The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast - Men Only Want Me For Sex…How Do I Change That?

Episode Date: August 1, 2026

Are you running into men who only want to get physical? Kelly Bensimon is opening up to psychologist Dr. Hillary Goldsher about the men she attracts and why she tends to end relationships quickly. Dr. Hillary has the perfect messaging to convey what you DO and DON’T want in a relationship without confusion.  Email us at: [e-mail] or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Hey, I do, part two. It's your celebrity mentor, Kelly Ben-Sinone. And today I'm going to basically open up and have my own therapy session on air. Scary, yes. Hopefully I can gain something out of this for all of us today. I'm joined today by my great friend, Dr. Hilary Goldcher. She's a psychologist who does extensive work in the area of relationships, helping couples as well as individuals in all areas of life. Before marriage, during marriage, separated, divorced, and high conflict divorce.

Welcome, Dr. Hillary. Hi there. Oh, hi. Hi. So I have some questions for you. I'm here for it. I want to give you a little background of like where I, you know, how I got to where I am today. So I got divorced in 2007 and mediator.

I took care of everything, got him a new girlfriend, locked him up, just took everything like in control. So my kids would be happy. He'd be happy. And went on a television show. thought that I was going to be, you know, feeling free and, you know, able to, like, now date people who, you know, really cared about me and wanted to be with me. And that didn't work out because it was just like all of these, like, entertainment kind of poser kind of people, which was super disappointing. And then, you know, date, tried to date some people that were on entertainment

because I was like, okay, he's an entertainment, I'm an entertainment, let's figure this out. That did not work out. And then retired from the show and started, you know, working on my own writing books and working in the jewelry and partnership space with collaborations, which was so much fun. But I was laser focused on making money, providing for my kids and making sure that they were safe. cut to I am now still single. I was supposed to get married two years ago, found out that the guy wasn't going to sign my pre-up and just really found out that he wasn't who he said he was. And now I'm out there dating. I met a really, really nice guy last year.

We had such a great relationship. and then I was going to go on a show and I just was afraid that he wasn't, I didn't know what he wanted to do but it didn't seem like he was making definitive moves forward. I mean, we were together, we were having a great time, we were having fun, the kids were having a great time, everyone who's having a great time,

but that's not a relationship, that's a friend and a fun friend, whatever you want to call them. Yeah. And then now I'm back on television. This is my second season of a new show. And I'm still single. But the thing that's different this time around is now I'm on HRT. So I'm single and I'm wildly ready to meet someone.

Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Well, I mean, first of all, I have a couple questions, but I'll just say this. I just want to remind you and listeners that have similar stories around divorce, that divorce is really traumatic. And divorce with children, it's really, really traumatic. And there are a lot, even in the best of circumstances, and I don't know what yours were, but they don't sound like they qualify for the best of circumstances.

But even under the best of circumstances, it's really, really hard. And it takes a while for the mind, body, spirit to, recover. And I think it has an impact that people don't even realize until they realize. It is a real paradigm shift and a version of an existential crisis, especially with kids. And so you doing a version of relationally reeling post-divorce for this period of time is not that surprising. I don't mean that related to you specifically. I just mean in general, it's a lot to recover from. And so I I just think having a version of like empathy and understanding that you're going to have some trauma responses and emotional hangover from your experience that's going to impact how you move through relationships for this season. I'm sure your goal is to not have that always be the case.

But I just kind of want to honor that truth because I think it's sacred and not something to be suppressed or rushed through. Having said that, I am curious from your perspective, you know, the only thing. you and I have at this moment besides like 20, 30 minutes is also your, the things that you have control over that you know about how you move through relationships. And I'm, I'm just curious from your perspective, what you think impacts how you show up in a relationship and what are the arenas that you want to look at and strengthen or shift. Well, first of all, thank you so much for acknowledging the trauma that I went through. I think when people hear me talk about, they're like, oh, yeah, yeah, she's fine.

