The Bobby Bones Show - FRI PT1: Why We Block People On Social Media + Anonymous Inbox: Removing An Ex's Tattoo + Fun Fact Friday: Workers Forced To Share Underwear

Episode Date: February 28, 2025

We reveal what it takes for us to block someone on social media after a guy had been hounding Raymundo and his wife online. In the Anonymous Inbox, Bobby helps out a listener who wants to de...lay her wedding until her fiance gets the tattoo of his ex's initials covered up or removed.  We share fun facts that include the origin of Mr T's chains, why Disney World employees used to share underwear, and the crazy size difference between male and female octopus.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. Hey, I'm Dr. Maya Shunker, a cognitive scientist and hosts of the podcast, a slight change of plans, a show about who we are and who we become when life makes other plans. I wish that I hadn't resisted for so long the need to change. We have to be willing to live with a kind of uncertainty that none of us likes. You can have opinions. You can have like a strong step.
Starting point is 00:00:30 dance. And then there's your body having its own program. Listen to a slight change of plans on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. On a recent episode of the podcast Money and Wealth with John Ho Bryant, I sit down with Tiffany the budgetista Aliche to talk about what it really takes to take control of your money. What would that look like in our families if everyone was able to pass on wealth to the people when they're no longer here? We break down budgeting, financial discipline, and how to build real wealth, starting with the mindset shifts. Too many of us were never, ever taught.
Starting point is 00:01:08 If you've ever felt you didn't get the memo on money, this conversation is for you to hear more. Listen to Money and Wealth with John Hope Bryant from the Black Effect Network on the I'd Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and IHeart Podcasts presents soccer moms. So I'm Leanne. Yeah. This is my best friend, Janet. Hey. And we have been joined at the hips since high school.
Starting point is 00:01:33 Absolutely. A redacted amount of years later, we're still joined at the hip. Just a little bit bigger hips. This is a podcast. We're recording it as we tailgate our youth soccer games in the back of my Honda Odyssey. With all the snacks and drinks. Why did you get hard seltzer instead of beer? Oh, they had a bogo.
Starting point is 00:01:50 Well, then you got it. Listen to soccer moms on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, everyone. I'm Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild and Tiny Beautiful Things. I'm excited to share that I have a new podcast called Mind Over Mountain. In each episode, I interview athletes, adventurers, and adrenaline seekers to discuss the inner landscapes that informed and inspired their extraordinary feats. So we too can better understand how to face our own seemingly insurmountable challenges.
Starting point is 00:02:20 Listen to Mind Over Mountain every Thursday on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Friday show. Morning studio. Morning. I'm glad everybody's here. I got a couple things. Let's start with this.
Starting point is 00:02:44 Kip Moore's coming in later. Ramundo. Yep. He's been on your list of people that you've been obsessed with over the years? I was, but I first moved to town, but it's been a while. Yeah, over the years, right? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:02:55 I mean, if we were to walk them back, I'd say Kipmore. OG. Obviously Sam Hunt. Who else has been on that list that you, like, emulate their style? Lately, I'd say Wallin, so those three. that you do nothing like Morgan Wallen. Well, him and me was kind of a bar guy. I liked his music.
Starting point is 00:03:13 And maybe I wore the cowboy boots. I don't know. But like Kip, you dress like. He had his hat backwards like Kip. The whole thing. You were like, I want to be Kip Moore. Yes. And then it turned into Sam.
Starting point is 00:03:24 So I guess maybe just those two. But how do you feel about Kip coming in? Because you used to get nervous for Sam. Yeah, no, I don't get nervous around these cats anymore because I'm not interviewing them. I'm just watching. But you never interviewed Sam and you would get nervous when you. would come in. Yeah, that was different. I was still wet behind the ears. That was about a year ago. Yeah, I'm a vet now, though. Good point. When did you at that vet stage? Well, and we're also kind of
Starting point is 00:03:46 secluded in this little room. A lot of them don't even, is it tinted in there? Can they see us? Because some of them just, or maybe they're hurried to go autograph stuff, because we really don't even, they don't even really come by this booth, so I'm really not too worried about it. Well, I don't know why you'd be worried. That's a good point, though. They used to have to go by that room, and now they just, The green end on the other side. So they come up and they come in. And I don't know that it's tinted, but there's so many lights in the studio.
Starting point is 00:04:13 Even I have a hard time seeing your face sometimes because of all the lights and the reflections on the window. Yeah. And their chair is not set in that angle. Where it used to be, used to be sitting beside me and we both looked at you. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:04:27 I didn't know if you cared. He was coming in. If it's cool or not cool. Definitely cool. I mean, the dude's jacked. He does pretty much what we all envy. surf and live in a foreign country. I don't envy that, but I think it's cool. Well, I used to live in a foreign country for a whole summer, so anybody that still does that is able to do that for
Starting point is 00:04:45 kind of a career. It's very envious for me. Talk about that summer. Where'd you go? Costa Rica I was there. That's how I got all my Spanish credit when I was at Texas State. I went from May until August. I was there three or four months, possibly outside of my wedding, the best four months of my entire life. Your wedding was four months? No, but just had to say that just in case. I like it. Yeah, smart. Kates, it came back on you. But yeah, just the way that he lives is, I mean, I kind of got a taste of that. It's so cool.
