The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast - Flirting On The Green

Episode Date: January 30, 2025

Sandra Mason went viral with a cozy photo this week. Is she headed for an I Do, Part 2 with a fellow golden contestant?What is flirting like in your second act? Kathy gives some pointers!Email us at:&...nbsp;IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-Heart podcast. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.
Starting point is 00:00:25 Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast and the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Let's start with a quick puzzle. The answer is Ken Jennings' appearance on The Puzzler with A.J. Jacobs. The question is, what is the most entertaining listening experience in podcast land? Jeopardy Truthers believe in...
Starting point is 00:00:54 I guess they would be Kenspiracy theorists. That's right. To give you the answers and you still blitzers. The Puzzler. Listen on the iHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this was the choice he faced. He said, you are a number, a New York State number, and we own you. Listen to shock incarceration on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Starting point is 00:01:38 Hey, I'm Kurt Brown-Oller. And I am Scotty Landis, and we host Bananas, the podcast where we share the weirdest, funniest, real news stories from all around the world. And sometimes from our guest's personal lives, too. Like when Whitney Cummings recently revealed her origin story on the show. There's no way I don't already have rabies. This is probably just why my personality is like this. I've been surviving rabies for the past 20 years. New episodes of bananas drop every Tuesday in the exactly right network.
Starting point is 00:02:05 Listen to bananas on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to I Do Part 2, the podcast for people that either didn't get love right the first time around or people that have loved and lost. Sandra, I am welcoming you tonight to this podcast from Carmel, California. Sandra Mason from our season of Golden Bachelor. How are you doing this evening, Sandra? I'm doing great for being midnight when it says 9 o'clock here. Well, Sandra's tired, but that's okay. So I am on with Susan Knowles.
Starting point is 00:03:08 We have the Golden Bachelor podcast. It's under Bachelor Happy Hour and it's Golden Hour, and I hope you all will tune in. But tonight this is about all things love. So, Sandra, I haven't seen you in a while. And part two you may or may not know is all about finding love again. So let's start back at the beginning. Tell me about your first love, your family. Tell me how we got to where we are because this podcast is all about finding love again.
Starting point is 00:03:40 And to get that, we need to know where you came from. Okay, first love, as in when I was a young, young gal. Well, you know, maybe your husband, the father, your kids, wherever you want to start. Gosh. God, I got married in 1968. Do the math. It's about 100 years ago. I have two daughters, and that was love. We were in college. Boy, that takes me back. We were in college and got married before I graduated. He had graduated. So, yeah. And how old are your kids now? 52 and almost 40. Wow. How old are you? 76 and a half. Oh, and a half?
Starting point is 00:04:25 I count them. So you're going to be soon, be 77? In July. All right. Well, you know, happy half birthday there. Thank you, ma'am. Okay, so tell me, you know, you've had an amazing week. I'm just going to jump in here.
Starting point is 00:04:41 Your photograph with C.K., that is Charles, okay, went viral. Tell me about that. Like, did you have any idea that it would go viral? What were you thinking? No, I didn't. We were just having fun and taking pictures and kind of yacking it up. And we were at the restaurant and folks were saying, yeah, let us take the pictures for you. Because too old people trying to figure out how to hold the phone up high and get the light.
Starting point is 00:05:16 So are you talking to? Are you dating them? Come on. Give us the scoop. What's going on? Okay. We live 3,000 miles apart. So it's not exactly dating. We're kind of like phone pals or pen pals. So, but unfortunately, well, unfortunately, we do live that far apart. And the second, unfortunately, is that he has an opportunity. His company is sending him to Cape Town, South Africa shortly. I guess his first trip there will be March. So there's... That makes flirting long distance an issue. Yeah, it's a brand new talent.
Starting point is 00:05:55 I'll have to develop somehow. So wait, are you thinking? Like, are you flirting? Are you interested? Tell me what you're thinking. Oh, I'm interested. I don't know if he is or not. I can't speak for him.
Starting point is 00:06:05 But as a matter of fact, I was telling him that when it was Jones limo night, he was the one gentleman that I honed in on when he walked out of the limo. Really? Yeah, he was the one. Just coincidentally, I've met him. So wait, let me, he lives in, right now, he lives in California and you live in Atlanta. So was he there on, where were you? Where were those pictures taken?