No, I didn't say I was fine. I said I took care of it. You weren't listening to me. I didn't have the luxury to not be fine. I had two children and my husband was a lot older than I was. And I just needed to make sure that my kids were in the best possible life ever. That's my responsibility. But doesn't mean that I didn't suffer.

It doesn't mean that I wasn't feeling like absolute shit. Doesn't mean that I wasn't feeling wildly insecure. that doesn't mean any of that. So thank you for acknowledging that. Honestly, you've got to cry because I'm like, no one ever. Everyone's like, oh, yeah, yeah, it's fine. She's fine. I'm like, no, no.

Just because I handle things doesn't mean I don't feel. Yes. And there's something particularly insidious, someone like you who's entirely capable. And so it can appear as if it's, quote, fine. And of course, in many ways, it's completely fine because it had to be. And you have those internal resources and can curate. the external ones needed, but the toll is silent and insidious, to use my word again. And I think it's really important to keep that in mind about incredible, courageous women who are post-divorce

and doing all those things to keep in mind that empathy and compassion and how vulnerable and scary it actually feels. I mean, also, I am a writer and I've worked with many, many magazines, I've written many books, and it's my job to create narratives and especially, in that situation is my job to create narratives that kept my ex-husband and my children both safe. So that's my job. I know that's my job and I know how to do it well. But doesn't mean, again, doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. You know, when things cut with me, they cut really, really deep. I'm a tourist. I love my friends, my family. I have a twin brother. I have great, great, I had great parents. I'm very, very fortunate to have love in my life. But, but,

I'm, you know, I have a lot of fear and I have a lot of hurt. I have a lot of hurt. Yeah. Yeah. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable about that because you're saying it. Maybe other women can feel like they can say it to themselves or to save others or both, you know? I hope so. I mean, one can be scared and heard and vulnerable and also be lived through your life in a really strong, you know, way.

Two things can be true. the same time. But I would be curious, like from your perspective, what are thematically what shows up in your relationships, you know, that you want to think about or work on? I think it's the same kind of just like you nailed it, like this curation. I think I'm constantly curating narratives for people. If they say, oh, I had a bad ex-wife. I'm like, oh, you know, these are the kind of things you can work on. We can talk about it together. I'm here to, you know, talk here, listen to you. But I don't want to do that.

I don't want to be curating people's narratives. Like, this is my life. I'm the person. I'm the main character energy here, not them. And I want, I mean, I got divorced with the intention of finding someone and finding, more than finding love, but finding someone who was going to listen to me and be genuinely curious about me. I mean, this is going to sound very strange, but I kind of thought about this the other day

that there's the Kelly Bensonman personality that people see and they think. And then there's the Kelly Coloren from Rockford, Illinois. And that's who they're dating. We're not dating Kelly Ben-Simone, writer, whatever it is, you know, all those different slashes and hyphenus, whatever you want to call them. They're dating me. And it really, you know, it's interesting because it's like, everyone's like, oh, you're an attachment kind of style.

I'm like, oh, no, no, no, I'm an avoidant. I tie a bowl on you to push you away. I'm not attaching to you unless where I really feel like I can actually trust you, which is very, very hard for me. What are your thoughts on that? Do you think I'm an attachment? I mean, avoidant? Well, you know, I don't like to put such heavy labels.

it sounds like, you know, you've cultivated a coping strategy that keeps your vulnerability somewhat at bay, but it's not attractable. And I feel like when people talk about attachment styles, it makes it feel intractable and impossible to like address and take on as if it can't be shifted or thought about in a different way. I mean, what you said at the beginning is so insightful and profound and meaningful meaning that that your tendency to help people create narratives, which I'm translating into you taking care of people, right? You helping people make meaning of their own lives and, you know, whatever we want to call it, saving them, rescuing them, being of counsel to them. And that does a number of things.

