The Bossticks - Josh Flagg, Bobby Boyd, & Nikki Haskell On The Secrets To Success, Relationships, Sales, & Networking

Episode Date: December 24, 2019

#236: On this episode we are joined by Million Dollar Listing's Josh Flagg and Bobby Boyd. We are also joined by television personality and socialite Nikki Haskell. This is a roundtable conversation discussing the secrets to success, relationships, and networking.  To connect with Josh Flagg click HERE To connect with Bobby Boyd click HERE To connect with Nikki Haskell click HERE To connect with Lauryn Evarts click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) This episode is brought to you by THRIVE MARKET. We use Thrive for our online grocery delivery on a weekly basis and we also now get our wine at Thrive! They provide the highest quality products and ingredients delivered straight to our door with unbeatable prices.  Be sure to grab our deal by going to to https://thrivemarket.com/skinny to receive up to $20 shopping credit when you join today! This episode is brought to you by RITUAL Forget everything you thought you knew about vitamins. Ritual is the brand that's reinventing the experience with 9 essential nutrients women lack the most. If you're ready to invest in your health, do what I did and go to www.ritual.com/skinny  Your future self will thank you for taking Ritual: Consider it your 'Lifelong-Health-401k'. Why put anything but clean ingredients (backed by real science) in your body? Produced by Dear Media 

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Go to ritual.com slash skinny to day to choose clean ingredients backed by science. Sign up now at ritual.com slash skinny. She's a lifestyle blogger extraordinaire. Fantastic. And he's a serial entrepreneur. A very smart cookie. And now Lauren Everts and Michael Bostic are bringing you along for the ride. Get ready for some major realness. Welcome to the skinny confidential, him and her. I need your help. I will come to you. I hate when they go, can we help you? And they come back four times. It's just like, that's so salesman. The key to selling is to not sell is to make them feel like you are not trying to push it on them. And the key to selling is when they say, I really like this house. And if you don't like it, say, this is what's wrong with the house. No, no, no. It's kind of psychology.

Are we going yet, Taylor? Oh, we're going. Oh, shit. Well, Merry Christmas, everybody. It's not quite Christmas. It's Christmas Eve. But welcome back. Sorry to hear that singing voice. I didn't realize we were we're rolling. I am nine months pregnant and sober on Christmas Eve. So think about me when you're downing your champagne, talking to Aunt Susan. Just dream of me. I dream about you every night. You do? I don't know about right now, though. Guys, welcome back to the show. Welcome back.

We're closing up the year. We're the home stretch. So there's a lot going on in this episode. A lot going on towards the end of this year. But it is with Josh Flagg. Many of you guys may know him for a million dollar listing. He's on that show. Him and his husband, Bobby Boyd, came on the show.

And then we were, you know, just surprised by. our friend Nikki Haskell, who's been on this episode, on this podcast before. So we had like a little bit of like a five-way conversation. It went in a lot of different areas. But, you know, we try to rein it in here and there. But it gets all over there. We had a five-way. And if you haven't listened to Nikki Haskell's podcast, you have to. She is this woman that my dad introduced us to. And she's so fab. She's like a socialite who's a writer who has friends in all different kinds of places. She is moving and grooving and looks insane for her age. Episode number 204, if you guys, want to check it out. We did that one back in I think July or so. And just to give context,

Nikki is really good friends with Josh and Bobby. So to sit down and have a five-sum with them was really fun. Lauren, how are you doing here? I noticed as we get further along in the pregnancy, the complaints get even stronger. And so, you know, guys, if for anybody that's out there wondering how I'm doing, I'm okay, I'm all right. And he's okay. If I, if you're worried about me, if you've been thinking about me because of the struggle I'm going through over this nine months pregnancy, I appreciate it. I'm here. He asked me to itch his back every single night. He asked me to rub him every single night. And then I ask him to rub me and he rubs me for two seconds. I give a good rub. I like, you know, but I just, I go real quick and real hard, real fast.

I know. It's kind of how the baby, it's kind of what I didn't mean to go that way. That's kind of how the baby was made. So with that, I hope you guys are having so much fun at your Christmas parties or holiday parties. We just want to say, happy holidays to everyone who's listened for the last year. We're so excited for 2020. And we're just going to get right into this episode. Like I said, It's a fun, light conversation. And if you have kids in the car, maybe listen another time. With that, Josh Flagg, Bobby Boyd, and Nikki Haskell. Let's welcome them to the Skinny Confidential, him and her show.

This is the Skinny Confidential, him and her. All right, you guys. So we have a packed studio. Let's go around the table and introduce ourselves to the audience. For those of you who don't know you guys, although I'm sure most of the audience knows you. We'll start with Bobby. I thought ladies first. Ladies first.

Oh, thank you. That's really. That's why she went with you. I'm Nikki Haskell, and I'm a friend of Skinny Confidential. And I was also on the podcast, which was fabulous fun. Thousands of people came in and watched it. That's why I came back again. I need more followers.

Big Nick B.H. Big Nick B.H. That's also her license plate for her first year driving around. All right. Bobby. I'm Bobby Boyd, and I'm married to the crazy Josh Flag. Okay. And what else?

I'm not going to give my resume. I don't want to embarrass you. Oh, give us your resume. We need your resume. We need a little background story. Like what? Like what you do? Where'd you grow up?

What's your hobby? We try to go deep here. We need to know everything. By the end of this show, we're going to know a lot. I thought it was just blow jobs and anal loob. But all right. Well, I've been... Stick around.

Okay. So, yeah. Well, I mean, I grew up in Pacifica, California. I moved to L.A. 15 years ago. And I've been in real estate ever since. I got into real estate by investing my modeling money. That's why Josh fell in love with me. You do have.

have a great jawline. Oh, thanks. I'll take it. Yeah. Photograph for Calvin Klein. Oh, big model. Now I'm plus size. Yeah, right. So. I come to keep modeling. He won't do it. I don't know why. No. There's no money in it for men anymore at all. It's just fun to say that you still model. Look at Tracy's ex-husband. He modeled till he was in his 40s. Well, he has that look. I don't. You would get good Instagrams though for your feed. So then I can make some serious money. I was like, I want the, that's the only. It's the only industry. We don't want to say that. Women dominate it.

I mean, women make, like, if a guy's day rate, my day rate was maybe like $4,000, five grand depending on who it was, but a woman could make $20, $30,000 for a day. It's just, I mean, good for them. The only chance that women have is to be a model. They get more money doing that than anything else. Yeah.

Well, I didn't want to say that. I don't know about today's climate. Nowadays, they're saying, you know, there was equality going on and all that good stuff. Equality means you don't get paid. Tell us how you really feel, Mickey. But they dominate it there. And so now you guys work together or separate?

We met a long time ago, but when we started dating, I had my own real estate company with my best friend for like over a decade. And we decided along the way it would be beneficial to work together, like keep it all in the family. That's had its trials and tribulations. I can't wait to get into that. I'm an open book, but this one over here, she might be cutting down the mic. I could tell us what you say. Josh, we're going to crack you open. Let's get a little background here.

here. So I grew up here in Los Angeles. I went to Brentwood School. It's a private school in L.A. It was kicked out in 11th grade, so I attended Beverly Hills High School. So did I. What did you do? What did you do to get kicked out? Okay. Well, first of all, I knew that I wasn't going to college because real estate was my passion. So I was basically getting D's because I could care less. Like, what's the point of getting good grades? Unless you're going to college, you just want to graduate. Unfortunately, in 11th grade, that didn't work out. So they said, bye, bye. And well, also, I cheated on my, like, final exam, which is a good story. too. I got caught with the like my notes, whatever. And you know how like there's also open book like,

you know, you can, you can bring your notes, whatever. So I was like, I thought this was an open book exam or whatever. And the woman who came in was like, no, it's not. I just played in. I was like, I didn't know here. Just whatever. I'm sorry. I didn't know. And she walked away. And then like, I had to dispose of the notes because then she was going to be like, I wanted to be like, she's crazy. This woman doesn't know. She works in the theater department. She doesn't know what she's talking about. And so then I like didn't have a place to dispose of it because if I put it in the trash can, And then they would find it. So I shoved it up my ass crack.

And I walked out of the library. Yeah. Oh my God. And so. Hold on. You shoved it up your ass crack. Your hole or your crack? No,

I tried the hole, but it couldn't fit. It was actually, it was a little sharp, like the edges. Okay. Like your ball. I want to get paper cut.

What? Do you want to get a paper cut in there. So the next time I get caught cheating, I should shove it up my ass. Well, yeah, if you're still taking exams. Okay. Yeah.

Yeah. Shove it up your ass. I mean, like, like with Me Too and all this stuff today. like no one's checking in there. You can just be like, yeah, go ahead. Check my ass crack.

Were they checking back then? No. No. But can you imagine? You'd be like, yeah, he touched my ass crack. Good luck. So do you want to touch your ass crack? Cheating notes.

So they had to go in front of the dean and a whole group and I knew I was fucked at that point. Are you allowed to swear on this? Yeah. Okay. So I had a dean? Of course. We had a very prestigious. We had principals.