Starting point is 00:06:29 Oh, I came out here years for the Rose Bowl parade. And he and I had been talking, chatting on the phone. Matter of fact, he had gone to Atlanta for business, and we were supposed to have dinner one evening, and I wound up in the hospital. Yeah, this was supposed to. post-tonselectomy and it has a complication. How are you feeling now? I'm a lot better. Okay, good.
Starting point is 00:06:55 We're glad to hear that. I haven't had a cold. I haven't had a sore throat. Well, you know what? I've had your cold. Uh-oh. Bronchitis, I've had it all. But I'm good now.
Starting point is 00:07:02 So hold on. So you came out here. Did you reach out to him to have dinner? Flirty girl you? Well, because I owed him. I thought I owed him from when I, quote, stood him up in Atlanta in it, certainly. But so I told him I was coming up. out for the parade and we agreed to meet and
Starting point is 00:07:19 go out to dinner. Okay. And was it everything? I mean, come on. We had great conversation. He's funny. We were funny together. We just we had just great conversation telling jokes and just learning who each other
Starting point is 00:07:35 is, learning about his past and shared mine with him and we just yucked it up. It was just a lot of fun. I can't tell. I can't tell. I can't tell if he's the friend zone? Well, yeah, he would have to be.
Starting point is 00:07:52 Again, we're 3,000 miles apart. I mean, I don't know. I'll travel anywhere for Love, Sandra, so you know. Well, okay, I won't. Okay. And I don't think he would either. You know, he's got, hey, I always look at it this way. If I'm interested in a guy, other people are interested in that same guy.
Starting point is 00:08:09 So it's not like I can. But don't you think you're, I mean, come on, aren't you first in line? I don't know. I haven't asked. All right. So, for those of you who don't know, we're all out here having a fabulous weekend in Carmel, and we're here for the Pebble Beach Pro Am. And do I need to tell you how many available men are going to be on that golf course?
Starting point is 00:08:34 I have no idea. Tell me. There's going to be a lot. Okay. So my question for you is, what do you think? Are you going to be flirting with some other guys? You're going to be looking? Are you going to, because you know, C.K. is here.
Starting point is 00:08:46 Yes, yes. Have you seen him yet? Well, I know we're supposed to have a podcast tomorrow. So have I seen him? No, I just walked in. Wait, what, give me the scoop. I want the scoop, Sandra. What's the scoop going to be on the podcast?
Starting point is 00:08:58 I have no idea. Nope. Are you going to ask him out? Are you going to try to, like, be his date while you're here? Come on. Kathy, you're asking me things I haven't even thought about. I don't know what to expect this entire weekend. So I know that some of his castmates will be.
Starting point is 00:09:16 So he gets to reunite with the guys. Yeah, it's a golden reunion. Okay. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Oh, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot.
Starting point is 00:09:42 He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other. But I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating.
Starting point is 00:09:59 He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. A foot washed up a shoe with some bones in it. They had no idea who it was. Most everything was burned up pretty good from the fire that not a whole lot was salvageable.
Starting point is 00:10:27 These are the coldest of cold cases, but everything is about to change. Every case that is a cold case that has DNA. Right now in a backlog will be identified in our lifetime. A small lab in Texas is cracking the code on DNA. Using new scientific tools, they're finding clues in evidence. so tiny, you might just miss it. He never thought he was going to get caught, and I just looked at my computer screen.
Starting point is 00:10:54 I was just like, ah, gotcha. On America's Crime Lab, we'll learn about victims and survivors, and you'll meet the team behind the scenes at Othrum, the Houston Lab that takes on the most hopeless cases, to finally solve the unsolvable. Listen to America's Crime Lab on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. My name is Ed.
Starting point is 00:11:17 Everyone say, hello, Ed. Hello, Ed. I'm from a very rural background myself. My dad is a farmer, and my mom is a cousin. So, like, it's not... What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? I know it sounds like the start of a bad joke, but that really was my reality nine years ago.
