The Bobby Bones Show - FEELING THINGS - Purity Hot Tubs & Insults To Keep In Your Back Pocket (Couch Talks)

Episode Date: May 25, 2026

Amy’s algorithm exposed her to purity culture hot tubs with worship music…which led to Kat sharing her algorithm…it’s all pregnancy and baby stuff all the time (i.e. Kylie Jenner gained 50 pounds during her pregnancy.) Amy went over a list of insults so intelligent you don’t realize you’ve been roasted until a few thoughts later. Sam from Boston called in sharing her go-bag hack for contact lens wearers, and Heidi emailed giving us the full mineral sunscreen download after three years of family testing. Get some Feeling Things merch by clicking HERE! (FeelingThingsPodcast.com) Sign up for the Feeling Things newsletter HERE! Watch us on Youtube HERE! Call and leave a voicemail: 877-207-2077 Email: [e-mail] HOSTS: Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy Kat Van Buren // threecordstherapy.com // @KatVanburenSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Happy Thursday. Welcome to Couch Talks, the listener Q&A episode of the Feeling Things podcast. I'm Amy. And I'm Kat. And let's start off with a little algorithm in it. Welcome to the algorithm in it. I know we're not supposed to seeing that. I thought you were going to say algorithm roulette.

No, because then we would just be like randomly picking. But Kat and I have both picked one thing from our algorithms to share with you. And I like to share. This was in my FYP. So my for you page as I scroll through reels seeing what the algorithm is suggesting for me. There's this guy and a girl in a hot tub. And they're, you know, smiling and playing around in the hot tub. And then written on top of the screen, it says, P-O-V, you've chosen to walk in purity. So hot tub sessions accompany loud worship music on the speakers.

And then, of course, there's a worship song playing in the reel, obviously. And I thought, why is this in my page? Yeah, the question is, why is that your for you page? I don't know. Are you trying to walk in purity right now? Oh, I mean, I just, or do I even hot tub? I don't know. Yeah, like it just seemed. I feel like you don't like hot tubs. I don't.

Yeah. I don't like a public one, but I like a hot tub. You'll go private. Private. I can only go private. But here's my thing with that, which like, whatever works for you, works for you. But I just feel like if I was in a hot tub and I was feeling. Frisky.

and frisky. I don't like the correlation between the two. It's, you know, like it's almost like, God's watching you. And that feels like it could be a little damaging, you know? Yeah. It just was an interesting thing to pop up on my feed. And I was like, okay, I'll share that. What you got, Kat?

So that's not my algorithm. Mine is mostly pregnancy stuff, which is like cool, but also I get kind of tired of it. But this one I actually really did enjoy. Kylie Jenner, which I think I love her. I don't really know much about her. I don't either. She's really wealthy. She's billionaire.

She's dating Timothy, Shalmay. She's probably, she's two kids. Not doing hot tapestry. I don't think she is because she got pregnant at 19. Okay. So she. Yeah, I don't think she's doing that. She was on, shoot, I don't know his name.

She was on a podcast. So it was all these clips from this podcast. And she shared that in her pregnancy, both of them. Her first one, she gained, I think she said 40 pounds. And her second one, she said 40 or 50 pounds. Which I was like, whoa. Because part of my issue, I don't know if I've talked about this before, of my 4U page, a lot of it is pregnancy clothes, like people either selling or people being like,

this is what I wore in the second trimester or the this or the, but everybody who's doing that, none of them have my body type. So it's a little disheartening a little bit. And I'm like, those clothes aren't going to look like that on me. And so it's been like a process for me because I'm like, these people don't look like they're gaining any of the pregnancy weight, which everybody's body's different and all that. Yeah, we're talking about how she gained 80 pounds or something. No way.

Yeah, wait. You're like, wow. Your face lit up. You're like, wow. So anyway, when she said that, I was like, okay, so it is, I mean, I don't actually know how much I've gained because ever since I started doing fertility treatments, I have not looked at the scale because they really change your body or they changed my body. And I didn't need to, I generally don't need that information. And so I have no idea what I weigh. So I don't know how much I've gained.

