The Bobby Bones Show - WEDS PT 2: How To Get Paid To Move + Lunchbox Lies About His Past + How Nightmares Can Kill You

Episode Date: June 25, 2025

Bobby found out that there are certain cities that will pay YOU to move there. Lunchbox lied about his past and we called him out on it. Bobby shared a list of crazy money stories that involve someone... got paid millions by accident at work, a man who swallowed $770k in jewelry and how much we are all spending on subscriptions without realizing it. We discussed a new study that found people who have a lot of nightmares are more likely to DROP DEAD. Bobby found someone from his late-mother that he has never seen before. We also talked about Taylor Swift’s pop up performance in Nashville and why the Liver King got arrested.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:38 podcast, a one-stop news and pop culture shop to get you caught up and on with your day. And listen to Amy and T.J. on the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts. These are places that will pay you to move there. Huh, not bad. mostly you're just going to move if one there's a job that's paying you and you're moving for your job or you're moving back to a place or because you have support there let's say you have kids and you have a grandma or uncles and aunts that can help take care of the kids like those are probably the most common reasons you move somewhere right yeah okay up first west virginia ascend west virginia it's a program and move to one of their designated communities could score remote workers a 12k payday along with a free out-jointed door recreation package. So it's a whole program to get people to move there. Basically, they pay $12,000.
Starting point is 00:03:34 One time, 12K. From what I read, yes, you have to stay there for a certain amount of time so you can't like grand opening, grand closing. That's what I was thinking. I think they may give it to you in segments or after you reach the requirement of you've lived here a certain amount of time. And what's that recreational pass? Like pools, maybe parks, national parks?
Starting point is 00:03:53 Probably like, yes, memberships to things like parks. That's cool. Yeah. Tulsa, Oklahoma, the Tulsa Remote Program offers remote workers $10,000 in rental cash or a down payment on a home. So they're not going to give you a briefcase full of cash, but they will credit you $10,000 or they'll pay $10 grand toward part of the home purchase. That's pretty cool. And money's money, save money, made money. Topeka, Kansas.
Starting point is 00:04:18 Yeah. Choose Topeka will provide. Why did you go, yeah? That's where I was born. How long did you live there? Nine months. I feel you. I feel like born there.
Starting point is 00:04:27 I know, I know, but I feel like he steals the thunder from Morgan and Abby who actually are from Kansas. Were they born in Topeka? We were born in Wichita, but we were born in Kansas. You didn't spend your life in Kansas. No, no, no, no. I was born in that actual city. Remember with that pen, the Kansas Jayhawk pen that was such a hot item? Made out of the sports.
Starting point is 00:04:44 The basketball court. Yeah. Yeah. And it was like, Abby Axon went to school there, but he was like, I'm a bigger fan. And I was like, I understand both sides of this. Yeah, it doesn't matter. But hold on. I'm making it.
Starting point is 00:04:55 May much to do about nothing. But when you say, like, Houston. I don't go like, Woo! Were you born in Houston? No, I was born in Texas, but like, that's like Morgan. To be on lunchbox aside, if he was, I think living somewhere for nine months doesn't count for much if you didn't stay
Starting point is 00:05:09 there. But it's on your birth. No, but whatever you say. Company conspiracy, Amy always defends lunchbox. I'm just letting everybody know why that says. That's why the company conspiracy happens. Eddie was defending me also. He was saying Morgan and Abby claiming Topeka makes no sense because they weren't, they have no
Starting point is 00:05:25 relation to that. Right. I'm just talking Kansas in general. I just support Kansas in general because I love Kansas. That's where I'm from. Yeah. But Lunchbox does, if he was born in Topeka. It works. I guess. I was. My grandparents lived. I would go there for Thanksgiving and Christmas all the time.
Starting point is 00:05:41 I feel like you just choose it randomly when you're Topican. Other times you're San Antonio. It's like you have different. Do you recognize that though that you like get to choose? You have multiple cities that you can just be like, that's where I'm from. Correct. Where are you from? Where are you from? Where are you from?
Starting point is 00:05:56 I say I was... No, no, no. Where are you from? I was born in Topeka, but I grew up in Austin. I'm telling you, I tell everybody when they said... What about San Antonio? I say I went to college in San Antonio. But when people...
Starting point is 00:06:08 You're a code switcher. When people ask me where I'm from, I always say, well, I was born in Topeka. And my wife says to say, and then, she goes, you were only there nine months. Like, you don't have to say you're from... But you're telling the truth. You are telling the truth. I am from there, but I was raised somewhere else. Okay.
Starting point is 00:06:26 But where is that? from? Because you kind of, Ray does the same crap. I don't know where Ray's from. One day Ray shows up and he's like, no, man, I'm from Georgia. I'm from Michigan. I'm from Wyoming. He said one time he was from the four points. So what is that? So once and for all, where's everybody from? Ray Moondo, where are you from? Well, this is going to add a twist. No, no more twist. I was life flighted because of my twin brother, the umbilical cord was wrapped around his head. I was born technically in Salt Lake City, Utah. I had never heard that.
Starting point is 00:06:56 Okay, but all that, I just want to know where you're from. I'm not even asking where you were born, what hospital you were born. I just want to know if somebody says, where are you from? Where are you from? Because that's like your home. That's what you represent. Michigan. Agree.
Starting point is 00:07:10 And when did you move to Michigan? In high school. You laughed. But it's okay. You chose it. That's interesting. Where are you from? You're from Michigan.
Starting point is 00:07:19 Yes. Great. I will accept that. You also spent some time in places. Do you have a relationship? relationship with, and I think that's fair and fine. But where are you from? That's like your first team. You can't have two favorite teams. Like if you're an NFL fan, you can't have two favorite teams. You have one favorite team. They can have other teams you like and root for
Starting point is 00:07:35 for different reasons. But you have one favorite team. Ray, you're from Michigan. Yes. Now, what other places are you close to? So I lived in Wyoming for 14 years. What would be your junior varsity? If Michigan's your team, what's your junior varsity? Texas. Okay. I went to college there. Guys, it really sounds to me like he's from Wyoming. I'm so confused. Walk us to your timeline, Ray. You were born where? I was born in Salt Lake City, Utah. And how long were you in Salt Lake City? A day. So basically, you in lunchbox? Yeah. Got it. And then, relaxed. Lived in Wyoming for what I thought was my entire life, 14 years. He's from Wyoming. He's from Wyoming. That's crazy. I know.
Starting point is 00:08:16 He's not from high school in Michigan. The upper peninsula like he always says. College, two years in Chicago, then two years in Texas, after college, met you guys in Texas, and then you guys moved me here to Tennessee. But you get to declare whatever you want. You are from Michigan. He's from Wyoming. He's from Wyoming. He's not from the north. Wyoming's kind of-ish north, but not really. I mean, it's more north than I. He makes it like, I'm from the north. And he is, because we have to respect, he is from Michigan. Michigan. But I would think, if I spent 14 years in a place, that would be the place I would be from. Yeah, he's from Wyoming. But he's not, Amy. I know. And interesting, he says Texas because he was only there for college and maybe a couple years after.
Starting point is 00:08:57 Two years college, two years after. Wyoming's kind of north. Not as north as Michigan. Would you consider that west? That's west. It's definitely west, but it's north. It's above Utah. But it's not northwest because northwest is like...
Starting point is 00:09:10 But is Utah the north? It's cold. No. No. Utah is a mountain. Utah is above Tennessee on the map. Well, I don't think we're north. No, we're in the mid. but would anything above us be considered north?
Starting point is 00:09:23 Yes, but this also goes under like the whole Texas thing. You're like Texas is not the south. Correct. But would Iowa be north? No, Midwest. That's the Midwest. Oh, that's the Midwest. But Michigan's Midwest. No.
Starting point is 00:09:34 Yeah, and so is Minnesota. That's the Midwest. That's the North. I don't know. That's the North, I think. I think that's the North. Wyoming is considered part of, yeah, the Mountain West sub-region. It's not part of the Midwest.
Starting point is 00:09:48 But I'm just saying is it considered north to you? No. No. The same way Texas is not the south, even though it's very south. What about South Dakota? North. That's the north. Is South Dakota the Midwest, though?