No, we had a dean of, you know, and we had met before the committee. And they were like, okay, you're out of here. And I was thinking myself, geez, couldn't you've done this like four years? I had to get to 11th. Like literally, I can't go to the alumni parties now. Literally, I'm sitting one day.

This is the best thing. I'm sitting having dinner at Brentwood Country Club. You know, with my family, we're having dinner. And in walks, like they're also having an alumni party there. So all of them have to pass by me at dinner

to go to their party. In the other room, I'm like, hi, not a part of you guys. But nice seeing you. And they're all, like,

looking and me like, you loser. Anyway, so then I went to Beverly, which was really interesting because they were teaching me stuff in 11th grade there that I was learning in like seventh and eighth

in eighth grade of Brentwood, which really just shows you the difference between the public and private school. I didn't even know you could get kicked out of private school. I thought you were just in. No, what do you mean? I thought you can't really get kicked out of public school. I guess that's true. You could get transferred. Yeah, you get transferred. My brothers did. Well, they were bad kids. You know a thing or two about that. Yeah, you get expelled. You get transferred. You get suspended. They do they do a good job. I used to see it every morning. It was called EMD early morning detention. They used to sit there and I was sitting with this enormously large woman that was the size of a small country. And literally, she was, no, nothing to do with that. But she was mean and evil. And

She would literally just, she was a witch. I was there every morning, 7 a.m. So how do you go from this to real estate? What's the middle part? Well, that was easy. I always loved houses. I loved architecture when I was a kid. You know, most kids were into sports and like pizza parties and all that dumb shit.

And I was like into redecorating my parents and living room and stuff like that and looking at big houses in Beverly Hills and going to open houses. So that was kind of set. You knew you were going to be in real estate. Well, actually when I was a kid, I thought I was going to be a theatrical agent. Fred Savage. who was a really good friend of my sister always said, you should be an agent. I never forgot that.

And then my uncle, who used to work at William Morris one day, was like, you don't even read variety. You don't even know who's current. All you know about is Lauren Bacall. Like, you're not relevant. And I was like, you know what? You're right. I don't really give a shit about this.

Oh, my God. You like Old Hollywood? I love Old Hollywood. But that's not relevant today. It doesn't translate. I love old Hollywood. I don't know. She just kind of left the middle of the interview.

It's always relevant. I'm not going to say I saw on her quality who she was on the phone with, but let's just say it was like a really major person, which I can't repeat, but it was like really big. Ivanka Trump was calling. Rime it to me. Rime it to me. It was not Trump, but it was somebody almost as big. Anyway, but not bad like, Joan Collins. No, I would have, I would have literally left also to talk to her. Her friends are like, her list is major. Joan Collins is like, let's figure out what the fuck she's doing and get the fuck out of here. I know. We need this bitch. Anyway, so yeah, so that's how I got into real estate and yeah. And so how did you two meet?

Is that a glory hole? Oh, God. Is that true? No. Oh, oh, I wish you I kind of wish it was. We never heard a gloryhole story on this show. Where'd you guys really meet? Like the real true story? The true story is we met forever ago now. I'm 35. I was 14 years ago.

It was at the Abbey. And you weren't famous yet. I don't even know if you're famous now. But what's going on my headphones? Yeah, keep them humble. I'm famous, but I'm not relevant. There we go. Well, you know, listen.

Oh, welcome back, Nikki. She's like, it's like living with Mariah Carey. Only person probably that ever just left the middle of an interview. Nicky, did you just do a walk off on me? You did a walkoff? like fuck this it's not about me I'm out no no no no I had to take this call I saw who called that was really funny Matt Rich oh it looks with the president well okay I told you was somebody high up secret service we'll let it we'll let it pass it's the

secret service yeah secret service because I'm going to the fundraiser today for President Trump really yes okay what does that entail I'll let you know what you starts at three o'clock and say they said it's over at nine okay all right well we were discussing glory holes before you walk out oh I'm glad I missed that yeah You've been to one of those before, haven't you? Moving right along. She's like, those days are over. Okay, so go ahead.

So you're at the Abbey. So yeah, it's like, you know, a typical Sunday, fun day, whatever. I have not met him yet. So I was there with my friends. He was there with his, and he was wearing silk pajamas at the Abbey. That's fucking bullshit.

I'm not even joking. There was silk pants and your little girly slippers. I guess I say this now because he makes fun of my fashion. I'm going to get all this hate mail. I just don't mean to your husband. Yeah. It's just called marriage, bitch. So we had mutual.

friends in common, so whatever. So he comes up, we start talking, and he's hitting on me, and I'm like, don't you have a boyfriend? And his boyfriend was there at the time. And the long story short is that he gave me his number, he goes, we would like to have a three-way with him. And I was like, I was like, absolutely fucking not. Wait, hold on, hold on. Let me ask you this. Do you ask for the three-way via text? He didn't ask for it. Yeah, but did you ask via text? No. Basically, come over tonight and let's have some fun, give me his number. And I think we might have exchanged a text or two. And are you into the three-way?

way? Absolutely not. Okay. Because he wasn't my cup of tea at the time. Not that I was looking great. I mean, I was painted orange and had spiky hair and wearing a deep V. It was horrible. Everyone was at that time. But I was just, he looked, now I appreciate this about him, but he was, you know, like, an older man. I was like, this is not my vibe. But I was intrigued because he was so, like, charming and funny. And I'm like, I'd like to be his friend, though. And then we just kind of But we didn't talk a lot after that. No, we didn't. And then it was like years had passed. Then we'd see each other out like in real estate or functions. And I'd always say, hi, handsome, how are you?

I was always intrigued with him then. So we'd flirt. And then I would always ask him the same thing. Do you still have a boyfriend? I would imagine that with men, it's different with a three-way. Like, it's just like more casual. Like I'm a dick. Yeah, I would just imagine it's like, hey, you want to have a three-way?

Like, good game. Like, very, like, easy. Well, dudes are all horny. So it's like, it's different. That's why they're all sluts. With, like, a girl, like, there's like a way to like ask. Listen, it's not going to work the same if I was in a bar with Lauren and I would just Nicky, were there a lot of three ways going on at Studio 54 or what?

You know, I'm sure there were, but for some reason I never was in a three-way. No orgies. You never had a three-way? No. Isn't that boring? Boring? Boring. I thought of all people, you would have done something like that.

No, I'm just so pedestrian. Proletariat. It's terrible. Okay, so. I mean, I had a lot of fun at Studio 54. I mean, I wouldn't mind a little coupling up with Ricky Martin and his husband. I'm fine. That's interesting.

Somebody sent me a picture of Brad Pitt the other day. Yesterday, you, and they were like, oh, my God, he saw it. It's a new GQ. I was, I've ever been, I looked at that today. He's having to come back. I like him a lot. I think he's really handsome. Yeah, he's never thought he was so.

You're the only one that would throw back pair out of bed and Ricky Martin. He's looking good. He's looking good. Have you seen Ricky lately? Ricky looks good too. Where was I with Ricky lately? You and you or somebody. He was just on the cover of Beverly Hills Magazine.

He looked real good. And now he lives in town. He's living in town for a long. time. So how long have you guys been dating? Married. Married. Married over two years together four. So still new, but feels like a long time. And who asked who, who asked who to get married? Me, duh. You asked him. Yeah. And you knew he was like the love of your life. Yeah, I asked him to marry me within six months. And I started planning it in three months. And actually, I think on the, within the first month, I wrote my vows. Well, he didn't know that, obviously. I did not. I would have run for the hills.

It's a true love story. Yeah. Well, yeah. Hold up, quick break. Let's talk about Thrive Market. You are a listener of the Skinny Confidential, him and her show, and you've not checked out Thrive Market. You're missing out. And you've been living under a rock. Guys, everyone needs to go to Thrivemarket.com slash skinny and stock everything because I just added so many fun things to my list. I added things that I've been ordering for the last couple months. And here's a fun idea.

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So those membership fees end up paying for themselves. New Year, new you, go to Thrivemarket.com slash skinny to find a membership that fits your lifestyle. That's thrivemarket.com slash skinny. And like I always say, make sure you get the dates, the raw almond butter in the smart suites because you can't go wrong. So you guys live together now, obviously. You're in a rental right now waiting on your home that you're building together. Yes. I want to know how it is to work together and also build a home together.

Nightmare on Elm Street. Stressful. It's very stressful. What's the real deal? Give us the real deal. Nick, you think it's going to last? Oh, absolutely. Just stressful.

See, the thing about Josh is he immediately, well, you did everything quick, but he moved in with me because he lived in a hotel. So when we started dating, he literally moved it when he broke up with his boyfriend. He moved into my house right away and he lived with me for a year and a half. Never saw this side of him that we have now, which is like, when you were talking about you guys, like how he has to have his way or your opinion, it's like, I have to make a compromise on a compromise on a compromise. It has to be his way, and I never saw that.

So that's why when I say it's like nightmare on Elm Street, it's we're not fighting over like, am I like this pink and you like that pink? It's like drastic changes. Like he wants Betty White furniture, and I want Tom Ford. And so we're trying to like... It's just, I mean, you go very vintage.