Starting point is 00:11:35 I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different. On stage stood a comedian with a story that no one expected to hear. Well, 22nd of July 2015. A 23-year-old man had killed his family. And then he came to my house. So what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? A new podcast called Wisecrack,
Starting point is 00:12:04 where stand-up comedy and murder takes center stage. Available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this was the choice he faced. He said, you are a number, a New York State number, and we own you.
Starting point is 00:12:35 Shock incarceration, also known as boot camps, are short-term, highly regimented correctional programs that mimic military basic training. These programs aimed to provide a shock of prison life, emphasizing strict discipline, physical training, hard labor, and rehabilitation programs. Mark had one chance to complete this program and had no idea of the hell awaiting him the next six months. The first night was so overwhelming and you don't know who's next to you. And we didn't know what to expect in the morning. Nobody tells you anything.
Starting point is 00:13:09 Listen to shock incarceration on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get to. your podcasts okay so let me ask you something are you dating at all other guys oh spill come on give it to me yet you know i'm going to ask a gentleman in my local area that i've been talking with just talking and and we've gone to dinner a couple of times and um uh i met a buddy of his So that's dating. That's pre-limb dating, I think.
Starting point is 00:13:48 Sandra. What? You know me well. You know I'm not letting that one go. Are we kissing? Are we holding hands? We have kissed. Oh.
Starting point is 00:13:56 Yes, we have kissed. So this is more than just a one-time date. Oh, yeah. Thus far, we've had two, I'll call it two and a half dates. So, C.K., you're out in the cold, buddy. No, no, no, no, don't say that. I'd be willing to bet Mr. C.K. Since I've met him, he's had several dates.
Starting point is 00:14:13 He's a working guy, too. so his time may be somewhat limited. I'm retired, so I can, I'm a little more flexible. So are you dating more than one guy? No, not right now. Are you a one guy girl? Not necessarily. No.
Starting point is 00:14:27 But there's only one guy right now? Right now. And he lives in Atlanta. He lives in the Atlanta area. Okay, so, you know, you and I are both in the dating world now, and it's a different world, right? I mean, tell me, I can't remember. Are you divorced, right? Yes.
Starting point is 00:14:42 Divorced. Okay. And obviously, you know, my husband, passed away, so it's a little bit different. How do your kids feel about you dating? Oh, they're excited for me. Just, like I've said before, they are my cheerleaders. When I was on the Golden Batch, they were my cheerleaders. And finding a guy is something they want for me. Just like I want that for them. Yeah. Yeah. Well, are your kids with, do they have partners? Actually, yes, you know, one got married. Yes, I remember that. The other one is dating a gentleman.
Starting point is 00:15:12 So, yeah, they're doing great. So how do they feel like my kids? I'll be honest with you. My kids don't like it when they see me with a guy kissing them holding hands, PDAA. Uh-uh. Why is that? You'd have to ask them. They want you to be a virgin until you die?
Starting point is 00:15:28 I think the virgin thing sailed three children ago. Well, no, you know what I mean. But, no, I just think it makes them uncomfortable. Your kids, how do you feel about PDA? Like, are you going to hold hands in public, kids in public? Yeah, if it comes to that, absolutely. I don't have a problem with that at all. And I don't think they would either.
Starting point is 00:15:49 Yeah. They, my kid, my daughter's. So are you looking for serious, the serious next guy? I would think so, yeah. Really? Sure. Are you ready to get, like, commit? Oh, if it's the right man, I will commit.
Starting point is 00:16:02 Now, I'm not signing papers. That's what you're asking. Oh, wait. What does that mean? That means I'm not getting married. Oh. Well, I mean, unless you want more children at 76, what would be? Well, we could practice, but.
Starting point is 00:16:13 Yeah. So, okay, so you're out here, you're going to go, are you going to be looking for guys out here? I, I, I hadn't thought about it. Sandra. What? I didn't, I didn't know what to expect. I'm not. Okay, let me, let me break this down for you.
Starting point is 00:16:27 Break it down, girlfriend. There is going to be a pebble beat pro-am golf tournament. There's going to be a lot of golfers. Okay. There's going to be a lot of people watching the golfers. Men love golf. Yes, I know. There's going to be a lot of men out there.
Starting point is 00:16:43 Okay. Are you going to be searching? Do I have to fight you? Do I have to fight you for one? No, of course not. You know, here's the thing. I'm not a flurter. I'm really not.
