The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast - Colton's Finale Part 2 with Hannah G

Episode Date: March 13, 2019

Hannah G is here with us to give a behind the scenes look at what happened last night, and help Ben & Ashley break down Colton’s season finale. She’s got some things to get off her chest about... Colton, and we find out if she would have accepted a proposal from him! Hannah G gives us her honest thoughts on the new Bachelorette, Hannah B, and we find out if she’s upset that she didn’t get chosen for the next season. And finally, is Hannah going to Paradise?? We get her to spill on who she’s hoping to see there, and who she’s interested in from Bachelor Nation. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast with IHartRadio. So did you get your pump, doesn't it? It's really good. It's really fun. Thank you. This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast. We've got the one and only Ashley I Kennedy. Thanks, Ben.
Starting point is 00:00:15 We got the one and only Ben Higgins. Oh, yeah. And maybe the biggest guest of all time, Hannah G is in studio. Oh. Woo. Hi. Hannah G is going to sit around co-host this episode with us
Starting point is 00:00:31 Our minds are blown We've just found out that Hannah B Can we just call you Hannah? I don't know That's confusing I think you guys are permanently Hannah B and Hannah G Like I'm permanently Ashley I
Starting point is 00:00:42 You will forever have to have the G I'm good with Hannah G I like Hannah G I mean so cute I know but like We're gonna call you Hannah B is now the Bachelorette Colton is with Cassie
Starting point is 00:00:53 The World is happy This is the happiest episode I've watched in the longest time I felt like for the first time I was watching an episode, a finale like I did when I was just a fan. And I got so giddy, like I got a lump
Starting point is 00:01:09 in my throat. It wasn't like I was happy for my friend. I was just like happy for these two people in love. It's so good. The internet strongly disagrees. So before we dive into unpopular opinions, because Ashley did. She walked in
Starting point is 00:01:27 studio and was ecstatic. I mean, just bright, cheery-eyed skipping. So, like, looking at all of us, being like, are you excited? We're like, I think so, but we're reading the internet. And the internet isn't, isn't exactly sharing the same emotions. That's so sad. So let's pause there. Because I want you to save this excitement to explain this episode.
Starting point is 00:01:50 But we have to start, I think. Because Hannah G. just got off the show last night and Hannah you come in here you're our fan favorite you walk into studio and we're all excited to see you last night was your your exit from the show it was an odd exit in our opinion because you weren't we didn't even know if you're still there like we thought maybe you had already gone home and then all of a sudden you pop back up on our screens surprise I mean we don't want to be insensitive to the idea that you were let go last night.
Starting point is 00:02:24 But it was months ago at this point. Yeah. What are your emotions walking into last night? And now today, as you wake up off the show. So, oh, it sounds so crazy in this.
Starting point is 00:02:40 This is her first podcast. Yeah, she has the headphones on. Actually, I'm going to snap a picture and we're going to post this as she talks. You're the cutest person ever. Oh,
Starting point is 00:02:50 you guys are cute. I've been saying Hannah B is my favorite and cutest person ever, but I got to say you're a close second right now. She's like, really, like, I'm really vibing you. I don't want you to leave. I'm fighting with you guys. It's kind of like, you're sitting in here and it's kind of like, I don't, I want you
Starting point is 00:03:03 hear all the time, just like to hang out with. I'll just come and sit in here and listen all the time. I wish they would have shown more of this on the show. Well, shoot. Kind of same. I know, right? I've heard rumors about you being so delightful. And now I'm experiencing it first.
Starting point is 00:03:18 I kind of feel the same way, Ash. Let's go back to Ben's question because I wasn't sure the answer. Sorry. All right. um you know like i said it's been months since the whole breakup and all of that happened but um i just know for me it's been every single day i've been having you know kind of struggles with this and you know although time helps and there's closure and all of that kind of stuff it's like at the end of the day like that moment last night brought me back to it you know for me i didn't know if i was
Starting point is 00:03:50 going to cry or if I was going to be all happy go lucky like woo yay go team I'm fine and really I'm not because I've had a lot of like hard days um going throughout all of this and kind of living in the past and everything but um yeah last night brought it all back and it was real and then I know in the moment I was so scared but for some reason I was just like okay I have not gone through all of this to not speak my heart and get all of these questions answered because my emotions were so real. And, you know, I've heard you guys say it before. I've heard anybody on the past season say, like, you know, when your heart's in it, it's hard. And you're just like, okay, but I'm watching that, like, watching this on TV, it's entertainment, whatever. But being in that
Starting point is 00:04:40 position and having those moments be really, really real and really hard. Um, wasn't fun but went out there did my thing marked off all my questions that I wanted to ask and I felt like I walked off stage like like superwoman or something you got the superwoman applause from the internet that's for sure people were loving you last night and you were so articulate and you just came out you didn't have you didn't come across to have a nervous bill in your body I felt really calm I don't know why but it was like you know before I was kind of I'm pacing my room and I was like oh my gosh what did I sign up for I'd rather just like do a conference call and get closure instead like I don't want to watch this this is terrible but you know
Starting point is 00:05:30 I think it was good to have all that build up and just freaking do it and um it felt good and I feel like I did get some closure and there's no perfect way to be like oh this would have been a better way to break up with me and right this would have you know this was hard it's like he had to go with his gut and um it just sucks in my case and there's no better way to put it and it's just been hard for me because i thought otherwise but i think for you there hasn't been a elimination in the top three that has so many what ifs attached to it because if you were the first date that week i don't know how it would have played out i really wonder if he would have taken the two of you to top two yeah
Starting point is 00:06:18 it's just a what if thing you know and something that was weird is when he was breaking up with me he was like I thought it was you the whole time yeah that was weird for him to say to you and that's fine but then watching back
Starting point is 00:06:34 and watching him tell Cassie the night before that oh I think about you while I'm with other women I'm like wait which one's true then like those are both opposite statements and whatever true false whatever he's happy and
Starting point is 00:06:49 I want somebody who just would love me back and I think it's as simple as that even though it wasn't fun but I am glad I finally like spoke my piece like this whole time it's like who's Hannah? Where's her personality? And I'm like hey guys I kind of do have a personality like that's how I connect with people every day. It's like
Starting point is 00:07:10 I'm kind of quirky. I'm kind of weird. I'm a great listener, good friend, whatever but and it's worked in real life but for this it was like like whoa like you know it's only shown such a small part of who I am and I was like well we're alive and you can't edit this out so let's freaking go I love because look at how much personality you have and then all they showed on the show was like you guys making out like you were like the haughty he liked to play with not like this girl that he'd like to have conversations with yeah for sure didn't expect that it to be like that at all I felt all sorts of kind of weird
Starting point is 00:07:45 watching you sometimes during this show not because of who you are no but that mud scene i said it on the podcast i said i felt weird from my head to my toes like i'm i didn't like a teenage boy in the living room be like this is my buddy colton and like i i'm i'm blushing i'm warm i'm hot um that was weird yeah i tried to avoid text to my dad for about a week after that what was his response like you go hg woo like just simple he has no idea like what do you say as a dad? Like, I don't want to make my daughter feel shameful or weird or against. He's just like, yeah, go, you go, daughter.
Starting point is 00:08:23 So he asked me literally the other day. He's so sweet. But he was like, I'm surprised there. I have to say in a country accent because he's like super southern. And he's like, I'm surprised they're not flying y'all to some cool location for this last rose ceremony. And I was like, it's not a rose ceremony. I was like, he already broke up with me. And he's like, there's not a rose ceremony after the final something rose.
Starting point is 00:08:46 I was like, after the final Rose. I was like, no, I mean, I just, it's like a stage thing. I don't know. He was like, oh, good luck. And I'm like, okay, love you. The love and the support is totally there. But he has no clue what the hell he's talking about.
Starting point is 00:09:01 Or even what I signed up for. I one time alluded to doing being down to do something sexual in the fantasy suite. And my dad texted me like wallet air on the East Coast. And he was like, oh, Ashley. And I was like, dad, don't eat.
Starting point is 00:09:16 And acknowledge it. Don't please. Like, don't watch it. Don't talk about it. I watched, I had a really intense scene. And I just happened to make it home to Indiana for this episode. And my grandma, my mom, my dad were in the room. And they invited so, this is the worst part.
Starting point is 00:09:34 They invited their Bible study over. No. Yeah. Danger zone. And they all, we all sat in the same room and watched this. And then you know how on the show sometimes when it gets heated, like the music actually stops playing and it's just the sound of. the kissing that exists and I'm sitting there and like there's no way to run away from it because
Starting point is 00:09:50 everybody's sitting around you the TV's on you can crack a joke but you just want it to be over and like for you Hannah I'm going to tell you like your scene lasted a long time like I was hoping it was going to be over or it was going to be too weird for me I was very ready for that to be over especially with the whole outcome thing it's like this is just terrible um but good on you. It was, it was, it's, I'll, I'll take it. Like, there's so many other kind of, you know, edits and things like that. And I don't think I was misrepresented or anything. I think it just kind of, who was alone on that island? That was aggressive. Who was that? When, when, when, remember Colton? That was very, um, a lot of like, bug grabby grab. Yeah. Oh, yes. Yeah. So you're not alone.
Starting point is 00:10:36 Let's set the record straight, though, here. Because a lot of the people to watch a show do listen to the podcast. got personality. So much. So much. You're a bubbly little force. You walk in here. You're glowing. Everybody's like magnetized to you. Like, uh, that works. Does that work? She has that thing where you think you're her friend already. Yeah. I feel like, I feel like we're her friend. We're not buttering you up. We don't say this to everybody. Yeah, we're pretty mean sometimes. But everybody thinks that about you guys. Like, I really feel like I've made this for a while. Ben and Ashley for sure. I get a lot of that. I hate you.
