The Bobby Bones Show - Anger Issues? The One Thing We Want To Change In Our Lives

Episode Date: August 23, 2025

Morgan and Scuba Steve answer listener questions! Listener shoutouts to start, then Scuba answers questions about his new work schedule, his current energy, and possible anger problem. Then, the one thing in their lives they wish they could change, and appreciation for country music. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Where Morgan and a show member answer almost all your questions. Scuba is here, everybody, and he's ready to answer some listener questions. You've got questions? We've got answers. That was my best deep, rough voice for you. I can't do it again. It's gone. It was never there.

It was a little bit there, okay? Sure. All right. You two are my faves. Scoop should braid his beard like a Viking. Jesse in San Diego. That would be kind of cool. You ever seen the TV show Vikings?

Mm-hmm. And like the main guy. I know what you're talking about it? Okay, yeah, Ragnor Lothbrook, I think is his name. His name's what? Ragnor Lothbrook. What? What a mouthful for a character?

Ragnor. And yeah, I think he's a pretty big actor now. I don't know what else he does. But his beard's kind of cool where they do like a couple little braids here and there. And they add some beads and do it. You should come in one day just with a little bit of braids. A little bedazzle. I feel like.

it would work for you. Yeah, we should try it. We'll see. Yeah. I can braid it. I know how to get a little French braid. I love you on the show. Stephanie from Illinois.

Shout out. I love that we start with a lot of like confidence boosters. Yeah, we do. Shut up. Just make him laugh hard. It's so funny. Kim from Connecticut. I feel like I did that at the very beginning.

Kim, she sure did. Kim, that was for you. Michelle from Apple Valley. You know I had to chime in. My favorite Saturday. Consistent. I appreciate it, Michelle. We love consistency.

We do. She's always very consistent about your episodes. Yeah. Does he work all day now that he has his night show? What's the schedule like, Madison in Florida? It was already like an all day thing. Now it's just an all day plus. So it is, it's, yeah, it's an all day thing.

I think my only break is when I'm driving somewhere. That's my only break. Really? Yeah. So do you come back? Like, do you ever go home at all and come back? So that's why, so my long-term goal or short-term goal, really, is to move this thing to afternoons so I can just stay here and then

go home because doing the night thing is great because I'm able to be a little bit more free and expand and try and mess with stuff because it's late at night and there's kind of, yeah, because I have to leave and then come back. So it is a split shift day where I usually leave here around, depending if we have meetings or how busy the day is. I try to leave here by 1.130, but it ends up usually being two and then go home, pick up the kids, have dinner, and then come back. Dang. Is it worth it? Yeah, it's worth it because there's an end goal. And I can see where it's going to go. So, yes, it's 100% worth it.

Okay. See, that's what matters. Yeah. The long schedules and it sucks and you're in the grind, but when you know that it's worth it, yeah. It makes all of that a lot easier, I feel like. Yeah, the realness is it is difficult. But anything you really want in life isn't going to be easy because, I mean, it's so cliche,

but it's true. Because if it were easy, then it doesn't come with, I mean, things can be easy. Sure, if you got money, you can buy whatever you want, do whatever you want. But I feel like if there isn't some sort of grit and something that makes you work hard for it. You don't appreciate it once you get there. So I'm fine with the grind. It's definitely been adjustment to our schedule at home and everything. And even the kids are like, Dad, where are you? There's even been times where my kids will call into the show and I'll be here. I've seen your videos from that. Yeah. And they'll be like, Dad, my daughter just called him recently.

I was going to post a video. My wife's like, you should post more of the kids. People seem to like that more than just whatever. And so I'll post one probably this couple days here where my daughter called in And she was, and she's part of the show because they call like, Dad, when are you coming home? And they're like, when are you going to be here? And I'm like, I'll be here until 11 something midnight. So I'll see you tomorrow. See you in the morning. Yeah, exactly.

Yeah. Oh my goodness. I love that. I love that the kid's going to be a part of it. They're like your mini co-hosts. Yeah, in a sense. Yeah, they call in at least like once week, I feel like. And I think it relates to because a lot of the listeners are either parents very similar to me or they have grandkids or their kids or older.

