The Bobby Bones Show - AMY: Say This to Shut It Down, Try This to Shake Up Your Relationship, & Kat Rates Ways to Cope With Anxiety

Episode Date: June 15, 2025

FEELING THINGS WITH AMY & KAT: From Amy’s confusion over her shapewear to Kat’s fun date ideas that shake things up, this episode has a little bit of everything. You’ll learn abo...ut how the ‘boop’ method could come in handy for you when things are tense in your relationship (Amy recalls a sweet memory of her mom using ‘boop’ on her dad shortly before she passed away!), you’ll hear a voicemail from Mary (is she our older listener?) and you’ll love (or hate) Kat’s ratings system when it comes to ways to cope with anxiety! Also, if you’re ever in a situation where you need to shut a conversation down…Amy & Kat share ways to respectfully do so!  Amy’s dusty blue top!! Call and leave a voicemail: 877-207-2077 Email: heythere@feelingthingspodcast.com HOSTS: Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy Kat Van Buren // @KatVanburenSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:25 I'm Amy. And I'm Kat. And we're kicking things off today with a question. Okay. From me to you, Kat. And anybody else listening. Are you aware of skims having little holes down there when you put them on? Yes.
Starting point is 00:02:42 What? Wait, yes. I thought this is going to be something very different. Different. So you can go to the bathroom without taking them off. Yeah. Genius. I'm going to tell you all the different feelings I had when I recently bought some.
Starting point is 00:02:55 Because I have a pair of skins that I've bought before and they don't have a hole. So I don't think they all have a hole. Were they full butted? Full butted shorts. No. Like compression. What are they called? They're like spanks.
Starting point is 00:03:13 Yeah. But spanks is the OG. So I have spanks as well. None with a P-hole. No, uh, got, obviously the Peehole is very new to me because I didn't know. I bought these at Nordstrom last minute for something. And I thought I got a bad batch. Like I thought they were ripped. And I thought, oh, no, I ripped them because they're so tiny and they're tight and you put them on and they and I thought, oh no, I pulled them too tight and I ripped a hole. And then I started. Well, but I didn't realize it was, well, it would make sense there's a seam there that you could rip it. Oh, yeah. But then. to your point, I did feel around. I'm like, oh, this seems like a well-constructed. Sown hole.
Starting point is 00:03:54 Oh my gosh. This is a hole so I can go pee. Like, if I had not felt that or not known, if I had had to go to the bathroom, I would have pulled them all the way down. This is interesting that you've never, you've owned many pairs of spanks. And I've never had a pair with a hole.
Starting point is 00:04:10 I never had a pair without a hole. Really? Unless it was not like your full butt. I'll go show you my. I mean, I'll go show you my. I believe you, though. I know. I just feel like I thought I was going to be shocking you with information. No, wait. So did you try to return it? No, because I realized that the hole was supposed to be there. But I almost, I was really bummed. I had, I bought on that day and had to wear them that day. So it was putting them on really quick. And I thought, oh, dang, I rip them. And I'm like, I can't take these back. Because I have to wear them. But this is a bummer. Maybe I'll deal with it later. Like, I'll take it back and be like, I swear right, I'm going to put these on. There was a hole. And then they would be like, ma'am. Wait, I wish that you return.
Starting point is 00:04:46 This is a pee hole. But luckily, my trained eye, because I used to sew back in the day. I realized, like, oh, this is a purposeful hole. So then did it just, like, feel so amazing to have that? Yeah, all the different feelings I had. I think when I was telling you, I was like, I have something to tell you where I had a range of emotions. Like, at first I was like, bummed because I was like, dang it. I just bought these and they're expensive and I got like a dud, but I have to wear them
Starting point is 00:05:13 and are I going to be able to return them? And then I was more perplexed and like curious. Like, hmm. And I'm feeling around. And then I was like, wow. This is amazing. This is a hole. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:26 That solves a huge problem. Yeah. I can see that for a lot of reasons. Okay. Okay. Well, I thought you left that. I thought I was going to be like telling you something. You'd be like, shut up.
Starting point is 00:05:41 They make ones with holes. I thought you were going to be telling me something really crazy, too. I was like, what could this be? Okay. Wait. Shannon and Kat are in here. Did y'all know they make those with holes? Wait, really?
Starting point is 00:05:53 Okay, Shannon didn't know. Cat. Okay. Three women, four women in a room and three of us didn't know they made them with holes. This is crazy to me because I've never had them without the hole. Where are you shopping? Mine are skims and spanks. Simple pleasures.
Starting point is 00:06:11 Yeah. Or whatever that place is called. Oh, I see. No, I'm shopping the same place as your shopping. No wonder you in Big P are doing so well. Because I have my spanks with holes. Well, because that was my next thing that I wanted to talk about was you and Big P and Blindfolds. Yeah, I blindfolded him about five or six times yesterday.
Starting point is 00:06:36 Tell us more. Okay, so this turned out to be a much cooler thing that I thought. it was going to be originally we decided he loves march badness i don't love sports but he loves it so i wanted to like be in it with them so i was like i'll do a bracket with you sure but to make it fun we had a bet and so the bet was obviously we're not going to bet money because you know we share that and doesn't feel like you win anything so the winner no the loser had to plan a full day of surprises of all the winner's favorite things as their prize anyway so I lost obviously and again this was like not a competitive thing I probably I knew I was going to lose and so what I did is yesterday I planned
Starting point is 00:07:26 from like 7 a.m. to we got home at 9.15 p.m. Yes yes and I originally scheduled a break in there but then I was like oh I have some things that we can go do y'all were gone that like or you had stuff planned that entire time or you were gone? on. We left the house at like eight. And our first, and I blindfolded him everywhere we went. So he would get in the car, put the blindfold on. Then we would drive there. And then he would take the blindfold off. Well, all I know is when I was watching this, I thought to myself, I was like, can Big P are doing life right? Like, whatever it is y'all are doing. Like, it just seems so fun. Like your relationship seems so fun. And I know you talked to the other day or I guess the other week
Starting point is 00:08:07 on a recent episode about pretend vacations in town. And then, you're all blindfolding each other and you'll do all these you take pottery classes and you do those movie nights that you talked about too like y'all just y'all are doing it right yeah whatever it is I need more of that well and this is a easy thing to i mean you could just do this like you don't have to lose a game to do it no you could just do it and it you don't have to spend a lot of money to do it either one of the places multiple of the places we went we didn't spend any money to like give an example of something you did so we play pickleball free went to the driving range that was like ten dollars we went to Pins, which is a bar in Nashville that has all different kinds of games. Pins mechanical.