Starting point is 00:11:13 So I'll go in the other room while you all talk. Okay. So Hannah, you've mentioned a couple times that you had to get some things off your chest last night. What were those things? Is it anger? Is it sadness? Like, what were the things that you felt like you need to get off your chest last night with Colton? Every emotion.
Starting point is 00:11:34 I had 80 million emotions going on in my head. And I don't know if it was just categorized as sad or mad. I don't know. I was more feisty than I thought. I hope I didn't say anything like rude or mean because I'm never like that. I'm never like, okay, let's bring it on. But, you know, I thought Chris Harrison was going to be like asking more questions the whole time and stuff. But as soon as I was like, oh, he's not asking anything. In my head, I was like, all right, let's play the question game. Let's go. And so I just was trying to just put it all out there and just see what he had to say. And I mean, some people could say like, oh, some of his answers were safe or whatever, but is there a right way to answer it? And did I want to hear? Oh, yeah, I know. I for sure thought it was Cassie, like, not you.
Starting point is 00:12:23 I was just like, ouch. And in that moment when you're so vulnerable and, you know, everybody's looking at you, I just felt so small, just staining there being like, it's all come down to this. Like, it was just all of these moments in my head that hit me. And I was like, I had real legit feelings for this guy. And I honestly, for real. thought that this whole year
Starting point is 00:12:45 was going to be different. Like my birthday and even his birth like we just like you know holidays all these things I thought it was going to be us so it was very like super intense but would you have accepted a proposal from him? Yes.
Starting point is 00:13:01 I got my ring sized while I was like out here and everything and I was like okay I mean it wasn't an option in my head to not be here with him instead of you know a very quick process and journey or whatever yeah but it wasn't ever an option to not be with him and I thought he felt the same so that's why I allowed myself to feel that way isn't it funny the word journey like you hear as a bachelor fan and you're like wow that's corny
Starting point is 00:13:30 and then you experience it and you're like there's really no other word to use this is journey do you guys ever have those moments where it's just like all these different things in your head and it's like you know just those moments where it's really real and sometimes I watch and I'm just like disconnected. I'm like, look, I'm fine. It's been, you know, months, we're good, move on. He's not into you. But then there's just some moments where it's like, whoa, geez, this is my real life, you know.
Starting point is 00:13:54 Does it feel like a breakup still? Like a real breakup? Not as much. Okay. I feel like I've had a lot of those feelings and after yesterday. Honestly, I've added a ton of time to process it. I've just been going, going. I've only done one scroll to my phone.
Starting point is 00:14:11 phone and need to reply to all these like sweet messages and stuff but um yeah i mean is it like the taylor swift song clean which one is that oh i was hoping that you would know this is this is this is you sound like me right now ashley please explain what clean is i don't know um basically like she wakes up one morning and she just feels like she was kind of rid of that relationship and it's shocking and she's like wow it actually happened i think she wrote that song about me then okay that's how i feel You have to download it for the car after this. Yeah, I think the weight is lifted off me and, you know, sometimes it's not about my story. I know it wasn't the Hannah and Colton show, you know, but sometimes things don't always work in your favor.
Starting point is 00:14:55 And sometimes, you know, it's for other people's happiness, not your own. He was totally distraught after he broke up with you. How did that feel watching back? I didn't know how sad he was. when he left I don't know if I want to say it made me kind of feel better to see that it wasn't as easy on him
Starting point is 00:15:16 but I mean that's a viable answer out there that it's you know I just like almost feel weird talking about it at this point because it's just like I don't want to put any rain
Starting point is 00:15:29 on their like really exciting moment even though it didn't work out for me it's like I think deep down I'm just kind of like you know what it is what it is like this happened months ago. And I think that this is a really special day for them. And I wouldn't want to be the kind of person being like, you know. So are you good, are you good in a couple minutes if we break down the episode together? You're okay with that? Oh, we can do that. That's fine. I want to make sure
Starting point is 00:15:53 it's okay with you. Yes. I just don't want to seem like I'm being bitter about anything. You're not. And I think, I mean, I can't imagine how Colton's feeling because I mean, just being around you right now. It's obvious that he was probably like, holy cow, I've got. Tasha was here last night, and both of you are just incredible, right? And I've never met Cassie, but I'm sure she's wonderful also. And so he's at the end of this. And I just go back to what I was feeling at the time, right? And he has three amazing women that he likes and that he probably loves at some level
Starting point is 00:16:26 or at least really cares for. But he has one of you that he's saying, I cannot live without you. I cannot go through this experience and not end up with you. And if I do, I'm willing to lose everything else in the process. I can't imagine. I mean, for me, you know, I obviously, I told two women I love them, one of which I desperately wanted to be with. And the other one, I was like in any other circumstance in the world, I would be so happy and so lucky to be your partner. So if I'm Colton here, I'm talking to you and for the first time it hit me, it took a lot of courage for him to walk into a room with
Starting point is 00:16:59 you where you are so incredible and he cares about you so much. And he says, I'm willing to let this wonderful woman go for the sake of something that I can't live without. And it just hit me as you were talking. And then he's distraught because in my head, I'd be so much my own head the whole time walking in that room. Is this worth it? Is this the right decision? I'm losing an incredible person. But it's what I feel like I need to do. I mean, he could have lost it all after walking out of your room. Like he could have lost somebody that would have been so great for him. so I don't know I'm just sitting here
Starting point is 00:17:36 I'm like man for the first time it took me how hard that had to be for all of you including Colton who honestly
Starting point is 00:17:41 even as a friend like after last night I kind of judged him like you're an idiot like come on
Starting point is 00:17:46 like what are you doing like she doesn't like you move on and he's like I can't I can't move on yeah I'm trying to think of
Starting point is 00:17:55 how to wear this I think in the moment at least I haven't seen this new episode and how everything really ended. I've only been able to make assumptions
Starting point is 00:18:09 and it's really just one big like IDK, but Ew, I don't know why I said that. I love it. That sounds very millennial. IDK. IDK. It's a one big IDK.
Starting point is 00:18:20 Hell well. You can say, lulls. I'm a law. I'm guilty of laws all the time. Lals. Chay. Anyway, but,
Starting point is 00:18:31 you know, I don't even know how to express this because I don't even know if this is a valid point, but for some reason it was hard seeing that, like, or maybe it was more of a slap in the face for some reason that he was chasing somebody who told him that they didn't love him. And then I'm over here like, oh, hi, like, I love you, like, you know, putting my feelings out there. So it's almost like, I wonder if I would have, I think it would have sucked either way, let's be real, but I kind of wonder if, you know, if she did, if it was a strong relationship that I was losing to. I guess that's what I'm trying to get to the point of is like, if it was like, okay, like, you know, if there's a relationship that's stronger than mine, then they should be together. And I think that that's kind of what I held on to. And I said that in so many interviews being like, if there's a relationship, that's any stronger than mine, then they should be together because that's what people deserve.
Starting point is 00:19:40 And I didn't think it was possible. But so I think in the moment seeing that she kind of just left, that's where for me I was like, well, out, like, I'm over here giving it all I got. And, you know, but I want to see tonight, I think once I watch that episode, it's going to maybe give me more answers and stuff. But right now I'm just kind of left hanging on.
Starting point is 00:20:02 and like, oh, okay. I'm in Portugal now and I'm jet lagged and now I have to go home. How long were you in Portugal real quick? I feel like all the days kind of ended up combining but like three or four days and then I couldn't go home, you know, for like a week after. I asked Tasha about that last night.
Starting point is 00:20:23 She said there was like three days where she was in Portugal knowing she's dumped. I think that's the norm. And like stuck there and just had to go around with Eddie the producer yeah yeah i yeah i would have um wine dates with my producer like at who is your producer ryan um i love her and um we would have wine dates and i i wonder if i can say that but like so there's apparently like a gift that you can give you know the person or whatever and i ended up getting you know colton a gift and there's a slow motion video somewhere on ryan's
Starting point is 00:21:05 phone of me breaking it on the ground in portugal and it's slow motion i don't have the video sadly um well actually whatever but it's somewhere out there it was a moment can you tell us what you got it i don't know okay we'll think about it like a picture frame or something like something yeah little something something yeah a little picture frame here i'll give you a hint it was something in relation to the home thing. Oh, okay. And so now that's on the streets of Portugal. I got a crazy hypothetical for you.
Starting point is 00:21:40 Yeah. So what if he said all that stuff that he did that night with Cassie? And then Cassie left and he jumped the fence and he was distraught. But then the next morning he woke up and decided he still wanted to go on a date with you. And then you found this out either on the date or. even you know watching it back or through producers or whatever
Starting point is 00:22:04 how would you felt about that Ouch so you would prefer having not had the date I wanted the time that I felt like I deserved in the moment and that's I mean he said like
Starting point is 00:22:23 he was like I gave everybody a chance you know and I was like why did you make me feel like it was me the whole time And he was like, I don't know if they heard this, but like, because I felt like I had to give everybody a chance. And I'm like, you didn't give me a chance. They did, you didn't give me one. He kind of said that yesterday when he said that he got lost in the role of Bachelor.
Starting point is 00:22:40 Yeah. Where I feel like sometimes, what do you mean by that? I interpreted it as he like almost wanted to stay neutral to a certain point so that like he wouldn't lead the audience on. Really? I don't know. That's what I thought from it. What did you think?
