The Bobby Bones Show - Morgan & Eddie Reminisce On Their Favorite (& Not So Favorite) Childhood Memories

Episode Date: April 11, 2026

They dive right in this weekend to the personal conversations. Eddie asks Morgan if she’s a planner or a spontaneous person because his life has changed drastically in the last few years. Plus they discover the characteristic Morgan and one of Eddie’s sons share because of trauma. They reminisce on their childhoods and how they spent their time, Eddie’s was all about working on the land while Morgan ate a lot of M&M cookies. And they discuss how we are all having the exact same experiences across the world. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Happy weekend. Eddie is joining me this weekend on Best Bits. What's up, Eddie? What's up, Morgan? You excited to do this or are you bummed? No, I'm excited. I'm excited. Says the guy who, you know, every weekend in part three, we answer listening to questions.

and Eddie wrote in. He was like, can we get rid of best bits? When's Eddie going to stop doing best bits? You? He wants to know. You're like a hater while also secretly loving it. No, no, I really do. It's just a little schedule inconvenience.

That's it. Yeah. You know, but I mean, once I'm here. That's also all adult life. Correct. You know what I mean? Anytime something new pops up that was not originally a part of your plan, it's a big inconvenience as an adult.

Are you a... We're going to just jump right into it, Morgan. I mean, we always do. Are you a routine person or do you like spontaneity? I am all routine unless I'm on a trip and I can be a little spontaneity. Isn't that weird? Why is that word so hard? I think it was not coming out of my mouth the right way.

That's about the only time or if I just have, I've gotten all my stuff done that I need to get done and then I can have some moments of now I'm not going to try and say the word. Spontaneity. It's just interesting because like you grow. grow up a certain way. And it's funny, like, you think as a person, like, I am this kind of person. What kind of person are you before you go into this? I started very spontaneous. Like, I didn't like any plans. I liked, like, let's see what the day brings. And then let's just do whatever and see where the night goes, right? Like, I was that kind of person forever. And then I would say in the last five years, I'm like, no, no, no, no, no. We got to do this. I got to have my coffee every morning.

It's got to be this mug. Like, you've gotten into some routine. Yeah. Even. And this is the crazy one when we travel, like when we go on vacation, I used to be like, why are we planning stuff? Like, let's just, if we're going to Puerto Rico, let's just go to Puerto Rico and see what happens. Like, let's just. Oh, you would straight up free ball it. Free ball it. Besides hotel. I've never called it free ball in it.

But. That's what it is. You're free balling. Yeah. So you'd just plan a flight in a hotel and that was it. Correct. And a rental car or whatever. But like, no, no plans.

Like, we're not going to go fishing on Thursday. We're not going to go ziplining on Friday. We're not like, none of that. It was just. Like, let's just see how it goes. Just like the opposite. I love an itinerary. See, I did not.

Now my wife does itineraries and it's awesome. We get to do so much more. Yeah, because if you, here's the thing. I love being spontaneous. I think there's always a time and place for it and you need it in your life. Because if you have everything as a routine and organized, you're, that's kind of a sad life, right? But something about having itineries, especially for big trips or big moments in your life or like having consistency in your life does provide a lot of happiness. and itineries on trips specifically allows you to do and see more things.

Because otherwise, you may not plan for things and you may go and X, Y, Z is closed or it doesn't have available reservations. And you just wasted two hours. Yep. And you were trying to figure it out. And then you didn't spend any of the time trying to figure it out actually visiting the place you were at. Right.

So like you need both on trips for sure. Yeah. Scheduled out, but then like four hours it's open to interpretation. Whatever happens happens. But even like home life. Like if I don't, because every day I wake up and like, all right, I look at the calendar. Like, what do we have today? Work works, whatever.

And then after work, we have a baseball game and then we have a baseball practice and then dinner. Like whatever, right? It's all written out. And I love it. And sometimes I'll get up and there's nothing there. And I'm like, oh, what's going on today? You know, like, I need to know what's going on. It's a weird thing that I've never, ever depended on.

And now I'm like, I feel lost when I don't have a plan. When do you feel like that shifted? when your kids started to have more activities? Probably. I think they initiated it because, yeah, you had to have order with kids or else it's chaos. You cannot free ball. Can not free ball. Still sounds bad to say, but.

It's called free ball. Do you know what free balling is? Well, I wasn't taking it the dirty way. But do you know what it is? I haven't feeling now what you're referencing. No, what is it? But what I'm referencing is what it is. Okay, you're not wearing underwear.

Correct. Right? Correct. free balling. But it has multiple meanings. It's taken on multiple meanings. It's kind of like, what's the other one they use? Raw dog. Raw dog and people use that in everyday, like, vernacular. I know, but what is first being used, you're just like, wait a second. What? Like, raw dog. I have used that term before and people look at me. I was like, no, no, no, not that guy. Yeah. Different guys. Different vibes. So maybe you're right. Maybe I'm using it. But.

So you can't free ball really when you have kids because it's just chaotic and whatever. So I think they were the initial, like, reason we started having to be a little more organized, but it's bled into now to just us. Because, like, when my wife and I, like, if we go on a little mini vacation, I start kind of freaking out when, like, we don't have anything planned. Like, what are we going to do tomorrow? You know, or we, or for us, like, anytime it's just us, too, it's like, let's just lay in bed. And, like, let's just stay in bed for as long as we can. Okay. So I have, I have two followups here. One, was your wife always a planner before you or was she also before kids?

