The Bobby Bones Show - Thurs Part 1: How Bobby Is Growing as A Person

Episode Date: November 7, 2024

Bobby shared how he is growing as a person after someone honked at him at a red light. He shares his rules for honking in traffic. Amy brings in a round of workplace 'This or That' that includes 'Woul...d you rather have a high salary or flexible hours?'.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed human. A win is a win. A win is a win. I don't care what you're saying. Yep, that's me. Clivert Taylor the 4th. You might have seen the skits,
Starting point is 00:00:12 my basketball and college football journey, or my career in sports media. Well, now I'm bringing all of that excitement to my brand new podcast, The Clifers Show. This is a place for raw, unfills of conversations with athletes, creators, and voices that not only deserve to be heard, but celebrated.
Starting point is 00:00:28 So let's get to it. Listen to the. the Clifford show on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. And for more behind the scenes, follow at Clifford and at TikTok podcast network on TikTok. Hey, I'm Dr. Maya Shunker, a cognitive scientist and hosts of the podcast, a slight change of plans, a show about who we are and who we become when life makes other plans. I wish that I hadn't resisted for so long the need to change. We have to be willing to live with a kind of uncertainty that none of us.
Starting point is 00:01:00 You can have opinions. You can have like a strong stance. And then there's your body having its own program. Listen to a slight change of plans on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. On a recent episode of the podcast Money and Wealth with John Ho Bryant, I sit down with Tiffany the budgetista Aliche to talk about what it really takes to take control of your money. What would that look like in our families if everyone was able to pass on wealth to the people when they're no longer here? We break down budgeting, financial discipline, and how to build real wealth, starting with the mindset shifts. Too many of us were never, ever taught. If you've ever felt you didn't get the memo on money, this conversation is for you to hear more. Listen to Money and Wealth with John Hope Bryant from the Black Effect Network on the I'd Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get.
Starting point is 00:01:57 Hit your podcast. I'm Miles Turner. And I'm Brianna Stewart. And our podcast, Game Recognized Game, has never been done before. Two active players giving you a real look
Starting point is 00:02:08 at our lives and what we actually think on and off the court. Nothing's off limits. We talk tanking. I might get in trouble for this answer, but I think it's like
Starting point is 00:02:17 definitely happening in the WBA. We talk about our mistakes too. They pulled me to the side and was like, hey, man, we got a call last night, man.
Starting point is 00:02:25 You can't be rolling around the city like this tonight before games. Check out Game recognized game with Stoian Miles on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and IHeart Podcasts presents soccer moms. So I'm Leanne. This is my best friend, Janet. Hey. And we have been joined at the hips since high school. Absolutely. A redacted amount of years later, we're still joined at the hip. Just a little bit bigger hips. This is a podcast. We're recording it as we tailgate our youth soccer games in the back of my Honda Odyssey. With all the snacks and drinks.
Starting point is 00:02:57 Why did you get hard seltzer instead of beer? Oh, they had a bogo. Well, then you got it. Listen to soccer moms on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Thursday's show. Morning Studio. Morning. All right, we have Catherine on the phone and Amarillo.
Starting point is 00:03:23 Catherine, good morning. Welcome. Good morning. Morning studio. Morning. Morning. Hey, well, so I've been wanting to call in about this. I called a few months ago and asked if I could get a tray or play a game for a tray.
Starting point is 00:03:37 And anyway, so I got a, I won a tray, thanks, Eddie. And I just wanted to say, I got it like in a day of half. And I just can't believe, like, Abby gets so much crap from lunchbox. And he couldn't even send a toilet seat in six months. Great point. So for those that aren't an every minute listener, I'll explain a little bit of what's going on here. Thank you, Catherine.
Starting point is 00:03:59 So I'd order too many trays. My wife said like order, I think she said to order one or two. I think I pushed the button too many times. times. There's like eight breakfast trays that showed up at the house. Like wooden trays that you put on top of your lap if like you're in the bed. And so I had way too many. So I brought them in and I had people sign them that came by the studio and we just gave them to listeners if they wanted to play a game. Which one did you win, Catherine?
Starting point is 00:04:22 It was what tray or what? Yeah, what was on the tray? Oh, yeah. You guys all signed it. It was awesome. Yeah. Everybody in the studio signed it. Ray is like less stress and went live.
Starting point is 00:04:33 Eddie's like, the most goes here. It was so hilarious. Okay. So we had some two. We had artists signed. So you must have got one of the earlier versions before an artist. Is that true? Yes.
Starting point is 00:04:42 Okay. Even more valuable because Ray wrote an inscription on that one. Exactly. So we did these breakfast trays. We signed them. Yeah, Abby is so efficient at every single thing. And Lunchbox promised a listener, a toilet seat that we got in a palette. And it took six months minimal to get to him.
Starting point is 00:04:59 So your thoughts, Lunchbox. Yeah, because the person that called, I didn't have his address. See, Abby is on the phone and it was able to take him. your address right away. Me, I'd have Scuba hunt through voicemails. We had to find his voicemail, leave him a voicemail, send him an email to get his address. So it takes a lot of steps. It wasn't just clear and cut like he was on the phone. Hey, let me get your address and write it down. So it was a lot of inside baseball that you don't understand. But thanks for calling. And I hope you spill that mimosa on your lap. Catherine. So two things. One, he's not being completely
Starting point is 00:05:29 honest here. But we can ask Scoob and Abby about that. But there are other instances, the set list, listener one the lunchbox had. How long take you to send that one out? That was a year. That was on my Instagram. Yeah, yeah. And then when I sent it, I never got a thank you. Yeah, but it took you a year to send it out. Yeah. Inside baseball, though. Inside baseball. Yeah, that was a year. Yeah. Scobo. What's up? I'm still laughing. I hope you spilled out my mosa on your lap. Yeah. I just think the track record speaks for itself. I don't really need to say a whole lot. You said one item took a year. One item took six months. I mean, I rest my case. No, no, but did the toilet seat. We had to hunt him down. We did, but it was. It was like maybe like over like a few weeks.
Starting point is 00:06:08 Exactly. Yeah, but guys, it wasn't clear and cut, you know? It wasn't clear and cut. Yeah, it wasn't clear and cut. It wasn't clear in baseball. Now he's sitting on our seat. Catherine, did you, did we sign it to you or do we just send it to you? Like it was, is your name on it?
Starting point is 00:06:21 You, no. You signed it first to me. Oh, okay. You even asked how to spell my name, so it spelled perfectly. And then everybody else on the show wrote like a little message. That's great. It was like the best. Then it was inscribed to Catherine.