Starting point is 00:10:04 No. Too far up there. That's more central, right? What states are considered the Midwest? Oklahoma. Oklahoma's not the Midwest. My wife's from Oklahoma. Kansas.
Starting point is 00:10:13 She's like, we're not the Midwest. Iowa. Well, let's look at the actual Illinois, Indiana, Iowa. Okay. Kansas, Michigan, Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, North Dakota, Ohio, South Dakota, and Wisconsin. So yeah, Michigan is considered the Midwest. It's also the north. It can be both. So Ray's no longer from the north. He's from the Midwest. He's from the north because he claimed Michigan. You get to pick over. You just said it was mid. I'm confused. Oh, I see what you're saying.
Starting point is 00:10:44 I still think it's the north because it borders Canada. Yeah. Michigan is? Yeah. Dang. Yeah. You didn't realize that? Nope. Detroit's like right across the line, right, Ray? The lower peninsula, yeah. But I'm closer to Canada than I am to the lower peninsula or even Wisconsin. That's why I said the north. We the north. Toronto Raptors.
Starting point is 00:11:03 We the north. That's where I came up with it. Because of Michigan? Yeah, just because I was so far north and people didn't understand how far north I was. Yeah, yeah. Okay. Like how far to Canada from your... Two hours.
Starting point is 00:11:16 I cross the border and I see Mounties and all kinds of stuff. Mounties. That's crazy. I mean, that's north. You get to. claim a place to be from and then a place that you're still attached to and that you love. Oh, that's tough, man. Amy, where are you from? I'm from Austin.
Starting point is 00:11:27 There's no debate about this. I was born. No, no, no, you're from Alabama. Yeah, I thought you're Alabama. And from Arkansas. No. I mean, that's where. You yell roll-tied randomly. Those are my roots. That's where my mom is from. Is that a different category roots? Yeah, it's where my mom's from. So you're from where? But I was born in downtown Austin at St. David's. And second degree? And I lived there my entire life. Same house till I was 18. Pick a second layer.
Starting point is 00:11:49 It can be wherever Texas So Austin is first and all of Texas the second Fair enough I don't know I guess like It's your life Amy That's where I would go back to my roots
Starting point is 00:12:05 Like my dad is from Dilley South Texas And my mom is from Alabama So I feel like I have a little bit of I think that's absolutely fair You can be Austin first And then just claim Texas second Okay lunchbox Where are you from?
Starting point is 00:12:18 Where are you from? I'm not having to answer this question. No, where are you from? Man, I don't know what to claim here. Where are you from? Where are you from? I mean, I was born.
Starting point is 00:12:28 No, no, no, no. Where are you from? This is an exercise we're doing. We just met. This is not being written. Yeah, yeah, but this is hard because then if I say Austin, then you guys are, every time I bring up Topeka, you're going to. We already do that every time, so you're not really losing anything.
Starting point is 00:12:43 Where are you from? So I guess I'm from Austin. Okay. And you have a love of? That's tough, too. I mean, what about Chicago? I was about to say Chicago. San Antonio.
Starting point is 00:12:53 I was going to say, man, how do I leave out Chicago? When he goes to Chicago, he has so many landmarks. He loves to point out, like, right there. My dad saved this guy from getting beat up. No, he's a woman getting beat up by a man. That's it. Outside of Gino's east, right across street. My grandfather used to take me to that store right there.
Starting point is 00:13:07 Yep. What do you got? Because if whatever you don't claim second, it ain't on the list anymore. Oof. Whoa. Yeah, I know. Dude, do an Amy. Just say United States.
Starting point is 00:13:17 So you got Austin at first What's second? Man, I can't, you're saying I can't claim something. What's your backup quarterback? Because they don't play much, but every once in a while they may get called in. You're not building your franchise around them. Yeah, I know. It's tough, man.
Starting point is 00:13:36 It's a toss up between Topeka, Chicago, and San Antonio. Because I have so many... You're Carmen San Diego, bro. Let's just pick somebody. I was all over the place. Yeah. No, you weren't really. No, I want.
Starting point is 00:13:47 Your family was in different places. Right, right, but I visited. Okay. Eddie, you got a problem with that? You visiting? No, we don't care. Just pick a second place. I mean, do I pick Nashville?
Starting point is 00:14:03 Oh. You've been here for 12 years. That's true. I mean, I had my three kids. I know, but there's no way if I'm in Nashville and people say, oh, where are you from? I don't ever say Nashville. That would be disrespectful because there are people that are from here. Very few.
Starting point is 00:14:19 Lunchbox? more than you think Yeah, a lot. Me too. Go ahead. So what are you saying? Whatever I say here, what happens now? You're already from Austin. There's no, there's no time.
Starting point is 00:14:30 I got that. You're from Austin. It's okay. At the end of the day, you can also just say whatever you want. You just have to put up with what they say. Like, I'm still going to roll tide and I have to deal with them being like, that's true. No, no, no, roll time.
Starting point is 00:14:41 Okay. But that's how we feel when you act like you're from Topeka. Whoa, what do you mean? I like it. You don't even have a memory of living there. Oh man But I remember I remember going to grandma and grandpa's and driving up that gravel driveway
Starting point is 00:14:52 That's fair That's absolutely fair I remember when it was snowing one Thanksgiving And my uncle parked and it started sliding down the driveway Man what memory If you don't think a second You get none Go to Pica dude
Starting point is 00:15:03 It's got to be Topeka Okay That's your backup quarterback Topeka Morgan Well definitely Kansas Everybody in my entire family My roots
Starting point is 00:15:15 You can't take the whole state Because Amy did second Yeah As your first? No, it's my second. I'm just, can I just talk first? Second. Well, your first trip?
Starting point is 00:15:24 The entire, all my roots, everything, it's all southwest, southeast Kansas. So Kansas is all of my thing, but my home, my first is Wichita. So where are you from? Wichita, Kansas. Okay. And then all of Kansas is my entire roots. Nobody else is everywhere, anywhere else. Eddie?
Starting point is 00:15:39 That's so dumb. That's not true because mine's going to be Arkansas as a state. You guys can't do this whole state. The whole state is simple. Where are you from? I'm from Arkansas. What part? Central.
Starting point is 00:15:50 It's just always going to have to go like, okay. I moved all around. I went to all different schools. I didn't have a single town I lived in. Mostly mountain pine. No, no, I have memories. We moved to Mountain Pine in sixth grade. So I spent six years there,
Starting point is 00:16:03 but I spent way more years than that with memories and other places in the state. Yeah, and every Christmas and summer I went to Alabama, out of those weeks. So mine's Arkansas and Austin is my backup. I'm going south Texas. Austin, you could say you're from Austin. No, it's my backup.
Starting point is 00:16:17 Wait, so you're saying you're from the entire state of Arkansas. Yes. Yeah. But if someone's like, where else? It has to be Austin. That's my backup. Even though you lived in Nashville longer. No.
Starting point is 00:16:29 Yes. Yes. Yeah. That's crazy. I think so many of like my early adult. And I wouldn't have moved to Nashville without Austin. Like I'm only here because of Austin. And we're only here because of Austin.
Starting point is 00:16:42 Yeah. Man. Mine's South Texas. That's where I'm from. Oh, why I'm from. I mean, it's the real Grand Valley. It's what you feel is. And I said Central Arkansas and he's like, oh.
Starting point is 00:16:56 No, that's the whole state. No, it's not. You said Arkansas. Where are you from? Texas. No, that sounds so lame. But Texas is so much bigger and there are so many areas that are known independently of each other. If you have to follow it up with what part?
Starting point is 00:17:08 It's not right. If I say, okay, what part of the South Texas is you from? It's all of it, man. The Rio Grande Valley, Real Grand Valley. That's a lot of different cities. too. Texas has many, many major cities, many locations that are different from each other. Houston is different from Dallas, is different from San Antonio, it's different from East Texas. Arkansas, it's kind of the same. We're small.
Starting point is 00:17:30 No, you got the Ozarks. I'm not from the Ozarks. And that goes into Missouri too. Exactly. You're not from there. But I'm from Arkansas. Where's home? Arkansas. Okay, well, what part? Central. And no one even knows where I'm from where I live for six years of my life. Yeah, I've witnessed that. Everybody, everybody keeps wanting, like, I, yeah. What part? You know, like, you don't know it. And then they're like, no, try me. Mountain Pine. No, I've never heard of it. I've seen that conversation go down.