I mean, first of all, it's lovely and a beautiful skill of yours. I don't, I'm not saying that pejorative, I mean it. And I imagine it's a comfort zone of yours, that you're really good at it. And so you might immediately go there because it feels like a position of strength for you. It feels like something you do well and it's compelling. But too much of it without like emotional diversification means that there's automatically a power imbalance or some kind of imbalance, namely that you're the one, as you said, putting a bow on people's stories and your vulnerability doesn't have a way in. And I imagine part of you does that purposely, right, to protect yourself.

And I imagine part of you does that habitually because you're used to it. Well, I mean, as a writer, your job is to synthesize information. So that's what I do is I hear what a person is saying. I synthesize it. I process it. And then I say, well, here's my takeaway for you. Yes. Yes.

That's not what I want to do on a Tuesday at 8 o'clock at night. I don't want to be listening to someone and synthesizing for them and process. for them. Like, I do that all day long. I don't need to do it at home. So I need to, so to your point, like, that isn't what I want to do. I don't, I don't, I'm not a savior. I'm not someone that saves you. I'm someone that kind of like, I listen to men. So men really are attracted to me, which is very nice and very, you know, obviously a beautiful thing. But I also have a twin brother. So I'm not intimidated. So when I talk to men, I'm not like, oh my God, he talked to me and he called me. I'm like, oh, he called me. That was nice. We had a nice time.

Yeah. Like, I don't have those those kind of male relationships because I, I don't understand the male brand, but I'm a twin. Like, I'm just, I have a, I just feel very comfortable and confident around men, which is also complicated. I'm complicated, Hillary, I'm complicated. Well, here's a challenge is that maybe you will feel, potentially less comfortable, in quotes, around men or a man, if you don't immediately embody the role of synthesizer, right? And when I say not comfortable, I mean, just more vulnerable, more present, more open. You know, for, I often say this to clients, and it sounds so obvious, but it feels poignant. It's like for things to be different, you have to do something

differently. You have to. You can have all the insight in the world from the best therapist, you know, the most amazing friends. But if you don't do something behaviorally that is different, you're going to have the same result. You really have to pair insight with different behavior to have something feel different. And so, you know, showing up and deliberately preventing yourself from doing that, maybe you can do it a little. But guiding yourself to sit in the silence and the awkwardness and the discomfort, you know, and that might compel him, whoever that he is, to ask a question or to get more curious about you rather than filling the space with what you know.

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Well, I thought he was going to write. I thought you were all going to write a song. I remember you thinking that. Listen to Podlandia. Ayo rewatch on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I just, I went on a date this past couple of days. And the guy was just kind of like, how long you've been single. And he's like, honestly, like, I really don't care.

I just, if you want to talk about it, you can. And I was like, you know, it's not that I care about how long that I've been single. I just want you to know that it's not like I'm waiting around to be in a relationship. relationships, relationship. I just want to enjoy myself. I'm at that stage of my life in my career, where I am in all the businesses that I run. I'm just very comfortable.

And I'm just looking for just someone to like, I had such a nice time at dinner with him. And I'm just looking to enjoy my life. And he literally, his face like just kind of melted. Instead of him being like, she wants to get married tomorrow and she wants to do these things. and she needs this and she does that. He was just like, he was like, I am so, you know, happy to meet you.

And I was like, oh, my God. Like, I approached this in a different way and I didn't even know that I was. Yeah. I just felt different. That's really interesting. Yeah, and you were able to follow that energy and speak and embody a truth. That was compelling. You know, the more alignment we're in, the more compelling it is, I think.

I also was just in a major car accident, a really serious car accident two weeks ago. And I am just, I just was like, I woke up in the morning and I'm like, what am I doing? My twin brother's like, Kelly, he's like, one second more, you would have been dead. He's like, do you realize like how lucky you are? And I know that sounds, you know, very cliche. Oh, I had this moment, this cathartic moment. I changed. I haven't changed.

