The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast - How Your Social Media Can Cause You Serious Problems During Rush

Episode Date: April 25, 2026

Sorority girls share how their social media posts have landed them in trouble and the clever, secretive ways around it…See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....

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Starting point is 00:02:30 Rush, The Truth About Sorority Life, with your host, me, Gia Judice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Fessler. Welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush. I'm your host, Daisy Kent. Today I'm here by myself, but we're going to have callers calling in and we're going to unveil the secret rules of sorority girls social media. We are talking to our guests about what got them in trouble on their social media and how they knew. Let's get into it. So I actually went to SDSU. as if you listened in before, you probably know that. But I never got in trouble for posting anything, I don't think. But I remember when I was in Alpha Phi at San Diego State,
Starting point is 00:03:14 if you posted something that violated the guidelines, they would comment a purple heart, anyone on exec would. And then you would have to just take it down. So a lot of times it was like alcohol or if it was like a scandalous bikini pick. But usually it wasn't anything bad. don't think anything like super bad happened when I was in my sorority. I know though during recruitment before we would always go and look at the girls that were coming in and see who was coming in and like kind of stalk them honestly and figure out how much we could know about them. So it's definitely
Starting point is 00:03:53 I can't imagine. I mean, I was a freshman in that's crazy in 2017. So like nine years ago. So I can't Imagine now how much people probably look at your social media and stuff because it's even, it was so present when I was even a freshman, but now, like, TikTok wasn't a thing then. So there's TikTok and that is, you can see so much about a person on that. So let's get into it and we'll get some guests on and see their experience. So our first guess we have on is Kendall. Hey, Kendall. Hi, Daisy.
Starting point is 00:04:30 How are you? I'm doing great. How are you doing? Good. Thanks for coming on today. Yes. I'm excited to talk about this because I did a lot of prep going into college on my social media. You did for like getting into sorority? Yeah. I went to the University of Arizona. Okay. That one's pretty intense. I've heard. Yeah. Did you rush before you like went into syllabus week like before freshman year started? No. Ours was like I think like two weeks into it. I think it was like. I think it was like. halfway through September, we rushed. And then we got our bids end of September, I believe. Oh, wow. Okay, ours was kind of similar.
Starting point is 00:05:12 It was before we started classes. So I was told that I really had to like, everyone was supposed to kind of clean up their social media before rush because in the summertime, like, girls will start to look at future prospects Instagrams. Yeah. And so I made sure I deleted all the alcohol photos I have. And I remember even though it was University of Arizona, I took off like bikini photos. I archived them.
Starting point is 00:05:41 And I even made like a bio and I just really wanted my feed to look good. And I was posting more because I wanted to make sure I was like being active. And I was kind of a little overboard on it. But then I was told on the other side of rush once I was in a sorority that you're actually supposed to look at girls' Instagrams and stalk them. Did you do that when you were on the other side of recruitment? Yeah, we definitely would and like see who was coming in. Even if it wasn't, I remember me, my friends, like, especially the first day after Rush,
Starting point is 00:06:14 I remember going and like looking up everybody I talked to and just trying to like catch their vibe too. Because you only get to talk to them for like what, like 10 minutes maybe. Right. But I remember doing that. And then before I remember when we got some of the lists, we like looked at which like I know you're not supposed to do that. but it definitely is like a thing. It is a thing. And I also feel like maybe because I wasn't like Panhellenic or president or something,
Starting point is 00:06:40 but I never judged if someone had a Red Solo Cup or a bikini photo. Oh, no. For me, I would be like, oh, like they like to have fun. Exactly. You could have fun other ways. But like, I don't know. But I think a lot of it has to do like with a sorority, like keeping like a good image. I have no idea.
Starting point is 00:06:59 That's true. Did you ever post anything and call it? that you had to take down? Yeah. I mean, I would, we would always, like, be extra and Photoshop if there was, like, a wine bottle on the table behind us.