You guys were both that way. We were both that way. Now as being the mom, has she become the planner? Do you ever plan things? No, she's the planner for sure. I never plan anything. But she's the planner. But when we're on vacation, that's almost like a vacation from her planning.

And then I'm just like, whoa, whoa, whoa. Like, why do we stop planning all of a sudden? You know, like I like the lane in bed. I do. But like, it's almost noon. Like, what are we doing? And that's why I asked that because she's trying to have a vacation from her life. Yeah.

And her planning is part of her life. So the only way you're going to plan on a vacation to make her happy at the same time is when you do it. You plan it. At that point, I'm just like, yeah, let's just free ball it. And then you're mad when it happens now. You're at that point in your life where it actually like, oh, our money's valuable, our time's valuable. I think that's a part of it too, a realization of just how important things are, time, money being two of them. And when you go on a vacation and it feels like anything was wasted, you could probably feel that way.

Yes. So maybe that's where it's coming from. Just more appreciation for things. It's just part of growing up, I guess. It's just weird to me that I always thought like, oh, I'm this kind of person. But then, like, people, we evolve into kind of what fits our personality versus. like we have this personality. You know it was funny because the friend that I was face-tiving with this week

where we were just catching up on everything and she was such a type A person in college, so type A. Yeah, who was a college friend? Yeah, yeah, her name's Beamer. That's what we called her. I love it. Now she's like, I'm a type B mom. Like I never thought that would happen.

And it was just, it was funny. What do you mean? She doesn't take control on her parenting? No, like she does. She's just like, I really thought I'd be so strict about certain things what he puts into his mouth. how he acts where he's around what he's doing she's like but i'm so chill i just really didn't anticipate that coming yeah and i think it's funny how much life circumstances really dictate our personality yeah you know what i mean yes for sure because i think when you're forced to no longer have control

you have to either like let life happen or life's going to happen to you kind of thing and i think for me too like i think that work has kind of made me used to that structure because bobby is so like this is how it's going to be. We're going to do, even when we're like doing bits, we're going to do this and then we're going to do that. And then we're going to shoot a video after that. It's like he has to, here and there, he has to be like, these are the three things we're doing in the next like 20 minutes. It's very structured to get things done in the time that we have. And I've never been like that.

But the fact that we've been doing this for how long and that's how he is, I think it's kind of blended into my normal everyday life that now at home. I'm like, hey, I've got to keep that up. You know what's funny you say that too because consistency for me is when my body feels safe. I've realized because I've been in some very chaotic situations. I've had relationships that were very like turmoil driven, right? And so they were very chaotic. And I never realized how much my body craved like consistency and routine. And even when I get out of that, even when if I go on a trip and I do have plans and I do have an itinerary and I'm all organized, it's still out of my ordinary.

it's not consistent with my normal life. Yep. And my body just like responds to that. Anytime there's something inconsistent happen, it's like everything in my body. Like I'm a cat. The hair's on me. Like stand up.

I do not handle inconsistency well anymore. It's crazy. Like you're saying this stuff and you have trauma in your life, right? From this stuff. And some people may be like, oh, you know, it's pretty normal. People go through that or whatever. But trauma is trauma. Mm-hmm.

Okay? and one of my boys who we adopted, like he had trauma. And he speaks the same way you're speaking. And mostly the doctors do or the therapist do, but now he understands that too, is that he needs that consistency every single day. Anytime we try to do something like,

hey, we're going to do this all of a sudden. He kind of like, whoa, hold on. I thought we were going to do this. And he asked so many questions. And we used to be so annoyed by it. Like, oh my gosh. Like, why do you need to know everything we're doing? But now it's this exact same thing you're talking about.

So big trauma, A trauma, B trauma, C trauma. I mean, it's all trauma. Oh, yeah. And the way that it comes out and like manifest, it's very much that. Like, you'll probably find anybody who's experienced any type of trauma like that, they have this desire to control things. And that's why, like, I always ask so many questions because I want to be in control. I need to know what's happening.

So I can tell my body to calm down. and I'm the only one that I feel safe enough to do so. I've gotten a lot better over the course of the last several years where I've let people in and I can, I can trust other people with me to know that I'm going to be safe. But it took me a long time to get there, you know, to feel that and let go of that and find people that were safe enough for me to trust that. So consistency was the only way that I could start to tell that somebody I could trust them, right? Like it's how I started to understand relationships better. When people were inconsistent with me, I was like, I can't handle this. This is not for me.

And respect if that's for you, but it's not for me. Yeah. And I learned that very early about myself, like after those situations happen, that I needed that to like make myself feel confident again. Yeah. And so consistency is so much a part of my routine. Like it's not just like the routine side. It's more what that routine kind of represents.

Yeah. So I totally understand that experience. he's having. And it sounds like you are talking like, oh, almost like when Amy goes off on her, you know, like her in-depth stuff, you know, like it sounds like you're, you're over-analizing yourself. It feels that way. Yeah. Right. It's what it sounds like. But I've learned that you're not over-analizing yourself. You're actually understanding yourself, which most of us don't. I don't think I take the time to understand myself. I recognize the trends. But I don't. Don't do what you're doing and be like, well, what does that mean?

