The Bobby Bones Show - Wed Part 2: Lunchbox Harasses Celeb at Shop + Eddie's Parking Spot Drama

Episode Date: June 5, 2024

Find out the celebrity Lunchbox saw leaving a coffee shop that he harassed! Plus, Eddie shares why he's frustrated over a paid parking spot at the grocery store. Then, we talk to Bill Eddy, the author... of Our New World of Adult Bullies, about how to handle adult bullies, how Lunchbox acts on the show and more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:01:58 Hey guys, Bobby here. Yesterday we changed a bit of the format of the podcast. so you're not hearing duplicates. So if you missed it, we would do the early bird, which is like the first half of the show, we'd get up as quick as we could. And then we post the whole feed. But I hit it because we're putting up duplicate content.
Starting point is 00:02:14 So now we're going to try this. We post the first half of the show, and then we post the second half of the show. And we try to label it very clearly so you can see that. But let me know in DMs on Instagram. You can send me a tweet as well, however. But DMs on Instagram would be good. And just let me know how you feel about the new format.
Starting point is 00:02:32 If you like it like it like that or you like it with the wiffle ball bat. Can you guys name that? No. Beastie Boys. Come on. Oh. Paul Revere. That's it. Enjoy the podcast.
Starting point is 00:02:44 Hopefully. Give me the feedback. We appreciate that. And here you go. We're trying out a new segment called, what is this crap? And this is Eddie's idea. Yeah. So you lead us.
Starting point is 00:02:54 And if we like it, we'll all jump in tomorrow the next day. Okay, okay. You want me to describe the segment? Yeah. Okay. This is a segment where you see something in the world or something that just, gets your mind thinking like what is this crap like why does this even exist that's how you say it what is this crap okay here's Eddie with the pilot episode of what is this crap so it's at the
Starting point is 00:03:12 grocery store right and I'm looking for a parking spot and I'm like oh I see one up in the front oh there's handicap and then there's an empty one right next to it cool I get in there there's a sign that says pay for parking you can just scan the thing on the sign and if you can pay for parking that's close to the store I'm like what so it's handicapped to go parking like pick up grocery pickup parking, then pay for parking. And so if I want free parking at the grocery store, I have to park at least 10 spaces away from the grocery store. Or I can pay for VIP parking. What is this crap? I like this crap. Yeah, what do you think? What do you think? I like the segment. Now we have some thoughts on this, but I like to segment. What is this crap?
Starting point is 00:03:52 Go ahead, Amy. Well, I just have never seen anything like this in my life. I don't understand how they can do that. That's what I said. Well, they own the parking lot. They can do whatever they want. Make a little extra money on VIP parking. That's crazy, dude. So you don't like it? I hate it. I mean, I already have to park behind handicapped. Well, and maybe, you're able-bodied.
Starting point is 00:04:11 My foot's broken. So I think... Oh, that's true. Right now it's what it's broken. Maybe now I kind of like a little sensitive to this. It's not broken. It is, didn't it? Didn't we determine it's like sprained?
Starting point is 00:04:19 It's a fracture. It's a tiny fracture. Okay. Well, whoa, whoa, don't use the word tiny? Okay, go ahead. Fracture is a fracture. Okay, okay. What is this crap?
Starting point is 00:04:28 Yeah. I think I would like it Because if I were in a hurry I could just pay a buck and a half And go off real quick And bloop parking that spot You're in a hurry you have to take a time To take, do the QR code
Starting point is 00:04:38 Then enter your stuff That doesn't It's faster to just walk to space And who's gonna give you a ticket I didn't get the details It could be an app really Where you just prepay And you're just like, whoop, park there?
Starting point is 00:04:47 What is this crap? What is this crap? So if you guys have one tomorrow Bring it on in. Okay You all like it? I like what is this crap That's what is this crap.
Starting point is 00:04:55 What is this crap? A juror in a fraud case was dismissed yesterday. Listen to this. The juror is on the trial watching. Somebody shows up at the juror's house with a bag with $120,000 in cash and drops it off. It says there's more where that came from
Starting point is 00:05:14 if you could vote to acquit seven people charge of ceiling. Whoa. Why would you say anything? Well, you probably don't want to go to jail. Because if they find out, you're done. I mean, either way, I feel like you're dead. Wow. Yeah, I mean, now you're dead.
Starting point is 00:05:26 Because they know who you are? They know where you live? if they know everything about you. You got to, your whole life has to change. I don't know that everything is the cartel, but these guys sound like it. Dude, you show up with $120,000 in cash. That is cartel like, at least like. What do they call it? They need to enter Wittco or Witt. Yeah, witness protection. A juror was dismissed Monday after reporting that a woman dropped a bag of cash, $120,000 and said, there's more if you'll vote to acquit seven people charged with sealing more than 40 million from a program meant to feed children in the pandemic.
Starting point is 00:06:02 But 120 is so little compared to the 40 million. So that's why I don't know that it has to be cartel. Somebody got with a lot of money. That was a down payment. Taxes. These seven of the first 70 defendants expected to go to trial on a conspiracy that cost taxpayer $250 million and taxpayer dollars. Prosecutors say just a fraction of the money went to feed the kids while the rest
Starting point is 00:06:23 was spent on luxury cars, jewelry, travel, and property. Imagine you get that bag of money. Do you think about it? Heck, yeah, I think about it just moving out. You take the money and go. Yeah. Think about having to change your whole life, though. Like the witness relocation, that would be terrible.
Starting point is 00:06:37 Oh, that sounds fun. You get to change everything about you. I would turn into... Your family can't know where you are. Maybe they go with you. That's changed their names. Everything has to change. Yeah, that's cool.
Starting point is 00:06:45 No, that's not cool. This would be my shot to move to, like, Paris or something. I don't think they move there. What do you think you're going to do with this new life? Have you ever seen Emily in Paris? That's what it's about? This is a new life there. No, but I mean she just goes over there and lives this like really fun life.
Starting point is 00:07:02 Like it's great. Hey, what do you think though like is the there's more where this came from? Like what, okay, you already vote no. So what else is there to do? Like, okay, there's more money, but what else do I have to do to get more money? Right, because you vote no. And guess what? They don't give you the money that you can't do anything about it.