Starting point is 00:17:54 South Texas, I'll just say real grand valley. Okay. Down the very southern. And your second, your backup quarterback is? Dude, I might have to go Nashville. That's fair. I'm going to have to go Nashville on that one. Especially if I'm out of town, where are you from?
Starting point is 00:18:06 I mean, I live in Nashville. Well, yeah. That's different. That's like where do you live now? Like, if you're out of town and someone asks you, hey, where you're from? I say Nashville. It's where my address is. Yeah, but no one says, like, where do you live?
Starting point is 00:18:17 now. They say where are you? That's a different scenario. Like it's supposed to say, where are you visiting from? That's what they're asking you. When you're sitting at a blackjack table, okay? This is a great scenario. Well, that's Nashville. That answer's Nashville. And they always say, where are you from?
Starting point is 00:18:29 I'm like, oh, I live in Nashville, but I grew up in Texas. I tell them that. What about you're born in to me? I do say that. I add that. It's really weird, but I do, I add it every time. Other places that are paying you guys, Baltimore, Maryland. Oh, I am not moving there.
Starting point is 00:18:45 Why not? That's nice out there. buying into Baltimore could offer you a shot at $5,000 in down payment or closing cost assistance and a five year forgivable loan but you have to stay five years and they forgive the loan Hamilton, Ohio, their reverse scholarship program offers up to $15,000 to those who've graduated
Starting point is 00:19:01 from the STEAM program, which is science, technology, engineering, arts, and mathematics. Dean. I know you're trying to correct me and say STEM. No, I said. You were, Amy, be honest. You were going to be honest with yourself. Be honest with yourself.
Starting point is 00:19:16 Yes, but then I heard you say it. And then I was like, oh, steam. I've never heard of that. Arts. Hey, I turned my stem off on TikTok, by the way. Oh, you did? I went in my settings. I was like, I don't need that crap.
Starting point is 00:19:27 I was watching it for a while. She did him a t. Yeah. But then I'm glad you hit him with the... But then I heard him say the rest of it, and I was like, interesting. No, you jumped in with the T's before I got to the A and arts. Steam. Well, my brain, sorry, was ahead of it.
Starting point is 00:19:40 So fast. So fast. Quick thinker. Yeah. Did you do steam? Sorry, I'll slow it down. Ketchikan, Alaska. Chew-Cchik, is that what it's called?
Starting point is 00:19:50 Yeah, it's awesome. Are you been there? Yeah. Are you from there? No, no, no, no, no, no, calm down. I didn't do that. Did you have like nine places you're from? If you take the whole state.
Starting point is 00:20:01 Choose Ketchikan offers free internet for three months and up to $2,000 after you've lived there for a year. That's pretty good. For a year? You get two grand? I'd live there. I'm surprised you're not excited about the free internet. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:20:13 It's probably more expensive to get it up there in Alaska. Catch can looks awesome. It's beautiful. Yeah, it's pretty. It's just cold. Yeah, you know, or it's daylight for six months. It's not cold during summertime. Okay.
Starting point is 00:20:25 That's like two months. I'm just, you know. Daylight for six months, right? And dark for six months, like that there? Yeah. In January, let's go to the highest it gets there. It is in August, 64 is the high. That's not bad.
Starting point is 00:20:37 For 13 days. I'm sure it's cool. I'd be cool. I've never been to Alaska. Catch can winters are frequent, frequent rain. snow. It's not as brutal as other Alaskan regions.
Starting point is 00:20:51 Boy, that's not really a pitch. We're not as bad as others. I don't think it's as deep in Alaska as some of the others. You can't play golf out there, huh? No. It's like Canada when the guy was here that was in Canada, he's like, yeah,
Starting point is 00:21:04 we get to play for like three months. It's like I wouldn't even, I'd never join a club. I'd never want to buy clubs because it's like you wouldn't get to use them. Newton, Iowa. The Newton Housing Initiative could give $10,000 in cash to new residents buying a home valued at over $240,000 or more.
Starting point is 00:21:23 That's good money. All that's from NBC, Los Angeles. Well, they do have golf courses in Alaska. Oh, I'm sure they do. I just found a couple. Okay, let's take a break, and we will come back. A win is a win. A win is a win.
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Starting point is 00:26:41 so they don't catch them. $770,000 worth of Tiffany earrings he stole and he just swallows them all. It didn't have to surgically remove those like they do with dogs sometimes? I think they just wait for him to poop. Oh. Hmm. So troopers from the
Starting point is 00:26:57 Florida Highway Patrol were seen pulling over Jathan Lawrence Gilder and fighting to search inside of his mouth as he was escorted out of the car, Gilder, 32 years old, began thrashing around as three astonished officers wrestled him to the ground and they were trying to get him to open his mouth
Starting point is 00:27:15 like if your dog has something, you're like, give me that, give me that. A trooper pulled him over because they were on alert about a robbery that had happened at the Tiffany and co-store at the mall. The cop then noticed he was talking with a close-em-out and also moving an object around, First, he's talking like this. And Rorya's tongue.
Starting point is 00:27:35 And so they realized he was trying to swallow all the stuff. That reminds me of the Goonies. Remember the Goonies? Man, forever ago. Corey Feldman, he tried to swallow all the jewels, and they're like, give me more. He keeps spinning movies out. He pretended to be a representative for an Orlando Magic player
Starting point is 00:27:55 to get access into the Tiffany store, and then apparently, according to WFLA, robbed it. So is that easy? The dash cam video that shows them wrestling and like fighting. Like literally if my dog gets something, I'm trying to get it out, that's what it looks like. Man, that feels like it would hurt though. Yeah. But I think that's it.
Starting point is 00:28:11 Like you get caught cheating. Swallow the homework. Swallow the cheat sheets. They do that with drugs. Yeah. Then they freak out. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:28:18 I guess so. A guy in Michigan got $1.6 million extra on one paycheck by accident. One point six million. A county accidentally paid an employee $1.6 million extra. That is a lot. Instead of his hourly wage, he got basically $1.6 million. And so he reported the mistake and began returning the money. Two employees have been fired. One has been suspended over the air. The mistake is the latest in a string of issues since the county switched to a new Oracle-run payroll system last year. Officials say inadequate training and unresolved system problems continue to leave this vulnerability. WX, XYZ with that.
Starting point is 00:28:59 you get a check for $1.6 million. What do you think? I think, oh, this was an accident, and I'd better to say something. So, yeah. Yeah, immediately. I feel like I would go worse. I'd be like, I'm being targeted somehow. They're trying to get me for something, and they've pinned $1.6 million on me.
Starting point is 00:29:18 I'd start to freak out immediately if I had seen that. Yeah. Or is it a test for my company to see how honest I am? Well, yeah, they've got to use $1.6 million. That's an expensive test. I don't think I'd notice it. Yeah. Oh, yeah, because what?
Starting point is 00:29:30 You all don't, because he didn't... Are you kidding? But Eddie doesn't log into his stuff. His wife does. He's saying like he's so rich. He was making a... I don't know of a million dollars. He's like...
Starting point is 00:29:39 Oh. Yeah. I thought he was saying because he's so detached from his... What do you do, lunchbox? If our company accidentally gives you $1.6 million extra on a check. Really, what do you do? I would be a resident of a different state. Like, I mean, that person was a Michigan resident.
Starting point is 00:29:52 Their new home would probably be in Pennsylvania or some. I'd move out of there that way. Hey, can't find me. Our company's in every state. Yeah. What are you talking to? But I wouldn't work with the company anymore, so there's no way to get it back. They can still find you.
Starting point is 00:30:05 If you quit, it's not like calling Forcefield. No, it is. Like, when I quit, they're not going to be like, oh, you know what? Now they quit. Let me go back and loot through his paychecks. No, they're just going to be like. No, they're going to know where it went. They're going to investigate where the 1.6 went.