Starting point is 00:07:12 Yeah. But there were a lot of times where it was an Instagram story, and we would get tagged in things and obviously want to repost it. So, like, not much you can do. I think I got sent to standards, maybe, like, three times from it. Were you scared the first time? No, because I'm like, this is so dumb. And it's, you know,
Starting point is 00:07:32 I was studying abroad when this happened and I'm not even like in the house and I'm legal there. If you said abroad, there should be like an exception. Right? Yeah, because you can like drink in most places when you're like 18, right? Yeah, I know. That's so crazy. I know it's so crazy. But I know nowadays social media is a lot, you know, more involved in people's lives than it was when I was in college.
Starting point is 00:07:55 But yeah, that was my experience. Did you know like who you wanted, like what house you wanted to be in before you did it? Yeah, I don't know if that's like a good thing or bad thing, but there was definitely like three houses. I mean, I feel like everyone's this way. Three houses that I was like, I have to be in. I want to be in so bad. Yeah. And it worked out, but I got lucky.
Starting point is 00:08:15 When you got sent to Sanders, was there like any punishment or anything you got? They claimed I couldn't go to like the next date dash, but I think they forgot because I did go to the next date dash. That's good. That seems like a drastic punishment. I know. But also, I don't know about you, but our date dashes weren't actually that fun. Oh, ours were so fun. I'm jealous.
Starting point is 00:08:37 Mine was not. And then I remember sometimes if people got sent to standards, they would make them be like sober sisters. So like they couldn't drink at it. What? Yeah. When did they actually follow through with that? I think most people did for like the date dash because I think they were kind of like so scared what would happen if they didn't.
Starting point is 00:08:55 But then after that, everyone will go out to like the parties and stuff. And I feel like before date dashes is when people usually got in trouble for social media because they were like posting the pregames and there was alcohol involved and that was a no-no. Yeah, for sure. What a time back in college. What a time. I would do anything to be back. Right. Well, thank you so much for coming on.
Starting point is 00:09:20 Of course. Thanks, Daisy. Okay, guys, I have Savannah on now. Hey, Savannah. Hi. So where did you go to school? I went to school in Texas, which was really fun. I loved Texas. It was a big, like, change of scene for me being from California. I feel like they definitely do things differently in Texas, but it's really fun for your experience. Yeah. Did you have going into like recruitment? Did you have, like, did you go through social media and like take anything off or did you know a lot about rush? I mean, I feel like you always hear like some people are super stressed about it and they're telling you. to do like a million things. Then you hear like the people that are like, wait, you don't need to
Starting point is 00:10:01 like touch your social media. Yeah. I feel like my social media was always very clean just because I like cared about like farther from like recruitment just like yeah good reputation. But I remember I had a photo with one of my friends who was a year older and was in the sorority I wanted to go. And my mom was like, you have to remove that or the other sororities are going to drop you. And she probably was right because. Oh, that is smart. Yeah. Like if I was. like another sorority, I'd be like, well, obviously she's going to go this one because she has photos with a girl who's literally like on the recruitment team. So I remember I had to take that one down. But that was like the only kind of like cleaning up I did. I know there's like a lot of
Starting point is 00:10:40 disgust between like going private or public though on your social media. There is. I feel like I haven't heard that. What have you heard about that? I just feel like some people were like it's better to be private because then if they request you that means like they're like interested. Oh, they like want you. Yeah. But then I also heard that like if you're public, then it like gives them like the like the option to like stock you. But then like somebody were like that's why you should stay private. I feel like that was like an interesting thing I thought about. Yeah. It's like do you want to say like mysterious or not? Yeah. I don't know. Like I still don't know the right answer. And then how about when you were in your sorority? Was there any guidelines to what you could post and