Starting point is 00:06:33 That's what I wanted to make sure. Because if not, you could send it back. we could write it to you. Okay, that's awesome. I'm glad you brought that to light because, yes, when lunchbox promises something, either it doesn't happen or it takes six months to a year to happen. Not with us, not with Abby running the show.
Starting point is 00:06:47 Yeah, I'm not a secretary. Abby is. Okay, cool. Not accurate. She's not a secretary, right? No, not at all. But also, most secretaries aren't secretaries these days. It's called executive assistant or something like that.
Starting point is 00:06:57 Yeah, lunchbox. Abby's not even that. No, Abby's a producer. Okay, Catherine, thank you. I'm glad you highlighted the high efficient employee we have named Abby. Abby. Absolutely. Thank you, Abby. Thank you, show. Thank you. Thank you, Catherine. And now you must go.
Starting point is 00:07:12 Well, it's time for her to go. Yes. By the way, speaking of like memorabilia, there's a pair of ruby slippers worn by Judy Garland from the Wizard of Oz that are going up for auction. They're expected, those are pretty memorable as far as like in our culture, pop culture history. They're expected to fetch up to $3.5 million. Wow. And that's a whole, whole lot of money, but that is something, that is like an iconic. part of our popular culture. These are the ruby slippers? Yeah, I think there's more than one pair.
Starting point is 00:07:42 I think these were missing for a while. The famous shoes have a story. They were stolen from a museum display in 2005 because the guy thought they had real rubies on him, idiot. The FBI eventually recovered the slippers in 2018. He got him back, took them to the pawn shop. Guys, real, no man, this is glitter. These are Ryan's guys.
Starting point is 00:07:58 Glitter, man. But what is stupid, if he would have just kept them and sold them, as for what they were, he could have made a ton of money. But now the FBI got him. $3.5 million. That's from K-A-R-E-11. I have a friend who borrowed clothes for me time to time.
Starting point is 00:08:30 Recently, we met up, and another friend of hers was wearing a shirt and jacket that I had let them borrow. I did not know this person. They were wearing my clothes because my friend let them borrow my clothes. She told me that her friend didn't have proper attire when she showed up, so she let them borrow the outfit. It got worse when this person ended up getting wine stains all over my clothes. My question is who has to pay to replace it or get it cleaned. My friend who borrowed it or the person who borrowed it from her signed, clothes, lender, offended. So that's not cool of your friend to give away your clothes.
Starting point is 00:09:07 Not cool, not cool at all. Yeah, she could ask you beforehand. Yeah, not cool. Wow. You don't give her any more clothes, first of all. You don't know. You still be a friend. And we don't know how dire the situation was.
Starting point is 00:09:18 But still, she shouldn't have given your clothes. should have given some of her clothes that fit the vacation. So if, we'll call her Level 3, the person you don't know. If Level 3 doesn't pay to have it fixed, level 2 must. Either get you a new one or pay for it, because that's all on her. So the girl that spilled it on it, she should be nice to Level 2 and get it cleaned or get a new one. But if she doesn't, it's all on Level 2's fault because that's who you loaned it to. So don't loan her any more clothes.
Starting point is 00:09:46 But is her responsibility to get it back to you? new or cleaned, however that happens. Amy? Yeah, that's exactly what needs to happen. She definitely needs to get paid back. I mean, the original needs to come from whoever spilled the wine, you would think, but just in case she doesn't, then the friend that lended. And then also a little club soda. Well, one to three, three doesn't know you. And you don't know three. The person that did it is two, two, loan the clothes. So everything that happened is her fault. She should have never loaned the clothes. So three spilling stuff on it. That's two's fault. So two either gets three to pay for or has to pay for it themselves.
Starting point is 00:10:21 Two's not out of that doghouse here. Level two, your friend you gave it to. It's all their fault. You're saying the ball is on two's court? Two. All two's court. Now, three can be nice enough to get a fixed because three is the one that did it. But three doesn't know one.
Starting point is 00:10:35 Oh, see, I feel like it starts in the three. But three doesn't know one. So why would three care about one? Does it? I don't even know them. Good. Good point. Because does three even know she was wearing one's clothes?
Starting point is 00:10:45 We don't know that. So it's all left. That person two, never give them clothes again. That's what we say. And it's up to person number two to get them cleaned or get them new. That's how we stand on that. All right. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:10:57 That was an easy one. Here's Sandy. It's a guy from Richmond, Virginia. I get married in less than two weeks and can't dance. Full on lack of rhythm. I need help from the mirror ball winner himself. I feel like he needs help from me because he thinks I also have lack of rhythm. We don't have lack, but compared to other great dancers, I do.
Starting point is 00:11:16 Here's what you do. of all, you just don't care. It's your wedding. A lot of bad dancers. Who cares? Just have a good time. Number one. Dance. It doesn't matter if you're on rhythm. Two, if you're really worried about it, it's a simple head and shoulders up and down. That's the move. You can just do your arms, too. You don't have to go like legs and hips. You literally can just snap your fingers and bounce your head. And that's it. So you got to snap your fingers, bounce you. You. Less is more if you're worried about what you look like. I would encourage you not to worry about what you look like and just go. Go to town. Because nobody, you know, you know. cares. Actually, people are going to like it. When you see somebody dancing badly, but just like not caring and enjoying life, aren't you like, I wish it could be more like that? Yes. Yeah, of course. Be that person. So, but if you're not that person, snap your fingers, move your head. You don't have to move your hips of your body. If you can snap, good. And if you can't snap, just move your head. And if you can't move your head, move your eyes. Blink. Yeah, blink on rhythm.
Starting point is 00:12:12 You got it, buddy. You're worrying about it so much it's going to affect your dancing and your rhythm. Don't worry about it. Have a good time. congratulations. Here's Amy's pile of stories. Starbucks is bringing back handwriting customers' names on the cups. This is something they got rid of when they went digital. And so when you get your cup, it's like a printed out thing and it says your name. But they feel like they're missing that connection that made it special with customers back in the day.
Starting point is 00:12:38 They're also going to be adding creamer and sugar out for people to just make themselves. That went away during the pandemic. But they want more of a coffee shop vibe that they feel like they've lost. want to be able to misspell everybody's name in cursive now with their own headwriting. Right. And also, they are looking for something like 200,000 Sharpies. So if anybody has me. We got a lot around here.
Starting point is 00:12:59 I live by them. All right, what else? A mom was shocked when she got a phone call from her kid's school saying, hey, you know, your five-year-old, we just found a condom in his pocket. A five-year-old. So obviously, somebody put it in the five-year-old. In his gene pocket. Yeah, the five-year-old had no idea what it even was.
