The Bobby Bones Show - SUNDAY SAMPLER - The Nashville Podcast Network (9-22-24)

Episode Date: September 22, 2024

In this weekly series, we share highlight clips from the past week of some of the podcasts on The Nashville Podcast Network-  In The Vet's Office with Dr. Josie, Take This Personally with Morgan Huel...sman, The BobbyCast, 4 Things with Amy Brown, Sore Losers, Movie Mike's Movie Podcast and Get Real with Caroline Hobby.  You can listen to new episodes weekly wherever you get your podcasts.  You can find them on Instagram: -The BobbyCast- @BobbyCast -Take This Personally- @TakeThisPersonally -In The Vet's Office- @DrJosieVet -4 Things with Amy Brown- @RadioAmy -Sore Losers- @SoreLosersPodcast -Movie Mikes Movie Podcast- @MikeDeestro -Get Real: @GetRealCarolineHobbySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:55 Here's the Sunday sampler from the Nashville Podcast Network. We're going to start with Take This Personally. It's from Morgan No. 2. She talked with a friendship coach. Never heard of this before. for. Danielle Bayer Jackson is her name. And she shares her expertise in how to make friends as an adult and how it's hard to maintain friendships when life gets super busy. So, well, to hear this, we have four things coming up with Amy Brown, sore losers, movie Mike, the Bobbycast, all of that
Starting point is 00:03:20 on the way. Hopefully, if you hear something you like, you go and subscribe to the podcast. But here's a clip of this week's episode of Take This Personally with Morgan Hulzman. Danielle Beyer-Jackson is a female friendship coach and educator who speaks nationally on the subject of friendship as a wellness imperative. Her business friend Forward is dedicated to teaching women how to create and maintain better female friendships. Danielle, how are you doing today? I'm doing okay. I'm really glad that you brought me on to lend my voice to this conversation because it's so important. Say you have a client who is nearly starting from scratch with female friendships. What would the beginning process look like for them to start finding some really solid friendships?
Starting point is 00:04:24 Oh, that's a great question. And I'm so glad you asked it because, as you can imagine, hands down, that is the number one question. It's always, how do I make friends? But it typically comes with some kind of qualifier. So how do I make friends as a woman with social anxiety? How do I make friends as a woman in a new city? How do I make friends? So I hope it shows us that we'll always be making new friends.
Starting point is 00:04:41 And so the first step is more of a mindset and is to shake off any shame you have about having to start from scratch, that it's not something you should have figured out by now. You're not behind. There's not something wrong with you. If you look around and you're like, oh my gosh, I don't have people. In fact, research tells us that on average, we replace about half of our friends every seven years. And so you might be in a season where you're like, oh gosh, I'm in a pruning season and I have space to invite new connections. So the first step is to shake off the shame. The second thing I tell you is to look at the people who are already in your life. Because research also tells us that a lot of the friends we have are also serving in some kind of other role. So they might also be your cousin. They
Starting point is 00:05:20 might also be your hairstylist. They might also be your co-worker. So if that's the case, look around to who already exists and you dismiss them for whatever reason as a potential friend. And what would happen if you looked at them in like a new way is the first thing? Then I like to say, become a regular somewhere because that familiarity makes it more comfortable for us to start a friendship. And so especially those of us who are working from home. A lot of us are in the house all day. We don't get out and about. maybe you can commit to like working from a coffee shop every Friday at the same time or walking your dog at like the same time, you know, every day. I'll pause here because I know some women are like, we can't have routines. We have to be careful. And I heard it as a safety precaution. And that's true. So, you know, adapt this to fit your lifestyle. How can you become a regular somewhere? How can you breed familiarity with the people who work there and the other people who come there every Friday morning to work out of their house too? So breeding that familiarity. And then the last tip I'll give, because I can do this all day, is to make your desire known. And so use social media to say, oh, yeah, moving to Austin and looking to see if anybody has any recommendations or text a friend or an acquaintance who's a super extrovert and just say, hey, I'm just trying to get more plugged in. I thought of you because
Starting point is 00:06:26 you're always out and about and doing some cool stuff. Is there anything around town worth checking out? Because they're either going to give you recommendations or they're going to invite you to be there plus one. They might say, oh my God, yes, we do happy hour every Tuesday. You have to come. But no one's going to be able to meet your need for new connections if you're too embarrassed to let people know that you want new connections. I feel like that first step is so important because if you just live in that shame, you're never going to do any of the other steps. You're just going to sit there and say, I'm too embarrassed to try this, so I'm just going to be alone forever. Exactly. And there's finding friends and there's also finding friends who lift you up, add to your life, empower you. They're what I like to call my deep connections versus my surface level friends. How do we ensure that we can find and cultivate those kind of friendships that are empowering more than they are surface level? Oh, I'm so glad you asked that because sometimes the conversation does become about like finding new people, which is so great and you need to have that skill. But then sometimes I'm like, well, how are you going deep? with the friends you already have. How can you make that more meaningful, right? Because some of us feel a sense of
Starting point is 00:07:26 loneliness because all our friendships are superficial. In terms of creating more depth, the first thing I would say is look at how vulnerable you're being. And I know vulnerability is like a hot topic, but I do want to correct one misconception. I think people think vulnerability means, let me tell you about my biggest trauma. Let me tell you about this big thing and self-disclosed. The best way I've heard vulnerability to find is you are willing to take a risk of rejection. And so I'm going to tell you something. I know I might look weak. I might look weird. I might look, but I'm going to do it anyway. Because research shows that we tend to like people who are vulnerable with us. It kind of humanizes them. It's kind of endearing. And so open up a little bit appropriately, especially in the beginning, to go a little bit deeper.