Starting point is 00:08:46 And we played like Jenga and then this other game for free. I got a Diet Coke. It was $3. The most expensive one is we went to T.J. Max. He loves T.J. Max. Wait, what? Wait, like why? He loves it. I mean, like home goods? He got nine shirts. Yes. Okay. I love home goods. But he just likes to look for shirts there. He loves them because he can get like a cool shirt for $10. He loves it. That's so. Yeah. That was one.
Starting point is 00:09:15 I was like, we could go home. I was like, or I could take you T.J. Max. And he also guessed that one. He was like, you're going to take me T.J. Max. I'm like, he loves his trap. That's so cute. Only at T.J. Max. He hates them all.
Starting point is 00:09:27 Anyway, then we ended at Dave and Busters, which was another game place. We love to play games. Dave and Busters, that makes me think of that NFL player that lived here that got killed. Steve McNair. Have you watched a documentary? Yes, but I don't remember Dave and Buster's being part of it. Yeah. He met his girlfriend there. She wasn't there. Oh, wait. Did she die?
Starting point is 00:09:49 Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Murder suicide. But we don't know who did what. That one's still out and That's, that's tricky. Yeah. I mean, I think that there's conspiracy theorists. If you watch the documentary, it seems pretty clear, but you can also tell that some people are like, well, but I think maybe that, da, da, da, the, okay. So we don't know for sure. I remember watching that and being like, we don't, there wasn't a resolution. Yeah, that's a documentary that is interesting to watch. I recently watched the fall of Brett Favre. Oh, I watched that.
Starting point is 00:10:20 And you know what? Yeah, total loser. And you know, that's my alma mater. Alma martyr. Alma martyr. Alma martyr. Alma mater. That's a hard word.
Starting point is 00:10:30 Yeah, that's about murder. Southern Mississippi. Yeah, that's our one claim to fame and it's him. Yeah, well, hey, you got a new volleyball court. Yeah. And when they showed a picture of that, I was like, Patrick, that's what he made. Well, that's what he's expensive to build. something like that. It was small though. He was like, yeah, it holds like, I don't know, 10 people.
Starting point is 00:10:47 It looked small. It looked small. He still from welfare. Still a million from welfare to not worth it. Build it. I mean, what a shady, shady guy. That was upsetting to watch. So not complete, not to completely derail us because we're not a sports podcast. No. Thank God. But whenever I think of David Busters now, I think of that, like how more of like the butterfly effect of how one decision to go somewhere, one day, and meeting one person and then changes your whole life. I mean, all the little decisions that we make add up. And have you watched Friends and Neighbors or whatever it is with John Ham?
Starting point is 00:11:26 I had to stop watching it. Why? Because I was getting anxiety and I wanted to be like, stop doing that. It's going to be bad. Yeah, because he's stealing from his neighbors. And you know something bad's going to happen. So John Hamm is in it. Pretty sure it's on Apple or Max?
Starting point is 00:11:41 Apple or Max? Apple TV. It's friends and neighbors or something like that. And he sort of says a line somewhere that like it's not like one big thing just like happened to him. Looking back, he realizes, like it was a bunch of like little tiny decisions that added up to. You know what that reminds me of? What? A million little things. He says that it's not one big thing. It's a million little things that matter. So you can look at that. both ways. Yeah. They all matter. It doesn't have to all in tragically. Yeah. Well, that should. It did. Well, so anyway, Big Pee and Kat are like the feeling I would give y'all assigned to y'all is just fun. That's what I, I asked him today, uh, what three feelings
Starting point is 00:12:36 he felt yesterday. I'm going to read what he said. Okay. His feelings were excitement, gratitude and joy. I mean, if that's not living life to your fullest, then I don't know what it is. Also, it was a Sunday. And to me, that was a big deal because Sundays are usually very routine for us. So this was a way for us to get in my head. I'm like, I want to get the most out of life. Let's get something out of a day we normally wouldn't do anything.
Starting point is 00:13:00 We would get up, probably go for a walk, go to the grocery store, lay around, clean. See, but that sounds like a pretty fantastic day to me. Like if you were a same thing every single sunset. I'm trying to think. If you were to like blindfold me, you're like, Amy, blindfold yourself. I'm going to take you to... The vacuum. Yeah. The swiffer, sweeper. And the little z... You know that when it like shoots out the little cleaner spray stuff and then you get to mop it?
Starting point is 00:13:30 I love that. And you were like, okay, and now we're going to go upstairs and we're going to wash your duvet cover. Well, your day would be really inexpensive. And then we're going to lay down and just watch. we're going to binge what did I just binge the better sister oh I want to watch that yeah uh well your boyfriend can plan this day for you and you've already given him the perfect itinerary I mean I would go walk like he could plan a walk and then maybe like pick up food to go and bring it home there's not like any like out of like do I want to go to pins mechanical no you don't want to play games I would have fun at pickleball okay and I would go to the driving range I play pickleball but I don't I don't I don't want to go to david musters no I don't I don't like what is that saying
Starting point is 00:14:10 saying about me because when I was younger, I loved to go to Chuckie Cheese. That's okay. But like, why don't I like it now? Because it's not your thing? I don't, we, I had the kids with me on a work trip in Florida and they're like, we want to go to Disney World. And I was like, nah. Because they only want to take your kids.
Starting point is 00:14:30 They already went to Disneyland. They're not the same. I know they're not the same, but already did Disney. And like, I don't, I guess this is one of those things where as a parent, this is where you just sacrifice. Yeah. You stretch. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:45 But we already did Disney land. What about, or what if you went to Universal Studios? Would you want to go to that? I mean, I guess a little bit. But not really. You'd rather go to like a pool and layout or something? Yeah. Okay.
Starting point is 00:14:57 Under a cabana. They're like, mom, can we go to Disney World and you're like, I booked us massages at the spa? Yes. They're like, what? You know, you see those families are the moms and they've got like the ears and the fanny pack and they're like so excited. and it's like their fifth time and they love Disney.
Starting point is 00:15:13 I don't, I don't understand. I don't, I cannot. Do you think I'm wearing a fanny pack to Dave and Busters or something? No, but I guess I just thought this made me think of that. Like how I don't have a desire to do that. And then sometimes as a mom, it makes me feel like money aside. Like put the expense of it aside. I know a lot of people, it's like Disney is there's like, okay, there you can.