So they kind of like to feel nostalgic about, oh, I remember when my kids are six or seven. That's so cool. Yeah. So yeah. Okay. And they love it too. They're like, they've always said for the longest time, they're like, when's the Scoop Steve show going to happen?

And then finally it did. And it's here. Yeah. And another listener wanted to ask, she stayed anonymous. Okay. But she wanted to know because the energy feels like it's changed a little bit from you. So are you happy? Yes.

I'm just tired. Okay. And when I'm tired, I'm cranky. And if she's relating to the whole hot dog fiasco, I guess my shortness, my, my attention to or my grace giving for others is a little bit less right now, not just because that's just who I am. It's just because I'm just stretched so thin that if you catch me at the end of the week, which I think that was on a Friday. It was a Friday.

You catch me at the end of the week, especially then I was still figuring it out and there wasn't a routine yet. And the kids were out of school, so it was a little bit different. But now that I'm in a routine and I have my head on, and I'm like, this is just, this is what it is. And I've come to grips with it, that I'm in a better place when I'm, was two or three weeks ago as a person. Well, that's good.

I mean, listen, I wanted to check in with you too. Make sure you're doing okay. Yeah, yeah. Listen, I know being in this job, there's some burnout that happened. There's also a lot of overwhelm that a lot of us are wearing multiple hats and doing multiple things. Oh, yes. So I had to imagine that that was a little bit of a volcano moment for you where everything

just kind of erupted and it went in a whole lot of different directions. It was the vibe that I was picking up on, which is why I very nicely sat. that. It was quiet. Because it wasn't my place, one, but two, because I could feel from all of you guys just this, and we were getting to a point where we were about to go on vacation, not long from there, everybody was just like, we had just been grinding the wheels. Totally for eight months solid.

Yeah. And everyone was just like, everyone was done. So I knew what was happening. But I wanted to have a checking because another, there was quite a few questions that we got that were in the terms of, does scuba have an anger? problem. That's from Jennifer. So I wanted to allow you to share your piece. Yeah. And in the moment, I was just like, what? We're talking about this? Like, just go get the hot dogs and come back. It's kind of one of those, it's almost like when you get upset of your kids for something so little minute. They're like, I don't want to flush the toilet. You're like, just, just, just,

and let's move on. And for you, it was something so little. For her, it might have been something big. Exactly. Yeah. The difference there was weighing. And that's why I say, like, everybody was in this moment where they were having their volcanoes explode all at the same time. Yeah, exactly. very much. Oh yeah. Oh yeah. So would you like to answer to defer to you have an anger problem? An anger problem? No, I just had a, I just had a burnt out, burnout problem is what it was. And I think it happens to all of us when we get towards the end of the year. We're like, oh my God, we're so burnt out. Because like you said, we're doing so much. We're not doing just the one thing. We're doing, and everyone experiences burnout in different ways. And then you have the personal life mixed with the work life. And it's like essentially two full, full time job. I'm basically a three full time jobs. I've got our morning show job, are not.

night show job and the family job, which is it takes work to put together and, and, and have a relationship with a wife and three kids that are seven and under. And then struggling a bunch of mini hats within each of those jobs. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah, there's the main buckets, but every bucket has like other little, yeah, other little buckets. And you're just like, you get to a point where like, I'm overwhelmed. Oh, my God. And you're still figuring out how that all works within your life right now. Exactly. Yeah. So the beginning phases. The beginning phase of figuring it out and figuring some things out. But then you're just you're still. You're still in the beginning phase of, you still get presented with options.

We're like, oh, crap, I got to figure that one out now, too. You're like, dang it. Okay. Well, I wanted to give you a chance to say your piece. Well, like even one thing, for example, like, I used to always coach my son's baseball team, but this year I had to take a step back and be like, I can't do it, which has been hard because I'm sitting there going like, and the coach will do something. And I'm like, oh, let's go.