Starting point is 00:08:07 Also, try to take your relationships off autopilot. Sometimes with the same friends, we do the same things. We do the same happy hour at the same place. It's okay. The same way in a romantic relationship where it feels kind of dry. You're like, we need to jazz this up. Same thing. Maybe you're on default with your friends. Can you infuse new life? life by operating in a different social backdrop or trying something totally out of the box together because those shared experiences genuinely do really connect you. And then the final thing I'll say, and this is going to sound so from left field, ask your friends for help. We love talking about the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. And I think I'm still a voting member after the segment we did where I probably revealed too much about the voting process.
Starting point is 00:08:49 Thank God. I don't know. I didn't get a second voting slip for the year, but I also didn't get told I'm not. So I don't know. Oh. But I was never. I never told I was kicked out. Do you normally get your voting slip by now?
Starting point is 00:09:01 I don't know. I've only ever had it once. I don't remember when it was. But they now are doing the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, voice your choice. And I don't think if you win it, you get in, but I think it factors in. Okay. Like it's part of like a percentage of the overall. And anyone can vote?
Starting point is 00:09:25 This is just anyone in the world. Yeah. Okay. Because you can do it by visiting the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. I'm just going to read you some of these here. So the Rock, okay, here's what the deal is. The Rock and the Hall of Fame, if you vote on that website when they do that, that is a percentage.
Starting point is 00:09:41 This that you do there is just them kind of wanting to know, but I think it could also, like, secretly affect the people that are making the decisions. So there is one online poll that matters, but here you go. I'll read you a person and you just tell me if you think they should be in the Rock and the Hall of High School. Got it. and it's like do they deserve to be in there now right like because well you can only get in if it's like 25 years past your first album okay and these all these people meet that requirement it may be 20
Starting point is 00:10:09 okay i should know this as a voting member you should i only look at the people they give me and go do they deserve it mike will you let us know when you figure that out it's other 20 after their first album or 25 but okay here we go the cranberries yes I would say no I don't think I don't have a body big enough I answer it way too quickly I mean because they got
Starting point is 00:10:31 they got jams and they were a staple they got like three bobs uh dreams they got like zombie hold on hold on
Starting point is 00:10:39 linger that's it shoot those is only three bangers they got do you have to let it linger it's a master it's a jam
Starting point is 00:10:46 oh there's a zombie zombie zombie sing dreams sing dreams that my life
Starting point is 00:10:57 I happen every day every festival way Got it That's dreams Mike will you Cranberryed up See what their fourth
Starting point is 00:11:07 There's one more But even if it's four I don't think that's enough To get in the Rock and a Hall of it And it is 25 years by the way Okay Okay I mean that works
Starting point is 00:11:15 But yeah you're right I may have answered that one Way too quick Because I do like the cranberries But you're talking like Maybe two albums that I remember Yeah I think they're But to be
Starting point is 00:11:25 be fair, if you have an album that is transcendent, for example, Oasis, like I think Oasis should be in the Rock and Royal Hall of Fame, and they really only have one massive album, their second album. Okay. My fourth list that is Ode to My Family. My Father. You're making that up. My mother.
Starting point is 00:11:45 Are you making that? No, I swear, that's how it goes. I swear that's how that song goes. Are you making that up? Nope. You think just because I said I heard family? I went right to father him. That's what she says.
Starting point is 00:11:59 That's a jam. Number one's lingering or two zombie. Number three. Oh, to my family. It has... Do, do, do, do. Oh, I know this song. Do you remember my father.
Starting point is 00:12:12 I do. I do. I'm telling you, man. But you know what? Now that you say that Oasis was the one good album, I'm going to put cranberries in. This is Sunday.
Starting point is 00:12:25 This one. I don't think they can't, because the late singer died, but I don't think if the cranberries were united right now, that there would be like, oh my God, everybody, guess what, they're back together. You're right. I do like the cranberries,
Starting point is 00:12:37 but Rock and a Hall of Fame? I don't think so. Okay. But it's not saying you're wrong. Yeah, yeah. Nor is it saying that I'm right. I did answer it very quickly, but I'm going to stand behind it.
Starting point is 00:12:46 The Smiths. No. I don't get the Smith. Why are the Smiths so popular in Mexico? I love them. I don't know. In Southern Texas. In Mexico.
Starting point is 00:12:53 Yeah, it's very Latino. Extremely. Huge in California. I don't know why. I just always love them. I don't know why. I guess because I'm Mexican. Who are the Smiths? Like, give me a... Morrissey.
Starting point is 00:13:01 Oh. Yeah, why is Morrissey so loved by Hispanics, Mexicans, and Latinos? I think it's his voice. Just that suit. Because he's not. He has kind of like that old school vibe to him. But he's not Mexican, right? No, he's not.
Starting point is 00:13:12 He's like white and... Yeah, I never knew. And I was never like a fan. I was never a fan. But I remember my friends being like, yeah, Mexicans love him. And I'm like, really? I say this as a Mexican big in like the Cholo community. Really?
