The Bossticks - Mark Sisson & Carrie Sisson On Longevity, Weight Management, Foot Health, & Metabolic Flexibility

Episode Date: May 1, 2023

#566: Today we're sitting down with Mark & Carrie Sisson. Mark is a New York Times bestselling author, media personality, founder of Primal Kitchen, ex-endurance athlete & has been educating the world... on nutrition and the benefits of ancestral living and primal movement for 17 years via his blog, MarksDailyApple.com & today we're getting together to discuss a range of topics, from primal health & how to achieve peak performance, to the the mistakes people are making in their lives that are detrimental to their health. Mark & Carrie get into how health evolves with age, why it's important to evolve your health routines as you age, & they also dive into their secret behind 35+ years of marriage. They also get into foot health, the balance of discipline, the Ozempic epidemic & the healthiest way to lose weight. For an exclusive Discount on Peluva shoes use code "SKINNY" at peluva.com for 20% off your order. To connect with Mark Sisson click HERE To connect with Lauryn Evarts click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE Subscribe to our YouTube channel HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) This episode is brought to you by The Skinny Confidential This episode is brought to you by Masterclass With MasterClass, you can learn from the world's best minds - anytime, anywhere and at your own pace. Get 15% off unlimited access to every class at masterclass.com/SKINNY This episode is brought to you by Sun Bum Sun Bum creates products to protect the world from the sun, specifically formulated to help protect those of us who love and live in the sun. Use code SKINNY15 at www.sunbum.com for 15% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Nutrafol Nutrafol is the #1 dermatologist recommended hair growth supplement, clinically shown to improve your hair growth, thickness, and visible scalp coverage. Go to nutrafol.com and use code SKINNYHAIR to save $10 off your first month's subscription, plus free s This episode is brought to you by Betterhelp BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. So you don't have to see anyone on camera if you don't want to. It's much more affordable than in-person therapy & you can be matched with a therapist in under 48 hours. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/skinny . This episode is brought to you by AG1 AG1 is way more than greens. It's all of your key multi-vitamins, minerals, pre-and probiotics, and more, working together as one. Go to athleticgreens.com/SKINNY to get a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs with your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Sakara Sakara delivers science-backed, plant-rich nutrition programs and wellness essentials right to your door. Their ready-to-eat meals are nutritionally designed to deliver results—from weight management and eased bloat to boosted energy and clearer skin. Go to Sakara.com/skinny or enter code SKINNY at checkout to receive 20% off your first order. Produced by Dear Media

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Starting point is 00:01:44 A very smart cookie. And now Lauren Everts and Michael Bostic are bringing you alone for the ride. Get ready for some major realness. Welcome to the Skinny Confidential, him and her. Being in my 60s and being able to get a booty was first of all really exciting. I didn't think I could still make changes in my body at this age. You know, for me, I feel really good about that. At the end of the day, I only do the things I do because I want to feel good.
Starting point is 00:02:14 To me, it's really not about like am I going to live 120 years or 160. No, it's I want to feel good for as long as I live. And I want to enjoy the moments that I live. So that's kind of what motivates me to, you know, to craft a life that I'm seeking, which in turn comes back to, how do I feel? Well, I feel pretty damn good. Hello, welcome back to the skinny confidential podcast. Today's fun. We're doing a him and her spin. So we're sitting down with Mark and Carrie Sisson. We actually ran into them in St. Bart when we were there. And we were like, you guys both have to come on the podcast because we want to pick brain on all things relationships. We want to talk about health, how to achieve peak performance, and even mistakes that people are making when it comes to health and fitness. So just to give you a little background, Mark has been on the podcast before. You may recognize him as the founder
Starting point is 00:03:10 of Primal Kitchen. I mean, I was literally just eating his ketchup earlier with my eggs. He's also a New York Times bestselling author, media personality, and an ex-endurance athlete. And most importantly, he just launched a company called Paluva. And we're going to get into that. You're going to learn all about foot health. And then we also have his wife, Carrie, who's absolutely amazing. Carrie, his wife, has been a role model for the primal blueprint movement, started by her husband. And also, she's a coach and inspiring others to live a life they love. She wrote a book called Primal Woman, a spiritual journey to being in gratitude, aging gracefully, and loving life. This episode goes all over the place. It was really fun. This one is really like
Starting point is 00:03:52 you're at dinner with Mark, Carrie Michael and I. We talk about the primal blueprint. We talk about small goals to achieve larger ones. Mark's approach to discipline. Carrie and Mark's morning routine, balancing discipline, letting loose, opinions on Ozempic, the healthiest way to lose weight, foot health, and why it's important, the problems with modern running shoes and mistakes people make when it comes to health. We also at the end talk about the key to a successful marriage. This episode really truly goes everywhere. I think you're going to love it. On that note, let's welcome Mark and Carrie to the skinny confidential, him and her show. This is the skinny confidential him and her.
Starting point is 00:04:31 In my research, I read an article that you wrote a long time ago, and I feel like it's very much a theme for both of you. And you said that you said move a lot, but don't over train, but also do a lot of weightlifting and less like cycling, biking, running. Are you both still of the belief of that? Well, for sure. I mean, you know, my whole primal blueprint, which is my first book, was based on these primal laws that I discovered in evolution, right? And it was that our ancestors moved around a lot at a very low level of activity. They weren't counting calories. They weren't, you know, looking at the readout on a treadmill. They were just moving. They were just going through different ranges of motion and planes in space. So the moving around a lot isn't about burning calories or burning fat. It's about movement, right? So that was kind of rule number one. And then if you lift weights twice a week with some degree of consistency and maybe sprint once a week, you pretty much got 80 or 90 percent of your physical training goals covered. The rest is just sort of, you know, I'm going to set a record and a personal best or something like that. Although Carrie's been setting personal bests in the gym recently,
Starting point is 00:05:50 and I'll let her describe what her, because I'm more the cardio. guy and she's always been more of the strength and speed person. What are you doing in the gym, Carrie? Just lifting a lot more weights. Being in Miami, everybody was about the booty. So I was just trying to build it. So I up my protein between 100, 140 grams a day and started lifting heavy for sometimes five days a week. And what differences have you noticed from upping your protein and your weights, especially as a woman? Well, being in my 60s and be able to being able to get a booty was first of all really exciting. I didn't think I could still make changes in my body at this age. In terms of weights, personal goals, like easily I can hip thrust eight at 360.
Starting point is 00:06:39 Wow. And that's, you know, for me, I feel really good about that. And so now my latest goal is to bench my weight. So I'm at 120. So I've got a ways to go, but getting closer. Have you always lifted weights? I always have. You always have. It's hard for me, long before I met Mark, it's hard for me to do the cardio. I really don't enjoy it. Carrie sounds like me. That's how I feel, too. I'm trying to get more into the cardio, but I love the weights.
Starting point is 00:07:06 I feel like, though, and I don't know if you both have noticed this, that there's kind of this eye opening happening on social media where women are realizing that weights is a real secret. I feel like it's a movement almost. How do you both hold each other accountable? You know, what's funny is we really don't. hold each other accountable. We're both, I think to our credit, we're both somewhat vain about how we look. And, you know, this LGM look good naked that I started talking about 20 years ago,
Starting point is 00:07:37 you know, it sort of drives a lot of the motivation for getting to the gym and doing the work. I sometimes feel like Carrie's more accountable to her training than I am to mine. She has a trainer or several trainers. She's got a stretch trainer and a fitness trainer. She wanted Tell them about the splits. Oh, yeah, I did the splits this year. Okay, I could barely touch my toes a couple of years ago. I'm now doing straddle splits. I work with an 80-year-old contortionist circus trainer.
Starting point is 00:08:11 And I can do, I couldn't do it right now. I have to warm up. I have a video of it. But I actually can do the splits now. So I set these little personal goals that keep me motivated in the gym. And then I have my weight trainer. and my stretch trainer and then some body workers, aches and pains. Wait, how do you even train to do the splits?
Starting point is 00:08:31 Like, what is the stretch that you do? Is it a bunch of different stretches or one? Yeah, he works on me for an hour, so I'll do it a few days a week, two or three days a week, and he's literally just tugging on my legs in all different directions. That's amazing. I used to be able to do the splits, so I'll have to try it today. Maybe I'll try. I don't know if anybody wants to see that, but maybe that'll be my next goal.
Starting point is 00:08:52 I'd love to see this. What are both of your non-negotiables in the morning that you have to hit? That's interesting. I've sort of softened my approach to the discipline of life in the last 10 or 15 years. So I'm not as tied to making sure I hit the gym because I said I would, you know, a week ago or a day ago. But I would say that some form of movement in the morning is kind of non-negotiable. So I either hit the gym or I go for a fat bike ride on the beach or I go for a stand-up paddle or even if if I'm hurting, I might even just go for a walk and just get the movement in. And for me, that's a mid-morning break.
