The Bobby Bones Show - Wed Part 2: Lunchbox's Gross Hotel Find + Amy & Lunchbox's Leg Rash Update

Episode Date: July 10, 2024

Find out the disgusting thing Lunchbox found in his hotel bed and what the hotel did to make up for it. Plus, we check in with Amy and Lunchbox on how their mysterious leg rashes are doing and more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an IHeart podcast. Guaranteed human. United flight loses its landing gear. I hate to fly. It makes me nervous talking about this story. I'm scared to fly. I don't understand flying. I don't see how that thing that's all metal gets up there and stays up there.

I'm not supposed to see, though, right? Like, I just get on and go. But that doesn't mean, I'm a control freak. And you know what? I should trust those pilots in that plane way more than I should trust me driving a car. Because I think I'm a good driver, but there are a lot of other idiots too. I'm talking myself and not going crazy right now. Right.

And you appreciate physics. I do. And that's how it's happening. I don't understand how to think. Let's say the engines go out and they glide. Because Amy's ex-husband was a pilot and he had to, he called it like a safety landing or something. A controlled landing. He crashed.

The plane died on him. Well, the propeller departed the aircraft as he put it. He found a body of water and safety landed. He had a controlled landing. Crashed into the water. And water in the middle of like the Adirondack Mountains or something. It was crazy. And he comes to me after the show.

He, and she was married to him at the time. Which, by the way, I still like him. There's no. Yeah. I'm just telling the story because I still like the guy. I mean, I got a phone call of him. Like, yeah, he was, he, he, he, he was him and another guy in the plane.

They survived just some scratches. But the scratches were even from swimming to shore and climbing. It was like, no humans had ever even been in this body of water. And then a Black Hawk helicopter had to come and, like, throw a rope down. And he had to, like, use his phone or something. Like, the sun. show the helicopter where he was, like to reflect. Wow.

Like, crazy. And Amy comes to me after the show and goes, hey, can I say his name? Yeah, Ben. Okay. Amy, no, not, yeah. Amy goes, Ben just had an airplane crash. What?

Oh, it's all good. What? He, his money's blue, but he's all good. What? Well, the blue's from the gasoline. The gas. When they color it. Yeah.

So like an airplane, when it goes in the water, that way they know where to clean it up and where. it's spilled. Oh, like gas fuel is blue. Well, they die of the water. Interesting. Yeah, yeah.

So anyway, I don't like airplanes. Bottom line. And this flight, a united flight out of California, lost a, the whole landing gear tire wheel fell off,

fell off as it took off. So the question is, what's the protocol? Are you telling me immediately as a passenger? That's what I'm saying. They come over there. I don't want to know.

Yeah, I don't either. I don't need to know. It's going to do me no good to know because I'm going to start making calls immediately before my 3, 4G, 5K, whatever it is, gets out.

This is it. I just want to tell you, I love you. This is it. Everybody's going to be doing that. But they got to tell you before they land, right? Yeah, they're probably like, hey, we've had some issues with landing gear. It's maybe a little bumpy. That's information that everybody doesn't need to know, especially if they think they can handle it,

which they did. They continued on. They landed. The landing gear has other little pieces, and that was fine. But there were 174 passengers and seven crew members. and they landed and those pilots deserve the metal of flying. I don't know if that's a thing. They need it.

I would make it if I were the president. It's like Sully when he landed that plane on the water. Captain Sully? Crazy. It's like that dude, and listen to him in interviews, he was like, you know,

I just trained so much. He also was a, was he was a naval or Air Force pilot, something. He was like, I trained so much that I just, I didn't freak out because it was almost like muscle memory kicked in.

He was like, I don't think I did any, heroic but I had just been so trained for this that when it happened it kind of just took me over. Well yeah and the crazy part is though they don't actually, they can train, takeoffs and landings all the time, but training for water is a simulation. You can see the planes land in the river? Yeah. Are you training?

Hey, we're good guys. But it's like those simulators, like I think about those race car movies where the simulators they play in the video game and then they go out and actually race a car. like it's kind of like that. You just practice so much. And that one guy in that one movie got good. Grand Ternino. Grand Trenno.

Oh, yeah, yeah. I never saw that. Maybe we should do that on Tuesday, Reviews Day. And if you really like it, tell me again. Okay. Because I'm almost done. Let me tell you this. I don't want to give a spoiler for Tuesday Reviews Day.

And it comes up. There's a show. It might be one of the top five greatest shows I've ever seen in my whole life this year. Well, now we have to wait a week. It's not going to be even over though. That's quite the tease. I know, but I'm not even reviewing it yet, Tuesday reviewing it. But it's on Apple.

It's six episodes in, I think of eight or nine. And it's called presumed innocent with Jake Jellenhall. Mike, are you watching it? It makes me feel so uncomfortable at first. And you constantly have this uncomfortable feeling. I don't want to spoil anything. Also, I don't know what happens because we're six in.

It's A plus. Now it could totally fall off. But right now it's A plus. But I'm not giving an official rating a Tuesday Reviews Day because it's not done. What's it called again? Presumed innocence. Mike, would you say it?