Starting point is 00:07:17 Right. You got to pay it all up front or else. Because they throw that in there like, hey, little incentive. There's more where that came from. But I don't know if I would take this. I can't expect any more from that. I mean, just like that. Well, they kind of have you, too, if you are bribed, then they have that on you.
Starting point is 00:07:32 But then you also have that on them. Honor Amongstieves? Have heard that? I've heard that before. I wouldn't do it. I would be scared. You're, I'd be scared. Terrified.
Starting point is 00:07:41 I'm going to go to Amy first. So Lunchbox went screaming after a celebrity in the wild yesterday. Yeah. Are we saying who the celebrity is yet? Maybe not yet. Okay. It was embarrassing to you? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:07:51 I feel like embarrassing for everybody at the table. I definitely turned away and, like, something. in my seat. Like, I don't want to be here right now. This is uncomfortable. I was there. Eddie Lunchbox, Scuba Steve, and then three of our executives. So you guys went to lunch. Yes.
Starting point is 00:08:09 We'd walk down the street. Oh, dude, it was so embarrassing. No, no, no. I mean, it was the thing where at the table, we're all, lunches running down the street with his phone like he does, where he chase his celebrity, filming them. Put his hands on his shoulder. Let me back up. He grabbed the celebrity? Grab the celebrity. Also, we can back up
Starting point is 00:08:24 and say, Lunchbox forgot his phone. He didn't bring lunch so he had to borrow scozy give me your phone give me your phone and then he takes his phone and chases and this this celebrity is coming out of the coffee shop holding three cups of coffee that could be easily startled and drop them and I was just mortified like I kept thinking worst case
Starting point is 00:08:43 scenario and it was awkward was it a celebrity that we know well and they would take it like oh that's just lunchbox like Jaco no no no no no oh it was not a chance no no no no I want to go over to lunchbox now here his side of the story because I knew a bit about it it, but he didn't pitch it like this.
Starting point is 00:08:58 Lunchbox, tell me your version. So I saw this celebrity walk into the coffee shop and we were sitting out on the patio and I was like, Eddie, give me your phone. Give me your phone. I need it. And he goes, I'm having a problem with storage, man. I wouldn't want to give you my phone either. And I'm like, scuba. Give me your phone. Give me your phone. He goes,
Starting point is 00:09:16 we don't even know it's him. And Eddie goes, it's really him. And he goes, okay, he gives me the phone. He goes, this is going to be so bad. And I just sat there and waited and waited. And I had the camera open, open. It took like 15 minutes for him to get out of the coffee shop. I even went in to check on him because I wanted to make sure he was still coming out. He didn't go out of back exit, climb out a window, whatever. And he walked out, had three cups of coffee and a bag of food.
Starting point is 00:09:39 And that's when I pounced. So the celebrity is Chris Daughtry. And he sings songs like, It's Not Over. A bunch of rock hits was way back in the day on American Idol, but it's really forged a career as a big-time rock guy. And he looked like a hardcore rock. like a guy you don't want to go up to. I know him a little bit.
Starting point is 00:09:57 I know, but what I'm saying is he just, his vibe was not come up to me. It wasn't. Ask me what I'm drinking. Because that's what lunchbox did. What are your drinks? And I like Chris. I've got to know him a little bit.
Starting point is 00:10:09 I like Chris a lot. I saw him in my allergy. Really? Really? The other point at the other day. Aw. Yeah, sure did. That's crazy.
Starting point is 00:10:15 I was going to get my allergy shots and he was outside the building. I was like, what up, buddy. Okay. So we have some audio. Yeah, he had like a tank top on. He had a beanie, sunglasses. it wasn't like he was in the mood to talk. He wasn't looking for any, like, friends or anything.
Starting point is 00:10:28 But when you see a celebrity in the wild, got to go get it. I would like to say before you play the clips, lunchbox brings up a good point that he was inside the coffee shop for a long time and lunchbox was eagerly waiting. Well, this wasn't just a lunch for fun. This was a business movie for us. And we had executives in town speaking to us,
Starting point is 00:10:49 but for 15 minutes, lunchbox was like a kid and a kiddies were waiting. He wasn't listening. He was so ill. No, no, no. There's a lot of, uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh, while he's looking over his shoulder. Here is lunchbox running out and basically assaulting Chris Dottry. Here you go.
Starting point is 00:11:04 There's Dutry. Look, Dottry just walking down the street in Nashville. What's up, my man? Hey, what kind of, what did you get to drink? I don't know. Do I need to name all three of them? No, what does Dutry get when he goes to the coffee shop? Who are you?
Starting point is 00:11:16 I'm lunchbox. Bobby Bowen Show. What's up? Hens hanging out with celebs right here. Oh, yeah. Do you drink coffee or is it just for the people in the office? I do. I drink almond drink all three of these.
Starting point is 00:11:25 All right. What is your go-to coffee? Just so America gets to know you a little bit better. You know what? Usually it's a cold brew, but today I'm going with the almond milk latte here. Okay. I've got oat milk latte and a cold brew for my producers. I'm getting coffee for my producer.
Starting point is 00:11:41 See, that's how Doctry does it. That's what I'm saying. Hey, Doctrie, thank you for letting me for harass you on the street. Celeves, hanging with celebs. Me and Dodgers. That's what I do, people. I just harass people all the time. Me and Daughtry.
Starting point is 00:11:52 And I was supposed to be in a lot. meeting but yeah see later guys download go go check out with new music go go go all right bye good to see you man don't get hit this is very nice very nice very nice my favorite part of that is who are you my least favorite part of it says my name in it
Starting point is 00:12:07 oh yeah bobby bone show you should just say your name and let that live you know you're still famous I know celebs hanging out with celebs as you say that's right and he said I scared the blank out of them yeah that made me cringe in my heart a little bit no the video the video doesn't look as bad and bunch so you get a visual like
Starting point is 00:12:23 Dautry was trying to cross the street, right? And like it just, the light was red. So he had nowhere to go. He was just stuck. You can have opinions. You can have like a strong stance. And then there's your body having its own program. I'm Dr. Maya Shunker, a cognitive scientist and hosts of the podcast, a slight change of
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Starting point is 00:15:00 is pull out what you already got inside. We're there to support and celebrate each other. And that's not like your story versus my story. You're going to walk up and over that dang mountain. You're not just going to put your mind over it. Yep. Yep, exactly. And if I can't walk up and over it, I'm going to go through it. Listen to Mind Over Mountain every Thursday on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. All right, let's do the news. Here we go. Bobby's big. Stories. Two cops win $1.2 million in the lottery,
Starting point is 00:15:32 but they will not quit their job because they want to set an example for their kids. Boy, they ain't going to take any crap, though. I'll tell you that. If you're really rich and your boss is like a jerk, you're taking about 0% crap. Yeah, that's called Screw You money. I have Screw You money. So screw you, I ain't taking it. How much do they win?