Starting point is 00:22:56 like he had he like gave everybody a chance made it seem like everybody is in the level playing field so that nobody was let on the one thing colton didn't do great as a bachelor is we knew who he liked i mean we too like it was very clear who he didn't like who he didn't like sure but we knew that he liked a lot of we knew that there was like a good four or five that he really liked yeah i guess that's true i mean honestly down to the end it did yeah you seemed right there what are your thoughts on colton now I'm proud that he followed his heart. And even though, I mean, I don't want to say that because I'm like, you know, out, like I'm bitter and there's just a few things. But, you know, the big picture is that I don't think he has a bad bone in his body. And I don't, he wasn't doing any of that to be, you know, manipulative. That's a hard word. Magnetized.
Starting point is 00:23:53 I don't know what you're saying. He's being magnetized. No. But, you know, I think he's a good guy and he deserves happiness, but so does everybody else. Everybody deserves to find their person. And I can't just be mad because it wasn't me. Like, that's not how this works. Am I sad and felt like I wanted answers to be able to turn the page?
Starting point is 00:24:14 Yeah. But that expression is thrown around all the time in Bachelor Nation. They deserve love. He or she is so deserving of love. Aren't we all? Yeah. Just think it's kind of. weird sometimes the way they use it you're so right yeah so we need to take a break but a listener
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Starting point is 00:29:10 as part of the MyCultura podcast network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. So producer Amy just came up with an email that, is shocking, confusing, to say the least. Ashley, you're an expert at the behind the scenes. Please explain to our listeners exactly what this is. Okay, so if you guys are the type that study the super tease, like crazy, you would notice that there is a scene clipped in there of Colton dressed up with a ring box in his hand, but there's no ring in that box.
Starting point is 00:29:50 And I know a couple weeks ago when they started to show that clip, people were like, what's up with there being no ring in the box? And immediately from my behind the scenes, you know, brain, I was like, they totally taped that just for the T's. And now it seems like that... How do we know there's no ring in the box? Oh, if you look closely, you'll see there's no ring in the box. They had it from multiple angles. I can show you a picture of different angles.
Starting point is 00:30:16 There's no ring in the box. So I'm interested to know whether they added that in there, especially with no ring in the box, just to add buzz for the super fans that analyze the crap out of it or if they actually just hadn't had a little blooper and they forgot to put the ring in there and they just handed them a box and didn't mean to get it from that angle.
Starting point is 00:30:36 I don't actually have a problem. I'm wondering what you guys think with them faking that for the super tease. Yeah, yeah. I'm kind of like, I'm kind of into it. Yeah. Yeah. I don't want to know everything.
Starting point is 00:30:47 So what if he never actually shot that? I'm sure some of those shower scenes were like promotional too shower scenes must have all been filmed like within two days you know there's no way they got him in a shower in every city you guys went to one long shower yeah no I mean they really kind of do I'm not playing I had somebody like video tipping me take a shower often you were like underwear in there um yeah I mean at the beginning you do but then you get so comfortable with everybody and at one point quite honestly I wonder if
Starting point is 00:31:18 Colton got this way we'll have to ask when he comes on but at some point you're like I'm sick of you videotaping me showering so as a result you're going to have to look at my nuts no way yeah like I'm gonna be butt naked here and if you want to be involved in it then I feel like you're very open with your body though in that kind of case I think
Starting point is 00:31:35 Colton yeah definitely like Colton's probably a little more like reserve but you get what I'm saying like at some point you're so sick of them videotaping you showering that you're like if you're going to do this then I got to get clean I'm going to clean and if you're going to get this close to me then you're going to suffer the consequences
Starting point is 00:31:54 don't waste water don't waste water save the water um Hannah before we move into the episode let's start now let's just transition to oh wait I got two more to the questions that Ashley has to end this um but I'm really impressed after because I was there last night, and I want to say this before Ashley finishes up, that you do seem to have a really good, like, I can tell even talking to you that you cared about this guy a lot, that you have a lot of respect for him still, but that this is, in a sense, a distant memory. Like, this is months ago. It's fresh from last night, but it's months ago. And there's still emotion involved, and there still was confusion as of last night, but you do seem to have a really
Starting point is 00:32:44 logical perspective on it. And I want to say, because you get a lot of people that come off in second, I think are a little bitter, a little angry. Don't hold back of like, I don't like this person. They've hurt me. It's really great to have somebody walk in here and be like, I'm just, you know, it sucks. It's weird. But I want what's best. And I can tell you mean that. So I wanted to say that before Ashley kind of finished up with these last two questions. Okay, last night you said what you did to me was the same thing that Cassie did to you. Can you elaborate on what you meant by that? Did that just simply mean you broke my heart and she broke yours? I'm sort of. I was hoping that wasn't like in my head that that one statement kept popping up
Starting point is 00:33:31 the entire time I was talking to him. And I was like, don't say it. That might like hurt their feelings. I don't know. And then for some reason I just had to because I was just like, okay, like, you know, I hate saying it. But like Cassie, you know, she went in there. didn't want to even give him the chance to hang out in the fantasy suite. I had 10 pages of questions. I wanted to ask him. Oh, that's what you meant.
Starting point is 00:33:54 So, went in, didn't even want to give him the chance at all to move forward with this relationship, which maybe she has different reasoning. Yes, all of that stuff. But, um, and then she left and he jumps the fence. He comes in,
Starting point is 00:34:10 does the exact same thing with me and blindsides me too. And I was just like, wait that's it and um you know he had an happy a happy ending from all of that and I was literally just left with oh yeah I don't know like if I'm engaged or not stay tuned kind of thing for months so that's where I was like you know what like I know how hard that must have been for him but I felt like I was kind of robbed of a chance like how he was too okay yeah I love makes total sense. I thought for a second, like, just from watching last night's episode once, I was like, oh yeah, heartbroken. You're both heartbroken, but you're right. You weren't
Starting point is 00:34:54 given the chance, the extra time that you wanted. Yeah. This is not about you. Now that Cassie is so happy with Colton, it makes me think of women tell all. And it makes me weirded out that Kaylin, her very best friend, who apparently flies here to see her on like a weekly basis. cried so hard over this guy that her best friend is so in love with and hangs and then and do they hang out together like was that calen's first time seeing him if they are together all the time i just think it is really weird for her to be like i'm still so distraught over this but i know that you're so happy with my best friend yeah but then again so many things and situations in this entire bachelor world is weird and it's just you know like I'm friends with people that were dating the same dude that I was you know it is it it's a weird thing so I think she has every right for her to have feelings I don't know what do you guys think I think it's weird I do I didn't even think about that ash like it is kind of odd like to think you probably saw them together multiple times
Starting point is 00:36:13 that you're celebrating your friend's relationship it would be odd to even put on the front that you were upset, but I get maybe why. Maybe at that moment it hit her that this was ending or maybe it's, I don't know, I hate, I don't even know, maybe she had these emotions built up and she remembered those emotions and she saved her response for the tell-all because she knew it was her time to speak on. I mean, I cannot imagine a scenario where Kaelin shows up to a house with Cassie and Colton, even if she's hurt and upset, where she sits down she's like Colton you hurt me like you this this suck like that would be weird for him so the only time to do it was maybe tell all yeah that's a possibility I don't know I'm I mean I'm
Starting point is 00:36:56 I haven't really talked to any of the women from my season since the show you know a couple of like Lauren's friends would come into town and and everything but at that point it was so far removed that it was kind of over none of them ever confronted me on it so I don't know that I don't know how to relate with that but I guess it's perfect comparison would be like if Amanda Stanton just lost it on you yeah she didn't yeah you gotta have Amanda Stanton vibes Hannah
Starting point is 00:37:23 I haven't told that yeah yeah yeah Amanda Amanda's a good great woman she cares herself well you can like I can see you guys kicking it and being good friends having a lot of fun it will be homies yeah you can be homies feels like home sorry okay too soon
Starting point is 00:37:38 the uh yeah that is odd ash you're always good at that you always find those like one things that make me go I think like a girl. Huh? I think like a girl. Yeah. I do.
Starting point is 00:37:51 I'm like slow. No. I was actually, I was just talking to Jessica. My girlfriend before this on FaceTime, she's with like a bunch of girls a night. And I was like, oh, Hannah G's coming to the studio. I was like, what do you girls think of it? And they're like, oh, we love Hannah G.
Starting point is 00:38:05 We think she's so cute. And then Jessica goes, don't get any ideas, Ben. Oh my gosh. And I said, Jess, you never know. You never know. Oh, no. She didn't like that very much. That's a very nerve-wracking answer.
Starting point is 00:38:20 But yeah, Hannah, you have lived up to expectations. Let's switch gears for a second. Because we really, I want you in here to break down tonight's episode. I know you haven't seen it. But that's okay because we'll fill you in. And I want to unleash my co-host, Ashley Ikenetti, because she's built up like a bomb and an explosion of excitement. But I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to articulate it. That's okay.
Starting point is 00:38:44 I'm just going to let you lose. And then Hannah and I are going to sit back and listen and follow suit. Hannah, on tonight's episode, Cassie ends up with Colton. And Colton ends up with Cassie, maybe I should say. And we see an episode where they travel to Spain to meet Colton's family. And I'll say this. And I've been the hater all season. I love this season.