I just feel differently about and I'm approaching things in a different way because I'm grateful for where I am genuinely. One of the elements to bring in to your pursuit relationally is is vulnerability around wanting to be known, right? You don't want to be the only curator of stories. You want that to be mutual. You want someone to know you, which you should want someone to know you mutually for that reciprocity to occur. And even going in with that intention of wanting to be known, you know, I mean, you might even put words to that that like along the lines of like, hey, I just want to be in good company with someone and enjoy space.

Like you could add, I want to be, I want to know someone. I want to be known, you know, as part of like what you're looking for. I actually love that. Yeah. I love that. You just want to be known. And I love that. And I mean, I don't have those educated, articulate words. But I did say something a little bit along the lines, which again, like gave him that opportunity to just relax and not be afraid. Yes. And also keeps you accountable from from embodying that same role over and over again of being the one to know the other.

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sam jay and we're the host of everyone watches women's sports a new podcast from together and i heart women's sports because let's be real women's sports is giving us way too much to talk about these days So Kelsey Finler, she became the first female solo rower to go from California to Hawaii. My first thought is like, what's up with the snacks? Like, what are we eating? The highlights, the rivalries, the breakout stars, the moments that take over your entire timeline. And the conversations that start during the game and somehow keep going all week. Every week, we're breaking down the biggest stories across women sports.

Naomi Osaka showing out, she beat Sabalinka. Shout out to you, Naomi. You get the palm, Naomi. Calm for that. Because we're not just interested in what happened. We're interested in why everyone's talking about it. Because everyone watches women's sports. Listen to everyone watches women's sports.

On the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hey, Portlandia fans. Carrie Brownstein and Fred Armisen here. You know us, or rather you know them. Tony and Candace, Nina and Lance, Spike, and yes, the chicken. We've played a lot of iconic characters over the years, but today we're showing up as ourselves to tell you about Podlandia, A.O. our brand new podcast.

Each week, we'll revisit an episode of Portlandia from the very beginning, breaking down the sketches, exploring the backstories of our most iconic characters, revisiting the Portland locations you know and love, and opening up about our creative process. How did any of this get made? Why do we think that was a good idea? We're ready to talk about it. And we'll also be joined by the people who helped bring it all to life.

Guest stars, collaborators, and friends, including director Jonathan Chrysler, the mayor himself, Kyle McLaughlin, legendary musician Amy Mann and many more. Kyle is going for it here. You fully improvised, not just words, but a song, a melody. I thought he was going to write. I thought you were all going to write a song. I remember you thinking that.

Listen to Podlandia. Ayo, rewatch on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I want to know your advice about dating. You know, I went on back on Hinge and Ryan. I'm like, okay, I'm going to actually like, do you want to go on date? Let's do. but that's going to date. But like all my friends are like, okay,

asking me specific questions. I'm like, I'm not asking anyone anything anymore. I am so tired of asking them questions that it's boring me. Like, I'm just like, I just want to, you get me for two hours. And people present exactly who they are. They tell you, I don't need to ask the questions. They are ready to tell you. And they tell you exactly what you're like.

Hey, I'm floating. They're floating. hey, my ex-wife was really, really mean to me, and I'm looking for someone that's not mean to me. They're telling you, or me, and or me, what the story is. And I was just like, I went out a couple of dates. These guys seemed really, really nice. They're all very educated, nice jobs, everything.

And I just was like, I can't do this. I just can't do this. I was like, it's not going to go forward. I just can't. I can't be interviewed every single time ago on a date. And I can't have you like, tap dancing around me. Like, you know, let's have a glass of wine.

Great, I'll meet you for half an hour. Like, I need you to just be like available and wanting to do things and just like seeing how things go versus creating some kind of like, one, two, three. Let's get to the third. Yeah. So how do I, how do I tell these men, stop trying to get to the third date so we can have sex? Ah, that was long-winded. Yeah, yeah, no, but I needed the background, actually. You know, kind of aligning with what we were just saying about the notion of wanting to be known.