Starting point is 00:15:49 1.2 million. It's enough to have a bit of Screw You money, for sure. They won the lottery. No plans to quit. their jobs. They want to teach the importance of having a strong work ethic to their children. They are a couple and they are married, but they won this. They both have police jobs, though. And so they're going to buy a new house, a new puppy, and a trip to Disneyland. Oh, that's awesome.
Starting point is 00:16:10 And Yahoo. Lunchbox, $1.2 million. Do you quit this job? No, it's not enough to live off of. I don't think. After you've told me about taxes. It would be enough to live off of, yes. Would it be enough for you to comfortably retire? Probably close. But not the way he wants to live. Right. The way I talk about it, like I want to thrive. I want to just be flaunt, my wealth.
Starting point is 00:16:32 In retirement or winning the lottery? Well, when I win the lottery. I don't think you're doing either. I'm being honest. Both. That's what I'm saying. Like, if I'm going to retire, I want to be able to flaunt. I want to be able to walk around and not worry about anything.
Starting point is 00:16:44 From NBC News, a seemingly ordinary accessory took on life-saving powers during a shooting in Colorado where a guy got shot but his necklace. his silver necklace, stop the bullet. The necklace then became kind of lodged into his body, but they were able to pull it out, and he's fine. It was like a shield. He just had a puncture injury instead of the bullet going into him.
Starting point is 00:17:07 That's awesome. Like, that's some lucky stuff. That's when you go buy that lottery ticket that we just talked about. That is from NBC News. The PIRP was quickly arrested at the scene and now faces attempted homicide charges. You've got to think, if you're looking at the shooter, you're like, how unlucky was that?
Starting point is 00:17:21 Of everywhere I shot him? I shot him right in his necklace Instagram is testing forcing people to watch advertisements This is from BBC YouTube does this to us a bit It's the most miserable 15 seconds of my life When I have to sit there and watch some out
Starting point is 00:17:36 Wow miserable It's terrible I'm like oh It's like somebody's pulling a tooth or something Like I divert my eyes from the screen Because I don't want to be forced to watch an ad Instagram is testing advertisements that users cannot skip past The social media platform currently allows people to swipe
Starting point is 00:17:50 or scroll past, but now it's called ad break, images, shared online, show a timer, just like YouTube does, where it's like you cannot skip past this. Now you can. I really feel like I've let myself down if I don't skip past the ad and it gives me the option. Because sometimes I'll just be there and I'll just let it keep going and I could have already pushed. I just force myself to watch 15 more seconds of that. You ever get the option where it's like pick your ad? Do you want this one, this one or that one? I used to.
Starting point is 00:18:19 And it's like, oh, I didn't know my rival. That's like pick and poison. I spent like 10 seconds like, well, which one do I want? No. That's funny. So sometimes you may need to view an ad before you can keep browsing. Instagram has confirmed that there is a trial underway in certain parts of the world. A study carried out by TikTok suggested forcing viewers to watch advertisements might actually lead to less engagement.
Starting point is 00:18:39 Yes. No crap. That's the problem for everybody. Hey, here's some other research. People don't love commercials. Like, we have commercials. We don't get to stay on if there aren't commercials and people listen and hopefully they buy stuff. It supports us. But I'm not acting like
Starting point is 00:18:52 it's the most fun part of the morning. And I don't want to watch them on YouTube. But I sometimes like commercials because they work. I'm like, oh, I should try that. Whatever it is. If they're targeted, I'm in. Yeah, because I think, wow, this is so perfect for me, actually, and click buy. YouTube, though, it's always like a
Starting point is 00:19:10 Roomba or something. And I ain't buy no Roomba. That's not targeted. That's just a company who bought an ad for a person my age. All my YouTube is better help. A man wins 100. Yeah, let's you should. They know you. A man wins $110,000 on a lottery prize while he's on vacation. He's the second one.
Starting point is 00:19:28 He's on vacation, didn't want to miss any of the drawing, so he bought a multi-draw ticket while on vacation, he hit $110,000. Dang. That's from UPI. What if, like, your wife's on vacation lunchbox and you hit, or if you're away and you hit, do you tell her? Is there any world you live in where you don't tell her if you're not with her that you hit and have some cash? It depends on how much.
Starting point is 00:19:50 $110,000. And you're away. It's a work trip. You hit a scratch off. You guys do not share accounts. Right. So I would tell her because I'd just be like, look, I got this money. What up?
Starting point is 00:20:02 And she wouldn't be like, well, why don't you buy a new car or like advise you on things to buy that you're probably? She probably would be like, all right, so you can upgrade your car? Are you going to do this? Are you going to pay off that? Nah, we're good. Take a vacay. My question is, you can upgrade your car or pay it off.
Starting point is 00:20:16 Oh, my car's paid off. Okay, or sell it? I mean, I don't know how much I can get for it. If you were to start at 10 times, how many times will it actually get you to where you're going? Probably three. Oh, that's terrible. Yeah, I know. That's a good batting average, Joe.
Starting point is 00:20:29 Hall of Fame. Yeah, that makes it. All right, that's the news. Those were Bobby's big. Stories. I have a story coming up in a minute of a woman who claims to be the girl who vanished 39 years ago. Those are always wild. She's like, this is me.