Starting point is 00:09:37 So I start, I don't, I'm not an early morning workout kind of person. These people who get up and set the clock for five or four-thirty and get to the gym at five, I'm like, God bless you. You're not doing the Mark Wahlberg getting up at 3.30. No, I'm more when it suits me and when I'm comfortable and when I'm warmed up and when I'm ready for it and when I'm ready for a break. You know, so I do some stuff in the morning and then around anywhere from 930 to 1115, I'll say, okay, I've got to go find some time to do whatever strikes my fancy at the time. And as I say, it could be any one of those things and it's not really that I'm beholden to a schedule anymore. I certainly like to mix it up, though. That for me is the big thing.
Starting point is 00:10:18 I think I think Carrie's a bit more, she's more regimented. You should see her, her calendar is so full of, of workout appointments and stretch appointments and things like that. She's quite accountable for that. What are your non-negotiables when you wake up? I really just want to get some kind of movement in, like him. You know, I want to move. We do do the fat tire bikes on the beach together. What is that, you guys, what is fat tire bikes?
Starting point is 00:10:45 So, fun. So it's bikes with like the big tires that you can ride on the sand, right? So we ride on the sand. I got like this microphone. Oh, bigger than that. And mine's electric because I can't keep up with him. Otherwise, it's difficult to ride on sand. And but I put it on a low level, so I'm still getting a great workout and we're having
Starting point is 00:11:02 a good time. And it's so beautiful in Miami. We really love it. And what about non-negotiables when it comes to nighttime? Anything that you guys do that you go to all the time? I would say one of my non-negotiables is sleep. I don't stay up late. I mean, what's late, right?
Starting point is 00:11:20 Like, are we going to talk about two weeks ago when we saw each? We can. I think we have this. Oh, we're going to talk about that. We might have the same travel agent. Let's do a little side tangent on that. We actually ran into you guys in St. Bart's parting. Three times.
Starting point is 00:11:34 No, but I think that that's so relevant to this podcast because it, both of us, I think, as couples are of the mind, you, you are disciplined, and then you give a little, and you're disciplined, and then you give a little. And so it was fun to see, I think, both of us let loose because then you go back and you're disciplined again. Like we came off of a 90 day, no alcohol whatsoever, training almost, you know, like every week consistently into that. Right. So when we got out of that, we're like, whoa. That's a contrast.
Starting point is 00:12:03 It was a huge. Yeah, it was a huge contrast. But I think like that's kind of like our speed. Like we really want to be disciplined most of the time. But we also want to have fun, right? Like I think so many people, they miss the point of life. They don't have fun. They just, they get so fixated on.
Starting point is 00:12:16 either their career or their fitness, and then they never let loose. And I think, like, there's, you have to do both in order to have a well-rounded life. Agreed. And, but where I was going with that is one of my non-negotiables is sleep. So we'll be out, but not late. So if, if, you know, if it's 11 or 11.30, I'm starting to think about, you know, I can't, I cannot abide going to bed after, say, one. And usually not after 11.30. So even if it's a night out, I'm like, already trying to figure out how to, how to start drinking more water and how to, how to, how to, how to, wind it down so that when I do go to bed because I'm going to wake up at the same time. That's the real thing.
Starting point is 00:12:53 No matter what time I go to sleep, I'm always up at the same time. So that's one of the non-negotiables for me is that sort of, you know, paying attention to sleep. And I just don't like the effect of having to take a day or two to recover and be used, not be useless, but have a day like you're out really late on a Friday night and you're not feeling good until Sunday afternoon. That doesn't appeal to me. Now, I'll have fun on Friday night, and I will, you know, I mean, again, the St. Bart's, you know, experience, which is what it ought to be called is, you know, it's Roseale day, it's lunch, it's lunch, alcohol at dinner and whatever else you got going on. And then so, and then day after day after day. So it's a lot of fun while you're doing it. We did it with, we've done it a couple times.
Starting point is 00:13:36 With a group, right? With a group. Yeah. Same with us. So there's three other couples. There's eight of us. And it's a good dynamic that way. And it's good to, and then everybody does hold everybody. else sort of accountable for, you know, their behavior and whatever else. You know what I find. So how you've been talking about health, wellness, fitness for decades now. And I get a kick out of watching you on Twitter because I just see you. He loves your Twitter. I love. I share it with Lauren all the time. I think it's so funny. What, what things do you continue to see like that keeps showing up? That's because you've been talking about over 30, 40 years. It's the same stuff. And what stuff do you see in the fads that you're like, that's just incorrect. I guess what I'm getting at is with all the information that's out there now
Starting point is 00:14:19 and how many people are sharing all this stuff, like, what are you like that, that's a tried and true, that's something I've been talking about for 40 years, and that's like, hey, that's just total bogus. You know, I think there's a mindset that goes with all of this that goes back to my early days of research with the primal blueprint and the idea that not all fats are bad, in fact, some fats are good. The idea that animal protein is the best source of protein. And I mean, I see, you know, the vegan sort of push or the even more, I think, disconcerting is the governmental push toward eliminating meat from the diet. And I'm like, this is, this is unconscionable. It's just not beyond ludicrous. It's just, it's ridiculous. It's unconscionable. It's irresponsible. It's irresponsible for
Starting point is 00:15:00 governments to be doing that. So I don't abide that. And so I will, I will tweet about that on occasion. I don't know the other day, you know, somebody was my arch enemy in the vegan community this Michael Greger. He's a, he's a MD, vegan MD. We've gone at it for two decades. And he said, posted some study about, you know, even as much as a half an egg a day or a half an egg a week increases your risk of cardiovascular. And so I tweeted, I'm upping my egg intake, you know, as of right now. I have fun. That's a platform where I can, you know, start to do little one-liners and zingers and make people even guess sometimes what it is. What's the actual impact of my message? But from a vegan perspective, maybe this question for both of you, I'm assuming if someone's got
Starting point is 00:15:46 a moral issue or a religious issue, you don't really have a problem. But from a health perspective, you firmly disagree with the fact that people say meat is poor for you or meat is a bad choice for your diet. 100%. 100% disagree with that. Yeah. And even, you know, even the ethical discussion is sort of, it's bizarre because, and this has become a big point of discussion on the internet now that vegans, you know, are responsible for more animal deaths than meat eaters, because when you plow a field, you kill millions of voles and mice and rabbits and snakes and frogs and untold amounts of worms and things like that, just to make the kale that you're going to have in your salad, right? So be that as it may, I have a lot of vegan friends.
Starting point is 00:16:29 I love them. I support them. I try to help them. I don't have a lot of vegan friends. Wait a minute. I misspoke. I have some vegan friends. You know, I try to encourage them to get, you know, more appropriate levels of protein because I think protein is the big, you know, I think that's a big lever that we can all pull in, especially as we get older and as especially as we're trying to put on lean muscle and maintain muscle mass, which is the primary driver of health. Carrie mentioned that she upped her protein. What are the proteins that you reach for when you're wanting a snack or when you want to
Starting point is 00:17:01 have lunch or breakfast? I don't do a lot of snacking. I really don't, and I don't eat breakfast. Oh, so. Intermittent fast? Uh-huh. So it was really difficult and I was feeling really full. So it was kind of hard. I actually had to start doing a little of snacking. But I would just eat a big piece of fish or chicken or beef or burger. And then if I had a snack, I'd have a protein shake and then I'd add cottage cheese or yogurt to it. I mean, it was really, it's almost force feeding myself for a while. It's really uncomfortable. But I did notice a difference in strength and size. I went to a spa, an amazing spa in Switzerland, Cheneau. And they tested, my body fat, muscle density, blah, blah, everything. And I gained two and a half kilos of muscle in six months. By adding protein. By adding protein and lifting heavy weights. So you gained weight,
Starting point is 00:17:51 but you felt you looked tighter. Yeah, I felt like, I still, I looked great. And my body fat was still 19%. Wow. It didn't go up. And I was, I almost felt like I was forced feeding myself. I think I know what spa you're talking about. I've heard about this. Is this incredible spa? God, you have to go. I heard. I think I heard. I think it's the one that Barbara Sturm used to work at before she was doing skin care, maybe. Maybe.
Starting point is 00:18:16 They feed you 850 calories a day. It's like a Michelin Star restaurant. It's amazing. And you start your day with a half hour bath with all these jets. And then they wrap you in mud and put you on an undulating waterbed for a half hour. And then I extended my massage to two hours. That's how I started every day. day. Wow.