And you have to. There's a lot of things that, like, over the course of your life where priorities changed and you have to, as someone who loves to be in control of a lot of my life, I totally understand that feeling, but a lot of maturity comes when you let go and just be like, no, it's fine. I would do it differently, but I have to let go of the fact that I would have done it differently because this is a choice that I made. And it's hard.

It's a really hard thing to like, you're literally letting go of the reins. You're not like still holding on and helping. No, fully let go. You're like, okay, hands are up. I swear I'm not touching. Yes. But it's awesome, though, because when it comes to practice, I don't have to get there 30 minutes early and set the field up and make sure whatever I can literally get there right

five minutes before it starts and then as soon as it's over we're out there isn't any of that there's just it's so much easier on me it becomes only an hour versus a two three hour thing yeah and then and then all the communication with all the parents and all that stuff so it becomes another full-time job within it so it's nice to just let go and and chill out for a second well and with our job to you know something that I have gotten really good at now which will probably have to be relearned and your new lifestyle change is that I had to separate my personal and my work life. Like I had to come in, do my job and leave. And like when I leave, like, I'm no longer work working.

And like I have to turn it off. Even if I'm working at home, I had to like put a differential place in there because it felt like I was carrying so much work into my personal life and like just letting a lot of things carry on who I am because of things that, whether something happened on the show or whether they happened on social media or X, Y, and Z. I was carrying so much of that load everywhere with me instead of it being like I walk out the work doors and like a lot of that stays here.

Yeah. And I think that's a lot of a load that people carry in general too because our work lives are so intertwined with our personal lives, not just for us. I mean, I think it's very true for us because we straight up talk about our personal lives. Yeah. But I think for most people, when you work so much,

it's such a big part of your life that you start to think they're supposed to be like intertwined and like you'd go home and you talk about work all the time or you're always constantly. Work is always like lingering in your brain. And I had to like turn it off. As soon as I walk out the door, it's like, you can't talk about work anymore. You can do your work.

You go home and you do your work and you get done. But like if anybody wants to talk about work or like hang out and talk about work, I don't do it. I'm like, no, no, no, we're not here for that. You want to talk to me there? Put me back in the building. Exactly. Yeah, but I'm not there.

Yeah. Yeah. I had to kind of create these different boxes in my brain because I was getting so overwhelmed and burnout because it was like it was like it was constantly running in the back of my head. Always there, yeah. And the anals of your mind. Then it comes forward. You're like, oh, now it's there again. I want to shut it off. And I can't shut it off. It was never off. Yeah. It was always just running. And you'll find your way to do that with your new kind of jobs. But I do think that's the thing that a lot of people deal with is just like the inability to

actually turn off work. Even if you think that you are, I think most people's jobs go home with them. Oh yeah. They take it home always. So tough. So tough. Okay. Quick question on this one before we going to the break. Chelsea and Indiana wants to know if you could interview any person, who would it be? We'll tell you after the break. No, answer it. I thought it was the other than teeth. No, no, no, no, not the teeth. If anyone who would it be? Oh, man, I think it'd be fun to, see, that's the only thing too. I get nervous about talking to people that I really want to talk to because then it becomes, I don't know, then it could ruin it for you. Take all the emotions and stuff away from it. Like anyone in the world, if you could interview

somebody on your new show, who would it be? Anyone in the world. I mean, just, for my own personal thing, it'd be cool to talk to Shaq. Shack or Penny Hardaway. Those are two people that I love so much growing up as a kid. And I get like the worry of like, okay, well, you love them and then you meet them. You're like, oh, I don't like it. Oh, they weren't as cool as I thought they were. And they look so cool.

But I think it would override that if you wanted to interview them. I think if you had the opportunity, you'd be like, it's fine. If I meet him and it sucks, it's going to be what it is. I want to interview them. There's even people that you interview and you're like, oh, I guess I'll do it. And then you do it. You're like, oh, my God. This is, this was so cool.

I interviewed a guy named Ted Nugent, who's a classic rock guy, and it airs, it was aired on Friday show, but it lives on social media now. And it was supposed to be his assistant was like, how much you need? And I was like, 10, 15 minutes max. We talked for almost an hour. Wow. And he pulled out his guitar and started playing guitar for me and stuff. And I was like, this is so cool because I grew up with a father who loved the rock and roll music. And he was one of those artists that was like a staple in his truck.

