The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast - Roses Center Stage with Becca Kufrin and Andrew Spencer

Episode Date: February 22, 2023

Bachelor Live on Stage is BACK! And Ashley is hanging out with the new hosts: Becca Kufrin and Andrew Spencer! Find out how the show has changed and what you can expect if you catch Bachelor Live when... it comes to your city! We HAVE to get into Becca’s wedding planning! Has she “said yes to the dress”? And Ashley has some much needed wedding advice to share. And, Andrew reveals if we’ll ever see him return to Paradise!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:02 this is the ben and ashley i almost famous podcast with iheart radio hello everyone welcome to the almost famous podcast it's ashley and bet isn't here today but we have a couple other seasoned hosts over here well okay another season host and then another host to be we got beka kufrin and Andrew Spencer, they will be hosting the upcoming Bachelor Live, which, surprise, there's more Bachelor Live. We thought that was over. But now they're here to announce today that there's more to come. So without me blabbling on, Becca, Andrew, tell us the big news.
Starting point is 00:02:46 Yeah, well, surprise. Yeah, surprise. We're going back on tour. It's going to look a little bit different this time around. Obviously, the last time we did it, we were across the country in a new news. city. This is going to be at just one resort in Arizona. It'll be at talking stick every weekend in April. And we're so excited to just bring it back to the stage. And apparently, we just found this out. Scottsdale is the number two hottest place for bachelor's party. So I feel like we're
Starting point is 00:03:14 going to have a really good demographic. Yeah. Can't wait to see all that. We know, definitely bachelor's trying to get a shot to maybe win the hearts of mine, but maybe also Rodney's as well. Oh, my gosh. Yeah. Okay, well, Andrew, you play a special role. Some of the weekends you will be hosting when Becca's not there. And then some of the weekends, you will be The Bachelor. Are you going to be there all weekends?
Starting point is 00:03:40 Yeah, all weekends, all of April, and I can't wait to do it. It's going to be a little scary once she handed me over the reins and I'm being the host. But I think I should be able to do well, especially with Rodney there to help me out. I'm also might be handing out. out first impression roses at the beginning of, you know, the show. So we'll see. We are going to actually be doing fun, like pre-event mingles where we'll be there meeting any of the fans who want to come early.
Starting point is 00:04:10 And during that time, either Andrew or Rodney, depending on the weekend, we'll be meeting people at those events and handing out a pre-rose. So they'll already know before coming up on stage that they'll be pulled. Oh, okay. So, Andrew, if you're so involved in this tour, why wouldn't you just be the actual Bachelor? You know what? That's a great question, but I can't answer that. Andrew, for a Bachelor, put it out of the other. I'm a Bachelor host, Rodney. You get to see Rodney. I know. Well, Rodney's the other person. People wanted to be The Bachelor. So, ladies, this is your time to experience. the two guys that you wanted to be the bachelor
Starting point is 00:04:55 and it could be even better because in this case you could just fly out to Scottsdale and you might actually be able to date them in front of people just like you would on the show. We might even like switch it up and do a double date one of those
Starting point is 00:05:11 nights there in Scottsdale. And it's more fun. Less rules them when you film. So I say come on and hang out with us. Yeah. Okay. So let's talk about Rodney's role. You guys are host slash your bachelor but rodney will only be bachelor on certain nights yes so he'll only be the bachelor for the second weekend of april yeah april 14th and 15th for anyone who needs a timestamp on it thank you
Starting point is 00:05:38 so for all timestamps where can people go because i know that there's some ladies out there that probably really want to date you and rodney and want to make sure that they're at your dates so the first show will be weekend the weekend of april seventh and eighth that'll be both andrew and I, the weekend after that, that Friday and Saturday will be Andrew and Rodney. And then the last weekend that'll wrap up the tour is April 21st and 22nd. That'll be the two of us again. And talking sickresort.com has all of the details info. That's where you can get tickets to. So check it out. It's a, you're saying Scottsdale is a big bachelor at destination. Now, I'm assuming it's followed by Nashville, which would be the number one bachelor at.