Starting point is 00:15:32 A lot of money. It's a sacrifice that way too or whatever. But let's just act like it's something you can just go do on a Tuesday. I'm not going to go do it. I don't, I don't want to go. That's okay. I know, but I feel like I'm not a good parent. Maybe there's some shame around that.
Starting point is 00:15:47 Like, you feel like you should want to go. Like, because there's no way that not wanting to take my kids to Disney equals bad parent. Yeah. But I'm having that conversation with myself in my head, even though I know that's not true. But it just feels like, well, why are these other awesome parents all gung-ho about going to Disney? It'd be the same thing that you might. let's say they really, really wanted to go, mom, please put it. And they're begging you. You don't have to like put on the, I wanted to say monkey ears, the mouse ears. I think the ears are cute. Okay.
Starting point is 00:16:21 That doesn't bother me. Okay, you can. But you don't have to go like all or nothing. You could not really be like, this is going to be awesome, but say, oh, my kids want to go. That would, it's fun for them. And you not really enjoy it. Just like if I, if Patrick asked me to go, he asked me to go to a UT football game. I didn't really want to do it, but it was fun to go with him. And he, that's where you stretch. And that's what I kind of liked about this thing where we were watching basketball. I don't really care about the basketball. I'm not excited about that.
Starting point is 00:16:54 But I'm excited to do something that brings him joy. So you might be excited to do something that brings your kids joy. Like go into their track meets. True, true. No, I love that. Yeah, I want to do things that bring them joy, just anything but Disney. Okay. That might be your hard rule.
Starting point is 00:17:10 But I mean, I already did it. I'm like, we did it once. Like, do we have to do World? Because we did land. Yeah. I know they're different. I love Disney World. So, I mean, I don't want to go by myself, but going with kids is so fun.
Starting point is 00:17:21 See, that would, those words would never come out of my mouth. To see the kids be so excited. Maybe you should take my kids. Perfect. I would be honored. Well, I love Big Peace feelings. Excitement, gratitude, joy. Yeah, I just asked him, like, what are three feelings that you felt yesterday?
Starting point is 00:17:36 I thought he was just right that, but he sent me a whole thing. And he didn't know I was going to read this. so sorry. He said, excitement, gratitude, joy. Excitement because of not knowing exactly where we were going to end up. Gratitude because I'm very thankful for someone that puts so much effort into everything she does, especially if it's to make me happy and joy because every activity we did was perfect and had me grinning ear to ear throughout the whole day.
Starting point is 00:18:01 And that's, so like that's worth it doing. That's why I should take my kids to Disney. Like that's a response like, yes, I get it. I get it. you would love hearing that from your kids. Not that I just did it for me, but, you know. Yeah. I love that, though.
Starting point is 00:18:17 I just, y'all are, you're, the past couple of months, like how I've been seeing y'all navigate life. Well, actually, ever since y'all been together, but I will say you've been upping your game a little bit the last few months. But overall, y'all are good at just living life. And I get at your seven on the any room, right? That's another thing. My personality is different than yours.
Starting point is 00:18:38 I know. Like, why am I not more fun? You're fun. Your idea of fun is different than mine. Yeah, but I want your fun. I just don't have it. Well, then I'll force you to have it. I'm going to bring you to pins and we're going to play games.
Starting point is 00:18:51 The thing is, if you went to pins with me, you would have fun. Okay. Yeah. It's getting you there. Okay. Getting me out of that. Oh, so now you're going to blindfold me. I'm going to show about your house and blindfold you next weekend.
Starting point is 00:19:04 It's going to be awesome. Okay. Also, I will add, one of the reasons this was already. plan because I lost March Madness. But one of the things that I talked about recently in my own therapy, because there's a lot of things in my life that are outside of my control, I've been kind of struggling with trying to do a million things in that realm to try to control it. And that's, it's something that I have literally no control over. So my therapist and I talked about, okay, if that's happening, why don't you do some things that are in your control to kind of settle that
Starting point is 00:19:37 like itch, and part of that is like creating fun in my life. So that's why I'm working on planning a trip to New England right now. Fun. Yes. In 2023, former bachelor star Clayton Eckerd found himself at the center of a paternity scandal. The family court hearings that followed revealed glaring inconsistencies in her story. This began a years-long court battle to prove the truth. You doctored this particular test twice in so-ins, correct?
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Starting point is 00:22:09 Saturday Night Live, and the Big Money Players Network. It's Will Ferrell. My dad gave me the best advice ever. I went and had lunch with them one day, and I was like, And dad, I think I want to really give this a shot. I don't know what that means, but I just know the groundlings. I'm working my way up through, and I know it's a place that come look for up and coming talent. He said, if it was based solely on talent, I wouldn't worry about you, which is really sweet. Yeah. He goes, but there's so much luck involved.
Starting point is 00:22:39 And he's like, just give it a shot. He goes, but if you ever reach a point where you're banging your head against the wall and it doesn't feel fun anymore, it's okay to quit. If you saw it written down, it would not be an inspiration. It would not be on a calendar of, you know, the cat. Just hang in there. Yeah, it would not be. Right, it wouldn't be that. There's a lot of luck.
Starting point is 00:23:04 Listen to Thanks, Dad, on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Speaking of fun, and I guess we were talking about parenting a second ago like me with my kids, did you see Megan Markle has email addresses for her kids and she emails them? She would not like that you just called her Megan Markle. Well, whatever. Sussex. Sussex. I guess maybe she was talking on her podcast or somewhere, but I was talking about it with my daughter.
Starting point is 00:23:34 It came up around the table that like Megan is emailing her kids right now. They don't have access to the email address. They're little. But she created these accounts. And, you know, like on a Tuesday, she'll be like, hey, it's Tuesday. Like, here's a picture of you and your sister eating breakfast or then she'll attach the photo or whatever. And then one day when they're like 16.
Starting point is 00:23:55 17, 18, whatever. She's going to give them the login for the email. And then they will have all these emails to read through from over the years where she's sent them little notes. And so Shiro's like, please don't do that. I won't read them. She's like, please don't do that. I will not, I will not read them. How many is she sending out? I mean, who knows at that point? I mean, they're little now, but by the time and then will email even be, you know, like I used to have hotmail. I don't. Does that exist? I think so because I think my boyfriend has hotmail. No, he doesn't.
Starting point is 00:24:29 Yeah, because I think I remember being like, what? Oh, no, he's Yahoo. That's same, same vibe. I had a Yahoo. Yeah. I had a hotmail. But like, why is that different than Gmail? I don't even think hotmail is still around anymore.