Starting point is 00:39:06 But I've had to be the devil's advocate because Ashley is so positive about the season. I mean, I've had to pull back a little bit and be like, but what about this? I really can't come out with the back. So, I thought this episode was a little confusing because we see Hannah leave last week. We're a fan of, I thought, Hannah, you actually put a big role in tonight's episode because I thought you're going to walk out as a bachelor at one. You didn't. So that was confusing me.
Starting point is 00:39:28 The second point was that the Cassie Colton relationship starts out where he walks in, he knocks on the door, and they meet and they start talking. And she's still not, she doesn't seem sold out on the idea of being with Colton. She seems really confused to me. And then he goes, do you want to go to Spain, though, and meet my family? And this is how I'm reading it. Fans, listeners, please write in to Ben and Ashley at iHeartMedia.com and tell me if you completely disagree.
Starting point is 00:39:52 That's okay if you do. But I'm watching this in the back room with Jason Tardick. And I'm like, Jason, tell me if I'm not reading this correctly. She's still not sold out. They go to Spain. He sits down with the family. He seems in great spirits. He starts telling him about the experience.
Starting point is 00:40:06 Then she comes in and is still not sold out. So his family gets really emotional because they're like, you don't care about my son as much as he cares about you is what I'm reading here. And Cassie, and give her credit, she's being genuine and authentic. She's like, yeah, I don't know if I'm there yet, but we're working on. We're trying. We're figuring out. Fair enough. I'm not asking you to fall in love with this guy. I'm just saying, hey, what's happening? I'm still confused. And then they go on a full day date and it goes really well. It feels like a typical bachelor date. They have a picnic and they have this conversation and then at night. Something changes. And I can't pick my finger on when to where
Starting point is 00:40:42 we feel as viewers good about them being together. Isn't it weird? It's so weird. It's confusing because as viewers, I'm watching and all of a sudden, Cassie and Colton are happy. And then they're in a fantasy suite. And they're waking up the morning together. And the show ends with him and with the two of them going,
Starting point is 00:40:59 I could wake up together morning after morning after morning with you. And this is all great and good. That's my perspective on the episode. I don't think it was bad. I thought it was really confusing. but Ashley walks in here so pumped and says she gets emotional and Ashley I just exploded
Starting point is 00:41:15 I want you not to explode with your take on this episode. Okay so I think you're totally right when the first 15 to 20 minutes I guess once we get past the family part I was just like yeah she's still not into this like
Starting point is 00:41:31 I even saw like her facial expression when he said I dumped Hannah and Tasia yeah we looked like oh wow crap now I got no other way out I really thought that's what her facial expression said and just interrupt you for one second
Starting point is 00:41:45 because the episode starts with Cassie saying I'm so excited to go home I'm so pumped to go home to my family she's packing and we're like you want to just get out of here like that's how I felt
Starting point is 00:41:57 like you don't want to be here any longer she didn't even well not that we don't know whether she said a lot of things about her feeling so bad and her missing Colton all that stuff maybe it was edited out but what they chose to put in was that, you know, she was excited to go home. And then her facial expression to me also
Starting point is 00:42:14 said, I'd rather go home. And then, you know, he was like, I'm not giving up on this, blah, blah, blah, still didn't really feel it until they had their picnic after they did that cliff walk down. What is it called? Propelling down the mountain. Yeah, propelling down the mountain or the cliff. And then I felt it because there was like something in her eyes that just seemed to be warming up to him. There's a lot of body language just seemed to turn there for me. And then it turned, and then dinner was like, whatever to me. And
Starting point is 00:42:47 then it really turned with the fantasy suite. That cute little scene where they're like telling the camera and the audio guys to leave was so cute and giddy. And the next morning, I saw that body language again and the twinkle in her eyes. There was just like this new warmth
Starting point is 00:43:03 that came over her. Didn't feel like she was pushing him away at all anymore. And then I felt giddy when that chapter of the episode ended. I was like, oh, man, I feel good about them. I feel really good. I'm really happy. And then when I saw them on the couch, I was like, holy moly, this is a different woman.
Starting point is 00:43:22 Totally felt like a different woman. She had so much more energy and vibrance about her. It was like she was alive. She was more articulate than ever. She didn't seem scared to talk or express her feelings, which I feel like she was often, like, so careful about the words that she chose. and then I feel great and I feel good and then I got on the phone
Starting point is 00:43:41 with my mom and my mom is like if she breaks his heart boy I'm gonna get so angry she breaks his heart because my mom was like I think my mom was hesitant over
Starting point is 00:43:52 the huge change in her personality like it could be an act I don't think that I don't think that just putting it out there don't think that I don't think it was an act
Starting point is 00:44:03 Hannah how weird do you feel talking about this is it weird for you No I like sharing it No, no, no, keep it going. No, I like hearing about, I like hearing your perspective. I don't think it was an act. No, no, no, at all.
Starting point is 00:44:13 Okay. But I think it could come off to the viewers like an act. Okay, because it was so, uh, we won, we just one, we just 180. So quickly. Yeah, we one 80ed so quickly and we're asking why. Because in my mind, and Hannah, you were there for this. So I love, I would love your opinion to the level that you feel comfortable sharing it. In my mind, as a viewer,
Starting point is 00:44:37 I never knew Cassie, even though she said the words, I love you too and all those. I never knew Cassie to like Colton as the viewer. Like I knew she was interested. I knew she was into him. But I never knew her to like Colton because it was never shown really. It was never experienced as a view on the show. And all I knew her as was the girl that had the confidence to say,
Starting point is 00:44:58 Colton, I'm not into this any longer. I need to go home. And I celebrated that. Like that was, I don't think the breakup was done in the best way. But Cassie's a sweet girl. I can tell. she just wanted to go home and I was like that's fine then go home like don't be here any longer and then all of a sudden she's still with him Hannah you were there for this do you think
Starting point is 00:45:17 Cassie did you ever get the sense that Cassie was really into Colton I never saw Cassie with Colton um isn't that a weird phenomenon people don't understand but we barely see the lead interact with anyone else right it's only my perspective the entire time like no clue about anything else. I can say from talking to Cassie, you know, while we live together, she's very, very sweet. And she's just such a light. And, you know, in her defense, it's weird saying in her defense.
Starting point is 00:45:51 And hi, I also got broken up with. But really, you know, stepping back, it's like so many people expect for people to have perfect reactions to things. And that's not how life works on the show. It can be easily edited. for things to just fall perfectly. And sometimes in life, you have moments of, I don't know, like, I don't know moments. Like, that happens to all of us.
Starting point is 00:46:14 And that's what life is, is having those raw just like, I'm not sure how I feel sometimes. Like, I know, I rarely have an answer of how I feel exactly. I don't really know sometimes. And maybe she was just having one of those real moments. I would have think that would have sucked even more if she was just like, okay, yeah, let's stay together just because you're into me. but I don't know sometimes things change sometimes it's not like she wasn't into him and that means this and this and this and sometimes things just change and I know that if you spend time with somebody and you get the chance to see these different qualities in them then you can move forward in your relationship which is something I didn't get so maybe she did get this with him of the chance of getting to know him and it worked out.
Starting point is 00:47:07 No, Ben, my theory is that there were a lot of those nice moments between them, warm, she likes him moments that we didn't get to see because it was better TV, a better narrative, if we were to just think all leading up to that fence jump, that she just wasn't that into him. Because I think back on the times where I hate bringing it back to me, but it's just a comparable situation, I feel like people would watch Paradise. and be like Ashley's whacked out like he he does not like her nobody's ever thought you're whacked out oh please so many people were like we're not seeing that like you're awesome oh well thank you but but like a lot of people were like she's not picking up on his signs and and then um
Starting point is 00:47:53 they just weren't seeing so many of our good moments because they just chose not to put them in there because it was a better narrative for me to be like the crazy love sick girl after the guy that just was never going to fall for it. It's interesting. I don't know. I'm watching tonight. And it's a little bit, I'm still a little bit confused. I want to, I am celebrating Colton and Cassie.
Starting point is 00:48:22 I've met Colton. I've been around Colton. He's happy and I've, I'm excited. I've been able to talk to him this week about how excited he is about the future. And Cassie, I haven't met yet. and I'm sure she's great. And let's celebrate the story of them from this year's bachelor. So it was a great season.
Starting point is 00:48:39 Hannah, you had a huge part in this making this season fun and enjoyable and attractive and sometimes very awkward for me to watch. Not in a bad way. Just making me feel all weird inside. But it was hard for me to walk out tonight being like, hooray, like, let's celebrate because I was still confused. Like once the show ended, I honestly, I looked over at the guys in the room. I was in the room with Jason and Chris.
