The Bossticks - Dr. Craig Koniver & Dr. Keli Koniver On How To Make The Best Health Decisions, Weigh Options, Optimize Heath, & Create Healthy Glowing Skin
Episode Date: November 22, 2021#411: On today's episode we are joined by a powerhouse couple, Dr. Craig Koniver MD & Dr. Keli Koniver PhD. Dr. Koniver is the founder of Koniver Wellness, is a health and human performance expert wit...h nearly a quarter century of experience and ground-breaking innovation in nutrient and science-driven protocols for performance and longevity and his wife Dr Keli is the founder of Koniver Aesthetics has an MBA from The Citadel and a doctorate in Health Administration from the Medical University of South Carolina. This episode is all about health, wellness, skincare, and more. To connect with Lauryn Evarts click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) Check Out Lauryn's NEW BOOK, Get The Fuck Out Of The Sun HERE This episode is brought to you by The Skinny Confidential The Hot Mess Ice Roller is here to help you contour, tighten, and de-puff your facial skin and It's paired alongside the Ice Queen Facial Oil which is packed with anti-oxidants that penetrates quickly to help hydrate, firm, and reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, leaving skin soft and supple. To check them out visit www.shopskinnyconfidential.com now. This episode is brought to you by No Days Wasted Their hero product is called DHM Detox, which is the vitamin for people who like to enjoy their drinks. It's designed to help you bounce back the next day. Get 20% off your order and free shipping in the US. Just head over to www.NoDaysWasted.CO/SKINNY and use promo code "SKINNY" at checkout This episode is brought to you by Sakara This year, turn your resolutions into reality. Whether you're looking to try plant-based eating, build an empowered body, boost skin's glow, or simply feel your very best, Sakara makes it easy to create rituals that last. Sakara is a wellness company rooted in the transformative power of plant-based food. Their menu of creative, chef-crafted breakfasts, lunches, and dinners changes weekly, so you'll never get bored. And it's delivered fresh, anywhere in the U.S. And right now, Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to www.sakara.com/skinny and enter code SKINNY at checkout. This episode is brought to you by Reliefband Reliefband is the #1 FDA-Cleared anti-nausea wristband that has been CLINICALLY PROVEN to quickly relieve and effectively prevent nausea and vomiting associated with motion sickness, anxiety, migraines, hangovers, morning sickness, chemotherapy and so much more. Visit www.reliefband.com and use promo code SKINNY for 20% off plush free shipping and a no questions asked 30-day money back guarantee. This episode is brought to you by Brooklinen Give the gift of comfort this holiday season and save while you do it! Go to www.brooklinen.com and use promo code SKINNY for $20 off with a minimum purchase of $100 Produced by Dear Media
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She's a lifestyle blogger extraordinaire.
Fantastic.
And he's a serial entrepreneur.
A very smart cookie.
And now Lauren Everts and Michael Bostic are bringing you along for the ride.
Get ready for some major realness.
Welcome to the skinny confidential, him and her.
To be really healthy, it takes time, energy, resources, money.
And that's not saying that, oh, everything has to cost a lot of money.
But it is understanding that if I want to be healthy, I have to own what I put in my body or what I don't,
you know, how I move or how I don't move.
And owning those choices, I think, is really, that's what I enjoy doing, is helping motivate people to saying it's all possible.
Whatever you want is possible, but you have to own those decisions.
And it always comes down to a choice, even though those choices might be harder.
Get excited.
You are going to love this episode.
It checks all the boxes that you love.
Wellness, lab testing, vitamins.
we talk to two incredible doctors,
and we go everywhere in this episode.
We have a powerhouse couple on the show today.
Both of them powerhouses.
Dr. Craig Conover and Dr. Kelly Conover,
married duo, really taking the health world by storm
with Conover Wellness and Conover aesthetics.
Both of them in their own rights are incredible.
And Lauren and I have had the pleasure
of being able to work with both of them now.
Dr. Conover, working with some of the biggest names
in business, entertainment, sports,
Can't necessarily say who, but some of the big ones.
Some of the big ones.
Michael's like Michael wants to tell everyone so bad, but he's a doctor.
So you can't say anything who it is.
But think big names who are super respected in the wellness community.
Yes.
And we cover a lot of ground on this episode, especially after the last two years we've all been living.
And we cover all sorts of topics from health, what's going on with COVID, vaccines, you know, Ivermectin.
I know that's been a hot topic.
We talk about skin in Kelly's world, skin use.
youth, how to keep ourselves fresh. I mean, we really go all over the place. And again, this is from a
doctor's perspective, two doctors' perspective, which was important for us because, you know,
obviously Lauren and I, we are opinionated podcasters, but not necessarily medical experts.
And so we thought, hey, let's bring two of them on here, two very well-respected medical
experts on the show. That being said, one thing we do talk about on this episode is NAD. And at the
time we recorded this, as you know, we batch some of these a little bit. We had not had experience.
Lawrence still does not. But I do now, and I actually work with Dr. Conover to do my first administration
of what is called an NAD loading dose. So in this episode, you'll hear us talk about NAD and the benefits.
Dr. Conover, I think, has some of the most experience in the nation administering NAD.
And so since we've done this episode, I've actually worked with him and his team and done a full
loading dose. It took about 10 days every kind of other day. I did two days on, one day off,
and then two days on and then the weekend off. And then I finished on a Monday.
and basically felt absolutely fucking incredible after.
You were like Hercules.
It was kind of annoying.
You were just like singing and dancing and moving and loud and funny.
I don't really know how to explain it until you've done it.
I don't know if I can do it though because it's so much needles.
Well, it's just, it's an IV everybody.
It's intravenous.
And again, we talk about it in detail in this episode.
And I'm sure like if you go to Dr. Conover's website, Conover Wellness, you can check out all
the benefits of NAD if you're unfamiliar. But again, we dive deep into it here. All I want to say is
that since we've recorded, once you hear me talk to him in the beginning, you know, I'm kind
of asking the questions, what is it? What are the benefits, all these things? And at that time,
I hadn't done it. But since then, I have done it. And I am a big fan. I can tell. I feel like
maybe I'll wear my relief band and I can maybe do it. But it's a lot of needles one day.
So brief introduction on Dr. Craig Conover and Kelly Conover. Dr. Craig is the founder of Conover.
He is a health and human performance expert with nearly a quarter of a century of experience
in groundbreaking innovation and nutrient science-driven protocols for performance and longevity.
Dr. Kelly Conover has an MBA from the Citadel and a doctorate and health administration
from the Medical University of South Carolina.
She has also trained and certified to offer microneedling, laser skin resurfacing chemical peels,
photophacial IPL therapy, dermapplaining, and an array of energy treatments, and more.
Boom, that's a mouthful.
As I said, both of them extremely talented.
On that note, let's welcome the powerhouse couple behind Conover Wellness, Dr. Conover,
and his wife, Dr. Kelly Conover.
This is the skinny confidential, him and her.
So I guess first what I want to start out is the background of how you both met and if you were
in your professions that you're in now when you guys met.
So we met because, well, we met in 2015, Kelly inquired about how to be a patient.
And she called me.
We had both been through some bad divorces, but we were in like different places.
And I remember telling my friend when I got off the phone, like, there was something interesting about that phone call.
And then three weeks later, like we did some lab testing.
She came in and I was like, I knew it.
And at the time she was dating someone else.
And she actually brought her boyfriend for me to see as a patient.
And then at some point, several weeks later, I was like, I have to dismiss you as a patient.
You know what I would have done? I would have given him a fat peptide to make him fat and just
started injecting. To see what happens. Yeah, use him as a good. Man, this guy's levels are not looking good. He's
not going to be the one. We're not so sure about him. I'm sure you were attracted to Kelly because
of her beautiful skin. That's in part. Yeah, she's the most beautiful skin, you guys. She's glowing.
Were you doing what you do now when you met? I was doing a doctorate in health administration.
So my plan at the time was to do what most everyone else in the cohort was doing,
just senior level position in a health care organization.
But I'd always love skin.
I knew I didn't want to go back to be a dermatologist.
I knew I didn't want to be an esthetician.
So I was kind of in this crux, like how do I pair my passion with my background and experience?
So I actually went and got a laser certification and started doing medical grade lasers,
fell in love.
Fell in love with medical grade skin care.
As you know, from your book,
if it's something you're passionate about,
it's really easy.
So you just study, study, study,
all of the research,
the continuing education is just,
it's awesome.
We opened a business together.
We expanded his...
We opened it because she was like,
aha, my boyfriend's a doctor.
So that was a missing piece of the puzzle.
So now I can actually do what I want.
So that's what we did.
And it was awesome.
Or it is awesome.
So you guys open.
open to practice together.
Well, I had my existing practice.
Okay.
And then she opened to separate the skin business on top of that.
And then we've morphed it together over time.
Right.
So wellness and now aesthetics.
The aesthetics is seven years old.
When I first got introduced you, Dr. Conover, I was talking about, I was trying to explain, like,
exactly, you know, what it is you do.
You do with an assortment of things.
And now together, when you describe your practice together to patients or prospective patients
or people listening, how do you describe it now?
So I think on the, I mean, it's still kind of distinct a little bit in that there's the wellness side and there's the aesthetic side.
So I describe it as practicing performance medicine.
We help people not only feel their best over time, but perform their best.
And then it's worked really well with the aesthetic because people feel their best, they want to look their best and vice versa.
And so that's what we're really trying to achieve with people.
And so the majority, like, how would you describe the majority of your patients that come and see you?
I guess it probably ranges the spectrum, but the average patient, what they're looking for?
the well that want to be super well. It seems to me it's people who are high performers
that want to be the best version of themselves and they want to get one percent better,
even if they are at a superior level. That's true. Yeah. And I mean, I do see some people
with complicated medical problems who are looking for options who want outside the box kind of
thought processes. But for the most part, yeah, like Kelly said, the well who want to be super well,
peak performers. I want to talk more about the outside the box thinkers because that's why I wanted
both of you on the podcast. You guys both have a very different approach. In my opinion, I love it.
It's for people, like you said, that think outside the box. How would you describe your practices
to someone who's listening that wants more information and how is it outside the box?
That's a good question. Do you want to go first? Well, specifically on the ascetic side,
and I think he kind of broached on it, we try and treat the whole person. So just like he said,
when you feel better on the inside, you're more motivated to take care of what's on the outside.
and vice versa. So I tell folks, it's really, we haven't accomplished much if your skin looks great
and you're depressed and anxious and tired all the time. So I think that's where our practice
really combines the two. So it's more the inside out approach to health and wellness and therefore
beauty. And I think also I'll add to that, I really enjoy giving people options. And I think that
the only way for people to make progress is to try things. And so I don't like this whole generic
advice, right? Because that's what most people are used to and they subscribe to and they go see a doctor.