Starting point is 00:30:18 And you can't call like, ah, Forcefield can't get to me. I got a feeling that I could hide pretty well with $1.6 million. Can he leave the country? Like, is that a? You're going to turn your whole life around. For 1.6 million? Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:30:34 Your kids, your wife. You'd have to leave them behind. You'd have to leave your house. You're really not going to be able to sell your house. Why? Because they're going to know when you're selling it and go after whomever selling it. How long do you think it would take them to realize? Like if that company has been having, you know, like...
Starting point is 00:30:47 Probably pretty quick. $1.6 million? I think that's probably pretty quick. It's probably like $1,600 or something, and decimal points moved to the wrong place. I'm just saying I'd be a former Michigan resident and then I'd say, oh, I didn't realize it. I just thought I'd move. You'd have. to get it all out of your bank and have to be all cash and you'd have to run with that.
Starting point is 00:31:02 Because if it's in your bank, they would just lock your bank account. Okay, you just go put it in the Caymans. You don't even know what that means. Yeah, you put a bank account in the Caymans and they can't touch it. Where are the Caymans? Down there? They got a Bank of America in the Camans? No, that's why you don't do an American bank.
Starting point is 00:31:17 Oh. A guy finds a $50,000 lottery ticket while cleaning out his car, a winner. A Maryland lottery player said he was cleaning out his car. He found a forgotten powerball ticket that turned out to be a $50,000 winner. The Philadelphia man who travels for work as, an engineer, said he bought the ticket June 4th. The man said he was cleaning his car more than a week later, and he found an old ticket. He looked at it.
Starting point is 00:31:37 He's that's won $50,000. He's going to use it to pay his bills. How does that make you feel? It's annoying that you're that irresponsible with a ticket that you just throw it in your truck and you don't even know. $50,000. Can you imagine me in that irresponsible with something that can pay you so much? It didn't say it was in his floorboard. It could have been in his like metal compartment.
Starting point is 00:31:56 Anywhere. I don't care. But he could have put it there. and it's where he always puts his ticket and then he goes and finds it later. And also he's acting like this is some golden ticket. If you play a lot or you play for fun and you know the odds aren't that great,
Starting point is 00:32:07 you're likely thinking it's not a winner because it's likely not. Then why not just buy it, walk out the store and throw it on the ground if it's likely not a winner. I mean, that's a crazy logic. It's not crazy logic because it's still there. Even if you don't plan to win. But he didn't even, he probably forgot all about that ticket.
Starting point is 00:32:23 That's okay. Now you remembered with $50,000. Yeah, idiot. Americans are paying more than $1,000. a year on subscriptions. A lot of Americans are feeling oversubscribed and are considering cutting their subscriptions, according to a new survey from CNET. It finds that the average American spends 90 bucks a month or $1,080 on them a year.
Starting point is 00:32:41 But even worse, we're wasted $200 a year or so on unused or unnecessary subscriptions. Amy thoughts? Yeah, true. I mean, this happens. I go through and I try to clean them up. Rocket money is something that has really helped me. I use that. And it will show me any duplicate transactions that I have.
Starting point is 00:32:58 like subscriptions and I'll be like oh my gosh like there's sometimes where I've signed up for two accounts of something and I'm like what and I've been paying for this like MGM streaming service paramount plus two or whatever they are because you sign up for all of the trials because I need to watch a certain show but then yes you forget about it but then I that's been a very clear way for me as I've been involved in my finances to lay it all out I have a pie chart I see where my money's going and yeah absolutely subscriptions are a money suck. I can't unsubscribe to the Halo account that I have because we built a halo when our dogs were younger. What's a halo? It's basically an electric fence. Oh, that.
Starting point is 00:33:40 Yeah. But we haven't had that in like three, I haven't had like three properties. I have no idea how to unsubscribe. I get eight dollars every month and I can't get out of it. I can't remember my name. Yeah, let me see your phone. I can't remember a password. I've tried. I don't know how to get out of it. So like I have those and I guess I'm just perpetually locked in forever. I think I'm just going to be a halo. What car does it go to? Just cancel that car. I can't even get into the account. I don't know. I don't want to cancel the whole car for $8 a month. You know, I'm punching a pain in the butt. That is? But you know what's been awesome for me is YouTube TV? It's, I was so scared of just getting like a television, like a cable app.
Starting point is 00:34:17 But because I was like YouTube TV, what even is that? It's awesome. Is that where you watch all your TV? It's every, everything. Everything. Yeah, YouTube TV's been awesome. And it's allowed me to cut some of them, but we pay for so many subscription services, though. Mm-hmm. I wish you could only pay as you used. Because there are certain seasons where we're just so into Paramount Plus, depending on whatever version of Yellowstone or whatever show he's making. We're all on that.
Starting point is 00:34:42 Didn't we have a couple shows at HBO Max? I wish you could just pay as you use. Like a, what's the buffet called? Lou Am Butter. Oh, Loubies. Louie. Yeah, I got Louvies. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:34:52 I just noticed a Crunchyroll expense. Do you all know what that is? Jelly Roll. No, no. Crunchy roll. That's your anime. I know. And, you know, my daughter loves anime.
Starting point is 00:35:01 And I don't know how I was overlooking this, but suddenly I see the crunchy roll on. And then I talked to her, and she's like, that was not me. I did not sign. I said to Shira, there is nobody else in this house that is going to sign up for Crunchyroll. Like, it has you all over it. So, like, how, she's like, well, I don't know. Surely it can't be me. It had to be a really long time ago.
Starting point is 00:35:21 I said it was. And we've been spending money every month. So I hope. You shut it off? So I hope, yeah, canceled. No more Crunchyroll. Wow, you got to get me out of Halo over here. Amy Gennel.
Starting point is 00:35:30 I'm in Halo prison. It was great. We just don't need it anymore. And for at least a year and a half, I've been paying for it. Did I just money out. What's cool about Apple, though, is you can go into your subscription. I just didn't pay for it with Apple. I should have.
Starting point is 00:35:44 But you can go into it and cancel anything in Apple if you go to your subscriptions. Yeah, that's another way. Because I always, some of those apps get me like the, you know, like there's one that was going to help me with my clothing. and then another one that was helping with my subliminals. What the heck are you spending money on? When I get a, if I get a little commercial, I click on it, and it's like, download this app. Oh, no.
Starting point is 00:36:03 Amy. They're just. She's like, but I can't figure out why I keep getting scammed. You think it's not that big of a deal. Oh, Apple got me with Apple News. You know, they'll pay, you can pay them for more news. Yeah. $12.99 a month or something.
Starting point is 00:36:17 And you get like every magazine? I just canceled that. I mean, for a while I was using it. And then I was like, this stuff is. I can find this elsewhere. I'm not going to pay Apple $12.99. Although it's nice to have it curated. You know, I pay for my Gmail.
Starting point is 00:36:32 What? Gmail, like, charges me monthly for, like, I guess. Storage, yeah. I'd pay drop bucks. I have to do that. This is wrong. You want to hear all my subscriptions? Oh, whoa.
Starting point is 00:36:40 Whoa, that's a long list. I know. 18 birdies go off. 99 bucks a year. What do you subscribe there? Yeah. It's a free version. It's a free.
Starting point is 00:36:48 I guess I thought it made me better or something. Oh, no. Apple one. 37.95. I don't know. 37, a year? Or a month? Because that's a lot.
Starting point is 00:37:00 Oh, it's for storage. Apple want to storage. There we go. Okay. Betternet VPN. 95 bucks a year. You need the VPN. Disney Plus.
Starting point is 00:37:09 1599 a month. 15. Wow. Dropbox. 1199 a month. Yeah, I pay for that. You're over the thousand already. ESPN plus, because I watch all the shows on ESPN.
Starting point is 00:37:21 That's good, though. I like that one. $119. a year. Man, you should look into getting the Disney ESPN bundle. Yeah, you do need to get the bundle, but the bundle includes another... Hulu. Macs. Or Verizon. $169.99 a month. Microsoft
Starting point is 00:37:33 365, which is Microsoft Word, $99 a year. Microsoft Word. It's free on your laptop. All the Microsoft stuff. It's not. You have to pay for a license. Yeah. Netflix, four screens, $22.99 a month. Paramount Plus $12.99 a month. Peacock yearly,
Starting point is 00:37:47 $139.99. Bro. Prompt smart, which is basically a prompter on my phone so I can read when I have to do Like a telecomper We need that 3499 a year
Starting point is 00:37:57 So some of these are work expenses We need this No he doesn't for videos Peloton When is the last time you got on that Don't be rude What I'm just saying You could probably
Starting point is 00:38:09 Do you use Peloton still? Treadmillademill No you still use it though Yes on treadmill But do you take a class Because I have a Peloton Trimel I don't pay for the monthly I just get you can
Starting point is 00:38:17 There's an option where you click Just run That's what you need bones And then you can watch whatever you want on your own TV. And then I think like Hulu and stuff I have on a different account. I don't know. Do you guys think I spend a lot?