Starting point is 00:11:22 not post. For us, it was just like, obviously if you're under 21, no alcohol, like, period. And then if you were like of the age of 21, they just wanted you to be like posting like classy, like nothing like unclassy, but you could like post technically. What would they do if like you had to take it down like mine? They would comment a purple heart emoji, like someone on exec would. That's so interesting. How about you? Like, was there anything? They just would DM you and like be like take it down. And like I feel like some girls like you always like the exact picking was like sometimes it would be like such like chill girls who were like your friends and like they didn't really care. And then sometimes I just feel like girls on exec. It was like some of them, not everyone like kind of a power trip. So they would like use it to like. Yeah. And they just want to like boss people. Yeah. Boss you around. And I remember when I was on recruitment team. They like literally were making me. I remember I posted a photo and it was like a styrofoam cup. And it had like. the cutest little like logo on it. It was like pink and purple. Like it could have been water. It probably wasn't water, but it could have been water. And they're like, this needs to come down
Starting point is 00:12:28 right now, like super upset about it. And I'm like, it's a white styrofoam cup. Like it's not even clear. And so sometimes I just felt like it was like a lot. But yeah, I get it. I get it being on like the other side. Yeah. Oh, that's for sure. Do you think like looking at social media when you went into college, did you look at the different sororities at your school once you knew what school you were going to? Yeah, I think I followed them all, even like the ones I didn't have interest in because like, I think I just like heard that you were supposed to because you didn't want to like not follow the ones you weren't interested in. I feel like that's just a bad look across the board. Did you end up going in the one that your friend was in? Yeah, I did. I did. But it's still good.
Starting point is 00:13:11 I took down the photo. It makes sense. Yeah, no. But I was open. I was open. I was open, but it was like good to like have it removed so that there was like no issues with it. Yeah. Did you ever get in trouble or sent to the standards or anything? Never got sent to standards. Thank goodness. But yeah, we got in trouble for like weird stuff. I remember like when I lived in the house. There was like a study room. And we got all these like dispo photos from someone's camera and she like had a bunch printed. So we're like let's hang them in the study room. Like yeah. They were all like at the football games like very mellow. and we literally all got like a talking to because there was again styrofoam cups which I was like was just like
Starting point is 00:13:52 those styrofoam cut the styrofo and it was like clear cups like of course if it's like like PTSD from the styrofo yes literally and I'm like of course if like there's a logo on a can like we would not put that up in the house but like it was like clear cups that were probably water like we were like but no we were in a lot of trouble for that and like I'm trying to think the other time I got in trouble oh we like we were at a birthday dinner and it was like one of those dinners we have to like hit a minimum yeah but they like got a bottle because they had to hit like two grand at this dinner and we like walked into the house with it and we were like eating cake like no one was drinking the bottle was sealed shut and like we all like people i think got a vs like we are like kind of like r a person walked in and like was like you guys are drinking and the bottle was not open we actually haven't opened it it's just so calm and just
Starting point is 00:14:45 eating cake, but thank you for ruining that. I know it is. I can't even imagine like now how much like they dig into people's social media. Because it's just getting bigger and bigger. Yeah. Even with like followers and stuff too, like I feel like the scale of like people having followers now to like when I was in like starting college is like way like bigger. You know what I mean? Yeah. And I feel like when I was going through recruitment like every sorority had a social media but it was very like mellow but now like yeah 40s at my school like is that are like influencers and like they have this huge following and I'm like I wonder if that like switches people's perspective on wanting to go that sorority based on like the social media following of
Starting point is 00:15:32 the Instagram which is so interesting it is like all the recruitment videos are such a big thing now yeah like watching them and all the dances and everything yes I'm like I would be the one in the back, like holding the poster. Exactly. Exactly. Just waving the arms back and forth. Yeah. Well, thank you so much for coming on today. Of course. Thanks for having me. Have a great rest of your day. Thank you. All right. Our next caller we have is Emma. Hey, Emma. Hi, Daisy. How are you? I am doing great. How are you doing? Good. I'm so happy to be here. I have some funny stories from social media because I felt like it was very relaxed in my sorority. Oh, I love that.