Does, oh, is that, is that connected to my trauma on this? Or, oh, am I doing A because of B? Like, I don't do that. But you do, which is cool. And like, it's funny because people sometimes sound like, oh, they're overthinking it. No, I think we all have kind of the same thing, but some people like to understand what it is and some people just like to accept it. Yeah.

And I think you're on that other side, right? That acceptance side. Totally. Where you can handle it. You can kind of take it. and it can kind of breathe through you and move and you move through it. Yes. I'm someone that has to have data.

I have to have information to fully make a decision. And that's why I more am aligned with an overanalyzer because I need the information to feel safe. Yeah. You know, and I'm getting out of that a little bit more. I think once you go through enough things. Because once you understand it. It's easier to work through. Yeah.

It's easier to become more acceptance where it just kind of passes. Yeah. And you're not running through life like with a head chopped off. No. I mean, that was so much a part of what my health was related to was like I was living in fight or flight. It was my body was just constantly like on overdrive working to keep myself feeling safe, which was crazy to even learn, like realize how much it impacted me, not just my mental health, but my physical health. And like you, I mean, even crazier to that further extent is that being now in like the safe relationship that I'm in, I've had to like learn unlearn a lot of things. Yeah, that's hard.

Like we'll have disagreements. And he's like, I make a lot of jokes. and he has to look at me and be like, is that really a joke or do you feel that way? And that's like a deep thing that you're just overcompensating with the humor. And I'm like, that was a joke. Or sometimes I was not a joke. That was real. I felt that way.

And it's funny because he has to kind of point it out because I will protect myself. I protect myself with humor or like just, you know, riding it off. Yeah. But it's an interesting thing to like work through that stuff. And your son's probably going to have to go through those experiences. I think they said the doctors were talking about that and how the trauma, it takes double their life. Like if the trauma was from like, you know, one through five, it takes double that time for them to even start working on fixing that trauma. You know, so like I think, and I'm paraphrase.

I'm not really exactly sure how they said it. But so if it happened for five years, then it's going to take not 10, but 15 years until he's 15 for him to actually like, all right. right. And that's saying in that time. He doesn't gather anything else. Correct, which we're trying our best not to add to it. But I mean, it's normal. Like, it's normal when you come into a family that's not, you know, yours. You're not used to that family. You're not used to how the family's dynamics are or how even me and my wife's routines. Like, you're not used to that. And so it takes a while to get used to that and then accepted in it and all that stuff. So it's very complicated. But well and you know honestly

Eddie something I've learned is like everybody's going to have something from their childhood. You could have the most perfect parents of all time. Yes. And they could have handled you wrong based on who you are. Yep. Not knowing that they did that, right? And so I think also as you get older,

there becomes a lot of grace for your parents and the things that they did and like how they did support you and how they didn't so you can support yourself now. And it's interesting. Like the whole just psyche and stuff is, especially with kids, it's hard. But I feel so bad for parents because you feel like you have to be perfect. And nobody's ever going to be perfect.

No. You're going to make a mistake. And it's going to have an impact. But your hope is that you've loved them enough that that helps them through it. For us, like, I think we go really big on explaining ourselves. Mm-hmm. You know, like, and if we do mess up, apologizing for it and letting it be known that, like, hey, what we did there was not right.

Like, sorry, we did that. And then it's really, they're like, Okay, cool. And hopefully that carries on to like, you know what? They accepted it and I accept that. Like it's, it happens because, yeah, we're human too. No, it's something that I love to say. Like, when I look at my parents, I'm like, it's their first time figuring this out too.

Yeah. Whereas all our first time going to life. Like, so why am I going to be hard on them because of what happened in an X, Y, Z situation? Right. You know what I mean? Like, it's now on me to figure that out. Yeah. That's my ownership of what happens.

And it's so funny because kids look at parents and being like, oh, well, like, they know everything. Like they're That's what we teach kids We don't know anything You think about like your teachers Like growing up I'm like dang they really They were you know what

I really think about my teachers And they were like going home after class Popping open a bottle of wine Or cracking open a beer Or going out with their buds Like until 11 And then coming to Hung over on a Saturday

But they'd be walking in Monday And I respected the crap out of him Because they were an adult You know Nobody has it figured out Nobody ever Solid joke Okay

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So funny that we started off with something very vulnerable. I loved it, though. I like seeing that. I like seeing Dad, Eddie. Well, sometimes, like, you come in and you're like, hey, what's going on in your life? And, like, we didn't have to do that this time. We just kind of like, let me tell you what's going on in my life. It is.

And you talk about the kids. Are they, like, thriving? Summer's almost here. Yeah, I know. I know. Are you ready? Summer's so stressful time because they don't go to school. So we put them in as many camps as we can.

Keep them busy. You're telling me all those camps that I was really excited to go to. We're definitely not for me. Those were the best things ever for the parents for sure. Because like, yeah, man, again, routine. Yeah. Summer just throws routine under the bus and like, uh-uh, you don't exist now. Now, like the kids are home all day, figure something out.