Starting point is 00:38:27 Yes. Yeah, I think so. You're over that thousand a year more. Also, I don't really think you need Microsoft Word. Yeah, dude. Download it. No, I need. But for what?
Starting point is 00:38:36 You guys don't understand license how, all those programs that I need. They have to be like, you have licenses for them. I don't even know. I don't even know what do you use it legally. But what do you use? Like, when you're on your Apple, like, do you use Microsoft Word for stuff? All the time. Like, for what, though, I'm asking.
Starting point is 00:38:49 Like, to write? Yes. They have pages. Amy, he's a writer. Look at his books. I've got two, I got, well, two and a half bestsellers. I know, but there's like Google dogs. There's notes.
Starting point is 00:39:00 There's, there's, there is Apple pages. Or type in an email to yourself. Yeah, see yourself an email. It's free. I do all that. Yeah, I do all that. But do you know many times Microsoft Word comes to me through email. Someone's like, I've got this document, and you can't even copy and paste from it.
Starting point is 00:39:12 Yeah, that's annoying. It's a business expense. You just hold me that. Anyway, I'm done. And I didn't mean to have this reflect back on me. Maybe I'm just jealous. Because I have to figure all the ways to work around it. See, I can't cancel my halo because it's not part of Apple.
Starting point is 00:39:25 Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Let's start with nightmares can kill you. Sometimes you feel like you die in a nightmare. But I guess they say if you hit the ground, you really are dead. I've never hit the ground in a nightmare, like falling off a bridge or anything. You ever hit the ground?
Starting point is 00:39:40 No. No. I wake up kind of like shocked from something, but not because I'm falling. I just do that thing where I, what's it called? You jerk? You jerk. That's it. I jerk.
Starting point is 00:39:52 Twitch. Any of those terms of work there? Yeah. Twitch, that's it. Yeah, Twitch. A new, I twitch falling asleep. I jerk coming out of sleep. Okay.
Starting point is 00:40:03 Because I'll twit. And sometimes I'll twitch so hard falling asleep, I wake up. But a twitch to me is definitely going in. If I wake up, it's like an adrenaline yank, a jerk. But by the way, those words can mean anything. You can insert them there. What is this hitting the ground thing? If you fall while you're sleeping
Starting point is 00:40:23 In your dream. In your dream And you hit the ground You're supposedly dead I can realize That's always yeah But people don't ever Hit the ground in their dreams
Starting point is 00:40:29 Supposedly But what if like I guess like you know Some people die in their sleep What if that's how you realize You're dead? That you hit the ground Yeah
Starting point is 00:40:38 And we'd have to dig into that To see if that's actually true Or an urban legend And I'll tell you this first A new study found That too many nightmares Can kill you People who average
Starting point is 00:40:46 At least one nightmare a week Are three times more likely To die before they hit 70 Oh no Lucky for me, I never sleep. And I don't sleep pure enough to have dreams. Hey, no dreams, no nightmares. I live forever.
Starting point is 00:40:58 I don't know how you function. Like, I was thinking about you. The other day, I didn't get sleep at all. I tossed and turned all night long. And then the next day I was tired, but then the day after that, so exhausted. Like, just my body, everything hurt. And I'm like, is this how, this Bobby's baseline? I don't know what my baseline is because, again, it's my baseline.
Starting point is 00:41:19 Right. So I don't know the comparison of the two, but I all, my body hurts around noon. Yeah. It starts hurting. My guts hurt. Yes. And I wasn't functioning properly. And I know it was because of the sleep, the two nights before that I didn't get.
Starting point is 00:41:33 It's not a badge of honor either. I know. I think at one point it was, let me just stay awake and get as much done as possible. Now I realize you can actually get more done if you're rested. By you going to sleep, you can actually be more productive. And not just productive in work, but productive in life at work, as a husband, as a whatever. Yeah, but that's why I'm going today to my brain appointment. My first one's today.
Starting point is 00:41:54 That's exciting. Yeah, I have... Are you nervous? Why should I be? You shouldn't. No, I was just... If you were, I was going to say, don't be. Yeah, way to scare them.
Starting point is 00:42:04 This is some kind of prank I get there and it's Amy. Gotcha. She's me with a super soaker. I have this. It will probably be here today until noon or so. Then I have a Bobbycast with Sam Williams from one to two. And then I have my brand appointment after three.
Starting point is 00:42:19 Wow. So not nervous. I don't have time to be nervous. I don't know what they're going to do. They're not going to like. I know, but I would just be hopefully when you had the call with them. Like you got to be very transparent.
Starting point is 00:42:28 Like I'm not. I don't sleep, right? You're like, tell them. They didn't ask a lot of questions like that. You have to just be whatever it is. You have to be so honest. Like, I wet the bed. Like, they can help you with anything.
Starting point is 00:42:38 I don't wet the bed though. I know. But if you did, like they can try to work on that part of the brain. Yeah. I'm not embarrassed about anything. Okay. Yeah, I don't sleep. I don't know what that.
Starting point is 00:42:52 Can they like put things on my head and tell me what's wrong with me? Well, I don't know exactly how it works, but I know like at my appointments, yes, they've been able to see what parts of my brain are overactive and what parts are asleep in a sense, like in Delta mode. So there's different stages of your brain. And my son's brain, for example, because, you know, he lived in fear a lot of his life. Like his mom dropped off at orphanage when he was. was really young. His brain went into survival mode and his brain still operates a lot in that. And so we spend a lot of time trying to get him out of fight, flight, freeze. But his brain is working really hard and it doesn't need to work that hard. So we try to calm it down. And so I wonder
Starting point is 00:43:35 if some parts your brain are exhausted because it's all subconscious. And then you know what I mean? About to find out. About to find out. It'll tell you what's... And now a six foot guard. To how I'm walking in. Teach me how to Dougie. Like I went in once and they asked me if I smoke weed every day And I was like no But they're like well your brain Seems like it because it was I think someone's trying to buy drugs Amy
Starting point is 00:43:56 I think someone just wanted to buy some So your brain seemed like it was There was parts of my brain That were just so Like off I believe it's Delta mode when it's in like a sleep Like that part of my brain which I just was not using But it was during a time where there was a lot going on
Starting point is 00:44:15 and it was helping me survive. So it was shutting off certain parts so that I could, because I was a high functioning, like you're high functioning, Bobby. Like you've a lot going on your brain, but you can be high functioning depressed, high functioning anxiety. Bedwater.
Starting point is 00:44:31 You got to be honest, dude. Got to tell them everything. I go in overly honest. They're like, whoa, I don't know we can fix all that. Yeah, I'm not your therapist, bro. You're like, I'm peeing right now. I went on. So, you know, the genealogist that was on,
Starting point is 00:44:45 that was like tracking back my family. I got on the site because she gave me, if you click and you log in, you can see it. And I couldn't quite get to where she got. And I would see some people and I did it. But they had a picture of my mom up there, which was crazy, like as a kid.
Starting point is 00:44:59 Look that. Oh my gosh. I know. I was looking at it and I was like, I've never seen this picture of my mom before. And my wife doesn't know my mom because my mom hasn't been alive in a long time. But I thought that's pretty crazy.
Starting point is 00:45:09 That picture of her was up on. I guess what they do is they go and they search that name and try to find any pictures associated with it. and then pull them all. But some of them were like gravestones of like people. That's all they got. And it went back to like, I got all the way back to like some people from, what's the country people go to for like prostitutes and they used to go for weed?
Starting point is 00:45:34 Oh, yeah. Amsterdam. Amsterdam, yeah. Where people were coming over from there. But I could have get all the way back to my kingdom in Germany. Yeah, the kingdom that you belong in where you were the king. Where I was the king. Johann, the kingdom of...