Starting point is 00:16:18 Also going into my sorority, I didn't even know that like cleaning up your social media was a thing. I already, I had like a very clean feed anyways, but like I was definitely a bikini girl. I was like the same way. I also like I had no idea really what a sorority was. I'm like maybe because I'm from like. like the middle of nowhere in Minnesota, but I had no idea. My roommate made me sign up. And then I remember going into the first house and everyone was dancing and saying, I was like, what is this? Yeah, I didn't know that like, I looked at the sorority's Instagrams and I was like, oh, this is so
Starting point is 00:16:57 intimidating. But I didn't do it. I didn't follow any of them. I didn't know what any of them meant. I knew that I like wanted to go a certain direction because I knew someone in the sorority. but I definitely didn't clean mine up. And I think that girls are now posts. I think bikini pictures are completely fine. I mean, I loved a good bikini picture. Oh, for sure. Because I was from California.
Starting point is 00:17:20 Where did you go to school? I went to school in Colorado. Oh, cool. And weirdly enough, you know, there's no beaches there, but everyone was always in a bikini on their Instagram. Yeah. I feel like in college, everyone's in a bikini, like, no matter where you are. Yeah, our formals.
Starting point is 00:17:36 You wear bikinis. Yeah, where would you go for formals? We would go to Aspen. Oh, fun. And so, like, our sorority Instagram was like, yay, our sisters are at formals. And it's like us in bikinis. So I always thought the bikini thing was just silly. Oh, my gosh.
Starting point is 00:17:52 But who ran our socials, which was actually my really good friend, Greta. She was the one posting. She was the one commenting on people's pictures, selecting, like, the sorority spotlight. And so she was in. full control of the Instagram. For our spring break, we went to Jamaica and took lots of bikini pictures. That's like a random spot, I feel like, to go on college spring break. I know, but it was so much fun.
Starting point is 00:18:22 Okay, that's great. I mean, I'm sure it would be a time. It was, it was the best. It was kind of like staying in Mexico, but it was like completely different vibe. Not a lot of people there. So it was like our group of 20 went there. That's so fun. Rented a boat.
Starting point is 00:18:36 Lots of bikini pictures. And so fast forward, she, my friend Greta is browsing. She always makes people like send in pictures. I didn't send in any picture to be featured on the Instagram, but I was at home. And Greta posted a picture of me and my good friend. And our entire crotch was out in our bikini. Missing our sisters. Hope everyone's having a good spring.
Starting point is 00:19:06 And my group chat lit up And they're like, oh my God, Greta, what the fuck is wrong with you? Why did you just post their crotches on Instagram? And she was the sweetest girl ever. She's like, oh my God, I didn't even notice. Like, I kid you not. Like. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:19:22 Were you like so upset? It was hilarious. I mean, we're like, Greta, can you take it down? I mean, it's just like all girls that followed Instagram. So it's fine. But our sorority truly, I don't think really cared about social. media. It was just like more chill that way. Yeah. I don't I don't think I was ever, no one ever commented on my Instagram. Our code word was bibs, bring it back, sis. Bibs, wait, that's kind of cute. Yeah. I don't
Starting point is 00:19:53 have any friend. Like, no one cared at all. That's why I didn't know that like cleaning up your social media was a thing. And now I'm seeing all these things were like young rushies. Yeah. I was I never had anything, like, bad on my social media or, like, no alcohol either, because my mom was always, like, telling me not to post that stuff. But it was interesting, like, getting into college, because I feel right when I got into college, it was, like, the era where, like, social media, like, really started, like, having a really big presence. And people were, like, using it for, like, jobs in, like, their life. Yeah. Yeah. Like, like actually making money off of social media.
Starting point is 00:20:38 Yeah. It's like crazy to even where we're at now, like people making social media on it, like to see in like the next 10 years how much it evolves. Well, like, what if you're one of those really cool people that don't have social media? Right. And you're genuinely a cool person, but they like only keep track of people with social media. I guess then they would be way too cool for the sorority. But like.
Starting point is 00:21:01 Yeah. It's interesting how it's kind of. It's kind of like having a LinkedIn. Yeah. Yeah, for sure. Well, thank you so much for coming on. Yeah, of course. A win is a win.
