the bossbabe podcast - 317. Habits of All Successful Influencers with Brendon Burchard
Episode Date: August 24, 2023Building a successful + lasting career as an influencer or on social media requires specific skills. In today’s episode, we are diving in to some of the most important skills + qualities to cultivat...e if you’re looking to build something that matters and leaves a lasting positive impact on people. If you’re looking to change lives, earn more money, and create a thriving career online – this episode is for you. We are sharing a piece from one of our favorite + most downloaded episodes with Brendon Burchard to dive into how to actually do this and have the staying power in this industry to help you truly go the distance. Get out your notebook because this episode is packed with tangible advice + tools to move you into action! HIGHLIGHTS How mastering the art of marketing opens the door to the biggest brands in the industry (+ how you can do it in your business) One of the biggest reasons why some influencers make it while others don’t Brendon’s best advice for NOT getting complacent in your career (+ why it’s critical to creating real, lasting success) How to adopt + implement the “role model mindset” The two kinds of people in every room + how to tap into your greatest level of fulfillment, service, and longevity in your career as an influencer Specific tools + practices to go from “I’m ready” to actually building your dream LINKS Join Growth Day - GrowthDay.com/bossbabe FOLLOW bossbabe: @bossbabe.inc Natalie Ellis: @iamnatalie
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The best thing you will ever do as an influencer is to adopt the role model mindset.
The role model mindset says, I understand people are watching and I understand I get to choose
to be an example of something for others. What is the example I want to be?
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Welcome back to the Boss Babe podcast. These mini episodes have been really well received and I think it's because
it's a really great way of learning something or getting a big aha without having to listen to a
full 60 minute episode. So we're continuing that journey. This episode is a snippet from one of the
bigger ones we did with Brandon Machard and it's really all about how to become an influencer and
leverage the power of social media. This is something that I's really all about how to become an influencer and leverage the power of social media.
This is something that I'm really passionate about talking about because I believe if you
have influence on social media, you can truly build a freedom-based business. You can build
a business or multiple businesses off of your personal brand and it's an incredible way of
getting leads, getting clients, and really being able to
become a digital CEO that I know so many of you are wanting to step into or scale into.
So with that, I want to just let you dive straight into this episode, and hopefully
you'll get a really great insight into what that mindset and what those steps look like. One thing that really you inspire me through
in the work you do is how you've been able to build businesses in so many different areas
and using so many different skills. Like we were just talking a few weeks ago about how you've
really discovered you're so good at product and you're in the software space and that probably you know even 10 years ago you might have thought
I don't know if I want to be in software I know that's coming to me but you've been willing to
see oh that's a way I can impact the world so I'm going to learn how to do it can you speak about
what it takes to really be willing to go do something that you you know you didn't have a
college degree in but you're willing to roll your sleeves up,
probably pull some late nights and learn how to do it?
Yeah, I think it begins with what's your intention
for the people you want to help?
Like my intention with the people I wanted to help was,
I want to give people the tools and the experiences
that help them get better.
And so, yeah, I didn't know how to build a software company,
but I could see tools that were making a difference.
Like Kajabi was making a huge difference in people's lives. So I invested in that. I became
a big ambassador of that. I was like the first outside investor and became this huge, you know,
$2 billion company. It was, oh, that's going to help the people I'm serving. I should get involved
with that. I should tell them about it. I should educate them on it. And like just teaching people
about the tools, it made me learn the tools. Seeing how people interacted with them, I thought, oh, I see how they interact with this
product, this software, this company. Oh, if it was this way or if it was that way, and you just
learn. There's no other better way to go to your customers, teach them a tool, watch them how they
interact with it. Ask them, how could it be better? How could we do this better? How could
this system be better? How could this tool be better?
Asking, asking, asking, and you should learn. And then I think the other part about it is
marketing. Like you all teach, if you can master marketing, really understand copywriting,
really understand emotional engagement, really understand how to help people take an idea and
understand it and
stick and practice it. That all comes from marketing. Once you have marketing, every
company in the world wants to work with you. They might not know it. Like I've worked with,
now Masterclass, Kajabi, Circle App, VidApp, Community, the tech platform right now,
I'm an advisor there as well. It's like all these companies I work with, they want to work with me because I know marketing and I understand how the consumer interacts with
their stuff. So if it's your own company, you go, okay, I'm going to market this. Let me really
obsess about how they use it. Like Amazon kind of still looks janky. I don't know about you,
but no one would ever design Amazon the way it looks now, but it looks the way it does because
they just keep watching how people use it and they
keep iterating and making it better and better and better.
But it looks the way it does because they're paying attention.
How do people use this?
So if you have a course or a platform or a login or a membership or a social media channel,
how are people using this?