It's excellent so far. Oh, yes. The new episode comes out today. I can't wait to watch. We watched it last night. Oh, really? Yeah. I've not watched it yet.

It came out of like 9 p.m. We sometimes will go, we were looking for the new season of calling from accounts. Hilarious. And they made it, but it's not in America yet. So we're looking for that. And I'm like, let's just go see if that early, that episode. Because we love it.

And it was up. We watched it. It was awesome. I wanted to cry. So they do that? They just kind of throw it up the night before. Don't know. Never seen it happened before.

I told Caitlin. I said, I made a couple calls. Oh, you did. You pulled out. She said, you're so full of. You hit up Jake. You didn't do that. Virginia governor signs an executive order banning phones and classrooms.

Amy, thoughts. Yeah, I know. I think it's great. I'm for this. Sometimes I, as a parent, text my daughter during the school day because I need information. And then when she texts me back right away, I'm like, what are you doing? And she's like, yeah, I know. You just, you just, you just entrapped.

Yeah. I agree. As a parent, I should not do that. And I, or I should know, I know her lunch hour. And that's when I should reach. out but I'll send notes and we're sort of texting all day and then at the end of the day I'm like why was she able to text me all day she should be in class. She should wait a minute like play it cool like you guys are dating first day. First of all I need to stop and only communicate with her

in proper hours but I think for teachers and students this is such a great thing. Virginia Governor Glenn Yonkin put an executive order in place yesterday to eliminate cell phone use in public schools not as simple as it sounds as the order instructs the State Department of Education to come up with guidance for how to establish what the governor calls cell phone free education. The state is putting half a million dollars toward the initiative. School districts are ordered to adopt new policies

by January 1st. That's from NBC News. You know, maybe they can't take it in the actual classrooms, but they can have it in the hallways. There's going to be some compromise. Yeah, yeah, they haven't. Or they go into a classroom, they put it in those bags. But then schools are going to have to pay a bunch of money

for those bags. And then every class, you've got to go get your phone out of the bag. That's okay, though. Yeah. But yes, I agree. Stick in the lockers. That's it.

Let's do the news. Bobby's big. Stories. In scientific news, it is absolutely true. Apparently there's a barrier around the earth protecting us from aliens. Really? This, and again, science news, that's absolutely true. What happens?

They come in and they get shocked or? Oh, yeah, like the blue light for flies. Like a dog collar? The dog collar. Yeah. This revelation apparently comes from multiple aliens who've purses. personally shared the information with a very special group of humans begging the question of how are they able to get to the humans unless they have like the code do do do do to bury her down that's from the Daily Star just wanted to do I want to do some science today too you know uh Joe from the Okers boys passed away I love Joe I'd spend a lot of time with them in the group and I was a massive fan at the Opry I spent a lot of time with them they came here a couple times too yeah I didn't go on the road with them yeah I didn't talk about once when we were in Austin I walked out and they were sitting on the couch going in the country station in Austin and I walked back

in the studio, I was like, these freaking oakridge boys are out there. And I remember they were like, huh? Huh? Who? I was like, I know, that's the okrage boys out there. First time I ever met him. It was super cool. But yeah, Joe passed away. He had ALS. Let me play a little okrage boys for you. My grandma and I listen to this all the time. This is totally grandma influence music

for me. And that's Joe singing right there. The high part. My heart. That's me singing out. So fire. Enough bones. Hell fire. The best part was the face a boom bop ba oomba

boom bop baum ba bobo oh man and I laugh because just so much joy they provided my grandma on their music

and they were so super nice he announced earlier this year he was retiring for health reasons he didn't do the 50th anniversary

tour he authored 11 books including his upcoming memoir I see myself which is due out this November from variety

rest of peace Joe loved them love them and man what It just gives me a good feeling because, you know, my grandma raised me for a lot of my life, and that was big to her.

From the University of Tennessee, easy forgiveness is not good. Women who forgive their men for little transgressions, like coming home late or forgetting us out at the grocery store and do it a lot or hurting their relationships. It's better to be somewhat hard on them. Researchers found that when a woman easily forgives, he was six, seven times more likely to do it again because it didn't care. So y'all are like children. Or dogs. Yeah. Dumb.

You need to know. Well, it's just like, it's humans. There are precedents. There are boundaries. There are, you know, in our personal culture, there are things we expect of each other. And if it's not met, we should express happiness or sadness, you know. But yeah, guys are idiots, though. But how long do we have to do that?

Like, not that long, right? Like, a day is fun. I think consistency is key. One day to be not forgiven and then forgive us. I don't know, but usually I'm not forgiven until I do it right. I got to prove I can do it right. That's tough. I deserve that, though.

A new research study found that men who go to plays and museums are healthier than men who don't go to plays and museums. According to daddy gathered from 50,000 adults, health and happiness in men is correlated with a variety of activities, including arts, which could be a concert, which could be a theater. I would assume, though, if you can go to, like, plays and a lot of concerts, like, you're probably pretty healthy because you're not. Listen, I had jobs. I was just too tired to go to concerts. I know. Cultured things like that seem like access and time. It feels like rich people wrote this article.