Starting point is 00:45:48 King, Johann. Germany. I couldn't get back to that point on that map she sent me. Crazy that you'd never seen that picture of your mom though. No idea. We didn't have a lot of pictures.
Starting point is 00:45:56 I didn't have pictures of me growing up. Very few, if they did, said proof on them. That's because I just would like keep it from school. We'd never buy the pictures. Because it wasn't like now you'd have it on your phone. You keep everything digitally.
Starting point is 00:46:05 They still have proof on them. Yeah, they still buy pictures. Even the digital ones? Yeah, dude, you can't steal them. You try a screenshot it, put in your wallet. I don't know, AI probably could take the proof off. Mike, don't you think? Oh yeah, easily.
Starting point is 00:46:15 Easily now. Oh, okay. I'll screenshot and send it to Mike then. Yeah. I have a bunch of pictures. You can go to read. You can go to any of those guys that do that. What's funny about like school pictures now, especially the ones in my kids' school, is they have them do funny faces now.
Starting point is 00:46:29 Not just like the serious one that goes in the yearbook. Like then they're just like, all right, stick your tongue out. Or they do like little signs or whatever. So there's some cool pictures out there. Probably to get it all out of their system too, right? No, I mean, they give you an option to buy all of them too. They do. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:43 All right. Well, that's what I'm doing today. And nightmares can kill you if you have a bunch. And it is not true that you will die if you're at the ground in a dream. According to multiple sources. Dreams are not real and events that happen. Do not have physical consequences in the real world. Falling in a dream and hitting the ground will not cause you to die in real life. According to Laurie Lowenberg, while the sensation of falling and hitting the ground in the dream can be frightening and cause a physical jerk. Jerk. Can you say jerk? Jerk, yeah. Or startle when you wake up, it will not result in death. This is a common myth. But there is no evidence. But there is no evidence. to support it. Do you know why? Because anybody who died in their dream can't wake up and say, like, I died in my dream. Correct. They can't tell you. How about that? I can't tell you they hit the ground. Anybody who died can't tell you they died and they hit the ground in their dream. Insufficient. That's what I say. I did a fun fact about that though. Like the jerk happens because your brain is warning your body that like you're falling asleep and you're safe. That's what the jerk kind of means. And my jerk, I remember doing this is when someone's always told me a basketball in my dream.
Starting point is 00:47:39 I go, and you're not ready for it? I'm not ready for it. And I wake up like, it's always basketball. Weird. That's the only jerk. Maybe something happened to you, like when you were a kid when you didn't see a basketball coming and it really hit you. That's your nightmare. Nah, I had way worse stuff than that happened. Around the room, Amy. I came across this article about how emotionally intelligent couples handle conflict. All right. Tell me about me.
Starting point is 00:48:02 There's five things, but one of them stood out to me for Bobby specifically. And only because your words, I'm not saying this, you have said it. Do they drive off and turn off their location setting so you can't find them? No. Nevermind. So one of the ways that emotionally intelligent people handle conflict, they take a pause when emotions run high. Okay. We're not going to deal with this right now.
Starting point is 00:48:22 They focus on understanding, not winning. That's number two. I'm more of a winner. That's the one that stood out to me because Bobby, you've said multiple times. I just have to win. I'm more of a winner. Yeah, go ahead. What you need to do, though, is listen to your partner's perspective, working towards understanding rather than proving that you're right.
Starting point is 00:48:40 I know. It's just harder. But you're emotionally intelligent. You've said some. Not only in parts. In theory. I mean, I guess you're, well then what's the intelligent part? You're just intelligent.
Starting point is 00:48:48 It's just smart. Yeah, like, like no stuff. Oh yeah, but you're. Not emotionally. Intellectually. That's right. I think I have a little lead intellectually. Not a time, but a little lead intellectually.
Starting point is 00:48:57 I was blessed. But emotionally, I think I'm a little stunted, actually. That's actually what I meant. Sorry. You agree with that, Eddie. Yeah. Because you don't do pauses. Stop going, yeah.
Starting point is 00:49:05 Hey, stop going, yeah. Yeah. You're the need to hide. The pause, like, don't you just do silent treatment? Well, that's my pause. I'm done talking about this. But it's not a healthy pause. No, I hear you.
Starting point is 00:49:14 And it's a very long pause. I'll never circle back. Like if there's an argument and it's like, I just need a break. And my wife will be like, okay, I'll give you a break. That's fine. But you never, the break's never over. And I'm like, well, I'm never over. I mean, I'm not there yet.
Starting point is 00:49:29 What's the one where you give her a date? Like, tell me when you're ready. Well, yeah. Well, yes. This is a good one. In a disagreement, if it's like, hey, I'm not in a good place to have this fight right now. And she'll go, okay. When will you be good?
Starting point is 00:49:44 It's if it's like 4 p.m. And I'm like, November 3rd. 2007. She's like, no, no, like today. I'm like, I won't be ready today. She's like, well, I need, give me a realistic time. Okay.
Starting point is 00:49:58 January 5th. She wants to punch me in the face. But I can resolve things in my own head. And I think one of the difficulties, one of the difficulties of being married to me is I spent so much time alone and not in relationships or not even having a fan. family dynamic where we work things out. I had to always just deal with it myself and figure it out. So I will come to a conclusion, resolve it, move on, all in my head and never communicate it. And I'm like, no, no, I'm good. You haven't shared with me. And I'm like, I got it all figured out. I'm good. So that's tough and probably not emotionally intelligent. Intelligent. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:34 The third one is acknowledge emotions before speaking. So you sort of maybe acknowledge the emotions, but you don't speak of them. I don't know. Help me. I don't know what that means. means. So by recognizing your own emotions first, like when you're able to do that, you prevent any escalation or avoid saying things that you might regret, like acknowledging, hey, I'm, I'm really upset or I'm feeling angry right now. I don't do that. Instead of holding it in, and then the anger comes out and yelling or something. I don't yell at it. But you regret. Like you've never yelled. Yeah, but I mean, almost never. It's not my go-to for emotions. Silence. Yeah. Which is sometimes more cutting to someone than yelling.
Starting point is 00:51:12 Okay, but I Like show you're okay, fine I would want to be like, okay, yeah, finally Yeah, show me something I can't be recorded being silent Oh, it's because of fear of being recorded In your own home? No, just generally, anybody, even here.
Starting point is 00:51:29 It's like... Yeah, we're always recording. Have I ever yelled? No, I was thinking about that. Like, you talk loud on the show. I mean, we're on the air, obviously I've yelled. But like... No, because...
Starting point is 00:51:41 Why would I yell at it? I thought it was because... it is. I was just kidding. You shut down, not because you were scared. No, not even I shut down. It's like, it's what's the use? I just deal with it in a different way. I'm not aggressive. I'm not aggressive.
Starting point is 00:51:51 Sometimes yelling isn't aggressive. I'm passive aggressive. Yeah, yelling is aggressive. I think you can. I don't think all aggression's wrong, but I think yelling's aggressive. Emotions are, it's information. Okay, we'll round out four and five. Face tough conversations head on.
Starting point is 00:52:08 I'll pass on that one. What else got? Calm each other down during tension. I always say relax. It never works. No, no, no. I always do that. You have to know how to offer reassurance to your partner.
Starting point is 00:52:20 Relax, you know it's not going to work. Chill out. Chill. Relax. Calm down. I mean, you're saying the right words. I'm saying the right things. Like you remind each other, hey, we're a team.
Starting point is 00:52:29 No, I do that. Why is so worked up? Okay. So, yeah, that's not going to work. So anyway, those are five ways emotionally intelligent couples handle conflict. My wife's very emotionally intelligent. I lack. Lunchbox.
Starting point is 00:52:43 Liver King. I saw this with Joe Rogan. Yeah, I don't know if it was Amy or Eddie. Someone watched the documentary, talked about him on here, and he talked about how he only ate raw meat. He's this buff dude. And it turns out he was on steroids, all this stuff. Well, Joe Rogan is the one that called him out and exposed the whole thing.
Starting point is 00:53:01 Well, he drove to Austin, was in the hotel, and was like live saying, hey, Joe Rogan, I'm here to challenge you today. I'm taking a shower. I will find you, and I will challenge you today. And so then he got arrested. Joe Rogan would kill that dude, by the way. Joe Rogan is like three black belts in. Yeah, yeah, he's true.