What they like, what they not like, and keep honing, honing, honing, and honing that into
the marketing
messages, which makes the tool sell better. And then you have those two weapons. Now you can go
and do anything. Let's take a quick pause to talk about my new favorite all-in-one platform, Kajabi.
You know, I've been singing their praises lately because they have helped our business run so much
smoother and with way less complexity, which I love. Not to mention our team couldn't be happier
because now everything
is in one place so it makes collecting data, creating pages, collecting payment, all the things
so much simpler. One of our mottos at Boss Babe is simplify to amplify and Kajabi has really helped
us do that this year. So of course I needed to share it here with you. It's the perfect time of
year to do a bit of spring cleaning in your business, you know, get rid of the complexity and instead really focus on getting
organized and making things as smooth as possible. I definitely recommend Kajabi to all of my clients
and students. So if you're listening and haven't checked out Kajabi yet, now is the perfect time
to do so because they are offering Boss Babe listeners a 30-day free trial.
Go to kajabi.com slash Boss Babe to claim your 30-day free trial. That's kajabi.com slash Boss
Babe. I think the other thing required, I didn't mention earlier, is so important. You have to love
people. You have to love people. A lot of influencers today who don't make it, it's because
they love themselves. And so it's demonstration, it's themselves and so it's demonstration it's portrayal it's look at me or here's my fancy car my jet or or i'm starting from scratch here's
my cute breakfast or whatever it is but it's all about self like portrayal the people who actually
make it love humans like we were with this group today and when someone shared something emotional
we all like teared up oh my god the amount of times that I've known.
Did you see that?
That magic was-
It's like on cue, I'm crying.
I'm like, oh my God.
The whole room, we had what,
30 of the biggest influencers in the world
are in our mastermind, right?
And everyone in that room teared up simultaneously.
It said, not only do we have the right people in the room,
it says, oh wow, the world's most influential people
really care about other humans' struggles and journeys and emotions and vulnerability.
Because when one person was emotional and vulnerable, the whole room, you could feel
like your heart ran, your eyes teared up. Real influencers, long-term leaders, people who make
real impact, people who want to be role models, they are emotional for other people.
They actually care.
Otherwise, I would have stopped at how many X number of followers,
X amount of money, or X amount of impact.
You keep doing it because you love people.
What stops you getting complacent?
One, continuing to care about other people.
Two, learning.
Always asking for learning.
And three, the world.
I tell a lot of influencers right now,
put your damn phone down and notice the need in the world. Like when you get away from the
swiping and actually go out in your communities, read and research about the actual globe outside
of your little neighborhood and realize the world's in deep need. And when there's great
need out there, your heart as a human has empathy and it says,
I want to do something. I mean, I don't want to just sit here and do nothing. I mean, I live on
beach. I can have a peanut pot all day. It's like, no, how can I serve? How can I learn?
And I tell everyone, the best thing you will ever do as an influencer is to adopt the role model
mindset. The role model mindset says,
I understand people are watching and I understand I get to choose to be an example of something for
others. What is the example I want to be? No one says in their head, well, some people do, but
I want to be an example of gross abundance. No, it's like, I want to be an example of resilience
and strength and following your dream. I'll be an example of caring for people and kindness and compassion
and values, you know, love, truth, freedom, responsibility, respect. Like we want to be
an example of those things. And if each day you realize you get to be an example for somebody,
now you're more fired up. Like this interview, I'm not thinking of like,
how's Brendan Burchard doing? I'm thinking of like, oh, I hope, I wish I could hear this.
I wish I had the example of someone doing what you two are doing back in the day when I began,
because there wasn't this. Now there's this. And we have this opportunity to use our voice to make an impact. It's like after you have some likes or tons of likes or tons of money or not a lot of money, you still have to go inside and go, what makes me feel fulfilled? What is meaningful to me?
And it's never going to be about self-betrayal. It's always going to be about service.
I still was like, you want to switch your head. The minute you go from the selfie economy
to the service economy, like from it's about me to it's about others about
serving other everything changes it's that old thing there's two kinds of
people in the world one enters a room and goes Here I am and the other enters
a room and goes there you are yeah and I think the people would last go oh there
you are how you doing what's going on with you? You know, that kind of thing. I totally agree. And whenever I chat with people that have grown social
followings, I always say like, what's some of the things you did at the beginning of your journey
that you think's really helped? And so many of them say to me, oh, I replied to every single DM.
I replied to every single comment. I cared. They cared. will they listened they they cared just as much
when they had a hundred followers as when they had a hundred thousand and they weren't putting
on an act they were they were showing up in the same way and it really really shows so switching
gears a little there's probably a lot of people listening to this like you know what I'm ready
I'm I've got something to give to the world'm ready. And you've been able to build a platform
around helping people actually get there.