Starting point is 00:05:15 And Kip also, not tall in stature, but very muscular, like Raymundo. Ramundo gets trolled by some guy, though, who always says you're not a very good bodybuilder. Is that guy still on you? I believe we've blocked him, but yeah, he hit me up, he hit my wife up. He used a very derogatory term towards short people. And he said, hey. What? The M word?
Starting point is 00:05:36 Yeah. Okay. Rhymes a fidget? Correct. And he hit my wife up and he said, hey, I'm coming to town. Your husband is a short guy. You should holler at me. I'm going to pull up.
Starting point is 00:05:48 Oh, no. And so he's kind of hitting up my wife then after he had originally trolled me. And then now he's, so then I think we've blocked him now. So yes, I haven't heard from him in a minute. Morgan, does he ever hit the Bobby Boneshow page, this guy? I would have to know what his username or what his name is to know for sure. But I have had to block. We've had some repeat offenders.
Starting point is 00:06:05 and I've had to use that blocking tool more than I like. How often do you have to block people on Facebook or Instagram? It's really Facebook and YouTube more than anything lately, but it's been almost one per day. But that is not usual. Why do you have to block somebody? What does it take for you to block? If they're just constant repeat offenders, they have nothing nice to say. They're just constantly, there's also been, there was a few of them that were coming in there
Starting point is 00:06:33 and just straight up spreading rumors. One of them was coming in was like Stanley's dead. And I was like, we're not doing this. I don't know who you are. Or Stanley. He's trying to create his own. Your dog is dead. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:42 Yeah. And I was like, this is stupid. So it's stuff like that where I'm just like, nobody has time for this. So it's really as long. If they're behaving their kind, it's okay to have opinions, but you just have to be respectful. Ray, what's your excitement level for Kipmore? Out of 10. Give me an eight.
Starting point is 00:07:00 I'm ready for the stories. I want to hear about that world that we don't get to experience. we just sit in walls and a skyscraper. What is third world America like? Okay. So you're still there? Yeah. Do we ever talk about it?
Starting point is 00:07:13 We have. You don't want to? No, it makes my wife uncomfortable. Well, I didn't even say her name. I don't know why you even said that. I didn't even allude to that. Oh, boy. Oh, boy. Yeah. Like, I was being respectful to not even do that.
Starting point is 00:07:24 Correct. Your wife is on Morgan's podcast. Take this personally. Take this or that. Take this personally. Yeah, I thought so. Take this personally with Morgan Hewelsman. Did you listen to the episode? I did.
Starting point is 00:07:34 And I've not watched it, but yeah, I listened to it. I heard the audio version of it. And then I have sent her a couple clips and I said, hey, Bones is cutting stuff talking about you. You're famous now or something. I don't know. I don't really understand the word you just said. What did she talk about in the episode? She shared her breast cancer story finding out when she was diagnosed and she got diagnosed with stage three,
Starting point is 00:07:53 even though she'd been having all these checkups. So we talked about that whole story and then what it's like now post having breast cancer. So that just whole journey. How often does she get checked? Checked, Ray. Every six months. You guys get nervous every time? She does me. It's not me personally. So I don't get nervous. And she's been five years. So the success rate of surviving cancer after five years is through the roof. So that's good. You don't get nervous at all. Right. It's like, notches another day. Just chill. For you, why don't you get nervous? Why don't you think? Just because we did go through the absolute worst of it. So these appointments, I have a lot of confidence. I've just always had that. Whereas, but yeah, it's not my body. It's hers. and so she's the one that gets all the tests run. It just probably feels a lot different for her. Let me run something by you guys before we get started here.
Starting point is 00:08:40 The million dollar show that we do at the Ryman is next week, next Tuesday night, and it's awesome. It sells out super quick. All the money goes to St. Jude, so it's Eddie and I, and then a lot of artists stop by and play with us. And so what's cool for me is that we got Clint Black and Tracy Lawrence to play because when I was a kid, they were dominating. So that's cool.
Starting point is 00:09:02 We have Miranda Lambert, Bailey Zimmerman, I'm sure there are a ton more. So what we do when we first get the confirmation that they'll play in the show, we send out a note that says, hey, we want to make this as easy as possible. What songs are you going to do? What time do you need to go on? What time do you need to get off by? We just want to make sure everybody's good because it's an ask. And so we don't demand anything.
Starting point is 00:09:27 And so Miranda was super cool. And she was like, yeah, if I can play by nine, because, something to do after nine. We're like, no problem. So here is the issue, Amy. I would like to hear what you think. Because the show starts at 7.30. There's nobody bigger than Miranda that's playing.
Starting point is 00:09:44 She is the headliner. I can't really put anybody on after her. Okay. But if she plays at nine, that's an hour and a half, hour and 40 minute show total. It's kind of hard to cram it all in at an hour 40. Okay, so you have to put someone out?
Starting point is 00:10:04 I don't have to. We can just... Next, next, next, next. It's weird. I think it would be tough for any artist going on after Miranda that isn't as big as Miranda. Or am I overthinking it? Because the final act every single year is somebody massive.