I just know my body has changed. But that made me feel good because I've seen all these videos of these girls that are like, I gained 15 pounds. That's just the baby. And my baby came out and I lost all of my pregnancy weights. And they're showing they're like, this is the other thing that's been getting me that, and I'm trying to change my algorithm. It's just hard. But they'll show like, this is what I packed in my hospital bag and it'll be like they're going home outfit. And I'm like, there's no way.

They're like, and I ordered my normal size. And I'm like, right after you gave the baby, most people still look pregnant. After giving birth? Yeah. So I was like, I need the real, like I need now everybody's body is different. And I do, I think it's a misconception that like you have to gain a certain amount of weight because your body will put on the weight that you need to keep your baby healthy. But I need more people that are having a similar experience as me in my fur at you page.

And so thank you, Kylie. for sharing that with us. Yeah. And just like you protect yourself from the scale, like you know, you don't need to see that, so you don't. Yeah. And that's great. And you carry on about your day.

You protected me from an email that you said I didn't need to see. And you went in to our feeling things email and you deleted something. And now I'm not even going to get to read it. But then I told you about it. Yeah. You said I could go into the trash if I wanted to. And I was like, no, I'm not going to go read it. I felt kind of bad that I deleted it because I was like, part of the,

me was like Amy can handle seeing this. Yes. But then I was like, but she doesn't need to see this. So that's why I think I like word vomited and was like, I deleted it email email about you. But it's still in the trash if you want to go get it. And you can go read it. It's fine. But I mean, I'm not going to go read it.

Thank you for taking care of me. It's fine. I can decide if I want to read it or not. Because I got insults. Yeah. What do you mean? I have insults. I have a whole list that I came across.

Just that we could all use it anytime. And I could, I can take care of myself. I probably wouldn't even reply. No, this email didn't deserve a reply. And I'm pretty sure this person has sent something similar before that you have seen. It just felt unnecessary. Like we've talked about like we're, you especially are very open to critical feedback. You really are like. And constructive. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. That's better. but also as a podcast we want people to enjoy what we're doing and want to listen and so that's part of the job is to hear that but like we've said before there is a there's some stuff that if you just don't like like us then that's we don't need the feedback on that you just find

a different podcast and this person I just don't think likes me like you okay cool that's fine which like I'm sure there's plenty of people that don't like me they're just not That's why I'm like, you don't need to see that. I don't need to see the people that don't like me. They can talk about me to their friends. Well, here's a list of insults that I came across that we can keep in our back pocket just in case we ever might need them. Their insults so intelligent that you don't realize you've been roasted until like a

beat, like a minute has gone by and you're like, wait a second. That was an insult. That was mean. Like this. I'd love to agree with you, but I don't want us both to be wrong. Imagine you saying that and I'm like, oh, thank you. And then later I'm like, wait. You could say that one to your husband.

If you all are ever arguing about something, you'd be like, oh, man, well, I'd love to agree with you. But I don't want both of us to be wrong. Wait, I kind of want to try that and see if he notices. Okay. I'd explain it slower, but I don't think speed is the problem. Ouch. Nothing lights up a room like your absence. That is me.

Oh, that one cuts. Don't start thinking if you're not used to it. These are kind of evil. Yeah, that funny. What if I replied back to that one email and I was like, don't start thinking if you're not used to it. That would give her more ammo. I wouldn't, yeah.

I can appreciate your unique approach to problem causing. You prove the bottom of the barrel has a basement. Oh, ouch. That's kind of like, is that an insult or is that almost, I like that one. I like that. Because if somebody's like going below the belt, you can say that. And that's not you being mean. You're just like, you're going too far.

You know? Like this is low. Yeah. This one could be said in a Southern voice and be like real sweet, you know? I feel like this one's like, I like how you don't let facts discourage you, you know? Yeah. That's one of those like bless your hearts where you walk away and you're like, wait, that person was just really mean to me.

And now I want to go back and say something. You stand so firmly on assumptions. You mistake it for solid ground. Nice. Well, okay, that's not that mean. I can see my, I would never say it like that, but that's like something that I could see myself saying to a client, you know, that like you're, you're assuming so much that you don't realize like what actually, what actually.

actual facts you have. Oh. The same kind of thing. So now you've got one for work. I wouldn't say it in an assaulting way, though. That's not. Yeah. Wow.