Starting point is 00:20:45 We'll talk about that in a minute. A lot of concerts are being canceled, like Jennifer Lopez, Bad Bunny, Black Keys. They've canceled a bunch of dates. J-Lo canceled the entire tour. It's basically, they're not selling tickets, and it's not a shot at them directly, but there's so many shows. And after the pandemic, everybody went full force. And there was a show every night somewhere.
Starting point is 00:21:08 And so people are like, I can't go to this many concerts. And a little bit, too, it's people playing venues a little bigger than they probably needed to. Maybe they were able to do that five, seven years ago. But because there's a bit of concert fatigue happening. I made an assumption that J-Lo was about her personal life. No, she was already struggling. That
Starting point is 00:21:28 was the rumor with ticket sales. And then she came out and was like, I'm going to take some time for myself. There's issues with her and Ben. She's with Ben Affleck? Yes. Allegedly. Yeah, but it was definitely a ticket sales type thing. That's what I would say too. I'd be like, I've got
Starting point is 00:21:45 to go spend more time with my kids. You don't have to get Oh, crap. A terrible excuse there I did there. Call us if you want. 877, 77 Bobby. They put out the most laid back cities in America. At the top of the list in laid back cities is Minneapolis. Let's go there then.
Starting point is 00:22:02 I don't know. That mall, I get anxious in that mall. Mall of America. It's massive. I like it, but it's so big. I feel like I'm not going to be able to see it all. Is that the one that has a roller coaster in it? They have all theme park in there.
Starting point is 00:22:13 That's cool. Highly overrated. The roller coaster, or the mall. The mall. Yeah, I think it is the biggest mall in America, maybe the world. However, the theme park's a little dated. And it was the greatest mall ever 10 years ago.
Starting point is 00:22:30 So I think it's still the biggest. But yeah, maybe a little bit. If you're going, expecting some, you know, AI shopping experience where you get on a treadmill, it takes to it tells you what you want. That's definitely not it. Madison, Wisconsin is at number two, Irvine, California. Boulder, Colorado, and Portland, Oregon at 4 and 5. I feel like Boulder in Portland, we know why that's laid back.
Starting point is 00:22:51 Uh-huh. Got an idea. You know what I mean? I know why. There's a Facebook group, and Janice McKinney is a member of the group, but it's about her daughter who disappeared in 1985. And the whole Facebook group is called Memories of Cherry Mayhan. Now, again, her mom is a member of that group. Probably was one of the people who started it.
Starting point is 00:23:13 There's somebody who popped up in the group, and it's like, I'm her. I know I disappeared 39. years ago, but I'm her. What? I don't know if I believe it. How do it? It's the fourth person, too, to come out and say that they're her, which is also weird, people claiming to be this girl.
Starting point is 00:23:25 That's not funny. It's, no, it's not funny at all, but it's somebody looking for attention, right? And it could be somebody who's sad and just needs any sort of attention acknowledgement. So this person popped up in the group and claims to be cherry. She was the first person ever featured on the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's Have You Seen Me campaign. She was last thing getting out of her school bus in Pennsylvania. February 22nd, 1985.
Starting point is 00:23:52 $5,000 cash reward still remains available. Let's say you are her and you come back. Do you get the $5 grand if you turn yourself in? I'm her. I don't think so. I'm her and that's what makes you come out. You're like, man, I sure would like pay the bills. I've been on the run or like I changed my identity.
Starting point is 00:24:08 I'm sure would like $5,000. Do you get the money? That is a good question, but I think the answer is no. I think if you push, you probably would get the money. Because like if there's a reward to turn in somebody that's done something that, like, if you know who stole this, or if you go, if you show up and be like, I stole it. Do you get there? But you go to jail. That's a crime.
Starting point is 00:24:26 Okay. This isn't really a crime. Or I would say I go to my buddy and be like, hey, go say I'm the person and I'll give you 10%. That's nice. Maybe that's why people have claimed. For five grand, though. That's awfully me. Who's paying that?
Starting point is 00:24:38 Her parents, though? Like, who pays the $5. I'm sure it's a personal friend or group or church or something. And does it get interest Because it's been sitting around for how many years It hasn't been sitting around It's somebody saying they will pay it if it happens Oh, got it
Starting point is 00:24:51 Yeah, so they didn't put it interest Yeah Like did they put it in an account is what I'm saying So it grew so now it could be Like when you buy a house and you put it in that account Escrow That's what's called The money just stays over there until it's done
Starting point is 00:25:02 You know, I think about my funeral sometimes That's weird Not really I think about I want everybody to be really sad like next level and not so much because
Starting point is 00:25:16 they're sad but because I want to have meant so much that they can't even like function you got to pick people up off the floor we're all weeping and tears like that's what I'm looking forward to right I need all of you think about you're looking forward to this well because I want to have made such an impact
Starting point is 00:25:34 that people can't even I want everybody thinking I don't think I can go on without them I want the whole funeral be like everybody's like talking about I don't think we can go on we should okay But I don't want them to. I just want them to think about it because they're so sad. Right.
Starting point is 00:25:47 So that's my version of like a perfect funeral for me. Okay. I also am reading this mom who her husband, so she's mom that have kids. And her husband died. And the husband told the kids and the mom that he wanted a funerle. Oh, yeah. Instead of a funeral. Like a fun funeral.
Starting point is 00:26:05 I would hate that. A celebration. If I were watching from a cloud and I saw everybody having fun, when I was dead, I'd be so mad. I'd haunt a few of you guys. I'd pick you randomly, but I'd haunt you. I'd like, oh, like the cotton candy machine. But we're not celebrating that you're dead.
Starting point is 00:26:20 We're celebrating that you... I get it, but I need you to be so sad. That you lived a good life, and now you're no longer in pain, and you're in heaven. Why was that in pain? I'm just assuming you're tied in a painful disease or something. We don't know. Could be. Death, I would assume nobody's like my death wasn't...
Starting point is 00:26:40 She thinks by fire. Yeah. She's like, yeah, we skinned you alive. What? Katie Young's husband passed away from a stroke on May 17th. She decided against a traditional funeral. She hosted a funerle. Spelled the same way, but fun as
Starting point is 00:26:53 capital letters. Yeah. And so they had a bouncy castle, arts and crafts, and his favorite foods. She wanted the kids to have happy memories. Yeah, no, be sad for me. I think he... Be really sad. So who's speaking?