But a lot of museums are free. And also if you're rich, you have better like health care and you're probably a doctor too. Right. So you just look at yourself on the old x-ray. All right, fix me. Yeah, that men, and I'm sure there's something to this. I could probably even be a little more because I think you relax at these things, which could help with stress.

That's true. This is from the journal of epidemiology and community health. No, nothing about... Oh, your favorite journal. Yeah, yeah. Read that every morning. And then finally, this may come as a surprise, but a hot drink can cool you down. Oh.

Did you know this? Well, I know that hot water freezes faster than cold. I don't know if that has nothing. It's fast, but I mean... No, I don't know if that's the same thing, but... Okay. Yeah. But, I mean, if hot water freezes faster, then hot water cooling you down faster, it's kind of the same.

It has to do something with how... vaporization is happening in water. Let's see what happens here. Okay. She's right. She might be right. I'm talking about it. It's a freezer.

Yeah. Drinking a hot drink is a good idea on a hot day when you're really hot and sweating because what happens is it's prevented from evaporating. Shut up. As what it says? No, exactly what she said? See, you guys, listen. Because it goes in and it's hotter, it doesn't evaporate so it actually stays in you longer.

What? What's up? If you're in a human place, don't. Yeah. really, if you're in a desert, they say, drink something hot. You're trapped in the desert. Take coffee.

I'm so, I'm dying. I'm dying. Does anyone have a cappuccino? And if you're really trying to freeze something, put it in the freezer warmer than colder, and it'll happen faster. That's why I took a half step back after laughing at you. Because I realized.

Don't know where I read that, but... I don't know everything. Me neither and I'm... This is the one thing? That's, well, you nailed it. You nailed it. That's from Smithsonian magazine. All right, that's the news. Those were Bobby's big.

Stories. I want to go over and talk to Rachel, who's on the phone right now. Hey, Rachel, appreciate you calling in. What's going on? Hey, Bobby. I had heard your story earlier about the owner advocating for the dog who had cancer. And so I just kind of wanted to tell my story. So I had found a lump about a year and a half ago and went to a series of doctors over a few months.

And they were saying, you know, you're young. I wouldn't worry about it. It seems like it's just a cyst, and I just had a gut feeling. Something was off. So I walked myself into a radiology clinic, and it turned out that I had an aggressive form of breast cancer, but I caught it at stage one. So I went through chemo and a series of surgeries and just received a clear blood test. So I just think it's really important that people, you know, have the empowerment to advocate

for themselves because, you know, an opinion is not always necessarily the right way to go. I appreciate you sharing that. I'm sorry that's happened to you. I have a lot of feelings here. I'm happy that how it's progressed. Like, I like that. But for those that just hear this for the first time, we had a clip from Dr. Josie, and she has a podcast called In the Vets Office with Dr. Josie.

And she was talking to Abby Smires and Abby's Dan from Dan and Shay's wife and Abby's dog. They took the dog in and the vet was like, no. I think it's okay. It's good. And then she was like, I don't think so. So I took it to a second doctor, which is Dr. Josie. And she's like, no, no, no. It has cancer.

And they've been fighting cancer with his dog. But my point was, like, I just trust. If doctor says something, I'm in. Okay, go sign. Just because I just trust them. But it's a great point with almost anything. Like, it's okay to get a second opinion on something if it's something that is extremely important. or valuable like your health.

And I think that's another great example from you, Rachel. So I appreciate you calling. And good luck with, you know, this journey to health. And I'm super happy that you decided to go do that. Thank you. Thank you. Yeah, have a good day. Thank you.

That podcast, if you want to check it out, it's called In the Vets Office with Dr. Josie. She's a vet and she has people bring their animals in, people that are famous. It's a really good podcast. And you learn a lot about your animal as well. The fact that she found the underwear, they pulled underwear out of the belly of a dog. surgically. And it ends up being not the underwear of the wife of the guy. And that's how she found out she was being cheated on.

That's crazy. In the vet's office with Dr. Josie. I want to go over and talk to Shelley who lives in Pennsylvania because I think somebody won a bunch of money like a scratch-off. Hey, Shelly. Hey, hello. Hey, thanks for calling. What's the deal here with the scratch-off?

My mother was on her, well, first of all, she went to in work, she was a dental assistant, and that morning, she had got a bonus of $50. And on her lunch hour, she went to a local store, and she bought a $20 scratch off ticket. And she scratched it off, and underneath the number that matched, it said mill. Oh, my, L-L-L-E-L-B-L-B-L-Begl, oh, no, that's awesome. Yeah. And she was like, and she did it in her car, and she was like, oh, my God, I think I want a million So she took it into a store and she needed a cashier.

And she said, I just think I want a million dollars. And the cashier's like, well, here, give it here and I'll run it to the machine. She ran it to the machine. And she's like, yeah, she won. You want a million dollars. And she was like, oh, my God, well, I have to call my husband. So she called my dad. And my dad's like, well, we have to look it up and see what we need to do.