Starting point is 00:18:39 Lauren's on her way. She's... And it's gorgeous. It's on Lake Lucerne. Oh, okay. Well, side note, you got to write that down for me after what that's called. But I want to add one more thing in terms of St. Barts. What I noticed, which was amazing with
Starting point is 00:18:55 all the partying we did, I did not feel bad the next day, which has not happened in 20 years because I'm taking, I'm doing exosomes and I'm doing what are my shots? Pepites.
Starting point is 00:19:09 What kind of peptides are you doing mad? I'm doing glutathione. I took pictures of the bottles. I knew you were going to ask me. I will tell you when I'm done. CJC. Four things. Lauren was trying to tell me that I shouldn't do pet.
Starting point is 00:19:23 But the right peptides are good. What? This is the only thing I have about peptides and I feel like you two can tell me if I'm wrong. Okay. I feel like they give you skin tag. Have you guys seen that? What is skin tag? Like the little tags of skin? I mean, I think that's a very individualized
Starting point is 00:19:41 certain things. I've never had one. I've not heard that. I don't see anything. But I had, no, I just, I do get skin, I do get skin cancer. So when anything looks suspicious, I just went to my dermatologist. I go, are they going to see this on the podcast? They are now. But they, so he does burn anything that looks like pre-skin cancer. But I've had this going on for decades. And how long have you, but do you both take a peptides or just you? A year. And you haven't had any issue.
Starting point is 00:20:12 It's been all good. No skin. I did one. What did I do? I did the strength one at one point and then the one to the brain. I had good results. So you didn't feel hung over because I was not hung over. I had four margaritas one night.
Starting point is 00:20:24 I have not had more than one or two in over a decade because I feel hung over the next day. Right. I realized I couldn't. I actually had four one night and I didn't feel hung over the next day. Something in the air over there? No, it's because I'm doing exosomes, which I do IV exosomes. I did four months in a row and now I take a few months off. And next month we're going to go do stem cells. Maybe. We'll see. I'm still doing the research on that. What do you think? Well, I mean, I'm, look, I'm, I'm on record as being sort of anti-biohacking in terms of particularly the wearables. I'm not, I'm not into the wearable devices. I don't track my, you know, I don't have an aura ring. I don't do the step counting, the HRV stuff. I don't do CGM.
Starting point is 00:21:07 I mean, I know what my blood sugar is like. So a lot of those things are really out there. The one thing I have done over the past decade, and I, and I picked this up from Kerry, she started doing hormone replacement therapy, you know, bioidentical hormones after menopause. And, and she felt better as a result of that. And so I've been doing testosterone, TRT for about 10 years. And that's sort of the one thing that I do. I've tried BPC 157. I've tried some of these peptides, and I just didn't have any noticeable effect. Is testosterone just so I'm clear? Is it a shot? Is it a pill? What is it? I want to talk to you about this because I think a lot of men are interested in this subject, but a lot of men are not educated and many start too early. Agreed. 100%. And I think it's,
Starting point is 00:21:53 And then you're the best person that asked this. I think there's a point in your life where it's going to make a lot of sense as you age. But if you're 30, 40 years old, there's probably other things you can do. Exactly right. So it's one of those things that I would hold off as long as I could until it was really going to have a noticeable, appreciable benefit. So I held off until I was 60. And then I started. And I really didn't have low testosterone for a 60-year-old male.
Starting point is 00:22:19 I just am such a fan of carrying an extra five pounds of muscle. Like, why would you not do it at that age? Correct. And to that, to answer that question, because that's a big issue, over the years, so many people have heard, oh, my God, you should never do testosterone. It's harmful. It's dangerous. It's, you know, steroids.
Starting point is 00:22:40 It's anabolic, blah, blah, blah. It's probably the safest thing a man, a grown man can take after a certain age, at least in my opinion, and I've not seen any research contrary to that. So to the effect of, you know, building some extra muscle, having a little bit more energy throughout the day, having a little bit more libido. I mean, all of these things kind of add up to a slightly higher quality of life, which, you know, at the end of the day, I only do the things I do because I want to feel good. I want to, it's not about, to me, it's really not about like am I going to live, you know, 120 years, or 160, if you're Dave asked me.
Starting point is 00:23:21 You know, no, it's, I want to feel good for as long as I live. And I want to enjoy the moments that I live. So I'm not like, boy, well, I feel good when I hit this number. No, I want to feel good today. I want to enjoy life today. And I want to enjoy every bite of food I eat today. That's what drives my meal planning. It isn't about mixing macro nutrients and trying to throw in some grass clippings into a,
Starting point is 00:23:46 into a smoothie. it's about what's going to taste good, what's going to make me feel good, knowing the ingredients are good for me. I mean, obviously, I don't want to, I'm not going to eat donuts all day long. But every meal is contemplated to be an enjoyable experience, not just, I'm not just eating for fuel. I'm eating to enjoy for the hedonistic appreciation of the meal and my workouts. Most of my workouts, they're either, if they're hard, they're short. if they're long, they're interesting and like the bike riding on the beach, because I spent 30 years as an endurance athlete where all I did all day long was manage pain, manage discomfort.
Starting point is 00:24:27 None of what I did as an athlete was ever fun. I didn't play a game. I was a runner. I was a marathoner than a triathlete. So I come back to where I am now in my life and I want to enjoy my workouts. I want to enjoy my food. I want to enjoy my sleep. I want to wake up at 5.30 in the morning and go, oh, great, I got two more hours instead of like, oh, shit, I got to get up and get to the gym.
Starting point is 00:24:52 So that's kind of what drives my, you know, motivates me to, you know, to craft a life that I'm seeking, which in turn comes back to how do I feel? Well, I feel pretty damn good. And just so I'm clear, testosterone, is it a shot? Is it an IV? Is it a pill? What is it? Yeah, it's a shot. So how often you have to do it? I do once a week. Oh. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:25:16 I do it myself, you know. You do it yourself? Yeah. Right into the butter. I would do it. So the peptides that you take are they shots too? Yeah, he does it. If you have to do it every day?
Starting point is 00:25:26 You saw it. The little ones. Five days a week. Five days. Tiny, tiny ones. On my pellet, my testosterone is I do. And with HRT replacement, the progesterone, mine's a pellet. And they put it in, they do a little slice, put it inside, butterfly stitch.
Starting point is 00:25:40 And they do that every three months. And so. So do you guys both feel, it sounds like you do, but Carrie, do you feel better from optimizing with these things? Sex is on steroids. Well, literally, but when I take this pellet, it already was amazing, but taking the pellet is a new level. Don't get too excited. So where do people go wrong with this stuff? Is it an age thing?
Starting point is 00:26:08 Is it just lack of edge? Like, where do, where can people go wrong with, with this? I mean, you know, you, you're. on it up, I think people who start in their 30s just because it's available and it's pretty readily accessible. And there are a lot of anti-aging docs who are fine writing script for much younger people. And at that point, you get sort of that, they used to call it bigorexia. You know what that is? You're just never big enough, right? So you start taking your 30s. Now you're combining the youth of being in your 30s and the exogenous testosterone with lifting
Starting point is 00:26:42 in the gym and you get bigger. then you think, well, that's big. This is good, but I could get even bigger. And so there's a, there's a tendency to, you know, overplay that aspect of it. You know, otherwise, people are doing growth hormone in their 30s and 40s, which I think is way irresponsible. I mean, that's, it's a whole different thing that I wouldn't, I wouldn't go there yet. What do you think about all these people doing OZemPEC and diabetes medicines to lose weight? Yeah. How could they? I don't understand. How could you do that? So unhealthy.
Starting point is 00:27:13 gives me just like the hebe-geees a little bit. I got obliterated on TikTok from the TikTok audience for basically speaking out and saying that I think it's a bad, and I didn't at the time, like I don't know the medical implications, but I just, my perspective was it just creates another scenario where you can be, you know, more complacent, you know, put in less effort, be more. Exactly. Like it's just not going to create great behavior. It's going to, you know, the food intake is going to be worse.