Starting point is 00:24:44 But Yahoo must be a little bit. But anyway, like things evolve and then like, will it still be there? And she's putting all this stuff. But I mean, I was thinking about it and I was like, oh, it might be nice if you had like a handwritten note or card, but then at one point it gets overwhelming. Like you sit down and open up your email and you're like, mom,
Starting point is 00:25:01 there's hundreds of emails. Like some personalities are going to maybe like think, this is the sweetest thing in the world. They're going to read every single one. And then others might be like, well, this is a lot. I like that.
Starting point is 00:25:13 I have, I'm feeling conflicted. I like that idea. That's really sweet to have those words from your mom. Yeah. And can we do like one a month? or less. Every birthday?
Starting point is 00:25:27 Every birthday. But hers is like, no, I'm just like, here's what you're in for breakfast. June 1st. I don't need that. I need like, yeah. That's a lot. I wonder if she's, how old are her kids? That's a lot to keep up with.
Starting point is 00:25:41 Don't know. The ages. I feel like I would start, knowing me, I'd start that. Every day. And then they'd turn seven. Honestly, they'd turn three. And I'd be like, honestly, six months in. You'd be done.
Starting point is 00:25:55 I'd be done. You're like, that was fun while it lasted. I don't know. I'm not a royal enthusiast. Like, I don't know a lot about the royal family. I mean, I was, I'm intrigued by certain things, but. Yeah. I'm not like obsessed.
Starting point is 00:26:07 Like, I watched the crown. I tried to watch their crown. I had to do so much research to understand it, but I stopped. Like, what did you, what did you have to research? Okay. No, I'm just curious. Because they, no, that wasn't, sorry, that wasn't, I guess I'm asking.
Starting point is 00:26:24 Like they sort of, it sort of covers everything. Like it goes back in time. Like it is educational. So like, what were you researching? I'm just curious. Were you like who they were? Oh. Like the queen of England?
Starting point is 00:26:43 Like the king? Like her dad. The dad. The dad came from. And like there's a lot of different like her different stages and her mom. And then the thing with the brother and the family. Oh. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:53 He gave it up and I don't get like, well, how did she become? I didn't really understand who they all were. Right. So I did do. And then my thing is once I start, then I'm researching more about what I'm researching. So then I'd get 15 minutes into an episode and I've been reading Wikipedia, which maybe that's not the source I should be going to for an hour. And then I still have 45 minutes left of the episode. It was too much.
Starting point is 00:27:16 Yeah. I was just curious. Honestly, it's a valid question. It is valid question. Well, because I was just like, oh, I felt like I was learning. through it but I I will Google things at times if I want to know more and I wanted to know I wanted to know I wanted to know I only got to a couple episodes and obviously but yeah because it's not a documentary it's a scripted show so more about his death and all spoiler it's like you ruined um
Starting point is 00:27:43 just like that sex in the city that one time he does die cat loves to spoil when people die have you Speaking of deaths, like, we've talked about this before on the Bobby Bone Show and, like, Fun Fact Friday, but I saw a reel the other day that reminded me of it. And it just popped into my head when you said this. But, like, JFK and Lincoln, you know, they were both our presidents. Fun fact. Yeah. But they were both assassinated.
Starting point is 00:28:12 And all these similarities around their presidencies and their assassinations. Like, Lincoln was shot in 1869. and JFK was shot in 1969. So everything's 100 years apart. Okay. What else? Stuff like that.
Starting point is 00:28:30 Like Lincoln was shot in Ford Theater. And then JFK was shot in a Ford Lincoln car. Wait, really? Or yeah. Wait, Lincoln and Ford are made by each other. Okay. One of the other. Both of them had vice presidents named Johnson.
Starting point is 00:28:48 So Johnson became president after them. Crazy. And then both of them had. had their wives had miscarriages while they lived in the White House or lost babies or something like that. You know what a fun job would be? What? Somebody who finds fun facts like that?
Starting point is 00:29:07 Well, we do Fun Fact Friday on the Bobby Bone Show every Friday. Tune in. But are you finding the fact or you're just being like, oh, well, I'm just Googling the fact, but I would think that like most people that are finding facts, where are they getting them? Probably they're getting them. Stop. No, what I meant. I like the library. What I meant is like the person who put all of that together, the stuff about the Lincoln and.
Starting point is 00:29:33 Yeah. JFK. Or like Patrick is always talking about like stats. And they're like the most random. He's like, this guy is like the 42nd person ever to have four of these, three of these and 12 of these. And it's like, who's researching that detailed of a statistic? You know? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:49 That would be a fun job, I think, to find random. stuff like that and then, you know, people pay you, I guess, to come up with that stuff. Okay, while you were talking about that, I googled all the other simulators because they're crazy. I don't know who came up with all these. These are from different sources. They both were assassinated on a Friday. They both were shot in the back of the head. Both of, they were both with their wives when they died. None of these are too crazy. Both assassins came from the South. Both assassins had the last name Booth. Shut up. That's when it starts to get wild.
Starting point is 00:30:24 Lee Harvey Oswald John Wilkes Booth Wait, Lee Harvey Aldwell's is not Booth. Assassins with last name Booth. Lincoln's assassin was John Wilkes Booth and Kennedy's assassin was Lee Harvey
Starting point is 00:30:37 Oswald with a similar sounding. What? That must be a typo. Either way, there are three names. Lee Harvey Alswald. Okay, maybe that's what they meant. John Wilkes Booth. Same name on the vehicle.
Starting point is 00:30:48 Kennedy was shot in a car named Lincoln owned by Ford Motor Company while Lincoln was shot at Ford's theater. I mean, that's interesting. Imagine the guy that's putting that together. We would have never just thought of that. They were both assassinated by a single bullet,
Starting point is 00:31:05 people from their south. Both of the presidents were in their 30s. Oh my gosh. JFK's personal secretary, Evelyn Lincoln, warned him not to go to Dallas. Her last name was Lincoln. Anyway, I can keep going on and on.
