The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast - Infamous: Tino Franco
Episode Date: April 30, 2025We’re pulling back the curtain on The Bachelor franchise and looking beyond the rose… and its thorns. Ben and Ashley are getting to know Tino Franco, for the real story behind his engagem...ent to Rachel Recchia and his journey after it ended. Plus, Tino shares his side of what went down at After the Final Rose.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious.
Wait a minute, Sam.
Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit.
Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon.
This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot.
He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her.
Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.
Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate.
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Ben Higgins and Ashley I bring you infamous.
Sometimes roses are red flags.
Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Infamous.
Sometimes roses have red flags.
Today, our story continues with Tino Franco.
You remember him as Rachel Rechia's short-time fiancé
after her season of The Bachelorette.
Welcome to the show, Tino.
How's it going? Glad to be here.
We're good. How are you?
Couldn't be ready.
Great. So we wanted you on Infamous
because, you know, your story, as so many are,
are unique um you were one of the instances in which you kind of had broken up before hitting
the after the final rose couch or you were in a very strange spot in your relationship when you
hit that couch was did it what didn't we see is what this show wants to cover
no i think um you guys saw everything really anything you need yeah what do you mean
everything you need
there's
there's not a whole lot
like to really expand on
I mean I don't I don't like
love how everything went down
I don't like that you know I heard her
feelings and kind of let down
the group but you know
I think we can all agree I got a
pretty noteworthy punishment for it
and we all I think are better off
that that relationship ended when it did
what was the punishment
Well, after the final rose, they had one of the guys who got eliminated come out and ask her out in front of me.
And at that point, we had already been broken up for a little bit.
So I was kind of like, well, you know, this is none of really my business.
I mean, we already broke up.
So I don't know why I'm here, but I think the fans took some pretty heavy offense to it.
It certainly wasn't like a nice thing, even though it.
It's not like it was like, you know, actively my, somebody I was involved with.
I think at that point, we hadn't talked for a month.
Well, one of the hopes of infamous, Teno, is to get on and let the contestants tell their story,
knowing now, you know, production, the team of producers at the Bachelor and Bachelor
have switched over.
If you went back today, you would know very few people that are still on the show
working from behind the scenes.
And so Infamous is here to explain the situations that feel confusing to the audience or feels
like the whole story wasn't shared.
And that's why we wanted to bring you on today, because I know that your hope coming
off of your season, even with everything going down, was to kind of have that redemption
moment, to share your side of the story, to get people to see there was two, there's
actually three ways to it.
There's the truth.
There's Rachel's side and there's your side.
But what you're saying off the bat here is that the audience saw what they saw and it's all true.
So what Rachel was upset about, what the audience was upset about is the truth, the situation for you as well.
And they just are fine being upset.
Yeah, I guess, like it's, forgive me, I'm a little bit like,
I haven't been doing podcast lately
or like really thought about any of this
in fact like most of the time I say no
like the few times people want to have me on
but as I told Hannah
anything for Ben Ben you took so many of my calls
I still owe you big time
I mean so
the situation was really tough
and looking back on it like
it's hard because like I really
really don't want to
like I want to
to avoid any cast of blame. I want to make sure I own my side of it. And the fact of the matter
is, you know, whether or not it was crystal clear, you know, we were together head over heels
when I did what I did. Which let's just say it out loud. You kissed a girl out at a bar one night
when you were with Rachel. Okay, you were at a house party. Sorry. And the, I think you guys
had an unclear, undefined relationship from what you felt.
And she was more of like, no, we were together.
Yeah.
And, you know, please edit me as to protect me from getting sued when I say things like this.
But what I think the audience might not understand that us three would is there's a huge
time gap in what they see versus when things happen.
right so whether or not you know there was the moment which there should have been and we can
circle back to things I would have done differently later whether there was a crystal clear
defined moment we are not together you are free to do whatever you want which there wasn't
but there were moments you know that um I think somebody who's in a heightened emotional state
which I certainly was, could have taken to be that this relationship had no future.