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Starting point is 00:24:33 And we've got a special guest, the director of the NFL's East West Shrine Bowl, Eric Galco joins the Sports Slice podcast to break down what really matters when evaluating draft prospects. From hidden traits teams look for to the biggest mistakes franchises make to the players flying under the radar, this is the insight you won't hear anywhere else. If you want to understand the draft like an insider, you don't want to miss this episode. Listen to the Sports Slice Podcast on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. And for more, follow Timbo Slical Life 12 and TikTok Podcast Network on TikTok. Hi, Daisy. Hi, thank you for coming on, Zoe. Hi, I'm Zoe. And I went to school in a big school in Los Angeles. And our sorority, we had a really young house mom. And so sometimes she let things fly that maybe wouldn't fly in other houses. And I love that. How old was she about?
Starting point is 00:25:44 She was 25. Like she had graduated college and then was our was our house mom. Mom like had to have been like 50, 55ish. Oh my gosh. Okay. So that was normal. That was like every other house on the row. But so she she would let something slide in the house like certain pregames before events and whatever. But the number one rule was always that you can't post anything on social media. Yeah. Because then we could seriously get busted. then it would all go away. And I remember that we had a tradition of every year before our, we called it crush, our crush date party, it like went around Valentine's Day. And it was basically where each girl would invite their crush. They had put down on a list, like a, you know, a range of like three different crushes and their phone numbers. And then our social chair would then reach out to them. And so, and they would go to the venue separately from the girls. And so all the girls would show up together, then all the crushes would show up at the venue together. Oh, that's
Starting point is 00:26:46 fun. And so girls would really want to get, get some liquid courage in themselves before showing up to the venue. And so every year we would host. Did they know who it was going to be before they showed up? No, you didn't know. What if we wanted the same guy, though? And then, like, I showed up thinking it was him, but then they actually paired me with a different guy. Did it ever happen? Yes, that would happen. And it would be like, if Daisy, you were older than me, you would be like higher up on the list and then I think it would be like an alphabetical thing. So two girls wouldn't be inviting the same guy. Each girl got their own or date.
Starting point is 00:27:21 Each girl got their own crush to go. So you didn't know exactly unless they had told you, but you didn't know if it was you that invited them or not. And everything was like a secret. It wasn't a public sheet. So all this day, we would do a pregame at our sorority house prior to the date party. Okay. And the number one rule was that we all, nobody could post or take a single video at this pregame or else it would all go away. And we would, girls would get very drunk. And we would make like this jungle juice at the house. Jungle juice. So fun for everyone to do. But there was the way that we would coordinate this because we also didn't like want a paper tree. is we had this private Facebook group and like nobody uses Facebook anymore I feel like
Starting point is 00:28:17 and we would have this private Facebook group where everybody would like discuss the details of the pregame that was happening because it couldn't be on like our sorority chat. Yeah. And then I remember I was a junior and we had had like three years of this going on where no one had found out girls and other sororities didn't find out because if they saw something on social media that this was going down, they would report it to their house moms or whatever and be like, why can't we do this? Yeah. So, and it was also only girls in the sorority were allowed. Like even if, even if your date, going to the day party was a girl, she could not be allowed to come.
Starting point is 00:28:59 And I remember one year, one of my best friends got really drunk and ended up posting something to not just like her Snapchat private story, but her Instagram story. And it was a, it was a, of the pregame going on. And she was like, I love these ladies. They're my sisters. Like something like that. And that probably got sent around so fast. Oh my gosh.