Starting point is 00:31:21 Both assassins. nation shocked the nation. Now that's where it gets me. Anyway, there's more. It's kind of crazy, too, like even like Johnson and Johnson, the two Johnsons, like they were both born, one was born in 1808 and the other Johnson was born in 1908. It was just like all these weird things. Yeah, that's like, wow, this is like a parallel thing happening but a century apart. Anyway. How did we get there? I have no idea. I don't know. I think we're talking about the crown. And then you said somebody died. Megan Markle. You said the king died. And then I was like, speaking of death. I have some fun facts for you. But that's how my brain works. And then whenever we were
Starting point is 00:32:05 talking about Megan Markle and parenting and whatever, it made me think of my mom and this thing that I also saw online called like the boop method. Have you heard of it? The boop? Like if you're everyone ever wanting to ease tension in a relationship, like maybe you and Big P, I know that Yale's theme is fun and like that's great but okay if you're ever fighting i want you to just like look at patrick and boop him on the nose just look at him and go if we were in an argument and he did that to me he booped you i would lose my mind it's a happy tip but it makes me think of speaking of death when my mom was dying uh my dad this was crazy she was in hospice is before we moved her to my sister's house to die peacefully there because she was able to express, we were going to have her die at the
Starting point is 00:32:58 hospice house in Austin called the Christopher House. I didn't know there were these houses where people go to die, but I learned a lot. Shout out, Christopher House. But my mom was like, I really want to go home. So we took her to my sister's house because my sister's house was easier flow for people to come visit and in and out. So, and by that point, my mom didn't really have any say. In Austin? In Austin. Your sister, I didn't know your sister lived in. Oh, yeah. She didn't move to Colorado until after my mom died. It was part of her healing. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:33:27 Which then my mom died in her house, and I always wondered with my sister. I was like, when you were selling your house, did you have to disclose that someone died? But it wasn't a murder. I don't think you have to disclose if someone dies peacefully. But, like, what if they're murdered? I think you do have to disclose that. But I don't know if they had to say, like, a woman had cancer and was on hospice care and died peacefully. Yeah, no, because there's probably a lot of people that die peacefully.
Starting point is 00:33:50 Somebody could have died peacefully in this house in this room. So while she's at the Christopher house, and she's still a little bit with it, because by the time we moved her to my sister's house, she had fallen unconscious and was still alive but not responsive much. So my dad, luckily, this is right before she, this is her final day of consciousness. And she had been waiting 25 plus years for my dad to say he was sorry for leaving her for another woman way back. and she had forgiven him, but so much so that even after my dad got out of that relationship and then my mom, they were both way older and he wanted to maybe start dating her again.
Starting point is 00:34:31 And my sister and I were so excited about that, but my mom was like, I can't date someone who can't own up to and apologize to what they've done, not that she needed that because she had forgiven him, but she wasn't going to date him again. And he now saw that as a good opportunity of like, well, this something like that was really hard for him, but there's anything that'll push you
Starting point is 00:34:54 to do something hard, it's, you know, okay, this is the final moment. So I've got to go ask her for forgiveness and apologize to her. And so he did it. And it was this really serious moment. And my sister and I got to witness it. We were the only people in the room. And so it was really special and emotional. And like we were just sort of like flies on the wall. It's not like we were right there next to them or anything. And it was really sweet. And he was like putting his hand through like what hair she had left. It was really precious moment. And then my mom just looked up at him and she goes. And she even did that.
Starting point is 00:35:26 Boop right on his nose. And I feel like that was her way of being like, it's okay. Or it was her way of being like, I'm dying. So like, thanks for doing it now. That was their thing though? No. Oh. She'd never done that before.
Starting point is 00:35:42 I don't know. That's why it's so funny that I saw the happy tip. And it was such a happy moment for us. It was like a boop moment. And I don't know. Did you guys laugh when she did that? Yeah. And like my sister and I still joke about the boop.
Starting point is 00:35:56 We're like, oh, boop. Like when something's like really hard, because it was like a real serious, hard moment. And it just like brought levity. And so you could bring levity with the boop. I like that more than in an argument because I think depending on who you are. Yeah. Well, yeah.
Starting point is 00:36:12 My mom didn't even like I don't even know if she fully processed what was happening. I think she did. But I think that's what she could muster up. like that's the response she could give was boop sort of like it's okay buddy thanks your dad's like okay uh-huh it was really precious i love the boop so if you ever need levity or you're looking for a happy tip maybe with your kids or your partner give the boop a try like i need to do it to patrick okay i'll do it in a different scenario i'll try to boop alex yeah you boot patrick and we were poor back but here's the problem
Starting point is 00:36:49 he doesn't show a lot of sadness. It might take a while for me to get there. Oh, okay. But I'll try it. Well, I have an update on if you need to disclose death. Shannon says in most states you're not required to disclose if someone died in your house, even if it was a peaceful death. However, if it was a violent death, like a murder,
Starting point is 00:37:08 or death by suicide, disclosure may be required, depending on the state you live in. Yeah. I think in Tennessee you do. I think that I'm making that up. I have a feeling. Would you be able to live in a house that somebody was murdered in?
Starting point is 00:37:23 No. Me neither. Let's say you get a really good deal. Like, let's say this house is epic. It's perfect. It's your dream house that has a pickleball court.
Starting point is 00:37:33 My dream house, nobody was murdered in. Okay. I get nightmares anyway. And what if it was in like the master or the primary bedroom? Then what am I going to put my kid in that bedroom? Because I'm not sleeping in it.
Starting point is 00:37:46 We could remodel. What if you rearrange? That's not perfect. No. Too many houses available for me to do that. No, but I'm telling you, the perfect house. You would do it? I, no. You're like, actually, somebody was murdered, right?
Starting point is 00:37:59 Where you're sitting. Yeah. Right in this room. Okay, get to know. Yeah, no. Where we live in Tennessee, you're generally not required to disclose if someone died in your house and selling it, though. Oh, shoot. Well, good thing. Okay. Somebody could have died in my old house. My new one, they couldn't have, because it was new. Oh, you mean like elderly? Yeah.
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Starting point is 00:41:56 Okay. I don't know, speaking of seeing things online. I don't really know how you felt about the, poop. As a therapeutic tip. But I've seen therapists rating coping skills. Like, if someone's feeling anxious, they can. can try x, y, z, and then therapist will rate zero to ten if they think that it's helpful or not worth your time. So I'm going to give you, 10 being that's amazing, do it every time, 10 out of 10
Starting point is 00:42:23 recommend. Zero means like, meh. And then obviously everything else in between. So I'm just going to rattle off the coping skill and then you say, okay, you ready? Waded blankets. It depends. No, no, the game is just like give a number. I know, but it depends on what it is that they're having anxiety about. So it could be a 10, it could be a zero. Okay. But I love a way to like it for myself. So do I'll give it at 8?
Starting point is 00:42:54 Oh, okay, there we go. For myself. There we have. Okay, in this moment. There's so much nuance. Like you can't, cats like, I can't, I can't. Journaling. It depends.