Starting point is 00:06:23 spot? Yes. Do we have any idea why people are flocking to Nashville for, I mean, just Scottsdale for this? The warm weather, you're in a pool. It's a really good venue here. It's beautiful. It's so beautiful. So it's a lot more fun. There's a lot more things you can do. Sometimes Nashville gets a little chilly. And here, you're just out with their girls with a couple of drinks in a pool and get to go and try to date to very available men. Does this situation put you and Roddy in a place in which you have to stay single throughout the month of April to participate properly? Well, yes, for me, yes, I agree.
Starting point is 00:07:04 I can't speak for him. I don't know what he does or things. But for me, absolutely. If I have a girl by then, I'm probably not going to be the, you know, too flirtatious. You could still host. I will host for sure. without a doubt. Okay. Well, you did tell us about your type and what kind of dates you like to do with girls at first on our in-depth podcast, which is recorded in December. So if you guys really want to get
Starting point is 00:07:31 to know, Andrew, you can go back and listen to that podcast. But Andrew, I want to know for all the ladies out there who are booking their tickets right now, what kind of first and how should they make the best first impression with you when they have just a few moments on stage? I just think just be fun and buy into the process and just like I'll just enjoy the time not everyone gets to come down to Scottsdale and and be a bachelorette so at this point like you get to really shoot your shot at being what you see on TV and get the full experience uphand up and close with you know good people around like Becca myself and and Rodney it's going to be really fun yeah yeah but how do they woo you on stage how do we how do you know it's your eyes honestly I need someone to make me
Starting point is 00:08:17 laugh a little bit. Obviously, you know, it's going to be, like I said, it's hot or near a pool. I mean, it's going to be kind of sexy. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Are we doing this outside or something? Is this not on stage? Oh, yeah. This is, let me real. This is paradise. It's paradise to the pool. So we have a massive outdoor stage. It's right next to the resort. There's beautiful mountains all around. You're overlooking the pool and hot tubs and there's a bar. And, and, And so that's why it's going to be this time around. It's going to be so different than when we were on the cross country tour because we have this at stage.
Starting point is 00:08:55 And it's going to be more of like a fun, interactive party atmosphere where people can come with their friends, their family, really, whoever. And they can go and just wander and grab drinks and just like be in the midst of other bachelor's parties too. And so it's going to be much more hands on, much more like I said, a little bit sexy, a little bit elevated. Yes. So we're so good to this.
Starting point is 00:09:19 I would like to call it the Paradise Bachelor Live at the stage. Oh, I love this. This is so cool. All right, Becca, how are you going to, like, facilitate all of this? Like, how do you plan on switching things up? So I guess I would consider myself sort of like the master of ceremonies, if you will. So just like the show has a host that kind of has to keep things running and on schedule
Starting point is 00:09:44 and kind of like set the scene for. everyone. That's where I come in. So of course, like the women are there to meet Andrew, to woo him, to have these fun dates. But I'm the one who kind of creates this season in one hour, two hours of this show. So I kick it off. I kick off the night. We'll pull up girls from the audience. We do things that you'll see in the actual TV show like first. Well, you'll do like limo entrances, first impression rows. And we have many group dates throughout with rose ceremonies. There might be some hometowns in there. And a fantasy suite.
Starting point is 00:10:20 A very public fantasy suite. Very public fantasy suite, which is much like the show, I guess. So I'm very fitting. So I just kind of make sure things are running smoothly. Andrew loves to go off the cuff, like just have so much fun, which I think is so great. So she's got to reel me back in a little bit. I got to pull them in sometimes, make sure we get the show done in a couple hours so people can go party after. Okay.