And from that moment of saying, you know what?
I'm ready.
I've got something to give to the world.
I'm ready to get there.
Can you talk about some of the tools and practices
that help people go from I'm ready
to I'm actually doing the thing?
Yeah.
If we want to develop in any way,
career, business, personal
development, there's like six tools that help everybody. One is journaling. If you journal
about your thoughts, your ideas, your dreams, what's on your mind, what you're struggling with,
we know you're less stressed, less anxious, have higher life satisfaction and have higher confidence
and you earn more. So people just need to start journaling.
What we did with Growth Day is that, well, if we're going to start a personal development journal,
what would that look like? And how would people use it? And the reason most people don't journal
is because you face that blank page. It's like starting a new book. You're like, that's that
first white page. You're like, I don't know what to do. So in Growth Day, we made these prompts,
all these research back prompts. You press press the button it literally gives you a statement to start journaling on so journaling is key all creators
all influencers you have to journal because you don't know yourself you don't know your values
until you start journaling the second thing is you have to score and track your habits
like so you want to be an influence okay Okay. Score yourself that week. Track your habits that week.
How much did you actually do?
Otherwise, it's just ideas and concepts.
So for us in personal development, it's like, how do we know how people are doing?
So we did this research, high performance habits.
And it's like, oh, if you practice these six habits and then you add mood, movement, sleep,
and nutrition to these six habits, and you track that over a period of time, we can show your income going up. We can show your confidence going up. We can show the positive relationships you
have in your life going up. We can show almost every area of advancement in your life going up.
But you have to track and manage it. So I'm like, okay, you're starting. What habits should you
have? Track them. We use Growth Day. There's other platforms. But track it. It's so key.
The third thing is you have to have challenges, like consistent challenges. And I don't mean like you're doing a challenge as an influencer. I'm
like, you have to challenge yourself to deepen your expertise in areas. Like maybe that you
challenge yourself in copywriting. Maybe you challenge yourself in video. Maybe you challenge
yourself in consistency. Maybe you challenge yourself in sales. But having challenges that
you work through really matters. The next thing you have to have
is the positive community, which we all know. You have to have other people who are striving.
You have to be around strivers, not doubters, strivers. Be around other people who are like
climbing that mountain, who are going for it, having that community support each other and
self-reinforce by seeing people climb together is huge. And the last thing is mentors. You need great mentors in that area. In growth day, so I
brought in so many of the best personal development and wellness coaches in the world, and they teach
there. They're there an hour, twice a week. So it's like, we're there, we're consistent. You have to
take that inspiration, the strategies, the ideas from
mentors. That's why people follow you. You've done it. You're sharing it. Well, we did that
in personal development. So Growth Day is an app that has all those components just for personal
development. And I built it after studying forever. How do people actually grow in their
career or their life? These are the tools. We just want to put it in all in one because
I was so tired of your personal development being,
you have one app over here,
you have your planner over here,
you have your journal over here,
you watch your courses over there
and you follow these people over there.
I'm like, can we just have one place?
We need a home for personal development.
We built it with GrowthFan.
And is there like a best practice?
So for someone listening, that's like,
okay, there's a lot of things
and I know I need to be doing them.
How much time do I need to allocate?
Like how often should I be logging in?
Like what's a really good practice that you think if you do that,
you're really going to see success.
I believe you got to do one of those things every day.
Okay.
Our whole tagline at Growth Day is you have to make self-improvement a way of life.
A lifestyle.
Self-improvement cannot be New Year's.
It can't be on your birthday when you get another 20, 30, 40, 50, another zero on there. It's like, no, self-improvement has to be a's. It can't be on your birthday when you get 20,
30, 40, 50, another zero on there. It's like, no, self-improvement has to be a way of life. So touch one of those things. Journal once a day or score yourself once a day or follow a mentor once
a day or engage in a community once a day. You don't have to do all of it, but do something
every day. Same thing if you're an influencer in your space, like, okay, something every day
to have a touch point in this career in creating something or talking with the
customer. You don't have to create something every day. Maybe you just, that day you're talking with
customers. Next day, create something. It doesn't have to be, it's just every, there has to be
consistent thing. If you want it to be big, I tell creators influenced all the time, like,
approach it like a job. Show up for it. You know, people know when they go to a job after
five years of a job, they keep
getting raises and salaries and promotions. 10 years, raises, salaries, promotions. Our industry
is just like that. I can't even believe what we earn now, but we've been doing it for 15 years
full-time in five years before that writing. So it's like, okay, now it's like, how'd you earn so
much? I'm like, we started.
And I tell it, no matter how small you start,
start something that matters.
Don't think you have to have it all figured out,
but realize the incredible power of momentum.