Starting point is 00:13:24 Morrison. So I'm not crazy for saying that, right? No. Yeah. Wow. A win is a win. A win is a win. I don't care what I'm saying. Yep, that's me, Clivert Taylor the 4th. You might have seen the skits, the reactions, my journey from basketball to college football,
Starting point is 00:13:45 or my career in sports media. Well, somewhere along the way, this platform became bigger than I ever imagined. And now I'm bringing all of that excitement to my brand new podcast, The Clifford Show. This is a place for raw, unfiltered conversations with some of your favorite athletes, creators, and voices that not only deserve to be heard, but celebrated. One week I'll take you behind the scenes of the biggest moments in sports and entertainment and the next we'll talk about life, mental health, purpose, and even music. The Clifford Show isn't just a podcast, it's a space for honest conversations, stories that don't always get told, and for people who are chasing something bigger.
Starting point is 00:14:20 So if you've ever supported me or you're just chasing down a dream, this is right where you need to be. Listen to the Clifford Show on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. And for more behind the scenes, follow at Clifford and. and at TikTok Podcast Network on TikTok. I'm Iris Palmer and my new podcast is called Against All Od and that's exactly what the show is about doing whatever it takes to be thoughts. Get ready to hear from some of your favorite entrepreneurs and entertainers as they share stories about defying expectations,
Starting point is 00:14:50 overcoming barriers and breaking generational patterns. I'm talking to people like award-winning actress, producer, and director, Eva Longoria. I think I had like $200 in my savings account and my mom goes, what are you going to do? And I was like, I'll figure it out. We got a one-bedroom apartment for like $400 a month, and we all could not afford it. Like, I was like, how am I going to make $100 a month?
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Starting point is 00:17:07 It's Financial Literacy Month and the podcast Eating Wall Broke is bringing real conversations about money, growth, and building your future. This month, hear from top streamer Zoe Spencer and venture capitalist Lakeisha Landrum Pierre as they share their journeys from starting out to leveling up. If I'm outside with my parents and they're seeing all these people come up to me for pictures, it's like, what? Today now, obviously, it's like 100%. They believe everything.
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Starting point is 00:17:59 Never lie. E.K. E. Kast up road, man. Little food for your soul, man. Life ain't always pretty. But hate, it's pretty beautiful thing. Laugh a little more thing.
Starting point is 00:18:30 Tighten up your core. Said E.K. You're kicking it with four things. With Amy Brown. All right. So I'm going to talk about hate following. This could be a hobby that you are participating in and you don't even realize it. Now, after I tell you about hate following, I'm going to share with you a hobby that can make you happier because hate following definitely does not.
Starting point is 00:18:53 But I did see the happy hobby situation multiple times this week. I saw articles when I was on social media, when I was searching news prep for the Bobby Bone show. And I was like, oh, this could be worth noting because this type of hobby might be something we could all do. And maybe it's just the nudge you need to finally do it. I will give you a hint. Therapy cat has already started something like this.
Starting point is 00:19:16 And who knew? She was on to something. So hate following is a thing. Again, we may not know that we're doing it, but it's a social media. habit that we fall into. If you follow people with perfect photos or someone who posts offensive political things that you don't agree with, you might be hate following. A behavioral psychologist named Denise Dudley was talking about how you don't know you're doing this destructive behavior, but when you hate follow, you're secretly hoping for a politically incorrect slip up or a bad
Starting point is 00:19:47 hair day to make yourself feel a little bit better about your own life. And sometimes we hate people who seem to have it all just to remind ourselves why we don't like them. And the problem with that is hate following creates stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, or even depression. So experts suggest to unfollow the people who fit the category and move on. I will say that I went through my feed and I couldn't say 100% I was hate following. But when I used some of this article to like assess, like, do I really like this person? Do I align with this person? How do I feel after I watch this person? And then I thought, oh, sometimes when maybe they mess up or it seems like their life isn't as perfect as I thought, do I feel a little bit better about my own life when I see that happen? And I was able to answer yes to that. So being honest here, I unfollowed someone that fit that category. So make sure you're not hate following. I didn't realize I was doing it. And experts say a lot of people are doing it. And yeah, we don't even realize it. Now on to more positive hobby news, taking up arts and crafts could be a game changer in your happiness. So if you want to lower cortisol levels and have overall better
Starting point is 00:21:04 well-being, simply take up an arts and crafts hobby. Yeah, see, Therapy Cat, she's been onto this with her painting. Like if you go over to her house at her kitchen table, she just has this whole arts and crafts bin in the corner now. And then on the table, she'll just have a blank canvas and and paint, so she can bust it out at any time. But it doesn't have to even be as complicated as paint and a canvas and all the things. You can just draw if you want to. Dr. Helen Keyes, a cognitive psychologist, just released a new study talking about this. And she said that engaging with arts and crafts is accessible and affordable. And options such as knitting and drawing require very little tools and can be so engaging and creatively fulfilling. And
Starting point is 00:21:50 And people in the study reported more happiness, better life satisfaction, and sense of lives being worthwhile if they were participating in an arts and craft project. So guys, this is really simple. I think we can all do this. And, you know, I was talking about that event I went to last night for music teachers and hearing all the stories and seeing all the kids play their instruments. I got a little annoyed at my mom that she let me quit piano when I was a kid. And I was encouraged, though, that even at 43, I could start taking piano lessons and make that a hobby.