Starting point is 00:10:44 this is a great vibe great vibe i'm feeling it i'm seeing it how do the girls end up on stage who do you how do you select them i get that like some one you're going to get from the meet and greet right and how are you going to get the others so we always have a table for casting so prior to every show we like to tell people to get there early if they do potentially want to come up on stage they'll meet with whoever's doing casting at that table they'll just give them obviously some of their background info they'll just have a little conversation um and then we like before every show i literally am handed a stack of 10 names a quick little bio for each woman and so i go up on stage and i just start calling these 10 plus women come on down yep come on down Cindy from ohio so i'm like
Starting point is 00:11:37 just like Andrew is like meeting these women for the first time i am too and that's what i think makes it's so fun because sometimes people give us the funniest bios or the funniest bits of information that I'm reading to the audience and I'm like, oh my God, can I say this right now? Do they want everyone to know this? Like they probably didn't think everyone at this resort was going to hear when I'm describing them. But it like makes it just so fun, kind of like, you know, fly by the seat of your pants type feel. Yeah. Andrew, I feel like I saw a little preview of these events to come at Audrey's when we had like
Starting point is 00:12:12 six, seven hours total of you and Justin being fawned over by hundreds of women. And we talked about it on the other podcast in December, but you got some underwear thrown at you. Somebody left you a little treat. That was actually crazy. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Yes. You got roses with numbers attached to it and all that. So my question is, how much pressure do you feel?
Starting point is 00:12:42 feel, are you going to feel when you select your final rows at the end of the night to, like, date her in the real world? A lot of it is, you get a lot of crowd help. So I love to, like, be, like, get help from the crowd. Like, what do you guys think about this or, you know, just be in tune with them? I think that makes it so much better because you know how on the show, people have a lot to say off the camera. But right here, when everyone's there in the venue, you can hear exactly what they're
Starting point is 00:13:10 saying and who they want to, for us. to pick. So I take a lot of that in account for who I pick. Like, that's what I did a bachelor live on stage. I think I'm going to use the same method because it worked so well. So yeah, but I mean, I don't know if someone gets to look too crazy. Well, yeah, that's how you're going to pick the girl, but like once you pick her, do you feel like you're going to have pressure to date her for real? Oh, no, no, no. All those girls are like pressing refund on their tickets now. They're like, Oh, so it's just for show. It's going to take a lot.
Starting point is 00:13:44 When we were on tour last year, there were definitely some women in some cities where some of the bachelors were like, oh, I want her number. I'm intrigued. And, you know, they could choose to do what they wanted at that point. But what I think is the most fun about these shows is like there's no pressure. So like we've had mothers up on stage. We've had women who are married up on our stage. we've had grandmothers up on our stage. Yeah, anybody.
Starting point is 00:14:13 Yeah, and it's just the time to make them feel like they're actually part of this show. You know, for so long, you know, these, like, beautiful, stunning single people who are there to date the leads each season. But this is really allowing people to be part of this franchise that they've loved and watched for so long. And so it's so lighthearted. It's like, if Andrew's into someone, he can totally go that route. But if there's, like, a fun grandma on stage who the audience is loving, who were like she deserves to win this final gift package and this final rose like pick her it's it's
Starting point is 00:14:45 kind of you know every show is so different yeah i had a different type of person who won my every single show that i did so it was never like the same person who wins it's always different you're seasoned on this you did a couple during the original tour right where you're at the bachelor and then the after mine was over i kept like going on he kept crashing we couldn't get rid of him he wanted to be the bachelor the entire time. No, no, no, no, no, no. Yes, yes, yes, yes. You should have been The Bachelor. Imagine that you're on an airplane and all of a sudden you hear this. Attention passengers. The pilot is having an emergency and we need someone, anyone to land this plane. Think you could do it? It turns out that nearly 50% of men think that they could land the plane with the