Whatever they do, like, okay, you know, don't eat carbs, eat kale salad, you know, just things that
we think are good that may be true, but that may not be true. And I think it applies both to wellness
applies to skincare, applies to everything in life. It's like the only way we're going to make
progress is to try it. I totally agree with you because I just found out that kale is really bad
for your thyroid. And I don't have a great thyroid. So I think that that is so true,
if someone told me to just eat cal salad, I'd be fucking up my thyroid.
Yeah.
It's funny.
Some things are like religion to people.
We bash kale salad or kale one time on the show and people were pissed, right?
They're like, don't go after.
Like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
But again, I love your approach because it is this, it's an individualistic approach, right?
It's like you're not just saying, hey, blanket statement, do these things.
No.
But high level, I mean, and I want to really get granular here as we go along.
But when you look at the majority of people and you,
you see their, like, I guess their levels or their laps or whatever you're looking at.
Are there certain things that people are lacking that you're like, hey, this is a supplement
I want you on, you know, you can blanketly say like this is good for everybody, like maybe
three, four, five essentials.
Yeah, so we do a lot of testing, whether it's hormones, nutrients, metabolic markers.
So in general, I mean, there's some of it, which people know, most people are insufficient
in vitamin D.
Most people don't get enough fatty acids, you know, healthy fat from their food.
most people don't get enough B vitamins.
And then hormonally, what we see is over time,
people just can't keep up with hormonal demands.
Whether it's females, it's thyroid, it's become an epidemic,
men, it's testosterone.
But then all of us collectively,
particularly with the pandemic and stress, cortisol, you know,
our stress hormone.
And then from there, there's a whole host of other kind of downstream effects.
So for listeners that are, you know,
maybe they're not at your practice right now and they don't have access,
but they can start like doing certain things to get those levels up.
Are there things you're like,
hey, I recommend blanketly that people should start using X, Y, and Z.
I think, I mean, I keep it very short list because I think it is individualized.
I think given people's state of mind with particularly COVID and their immune system,
like everyone needs more vitamin D, like five to 10,000 international units a day.
I think start there.
I think the data is showing that, right?
I think the data has become that there is an issue with, you know,
people getting more severe infection from low vitamin D levels.
It blows my mind that there's not more people talking on a mic or on a television about how we can improve our immune system.
I don't understand why everyone's so focused on, we'll say, other things as opposed to how can we strengthen our immune system so we don't get COVID or so if we do get COVID, we have a strong foundation.
What are some things that we can be doing, whether it's, you know, taking walks, like little things.
that we can be doing that will strengthen that foundation?
I mean, I think some of the ediologies,
because the narrative isn't really about health.
I mean, the narrative's about this virus and getting a vaccine,
but if we dig down, a lot of people who are getting sick,
and if we look demographically, there's comorbid disease.
Like, we're not talking about healthy eating.
We never have.
We're not talking about vitamin supplementation.
It's just not accepted.
And so, yeah, people need more vitamin D.
People, I think a really good philosophy for people,
because people struggle with stress, sleep,
is try to live your life like people did have been primitive times, right?
Like you rise with the sun, you go to bed with the sun.
You exercise.
Like, every day, you move your body.
Simple things.
I think, like, some of our biggest problems is, you know,
how long have we been in this pandemic now, 18 months, 2 years,
or however long it's been.
Yeah, 18 months.
And throughout this whole time,
there's been very little focus on things that, to your point,
how do you boost your immune system?
How do you get healthier?
Like, there's not a lot of,
a big, I mean, there are some, but there's not a lot of big voices that are putting an emphasis
on that. It's already like, it's just these quick fixes. Like you got to do this without long-term
thought or implication. Yeah, it's frustrating. From a medical standpoint, how do you, when you're
talking to your patients now, how are you consulting them? I mean, you know, the patients that we see
for the most part, you know, they've adopted this personal responsibility in their life. And I think
that separates them from potentially the masses who are used to going to see a doctor and they're
given three prescriptions right off the bat because we're not really interested, pharmaceuticals are
fine, but we're interested in really helping people.
So the people-
Get granular when you say personal responsibility, meaning like they've, they recognize that
their health is their responsibility.
Correct.
Yeah.
Like, and they understand that to be really healthy, it takes time, energy, resources,
money, and that's not saying that, oh, everything has to cost a lot of money, but it is
understanding that if I want to be healthy, I have to own what I put in my body or what I don't,
you know, how I move or how I don't move. And owning those choices, I think, is really, that's
what I enjoy doing, is helping motivate people to saying it's all possible. Whatever you want is
possible, but you have to own those decisions. And it always comes down to a choice, even though
those choices might be harder, right? Like some people have harder choices. They've been dealt a very,
you know, a more difficult hand per se. But I think the people that I talk to, yeah, I mean,
there's not a lot of fear, but there's some fear that, wow, because we got COVID in August,
and we got it really bad. It was a struggle for us. And we've asked ourselves, we're not the
healthiest, but we're healthier than most. Like, what happened there? And it was kind of,
it was scary. It was scary at times. I mean, I was on oxygen, it was hospitalized the works.
And so there's a lot of unknowns with this. So coming back to your question, but what do I ask,
or talked about my patients, it's we've got to stay focused on what we can't control.
You know, yeah, even simple things.
And so this collective stress of, okay, watching the news, that's not a good thing.
Sure.
Keeping score of what COVID case, that's not healthy for us.
But keeping focused on the things you can control in your life, that is way more healthier.
I also think, too, you really have to tap into what kind of mindset you're in.
If you're in a scarcity mindset where, like you said, you're watching the news and looking at everyone who's dying and looking at all,
and just stressing yourself out with fear, that's not good for your immune system.
Terrible.
So you almost have to shift your mindset into, okay, this is the situation we're in.
Like you said, I can't control it.
So what can I do for myself to make myself healthier?
And also working on your brain, like, can you write a book in quarantine?
Can you do something productive?
Can you go on more walks?
Can you be in nature more?
So I think one thing that the way we would approach that is, you know, you get people to
the finish line, show them the results, like for example, in the skin side, they come in and do a
laser treatment or get some Botox. Now they feel better in a couple days, just how they look.
Well, now they're going to be more motivated to want to feel better, right? And same thing on the
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Speaking of NAD, I've heard a lot of different things about it. I would love to know some
things like that that both of you implement in your day to day that you think make a big
difference over time. Yeah, we're big, big fans of NAD. So NAD is this B3 vitamin derivative,
have been in use for a long time, but we use it intravenously. Kelly uses a lot more than I do.
It's amazing. Does it hurt your stomach? You know the very first time or first few times I did it,
it does, but you get used to it? Like, are you shitting your pants or does it just get a
cram? The first time, yeah, there was some dicey moments. And why is that? Is it removing toxins or
it's removing? I don't think it's a toxin or it's just kind of activating the way. I think of
it's like cellular exercise. You know, so it's kind of a challenge to your cells, just like we do
hard workouts and you're huffing and puffing, you're out of breath, but you stay with it because
you know what comes after. NAD is very much like that. Like you're exercising yourselves, and so it's
super good for our nervous system, good for our mitochondria. And I think it's a huge safety net in terms
of preventing disease, preventing cancer, preventing aging, all these wonderful tools that we're looking
for. Okay, now I'm going to do it. It's amazing. You can turn it down too. So if you get the sensation
you don't like, you just turn it down, it goes away immediately. What causes the chest pain? Yeah, so we think
two reasons. No one can be able to tell you directly, but I think two reasons. Number one,
not to get too technical, but when we give people NAD, we increase something called the NAD to NAD
ratio in their mitochondria. That's the battery maker of the cell. And doing so, we stimulate something
called mitochondrial fission. Fission is the removal of the defective mitochondrial DNA. So it's like
the cleanup. So it's pushing it out. It's just like cleaning up, the debris. Okay.
Yeah. And that's number one. Number two, intracellularity NAD converts something called adenosine,
molecule and that causes the same symptoms.
So how do you implement this in your routine? Is it once a week? Is it every day?
I would do it multiple times a week if I could. It's usually about once a week, once every other
week, depending on the schedule. You know, it takes about an hour to get through it. And you know,
you've got the pole. It's in your arm. So it's a little bit of inconvenience.
You know, like vitamins, learned, or, you know, like vitamin C drips and needles. I'm not impressed by
much. It's amazing. What do you notice after doing it? You know, so that's the
the interesting thing. Lots of people will say I notice more energy. I sleep better. I have more clarity,
more focus. I can't really tell you definitively one thing, but I can definitely tell you when I don't
have it. Yeah. And for me, I don't really notice much except it's wiped out my migraines. Like I've
gotten chronic migraines since I was 13 years old, eight to 12 a year. I've had them my whole life.
Yeah, eight to 12 a year. I get a visual aura. I can't see, then get me wipes out my day.
When I started NAD, which is probably five years ago, my migraines are almost non-existent.
Oh, that's interesting. I get at least two or three really bad ones a month.
Oh, yeah. So we'll get you going on NAD. It'll change your life. And so, but most people in general,
because we've overseen probably more NAD treatments than anywhere else in the world,
most people, it's like your nervous system is coming back online. The light bulb's been turned on.
You handle stress better. You sleep better. Your mood's better. Colors look brighter. All these things.
It's legit.
You can't pinpoint one thing that you think that it's made a big difference with.
So I know you would ask this, possibly skin, actually.
if you look back and it's not one of those things that I just felt like overnight, but I can look
back at photos in the couple of years that I've been doing NAD, the texture of my skin, the clarity of my
skin, it's, it's, again, I can't pinpoint one thing, but I do notice that. One of our friends here
in Austin, we're going to have dinner with tonight. And this, we met him years ago through doing NAD,
and he's a professional cyclist. And he called me, he did a full series. And he called me,
He's like, first of all, I train my rest, my heart rate while I'm riding my bike at certain intervals
was 160, 165.
He said, I can't get it past 135 now.
That's a huge advantage.
He said, the second thing is I was at dinner and several people said to me, what are you doing?
Your skin looks so good.
So we do hear that a lot.
Yeah, your skin is like very shiny and plumb.
Glowing.
Yeah, it's glowy.
I really, I swear, like, the first thing I looked at when I came in, it's beautiful skin.
Well, thank you.
It's really dry here in this climate, but I appreciate it. Like I said, I do work on it.
You look like you have humidifier skin. You know, it's so funny. So I read that in your book,
and I'm getting ready to get the combo that you did with canopy. Yeah, that's awesome.
I would have brought you one if I had one at home. I don't have one at home yet. I only have mine
that's set up. So they're just shipping out next week. What is it? It's a humidifier.