Starting point is 00:22:24 It's not going to be guitar for me. I took lessons several years ago, and my fingers hurt so bad. Like, I just don't know that that's going to be a thing for me. But piano, I think I could get into, and I looked up some of the benefits of playing piano. Stress management came up, creativity in the brain, improved coordination, self-of-steem, improves concentration, improves concentration, enhanced memory, math improvement. I mean, the list goes on, improved mental health, neuroplasticity, focus, goal setting, cultural enrichment. Why would my mom take me out of that? So now at 43, because I have a keyboard at my house, I don't have a piano, but I do think I could start taking
Starting point is 00:23:04 some piano lessons and add that to my hobby belt. But if you have ADHD like me, you know that we like to start a lot of hobbies and not necessarily complete them, but I'm working on that. Maybe this could be something that I follow through with, and I do. And so I'm going to get my arts and crafts little section at my house set up, and I'm going to get my little keyboard set up, and these are going to be some hobbies that are going to add to my life. And I still want to add my garden to my backyard, too, which I've gardened before, and I loved that so much that I can't wait to bring it back. We're going to do it live. We are the one, two, three, so losers. What up, everybody?
Starting point is 00:23:46 I am Lunchbox. I know the most about sports. I give you the sports facts. My sports opinions because I'm pretty much a sports genius. Y'all, it's Sisson. I'm from the north. I'm an alpha male.
Starting point is 00:23:56 I live on the north side of Nashville with Beezer, my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful. A lot of acreage. No animals. A lot of crops, hopefully soon. Corn, pumpkins. Rye, I believe.
Starting point is 00:24:08 Maybe a little fescue. To be determined. Over to you, coach. And here's a clip from this week's episode of The Soar Losers. My dad has a tendency to get lost. And so we do the pod on Wednesday, and he's like, man, I need a cigarette. But he's like, I left the cigarettes at the house. I was like, well, I got to record some commercials.
Starting point is 00:24:31 You want to just hang out while I record commercials? And then we can go get your cigarettes. He's like, no, where's a gas station around here? I'm going to just walk and get cigarettes. Mm-hmm. I said, all right, you're going to walk out the back alley. Right. Hit that street.
Starting point is 00:24:45 Take a right. And you walk, go down to the end of the block and start your left-hand side and on the corner. I don't know about the take a right from the alley. You'd actually want to take a left from the alley. No, no. If you walk straight out here. Straight out of here. Straight out of the back door.
Starting point is 00:24:58 Straight out the back door. Are we in the alley or I'm making a right on the alley? No, walk through the alley to the next street. Like, by the parking garage, hit the street. Then you would take a right. You'd take a right. Send him on his way. Send him with my wallet because he doesn't have his wallet with him.
Starting point is 00:25:19 And I get done with the commercials and he's not back yet. And I'm like, you know what? I'll just drive down the road and I'll see him walking. He's playing dice with a couple hobos. There was a nice looking lady that wanted to talk. I was like, okay, he'll just be walking back, you know, smoking a cigarette. And I drive from here to that little convenience store, no toolbox. No, no.
Starting point is 00:25:44 And I'm like, oh God, where could he be? At this point, did you think he died? I didn't think he died. I just thought this dude is way lost. He could be, you know, I'm worried he's near the Cumberland. I don't know. Too soon. Too soon.
Starting point is 00:25:58 And so I call him. I said, where are you? He goes, I don't know. I'm at some shell station. Ah, I know where he went. And I'm like, shell station, how the, did you get all the way over there? That's like a mile from the station He blew through the closest gas station
Starting point is 00:26:16 And kept on going And found like three blocks Oh you know he went like a mile I'm a long 65 He goes He goes I'm at seven I had to get my steps in He goes I'm at 17th
Starting point is 00:26:31 Had to get your steps in Did you check him on your watch? I checked them on my watch He goes I'm at 17th and something I was like I know where you're at He goes oh shit I just walked out of the store with a drink I gotta go back in
Starting point is 00:26:42 Armed robbery? I was trying to find the street sign. And he was in the middle of drinking his drink while he's getting cigarettes. So then I'm like, I'll be there. And he goes, I'm going to get charged for shoplifting. I got to go back in the store. I said, I'll be right there.
Starting point is 00:26:56 I thought I was Ray there. I was getting all nervous. You weren't parked, though. You're good. So I pull in the parking lot, and he's just standing there with his arms folded. And he gets in the car and I said, folded in front of him or behind him?
Starting point is 00:27:09 In front of him. I said, you get your sick. He goes, no. And I said, well, where's your drink? He goes, I gave it back to him. What do you mean? He goes, well, I tried to buy cigarettes. And they asked me for my ID.
Starting point is 00:27:28 What a disaster. And he goes, and I didn't have my ID. So I said, I don't have my idea. And he goes, I can't sell you the cigarettes. And I said, I got my sons. And he goes, no, you got to have yours. And he goes, well, if my son's 43, you think I'm older than 18? And the guy goes, can't sell without your ID.
Starting point is 00:27:45 And then he goes, you want to buy that drink? My dad goes, no, you can keep it. He'd already drink half of it. What a company man. So he had drinking half the Coke, and he was so pissed off that he just left the Coke there and said, no, you can keep it. Ridiculous. Yeah, that's how you get the best. I said, can I buy a gun?