And she said, well, I have to get back to work. She's because she was on her lunch hour. So she went back to work and her boss was like, what's wrong with you? And she said, well, I just want a million dollars on my lottery ticket. And he said, well, he said, you need to get out of here and go take care of it. So, he told she did win. And what did she do with it? How much does she get after everything was done?

I believe it was $750,000. And then she got banged another $80,000 in January at tax time. But what she did, my mother is a very, very giving person. Um, she did take out, I believe it was $25,000 for each grandchild. There were three of them. She invested it in, um, college funds for each one. And then, um, something, like it accrued interest each year. And then she had a party for immediate family.

And each, each member got an envelope of money in. And she gave each couple, $100 worth of scratch off tickets. Oh, anybody hit? She gave, no, not big. No. Can you imagine? You don't get a bite at that party. Like a second cousin.

One, you don't get invited. And two, if this happens to me, it's a game show. Wow. It's not all going to be even in there. I got different amounts of money. We're recording it all for content. Everybody's going to get something, but let's play the game. Who loves Bobby the most?

And then we do like trivia. But also, if I hit the mill, M-I-L, I'm thinking something's up to. Somebody's pranking me. Or I want an old sawmill. A mill. Yeah. And now I've got to pay for it. Or you have to be in the military.

Or the, I was just drafted by a lottery ticket. Oh, no. Oh, no. Shelly, I appreciate you telling that story. That is wild when you hear from somebody who, it actually affects their life and they actually win. I hope you have a good day, Shelly. Thank you.

Thank you. Thank you. Have a good day. Yeah, you too. That's awesome. By the way, we don't know the name of the place, but I think when we're in Tucson, tomorrow evening, we'll be doing our podcast from some barbecue place. Oh.

They were like, we want you to go to this place. They have a stage. I'm like, what's the name of it? We don't know. Okay. What's the address? We don't know. This is barbecue.

But we're planning to be at some barbecue place in Tucson tomorrow night because we're going to go shoot with the University of Arizona in the afternoon. At a barbecue place at 7 tomorrow night. At least it narrows it down. Yes. Not Chinese food. Mexican. Barbecue.

Yes, we're going to be at a barbecue place. Yeah, thanks for that. Let me go over and talk to Aaron in North Carolina. Hey, Aaron, you're on the Bobby Bone Show. What's going on? Hi, so I had an inquiry slash request. Go ahead. And maybe it's something you cover on your Bobbycast, but not on the show anymore.

I'm not sure I haven't had a chance to get to listen and catch up on the podcast. But I know you used to do like a class of the year. So I believe the class of 2018, you had enough in-comer. You wanted to get his name out and recommended people start listening. And it was Luke Combs. And you had a couple other people who weren't, you know, quite big names, doing big tours, have mass followings. and that type of the thing, like no opery members or anything like that. Yeah.

I was wondering, why do you stop doing it, or if you didn't and it's somewhere else, where would we find that? And if you're not, could you start doing it again? Great question. I appreciate you asking it like that. So I just do it differently now. What I would do back in the day, day I'd do this is the class, whatever, and five artists, but then I would just kind of fill myself stuck to five artists,

and it was hard to do other new artists stuff. because I don't have to do music stuff. Listen, they pay us to come in, try to be compelling. We love the music, at least the format of the music. Some of the songs suck, but we love generally the music and country music. And so it works, but they're never like, go and expose artists. But I love music and love country music. So if I find someone, I just go, hey, this is good.

For example, yesterday on the show, I was talking about this guy named Stiles. So I'll just do it many times throughout the year when it feels like it, instead of assigning a time to it and then limiting myself to do it, if that makes sense. It was just a modification. I didn't want to be, one, stuck with only five, or two, have to find five. I don't have five that I really like.

Yeah. And his song, 100%. It was good. 100% good. 100%. I didn't even know the rest of it. I was walking out and last night going. 100%.

Which I think it's funny because you're like, yeah, I'm not talking about Harry Styles. It's just styles. But then I was reading more about him and like, his last name is like, hurry. Yeah, it's it's hard. It's like it reversed his name.

Yes, it's like styles. So that's why I say, it's just styles. If true, prepare yourself. It's to be grossed out, but not in a way that you don't want to listen to the show. Lunchbox goes on vacation. We all do last week. We had the week off. What happened?

Went to Chicago, stayed at a hotel downtown, right there by Navy Pier, everything. And we're staying three nights at the hotel. So we wake up on day three. So we've spent two nights there. and we're looking for one of the kids' shoes, and I kind of lift up the sheets, you know, that would hang over the side of the bed?

And under the bed is not the shoe. It's a used condom. A used condom under the bed. It's not good. So what do you do immediately? Oh, okay. And my wife's like, what? And I'm like, used condom.

My kid's like, what? Let me see. What is that? What is that, Dad? Oh, balloon. And I'm like, no, no, nope, nope, nope, nobody away. Everybody away. Okay, then after your initial reaction, I go down to the front desk. You walk it and call. Oh, no, no, there's no call. This is, hey, let's get out of here. Like, I don't want the kids climbing under the bed if I have my back turn grabbing that thing.