We need to be interviewing you, Lauren, because I have so many, both of you.
No, no, no, no. She should be a little more interesting.
I want to go back to what you guys do as a couple that's wellnessy every day.
Like, are you waking up taking walks, little tiny things?
We do walks.
We do walk.
I think the big segmented thing that's been a change for us in the last 18 months is we do
our infrared sauna together every night.
We're just getting one of those put in.
We haven't had one for it.
How long do you guys do it?
A good hour.
An hour.
You sit in there for an hour.
We're addicted though.
We're abnormal.
Correct.
Inferred.
What are the benefits of that?
I mean, so many fold.
Just cleansing, right?
You're sweating.
You're sweating.
You're heating up your body from.
the inside out. So you're activating these heat shock proteins. It's like stressing you in ways,
which is difficult to do. And then you're, for us, though, I think, which isn't talked about
as much as when you can relate to your partner, have meaningful conversation, like that connection,
right, from a meaning perspective, that takes stress out, helps you connect bond. That is super
healthy. It sounds like mushrooms. Yeah. Similar. Similar. What are you guys' thoughts on psychedelics?
I feel like you're the perfect people to ask. Yeah. So off the right.
record, you know, because they're 100% illegal. I think there's a lot of validity to using them as
therapeutic tools. I think the trouble with them, if you look from the outside in, is, or they get a
bad reputation is people using them recreationally. Yeah, partying and stuff. Partying and stuff. And that's how
they're mostly used. But if you look at, you know, there's data now coming from Johns Hopkins and other
big institutions using them as tools for help with PTSD, anxiety, depression. It would be hard to find how that
would be bad for someone. I think we need to get an infrared sauna so we can have meaningful
conversations because I almost stabbed you on the way over here. Let me ask you this from a
I love how it changes the same. I'm not going to win on that. So I'm moving on. From a doctor's
perspective, I imagine sometimes there's frustration when for what you do, you're looking at so many
different options for so many different people. Right. And then especially with what we're going through right now,
there's a much narrower focus, right?
It's like, this is the prescription, this is the narrow focus.
Does that frustrate you?
That's a good question.
Not really, because I see my role is helping to educate people.
And I learned long ago that I can't help everyone, right?
And so a lot of it's timing, right?
And if someone has already become their own expert and wants to argue with me,
then we're just not going to be able to sort it out.
So I don't emotionally get connected to that.
I can try to explain things.
I can try to educate people.
I can't with everyone.
And a lot of it's just timing.
There's a lot of fear now.
There's a lot of fear and a lot of pushback to that.
I think one of the problems with this whole pandemic is that we're not allowed to ask questions.
And we're not making progress because we're told this is the truth.
And once you start asking questions, my philosophy is you have to question everything.
And if you don't do that, then we're not going to be.
make any progress. It's so weird how you can't ask questions. That's the weirdest thing. Like,
if I asked a question on social media, you would get attacked. It's so weird how we're just
supposed to stand in line and say, just take it. And no one can ask any questions. That's where I was
like, this is fucking weird. No, it is. And I'm all for people doing what's best for them.
Like, be educated and make a choice for you and your family. Awesome, all day long. And I, and, but we can't
agree to disagree anymore. But we need to. We have to be able to disagree to make progress.
I also think if you are an outspoken person, someone who I really admire is like Joe Rogan,
how he speaks out on things. Then it is, if you are outspoken, like you maybe should
continue to pull that into what we're going through now. Like it's sad to me that a lot of people
are just shutting up. Just getting canceled. The bigger thing that I have issue with this and is the way
people publicly say things and what they privately say, right? Like I know so, I mean, especially doing
with what we do. Yeah. I know so many people that are saying one thing or not saying one thing and then
acting a completely different way in their private life. And it's, and I ask why. And it's because
what you said, they're scared of pushing back. And I think that's a really dangerous position to be in
society because people are not actually saying and doing what they actually are doing and thinking.
Right. Right. They're just, they're, they're just following along, but then they're acting a
completely different way. Right. Yeah. There's a, there's a disconnect. Major
disconnect. And I wonder, like, again, like from a medical standpoint, like, how many doctors are worried to
step up and say, like, hey, lots, right? Like, from a medical standpoint, they people don't want to get
in trouble or they don't want to get in hot water. They don't want to say something that's outside of,
you know, what they think they should say. And I think that's limiting for us as a society to learn,
like, hey, are there other paths forward that could also be valuable? For sure, but I get it. Like,
your medical license is your livelihood. And if there's some powers that be that could remove that,
that's, you know, there's fear there.
And it's entrenched.
I mean, this is not a recent thing.
This whole pharmaceutical model of medicine and all of the fear-based thinking, that's not
recent with COVID.
That's always been there.
So for anyone to bug that system, that's tough.
You know, it's interesting because you guys have a young child too.
That's where I worry about it the most.
It's very much a sit down, shut up, get in line.
Like, we have removed all creative thinking from the schools.
that's a problem.
Yeah.
I want my daughter to always question everything.
Question me, question my husband, question.
That's how I was brought up.
You ask questions.
And when she starts standing in line, I would sit down with her and I would say it's really
important to think for yourself.
Well, this may rub people the wrong way, which I have a tendency to do sometimes.
But I tend to zone out a lot of time when any argument starts with smart and educated
people say this.
Because what I think is, listen, there's nothing wrong with being smart and educated.
But there's also the argument that a lot of smart and educated people figured out how to go through a modern school system and follow rules and follow procedures and memorize things and not really question and do things in a different way. And the reason sometimes I zone out is I was a terrible student. I had a really difficult time listening in class and paying attention and doing things the other way students did. But I always figured out a way to do things and I graduated college early. And it was typically by going outside of what people that were advanced in school were able to do. I just couldn't do it.
Right? And it's, I've done okay in my life and in my career by doing things a different way. And I would hate to think that my kid or somebody else's kid would be stifled from thinking in a different way or doing things in a different way or questioning why they're doing something. And I think to your point, that's kind of the area we're moving into. It's like everyone has to do things the exact same way. And if you do it differently or say things differently or have a different opinion, you get ostracized of it.
It's not a group think.
What's collectivism.
And so our country, the spirit of being American, for example, was founded on this individuality
that I'm going to ask questions and push back.
And now we're being corralled totally against that.
It's this collectivism that you're no longer an individual.
You just have to do what's best for the collective.
And that is every society who's gone down that path has failed.
I got in an argument with some of our friends.
One of them, maybe they're listening.
They're from Australia.
I don't care, honestly.
And they were trying to tell me.
about all the things. I mean, Australia's going to fucking hell
a handbasket, so maybe not as good example anymore. But they were trying to
tell me all of the reason why the U.S. should do things like Australia's done things. And I'm
like, listen, if you really believe that, why are you in the U.S.? Why not just go to
Australia where it already exists? And it's not like like it or leave it type argument,
but my whole thing is like they were saying Americans are arrogant for not for thinking
that we should do things our way while they were arguing about how we need to adopt to do
things their way. And I'm like, it makes no sense. Exactly. So, like, the point is, is we have
options in this world to live and move, especially with modern technology and transportation,
to go where you want to go. And if you don't like something, like, why are you trying to
change it to something else, right? Like, there's, there is that option. It already exists, right?
Like, if you love Australia, go to Australia. Yeah. And I think, I think we're, I think we're being
played by the major media outlets. You know, they're telling this narrative and it's instilling
fear. But if you look at the numbers, like, you know, their ratings, they get a million to
million people watching a night on these big prime times shows. There's 350 million people in this
country. The vast majority of people aren't even paying attention, I feel like. And I think most
people agree with our thought process, but you wouldn't know it. It's the vocal people who are
polarizing that stand out. Yeah. I think the pendulum is going to swing. I think we're about to,
I think people who are oversharers and outspoken are about to start fucking shit up.
You're seeing that some with some of these celebrities that are coming forward.
But it's going to come down.
We use a specialty lab to draw blood and send our specimens.
We just got an email because we have to ship it by FedEx.
We just got an email that because FedEx workforce has been reduced by 30 to 40% right now,
they're not sure that they can handle the specimens in a timely fashion.
That's a major problem.
And it's things like that because vaccine mandates people being told what they have to do
is going to trickle down in a negative way.
What do you think, and I would love to know both of your opinions,
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I mean, I think I won't speak for Kelly, but I mean, I'm a perpetual optimist.
I think there's going to be a lot of, there's going to be many silver linings we probably
don't realize.
Number one, it's forcing us to focus on health in a way we haven't and to talk about things
related to our individual health that most people probably haven't.
I think it's forcing this issue of, you know, where do we want our society?
to go and how free do we want to be and what that really means. I think you look at just what happened
after 9-11 and how we came together as a country, but a couple years after that, people forgot about
that. Like, the spirit of our country, I think, has been dismantled very quickly. And I think it's
going to help to reinforce that over time. What do you think? I agree completely. I think the other thing is
we are going to have to start asking some hard questions. I don't get into people's religious or
political beliefs. I was raised that it does take all kinds of kinds, but where we're at today
is pretty dangerous if you think about it. I mean, there's a lot of stuff going on. And certainly for
someone with a child, we're going to have to pump the breaks here soon and start really questioning
a lot of the things that are being forced and pushed on us. So ultimately, I think it will be a good
thing, right? Because it always is. I think it gets worse before it gets better. Yeah. I don't think we're
there yet. Why are we living in a world where people can't have different opinions? That's what,
That's for me what is so crazy. It's like we're to a point where we all have to have the same
damn opinion. I just don't understand that way of thought. I think, well, not to get too far down
this rabbit hole, but I think it's been entrenched over the last several decades by the powers
that be the political elite, if we want to call them, who have instructed us to just shut up
and take it and just obey, stop asking questions so that that mindset of people is there for a lot
of people. And so that's where people are. And I think the other thing, too, is since people are
so down the far of that path, even though they're waking up to this doesn't feel right, they're
defending that position because they don't want to admit, oh my goodness, how have I lived my life
for the past 20 years, just blindly agreeing to do whatever. There's a lack of accountability.
I think there's a mass lack of accountability that stems and creates a lot of problems. Right. And when I say
that, I mean, if you're somebody that's not being accountable for your life and taking personal
accountability for your health, for your relationships, for your financial well-being, for your work
for anything, basically anything in your life, extreme ownership. What happens then is it's almost
comforting in a way to be like, listen, I'm just going to listen and do what I'm told. And I kind of like
it because now I don't have to think. And now I have an excuse about why things exist. People
really don't like when I say that, but it's true. I, you know, I always tell everybody on my team,
like, everything's my fault, literally everything. Even if somebody on the team outside of me makes
a mistake, I'm like, well, I should have been communicating or we should have set up a system or
I take the accountability.