This is how you could say it. Like, oh, wow. It seems as though you're standing so firmly on assumptions that maybe you're mistaking it for solid ground. Yes. Yeah. That's the therapeutic. You could be a therapist.

That would be my tone. Yeah. For that. I want to do a New York accent, but I don't know how or like a Boston like, I like how you don't let facts discourage you. I like how you don't let the facts discourage you. I feel like no matter what accent you try to do, it just comes out Russian. Oh, yes, Russian.

Yeah. Russian. Oh, in, I know we talked a little bit about Winter Garden. Yeah. On Tuesday. So I have the physical copy, but I also listen to it. if you're new here, I do that to help me, even while I'm actually reading the book, I will sometimes listen to it. Not always, but it helps. I am dyslexic and it's called immersion reading.

And it's a technique that I wish I would have had when I was a kid. Because I think it really would have helped me. And I think that's a tool they use for kids now. But I'm just now discovering it at 45. That's okay. Better like than never. And it really is great. And in the audiobook, the mom, the mom in the story is Russian and she's got the Russian accent. Don't you love that accent? In the book? She talks like this.

Yes. I found it very soothing. And she's not the most soothing person. Right. Uh-huh. Yeah. See, what's great about that. Yeah.

What's great about doing that is when you're listening, we may have already said this, but when you're listening to an audiobook, it helps you then when you're, you're reading it put voices to all these characters. Yeah. So it's kind of fun. You know? It is fun. Okay. So I'm going to encourage you to not use most of these. I'm probably not. I just thought that they were funny to share. Like especially. Yeah. We're a therapy podcast and we help people be better people. And so we're giving you a list of things not to say. Okay. Yeah. You could try out to your husband. I'd love to agree with you, but I don't want both of us to be wrong. Like that's kind of funny. Like, kitchy, playful way.

Yes, being playful. You know what? I'll say that to him when he's giving his opinion on baby names. Oh, what's going on with that? He just has a lot of opinions, and I think they're wrong. Pride is like love. You feel it in your heart. I-R-Radio, Canada's number one streaming app for radio and podcasts,

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He just has a lot of opinions, and I think they're wrong. Oh, yeah. Is this baby going to get named? Well, I've already said the baby has a first name. Right. But you're trying to complete the name. Yep. And I've talked about my thoughts on the middle name here before.

You guys know that I was struggling with a certain name. and yeah we just had a discussion this morning about it and he gave me the wrong opinion. I didn't like it. So I wish I would have had this, but not really because we were able to handle it in a more mature way. Don't look at me like that. Are you sure? Because I feel like whenever you were telling me about it, you're like, and then we haven't talked the rest of the day.

No, we've talked. When he left, I said, well, he kissed me goodbye. and he kissed the baby goodbye. He's so cute. He does it. That is cute. But he didn't say I love you. So he's walking out at the door and I go, are you not going to say I love you?

Granted, I didn't say it either. But he said, well, I was trying to give you some space. And I was like, well, we can still say I love you to each other when you're leaving for work. So then he said, I love you and I'll see you later. And we've texted about other things. But I think this is still, we've kind of put this issue. I did say, I love you and I'm still upset. So I'm having.

to both there, you know. Yeah. Anywho, baby update. Thanks for sharing that. I didn't know if you were going to share that on the podcast and then I was like, oh, there she is. She's saying it. Well, I wasn't, I'm not going to share everything. Right. Yeah. We have to protect some things. Yeah. Some things you realize other people might not like if you share. Well, him? Yes. But also I think I want to preserve the baby name. Yes. Yeah. That makes sense. But that's for you. And then all. And then, also when there's other people involved that I have let me tell you how many amazing stories I have oh you know what I was thinking about that the stories I have and I can't say because I won't I can't because I won't yeah if I was the type that that could or would that would be great but I'm

just not and it's such a bummer because I don't know maybe one day there's a way to tell some of them maybe is there like you know when the government can't share stuff and then 25 years passed and then now it's allowed you can read the documents well you know declassify stuff yeah what is it called yeah i think that's right well no but on a classified information yeah maybe that's what's called i was thinking more so like because a lot of interesting stories that i have like aren't like i think what you're saying too is like they're either personal or they're not your stories to tell yeah well they arm i have my side of the story that actually is great to tell but in order for me to tell my side that means i'm telling exposing other things about other people or involving other people because it's also about me so then yeah it's like you can't do it well i oh i that just brought something up i'm gonna parking lot that thought okay okay we're gonna park that we're gonna park that thought, and we're going to go to this thought that I had originally, that you know the book,

maybe you should talk to someone. Yes. She tells, so this is a book for those of you that don't know what it is, it's a book that a therapist wrote. And in this book, she talks about her life and then she talks about five clients' stories, side by side, like as if it's all happening at the same time. But she changes their stories because, I mean, that's very much protected information. So what I assume she did is is use their story as like a idea.