Starting point is 00:10:24 The final act will not be a surprise this year. Last year it was a surprise. We didn't say who the big act was. It ended up being Post Malone. This year, we're like, we'll say who the final act is. And we've done that in the past. sometimes we've surprised at the end. Brandon Lambert is the final act
Starting point is 00:10:36 because she's the biggest act. If I put anybody on after her, I feel like that's unfair to that artist because people are going to feel like, we just went down a notch, as far as hits, or am I overthinking it? I don't know.
Starting point is 00:10:53 What time do you want it? What time does it need to be? We usually at about 9.45 or so. And so she's going to get down at what time? 9.15, 9.10. I mean, I still think that there's fun things that could happen after that if you wanted to where people would still have a good time. Like, even y'all just playing people.
Starting point is 00:11:12 Trust me. It's not. It's not. But y'all do, like, fun covers? It doesn't matter. We're done. By the time the big artists play, we never play any covers again because nobody cares. Okay. We've done this enough.
Starting point is 00:11:20 Okay. Well, then. Nobody cares about that. All right. Call it a day. Let's. So make the show shorter. Call it.
Starting point is 00:11:25 Call it. I mean, I don't know because I'm throwing stuff out there, but it seems like that's not going to. Like, I would have fun with it. I know that you're, I'm saying, I'm trying to picture myself as someone in the audience. And I think I would still have fun with that. I know that you're thinking nobody cares, but I do. I think they do. Not only would they not care, they would still think something was coming up, something bigger was coming up.
Starting point is 00:11:44 If we're just playing. Because we had our thing, Eddie and I go out at the very beginning. We play a couple comedy songs acoustically. And then almost, I mean, very sparingly, do we play as a band again, our stuff? Because people only care about the big artists. See, I like nostalgic stuff too. We have Clint Black and Tracy Lawrence. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:12:00 Exactly. So I could see enjoying one of their classics after that. Like that would be huge, but that's our era. So I don't know the different ages of people coming and what they would care about. But to me, like, yeah, closing with Miranda amazing. But a high for me would still be hearing Clint Black seeing something awesome for back in the day. What if... It's really been weighing on me. What if we...
Starting point is 00:12:25 Like Miranda takes the bar all the way up, right? and then we come out, you and me, bring the bar back down. And everyone's like, oh, cool, this sucks. And then whoever's after us, it's like, yes. Still doesn't matter. It doesn't matter who it is. It doesn't matter who it is. I mean, the biggest act is already played.
Starting point is 00:12:43 So do you have your mind made up? So, Derek was going to come play after Miranda. And he called me. He was like, I'm in. Like, what are you going to play? And then he called me back and he goes, oh, crap. his daughter was singing at the Arkansas Vanderbilt basketball game which is in town which sucks to it like to go to the game can't go to the game oh yeah oh wow
Starting point is 00:13:03 and the game uh normal game 7 o'clock he goes the game's at 9 p.m. Central he's like so I can't I can't get over there and so now Dirk's is not going to be there because he wanted to he just didn't know the game started at nine his daughter singing the national anthem so and it starts at nine do you know Clint Black has 22 number one songs? I'm telling you Clint Black it's awesome A lot of jams. Yeah, no, I mean, I know.
Starting point is 00:13:28 I'm like trying to figure out, I feel like, some people though aren't, some people though aren't going to, it's not going to be, there's going to be a lot of young people there that's not going to be as cool. No one's going to be bigger than Miranda unless somebody else comes in.
Starting point is 00:13:40 We have nobody to come in. And so it's like, do we just wrap it? Like I got a couple surprises, but they're not as big as Miranda, because nobody's as big as Miranda. Like three people. Man, I think we got it. We got it.
Starting point is 00:13:52 We ended early and we go to Arkansas game. Yeah, right? We have to cram the show in an hour and a half. Okay. Cram it. Let's go. You need me to keep you all on check. Yes, Amy.
Starting point is 00:14:04 Oh, my God. Amy, you do stand up right after Miranda. I don't bring it down. I mean, there is... Still a bunch of morning corny. Actually, I'm going to agree with Bobby. Now there's nobody bigger than Miranda. We should need to call it.
Starting point is 00:14:17 So that's what we're dealing with. That's what I'm dealing with. It's been weighing on me the past couple days. We're just to try it. I thought we had a good... And Dirk's was like, I'm happy to come do it and play some hits. and then the game the one time
Starting point is 00:14:27 the game's at 9 p.m. And of course I was like dude of course you had to go where your daughter singing the national anthem at Vanderbilt
Starting point is 00:14:32 so that's what's up so let me know if like I don't know if Nothing but the tail lights like let's see the weekend calls you oh yeah
Starting point is 00:14:44 or like Bruno Mars if they reach out let me know because we'll have them come on Kendrick yeah any of that
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Starting point is 00:15:58 You can have opinions. You can have like a strong stance. And then there's your body having its own program. I'm Dr. Maya Shunker, a cognitive scientist and hosts of the podcast, a slight change of plans,
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Starting point is 00:18:47 Lunchbox wants to know who does Abby think she is. Okay, I'm going to walk into this, very gingerly. Go ahead. Yeah, I'd like to know who Abby thinks she is because we get told no plus ones to all these events at work. Every time. No plus ones. No plus ones. Last week we had this big radio conference in town
Starting point is 00:19:05 and they had this thing called New Faces. Very elegant dinner and all these artists are going to perform. I don't know that it's elegant, but I hear you. And I'm like, all right, yeah, I'm in. I'm going to bring my wife. No, no plus ones. We're trying to find tickets for like, kick off Kevin. He wanted one. Pits.