Starting point is 00:27:05 Do you want us to speak? Like, do you want... Whoever speaks, I want them to not be able to contain it. Oh. And they're crying so much that they... cannot even say a word. And it's like in that movie, Stand by Me, where they all start puking.
Starting point is 00:27:19 They're doing that pal-eating contest and one pukes and everybody's just like crying so hard. They're all start puking. Oh, crying and puking. That's what I want. But it's not the funeral. It's because I meant so much because I'm at the time alive. See, that's what I'm looking forward to. There's a Boba Fett doll that sold for $525,000.
Starting point is 00:27:40 Dang. It is the most expensive valuable vintage toy. It was sold at the auction for $525,000. It was supposedly a choking hazard, so it never was released to the public. There are only two that were made. Who paid half a million dollars for a Star Wars toy? I have no idea. And I get it.
Starting point is 00:27:57 Things are collectible and valuable. Of course you get it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But you've also got to be a fan. Everyone's a fan of Star Wars. I watched one of them. And I was like, you know one or older? I'm also not a fan.
Starting point is 00:28:11 Yeah. And I'm not against like and fantasy and I'm not against that because I like Lord of the Ring. No, I like, that was stupid. I like Game of Thrones. I get them confused a little bit. I did watch every Lord of the Rings though.
Starting point is 00:28:25 All back to back during the Christmas one time. And I was like, ah, I'd give it a four and a half out of ten. I didn't hate it. I didn't come away going, that's for nerds. I do a lot of really nerdy things. Not my thing, but I do like Game of Thrones a lot. So I'm not a hater, but I didn't like Star Wars that.
Starting point is 00:28:40 much. Do you know who Boba Fett is? I think Boba Fett's that fat blob thing. Nope. It looks like Grimis from McDonald's. Not him. Really? Oh, it's not? That's the job of the hut. That's job of the hut. What is Boba Futt? I thought Boba Fett would just be fat. No, I don't know. Boba Fett's
Starting point is 00:28:56 a bounty hunter. He wears like a blue kind of like a, he was the Mandalorian. Like that's the same kind of look. I don't know what that is. You didn't see the Mandalorian? Is that the thing in all white with the helmet? Yeah. No, that's a storm trooper. Got it. Oh, okay. Forget we're done. Mandorian is also.
Starting point is 00:29:10 Show me Boba Fett in a picture. Yeah, pull it on, Mike. I'll play this. Gizmodo is the source of that. $500,000. What do you do you play with it once and put it back in? You can have opinions. You can have like a strong stance.
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Starting point is 00:32:25 But after the show, you were sick, but we interviewed this guy who wrote the book on adult bullies. His name's Bill Eddie. And Bill Eddie has written tons of books. He trains lawyers and mediators and therapists. And so we said, because we would get into the point about lunchbox and if he's an adult bully. We said, why would an adult be a bully? People are kind of grow up this way. And so it isn't like a decision.
Starting point is 00:32:47 It's just part of their personality. And so they like to dominate people. And that's the theme for bullies. They want to dominate other people. So he's walking right into what we wanted to talk to him about. And we told them about Lunchbox and Abby. And we said, do you think Lunchbox is bullying Abby on our show? Well, it's kind of depends which side of the border that is.
Starting point is 00:33:11 depending on your relationship, it can be fun. It's not fun. Teasing. Some people like teasing. Abby doesn't like it. But some people don't. No, she doesn't like it, Bill. Then she should speak up.
Starting point is 00:33:22 Yep. And that's what he said she should do. She should speak up to him next time he bullies her and be like, I do not like this. I am leaving. And that's all she has to do is not the bullying. She just leaves? Then apparently she just puts the show. I'm not sure.
Starting point is 00:33:35 And so he wrote this book about being a narcissist as well. And we're like, how do you deal with a bully that's also a narcissist? Well, the thing with narcissists is they like to say they're superior. And so sometimes what you do is you say, oh, you're really good at something. And they go, yeah, I'm really good at something. And that calms them down. So find something they're good at you can respect them for. But also, again, set limits and have consequences.
Starting point is 00:34:01 If you keep talking to me this way, then this is what I'm going to do. So, Abby, what would you say to lunchbox in a positive way? because he's, you know, it could be considered a bit narcissistic based on the rules that Bill Eddy gave us. If you needed to get him off your scent, what would you say about him this nice? Like a quality that he has?
Starting point is 00:34:21 Yeah. Like you're good at something. I think you're good at talking. Like, you never run out of things to say. That's true. Okay. What do you want me to say? I'm not going to give her a compliment back.
Starting point is 00:34:33 That's not the point of it, though. Oh, good. Yeah, you receive it. You just take it. Yeah, but you don't offer, you're not worried about her anymore. Yeah, but I'm not worried about her at all. You bring her up out of nowhere sometimes. I don't worry about her.
Starting point is 00:34:45 Again, you bring her up sometimes when we're not even talking about the show or talking about her and you're like, she's not a good singer and we're like, dude, we're doing the news. Yeah, well, I mean, it just pops in my head sometimes, random thoughts. So we finally said, is there hope to change lunchbox? Yes, there's hope. A lot of the cure that we find like workplace is coaching. Bullies learn to give people ear statements, empathy, some attention, some respect. They like on more friendly terms.
Starting point is 00:35:11 They're not, you know, total personality change, but this softens the rough edges. So Lunchbox, would you consider yourself a bully after hearing all that? No, not at all. I give my honest feedback. But I think bullies feel like they're giving honest feedback. But you understand there's other feedback that doesn't match yours and it's equal to yours. He said repeated behavior is bullying, right? You do it every day.
Starting point is 00:35:35 And, Amy, what you miss is I pointed out that Abby's been bullying me. how because she sings over and over again when I don't like it so that is bullied thanks to Bill Eddie and his book comes out on June 11th and it's called our new world of adult bullies I'm gonna get that for lunchbox Eddie good booking thank you man I thought that was good so this guy Fiatty don't listen to lunchbox because he gets my name wrong every time but you know what I'm listening to the Bobby Bones show
Starting point is 00:36:01 come on lunchbox and now we're gonna play the full interview this is Bill Eddie got a book coming out about adult bullies this is Eddie and myself and Lunchbox talking to this guy who has a very prominent job. He's trained lawyers and judges and CEOs. Eddie saw this in an email.