And then she like created the same theme but through different things. And change the names. Change the names. But I still don't. If those stories actually happened and she's told she just changed the names, that seems kind of crazy. I would never. I don't know that I would do that. Yeah.

It's Lori Gottlie, by the way, which they were going to turn that book into an Amazon show, did they? Never happened. I don't. I don't know what happened. Oh, why didn't happen? Maybe you can look up what happened to that because that was years, that was like four or five years ago.

That was 2020 when that book came out. Yeah, it was definitely COVID-y times. But that's maybe, that would take a lot of work, but I don't know how you would do that with these stories. It would take a lot of work. But I think that's how some people protect is they take the theme of what do I want people to get from this and they just like make up another story. Okay.

But it's like not a lot of work. Now there is something I've considered. that you know about that remember the videos i got from that one person oh my god wait a second my brain was going somewhere else with what you were talking about but that is content we could all use that's what i'm saying i that's one where i think no i think we are thinking about the same stuff don't get me wrong of that i'll never say or that i can't say or i wouldn't yeah you can't because you won't i can't because i can't you won't because you can't but you could you could you could that then i would be a different person if I did. I honestly wouldn't want you to do that. Thank you. See, because you have

expectations of me that I also have of myself. Yeah. That would be me going to the basement at the bottom of the barrel. Yes. Well, my parking lot thought was also where I got parking lot is when I used to do meetings with somebody that worked for me in order for us to stay on topic whenever I would go off topic, she would write put it in the parking lot and she would write it on my whiteboard. Well, yeah, but we don't have a whiteboard here, so we could put stuff in the parking lot all day long and not remember what the heck is in the parking lot. So do you even remember? Yes. Well, you reminded me. When people write like their like memoirs and stuff and like their, when celebrities and stuff write like their tell old books or whatever, they air dirty laundry of other people. Like, well, yeah. I'm thinking of Jessica Simpson's book when she talks about John Mayer or Jen Hatmaker recently telling about her husband. Yeah. Like how how do they not get. I guess cease and desists from. I don't know. Yes, that's what I think about.

When I think about what Jen shared her kids, her ex-husband, I mean, it's a lot. And she did a heavy book tour. Like she was on all kinds of talk shows and promoting it. And I don't know.

I think she probably wrestled with that for a while. Yeah. And then it was time for her to tell her story. I just wonder. It's one thing that, like, I'm ready to tell this story. And it's another thing of, can you get sued for that? I don't know. I mean, if it's true, it's true, but also like...

Yeah, what's her ex going to do? She'd be like, literally, this is what happened. Yeah. Like, you... You did this. We're texting your girlfriend in bed next to me. Voice text. What?

Yes. Voice text. I think he said something along the lines of, I can't quit you. Did she hear that? And she woke up. Uh-huh. Oh.

I know. Okay. Well, anyway, you're talking about the videos? So there are these videos I received at one point from somebody. And, man, they're entertaining. Even if we could have just talked about them, we don't know how to play them. But that was a wild. Yeah, we definitely can't play them.

Yeah. But we could talk about them. That was a wild time in your life. Yeah. It really was. wasn't it? It was very interesting. And I just thought it's more so we could talk about them in a, like a case study. Sort of like we analyze it and like, let's look out for people like this. Yeah. Because this is scary. And you could go back and look at these are the signs that I overlooked. Yes. Cat sort of saw them. Sort of. Okay. You definitely saw them. Cat saw them. This is some of those in my life that like, honestly, I started to. try to hide from cat.

We didn't hang out as much. Yeah, or talk as much. But then when you, you would call me out on it, though. Like, you would be like, are you hanging out with da-da-da? Or, well, I snapped kind of one time. I was on your birthday. Yeah. I know.