And it was feeling like it was waiting till said after the rose to just kind of announce,
hey, we're not together, you know, and we're moving on, which at the time, as ironic as it is,
because, you know, after the final rose that I had to suffer through was absurdly humiliating.
I found that to me, oh, my gosh, that is the most humiliating thing.
It was.
That could ever happen to me.
No, but the, just the idea of getting there, right, and me going up on stage,
having not done anything stupid, and her going, yeah, I got to know this guy, and he's not
for me, sounded like beyond hell on earth.
So then I went on to overreact in the way that I did.
And, you know, whether or not, like Ben said earlier, there's my,
half her half and then the truth
I think
there's like certainly
her side
and whether it agrees with mine
or not I hate that I made her feel
that
we were
concrete in this
relationship and I did what I did
now
my version or my feelings
at the time certainly weren't in a line with that
but I hate that I made somebody feel
like that so the reaction
in that part by the show
because they were
probably acting in a manner
that they thought
reflected the crime
I understand
like I mean it's the worst thing ever
I've been cheated on
a long time ago
and it's literally the worst thing ever
and I hate that I ever made somebody feel like that
I kind of went on some tangent
Ben so reel me in
oh so like details details right
of what the audience might not have seen
So whether there was that conversation of, hey, you know, we're done, done, F and done, right, there was this waiting period.
And to me at the time, it really felt like, you know, I was just really in jail of this situation with, you know, public perception and the relationship kind of not being reflective.
So I'm watching, you know, myself on TV, there's other realities outside of what
was going on, real life's going on, new jobs.
There was just too much, I think, going on, and I just really slipped up and not using
it as an excuse.
I learned from it, you know, I take myself out of situations where I could ever really act
out in the same manner.
And I've really, you know, life and God have really rewarded me for that.
My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious.
Oh, wait a minute, Sam.
Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit.
Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon.
This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot.
He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her.
Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.
Now, hold up.
Isn't that against school policy?
That sounds totally inappropriate.
Well, according to this person, this is her.
boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age.
And it's even more likely that they're cheating.
He insists there's nothing between them.
I mean, do you believe him?
Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both
to meet.
So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not?
To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio
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the time period in between you felt as if you and Rachel were probably broken up,
but like you weren't really allowed to do that yet, is how you felt?
That's probably the closest thing.
So I felt at the time and like, do not know if this is accurate, you guys would have to ask her.
It felt to me like, hey, I really want to break up with you, but I don't want to be the bad guy here.
So let's just limp our way over to after the final rows and then we'll cut.
it there. And she was probably like, no, we're going to be together until after the final
rows. And then we can cut it off there officially. Yeah. Yeah. And like, I mean, in hindsight,
shit, I probably should have done that and hit under a rock for two months. But for some reason,
when you're, you know, feeling insecure, you're feeling a million different emotions, you act out.
The interesting thing here, Tino, if I remember right, it's been a bit. One, this story
probably to your kind of
own liking and strategy
you've kind of kept quiet
like you said you don't say yes to interviews
you kind of did the first week of runs
after the show then you've kind of gone off
and done your own thing you've stayed in the same job
but I remember this season kind of during the show
that you were taking accountability
for these choices that you made
you know I don't I think you can say
yes maybe
you guys were broken up
maybe this isn't as
you know, much of a cheating scandal as it seems on television because of the time frame
because of the conversations that were happening behind the scenes, but you've taken accountability
for this being a bad decision because you're in still within the bachelor world at the time.
Like the, you know, the fans haven't caught up with your life story yet.
It was a bad decision that I didn't feel right about.
It was close enough to cheating that I wanted to come clean about it.
and I think I got it in my head
because there were two folds to
you know my
self-destructive path
here right I did what I did
and then I
with nobody
like I don't think a single person from the Bachelor franchise
ever told me I should have told
the truth or complain about it to this day
but I'm glad I did because
when I look back on it
still I feel like I can really hang
my hat on, like, you know, I did something I didn't like and I came clean and I took a nasty
punishment for it, but I wanted to kind of have that, like, at least like self-image of myself
like that, you know, if I do something wrong, I'm willing to take accountability like Ben said
and take the punishment for it. And, you know, that was more important to me than kind of
getting the sugar high of, I don't know, maybe a couple thousand more followers and some
brand deals. The time has now passed. And infamous is about getting the sides of the story that
felt, you know, chaotic, ugly, unfortunate, out there. And sometimes they stay that way. The
stories are still unfortunate, ugly, and chaotic. But you've had time now removed. You've already
mentioned the decision making that you would have, you know, maybe if you had hindsight,
said, no, I won't go to a house party and kiss a girl because of the show still going on.
