The Binge Cases: U R NEXT - Denise Didn't Come Home | 7. Evil Nice Guy

Episode Date: October 3, 2024

Host Anthony Scalia builds a relationship with a notorious serial killer and finally hears the full story about what happened to Denise Falasca the night she died. Binge all episodes of Denise Didn’t Come Home, ad-free today by subscribing to The Binge. Visit The Binge Cases show page on Apple Podcasts and hit ‘subscribe’ or visit GetTheBinge.com to get access.  The Binge – feed your true crime obsession. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Bench. Hey everyone. Just a quick heads up before we get started. This episode contains descriptions of violence and sexual assault, so please take extra care when listening. I want to say something to you. I just believe that certain people are moved into my path at certain times. And I just believe that you're the person to do this.

And that's why your heart is being disturbed. When Karen passed away, she left me with a hole in my heart, and a mountain of tape to go through. I didn't know what this project was without her. So I started to listen back from the beginning. But this really needs to be done. And you're yawning, you're full of energy, and you're ready to look at this thing with fresh eyes

and flush out the story that's in there. Because when I die, it will die, the whole story. And it shouldn't die. Now it was my turn to keep this story alive. Listening to the tape, Karen had found some measure of peace writing to Richard Cottingham, but she died without knowing all the details of what happened to Denise. I actually couldn't really nail him down on specific details that he should have had.

And people think, well, oh, you don't want to know all the details because it'll just upset you. That's so wrong. Not knowing is really the worst part of any of this. She really wanted to know why. How had Cottingham become the man who killed her sister? I needed to know things about him, and he did disappoint. Richard would have to be the one to tell us what happened that made him so evil. Such an evil, nice guy.

I knew that I would need to get answers to Karen's questions, and those could only come from Cottingham. I listened back to one of the last things she said to me. Is there anything that you would impart to me, any sort of wisdom? Don't be afraid. When you get that feeling inside of you to go after something, don't be afraid. Cottingham was known to reject interviews. It took a while, but then there I was sitting at my parents' basement, waiting for his call.

You will not be charged for this call. What call is from? Dickham. An inmate at the New Jersey State Prison. This call will be monitored and recorded. To accept this call, press 5 now. To decline this call, hang up. Hello?

Hi, Richard. Hi, this is Anthony. Can you hear me? Yes. Okay. Do you hear me? Yes, yes, I can hear you. That's a bad time, eh?

Yeah. My name is Anthony Scalia. From Truth Media and Sony Music Entertainment, this is Denise didn't come home. When I'm done talking to Richard, I want to be done with Denise's We're talking about a guy who is the master of deception. He's a bad guy, but he is the one that has answers.

Believeable or not, the person that's talked to me that day, to me was like the devil himself. Do you think that you saw Richard the night that Denise died? Do you think that person in the car was Richard? I know it was now. I absolutely know. Hello, Anthony. How are you? This is to you and your girlfriend.

You know the one I'm going to steal from you. Good boy, it. Chapter 7. Evil nice guy. He has a monster. I can understand that. I don't blame them at all. Look at what I've done and everything.

It has to come out to a monster. It has to come out to a scary, dangerous ghoul. By the time I finally got on the phone with Richard Cottingham, he was a 73-year-old who had spent more than half his life in prison. He had been convicted of five murders and had confessed to four more. but he claimed to have killed around 80. I did some really, really terrible things in my life. I don't believe it sometimes.

You know, sometimes I don't believe I did these things. I knew two things about him from talking to Bergen County detectives, that he was charming and manipulative and that he loved food. So on that first call, that's what we talked about. What do you miss the most, food-wise? Pizza. I love pizza. I could eat pizza all day long. Hot dogs. I love hot dogs, too. Yesterday we made fresh homemade tomato sauce.

Oh, fuck you. I make it, I make it too. They just ketchup and water. It's not just like water. I knew that I wouldn't be able to get into the big stuff right away. So on that first call, I kept it to small talk. You know what my biggest thing is, Kelly Clarkson. I love her music.

Get out of here, really? I listen to them all day long. I got 65 a rehearsal. Wow. Karen called Cottingham an evil nice guy. I was starting to see why. You know, you said that you really did feel bad when it came to Karen. I felt horrible.