Starting point is 00:49:03 and some of the women and I was like we all kind of like yeah yeah like we clapped and celebrated like when the door closed and then when it opened up and like we were still excited
Starting point is 00:49:13 and then the show ended we're like is that it? Like what's next? Like what's happening? And then they come out and you're happy for them like they're really good together like you can tell tonight
Starting point is 00:49:20 when they saw on the couch like good on them like they're shining they're celebrating but for the first time and a long time I felt like there wasn't a conclusion to the show
Starting point is 00:49:30 like we felt before maybe because the proposal's not there maybe it seemed a little foggy like usually it's a more clear happy ending and this one maybe wasn't as clear just because it didn't go the way that it usually does i wonder if i want to ask you guys yeah do you think that um you felt like you had what ifs watching or no like with with how things kind of ended there's not usually like i feel like maybe sometimes there's more answers with all of it but it was just kind of like I don't know or what do you think I think that the only what if I was left with was what if your date went first that week yeah I'm sure in the end it would have ended up the same
Starting point is 00:50:14 I'm sure that he would still be happy and in love with Cassie but it's interesting how the immediate future could have changed yeah there is some what ifs uh it might be I don't know if it's going to hurt to hear I think he was completely sold out on Cassie so I don't think there wasn't even what if in his mind like I don't think there was any actually kind of like we talked about earlier I think by him letting you go and not spending the time with you is actually doing you a favor because I think he was so sold out there was nothing that was going to happen that night even if it went magically that was changing his mind that Cassie was the one for him at the end yeah I think I why I said that though was from what you said of when you watched it you're like
Starting point is 00:50:58 oh but what's next I think that's where I was like, I wonder if that's why it's not as clear is because it was just all of a sudden, like, you know, such a switch. No, I get it. I think that to bring it back to me again, Jared and I, when we announced our relationship, we did it with a 45-minute YouTube video because we had to fill in the gaps of what people, from what, where we left off in Bachelor in Paradise Three to where we ended up because people wouldn't understand how we got together if it weren't for us explaining like step by step. So we need a story of us for Cassie and Colton on what happened over the past four months. I'm surprised he didn't and propose a night. I'm glad he didn't. I'm glad he didn't. I'm glad he didn't.
Starting point is 00:51:41 I bet it was brought up. I bet that it came through his mind like should I or should I not. I'm glad he didn't because then I would have been even more confused. It would have been too much in one episode too fast. Like from her not being into it to being into it to being confused to then spending the night with him to a proposal all in one evening. I would have been a wreck. That would have been a world. That would be fun to like attach. like, you know, some weird controversy and negativity, you know, some people thinking that way
Starting point is 00:52:06 to such a special moment either, you know? That was like Ari and Lauren last year. I think so many people wished that Ari hadn't proposed because we just saw him break up with Becca. We were not in the mood to see a proposal, but of course they're married now and happily ever after. But yeah, I think if Colton would have proposed tonight, we would have been like, really, that wasn't the mood we were going for. But we're really happy to see you guys together as a couple.
Starting point is 00:52:29 Well, and Hannah, as you brought up earlier, and nobody knows this is probably better than you do. But we actually talk about all the time. But, like, this is an experience that is sometimes funny. It's super weird. It's awkward. And it's at some level of joke. I mean, I literally have sat on a panel for the live shows two nights in a row. And I walk out there and I'm 29 years old.
Starting point is 00:52:49 And I feel like the old man in the room. And I'm like, I feel like the guy that comes back to prom five years later with a date. Like, I feel weird. Like, I don't belong here. anymore. This is awkward and it's funny and it's reality television. You belong. Yeah. Thanks, Anna. No, I did. I walked
Starting point is 00:53:07 out tonight and I sat down and I looked at Chris. I was like, I don't think I can do this anymore, buddy. Like, I, I don't, this is my 20th time showing up on a panel. Like, what do you got to ask me? I feel like that every finale. I feel old, Ash. I'm always like, okay, well, now you're officially old. You are done. I feel old. But anyways, to my future.
Starting point is 00:53:25 This show gets real. Well, you're like senior pluses. We're in our fifth year. now. We're fifth year seniors. Oh, geez. I feel like it, too, sometimes. But, like, it's still real to me. Maybe the reason I am attracted to come back to these panels when they ask and when I want to come back on the show when they ask is because the show has a huge piece in my life. I'm, I'm no longer with the person I was from the show.
Starting point is 00:53:48 She's a great woman. And I'm never, ever regret the fact that we spent time together from the show. And for me, I think you're right, because I know how hard it was. For Lauren to experience our, like, proposal, the day I broke up with Jojo, a woman I said, I love you too. Like, I know how hard that affected her and how weird it was for her. And I get why it was weird and crazy and awkward. So I understand that. And I wish there would have been a different way to do it.
Starting point is 00:54:15 Like, I wish that she could have had that special moment where she felt like her proposal at the time, you know, if we backtrack and think of, oh, life was going to be us together. Like, that she doesn't look back on the day that we got engaged. And she's like, yeah, but you broke up with a woman you loved the same. day like that hurt her and I get why it's weird interesting you know so it would be nice if I didn't have to get engaged in front of an ex-boyfriend too
Starting point is 00:54:36 yeah like so well you know like we sit here and and I think about tonight if he would have proposed yet it would have sucked yeah like that's the bad part of the show because happy always goes along with sad happy always
Starting point is 00:54:51 wow Ashley I can Eddie throw out the quote tonight I'm gonna get that tattooed now you guys stop now that's the most simple thing I knew I could say Simplicity wins. Speaking of, I don't know, really deep things and Ashley's brain is just on fire tonight with excitement and wisdom. We've got to take a break. Hi, my name is Enya Emanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips.
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Starting point is 00:59:18 Honestly, these are going to come out so freaking amazing. Be a part of my new chapter and listen to the new season of the Overcumper podcast as part of the MyCultura podcast network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I want to reiterate that even though Ben thinks it was weird and that I do think it was a quick 180, I'm very gleeful for them. Like I watched it and I was, I had like a lump in my throat and I just felt like my heart was like a little. a little bit, racing a little bit. I just got like this cool physical reaction to see two people that were like really happy.
Starting point is 00:59:59 I was just so happy because throughout this entire thing, I've been kind of saying that Colton has been such a rootable, sympathetic character. And I wanted him to be happy the entire time. And I think sometimes you focus more on the girls during the season, but I really think that Colton was kind of like the star. So you guys think they'll last? I mean, I think lasting, especially when she's only 20. 23 is like, that's a long life ahead of you. I think that they're going to be good for a while. Is it a lifelong thing?
Starting point is 01:00:31 I don't know. I think that 23 is hard. I mean, you're 23, right? 24. But did you ever imagine? You do. You do. Well, you seem much older than Cassie does.
Starting point is 01:00:45 But I don't know. I mean, in the south, 23 is, 23, 24 is probably a typical age. yeah right yeah so engaged married yeah it's a thing is it weird to hear these city people like me and anybody like on the coast always talking about how 23 24 that's so young to get married why would you do that yes but I mean how am I supposed to be defensive about how I just actually feel in life and um you know some people are like she has she has no substance she hasn't gone through anything I've been through a lot of things, but I've never used it as an excuse, you know, for people to just relate to me. Like, I have so many things that I go there and I would tell, you know, some of the producers things that I've been there.
Starting point is 01:01:31 And I was like, but I don't want to chat about it. Like, the way I connect with people is how I am in the moment. And that was important to me. So am I ready for anything that life brings me? Yeah. Am I ready to like actually find love? Yeah. Another thing I just want to mention, I think Ben and I,
Starting point is 01:01:49 I keep getting comments on Instagram and Twitter that we are like not pro Cassie? I have never disliked Cassie. I've had my moments of hesitance with Kalyn thinking that she may be a little fake, but I never said anything about Cassie being, you know, I think Cassie admitted that she wasn't ready. You know, there were rumors that Cassie wasn't ready. She admits she wasn't ready. And that's just what we've been saying, and I think that we hate the fact that Colton was hurt by her, and that she hung around for
Starting point is 01:02:23 a while when she knew her feelings may not have been there, but I never had anything personally against Cassie. I think she's a very delightful-seeming girl. Very sweet. I honestly, it's hard for me to have anything personally against anybody, I haven't met them. I watch this show like everybody else. I'm sitting in my living room, drinking my
Starting point is 01:02:39 wine, being like, on the almost famous podcast, I've got to be upset with Cassie, because I am confused. Did you guys talk about this? Sorry, I ran into the other room. So if I'm being repetitive, let me know. A lot of people are upset that Colton did not reveal if he's a virgin or not. That's so dumb.
Starting point is 01:02:56 I could care less. That makes me angry. Talk amongst yourselves, but let me just say it. People are upset because the whole season, it was such a focus. So that is why I interpreted people were upset, that it was like, this big thing all season long. and then it just I honestly Hannah how often was virginity talked about
Starting point is 01:03:21 when you're around Colton so watching back it was so much more of a thing and figured but in the moment I mean it was like you know what do you think about I'm being a virgin I was like I mean that's his thing
Starting point is 01:03:37 you know I mean I don't know like that's just who he is I didn't really have much to say about it and I respected that that's a part of his like if I was a virgin going into this then like is he supposed to judge me
Starting point is 01:03:52 like what's like what are you supposed to do with it exactly and it's like I think that's his business yeah what you know is he out there in the world and that's such a big part of this storyline yeah but like he doesn't owe that to anybody to tell them
Starting point is 01:04:06 Cassie too I'm just she's part of this now so like if he revealed it that would be revealing something personal very personal about her, which many people probably would criticize if he did. Don't you think? Because remember, Nick?
Starting point is 01:04:22 Yeah, it's bad. Well, and I also, like, you know, Cassie had brought up at some point to the women either in the house or on the show that her family doesn't know she's not a virgin. So, like, I mean, my parents didn't know until I did this show, like, what my status was. They don't need to know. That's not important. That's weird for them to know, right? like it would be awkward if somebody sat down on the show and it's like yeah I'm not a virgin I don't want to be or I'm a virgin and my parents all know my status like this is a very private weird moment and I would say though on this episode Hannah was I wish Colton would have put his foot down a little bit more on stopping the virgin talk because there was moments where it was unnecessary like tonight on the episode I was like so into his story you know as a friend I'm feeling for him I'm like all right you're killing it dude like
Starting point is 01:05:13 You're into it. You've done a really tough thing by letting some really great women go and you're pursuing Cassie. And we're all into it. And then he sits down with his parents and the very first thing he says. Oh, I hated that.