The pool. The pool becomes part of the routine. Maybe a little summer vacation. We don't know. We haven't really planned anything yet. When you think about your childhood, because my fiance and I were talking about this on the walk, I don't know what sparked it, but he was talking about, he saw a kid with a bike. He's like, I had something like that.

And my brother would ride on the back on the pegs and we'd ride around the neighborhood. And that's how we'd spend our time. And I was like, well, I went to the pool and I'd eat Eminem cookies and waffle fries. And that's how I spent my time. So, like, very different experiences. We're thinking about how we spent our time as kids. So what did you do as good? It's funny.

It's funny because my in-laws, my in-laws were in-town for like three or four days or whatever. And I think we're at a place in our life where everyone's trying to learn more about each other because we're all getting older. You know, like I've known my in-laws for a long, long time. But rarely do we sit around and just talk about like, what were you like as a kid or like, you know, we don't talk about that stuff. And this time around we did talk about my mother-in-law was asking me, you know, like, did you like the outdoors growing up? And I was like, and it brought back all of these memories. What's funny about my childhood is my dad didn't have a lot of money growing up. And so when he, he got a little success, he was a businessman, like entrepreneur businessman. He got a little success when I was, I don't know, like six, it's like seven years old. And he started. started buying properties and like because he loved to hunt and so he would buy these rent he would buy like dearly or he would get deer leases or whatever or buy a ranch or something and every weekend of my life was going to the ranch or going to the deer lease and hunting and my mother-in-law was like did you like hunting? I'm like I loved it for a year like loved it until it just became my life. Yeah. Like every week was going to the ranch and like there were no other kids out there. there just me and my brother and my sister later on but like and it was just us and it was me with

like a stick or a gun and like just walking around the woods looking for arrowheads and rabbits and like really that was like a lot of my childhood and I dreamt of the pool and waffle fries and like I dreamt of that because I never was in town for like summers and when summer came around my dad was like pack the bags we're going to the dear lease like for weeks. What did you bring the whole family or was it just you guys? Like what did it look like? It was at the very beginning it was just me and my brother and my dad and all his buddies. And sometimes his buddies would have kids and like we would play with them. But then once my sister was born, my mom and my sister would come. And then it became a whole family thing. And then my dad

bought a ranch that he wanted to build like into like a ranch ranch ranch ranch. with a house with like you know nice good quality fences exotic animals cows horses like he wanted to do all that except he didn't want to hire people to do it so me and my brother were like the ranch hands and so like we did not sign up for this we really didn't and like it just that was a crazy era of my life where like all we did was work on the ranch like cowboys except we weren't cowboys we were just I was just regular old kids just talk You had to do it from your dad. Yeah. Yeah. And so we would dig holes. We would, you know, make hay bales. We would feed cows, brand cows.

We would inject horses, you know, with like their medicines. We would, like, you name it. We had ostriches, emus, pigs. Like, we had everything. And it was crazy. Like, and that was all the way through high school. So what point did it stop being fun for you, truly? Like, or do you look back and you're like,

a lot of that was really fun. I hated it. Like, I look back at it and I say, I'm glad I did it because I learned so much about working with my hands, you know, like hard labor. Like, I can build anything now. Like, I can fix anything all because that's all we did. Like, hey, we're not getting any water. This pipes busted. Like, what do we do? Let's figure it out. You learned how to do a lot of skills. A lot. A lot of skills. Is that why though now you're like primary. the exact opposite. Probably. Now I'm like, hey,

we hire someone to fix that because I don't want to do it. Yeah. Not as much that part, but like you're just more of a city person now. I think you really like cities. Oh my gosh. And then the weekends, like I want to do nothing.

Mm-hmm. It's funny you say that because I think there are weekends when we're stuck in basketball gyms all the whole day, Saturday. And I look around like, wow, it's Saturday and look at all these city people like in a basketball gym. And I really would dream of that as a kid.

Like all my buddies would be playing sports and they'd be playing, you know, in these tournaments. And I'd be like, oh, I wonder what that's like. You know, they probably have like orange slices and snacks and, you know, because I never got to do that when I was like in middle school. You know, it's funny that you say it on that side because I was like the opposite of you. So yes, I'd spend a lot of summers like hanging out at the pool or playing sports or going to camps or whatever. But my grandparents had property, both of them, both sets of my grandparents did. and it was my favorite thing to go out and spend time on the property. And so I was like the direct opposite.

Like we had my dad's parents, they had like a double wide trailer that sat on this huge lot of land. And my dad had horses. His brother had cows. Another brother had more horses. And they were all on this land. And they had a pond and we'd go fishing. And we'd and my grandma loved to garden.

So I'd help her in the garden. And we had a beagle at the time who'd run around with us when we'd, He'd ride, like horseback ride. And it was my favorite thing. And my dad would, it was so funny because especially as we got older, like, I was really the only one that really wanted to go out there. It was like, I loved, I loved this life. And he'd pick up a McDonald's breakfast for me, you know, like the big platter.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I'd eat it with pancakes in it. Yeah. He'd eat my sausage and my bacon. And I'd just eat my little pancakes in the car. Because it was like, it was outside of Augusta, Kansas. It was on like this, just small area of town. and I just sit there eating my pancakes,

took about an hour and a half to get there, and we get there. And, man, I just, like, lived my best life on that farm. Yeah. And then my other grandma, she was a big, like, scientist and ecologist. Scientists? Ecologist. Am I saying that correctly?