I felt ashamed. I liked her. I liked her immediately. She was very sincere. She wasn't easy on me. She told me off right away. She had a lot of hurt in her. It really troubled me because I didn't really.

realized after all these years, it would still be there. What brought me peace and happiness was making Karen feel good. Worley and the bum's like me. I'll probably be around while I'm 98. See, I'm going to go look at my bologna. You have 30 seconds remaining. And you can eat your lasagna and stuff meatballs. Well, it's for you awesome.

Thank you. You don't have to worry. I'm doing it because I want to. I'm doing it to Karen. Talk to you. Great, I'll write you. As soon as the phone cut out, I remember I went upstairs and my parents were like, oh my God, what was he like? I was like, he was normal.

You could easily forget who you're talking to. But then I remembered what Karen told me about Cottingham. This man had been damaged to this point where there was no good in them. There was an evil that exists within this man. even to this day. Want more true crime? Subscribe to The Binge to get all episodes of My Mother's Lies

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Hey, Rich. How are you? Oh, it's been a whirlwind in the last week and a half. You know, it's prison shit, you know. After a few calls with Richard Cottingham, we started to get into a rhythm. We'd get on the phone, he'd complain about the prisoner's health. They got mad at me because I wouldn't go to the hospital. I'd ask a question or two. And then the 15 minutes would be up, and he'd have to call me back.

But on those calls, I started to dig into one of Karen's unanswered questions. What had turned Cottingham into a monster? Have you ever tried to seriously take the time and think about why you did these things? I thought about it thousands of times. There's no answer. There's just no answer. I had a perfect family life. Two great parents went to the best schools in the area.

Never went to bed hungry. Just a normal life. Cottingham grew up in the nice part of Bergen County with three sisters. His father worked for an insurance company. His mother was a housewife. I had no proclivity toward any of the known actions of serial killers when they were young. I never started fires, I never killed animals. In fact, I raised honing pigeons.

Every once in a while, a bird would come back and have a broken wing or something, and you'd have to kill it. I couldn't kill it. My father would have to go out and ring it tonight because I just couldn't do it. But there was one thing that happened to Cottingham when he was a kid that he thinks might explain who he became. When I was four years old, I hit a car. and it made the papers because the article wasn't that a car hit a boy,

the boy ran into the car. I could hit my head, and I went to the hospital and the whole bit. You know, when a kid gets the head injury or something, it's possible that some area of your brain gets scrambled up or something like that. Cottingham says he started acting out at his elementary school, talking in class, cheating on tests, and stealing. Yeah, I'd always take the chance, and more times than not, I got caught. Back then, when you went to Catholic school, the nuns beat the shit out of you.

Did you ever get hit by the nuns? Oh, I got hit all the time. Because I wasn't smart enough to get away with it. As he moved to high school, Cottingham says he got better at breaking the rules and getting away with it. And he was starting to enjoy it. It's that gambling instinct. If you did something bad like that, you were supposed to get caught. So when I didn't, it showed me that you can probably do anything you want and get away with it.

Cottingham told the cops that his first murder happened back in 1967 when he was 20 years old. The victim was a young housewife named Nancy Vogel. Was Nancy Vogel your first homicide? No. No way. I haven't told nobody when the first one, but it was well before Nancy Vogel. I think I understand now that your first was in high school, right? Yes.

And I'm not going to go too much into it. But he did end up telling me a little about it. She was also a young housewife from Bergen County. And at the time, he was only 16 or 17 years old. It was unintentional. Maybe 98% unintentional. You know, maybe in the back of my mind, something was going to happen or something like that.

death, but it wasn't intentional. Did you realize then that you were capable of this? Or were you kind of surprised that you had done something like that? I was euphoric that I got away with it. You feel powerful. You feel like you know something that nobody else in the world knows. And that's a powerful thought. After high school, Cottingham went on to kill other young women in Bergen County.

Like Nancy Vogel, I read. Green Place and Denise Falaska. I didn't get off killing anybody. I enjoyed getting away with things. You know, it was the excitement, it was the adrenaline pumping in you, knowing you could do something so dangerous and not have to worry about getting caught. By the 70s, Cottingham was married with three kids, living in my hometown of Lodi. He had a steady job working the night shift as a computer operator at Blue Cross Blue Shield in New York City.