Starting point is 00:16:53 I don't believe that for one minute. I think the most effective way to approach men or it's just to talk, just to talk and be myself. The whole flirting thing, my God, I'm 76 years old. I'm not flirting. So how do you meet guys? I mean, do you go up and talk to them? Talk, yeah, talk about. But here's the thing.
Starting point is 00:17:15 I do part two, right? We've both been married before. We're looking for part two. We're looking for our second happiness, right? Second partner, second person to spend our life with. Right? Well, it could have been more than that. Okay.
Starting point is 00:17:33 I mean, I've dated since divorce. No, but I'm saying we're looking for that person. Okay, yeah. Are you? I mean, I am. I guess I'm looking. I'm not, see, Kathy, I don't, I'm not sure how to express this. I'm not out looking and searching for a guy.
Starting point is 00:17:51 It happens organically. I bump into men, I meet men, friends introduce me to guys. But to say I'm out there with, you know, my antenna up, no, no. So, okay, well, I think that's very fair. I mean, you know me. I always say, guys aren't going to come and knock on your door. You have to be out there to look at. You have to be out there, out and about.
Starting point is 00:18:13 So are you good if you're, I mean, I have to be honest, I would like to find that guy to have my part two with, and I think you would too. Sure. But it takes a lot of work. Okay. Well, I wouldn't call it work. I just, I don't know. Effort.
Starting point is 00:18:30 Okay, effort. In other words, like you said, you can't sit at home and expect someone to knock on the door. You have to be out and about. You have to be. Do you know what I would do right now to have someone knock on the door just on this podcast here that knock and say, wow. He's here. I don't think it's happening.
Starting point is 00:18:46 It just passed my mind for a moment there. But, you know, I think a lot of people thought that, you know, we would have a lot of guys from Joan's season, you know, hooking up with us. I think the difference, I actually was going to ask you this, I think that I've talked to a lot of the guys from Joan's season, and they've had a lot of women reach out to them. I'm not surprised at all. I'm not either.
Starting point is 00:19:16 Did you have a lot of guys reach out to you on DMs when you came off the show? I'm not going to, I don't think a lot is an appropriate word. I've had several, but I don't know if that's a lot. Did you date any of them? No, I've had phone conversations. The problem, well, I don't know if it's a problem. The gentlemen who have reached out to me, again,
Starting point is 00:19:38 are long distance from where I am. Are you willing to relocate? Well, I don't know. It depends on who it is and what the other circumstances in life. It's just, in my mind, it's difficult to date. It's difficult to get to know someone. It's difficult to be spontaneous when someone lives a plane right away. Okay, but wait, would you pick up?
Starting point is 00:20:00 And I think the difference between now and part two for me is, I meet a guy I'm interested and he says, hey, you know, let me buy a ticket. Let's meet in London. I'm going. Okay. Are you? It depends on, it depends on who he is. What I mean, if I have to be interested. Right. Yeah. If it's the right guy, I might do that. I've had a guy say to me, whom I really never met, just had half of a conversation with. And he says, I want you to come out and see, he lived in Chicago. I want you to come see me and I'll pay your way. And how's that?
Starting point is 00:20:40 And I said, well, first of all, I can pay my own way if I'm going to come see you. I'm paying my own way. And two, I gave him the daughter test. Do you have a daughter? He said, yes. I said, if some man she never met said to her, I'll pay your way, come see me. What would you tell your daughter? And it stopped him.
Starting point is 00:20:59 And he said, I understand. So I said, so look, if you want to meet me, you come my way. You make that effort first. I'm not going to hop a plane and come see just because you pay for it. And folks, therein lies the difference. If C.K. goes to South Africa and asks me to come, I'm on the next plane. But see, I've already met C.K. I've met him. We've spent time together. We've on the phone. We've had nose to nose.