I don't know. I think so. Like, her and her ex-husband at the time were, like, really big in nature and preserving nature and stuff like that. This is your dad's mom? This is my mom's side now. So, like, both of them had, and my grandma still. lives on this land. Still.

Still to this day. She's 88 now. Dang, that's awesome. And we'd go out with her and we'd search for arrowheads and she has a whole collection and she had horses. We can never ride her horses. Those were like she just wanted to have horses. Like we buried our pets on her land.

It's crazy to me. But those moments like were few and far between for me. So like I lived it up when I had those. So I was the exact opposite of you. You wanted what I was doing and I wanted what you were doing. And I mean, I wanted both. You know, like, I just wanted a little bit of, like, life because Monday through Friday, I had friends and, like, a life.

And then the weekend was like, hey, we're having a birthday party or we're all going to do this on Saturday. Well, not me because I've got to go to the ranch. So you wouldn't even participate in other things on the weekend. It was a requirement. Like, that was what your family did. Yes. And then when we got to high school, when I was like, maybe like, you know, sophomore, junior year in high school, there was a little town probably, you know,

25, 30 minutes away from the ranch. Because the ranch was about two hours from my house. So when we went to the ranch, it was middle nowhere. But there was this little town. And my brother and I would like, you know, he was old enough to drink. So he'd pick up like some beer on Saturday night, you know? Yeah. And like I would ride along and we'd go into this little town and they'd have dances.

Okay. That's cool. You know, like little like it was kind of like the veterans that. The VFW was like the Veterans Hall. Oh, where they had like full-blown dances? They'd have a full-blown dance with a band and the whole town would show up. So me and my brother would be like, all right, we'd dress up in our Wranglers and like, you know, and show. How old were you when you were going to these dances?

I was probably a sophomore, freshman, sophomore in high school. Okay, so you were in high school. Yeah, I was in high school. And then like the girls were like, who are these dudes? Like, we've never seen these guys in our life. So we became friends with everyone quick, like quickly. And so, you know, this little town, a population, you know, 200, 300, whatever.

Like, we got to know them pretty well. So that was my weekend friends. And then I had my weekday friends. So, like, I think I finally, I got the hang of it. You know, like, I still need a life. And then my parents were very happy because I had my little social group on the weekends. And I'm still friends with some of those people. So it's really cool.

Like, I'm still friends with the ranch people. And I'm still friends with, you know, my city people. It's funny, though, because I feel like it was such a big part of your life. You're talking about it now and like, you know, you look back and like, dang, I wish I hadn't like these moments. And I feel like that experience in general being out there is probably a lot of what shaped you. Yeah. I know. I know.

I know. I know. I know they're still there. We always want the other side. The grass is always greener. Always. Yes. Doesn't matter where you are.

It doesn't matter what you do. So it makes sense that you felt that way. But I feel like so much of that was a big part. And probably spending a lot of time with your dad looking back on it now. Yeah. Oh, yeah. is like fond memories, I would think. So if you were playing sports and doing other things, I don't know that you would have had those.

Who knows? You know? And it's funny because like with my dad, like at the time, I hated everything he wanted to do because it was like, we're building fences. Like, we're going to build corrals. I want to hang out with my friends and throw a football. Like you're making us work like every weekend. No, thank you. But really like, and I learned how to cook out there.

I learned how to smoke meat out there. You know, because that's, you got real wood, you're using real wood, you got a smoker. Like, that's how you, how you eat out there. We used to make, it was called pan de campbo in Spanish, which in English means like camp bread. So it was just like a homemade bread that you would make out of like a cast iron thing over an open fire. Have you made that since? I feel like you should. I have not made it since.

And I thought about that. I'm like, I should definitely try that. Yeah, you should. It's been, I don't know, like 30 years since I've even tried that. Does it look like a regular loaf of bread or does it look like sourdough or something? It looks like non-bread. Like, like you eat with hummus. Yes, yes.

It almost looks like a pizza, like pizza dough. Yeah. But that's what you let, that's your bread. Campfire bread. Camp bread. Yeah, yeah, camp bread. Camp bread. Yeah.

I love that. I feel like you need to make that now. I know. I should definitely do that. See, and like those stories are cool. and they're so unique. You're right. You're right.

And life out there is so cool. Like it's, it's like you said, it's like, it's beautiful. Like I remember the most beautiful nights ever out there. The most beautiful sunsets out there.

The sounds of like the crickets and the coyotes howling in the distance and like, the fire crack. Like all that stuff, it was so beautiful and perfect. And I miss it. But living it,

I was like, man this sucks. Yeah. Like all my friends are throwing a party right now. You're like, I want to be at the party with my friends. Like a rager. And I'm not there. And then I show up in school on Monday and they're all talking about it.

And I'm just like, ugh. I was just going to say there's a left out feeling in that because you weren't part of the things that everybody else was doing. Yep. But now, probably at this point in your life, you're like, I got a lot more actually than I, you know, in those moments you wanted like the immediate happiness. Yes. But you got the long-term happiness. Correct. You just didn't know it at the time.