Starting point is 00:43:05 I do you're about to say it depends. A seven. Okay. And? I was waiting for you to be like... Oh, I said it depends and I'm going to give it a seven, but also for some people it could be a two. So like, have you seen these trending videos? Yeah, I get the number.
Starting point is 00:43:21 I get the point, but I think it's... Yeah. It depends. Okay, it depends. Okay. Disassociating. Well, honestly, it depends. It's going to say zero, but it could be actually very helpful. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:36 It's a coping skill. Disassociating. Give it a number. Well, in this moment, for me, it would be a zero. You want to disassociate from this? You want to disassociate from this episode? Disassociating has to save people's lives, but also it then can really interfere with it. So it depends.
Starting point is 00:43:55 It sounds like this trend is problematic. Yeah. Because people might see it and be like, oh, this therapist just quickly said weighted blanket 10. Well, I've seen it with like skin, like dermatologist. or esthetians and I've seen it with like different like health guru people and it's gotten me before and then I'm like oh I'm getting sucked in from this like for an esthetician this product might be great for one person but not great for another right well don't worry if we were to do this trend it wouldn't we wouldn't cash people it because if honesty isn't it people don't
Starting point is 00:44:30 people will be like depends that's not helpful it depends well it depends they'll be like swipe No, I like it. I love your honesty. Drinking alcohol. Do you want me to lie? No. Okay. I think this is funny. Drinking alcohol as a coping skill. I mean zero and.
Starting point is 00:44:49 It depends. Because some people, if alcohol doesn't impact them, like if they're not an alcoholic at all, they don't have any trouble with alcohol. Sometimes maybe a margarita with your girlfriends could be fun. Exactly. Right. And like after a hard day, if my thing is copies skills after a hard hard. day. It's really, I didn't mean like that. But like coping skills, I like having like a box of them. And
Starting point is 00:45:12 you, it's never good to use all of them always. Oh, just grab back. And excess. But to have a group of them, a toolbox, which I can pull from, that's what is helpful. So like alcohol always and in excess, no. But I'm not saying blanketly it's a zero. But if I had to rank it, I would say one. But also it could be a three for somebody. Yeah. This is causing me distress. I need my distress. I need my coping skills. Blocking your ex as a coping skill. That's like a really firm boundary. That's a, is that a coping skill or is that a boundary?
Starting point is 00:45:47 I guess. So I guess I don't think it's always healthy for people to block people. I have a good relationship with my ex. Yeah. It depends. Are you co-parenting? Yeah, it depends. Doom scrolling.
Starting point is 00:45:58 Not always bad. It also depends. You need a time limit. Yeah, I'm going to give it a three. Maybe doom scrolling for more than. A certain amount of time. Yeah. It's bad.
Starting point is 00:46:10 Eating something sour. Have you heard that? How about how if you eat something sour it can take the anxiety away? Because your brain instantly has to fixate on the sour. We have sour candy in our office. Oh, so this is probably a 10. Just do that real quick. Let's practice doing it like sour candy and go 10 or five.
Starting point is 00:46:27 You want to be to practice just giving it an number. I need to take some sour candy and then do this trend. Eating something sour. Six. freezing cold showers uh i love that so six seven six seven uh going for a walk okay this is the problem kind of blankly say they all depend i am going to give a walk an eight okay but it depends yeah what if it's raining oh gosh poop okay and then um what about the last one Going to therapy.
Starting point is 00:47:11 Ah. Are you trying to trick me? No, it's just the last one. I mean, a 10? A 10. 10. You're like, but it depends. But that's not a, I wouldn't, okay.
Starting point is 00:47:22 Going to therapy is a coping skill. Is it not? I wouldn't say that that's a skill. Or a coping tool? Yeah, I guess so. Maybe I'm getting too into semantics. I'm going to give it a nine. Yeah, you weren't, you weren't born for this game.
Starting point is 00:47:36 But are you proud of me for trying? I am. Okay. You got to... I had fun. Yeah, I had to do. That's just like a... It feels like a trick game.
Starting point is 00:47:44 Yeah. I do like it though, like you said, when the doctors do it or their thoughts on it. But then I see sometimes they contradict each other and then I'm all confused. Yep. Because they're like, red light therapy. You know, it's like world renowned doctor, athlete, triathlete, iron man hates red light. Well, universally I would say overall they like red light. But then there's conflicting feelings on how much.
Starting point is 00:48:08 Yeah, and cold plunge. And I'm like, well, what's what? Well, here's what gets you, which I probably am the problem because of how I rated therapy. I've watched those videos. And then at the end, when they're like, and this is a 12 or whatever, then they're selling that thing. Hmm. Yeah. And I guess I sell therapy.
Starting point is 00:48:24 The person I saw that did this gave, it was one through 10 the whole time. And then when it came to therapy, she goes, 11. Oh, yeah. Which. Yeah. And she's like, here's my email. Sanda. Book with me.
Starting point is 00:48:38 But that's a good marketing strategy. That's like three chords therapy. Seriously. Call me. Google us. Email me, catherine at three chords therapy.com. Thank you. Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 00:48:48 Ooh, speaking of, well, not an email. We got a voicemail. Yeah. That I want to play. I mean, we've got awesome emails. We'll cover some on couch talks on Thursday. But I do love a good voicemail. And this is from a listener named Mary.