By the way, I do need to... Which I like some of... I have really good collection stuff. I like a plethora of different things, but he likes one... That's called eclectic. But I do actually need to know because they're going to put plaster

or wood paneling in the guest room, so I kind of need to know right away. That's going to be plaster. Okay, good to know. Duh. Well, no, wallpaper or, you know, I need to know that. It's really important. Who makes the decisions, like at the end of the day?

He thinks I make all the decisions, but it's because he doesn't put his opinion. He'll be just... We don't want their listeners to tune out. Let's not lie. Well, no, like, I'll be like, let's go to dinner tonight. And he won't suggest the place. I don't talk about major things. We're talking about, like, houses.

Well, I don't want to live in the flats because I'm like, that's where families live. We're, you know, at the time in your early 30s, That's not where you want to live if you're not planning on having kids. In my opinion, I like a view or something sleek and sexy until we have kids. I'm with you. Do you want to move in together? Yes. You know why I think you'd be interesting to work together for real estate is you understand the history of the city, right?

And you know the places to look. Which is very important. Yeah, a lot of agents here. No. They want to show you something's new built out. That's not so appealing to me. That's what I always say when I go on a listing appointment. For instance, if I go on a listing appointment in a house in Beverly Hills and they're anything for agents,

which is very funny. This happened. I'll tell you started this happened the other day. I always know I'm going to get it if it's an old house in Beverly Hills because truthfully, a lot of my competitors sell these modern white boxes with views in the hills. I don't understand that market. I can sell it. I've sold a ton of them.

Like the McMansion ones. Yeah, but it's not my feat. Like I get passionate with these. Like I just went into F. Scott Fitzgerald's old house the other day. Or it was Edward G. Robinson. This guy was blown away with the history. I said, look, you can hire any agent and you can hire an agent that tells you the top dollar because they want the listing, even though they don't think it's really worth it.

But guess what? When I'm selling this house, I know the history. I grew up here. that comes out and translates to a buyer who walks to the front door. And they were like, you got the listing. And people like to buy history in Beverly Hills. They want to know that Carrie Grant lived in a lot of houses. He lived in a son of Tony Curtis. I've been in a hundred houses. I had the listing on Tony. It says Owlwood. And then Cher bought it afterwards. Then Gazi Aida. Then Cher bought another one that he had on the St. Cloud. Correct. Before that

was Carolwood. It was 141 South Carolina. But then it went to the arms dealer of Ghazi Aida. Isn't that great name? Michael. I want history in depth. I want history in depth. So how do you, let's go, let's like, let's unwind this little bit. How do you, how do you, how do you start? You know what I do sometimes? I'll go like for auction. They'll auction me off. I know that's like a hoaring myself, but I will take people on tours of Beverly Hills.

Like the other day, we were at Barlow. It's a respiratory hospital. And I just came up. I was a little, I had a couple too many drinks and I just got on stage. It was, by the way, I was just an invitee. And I said, here's what I'll do. Start with $5,000. And I will take you on a tour of Beverly Hills and take you through all the best, you know, houses.

And one of my best friends is Carrie Burlstein. And I don't know if you remember the name, Brillstein Gray, it still is, like, one of the biggest companies ever. So Carrie and I were there. I just said, Carrie, I'm going to go up on stage and I'm going to auction myself off. It sold for $10,000. One hour of my time, I took people around. You know what, whoever's watching this now, if somebody wants to donate $10,000 to Cedars, I will take you around Beverly Hills on a tour and take you to the pole lounge for lunch. That's another thing I want to talk about.

And you can sleep with my husband. You're on the board of something with Cedars, right? Yeah, how did you know that? We research a little bit. I'm on the board of governors of Cedars. People don't believe this thing because I grew up here. that like I was handed these things. I mean, sure.

It helps to be like, yeah, like this person, like I can drop like, oh, this person knew my grandmother, blah, blah, blah, blah. But the truth of the matter is I started door knocking, which, by the way, you're not allowed to do in Beverly Hills. It's against the law. I started door knocking. So you can't knock on someone's door and say, is this house for sale? You can't knock on the door and be like, you know, like solicit and be like, hey,

do you want to sell your house? Oh, you can't? How about, can I come for dinner? You can do that, sure. There's actually one agent. It's really funny in Beverly Hills. I'm going to say his name, but any real estate agent in Beverly Hills, listening to this would know what I was talking about.

It literally would just crash parties and just like show up at people's houses. It's the weirdest thing ever. There's a lot of people like that. Yeah. Well, they didn't tell me not to come. Anyway, where was I going with this? No, no, so we're just talking about how you started getting your clientele. I swear to God, I started knocking her doors.

I'll never forget. One day I knocked, this one of the first listings. You remember a guy named Dennis Woodruff? He used to drive around like Sunset Boulevard in this crazy beat up car with like he wanted to make movies and it had like his advertising. It was like a Cadillac convertible. It was great. Something. It was like a beat up car and he would just hand out.

I see it around. Yeah. Whatever. He answers the door. I go, you want a referral fee? He goes, yeah. I go, get me this listing because I knew they were selling, whatever. And so that was one of the first. I don't know. I just knocked on. I was always aggressive. How big of your life is the show? When you say how big, what do you mean? Like, is it taking up 50% of your time? Is it 10% of your time? How much do you spend working on the show? It's a lot of time because keep in mind, like the housewives or any of these other shows, they can film it in three months. You would have. to follow escrows. Eskros, like actual deal. So when you're filming 10 deals, like each deal is maybe an average month and a half, that's, you know, a good 10 months of filming. You know, we stopped filming literally like two weeks prior to the show airing. And we actually film while the show is airing because say you're on episode one, we could still be filming episode seven or eight because by the time it's 12 episodes, that's three months. So we don't technically have to be done before the whole show is finished and sent to the network. And do you guys film together a lot?

Yeah. Not so much this. season, but the last few, yeah. I mean, you guys are, like, so intertwined. I need to, I want to, like, really go into this. You're so intertwined. Yeah, we're going to have a different 2020, I think. I don't know what that means. What do you mean by that?

Well, I haven't filmed a lot with the show this year. I just feel like it's good to let him do it. I didn't want to do it to begin with, but he wanted it and it was part of his life and his parents kind of convinced me. I'm like, all right, if it's real, I'll shoot it and the show was real. So I just had other friends around reality TV where it wasn't. So that's a good thing about Hish. That's probably why it's on for 12 seasons is that it's actual real lives and real deals.

And, you know, it's real. So that's appealing. But yeah, doing that, I was like, oh, we'd take a step back. I mean, building the house since we've met, it's been nonstop. It's been chaos. I mean, the first year was, this is like the want-womp part, but like my parents were sick and passing away. So we had that. I always had six deaths in the family since we got together.

It's not Halloween yet. Well, if you imagine, can you add that in building a house? Well, it didn't start. But I'm saying that was our first. first year and then it was engagement that was planning a wedding getting a house together i had an affair with nicky which didn't go over so well i thought we were still having an affair we are but he knows about it now so it's not an affair what is it it's just you know we're open we're an open relationship only with you open table fine by me less work for me so yeah it's just it's never

stopped and then even like last year we got this new building together it was like 14 units brand new construction by the old medeo that took up a lot of time i was like the lead on that which was fun and so we wanted to film that. It's just been consistent. And then we closed on the house last year and started building that. And I'm like, you know, I think I need a little less Josh flag in my life and more like my hubby because always being there and supporting him and filming and doing all this stuff. You start to lose who you were, like who I was. Like I told him the other day, I was like, I miss being Bobby Boyd. I just miss being me. Who is stopping you? I don't understand. You always say that.

Who stopping you? I really don't get it. Who's stuck? Do you think I like? have a lock on the door, a chain and bull, like don't go out with your friends. Go do whatever you want. I relate to this, though, because Michael and I aren't business together. No, sometimes I just want to be, like, his girlfriend or wife. Like, he woke up this morning and he wants to talk about our will. You know why? Very similar.

I have a full thing, literally set up, like literally down to the tea. Like, everyone is good. Like, I really am concerned with that stuff. My housekeeper is in the will. Everything is set. At seven in the morning, I don't want to talk about my will. I want like a pat on the ass. Well, when do you want to talk about it?

You get home, you're tired. You really want to talk about death. I want to watch it in a morning. No, I want him to schedule it in my calendar. I like to get the hard shit out of the way first so I can just enjoy the rest of my day. No. I open my eyes and he goes, he starts asking me like questions about money and work and I'm like, you got to put this on the counter. He can put it on my calendar for an hour meeting.

We'll go tomorrow's. He can talk about it then. But when I wake up in the morning, I want to kiss a pat on the ass. I want to be told how hot I am. I want that too. Maybe get me a cup of coffee. I'd love some unsolic. I'd like that too.

Where do I sign up? No, where do I sign up? Now we're talking. I'll just take the pat on the ass. I'm over here, I'll see the coffee. How did you guys meet Nikki? Honestly, I think we just literally met

through going to the Beverly Hotel. Or did we meet through, do we have mutual friends. We actually became frenemies. We went out of kidding. We became friends where we went to that Project Angel food. So Bobby got me into this thing called Project Angel food. Which I've been involved with for years.

