The Bobby Bones Show - AMY: Feeling Regret… and Explaining the Point of This Podcast

Episode Date: September 7, 2025

The Feeling of the Day is regret... Amy and Kat are both feeling it. Kat is second-guessing her new haircut, while Amy regrets “crashing out” on her son for eating an entire bowl of pineapple (and reminding him he really needs to diversify his fruit). In the middle of their remorse, Kat tosses out the question: What’s something you’d still do if you were only 60% good at it? They also respond to a listener's email asking what the point of the new podcast even is, and share another wild story from a listener about getting hit on at the grocery store (sent in after Amy’s own infamous “business card guy” moment). Plus, TV recs (Righteous Gemstones and Woman of the Hour), details on how to join them at Top Golf for a foster care fundraiser, and of course a reminder to have the day you need to have! Click HERE for details on the Top Golf fundraiser Amy is hosting with Ben for foster kids in Nashville.  Watch us on Youtube HERE! Call and leave a voicemail: 877-207-2077 Email: [e-mail] HOSTS: Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy Kat Van Buren // threecordstherapy.com // @KatVanburenSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Listen to Love Trapped podcast on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. One, two, three. like an unbrough ladies and fellas we just follow in the spirit where it tells us from the real stuff to the chill stuff and the in between sometimes the best thing you can do is just out this is feeling things with amy and cat happy tuesday welcome to feeling things i'm amy and i'm cat and our feeling of the day is coming from you cat what you got i'm feeling um regretful i didn't really want to say that word because i don't want to be feeling but it's that's part of feeling your feelings is like they are what they are. So what did you do?

What did you do? So a couple days ago I got real, well, probably a week ago, I got, you know, I have to give you the long version of this story. Yeah, I know. You're like, what? I'm like, okay, this is, we're setting this up for like, you did something crazy. Because like, I'm like, I have regret to and I know what you're regretting. And I'm like, okay, you're regretting this and like, I'm regretting yelling at my kid.

Because he ate all the pineapple. So, okay. Do you need to process that before I process my story? Well, I already asked for forgiveness. I mean, I haven't like yell, yell, but no, I didn't. Mine wasn't the feeling of the day, but once you said, I didn't know exactly what your feeling was going to be, but I knew it was going to be about your hair. It's, you gave it away.

I was setting the stage. Oh, sorry, set the stage. Well, they don't know what. Okay, so wait a second. I have to say this because I'll forget. One thing that does kind of get my tails all twisted. I was trying to think of a phrase. What's that other thing you say?

Yuck my yum. Yeah. Okay. That's a phrase. People say that. Okay. Sure they do. I've never heard anybody, but you say it.

We also got an email. I don't know if we read it where a mom said it and her daughter was like, mom, don't ever say that again. So I'm sorry. Yeah, because it's definitely not like what all the cool kids are saying. I'm not claiming to be cool. Like, you know how we say fire or sick or whatever. a big one right now is I'm about to crash out, which is I'm about to lose it. And I feel like your hair is causing me to crash out. Oh my gosh. I am crashing out. But okay, I have to read this because speaking of cool things, I got a text last night from a friend of mine. And she said, we just had a waiter describe a dish to us as the missionary sex of chicken dishes. Wait, what?

Wait, so it's just like, you know, playing? But then I said where, I won't say where. And she said, he actually said, usually the half chicken is bussen. But this version is the missionary sex of chicken. And I said, did you end up getting it? And she said, we did not get it. We were not going to be the boring couple because they were kind of like a cool couple out on a day. Because they have like kids and they're going out.

But like how? And I was like, well, that's so funny. I wish that kid was my waiter. And she was like, he was like 35. I don't think I would want a kid waiter talking to me about missionary sex. Okay. Well, I think it's better that he was 35. I don't want a teenager being like, this one's like the missionary.

Isn't that hilarious? Yes, that is funny. Not selling the dish well. No, not at all. Where were we? Oh. We are crashing out. I'm crashing out, but I have to say this too before I crash out.