And I do feel like everything happens for a reason. So like I'm glad I had those experiences. Yeah. So. That's so cool. Yeah. But also just like it's funny because you think about a lot of people will say this on social media. It's like, oh, we don't have any original experiences, right?

Like everybody's like somebody will talk about something and they're like, how are you in my head? That's something I've experienced before. And you think nobody else ever has. Oh, right. And social media has taught us that like we've had a lot of. not unique experiences because we're all the same Isn't it amazing when you see a video

and it's just like wow they literally made a video about my life and it has 50 million likes So there's 50 million other of us You feel the same way yeah Yeah yeah there's a video I saw That's so funny and it's

It's me it's a dad ordering at McDonald's And he's so impatient And it's like Are you impatient ordering at McDonald's? With my family? Yeah. Yeah. Like as soon as we pull into McDonald's, into the parking lot, getting ready to go through the drive-thru, I'm like, everybody, please have your order ready.

Like, please. Before we get there, have your order ready. And then sure enough, we get to welcome McDonald's. Can I take your order? What do you want? I don't know. I should get nuggets or a burger. Oh, my gosh.

Order. Sir, are you still there? Yeah, we're here. Give me a second, please. I'll just do a burger. Cheeseburger, cheeseburger. Okay, I'll take a cheeseburger, happy meal. Forget the cheese. A happy meal cheeseburger and then do you want to drink? Yeah, I'll just do a, I don't know, Coke or something. No, no. And my wife's like, no, no, they're having milk. Okay, no, no Coke, milk for that. And it's like, oh, my gosh, you know what? You order this. I'm out.

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We're here, since everyone has a podcast, we want it to as well. And we've had some incredible guests so far. And now our good friend Nile Horn is joining the show. How's it going, boys? Hey, Niall. It's the same thing with Slow Hands. Slow Hands is not about anything else, really, is it? You know, or taste so good can't be about food.

You do the same, Nick, with some of the stuff that you've done. You too, Joe. Drop what you're doing and listen to Hey Jonas on the Iheart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your podcasts. I always think about the drive-through workers and the things that they hear and experience. For sure. You know what I mean? Because like you're talking to a speaker so you don't think they, and I think some of those also have cameras. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So they can see you. I don't know that all of them do. But I think about the things that they're witnessing and experiencing when people don't think that they're being watched or listened to. You know what I mean? And like, they're seeing your chaos in your car. The next person pulls up and like it could be a fair happening, right? Like a little affair is going on and, you know, talking about that. Or the next one is like somebody committed a crime and they're in it.

Like, I think about drive-through people often. You should have a drive-through person guests on your podcast. That would be fun. Tell me your craziest stories. I just, it's always the people who like, and it's so sad to think of this way. It's like the people who like don't, aren't seen. You see them when you come up to the drive-thru and interact with them. But like, their job is relatively unseen.

And you're speaking into a speaker. You don't think of it as a person. And I wonder like, you know, when you ever talk to someone on the phone, do you visualize what they look like? Yeah. I wonder if that's what every drive-through person does when they... There's like bets going on. Okay, this guy... It sounds like a fat dude. You know? Or this guy sounds like a middle-aged, like whatever.

For sure, Idris Elba. For sure, that's what he looks like. Or this is, he's driving Mercedes. Like, for sure. Like, all the things. That would be a fun game. Yeah. If you're a drive-thru employee to make bets like that. But I think about just people like that in general, like the stories that they have, the experiences that they have. Yes.

And I mean, those are where my favorite stories come from. Same. I know. Everyday stuff. But to your point, yeah, it's amazing how many people share the same similar life things. What's like something, what's like a video you've seen recently where you're like, oh my gosh, they nailed my life? Well, I was talking about one.

So, and I've had so many of those. They're just not coming to mine right now. But I did post one where I was talking about how I like, I always felt like, the cops would get called if I cut tags off of things. Like the, from the, the mattress? Mattress, the sofa. The light. The, you know, like the-

Because it says against the law? Yeah. Blow dryer you plug it in you. I still have tags on things. Do you know, do you know why it says that? Why? No, I'm asking. No, I have no idea because my entire life.

I literally thought I would go to jail for like, somebody would know. I'd trip some censor and I'd be going to jail. I think there was like, of Muppets or a Kermit cartoon, like a long time ago, an episode, were like Kermit's in jail. And they're like, oh, what did you do? He's like, cut the tag off. That has to be what it's from.

Yeah. No, no, no. So the reason that's not for you. It's like they mean it. Why is it on my thing? Because it's for the person selling it. Like all the information on how to care for it, the manufacturer, where it comes from whoever's responsible for making it.

all that information is on there so they're telling the people that sell it, don't cut it off because the customer may need that at some point. Okay, then it should say sale, do not cut off. Customer can. Why didn't they specify? Once you buy something, you can do whatever you want. That's so

funny, but you're not alone. You're definitely not alone. Right. And there was so many people who call me. It was like, oh my gosh, I'm going to go cut mine off. Like I literally, I was cutting, I was like going through my house, cutting things off and like looking around like, is this the moment? Or it has like, important information like hair dryers like don't put this in water so like you cut that off maybe somebody doesn't know like oh let me just put that in the bath it is true like that's probably why

but i love that they have to put though you like it is against the law under the penal code 417 it terrified me for life yeah so that was one of them and there's a whole lot of people too that related to that one what's one that that comes to mind for you is there any just i mean i saw i sent one to my wife recently because it was like my wife when amy talks about perimenopropropics Like that's my wife like it's the same thing. They're going to the same thing and it was like how to control my paramedipause and it was this lady like doing dishes and she had a like she had a rope tied to her belt to like the actual like counter as she was doing the dishes and she tried to walk away to do something else and then it pulled her back and like so it keeps her focused on the dishes because part of that is like you're so spacey that you forget you're doing dishes and you go do something else. Oh my gosh. And you're like, okay, this is our life. Yeah, yeah, I sent that to him out.