There you go. So we were there together. It was a charity event. That was actually good. Bobby and I raised $35,000 that night by auctioning off to sleep with Bobby. Oh, my God. No, actually, just to come to our house for dinner. So we ended up being two nights with 180 people.

By the way, the house has not even finished yet. So come April, we're fucked. If it's not done, it will be done. But in any of it, yes. You didn't have the party up with the house you're at now? No, it's a different setup. We have a big backyard. But anyway.

I can get 150 people in that house easily. We had it the other night. But that was it not for a sit-down dinner. Oh, for a sit-down dinner. Even if we covered the pool, it wouldn't work. But any of them, so... You use the house next door. Yeah, I don't know.

That's the water, vitamin water guy. I don't know if he doesn't need our... To rent the house. He's good. Just take it over. There's nobody there. That's true. They didn't tell, yeah.

You know, you can actually. If you squat on a property for five years and pay the property taxes, you can claim it yours. Do you know that? I had a girlfriend that happened to. So I think she did that. You could just show up. You could just take a room and just stay that house is abandoned. You literally just squat there for five years and prove you're there,

and you paid the taxes every year. you're on it, you're good to go. So instead of asking you about my will every morning, go squat and do something productive. He probably does squat in the morning, he's on the toilet. Oh, man. Okay, so listen, this is a good therapy session. We're getting a lot out here for both of us, for everybody. I have three shrinks, by the way, literally.

I have one for ruminating. I do a lot of ruminating. Okay. I have one for, you know, the pill pusher. Okay. And then I have one that, you know, regular shrink and does both Bobby and I. Does it? Often? Yeah, are literally bills for shrinks every month, they're like 30 grand. Shut the fuck up. Sure, 30 grand a month,

Maybe not 30, but I would say it. 30 grand a month. No, I'd say a good, like, five or six. Who the fuck spends five or six thousand dollars on therapy a month? That's a lot of money. Why do you have to go to therapy? You look very together to me. He's high.

It's a facade. Please. We don't know what he would look like without the therapists. We don't know what I would look like without medication. Really? My friend Kerry the other, she's like, did you take your full dose today or half dear? What happens? What do you take?

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He is for sure. Who's more... No, I'm upset. Like, I don't have to wash my hands or push buttons over and over again. He's really dirty. He doesn't clean anything. Yeah, I'm like totally like, I don't care about that stuff. It's more about his like, he obsesses over his like image or about something that didn't happen right.

You have perfectionist. You'll outgrow that. You'll outgrow that. Well, it's been 34 years of it. When is it to stop? Well, the first two years, I used to talk him down and be like, you're young, you're good looking. You're successful. You're on a TV show.

Like, that doesn't fucking matter. could be working at Starbucks, like what else? What are you talking about? Like, you have everything going for you. And you're like, I hate my life. It's overachiever's syndrome. I don't know. In any event, what were we talking about?

Do you get depressed? All the time. Do you really? Oh, yeah. I never get depressed. Really? Never. What's the key to that?

I don't know. I think I was just born that way. Overdressing. Yeah. What is like that? What's the root cause there? You know what it is with Nikki? I think she gets busy.

That's why I think I, I know how to deal with life. I can compartmentalize things. Like if something really horrible is happening, I can just take it over, put it over there and just get on with my life. I can do that too. I'm very superficial. I do not drive myself crazy. I do not punish myself. I don't do any that. If I make a mistake, I made a mistake. I compartmentalize too. I try to teach my husband this all the time. You have to do that. I get depressed all down. I think it's, it might be a woman thing. It's not as easy to set it. I think like it is a skill that you develop being able to compartmentalize things. I'm not thrilled all the time. Sure. Don't get me wrong. But I can deal with whatever it is. And if things are so terrible, my whole body just shuts down.

I lay down to the bed and I fall asleep. I mean, like, it just happens automatically. And when I wake up, I'm fine. I'm the same way as you. What's your birth sign? Oh, Gemini. Me too. I'm a Taurus.

So we're a right coast up there. I never know what I'm getting over here. You never know what day is? There's two of us. I literally live with two people. Well, it's okay. I wake up, I'm like, I wonder which one's coming out today. It's coming out today.

Do you guys have any tips for working together, living together, doing everything together. Separate offices and separate bathrooms. I think separate bathrooms too. Separate bathrooms are the key to happiness. Yes. I don't know why, but what is that? Because like let him go have his masturbation shack in the other room and I just want my cute pink. Who does that in the shower?

Oh, fun. Please don't do it in the bed. I have new sheets, Michael. There's certain, you're going to have some private space, right? Yes. I don't know about man caves, but. Michael has his man cave. There's like cocoa butter in there.

I don't use cocoa. I just, we just got you guys some woodland. I don't use cocoa butter. Yeah. whatever he is. He's like, I use the shampoo. It's fine. I want to close him off in his shack, or not his shack.

It's a man shack. It's called a bathroom. This is going all over the place. So wait, okay, so what do you get depressed about? Like, I'm not a single thing. It's just something. I mean, some days you have it, sometimes you know, I'm not like, I'm not like an Alexander McQueen.

I'm not going to kill myself. I'm just say, well, no, I'm just saying like a lot of people that are successful. I'm just, I'm not always depressed. I just, you go in, you go out. Just get low. Yeah, I'm not manic. I'm not sitting at home, like, with a knife, you know. I have a question, and I have this question for everyone at the table, and I get really obsessed

with this question. What's your morning routine? Masturbation. Really? Every morning. He sleeps in late. I don't know. I get up at six. Me too. I get up at six. I don't understand people who get up. I cannot get up. Okay, Nikki, what's your morning routine? Walk us through it. So I wake up quite early. Okay. The first thing I do when I get out of bed is I make my bed, if my maid's not there, and I take a bath, and that's it. I don't drink coffee. I don't eat anything, and I'm ready for the day. The minute I get up, that's how good I'm going to be the whole day.

Josh, what's your morning routine? I mean, I sit in the shower for a good 30 minutes. There's a seat in there, and I have a notepad. It's a waterproof notebook. What time do you wake up, Josh? Shut up. Yeah. Well, it really depends.

If I don't have an appointment until 10, I'm going to wake up at 9.30. If I have an appointment at 8 or 9, I wake up at 8. Yesterday I went to the Glenn Center. I had a 9 a.m. appointment. So I woke up at, I don't know, 745 8. It just depends on the day. So you're in the shower with your notepad. Yeah, it's full.

And by the way, I put one in your shower, you haven't even looked at yet. And I wrote a nice little love message in there. You're in the shower, you're taking notes. Then what? And then my rumination doctor, whatever, said, start meditating. So I'll sit there for a minute, whatever.

When you meditate, what do you do? You're not supposed to do anything. You're supposed to just sit there and not think. I can't do that. It's really hard. I can't. I even think when I sleep. It's so hard.

It's hard because the human mind can only not think for about three seconds. Especially if I have ADD, it's like literally nonstop. My mind is going all the time. But you're trying. My mind goes nonstop. Yeah, then I get in the car, you know, go to the office or whatever, you know, I do for the day. He has two offices, his office in the Beverly Hills Hotel. Which is true.

I actually have a phone jack line in the hotel. What do you, like, do you go to the pole lounge? What do you do? Pole lounge. And you just sit with your computer. And there three times a day. Okay, but here's my thing. Say you're working on your, you're really like you're doing, you're ruminating, you're working,

you're doing your thing. Do people come up to you? Yeah, all the time. But keep in mind, though, like, that's really good for business. Like, I'm not there. Like, let's say we're on vacation or whatever. I'm not there for business. But think about it.

If you're in a really nice hotel and people know who you are and you're lounging there in the sun and they come up to you and say, I want to buy a $10 million house. How cool is that? Very, very true. It's like, I like that tactic. We stay at the Four Seasons Maui every year, right? I figure over the last 10 years, we've probably spent three quarters of a million there.

Keep in mind, when you're there for three weeks of it, I mean, this is over 10 years. I would suppose that people that bothered me there over the years and selling houses, I've probably made $2 million. So think about it. I basically had a free hotel ride and made $1.2 million. I love the long game. And what's your morning routine? I wake up between like 6 and 6.30.

I take my dog out to go for a walk, make coffee, put on Good Morning America, look at all my email, see if there's anything that's important that I need to respond. I get anxiety if I'm going to forget something. If there's nothing important, then I just continue to watch it. Sometimes I'll watch like a show from Bravo. the night before. What's your Bravo show? Almost all of them.

I mean, I love... I'm obsessed with Bravo. I mean... Housewives? Love all the housewives. What's your favorite? Well, Nini Leaks is my favorite. Yeah, she's fab.

I think OC's really boring. Although I like all the girls, I think it's just boring this season. We need a little spice. Need something. Yeah. Dallas is really good this year. Have you started it?

Dallas is so good. I love Dallas. That Leanne, man. She's... Love Leanne. I told Michael was asking about her the other day. I'm like, she's gold. Yeah, I want to be here for Halloween, for sure.