And what that does is it trickles down to the entire team where
anytime there's an issue, everyone takes that ownership.
And what happens is the entire company, everybody rallies around says, let's help that person.
Where if it's this constant culture of blame and I'm never going to take accountability,
you just kind of stay in the same place and flounder and nothing gets done.
And I think to round it out, you get comfortable and you're like,
I kind of just want people to tell me what to do and I'll listen.
And then I don't have to take accountability.
It's a larger issue.
But that's true leadership, what you're doing.
I mean, taking complete ownership, that is leadership.
You know, it all ultimately comes back to you, regardless of what's going on.
That's hard, though.
No, it's hard.
And I get why people, you know, especially with you take an issue like a pandemic, it's easier to just say, you know what, like I'm, you know, I just want to be told what to do.
I want to take a step back.
I don't want to step outside the line.
I don't want to question anything.
It's an easier approach.
It's a harder approach to do this in question and say like, why, why, why, especially because you make yourself a target.
But there's a lot of people that probably have those thoughts in the back of their mind and want people to ask the questions.
They just might not have the courage to do it themselves.
Yeah.
And I think tying it back to health and skin is people need, well, need is relatives, but hopefully people can wake up and say, hey, I want the best skin for myself.
I want the best health.
It comes down to me owning everything and being, you know, empowered to make all those choices.
And I'm not just going to go take this medicine because my doctor told me or I'm not going to use this whatever cleansing product because it's cheap.
Speaking of skin and health, I do want to, I want to know what is something that Kelly has taught you about skin.
And I want to know something that Dr. Craig has taught you about health.
You go first.
I think, well, probably the biggest is that because, you know, everyone who sees Kelly is like, oh, my gosh, your skin.
Yeah, it's really beautiful.
You guys have to go look at her Instagram.
Yeah, like, it's amazing and close.
And then I see that she takes care of her skin, you know,
in ways that people take care of their nutrition and their fitness. She has her regimen,
and she doesn't miss it. Like, her and sunscreen, and with our son, like, you're not leaving
the house until you have not only sunscreen on, but you've got three bottles in your pocket
for two hours from now. How old your son? 11. He'll be 12 in December. Oh, when do I need to get
Zaza on sunscreen? Yesterday. At one and a half? Clothing is good for her. Okay. Okay. Sun protective
clothing. Right. Okay. Don't you dare take her in the pool without sunprotective?
of clothing.
Yeah, because you don't have to, it doesn't wash off.
Okay.
So that's ideal for that age.
You don't get it all in their eyes and all of that.
Okay.
So I'm going to get that.
Okay.
So Kelly has taught you to treat your skin like nutrition.
It's a regimen.
And the more disciplined you are, the better results you're going to have.
Okay.
The biggest unlock for me with understanding skin was when they, people described
it and saying it's one of the large, or is the largest cell in your body, I might be
butchering that, right?
And as soon as I understand it from that perspective, I was like, oh, you have to take care
of it, like how you would in the gym or how.
you would with your diet.
Exactly.
I mean, I don't have the best,
but before I just thought it took care of itself.
Sure.
You know,
it'll just be,
it'll just do what it wants to do.
You do have great skin.
He works on it very hard.
He uses a retinal twice a week,
Dr. Dennis Gross.
He does Elimus.
He does my oil.
He ice rolls.
He does work at it.
I do get the benefit of sitting on this show
and talking to people like yourself.
You do, though,
I'd have to be a real duller to not pick up something.
You do need to wear sunscreen more, though.
No, I don't do that.
Yes, he does.
Okay.
So, before we get into skin,
though,
I want you to tell me something that Dr. Craig has taught you about wellness that you maybe didn't see before you guys got together.
Well, he's taught me so much not only about wellness, but life.
He's literally the most amazing human I've ever met, and that's the truth.
But I think he's taught me about stress.
So I'm someone that stresses on just about everything.
It seems like depending on the day.
I take a lot.
We can relate on that.
Yeah, I put a lot on my plate, and I obviously hold myself to a certain standard,
and that can be overwhelming at time.
So I think you've taught me just the importance of that stress relief.
It's like it is so damaging.
More so even than not exercising or eating poorly,
like the amount of stress that we just really weighs us down.
Let's stay on that for a minute because you do have an extremely calm demeanor.
And I imagine that has to do with many things that you've learned and that you actually do.
But from, again, from your perspective,
what kind of damages are we?
inflicting on ourselves with stress, especially now.
I think it's probably the core, if we really drill down to it, of cancer, heart disease,
autoimmune disease, mental breakdown, right?
And I could spend the rest of the time talking to how I see it biochemically and how we kind
of put out cortisol and respond to it.
But there's an analogy I like to use, which helps sum it up is, this was years ago.
I don't know if I heard this directly from the parents or a story.
It was about Halloween.
and trick-or-treating.
And these parents said, yeah, we let our kids trick-or-treat for sure.
But once they get home, we take that candy.
And it's like, you taking the candy is so much more stressful than letting them eat some sugar.
Like, it's okay.
Like, we can handle that as humans and even as kids.
But you coming in and stealing their candy.
After they've worked for it?
Yeah.
And so I don't think people understand, like, we do this to ourselves all the time, right?
because we eat that piece of cake and we say, I'm a bad person, right?
Like I ate this piece of cake.
Well, how do you know it's bad?
I can tell you it's bad because if you believe it's bad, it's bad.
Right?
And so that is like what we focus on in our life is always what we get.
And to me, it's always a choice.
So why would I want to tell myself some negativity ever?
It's so interesting that you're bringing this up right now,
especially in front of Michael because I recently,
and I bet you guys will know who this is,
have become obsessed with Louise Hay.
And she talks about exactly what you're saying about monitoring your thoughts and how if you're having these stressful thoughts all the time, you're going to actually have it happen in real life.
And so, for sure.
I mean, that's exactly what you're saying.
It's like, why stress about the cake you already ate the cake?
Just say, just turn it into something positive instead of being stressed.
I do notice that our age specifically tends to run stressed about shit that doesn't even matter.
Everyone does. I mean, we like to be micromanagers because we think that's how we achieve things.
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But the reverse is true when you're focused on negativity and having a bad day.
Guess what you get more of negativity and having more bad days.
This is where, you know, like even if you take the micro example of the news, people get mad when, you know, we've told, we don't even have the cable in the house anymore.
I just cut it because I was sick of seeing all this stuff.
Yeah.
And it's not that we're not aware of high level what's going on in the world, but what I found to not be beneficial was tuning in every second and deciding.
to be triggered or upset by it because that's what the news cycle does right today this happened this
happened this happened and people choose to say well this directly affects me right now when a lot of what's
going on in the news has actually zero effect on their day-to-day life and even been more benign things like
oh there was a tsunami in the fiji islands like okay i get it you want to have some empathy for that
but that's really not important to you yes you know i mean like we don't even in 20 years ago
you wouldn't even have known about the social media has made it all like this this barrage of
digital information like i don't think our brains and nervous you're not even
systems are there to support that.
There was someone I was reading that's even when you talk about climate change,
it's saying it's not necessarily that it's,
listen, I don't want to downplay it if people get upset,
but it is an issue potentially you got to deal with down the line,
but people act as if the world's going to go up in flames tomorrow, right?
And like, there's things that we can change, but people are,
been here for billions of years.
Yes, and they're getting, they're stressing out every single day
having these arguments and fights and whatever.
And it's not, it probably won't affect them in their lifetime.
Ever.
I mean, sure, we need to be good stewards of the planet.
Sure.
to be good stewards of our lives. But the earth is fine. I mean, the earth's handled way more than we
could ever imagine. Yes. I like to think of my stress as money. So if it's not worth to spend the
dollar on, the $10, the $20, I try not to spend it. I really, I really try to monitor my stress.
Is there things that Dr. Conover has taught you that you do on a daily basis to manage stress?
I know you said you did infrared a lot. Yeah. And I don't.
manage stress too great. Let me be clear. Obviously, the NAD has helped, the infrared sauna has helped
tremendously. I think, and you say this, and you'll be able to explain it better, but being able to
establish, like, the hindsight from the foresight, like, everything is not as important as it seems
right in this moment. Like, we're the ones that make that up. We're the ones that create that,
and it's artificial. So, yeah. I think it's for all of us, it's a work in progress. I think we,
I think what I try to impart or what I've learned, or the wisdom.
is because a lot of the people we see in ourselves include are high achievers, right? And we think that
we've reached this status because we've fought to get there. We've struggled. And I'm not saying
that you need to give up. But I think a lot of the wisdom is being able to allow acceptance to surrender
to, you know, the kind of the rhythms that life creates for you. You know what's really helped
with my stress. And if you know anything about this, I would love to know more. My P-E-M-F, Matt,
I do it too.
Yeah, we have one.
Can you talk about that?
We've never talked about it in the podcast.
And I was telling Michael he was so stressed because he didn't get any sleep.
I had to hear he didn't get sleep about 6,000 times yesterday.
Let me tell you.
I had to fly into L.A. first flight out of Texas.
Here we go.
He's going to tell you about it.
And then I came back the same night.
Oh, he's going to tell you.
That's stressful.
That's a lot.
That's a lot.
I had to hear about it.
So then I made him lay on that mat.
And I feel like it helps so much.
Can you talk about the science behind that?
I'm not an expert.
but the way I think about it is, you know, there's magnetic forces, like there's electrical forces,
there's physical forces, there's chemical forces, all of those exert themselves on our bodies,
on the cells. And the pulsed electrical magnetic force is helping to get that magnetic force lined up.
It's just getting the cells back in line. And so, you know, they do, for example, a little bit more in depth,
they'll do transcranial magnetic stimulation for people with cognitive issues, depression, you know,
neurodegenerative diseases because you're helping the cells align magnetically.
And so lying on the mat and then you're getting the presence of that magnetism, right?
It's just like when people have magnets, right, that they play with, getting things lined up.
When you line things up, it just makes the cell more efficient.
We have one too.
We have a higher dose mat.
I love a higher dose mat.
That's what I got, Kelly, and it has the heats up and get on it.
And you really like it before bed.
Oh, yeah.
You should do that if you're having trouble sleeping.
I'm going to try it tonight.
So here's what I do, and this is like the biggest hack ever.
Okay.
I do this.
I've been doing this every morning for a month, and my stress is so much lower.
I go in my room, close the door, because you want to be alone.
I turn on the mat to the highest PMRF, what's PMFR, what you say?
I'm not sure.
Okay, I don't know.
I turn on the mat to the highest it can go, and then I put my legs up on the wall.