Starting point is 00:19:21 Like we couldn't buy tickets for anybody. And then Abby comes showing up with her boyfriend. And I'm like, what in the crap is this? Did she have two tickets? Did she just bring them? No, she had to ask people at work for the ticket. She had to get it through work. And so people with Premier that our company that have worked here for like two years and never been to CRS couldn't even go because Abby brought a plus one.
Starting point is 00:19:41 And then it's very awkward because we only have a limited seats at our table. Her boyfriend just sat at our table. He didn't even have a seat at our table. He's lying about like everything. No. I would believe it. I'm sorry. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:19:51 Who do you think you are? Who do you think you are? Abby, what would you like to say? Okay, for one thing, the ticket had nothing to do with anybody at work. I had mine separate that, like, scuba asks who wants to go. The one from him was from my friend that had an extra one last minute. Oh, well, that's a whole different thing. Yes, and also, it wasn't even at our table.
Starting point is 00:20:11 He was, like, close to the stage. So why was he sitting at our table? Well, that's okay if you're not... He's pulling up a chair, like, in the aisle. Like, what are you doing? I can't let you move the goalpost because you said who the heck does she think she is getting an extra ticket. She did not get an extra ticket. No, I did not.
Starting point is 00:20:27 Who did you get it from? He had a ticket from somebody else. Who did you get it from? I just said my friend that she doesn't even work at eye heart. Right. And you don't need to know that. I don't know if I believe it. You just lied and you're not.
Starting point is 00:20:38 No, no, because I was told that there was people with Premier that didn't even get to go. But this has nothing to do with her ticket. No, that's why I want to know who she got the ticket from. I want, I want facts. I don't want her just say I got it from a friend. Abby. Not Premier. Did your friend work for another media company and your boyfriend got a ticket from them?
Starting point is 00:20:51 Yes. Okay. It was extra. She wasn't going to go. Right. She bought the ticket and she was like, I'm not going to go. I'm tired so he can have it. It has nothing to do with what you're complaining about. I think you need to apologize to her. I'm not going to apologize to anybody.
Starting point is 00:21:03 No, but you literally were very wrong and then said, who do you think you are? I did say who you think you are. Then if he's not, if he has an extra ticket, go sit at his table. No, it's okay. That place, it's not elegant. People aren't in tuxedos. people pull chairs up all the time at that thing. I've been a hundred times.
Starting point is 00:21:20 Right. He was just right in the middle of the aisle. While we were eating, he ate at his table. And then when the show started, he came and sat by me. You were at the fire marshal? Yeah. Yeah, wait. In the aisle?
Starting point is 00:21:31 Go ahead, Abby. Where was lunchbox during the show? I don't even know where he went. He disappeared. You mean you went to somebody else's table? Nope. Sat right there. Well, you admit, you are completely wrong that you made up a whole story in your head.
Starting point is 00:21:41 None of that was true. She didn't get a ticket for her boyfriend. They couldn't get tickets for kickoff Kevin. And Pitts. for the same reason you couldn't get a plus one. Wait, I'm pretty... They were there. No, no, they got last minute tickets.
Starting point is 00:21:53 They were able to get one. He never even said that. He never even said that. I can't. Over with that lunchbox? What do you want to say? I said, who are you? Who do you think you are, Abby?
Starting point is 00:22:04 What? Who do you think you are? Oh, I don't know. I'm cool. I don't know what to say. Just a normal person, yeah. You're not going to apologize? No.
Starting point is 00:22:12 Do you understand you were very wrong about this? I may have had to, I may have been down the wrong path. No, no, that's being very wrong. Not very wrong. You just took a wrong turn. No, no. Like, I was on the scent, and somehow they were able to divert it by saying a friend. But, no, it's not a friend in quotes.
Starting point is 00:22:27 It's literally a friend. She doesn't know what friend. Hadn't name the friend. Hadn't named what company, I mean. You don't know the friend, so it won't matter. Exactly. See, this is how you get away with it. You don't know, so I don't need to say.
Starting point is 00:22:37 I don't need to say what company you've never heard of it. She also doesn't need to say who the friend is on a national radio show. Yeah. That's not an argument. Okay. So he just, he really doesn't think that there's friends. No, I do. I just, I'm worried that she doesn't want, she's, now he's worried.
Starting point is 00:22:52 She's covering up for the bosses here that gave her an extra ticket. I'm not. Thank you, lunchbox. Abby, you're. Kathy Sewell? No. She knows this friend, though. Oh, see, there we go again.
Starting point is 00:23:05 Everybody knows everybody there. I'm not, I'm not playing this anymore. All right, Abby. I mean, nobody, nobody brought a puzzle. But Abby? Neither did Abby. Abby got a ticket. Her boyfriend was not.
Starting point is 00:23:15 a plus one, her boyfriend got a ticket from somebody else. Oh, that's why. Don't forget. You have a seizure? Are you okay? We decided to have a pre-work happy hour, like everybody from work. Great. No one brought a plus one. Abby shows up with her boyfriend. But that's okay. The happy hour, the company doesn't own. If you go to a business where they're selling drinks, that's okay. You don't have to buy a ticket for that.