Yeah, because my wife will do the dishes and then leave the water running and then go, like, in the garage. And I'm just like, is she just done with the dishes? Like, is anyone going to turn the water off? And for sure, that's a paramedipausal thing. That's funny. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So now is like your whole feed paraminopause things? A lot of it is.

I mean, a lot of my feed is a lot of those videos of just like, I don't know, just funny stuff that married couples go through. Yeah, the couple one are funny because I'm like. like, I didn't realize other people were experiencing that. Have you seen the one, and it's older now, but it was where this couple is sitting on a couch and the guy is like, and we might have talked about this. And the guy is like, hi, my name's, my name's Henry. I just want to come on here and apologize to something I did to my wife. I wasn't faithful to my wife. And the wife's just sitting there like quietly next to him. And he goes, apparently, I, I slept with another woman in my wife's dreams.

And I want to apologize for that. And the wife is like, mm-hmm. Yes. And I feel like every guy has gone through that. We're like, my wife will wake up and be like, I had the worst dream ever. You had a girlfriend. And I was like, what? And then she's mad at me all day.

Yep. This is a real thing. Yes. There was one time I woke up and I had a horrible dream. And Braden looks at me. He's like, what is going on? Like, did I do something? And I was like, you were not very nice in my dream.

And so now we start referring to that one as Dream Braden. He's like, was Dream Braden a jerk again? He showed up. Do I need to worry about something? We reference him as like a different person. It's like, he was like, I'm going to help you detach these because I'm not that person. That did not happen. So true.

It's so funny, though. Like, it's just wild that those are all like. I know. people across the entire world are having similar experiences as life goes on I know and I really appreciate the people that make videos about it like I really really do because you are helping the world like by doing that you're making people feel that they're not like they're not alone and like it's so helpful it really does it doesn't make you feel better because you like realize you're not the only dude that's a jerk in a dream yeah or it makes me feel better that I'm

I'm not the only one that loses their patience in a drive-thru with a family like I love it I know I I think about those a lot. I don't even know how we got on that. I don't know either. We were talking about something and it made me real late. I don't remember now. I can't remember. Anyways, anything else you want to touch up before we get out of here?

No, that's it, Morgan, that's it. It's been fun. So fun. Hey, question. Yeah. When you got, I want to know because I'm like so deep in all my wedding planning and stuff right now. Yeah. And you guys eloped-ish on Hawaii?

Yeah, but it wasn't really elope. Well, I guess, I don't know. We talked about the alloped. The rules of a loaf. It's hard. It's the only way to reference that, like, if you got married elsewhere and then you come back here and you have a different, like, reception party. Like my sister eloped.

Okay. She went with her fiancee and got married. And I think only the parents were there. Okay. Okay. I wasn't even invited. And it's my favorite thing in the world to make her feel bad about it. I love it.

I'd be like, oh, my gosh, I forgot it was your anniversary. Oh, maybe because I didn't go to your wedding. You're the one every bride hates. I'm learning a lot of things And all of this Yeah So yeah We got married in Hawaii

It was just It was us Our parents Our siblings And a best man And a maid of honor Okay so small Very small wedding

That was it What was your favorites Because this is what I'm trying I'm like look gosh Oh my gosh Social media Like I love it But there's so much

Out there to consume And so many people Have thoughts And opinions and things to say. What was your favorite thing that you still remember about that time? Dang. I think, I mean, all of it was great.

Like, and I love the fact that nobody was there. Like, I really did because there was no pressure. Yeah. I think we were probably 30 minutes late, you know, at starting the wedding. Like, who cares? You're on your own timeline. It's just us. We're all here, you know?

And I don't even think it was on us. I think that the photographer or somebody was late. somebody wasn't there yet maybe it was like the videographer and like they were stuck in traffic in hawai i'm like there's traffic in hawai but but nobody cared everybody was just like that's cool like we have time you booked us for like you know two hours so we were late and we went there was no clock and we got married and there was no rush to get out of there like i loved that because i feel like if you had a big wedding a big ceremony like everything's got to be on time there's so many people involved that it's can't it's got to be done this way or it's not good and like that's not fun no and

that makes me feel really good about our decision and that's why i keep asking people i was like what was your favorite thing i'm because i there's so many options and things to add and i think there's so much that gets lost in weddings yes and i'm like i need to know the things that really mattered to you on that day so i make sure i'm like on the right path and obviously everybody has different things that they love and priorities and whatever. But that was a big part of why we decided in this direction. We had multiple reasons, but that was one of them where it was like, I didn't want to be stressed. I wanted to get married and actually get married and enjoy the fact of getting married. It's your marriage. It's your life. It's your wedding. Like, it's all about you.