One of the things that twists my ties, what did I say? Gets my ties all twisted. And yuck's your yum, yeah. Is when you have something that you're looking forward to eating and it's in the fridge and you're like, oh, it's like leftovers. You're like, I'm going to go have the leftover Chinese food or pizza or whatever. And you open the door and it's gone. So you understand why I crashed out with the pineapple being on?

Yes. When you are looking forward to food. It was a full thing of pineapple, like full. And if you're like, oh, that juicy pineapple's in the fridge waiting for me, I can't wait to just go eat it. And then you're like, I get it. He got home from school and cross country. So I get he was hot and tired and probably thirsty and pineapples,

juicy and hydrating and like yum. And he ate the entire cut up thing to where I'm like, now there's no more. Now there's no. And it never will be. Cichira doesn't get any pineapple. I don't get any pineapple. So Chira wanted probably pack that in her lunch door. Like I started,

I started bringing in Stichara. It's true. Look what you did to your sister. She had been packing it in her lunch. And now it's gone. And the thing is, there's oranges, apples, bananas. And a grocery store pretty close to it. Yeah, but I looked at him and I said,

Remember I was crashing out. I said, we need to learn to diversify our flight because then it won't just, you know, all disappear in one sitting, you know? Like you can't just like ever take a thing full of everything you need it all when you share out with people because you're never going to have roommates when you go to college. Yes, because I'm like, you need like, look, you could. have gotten a little bit of pineapple and you've got to gotten an apple and then eating a banana and then gotten all these different nutrients. Was he like, mom, are you okay? You just looked at me and he was like, okay. He's like, I thought you wanted us to eat fruit and like I do want them to eat fruit. And yes, I can go get another pineapple. I'm not saying what I did was okay. But as the kids say,

I just crashed out a little bit and I did have regret and I did tell him I was sorry and I said, eat the fruit. I want you to eat the fruit. I said, however, there is something to diversifying the fruit. Like, I really meant that part. Like, don't just like, because they can get fixated on, like, they just go and they need a variety. And then also that keeps me from having to go back to the grocery store. I want to go once a week. You know what? And teenage boys, they eat a lot. And so diversify the fruit. Because then that keeps everybody happy. Now, get to the regret on your hair. I'm just thinking of Stevenson in therapy, like at 35 years old being like, my mom told me to diversify the fruit and now I can't eat a whole apple anymore. No, you can eat a whole apple. It'd be like if he

opened up the drawer and ate all the apples. Or all the oranges because he ate all the pineapple. Okay. That's funny. Yeah. Great story. Mom was here. Okay. What's happening with the hair? Okay. So back to about a week ago. I got so. I told you this. I was like, I want to shave my head because my hair, I was just having one of those overstimulated moments where like my hair was so long. It was like, it didn't really do anything because it was so long in all the same length. And like, you know, when your hair gets so long, it's like caught in your armpit and stuff,

you know, and it's like hot out. Itching. Yes, because I had these flyaway. I don't know how, but I got like a chunk of hair cut in the front of my head. You can't see this, anybody that's listening. But there was a small, probably 30 strands. of hair got like cut like that. Don't know how.

So they would like tickle my forehead. Oh. Which I know you just said you can't see this. So I want to remind people we are on YouTube except for not this episode. We're not filming today. Just circumstances. Because of what I'm talking about right now. Kat didn't want to film because of her hair.

Just kidding. Just kidding. We don't have our whole crew here. So it's just Kat and I. So, you know that some of you that do watch us on YouTube, you might be like, wait a second. What happened? But if you haven't subscribed over on YouTube, you can because we are growing over there,

which is so fun to see because most of our loyal people listen via podcast when they're out and about. But YouTube, shout up. Plug. Okay, keep going here. Okay. So my hair was like tickling me. So that's what I was, I was like there's like bugs crawling on my head. That's what it felt like.