Starting point is 00:13:17 And the mom, she personally, she had her tubes tie day a long time ago, so they don't have anything like that in the house. So what did it come? Oh, no. Okay. This is a story in People magazine. And there's a working theory that maybe as a prank someone at a kids. As a prank, maybe. At a kid's clothing store, the jeans were new. They hadn't been washed or anything.
Starting point is 00:13:40 So he was wearing them that maybe at a kid's clothing store, some people thought it would be funny if they went around and stuck condoms in kids' clothes. clothing. Yeah, the dad, great theory. That dad created a heck of a theory on the spot. Oh, it's a prank of the kid's store. Oh, gosh, gosh, but gosh. They're up to no good over there. But the son didn't even know where it came from or the son would have said, oh, I got it out of daddy's car.
Starting point is 00:14:02 No, no, no, no. The dad's kind of like it hit it. Oh, God, he didn't hit it in there. Oh, why would you do that? Why is it dad? Would you hide it in your kid's pants that he's going to wear a school? You never know. No, there are better places. Well, we're not arguing that, but necessity. Right, guys?
Starting point is 00:14:16 You know. Yeah, you do what you got to do. Yeah, you guys don't need that passionately. Oh, I mean, I mean. Amy, go ahead. Ninety-year-old Willie Nelson just released his 153rd album, and he did an interview with the AP, and he said he's not going anywhere. Quote, I'm not worried about dying. I don't feel bad.
Starting point is 00:14:32 I don't hurt anywhere, and I don't have any reason to worry about it. I am the opposite of all of those. I worry about dying. I hurt everywhere. I feel bad, and I have reasons to worry about it. You're not Willie. I'm anti-Willie. I know, but isn't this a great way to live?
Starting point is 00:14:44 Because he's 91. He doesn't add that stress of what if I die. Well, but the stress is taken care of. Yeah, he can't smoke the weed all the time. Correct. You're stressed out whenever you're high. All right, is that it? I'm Amy. That's my pile.
Starting point is 00:14:55 That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the good news. With producer Eddie. Claudeyne Wilson has been the custodian at Sweetborg Elementary in Missouri for 30 years. Not only was she the custodian, she was also a bus driver, a plumber, and a lunch server. So the school was like, how do we celebrate? her. How do we honor her for her 30 years? So what did they do? They named one of the buildings in the school after her. Wow, building. It's called the Claudine Wilson Learning Center. Dang, do you have a
Starting point is 00:15:28 building? It's risky. I feel, and I love for Claudine, maybe she breaks the rule in my mind. I feel like you should never make a statue or name a building after a living person because we are flawed humans. And eventually they take those statues down. You do something bad. But hopefully she- You're not Claudine. No, she sounds A plus. And mostly, you know what? I'm talking about. I'm about men. I think it should just be should name it after men or build statues of men. Well, occasionally women snap. I can't, yeah, I know, but. I feel pretty solid about Claudia, though.
Starting point is 00:15:58 That's an awesome story. A building, that's crazy. All right, there you go. That's what it's all about. That was tell me something good. A win is a win. A win is a win. I don't care which I'm saying. Yep, that's me, Cliver Taylor the 4th. You might have seen the skits, the reactions, my journey from basketball to college football, or my career in sports media. Well, somewhere along the way,
Starting point is 00:16:20 this platform became bigger than I ever imagined. And now I'm bringing all of that excitement to my brand new podcast, The Clifford Show. This is a place for raw, unfiltered conversations with some of your favorite athletes, creators, and voices that not only deserve to be heard, but celebrated. One week, I'll take you behind the scenes of the biggest moments in sports and entertainment,
Starting point is 00:16:38 and the next we'll talk about life, mental health, purpose, and even music. The Clifford Show isn't just a podcast. It's a space. For honest conversations, stories that don't always get told, and for people who are chasing something bigger. So, if you've ever supported me, or you're just chasing down a dream, this is right where you need to be.
Starting point is 00:16:57 Listen to The Clifford Show on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. And for more behind the scenes, follow at Clifford and at TikTok Podcast Network on TikTok. On a recent episode of the podcast Money and Wealth with John Hobrient, I sit down with Tiffany the budgetista Aliche to talk about what it really, really takes to take control of your money. What would that look like in our families if everyone was able to pass on wealth to the people
Starting point is 00:17:23 when they're no longer here? We break down budgeting, financial discipline, and how to build real wealth, starting with the mindset shifts. Too many of us were never, ever taught. Financial education is not always about, like, I'm going to get rich. That's great. It's about creating an atmosphere for you to be able to take care of yourself and leave a strong financial legacy for your family.
Starting point is 00:17:48 If you've ever felt you didn't get the memo on money, this conversation is for you to hear more. Listen to Money and Wealth with John O'Brien from the Black Effect Network on the I'd Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. American soccer is about to explode. The World Cup is coming. Ramers sending on to Ernie Stewart the chip.
Starting point is 00:18:19 I'm Tad Ramos. I'm Tom Boe. On our podcast, Inside American Soccer, you'll get the real storylines. I'm not worried about Policic. I'm not worried about Balagan. I'm not worried about McKinney. My only concern is what happens in the back. The biggest decisions. If you're going to look at stats and numbers, he has no shot at making this World Cup team.
Starting point is 00:18:41 And the truth about the U.S. national team. It wouldn't be a huge surprise if our team ends up in the quarterfinals or potentially a great run into the semifinals. The World Cup. Cup is almost here. Experience it all with us. Listen to Inside American Soccer with Tom Bogart and Tab Ramos on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, wherever you get your podcast. What's up? I'm Miles Turner. And I'm Brianna Stewart. And our podcast, Game Recognized Game has never been done before. Two active players giving you a real look at our lives and what we actually think on and off the court. Nothing's off limits. We talk trade requests. What's the vibe of that when it's like your star player is like, well, I want to leave.
Starting point is 00:19:27 And then actually now I'm going to stick. We talk tanking. I mean, honestly, like, I might get in trouble for this answer, but I think it's, like, definitely happening in the WBA. And yeah, we talk about our mistakes, too. They pulled me to the side and was like, hey, man, we got a call last night, man. You can't be rolling around the city like this tonight before games,
Starting point is 00:19:47 no, you know, doing this, doing whatever. And of course, family stories. They'll be like, Mommy, why did you miss that? Mindy, do you play basketball? Check out Game Recognized game with Stoian Miles on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. If you are a founder or a freelancer or the friend who always says, hey, you know what, what if I started that? This is for you. I'm telling you I had nothing to my name.