Starting point is 00:23:39 It's weird. You weren't going to bring a plus one and then make them not go to the show. I mean, like, it was me, scuba. You can't do it, guys. I'm about to jump out of the building. Just about to let it go. Okay. Abby, who do you think you are? You're just a person living their life doing things the right way. Okay, thank you.
Starting point is 00:24:00 Hello, Bobby Bones. I need some advice. I'm hoping you guys can help. My fiance and I have been engaged for over a year. I've been hesitant in the wedding planning because my fiance still has his ex-wife's initials tattooed on his ring finger. He's talked about getting. getting it removed, but he hasn't yet.
Starting point is 00:24:27 I'm considering pushing back to wedding until he gets it removed. Does this make me shallow? Or is this something that shouldn't bother me? I really appreciate any advice. Signed. The non-tattooed fiancé. Hey, you have a right to your own feelings. So I'm going to say that first of all.
Starting point is 00:24:43 I don't know why he hasn't done it yet. Because you've talked about it. And he keeps putting it off. And I don't think just judging off a body of men that he's not wanting to do a it and he's kicking the can hoping he never has to do it. I don't think that's the case. I think guys are sometimes just lazy. So this is what I would do. I would go to him and say, hey, it really bothers me. Let's schedule the wedding, but I'm not scheduling the wedding until you get those taken off your finger. I do not think that's a crazy ask. I also don't think
Starting point is 00:25:12 it's crazy. They're still on his finger because I don't think he's doing it for any other reason. I don't think he's like holding on to her. Like if I keep her on, maybe we'll get back together. Guys are just lazy. And our priorities being the cavemen that we are, are oftentimes different and even nonsensical in nature. So you need to tell them, you need to put a deadline, and then you can get married. But if it matters to you, then it matters. Amy?
Starting point is 00:25:40 Absolutely. You need a deadline. That'll just like nudge him the right direction to go get it done. I do think he wants to get it done, but you need to put up a boundary about it, and then he'll hopefully go do it ASAP. Also, I don't know even if it's getting it removed. He can even just put a black line on it.
Starting point is 00:25:56 Like it doesn't matter as long as they're not there. So maybe he doesn't want to go through like whatever it is to remove it. As long as the letters aren't there, all good. It can be a black line. It can be two squares, whatever it is. But I'm with you. Letters be gone. I would not marry somebody with letters as somebody else on their body.
Starting point is 00:26:12 Right. So you have every right to do this. The wedding ring, like your wedding day, you want me to slide a finger on and just be reminded of like, no. Let's get rid of that. There you go. Close it up. A woman subjected her fiancee to simulated child.
Starting point is 00:26:26 childbirth pain using electric shocks to the stomach that's supposed to mirror childbirth. It was even used as a pre-marriage test. So he's like, fine, I'll do it. He's not even like, how bad they're going to be. He probably knows it's going to hurt, but he's like, I'll do this. If you want me to do it, I'd like to see. He had a bad reaction to it. It was almost allergic to it.
Starting point is 00:26:49 And he had to go have emergency surgery. Oh, my gosh. Yeah, that's bad on her. If that happens, that's now bad on her. Like if he learns his lesson from it and everybody's healthy, well, look at that. But yeah, if something goes wrong and you're allergic to like the gel or the shock and you have to go into surgery, that you're the bad guy now as the woman that made him do it. And that's unfortunate.
Starting point is 00:27:09 The mom and the sister of the mom, mom to be suggested, hey, let's do the pain of childbirth on him. But first of all, I bet the sister was the one who did. I bet the sister was the one who was like, you know what we should do? Since he's kind of mouthy, let's make him put the shocks on. And then the mom to be is like, you know what, that's a good idea. Are you sure? Yes, that's a great idea. Because you know somebody was encouraging that.
Starting point is 00:27:32 And so they did it hoping he'd be more considerate his wife. And so first he was like, I don't know. And then he's like, fine, I'll do it. And so they go to a maternity care facility that's run by the woman's sister, who obviously was the one behind this. And they hooked him up to the electrical stimulation device. By the way, for three hours. Whoa!
Starting point is 00:27:54 Because labor may not be 10 minutes. It might be 11 hours. Sometimes it's only like 30 minutes though. We did this for 3 hours. Sometimes it's 24 hours. Sure. That night the man after this experienced severe abdominal pain, started vomiting, vomited all through the night.
Starting point is 00:28:12 The next day is like I feel a little better, but then he got bad again. So they had to rush him to the hospital. He was diagnosed with intestine necrosis and scheduled for emergency resection surgery. After learning about the torture he had been subjected to... Torture?
Starting point is 00:28:28 Yeah, torture. Okay. The man's family was furious and warned his fiancee that she was not welcome at the hospital when he was in it and that the engagement was off and she should get ready for a lawsuit. Oh, wow. Wait, his family feel that way or he feels that way? The man's family was furious and warned his fiancee, she was not welcome. I think he's probably out of it. He'd been tortured.
Starting point is 00:28:50 He'd basically been in pregnancy, Guantanamo. got to get waterboarding in his belly. What if this is one of those things where this actually, like he was going to need this type of surgery eventually and this just brought it up or made it all aware? No, we're not making it that. No, this has saved his life. They've not said, oh, when they went and they found cancer.