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Starting point is 00:18:32 amazing be a part of my new chapter and listen to the new season of the overcomper podcast as part of the mycultura podcast network on the iHeart radio app apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast okay i'm going to talk about some personal things with you guys what's going on your lives besides bachelor live on stage becca wedding planning you bought a dress? You said yes to the dress. Was that all the most fun experience of your life that you wish you could do every day? It was so fun, but so surreal. It's like, I think everyone grows up, well, not everyone, but like I grew up playing dress-up all the time and just having so much fun being these like different characters and these different dresses, kind of like also on
Starting point is 00:19:25 the season, you could dress up in these beautiful gown, cocktail dresses. And this was unlike any of that. Like the second I put on the first white dress, even though I knew it was not the one, I was like, oh my gosh, like I'm dress shopping to be a bride. Like I'm too young to do this. I was so crazy feeling. I was like in high school right now. But it was so magical. And I was lucky enough to have three of my best friends there with me. And then my mom and sister zoomed in from the Midwest. So they were able to be part of it. And I think the most special part finding the one when I knew it was the one like I just felt like a bride like it was the first dress where I was like I want Thomas to see me in this and I feel like he's going to cry yeah yeah I was
Starting point is 00:20:11 like I better get tears from him but it was the one and only dress that my mom cried over and she's like this like you are like my bride becca like this is this was for you and so it was that was a really special moment oh that's so sweet how many try on did you have like how many places you go how many dresses do you feel like you put on that well that was the one and only shop i went to no way you could have dragged out that so much longer just milked it you know but that's the thing i don't like dragging stuff out i'm like if i'm on a mission i want to and i also hate trying on clothes like if i'm ever shopping i never try anything on i actually do that too i was like oh do you want to try it nah i don't just buy it and so obviously um well i mean you know wedding dresses
Starting point is 00:20:57 are very expensive, so I can't just not try it on and take it home. But yeah, it was just one stop. I probably tried on like 20, 25 dresses. Oh, that's a lot for one stop. Yeah, they luckily reserved for the whole day for me, which I was like, how do you do it be in two hours. But I ended up going with the dress that I never thought I would wear. Usually, like, it's not like anything I've ever been styled in before. It's very unique. And it was, it was one that I didn't even try on initially like I went through the whole store again just like pull and it was like hiding in the back corner and so yeah that was the one wow that's so cool so it was a different style than you ever considered yes yeah and luckily and that's what people on instagram kept saying they're like
Starting point is 00:21:43 try on other styles things that you wouldn't normally go for or like and so I did that with another dress that when I finally put that one on I was like oh wow this is so different but it kind of like led me to get into like this happy medium of what I thought I wanted and what I didn't want and it's like kind of in the middle there. Okay, cool, cool. So you and Thomas had an untraditional engagement where you got down on one knee first, but then he did reciprocate. Do you feel like you're going to have any non-traditional stuff when it comes to the wedding? Like is he going to see you in the wedding dress before the day? Anything interesting like that? Well, that's a great question. So I'm going to have anyone thought about um well we're just not very traditional to begin with so i think overall like the
Starting point is 00:22:29 way our wedding is going to be is just it's going to look different we we are going to just elope and have like our very immediate family for the ceremony and just keep that really small and private and then for the reception we're going to just push that out a couple months and do it a bit later um but we want that to just be a massive party and so we're not going to do the traditional sit down dinner people won't have proper place settings. It's going to just be one big party. So we really want it to be like a fun theme, like a roaring 20s, Gatsby-esque type theme where people can kind of dress up and play characters. We are also very into true crime. And we love playing clue. So we're going to we're going to try to do like a real life clue in the middle of this where if people guess who like the
Starting point is 00:23:19 murderer is, they can get access to a speakeasy that we're going to. going to have. So just like fun little twists and turns like that throughout. That's really fun. So is the dress for the party or for the ceremony? The dress is for the ceremony. So yeah, I haven't even thought about what to do yet for the reception. You can go wedding shopping again. You can go wedding shopping again. Yeah. I was talking to a dress designer in New York who's wonderful and she started just creating some sketches. So I have not been out there to meet her to see anything in person. So I'm hoping that'll come in the next a few months once the tour dies down. But yeah, I'm like, I'm also not a planner. So I'm like, oh, whenever it happens, it happens. So if you have any wedding planning tips, please let me know.