Starting point is 01:05:23 And he chose to do this is, guys, I'm not a virgin. And I'm like, Colton, you just ruined this moment. Did I miss this? And then he of course says,
Starting point is 01:05:33 I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I'm talking. And the brother's like, I knew it was going to be the case. And the mom is like, you know, Colton's the brother knew
Starting point is 01:05:40 that you weren't to be a virgin anymore. And then Colton's like, but I'm just kidding. guys. And I'm like, I mean, for me, maybe it's, maybe it's, I'm, like, it's, it's very personal me because my, my co-host, Ashley, that was her storyline. And, and for a while when we were doing the show, like, that was still your storyline. And it was not fun for me to see you get like, squirmie and like a little, like, feeling shameful for being a virgin. And like, we would talk about who's going to be the first guy and can he carry that burden? And is that like,
Starting point is 01:06:11 it was always the burden with me. The burden. And it was like, This just feels dirty and weird. And are we like, like, are we disappointed if Colton doesn't lose his virginity? Like, are we celebrating the fact that, like, he's having sex, which is one of the most, if not, it is the most powerful physical interaction two people can have together. And we're going to say, because you did this crazy show, now we expect you to have sex. And we need to hear about it. Like, no, I don't want to hear about it.
Starting point is 01:06:41 No. could you imagine if this was a female lead and then the question kept being thrown out there are you still a virgin? Are you still a virgin? Oh my gosh there'd be so much hate. You're right. So it feels weird and so I'm not happy with Colton about that. I'm happy with him about all the things. He shouldn't have sat down with his family
Starting point is 01:06:59 and been like, I'm not a virgin. That felt weird. But he didn't know what he's doing. But he handled it well on stage. During the live component he did a really good job just saying like now there's another woman. There's a woman involved. It's not just one of us talking about our sex life. It's somebody else, too. So we're not going to go there anymore.
Starting point is 01:07:18 I want to take a second here because I feel like this is a good moment for us as the three of us to talk about, right? We watch the show and kids are watching this show, young women and young men. And I felt like if I was a virgin watching this show that I was doing something wrong or laughable or something I should be. embarrassed of and so if I was a virgin for whatever reason my faith just that I hadn't had the opportunity I well hadn't found the right person maybe I wasn't attractive maybe I'm the guy sitting there going I I haven't found a woman that once I have sex with me and I'm sitting there in my household as a 40 year old virgin or a 12 year old virgin and I'm if I watched the bachelor's year we talked about it
Starting point is 01:08:09 week one I would have felt shameful for my decision or embarrassed of my decision or feeling like I was doing something wrong and I don't like it unless you thought Colton was cool well that's what I was going to flip it
Starting point is 01:08:23 that dude's hot and cool and athletic and a professional football player and he's a virgin and he's admitting it on TV I will tell you from personal experience when the Jonas brothers were open about their virginity when I was 20 I remember that It's okay to laugh
Starting point is 01:08:41 It's okay to laugh They of course Showed it off Like it was a good thing Like it was a thing That they encouraged people You know If they didn't encourage
Starting point is 01:08:50 Or not encouraged But you're not like This is us And we feel good about it So if you want to do the same Good for you That made me feel so good It made me feel like
Starting point is 01:09:01 There are really cool Hot popular people out there Who are in the same boat as me And it makes me feel good I think that I would be looking at Colton the same way. I just, I do think that you can flip it either way. I think some people are properly interpreting this as, oh, it's something to get rid of. And I think some other people are looking at him being like, there are hot, really amazing virgins out there.
Starting point is 01:09:28 So then would, to fix all, I mean, would you have preferred then Colton at the end of this? Say he is a virgin. Say him and he and Cassie did not sleep together. that he on the live show or at the end goes, yeah, I'm still virgin and I'm proud of it because you know what?
Starting point is 01:09:41 For as much as I loved her, she wasn't there yet. We wanted to spend an evening together and it wasn't right because I've said, he said through this whole thing, I'm reading for that right person who loves me and I love them
Starting point is 01:09:51 to experience this night together. Would you prefer that to be the case? Well, he kind of did say that about the fantasy suite. He said, I will let you know that with the fantasy suite it didn't happen.
Starting point is 01:10:01 Not, you know, he lengthened it and made it a little bit more vague than that, but I'm pretty darned. aren't sure nothing happened in the fantasy. Are we talking about Tasha? No, we're talking about what they said on the live show today. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:10:11 Oh, with Cassie. Yeah. With Cassie. Well, it feels weird, Hannah. Feels weird for you to be sitting here and we're saying this, but Colton's season is now over with. We've completed another season of The Bachelor. It was a great, a great season.
Starting point is 01:10:27 Colton doesn't have a bad bone in his body. And we're going to wait patiently and see where he and Cassie end up. But, guys, can we give a round of applause that Colton's season of The Bachelor is officially closed. And it was so good. Let's do it again. Hannah, um, Hannah G, probably, uh, if not the most, one of the most celebrated cast members this year. Thanks for joining the podcast. But we're not done yet.
Starting point is 01:10:58 We're going to take a break. And when we come back, we're going to talk Hannah B with Hannah G. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect.
Starting point is 01:11:23 And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom. listen now. Hey, sis, what if I could promise you you never had to listen to a condescending finance, bro, tell you how to manage your money again. Welcome to Brown Ambition. This is the hard part when you pay down those credit cards. If you haven't gotten to the bottom of why you were racking up credit or turning to credit cards, you may just recreate the same problem a year from now. When you do feel like you are bleeding from these high interest rates, I would start shopping for a debt consolidation loan, starting with your local credit union, shopping around online, looking for some online lenders because they tend to have fewer fees and be more affordable. Listen, I am not here to judge.
Starting point is 01:12:11 It is so expensive in these streets. I 100% can see how in just a few months you can have this much credit card debt when it weighs on you. It's really easy to just like stick your head in the sand. It's nice and dark in the sand. Even if it's scary, it's not going to go away just because you're avoiding it. And in fact, it may get even worse. For more judgment-free money advice, listen to Brown Ambition on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.
Starting point is 01:12:36 Hola, it's Honey German. And my podcast, Grasas Come Again, is back. This season, we're going even deeper into the world of music and entertainment with raw and honest conversations with some of your favorite Latin artists and celebrities. You didn't have to audition?
Starting point is 01:12:49 No, I didn't audition. I haven't audition in, like, over 25 years. Oh, wow. That's a real G-talk right there. Oh, yeah. We've got some of the biggest actors, musicians, content creators, and culture shifters sharing their real stories
Starting point is 01:13:03 of failure and success. success. You were destined to be a start. We talk all about what's viral and trending with a little bit of chisement, a lot of laughs, and those amazing Vibras you've come to expect. And of course, we'll explore deeper topics dealing with identity, struggles, and all the issues affecting our Latin community. You feel like you get a little whitewash because you have to do the code switching?
Starting point is 01:13:27 I won't say whitewash because at the end of the day, you know, I'm me. Yeah? But the whole pretending and coat, you know, it takes a toll on you. to the new season of Grasasas Come Again as part of My Cultura Podcast Network on the IHartRadio app
Starting point is 01:13:38 Apple Podcast or wherever you get your podcast my name is Ed everyone say hello Ed from a very rural background myself my dad is a farmer and my mom is a cousin
Starting point is 01:13:50 so like it's not what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club I know it sounds like the start of a bad joke but that really was my reality nine years ago
Starting point is 01:14:00 I just normally do straight stand-up but this is a bit different. On stage stood a comedian with a story that no one expected to hear. On 22nd of July 2015, a 23-year-old man had killed his family. And then he came to my house. So what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? A new podcast called Wisecrack, where stand-up comedy and murder takes center stage. Available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Starting point is 01:14:43 The Super Secret Bestie Club podcast season four is here. And we're locked in. That means more juicy chisement. Terrible love advice. Evil spells to cast on your ex. No, no, no, no. We're not doing that this season. Oh.
Starting point is 01:14:57 Well, this season, we're leveling up. Each episode will feature a special Bestie, and you're not going to want to miss it. Get in here! Today we have a very special guest with us. Our new super secret best see is The Deva of the People. The Deva of the People. I'm just like text your ex. My theory is that if you need to figure out that the stove is hot, go and touch it.
Starting point is 01:15:18 Go and figure it out for yourself. Okay. That's us. That's us. My name is Curley. And I'm Maya. In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendship, heart breaks, men, and of course, our favorite secrets. Listen to the Super Secret Bestie Club
Starting point is 01:15:35 As a part of the Michael Tura podcast network Available on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I mean, I've just conquered so many years in the past 24 hours, like, you know, like the first time that you do anything like that and then also just being like, I'm going to say stuff about my breakup on national television and watching it and then just all of these like months
Starting point is 01:15:59 and all of this add up has like come down to this. and then, like, really just sitting here with you guys, it's really freaking crazy. Like, a year ago, like, literally a year ago, I would have died laughing. When did you first watch a season? If I heard this. Like, can you remember your first season you watched the show? Like, did you watch Ashley or Ben?