I mean, I think you could directly say that, you know, that like I'm in a phase. I'm in a season where I want to be like slow, deliberate, have like companionship. I want to know someone. I want to be known. And I want to like slow roll the other stuff. I just do. And that might be resonant for you. it might not be. Like, you can, you let me know. But a lot of the guys are like, they're saying to me,

like, if you don't have sex with someone, you don't know how you feel about them. I'm like, well, first of all, you're not going to sex with me. Like, I'm just not like that anyway. I'm, I'm, I am not on no one else's time of my own. If I feel like having sex with you, we will have sex. If I do not have, feel like having sex, if we might not have sex for a month. Yes. That's, that's no harm, no foul. Like, yes. That's just who I am. If you cannot wait for the month, then you're not going to be dating me. I think you have the answer already inside of you. I mean, just to kind of clarify it for you and for other women listening, that any narrative that sex must happen in a particular time frame for your potential male partner,

is there a narrative? And it doesn't make it bad or wrong, but it is theirs. And you don't have to adopt it. Obviously, pressure is a whole other thing. But if someone is still respectfully or playfully or something, you know, putting forth this narrative, you can listen to it and respect it. But clearly, stay like it just doesn't resonate with me. For me, I like to have it unfold slowly. And for me, sex comes on the back of more time and more emotional connection. And it doesn't make you wrong and me right, but that is who I am. And I think there's some real impact. empowerment and being able to look a person in the eye and say, this is who I am and feel really good about it rather than feeling like you're compromising an opportunity. It might sound cliche,

but if that isn't resonant with someone that can't be your person, it's a pretty low bar ask. Right. And I feel like a lot of men think that if they do try to get me to have sex, then they're going to lock me in. Or I'm a lock her in with sex because then I'm having sex with She can only have sex with me and because she doesn't want, you know, and I'm just like, what is going on? Yeah. Yeah. I'm like, wait, what? I would, I would be even more direct than you have been, you know, that like in case it's confusing, like, this is my state of the union on sex.

Right. You know, that it's on the back of time and companionship and emotional connection and that, you know, if that's not resonant, totally cool. but just not going to be an alignment for me. Okay, final thoughts for women that are like me that don't know what to ask men on a date. Like, give me like two questions I should ask men on my first date. Gosh, I mean, to be honest, look, if there are questions that come up that feel organic, ask them, you know, sort of all the typical questions, like, like what got you here? Like, what season are you in relationship-wise?

You know, what's resonant for you in your life right now? Like, what are the things that make you you kind of thing? I think our fun, playful, like low-pressure things. But also, I don't think, to your earlier point, that one has to feel armed with a bunch of really compelling, unique questions. You know, first meetings, first days are all fraught with those key parts. you know, of like awkwardness and weirdness and some prescriptedness. And I think that's okay, you know, even acknowledging that,

I can sort of be like, yep, I might ask you a bunch of questions that are standard fair for this first date, but doesn't make me less interested. Here I go. You know, you can narrate the process of awkwardness and strangeness. And I think there's anything particularly unique or special that one has to force themselves to bring, but rather to sort of acknowledge that, like, you know, I know this could be weird,

but doesn't make me less interested in like what your deal is, like what your state of the union is, what do you like to do day to day? Like who are you? You know, kind of thing. I think it's completely fine to narrate the awkwardness of it rather than pretend that it doesn't have that prescribed quality.

Oh, my God. Thank you so much. I love the idea of being known. And I love the idea of taking space. I love those two takeaways. Dr. Hillary, thank you. I'm so happy to see you, by the way. We should do this more often.

Oh, my God. You're fantastic and you're just so articulate and you're just very, very, very easy to talk to. I appreciate you. It's so good to see you, Kelly. And thank you for acknowledging my fear. And I really, that means a lot. That really means a lot to me.

I'm really glad we got to go there. Yeah. All right. All right. All right. Bye-bye. Are you like me trying to navigate this crazy world of dating? Do you have questions or need advice?

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