Starting point is 00:20:16 I didn't know a single person in New York. And somehow I'm dressed by Oscar DeLorenta walking down that red carpet. This month, we sit down with entrepreneurs and creators who actually, did it who turned the scary leave into a business, a paycheck, and a life they are proud of. Direct center of our happiness or our regrets is whether or not we're taking action on the things that matter to us. They're not selfish. They're so important. They actually lead to our greatest contributions because when we're living fulfilled, we actually show up better everywhere. We lead better. We're better friends. We're better relationships and collaborators and all those things
Starting point is 00:20:50 because we have passion about the things we're doing. If you're trying to build something of your own this year, join us in these conversations that will make you braver and smarter with your money. Listen to Dos Amigos as part of the Michael Tutta podcast network available on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. What do you have over there? I have Workplace, This or That? Okay, and what are we doing here? Well, you're going to say, would you like this at your workplace or that at your workplace?
Starting point is 00:21:17 Yeah, I see a lot of coworkers playing this on Instagram, and it's, would you like a high salary or flexible hours? High salary. Okay. High salary. For sure. High salary. I love money.
Starting point is 00:21:30 Yeah. Yeah. I work all hours. Okay. Would you like work from home flexibility? Or you have to go into the office, but there's perks, like catered lunch every day. Oh, that's interesting because I could just eat at home. But you can't.
Starting point is 00:21:44 Catered. What job does that? Remember, they used to do it here? Not really. Not every day. That snacks in there. But they didn't cater lunch every day. They had lunch here two times a week.
Starting point is 00:21:54 this new building. Yeah, but not every day. Lunchbox or in it? No, yes. Would you like... Hold on, let me answer the question. Oh, I thought you answered it. I would rather...
Starting point is 00:22:05 I don't really like working from home because we had the opportunity to do that during COVID, and I just, I was too much in my own. So I don't even care about the catered lunch. I'd like it, but they always put like mayonnaise on sandwiches and I hate that. Okay, well, maybe there's other office perks.
Starting point is 00:22:19 Okay, I would rather work... You'd rather office perks. I'd rather work and have actual parking and I hit curbs in our building. I do now. Yeah. I do like stupid parking garage? All right, next.
Starting point is 00:22:26 Would you like unlimited vacation or a four-day work week indefinitely? Wait, unlimited vacation? That's like every day, right? Yeah, unlimited vacation. That means you get money for free for doing nothing. I mean, it doesn't mean you take the whole year off, like you have to be at your job done. Okay, let me present this differently then. How about six weeks vacation or four-day work weeks?
Starting point is 00:22:52 Ooh. six weeks vacation. Gotta be amazing. Oh, six weeks. But if you do four-day work weeks, you still get like your two or three weeks. I'm going to go four-day work weeks. Yeah, me too. Last one.
Starting point is 00:23:07 Closing your computer at 5 p.m. and you're totally done or you get a two-hour lunch break. Oh, be done at 5. I can't hate them both. You hate both? How do you hate both of those? Bobby's like, what's being done at 5 and what's a lunch break? Right.
Starting point is 00:23:22 There are things like I want to do. Like there are things that I want to get done so I can like be ahead. It's not about me swimming to survive. It's about me wanting to swim past everybody. Yeah. So both of those sound miserable to me. I'm sure you could sneak it. I mean, it says close your computer at five, but.
Starting point is 00:23:37 But if I take a two hour lunch break, then I'm going to end up working until 11. True. Other countries, though, they take long lunch breaks and they seem to be happier. So I hear. Yeah, yeah. And they don't live in a world like we do in the United States where the number one thing is capitalism. And stress. Yes, but that's a part of it, yes.
Starting point is 00:23:55 We like stress here? No, but that's a part of our culture is getting ahead. Oh, yeah. Grinding, getting ahead. Okay. But if everybody collectively just didn't do that, then it wouldn't be a rock race. Here's what I wish. I wish.
Starting point is 00:24:08 I wish everybody collectively would take a step back, and I wouldn't. And then I would dominate everybody. That would be the greatest. I would love it. Yeah, okay, well, thank you for playing. What was my score? Did I win? Did I win?
Starting point is 00:24:19 There's no win. No, I won. Here's a voicemail from Wendy. God bless you for keeping politics out of your show. It is a breath of fresh air. We obviously, as a country, are more divided than we have ever been. I just want to say thanks for being a show that I can go to and I don't have to, you know, worry about the political end of what is all going on.
Starting point is 00:24:47 So keep it up, love the show. Have a super awesome day. Well, this is awkward because I want to announce my endorsement for 2028 presidency. That was the time. I just commit to four years of it now after just making a point to not bring it to this space. I wouldn't do thank you. I appreciate that. It's very tough to do, especially when a lot of culture is that.
Starting point is 00:25:07 But, you know, I kind of made the decision that that is not what you come here for. So I'm not going to force it down your throats in any direction whatsoever. So thank you for saying that it is an effort, a concerted effort to not do that. obviously we all feel the ways we feel and they're all different ways too but we don't feel like this is a place for that so we try to keep it as safe as possible thank you uh danny and virginia you guys had lunchbox selling the miranda lambert coffee cup you told him he had like a week or whatever did that ever happen i love the show thanks yeah we didn't have him doing that like he found it and said he was going to sell it lunchbox update yeah i've had offers for a hundred
Starting point is 00:25:42 but i was looking for 500 so i was hoping i'd get a higher bid and i have not got it yet and where do you get those offers? People are sliding into the DMs on Instagram. Good luck. Guys, I don't know that it's authentic. No, it is authentic. We don't know that. We've done some investigating. Not sure that it's authentic. I'll just put that out there. I checked the footage. Yeah. I don't know yet.
Starting point is 00:26:01 We just know we had a lot of those cups up here and feel like there's some funny business. So hey, get it at your own risk. So we'll say. Why are you trying to hate them? That'll take the price down. Why are trying to hate it myself? Why humans are feeling sad for robots. We'll talk about that. and if somebody's behind you and they honk at you, it happened to me.
Starting point is 00:26:19 And for the first time I felt this way, I've never felt this way when someone honked at me before, but had a little issue. We'll talk about that next as well. I think I'm growing as a person. I think maybe society is getting a little better too. I was at a light this morning.
Starting point is 00:26:31 I was not on my phone. I was just thinking, and the light turned from red to green. And I was just kind of drifting off, not sleeping, but just like lost. And the car behind me goes, did it. And I was like, oh, thank you very much. And I just, I draw.
Starting point is 00:26:45 One year ago, I'd have been like, Screw you! But the double tap, the double light tap, I think is starting to catch on. It's friendly. Yeah. It's not angry. It's like, I'm looking out for you tap. Instead of the, who?