Starting point is 00:36:20 We got him on to talk. Amy's not in the interview like you just heard. But here he is, Bill Eddie. All right, on with us, Bill Eddie. Hey, Bill, tell us about your book. Well, my book is about bullies. Oh, perfect. Bullies are showing up everywhere today.
Starting point is 00:36:37 You know, they're showing up on the highway and the airplanes walking down the street at ball games, everywhere. And so people need to be prepared. That's what my book's about. Amen. We might have a bully in here with us. That's why we have you on, Bill. So here's the book is called Our New World of Adult Bullies comes out June 11th. And this is Bill Eddie, but our Eddie, Eddie, Eddie say hi.
Starting point is 00:37:02 Yeah, hey, Bill. You're the one that suggested this. Why? What do you want to know? Well, I just think that some people, you know, deal with workplace bullies. And in our case, I sit next to one of them. And he just bullies people for no reason. And I just kind of wanted an idea of like, why is he doing this?
Starting point is 00:37:19 Where does this come from? Bill, why would an adult be a bully in the workplace? What we see is that people are kind of grow up this way. And so it isn't like a decision. It's just part of their personality. And so they like to dominate people. and that's the theme for bullies. They want to dominate other people.
Starting point is 00:37:39 I don't know if that's true in this case. Definitely is. Lunchbox, anything you want to say? Obviously, we're talking about you, but what do you want to say? Anything now? Yeah, Bill, they call me a bully because I like to win and I like to be honest.
Starting point is 00:37:53 Like we have people on here that aren't good at certain things. So I tell them you're not good at something. That's not being a bully, right, Bill? No, no, not at all. Bullies want other people to lose. They don't just want a win. they want people to lose they want people to suffer they want people to feel bad well i do want them to lose yeah when you make fun of people for no reason what is your point with that uh just to let them know
Starting point is 00:38:15 that they're not as good as me right would you feel like uh mr eddie bill eddie that that was a bully behavior it the key is if it's personal like you're talking about the whole person yeah if you say hey look you know like i'm i'm i'm terrible at baseball okay you can tell me i'm terrible at baseball i don't take that personally because I write books and so that makes me feel okay. But if you say as a whole person, I'm a piece of dirt or, you know, I'm a whatever, that's when it's bullying when you're really trying to rub the person into the ground. Do adult bullies begin as childhood bullies, Bill? Generally, yes, but 90% of childhood bullies outgrow it by adulthood. So these are the ones that don't outgrow it and tend to be more refined, but they still act like.
Starting point is 00:39:03 like they're kind of on the playground. So it's not that unusual, but about five to 10% of people seem to have this characteristic. How would you confront an adult bully? Yeah, so as an adult, I want you to take the assertive approach. So don't be passive and let them pick on you and just kind of let her go.
Starting point is 00:39:23 But also don't be so aggressive that you look like you're a bully too. So being assertive, something like say, hey, cut it out, that's enough. Or I don't agree with you. I see it differently. give me a break. So when you stand up to a bully, as long as it's safe, don't stand up to a bully who's going to kill you, you know, but stand up to a bully and assert yourself, they usually
Starting point is 00:39:45 go somewhere else. They don't pick on you anymore. And we see that in the workplace. They, they try everybody, but the person that accepts it, that tolerates it, that's where they start to focus. And bullying isn't just one incident. It's an ongoing pattern of behavior that tends to eat away at the other person's self-esteem. They get sick. They have stomach aches, headaches. They don't come into work. So that's the kind of thing that's really bullying in the workplace. Bill, do you find a connection? Because you said, you know, like it started in the playground, bullying the playground. Do you feel there's a connection between what we do being on the radio? It's kind of a playground. We still have fun every morning. Do you think maybe because the environment that our bully is in kind
Starting point is 00:40:29 of feels like he's still on the playground at school, but he's an adult? Well, you know, it depends because there's a line between fun and fun is when everyone knows, like teasing. Some people just can't stand teasing and some people love it and you guys love it. So, hey, that's not the problem. The problem is when a group of people picking on one person or one person really picking on that person and trying to just run them into the ground, dominate or even destroy them. It's really a totally negative thing. It's not a fun thing.
Starting point is 00:41:05 So, yeah, it's a lot of fun on the playground. And teasing isn't bullying. It's when it's out to get you personally. That's when it's really bullying. So, Bill, would you say that your book is geared towards nerds? Because nerds get picked on. And so then nerds and the workplace get picked on. So you're trying to help the nerds out that haven't grown out of that nerddom from the playground?
Starting point is 00:41:26 Well, to some extent, like I said, we're all vulnerable susceptible to bullies. We've got to be aware. But I think, you know, people kind of nerdy, and I identify with that. And I start out the book with an introduction, talk about being bullied in third grade. But I grew out of that and I figured out, I got to figure out how to manage these folks.
Starting point is 00:41:45 And then I made a career out of it. So I think anybody that feels intimidated needs to be more assertive. That's part of what this is about. We can't individually or even as a group tolerate real bullying that we're, that we really need to put a stop to it. And it seems to be increasing these days.
Starting point is 00:42:05 So that's why I wrote the book now. At what stage do we punch the bully in the nose? Good question, Bones. Thank you. Yeah. So I think that the key thing is the threat that you're going to do that. See, that's what, you know, on the playground as kids, people just did that. But as adults, we say, hey, if you keep that up, but I don't recommend punching them in the nose,
Starting point is 00:42:28 but I recommend saying, I'm going to end this conversation. I'm going to unplug you or I'm going to walk away. I'm going to do something. But like I said, you don't want to do the aggressive act. You want to be the assertive one. When you punch them in the nose, then the bully gets you in trouble. And they just, see what he did to me. See what he did to me.
Starting point is 00:42:47 And everyone looks at you. So don't be aggressive, but be assertive. Don't be passive. Be assertive. That's the key. We have a lot of parents listen to our show. And they may be dealing with this, with their kids and where their kids are being bullied.