But do you take it with you to the front desk to shove them? Like a little baby bird in your palm? No, I don't have any plastic gloves to pick it up. What do you say? and I go up to the front of us Oh, what can I do for you today, sir? And I'm like, oh, yeah, I've been here for two nights. Is this the same tone?

Like, recreate the tone. I said, yeah, we got kind of a problem. She's like, oh, what is that? I said, well, I was looking for one of the kids' shoes this morning under the, and I look under the bed, and there is a used condom under my bed. What her eyes do? She goes, oh, I am so sorry about that, sir. Start typing. Yeah, you know, what room number are you?

And you tell her the room number, and she's like, Okay, 421. Okay. And then... Can you describe it, please? Yeah. What color? Was it a magnum?

And I'm just like, I don't know if you guys just didn't clean the room. So you're wanting them to go. We're sorry, we'll move you and we'll give you a free room. I'm expecting them to say, hey, you know what I mean? We're going to comp your stay and move you to another room, all that. What did they end up giving you? She said, well, if you'd like to leave the room, I can send someone up to clean the room. and if you want to go to our restaurant, we can give you $50 so you can enjoy a meal.

No, I don't want to eat after that. Did you feel that was enough? No! What did you say that you didn't feel that was enough? I was like, that's it? She goes, well, yeah, sir, I'm sorry. You know, sometimes when they're cleaning, they miss things. Oh, that's a, that's not a cup.

That's a big miss. It's a big miss. It's not like a plastic cup they didn't see behind like a counter or something. Oh. So in the end, what happened? Did you move rooms? No, no move rooms. Okay.

They cleaned the room. We got $50. a restaurant. You settled for that? How? I'm surprised you settled and didn't throw a fit. Well, I got my kids with me, man, and my wife's like, let's just go. Let's just go. We'll go. You know, like, let's get me. If she wasn't there, what do you think you would have done?

Oh, I would have been like, no, no, no. We're moving rooms and this is comp. Like, let's let, this is ridiculous. You can't be a used condom under the bed. We heard you. Even a unused and a rapper, I'd have been like, what else isn't clean? And how they didn't look under here and that's just weird. How'd it felt weird about it. the rapper's okay though no but i'm just saying it's trash left behind it's not okay it's not okay

it's not okay no it's trash left behind don't have been like uh what else do they not see so that would have been weird but i mean the bed was made like that means they didn't move those sheets either oh oh they changed the sheets no no if it was covering the used condom you don't think they'd put either they pulled the sheets off and they still didn't see it under there with the sheets off they didn't change sheets oh don't tell me that i can't think about that because it had they they would have seen the used condom he did simply because a shoe moved I mean, this is so gross. This is worse.

I would, okay, I understand with having your kids and everybody unpacked and not wanting to switch the room. So, okay, fine, yes, go clean the room. But also, I want, I don't want to pay for my stay. Like, you, this is diseases. This is not okay. This is not okay. His kids, oh my gosh, could you imagine? I'm so glad lunchbox is the one that found it and not one of the kids, like playing with it, like a glove, like putting his hand.

So what did you learn from this? And what can we take from this? Listen, man, I'm not one of these like germophobes, but when you go into a hotel room, check under the bed, first thing. See if anything's left behind. You've got to check under the bed from now on. I think that just shows they didn't clean the sheets either. Because if you saw it...

Oh, don't tell me that. If you saw it just from moving a shoe right there, they would have seen it had they moved the sheet at all. That is so gross. That is so gross. It was disgusting. Did you bring it in, show us? No.

Oh, okay. Where is it now? you threw it away. No, no, they went and cleaned the room. I didn't touch it. You didn't touch it. All right, what do you have over there? So I have the 5 to 1 ratio.

I don't know if you've ever heard about this, but it's from Dr. John Gottman, and he's an author. He's a psychologist. He's a psychologist. Never heard of them. This has actually been, it's pretty popular and widely known, but even I forget it sometimes, and I came across it. And it's this, it's talking about your relationship, and it's the key to making it work. And it's the 5 to 1 ratio where no relationship is free from conflict at all.

Like, we all fight. But you have to have five positive interactions for every negative interaction. Where it loses me is when somebody goes, this is the key to make something that's universal and way different to a lot of people work. Well, it's an equation like saying, I mean, there's a lot of times where like if you have a name. I think this is probably good, but it's not the key. For him to. Did you say that? Did he say that?

It's key. I've heard of this a lot and I even forget it. And I'm like, oh, so even in a romantic relationship, or like even with any human in your life, if you've got a negative interaction, five positive ones are going to... I love it. I agree with that-ish.

It's hard to keep track. Right. And for some people, it could be three, some people it could be nine. I'm just saying when people say things like, this is the key to blank, they lose me, because I don't think they're universal keys.

Or when like vitamins or food or machines are like, this promotes blank. Promotes means nothing. Promotes means nothing. There's no absolute association with the word promotes. Yeah. Like this promotes good skin care.