Starting point is 00:28:02 And they said, sure, here. And so I said, do you want me to go and get you cigarettes? He goes, not at this place. I'll just go when we get home. my all right well that was fun hi there I'll take some Virginia slums so no it's Marlboro lights soft pack no no no hard pack now I don't know if they do soft pack soft pack but yes that was my dad's adventure he ended up instead of going
Starting point is 00:28:25 one block to a gas station he walked to one over a mile away yeah I still don't believe there's a gas station there it didn't look like one to me I heard the directions in the hallway and he just didn't give him as emphatically as he should have he should have he walked right past it it's right next to us, it's hidden, though. Anybody could miss it. It doesn't look like a gas station. It looks like a house. That would be it. I'm sitting there looking for 7-11 shell, whatever. He was looking for gas pumps. There are no gas pumps at this place.
Starting point is 00:28:53 Well, then how's it called a gas station? But you'll know when you get in there because the guy's always got horse racing on and he's betting it. Oh, he's got that newspaper rolled up and he is looking at the, oh, we're going to Saratoga. He told me it's a convenience store. He told me a gas station. So, I mean, what are you going to look for? gas pumps out front. But then I'm shocked he was able to find the shell because he had to walk through the hotel like parking lot all the way across two blocks. See the A-loft look up to your right.
Starting point is 00:29:19 Huh, there's a shell. Then he has to cross Broadway. I mean, how many streets did you cross? That's what I'm saying. All to get turned down for the cigarettes because the guy was a jack. And then that's the problem. That's the problem. What is the big deal?
Starting point is 00:29:33 Like he obviously is older than 18 years old. Wait a minute. Some people think I look young enough. I'm 18. Okay. It's obvious you're 18 years old. It is obvious when you walk in there that you are 18 years old. Why do we waste the time of, oh, I need to see your ID.
Starting point is 00:29:50 I can't sell you cigarettes. It is so stupid. Agreed. I took the alcohol and tobacco class and actually the loop around with that is maybe the camera has to see with the ID. But if you say how old are you or are you 18 and you can't lie if you're as sting operation. So that's all you have to say. So dude, when I was at Texas State, hey man, are you 21? Yeah,
Starting point is 00:30:14 cool, you're good to go. That's how I saved every time 10 seconds. I never scanned an ID in two years. When I was in Dublin, guess how many times they asked for your ID? Zero. Well, I don't think there's a age for drinking or anything there. I think you can drink as long as you
Starting point is 00:30:30 I don't think a 12 year old can drink. Well, I think if you were your parents, I think it's okay. I don't, I have no idea. I don't know. I just, I'm just saying, whole time, the whole time you're in Dublin. You didn't ask the one question that was mind-boggling us all. How old do you have to be to drink when there's a kid that's
Starting point is 00:30:48 eight-year-old drinking next to you? I didn't see an eight-year-old drinking next to me. Instead, you'd rather hear about the man-you-rivalry, how the guy turned to Dublin. My dad slapped me and said, You're never rooting for them. They're the bad guy. I'd have been like, shut the fuck up. Answer my question. How old do you have to be to drink here? Thanks.
Starting point is 00:31:07 Instead, you went on a whole, diatribe about why the guy rooted for somebody else because his dad slapped him with his belt as a kid. Who gives a hell, buddy? Where's the hot chicks and how old do you have to be to drink? I get what I want. When people start talking, jibber jabber
Starting point is 00:31:22 and I get my information, I don't give a cry. What? You were 12 and you got hit with a belt? Awesome. Cool. Go man. Who's jibber jabbering now? Do you think, man, you're going to win today? That's all I care. What? They're the bad guys. That's how we left England. Shut up.
Starting point is 00:31:39 Who wins the game tonight? I need some scag. That's what I was looking for. My apologies. They didn't ask for an ID for that. You said, hey, do you need an ID for scag? A win is a win. A win is a win.
Starting point is 00:32:06 I don't care what I'm saying. Yep, that's me. Cliver Taylor the 4th. You might have seen the skits, the reactions, my journey from basketball to college football, or my career in sports media. Well, somewhere along the way, this platform became bigger than I ever imagined. And now I'm bringing all of that excitement to my brand new podcast, The Clifford Show. This is a place for raw, unfiltered conversations with some of your favorite athletes, creators,
Starting point is 00:32:30 and voices that not only deserve to be heard, but celebrated. One week, I'll take you behind the scenes of the biggest moments in sports and entertainment, and the next we'll talk about life, mental health, purpose, and even music. The Clifford Show isn't just a podcast. It's a space for honest conversations, stories, that don't always get told and for people who are chasing something bigger. So if you've ever supported me or you're just chasing down a dream, this is right where you need to be. Listen to the Clifford show on the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.
Starting point is 00:33:00 And for more behind the scenes, follow at Clifford and at TikTok podcast network on TikTok. I'm Iris Palmer and my new podcast is called Against All Od, and that's exactly what the show is about, doing whatever it takes to be thoughts. Get ready to hear from some of your favorite entrepreneurs and entertainers as they share stories about defying expectations, overcoming barriers, and breaking generational patterns. I'm talking to people like award-winning actress, producer, and director, Eva Longoria. I think I had like $200 in my savings account and my mom goes, what are you going to do? And I was like, I'll figure it out. We got a one-bedroom apartment for like $400 a month and we all could not afford. Like, I was like, how am I going to make $100 a month?
