Wow. That's actually pretty crazy. I have to say you have been our most fascinating guest in all of five years.

moly, moly. So congratulations and thank you. Yes, thank you. That was incredible. Thank you. Just like a quick message to tell everyone, keep thinking good and positive thoughts because you can never know who might do it in them. Wow. I'm hoping like, what did I think while we were doing this podcast? Thank you so, so much. You are truly amazing. Where can people find you and where can we come see you? Are you going on a tour of the U.S.? Yeah, I am going on a tour in the U.S. from the 10th of June, and I'll be there at the 24th, and I'm coming again and again. You should follow me on Instagram. It's at Nevo de Mentalist, N-E-V-O, N-V-E-O-de-Mentalist.

And that's it. Thank you. Too fun. Thank you so much. That was so amazing. Thank you so much. That was great. That was so great.

Okay. I could make a little bit more logic if, like, there was some sort of energy vibes in the room. But the fact that that guy, he put these numbers together, before he even saw our faces or even knew that the three of us were going to sit down today. You guys were, you know, we've got lots of girls here. And we, they chose you guys for this mentalist interview. Man, he did not know. That's so funny.

I was just thinking of numbers on the fly, Eve. And I didn't even know the numbers were when I was saying them. I was like, uh, is that six, three? So is he a fortune teller or a mind reader? I want him to be, I want him to tell my fortune if he is a fortune tell. Wait, well, I'm trying to imagine dating him. Like imagine, you're just like, you're like, I'm not even going to say it. I'm just going to think it.

He's like, how dare you think that evil thing about me? Oh, my goodness. All right. Well, the guys, check that guy out. I mean, check him out. I'm going to see him in one year. I'm so you guys live in L.A. so you can go see him.

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