But I'm more interested in the emotions now, a few years removed from the show, that you still
experience based on that decision and based on that finale and based on this show that so many
people watched yeah i mean i've i've actually like gotten off of social media entirely um well yeah i
mean for the most part but no instagram right and that was for better or worse a constant
reminder of that experience of the show of the all that um rarely do i ever get recognized now like
it's more surprising when it happens than it doesn't now um so it really has gotten to
allow me to walk away really cleanly.
I think the experience
really made me appreciate and be
grateful and see how blessed a lot of us are in our daily
lives. Because you
suffer through that dopamine spike that very few
get to experience. All three of us got to go on
some pretty exceptional adventures. And
it kind of showed me
a side that is for some people, and I actually found a new value and a new love for
kind of the simplicity of my life before. Hence, I went back to my job and got to, you know,
go and find extraordinary value in the things that I love. I found my way back into my faith,
which was more recent and more related to, you know, health issues within my family. But
I think it really just overall made me a really grateful person
and I've even gotten to the point like you're touching on Ben that
I actually and I don't want to sound like a cheeseball when I say this
but it's true and I tell people this all the time
I think what happened at AFR
if we all remember it correctly being a little bit brutal
I really think it was a blessing in disguise
I think God looked at me
and saw somebody who was truly sorry
and going through and said,
look, this is going to hurt
and you're not going to see why
for a little while,
and then it's going to become crystal clear
one day instantaneously
that this was something I did for you.
And I believe that with every ounce of my heart right now.
It's interesting.
So many people could relate with that,
just not even from having a bachelor experience,
so many people could relate with this.
this season of being, you know, some would say like John on the Cross in the valley, you know,
in the valley and walking through this and then looking on the other side and, you know,
kind of rising up and saying, I've learned so much. The learning so much is such a vital thing.
I mean, it's my take for infamous. Ashley and I disagree on this and that's great and that's what
makes this show amazing. My take is editing is never an excuse for a contestant to use.
hers would say editing can be really bad based on our own personal experiences too she felt like
her edit wasn't fair i felt like my edit was amazing um i felt like it was great like for half of the
season and then we broke up and boy i i remember it differently yeah but the production side is
very intriguing now from your perspective we could go in you know the decision was made
stuff has happened now.
We've came clean on that.
I want to know how the show supported you
because obviously it felt like
the world was coming down against you.
Oh, this is going to be a quick question, huh?
Yeah.
I want to know how the show came around you
from a production standpoint,
knowing that this was going to get really bad for you
for, you know, as long as you let it.
No, you can't get, I mean, maybe, I don't know.
baby i don't i'm not the one suing you figure out a way to say this without getting sued how did the
show come around you was it good or ben's like be a word master like me i don't know if they
paid you nick and ashley to be nice to me but that was about it i mean you know i will say um the one
person who i think you told me to call ben i don't know if we can name him or not but um he was an
EP. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Although he probably was the orchestrator of that
miserable thing, he was the one person who reached out after. And there were a couple
who actually apologized and he said, that was too much and I'm sorry. And I thought
that was at least very classy, I guess. Like, it's like, yeah, hey, sorry. I tried to shoot
at you at you and I missed.
clipped your shoulder a little bit and I'll say like sorry about that. Did you feel like it was
genuine? Yes, I did. But like, you know, he also was kind of like, how do I make it up to you?
And I'm like, dude, I'm not signing another flipping thing. You slide across the desk. There's no way.