Starting point is 00:21:25 So I... Wait, did you kiss him? We kissed. Is he a good kisser? I think so. I think we matched well in that department. Listen to her. She'd they match. I'm telling you. Getting stuff out of you, Sond. dress like pulling teeth i'm sorry i'm sorry you know here's the thing kathy i'm a very pragmatic
Starting point is 00:21:46 person i hear very practical very pragmatic so i'm not one who can read between the lines very well you're not going to jump off a cliff if you if you think it could be love you're not going to take the risk well yeah well that's what are you asking me i guess what i'm saying is you know you see you're pragmatic sometimes love especially at our age it's just just jumping off cliff saying, I don't know. Let's see where it goes. Okay. So are you talking about once you're in love or getting toward love? I'm saying. At what point are you talking about something? I'm saying I meet somebody and I think, well, maybe I'm interested. Just taking the risk. It's, you know, it's not like you and I are
Starting point is 00:22:30 going to raise a family, have children. Right. So why not take a risk? You're retired. Why not? Well, I can take a risk. But I've got to. to get to know someone. I've got, there's got to be some comfort level there that he is age appropriate, that he has relationships, family relationships that he has, that he's financially stable. There are things that I have to be in place before I jump off a cliff. I'm not, I'm too practical.
Starting point is 00:23:00 Yeah, I was just going to say, that's very, that's not jumping off a cliff. That's getting all the data, walk and step by step to the cliff, which is fine too, which is fine too. the way of the role. Well, you know what? It seems to have worked well for you so far. Mm-hmm. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly,
Starting point is 00:23:21 and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out
Starting point is 00:23:33 with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age. It's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them.
Starting point is 00:23:52 I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. My name is Ed. Everyone say, hello Ed. From a very rural background myself, my dad is a farmer and my mom is a cousin. So, like, it's not like... What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club?
Starting point is 00:24:22 I know it sounds like the start of a bad joke, but that really was my reality nine years ago. I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different. On stage stood a comedian with a story that no one expected to hear. Well, 22nd of July 2015, a 23-year-old man had killed his family. And then he came to my house. So what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? A new podcast called Wisecrack, where stand-up comedy and murder takes center stage. Available now.
Starting point is 00:25:03 Listen to Wisecrack on the IHeart Radio app, a couple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. A foot washed up a shoe with some bones in it. They had no idea who it was. Most everything was burned up pretty good from the fire that not a whole lot was salvageable. These are the coldest of cold cases, but everything is about to change. Every case that is a cold case that has DNA right now in a backlog will be identified in our lifetime.
Starting point is 00:25:31 A small lab in Texas is cracking the code on DNA. Using new scientific tools, they're finding clues in evidence so tiny you might just miss it. He never thought he was going to get caught, and I just looked at my computer screen. I was just like, ah, gotcha. On America's Crime Lab, we'll learn about victims and survivors, and you'll meet the team behind the scenes at Othrum, the Houston Lab that takes on the most hopeless cases, to finally solve the unsolvable. Listen to America's Crime Lab on the IHeart Radio app, Apple.
Starting point is 00:26:05 podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this was the choice he faced. He said, you are a number, a New York state number, and we own you. Shock incarceration, also known as boot camps, are short-term, highly regimented correctional programs that mimic military basic training. These programs aim to provide a shock of prison life, emphasizing strict discipline,
Starting point is 00:26:42 physical training, hard labor, and rehabilitation programs. Mark had one chance to complete this program and had no idea of the hell awaiting him the next six months. The first night was so overwhelming, and you don't know who's next to you. And we didn't know what to expect in the morning. Nobody tells you anything. Listen to shock incarceration on the eye. Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Starting point is 00:27:11 Are you ready for the golf tournament tomorrow? I think so, yeah. That should be fun. Yeah? Are you a golfer? I used to golf. I've got two sets of clubs in my garage. Wait, you know how I talk about used to guys?
Starting point is 00:27:27 Are you a used to golfer? Meaning you used to golf. I used to golf. I stopped about. a year and a half ago. I stopped just before we filmed on the batch, because I had a little bit of car accident and jammed my thumb and
Starting point is 00:27:41 swelled up, went to the doctor and they x-rayed both hands and said, oh, by the way, you have arthritis in both thumbs. Oh, joy. Okay, so, gripping sometimes is a problem for me. So I haven't, since the show, I haven't really, I've gone out to the range. I haven't gone out
Starting point is 00:27:58 to the course again. All right, well, I'm going to be watching you. at this golf tournament, I'm going to be seeing who you make eye contact with. I'm going to be seeing who floats your boat, who you're willing to walk off the cliff for, who you're willing to walk up and give a kiss to, who you're willing to walk up to and start a conversation with. Okay, I can do, I can conversation, yeah. You can do that?