Starting point is 00:43:01 Now, your book is about adult bullies, but what can you tell the parents as far as how to handle if their kid is being bullied at school? Basically telling them a variety of things. One is, again, this assertive approach, don't be passive, don't be aggressive. Just speak up and say, hey, I don't like that, and then walk away.
Starting point is 00:43:21 Just a short sentence. People think you have to have to have a big confrontation. You don't have to. Just a short sentence say, I don't like that. Leave me alone and then walk away. Or just stand your ground right there and say, I don't like that. Cut it out.
Starting point is 00:43:35 And bullies generally cut it out. They go where people will tolerate them. So speak up, but also talk to somebody. Talk to a teacher, talk to one of the other kids. You know, when I was in third grade and I got bullied then, I figured out I'm going to hang out with the bigger kids. And the bigger kids, they'll take care of me as long as they help them with their homework. So you find a way. That's what I did.
Starting point is 00:44:00 That's what I did. I paid for protection when I was a kid. I would make money doing it. And then I would use a little bit of that to protect me from the bullies. And I'd give him a couple of bucks to make sure I don't get beat up. How do you feel about that, Bill Eddie? I think that really works. That's what worked for me.
Starting point is 00:44:15 I think it's whatever strategy. Just don't let yourself be run over, but don't run over the other person either. You know, equal relationships are the happiest relationships. relationships. So that's what seems to work. When people take advantage of you or you take advantage of other people, that's one that gets into bullying. Abby, would you come up to the microphone for a second? Obviously, we've been talking a bit about lunchbox and how he seemingly bullies you. Would you say he bullies you sometimes? Yeah, I would say so. And how so? Have you learned anything from Bill here? I learned a lot. And how will you be different after this interview? Because now all I have to say is like,
Starting point is 00:44:53 I don't like that. Just walk away. You know, because usually, I am. I'm just very passive and I kind of let it happen. So. Abby, sing something for Bill so I can. No, we're not. Because you think she's a bad singer. Right. So you got, no, I'm not. Tell Bill about that. So Bill, here's what happened. Abby moved to Nashville. She wanted to be a singer. It didn't quite work out for her. And we were like, great. And she pivoted. And now she works on this radio show, this podcast. And so she does a great job. Well, I got her to sing one day and she was pretty good. And so she came out and she opened for us. Eddie and I, she's done a couple other things. things, but Lunchbox continues to bully her because he does not think she's good.
Starting point is 00:45:29 He will bring up out of nowhere how she is a terrible singer when we're not even talking about that. So that's the background on that. What would you say if I told you that story about that situation? Well, it's kind of depends which side of the border that is. Because depending on your relationship, it can be fun. And like I said, teasing. Some people like teasing. Abby doesn't like it. No, she doesn't like it, Bill. Then she should speak up. Yep. That's right on the edge there. Or she should stop singing, Bill.
Starting point is 00:45:59 No, that's no, no. See, is that bullying? Right there. Yes, he's bullying you with Bill on. That's giving my opinion. Okay. Bill, Eddie, is on with us, and he wrote a book, and it's all about stopping bullying with adults.
Starting point is 00:46:15 Our new world of adult bullies, how to spot them, how to stop them. Now, Bill, you also wrote another book called Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life. Oh. Right. Identifying and dealing with narcissists, sociopaths and other high conflict personalities. Oh my goodness. Now, the Venn diagram, it seems like our bully also would be part of this book as well.
Starting point is 00:46:33 There's certainly some overlap. It depends. The bully has a drive to dominate or destroy. Some people with those personalities don't have a drive to dominate or destroy other people. Like a narcissist might be self-centered, think they're superior, but they don't really bully people. So it really depends. Some are bullies and some aren't. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:54 And how do we deal with bullies who are also? narcissists? Well, the thing with narcissists is they like to say they're superior. And so sometimes what you do is you say, oh, you're really good at something. And they go, yeah, I'm really good at something. And that calms them down. So find something they're good at you can respect them for. But also, again, set limits and have consequences.
Starting point is 00:47:19 If you keep talking to me this way, then this is what I'm going to do. And so, you know, a narcissist may be a bully, maybe not, but they cross that line, then you've got to speak up or get help to speak up and say, hey, this person's, you know, really being hurtful to me and I need your help. Can you can you give me a hand here? Of course, in the workplace, some people really get destroyed. Like I've got examples, I guess 60 examples in my book of people getting bullied. And in some of those in the workplace, they really need to get organizational help. So they've got to go up the ladder to find somebody that will give them a hand, human resources or a higher up division chief.
Starting point is 00:48:05 And some people ruin their whole companies because they got a bully at the top. So they could show up anywhere. But it's setting limits, being assertive. That's the key. Okay. Lunchbox one final thing to Bill? Do you have anything you want to say? I tuned down.
Starting point is 00:48:20 He's doing a lot of nerd talk. And I was like, man, all right, cool. Oh, my goodness. But, I mean, Bill, like, you're right. Like, it's whatever side of the border you're on, right? Oh, no. No. Now you've given them something to walk away from this interview going on.
Starting point is 00:48:33 I'm just on the side of the border. Yeah, I'm just on the side of the border that you guys don't want to be on. So you say it's bullying. If you thought Abby was a bad singer, you'd be on my side of this. If we ask Abby, does she feel like she's getting bullied? And she says, yes, I think that would be a cue for you to stop. But that's her side of the border. My side of the border is it's not.
Starting point is 00:48:50 It's giving feedback. It's like about, she doesn't ask for your feedback. Bill, if I went to a restaurant in a waiter or waitress wasn't doing a good job and I gave him feedback, is that bullying or is that, you know, telling him, hey, you need to improve your job? I'd say partly it depends how you give him feedback. You say, here, you know, I want to give you a tip. I think if you do this, it's better than that. But, you know, bullying's repeated behavior. So if you repeat the behavior and the person repeats that they don't like it, then that crosses the line.
Starting point is 00:49:21 line, I'd say. So you got to do it gently and just occasionally. So you're telling me, Abby's been bullying me this whole time because she keeps singing. I tell her I don't like it and she continues to do it. Well, maybe you need a mediator. See, that's one of the other things I talk about in the book. Sometimes you need a mediator to come up with a compromise so that you can maybe hear some singing and maybe not hear some singing and find the right balance for the two of you. Eddie, one final thing? Yeah, Bill, so is it, are we doomed? Like, is he always going to be like this, or can we fix him?