I'd get off work and I'd have five or six or seven hours every night to go to the bars or stalking people and doing what I wanted to do. I went to Times Square at 3 o'clock in the morning. You couldn't imagine what Times Square was. The excitement was like electricity in the air. You could walk down the street and almost guarantee you see somebody getting stabbed. You know, the pimps would be shooting each other or, You'd always see the horse fighting with each other, and it was a wild place. Everything a man hits out for some fun could want was right in that area.

I loved women. I could never get another of them. I was always mysterious. I would sit at the end of the bar, and I would just look disinterested. And before I know, they'd be running after me. I wasn't a bad-looking guy back in those days. I dressed well. And I had the lack of just being able to start a conversation or be friendly or maybe I looked safe.

I don't really know what it is. They never really thought that anything bad was going to happen at the end. Sometimes, Cottingham says he would pick up a nurse or a waitress who had just gotten off her shift. But most of the time, he would pick up a prostitute and bring her to a seedy motel. If you make any noise or anything, you're not going to see tomorrow morning. All I would have to do is tell him what to do, and they would do anybody. It wasn't fighting or yelling or screaming or punching or any of that stuff that you might think it would be. It wasn't violent.

The bodies Cottingham left behind told a different story. He would sexually assault these women. He would torture them for hours, sometimes for days. He cut them with knives, bit them, and beat them. The autopsies in these cases are clear. It was almost like playing God. It's a powerful situation. It's a powerful feeling.

It was out of my mind already. I never looked over. Never lost a night's sleep. You know, I didn't think about it no more. I didn't have to think about it. Come home, sleep two hours, play with the kids with two hours, take my wife for the store for an hour, and then go right back and do it over again.

Night after night, week after week, year after year. If you had not been arrested, you'd think you would have continued to do these violent crimes. 60 seconds remaining. Does Friday around the same time work for you? Is that okay? Yeah, unless they give me parole before that, you know. I might just knock on your door one night and say, hey, guess who? This call is from. An inmate aunt.

New Jersey State Prison. To accept this call, press 5 now. Hello. Hello. Good, good. I wanted to jump into some questions about Denise because I'd been talking to Richard Cottingham every week for a few months, hoping to gain his trust. And now that I felt that I had it, there was one more murder I wanted him to tell me about. You just talked me through that initial moment when you saw Denise and what followed after?

afterwards. I was driving on Olook Road at night. It was desolate, so to speak. There's no houses, there's nothing but woods. In that time frame, it was almost impossible between miles and not see a hitchhiker. Everybody hitchhiked. And usually it was mostly girls. I don't think Denise was actually sticking her finger out.

I'd seen her on the other side of the street. going the opposite way. And she was just walking along the side of the road. She just came right up. You go into Westwood, pretty. She was sexy. I said, yeah, she just hopped in. I think I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink or something,

and she giggled or something like that. She had a very young sounding voice. She was just too young. But when you pick them up, they're already in your car. It's too late. Only about maybe a five minute drive at the tops. So I had to make a decision right away, whatever, on a way. Obviously, I decided to do it.

She told me she was supposed to meet her friends at the pizza shop. But as we approached the pizza shop, you could see there was nobody there. You know, I told her something to the effect, well, why don't we go in and have a slice of pizza and wait for your friends? Friends didn't show up. I said to her, you know, can I take you someplace else or whatever? I went and got the car just honked the horn

and she was still on the corner in front of the pizza shop but she didn't know what to do depending on if she got back in the car and she just humped in Cottingham told me that he drove Denise to the parking lot behind his old Catholic elementary school

it was the place where he first started breaking the rules it was a beautiful place to be alone and not be bothered It was a really perfect place for people who wants to do bad things. Back then, you got to remember, the seats are like one big bench seat. So I screwed it over towards her. I put my arm around her.

I don't think she knew how to handle the situation. At some point, she didn't want to go no further. Cottingham sexually assaulted Denise. He told me that when it was all over, he questioned her, trying to get a feel for whether he could let her go. Are you going to get in trouble if you come home really late? What are you going to say when you go home? I think she asked me if I had any sisters,

what high school did I go to? And, you know, of course I didn't tell her the truth. I knew immediately what she was getting at. I could sense that she was trying to find out a little bit about me. I got the sense that she would not be afraid to go home and tell her parents exactly what happened. It's not going to end if I just let her go home. She was a lot smarter than I gave her credit for in the beginning.