Starting point is 01:16:19 Yeah. Yeah. Which, like, yeah. I wonder where it started. I remember when, I remember the my moment with that was, um, I was, I had done the Bachelor. I had met Caitlin, which was a, a total in Brit and I walked up and I said hello to them I was like holy cow I got so nervous they were like celebrities in my eyes yeah and then you end up like falling for the person and
Starting point is 01:16:41 it feels okay at the end but I still intimidated by Caitlin like very intimidated by Caitlin for for really the whole season like I was always a little nervous around her yeah and then I became The Bachelor and I remember this I was sitting in a black car at the bachelor mansion it was my very first night and Sean Lowe and Chris Souls walk out of a car and they walk like right by my window but they can't see me because it's tinted and I was like holy cow like those dudes first off are studs second off I've watched them on television and I'm
Starting point is 01:17:07 them now like how does that work that's so cool for sure I feel like that with you guys really that's how I feel like I don't feel like scared like used to it was just like you know you build so much up up in your head and stuff but like you guys are so cool and down to earth and like normal people and it's funny that some people are thinking that
Starting point is 01:17:25 about me and it's just a weird they'll freak out about easy thing you know it's so fun but some people like okay i need to not go off topic i'll be really quick but like just like the whole just this whole thing of like oh my gosh you're so great blah blah and i'm like i'm okay but like there's people like doing crazy amazing things for this world and not getting recognition for it and that's where it's just like it's been a weird just like trying to take things in and you know what i mean there's people that are like my old neighbor here He just got diagnosed with, like, brain cancer, and he has, like, you know, four months to live or five months to live.
Starting point is 01:18:05 And I love him so much. And it's just, like, like, those moments. I'm like, that's real stuff. Like, yeah, I can talk about my breakup. And yes, it was really real for me. But I feel selfish sometimes because I'm like, there's real stuff happening in this world, you know? Can I give you the best advice? Yeah.
Starting point is 01:18:21 Don't lose that. Oh, my God. It's so funny that you say that. Don't lose that. Like, hold on to that thought. No, remember that feeling because this whole thing. And you're not done yet. Like your story is just beginning and it's going to be incredible and no matter what ends up.
Starting point is 01:18:37 If you're in a relationship, you go to paradise you don't or whatever, like your impact in this world is going to be incredible. And there's going to be a moment and I'm telling you it happened when recently for me. And I was telling Jess, like it just happened a few months ago where I realized that I became a little bit numb to humility for the first time ever that I was, I knew who I was. was, and I knew where I stood in this world, but I had lost that perspective, that I, that I had started for the first time to accept the fact that I was something bigger than I really was, that I was cooler than I really was, or I was chasing relevance more than I ever thought
Starting point is 01:19:14 I would. And it hit me that, that is a selfish and an unfulfilling and a finite ambition. And so the best thing, and it was given to me when I first got off the show, was don't lose that humility. Like, don't lose that, like, don't lose that. pure perspective because once you do this whole thing comes crashing down around you way too fast because the coolest part about this is there's going to be moments and moments and moments that you have a real impact in somebody's life because they love you and they respect you and they care for you and then all of a sudden you look around you and you go you and the coolest thing would be that you've never changed that you're just popular because you're an incredible
Starting point is 01:19:54 person and find someone you really trust really trust that if you lose that because it can happen that they smack you back because you need that person that goes hey yeah you're you're going off the path because it's almost inevitable that it happens yeah it makes me emotional thinking about it's just wild y'all it's so funny this is real life it was so different a few months ago you know yeah it's really weird how it happened so fast but it's weird because I was just talking to access as producer trisha who you met earlier today took a picture with her and she was like I loved Hannah-Gy so much. She was, like, just so real and, like, everything is new and exciting to her.
Starting point is 01:20:36 And I just want her to say that my biggest advice to her is don't change. And then you guys just said that. So weird. Hey, let's take a second here. She could really pick up on it. This is a cool moment. Hannah G., welcome to the Bachelor family. Thank you.
Starting point is 01:20:53 I'm really, I'm so pumped that you're part of it. And I'm excited for what the future brings. And so speaking of the future. somebody that was on the season with you, shares the same name. Hannah B was announced tonight as The Bachelorette. The response on social media has not been exactly positive, but, but here's the thing. I remember how nervous I was when I was announced at The Bachelor. I couldn't talk.
Starting point is 01:21:20 I couldn't speak. It was those things you were just talking about Hannah of like, is this real life? Like, this is weird. The Kardashians are sitting in the waiting room. right now, like online now I'm announced as a bachelor, like, is this real life? Because I don't belong here, but somehow now Chris Harris and I are like sitting side by side on a couch talking about my love story. This really effed up. And so Hannah B tonight was nervous on television, so nervous. But I find that endearing. And I think it's exciting because she, if you ask her
Starting point is 01:21:52 right now, I'm not going to speak for her. And then we're going to let Ashley loose because she came in so pumped up. She, I think maybe would have the same perspective you do. Like, I'm so nervous because I can't believe this is happening. Ashley, you don't agree with social media. Social media might be hating on Hannah B, but you're saying what? I think it's incredible. I think it's completely endearing. But I think that it's so great that she's like, I'm nervous.
Starting point is 01:22:14 I'm awkward because that's exactly what everybody at home, if they be like, if you were in somebody's house, a bachelor fan and you're like, you're the next bachelorette. Let's go bring five guys out here. You'd be like, oh my God, I'm so awkward. This is so funny. I can't find my words. It's exactly how anybody. would be it wasn't like she was practicing for this it just it's happening and it's like it's happening to
Starting point is 01:22:37 a fan which is so fun to watch i super relatable it's so relatable i just see myself and my friends in hannah and i've never like all the other bacheloretts i love them but they're so well spoken and poised and controlled like they're filling a role like they just stepped into the president like the Oval Office of the Bachelor. And she's just like, holy moly. Yeah. And she's not an underdog by any means, but it almost feels like that. Like, I always root for any underdog, always.
Starting point is 01:23:10 And so seeing that, you know, hearing that she got it, I'm really, really excited for her. It's very mixed reviews, if that's the right word, mixed thoughts online. But some people are saying it will be fun to watch because it's almost so awkward. but it's like that's what it would be in real life this is like the person that's not filling what the role that they think they need to fill they're truly just being themselves they're they're not like filling the last person's shoes so like oh do you understand that i kind of i'm yeah i do i'm with you on this i'm gonna i want to watch this season because it was gonna feel like watching the kind of the the nerd or the girl next door like you know that
Starting point is 01:23:54 your neighbor that all of a sudden hits it big and you're like, you're now on national television, your love stories being told and you're freaking out and I'm freaking out for you. And I get the role thing. I look back on my time as a bachelor. I remember how they asked me. It was like a month before we announced it that they said, are you interested?
Starting point is 01:24:10 And then a week before I was announced, they said, okay, you're it. And I think I had, I don't know if I prepared or if I filled a role, but I think in a sense, I never was intimidated by the moment. So maybe like that, that, and I don't think Jojo was or Becca was or Rachel was or
Starting point is 01:24:29 Caitlin was. Like, I think there's a unique personality that like, you know, Hannah, I sit here with you and I think you would have still had the like kind of like excitement and the giddiness, but you would have filled the role really well. Like you would have sat down poised like you did last night with Colton and you would have been able to speak. And I think Hannah B has a unique personality where she's not prepared. She's probably not ready to be the bachelor's.
Starting point is 01:24:52 She's ready for love. But she's not ready to be the bachelorette. and it's the first time and in a long time honestly kind of reminds me of Chris Souls. Chris Souls was not a prototypical bachelor.
Starting point is 01:25:02 He could barely put a sentence together on national TV for a long time but we saw him and I love Chris Souls but his love story was played out and he got better he got more comfortable
Starting point is 01:25:11 and then when he was at the end with the people that he really loved he was composed he was calm he was collected and we got to know Chris better because of it but when he was first announced to the bachelor
Starting point is 01:25:20 he was not good like he couldn't put a sentence together He had a great cast of girls that really helped him along because even though he was my bachelor, sometimes I don't even remember him talking. Like, I don't even know how he carried the show. Yeah. Yeah. But he loved, but he felt like he's the sweetest of men.
Starting point is 01:25:42 Like, he's the great dude. But I think Hannah B and Chris both have that. We want to root for him. We're going to cheer for him. Yeah. Hannah, what's your thoughts? Are you up? Let's pause.
Starting point is 01:25:52 You're really close to her, right? And are you upset you're not the Bachelorette? Yeah, I know. You're definitely like the one behind her. So my thoughts are that I don't think that just because she's not feeling, you know, the normal role and approaching it the normal way, I think it's going to be a different season. And maybe that's what they're wanting is for somebody to switch things up a little bit. And is it going to be perfect? No.
Starting point is 01:26:20 But is it going to be her real? like wearing her heart on her sleeve kind of season yeah and I think it's going to be different and people are going to tune in and I'm definitely going to watch I told her that um like I'm her biggest fan and you know I I'm team fine love because I want that too and I think she definitely wants that she definitely is ready to um settle down and I know her intentions are so good and I see their people I'm like a reader I'm feeler I get it but you know you talk with her and you know that she's ready and it's not going to be perfect but she knows that and she's just going to roll with it I think which is cool um with me I um I think it was just
Starting point is 01:27:09 it like I said it would have just been a different kind of season and I think I kept going into it being like it's meant you know whatever's meant to be is going to happen and even No, that's so basic, but it's so true. I can't just, you know, be disappointed if I don't get something or, you know, I can't set myself up for any kind of failure, especially when it deals with love and my heart and all of that kind of stuff. So that's not where I'm supposed to meet my person. And sometimes it's not about me.
Starting point is 01:27:38 Like, the world doesn't revolve around me. Maybe this is Hannah B's chance to find her person. And this is faded. Yeah. I mean, maybe it's just for Hannah B. And then mine is just coming at some other point in my life. I'm okay with that. I'm cool with that.