Actually, I'm having my costume made right now, but I'm going to have a party. I'm going to be Freddie Mercury. Oh, I love that. That's good. But I'm having like the royal look that he had made. Where are you going? I've never dressed up for Halloween once. Does you have?

You were, what's his face for you? Oh, I was Carl Lagerfeld one time. It was really weird. I looked like it was not. You did the white hair and everything? It was not a good car. It's my favorite religious holiday. I'll take you to me.

I'll take you with me then, Nikki. You guys don't coordinate your costumes together. That's interesting. Is Halloween a religious holiday? No. I'm sitting at La Dolce Vida the other night, and I just know whenever I see somebody be like, guess who's across would be like, oh, it's one of my best friends or I know him really I'm sitting La Dolce Vita, and this man is speaking really loud, and he looks like a mafioso from New York,

and I'm looking at him for a while. I'm like, this guy looks familiar. I don't even know he is, but then he starts talking about he's in the White House. He's talking about Donald Trump. He goes, oh, yeah, look at this table. Trump says to him, Thomas Jefferson wrote on this table. Now I'm writing about it. And he starts talking about politics.

I'm like, okay, this is a big deal guy. He's like, I gave $25 million to this campaign, 25 million. I'm like, who the fuck is this guy? I'm looking at him. And finally, the waiter, you know, brings him like some cheese or something for his pasta. And he goes, what is that? So I'm thinking to myself, what he can't see what's in around? I go, it's Steve Wynn.

Macular degeneration. So then I Google and I go, it's Steve Wynn. And then I'm like, oh, he's with Robert Day. I go, guess who's here? And Nikki's like, two of my best friends. I look at Robert Day's house. Look at that. And then she goes, oh, yeah, I've been on his boat.

What a boat that is? I love Steve Wynn. And I've known Steve Wynn since the early 70s. I would tell you he's a very entertaining, like really loud. Like the whole restaurant was listening to him. And his wife, and his wife, it's been a friend of mine since she was a little girl. I was at her first way. Elaine or the new?

No, no. His new wife, Andrea. When she got married in Santa Pays, she came in a white carriage. Oh, my God. Like a princess with a big huge crowd. Very Disneyland. Fabulous. San Troupe.

And San Tentra P. You know about San Trapay. Yes. I can't believe that I missed you this year in San Trapay. We missed you. I missed you too. You are. You're like the girl about town in Santropay.

Always. Like, what's your plan and schedule when you go there? It seems like you live a very full life when you're down there. I'm on the Clive Davis train. Wherever he goes, I get up in the morning. I'm always fully dressed no matter what. You know, you could pick, we're going here, we're going there. I'm always ready.

I go into the port every day, come back to the house. Do you go to what's that called to the car? What's that restaurant of the Red Ani? Seneca. Meet my friends at Seneca. I work out with the Star Cruncher by that time. Oh, my God. I paint. I paint in the morning. And then we go to lunch and then we come home and we change clothes and we go to dinner. It's like that same thing every day.

And a lot of rosy. Do you dance every night there? Pardon me? Do you all dancing every night? No, unfortunately. I would go out dancing every night. But I could never find anybody to go with me. Everybody's such a stick in the mud. But this year, I love it. Because Clive launched a new song, a new Whitney Houston song. Oh yeah, the higher love. So I took it to all the discotects. It was great fun. I know all the disc jockeys. How'd you get the music? He had our... In Ox Jack. Oh, in Ozzie. Like, back in the day in New York, that's what they used to do. They used to give their CDs or tapes to, like, the DJs. I launched every one of them.

I launched, you know, it's raining men on the bridge of Studio 54. You know, we had all who had the weather girls. They were called two tons of fun, you know, and we had, and I launched enough is enough. Is that Donna Summer? Did you get the music to release it up? Like, would Donna Summer just give you a copy of her disc? No, my friend, Paul Gibraro wrote it with Bruce Rock. But don't you need that, don't they like to launch things like on the radio?

Like it's a bit like, it would be like me releasing an episode of million dollar listing before it's allowed to be on air. Like, how can you do that? Well, see, that way that it works, disco was sort of dead at the time. So we launched it on the bridge of studio 54. Then all the discos started playing it. And then it became popular. So it was a reverse psychology as opposed to breaking in. But weren't these people already big?

They wouldn't want that. You know, you think nothing is ever etched in stone. And every, everything you launch is always a different MO. You know, you can't. There were no rules back then. There's no rules now. You know, I mean, it's hard to get things on the radio. There's a couple, but.

You know, it's very difficult, you know. But it was so much fun in Sandra Bade. You go to the cove when you were there? No, because I was pregnant. Well, you can go to the cove when you were pregnant. Let me tell you. What are you going to do? She was fucking pissed at me.

Torture is going to the south of France and not being able to have wine at lunch. Really? Yeah, that's great because I'm wasted all day long. It was hard. The plan was we were going to go there and try while there and have fun, but then, like, I jumped the gun here. a couple too many margaritas at El Coyote and then boom, seed in the gut.

Great. Thanks for that, Michael. So I was just having to bottle of wine by myself. So now we have to have baby parties. I think the baby's just going to come with us. We're not going to have baby parties. I don't think I'm going to be like that. How excited are you to drink the minute it pops out?

I want champagne in the delivery. No, I'm saying that. I guess technically you could have a glass of rosé before the pre. What is it going to, the kid's going to come out fucked up. It's the last one step right before it comes out. Actually, doctor said you can have a glass of wine a week or something after your first trimester. Here's my thing, though, with it.

I like I know like Europeans drinking everything but this is how it feels this is how I explained it Imagine do you have a dog who has a dog here? I mean have a dog okay imagine every single time you took a hit of a cigarette It went into the dog's face oh yeah no you wouldn't take a hit of a cigarette right Nope okay even though you let's say you love cigarettes because I love wine it just feels something weird about like You think your baby would come out being an alcoholic no no that's not what I think in fact I don't judge anyone that wants to do anything. It's just, you just don't like want it when you're pregnant, and that's really

weird for me to say. My mother smoked and drank when I was... And look how perfect you came out. Perfect in every way. I should get what your mother did it right. Nobody ever said anything then. Everyone's so paranoid these days. This has gotten to the point where everything is too paranoid. You can't do anything. You can't do. You should see

the list of stuff that you can't do now. It's insane. We didn't tell anybody for five months because we knew as soon as we did, all the crazy advice comes in. Like the other day, where did you get a green juice? People won't hear that. Is it past? I was like, I don't fucking know. It's green juice. It's not going to, it's organic. You can't have fish. You can't be in a room where there's paint. Like, what the hell? Do you think they did this in the 50s? Everyone came out normal,

somewhat. Yeah. Well, somewhat. I mean, normal. Yeah. I think they're cooler. So I want to know, what do you guys think is the recipe to your success when it comes to real estate? We have totally different ways. Mine is I totally focus on customer service and I keep it very, it's a small shop for me, for sure. So, like, I'm hands on. Like, I don't have an assistant. Sometimes I borrow one of his, usually Wiley, Wiley Coyote. But I do everything from the first meeting to the marketing, to the advertising, to writing the offer, the counteroffers, holding their hand, being their therapist. And when you're one person, you can only do that with so many deals.

So I have a small shop. I'll never be as, you know, big or successful financially as Josh. But I like how I do things. I like how you're talking about we share money. I'm talking about, I have my own career, though. So it's the same thing. Oh, I think you were talking about, okay. And what do you think is the secret to success? Okay, let's say we go on vacation. Okay, we're in the South of France. I love talking to people. I love to Kibbitt.

It makes me excited. That's fun for me. Like, Bobby just doesn't want to be, like, don't talk to my vacation. You're forgetting your number one thing of why you're so successful. No, this is what I'm saying. This is, I think because I socialize and I, you know, I was at Ralph Lauren the other day. One of the biggest people in the role, I can't say the name, worth $4 billion, you know. What does it rhyme with?

I know, I literally cannot say this one. And I'm being good. Mouth it to us. You wouldn't know the initials. But anyway, it's not Warren Buffet. But anyway, yeah, no, anyway, but literally like we're putting an offer on a $25 million house. Like just from shopping for curtains at Ralph Lauren.

You know what that shows you? You have to shop more. Well, you know what? The curtains are 100 grand. The commission's $1.2 million. So I really scored. Yeah, but just in case there's anybody listening that actually wants advice is there's a lot of people that kibits or talk or social and they can't even close a deal to save their life.

Why you're so successful is that out of, what, the 30,000 agents or whatever, 100,000 agents we have in Southern California that are trying to sell something, you have a knowledge that supersedes whatever they have. Oh, sweet. I'm not blowing smoke up your ass. It's true. I find that both of you are extremely professional. You don't realize how professional you are.

I don't think I'm professional at all. But you are. No, I get to the point. But you have a great reputation. Professional is different. Professional won't sit with a client in within five minutes ago. Fuck you. shout out that you don't know what you're talking about.

That's not professional. But it works. But you don't talk to clients like that. Absolutely. That's what they come back. Not in a mean way. I'm like, fuck you, you have no idea what you're talking about. You're going to buy this house instead.