But I would think it was just like overstimulation. And if I think about it, I had a lot going on. So I probably was just overwhelmed and I was taking it out on my hair. Anyway, I got it cut and I probably got four inches cut off, which is a lot. Yeah, that's a lot. And I feel like I have a bowl cut. But it's still past your shoulders. A bowl cut is way, like, I know that it's your hair, so you're feeling it, but I'm telling you as an onlooker, it looks good.

But I know that you've been also just trying to like take matters into your own hands now and I think you just need to let it go. I did cut a couple things myself. Keep cutting it more. Maybe this is deeper. It's like too much change and not enough change at the same time. I don't know. I haven't processed it, which means I probably shouldn't be talking about it right now. But all that to say, I wish I could take two inches back on my hair.

So in a couple of months, two inches will grow and that that's when it will be. But what I am doing is I stopped getting it color. And this all goes back to if you guys listen to. to the Hot Girl Hamster Wheel episode where I'm like, why am I coloring my hair? My hair is actually not toot my own horn, but I have a pretty natural hair color. Yeah, I think it's really pretty, like a really pretty brunette. And it looks good with my skin tone. So why have I been putting blonde highlights in it? It's just like I got into this routine of doing it. And so I didn't do that. So I do feel really good about that. And I actually do really like the color. Well, so you want to

know about cutting the four inches off though? That helps like get a lot of that color off. So this is you just having more of your fresh hair. I also don't know how to do my hair. That's another thing. I just don't know how to do my hair at this length anymore because it was long for so long that how I curled it before doesn't work now. I'm like trying to figure out the metaphor for life here. Like how? Well, you keep thinking.

I'll keep talking. Okay. You think about a metaphor. She asked me if I wanted her to do the wave like I usually do or for her to do the blowout look. And I said, what's the blowout look? And she said, oh, everybody's doing the blowout look now. why don't we try it and she did it and I actually really liked it and then I did it myself today and I was like you look like a second grader and you tried to curl your own hair I think I just need

to practice is that the metaphor that I need to practice when you start something new don't hate on it until you practice you're a beginner I'm a beginner allow me you're reaching so far but I'm going to help you out you're allowed to be a beginner with things that you've never done before. Yeah. That's true. Like I talk about this all the time. You've not styled hair this length.

Well, I have. I just like in times with different hair styles were cool. Because I used to always have a top knot. I would cut my hair short and just put it on top knot and that was like my thing. So why don't you just do that? I don't know. I felt like I outgrew the top knot. Maybe next week I'll be wearing a top knot.

If I do, just don't say anything about it. Is it top knot like the missionary style? Hair styles. Or is it bussen? I guess we'll have. to see. But I have to say this now because you reminded me of it how a lot of adults have troubled starting new things and trying new things because when we're adults, we feel like we have to be automatically good at something. But as kids, if you look back on the things that you,

I played soccer, I was on the year-round swim team, even though I couldn't dive. I did gymnastics, dance, acting classes. I tried everything and did not think twice about it because I was young and I felt like I was allowed to be a beginner and learn. But as adults, we for some reason, get embarrassed or feel shame when we're not automatically good at something. And so I ask my clients a lot who are in this space, what's something you would do if you only had to be like 60% good at it? And maybe for me, that answer is I would curl my hair a new way.

Or maybe it's like you don't have to be good at. It's just like, what would you do if you had, if there wasn't this fear, attached to it because that reminds me of this email I'm about to read and like us relaunching the podcast together because I think for me I had some fear around that I had excitement because I knew relaunching it with you was going to be amazing but also like I had had four things for so many years and had built that and you had you need therapy podcast and we were going to be merging something and like what if it didn't work and then our friendship

blew up crashed out because you ate all my pineapple or something I will never Don't worry. Well, yeah, because that yuck, you're yum too. Yeah. You don't want people to eat all the food you're looking forward to in the fridge. So we got an email from a confused listener. In fact, that's the subject line. A win is a win.