So my legs are up, so it's draining the inflammation and calming my nervous system down.
then I put on a meditation
while my legs are up
while I'm laying on the mat
I'm telling you
Kelly's nighttime regime
Kelly I would get along
Kelly in another world will be lesbians
Then you put
you put a block under your neck
and you do cranial sacral
while you're on the mat
with your legs up meditating
and I am telling you
20 minutes you are brand
fucking new
See, to me and probably Michael, that seems stressful.
I have to remember all the steps.
Let me tell you why.
I also like CBD on my neck while.
I'll tell you why I'm stressed.
I have a base level stress already of probably like three to four running all the time.
I have to manage that.
It goes up to about an eight or nine when Lauren constantly tells me how stressed I am.
When I'm actually not as stressed as she says, but by reinforcing it, it's like.
I never understand people that yell at other drivers.
I think that's such a waste of energy.
I would never waste my energy on that.
I yell at myself.
Yeah.
Okay.
But men have this thing too because they yell at the TV screen.
sports. And I don't think females understand that as much. Like you're just, you're like,
you're not really like getting it out. Like you really think you're communicating in some weird way.
Yeah. I mean, Lauren, it's kind of like me trying to understand that long routine you just went
through. Like I might yell for six seconds. But it's fine. We all have more. And then you put CBD on the
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I want to know the whole routine. I don't want you to be like, oh, I don't, I don't care if it's
800 hours. Tell the whole routine step by step. No.
you probably don't want to know it because it is 800.
I do. I do. It's in depth.
I want to know morning and night.
Yeah. Well, so I have the luxury of being able to try a bunch of different products, obviously.
I don't have my own skincare line yet. I have some mixed feelings on it. To me, it has to be authentic.
So if I don't feel I can add anything to the current market, like it's not appealing to me to white label or private label.
That's an ego problem in liquid form, is my opinion. So our skin.
care line line. Yeah, I mean, it's like if I can't add anything to it, I'm just putting my label on
someone else's stuff. That's, that's an ego issue. So we use, I think we have 12 different medical
grade skincare lines. They run the gamut, obaji, and the acutis is clinical, skin suiticals,
et cetera, et cetera. So I use something from each of those lines. I don't have any allegiance to any
skincare company. I just like ingredients and what actually works. And I think I could sit here and tell
you verbatim exactly what to do and you could follow it verbatim and it not work for you
the way it does me. Okay. Because we're all so individualized. So that's why you really have to look
at the whole person. We look at the commitment level. Like you are someone that is committed. So you
will use 15 things. If I give him the same thing, he's not going to do it. No. I make more of a four
or five thing. Right. And that's gone up. That's good. That for men. Yeah. Yeah. But you know,
you treat the concern. So you mentioned you had some hyperpigmentation. I brought you a few things for that. Hydroquinone is
obviously the gold standard.
4% hydroquinone is a prescription strength,
pharmaceutical grade, sunscreen, as you know,
and of course, retinoids.
You can also use some alpha hydroxy acids.
Those are going to be your main ingredients
for treating hyperpigmentation.
For me, I use a cleanser.
I use a toner.
I'm one of the people that believes you do need a toner.
It levels sets the pH balance and the skin,
enables you to absorb everything that you're putting on after.
So I spend a lot of money on skincare.
That's the only place I spend money.
So I want to be able to absorb all of it.
that is where I do it. So cleanser toner, you have to have a vitamin C. So I do that. I think there's
a bunch of different schools of thought on that. You can do the pure all-ascorbic acid, which is the most
bioavailable, the most readily available for your skin to absorb and use. It can be a little more
irritating and it has no stability. So when you open the bottle, you have to use it lavishly. It's not
something that you want to skimp on. So I do that. I then use a growth factor peptide serum.
That's by far if you ask me, I figured you would ask this, Lauren, what's the one?
product that people should get, it's that. So if you think about it, the building blocks in our
skin, we have collagen, we have a last, and we have haleronic acid. So when you look at your daughter,
like we start with this inverted triangle, high cheek bones, defined jawline. As we age, it quite literally
flips. Every single person, it all pulls down. That's because our collagen, our last, and our
haleronic acid is degrading. So what growth factors and peptides are, they're signal or messenger
molecules and they're able to travel deep into the skin and remind it what it was like when we were
younger, i.e. to produce more collagen. I will get you both one and you can try it. It's interesting.
Their clinical studies show result in six days before and after use. I brought you one. I'll get
you another. You'll love it. It's a product from the acutis. It's a Swiss luxury line.
Yeah, I'm much too vain to have my face go upside down and flip down. I need to get this thing going
again. Whatever. Where your ball's going to be?
Let's bring those up to Dr. Conover, what do you got for you on? Between your toes.
Go ahead.
And then sunscreen.
So that is the morning routine.
It's pretty lengthy.
And then in the evening, you know, I think one thing that we're seeing more in the industry,
people say what's changing in the aesthetic industry, two key things.
The first is that people are entering it sooner.
I see parents, literally, coming in with daughters, age 15, 16, wanting us to put neurotoxin
or lip filler in.
I mean, some of it is too much.
But you're seeing a lot of people coming sooner.
Millennials, you know, millennials used to buy shoes.
clothes and jewelry and all this other stuff, and they're now waking up, the skin's the largest organ.
And certainly you guys on your own business. I see a lot of, it's interesting, Michael,
you're talking about men getting in the field. Like, the skin is the calling card. People spend all
this money on these houses and clothes and all of this stuff. And it's like, your skin is your
calling card. No one sees your $250,000 bathroom remodel. Yeah, and or cares. It's your face. You have it
forever. I don't understand why people say things. I spend my money on my face. I get a facial
once a week. I have no shame. I joke about being. It's my face. I saw it. I have joke about being vain.
But at the same time, like, I think once I looked at all of these things from the health perspective,
I'm like, why would I want to take care of myself in the gym or take care of what I eat and then
let my skin go to shit if I don't have to, right? And I think if you look, that goes to like everything,
right, your stress level, your skin, your health, your fitness, all these things. I wish there would be more
emphasis. And to your point, I think people in this generation are not looking for a quick fix.
They're looking for how do I prevent getting sick? How do I prevent getting cancer? How do I prevent
my skin going bad? Like that's, it's shifted to that. And the other thing Kelly does, I don't know if
it's talked about in the industry is she just doesn't use those products on her face. She's using it.
That's where I was getting to. Yeah, sorry. Every night I'm putting these products on her back and like her whole body.
So that's the other thing. You've got people entering the industry earlier.
suffering.
Yeah.
It's the prejuvenation.
Tough job.
The second thing is we have older people staying in the industry longer.
So it used to be, you know, you're 50, 60, whatever.
There's nothing more we can do.
Go get surgery or move on.
But the non-invasive technology, minimally invasive, it is insane.
And it's only growing and changing and developing every single day.
I mean, there's plenty of people that believe we won't even have a facelift,
a traditional facelift option in 10 years.
You're lucky.
I don't live by you.
I would be in your office.
I would be so annoying.
I would be in your office once a week.
Well, when you come to town, you may come more.
You'd be doing IVs, skincare, every week.
Yeah, you guys are really lucky.
I don't live by you.
I would be so annoying.
Yeah, we would be very long.
You mentioned Obaji, which I've heard so many good things about,
and I'm a huge fan of skin suiticles.
Is there a certain product that you would start with with each of those?
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sheet set. Yeah, I brought it to you. So skin suiticles, they're not bad by any stretch. I think
their entire marketing or whatever, it's geared around prevention. And that may work at your age,
but most of the people walking into my office, they're more like me.
We're past the point of just preventing.
We're looking to maintain and even correct.
And I just don't find skin suiticals products to be great at that.
What they really shine at is their vitamin C.
Okay, the C.
It is, I don't care for it.
Honestly, I brought you one that is from Obagi, and it's got the hydroquinone in it.
So it's a combination.
We sell more of that product.
We're the largest Obagi account in the Southeast.
And we sell more of that product than just about anything.
And can anyone use the products you're talking about if you're pregnant, if you're breastfeeding, it's fine?
So not with hydroquinone. You're not, ideally. I mean, it's not that it's bad. It's just that they haven't been studied, you know, so we don't recommend that.
So if you're pregnant and breastfeeding, you have to be careful of that. With hydroquinone, for sure.
But skin suiticles, would you use the CE or you don't like that one?
So you could, I don't personally care for it, but you know, again, that's a personal thing. I think it breaks me out. I don't like the consistency of it.
Okay.
The interesting thing is in the clinical study, so Obagi, they do a head-to-head study with skin suiticles, and they win every single time.
Most of skincare, if you think about it, obviously people won't results.
Like, we're not paying for fru-frou crap anymore.
It's got to work.
So that's the first criteria.
The second is people like the feel, finish, and smell.
You want to know why people bring products back or don't use them?
It generally comes down to one of those things.
I don't like how this feels.
It's too greasy.
It stinks.
So that's where Obagi is considerably better.
Okay.
Yeah.
I've heard of this line from so many people and I've never tried it, so I'm really excited to try.
You know, so they've been out there. They have over 30 years, more clinical studies than any
skincare company, over 30 years of clinical data. I wish that I had met you before I wrote my book.
I would have had a whole section on you. What are, what are some treatments that you think are
super preventative for, you know, someone from 21 to 40? What are some treatments that you would
recommend? Radio frequency macronedaling. That's great. That's what I want to do when I come see you.
Yeah, for sure. We do that actually. We call it the ultimate.
Dio. I didn't come up with that name. I wish I did. But it's RF micrneedling and it's followed by a
cool pill. And the cool pill is actually just a unique setting on a CO2 laser, which is an ablative laser.
We do them in the same treatment session. Is it painful? It is not. So that we numb you. And we do
have pro nox in the office if people want it. That's another thing. Pain is kind of relative.
Some people have no issue and others want the pro knocks. I have no issue with pain,
but it has to have to do with beauty. Right. If it's beauty, I don't care.
But if it's something weird, like a hospital, I can't do it.
Right.
Yeah, I saw that you don't like needles.
Uh-uh.
But if you're telling me with NAD, it has all these beauty benefits, I will bite down on a stick.
You will both be hooked in.
You've done vitamin IVs.
Yeah.
You're doing peptides?
Yeah.
It's a needle?
Yeah.
And that's simple.
You just get used to it.
That one's little.
It's like an insulin needle.
Can you talk to us about peptides?
Tell us everything about peptides.
And Kelly, I would love to know what you're taking.
And if you guys take them at home.
We do.
We do.
We've never talked about peptides on the podcast.
You haven't.
No.
But keep it simple.
Peptides are chains of amino acids.
Amino acids are like the building blocks of life.
And so what a peptide is is just amino acids in different combination.
We consider the peptides if it's less than 40 amino acids in length.
It's called a protein if it's greater than 41 amino acids in length.