They like it. You just got to be like casual. I hate what I'm, so it's like you go to Sacks and you want to buy a pair of underwear and the person's falling you around. It's like, fuck off. Let me buy my underwear on my own. If I need your help, I will come to you. I hate when they go, can we help you?

And they come back four times. It's just like that's so salesman. I mean, the key to selling is to not sell is to make them feel like you are not trying to push it on them. And the key to selling is when they say, I really like this house. And if you don't like it, say, this is what's wrong with the house. No, no, no. It's kind of psychology. It's like making them not think that you're...

It's like a romance. Yeah. It's kind of like how I got Michael. The strategy sounds familiar. No, but it's true. I mean, trying to sell by selling, it sounds counterintuitive is the wrong way. Like, anytime we bring somebody on for this business and they're going and they're so hungry to get to sound like, listen, it's not going to work. Like, you have to be able to, you have to be willing to walk away.

I always say to act like a poodle. Act aloof. It works. It works in everything. I love poodles too. Just be like, meh. Could take it or leave it. Take it or leave it.

You know, my life's going to go on with her without you. Exactly. No, I don't think like that. I will nail the deal, but I will walk away. You're very professional. Both of you are. He's more professional. I don't think I'm professional.

But you make more money. So there you go. It's your knowledge. It has nothing to do with, if I had your knowledge, I'd be a billionaire. Because I am so professional. And I think people do respect that. Like, when I walk in, you're the most important person in the room. I'm not.

So I don't talk about myself a lot. I don't give my accolades. I'm like, I'm there to like build you up and make you feel important. Do you know what Pierre Burge was? Yes. Okay, so you probably knew him, let me guess. No, I didn't. Really?

Somebody? I'm going to put that on down. Did you know if someone were on? Yes. Okay. Anyway, Pierre Burge was his husband or his, you know, lover at the time. But he was his muse. He based it so Bobby's like my muse.

That's important. Thank you, dear. I guess it's about that anniversary time again. Do I get a blow job tonight? No, only Hanukkah. Hanukkah Harry. What's the secret to a great blowjob? Oh, man.

He's really good. He's really, well. I'm going to get in trouble from Brahma on the network for telling. No, you can do this on podcast, right? You can do it everyone. Wait, I need like specifics. Like, sex with Emily came on here and told me all about what's it called a frelanium? What's it called, Michael?

Ferlinium. It's a part of the penis. It's a part of the penis. There's this one little tiny part that you're supposed to rub when you're giving a BJ. Where is she's supposed to rub. lick it. Is it work when you're masturbating too? No. Yeah, you could do it when you're masturbating, but it's more of like you've got to hire somebody to come in there and do it for you. Nikki, when you love that for a lenium.

So I want to like get specific and graphic on what's the key. I'm actually teaching both of our best friends who's, I guess we won't say because of the wife, but no, James Harris on my show. So I'm really friendly with his wife as well. And when we go on vacation, I'm like, come on, you got to give him more blowjob. She's like, I don't really like it. I don't really like it. So I teach all the wives how to how to give them. Teach all the audience now. Well, I can't really teach it because it's. It's radio.

Give us a little bit like a little. But the thing is you can't treat it like it's a porcelain doll. Like a guy wants, you know. An aggressive one. They want it. Like stop. Don't act like if you're a guy. Don't act like the husband.

Tell them how much you like it. You like that. You like that. You like that. So this is the only shot you got. This is one night stand where, you know, you need a lot of saliva. Michael called me the Hoover Dam the other night. So I should take that as a compliment.

That is a compliment. Not the Hoover Damned. Oh, the Hoover vacuum. Oh, the Hoover vacuum. What are you a fucking Hoover. I was like, well, the Hoover Dam would mean that he got you really wet, so that's good. No, she would be the Hoover Dam. I have no complaints in that department.

It's fine. It's good. I think it's one of the keys of successful marriage. I don't mind doing it. I don't mind doing it either. I don't mind it at all. I'm going to get in trouble with this. But I see, like, sometimes these girls on this forums and they say like, oh, I'm not doing

them. My husband, I'm like, oh, I don't mind it. And all my, like, 10 out of 10, my friends are like, oh, that ain't going to work. Like, you know, like, you can't not want to participate in sexual acts with your. If you're going to have a monogamous relationship. then don't cry if someone steps out. You're going to have a monogamous relationship. We've got to bring in three other people.

Hello? I'm all for sister husbands or sister wives or whatever you call it. I used to be such a whore when I was single or whatever. I would never let that into our relationship. Too many dynamics. We had Dr. Drew on this show and we were talking about it because we had some people on this show that have talked about being in open relationships where like the guy goes and actually has other girlfriends.

The girl has other boyfriends. They connect. Oh, wow. To the point where like that's Polly though, right? Okay. But, you know, the problem is, is that I think that you get two people and, like, say you two are on the same page on that. The problem is you get this third person. And all of a sudden you have this other dynamic where they catch feelings or they want to jump in.

We have a friend, no names that literally is in a relationship with three girls and one dude. Well, it's not weird. I actually get it. It's just whatever they choose to do. There's a, there's a young, there's a young heterosexual, you know, couple that I know in Orange County. I mean, they're like you two. Like the epitome. You're the hottest chick, the hottest dude, right?

they don't need to step out. They found the epitome, and they're open, and they're getting married. What? Like, meaning when he travels, he can do whatever he wants. When she travels, she can do whatever she wants. And I'm like, let's see how long this one is. I think whatever works. I think everyone's different.

I have no judgments about it. I'm just saying that when you add a third, there's a whole new dynamic because you don't know what that. Like that person could say, hey, I'm fine. Well, in that instance. And you need a good rich one on dialysis. No, I don't want that. And that instance, you're not adding a third, though. Because it's a don't ask, don't tell.

What's your type? Let's put it out there to manifest it. I have a very high standard. They have to be breathing. What's your type? From hillcrest to hillside. I like really gorgeous, hot-looking guys. I've always liked much younger men. The man that I date now is about 15 years younger than I am.

So you're dating someone? Well, he's just sort of a friend. But I'm saying I have had a real major romance in years. Well, we got to find anybody. I never find anyone. No, she wants one. The problem is guys die before women. So there's no, you know, you don't have no left.

That's what Joe Rivers used to always saying. She was like, all of the good ones are dead. Why don't you try Tinder? I'm on Tinder. Are you really? Yes, they all look like axe murderers. She could always try Grindr. Yeah.

You said you with her on Grindr. Squirt. I'd be better on Grindr, Tinder is really tacky. Well, technically we're together of Tinder because remember I swiped or whatever. We wouldn't have like, I mean, technically. One of my friends growing up actually was the founder of Tinder. And I'm from seventh grade. Went to school with me.

Does he get a lot of chick. on Tinder? You just got married. Why don't you give them the real tea? He was on Tinder while he was in a relationship. Oh, yeah. That's why I thought they were broken up because I never wanted to date with them because I'm like, I wasn't looking for a boyfriend. I was looking for a boyfriend. I was looking for a fuck.

He was looking for somebody to sell their house. Yeah, well, that too. How do you guys keep it spicy in the romance department when you guys are so busy working? We have desert months where nothing is happening. Okay. And then the well is dry. Vacation is good always because for me, I'm only, I'm only really into it after the gym or in the afternoon.

In the mornings, he sleeps until he literally has to run out of the house. True. So that doesn't happen. Like with some exes, we used to work out together. So you'd do it right after. That doesn't happen with us. And then at night, he comes home later than me. Well, you know, those years have passed where I'm going to like take a shot of Red Bull just to, like, do it.

What about an appointment? Can we schedule? That's not hot. No. Sorry. That's not hot. We're working through a lot of issues here. Yeah. So I try to keep when we're, because we've had a lot of stress, but like when we're in a good place,

I either like to, like, I'll dress up certain things and surprise them or watch porn together. But for me, this is the longest relationship I've ever had. So it is hard to be like, yeah, let me rip and pull your pants down. I'm like, I've seen it. Is that weird? He has old videos of him like hooking up with guys and I really enjoy watching them. He will never let me watch them. But when he first got together, I'd be like, yeah, let me see this.

This is so hot. He will not let me see them anymore. I think that is the hottest thing. Would you be upset if you saw a video of, like, the dude? I don't know. I don't think he'd be too happy. I don't think that translates. No, it's not the same thing.

Which is, you know what's something I was thinking about last night? This is really interesting. By the way, but I also wasn't being penetrated in these videos. Gay guys like to look at gay porn, obviously because they like dudes. Why do straight dudes like to look at straight porn? If you think about it, you're watching a dude in his dick. Why don't you just want to watch lesbian porn? Because you don't think about it as his.

You think about it, I think is yours, right? But you still have to look at a dick. I don't want to watch straight porn and look at a vagina. That's a good point, actually. Well, I watch straight porn when I masturbate. You're so weird. I'm moving on. I just like, wouldn't you only want to watch

lesbian porn? No, because, I mean, listen, lesbian porn's fine sometimes, but it's just there's nothing there, right? It's just like two bodies rubbing together. If I'm watching porn, it's lesbian porn. For sure. Well, because the chutz is weird.