Starting point is 00:27:36 The workouts are worse. What's that thing you said about the muscle, though? No, but so, but anyways, Peter Atia just came out and was talking to Megan Kelly and he was saying what he's seeing, and this you can see on his Instagram, is that when people are losing weight this way, that they're losing, a healthy way is to lose like three-fourth fat and a fourth muscle. He's seeing with this stuff that people are losing like two-thirds muscle mass and a third of fat. And so they're getting lighter on the scale, but they're getting fatter actually, and they don't realize that you can't lose that much muscle that quickly. And when you do,
Starting point is 00:28:04 it's much more difficult to get it back. And so you, in pursuit of this easy solution, which doesn't require doing the work. Look, I've been doing the work my whole life in terms of the fitness thing. So I have a real problem with people when somebody says, you know, I've got this bike, and if you wrap your legs up in a cold thing and you ride for 10 minutes, it'll give you the equivalent of an hour and a half bike ride. I'm like, just do the hour and a half bike ride and do the work because something, something's not right when you're, when you're shortcutting some of the systems in the body. I had a discussion this morning with somebody about weight belts. Like, I don't train in the gym with a weight belt because wearing a weight belt might allow me to do more weight,
Starting point is 00:28:47 but my goal isn't to do more weight. My goal is to be fit and strong and healthy and balanced. And if I wear a weight belt, then I'm taking some of the burden off part of my body that ought to be benefiting from the weight. And I'm doing more weight than I could have done without the belt, which, okay, if I'm going for a record, a PR, I guess that's a notch, you know, and that's a, that's a, that's a bunch of, list item, but the bottom line is I want to optimize my entire body when I lift weights. And so whatever I'm doing with my diet, I want to optimize my metabolic flexibility. I want to become metabolically flexible. I want to train my body to burn body fat when I'm not doing anything. That's like the superpower that we all can tap into. And how do we do that?
Starting point is 00:29:34 Well, the best way to do that is to keto is still one of the best ways to do that. So because you want to withhold carbohydrate. Metabolic flexibility is this great state of the body where you can derive energy from whatever substrate happens to be available at the time. If you're doing glycolytic work in the gym, you can burn carbohydrates. You can burn the glucose in your bloodstream. You can burn the glycogen in your muscles. You can burn the glycogen in your liver to fuel the brain.
Starting point is 00:30:01 You can burn fat because you're fat adapted and your muscles. know how to burn or combust fat. You can burn the ketones that your liver makes in the absence of carbohydrate. So this metabolic flexibility is an amazing skill that we're all born with, but our parents and the standard American diet kind of screws it up from the get-go by giving us carbohydrate at every meal. And it carbs at every meal, we just, we lose the ability to burn fat. The body never has an opportunity to tap into its fat stores and use the fat for energy. And so over time, we not only don't burn off our stored body fat, we accumulate it, but then we're always hungry because we don't know how to burn fat and the brain is expecting carbohydrate
Starting point is 00:30:45 at every meal. And that's where you see people saying, well, I can't skip a meal because I get angry and I, you know, my, my brain stops working. Well, the way around that is to develop metabolic flexibility and to become good at burning fat and to do that, you have to withhold carbohydrate. Now you either do it by just eating a ketogenic diet, which is largely protein and fat and a little bit of vegetables, or through intermittent fasting. You skip meals. So you go, you know, 18 hours without eating. And during that 18 hour window, your body is saying, well, if I'm not going to be getting carbohydrate, if my brain's not going to be getting the glucose, then what the heck? I know how to do this. And it builds the metabolic machinery to burn fat efficiently,
Starting point is 00:31:29 burns the metabolic, builds the metabolic machinery in the brain to utilize ketones so that the brain can function in the absence of glucose. And so as a result, people can go long periods of time without eating, without getting hungry because that's hunger kills everything. But when you get metabolically flexible, such an amazing array of opportunities afford themselves, one of which is you do this cellular housekeeping. You know, the body says, well, if we're not going to be eating, let's start to actually consume some of the dead or deficient tissue in our body. So fats that have been damaged get consumed by the body. And it does this cellular housekeeping.
Starting point is 00:32:12 You burn off stored body fats. You trend toward your ideal body composition. You find out, among other things, that you maintain muscle mass easily, you don't get sick, and you don't get hungry. It's an amazing superpower. All right. I do not screw around when it comes to protection from the sun. You know this. And recently we went on a boat where we were outside all the time. So I had to make sure that I was giving my kids the
Starting point is 00:32:44 coverage that they needed, but also in an efficient streamlined way, but also in like a healthy way. So what I did is I brought baby bum by sunbums sunscreen. Okay, here's the thing. First of all, it's 100% mineral based, which is awesome. It's also lightweight and not greasing. see it all. So it comes out super easy. And I love being able to spray it. It's so much quicker, in my opinion, than having to put a bunch of sunscreen on them. I carried this in my handbag the whole entire trip. They have all different kinds of products, too, for sunscreen. They have mineral products, roll on mineral. They also have SPF 30 tinted face lotion, which I love. I love a little tint. And they also have a daily mineral sunscreen moisturizer, which has SPF 30. So the whole line
Starting point is 00:33:30 just really has got you covered as a family. They have three different pillars that they really adhere to, and that's sun, skin, and baby. And here's the deal. It's not just vacation. I like whenever I walk towns in a stroller to really make sure he's protected. It's very important to have suncare year round.
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Starting point is 00:34:51 the time is nutriful. This is the best in my opinion. Hair growth supplement on the market. It's one of the only ones that's clinically shown to improve your hair growth thickness, but also visible scalp coverage. My ponytail is so much thicker. I just recently changed my hair color to Burnett, and I just feel like it's so much healthier, and the shedding is less and less and less. I really did my research when it came to what supplement
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Starting point is 00:36:14 What exactly do you do? And I think that this is really good because we've had a lot of people come on and talk from a male perspective. I would love to hear from a female perspective. I just don't eat after dinner and then I don't eat anything until 12 or 1 o'clock every day. And what time is dinner typically? And it can be from 7 to 8 if where I'm. in St. Bart's, it could be 10, but I mean, you know, normally around seven. And if you stop eating at
Starting point is 00:36:39 eight, will you adjust your window to later? Or do you just always eat at one or 12? No, I usually eat when he's free. So if he has meetings or podcasts or something, I'll eat at noon with him or push it back to one if we can. But it's a daily practice with both of you where you're, I don't get hungry in the morning anymore. Yeah, I mean, it's weird that, you know, for the longest time, what you heard was breakfast is the most important meal of the day and don't skip breakfast. It'll compromise your metabolic health. Your metabolism will drop, you know, and you want a fast metabolism. Well, no, first of all, you don't want a fast metabolism.
Starting point is 00:37:16 You want an efficient metabolism. This mantra about consuming breakfast, if you're not hungry, why would you eat if you're not hungry? It just, to me, it makes no sense. I agree. I don't eat until I'm hungry, but here's my question for you guys. If you're training really hard in the morning, I say, still don't eat before I train. Is that okay? I never do. Same. So what if I train? I've always been told. I don't need before I train either. Please poke holes in this all day long because I'm not a doctor and I don't
Starting point is 00:37:42 know this. I've been told that I need to eat right after my workout to build muscle. Is that not true? Can I should I, if I'm lifting really heavy, I typically come home and I'll eat within 30 minutes to an hour. That's fine. And there's no hard and fast rule. I'm seeing a lot on the interwebs recently about the pendulum swinging back. Thomas DeLauer just did a thing about not working out fasted. I work out fasted every day. I love it. And I'm good at it. And I can go. Do you drink coffee when you're working out? Not when I'm working out, but early in the morning. So I'll have coffee in the morning. And then, you know, if I work out at 1030 or 11, I can go out in the hot blazing sun in Miami and do an hour and a half hard bike ride and, you know, be fat burning efficiency and all of the things. Look, the, because I don't train hard every day, I don't need to
Starting point is 00:38:31 replenish my glycogen. I don't need to eat. This idea of eating before a workout, it doesn't really contribute much to the workout. Your muscles, your muscles already have glycogen in them. Digesting. So how, say you guys train really hard at like 1130 and you do like a weight workout, how, when you'll eat around one? Yeah. I mean, my trainers usually at 11. I might stretch before that or go for a walk with a friend. What do you typically break your fast with? Salad and protein on top or protein and grilled veggies on the side. And if you're going to indulge in something, what does that look like? Is it like, are you saving it for wine? Are you doing bread? What's your indulging? I don't really like alcohol that much. If we go out, I'll have alcohol and never drink alcohol
Starting point is 00:39:16 at home. Bread doesn't make me feel good. I guess I'm intolerant because I'm not celiac and I don't test allergic to bread. But I actually, it hurts my stomach. So I avoid it. That would be something that I would eat if I could as an indulgence. But I really, my indulgence might be a flour tortilla, not a flour. I'm sorry, like a C-8-T. So that's almond, yeah, like an almond tortilla. Or a corn tortilla. That would be my indulgence.
Starting point is 00:39:45 Or if someone else orders dessert, I might have a few bites. I would rarely ever order it myself. That's my indulgence. I've also heard that if you're not going to fast and you are going to do breakfast, that you should load a shitload of protein for breakfast. and not all the carbs and all the stuff that people typically load. If you're going to do breakfast and you're not going to... Oh, yeah, yeah. No, I would agree with that.
Starting point is 00:40:05 I mean, look, you go back and look at what the advertising world has spun, how that spun cereal and waffles and pancakes and all of this really high, high glucose breakfast. To start your day and then top it off with a full thing of orange juice. it makes no sense in the context of either health or energy. And so typically what people, what has happened over the years is people would have breakfast, get a blood sugar spike, and then the insulin responds to the blood sugar, the glucose in the bloodstream, sucks it all out, tries to drive it into the muscle cells. By the way, if the muscle cells are full, it just drives it into the fat cells.