Starting point is 01:27:54 And I know that there's a lot of pressure with it. And for me, how hard it was for me to get my heart really, really broken, I think that that would have been extremely difficult for me to do to somebody else. Obviously, anybody's going to feel that way. But I think it was still a little fresh and my heart's still a little bruised from it. So I don't know. Would it have been a trigger if I'm like, oh, this dude really like is in love with me. Like, it would take me back to, you know, this thing that just happened, well, happened a few months ago, but re-watching it and reliving that.
Starting point is 01:28:29 So, I don't know. Man, you're good. Really good. Yeah, I know. I don't know what we do. I don't know if I've ever met, like, a Hannah G who's not, like, our bachelorette. Like, she sits in here and she reminds me of Becca Koo, like, who friend, like, where we're, like, we're both sitting here and we're like, dang. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:28:46 Like, I want to see more of you. I know. Which brings me the question. Hannah G. Are we going to see you in Paradise? I don't know. Is there a possibility? I don't know if they'll ask me.
Starting point is 01:28:56 Well, they're going to be the star of Paradise. Are you ready? The Bachelor at. For Paradise. I was so close to finding somebody really cool and it made me realize that I do want something serious. I don't want to just like date around and like that's just not my thing. So, I mean, another chance to find love. make myself in my love story my priority would be kind of awesome so why not I mean I feel like it'd be
Starting point is 01:29:26 hard to say no to of course I'm worried about you because everybody's gonna be obsessed you're getting a lot of attention are you ready I mean I don't play humble here don't play humble I'm not I haven't read it I have not I've barely looked at my phone no just okay let's assume that Ashley and I are fortune tellers and that we know all we've been around this season like we said a long time now you're gonna get a lot of attention kid easy is there anyone we can think of that would be like great guy to have there. Blake Hortzman. Possible.
Starting point is 01:29:55 I see, I'm going to predict it now. No one deserves Hannah. No, I was going to say, but I like, I love Blake. You guys are sweet.
Starting point is 01:30:02 Ash, would you recommend she goes on Paradise? Yeah, what do you think? Well, she's getting married from Paradise. I know. I would highly recommend it.
Starting point is 01:30:10 Like the Bachelor, you're going to go into it and you're going to be like, oh, this is going to be fun. Like, I maybe make some new friends. It'll be like on an adventure, right?
Starting point is 01:30:17 And then you're going to get there and you're going to forget all about that. And you're probably if I, like, fall for someone, then it's going to be this whole experience all over again. What if one of Hannah B's guys, speaking of your faded destiny, what if one of Hannah B's guys is actually meant for Hannah G and will meet him in paradise? I'm with Ashley on this, though. I don't know.
Starting point is 01:30:43 I have this sense that Hannah B's guys, I don't know why, I mean, I don't know who they are, aren't going to live up to what Hannah G deserves. I don't know why I feel that way Like in my head I'm thinking about some of the guys That could be in paradise right now That I already know right Not to name names because you choose on your own You do what you do and I like advice
Starting point is 01:31:02 I like to you know But I know I feel like you and I would know a lot of the guys From past seasons that would be going on this You know them personally And it's hard for me right now After meeting you tonight Hannah G would be To even think about you With any guy from Hannah B season
Starting point is 01:31:17 Because I just feel like the bar is set so high for you ass clown. Yes. I don't know. Well, here's another hope I have for you. If Paradise doesn't work out, then I definitely want to see you as the Bachelorette next year. Oh.
Starting point is 01:31:32 Well, who knows? What's meant you're going to be, you know? I'd have two very favorite girls as Bachelorette two years in a row. I'm stealing Hanna's taken over. The Hanna's. You know, I'm stealing your question. But if you had a celebrity crush, that sometimes helps us figure out your types.
Starting point is 01:31:49 Who's like your own? ultimate celebrity crush. You can give one, two, or three celebrity crushes. Like, if they're married, is that weird? No, it's fine. We just want to know your physical type. We're not actually going to be like, Matt Damon.
Starting point is 01:32:03 Eric Decker. Okay. I can see you with Eric. I was not expecting that. Really? Not at all. Can you give us two more? I could see with an Eric like man, not
Starting point is 01:32:12 the Eric. I hate the type thing because I don't know if I have a type. Like, I know that there's different qualities and stuff but like it's really like a connection thing for me and it's like okay yeah that's unique I've heard that 80 times but like really like I could be like oh we're gonna connect for sure and then I've met people before and I'm like we're never gonna yeah I don't never want to see you again you suck so you never know um just a good connection I don't know okay so then we'll
Starting point is 01:32:43 follow up here if there's any guys from past seasons that you already know been on the show that could be in paradise who are you most interested in I feel like everybody's getting taken I know there's not many left are there literally the only one I can think about is Dean What about Dean? No more Dean But come up with somebody else that you think could show up in paradise
Starting point is 01:33:05 I really feel like everybody's getting scooped up Go back to the backlog I feel like this is the year of relationships right I mean I found a relationship Ashley's you know gonna have babies in a year or two Yeah same Yeah
Starting point is 01:33:19 Am I right? Could you imagine me in the studio pregnant? I'm having an easier time. I'm so happy for you. She's so emotional already. A celebrity seems like I could play that game better than like a bachelor celebrity. I don't know. Hannah G., our expectations for you are big time.
Starting point is 01:33:36 The almost famous podcast, that feels weird to say. No, I'm, and Ashley, I'm a speaker for you, Ashley. We're just, I love you. Like, I'm really glad you came in the night. Like, I think there's some people that come into the show and walk out and and Ashley, they're like, we want to be protective of that person. I feel that way with you. Sing your praises everywhere now.
Starting point is 01:33:54 And I'm not, we're like not buttering you up. I know we should be doing this like off mic, but really, really great vibes. Yeah. Can I just go back and say one more thing about Hannah B? Yeah, then we've got to get her out of it. It's past our bedtime. You know how I said the presidential thing?
Starting point is 01:34:08 I feel like all of you, Bachelor and Bacheloretts, could kind of like run and become like student body president. You have like that composure. Oh, yeah. kind of feel like the random girl who like fan girls about boy bands at like a random table in the cafeteria just totally took the lead wait time out time out she's representing me it just hit me Hannah B is Ashley I stop this that that's it's it's like that you crack the coat um you're right nope us politicians we're the best to be in the fashion is John Mendes too young for you no
Starting point is 01:34:46 Amy give it up yes yes Yes, too young. Too young. How old is he then? Give me a moment. I don't know. Do you like guys too young? Older than you?
Starting point is 01:34:52 Would you do it 30? Yeah. Oh, I just got it. Don't hesitate on 30. I'm 30 in two weeks. But I'll mouth it. He's... No.
Starting point is 01:35:03 Oh, I thought that was a good one. 40. Is 40 too old for you? Maybe a bit. Okay, I'll go to 30. Give me time. Guys, I'm almost 30. Let's not throw 30 out there as being old.
Starting point is 01:35:13 Please, I'm 30 in two weeks. Give me a break. It's already hard for me. Hey. Who's like a great. 30. Listeners of the almost famous podcast.
Starting point is 01:35:21 Zach Levy? Levi, do you know him? Amy, it's really late. I'd like him. We've filmed this. We've recorded this after tonight's episode of The Bachelor. I'm tired.
Starting point is 01:35:30 I've got to get home. I've got a flight in the morning. Zach Ephron. That's what I said. He's 31. He's not good enough for her. Guys, he's not good enough for our Hannah-G.
Starting point is 01:35:40 Find somebody good enough for me. All right? You guys got to be on the lookout. All the ones I know are married. We got to take a second here because we do it every season at the end of every season You gotta think our listeners
Starting point is 01:35:52 Listeners thank you so much For listening to the Almost Famous Podcasts we appreciate you You are the reason We continue to do this This isn't just fun and games for us This is our jobs This is what we do for a living
Starting point is 01:36:04 But it's also really great to connect with you So please email us At Ben and Ashley Almost Famouscom John Mayer's too old Amy I've got to get home I'm giving my moment here Colton season was fantastic
Starting point is 01:36:16 and The Bachelor is fun. But remember, the reason we do this is because it became real life for all of us. We have Hannah G. sitting in studio and night going that. This is real and I want to find something great. And I think finding somebody great could have happened on the show. That's so great, but a little bit too old. And I've been Ashley.
Starting point is 01:36:34 Hey, we love you. We thank you to another season of The Bachelor. We've done it. Ashley. We did it. You're great. And it was so much fun. You're glowing.
Starting point is 01:36:45 Thank you. And now we're on. to Hannah B. So Colton, sorry, buddy, but you're in the past. We've got a new one to worry about. And we're going to be here next week. Don't let the people think we're not going to be here next week. We're going to be here next week. We're not stopping. The off season is continued. So what does that mean?
Starting point is 01:37:00 What does it mean in the off season? It means Fabfit fun. Ben bitches. Are we going to do Ben bitches again? We're going to do Ben Bitschers. We can also do Ben Sermon. We're going to do a little moment where I preach. Who the heck are you? I mean, hey guys.
Starting point is 01:37:16 in my opinion nobody can have enough Jesus with that I've been been Ashley Hannah G
Starting point is 01:37:27 No no no I've been What Hannah G I've been Hannah G Wrap us out We're out
Starting point is 01:37:33 Wait wrap us out Put us out Sitting right here And you're interviewing me Y'all don't forget it Because you know it's Hannah G G
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