Yeah, this is weird. So, like, girls are into that, I think, more than straight. I'd rather see two guys and be two girls. I have no interest in girls. Yeah, why would you want to watch lesbian porn? I don't know. Always would rather watch lesbian porn.

Me, I wouldn't, how would that get? What did I tell you? I said at the beginning of this thing, we're going to watch. Not to change the subject. But they have a, when you go to the Cannes Film Festival, at that particular time, they have a porn convention that runs Simon-Thingy. It's never one really, con.

Meet a guy there. Yes, it is. I'm booking my ticket. Oh, that's an man. A friend of mine was like this international, international distributor for porn. So I don't know this. I'm at the Cannes Film Festival the first time. He said, oh, we're going to see this porno at 10 o'clock in the morning.

What? Okay, sounds like a good concept. Sounds like my regular morning. And there's a complete theater of buyers, you know. And they're looking at this. And I'm saying to myself, this is 9 o'clock in the morning. I'm watching this. This is not one person moved.

It was like, I think we can sell this in Sweden. I think we can sell this. They were like very, they weren't even turned on for them. Then we went all day long. I watched porno. I said, this is it. I can't take it anymore. I can't look at how many pornoes.

There were European pornoes. I mean, there's pornoes everywhere. I bet the guy that was like the number one in Sweden. I guess they have huge pornos. It was one of my cast members, a million total list. No, no, no, no. I live in a totally different world. Why didn't you meet a guy there?

Why didn't I meet a guy there? I actually think I did meet a guy there. I was like, were they too hungry? During the Nikki Haskell show days, I was in the Philippines. Oh, this is the, by the way, she offered me to interview Amelda Marcos the other day. No, you asked me, can you get to the Philippines to meet Madam Marcos? And I said, yes. And I said, well, let's go and we'll interview her.

I said, let's go, I'll pay. We'll stay at the peninsula, and we will have lunch with Melda Marcos, and we will look at her shoe collection. Honey, the shoe collection is a bullshit story. The viewers might not know who Melo Marcos and Fernando Marcos were the rulers of the Philippines, and there was a time where she was known for having 4,000 pairs of shoes. But that's because, I mean, I don't have any respect for any woman that doesn't have at least 300 pairs of shoes.

Okay, fine. But she also plundered the country, didn't she? She did not plunder the country. Why did they get kicked out of office? They got kicked out because another party came in, and they decided. They didn't like it. They staged his murder. They killed Aquino coming out of the airplane.

Nobody even knew who Aquino was. I don't even know what Aquino is. He was the one that got shot. And then his sister came in and took over and everybody felt sorry for her. Okay, come back up here. Come back here. We're getting in the weeds here.

Yeah, this is ridiculous. I knew this was going to happen. I have a question. What, darling? Back in the studio 54 days, what did people do for porn? What do you mean? What did they do for porn? Was there porn?

Was there porn? Yeah. My doctor, by the way, said the other day to me, He said porn is really bad because you can't get into your mind because you're focusing only on what you're watching. By the way, just FYI. Everybody always said that there was so much sex and everything going on. Yeah, they said it was happening in the club. Yeah, but I never saw it.

But then again, there's a very famous picture of me standing on the dance floor with my arms up. And underneath it, it said, I never saw anybody doing drugs in Studio 54. And underneath my right arm, there's two guys with Coke spoons in their nose. So I was like oblivious to everything. I really didn't know there was cocaine Well you know I mean I never really paid an attention to this I never did she try it She told me he's never once in her life did she try it

Can you imagine I never tried it once? Me either that's why we get along No no no no maybe once just to see what it was all about Nope no no interest in it people used to go down in the basement I never want to go into the basement Send me down yeah my drug of choice is alcohol Yeah me too red wine I'm a vodka girl nicotinees

Oh yeah what's the nicotine again Andra orange orange orange club soda Slice of orange A little piece of mint in the summer. You dress it up. Very chic. No, I'm thirsty. I was in the documentary on Studio 54.

And you look at the documentary and you say yourself, I must have been in another Studio 54. It was so much fun. They said it was sexually free. Like, you know, there were no labels in there. Maybe it was a little overrated this whole thing. Maybe it wasn't overrated as a club. It was overrated as a sexual experience.

I'm sure that people got laid in the club. I mean, there's no two ways about that. Whether they were in Steve Rebell's office or where they were in the balcony, whatever was. A lot of people went there to get laid, I'm sure. I went there to dance. I mean, I was having a great time. I was up for the balcony.

DJ booth. I was dancing on the floor with 82 guys with poppers. I mean, I was into poppers. I wasn't into them, but they were there. Poppers are great, by the way, with sex. I've never tried that. They used to try poppers with them. What's the poppers?

Anal nitrates. What? What? That's what they're all. Anal nitrate? Amal nitrates. They got you alive for 10 seconds. They were big in the straight community for the longest time.

like back in the 70s, it was called Whippets back then. But in the gay community, I don't know how they became a poppers, but it relaxes you. So like if you're going to bottom, it just relaxes everything. And it's easier. But now everybody's doing it. I don't think they do it anymore. My friends used to make fun of me.

We have it? Yeah. I love them. I love them. You should try them when you masturbate. I'll have to get some pointers. I'll have to get some. You could get them at pleasure chess.

It's not like it's one of those weird things. You know, you used to be able to buy them at the drugstore. You could buy them anyway. They're not illegal. They should be. They are illegal in England. It's a VCR cleaner. Hold on, hold on.

I got to ask my producer, Taylor, have you ever tried a popper? No, I'm not. But the mic's not up, but no, I'm not. But he's going to write that down on his left. You should just get some. Go to a pleasure chest. Give it to him. I'll hand on my baby shower.

It's like five seconds of an ultimate high, then it disappears. That's all that is. It's more of like a sexual high. May I give you a couple of ideas for baby showers? Sure. You should have a baby shower where they bring you all sex toys. That sounds fun. I did one of those.

In fact, I was with Ivana Trump. It was the day after the Northridge earthquake. She's a big Democrat, by the way. And I actually am a Democrat. What? You're like a huge Trumpo. I voted for Donald Trump, but I was a registered Democrat. I voted for the Clintons.

I was at the White House many times with the Clintons. I was there with the Reagan's. I mean, I voted. Well, the Regans were not Democrats. I understand that. I vote across party lines. Okay. I said, let's go to the pleasure chest.

Nice. This is right after the Northridge earthquake. With Ivana Trump? Yes. Okay. She says, I definitely don't want to go there. She said, if we go, she said, I'm going to be spotted. And that's the last thing I want to do is to go to this place. They said, no, no, don't be ridiculous. So we go in and they're dildos all the way across this counter, right? And just then there's an aftershock, and I'm standing there, and this entire rack of condoms falls on top of me, right? And I'm lying on the floor, the pleasure chest, and the thing is shaking like this. And the dildo, and the dildo, and the dildo, and the are like flying around. You and Ivana Trump. And she and this drag queen, like, like that looks like Lady Buddy,

comes over and goes, I'm Varna Trump! I never heard the ending. She has a giant dildo on her. She's like, told you. Oh my God. That was so funny. You have so many stories.

During the North Ridge earthquake. The next two days later after is that. Why did you guys go, by the way? Because we had to go to this baby shower and they wanted you to bring a sex toy as a gift. Oh, my God. You know, edible underpants and stuff.

By the way, I don't get that. I bought a pair of those one time. It just tastes like you're eating up with fruit roll up. They're not for men. I know. But you can eat them. I was hungry. I didn't buy it for the sex.

I wanted to taste it. Oh. So just switching it up, what is a book, a resource, a podcast that you guys would recommend? Let's leave our audience with something more than condoms and dildos. I know. Sorry. Not that that's not fab.

Well, the only podcast that I listen to is yours. And of course, he has a show on YouTube that I watch all the time. And I've been doing quite a few shows with them on YouTube. Yeah, you should watch our vlogs. We have a vlog. It's really good. It's YouTube.com slash Josh Flagg. Do you guys film everything?

Yeah. Nikki and I and our friend Alex Hitz did a cooking show that day. Alex is known as like the number one host in America and one of the best chefs. He's actually on the Today Show. Today, today. We do that. Sometimes we do really funny stuff. We did the exercise thing for the Star Cruncher.

Yep. That was fun. I think that's smart that you have your YouTube channel, you have your show, it sounds like your Instagram's huge. Well, YouTube is the stuff that the channel is the stuff that I can't really do on the show. Not can't. It's just it's not related to real estate. So like me dressing up, you know, our door knocking in Beverly Hills. We do it for fun. Yeah. And you can control the whole thing. You do whatever you want. Oh, yeah. Yeah, well, we're going to link it all out. We're going to put it on the bios. You guys can know everybody to listen. We should be on YouTube too with your show. I don't know. Why don't you just do that too? I am on YouTube. I mean, you shoot it live. Should you shoot your podcast live and put them on YouTube? Mainly on Instagram story and Instagram TV, but I have YouTube where I do like skin. A lot of skin stuff.