Starting point is 00:29:20 So fast. Especially it's on your public Instagram story. And it was flagged pretty instantly by our exec because there were members of that like weren't allowed to go to the party because they had to make sure like everyone was going to stay safe and get all the buses okay and whatever. And she. not only was like in so much trouble internally with the sorority but it was also just like
Starting point is 00:29:47 so much shame because this was like a sacred pregame that nobody could know about and it was like one of my good friends and she like it ended up the next year we like were able to do it because it was just too risky and it was honestly too risky regardless but yeah she'll forever go down as the one who who crushed the crush pregame
Starting point is 00:30:09 Oh, that's such a bummer. It's like fun to doing something like that. Yeah. I mean, it was the memories were those of us that had memories of the night. Yeah. It was so much fun. But it was something we just knew was bound to with social media. It's so easy.
Starting point is 00:30:28 Yeah, it was fun while it lasted. Yeah, it was fun while it lasted. But no, we weren't able to do it senior year because, yeah, she kind of ruined it for the rest of us. But it was kind of bound to happen. Did you, before you went into school, did you, like, clean up your social media at all or anything? Or was it just, like, you didn't even, like, think about it kind of or didn't have anything to clean up? I definitely remember, like, really, like, well, I guess I didn't really have that much alcohol in my senior year of high school. But if I had a red solo cup in something or whatever, I would make sure that I, that I took that out.
Starting point is 00:31:04 I remember trying to post more just, like, good photos of myself and make myself look fun. and bubbly and pretty and like I have a lot of friends and whatever because I think yeah and you think in the moment you're like does this really matter okay I'll just do it just just to be safe and then you do kind of realize when you're on the other end of it and rush that people do look at that yeah but you can't if you're private maybe I did go public before rush because if you're private then no one could see anything that you have on there I feel like I shaped up my Instagram too more like for other girls who were going to be in my, you know, just like going into college. You wanted, you know, that's like someone's first impression of you a little bit before you didn't meet them at school.
Starting point is 00:31:54 Yeah. So and I felt like everyone was following each other once you knew that you got in and you were posted on like the, like, admitted accounts or whatever. I remember even like posting in like a Facebook like. Yeah. When I was like trying to find my roommate and I would like post like a few pictures of you or you like looking for a roommate. Yeah, I remember that so well. Thank goodness I ended up with my roommate and she's like right now my best friend like forever.
Starting point is 00:32:26 Did you find her on Facebook? Yeah, we found each other on Facebook. Okay, me too. I found and we're best friends still. But that's I do think there's something to the Facebook groups. Right. You find like usually that doesn't happen. Like usually I think I'm the.
Starting point is 00:32:39 only one out of like my whole entire friend group who ended up being like best friends with their roommate. Really? Yeah. But we were in. I do feel like. I do feel like that's pretty rare. But it's so special.
Starting point is 00:32:56 Is she going to be in your wedding? Yeah. She's one of honors. I have four made of honors. But she's one of them. Oh my gosh. You have four? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:33:05 I was like, that's awesome. You know, it's my wedding. I'm going to do whatever I want to do. I love it. Oh my gosh. That's so great. Well, thank you so much for coming on. Thank you. Thank you so much for having me, Daisy. Okay, guys, we have our next caller in. This is McKenna. Hey, McKenna. Thanks for coming on. How are you? I'm doing so good. How are you? I'm good. Okay, so today we're talking about like social media guidelines for sororities. Let's start off with. Did you ever go like before you went into a sorority? Did you look at their Instagram and did you like, clean yours up or anything? Oh my gosh. I stalked all of the Instagrams of all sororities before. And I made sure to follow all of them because I heard all of this stuff beforehand about
Starting point is 00:33:51 they'll see and you're following if you don't follow ones. And then that'll give you a bad look. And so I made sure to follow like everyone. And I was always liking all of the posts before. That's like such a true thing. Like when I remember going and like talking to a girl. I always thought that if I liked it, they're going to notice that I liked it, and then they're going to remember it. That's so funny, but like so real. And then did you get, once you got in a sorority, did you ever get in trouble for posting anything? Okay, so I didn't get in trouble what my friends did. It was freshman year, and it was one of my friends.