Starting point is 00:29:08 No, they said it rocked him and ruined him. And also, it's not going to be exactly the same. And also, a woman is not shocked. It's great pain, but it's not shocked. So it's not exactly the same. And also, I blame that sister. because she was in her ear. You know she was in her ear.
Starting point is 00:29:24 You know what? He's not being really great to you right now. Not meeting all your needs at the home. Not getting you ice cream. We should get him on the shocker. Yeah, that's kind of funny but bad. That's from Audity Central. Would you guys ever get on the old...
Starting point is 00:29:39 Simulator? After this story, no. No chance. Three hours, though, guys. I think that's a big part of it too. If I'm being honest, if you did it for five minutes, it's been like, oh, yeah, that's tough. I think it's different.
Starting point is 00:29:50 Let's say for 15 minutes, and your wife was like, You do it for 15 minutes. Would you do it for her sake? No. Why do I need experience it? I can see it when you're doing it. It's painful.
Starting point is 00:29:59 I get it. No need for me to experience it. You can't get kicked in the nads. So what if they built some nads though that she could feel? Interesting. You trade it off, simulation. That would be different. Eddie?
Starting point is 00:30:09 Yeah, I don't think I would do that. I'm kind of like lunchbox a little bit. You're like, hey, that's okay. I'm acknowledging that it hurts you guys. I don't want to feel that pain. I would do it only for a blockbuster trade. It'd have to be like Anthony Davis for, Luca type thing.
Starting point is 00:30:23 Like when you're like, wow, like, I don't know. I get 72 meals of my choice cooked over the next 90 days with one to determine later. And yeah, there'd have to be some trade for it. But I wouldn't just do it because I was feeling like that'd be fun. Or I could record it.
Starting point is 00:30:39 I mean, I guess I would do it for content. Yeah. Yeah, content. I probably do it for free. But they didn't like tie him up and, you know, shock him. Like, he, he sat there for the three hours. He didn't volunteer. He volunteered after he was told.
Starting point is 00:30:52 He was reluctant, and then they convinced him he needed to do it. So, yeah, shout out to that guy. We hope he gets better. Poor guy. And you know what? Don't divorce the wife. Divorce the wife's sister. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:31:03 You can't do that, though, then. No, but she's the one you don't want to be around. A win is a win. A win is a win. I don't care what you're saying. Yep, that's me, Cliver Taylor the 4th. You might have seen the skits, the reactions, my journey from basketball to college football, or my career in sports media.
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Starting point is 00:32:12 You can have like a strong stance. And then there's your body having its own program. I'm Dr. Maya Shunker, a cognitive scientist and hosts of the podcast a slight change of plans, a show about who we are and who we become when life makes other plans. We share stories and scientific insights to help us all better navigate these periods of turbulence and transformation. There is one finding that is consistent, and that is that our resilience rests on our relationships. I wish that I hadn't resisted for so long the need to change.
Starting point is 00:32:50 We have to be willing to live with a kind of uncertainty that none of us likes. Listen to a slight change of plans on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. If you're watching the latest season of the Real Housewives of Atlanta, you already know there's a lot to break down. Georgia accusing Kelly of sleeping with a merry man. They hold and Kay Michelle back from fighting Drew. Pinky has financial issues. I like the bougie style of Housewives show. I think it looks like it's going to be interesting.
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Starting point is 00:33:48 At the end of the day, when people are at home, they want entertainment. To hear this and more, listen to Reality with the King on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. On a recent episode of the podcast, Money and Wealth with John Hobriant, I sit down with Tiffany the budgetista Aliche to talk about what it really takes to take control of your money. What would that look like in our families if everyone was able to pass on wealth to the people when they're no longer here? We break down budgeting, financial discipline, and how to build real real. wealth, starting with the mindset shifts, too many of us were never, ever taught. Financial education is not always about, like, I'm going to get rich. That's great. It's about
Starting point is 00:34:34 creating an atmosphere for you to be able to take care of yourself and leave a strong financial legacy for your family. If you've ever felt you didn't get the memo on money, this conversation is for you to hear more. Listen to Money and Wealth with John O'Brien from the effect network on the I'd Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. It's time for the good news. With Bobby. Tell me something good. A couple weeks ago, Gavin, who's 18, was in the car with his mom.
Starting point is 00:35:10 They were taking their grandpa, Roger, to the hospital. Roger went into cardiac arrest. So Gavin, the teenage grandson, says, pull over, pull over, pull over, pulls him out, CPR for five minutes. his heart started faintly beating and the paramedics got there he'd had a heart attack and a stroke so that happens right
Starting point is 00:35:31 and they're like dude you saved your grandpa two weeks later Gavin just being a teenager heard his neighbor calling for help so he runs over and he's like what's up she had fallen and broken her leg outside it was a freezing night so he gets some blanket stays over her stays
Starting point is 00:35:47 with her the whole time calls 911 she's alive because of that. Dude, two for Tuesday. Wow. Gavin is heaven sent. Mm-hmm. Fair enough. I mean, that's awesome. Save two people. W-T-O-L. Gavin Saltsman in Millbury, Ohio.