Oh, nice. I have, so good. I actually have a belt that I bought with the Goyard pattern like that, but it doesn't fit me now. I can't even put holes in it. It's so sad. Why are you looking skinny? I was, when we got married, I was, actually when we first got together, I was 122.

That's maybe too skinny, though. Yeah, I think. My good weight is 135. I'm 155 now. I think you look good. I'm always on a diet. My life is a diet. Well, that's your industry.

I know, but I was on a diet from the day I was born. My mother put me on a diet. That's a whole other podcast. I do get hungry. And you won't eat it, whatever? Well, I try now. I'm a cookie candy ice cream person, so I never have them in the house. Smart.

It wouldn't last morning. I ate two cookies last night. When I get candy for Christmas and people are giving me boxes of candy, it's a toss-up between me throwing them down the toilet and eating them. No, they never get, make it to the re-gift department. I eat one. Then I say, well, I'll just have one. Then I start throwing them down the toilet and eating them at the same time.

I'll eat this one, I'll throw up that one. You'll throw it up and re-gurgitate it. No, I eat one and throw one out. It's like a game. I'll eat this one and throw that one out. You're not going to want to come to the new house then when you see my candy store. I saw the candy store you have and I walk by like this. That's like a pop-up shop.

It's a real candy store. No, we have a really... Legitimate. Who's candy did you like? Alan Wurtz? No, I buy it from like a candy depot. Seas Canned Canned Cany's my favorite grew up on it. We've M&Ms in San Francisco.

I have every kind of candy like from when you were a child. So it's just, I mean, you're nostalgic. Yes, it's like a hundred and, I have like a hundred and five like vintage looking candy jars. Do you do you do you eat it or you just leave it there? Yeah, I just had to start my diet today. I started my diet yesterday. I was like no more. I can't do it because I've gained.

Michael doesn't have to worry about diet. He has no attachment to food. Really? You don't like food? No, I like food. I just don't like pine over it. Nope, nothing. You don't crave like India food or I am.

I never heard him say. We've been together for 12. of years. I've never heard him say, Chris. If I know I'm going to a great restaurant, I get really excited. No, you doesn't. No, you don't. I always take you to good restaurants. You have never, when I'm eating the best, like, most delicious cookie in bed, you don't ask for a bite. You don't, you don't care about food. So you and I are supposed to be married then. Yeah. What's your favorite restaurant? I'm liking this. In L.A. Yeah. I love Madeo. Oh, the best. Um, the veal cart there by the way. You have to order that. It's not on the menu. But to be honest, like, I, there isn't one that I'm like, like, I don't have a

craving one right now that I can think of. No, we need a whole re-up. Yeah, I feel like we did. Tantanas is good. Craig's is, I mean, Nikki and I go there all the time. I eat at three restaurants. Craigs, Craigs and Craigs. There you go.

He's going to love that. That's her jam. I like, I like, I like, I like, I like, I like, La Dolce Vita, you've got to go there. I've never tried that you mentioned that. It's very nice. It's fabulous. You have to sort of watch as you're walking

as there's so many walkers in the doorway. What do you mean? Well, it's geriatrics, but it's great. Oh, I love geriatric. There actually are walkers in the door. I'm retirement home vibes. For sure. I want retirement home vibes all around.

But it's really cool. It's like there's no windows. It's all brick inside. It looks like an old Italian mob restaurant. It's like Craig is everyone. George Raffed. Oh, that sounds good. Can you guys give us a whole?

We need a list. Can you guys? Got to go to the grill. The grill is great. That's a power lunch place. Never been there. Used to be. It's good.

It still is. Soho House. This is good. I've only been there. I've literally gone there like once. That's why I won't let him do a member. I saw her there the other day. You guys saw each other?

Yeah. I saw you. I couldn't get up because I was in this meeting, but I saw you and I was starting. I never use it. I really should. I go there all the time. I didn't even know they had that restaurant on the other side. I was only been in the bar side.

Oh, the new one? I go there all the time. Oh, you just joined? And Tuesday, Tuesday's half price Tuesday, if you're a founding member. Oh, really? Yeah. Maybe we can run out of theater. Right.

You can double dip. Oh, Chikonis? There's another one. I don't really. No, not crazy about Chikonis. I don't say it. I don't dislike it. I like the table.

Tower Bar. Oh, we forgot Tower Bar. You said you have a sweet tooth, right? Best ice cream signed day. Because you can make them, you could like pick whatever everything you want. What is it called? At the Tower Bar. So it's an ice cream Sunday that you get to make them they come like how they used to like real portion. So my friend Brandon and I go all the time and we just, it's the best ice cream son. I'm like, add the butterfinger, add the cookies, add this,

add four scoops of ice cream, hot fudge, like whipped cream. See, when you say I'm not attached to food, when I hear that I get hungry for it. But I'm just not like sitting around thinking about it. Well, he's not. You know, we've learned a lot about each other. middle of the night. You get up and eat at night. Me too.

Right now I do. Do you? What are you eating? Right now I'm waking up at every hour hungry. What do you eat? I like a sandwich right now, but like a plain sandwich with pepperosinis and like avocado and sprouts. It's so good. So, so.

So, so. So, so. A little bit. Yeah. I'm definitely craving more carb. I had tuna last night with like a 12 a.m. With like salt, you know, the best is garlic salt from Lauris. The best.

The best. The best. The best. Lemon salt. Oh, my God. It's the best. been craving during this pregnancy, life cereal with almond milk. Wow.

I know. I love life cereal, but not the almond milk. I'm not a cereal person. Oh, I can't stop eating cereal. Anyway, that's a whole different process. Really? Pretty pebbles. I've only ate salmon and Cheerios when I was when she was pregnant with me.

And guess what? I don't like. Nikki's telling me not to eat cereal now. So now I can't eat anything. You eat fruit in the morning, yogurt. I hate them. I hate food. I shouldn't eat cereal.

Okay. Does fruit fill you? I hate it. It's so good, though. It's a healthy version of life. That was the healthy version. I had a hard-boiled egg. That's good.

I like that. All right. So anybody that spends a night with me always gets a great breakfast in the morning. You just told me you couldn't get late or you couldn't get a boyfriend. I just said if somebody wants to be my boyfriend, there's a gift with purchase. She's just pitching herself. You're my boyfriend and you get breakfast in bed. I like that.

Taylor's, Taylor's in. Taylor are producers in. Perfect. Yes. Where do you like cereal? Nice. Well, I'll make sure you get some cereal. All right.

Pimp yourself out, Bobby, to the audience. Where can everyone find you on Instagram? Oh, they could find me. It's a B-B-Boid L.A. So B-B-B-O-Y-D-L-A. My website's coming next month. It's going to be Bobby Boyd-L-A.com. It's going to be real estate porn.

That's what it's called. What? Oh, real estate porn. Listings. It's going to be men's fashion, lifestyle and entertaining and things like that. Maybe tips on how to give a BJ. Well, then.

You want some traffic to the site, so let's say. I'm going to have a whole different career after this. I say we release a sex tape. I keep asking him. Nobody wants to see that. You don't know why you won't do it. It's not our fault. You can't somebody have a camera on the window.

It's like a violation of our privacy. It's not our fault that they released it. Josh, what's your Instagram handle? It's just Josh Flagg. What is it? Josh Flagg 1. I can't even remember. It's Josh.

Because some idiot won't give me Josh Flagg back. He won't give me back Nikki Haskell. Some guy in Siberia owns my name. It's a Saskatchewan. Do the Josh Flag then. It's just Josh Flagg one and it's YouTube. com slash Josh Flagg. Okay.

And Nikki. I'm Big Nick B.H. And I'm at Nikki Haskell on Facebook. But Big Nick B.H is where you need. need to like do the follow. Big Nick B.H. Yeah, I post a lot of things, a lot of videos. She's a hoot on Instagram. You do it very well. Oh, thanks. We could all take a couple of things. We were doing a video this morning in the lobby. It was fun. Yeah, we did one. We just did one. You're great. Thank you guys. That was an eclectic conversation. I feel like if you designed a house, this is the podcast

would represent that house. Yeah, do you usually like, do you get ever boring customers at customers in your guys? Yeah. Are we like a, on the show? Do we get some duds? Yeah. Are we like a seven What are you doing? No, no, no, this is great. I told you, I said at the end of this, we're going to know each other a lot better. It's like a 9.2. What are we?

We covered blow jobs, we covered remote, we went through childhood trauma, depression, we got through a lot of nicky, we've gone through a dating lab, got through a lot of things. We learned about porn.

We learned about porn. We learned about Wippets. Ivana. Porn poppers. And they weren't thrown at her. This is just flying around. This podcast is technically in the self-improvement category, so I'm hoping.

No, I call this podcast checks mix. You never know what you're going to get. I like that. Well, thanks for coming on, guys. You love you. Also, you should know that this whole entire podcast will be up on YouTube, you guys. It's at YouTube.com slash Josh Flagg. Do you edit it down?

Because it were more than an hour. Don't ask questions right now. You'll just let it flow. Yes, you were correct. Okay, so you can see this on YouTube, too, if you want. You can see a fabulous Big Nick, B.H. Big Nick B.H. All right. Thanks for coming on, guys.

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