Starting point is 00:33:41 I'm opening up like I've never before. For those of you who think you know me from what you've seen on social media, get ready to see a whole new side of me. Listen to Against All Odds with Iris Palmer as part of the My Cultura podcast network available on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.
Starting point is 00:33:59 I went and sat on the little ottoman in front of him. I said, hi, dad. And just when I said that, my mom comes out of the kitchen. She says, I have some cookies and milk. This is a badass convict. Right. Just finished five years.
Starting point is 00:34:18 I'm going to have cookies and milk at them all. Yeah. On the Ceno Show podcast, each episode invites you into a raw, unfiltered conversations about recovery, resilience, and redemption. On a recent episode, I sit down with actor, cultural icon, Danny Trail, talk about addiction, transformation, and the power of second chances. The entire season two is now available to bench featuring powerful conversation with the guests like Tiffany Addish,
Starting point is 00:34:45 Johnny Knoxville, and more. I'm an alcoholic. And without this trouble, I'm going to die. Open your free I-Heart radio app. Search the Ceno Show. And listen now. Hey there, folks. Amy Robach and T.J. Holmes here. And we know there is a lot of news coming at you these days from the war with Iran
Starting point is 00:35:08 to the ongoing Epstein fallout, government shutdowns, high-profile trials, and what the hell is that Blake lively thing about anyway. We are on it every day, all day. Follow us, Amy and TJ for news updates throughout the day. Listen to Amy and TJ on the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts. You can have opinions. You can have like a strong stance. And then there's your body having its own program.
Starting point is 00:35:41 I'm Dr. Maya Shunker, a cognitive scientist and hosts of the podcast, a slight. change of plans, a show about who we are and who we become when life makes other plans. We share stories and scientific insights to help us all better navigate these periods of turbulence and transformation. There is one finding that is consistent, and that is that our resilience rests on our relationships. I wish that I hadn't resisted for so long the need to change. We have to be willing to live with a kind of uncertainty that not. None of us likes. Listen to a slight change of plans on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your
Starting point is 00:36:22 podcast. Hey, it's Mike D. And this week on Movie Mike's Movie Podcast, I gave my top 10 examples of the best work in voice acting when it comes to animation. I think voice acting is far underappreciated when on a giant rant about why it should be included in the Oscars and included some of my favorite moments in movie history. I'll share a few with you now, but be sure to check out this full episode. Here's just a little bit of Movie Mike's movie podcast.
Starting point is 00:36:58 At number four, I have Tom Hanks voicing Woody in the Toy Story franchise, one, two, three, and four, and soon to be five, six, seven, eight, nine, and ten. And Tom Hanks is one of those people who, unlike George Clooney, I do watch him in movies and think, man, he has just a great voice. Because not only does he have great facial expressions and mannerisms and just a great presence on screen. He has a voice with a lot of range, particularly when Tom Hanks gets excited is my favorite thing. And not often do we get it, but when he gets angry is also really great. But he usually doesn't really play characters that get angry a whole lot. He is primarily the good guy in movies
Starting point is 00:37:44 whenever he is a villain. It's like, oh, weird, Tom Hanks as a villain. But I think this particular moment in Toy Story 1 where he is fighting with Buzz Lightyear and shows how much control he has with his voice to really make you feel that emotion. Here's the scene I'm talking about. What?
Starting point is 00:38:04 What are you talking about? You weren't the real Buzz Lightier you're an action figure. You are a child's play thing. Oh yeah, well, good ridden, chilloni. Because you hear him getting mad, but it also has a comedic tone to it.
Starting point is 00:38:24 I love Woody. It gets really frustrated. That is just voice acting at its finest. And the range she has with Woody alone to make you laugh, to make you feel something there that maybe has a little bit more of a tone of anger. But then also to make you feel that sadness, the ending of Toy Story 3. So long, partner. Oh, that is so good.
Starting point is 00:38:46 I can't believe that they almost made Woody a ventriloquist doll in Toy Story. That was the original design of the character. Then they thought, ah, this looks a little bit too freaky. And they decided to change Woody and make them a cowboy instead because, ah, kids would probably be more inclined to want to play with a cowboy than a creepy ventriloquist doll. I think if he would have been the ventriloquist, it would have reminded me of slapy from goosebumps. And I would have been terrified. Every kid in the 90s would have been terrified. And Toy Story probably would have tanked.
Starting point is 00:39:18 So I'm glad they switched Woody to be a cowboy. At number three, I have Eddie Murphy voicing donkey in the Shrek films, which they are coming out with a new Shrek movie. Not for a couple years. I think it's supposed to come out July 1st, 2026. I kind of forgot about Shrek 4. One, two, and three were so big. Four came a little bit later, so I feel like my excitement was a little bit watered down to the fact that Shrek 4 did exist. But even more so than Mike Myers' performance as Shrek, I think the true standout.
Starting point is 00:39:51 star is Eddie Murphy. Along the same lines of Tom Hanks, Eddie also has such great control over his voice, but the reason I rank him just a little bit higher is because I think Eddie Murphy on his own is just funnier. He has the stand-up experience. He has all the characters he played on SNL, and I think he was born to do comedy,
Starting point is 00:40:12 and I wouldn't have thought that his best work would come in the world of animation, but he is just so dynamic as Donkey. This is still hands down my favorite performance of his out of any of the movies. But one night only. Ah, thank you. What are you doing? Oh, this is going to be fun.