Starting point is 00:24:03 Oh, I have all the tips. I love to give the tips. So you let me know what you want to specifically know. I will call you this and be like, tell me everything. Okay. I'd be so excited to do that. you guys you know are you you seem like you're kind of on both sorry it sounds like you and Thomas are on the same wavelength when it comes to planning
Starting point is 00:24:27 have there been any disagreements that are worth noting in terms of the wedding no in terms of what else I love all give me the team well let me tell you about our home renovations no we've like for the most part for this wedding we're both
Starting point is 00:24:43 So, like, pretty easy, breezy laid back that we've been aligned on most things. And we'll just kind of, like, come up with different fun ideas. And I'm like, oh, what about this? What do you think of this? And he's always like, yeah, I love that. Let's do it. So I told him, I was like, if there's anything you really, really want or to incorporate or do not want, just let me know.
Starting point is 00:25:06 And I'll make sure of that. But, yeah, no fights around that whatsoever. It's been knock on wood on this table. I hope it just stays like that. It's sailing for the wedding. That's basically how it was for us. Wedding, easiest thing. Greed on everything.
Starting point is 00:25:21 Decorating the house? Not so much. But hey, it's all good. The draper. It's always the train. Imagine that you're on an airplane and all of a sudden you hear this. Attention passengers. The pilot is having an emergency.
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Starting point is 00:26:21 Oh, that's the runway. I'm looking at this thing. Listen to no such thing on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, my name is Ennio Yumanzoor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD...
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Starting point is 00:29:24 Yeah, apparently. I mean, no, I'm very protective of that. I have been talking to someone for a while now since your show, actually. still the same girl I've been talking to What? So. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:40 You know, we live in different areas. We're just, you know, going on a nice pace. Huh? A New York girl? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:46 Yeah. Oh my God. I had this juice out of you after this. Give me the dirt. Oh, my God. But no, she's cool. You know,
Starting point is 00:29:54 I took her to a next game. She took me to a next game as well. That's serious. Because you guys could have been spotted and been on the jumbotron and then had the kiss cam come on. I don't know. TMZ. I'm just not that cool.
Starting point is 00:30:09 I mean, I just, you know, just going out of dates and having fun and not really putting too much pressure. I feel like that's my problem when I didn't end up the show. I always was just like, all right, I'm going to do this, this, this. I'm married. You know what I mean? I'm going to propose. So now I'm just like taking it at a day at a time and, you know, still like, you know,
Starting point is 00:30:26 just kind of like figuring things out and how I want to live and where I want to live. And yeah. All right. Well, we want to see you back. on paradise so don't get too serious going back on paradise you're not going to ever go back on paradise no i don't think so but you be the bachelor of ass next season you said what you would be the bachelor you would be the bachelor talking about pressure i know if i'm single you know i'm uh yeah don't become the bachelor if you're not single yeah no i'm having
Starting point is 00:31:00 I'm having fun doing, like, the dating thing here, you know, the amount of dates I've gone on and just kind of, it's good. He's going to have so much fun dating in Scott Still when we do Bachelor Live. So much fun dating there with all the Bachelorettes. Yeah, can't wait. Do you get nervous for, like, impressing those girls when you're on stage? Do you feel like you are on stage and you have to perform your best? Or is it just more of, like, I'm not nervous? It's just a fun time.