Starting point is 00:36:03 Shout out to you, buddy. That's what it's all about. That was Tell Me Something Good. Around the room, I'll go first. Mr. T's original set of gold chains. Morgan may be the only one who doesn't know Mr. T. She's too young. Familiar? Did he have kind of like
Starting point is 00:36:23 High hair. That's what I'm picturing. He had a Mohawk. Okay. Big, muscled up, black dude, bunch of chains and a mohawk. Yeah, like I can picture him, but I couldn't tell you what he's from.
Starting point is 00:36:34 The A team and then was under some movies. But he had a ton of gold chains. And originally, all those gold chains were from people who lost them or left them after fights when he worked at a nightclub bouncer. Oh, that's cool. So he would just find him everywhere and put him on his neck. And he just had all these gold chains. And he's known for that.
Starting point is 00:36:50 That's his main thing. That's crazy. Amy? No number before. Thousand contains the letter A. 100. Two. I do all of them.
Starting point is 00:36:59 Three. Ten, eleven, twelve, twenty one. Did you fact shake this one? Yeah. Wow. That's weird. Yeah. That's weird.
Starting point is 00:37:05 That's weird. Because you have to get to the end. Thousand. Thousand. It's a hundred. Until 2001, the employees at Disney World who dressed up as the characters couldn't wear their own underwear underneath costumes. Again, this is until 2001.
Starting point is 00:37:19 They had to wear shared underwear for the costume. After enough pubic glass cases, though? Disney changed the policy. That's a great fun back. 2001. Best one you've ever brought. Yeah, it's not like 1968. Gross.
Starting point is 00:37:32 2001. Lunchbox. Marshall artists who smile before a fight lose more often because they are assigned a weakness to their opponent and they've done research and they look at the one who smiles
Starting point is 00:37:42 and they lose more often than they win. I'm going to remember that. So don't smile. The next time you fight. But no, when I bet on UFC. If you see them smiling, they're going to lose. Of course. It's all back to bed.
Starting point is 00:37:52 Morgan. So flamingos are a pretty. pretty fancy with their pink feathers, but a group of them is called flamboyance. A group of flamingos is called a flamboyance? Yes. I did not know that. That would be good to remember for trivia. A flamboyance.
Starting point is 00:38:08 Okay, Eddie? I mean, I have the same kind of fun fact. A group of jellyfish, they're called a smack. So if you're out in the ocean, you're like, oh my gosh, look, it's a smack of jellyfish. Like a school of fish, but a smack of jellyfish. That's right. And a flamboyance of flaming. Bring in the fun
Starting point is 00:38:26 And there's no A in any number Until 1,000 The female Blanket Octopus is 70 times larger Than the male She's six feet He's less than an inch So for mating he just
Starting point is 00:38:39 Basically swims in Breaks part of himself off And then swims off That may be your best one you were brought Okay No strings attached 70 times larger She's six feet
Starting point is 00:38:50 He's less than an inch Oh Hmm Like totally that's crazy that one of them grows to be that big and one just stays at an inch. And then he still lives? Yeah, he swams off. But does that part grow back?
Starting point is 00:39:06 It's not a part. It's, you know, it's like what we do. I got you, there you go. That's it. Fun fact Friday. Fun Fat Friday. Lunchbox, you have asked for the mic. Go ahead.
Starting point is 00:39:19 Yes, and I'm concerned for Amy's safety. Oh, Amy. I'm worried you're going to injure yourself or you're going to injure someone else in this building. You drive like a maniac in this parking garage. Oh, she does. No. I saw her driving like 30 miles an hour. That's impossible.
Starting point is 00:39:36 Coming up. And here's the thing. Whipping around? Whipping around. Usually when you're the one coming up a parking garage, you take the outside and you make a wide turn. Amy is cutting it. Oh, no. Like coming around and I'm like, Amy, there's going to be someone coming another way and they should be.
Starting point is 00:39:50 And it was giving me like uncomfortable. feelings because she was moving so fast. Anxiety? Yes. That's the word. I wanted to just help you out with that. I was feeling uncomfortable in my own skin. I saw it and I was like, oh, Amy, you're going to hit someone.
Starting point is 00:40:08 You've got to slow down and you've got to take your turns. Where were you watching? Wide, Amy. Why? Where did you see? How did you see it? I was sitting in the parking garage and I could see her coming up and I see her whip. Why were you sitting in the parking garage?
Starting point is 00:40:19 Because I was getting out of the car. Just chilling, man. And I was just like, Amy. And I was just like, Amy goes way too fast. I mean, she is moving. Even if you go medium, there's an accident that's going to happen. Because our parking garage just wraps around, wraps around, wraps around. We're up on like the 7th, 8, 4, whatever it is.
Starting point is 00:40:33 And people almost get hit all the time going slow to where they have to put mirrors up in the corner so you can see people coming around. Amy doesn't even know those were mirrors there. I know. I was told. You think those are corner chandeliers? They're useful now that I'm aware of them. Speak on this. I have no idea what I was talking about.
Starting point is 00:40:48 There's no way I was going 30 miles per hour up. the ramp. It's impossible. Okay, let's say we remove the number. Are you a bit aggressive? No. I don't. I think that I'm totally fine. I think that he's just digging for something.
Starting point is 00:41:05 Do you take wide turns or no? I could probably go a little wider. Okay. I could probably go a little wider. He's not wrong about that, but I don't think I was reckless or driving too fast. I probably do need to proceed with caution at that point, like where you're turning. Because I do forget that like other cars can come out. the other way.