How do I make it up for you? Come to paradise. Yeah, exactly. He's like, name of price. And I'm like,
there's no price. There's no price. Well, now that that person is probably gone. Would there,
would there be a chance? No. I knew that. That was.
was the easiest question ever it would have been a no anyways because um you know i just like life
is just too good to kind of risk it all with that again but um like i i have been blessed to find
um the person i'm going to spend the rest of my life with so um i mean i i don't have this yet but
i'm working on it and uh yeah she's so exceptional there's there's no other way how does she feel
about this whole thing you know she's supportive she wants me to fire back up the instagram and see if we
can get a free trip and I'm just kidding but I'm just like no it takes more than it gives
from my experience like some people have turned it into something like really amazing but I just
I like my day job I was like we'll just have to say my boyfriend's professor is way too
friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious oh wait a minute Sam maybe her boyfriend's just looking for
extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon.
This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't
think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other,
but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally
inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor,
and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's
nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person,
to believe him because he now wants them
both to meet. So, do we find out
if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his
professor or not? To hear the explosive
finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast
on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you get your podcast.
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we do want to talk about your girl but we um also just just want to um go back to the passage
for a little bit longer now when ben talks about the edit and i had a great edit i mean like
I looked great.
I was genuinely,
I did a great job,
I think.
There was a few episodes,
right?
There's a few episodes.
And to me,
it was just that
it was more or less so
missing context.
Sun Edit,
it just was missing context.
And I feel like
you could probably relate to that.
Was there any scenes
that would have made
that didn't air
that you like wish dead?
There was a,
um you know okay so now i'm really going to sound like i'm pandering's but i don't care i mean
what are they going to do dm like some random account dm you guys oh tell dino he sucks he's pandering
because i don't have an instagram but um honestly gun to my head i wish they showed more i mean
this is going to sound like such a pander but i wish they showed more of rachel because she
was so much cooler that season than it was like reflected you know you said that back in the day
yeah like I mean I actually like I thought they did a super disservice to me and her like I think it was like twofold where they were trying so hard to make me look bad or or that's just how I looked you know I got to I got to play devil's advocate here and avoid you know getting the call from the lawyers but um I thought it did a real disservice to her and I thought like they they cut out a lot of really cool shit that um you know we did and
that would have benefited her at it more.
But they were, you know, I think they can only show so much.
And they were like, well, we're not going to show this guy in a good light.
So they showed the other ones, but it like kind of didn't do it justice.
You said that back in the day.
I remember you talking very highly of her, which was always a very unique position for you to be in.
Because you didn't want to destroy her.
No, I don't think you're friends.
I don't think she wants to talk to you.
I don't think you're like reaching out to her.
I think we're better off.
I think we're good.
But I remember you saying you don't want to destroy her because you don't have any desire
to yet you want to protect yourself.
How do you do that in the face of national television on a hot seat knowing that the live
finale was going to come at you hard?
So how do you do all this?
And what ended up happening and tell me if I'm wrong is you sat there and you took it
and you said if I can get out of here, the quick.
or the better and everybody hates me it's better than the alternative which was to try to place blame
everywhere else was that your mindset going into that finale totally and like we ended up getting
into it on the stage and like you'd have to ask her but i'm sure there were some like you know birdies in
her ears saying like oh he's going to come out swinging you better you better be hot and boxing gloves on
And, you know, I just was like, look, and I know that because I was, I had the same birdies that were saying, you better get out there and go ham and tell your side of the story. And I was like, look, I just don't, I don't really see any purpose in that. I don't think that will do either of us justice. And at the end of the day, the production for better or worse,
invested a lot of time and energy
in me as did she and it just didn't
feel right to go
up there and kind of cowered my way through
and placed the blame game and I
know up there
somehow we got into an argument
so I feel like maybe
she thought I was trying to do that but
I mean it really wasn't my intention
I think I rewatched it and I was
like I guess I
could have said this differently
and that's what triggered it but I really
like I think I said something along
lines of like I'm sorry it felt like I was you know blaming you I was really trying not to do that
and that's what started it up because I think it's always hard to hear like I'm sorry you felt this
way but like I was trying to say like it felt this way you know I don't know um but it was
I was I was trying to get out of there and like my goal would be to like everyone walk away
being like well you know you're sorry you know like we can you know like he like i would have
loved it if people were like well you know rarely do we get tv contestants who actually like come
clean and take their punishment like that well i remember the way i felt was like yeah whoops
and not whoops but yes he effed up definitely but i left watching that finale being like
just kind of like so sympathetic for you because it was it was so embarrassing that the they brought
even on stage to ask her out and um i was just like oh this play is just oh no no it felt so
just felt so demoralizing i think it saved you and i think in a twisted way i think that was
their thought. I really do. I think they thought they were going to do that. And I think when I got
that call apologizing, they thought they had the hooks in for like a light, you know, like somebody
who'd be still involved with all this stuff, not just, you know, doing it because I adore you
too and appreciate you too. Um, you're very sweet. But no, I think, I think it genuinely
confused them when I said like, no, there's no way I'm doing anything for you guys again. Um,
because I think it's so like
every person from my season
was in the group chat
talking about
can't wait for paradise
and I was like
are we for real here?