Promotes? I can't prove it doesn't. And that's why you say it. Because if possibly it could work and be an advantage to you if you do this, but we're not sure. But if they said the word causes, that's, that's right.

Oh, that's not good. But promotes, yeah, you know, but this is one of those things. Like, if you look at it, like it's an emotional bank. You should tell them. I get triggered by dumb things. Tell who, Doc?

No, no. I want Amy to do the story. I'm sorry. I get triggered by dumb things when people say this is the key to something. And I'm like, no. Yeah, but I've read it everywhere. This particular article that I came across is in Forbes.

I feel like you can trust that. They got money. Forbes called me the king of country music. Well, yeah, trust them then. Well, there you go. Isn't that George Strait? Exactly. Dude, that's not good.

And Dr. Gottman, like, he's renowned. So, like, but the thing that I struggle with is like a negative interaction. They said that something like an eye roll is a negative interaction. I'm like, oh, shoot, I roll my eyes all the time. But here's the thing. If you have something negative, I'm going to. to share with you some positives that you can do, okay? You're not into this. I am into it. I shouldn't have been triggered so early I'm giving you space now to gain the bit back.

Okay. Show some appreciation in some way, shape, or form. Express love. See, this is so generic. Stop, so, stop, stop, stop, stop and stop. It drives me. Share laughter. This promotes a healthy relationship. Your positive interaction might look different. Like, you might know that Caitlin likes quality time. They're saying this is the key. I'm not arguing with any of that. They're saying this is the key, but they're not even saying anything. There's no key.

Yes, they are. They're saying it's the five to one ratio that if you have for every one negative interaction, you need five positives. I love it, generally speaking, but I don't think it's the key. Bones is saying all they need to say on that is that this could be. Here's some good stuff you can do to help your relationship. Boom, that's it. If you have something negative happen and here's the ratio.

You're obsessed with this ratio? Because that's what it's called. It's called the five to one ratio. I know. And it's good. I stand by the fact that it's good. It's not the key to anything. And some people, it's different. It can be seven to one to one person. To me, it's, I could be negative one to one. Does this help if I say it this way? On average, five to one is the ratio. And this promotes a key to that way you're not committed anything. Here are five ways to incorporate positivity in your relationship. Like I said, you know what we should do? We should just hit the bit like we, we're

were able to start it over and just try to give the better. I'll take out the word key and will you pay attention? Let's give it a shot. No, I got you. Start it over. Let's just pretend. Okay. And action, go.

Okay, so a psychologist, Dr. John Gottman, not sure if you heard of him, but he's a best-selling author, renowned psychologist. And he has this ratio. It's called the five to one. And it's for every negative interaction that happens, you need to do five positive interactions to keep the relationship flowing in a good way. I like it. In theory, that sounds like it would work for the general population.

That's interesting. You are correct. In theory. Yes. So let me tell you. This works because it creates a buffer of positivity that helps couples navigate conflicts more effectively. Positive interactions such as showing appreciation,

expressing love, sharing laughter, and offering support, act as deposits in the emotional bank account of the relationship. So let's say, maybe one of you does an eye roll, one of you is passive-aggressive, one of you is sharing defensiveness or criticism. Well, you can take that negative and deposit in five,

and that'll help your relationship. Five positives. Take the negative. Roughly a pretty good number, right? This is probably something that a lot of people could use, possibly. I think it's an on average type thing. For some people, it might be seven.

Oh, so everybody's different, you're saying. Everybody's a little different. So it's not like the universal, like, he does a city. No, let me think. No, some people are just a little more difficult. Huh, I don't understand what you're saying. I would imagine. Be a little more specific with that. I'm just going to go out on a limb here and at your house it might be the ratios 10 to 1.

No, I don't need that. I don't need 10 positives. What do you need? Oh, yours is the opposite. You need five negatives of one positive. I need to slap me around a little bit. That's like you straight. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

If she does something nice, she needs to hit me a few times to make sure. It's the opposite. So anyway. I like it. It's a pretty good thing to live by. If you want more clarity around it, I know he's written books, but you can also just Google the 5 to 1 ratio and so much information will help up. Because I do think that this could be a helpful tool for people to just keep in their back pocket. I feel like a guy like this is like the key to like earth or some stuff, you know?

I don't know. I don't know that I like the word key. Yeah, yeah. All right. Thank you, Amy, for sharing that. Sure. This woman, she's almost 40, which is crazy when, like, real age adults do stupid stuff. She is in Arkansas facing charges because she was visiting her son in Juvie.

While she was there, she broke the glass out of a cancer fundraising candy machine and stole from it. Even if you take the cancer fundraising candy machine out, she breaks this up still. Okay. Even if you take that out, she's doing this into prison. Right, and you wonder why her son's in Jube. I know. So then I feel bad for him. But then I feel bad for her, like, what was her environment?