Starting point is 00:40:29 We can see up late, swapping manless stories, and in the morning, I'm making waffles. Do! Where do, uh, I sleep? Outside! Oh, uh, I guess that's cool. I mean, I don't know you, and you don't know me, so I guess outside is best, you know? Yeah, I go. That clip right there, in color.
Starting point is 00:40:50 encompasses everything, the comedy, the sadness, the range of Eddie Murphy. Steven Spielberg actually bought the rights to the book that Shrek is based on, even though Shrek is just a big parody of all the Disney fairy tales, and that's kind of what these movies served as in the 2000s. But he originally wanted to make a little bit more of a traditional animated film, and he wanted Bill Murray to be the voice of Shrek and Steve Martin to be the voice of Donkey. I think that would have been fine, but it would have had a much different, just overall feeling and no way that Steve Martin would have done as good a job as donkey.
Starting point is 00:41:25 And the other casting change that they had was Chris Farley was actually originally going to be Shrek. And there's test footage with him. Even the character of Shrek is modeled to look like Chris Farley. If you look at them side by side, which the design did change from the first iteration, it kind of resembles what Chris Farley looked like. And I think it was a role that Chris Farley was. was really interested in doing because he was seen for the majority of his career as being the big, dumb, fat guy. And as a former big dumb fat guy, I know what kind of an impact that can have
Starting point is 00:42:02 on you, where you have been celebrated for all the wacky things you do, falling down, getting hurt, saying ridiculous things. Sometimes you just want somebody to take you seriously. And I think Shrek was going to be that for him. And if you listen to this clip of him and Eddie Murphy doing some early lines with some very rough animations. You can really hear that in his voice. Oh, this is another one of those onion things. No, this is one of those, drop it and leave me alone things. Well, why don't you want to talk about it?
Starting point is 00:42:35 Why do you want to talk about it? Why are you answering the question with a question? Why are you asking questions? I don't want to answer. Why are you blocking? I'm not blocking. Then why do you have problems expressing your wants? I don't. I want you to shut up. See? No problem.
Starting point is 00:42:48 You're just displacing your. your anger. Believe me, it's properly placed. You're really mad at whoever did this to you. No one did anything to me. Yes, yes, yes. Someone hurt you so bad. Someone hurt you many years ago. Leave my parents out of this. Breakthrough. And I would have paid to see that movie more so than I would have paid to see Mike Myers version, even though that is the version we know and love. But he has like this weird iron accent that I think is still an interesting choice on Shrek. So that's why I didn't include Mike Myers on this list. I included Eddie Murphy. But if he would have had the version, with Chris Farley and Eddie Murphy,
Starting point is 00:43:22 I think Chris Farley would be on this list just from that performance alone. And again, that is very raw. But you hear that real acting ability in his voice and also him getting angry there is like classic Chris Farley. I think that would have been amazing. But on the list, at number three,
Starting point is 00:43:38 is Eddie Murphy as donkey in Trek. She is a magical little girl. And like we call her the FOMO baby because she just really wanted to be here. Girl. But if you was ready. It's crazy, though, how fear and faith are just such a close line. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:44:22 Like, it's like on that, they walk the same line. Exactly. Like, I felt like God took me to literally the edge of, of my tolerance. Like, you said, I'm going to push you through all your, like, I'm going to push you as far as you can with your fear. Yeah. The worst, like, the worst version of me, like the most broken version of me is where I got taken to.
Starting point is 00:44:43 And then the redemption ever since then is just, incredible. Like joy, love, like tenfold. It trumps the fear, the brokenness, the pain. Yeah. And makes me like want to do that again. I would even go on bed rest again for a baby. You would? I would. Oh, yeah. I would go on bed rest for her baby. Do you feel like going to that dark place so opened you up to a place of love that you couldn't have experienced otherwise? Yes. It opened me up to connections with people. I finally learned how to like lean on people because Maddie knows I'm a very guarded reserved person it's hard to pull the layers out of me I'm like I've been doing it for
Starting point is 00:45:28 15 years now okay I'm an onion that does not over there Maddie she's oh I'm telling you every five years I get like I call it the Tay friendship bomb where she's like yeah so I had to tell you about this thing I'm like what and it's just like I should do everything by now like this truth bomb but no it's it's like the best. though because our personalities it's we are you an open book and you're a shut book yes absolutely so it's perfect yeah like and she kind of has taught me how to like hey we don't have to share everything and that's key I'm the same as you maddie oversherry overshary is actually hello milky booze and I don't know what that's like that's fun that's fun but oversharing
Starting point is 00:46:08 it leaks your energy out you know and I'm a minimal energy kind of gal so I can only give when when I can Where do you think that close being so close came from? I think it's just my nature. Like I'm, again, just like a minimal. I'm not low energy because I've got high vibes, high vibes, but minimal energy. Okay. You've got to keep your energy rested and restored.
Starting point is 00:46:32 I have this phrase that we use, like it's called coins. And it's like, how many coins do you have today? And it's like your energy. So you like up with five coins and then interactions take one coin. and then a bad traffic stop takes another coin and all that stuff. And I probably wake up every day with like three coins. So you're tired every day. I feel like I relate to you on that.
Starting point is 00:46:55 I'm always tired. I'm just like vibe in. Like are you just always kind of observing people? Yes. Oh yeah. And like kind of like taking it all in. Yeah. And like assessing the situation.