People are like. And I felt bad about that. We don't know what y'all are talking about. So this is annoying. Sorry. But we're just saying sometimes your friends can see it before you do. So pay attention. Because Kat saw it and I was in la la land and ignored it.

Here's a question that this, I think people would appreciate. Knowing what you know now and knowing yourself and where you were, would there have been anything that I could have done? Because my, the way I handled it is I just was like, she'll figure it out. Yeah. And I backed off. So would you want me to do anything else? You backed off to me. But to this other person, you would be confrontational.

Yeah. Yeah, you did. Yeah, you would. They were too. I know, y'all both would. And it was awkward. And I was like, well, they don't like each other. This is interesting.

But is there like. Then he tried, he or she, this person. They. Did they try to tell me the hue for a narcissist. Yeah. I was like, what? What? But they were.

trying to persuade me to not like you. Yeah. Because that would be in their favor. Yeah. Because then they could get away with more because you were the only one calling them out on their stuff. So therefore, if I think you're a narcissist and I start setting a boundary with you, they win. Yeah. But I couldn't see that. I even said, what? You don't know what you're talking about. There is no way that she's just not. And they were just trying to gaslight me into that. Which kind of was a wake-up call for you, I think. Yeah, I'll never forget where we were. I remember what we were doing, where we were exactly. We went on this hike, and I remember the exact part of the trail where he told me, cats and narcissists. He or she are they. Cats and I was like, what? Which my, they had a different approach to me. My approach,

I think I tried. I wasn't perfect. But I tried to only talk about that. them if you brought them up, except that one time that I had the moment, I would only talk about them when you brought them up. And I tried not to say, if you weren't saying something about them, I was not, I wasn't going to throw my opinion out unless you were questioning something. Right. Until it got really bad. But is there, looking back, is that, was that helpful for you? Or is there something that you wish I would have said or would that even have been helpful? Because you would have been like, what are you talking about? I think me figuring it out on my own was really good and I needed to do it for myself.

Yeah. However, if it had gone on long time, I think I would have appreciated you intervening. Like if I wasn't able to jump to the conclusion myself, you know, like if another six months to a year had passed, I would have appreciate you being like, hey, me, can we talk? Yeah. Because then that would have helped me. Yeah. If worse things happened, I think I probably would have said more. But it was the things that were happening weren't like, it was more like we just had distance between us versus you were ruining your life. You know? Yeah. Cool, cool. And we've all been there. So I can't judge you. I've acted. I've had those kinds of people in my life that I've also acted just like you were. Like it's easy to. Yeah. It was a season. It was a season. People come into your life for. A reason, a season, or a lifetime. And I think they...

It was a reason. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It was a reason in a little season. Anywho, if we could say more, that would be real. If you could have talked about it... No, I don't think while it was happening, you would want that.

But, yeah. Content you could... We'll leave it at that. That's not even the best stuff. I mean, that's the one I would consider talking about because I don't really care. There's other stories that are so epic, but I actually care about the other people involved. So that's why I would never. Yeah.

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In the moment, it felt like it was going on forever. I didn't think I was going to live. I was terrified. There was no anything inside those eyes. They turned black. It scared the hell out of me. That was your first murder case? Yes, yeah.

Fair to say this was the biggest case of your career? Yes, sir. Rape a murder for a child. She's as bad as it gets. I would think so. People wake up. I'm the one that saw the murder take place by Crevette and DePippo. Anthony DePippo showed no signs of remorse,

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The Jonas Brothers here. Our podcast is called, Hey Jonas. We've here, since everyone has a podcast, we want it to as well. And we've had some incredible guests so far. And now our good friend, Nile Horn, is joining the show. How's it going, boys? Hey, Niall. It's the same thing with Slow Hands.

Slow Hands is not about anything else, really, is it? You know, or taste so good can't be about food. You do the same, Nick, with some of the stuff that you've done. Joe. Drop what you're doing and listen to Hey Jonas on the Iheart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your podcasts. All right, let's shift gears a little. Okay?