Starting point is 00:40:49 And then it's so overreacts that then you get hungry because now your blood sugar drops And because you haven't become metabolically flexible and your brain doesn't know how to work on ketones, in the absence of this glucose that you've just spiked and then overcompensated for, the brain goes, where the hell is my glucose? Time to eat again. And so that's where the five small meals a day comes in back in the old bodybuilding days. You know, you had five small meals two hours apart because you didn't want to go into cannibal mode and cannibalize your muscle tissue.
Starting point is 00:41:19 It was all predicated on being a good sugar burner, but being horrible at metabolic. ball like flexibility, being horrible at being able to burn fat in the absence of carbohydrate. So if you were going to coach someone, both of you're going to coach someone on where to start with an event, like say somebody's never done it before and they want to jump in it, would you tell them to do it the way that you do it or would you tell them to kind of ease into it? Well, I have a book called the keto reset diet, which came, it's already seven years old now, but it was one of the first real sort of examinations of how to implement keto as a strategy,
Starting point is 00:41:49 as a technique, as a, you know, a weapon in your arsenal to attack body fat. And as such, we talk about first eliminating the crappy stuff. So eliminate the industrial seed oils, eliminate the sugars, the sugared beverages, the sweetened beverages, eliminate the processed grains, the pies, cakes, candies, cookies, pasta, bread, cereal, and then focus on healthy sources of protein and vegetables. And in the early days, you can do as many vegetables as you want. you can do protein, just don't let yourself get hungry. But get your body used to just having quality protein, quality fat, and some amount of vegetables.
Starting point is 00:42:29 That's sort of phase one. Then to get really keto, you would drop some of the carbs that you were eating, and that would be kind of focused largely just on the protein and the healthy fats and a little bit of vegetables. And then phase three would be starting to see how long you could go when you wake up in the morning before you feel hungry enough to have to eat. And that's really the indicator that you're becoming good at burning fat.
Starting point is 00:42:56 If you can wake up in the morning and go, yeah, I feel pretty good and I'm not hungry. And then you go till 10 or 10.30 and say, oh, I'm starting to get hungry. Okay, then that's the time to start eating. But eventually you get so good at this metabolic flexibility that, you know, I have to remind myself to eat. Some days I'm going strong and I'm working out and then I'm working and I'm doing stuff.
Starting point is 00:43:16 And I'm like, Jesus, it's 4.30 and I haven't eaten today. Oh, well, I'll just go till dinner. I don't need to eat now. And dinner is kind of a ritual for me. So I don't want to, I wouldn't want to eat at 4.30 and then think, well, I've spoiled my appetite for dinner. So what is your dinner ritual? Do you guys eat together?
Starting point is 00:43:33 Do you go out to dinner? Like, what is typically dinner for you? We always have dinner together. And we moved to my aunt. It was out every night. Friends, just fun. And now we've decided, well, he's kind of decided, and I agree. Let's eat home for maybe five nights a week. Just because it was too much eating out. Yeah, it was too much, too late. And then I'm drinking if I'm eating out. So now we try to go out maybe twice a week. And then when we stay home, I'll make a salad and a vegetable. And then he'll grill a steak. And then I might throw, I don't know, a piece of salmon or chicken in. When we moved here, because we moved from LA, similar to when you guys moved, it was a toss-up between here and Miami, and I thought to myself, I'm like, I don't know if I can be disciplined enough over there because there's so much going on. There's so much. But we just got back from it. It's a beautiful place. Every time I go over it, I'm like, shit, did I make the right choice or not? I don't know. I mean, it's definitely a fun city. And I could have some discipline there. You got to have discipline. And I would say, you know, on your behalf, that having kids makes it more challenging. The discipline is even more challenging. because we raised our kids in Malibu, and Malibu was great for us.
Starting point is 00:44:44 But we were just sharing the other night that Miami has given us a renewed sense of youth. We hang out with a younger crowd. There's a lot of energy in it. We were in Malibu a few days ago. And we're like, God, can you believe we made this move five years ago? And we'd still be doing the same old crap, riding up and down PCH, doing not having met anybody new. I mean, we've met 50 awesome people since we've lived in Miami. And we've traveled around the world with 10 of them.
Starting point is 00:45:13 And to your point, like, I think having kids here is great. I wasn't going to do it in L.A. for sure. I think it'd be harder for us in Miami right now. But who knows, it's not, you know, we bounce around. What are your supplements? We'll start with you, Carrie. What are your supplements that you go to that maybe are just stuff you take on a day-to-day basis? We don't take a lot of vitamins.
Starting point is 00:45:32 I do take magnesium in night because it helps me sleep. What's your favorite brand? I think it's a Whole Foods brand. Okay. I take vitamin D. I take Andrew Lessman's. What does he call his company? ProCaps.
Starting point is 00:45:45 ProCats lab, yeah. I take a D. Manos, which is also another brand from Whole Foods, because I tend to get bladder infections. Oh, does that help with that? Yeah, I don't get them if I take it every night. Wow. That's a good tip. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:00 Because I, yeah. I used to get bladder infections all the time after a sack. Yep, that's when I get them. You know what I don't get them anymore? I use coconut oil lube. Really? I'm going to send you some. It's this coconut oil lube and the coconut is an anti-chungle.
Starting point is 00:46:17 We should disclose that it's a company we developed, but we'll send you guys some. But I am telling you, I have not had one UTI since using this. It's amazing. There's a lot of trial and error. Because I don't like to get up and pee every time. I just want to fall asleep in his arms. We spoon when we fall asleep. We spoon before we wake up.
Starting point is 00:46:34 We fall, I mean. That's cute. Yeah. And I want to have sex and spoon and go to sleep. I don't want to get up and pee. So I found this de manos, which doesn't let the bacteria supposedly stick to the sides of your bladder. So I take that every night. And I have, I don't get one.
Starting point is 00:46:51 That is a really good tip. So you're preventative about it. Yeah. Okay. Well, I need to look at your de manos and I'm going to send you guys the coconut oil lube. I think you'll like it. So I want to, I want to shift gears now because obviously. I really, really quick need to know.
Starting point is 00:47:04 Mark supplements really quick. Yeah, so here's the thing. I used to make supplements. I still, I mean, Primal Kitchen still make supplements. And I made some of the highest potency supplements in the world. I take his collagen. My damage. I take your collagen daily.
Starting point is 00:47:16 My damage control master formula was the highest potency, full spectrum, multivitamin, and multi-mineral antioxidant ever created. It was 12 capsules a day super supplement. And he did that for years and years. But as I've gone further and further down the path of more carnivore-like, I'm sort of buying a little bit more into Paul Saladino's concept that you're... He's coming on the show soon. Cool.
Starting point is 00:47:38 That you don't really need to be supplementing if you're getting good vitamins from the quality meat that you're eating. So I've cut way back. Now, I do take vitamin D. I'm out in the sun a lot, but I'm not a good converter of sunlight to vitamin D. That was one of the things I learned from my 23 and me experience, right? So I don't, so I take supplemental vitamin D because I am a fan of having high levels of vitamin D. And then I take collagen. And I, you know, I started with another company's collagen brand years ago when I had a very severe Achilles tendonosis in both feet. And it was to the point that I didn't think I was ever going to be able to sprint again. I play Ultimate Frisbee and you have to sprint in Ultimate Frisbee. So I started taking 30 or 40 grams of collagen a day. And despite orthopedic surgeons saying I needed surgery, I had to have it scraped down and they had to put it in a cast for nine months, you know, three months and I was nine months of rehab.
Starting point is 00:48:32 I did it on my own and I literally healed this major issue that I had. So I became a huge fan of collagen. How many scoops is that of yours? So the scoops that we have 10 grams per scoop. Okay. Yeah. So I might do 20 grams in a bike water bottle before I ride on a hot day. And I'll put some element in it too, you know, the element.
Starting point is 00:48:56 And I make a kind of a cool little drink there and slam that down and make sure I have the collagen coursing through my system as I'm. moving my legs around the pedals. Michael, for sure, gonna copy that. Yeah, for sure. I'm gonna copy that for sure.
Starting point is 00:49:08 But I take it in my coffee right now. Yeah. That's what I do. Because I don't do any swingers. I do, I do it my coffee. Okay, really quick.
Starting point is 00:49:14 What brand of meat do you like? You have to tell me really quick. I don't have a brand of meat that I like. No brand. No. I mean, I, we literally,
Starting point is 00:49:22 we buy a lot of different types of cuts of meat from a lot. I mean, I go out. Grass fit, organic. It's good meat. Yeah, it's good sources.