Starting point is 00:53:19 Like, he's a real fighter. Yes. I don't think Joe Rogan wants to have to randomly fight somebody or you don't ever want to feel the threat of somebody near your property going, I'm waiting for you. I think that's different. But I think if Joe Rogan, and he shouldn't, he shouldn't like listen and then go and fight the guy.
Starting point is 00:53:37 Like, that shouldn't happen. He shouldn't humor that. But if he did, he would kill him. Why did he say I'm going to take his shower? I don't understand that. No, he was in the shower when he was doing it. He was like, I'm taking a shower. I'm in the four seasons.
Starting point is 00:53:48 I'm taking a shower and then I'm going to come challenge you. So the video was him in the shower? Can you imagine you're the four seasons in the sky fucking? I'd be crazy. In Austin, though, yes. Yeah, okay, yeah, true. If he had his big, like, animal hat on and, like, no shirt. But he would, like, eat the raw liver.
Starting point is 00:54:04 Like, eat all the raw meat. Yes, the raw nuts, balls, whatever he was called. And he was on steroids, huh? Yeah, Joe Rogo. He was one that said there's no way he's... But did they ever find out he was on steroids? Yeah, he eventually... Yeah, it crumbled his business, supposedly.
Starting point is 00:54:17 I was trying not to give away that part. He had $11,000 a month steroid use. Of the documentary. How did that find out? Oh, it was in the documentary? Leaked emails. Uh. And Joe Rogan, like, talked about it on his podcast or whatever.
Starting point is 00:54:29 And was like, there's no way that guy in his 40s is that ripped and not doing something. I wish someone would accuse me of steroids. Hmm. It's not believable. Okay. Bobby. It's not believable, man. I know, but I wish they would just be like out there like,
Starting point is 00:54:43 there's no way he's got that physique without steroids. That would be cool. That would be cool. But you may need steroids to have that physique. I know, that's the problem. What? I was just going to say, if you need to be accused, we can accuse you. No, but no one will believe it, but I wish that it would just was.
Starting point is 00:54:57 Like, man. Or if they'd be like, man, that guy's had a lot of plastic surgery. Look how great he looks. You might get that. You can just start saying you're way older than you are. I don't, why would I do that? Because then people would be like, you'd be like, I'm 60. And they're like, what?
Starting point is 00:55:11 You start selling a serum. It's all on the internet. That's what Amy's got, all kind of serums on her stuff. Snail serum? That's my one serum. Serum. Serum. And I love it.
Starting point is 00:55:21 So the liver king. Why do you get arrested? Because of the video? Stalking. But he was at a hotel. No, no. But I think he said, he said, I'm coming to get you. Oh, I thought he said, like, I'm here.
Starting point is 00:55:32 Let's do this. He says, I'm coming to challenge you. Doesn't say, but. Oh, I didn't know. You get arrested for just being like, hey, man, I'm here to hotel in the shower. Let's do this. Well, let me read the actual story. Would you click into that mic? This is from KXA in Austin. The Austin Police Department of Arrested Brian Johnson. Note online is the liver king. He faces one charge of terroristic threat, a class B misdemeanor.
Starting point is 00:55:54 The police department confirmed Johnson made threats against Joe Rogan on his Instagram. Yeah, he said, I'm challenging you, just as a man. I don't want to kill you. Why would I want to kill you? You have a family. I wouldn't want to take you away from your family. Sounds nice. So I hope this is not perceived as a threat. Have you, Joe Rogan, you guys can all call the cops. Huh. Maybe it's something before that he said before that.
Starting point is 00:56:18 But they even quote the Instagram video. They posted on June 23rd. Joe Rogan, I'm calling you out. My name is Liver King, man to man. I'm picking a fight with you. I have no training in jujitsu. You're a black belt. You should dismantle me.
Starting point is 00:56:31 But I'm picking a fight with you. Your rules all come to you whenever you're ready. Huh. That all seems kind of friendly. You know, you're right, a bit benign. Maybe there's been other threats Like I get it Shows up to the house
Starting point is 00:56:43 He's trying to cross the gate Oh my problem in jail There's got to be something Right That's kind of weird to me Me too because it doesn't That alone doesn't feel like stalking But if someone
Starting point is 00:56:54 It feels creepy It feels creepy But he could be in the city Anyway for like something And there's no rule against going to the city Of your arch enemy And just being in the city Going like if you want to go
Starting point is 00:57:04 I'll go It could Now could Joe Rogan call the police and be like, hey, this guy's just scaring me. Mike, what do you think here? How did he get arrested? Because I don't see anything he's done wrong. That's a good question.
Starting point is 00:57:19 I mean, I'm just the posting the threat enough to get arrested? But what threat? I'm challenging you. He didn't say I'm going to break into your house and beat the crap out of you and you sleep. And he's even like, I'm not a good fighter. You know, I don't fight, but I'll fight you. Once Mark got terroristic threatening once. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:57:34 It dropped it, though. Yeah. Yeah, I don't. understand. Terroristic threat of class be misdemeanor. I'm picking a fight with you. I'm calling you out. My name's Liver King. I'm picking a fight with you. I have no history in jujitsu. You should wipe the floor with me. I don't know. Just seems like a friendly little challenge. And Texas is a terroristic threat when charged as a class of being misdemeanor generally involves threatening to commit a violent offense with the intent to place someone in fear of serious bodily injury,
Starting point is 00:58:01 but it's not a threat made against a family or household member. But a threat, I feel like more of a challenge. He's not saying I'm going to to hurt you. He's saying, come on, let's fight. We both have the chance to... He used the word kill. Like, I'm not going to kill you. Isn't that kind of a threat, though? I'm not going to kill you. But even, like, saying that, hey, I'm not going to kill you.
Starting point is 00:58:19 That's kind of a threat. That's kind of a threat. He's clarified. I'm not going to kill you. I'm not going to kill somebody. Hey, don't worry about it. Well, I'm not going to kill you. You have nothing to worry about. Like, I said that to what are you guys.
Starting point is 00:58:29 It'd be a threat. Like, hey, I'm going to walk by you. I'm not going to kill you, though. Why did you even bring up killing me? Okay, okay. But I think what you don't bring up doesn't make it a threat. Okay, his arrest comes after he threatened Joe in a series of videos, including one in which he appears to be holding guns.
Starting point is 00:58:43 Okay, now we're talking. That's different. We didn't know all this. Now we're talking. So, you know. Is he hunting while he's shooting the video? Don't worry, I'm not going to shoot you. Well, I also saw a video of him, like, crawling on the ground. Like talking to.
Starting point is 00:58:56 It's not illegal. I bet you this gets dropped from the very little I know about this, and it's all from the last seven minutes. I know nothing except the last seven minutes and yesterday I saw the story and read it a little bit I don't see anything he's doing or I haven't seen that is directly a threat Eddie I'm not going to steal all your money today
Starting point is 00:59:15 Cool I don't feel threatened Okay very good thank you for telling me You're welcome I'm not gonna kill you I don't feel like I'm threatening you with anything I actually feel good about the day There you go yes Amy In one of the videos he said
Starting point is 00:59:27 I know we've said a lot So if you said this sorry I've been reading You never come across something like this willing to die, hope that you'll choke me out because that's a dream come true. Again. But he's saying like you're going to hurt me, Joe. Sounds like you want to go to bang him or something. Choke him out?