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It's Will Ferrell. My dad gave me the best advice ever. I went and had lunch with them one day, and I was like, and Dad, I think I want to really give this a shot. I don't know what that means, but I just know the groundlings. I'm working my way up through, and I know it's a place that come look for up and coming talent. He said, if it was based solely on talent, I wouldn't worry about you, which is really sweet. Yeah. He goes, but there's so much luck involved.

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Listen to Thanks Dad on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. So we got an email from a confused listener. In fact, that's a subject line in regards to our rebrand, our shift into feeling things, which we started discussing privately between the two of us. back in August, should we rebrand the podcast and you come on full time? And then it took from August, that initial conversation all the way to April. April 1st is when we went live with the rebrand. So that was eight months. And I would say the first few months after August were like, okay, should we really do this? And I remember having fear around it. And then it's a lot of work.

So it's almost like also sometimes what would you do? like if you didn't have to think about the work you would have to put into it because sometimes we put things off because of that. But we had to do it up front. And then now that we're on the other side of it, totally worth it. Maybe because we do have this listener, this listener email. Dear Feeling Things podcast, I'm a longtime listener and fan of Four Things with Amy Brown and enjoy the episodes with Kat. I only listen to podcast during my evening walks with my dog. And Four Things has been my go-to pick for years. I've been listening to the new Feeling Things podcast and I'm having a hard time understanding the structure and the overall goal. Each episode, I feel confused and I have no idea

the point of each episode. I want to keep listening. However, I find myself waiting for the overall purpose. Can you all explain the structure? I do get that you all pick a feeling word at the beginning of an episode. But after that, it seems to go many unknown directions. Thanks, four things listener. So, okay, I get that. Yeah. Because sometimes I feel confused, too. And I think what for me has been beautiful about this process is stepping into the unknown and the scary at times and not really knowing. And one thing Kat and I wanted was to discuss feelings, which I think in every single episode, we do that, like a variety of different feelings. It may not look, you know, super quote unquote structured like oh we're moving on to this next feeling but we share a lot from

our lives or stories or things that we're watching feelings that we're having about everything from a TV show to a book to something that happened to us out in the wild you know like recently I talked about a guy hitting on me when I was with my kids and we've got an email coming up from another listener that's a story sort of similar that happened to her in the wild which the story is blowing my mind now that I think about it. Like they took guts for this guy to do what he did. But we'll get to that email in a minute. But also speaking of these emails we're getting,

another thing is the feeling of connection and the connection with y'all. So this email we're going to read coming up is from a listener that has interacted with us multiple times. And we don't know her, but we feel like we know her. And while not a lot of us have met in person, some of us maybe have in the past. at four things live events or something. But our hope is that you have a feeling of connection and you feel like you're listening to your friends talk.

And so that is our vibe, that is our energy, that is our structure. Now, we will have the occasional deep dive, which Kat delivered our first one ever about Mel Robbins and the Let Them Theory. Beautifully done, Kat. People are raving about it or they're feeling. They're having feelings about it. They're having feelings. Like lots of feelings about it.

And with that, I'll say, we are going to continue to do more deep dives, but we also want to be clear that deep dives are not always going to be about people. They might be about topics or cults or ideas. Other things. We're open to requests so y'all can email us things you would like for us to deep dive on. Hey, they're at feeling things podcast.com. Could even be like a trend. Yes. Deep dive on Labibu's.

Yeah. I know what those are. Yes. I know what they are, but I wouldn't be interested in that, would you? I know. I'm just saying like a trend that I wouldn't be super interested in. Although I'm a little confused by it. I'm intrigued.

Not intrigued like I want to buy one. Yeah. If you don't know what Lubbubos are, they're like these little stuffed animals that clip on bags and they're so expensive. They look like monsters. Yeah. But my point in saying that is it could be like some kind of trend that's happening or has happened in the past.