And so to be able to talk to him, I was kind of like, I never knew him as the human. I only knew him as the music. And then I kind of knew him as a human when he did an MTV Cribs episode in the 2000s. And I was like, well, this is wild. And so that was one of those moments where I was like, so I guess my point is I don't want to shut anyone off from an interview because you just never know what you can get out of it. I guess I'll always go into everything open-minded. But if I'm picking somebody as Shaquille O'Neill or Penny Hardaway. Okay.

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What's up, everyone, I'm Ago Wodom. My next guest, you know from Step Brothers Anchorman, Saturday Night Live, and the Big Money Players Network. It's Will Ferrell. Woo, woo, woo, woo. My dad gave me the best advice ever. I went and had lunch with them one day, and I was like, and dad, I think I want to really give this a shot. I don't know what that means, but I just know the groundlings. I'm working my way up through, and I know it's a place that come look for up and coming talent. He said, if it was based solely on talent, I wouldn't worry about you, which is really sweet.

Yeah. He goes, but there's so much luck involved. And he's like, just give it a shot. He goes, but if you ever reach a point where you're banging your head against the wall and it doesn't feel fun anymore, it's okay to quit. If you saw it written down, it would not be an inspiration. It would not be on a calendar of, you know, the cat. Just hang in there.

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or wherever you get your podcasts. What is one thing in your life right now that you want or need to give up, Abby in Tennessee? Want or need to give up? I'll give you a second to think about this. You know, I had a second to work at it. Of course, you've had more than a second. You're like a whole day.

I am working on because I'm about to go in my big detox, diet, all the things to get rid of long COVID and hopefully get me a lot healthier. But it's cheese. Cheese, really? I'm going to have to for this diet. Not for life, I don't think, but because we're trying to get rid of a lot of inflammation and stuff in my body. Yeah.

Cheese is such a huge factor in that. Dairy in general is. So my detox, part of it is nutrition and I'll be gluten-free and dairy-free. Gluten free was already something I'm used to. But the dairy-free one, never done it. That's tough because I went to one time when I went to a restaurant in L.A. Because my cousin is like, she cut everything off. And we went to a restaurant.

It was like a, I think they had on the restaurant. the menu they had lasagna and I was like oh that's a safe one it's just cheese and pasta and it comes and I start eating it and I feel like I'm eating a nutra grain bar and like what the hell is this crap and she's like oh it's vegan or whatever it is I was like what what am I eating it should be cheese and a noodle and it's some tomato sauce she's like yeah there's noodle there's tomato sauce but the cheese is actually ground up peanuts and I was like oh gross what the hell why would anyone do that don't even put lasagna in the menu yeah you can't it's not a thing no it's not it's no it shouldn't be a thing listen I was trying to find alternatives because I'm going to

be struggling. Well, you should just not even, you should just commit it. You should just omit it completely from your life. I think I will be. Because cashew cheese was so terrible. I was all, I left them to Taco Bell. I was so pissed off. I was like, you guys sit here and eat. Before we go to this comedy show, I'm going to go to Taco Bell and I'll be right back. I love Taco Bell. I was so pissed. That's funny. About how long ago was that? That was 2017? They've come a long way. Really? Even after eight years? It's even gotten better. Okay. I mean, in general, gluten-free, vegan, all those foods have really come a long way. Okay.

Even since I started being vegetarian when I was seven, things have drastically changed over the course of all of that. Yeah. I would give another try now, but obviously with you knowing what it is, not going and not knowing. I had no idea. That's much worse. I would never like trick somebody would be like, eat this and it's, you know, full on vegan. It wasn't even a trick. I was just looking at the menu thing.

Like, what's the safest thing for me here? I don't want this. I don't want this. I don't want that. Why would they not have cheese at a restaurant? It must have been a full-blown vegan. It was L.A. It was on it.