Starting point is 00:59:45 But again, not a threat. Okay, it says on here though that it's not about, so making online threats can lead to an arrest. It's not about whether the person making the threat is intended to carry it out, but also about whether their threat is perceived as credible and specific enough to cause fear. Not. but the threat to me feels more like a challenge. I understand it's creepy and I think I would be fearful too
Starting point is 01:00:07 if I didn't have a bunch of security and Joe Rogan can have a bunch of security or Joe Rogan can kick his butt. I watched Joe Rogan kick a heavy bag once. He'd kick a hole in a person. But yeah, I'm a little bit to Eddie. I feel like you walked that line to where he's not really threatening him
Starting point is 01:00:23 from what I've seen, just kind of challenging him. And there are no laws you can't go to Austin and hang out the four seasons. In the shower. And say, I'm going to, I'm here for it. I don't know. I feel like if someone sent you a video on Instagram said, hey Bobby, I'm coming to Nashville
Starting point is 01:00:37 and I'm going to find you. But he didn't say that. He challenged him. Like, if you want to, I'll fight you. He didn't say I will come to you regardless if you let me or not. I will be there and I will punch you and physically harm you. And he's not forcing his way to him. He's saying like, let's do this. Like, when
Starting point is 01:00:53 you're willing and ready, let's do this. Also, it's creepy and weird. Yes, it would scare me. We're not doing that. We're not doing that. I'm just saying I don't know how this, based on what I've read. I don't know how he actually has this charge held up. In one story, he also mentioned that Joe Rogan was going to pay. Okay, now that's a threat. Pay what, though, for his toll?
Starting point is 01:01:10 His tolls? His hotel room? Yes, pay. And that was when he was mentioning that he had guns. For his lunch? That's a threat. And then he took his entire family with him, Austin. Okay, see, his kids, too?
Starting point is 01:01:21 He took his boys? I see his wife here. I don't know if his boys were there. Okay. If that has ever said, and then he ends up going. But the threats were so credible that the FBI was there already. ready waiting for him. Wow, the FBI.
Starting point is 01:01:34 I mean, these are... That means it wasn't a threat. It's more of a challenge. Like, I'll be there. I'll see that. If he said that stuff, for sure. Yeah, yeah. And I'm sure there's tons of stuff we're missing.
Starting point is 01:01:41 It's weird. Just from what was presented, I didn't see the threat. But yeah, I'm sure. Yeah. Well, he's obviously mentally, something's off a little bit, right? So maybe... Look at him. You can tell immediately nothing is off with him.
Starting point is 01:01:53 I never seen a person moron. Hey, you know, it's a little unpredictable. If I had to speculate, after watching that documentary, I think he's trying to, obviously cling back to that fame. Yes. Because that documentary kind of spiked interest in him again. And all this controversy that he went through like crushed his business.
Starting point is 01:02:09 So I think this is also like part of him like doing a stunt, but probably taking it too far. What are we learning about these kings? Tiger King, Liver King. King of Germany. King of Mike the kingdom. That's you. It's your family. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:02:23 But like all these other kings like they're all self-proclaim though too, right? They're not real kings. If you self-proclaim yourself a king, it's probably coming from a deep, seated insecurity that you're making up for many other ways to. Nah, this guy's so secure. What's up? King James.
Starting point is 01:02:41 LeBron? I mean, that's the only other king. He wasn't, he didn't name himself. No, he didn't name himself. Did the liver king name himself? I don't know. I am the liver king? If you were the king of something,
Starting point is 01:02:54 what would you be the king of? I think whenever he signed up with like a social media consultant, they gave him the name liver king. Yeah, because he definitely worked with a group to build his brand and image. I mean, he started to get attention himself, but then, yeah, once he signed on with a, yeah, influencer group, like they definitely molded. But in the documentary, they talk about how he swore to us up and down. He had never touched steroids. And they believed him.
Starting point is 01:03:20 They probably knew. They probably knew they were just making money off of them. Oh. Well, if you swore, okay. Morgan, your story? Okay, so Taylor Swift was in Nashville. Last night. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:03:33 Played at the Brooklyn Bowl. I think she did shake it off, right? One song? Yeah, and I love it for Kane Brown because Kane Brown is the one who brought her out. He was performing for Travis Kelsey's Tideon University, which I don't really know what that is. It's camp. Okay, so camp, but also that has concerts, I guess. I don't want to not credit George Kittal.
Starting point is 01:03:51 George Kittles is the United Universe. It's here. Okay, so it's his. But yes, there's a group of guys. Yes. Okay. A bunch of tight-ins from college and the NFL. basically work out. They work out at Vanderbilt. And now it's become a big thing where there are a lot of
Starting point is 01:04:04 companies and corporations. And they do, they raise money for charity as well. Do, like, other people pay to participate, like just normal people? No, you kind of have to get invited to be a tied in. You have to be a tied in. Like, literally. Like in the NFL? No, or college. Yeah, players. You have to play tied in. And it started as a group, a way for them to just come together and, like, work on their craft. Now it is, you know, maybe you're three, you're four. Sounds about right. But yes, but yes, now they're doing the show. Okay, so Kane Brown was doing a show here in Nashville at Brooklyn Bowl, and he started playing, shake it off, and then Taylor Swift came out and performed with him,
Starting point is 01:04:39 and everybody freaked out. But what was crazy was the show actually wasn't sold out. I think you could get tickets. And I don't know why. I don't know what it was shown as, but as soon as Taylor Swift started popping up in Nashville, like videos on social media, just that she's in Nashville, the show sold out. She was at Aldine's bar the night before. She did the whole Broadway thing.
Starting point is 01:04:58 Part of my story. But that was, yeah, two nights. Yeah, I had a lot of loaded. I know. When you just do it again, that's what you like to do. That's true. I have a backup story. It's okay.
Starting point is 01:05:10 Okay. Yeah, I did see that's cool. Yeah, and I was kind of shocked she went to Aldean's bar. Me too. Because that place is packed. And she wasn't like VIP section. She was in the crowd. No, she went to.
Starting point is 01:05:22 No, but she walked through the crowd to get there, but she was VIP. She's talking to people. Have you not been to that bar? I never been. The VIP, you're used. are kind of associated still with the crowd, but you're off. Morgan's a king of Broadway. Hold on.
Starting point is 01:05:34 Was one of your birthdays at Al Dines? Yes. Okay, I've been there. She's the king of Broadway. She's going to be the king of something. Liver King. We had like seven years ago. So basically a Taylor Swift and I same level, you know?
Starting point is 01:05:44 VIP, Jason Aldeens. Eddie, what do you have? I already told you what I have. No, I have a backup. I have a backup. Roseanne Barr. Yeah, she came out on a podcast and said that she had a baby when she was 17 and had to give her up for adoption, which she was.
Starting point is 01:05:58 She chose adoption. Yeah. I mean, there's something about words that you guys just did. What did I just do? Amy did not like the way you said it had to. It's not me. It's not me. No, it's not me.
Starting point is 01:06:09 I'm saying it for other people listening that are like, oh, it's giving. Yeah, well, I guess the way to say it just for, it's just they chose adoption. It just feels better for people that were maybe. No, totally. I get it. I think Roseanne in the story says I gave her up for adoption. Yeah. And the kid who's now an adult thought her mom was somebody else famous.
Starting point is 01:06:32 Goldie Hawn. Yeah, Goldie Haunt. Because she thought, yeah, she knew that her mom was famous and in Hollywood. So the whole time she's like, wait a minute. It could be Goldie Hawn. Like, nah, it's not. Oh, that's funny. But they know each other, you know, now and she's part of her life and everything.
Starting point is 01:06:48 Oh, I love that. She's married. She has kids. Pretty cool. Roseanne? No, the daughter. I guess I don't know. And you're right.
Starting point is 01:06:53 She's like in her 50s now. People get to be adult. It's weird. Yeah. And the people that were adults to us are now old. No. No. They're adults.
Starting point is 01:07:01 So does she look like Roseanne? There's no picture of her. I think she's kind of keeping her private. She kind of looks like a young, yeah, yeah, yeah. But she also looks like she's like 40, right, Mike? Like she's an adult adult. Yeah. So she looked like Goldie Hawn?
Starting point is 01:07:13 No. She kind of looks kind of like Roseanne in the face, like nose and mouth. Kind of. Yeah. Isn't Goldie Hawn Kay Hudson's mom? Correct. Yes. So, okay.
Starting point is 01:07:25 You heard Kate Hudson sing? Yeah, it's good. Really good. Really? She can. Yeah, she's really good. She is no Tom Sandoval. He can sing.
Starting point is 01:07:32 No, that guy can say. Really good. All right, we're done. Thank you guys. We're out. We'll see tomorrow. Is there anything? What is today?
Starting point is 01:07:40 Wednesday? Yeah, I'm good. All right. Thanks to all the part tours. Thanks for listening to the podcast. We'll see you guys tomorrow. Bye, buddy. A win is a win.
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