Starting point is 00:41:24 From the other way. No, that's where the head-on accident's going to happen. Has anyone been in an accident here? Nope. Yeah, knock on wood. Give it two months and Amy, if she doesn't start taking wider turns and slow down. Yeah, you actually go slow and wide.
Starting point is 00:41:37 I feel like I'm going slow, so I'll just go wider. But, you know, I'll, for lunchboxes' sake here, since he is concerned about my safety, I will make note of my speed. Next time I'm doing it, I'm not even going to try to manipulate. I'm just going to do like I normally do, go up the ramp. and check the speed.
Starting point is 00:41:55 Lunchbox over under 30 days until she has a fender bender of some sort. Under. You think so? I mean, in the next month you think she'll hit something or somebody. The way she was moving to that parking garage, I was like, wow, like, girl, you need to relax.
Starting point is 00:42:09 Girl. Okay. All right, let's hit us with a voicemail. Hey, I have a morning corny for Amy. What does this staris eat for breakfast? A citizen roll. All right, thanks. Love the show.
Starting point is 00:42:20 Nice job, nice job. That's good. Five, the next one please. Quick question for it. Why are stations still playing FGL songs, and it is well known that FGL is not getting back together. Thanks. Keep out, homeskilled.
Starting point is 00:42:33 Home skills. We don't not play songs because bands broke up. They must research well. They do the stuff where they play songs on the Internet for people, and people go, I like it, I hate it, I love it. But there are a lot of bands that aren't together anymore that we'd still play their songs. I mean, if you ever were to hear,
Starting point is 00:42:47 Baby, I just do what you do. I'm so in love with you. That's a loan star? They're not together. If you ever hear, save a horse, ride a cowboy. I don't know if they're together or not, but they've been on and off, big and rich forever. So it's just mostly the songs.
Starting point is 00:43:02 I mean, you can say that about dead people too. Why are you playing songs? They're dead. We play dead people songs too. So I would say, like, no joking. That's probably because the song is researching well with somebody who's doing research on something. Yeah, I agree with you.
Starting point is 00:43:17 Just know Florida George's line. Oh, wow. I think they got some jams. That's fine. I would just cut it all and then say, well, they're broken up, but really it does. It doesn't matter. Thank you for that, though. I appreciate it.
Starting point is 00:43:27 It's time for the good news. With Amy. Tell me something good. This guy, Neil, he lives in Missouri. He's working in his garden. And all of a sudden, in the dirt, he sees something shiny. So he grabs it, pulls it out, and realizes it's a class ring from 1978. And he's like, what in the world?
Starting point is 00:43:47 This high school is like 70 miles south of here. How did it get in my garden? Well, it turns out they found out who it belonged to. This guy, Carrie Crocker, who now lives in Florida. And he's like, you know, I feel like my ring went missing around 1981. So he didn't even have his class ring for that long. And he said that his family had a flower shop around that time. And he may have been working in the dirt in the soil that eventually got delivered to that house.
Starting point is 00:44:15 And that is how it ended up in that guy's yard. All these years later, but nobody found it until he was, you know, in his garden the other day. Yours is lost, okay someone broke into your house. We think. I don't really know. My husband at the time, his Air Force Academy ring was stolen from that robbery. And I just don't know exactly. Was my class ring in that box, or did I lose it in some dirt somewhere?
Starting point is 00:44:39 I don't know. All I know is I haven't had it since I lived in Southern Pines, North Carolina, and it could be anywhere. It makes sense that if your husband was stolen, yours was stolen, too. It does. And I would love to say, oh, you probably lost it because that's semi-on brand. You're not always that clumsy, but sometimes you are. Right. But I would think it's stolen.
Starting point is 00:44:55 We're looking for it. Amy has put a $10,000 reward on it? I think you did. No, no, no. No, you put, it's like you. Yeah, but then you added another $500. You keep saying that every time we do this, she adds more money. Okay, Mike D knows how much it is.
Starting point is 00:45:05 It is $1,500. 50 of that is Amy. You tell me, I'm 14, 50 and she's 50. And this is your reaction every time. This is the dumbest thing I ever heard. You kept going up and up, man. How did you guys let me keep going? You did it, man.
Starting point is 00:45:16 It's like, I don't know. It's like a fun thing for you. It's not. I think you forget how much fun you're having. Man, I must have been a good mood that day. You're very passionate about adding more money. If, geez, if you're only doing 50, if you find her ring, we will give you $1,500, apparently. It's Texas A&M, class of 2003.
Starting point is 00:45:36 It is gold with a little teeny tiny diamond in the middle, and it has my initials or maybe my, I don't know, my last name. My was Amy Moffitt at the time. it may say AEM Amy Elizabeth Moffitt Got it I just don't remember how we had it engraved but I know that my initials
Starting point is 00:45:54 her name is Big reward Yeah Big reward I have you covered for $1,500 Lunchbox and I might go looking for it
Starting point is 00:46:01 How stupid I hope they get it though It's worth it Yes To you for 50 Maybe I mean how cool
Starting point is 00:46:07 I mean But I may have to wait Like this guy's been waiting since 1981 He's finally getting it back There you go That's what it's all about That was tell me something good
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