We've got a voicemail from Sam in Boston. Here it is. Hi, me and Kat. I was listening to your last episode when you were talking about the go bag and that remind me that I have an extra pair of eyeglasses in the back of my car because like Kat, I am also legally blind. So if my contact ever fall out of my eyes and I have to get to point A to point B, I literally would not be able to drive safely and I would be stuck wherever I was. So that's kind of a life hack tip to have an extra pair of glasses with you, especially in my car,

I have my glasses and then in my purse I always have an extra pair of contact. But in the car, glasses that's a must. All right. Hope you have the day you need to have. Bye. And this is Sam from Boston and I'm 29. I love that people are giving their ages. So we have someone in their 20s. Yes, that's the first thing that I was going to say. Because on Tuesday you're like, can't wait to hear from our listeners that are in their 20s. Now, she's 29. That's not Gen Z, is it? She's probably turning 30 tomorrow. Happy birthday, Sam. Happy birthday. Welcome to your 30s. But that's got to be cool that you've got someone just like you. Yeah.

Yeah. That's actually really, I don't know why I've never. Do you keep an extra pair of glasses in your car? No, I've never thought to do that. But I'm also never had the thought that my contact's going to fall out while I'm driving. So again, new fear is unlocked. This is like just making me more anxious. But I guess there's a solution here.

And I also have trouble driving at night with my glasses because I have a stigmatism. So maybe I just need extra. contacts in my car. Yeah, she's got it all. Yeah, she's got it all. She's got her go bag. That's her go bag. She's ready to go with all that, which I do. I do less alone. Yeah. I thought you might. She's also legally blind. Yeah. And that's you, right? Yeah. So is Patrick. So our kid's going to have bad vision. And what? Or could your kid come out with the best vision 2020? Maybe, but I don't think so. We both, me and Patrick both had glasses in elementary school. Is that what you all bonded over in your first started dating?

We're legally blind. Yeah, it's like, oh, I can't see. I can't see either. It's just so cute. We're perfect for each other. Well, y'all both had to grow up with glasses. Yeah, I don't think that was traumatized. It's not like we trauma bonded over that.

Like, when you get glasses when you're really young, it's kind of cool. Yeah. Like, I remember getting glasses in second grade. and everyone, it went in the third grade and that, second grade. And everybody was like, oh my gosh. I love how you're contemplating. I do that too when we're telling a story and it's like, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter.

But now I need to know. It could be second grade. But then we're like, oh, shoot, was it third grade? Yeah. And then to listeners, it doesn't matter. But I do the exact same thing. But it was cool. The only thing that was hard about that is playing sports because having glasses.

and playing like a contact sport is hard. Patrick went the route of he wore the sports goggles. I refused to do that. So my mom had to take me the eye doctor. They had to hold me down and shove the contacts in my eyes. That was, think about that. That sounds traumatic. That was traumatic.

They took me to the eye doctor maybe three or four times and tried to have me put the contact in my eye because my coach said you either need to get contacts or you need to get these sports goggles. You can't play with your glasses anymore. because I was getting into the more, I guess, premier whatever. But I couldn't do it. Imagine never of touching your eye and being like, that just freaked me out.

I remember wanting glasses at one point so badly and I didn't need them. But I went and I bought them and I would wear them. Were they like just nothing glasses? Well, too bad it wasn't back in the day or now wasn't back in the day where you can just get the red light glasses anywhere. Or the blue light glasses. Blue light. Yeah. I didn't do that because I had glasses.

glasses, but I wanted braces so bad. So sometimes I would put a paper clip. And remember going to the mall? Taking a paper clip and undoing it and then putting it in my mouth. And so like my lips were kind of protruding. And I walked around the mall like that thinking like, guys probably think of so cute. Because you have braces? I thought braces were so cool.

How'd that work out? Did you meet any guys? Nobody talked to me. Oh my gosh, nobody. We got an email from Heidi. Hey, I wanted to get some tips on mineral sunscreen. We have been using mineral sunscreen as a family for three years now, and we have tested out a variety to find the best.

I don't know safety during pregnancy. My babies are adopted through foster care. Shout out. Oh, love that, Heidi. That being said, mineral sunscreen is way better for the reef and does less damage to living things in the water when you're at the beach. I did not know that. That's news you can use. Yeah.