Starting point is 00:26:57 Like, what are you doing, you idiot? Because I, and again, I was not on my phone. Yeah. They probably thought you were, though. And even so, they were looking out. They didn't go honk. And I know we've talked about it. Like, the double light tap is much different than the single hold horn.
Starting point is 00:27:12 I wish that cars gave us two versions of horns. Yeah, two buttons. Yeah, two. One is like to haunt, like if I had to hit somebody, like move out the way, about to have a wreck, you're an idiot, middle finger, all that, that's that one. Or the other one that's like, da-do-do-do-do. Like some sort of like joyous noise, but I definitely accepted that as, hey, I'm looking out for you, joyous noise.
Starting point is 00:27:30 That light has turned green. Feel free to go. And I did, and I think it's the first time ever and my gut wasn't like, don't think, sorry, you're stupid, don't. So I'd like to celebrate me for a second. Good for you, man. I'd like to celebrate. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:27:43 I'd like to celebrate. No, not them. Well, they did do the ones they did the double tap. Yeah, people are doing that forever and I didn't, I thought of it was mean. Okay. Yeah. So now I want to celebrate me because I, thank you, because I am. Good job.
Starting point is 00:27:55 Growth. I am having growth in that I can actually hear the difference and not just react. And so let that be a lesson to everybody. It's a big deal. If somebody tootutes you, that is a joyous noise. If I'm looking out for you, maybe you want to just proceed. If it had been a long honk, it is, yeah, out of, I'd have, I'd have, jose. in like 15 miles an hour.
Starting point is 00:28:16 Fighting words. Or just sat there for a little bit longer. How do you do the double tap? Do you punch it or do you actually push it twice? Because I kind of get a little, I got to hit it. Well, some horns are significant. So it's very hard to do the, if it's a significant, if you have to push hard on it. Because it could come across as honk.
Starting point is 00:28:33 Totally if you don't punch it. I do think, and let's just state this rule for all of our audience here. If you hear two horn honk, that is a joyous honk. A joyous like, I got your back honk. But they have to be quick. But sometimes they can't be that quick because the horn is so substantial. Right, that's where it's tricky though. But if you just hear two broken up, that eliminates any horn size.
Starting point is 00:28:52 Okay? Okay. That's the rule. Two, ha, ha, ha, even two. Uh-huh. That's, we got you, buddy. So no one can be mad and go, dun, dun, don't. No, because nobody does that.
Starting point is 00:29:01 If you're mad, you just go, uh. I've gotten a done, duh, followed by the middle finger. Oh, well, if it's followed by the middle finger, that is a different story. Yeah. Yes. According to a new study, people can feel empathy for robots, especially when they show signs of distress like sad sounds or trembling arms. Researchers had people shake a robot that made sad noises and people ended up feeling emotional distress because they were mistreating the robot. I felt this.
Starting point is 00:29:27 What do you mean? Well, I don't have a robot myself, but my ex-husband, he has one of those dog robots at his business, like their company. They have one of those big dogs. They can go in like if there's a bomb or war. they send the dog robot in. And it was at our house once. And I started to have feelings for it. Like I was, I get worried about it.
Starting point is 00:29:49 And like, I don't know what, like, I think about it sometimes still. Like, when it's at work, like, where are they sending it? And what is it doing? And what's going to happen to it? Because we relate it to a real dog, right? Yes. And it, like, makes little movements. And you just, you're like, oh, this is so cute.
Starting point is 00:30:04 And, yeah, so I feel that. And also, if I'm talking to AI or chat GBT, I say, please, and thank you and all that. It's because, again, we're related to the human version that we know. It's not because we're like we feel sad or mad at a computer program. It's because what it does, it makes us feel what we would feel if the thing that we loved and were around actually had that. Right.
Starting point is 00:30:25 In a related story, when I play Madden, if I have to, like, bench my quarterback, like, I feel bad. Or I have to cut it. I'm, like, I'm kidding. I'm like, I know we've spent two seasons together. Yeah, okay. But I got to cut you, buddy. And I know it's just a computer, but in my heart a little bit, I'm like, it feels like I'm actually cutting somebody from the team. Isn't that weird? And this is only going to get worse because we're
Starting point is 00:30:43 only going to be around more and more robots. It's weird because later, yeah. It's weird because we're saying a robot. But what it's not weird is that we actually have empathy for these human experiences and that's why they're making us feel this way because we've had so many human experiences that we feel this way. So look at it like that is that what's happening is these experiences we have in robot dogs, robot football players. We've had so many experience with humans and what it does is remind us to those and make us refill those again. More than it does,
Starting point is 00:31:11 ones and zeros. And we're like, I feel bad for this computer program. Okay. So, pet the doggy. Give it a treat. Well, I don't see it anymore. It's a service dog. Hey, what if you take a service dog like that?
Starting point is 00:31:20 One that wasn't real? I think it's technically called like a drone dog, but... It is weird. It is weird. It doesn't... I don't see it anymore. Black Mirror did a whole episode of those things. The dogs?
Starting point is 00:31:31 Yeah, it was awesome. Those things don't kill us all. But anyway, that everybody's here. Yeah, yeah. I'll give you one note of the song. You tell me the song. Give me a note, Ray. Let's say, I get it.
Starting point is 00:31:41 I got that one. That's right. That's way too easy. That's Mark Morrison, return of the Mac. I'm not going to play. I play yesterday and it was Carnage. That's the name of the man.
Starting point is 00:31:49 That's the name of the song. Yeah. Return of the Mac. What does it say Mac? Mac. Mac, like Mac Daddy, dude. That's cool. It's like me.
Starting point is 00:31:56 So, yes, and you, that is the appropriate timing for the words you still use. Yes. Okay, give me another one. Got it. That's Green Day time of your life. What?
Starting point is 00:32:04 Good riddins. Yeah, Green Day. Go ahead. Give me another one. A.C. Base, the sign. Oh, that's easy. Ice Ice, baby? Let's kick it.
Starting point is 00:32:13 Yeah. I put belt to your A. Belt to A. Yeah, that's what they say. No, I don't like that. That's what I did yesterday. I don't like that. I'll stay out of it.
Starting point is 00:32:20 You guys can play. We'll play it next. A win is a win. A win is a win. I don't care what you're saying. Yep, that's me. Clever Taylor the 4th. You might have seen the skits, the reactions,
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Starting point is 00:34:46 I'm not worried about Balagan. I'm not worried about McKinney. My only concern is what happens in the back. The biggest decisions. If you're going to look at stats and numbers, he has no shot at making this World Cup team. And the truth about the U.S. national team. It wouldn't be a huge surprise if our team ends up in the quarterfinals or potentially a great run into the semifinals. The World Cup is almost here.