Starting point is 00:49:05 And I will let her. do the talking hit it hi amy and cat this is mary i emailed you a long time ago when you were first starting out amy i have been listening to you since the very beginning because i'm a fan of the bobby bone show and listen to the podcast when i'm driving so i've been listening to all your podcasts and a long time ago i emailed you because you were talking about wondering how old some of your listeners were. And so I wrote in and said, hey, I'm 62. Am I your oldest listener? Well, I am still listening and I'll be 68 this summer. And I love listening to you guys. You guys have been teaching me a lot, helping me with my feelings. I love the new show. And I just wanted to tell you that I'm so proud,
Starting point is 00:49:56 that's one of my feelings. I'm so proud of you guys. Because you have taken something and grown it and you've reached so many people and I love listening to your relationship grow between the two of you and how free you feel to talk about the things that you are feeling and that you are willing to share them with us so that all of us know that we aren't alone in our feelings and so from Mary maybe one of your oldest listeners congratulations on the show and I love listening keep up the good work love y'all bye isn't that so sweet and you're feeling feeling is proud. She's proud of us. I know. I felt like that was like my mom calling in. Me too. Thanks, Mary. Thank you, Mary. And I don't know for sure if she is the oldest. I think we've
Starting point is 00:50:45 heard from a little bit older before, but maybe we just have a pool of the older and they can all hold the title crown. Wear the crown together. We reach all of the ages. Yeah. I know. Cat was looking at this like hat that our friend camille sent us as like a mock up for something and cat's like oh there's cherries on here gen z is very into cherries right now and i was like oh yeah good because we've got a voicemail from mary 68 which i don't know what that makes her like i'm a millennial what are you a millennial you see you're an elder millennial i'm an elder millennial and that wasn't supposed to be rude. No, it's just factual. That's what my daughter would say. My daughter would say. Facts. It's just fax, mom. It's fax. It's fax. It's fine. I know. She was trying to get me to wear this outfit the other day. And I was like,
Starting point is 00:51:42 So, Shera, I can't wear that. Like, that's not, no, I'm 44. Facts. It was from this place called the garage or garage. Oh, yeah. That's a new store. And they have one in at the mall. And I was like, I, I'm not, I shop at Cold Water Creek. I'm not wearing this from the garage. She was like, no. this is cool like I'm going to help you yeah she's already reserved an Instagram and she hasn't done anything with it yet and I'm like well this is all on you you've got to do it and it's called fashion for my mom stop yeah you want to follow her she hasn't done anything with the yes and I'm not doing anything with this I was like you'll have to if you want to do this it's fine and if you want to dress me she wants to dress her millennial mom I think you will you get dressed with ease I have to tell myself that yeah that's my mantra I
Starting point is 00:52:29 I get dressed with ease, but she thinks she could help me, because she did help dress me the other night. In fact, I think I maybe wore this shirt. I told you that shirt's cool. Well, this I got on Amazon. And she kind of like tucked it up, but it's like, I guess the look is like you tuck it intentionally, but it looks accidental. And then she just, it just happened. Like, oh, I just like have this on. And then she's like, trust.
Starting point is 00:52:51 This looks good. And then she was trying to tell me about this outfit from garage. And I was like, if you want to do anything on fashion for my mom, like, we're not. It's not going to be from garage. Like, that seems like a very gen Z type store. I know what generation Mary is. What? Baby boomer.
Starting point is 00:53:11 Is it baby boomer, same thing as a boomer? Because elderly is same thing as a millennial. Is that they're different? Elderly. Whatever. You're like, I'm a geriatric millennial. Pip, beep, poop. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:53:28 I can probably link this shirt in the show. notes because I must say it's one of my favorite Amazon purchases in a while and I think it's I know fast fashion I have a love-hate relationship with it that's what we call it right you you and I were talking about this the other way right not on air just as friends yeah but just like getting just fed up with like all the things from Amazon but also there's some that's like okay this is worth it and I can wear it as summer like I wore this as a sleep shirt I could wear it as like overs shorts I can wear it lounging around I can and wear it kind of messy tucked with jeans for dinner.
Starting point is 00:54:04 With my jeans from the garage. Well, I think that's one of the things I was listening to another podcast talk about this is the like stress of having these black and white virtues. Or I can never shop there. I have to do everything right. Or I buy all my stuff there. And that's okay if you make intentional decisions to try to shop elsewhere when you can and when it's available and when you have the means to.
Starting point is 00:54:28 and if you ever now and then you do end up buying a shirt from Amazon, so like give yourself a break. Right. Well, I love those socks we get from Amazon too. So I don't want to give those up. Yeah. I bought some at T.J. Max too the other day. Oh, on your shopping trip with Big P.
Starting point is 00:54:44 So you got to buy self for you two? I got socks and a new water bottle. He picked it out for me though. And then he got nine shirts. How many water bottles do you have? Well, I have my purple water bottle. My new water bottle. I wanted a water bottle that I could hold like the handle.
Starting point is 00:55:03 This is definitely millennial of you. Exhibit. One of my Gen Z clients came in with this. Oh, and it had a handle? Because when you're walking on a walk, it's annoying to have to hold the handle. It kind of hurts my wrist.
Starting point is 00:55:18 Oh, see, I was thinking that was giving elderly, but you're saying it's giving Gen Z. This is, I think this is Gen Z. Okay. But then when I drink out of this, I feel like a baby because it's like a bottle. We'll add a little cherry on there and you'll be very Gen Z. Anyway, that's just one of my water bottles. I just feel like you have a lot of water bottles. Well, I like to have them at all times.
Starting point is 00:55:41 Shannon just looked up the color of my shirt combo and it's dusty blue. Great. Now if I get the link, oh, she linked it. If I check the link, I might have to be like, I might have to get a different color combo. Oh, but it is not on sale right now. I bought it on sale. Don't buy it unless you can get it on sale. Mm-mm. Okay.
Starting point is 00:55:59 It's $36 right now. But you know how every once in a while Amazon will be like $12? Yeah. It's 79% off right now. And you're like, okay. So how much was this to really? Well, it's awesome. Oh, look at this color combo, though.
Starting point is 00:56:14 That's cute. You don't like it? Okay. You don't like it. I like it for you. What about this color combo? I like that. Okay.
Starting point is 00:56:22 See, I thought you were going to really love the blue. saved by the bell. Ooh, this one looks very like a bee. What's it? It looks like a... It's black and white stripe. No, but what's the school? Notre Dame.
Starting point is 00:56:34 Rudy. Rudy. Have you ever seen that movie? Mm-mm. You've never seen Rudy? That looks like a bumblebee. You've never seen Rudy? No, I've never seen Rudy.
Starting point is 00:56:44 The movie... I know we're on a sports podcast, but about the little football player that could. Rudy. The blind side. Have you ever heard of Rudy? No. Rudy. Go home and just say to Patrick. Boop him and then say Rudy, Rudy. Do you want me to just feel myself doing that? Yes. Okay. And then he's going to say, why are you talking about Rudy from Notre Dame?
Starting point is 00:57:09 Okay. We'll see. What if he's like, I've never, what are you doing? What's that from? That's so crazy to me. We should have a movie night. You should pick that as your movie and serve like Irish things. Is it? Oh, because no. Yeah. Yeah. Are you all going to do. do that again? We're doing it this Sunday. Do you want to come? Well, who's hosting? Patrick.
Starting point is 00:57:29 Shut up. Yeah. At your house? You could come. Yeah. I have to do a thing with Dirk's Finley. Oh, I have to do a thing with Dirk's Finley. You can come after.