Ooh, that like we don't get. Yes. Maybe I would be into that because it would help me understand. help me understand why people are adults are putting these on their bags. If Firefest just happened, we could do a deep dive on Firefest. You know what I mean? Yeah. Like things that are happening in pop culture.

There will be, you know, offshoots like that. And then there's also going to be series. Like we've got the four horsemen coming up, which I want you to touch on, again, Kat's a therapist. And this is a mental health-minded podcast, I think, is how we branded it. So it can lean therapy at times. And also, again, we really, our main goal is Kat and I chatting and you all feel like you're sitting with your girlfriends and you're having to talk or, hey guys, you're here

too, girlfriends, boyfriends. Well, also, I'll say like just like you're talking with your friends, like sometimes those conversations are lighthearted and fun and silly and random. And sometimes those conversations are more vulnerable and deep and they're about your friend telling you something that they learned or telling you. telling you something that is interesting to them. And that's what the structure is, is that the structure is that we have a certain idea of how we interact with each other and we allow whatever is showing up within our friendship and our lives to come here. So when we are sharing

something with you, like the Mel Robbins thing or the Four Horsemen, it's because those things have been a value to us or are interesting to us or we've been talking about them or learning about them. So it is, I think the connection piece is huge too in that. Well put. Yeah. And the four horsemen, if you're like, what is that? It is John Gottman, who is a very famous relationship, marriage therapist. I don't know if he's a psychologist. And researcher. He's a, yeah, he's done more research on couples. I mean, he's, if you want to go to, if you want to be a couples therapist, you often are doing the Gottman training. I have not done that. I am not a couples therapist. However, his research found these four things that he's, he's, he's, he's, he's, he's, he. He's He uses to determine with 90% accuracy. Which is insane. Insane. If a relationship will survive or end.

And we're going to split, because there's so much we can say about them, we're going to split those up into four episodes, either two or four. I think four. Okay. We'll see how long. We always are like, we'll do both of those in the same episode and then the episode's five hours long. Right.

No, I think that we make it one horseman per episode because we may go on tangents. You never know. We might end up talking about dryer balls. Yeah. Which is that's the structure and that's the fun. We're like we're not so regimented. And I'll say for myself, I have to have a couple different podcasts that are in my rotation personally because I like the podcast that is just a random and fun and like so just out there. And then I like the podcast that you learn from. And then I like the podcast that are more structured. But I have to have a variety because I can't just do one of those. So we're bringing you all of those things into one. Damn.

Kind of. So be looking forward to the four horsemen. And again, if you do have something, you're like, I want to learn about this or my friends have been talking about this. Let us know. Head us up. Yeah. And make sure you're following on Instagram at Feeling Things podcast and TikTok. Because we're going to do some, like if you live close to Nashville in the Nashville area coming up at the end of September.

we've got an event we're picking people to come to top golf with us for a charity for foster care and we're going to have a feeling things team and y'all are going to be our guests so it's fun but those that's how we can interact and give those slots away so make sure you're following over there and we'll be doing that sort of soon so that way in case people need to plan obviously their calendars and even come like I know some people were saying oh I would I live only a couple hours away so I would drive. So I know some people need to plan, but community and connection, I think those two words are big for both of us. So we're looking forward to that event so that we can connect with y'all in person. But without the in-person stuff, which hopefully we'll plan more of that in the future,

I've been saying that for the last few years. We haven't done a live in a while. But also life has gotten crazy at times. I think that happens to everybody where you have something on your agenda for the year and then you take a look at it later and you're like this doesn't really make sense for me to put all this work into this right now when I have this happening in life. So I know with Kat and I even making this switch that we have a little bit more flexibility than we had before because now we have it. We're a team and we have a bigger team helping us. But also one of our goals is to do more in person things. So that's part of our plan and we want y'all to know that because so many of you have reached out, when is the next live or I would love to plan for it? Because