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Starting point is 00:35:39 Nothing's off limits. We talk trade requests. What's the vibe of that when it's like your star players, like, well, I want to leave. And then actually now I'm going to stay. We talk tanking. I mean, honestly, like, I might get in trouble for this answer, but I think it's, like, definitely happening in the WBA.
Starting point is 00:35:56 And yeah, we talk about our mistakes, too. They pulled me to the side and was like, hey, man, we got a call last night, man. You can't be rolling around the city like this tonight before games, no, you know, doing this, doing whatever. And of course, family stories. And we're like, Mommy, why did you miss that? Do you play basketball?
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Starting point is 00:37:28 song from the 90s. Name that song. Ray, give me an example here. Okay, we know that one. That's... Hit me. Hit me more time. We're going to do five of these. Write your answer down. and you're just got to get the first note. Let's go. Come on. Go. Come on. That's a strong one.
Starting point is 00:37:52 I'm going to play it again. Here we go. I'm in. And. Is it too confident ends? Oh, yeah. Let's give it one more run here. I'm in for the win.
Starting point is 00:38:06 A confident are you lunchbox? 100%. What do you have? That is Gangsters Paradise, Culeo. Gangsters Paradise. By the way, you don't have to say the artist. But if you do say the artist and you're wrong, you miss it. And the movie was dangerous.
Starting point is 00:38:17 His minds. That's three extra ones. Okay. Gangsters Paradise. I'm in. Are you going back to it or are you really in? I'm in. Okay. I'm in. Again?
Starting point is 00:38:30 I'm in for the win. One more time? Lunchbox. Mombo number five. Good guess. Wrong. No, it's Lou Bega. Don't argue it.
Starting point is 00:38:46 Because that is wrong. I'm in a pretty good mood today. So I will not give a yellow card, but then I'm giving you a light yellow card. The next one will be a yellow card arguing the answer. A little Serena in my life. That is Lou Bega. That is not this single note though.
Starting point is 00:39:01 No, no, there's not actually. There wasn't Wimbledon. Amy? Well, I have living Lovina Loca. Eddie? Living La Vida Loca. That is correct. Okay.
Starting point is 00:39:12 We got cocky, man. You did. You? Then you almost got a yellow card. Yeah, but I didn't because I'm in a good mood today. Ray, next one. Oh, wow. What a note.
Starting point is 00:39:25 What? That's a heck of a note. I don't know that one. All right, here we go again. Wow, what a note. I can't even hear it. You heard the note. You heard it, what everybody else heard.
Starting point is 00:39:36 No, I didn't talk over it either. Unimas. Go ahead. What a note that is. But when you yell right after it and forget the note. It doesn't matter. I let the whole note happen. I think I'm in.
Starting point is 00:39:47 Hey, yellow card for Amy. Amy. One more time? No, we can only do it three. All right, give it a turn more time. What a note that is. Would you know that, bones? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:39:59 I just like yelling, what a note, immediately when it's over to throw all you guys off. But she gets angry, she doesn't know what she takes out on me. I'm not angry. I just, you're yelling right after it with a high note that this counters the note I just heard. Oh, the notes are counting each other. Oh, the juxtaposition of the note versus my yelling. Oh, I didn't realize that.
Starting point is 00:40:20 I'm sorry. Ray, do it one more time. That should be different. Yeah, that was like the same. It was perfect. What's funny is Amy knows it and she's going to be so. I really don't. You're going to be so irritated.
Starting point is 00:40:32 Yeah. Well, I know I know it, but I can't. You don't know. You don't know. I know you know it. I think I know the artist. I believe in you, but you're not, we won't get it. Okay.
Starting point is 00:40:42 Okay, man. Uh, Amy? No. Okay. Billy, I haven't. You didn't write anything? Yes, I did. Billy Jean.
Starting point is 00:40:48 You literally said, I don't know. I don't know that it's right. Okay. I think it's my question. Eddie? Barbie girl. Ooh. I hear that now.
Starting point is 00:40:56 You do? Lunchbox? Thunder rolls. That's lightning that you hear. Lightening. You think that's Garth Brooks' under rolls? Yeah. Bro, check your ears.
Starting point is 00:41:06 Okay, so. It did not go, that's not it. But I appreciate you being nice and really enjoying the game and having a gratitude. I didn't know. Amy, you said what? I said Billy Jean. Michael Jackson.
Starting point is 00:41:19 Yeah. Oh, okay, so you're thinking of like. Thriller. There is a note that's kind of like that. Yeah, thriller probably. You think it's Barbie Girl? Ray, play one more time? Oh, I'm a Barbie girl.
Starting point is 00:41:30 No. Hey, Barbie. That's share. Okay, here we go. Next one, one note, go. Simply get a little drum beat there. That's a very famous drum beat. Oh, I know that one.
Starting point is 00:41:46 Oh, dang it. What? It keeps slits. It's like there and then it slips away. Why are you so angry? I knock yourself. Go one more time. Oh, he gave you a note and a half on that one.
Starting point is 00:41:59 Wow. You got an extra beat. Hold on. Wow. Lunchbox, what? I know the song, man. No, you know. No chance.
Starting point is 00:42:05 Pull her headphones off and now she's lowered her head. She's singing to herself. Lunchbox is praying. I will bet a hundred. dollars at lunchbox as I have it. I can sing the song to you. He might can do that. Thunder rolls.
Starting point is 00:42:17 Boot, and buggy. All right, guys, we have five seconds. Okay, fine. I can't get there. I'm in, but I don't know if I have the name. Oh, really? Yeah. Then you probably don't know it.
Starting point is 00:42:29 Oh, I know it. If you don't have the name, I don't think you would know it. I have a name. I just don't know if it's the name. I don't know. Okay. Lunchbox's your answer? How do I get back there?
Starting point is 00:42:40 That's wrong. I should have bet $100. That's the song. Amy, it is. Is it if you want to buy me flowers? You're thinking of like two princes? Is it, is it? Is it a whiskey drink and the vodka drink?
Starting point is 00:42:52 No, that's Chambalamba. Okay, those two songs. No more. I'm not guessing. I don't have anything. Muchfuck, will you sing yours? Because you may be there, but you sing it's... How do I get back there?
Starting point is 00:43:01 He's not in. Oh, yes, he's there. He's so off, but I think he has it in his own life. How do I get back there? Yes. He's there. Eddie, what do you have? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:10 semi-charmed life. That's correct. And the Simchurched. That is Spend Doctors. But he does say semi-charm kind of life, right? But it's called Simi-Charmed kind of life. See, that's where I got confused. Okay, next one up.