So they're small molecules.
I tell people I think they grew up in the, they became popular in the fitness world.
So you had competitive crossfitters looking for an edge.
And they started using these growth hormone releasing.
peptides. I think some people are familiar with growth hormone. It's this anabolic hormone
helps people recover, rejuvenate from injury, helps them become lean, fit, stronger, fit,
or faster. Problem with growth hormone is you can manipulate the hormones. Things can go awry if you
use them incorrectly. But peptides, you can't peptide, you inject, and then they're very safe.
So what I like about them is empirically, we can start really anyone on them. We rarely see any side
effect, certainly no negatives. So very, very, very safe. They are injectable.
Inject- Real quick, the difference between someone that's going to use a peptide or just like anabolic H-G-H-G-H-roth hormone, like how can they go astray using that but not astray with a peptide?
So the peptide is just a signaling molecule. So it's going to travel to the part of your brain which puts out growth hormone and says push out some growth hormone.
So as long, so you can't over-do it.
It can only do what your body's capable of doing. You can't artificially change it.
Yeah, so it's not going to be as strong as growth hormone. There's a huge safety component there.
So that's one class of peptides is fitness peptides.
Now there's peptides for your skin, peptides for inflammation, peptides for your nervous system,
peptides for your immune system.
And what we do is we combine them further into novel combinations.
So people are using anywhere from 3 to 12 to 15 peptides at a time.
Right.
And so then that's like people stacking supplements, right?
Is that 3 to 15 shots at times?
No, so what we do.
Yeah, so what we do is we pre-fill syringes.
Got it.
We do it differently.
We pre-fill syringes because we learned early on that no one's going to give themselves
three to 15 shots a day.
but if we do the work for them and all they have to do is take it out of the refrigerator and they just didn't do the shot they'll be compliant.
How many celebrities and big people are using peptides that we don't know about?
A lot.
And are they using anti-aging, fat burning?
What are they using?
That end growth hormone.
The women too?
Yeah, a lot of women are using growth hormone.
But they're using a lot of peptides now.
I mean, I won't, but I've known several, right?
Very famous people.
Using peptides.
They're using fat burning for skin and all of the above.
And can you use them when you're pregnant?
Certain ones.
I just like pregnancy.
I know you'd asked me this before.
I like pregnancy to be as minimal as possible.
I just think, can you use them?
Yes.
I have a patient who's a famous actress.
Interestingly enough, she was on some peptides,
but got off the gut on NAD and became pregnant.
And her fertility doctor called me.
And he was, he's this famous fertility doctor.
She's out in Los Angeles.
And he's like, wow, what you're doing with the NAD is,
amazing because it's like the secret sauce. I didn't really know about it. But he said, but what we do
is we give pregnant women or women trying to get pregnant, that plus growth hormone. Was his name Dr.
Goddier? No. Oh, okay. We had it on our podcast. Well, we, hi, Dr. Gadir. Wasn't you.
Okay. I want to, I want to switch gears a little bit here because while I have you, and this is
important, and I need to articulate this right, because I know this is something that a lot of people
have concern and there's also very opinionated about.
when it comes to like so let me back up our pediatrician obviously when COVID hit we were very concerned
like what's this going to do with the kid what do we you know I think that's every parent's worries
how does this affect a child yep and basically through the whole pandemic pediatrician from his
you know from his perspective no real risk you know she was less than two years old no problem
no issue she's been on multiple flights with us like she's you know she's fine and so
that's a big sigh of relief to all the parents are there because we're the day
especially now, the data points that kids are relatively unaffected by COVID.
A lot of people gave Lauren and I some flack when we moved to Texas thinking,
oh, it's just taxes or its business, but it was actually just options and getting away from
a chaotic life in LA.
Sure.
We have family member, we have friends, we have all sorts of people that are like, okay,
with some of these mandates coming down for children, they're really starting to revisit,
like, do I want to stay in these places?
And I think that's a valid question for them to ask because on one hand, you have medical
experts telling them there's no risk for their children, right, and that they're going to be fine.
And the other hand, you're saying put this thing in, and people use the vac, the, you know,
the measles, the polio arguments, but that was different. Those things affected children, right?
They were problems. So what do you tell parents that, like, if they come to you and they're like,
hey, what do I do with my kid here? And it's, I know you can't get blank advice.
Each family is going to have their own opinion, but to me, like, there's a lot of hesitancy for
children. I'd encourage people to follow Alex Barrenson, because he's, he's, he's, he's, he's,
He's an investigative journalist.
He's not political.
And that's who I follow for this, because there's so many myths and so much misinformation,
he just gets right to it in terms of studying the data and saying,
this is what the research shows.
This is what any studies show.
And from where I sit, I don't think there's really much any data to support vaccinating kids.
Right?
I just don't, I think it's very, very small, if any.
The trouble is we have no long-term data, right?
So you could say, well, we studied 2,000 kids, we gave him a shot, there was very few adverse reactions,
but that's only in the very short, compacted time frame.
How do you know?
And I'm not going to try to go down this rabbit hole, but you could argue looking at the science
that the traditional vaccines, you know, measles, bumps, rebella, you know, tennis, whatever,
and I'm not going to get in specifics, potentially contribute to chronic disease later in life.
Now, people are going to be like, no, that's not true.
Again, I like to question everything.
How do you know?
Have we really looked at?
Have we studied that?
And I think there's lots of great vaccines, and I certainly support that.
I support people making informed decisions for themselves and their family.
That's what I support.
But I also support people being able to ask questions.
That's a question.
Well, here's another question.
If we've now learned that even if you're vaccinated, you can spread and catch COVID,
maybe with minimal, you know, symptoms.
Yep.
then why is there such a huge push for children
when we know we have the ability to wait a little bit longer
if they're so unaffected, even if they catch it now?
Because we know it's not preventing them from spreading it
and it's not preventing the elderly from catching it, right?
You may have lesser symptoms.
But my whole thing is, why not take a little extra time
knowing that the high, high majority of children are safe
and that it's not going to stop them from spreading it?
So I just don't get the rush to vaccinate them.
You're asking the great question.
People are not going to like this question.
But it's a valid question because if you were to say to me, Michael, they have to do this because it'll stop them from transmitting it and they are affected, I would say, okay, I get that.
But if you're saying it doesn't stop the transmission and they're still unaffected without it, why the push?
And they still need to wear a mask.
Yeah, it seems like the question that I ask is this is about antibodies, right?
And so why are we imposing mandates on just getting a vaccine and you can't show your antibiotics?
body status. Because if it's really about protecting people and about health, then understanding
someone's antibody status is the key question. That makes absolutely no sense. Right. And so
even if you've had the vaccine, you still should have to show your antibody status, right? Because
just having a vaccine doesn't necessarily mean you've confirmed antibodies to getting the vaccine.
So I can't answer the question of why we're now going to force kids to get vaccines that aren't proven probably aren't safe in the long term.
But there's some other narrative that's being, you know, playing out.
Yeah, I think this is where people, you know, this is where I think, this is what I don't like is, you know, your take.
I can understand, you know, if you're of comorbidities, your elder, like you need to, you, you should really look at these things.
But we have the data on the other side showing that, you know, certain groups of people are not as affected.
And the rush to just jump into something that we don't have long-term data thing, scares, I think it scares a lot of parents rightly so.
I think it should be scary.
It should be scary, right?
Because I can tell you this, like, I'm not going to just blanketly listen to somebody on the television screen or some health official that I have very little faith in tell me what to do with my beautiful two-year-old.
Right?
I'm going to ask 18,000 questions and wait and not be the first in line.
I find it very strange when some people like, I need to be the first person to do something
just because somebody in authority said something.
I think we share that same sentiment.
I think there's beauty and waiting too.
Totally.
So every time I've made a decision in my life that's too quick, I always shoot myself in the foot.
Well, I remember because it's not talked about much now, but if you remember with HIV,
it took us a good 10 years to understand it.
like 10 years. We're only in year two of this. Like, let's wait, study it, ask lots of questions,
figure it out, we have much better response. And, you know, with HIV, we've done a good job.
You know, you get your contract HIV. You can lead a long healthy life because we had to study it for a long time.
My follow-up question, is this, I mean, from a doctor's standpoint, is this going anywhere?
Or is this something that's just going to continue? You know, because I know we keep saying
flatten the curve, flat on the curve, like limit, limit, limit. But just like other coronaviruses,
is this going anywhere? It's just going to continue on and we're learning to live with it and building up stronger immunity.
or we just don't know.
I don't know.
I don't know.
I mean, my gut says that enough people get natural immunity, get the vaccine, that it slows down.
Will it be like the flu?
I think so.
So it's just like, okay, it's flu season, but it's COVID season or whatever.
It was unique.
Sorry.
Sorry, I was just going to say it's unique because remember, it's not all just about the virus.
I don't think it'll be like.
So there's the political piece.
I don't think it would be like this is flu season.
I think it will be more mandated or dictated.
by the shot, the vaccine.
Like, flu season seems to have a seasonal effect in the fall coming through and peaking in
like January, February.
That's why they, you know, encourage people to get the flu shot in October.
So you have, you know, built up some sort of antibodies to that.
I think this will just be about, we've decided that you need one to two shots every year
just because the trouble with all of this, I think, is I certainly don't know.
But the truth in all this, I don't know how we ever get.
get there. All these numbers, I think a lot of it you have to question. Not that it may be true,
but it doesn't feel authentic. And so how do you get this information? How do you even know?
I've lost the art too of listening to their intuition. Right. This is going to sound bad. And again,
like I sympathize with people that have been affected by this or have lost lives or loved ones. But
I feel this is one of the own, like it feels like this thing needs a fucking PR campaign half the time.
Like you need to convince a group of people how bad it is. And what I always said people was like,
if this was so bad, it wouldn't take this much convincing.
I'm not saying it's not bad and not trying to downplay it,
but it feels like there's an, like if you tell anybody,
if you go to them and say, hey, you know, I had COVID and it wasn't as bad as I thought,
like people get angry with you for saying it wasn't worse than it was.
Right?
Like, of course, that's a perfect example, actually.
I tend not to bring up Joe too much on the show,
but people were mad at him that he came down and said that he got healthy.
They were mad that he said it was.
That's where we are.
Yes.
Like, as a society, we're mad because you improved in three days.
It was saying, like, well, how come you're not saying this is as bad as everybody else?
But I'm used to this because in the world where I operate, like we call it alternative medicine
and you hear stories like I remember the story of this patient who did this alternative medicine
treatment for cancer.
And she went to, she had lung cancer.
And she went to her pulmonologist and they did a cat scan and lung cancer dramatically improved.
And his question wasn't like, oh my goodness, what are you doing?