And to start it off on like a calm foot, this calm, like just we're going to be married in a place that like is so beautiful, which is what I wanted. Like I wanted to feel calm. And then all we get to do is your favorite food in my sweats. Yes. And dance. Yeah. And do whatever you want. That's so fun to me.

So that makes me feel good hearing you say that. Are you having like a little reception after the wedding? Like what is it a dinner? Like what are you guys doing? So our whole family like our both of our immediate families that are coming are all stay. We're all staying in a cabin together. Cool.

So like we'll all be together getting ready. We'll all be getting. Well after the like ceremony on the little area that we're going to. We'll come back and we're catering some Mexican food. There we go. And we're literally just sitting there. bringing a little small cake with us. Cool.

And we're going to hang out and play games. And I'm going to go back and either if I want to stay in my dress I can or I have like an all white sweat outfit that I can wear. That's cool. And just eat food and hang out at the house. So that's like our reception is that. So I'm excited. But that's why I'm asking people.

It's just like I, I, I, what I'm getting lost in in social media is like, well, you should do this and have this and you have all these things. And I'm like, I just don't feel like any of that's actually. important. So I want to know from real human people what they love. To me, the best thing about like just the wedding is after it's over. Like honestly, like, because you can finally just enjoy yourselves. And be married. And like, that was the whole point. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Because like even, and I will say like ours are so stress free, right? But even since it was stress free, like, you know, we want to make sure everybody, the few people that were there were good. We want to make

sure that the musicians, like, we just have like a little, like a violin quartet or whatever. We want to make sure they're good. You know, we want to make sure that the photographer is good. You're still worried about a little bit. The pieces that were still there. Yeah, because you still hired people, like, to be there. Like, uh, did you guys doing that? Yeah, we, well, we hired a photographer and videographer.

Right. Yeah. So it's still kind of like, all right, well, like, I told them to be here. We're paying them. Yeah. We want to make sure that everything's being done. Well, and that, like, and I'll have like hair and makeup, but like, even all the hat, like, we're all going to be in the same area getting ready.

It's not like we're separated. It's a whole thing. We're going to have a first look when I'm, like, actually in my dress and stuff. But he's hanging out in there. Like, cook me breakfast. You know what I mean? Like, it's not a, it's not like that separation kind of where the grooms and the brides are like separated all day.

Will you be able to let someone else kind of handle all the little details? Yeah, that's what's cool about my family is like if I need them to handle something, they will. Cool. You know, but there's just not. We're literally bringing the cake with us. We're going to have the food. One of his brothers is going to go and pick it up after we finish.

And that's already ready. And then like my hair and makeup will happen the morning of. I don't have to wake up at the butt crack of dawn to do it. You know, I'll have my dress. Like all of that just won't matter. Yeah. And that's what I really want. I think you're on the right track.

So besides Remy and Hazel, those are the two that I'm worried about. Are they? Oh, they'll be there. They'll be there. They're going to be our little something blue. Okay. We're putting Remy in a little blue dress and hazel in a little blue bow. Funny.

And so they're going to be with us during the ceremony. So I think if anything, that's what I might be worried about is just them too, making sure like they're okay. And Hazel doesn't somehow get out of a collar run away. We have a cat loose on a mountain. But yeah. That's exciting. It's exciting times. But I love hearing that from you because that makes me feel good.

Yeah. I'm on the. Hey, man, it's your day. Whatever you need to make it a better day or easy for you, do that. Yeah. Yeah. And when it's all over, you're going to be like, it didn't matter anyway. True. I want it to matter because like I'm getting married. Like that matters. But that's all that should matter. But it's almost like when you have a baby, it's like the worry of having a baby is like, oh my gosh, we're going to have a baby. Like what are we going to do? And then once you have the baby, you're like, there's no question anything. Like you have a baby now. It is what it is. It is what it is. Like so just do what you can to take care of it. Yeah. Yeah. It's so true. We bring so much stress. And I want to, I'm trying to. I'm trying to.

to take away a lot of my stress, just in general life. Yes. But that's fair. All right. Well, Eddie, thanks for being here. Thank you, Morgan. Where can people find you? Oh, you know, at producer ready on everything.

Are you still making videos all the time? Or did you give up on that again? I'm making some videos. I have like, so there was a period where I made a lot of videos and I just, I just need to edit them. I need to edit them together. Are they still relevant? Yeah, I think so. I think so.

Like there's some food videos that I did. Oh, little recipes. Yeah, little recipes, little quick, like food ideas that I. that I did and like they're still on my phone. Like I have all the video and I'm like I need to put that together. There's some things that I've shot on my phone and they're still there. I know. I just never I never touch them.

There's one video. Lunchbox and I for I Heart Festival probably four years ago now, went to try this donut place. I was like all over online. In Austin? No, it was in Vegas. Oh, in Vegas. Okay.

They were like these viral donuts. Oh, I remember you guys did that. Yeah, yeah. I never posted the video. Hey, what did you do this year? I don't know. I know. I know. Same.

Once in a while I'll go through my whole library of pictures and be like, oh, that's a good one. I never posted that. And I know I took it to post. Yep. He just never posted it. Yep. You know, living in the moment. Yes.

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