Starting point is 00:43:24 You guys are dead. It's over. I'm in. Hollywood Hogan comes out again. Not Hollywood Hogan comes out again. Is he dark-haired? No, still one. His beard was dark.
Starting point is 00:43:35 Oh, okay. Just the beard. Yeah. Because they have a lot of hair. He's bald on top. topics. Yeah. One more time.
Starting point is 00:43:47 First note. I'm in. I'm in for the win. I think lunchbox will get this one. Possibly. Lunchbox? Closing time. No.
Starting point is 00:43:55 No. That sounds like it. Would you have bet money on that one? No. Oh. You were pretty confident. Yeah, yeah. I felt it.
Starting point is 00:44:02 Your confidence was that you were just going to lose. And I felt pretty good, but I wouldn't have bet money. But I felt like it was, you got to go home. It's closing time. Time for you to go out in the world. Champagne Supernova. So close. What?
Starting point is 00:44:16 No. Does it go, does it start with? I said maybe. May. Oh. Is that not championship? That's not how it starts. Eddie?
Starting point is 00:44:25 It's Wonderwall. You're right. Amy. That's the chorus of it. Yeah. Hollywood Hogan once again. Man, just like that? Just like that?
Starting point is 00:44:33 I do believe, though. Wait, what? What? Whenever you talk garbage yesterday, I came in and I whooped your butt at this game. Yeah, but you're not playing. So I can be Hollywood Hogan. Now, if you're playing, I get tucked away because I get humbled. I said, maybe.
Starting point is 00:44:44 Okay. Just make it. Sure. Be humble. Eddie's our winner. It's time for the good news. With Bobby. Tell me something good. A dentist in Pennsylvania provided free dental care to 25 veterans.
Starting point is 00:44:57 Over $10,000 in services for free. And all she said was, we're having this event. And so they offered veterans and their families any essential treatment like cleaning or fillings or extractions. And her name is Dr. Dina Neufer. She's practiced dentistry for over 30 years. And she just wants to give back to the veteran community. And so again, she was like, I'm here, make your appointment.
Starting point is 00:45:20 And anything we can get done during this event, it will all be for free. And I think that is awesome. And that's from News Nation now. And a big shout out to Dr. Dina Newfer. Because it's a dentist, I just don't have good thoughts. I have a great dentist. And even then I'm like, this is going to hurt. But I do think it's going to hurt less because I have a great dentist,
Starting point is 00:45:36 but I don't ever think like this is going to feel good. Right. So a big shout out to Dr. Dina. That's what it's all about. That was Tell Me Something Good. Let's figure out Amy's morning, Corny. We have 90 seconds to get as many as we can. Ready, let's go.
Starting point is 00:45:53 The morning corny. What do you call a pumpkin that lifts weights? A gourd. Body gourder. Gord it. Body builder. Pumpkin that lift a pumpkin patch. Pumpkin seeds. Pumpkin. Pumpkin. Pumpkin. Pumpkin.
Starting point is 00:46:11 Buffkin. Oh, that's good. That's good. That's good. That's good. What do you call a pumpkin? Pumpkin. Pumpkin patch. Pumpkin.
Starting point is 00:46:19 A pumpkin. Pumpkin. Jackto. Jackto lantern. Yes. Jackto lantern. Okay. Good.
Starting point is 00:46:26 What do you call it when the cranberry sauce is missing? Cranberry sauce. It's missing. Cranberries. Invest the gravy. Berry. Very, very confusing. Kidnap.
Starting point is 00:46:39 Kidnapped. It's a cranberry. It's a cranberry. Cran Cran alert Cran napping Cran Cran investigation
Starting point is 00:46:50 Mm-hmm Can you read the investigation? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. What do you call it when the cranberry sauce is missing? Cranberry sauce? Are we looking for sauce or cranberry? Cranberry sauce is missing. Cranberry sauce.
Starting point is 00:47:04 It's a berry. When is it? The berry's gone. Barry, very sad because you want something. Berry side. Empty cran. Barry, very, very, very, very, very confusing. Is it, are we doing Barry for?
Starting point is 00:47:16 Yeah, I mean, I think y'all are getting it. Are we doing Barry for very? Is that like, is the, yeah, like it's like, very sad. Is that it? I mean, that could work. What is it? We'll take it in a job. We'll see later if we should get it.
Starting point is 00:47:27 Next one. Okay. Okay. Sorry, guys, you're out of time. See, we don't like taking it, but if very and very is it. You can take it because it could work. It's like, it's, what is it? Everybody needs to have that at Thanksgiving, so it's missing.
Starting point is 00:47:39 It's a very big problem. We should get that because the berry was the joke in the very. You'd be like it's very sad. We still only got two. Barry big problem. Yeah, cranberry sauce is missing is a berry big problem. Yeah. We'll take two.
Starting point is 00:47:53 It's very sad. Or it's a berry terrible joke. What? Do you get your life lock report? I did. Every month I get my email, which has my, like, status update from them and everything they they protected me from. Not a commercial, by the way, not a commercial.
Starting point is 00:48:08 No. They do the thing where they're like, they saved you from like whatever. Yeah, well, they said that they searched five different, 500 different categories and topics and like scams, I guess, to protect me. And I was good to go. And I was like, well, look at them looking out for me because they scour it and handle it all and that protects me. And then right after I got that, I got a text message from the post office. And I was like, oh. And it was a scam. The link, but it was definitely a scam. But also I was reminded. Scam alerts. I was reminded in my email, or from LifeLock, that like, hey, they got my back if I had problems. And I was like, well, I'm not clicking this link, but now I know. We're a big LifeLock show. They're a big sponsor.
Starting point is 00:48:52 This is not a sponsored segment or anything. But what I want to bring up to you guys is, and this is from Mike, if you guys send Mike one of these scam alerts and you, like a text or an email that you have that's like, this was the problem. them this was the, if you send them the entire thing, it comes off. Tell them what happens. Yeah, you get marked a spam and it won't send the email. You're marked to spam in his folder. Oh. So you can say I have one and it's about this, but don't send the whole thing because. Oh. Yeah, don't send bad links. It's like, hey, this is a bad link. Amy did not send the link. She was like, here's the whole thing. No, I did. Oh, you did? Yes, I did. Oh, don't send this to link to. I know. Can you imagine we've, we've clicked Amy's link.