Like I'm not, you know,
I just had a bad experience.
I'm not going.
Yeah.
Well, kind of like Infamous does,
the hope is that Paradise is a redemption story.
I think you would have got it, Tino,
but it does sound like you didn't need it.
Because you mentioned a second ago
as we close here that you have found
somebody that you're hoping to spend the rest of your life with.
Am I wrong in making it that clear?
She might listen.
Yeah, my goal is to, no, we're spending the rest of our lives together.
Amazing.
If I still got to convince her, you know, I'll keep working on it.
But I think it's definitely more than reciprocated.
And I was going to pull her up on Instagram, but you don't have one.
Can we know who this is?
Like, is this a secret?
Sorry, it is.
Maybe she'll post about me and you all see it.
But, yeah, I tease her all the time.
How long have you been together?
She's like, you don't have an Instagram.
How long have you been together?
We're coming on two years pretty soon here.
Okay, two years together.
Yeah, well, not that soon, but, you know, about a year and a half in, yeah.
Is there a rank?
Not yet, but it's been designed.
Yay, let's go.
Does she know this?
Yeah.
Yeah, she's so good to me.
It's like, I feel like blessed every day.
And she knows all of this, right?
We're not going to, like, release something here that she's going to be like, wait, what's happening?
Yeah, I want this to be the first time she hears it and gets all embarrassed and flusky.
Oh, good.
No, I tell her every day.
Okay.
That's amazing.
You know, we love Rachel here, and you may have made your mistakes on the show and with the whole experience.
But I just feel like you're a very sweet, sweet guy.
And she's a cool girl.
She was putting into a really shitty situation.
largely because of me, you know, and I haven't watched anything since, but I think she's
kind of shown everyone that, it seems like, and, you know, that's good. I have no, like,
thought of her ever, unless, like, somebody brings her up. And if they ever do, and they say
something negative, I'm like, hey, you know, you guys didn't see the right person because
she was really rad. I would not have gone to the length's idea.
if she was not super rad.
It's just, you know,
sometimes you lose the luck of the draw
of how it gets all played out.
That's true.
We love Rachel here,
but Tino,
we're very happy for you.
We're thankful that you came on here.
Thank you for giving us the time.
In summary, here's what happened.
Tino's owned his decisions.
He had a really terrible finale
that a lot of us felt
where it was unnecessary.
The Avan situation in a lot of ways,
I believe, did kind of save Tino
because it took the focus
off of him and made it this weird, awkward moment.
Are they going to date to me?
Yeah, it was very weird at every level.
But Tino, out of all of this, out of all of this,
the thing that's always been impressive that should not go unnoticed
is that your hope and your desire and what's happened is you did not want to throw
Rachel under the bus and blame it on her.
You also wanted to take the ownership for the decisions made.
And I think that shows a lot of character.
I don't think it's done a lot on reality television.
It maybe didn't make you the most famous person of all time.
But what it did do, as you said, is it taught you a way of life that will pay off in so many great ways.
Yeah.
As a whole life comes.
Yeah.
So well put.
Yeah.
Tino Franco, thank you for coming on infamous.
Appreciate it.
For you too.
Appreciate it, man.
Thanks, buddy.
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