Starting point is 00:49:57 Is there a cure for bullying? Punch him in the nose. Well, a lot of the cure that we find, like workplace, is coaching. So we developed a coaching method, you know, new ways for work, for productive relationships. So coaching sometimes, you coach somebody to practice being assertive instead of being aggressive, to give the other person some empathy, some attention, some respect. We call it ear statements. And when bullies learn to give people ear statements, they stop bullying.
Starting point is 00:50:29 They like on more friendly terms. They're not, you know, total personality change, but this softens the rough edges. And that's a lot of what you need in the workplace. Just soften those sharp elbows. And that's a lot of what we teach in our trainings and our coaching. So, yes, there's hope. There's room for compromise. There's maybe some coaching in the future.
Starting point is 00:50:51 I'll leave that up to you. I can't judge any particular situation offhand. That's for sure. Hey, Abby, what have you learned now? This is the last opportunity to talk to Bill. What are you going to do from this point forward when you feel bullied by lunchbox? Well, basically not listen to what he says. Amen.
Starting point is 00:51:08 And just be like, leave me alone and pick on someone else. You need to set a boundary. I'm setting this boundary. I will not allow you. to make me feel this way or say this about me, stop it. Yes. And I basically tuned him out anyway. I like what she said.
Starting point is 00:51:22 She goes, I'm going to tell him to pick on someone else. No, we can't say that. She's trying to pass the bullying down. Oh, shoot, yeah. That's what she said. Pick on someone your own size. But is that not the best way? I don't know that it's past the buck onto somebody else.
Starting point is 00:51:38 That's the thing. He never gives me any tips to get better. He's just like you sound nasally. So, like, is there anything else he got? Your tip is stop singing. Or surgery. Or surgery. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:51:48 Okay. See? Okay. Bill Eddy's the chief innovation officer of the High Conflict Institute and author of Our New World of Adult Bullies. The book comes out June 11th. You've given us some good advice here, Bill Eddie. And I hope the book does amazing numbers. And we really appreciate your time.
Starting point is 00:52:06 Thanks so much. Glad to be on. All right. Thank you very much. Bobby Bones Show. Boney up the day. This story comes to us from Naples, Florida. A couple was.
Starting point is 00:52:16 out on a pier and they were doing some adult things when police... Wait, what? Adult things. Like real adult things? Like drinking? Not like real adult. Okay, got it, got it, got it. When police came walking up, the 20-year-old girl was like, oh, no! And so she dove off the pier into the ocean thinking, it's a good move. It's a big ocean. It's a good move, though. It's a good move. That's how you get out of there. And so police just stood on the shore for about 20 minutes, and then she was like, all right, I'm tired, I'm coming in.
Starting point is 00:52:40 Well, why did she just doggy paddle away? Why don't she go somewhere? Maybe there's only one. I feel like she, like, swam back and, and, you know, what you mean? Swam back and there's doggy paddle and they watched her. Like, no, you have to swim somewhere else. Yeah. I don't know. At some point, you're like, I'm not going anywhere.
Starting point is 00:52:53 No, but you swim to another part of the beach. Yeah, but they'll just walk. You go underwater. You want to water. Stop. Okay. You're crazy. No, you go under water and you do this.
Starting point is 00:53:02 And then everyone's like like, you go, and you go back underwater. Oh, sort of like a dolphin, so they don't know exactly where you're going. What is she thinking? She's not a dolphin. I'm lunchbox. That's your bonehead story of the day. Amy, what's up? Okay, so I just had a little.
Starting point is 00:53:15 a little scenario with lunchbox where I need to know if this is normal or not, because we walked by construction guys on the side of the street, and he sort of, you know, like, hollers at them. Holler to me, he's like, what up, baby? Yeah, yeah. Oh, he did. Honestly, my first thought was if those were women construction workers, he would be flirting with them. So what does sound like?
Starting point is 00:53:35 But they were men. He's holding a face like he does not agree. Yeah. Hey, looking good guys. Looking good. That's what he yelled at construction workers. Why would he say that? Because they were working and he was encouraging them.
Starting point is 00:53:48 But I just thought, this is so odd. I thought, but maybe it's normal. Looking good, guys. Looking good. No, Amy, I must have selective hearing because me and Scoobo were joking. I was like, yeah, it's looking good in there, guys. It's looking good work in there. This is way more masculine than what she's saying.
Starting point is 00:54:05 I mean, come on. That's exactly what I said. And she said just looking good guys. Yeah, I never said looking good guys. I said, it's looking good in there, guys. Yeah, looking good guys. Like your project is looking good. But there's a difference in looking good guys and looking good in there.
Starting point is 00:54:19 Okay. The way she's presenting it is I was hitting on them. I said it's looking good in there. They're hollering at them. And then there's a dumpster out there. I was like, hey, we need to hurry and fill this up. We need to fill it up. That's so annoying.
Starting point is 00:54:31 Who is this guy? Also, that's annoying. Even like looking good in there, guys. As somebody's walking by not working. Like, that's kind of annoying too. But I guess the question is, was he hitting on the construction worker? Well, I just thought, is this behavior? normal or not. No, it's not. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:54:45 Why would you even yell like that at them? Like, looking good in there. It feels a bit condescending. No, no. It's saying, hey, you're doing a good job. But how do you know? Because you're really not looking and paying attention. No, I did look in there and they had the drywall up. It looked good. And they were taking a break. See? He's full of crap. And then you were like, fill this thing up.
Starting point is 00:55:02 Well, the dumpster was almost full. I was like, all right, man, we almost got it full. Let's keep filling it up. Yeah, that's annoying. Like, you can do it, guys. Weird. The guy who's walking by, not working. yelling at the guys who are working. Yeah, that's a little obnoxious. But you weren't hitting on them.
Starting point is 00:55:17 Definitely wasn't hitting on them. I'm just saying if they were women. I need to hear the tape. All right. Bye, everybody. I'm Miles Turner. And I'm Brianna Stewart. And our podcast, Game Recognized Game, has never been done before.
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