Starting point is 00:49:31 Yeah, yeah. Yeah, but I mean, I, you know, I shop at Whole Foods and I get the best cut that they have and I'll buy, you know, 30 pounds of it at a time because I don't like to shop. I don't like to shop. So when I do shop, I'm like, we're getting this done. And what I buy it is wrong kind. Uh-oh. You just put it in the freezer? I know Michael has, wants to switch gears, but I just want to ask one more question about supplements. Do you guys like or have you heard about NAD? Yeah. I do it. I shoot myself five days a week. five days a week
Starting point is 00:50:02 I shoot and he does wait so that's wait no NAD is the peptide thing no any no NAD Well it's not a peptide but I do it with my peptide okay but I do it with the peptide
Starting point is 00:50:14 you don't do it through the IV you do it through the shot that's interesting that you do it five days a week because I really want to do it but I'm too petrified of the IV does it hurt your stomach when you shoot it just like a little needle no I don't even notice it
Starting point is 00:50:27 I get a little rush maybe like a little niacin rush, if you know what a niacin rush is. Yeah. Something like that. So is the reason that you don't do the IV because you get sick to your stomach? And you can get, you can feel it in your heart and your chest. A lot of people have not had good experiences from doing the NAD IV. Yeah. Yeah, I have a rough time with it. I do it one, like, maybe once a month. Did you feel it in your heart of your chest? Yeah, I get it in my like
Starting point is 00:50:53 stomach. Sometimes you get congested in the face. It's a hard thing to get through. Does it feel in your chest afterwards or just during, they say? I have never done it because I do it five days a week and it's such a small amount that I don't have any side effects aside from a little rush that is gone in two minutes. And do you notice the difference? I find it, I used to sleep an hour longer than him and sometimes I get up before him now, which is a miracle. In 30 years, I've never needed less sleep than him. I just feel like a very quick, right, in the mind. I had to go do this board presentation and I did it right before. And normally I'd have to like refer and look at everything.
Starting point is 00:51:30 I was just like, it was like limitless. You know, I was like just like being able to like wrap it off the top of the head. Okay. That's interesting. You should try. You should just test it one time and see. No, I'm going to try it her way. I'm going to ask where you get your NAD.
Starting point is 00:51:39 Go ahead. I know I wanted to switch. So obviously one of the main reasons you're here and that we're here. Something we've never talked about on the show is foot health. And this has been your greatest passion now or it has been for a while as you told me privately. Let's talk about what you're doing right now and why because I think. And how this even started.
Starting point is 00:51:55 Like tell us about the. conversation that you guys had in the kitchen or something. Well, this goes back a long time because I was a runner in the 60s and 70s, and I ran in really thin, flat shoes before Nike even existed. And it was an interesting experience to put in those sorts of miles and then have it be the feet that told you when it was time to stop. Not the knees or the hips or other parts, you know, the Achilles or anything else. It was the feet that said, yeah, 40 miles a week is enough. Then along came Nike and Adidas and Puma and all the other shoe companies
Starting point is 00:52:27 that started creating these big, thick, cushioned running clogs and enable people to put in a lot more miles. So people started running 70, 80, 100 miles a week, 120 miles a week. But what happened is over time, they put the miles in, and for better or worse,
Starting point is 00:52:46 their cardiovascular got better, but it didn't mean that their feet were stronger or more efficient or more effective. And what was happening was they were bypassing all this amazing information that the feet want to give the rest of the body. So we are born to run to walk barefoot. We're evolved over millions of years with these amazing organs that are our feet that have 10,000 sensory inputs on each foot that tell us the second we, as we take a step forward, by the time we've weighted that foot, the brain already knows how to bend the ankle,
Starting point is 00:53:20 how to flex the knee, how to torque the hip, how to contract certain muscles to absorb the weight and the shock. Well, modern footwear, whether it's running shoes or just, you know, campus casuals or fashion wear, modern footwear completely negates all of this amazing information. And so over time, people get foot pain, they get bunions, they get neuromas, they get neuropathies, they get Achilles pain issues, they get planar fasciitis, and they're wondering, like, am I not, I'm not stretching off, so I have to start stretching. When in fact, it's the fact, it's that the feet are so cramped in these little narrow casts that we put them in, in the name of fashion. By the way, don't stop wearing the heels. They look fabulous on you, Warren. But they're not good
Starting point is 00:54:07 for the feet. So my interest in foot health and foot comfort goes way back. I was an early adopter of a five-toed shoe that came out almost 20 years ago. I thought it was one of the greatest inventions ever. The world should be using this. The world should be embracing this concept. the problem was they didn't really make a shoe that was attractive, I thought. And I thought it was deficient in certain areas. It didn't have enough padding. So a couple of years ago, I said, I need to fix this. Like, I've been looking for a shoe my whole life, and I have not found one,
Starting point is 00:54:40 a shoe that I feel comfortable in that is functional and that looks good. Because it's like, you know, you can have two of the three, but you can't have all three in most of the footwear. So I set about with my son, Kyle, who's my co-founder. of this new company to develop a shoe that combines the best attributes of a five-toed shoe with a slightly more cushiony sole, mid-sole, and with an attractive upper. And it's like, you know, a five-toed shoe meets, you know, all birds or Nike free or something like that. With the idea that you want to splay the toes, the toes, there are lots of companies
Starting point is 00:55:17 that make a wide toebox shoe. That's great. But you really want the toes to move up and down as well. We call it articulating. You want the toes to articulate. Whenever you step on an uneven surface, you want a smile to come on your face because it's literally massaging your feet. Like you're feeling, now the information is going to your brain to tell you how to weight the foot. Now it's, you know, whether you're hiking or running or even walking long distances in a city, you want that input, you want that sensory input. You want the toes to flex. You don't want them to be in a stiff, in a stiff shoe. So we've introduced this new company. It's called Paluva. We've got 150 influencers who are wearing them now and raving about them. And people say, this is, this changes everything. I'm wearing them right now. Yeah. We're all wearing them right now. Exactly. Did a three mile walk today. Yeah. I'm going to show mine on the YouTube. Yeah. Yeah. Look those. Are those cute or what? They're so cute and they're so comfortable. I would show mine if I could get my leg that high. Especially because I have such bad planar fasciitis. Like this is, it's foot health. You're so right. It's so important. Right. And it's so overlooked. It's like,
Starting point is 00:56:23 I would say that modern footwear is to foot health as the standard American diet is to, you know, overall metabolic health. It's like we develop this system that's completely bypassed and destroyed the natural desire of the body to be strong and lean and fit and happy and healthy and productive and loving because for whatever reason, the convenience of food makes it, you know, and the crunchy, salty, fatty, sweet part of food, you know, makes it attractive. Well, the footwear industry has kind of said, you know, if you have foot problems, maybe we're better off giving you either surgery or giving you an orthotic or, you know, some sort of a riser in the heel and giving you two inch thick cushion shoes like bosu balls to walk around on all day. When in fact, that's not going to fix the problem and that's not going to create this sort of sustainable comfort that you would get from having strong healthy feet. My body worker told me about orthotics.
Starting point is 00:57:24 I got these custom-made orthotics. I was so excited. And he's like, no, this is training your feet to want this every single time. This is not good. So to your point, I think that this is just so smart what you guys are doing. Now that you've been wearing, I mean, you've been, sorry, the whole time in St. Barnes are wearing them, but how long have you been wearing them consistently? Two years.
Starting point is 00:57:44 Two years. And what changes have you guys noticed? Well, so for me, I've only worn minimalist shoes for the last. 15 or 20 years. So my feet are strong. So for me, the number one thing I noticed was comfort. So in some of the original five-toed shoes that are so thin, like literally two or three millimeters thick, I could work out in the gym all day long, but I couldn't, I couldn't go for a hike, say, on pavement, right? I couldn't go on a hard service. It's too thin. It's too thin. So these are nine to 10 millimeters thick, which is literally one centimeter of thickness.
Starting point is 00:58:21 It's not like an inch or an inch and a half. It's about a third of an inch. And that's enough to feel the ground underneath, but also enough to cushion so that when you walk long distances. We were in the south of France last summer, and I brought prototypes with us. I put 650 miles on one pair, the pair that you're using, not that exact pair, but the style that you're using, and walked anywhere from six miles to 14 miles a day on concrete, on pavement, on uneven surfaces. And it was amazing. It was just a whole different feeling.
Starting point is 00:58:53 So my feet are strong from years of doing this. What I was looking for primarily for me was comfort and to be comfortable doing this and to feel compelled to want to walk. I mean, to me, that was the real aha moment was I know because I used to, I was a runner. I hated walking. Like walking is a waste of time. I wrote about it and I talked about it. But in France, we did, I don't know, 240 miles a month average of walking. And Carrie, did you walk in the shoes too?