Starting point is 00:47:05 It takes a lot of energy to constantly be assessing the situation too. And I love. Because you're feeling the energy out. Like I can walk into a room and immediately I'm like, I feel the vibes. I'm like I know exactly where someone is on the first. frequency level of like what we're going to be dealing with. I can tell if I'm going to like someone by the minute I lock eyes with them. And not in a bitchy way, but just like a...
Starting point is 00:47:25 If you're a match. Yeah. An energy match. Yeah. Like especially in this business, we have found like there's a lot of people with like a big lot of egos and just from everything in this business. You're joking. And being around egoy people is exhausting.
Starting point is 00:47:43 And it's like to be a performer. And that takes all your coins. All the coins are gone. Exactly. You get it. Yeah. And there's times where T and I just, like, go in our little corner and we just like, and then it's funny because, like, other people will start coming to our corner. We're like, hey, this is the safe corner.
Starting point is 00:47:57 You may not come to our corner if you're going to bring your bad energy. If you got bad energy or an ego problem, you got to go. But if you don't, come on. We're just chilling. Yeah. But the, like, big personalities and stuff in this business sometimes. Like, we will be the artists that will, like, sit back and let the other, like, bigger personalities kind of just.
Starting point is 00:48:15 just like run the thing and we'll just kind of like, even though I'm extroverted, I ain't trying to put that much energy into like commanding a room. I'm like, you know, we got to do that on the stage. I ain't got energy for that just like regularly. Right. But learning where to distribute your energy, how to distribute your energy is like a fine art that you have to learn. Oh, it is a craft.
Starting point is 00:48:35 One of her superpowers is. Okay, talk to me about that because crafting that. Now you got kids. Now you got husbands. Now you're, you know, you've been running a successful business now for like a decade. You know, you're women in this business. You have a lot. You've got employees.
Starting point is 00:48:50 You're putting on shows. You have tour buses. There's so many people who are relying on y'all. So how do you craft it? I mean, I think it just is like a daily conscious effort. I think it was a really big struggle for me in the beginning of our career because I knew that people wanted like more of me. Like they kind of expected this bigger personality out of me.
Starting point is 00:49:14 and for a while I like faked it and I was like woohoo like bubbly outgoing talkative and then that's what landed me on antidepressants at 18 and so yeah I was on antidepressants during radio tour but which I'm like damn it I should have done that too
Starting point is 00:49:31 that would have made it survivable radio tour is no joke no joke especially when you're 18 especially back then you know there's yeah we'll write a book don't worry yeah we do I forgot about that song
Starting point is 00:49:48 but I think that just like that experience really showed us like okay all we have is each other in ourselves yeah no one is going to protect us at all and so we just like really you know I think it kind of turned into a blessing where we just like really went inward
Starting point is 00:50:03 and we're like okay we just have to like we talk to each other through our eyes like if we're doing an interview and someone has said something We don't like whatever. We just look at each other and she doesn't have to say a word and I just shut it down or she shuts it down. So now you have the confidence to shut it down. Oh, yes.
Starting point is 00:50:21 But how empowering that you'll have each other. Because like it would be kind of terrifying to be at it alone as a young girl. I don't think I could do it. Same. I wouldn't want to do it. I would have gotten ran over. And I would have destroyed my reputation. That would be like, oh, like, I see you.
Starting point is 00:50:38 And I would just been in the corner crying. Hey, thanks for listening to this week's Sunday sampler. If you heard anything you like or you want to hear more, go check it out on the podcast feed. Just search for the show. New episodes are out weekly, so there's always something to listen to. You guys have a great week. It's Financial Literacy Month, and the podcast, Eating While Broke, is bringing real conversations about money, growth, and building your future. This month, hear from top streamer, Zoe Spencer and venture capitalist Lakeisha Landrum-Pierre,
Starting point is 00:51:30 as they share their journeys from starting out to leveling up. There's an economic component to communities thriving. If there's not enough money and entrepreneurship happening in communities, they fail. Listen to Eating While Broke from the Black Effect Podcast Network on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hey, I'm Dr. Maya Shunker, a cognitive scientist and hosts of the podcast, a slight change of plans, a show about who we are and who we become when life makes other plans. I wish that I hadn't resisted for so long the need to change.
Starting point is 00:52:04 We have to be willing to live with a kind of uncertainty that none of us likes. You can have opinions. You can have like a strong stance. And then there's your body having its own program. Listen to a slight change of plans on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey there, folks. Amy Robach and T.J. Holmes here. And we know there is a lot of news coming at you these days from the war with Iran to the ongoing Epstein fallout, government shutdowns, high-profile trials, and what the hell is that Blake lively thing about anyway?
Starting point is 00:52:42 We are on it every day, all day. Follow us, Amy and TJ for news updates throughout the day. Listen to Amy and TJ on the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts. May 2nd, country's biggest stars will be in Austin, Texas. at our 2026 IHard Country Festival presented by Capital One. Tickets are on sale now. Get yours before they sell out at Ticketmaster.com.
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Starting point is 00:53:29 I, Carlos King. Recap the biggest moments from your favorite reality shows, including the Real House Wise franchise, the drama, the alliances, and the T, everybody's talking about. To hear this and more, listen to Reality with the King on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. This is an IHart podcast. Guaranteed Human.

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