Starting point is 00:28:23 Sure. Okay. Now, I might beat you to it. Can I get some pointers from you? Because you seem to have been. You know what? Pointers on what, how to meet a guy? How to flirt, how to start it off, jump off the clip.
Starting point is 00:28:38 Here's what I do. If I find someone that is appealing to me, I think the biggest compliment you can pay someone and show you're interested is to ask him, in my case, ask him questions about himself. That's what I do. I ask, and I use their name. So, you know, in your case, CK, tell me where, you know, tell me you're going to South Africa. whatever. I ask using their name, look them in the eye, ask some questions about themselves, because I think that puts people at ease. But then, of course, I'm waiting for those people ask me questions as well. But I also think sometimes just a smile, you know, making eye
Starting point is 00:29:19 contact, it's not that hard. I do believe chemistry is, you know, it's at the forefront, right? You meet someone, you either have chemistry or you don't. Right. See, and I don't, I don't, see, I don't like to be interviewed. I don't like men to come ask me, are you married or who you here with, da, da, da, da, da. No. So by the same token, I don't want to approach anyone from that perspective. I'll talk to a guy and we'll chat about where we are, what's going on, how's your game, where you're buddies. I'll talk about things that are, would be common to the environment, not necessarily go after him, not. Yeah, but think about it, Sandra. You have to, when you meet someone, somebody has to say, hey, how are you, nice to meet you? Or, you know, oh, you're a golfer. Oh, you're here watching the golf tournament? Sure.
Starting point is 00:30:16 Oh, yeah. That kind of conversation is great. Well, that's how you start. Okay. But when you say, start asking him questions about himself, use his name, and that's fine. Well, I don't know. I just, maybe I misunderstood what you were saying. Okay, well, here's what I think, Sondra, tomorrow.
Starting point is 00:30:31 Yes, ma'am. When you and I go to the golf tournament? You're going to give me some pointers. I want you to follow after me. We're going to pick up the guy. You're going to show me, Kathy, I like that guy. And I'm going to make it happen for you. You are?
Starting point is 00:30:45 You're going to tell them, go up and like high school. Saundra's got a crush on you. I'm going to be your wing woman. I'm going to be your wing woman. Oh, Lord of mercy. I'm in trouble now. No, it's going to be great. You're going to have guys.
Starting point is 00:30:58 you know like a dance card your dance card's going to be full these guys are all going to be like I want her number I want her number okay but let me ask you this Kathy yeah you say there's going to be a swarm of men won't there be a lot of women as well yeah yeah I think I measure up do you measure up well yeah I don't then don't worry about trying to measure I'm just saying I'm just saying who cares who cares right you're at the top of the heap Sonda am I at the top of the heap you're at the top of the heap right we're at the top of the heap right I it's just it's been great having you. I'm so glad you're here with us. We are going to have a great time with some of the guys from Joan's season, some of us, the Golden Bachelorette. We're going to have
Starting point is 00:31:40 a great time. I'm so glad you're here. This is going to create memories that you are not going to forget. Oh, it sounds great. And you never know, Sandra? Yeah. You're going to learn how to flirt. You might find this. I want to flirt. I want to get to know someone, but I don't want to flirt. Is that flirting? Flirting is one way. I don't know. I've always thought flirt. Lurting was throwing your hair, winking, staring. I assumed that that was flirting behavior. So maybe that's words. Do as I say, not as I do.
Starting point is 00:32:11 Follow me, Sandra. It's not flipping your hair. I'm going to give you lessons. We're going to talk. The next time we do a podcast, you're going to be telling the world about all the men you met at the Pebble Beach program. Thanks for joining me. I really enjoyed it.
Starting point is 00:32:29 Tune in to I Do Part 2. Loved having you and see you next time. All right. Thanks, Kathy. Thank you, Kathy. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot.
Starting point is 00:33:02 He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast on the Iheart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Let's start with a quick puzzle. The answer is Ken Jennings' appearance on The Puzzler with A.J. Jacobs. The question is, what is the most entertaining listening experience in podcast land? Jeopardy truthers believe in...
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