Starting point is 00:59:22 Oh, I did. I really like it. And I don't have, I have like the beginnings of plantar fasciitis. Okay. So, and this is really, these have helped my feet and also sleeping in a sock that doesn't let your toe fall forward because you want to keep your foot up straight. You don't want the covers on it and making your tug. because you shorten all this, which makes it hurt more on the bottom of your foot. So you really want to keep a sock that keeps your foot like that while you're sleeping.
Starting point is 00:59:49 And then wearing these, yes, it feels much better. A sock. So is there a specific brand of sock that we need? Something I ordered on Amazon, I can send you the link. Okay. And so can you just sleep with no sock and make sure your foot is up or no? Sure. But this just holds it up and your toes aren't covered.
Starting point is 01:00:05 So I need to be wearing these shoes and sleeping with a sock. You know what I like about these shoes? Time. I, when I run out the door, Michael knows this, want to slip something on. I don't want to tie a shoe up. I'm sorry, I just don't want to. I feel like it's a waste of time. This I just slipped on.
Starting point is 01:00:23 It's easy. It's convenient. I got to go. So that's what I really like. And I like that I know my foot is doing well too in it. The skinny confidential him and her podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. What we love about the year 20203 is that everything is. accessible to literally almost everyone as long as you have a smartphone, and that includes
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Starting point is 01:05:28 That's Sakara, S-K-A-R-A-com slash skinny, and you get 20% off your first order. Sakara.com slash skinny. So many women in particular, men too, but are wearing toe spreaders now, toe spacers. I wear them all the time. Okay. That's what this does all day long. The difference is your toes spacers, you're only going to wear barefoot around the house. When I meditate for 30 minutes.
Starting point is 01:05:55 Right. This, now you're going to work the toes. So not only are they spaced out and spread out, but you're going to work them mildly. We tell people, look, and I have to be very careful to say, you know, we're not giving medical advice here and, you know, fixing. No one's a doctor. No one's a doctor here, blah, blah, blah. But because I wanted comfort to be my primary driver here. But when you work the small muscles of your feet, it feels good.
Starting point is 01:06:18 your feet get stronger, your ankles do get stronger. And in order to work those small muscles, like people say, well, does this have an arch support? Well, no, it doesn't on purpose. Because most people who wear these supportive shoes, their arch gets atrophied. It doesn't, it's not called upon to work. Like your physical therapy, the body worker says, you know, why would you, why would you put something under your arch to give it the day off? You know, you want to work it.
Starting point is 01:06:44 If you go to the gym and you say, I want bigger biceps, you don't say, well, you do that by wearing a device that can prevent you from moving your arms, quite the opposite. So, you know, we wanted to create a shoe that you could wear not just in the gym. And that's why we have so many styles. So it's, we say a paluva for all occasions. The company is peluva, P-E-L-U-A, a paluva for all occasions. So when you understand how comfortable these are and how great they feel and how good they are for the muscles of your feet, you'll say, well, what about when I'm at work?
Starting point is 01:07:16 Well, I'm wearing a leather lace-up pair right now, and I can't do the splits, so I won't. Michael and I'll work on splits. You guys can work on sports together. I got to get Carrie's trainer to be. And we've got, you know, we've got some that you would wear out to a fancy restaurant. You know, I dress up in some of these. You saw me in St. Bart's wearing them on different occasions. On different occasions.
Starting point is 01:07:37 There's all different, a plethora of different occasions. There was the bag of towel pair. There was the Nikki Beach pair. The dancing on the table with me riding it on a lot. motorcycle bear. Yeah. Is that your birthday? Yeah, we were there for my birthday trip.
Starting point is 01:07:51 Yeah. Yeah. And then we just kind of... Happy blade birthday. Yeah. We definitely had some fun on that trip. Yeah. You know what it was brutal about that day just as a side tangent.
Starting point is 01:08:00 After that, we still had to wake up right in the morning, bright and early with the children. So it was like, oh. The children were right there. It was fun at the time. And I was like, oh, my God. So what mistakes are people making when it comes to their feet? Give us a couple of mistakes that you just think are not healthy for foot health. Well, I think depending on orthotics as a as a fix for some deficiencies in your
Starting point is 01:08:24 foot strength is a big one that people are doing. I see a lot of people getting surgery that I think maybe could be put off for a while by doing some foot exercises, you know, or wearing some shoes that allow for more toe freedom. A recent study came out and it looked at planting Phyllifachitis and people had planter fasciitis and it went in for surgery. And what the surgeon found, he took a piece of the planar fascia and examined it under the microstope and discovered that theitis, the in the infitis means inflammation should actually be called an osis, planar fasciosis. The osis part of it means dead tissue. And it's because the circulation has been cut off because when you look at a at a foot, so much footwear cramps the if this is
Starting point is 01:09:16 if this were a foot and this is the big toe, it cramps the big toe in into the rest of the shoe when in fact this toe has an abductor muscle that wants to pull it out and spread it out. And that's where the circulation gets improved if you're allowed to spread it out. And that's why walking barefoot is so beneficial to just about everybody. But when you confine it to a space, a narrow space in a great-looking Italian shoe, you run the risk of cutting the circulation to the rest of the foot that way. I will say, on the one hand, you know, we're supposed to be walking barefoot, we're designed to be barefoot, but then our ancestors evolved this mechanism in the context of dried dirt and matted grass and moss and pine needles and some rocky
Starting point is 01:10:05 surfaces. And here we are today with asphalt and pavement and hardwood floors and tile and marble. And so walking barefoot, while it sounds primal and it sounds ancestral, isn't even that practical. So you do want a little bit of cushioning in a shoe to kind of make up for the hardness of the surfaces. Because of what we've done artificially. Because of what we've done artificially. So that's kind of our workaround is we'd say go barefoot, but even that isn't really good advice for most people who are on hard surfaces all the time. Like I would get a bone bruise if I walked on hard surfaces all the time. So the effect we wanted to create with Paluva was we wanted the effect of walking barefoot
Starting point is 01:10:48 on a putting green. So if you can imagine, if you play golf at all, you imagine walking barefoot on a putting surface. It's just that little amount of cushioning. I mean, I think this idea is absolutely genius. I think it's crazy to me that people haven't put more of an emphasis on foot health. You walk on your feet all day long. And most people also put more pressure on one foot.
Starting point is 01:11:10 like I only have planter fasciitis that shouldn't be called that in one foot. So I feel like that's, that's another thing is like what I feel with these shoes is it almost teaches me to even out my balance, if that makes sense. I mean, the more you can connect with the earth and get the feedback from the surface you're walking on, absolutely.
Starting point is 01:11:29 The more the rest of your biomechanics comes into play. If you're wearing, you know, cushioned thick rocker shoes that bypass all that information, And you're basically tromping around in these bricks that only your feet only or your body, your legs only start to work from the ankle up. Michael was complaining for years and years about his back. And we found out it was because he wears cowboy boots all the time, which are so uncomfortable,
Starting point is 01:11:56 in my opinion. I still wear them once in a while. Well, you're in Austin. I mean, please. No, I love a cowboy boot. Don't get me wrong. But you wear him like all the time. And you were driving in him and it was a whole thing.
Starting point is 01:12:04 Yeah, yeah. So like since then, I've had to like really, I mean, I've corrected it since. but it's been a lot of like doing stuff like this, barefoot, working out without shoes, you know, getting out of the boots a little bit more. But it was a problem for a while. I was looking at I was like, man, I'm 35 and I'm having back problems. Like that's not good.
Starting point is 01:12:16 No, not good at all. And you're in good shape. So imagine how many, you know, tens of millions of people suffer from those sorts of things, thinking my back hurts because my back is not strong when in fact it goes down that posterior chain all the way to your connection with the earth and how you're moving about this world,
Starting point is 01:12:34 not getting that sensory input that tells your brain by the time you weight that foot tells your brain exactly how again how to bend the ankle how to bend the knee, how to flex the hip, how to twist,
Starting point is 01:12:45 how to turn, how to load the muscle. Do you guys wear I'm weightlifting all the time? I do. I'm going to try them tomorrow weightlifting. Yeah, I'm going to do it tomorrow too. Great. I'm going to try them and see how that goes.