I'd fly there, which is so cool to think about. And we want that for y'all. So just know we're going to be working on something because we love that stuff too. So thank you for the email and being confused is good. Because then you get to ask a question and then you get information and then you get to decide for yourself if this is something that you want to keep listening to. And we certainly hope that you do. We love having each and every one of you here, especially our girl Karen, who has emailed Antlerd way of light. If you know, you know. But here's what Karen sent us after hearing a recent episode where I shared that a guy

gave me his business card while I was with my kids. Which someone said, I don't know if it was after they emailed or texted or I mean DMed or sent it to one of us later. But like the more shocking part was that he had a business card. Why is that shocking? A lot of people don't carry business cards anymore, do they? You know what? It is shocking because I have business cards and I never have one.

I need it. Well, maybe you should start carrying them around. I should start carrying them around. And here's what Karen wrote. A win is a win. A win is a win. I don't care what you're saying. Yep, that's me, Clifford Taylor the 4th.

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unfiltered conversations with some of your favorite athletes, creators, and voices that not only deserve to be heard, but celebrated. One week, I'll take you behind the scenes of the biggest moments in sports and entertainment, and the next we'll talk about life, mental health, purpose, and even music. The Clivert Show isn't just a podcast, it's a space for honest conversations, stories that don't always get told, and for people who are chasing something bigger. So, if you've ever supported me or you're just chasing down a dream,

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I'm Anna Sinfield. in this new season of The Girlfriends. Oh my God, this is the same man. A group of women discover they've all dated the same prolific con artist. I felt like I got hit by a truck. I thought, how could this happen to me? The cops didn't seem to care. So they take matters into their own hands.

I said, oh, hell no. I vowed I will be his last target. He's going to get what he deserves. Listen to the Girlfriends. Trust me, babe. On the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever. for you get your podcast. I don't you.

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My dad gave me the best advice ever. I went and had lunch with them one day, and I was like, and Dad, I think I want to really give this a shot. I don't know what that means, but I just know the groundlings. I'm working my way up through, and I know it's a place they come.

Look for me. up and coming talent. He said, if it was based solely on talent, I wouldn't worry about you, which is really sweet. He goes, but there's so much luck involved. And he's like, just give it a shot. He goes, but if you ever reach a point where you're banging your head against the wall and it doesn't feel fun anymore, it's okay to quit. If you saw it written down, it would not be an inspiration. It would not be on a calendar of, you know, the cat, just hang in there. Yeah, it would not be. Right, it wouldn't be that. There's a lot of luck.

Listen to Thanks, Dad, on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Here's what Karen wrote. Hey, Amy and Kat, thank you for making me laugh out loud today while I was listening to Tuesday's episode. I was gardening, so the neighbors probably thought I was crazy. When I lived in Montana a gazillion years ago, I was in line at the grocery store and heard the little girl behind me say to her dad, this thing smells like armpits. I turned around to see what she was talking about. It was a plexiglass divider thing, and I laughed. I turned back around and proceeded to start writing out my check to pay for my groceries.

Two nights later, I got a call from a guy. It was the dad, and he wanted to take me on a date. I must have sounded very confused because he said, I watched you write your phone number on your check. I was 25-ish and dumb, so I said yes, but I told my best friend and she insisted on coming with me on the date, mainly because he was a taxidermist and she had concerns, L.O.L. Thankfully, he was cool with that. Nice guy, but I was in my bar girl era, so dating a single dad was not in alignment with my goals. Every time I remember it, though, I do have to give him props for shooting his shot. Your friend, Karen.

I mean, I am blown away that he creeped on her, writing her phone number down, and either memorized it or wrote it down himself. Because, I mean, he didn't have a cell phone back then. Like, he couldn't, like, dial it right away. So he had to, like, get that number and he held it for two days. And then he called her. I am trying to think of the right feeling. Uh, I want to say shocked, but I'm more like in awe.

In awe feels too positive. I'm shocked that. That she went or that he did that? In multiple ways. That he was, first of all, close enough and had good enough eyesight. because I have to be pretty close to somebody to be able to see them writing something like that down. Forget your eyesight is terrible. First of all, stop attacking me.