Yeah, it keeps falling down the tree. Did a lot of all of this. Yeah, a woman was visiting her son, and she's facing misdemeanor charges after deputy says she broke the glass out of a cancer fundraising candy machine and stole. Goodness. I'm sure when you're breaking a new machine,

it's not like she stopped to read. Ah, good point. Cancer fundraising. She just saw the money. Yeah. I hear you, however, you're doing it into jail. Let's not remove all three factors here. She was thinking screw cancer, so she broke it.

Oh, then we hate her. No, no, she was mad at cancer. So she's going to take the money away from it? That makes no sense. I don't think so. That's from Kate 8, K-A-I-T-8. There's a mega-million ticket worth more than $1 billion still unclaimed. Yeah.

It says New Jersey mega-millionth ticket worth more than $1 billion still unclaimed. Billion. They're getting their stuff figured out. A billion. Oh, I don't know. The tickets from March. You don't need anything figured out. Oh, it's from March?

Yeah, it's not this week. Oh, no, yeah. A billion? Like, you don't need to figure anything out. You're done. Oh, my gosh. Life is, you're set. New Jersey's second largest lottery jackpot has been,

has been claimed but a ticket worth $1.3 billion is unclaimed. Yeah, okay. So first day to talk about the one that was claimed but the second one

because the mega millions and the powerball are different which I get confused on. The big powerball was claimed but this one worth $1.13 billion and the mega millions is unclaimed. The winning ticket was March 26th sold in Neptune, New Jersey.

Several other New Jerseyans won smaller prizes. But from March, the winner has yet to come through. If the Mega Million Jackpot Prize is not claimed within the required time limit, each participating state will get back all the money. ABC 7 New York. Lunchbox's thoughts? I just don't know what you're waiting on.

A billion dollars. No, I think it's probably lost and they don't know. They don't know. From March? Three weeks ago, okay. Five weeks ago, maybe you're teetering on you should have your crap together. And also you could lose a ticket. Like, you don't want to wait that long.

You have five weeks. Go in and check the ticket. for somebody stills a ticket. But March, that ticket was thrown away probably as soon as it was bought. If we lived in Jersey... I did the dump. Yeah, would it be worth like

just going to just look for this ticket? Yes. Like I'm talking, go to dumps, go to every trash can't, go to, like, knock on doors, get on social media. You're playing the lottery again. So what that is is a dirty lottery. But you know it exists, though.

You know it's out there. You also know someone's going to get the money. So if you're not already playing the lottery, why would you go play the dirty lottery? But odds are probably even worse. Jersey's small, man. Small compared to what other states? Yeah.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's like going Rudy Gaubert's small. Okay, seven foot compared to Wimby. But then you can narrow it down to what gas station it was sold at? And then trace it. You're in the perimeter. That's the dump you need to go to. Did you just say that word, not really know what it means?

What? Perimeter? You're on the perimeter. No, it's in the area. A perimeter is. You set up a perimeter. Okay, perimeter is the area that you're looking at. But you don't know where it is.

And the perimeter is like a line not to cross. No, no, it's like a boundary. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. If it's at that gas station, you go two blocks this way, two blocks this way, two blocks on doors. So you're putting a boundary. Yeah, you're putting that perimeter. But you don't know that. No, no, I'm saying.

Scientifically, you don't know what criminals in that perimeter, but you set up a perimeter hoping that you caught them. But you only do that if it's very recent, if it happened like the last five to 10 to 20 minutes, because you can only get so far in 20 minutes. This happened in March. The person could literally be on the other side of the world. They could have lost a job, moved somewhere. Right. They could have ate the ticket.

I didn't think about that Oh no, that's in the sewer Hey, can you throw up what's inside your stomach See if they hate it I just feel you go on social media You start telling everyone hey, search your wallets And I'll go to your house I'll help you look through your stuff

Yeah If you bought a lottery ticket around this time But if somebody else finds it and it was theirs You're not getting any of the money No, no, we charge a fee It's a little fee 10 million They don't have to pay you

No, no But that's the agreement We have a contract To every door we don't know Why would they agree to that If one they didn't buy a lottery ticket And two, if they did and they were reminded of it and they go look for it.

They find it themselves. They're not going to give you money. If they're panicking, like, I can't find it. And you knock on their door and say, hey, you're about to get one billion dollars. So they know they've lost it then. They got. Okay, now you got to find the person that this is. And you have a contract.

I'm not saying it's going to be easy. And you say, right. Nothing is easy. But you say, listen. I just took the story and crumbled it up. You are going to pay me 50 million and I'll find your lottery ticket. There's something there, bone. And you only pay me.

But if you go find the lottery ticket and they haven't signed it, you have a billion. You don't have to take 50 million. But if it's in their house, it's theirs. And you're going to let somebody that's come randomly knocking on your door in your house to search through everything you have. With the contract? Yes, contracts make everything good. Oh my gosh. It's a business, man.

It's a terrible business. Anyway, a billion bucks still hasn't been discovered. So sad. And probably never will. If, and it's usually a year, right, lunchbox? Yeah, it's like nine months maybe. April, May, June, July. So it's four months.

We got time. Maybe a year. I don't know the exact day. go to Jersey and start this. Start the business? Yes. What? What?