Starting point is 00:57:39 Oh, it's CMA Fest, isn't it? Hey, Dirk's. I have to go watch a movie of my friend's house. Sorry. I didn't know it was CMA Fest. Okay, well, another time. Yeah. Okay, Kat, where can people find us?
Starting point is 00:57:50 On Instagram at you not that. at Feeling Things Podcast. That's right. Which we are climbing. Oh, we are, yeah. Yeah. I'm loving that people are enjoying the Instagram videos. You're doing a really, really, really, really good job with them.
Starting point is 00:58:09 Like, it's so fun to have the reels. And cats making those, by the way. If you all think there's some team of people, no. Some Gen Z girl doing it? No, it's me. No, we have the other cat that's working the switcher on the cameras that goes switch, switch. So it goes from like my face to cat's face, my face to cat's face. And then Kat is on her computer and she's making the videos.
Starting point is 00:58:28 And then we come up with captions and whatnot. Those are for the reels. And then obviously in this room with Kat too, we have Shannon, who gives us all of our facts. Fun facts. Like that Mary is a baby boomer. Wait, no, I decided that in my head. I'm just kidding. Oh, I saw.
Starting point is 00:58:50 I was like, oh, you just guessed it? Shannon typed it because she was born in 1963, which makes her a baby. boomer smiley face. That's what she was getting. I didn't know. And then Chana goes, link Amy's cute shirt in the show notes. Question mark, question mark. It's in color. Dusty Blue Convo. Here's the link. She's writing your script as you guys are talking. No, I mean, that's just, she's just letting us know like it's in there. And then she gave us a bunch of facts about earlier when we were talking about Hotmail. That still exists technically, but it's now integrated into Microsoft Outlook. You can access your Hotmail account by logging into Outlook. You can access your Hotmail account
Starting point is 00:59:24 by logging into Alec.com using your hotmail credentials. Crazy. But you didn't know that. I wonder if I could get into my old hotmail. Could you use that for your fun fact this Friday? No, I don't. It's not fun enough. It's not very fun.
Starting point is 00:59:38 Dang it. But like maybe I go, fun fact. In most states, you're not required to disclose if someone died in your house. That's not fun. Even if it was a peaceful death. However,
Starting point is 00:59:48 if it was a violent death, disclosure may be required. I think we can do better. No, I think we can do better. Okay. All right. Well, catch us on socials on YouTube. Feeling Things Podcasts, all the things. I'm Radio Amy. She's at Cat Van Buren on socials. I'm Amy Brown. That was taken by somebody else. Would you have not done Radio Amy? No, I wanted Amy Brown. Oh. Amy, give her her name back. Let me see who has the Instagram. I know that Amy Brown.com, she's a fairy artist, but on Instagram, I don't. You know what's crazy. The Brittany, I don't know her. last name from Vanderpump Rules. Her Instagram name is just at Brittany. How did she get that name? Well, she got it early on. Did she? Well, or yeah, and maybe she got it from, look, Amy Brown Art,
Starting point is 01:00:40 that's the fairy artist. See her work? That's who sometimes you think I am. They do. They think I make this fairy art. Oh, that's not me, guys. Yeah, could be you. She does watercolor, Nessie art. She's been doing it for 30 plus years. You can follow her on Patreon. Who's Amy Brown? That's what I'm trying to figure out. And I guys, if this is available, Amy Brown, there's, I guys, let me see. I see Amy Brown comedy. That's not me, but if people think she's me, I'm fine with that, because I want people to think I'm funny. Wait, is there not an Amy Brown? Guys, there has to be an Amy Brown. Otherwise, I would have Amy Brown. Why is it not coming up? Amy Brown.
Starting point is 01:01:24 Oh, there is one. What is it? Why can't I find them? She's a school teacher. She is. Yeah. She lives in Nottingham. Oh, she's all the way over across the pond.
Starting point is 01:01:36 She's a qualified netball umpire. How many followers does she have? 357. Thousand? A hundred. Oh, wait. Let me see. You could buy that from her.
Starting point is 01:01:47 Wait. What? Wow. She's very... What's a TPN girl? I don't know. I didn't say that because I know what I meant. She's very pretty. Do you see how pretty she is? Yeah, she's cute. You should message her and say, you're pretty. Can I have your Instagram name? What? Guys, I would have swore that the fairy artist had that. I just know that it was taken back in the day and we didn't know Instagram was really going to be a thing or how long we were going to have it.
Starting point is 01:02:12 And so I just did Radio Amy. Or maybe I did Radio Amy on Twitter first and then I just followed it over to Instagram. Yeah. I mean, I like Radio Amy. Amy, but. Well, what if I'm not always in radio? Then I can change it to whatever I am. Yeah. Podcast Amy. What would I be?
Starting point is 01:02:31 Motivational speaker, Amy. Oh, I don't think I'm going to be a motivational speaker. I'm just throwing things out. Yeah, but you see that for me? Because I don't. You could be a speaker Amy. Author Amy. Oh, look at all this you have for me.
Starting point is 01:02:46 Zookeeper Amy. Oh, I don't like zoos. You have so many animals. Okay. Okay, I'm sweating. Gotta go. Bye. In 2023, Bachelor star Clayton Eckerd was accused of fathering twins.
Starting point is 01:03:08 But the pregnancy appeared to be a hoax. You doctored this particular test twice, Ms. Owens, correct? I doctored the test ones. It took an army of internet detectives to uncover a disturbing pattern. Two more men who'd been through the same thing. Greg Alesspian. My mind was blown. I'm Stephanie Young.
Starting point is 01:03:28 This is Love Trapped. Laura, Scottsdale Police. As the season continues, Laura Owens finally faces consequences. Listen to a Love Trapped podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. When a group of women discover they've all dated the same prolific con artist, they take matters into their own hands. I vowed, I will be his last target. He is not going to get away with this. He's going to get what he deserves.
Starting point is 01:03:57 We always say that trust your girlfriends. Listen to the girlfriends. Trust me, babe. On the IHartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Everyone, I'm Eaglewood. My next guest, it's Will Ferrell. My dad gave me the best advice ever. He goes, just give it a shot.
Starting point is 01:04:24 But if you ever reach a point where you're banging your head against the wall and it doesn't feel fun anymore, it's okay to quit. If you saw it written down, it would not be an inspiration. It would not be on a calendar of, you know, the cat. Just hang in there. Yeah, it would not be. Right, it wouldn't be that. There's a lot of luck. Yeah. Listen to Thanks Dad on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is an IHeart podcast. Guaranteed human.

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