He said, I don't want to know.
and don't ever tell me.
And that is very much the norm.
So I remember at another patient, elderly lady,
I forget the type of cancer she had,
and she was getting chemotherapy,
and her grandson used to bring her to the appointment.
And when I saw her follow up,
she was in a wheelchair, it looked horrible.
And I was like, well, how are things going?
He said, yeah, the oncologists say the chemotherapy's not working.
I said, well, what's next?
And he said, more chemotherapy.
It's this weird thing where it's like, you know,
But if that's, that's, that's really important what you just said.
He said, the chemotherapy is not working.
What's next more chemotherapy?
That's what I have a problem.
It's this weird concept.
It's like follow the science, follow the science.
And then you'll see, we'll use Rogan again.
We'll see someone that is in an old, not, he's not elderly, but he's an older demographic
that got COVID and beat it.
And like, wouldn't we want to study, even if he did use alternative medicine, how
somebody of that age did that and had that minimal effect.
Like we should study both the vaccine side and that side.
That's what I think.
I mean, that's why, you know, I don't treat cancer per se, but patients who have cancer ask
my advice.
And I say, I want you to be open to all of it.
All of the therapies that out there I want you to explore.
Like surgery, chemo, radiation, the conventional therapies.
But there's a lot of other things you can do.
You know, why wouldn't you be open to all of it?
But we can't because it's become very dogmatic.
It's very polarizing.
What is the drug that Rogan said?
Well, I think people have, I mean, Ivermectin.
What's it called the monoclonal antibodies?
What is that?
The monoclonal antibodies, I think, is what the key is.
And that's what he got.
And I think that's why he got better.
So that's what President Trump got.
Monoclonal antibodies is where people who got COVID early on,
they took their antibodies and they just manufacture them.
And then they give them back to people.
Why can't they do that with every, is there's not enough?
Well, so the interesting thing is they are available.
However, when we got COVID, I was like, because we really struggled with it.
I was like, what can we do?
And finally figured out, could.
I, as a doctor, order the monoclonal antibodies? And it turns out that right around the time,
the government limited, you know, distribution of monoclonal antibodies. So you guys couldn't get them?
So why is that? If it was, if it is available and you as a doctor believe they're helpful,
why would they? Because the conversation about COVID, and I think people can understand this,
at least I hope they do, has never been about treatment, right? It's been about prevention by, you know,
social distancing and wearing a mask. And then it's about getting a vaccine. We don't talk about the
treatments, right? And the treatments we've talked about ivermectin, they get berated by the media saying
that this is horse medicine, it's dangerous. Let's be clear. Ivermectin's... Ninety-nine percent of people
had no clue what ivermectin was or even heard the word before. It's been in use for 40 years,
millions of patients. The guy who discovered ivermectin got the Nobel Prize in medicine in 2015,
there's no issues with ivermectin. I'm not going to say it works every time because I was taking
it and I got COVID really badly, but it's certainly safe, right? And it's certainly already been
FDA approved and like what's wrong with that right and so the the narrative has never been about
treatment it's always been about social distancing which is arbitrary we've already proven that like
where's six feet come from why isn't it four feet well it's because some people decide six feet was better
like literally what about people that won't shake my hand they'll just give me an elbow like that the
elbow is going to be different than the hand or a hug or whatever no restaurants are the best
I know that's the best.
I have to fly frequently, whether you agree with me doing that or not.
We fly?
Yeah, fly.
Awesome.
And I find it, I find it very, like, I just, I posted this in there.
I'm like, when are we going to quit this charade?
Because you get on, it's like you take the mask on and off to eat and drink the pretzels and put
it on, and then they make the announcements and they yell.
And then everyone's doing it at different times.
It's not like, there's not like an even coordinated point where it says like everyone take
the mask now.
This is everyone's in and out.
Then you're touching your face when you take it off.
And the reason I say it's a charade, I'm like, this, you know,
what are we doing, right?
We're taking this on and off.
We're drinking.
It's not like I'm going to hold my breath when I drank or I'm going to chew a pretzel
and like, you know, cover my mouth.
It doesn't make any sense.
I think that you asked a little bit ago, like, does this have an end point?
I think so.
I think maybe with this next election in 2022, there's going to be pushback.
Maybe if people come out and vote that way, that there's going to be a tide that turns
that says, we're not just going to take what you're saying.
anymore. I mean, I hope that's, I hope we can continue to question and be open. Like,
we're asking the right questions. Let's assume though that at, I mean, this is a really
aggressive blanket, but let's assume that the high, high majority of people, regardless of any
vaccines now, are going to catch COVID because if it would have just, if it would have been
eradicated or if the vaccines would have stopped, it would have started happening right now.
You get COVID. Because I think there's a lot of people that are just so scared. What happens
when I get it? Yeah. As a doctor, what do you tell those people to treat it? You've gone through it. We've
gone through it. I was texting with the patient today. I mean, you've got it. Yeah, I believe,
because it's so safe, you take ivermectin, you take high quantities of vitamin D, three,
you take high quantities of vitamin C, right? You get fresh air, you get outside, you do things
like infrared sauna if you can or at least sweat, and you do the normal basic things to take
care of yourself, and you believe, most importantly, your mindset is you're going to be fine, right?
Because that's the critical part to it. Any foods you avoid or add?
No, I don't think nutrition plays much of a role.
Okay.
Switching gears, because I can't have you guys sit here and not talk about Hollywood celebrities,
all those things.
What are some treatments that you guys see?
I know you guys treat a lot of people, and I'm not asking you to talk about anyone in particular,
but what are some things that you see that are popular that maybe everyday people aren't seeing?
Like, what are some, like, secrets?
Well, peptides.
Peptides have become very popular in Hollywood, in the professional sports world as well.
Peptides are a big deal.
Are they legal in the professional sports world?
Most or not.
Okay.
But those guys do it anywhere.
For sure.
And there's one for skin called glow.
Okay.
So peptides, you know, we talked about them in the shot form, but also you can use them topically.
And that helps the elasticity in the skin.
So in your 30s, you obviously have to worry about the collagen loss and all of the things that come from that.
But when you're in your 40s, then you have the sagging or elasticity.
That's where peptides are great.
We use the glow.
I want the glow peptides.
Just put it on your skin.
No, no, so that one you inject.
Okay, yeah.
But other things we've seen, like we have a couple devices, like lasers and then this cool-tone machine for kind of getting muscles.
We know of celebrities who get those machines in their houses.
Many of them.
What do you guys think about this scandal with cool sculpting with Lisa?
I think it's real.
Linda, not Lisa.
Yeah, I mean, I think it's real.
I don't think she's owed more money from a cool sculpting lawsuit than she ever made in her modeling career, considering her client.
is that it's, you know, deformed her and therefore prevented her from participating in the
supermodel resurgence with her other modeling pals. I think that's completely bogus. But, I mean,
there's side effects. You know, you have to keep in mind that all of these treatments, they're still
the practice of medicine. So you can do them in the back of a hair salon if you want, but you're taking a
real risk. And I don't know where she did it. I mean, I'm sure she did it at a reputable doctor.
What exactly happened for people who have no context? Yeah, so it actually did the opposite of what
it's supposed to do. So when you use it's cryolypolysis, and I may butcher some of the technical
verbiage, but essentially it's supposed to freeze the fat, and then, you know, it flushes out
in your body. Well, it did the opposite. So it caused her fat cells to enlarge. Like, I can't even
imagine. But yeah, it caused her fat cells to enlarge. And, I mean, there's some surgical procedures
you can do to address it. But, I mean, she's still beautiful. Come on. You saw the photos. But
But is it only one treatment that did that, or was it treatments over time that she did?
Multiple treatments. I mean, but it doesn't necessarily have to be. So the way that works is you only
lose a small percentage of fat with each treatment. So I don't subscribe to the treatment myself.
If I wanted to lose fat, I'd go get lipo. Like, why do 7, 8, 9 treatment, spend all of that money
for what? But I don't know. I tend to think of those things a little differently. But yeah, I mean,
it's a real issue. What happened to her?
on the consent form. Whether she read it or not, I don't know. You look so amazing. What are some things
that you do to stay in shape? Give us some secrets. Well, I like to exercise. I was a competitive
gymnast growing up, so I think that got baptized into me early on. I was telling him I'll remember
being nine years old for perspective. My son's 11, and he's an amazing athlete, but he's very lazy.
So he doesn't have the work ethic that, you know, he's going to have to have if he ever does
anything. But I can remember being nine years old and doing a thousand sit-ups a day for gymnastics.
Crazy. You did this yourself? Well, with my, yeah, the gymnastics group that I worked,
that I trained with. That's a lot of sit-ups. Yes. I mean, I did a lot of that. Now I've, you talked
about the thyroid. My weight fluctuates all over the board. I told him, I said, I can gain 16 pounds
in a meal if I'm not careful. Then I can lose it quickly, too. So,
it's.
She consistently works out.
Yeah.
She moves.
What's your workout of choice?
Well, so I'm older now.
I can't run.
I don't like doing all that.
I like to walk.
My favorite thing, and we're opening a studio in the new year, is megaformer.
You do have some here.
I looked it up.
It's addictive.
But, you know, the biggest thing is just, yeah, it's really hard.
Is it like a form of Pilates?
It's not.
So it's all strength.
It's 40 minute classes.
You'd be hooked.
All of the NFL and be.
I'm done to try that.
I'll try it.
You're saying that on the podcast.
I'm going to send her a picture.
I'll try it.
Yeah, I'll do it.
You're going to do it.
Yeah, you'd love it.
I've gone to weirder things with you.
Will you text me the one that you found here?
I found a few and I've signed up for classes each day that we've been here and they're all on
wait list.
I can't get in.
But it's called urban something.
You know, it's interesting.
Going back to what you said, like what are all these celebrities doing?
They're doing everything for starters.
Literally everything.
Like what?
Tell us some things.
Well, they've got their nutrition dialed in.
They're doing the fitness.
These treatments, the biggest thing, it's not the type of treatment they're doing.
It's the consistency and the volume of treatments they're doing.
So the treatment that we're talking about, there's cool sculpting, sorry, which is for fat,
cool tone you guys would love.
So that's for muscle, firming, strengthening, toning, the muscle does nothing for fat.
You can do it on the abdomen, the glutes, the thighs.
And it really works.
It's bomb.
It's a 30-minute session.
It's magnetic muscle stimulation.
So it's just causing these very deep muscle contractions, like really intense, really deep.
You could never get that in a gym.
That's what they're doing.
Well, they're doing that.
They're doing peptides.
They're doing infrared sauna.
They're doing cold plunge.
They're doing IVs.
And to Kelly's point, they're doing it all the time.