Starting point is 00:49:28 I know, like, I was also updating Mike. I'm like, hey, you know, by 500 different categories and there was no threat to my identity. I was like, but get this. I did get this text today. Here's one. And then I copied and pasted the text and I sent it to Mike to show him. So Mike, you said you took off the link because Amy sent the link. Yeah. I know. I got an email back and it said your email has been denied to Mike D. Like it wouldn't send. And so then I went in and deleted the link and then he got it. So if Amy does that, is she the scammer? Amy almost scammed all of us. She's trying to scam me. No, Mike texts me. He goes, please don't include those links. Dang. I was like, Ouch, Mikey.
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Starting point is 00:50:14 I'm telling you, it's awesome. Lifelock, we're big life lockers here. I'm a paying customer. Okay. The anonymous inbox is next. You really are. Yes, I really am. I should get that for free, though, if I'm being honest.
Starting point is 00:50:24 My bad. That's all me. This is a great situational story. Husbands and wives. Listen to this. Amy, you can tell it. And let's see how the room feels. Let's see how our listeners feel.
Starting point is 00:50:35 Go ahead. Okay, so we all have a friend. It's a real person, by the way. Yeah, that we all know. Yes. And I think he said, he's like, hey, you can be a therapist here on this situation. He's like, tell me what you think. So I guess he was maybe leaving your house, Bobby, or something.
Starting point is 00:50:49 And he was on his way home. And he called check in with the fam. Like, hey, do you all need anything? And the answer was, no, we're good. Well, then he decided to grab something. than to eat because he was hungry. It's a little bit of a longer drive. 45 minute drive from my house.
Starting point is 00:51:06 Yeah. So then when he got home, he had eaten. And then I guess the situation with his wife was, well, wait, why didn't you call to see if I wanted anything? He goes, I did call. I said, is there anything y'all need? And then just, well, you didn't say that specifically until he's like, oh, this is just so confusing. Because at the time when he said, is there anything y'all need, he didn't know he was going to stop. I said, well, I guess when you stop to get food, you should call back and said, hey, I decided to stop.
Starting point is 00:51:34 Would y'all like anything? And so I think he's just like, God, this whole dilemma of like, what did I do wrong? Because, you know, the wife was a little bit annoyed. And he's like, but I called to say, is there anything you need? Here's the question. Should the wife, the first question, should the wife have been annoyed? Should the wife could, yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:51:55 Am I saying the right? Yeah, yeah. Should she have been annoyed that he did not bring her any food when he called? called her to say, is there anything you need? Amy, just the wife here. Should she have been annoyed? Yes, she should be annoyed. Okay. Why? Because she probably was cooking dinner and had this whole thing. And he didn't say, that's a great point. He didn't say anything about food. He probably meant like, you know. What, Home Depot? Yeah, like, or you need something from the grocery store, whatever. When he said that, and that's what she assumed. So she's like, no, we're good.
Starting point is 00:52:25 She's probably in her mind. She's like, I got it covered. I got dinner on the stove. We're good. We're you're ready to eat when you get here instead when he shows up at home he's eaten i think that is a valid reason for me to feel slightly different than i feel okay good um because the food thing but if he says hey do you need anything if she were cooking dinner though like if i if i call my wife and i were like hey i'm about to head home do you need anything she would let me know that she's cooking dinner not to get food no i just know that she because she would know need anything that could mean i'm probably going to stop and get food or something now i do think when he decided specifically he going to get food. He could have called her and say, hey, I'm actually stopping by Chipoli.
Starting point is 00:53:03 Do you want any things? But I don't think he did anything wrong. And I don't think she should be upset because he did call her. Yeah, I don't think either one of them is in the wrong. I think that just both of them, I guess, based on what you're saying and then how I feel about it is they could have just communicated better. Like she could have been more clear. Like, no, I don't need anything because I have dinner on the stove. We're good. We're waiting for you. Can't wait to see you. And then when he decided to stop at wherever Chipotle, he should have said, hey, I decided to pull over and grab Chipotle, want anything, or should I not eat because you're cooking dinner? That's just a lot.
Starting point is 00:53:35 I feel like he's not in the wrong. I feel like he's not the wrong. I feel like they have learned from this experience. But if she was cooking dinner and that wasn't the standard and it wasn't an expectation, because it sounds like it wasn't, the expectation that she had dinner that was cooking dinner at the house of the time, then it's kind of on her to let him know that that's what's happening. I don't think so, but okay. I feel like that's a quick call.
Starting point is 00:54:02 Like if you're like, you know, she's like juggling a lot of different things. If he calls it, you need anything. And she's like, no, we're good. And they hang up. But if she's cooking dinner and it's normally not dinner time and that's not the general expectation of when dinner is. It was dinner. No, but if it was what was standard. He stopped to eat dinner, Bobby.
Starting point is 00:54:20 But he would have known that if he was used to her making dinner at that time on that day. Okay, okay. I don't think that he's wrong. Me neither. He should have called back, though. I can say if he's, I'll give you that. He could have called back and say, hey, by the way, I'm going to stop and get food. Specifically, do you want any food?
Starting point is 00:54:38 But I do not feel like there should be any anger at him at all. Yeah. Because he did a call. Listen, if you were me, I probably just got some to eat and then lied and act like I wasn't full. I got home. I was like, oh, crap. And you eat again? Yeah, and I should eat again.
Starting point is 00:54:48 And like, slowly give a little bit to the dogs and do that trick. Right. So what do we learn from this? Just some more details. The more details, the better. I can agree with that. Now, what if he decides in the middle of the trip home that he's going to get something to eat? And he didn't mean that at first.
Starting point is 00:55:01 He was like, do you need anything? He's like, you know, I should probably get somebody to eat because I don't know that she's going. Then revisit the conversation. Maybe she should let him know that she has dinner going. Yeah, but I could see getting that phone call and just be like, no, we're good. I'll see you when you get home and hanging up. Not giving every detail. And dinner.
Starting point is 00:55:18 But he didn't call about food. He said, do you need anything? I know. But she also didn't say that she was cooking dinner. I don't know. I just, I don't know. By the way, it's not Amy or I. No, no, no, no.
Starting point is 00:55:29 But we're fighting for people we know right now. As you can tell, we're locked into people we know. Yeah, and you're for him and I'm for her, clearly. No, I'm for the greater good. And justice. For the marriage. Yes, for the marriage. We're for all relationships.
Starting point is 00:55:42 So in a nutshell, just walk away from this little conversation here with like, hey, just share little details. If you're, he was a bit generic and when he decided to stop for food, he should have given him ads. I can give you that. Clear as kind. But she should have also explained. Hey, I'm cooking dinner, by the way.
Starting point is 00:55:56 I know we don't normally on Sunday nights have dinner at this time. I don't usually cook dinner, but I'm going to cook dinner. They both could have done that. But I give a judgment to him. Cool. Got it. Thank you. And you give the judgment to her. Obviously.
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