Starting point is 00:31:28 See, that's what, like, I'm so. good at not being nervous when uh i like i treat everything like when i'm talking to like a girl as a friend so that's kind of how i'm doing i'm just like we're just friends and we're just maybe throw out a couple flirtatious jokes there and there but when i'm like that i'm like i'm smooth sailing it's just as soon as i start um i start liking a girl's like oh my god i kind of like like this girl then i start getting awkward and weird and like you're not smooth so i'm like talking to a girl like just like a friend i'm super smooth and if i want to throw out a flirt joke I'm hitting like a hundred percent but if I like if I'm like dang I like her I want to be
Starting point is 00:32:07 very weird and awkward and you're gonna know that's what I used to do I used to like that actually was a time on your um on last time I was like wait what city uh it was the last one of the last show oh my god I remember and you wanted her number I did I did get her number yeah we had her for the one scene, am I not allowed to talk about this? Of course. Oh, we're the one scene where I, um, it was like, they're going in for the kiss. The notebook. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I was going in. I was really going for the kiss. And you told me not to stop you. But you did. You stopped it. You were being too damn slow. You had to go a little bit fast. That was what it was. We had to do a show in two hours. And then she like, like, oh, you cut off a stage
Starting point is 00:32:52 kiss. But no, no, no, she didn't need. The other girl didn't know. It was just, it was really had time this is on Andrew okay all right I'm assuming you were going really slow if she cut it off and she probably thought that she was saving you wait the other girl yeah I think the other girl was kind of like oh my she was like frantic so I was like oh maybe this is a bad idea before every well before every show but like during every show during intermission we would chit chat and it'd be like okay is there anyone who you really like yeah because I'll pick them for certain scenes for this like movie date and so for the ones you would really like i'd be like okay i'll save her for the notebook and if you want to like slide in slide in there you know get get that smooch but you were just too
Starting point is 00:33:35 slow yeah there's only one i really would like what it was that last one the other other girls are just really nice god whoever this is if you're listening to this please one of our scott's still show oh i told i thought the number so like if he really wanted to date her a little bit but kind of fell through i'm gonna give me your number and i'll text and get her on stage again i'll make this could happen he's like no that ship has sailed uh okay my final question for you then andrew so you said that like you get super nervous and awkward when you actually like a girl but around friends who you're just like kind of playfully talking with it's super easy easy i used to be exactly like that so i would have like a whole bunch of guy friends just like always fall in
Starting point is 00:34:17 love with you because you're like your most playful flirty self with that friends and then like The signs wrong. I was like, oh, my God. No, I'm just practicing with you, basically. Unintentionary practicing. Yeah. No, that happens a lot. I know because, like, I always want, like, my girl to be, like, a good friend of mine. So it's almost like, all right, well, we're friends, but. And then, like, you start, that switch happens.
Starting point is 00:34:45 And next year, you know, you're like, I like, I like her. And then everyone's like, why are you being so weird? Like, I don't know. I know. That was the German Andrew. And I started to get to know. Yeah. Oh, I feel you.
Starting point is 00:34:57 That's my problem for sure. All right. Well, guys, thank you so much for joining us today. So sorry that Rodney couldn't be here. We've never had Rodney on the podcast. So that's something we're going to, or like we did, but like back in the day before he was, you know, really in the running to be the Bachelor. But if you guys want to, if you've wanted to see Andrew and Rodney be in that Bachelor position, It is now time that you can experience it at talking stickresort.com.
Starting point is 00:35:27 So you go, that's where you go to get tickets. And then Becca will be your best galfriend, gal-frey, gal-pal, girlfriend throughout the process. So guys, I hope you have a fun April. And maybe we'll talk to you afterward after Andrew finds love on stage. We're all invited to the wedding. Okay. Thank you. Sorry for my total.
Starting point is 00:35:52 lack of brain today. Oh, you're good. That sweatshirt is fired. Thank you. It was top shop like a Disney line. We love it. Thanks. I get so many compliments on this and I'm like it's years old. It's always crew necks. You can never
Starting point is 00:36:08 go wrong with a crew neck. That's so true. I much prefer a crew neck sweatshirt than a hoodie. I do too. You throw anything on the front? It doesn't even matter. I know. But then you've got your hoodie on right now. All right. You guys. Bye. Yeah.
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