Starting point is 00:34:30 We were all in the same sorority, and we went, my friend's birthdays, and we went wine tasting. And it was fresh beer, so we were not 20 years. yet, but it was right around when we thought that like wine glasses were so aesthetic and cute. Also, that's like so fun, honestly. Like there's something about being like right about to turn 21 and just like holding the wine glass. Yeah. And it's like even in any of the pictures, it's like the tiniest pore ever because it's a tasting
Starting point is 00:34:59 obviously. But I remember we all like, I posted something and I didn't tag where we were at, but then a few of my friends like tagged like blank winery. And then they got a DM from the Instagram saying, like, N-O-P in all caps, like, Knapp, which I didn't like know any of, I think that there was some sort of like training I was supposed to do to know what that acronym meant. I had no idea what it meant. I thought that they were like spelling nope wrong.
Starting point is 00:35:28 And so I was just like, they don't even know it. It's like, nope, take it down. Maybe it could have been that. Was it always your sorority that would DM you or would it ever be? be the girls on exec that would like comment or DM you about it. So it was the I always thought I end up being the manager of our social media later on, which is like funny. But that is funny. I always thought that it was the VP of marketing and PR that said it through the account. Actually, it was for us. It was the VP of standards. And so that member would go in. And then basically
Starting point is 00:36:04 anything that had anything they deemed like not our pillars it would be like so now that's funny and then when you because you said you knew a lot about sororities and stuff before you went through a group men we're like looking at all their instagrams did the instagrams and social media influence what house you wanted to be in i had a really like set mindset going in because one of my like best friends from home who was a year above me was in a certain one. And so I make sense really open mind, but I always sort of knew I was going to go there, but definitely looking around the Instagrams and honestly, like seeing all the comments, like that really piqued my interest to like see which ones had people actually interested, like the members actually commenting and like seeming like they had a
Starting point is 00:36:56 lot of fun and like a big community. So that made me want to join one over another just to make it seem like they really had like a tight-knit group that actually hung out and liked each other and stuff like that. I will tell you there is nothing like I remember when I got to college and I joined my sorority and like the first pick I threw up like that's probably the most comments on an Instagram post I had ever got in my life. It was crazy. Like my engagement had to be skyrocketing. The first time I got posted on the like social media, the sorority social media, I was like best. starstruck. I was like, no way. They put this account.
Starting point is 00:37:38 It's so funny. It's such a fun thing though, honestly. But it's crazy to think about now, like, we have, like, social media and it, like, impact so much. And, like, even back to when, like, our parents were in school, like, it didn't play an aspect of it. So that's so interesting to think about. I met my roommate on social media before. She DM'd me. And now we've been roommates. Yeah. Do you think your sorority was like more strict than other sororities or like the same? No, I feel like it was less strict.
Starting point is 00:38:11 At least, I mean, maybe I played a role into that because when I was on the like when I was in charge of it, I didn't really care. Yeah, more relax. People would post a photo circle type thing to get posted on the Instagram. And if it was honestly crazy, like some of the freshmen would post pictures from like frat parties on it with drinks and their hand and expect that to get posted on like our official account and I was I would always see that and I'd be like what are you like what are you thinking I can't post this you're 18 you know I would never say anything to them yeah well thank you so much for coming on McKenna yeah thank you have a good rest your day okay you too bye a win a win a win is a win I don't care what you're saying
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Starting point is 00:42:15 The director of the NFL's East West Shrine Bowl, Eric Galko, joins the Sports Slice podcast to break down what really matters when evaluating draft prospects. From hidden traits teams look for to the biggest mistakes franchises make to the players flying under the radar. This is the insight you won't hear anywhere else. If you want to understand the draft like an insider, you don't want to miss this episode. Listen to the Sports Slice podcast on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. And for more, follow Timbo Slical Life 12 and TikTok podcast network on TikTok. We now have Lauren on. Hey, Lauren.
Starting point is 00:42:58 Hi, Daisy. How are you? I'm doing great. How are you doing? Good. I have a story about social media. Oh, I can't wait to hear. We're talking all about social media today.