I mean, I have patients that I travel to and you would be shocked.
Like you're talking about getting a weekly facial.
I mean, these people are doing a lot of things.
Like, what's an example of something?
When you go travel to someone, what are they doing?
I do all therapy a good bit.
So in South Carolina, there's a couple of machines.
but I've done moral therapy treatments than any practice there.
So by default, all these other treatments, remember, they're designed very, very safe
because they have to be able to be delegated to a nurse, an aesthetician, whatever,
because if the doctors had to do them every single treatment,
they'd never make any money enough to do them.
So most of the modalities are extremely safe,
and most of them are reproducible,
meaning it doesn't matter which one of us are doing the treatment,
we're getting good results.
All therapy is kind of unique,
and that it's very clinician-specific.
So once you have been able to get results,
it's for lifting and tightening the skin.
We're working in some cases at the same level
that a surgeon would be working
if they were doing a facelift.
Yeah, there's no cutting and there's no downtime.
It's pretty great.
Explain that what that looks like, though.
I can't picture it as someone who, like,
what do you mean?
What do you do?
It's like a machine.
Yeah.
It's like an ultrasound machine.
Yeah, the device actually came to market in 2009.
So it's interesting.
You talked about waiting a minute ago
and just how most of the best decisions
are made when you wait.
In the aesthetic world,
there's something new every day.
You know, there's a lot of snake oil salesmen as well. And just lots and lots of new technology. Some of it's not new technology. It's new brand names to the same technology. Most of the time that's the case. This thing has been around since 2009. So I'm here to tell you, it takes me forever to do it. It's painful to the patient. I'm not sadistics. I don't want to sit there and inflict all this pain. Don't you think if there was something better, we would already have it? We have more technology than anyone in town. Like if there was something better than all therapy for lifting and tightening, I'm
first on the list to find it. Do you numb the patient before you start it? We don't because you
bypass the skin and all the surrounding tissues. So I'm not treating on your skin. We're going much
deeper. The first to your deep dermal layer, which for most people is about a minute, one and a half
to three millimeters deep. And then your fibrous or muscle layer. That's about four and a half
millimeters deep. And why not just get the facelift and call it a day? So it's, it's, and I'm with you,
like I'm not someone that's just anti-surgery or whatever. I'm not a candidate for a
facelift yet. You're not a candidate for a facelift. So the ideal patient,
for this treatment are usually in the 30s to 60s. Now, I have a patient who's 80 that comes to see me
every six months. I mean, she literally looks 55 because they've been doing these things, so they're
prolonging it. So even if you do get a facelift, you still have, it's not one and done.
I think people have to be really careful with these conversations too because I've had somebody,
you know, somebody we know very well, look at me and say, hey, you're a candidate to do a face
or a brow lift. And then, you know, we talk to people that we trust in the space all the time. So we're
friends with Dr. Dennis Gross and I went saw him and he's like, whoever's giving you.
you that advice at this age. This is like not good advice. And here's the complications and problems
you're going to have. But speaking to your point, like there's a lot of people that go, they talk to one
person or one doctor and they say, hey, you need a facelift. And they jump in, but they don't have
follow-up conversations with other perspectives and say, like, what's going to happen down the line?
And they just take that like, this person's a doctor and authority. They said, we need a facelift.
And now next thing you know, they're doing these things. Right. I will say, though, first of all,
the differences between those doctors was one was in L.A. and one is in New York. And the one that's
in New York told you not to do it.
There's different aesthetics in L.A. and New York.
He didn't just tell me not to do it. He was like, listen, you could do it, but there's
X, Y, and Z that could happen if you do do it, right? And like, I think people don't,
they don't weigh those things against it, right? They just hear doctors saying, oh, yes, I'm a
candidate. I could do it. I'm good. And they go and run with it.
I also think, and Kelly, tell me if you think this is wrong, that there are a lot of 30 to
40-year-olds that are getting lower facelifts and necklace and all these things. And
they're on television. I can think of a couple of people. And they're not saying anything and people
just think they naturally look like that. They don't. That's where I get a little bit frustrated because
I do feel like I've been so open with, like, my book, you can read about like everything.
And I think that there's so many people that act like they just woke up like this.
Well, the one who says they just use olive oil. Yeah. I can't with that. Right. Come on.
Yeah. If you're, if you're using your face or your body, whatever, I mean, if you're,
over the age of 25.
I'm sorry.
You've got to have some level of help
unless you're just really genetically blessed.
And I can tell you I've worked in this industry.
That's great, but you're still doing stuff.
Yeah, I've worked in this industry a long time.
I've not seen anyone that genetically blessed yet.
I mean, it just takes work.
You have to constantly stimulate the collagen.
Everything in the aging game comes down to that.
Before we jump, but two separate perspectives,
say, you know, there's a person that's a high-performing person,
person, they've listened to some of our other episodes that teach them how to do that. I'm just kidding, but like say they've, they've gotten there, like they got their fitness under control, they got their diet under the control, they got a skincare routine, they're feeling good, they feel like they're ready to take the next step. They come to see both of you. They can only pick one or two things to jump into or speak to you about or do some research about, what would those things do once they've kind of got the levels? Because obviously you guys can't tell people how to take care of themselves or how to eat, but if they come to you and they've got these things already kind of on a base level. For me, it's NAD and peptides. They're they moved the
needle very quickly. They're accelerators. I'm looking into that. Okay. Yeah. And if somebody's not in
South Carolina and they want to start looking at peptides, I mean, you can get your peptides from
your side, which we'll link out. But NAD and they're like, I should do this. So we do a consult
over the phone. We talk about it. Sometimes we get people their own nurses to do in their hometown.
Or we train doctors. We have a big network of physicians that we work with that we can refer them to.
Okay. So what about for skin, Kelly? I usually start with skin care. And,
And I know that's boring and basic, considering we've got all this amazing equipment and technology now.
But if you're not doing it at home, something that you do every day at home is so much more important than what you're going to do, you know, once a quarter or whatever in the office.
So I usually start there.
We have a lot of folks that travel to us.
We travel to a number of folks too.
I can't take all of my equipment.
So that's kind of a headache.
So if they're going to do the lasers, they're too big and bulky, they've got to travel to us.
The old therapy, they have a nice little travel case.
Some of the microneedling they do as well.
I am going to come to Charleston
and I'm just going to book the hotel closest to you guys
and just come every single day for something different.
Yeah, we're very results driven.
We want you to be wild.
And I think for me,
I like to start with the lasers
because I know I can wow people that way.
We're not debating on whether you're seeing a change.
But this is how we set it up.
So this is what happens every week
is people come in and kind of do all of this stuff
in a week or so.
Yeah, so I could come for a week and like totally.
Oh, yeah.
And enjoy the heck out.
And I will post it on Instagram story and not say it's olive oil, you guys.
I will not lie that I will tell the truth.
I only use olive oil.
I have achieved.
I didn't want to say who it was, but I knew it was you.
The same one using growth form.
Any advice blanket statement is just olive oil.
That's all.
Right, right.
Where can everyone find you guys?
Pimp yourself out if someone's in South Carolina.
Tell us where we can find you if they want to get in touch with you.
Share your Instagrams, all the things.
Go ahead.
Our Instagram could use a little help, but it's conover aesthetics and kind of her wellness.
We both have an individual website and then, yeah, you can obviously call us.
Instagram seems like the easiest path nowadays.
I do have to say when I see an injector or someone that is a doctor having this, like, wild, amazing Instagram that's popping off, I question it and I'll tell you why.
if you're spending so much time on your Instagram aesthetic and posting yourself,
it feels to me like you're not in it maybe for all the right reasons.
Totally.
We talk about that.
And if you've got the time, I mean, to be all on Instagram filming.
It takes a lot of time.
What are you doing in real life?
Because you're not doing what you're professing to talk about.
I actually like having doctors that are a little, I don't need like a celebrity doctor.
If you don't have a million followers, I can't come and see you.
You guys are different.
I'm just kidding.
Somebody said the other day, they were talking about the TikTok trend,
and you've got all these surgeons doing the TikTok videos
and partying the night before.
Now they're going to slice into your face and body,
and that's interesting.
But someone commented and said,
yeah, I'm always accused of being boring and bland or whatever.
And I'm like, well, yeah, but boring and bland doesn't typically get sued.
Right.
I mean, it's ridiculous what's happening with social media.
And you're still medicine with your face and your body.
I think that's like something that,
It's a bigger conversation too.
For sure.
I want to come to Charleston and have both of you separately on the podcast because this was like,
there's so many directions that we can go.
This was super informative.
Thank you both so much for coming.
Thank you for having us.
Thank you guys for coming in.
Atconverweilness.com.
Yep.
I'm glad we did.
Conoveresthetics.
Come in in person, right?
Well, I like that we both husband and wife and we can have this conversation.
Yeah.
We love working together.
We can tell you guys do too.
It depends on the day for us.
But yeah.
It depends.
I don't believe that. Today I was like, I don't know about you.
We have our moments, but you know.
Every couple does.
For sure.
We go through them on the air and everyone hears it.
Being a couple is like working on your skin.
You have to work on it every single day in the infrared sauna to make it work overall.
To your point, I think, and listen, it's different for everybody and I don't ever want to tell people how to be in a relationship.
But for us, I think it's interesting to go back and talk about like, oh, that was really cool conversation or we did this or we're focused on this school.
because I think we would both, at least with each other, get bored if we didn't really have an understanding of what we were all working on together and focused on.
But also you guys are leaders and you set examples for couples.
And it's not talked about enough, but one of the core problems, not to end on this note or whatever,
but core problems with our society is that we don't have these values that we're promoting.
And here you guys are husband and wife, you know, working together, being publicly open about your relationship.
Like, that's awesome.
There's a real, like, thank you.
That's a really nice compliment.
But there's a, you know, there's a, it's like a throwaway culture.
It's like, oh, that didn't work for a little while.
Let's throw it away.
Right.
I think we're both committed to working through all the tough shit.
And it's not to say, like, we probably have just as many issues.
I'm going to play this back for you.
Who have you ever fuck with me?
No, but it's true.
We probably have just as many issues as other couples, but we're just committed to working
through them together.
And that's the, that's what it takes.
Yeah.
Michael loves compliments.
Don't let him fool you.
No, but you're, but you're being an example.
and we need more examples.
Thank you.
We definitely need more example.
Public examples.
Thank you.
You guys are super impressive.
Thank you.
Seriously.
I got to get a fan now.
Conover Wellness.com.
Conoveresthetics.com.
Conover with a K.
We'll leave it all in the show notes.
Thank you guys.
Both for coming on.
Come back anytime.
I'll see you in Charleston.
I'll be living out of your establishment.
Thank you guys.
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