What? What? Some states are 180 days. Oh, gosh. What's New Jersey? Oh, my God. April, May, June. What is it?

Okay, one year. One year. Okay, we got time. People in New Jersey. Those other states have no patience. You got one hour. They want that money back. Being here one hour.

Here's a problem, guys. What? What? The ticket was bought at a liquor store. What's wrong with that? So almost probably drunk. No. I wouldn't think most people going into a liquor store are drunk.

Sometimes. Some are. It's like, you're drinking. You're like, oh my gosh, we're out of vodka. Somebody to go get one. I wouldn't say most that go in are drunk. Oh, man. So you start drinking and you had the lottery ticket in your pocket.

He loves creating scenarios. But see, this is good, though, lunchbox. You start hooking up with the ticket and there's a hole in it. No, no. You're drunk. What? And then you're like, I can still salvage it. But then you realize the hole's in the barcode.

Okay. or you're going out for a night, you know, you're going to party. So you put the lottery ticket in your pocket and you go to the party and you're and you're like, man, where's my phone? You pull it out of your pocket. You're so drunk. You don't even notice that the lottery ticket fell out. It sticks to the bottom of your shoe.

See, this feels like a familiar story. It picks it up and blows it. Oh, my God. Oh, nice. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Anyway, it's a billion dollars out there if you guys want to go search, knock on some doors. Dang. You're like, hey, I'm here to look for a ticket and see if people let you.

Four feet. In New Jersey. See if they shoot you. Yeah. This story comes to us from Selma, North Carolina. A resource officer at a local middle school has been fired from her job and may be facing charges. Adder, she used her taser on a teacher for fun. What?

She's like, oh, it's just playing around, so I shot the teacher, and the teacher didn't get mad. But they're like, you can't do that. She goes, look, I've done it on students before. Oh, gosh. Oh, no, that's not what you say. Let's take your lungs. You don't add more lumps And so now they're investigating if she really shot students

And she could be facing charges Eich Uh, thank you I'm Lunchbox That's your Boaths story of the day We did a draft of the most annoying songs To get stuck in your head Ray Mundo

Drafted Fancy Like from Walker Hayes Macarena And Party in the USA Three songs that definitely get stuck in your head Ramundo you're in last place Oh You got 5% of the vote Because I went after Walker Hayes.

That's on me. You didn't go after him. That is a song that gets stuck in your head. It was a shot, though. I never felt it was. Now you're declaring it was interesting. Okay. Yeah.

Very weird. It was a shot then, okay. Yeah, no, I feel like there's some great songs to get stuck in my head. We'll accept a shot. So Ray is out. Switch it up here. Lunchbox with tub thumping.

Oh, I get knocked down. Which, by the way, two parts of that song. Not only is it, I get knocked down, but also pissing the night away And then also He drinks a whiskey drink Like all those are hooks Oh yeah yeah yeah

All those are hooks He had call me maybe I just met you And then he had I'm gonna be What's I will walk five Don't dang

Yeah So lunchbox You're still in it Oh Yeah For number one You're still on for number one Wow

Yeah Yeah Amy had Barbie girl Mbop and Nickelback photograph. I think the photograph got you. Yeah, killed you. Good song, but not really annoying in your head type song.

You know? Yeah. It's good, though. That opening line, though, is one of the most memorable. Maybe that should be a draft we do. Most memorable opening lines from songs. What is that one? Look at this photograph. Oh, yeah, yeah. Every time of do it makes me laugh. What is that on freaking Joey's head? Yeah, I remember that. Yeah, that's a good one. Amy, you lost. You didn't finish last, but you're out.

Uh-oh. I'm just out for number one. Yeah. I got it. Uh-oh. Eddie, you had who let the dogs out? Yes. Oh, oh, oh, oh. Let it go from Frozen. It's so annoying.

And whoop, there it is. Oh, my gosh, I won. Eddie, you did not win. You're out. There's no way. I didn't beat Morgan. Morgan had Baby Shark, which by the way, wasn't the first overall pick.

No, I was third. These two guys passed on it. Hey, can I tell you I screwed up? I really did. I literally thought no one else would think about that because I'm like, I'm only one that's kids. I'm like Eddie has kids, Amy has kids.

Morgan is a kid. That was a stupid strategy on my heart. Morgan dropped to work. Let's hear that song. Absolutely dumb strategy on my part. Friday by Rebecca Black and Gangdom style. That's the one. She won.

Morgan won 47%. Yeah. The actual order was Morgan 47%. Eddie 36%. Dang, I was close. And then a complete drop-off. Lunchmark 7, Amy 6, Raimundo 5.

Yeah. So the belt changes hands. It goes from in front of Eddie over the Morgan. But Eddie finished second. The hair's on it. I'll move my hair, don't worry Oh his hair system? Morgan gets the bell. Congratulations Morgan.

Boy, baby shark sits in there, doesn't it? Yeah, that was bad. Baby Shark is one of those people who move in, Squatter. You can't get it out. Come on, man. Yeah, take them to court to get it out. Goodbye, everybody.