Oh, sorry, sorry. I'm just kidding. Regardless, you have to be pretty close to see somebody writing their phone number on a check. Also, you have to be staring. Like, he is staring. That is bold, and I am impressed by him. It sounds like he just really wanted to take this person on a date and maybe didn't want to ask in front of his child. I don't know. But what? Also, as I'm saying this, is that how it happened back then? Because

that's wild. That you would just see somebody at the grocery store and be like, oh, she's about to write a check. Oh, they write. First of all, she's writing a check at the grocery store. I don't think they even take checks anymore. That he's like, oh, she's about to write a check. I bet she's going to write her phone number down and then have to stare at it. That's how you did it. Yeah. Meanwhile, I'm like, I meant my husband on a dating nap. He swiped. Yeah. Thanks have changed. But I mean, someone could still do that now if they overhear you say your phone number or something. But I would be like, oh my gosh, that's kind of creepy. But would you think it's creepy if it was back then?

I don't think the time matters. I think when someone does something bold like that, if you're attracted to them or think, if there's an attraction, then it's acceptable. If you're not, then you're like, they're a stalker weirdo. Yeah, I agree. But I do think the extra element of it being back then, that was probably more normalized than it is now. People don't even go up to you in person half the time to ask you out. they'll just like go on a dating app.

Yeah, I feel like some of that is kind of coming back, though. People are missing the connection. You're just saying that because she had it happened twice to you. Twice. Alex. Oh, well, he found me through someone else. Is that the same thing? I mean, he also came up and said hi to you in a grocery story.

Yeah, that's right. Yeah, you have men coming up to left and right. Must be nice. You're like, oh, I mean, it's coming back. It's happened to me six times in the past week. No. whatever. My current boyfriend did it to me at the grocery store, which, okay, fine. And then I did, yeah, I had the business card guy the other day. That's not six times. I know, but like,

oh, this is making me think of that show, though. Well, just going on dates with people and then that guy being a taxidermist, you know, because being scared, he might murder you. That show, it's been on Netflix. It's a movie for at least maybe a year or two with Anna Kendrick. woman of the hour where it's based on a true story from back in the day where this woman went on a game show and she was matched with a serial killer because a serial killer went on as one of the contestants like the girl was getting matched with guys and I tried to start watching it the other night and I had to turn it off because it was so disturbing and I can't believe that this is real life and it actually happened but I've never heard of that you ought to be careful out there people yeah in one of

his tactics. Of course, he had the game show thing, which I never even made it to the part where I saw him on the show. But leading up to it, they show how he starts since this very beginning. So I'm not giving anything away in case you've been looking forward to watching this on Netflix, but it has been up there a while. And this is a real story. So maybe you even know what happened. But he was like a nicest guy, and he would take pictures as a photographer of women and it make them feel special. Like one girl, I guess he was like, hey, let's go to this beautiful forest, like a desert. Like, it was in the desert in the middle of nowhere, right? But beautiful scenery.

And now you're out in the middle of nowhere with this man that has a camera, but you think he's a photographer and he's taking your photos. And he seems gentle and kind and nice and encouraging and, like, you know, like making you feel good in front of the camera. And then next thing, you know, so that was his thing. And so kind of like he looked like this nice photographer guy to be like, hey, oh, hold that smile oh you look like you're so cute right there hold it hold it hold it and then you you kind of let your guard down and you're like oh and then he kills you yeah yes that was his thing i don't know how many

women but it's called woman of the hour so go watch that if you want to and if you want something lighter but also vulgar then you can check out righteous gemstones on hvio max cat and i've been talking about that which cat and her christians definitely don't watch it with like your grandparent type christians I don't know that my parents would have been. My parents watched it. Oh, they, okay, and they loved it. They think it's funny. But I did, I don't know if they've seen the last season, and I did tell, I warned them

because they thought it was hilarious. I said, if you watch the fourth season, just know, they take it a little too far. It just gets weird. Yeah. It gets a little too weird. Like there's some stuff where I'm like, okay, could have done without seeing that. Like, I don't need to see that. You don't have to say it that way.