It was L.A. was right next to the L. The Logo, if anyone knows what that's at. Key Logo, that's the one I know. It's actually a really cool comedy space where, like, people out of nowhere will show up, like Jud Appetal will be there and try out. He was there that night. But it's like in Beverly Hills where it's like super like bougie and like top notch of everything.

Yeah, so that's why it was a vegan restaurant. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's exactly where you were. Yeah, I know. Stupid. Okay, what's yours? Did you have one? So what I want to and need to?

Is it both or is one of the other? want or need to give up. Like it could be a want or you have to. You just have to. I need to give up spiraling. Like sometimes I'll get in a moment where I like spiral, spiral, spiral and I can't get out of it and then I spiral into it a panic attack. And then I, then I come to and I'm like, why am I spirally?

Why am I in a panic attack? And then I, that creates another panic attack of why I'm having a panic attack and spiraling. And it usually happens like once a quarter where it'll just like the whole world feels like it's just falling on you. And you're like, holy crap. So my wife's like, she's always trying to help talk me out of it when it happens. and just like, well, how can I help you?

And I'm like, I don't know how to help me when it happens. It just happens. I guess I just need to go through it and live it. But I guess it becomes, why do you get to that point? And then it becomes everything around you. So it's almost like, so I should, I guess I should just quit working. You sound like Eddie on the Foxx and hour where they're like, we just want to retire right now. Yeah.

That sounds like what you need. It is true. I mean, it's really hard to, when you have something that's causing that spiral, the only way to really avoid that spiral is. to eliminate it from your life. Yeah, but you need money to live, so. Yeah. I don't have financial freedom at the moment. I mean, therapy could be good to drop through some stuff.

I don't want to. I'm good. Okay. Well, it's either quitting your job or therapy, I think. It's going to be a third option. Yes, no, not really. I think you've got to work through it. Working out, though, like when I used to work out, it was, I was mentally better and physically

better, and I never had any issues with anything ever. Working out is still like technically a coping mechanism if you don't know what you're trying to work out. If you know what the problem is, you know what the core thing is of that, then yeah, you can go work out and you know your coping skills to like get through that. Yeah. But if you don't know why the cause of the spiral is happening, like actually like root root cause, it's going to keep happening regardless of the coping mechanisms because you don't have, you haven't worked through everything. Does that make sense? Yeah. Oh yeah.

So yes, short term, it will. Yeah. Long term, it will keep happening until you've, like, started to peel back layers and address stuff. Yeah. And I know that stuff. It's not fun. Yeah. But also just, for me, just me personally, I mean, everyone does what they want to do.

And I don't shoot anyone down for what they were into, unless they're a pedophile. That went a drastically different direction. That is always wrong. But I guess for me, it's like I'm already a free speaking person to everyone around me. Why would I want to then go and spend money and talk to somebody that I don't know? and then they just give me all their tricks and tips that they've learned, especially like you go to talk to somebody who's a therapist, and they're like, I've got kid problems.

And they go, I don't have any kids, but here's what I would do. Then you really don't know what I'm going through because you don't have children. So you have no idea. You're only reading based off of what you've learned or seen through your life experiences, which is no different than what I'm doing with my life through life experiences. So I guess for me, it's hard to, because my wife sees a therapist. And then she just kind of gives me those tricks to me. And some of the things are helpful.

But she'll even tell me, she's like, yeah, I talked to my therapist. She's great, but she doesn't have kids, so she doesn't even get it. And she'll even admit she doesn't get it. So why would I then go talk to somebody who doesn't get it? Well, I've learned through therapy. There's different types of therapy for different stuff that you're working through. So, like, if a lot of it has to do with you being a dad and how you're balancing and all of that,

then you would want to find a therapist who is a dad. Like, and there are. I mean, like, when I was coming out of my abusive relationship, I was with a therapist who specialized in abusive relationships. Okay. Because I wasn't going to go to somebody and talk about that and them not have the experience. to handle that. Yeah. So you could go to different people who specialize.

And you can call before you ever see him as like, hey, what, like, what's your thing that you're really good at? Or like, if you want to see a therapist that specializes in working with men. Like, there's so many different levels to that. And I will say, like, I get it because I'm, I'm similar to you. I'm a very open book. Everybody knows how I feel, what I feel pretty easily. Yeah.