And she was a little more stupid. I think she might be alive right now. That point, she is very dangerous to me. If you're out in the woods, there's a bear there, and you don't want to shoot the bear because it's a beautiful animal. Well, you notice bear is going to tear you apart if you don't shoot them first. You realize now, in retrospect, the hypocrisy is something like that. She was just a sitting duck.

You're the bear. I mean, that's the way I see it. There's no way to justify something like. When I met her, she was the sitting duck. She was helpless. She didn't do anything wrong or anything like that. Her goes, then it turns around, and now she becomes the danger, and I'm the one that's a sitting duck.

But you put yourself in that danger. Oh, of course. I'm not blaming her. At all. And I chose to put her in that position. To me, in my mind, it was her or me. Cottingham says that once he made up his mind, the only question left was where it would happen.

I just decided I would go down to Saddlebrook around that area, which I knew. I had used it before. Cottingham had killed another girl in that area, just a few months before. It was a safe place, you know. Little Erie with the... cemetery on the other end. It was just really a perfect place or something like that.

So something was going on. She was acting different. She was, of course, a lot more worried. I pulled off at the side of the road. I remember shaking her, grabbing her around the head, you know, around the neck to calm her down. Bent over.

Almost laying on her back. And I was basically on top of her with my hand around her. and they strangled her. How heavy a 95 or 100-pound girl can be when they're dead. And you're on the side of a road and the wind is going by, you're rushed. You know, you can't take your time.

Exciting type of time because that's where the danger is. Karen told me she wanted to know all the details that not knowing what happened was the worst part. But by the time Cottingham was finished, I was glad she would never have to hear them all. Do you have any idea what Denise's last words may have been? Yes. Well, I'm not going to tell you.

Are you lying to me? No. That's quite an important thing. Is there any way you could just tell me because it is a big deal to me? It's a hard thing to talk about. I get very emotional when I talk about it. I will tell you. I just got to be in the right mood.

For weeks, I pushed Cottingham to give me Denise's last words. It started to feel like he was stringing me along to keep me calling. But then, finally, he said he would tell me on our next call. What made you not want to talk about it until today? I wasn't going to talk about it at all. I didn't have no intention the entire time to really speak of it. Okay. Okay. So what were they?

During the actual ending of her life, you know, I was looking at one part of me didn't want to do it, and I couldn't have stopped. So now you know. I would never be able to know if Cottingham was lying to me about this. But for some reason, it felt like the truth. I thought about Karen, about everything she and her family would go through after that moment.

a moment that Cottingham would repeat many more times. He murdered so many women, and he destroyed so many families. Do you think people will ever know the extent of all that you've done? No, simple answer, no. There's only one person in the world that knows what went on, and it's me. I really am the one that determines what is going to come out by what I feel like talking about. In a lot of ways, Cottingham is still the kid he was in high school, holding secrets in his head and taking pleasure from the fact that no one else knows.

He could help more people like Karen, but he chooses not to. It's really not that many currents where people are still even living safe. I can assure you that there are a lot of people who are still looking. Oh, I'm sure there are. Karen got enough from Cottingham to bring her some peace. But there was one more question she asked him that he didn't give a clear answer to. Do you think that you may have seen Karen that night? We talked about that extensively far, she said.

And the way the guy looked at her, she always wondered about, she wanted to hear, sometimes I wanted to say things to her just to make her feel good. But in the long run, I said, that's not the right thing to do. So I told I really just didn't remember. I don't remember the end. You know, some people have imaginations, and they start to imagine things. Karen might have said something over and over and over until she got convinced of it. On the next and final episode of Denise didn't come home, I finally get my hands on Denise's case file

and learn things Karen always wanted to know. And I learned some things Karen didn't want me to know. You can actually sometimes convince yourself that you did something or you saw something that you didn't. Denise Didn't Come Home is a production of Truth Media in partnership with Sony Music Entertainment. I'm your host, Anthony Scalia. The show is produced by Ryan Swiker and me. Story Editing by Mark Smirling. Kevin Shepard is our associate producer. Scott Curtis is our production manager.

From Sony, our executive producers. or Jonathan Hirsch and Catherine St. Louis. Fact-checking by Donia Suleiman. Kenny Kuziak did the mix. Sound design by Kenny Kuziak and Ryan Swiker. Music by Kenny Kuziak, Epidemic Sound, and Marmoset. Special thanks to Peter Vronsky and Jennifer Weiss. Our title track is Gimmy Some by Weevil.

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