It's like that to keep making it more ridiculous. Yeah. They're making fun of mega churches. And megachurchurch pastors. and families. And so. So it's kind of spot on. It's like four seasons. And I started watching it years ago on and off. And then I was under the weather recently, I guess like a week or two ago and had a lot of free time. And I watched all of it like season three, season four. And I'm all the way caught up. You are the one that got me

to watch it in the first place. Oh, way back in the day. Yeah. Okay. I'm such a heathen. So anyway, check that out on a lighter note because the woman of the hour is definitely heavy. I have a question. Not to change the subject. No, it's fine. I'd rather stop talking about a serial killer. Well, I'm bringing it back to the email, which we laughed. Yes.

We laughed out loud when we read this email. It really entertained me. Would you or have you ever gone on a date with a friend? Like they're going on a date and you just are like, I'm going to come with you because I don't, for whatever reason. Have you ever been the third wheel on like a first date? On a first date? No. I have had people at my house for my first date when I'm getting picked up.

Okay. And like friends, like be here, but not go on the date, but like be here for the pickup. Also, I wonder if it's different now. That's a good idea. It's also, wait a second. What? Well, I guess you're dating people that you know through somebody because if you're just letting a stranger pick you up on a first date, that's wild.

Well, I did let my current boyfriend pick me up at my house for the first date because we have mutual friends. Yeah. That's the only reason. Oh, my gosh. So your first interaction with him. is like a 30 minute car ride. Yeah, well, I mean, he picked me up, came to my door, came in, met me, met cryocat was here.

Were you so nervous? I don't remember this. But then I do at the same time. I think I was a little nervous. But remember, I was just coming off of the whole lunch with Leslie debacle with the other guy. So I was like, yeah. And my therapist was like, you need to adult date. So I'm like, here I am.

I'm out here adult dating. Look at me in a 30 minute car ride to a restaurant. Plus, I was really excited about the restaurant we were going to because I hadn't been there yet. And I'd wanted to go. So it was worth a 30-minute drive, and he wasn't that awkward. And I thought it was his car. I didn't know the car we were in. Come to find out later, though, is his dead wife's car?

He didn't even bring his car. I'm like, oh, so this is your wife's car that passed away. I shouldn't have stood it that way, dead wife's car. But like, that's in my brain. I'm like, wait, this isn't even your car. Like, you're driving the car that she drove. I wonder if you just, like, wanted her with him to support him. I think this is far away. It's better gas mileage.

Oh, I don't know. It's not that deep. Well, I was going to say, I wonder if now, because we can share locations with people on our phone, people don't feel the need to, like, go on the date. Like, back then, I don't know how many years ago this was, but back then, like, oh, woman at the hour? No, that's Karen. Oh, Karen. This was 25 years ago. So, okay. So, like, we couldn't know where your friend was if they were going on a date with a stranger. So you're like, I'll go with you. But now it's just, would you share your location with me so I can just know if you're okay. Exactly. Yes. So it's not that right now that would be a little bit more weird because we don't have to do that but back then it was probably actually like pretty

smart. Yeah. You're going to go out with some random guy that's calling you from the grocery store that stalked your number. Yes. That's a good friend. I hope you're still friends with that person. But if you're not, we respect that because things happen. Things happen. And Kat and I hope to be friends for a long time though. Yeah. But working together has a challenges. However, we do love our S-I-B. Don't take that personally. It's just when you work closely with somebody. Right when I said that you, but I don't mean that. I just mean, I think we have good systems in play. Yeah. I was kind of joking. I don't want you to give it. Good. Well, we love that you're here, even if you're confused or you're totally clear on what's happening. Confused or clear. We're

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