But it was always helpful for me because I was getting an unbiased perspective. So much of the perspectives in my life were biased that, like, having someone sit there and help me understand something without any filter really help me work through it more. Okay. And that was why it was helpful. I get that idea of like, well, you know, why would I go do this or this? I think if you can find someone who specializes it in what you want to talk about right now. And that can change, right?

Like you can be like, okay, well, I've done six sessions with you. I feel good. I don't need you anymore. And you go to another one that specializes in something different. That's very common. but then after like that, I feel like you get a different, you gain a perspective that you would have never had just because it is someone who specialized in something that you were struggling with.

Yeah. That makes sense? It does. Yeah. I don't know if I'm explaining super well. Oh, you're good. Yeah. I guess I've always used therapy for me of just talking to other people and hearing their life

experiences. I'm like, man, this is tough. Like, yeah, me, let me tell you about my thing. I'm like, oh, shoot. I don't, I guess my theory isn't bad. That's community. Community, yeah. Well, I thrive on community versus therapy.

Yeah. You need all of it, honestly. I mean, at the end of the day, everybody needs all of it. You need community to survive. You need therapy through certain things to work through them just with an unbiased opinion. Also, the healthiest person in the world goes to therapy. You know what I mean? It doesn't mean anything's wrong with you.

It just means you need a different perspective that you're not able to gain elsewhere. That's the way I look at therapy. So maybe reshaming it can help you. But you also don't have to. You don't have to. That's the beauty of all this. You don't have to. Because I'm not going to, so.

Maybe one day you will. I'm trying to help you not spiral anymore. I'm spiraling right now. I'm just kidding. All right. Have you had gained more appreciation for country music since working and living in Nashville? This is from Jordan. I think I gained appreciation for because of the songwriting side of it because it is kind of cool.

It's like one of the few genres left that actually has like a story. Not all the songs, but a lot of them do. Whereas like hip hop. kind of used to have a storyline and now it's just kind of like flashy and trendy and so I've kind of fallen out of love with hip hop not the old hip hop but the new stuff because it just has no substance to it and it's more of like a sound and what's trendy and what gets the clicks on ticot versus an actual really good hip hop song and not saying there aren't artists that they're still doing it I mean there's guys like jrner lucas and jay cole and people like that who are still

and kendrick lamar but the the up-and-coming ones are just so they're so terrible they're so awful And it's not me being the crotchy old man. It really is really bad. Like there is no substance to it. So I guess I appreciate the side here where it is great storytelling. It's kind of cool and fun. And then obviously we have an advantage of for most people. We get to actually physically meet these people.

And so then there becomes this personal experience that you attach to an artist. You're like, man, I really like them. They're really cool or they're really nice or whatever. So I have grown to, I still don't, I'm still not a big fan of the music. It's not my go to. Like when I go in the car, I'm never turning on a country song or country radio station. Interesting.

But I am appreciative of what it is. And you can enjoy it more. You've probably gotten to more concerts with it, too, just having access to it. Yeah, without even, yeah, access to everything. It's like you can kind of do whatever with it. But it's still not my number one. It's like number seven on the list. Okay.

Well, you know what? At least it moved up, maybe one or two spots. That's probably about the same. I'm just kidding. You know what? It moved up over new hip-hop. It did move over new hip-hop for sure. Yeah.

Oh, my God, yeah. Okay. we're going to jump out of here scuba thanks for being on thank you for having me i appreciate it i like your shirt today you're wearing a what is his name grouchy grall uh what's in the oscar the groucher the grouch it's like it's a cause shirt uh the artist cause where he puts xes over the eyes i've never heard of that one you know i think he'll start seeing it now he usually do like a specific animal that he created but then he started doing collabs like sesame street and all that kind of stuff if you looked up cause k a w s you may go is that your spirit animal oscar the grouch

Maybe, yeah. That's right. Elmo's mine. And Elmo's like secretly the one that sets everything on fire. Oh, yeah. I love Elmo. Elmo. I'm Elmo.

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