Starting point is 00:43:10 So I'll just let you take it away. Okay. this just like to this day is the most stupid thing that happened in my sorority I think it was so blown out of proportion so I'll tell you um in college my sorority they were like normal strict about social media posts like they didn't want alcohol on your page they were like kind of weird about bikini picks if they were too scandalous and like they would kind of leave comments and stuff if you posted it's something, they'd leave like a purple heart and they'd just be like, that's how you knew to delete it, or they'd swipe up on an Instagram story. And girls were always trying to test the limits and like
Starting point is 00:43:52 put an emoji over a red solo cup or Photoshop it out. And sometimes they catch it. Sometimes they wouldn't. Like, it felt like it was pretty standard. But one year, when we went through our elections and like got all the new people on exec and got a new social media manager, there was just one girl that came in and it sucks because she ran the Instagram really well. It looked stunning. But she was so strict about getting people in trouble. And it's like she wanted to get people in trouble. It was just strange. She was on some sort of power of trip. But anyways, one of my friends, like, would make TikToks all the time. And she did this video that was like a day in my life for sorority formal. So she like took you throughout her whole entire day. And then there was a bunch of
Starting point is 00:44:40 clips of a group of us at formal. And because we were at our sororities formal, there were like 20 girls for my sorority in this video. And she was really careful not to put alcohol on or anything because she was like really trying to be an influencer. Like she took these videos really seriously. So she didn't want to take it down. And she had a lot of followers. And so anyway, she throws up the video. The next day we're at chapter and the social media manager gives us her update in the meeting and starts going on this tangent about how she keeps busting all of these girls who are posting alcohol and like just being really agro about it and quite frankly just rude to everybody and everybody's kind of like what's going on. But then the next or that afternoon, I guess like right before chapter,
Starting point is 00:45:26 she had commented a Purple Heart on the video that my friend threw up that I put up there that I was talking about. And we watched it over and over just being like, why would she put this on there? There's no alcohol. We couldn't figure out what was wrong with it. And so she just decided to ignore it. She was like, this must have been a mistake. Yeah. Then all 20 of us girls, or however many it was, got called into standards.
Starting point is 00:45:50 And nobody knew why. We're so confused. We get there. And they're like, before they were like, it's because of this video. And we're like, what is wrong with this video? We still couldn't figure it out. I feel like that's a thing like standards does. Like sometimes you don't know why you're getting called.
Starting point is 00:46:07 but you get called in. It's so drama. Like they just want to scare you. So anyways, we get in there and they told us that it was because the background music in the video, like the music that they were playing at formal in the background in the video, had profanity. And we were like, that's it. You played that music at your own formal.
Starting point is 00:46:29 Yeah, like you guys were in charge of playing the music. It was so stupid and they tried to argue it. but since we had so many people, we were kind of able to argue our case back and just be like, you guys were the ones playing the music. And there was this whole drama and all these calls and texts to figure out who had ox at the party and who was playing the profanity. That's absurd. And then we got profanity banned from our formals. So we couldn't post it on social media like we had.
Starting point is 00:46:56 So all of the songs had to be the clean version. That's like so ridiculous. That's so funny. Like I think even- In college. So literally last night, me and Thor were looking through like DJs and bands that our wedding planner sent us. And we really, really loved one of the bands. But they wouldn't swear anytime it like said word, they would say something else or just like pause and like keep going.
Starting point is 00:47:23 You know how they like do on the radio? And Thor was like, I was like, I love them. I think they're great or whatever. And Thor goes, I do. But can we make sure they like actually swear? Yeah, I was like, no, so true. It's just crazy that it was such a big deal because, like, I don't think swearing is a big deal. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:47:42 We're big kids. Yeah. So then did you guys end up, did you end up getting like a punishment or no? Thank God we didn't. But I guess the punishment was like taking away profanity from our music that we would play out formals, which is like kind of lame, but it's not an actual punishment. It just, the whole thing was very drawn out and dramatic for, I think, zero reason. Yeah, for sure. Well, thank you so much for coming on. Of course. Thanks for having me.
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