I never thought about that. We actually switched to mineral the first time we went to the U.S. Virgin Islands because it's the law there to use mineral-based only. Tip number one from Heidi. No spray. some people like it and we have some that we use in a pinch for a small area. I can back that up. No spray. Why don't you like the spray?

The spray is what caused little bumps all over my back. And I swear I could never get it off of me. I was trying all kinds of soap. It just always felt like I had this layer of film on my back. And I only used it on my back. So that's how I know that's the area because the rest of my body felt fine. and then these little bumps just started develop on my back. And I had to get special soap for back acne.

Well, I would say spray mineral sunscreen, there's no point because you still have to rub it in. Regular sunscreen, at least there's a point to it. Sure. But if it's giving you bumps, then yeah, no bueno. Tip number two, use a small amount at a time. Since it is so thick, I've learned that if you get enough in one shot for your whole body, it will take forever to get covered. If you do a small amount at a time, it goes on easier. Tip three, mineral-based sunscreen can stain swimsuits if you aren't careful.

It leaves a white chalky residue that's hard to remove. So be warned. Tip four. I hardly ever get it totally rubbed in, so I've decided we're all just a little wider than normal. when we wear sunscreen. You can absolutely get it fully rubbed in, but I don't have the patience for that. And then she linked her very favorite.

She goes, hope this helps in your sunscreen adventures this summer. I don't like that last tip, though. Because it does make you look white, you know? The one that she linked is called Australian gold botanical. It's a white bottle with gold leaves. And she said that's her go-to. And it's on Amazon.

and it's the link she sends currently unavailable, but I'm sure you can find it somewhere else. Yeah, I'll find it. I think that's really interesting about the Virgin Islands that you have to use. Like, how do they enforce that? Do you get, like, arrested if they see you putting on non-mineral sunscreen? Maybe. Maybe not arrested, but you're going to take it.

There's people literally that are on the beach looking for people, like, maybe people are just more respectful, too, like they care about the environment. Yeah. Well, thank you for that because I, do need those tips and I do need the recommendations. Yes, thank you for that, Heidi. I don't know yet, but I think we'll need sunscreen when we go on our trip. The reason why I don't know is because we don't know yet if we're for sure going, but if we take our little trip together that we're talking about. Yeah. I don't really see us like laying out or being in the sun, but we would be in a hot place.

Yeah, I can work. The face sunscreen is no problem for me. But I would be. under an umbrella. Like if we go to the pool, my son just got home from school. And I told him, wasn't that so cute? I don't know if y'all could hear him. You probably couldn't. But he just walked in and he goes, hey, hey, hey. And I told him the other day, I was like, I love when you come home from school. And you're like, hey, hey, hey. Oh, he does it every day. He does it a lot. Not every day, but he does it a lot. But I just told him this week how much I love it. And so he just walked in. And that's what he did. That's so cute. Yeah, it is.

He's 15. Yeah. And he comes home and he's like, hey, mom, I'm home. Hey, hey, hey, hey. He'll do little things like that. Here, come up to the mic and do what you do when you get home from school. Hey, hey, hey, hey. But you walk in the door and you say it really loud.

You're louder than that. You slam the door and you're like, I'm home. That's what he does. Hey, mom, I'm home. Hey, hey, hey. How was school today? Good? Okay.

All right. Isn't it crazy to think you got a little baby inside your belly that one day will be coming home from school being like, hey, hey, hey, hey. That's great. Hopefully she'll come home that cheerful to see me. She might. 15-year-old girls, that's not how I was coming home from school. Yeah, no, me neither. There is a rough, I had a rough couple years with my mom when I was in high school.

Oh, same zies. So, anyway. Well, hey, hey, hey, hey. All right, well, we would love to hear from y'all. Y'all can call us 877207-207 or you can email us. Hey, there at feeling things, podcast.com. And we hope wherever you are, you have the day. You need to have.

Bye. Bye. There was no anything inside those eyes. They turned black. It scared the hell out of me. Epo, wake up. I'm the one that saw the murder take place by. crevette and de pippo.

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Our podcast is called, Hey Jonas. We've here since everyone has a podcast, we wanted to as well. And we've had some incredible guests so far. And now our good friend Nile Horn is joining the show. How's it going, boys? Hey, Niall. It's the same thing with Slow Hands. Slow Hands is not about anything else, really, is it?

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