Starting point is 01:12:57 I feel like I normally lift weights in socks. Well, you know, because when we lift weights or squatting, we'll take the shoes off because I don't want to be squatting or doing any kind of that stuff in those kind of like to your point bricks right? Yeah, I'm going to try these tomorrow to lift weights. I think this is really going to help me. Because I think that's a mistake people make too in the gym is they wear these kind of like padded
Starting point is 01:13:15 bricky shoes and then they're doing squats or deadlifts or whatever and they're not, you know, on the surface. Well, that's that's that point about you want to be getting the most benefit from the work that you're doing. And every time, anytime you bypass that either by wearing wearing a weight belt just because you want to do more weight versus not wearing a weight belt and saying, okay, I'm going to stop at this weight because my entire body is into play and whatever weak link I have is causing me to say, that's, you know, that's my max for today. You wear a weight belt and all of a sudden you bypass that information. Now you add 50 more pounds. Well, okay, that looks good on your resume, but is it serving you in that exercise? I do, I push a sled with the ones that you're
Starting point is 01:14:00 wearing right now. I mean, that's the workout pair. It's called the Strand. and we have them in black and pink and white and gray and blue. And the strand was designed for the gym, for long periods of walking, you know, on concrete. But because you can splay the toes out with it, you can get a firm footing if you're doing deadlifts or if you're doing squats
Starting point is 01:14:21 or if you're on the, on the press machine, right? If you're doing planks, your toes are flexing. It's not like you're on the tippy toe end of a stiff shoe. Makes so much sense. You're bringing your toes into play.
Starting point is 01:14:32 You're actually, you know, working your toes out while you're doing a plank. Yeah, no, it's interesting to say it because like when I tell people, oh, I take the shoes off, you know, to squat, they kind of look at me strange. I'm like, it's because I want it to exactly do what you're talking about, which is I want to be able to feel the ground and spread the toes out when I'm lifting because it feels strange to me to be in a clunky shoe and off balance.
Starting point is 01:14:52 You make fun of me for picking things up with my toes, and now you're saying that you spread your toes too. So he makes fun of me because I'm really crafty with picking things up. That's a great skill, by the way. Yeah, I know. So don't talk shit. Do you hear what they're saying? Listen, I'm going to practice mine.
Starting point is 01:15:05 I'm a master tomming group. Yeah. But I mean, I look at the feet and, you know, how we, we so overlooked it. Imagine being like you have these hands and you're a concert pianist. And then somebody says, okay, I want you to play a Rachmaninoff piece with oven mitts on. Right? That's true. And so you're like, well, I can't do that because I need the sensory input.
Starting point is 01:15:30 I need to know what's going on. I need to articulate everything. So that's what we're trying to do here. You know, we're very pleased. Do you know who Chris Geffen is? The name, uh, influencers. He's, he's a bodybuilding weightlifting guy. Maybe I think I've seen him on Instagram.
Starting point is 01:15:42 Yeah, yeah. And he's, you know, he's, he's a huge fan and he's now posting stories of him in the, in the weight room training with these and getting, you know, getting this sort of benefits that we're. Well, I'm going to try it tomorrow and see what I think. We'll post some stuff tomorrow. I would be, we're going to do a coat and a giveaway at the end of this episode for this, but I have to ask you both, like before you go.
Starting point is 01:16:02 I have to ask you each what your favorite primal kitchen thing is. For me, I'm going to say, what do you think I'm going to say? Well, I hope you say, I'm not hope. I would think you say ketchup. You know me so well. That's exactly what I would say. I give it to my daughter. It's the only ketchup.
Starting point is 01:16:17 Anyone who's listening, don't throw away every other ketchup in my opinion. McDonald's needs to replace the ketchup packets. We got to evolve. Yeah. It's the best ketchup ever. I was looking at the casual. I was like, hey, we were just partying in St. Barts with the guy in the ketchup bottle. Michael when I first met him was like eating Heinz
Starting point is 01:16:34 And I was a mess And I completely made over it The ketchup is so good Is that what you know I was going to say that Yeah and it's mine too I'll carry you you say what your favorite is I really like the mustard A few of the mustards
Starting point is 01:16:47 And the garlic aoli and the Chipotle mayo Just a few things Oh the Chipotle Mayo How are you involved are you day to day now Are you still drum up the recipes or No no but I'm involved I'm still I'm still with the team and I'm still the face of the brand and I'm still a cheerleader at big events. And I'm
Starting point is 01:17:05 definitely involved in taste testing new products. You know, we have a pretty robust R&D program now. We have 85 skews. So, you know, we're out there with that stuff. But to your point, I mean, I would say the ketchup is the thing I'm most proud of because it was a problem that went unsolved for so long. I mean, every mother who knew anything about health was like pulling her hair out. Like, how come they can't make you know a natural organic great tasting unsweetened ketchup for my kids and when we solve that problem and that year we won the the nextie award which is the big award at the biggest trade show in the world expo west yeah yeah and it was the it was the popular choice award um and i was like okay this is this really is a game changer for moms
Starting point is 01:17:51 it not only because they now have a ketchup that they can put on the stuff they used to put ketchup on but now they can use the ketchup as a gateway drug to other foods that the kids aren't necessarily liking. 100%. Put ketchup on some broccoli. You can put it on anything. You put it on the fries. It's the only ketchup, like, by far. And it sells out.
Starting point is 01:18:11 It sells out all the time. I'll order it in bulk on Whole Foods because it sells out real quick. Yeah. Big fan of the ketchup. Okay. So I would love to do a code. Can we do code skinny to shop for the shoes? Absolutely.
Starting point is 01:18:24 Okay. You guys, if I were to start with a shoe. If you want to go classic, Carrie's wearing the white and the black. I can do the. Yeah, show, show. So hers are primarily black. I like the white and black ones. I know.
Starting point is 01:18:38 Actually, it looks good with the black and white stripes. They almost look like Chanel. You know what? I think I bought the white, but I might have to get another pair now. Oh my God. Here he goes. We'll fix you up. Okay.
Starting point is 01:18:46 So she's wearing a very classic. It's giving like old Hollywood vibe shoe. I love it. But I'm wearing the pink ones right now if you want to go like louder. And we'll do a code, code skinny. for, and you said 20% off? Yep. 20% off.
Starting point is 01:19:00 And then we're going to do a giveaway. So all you have to do is tell us your favorite takeaway from this episode on my latest Instagram at Lauren Bostic. And then make sure you're following the brand. What is the handle, Mark? Well, we're wear Paluva on Instagram, but if you want to go order, it's paluva.com, P-E-L-U-V-A. And did we talk about the derivation of the name?
Starting point is 01:19:22 No, we didn't. We should. So we went to come up with a name for my new company. And primal was taken. So, you know, we're going to call it primal for something like that. Go figure. So I own every other primal in all of the, you know, 20 different trademarks on primal. But anyway, so we made up a name.
Starting point is 01:19:40 We looked at different languages. And in Portuguese, PE, P, E is foot and Louva is glove. So it's foot glove. Cute. Yeah. And it's, I think it's a nice name. And you see the logo. I think it wears well.
Starting point is 01:19:52 If you both could leave our audience with your best health tip advice, What would it be? Ooh, I just wanted to add one more thing about Paloova. Yes. I'm going to be track suits and T-shirts with the Palova logo. That's going to be kind of a juicy meets Adidas. Cute. Anyway, that'll be out soon, so I'll send you.
Starting point is 01:20:13 So just a backstory to this. When we met, I was a consultant for active sporting goods, sportswear company. And how long have you guys been married? Real quick. 33 years coming up. Congratulations. We've been together 35. Wow.
Starting point is 01:20:27 Good for you guys. I still like him. Carrie and her sister had a bodyware company. They were making some of the original sewn-in bra workout tights and things like that. Before anybody did it. Before anybody did. Yeah, yeah. This is literally back in 1987, 88.
Starting point is 01:20:43 And so we met at a trade show, at action sports retail, which is a big, Fleezier, sporting goods trade show in Long Beach in 19, I think 88 at the time. So that's when we met. So anyway, so now we come full. circle. And as we're launching this line of footwear, my son, who's my co-founder, Kyle and I are like, well, we need it, we need some branded, you know, wear to kind of complete the ensemble. And that's where Carrie comes in. And so she's drawing upon her old clothing design days. That is so cute. You guys have such a synergy going. Instead of asking you what your health tip is, what is the key to a
Starting point is 01:21:24 successful marriage? How about I leave you both of that? You can't look at each other. You go first. That would be my, my degrees in psychology. I would say treating your husband like a king. Good advice. Perfect advice. That's so much work. We can end it on there.
Starting point is 01:21:42 It's not happy, white, happy life. It's happy husband happy life. But she's right. So we've been through, we have been through some tough times, two in particular that almost broke us up. And each time we got back, we got back. we never really left, but we got back on track and it got better. And I think with couples, you see so often that it's so easy to go, oh, fuck it, I'm out, you know, I'm leaving and not working on it. And we know so many people who are our age who regret not having taken the
Starting point is 01:22:15 extra effort and extra step to work through it and fix it. Now, yeah, you have to have, the variables have to be there. You have to still be attracted to each other and you say, you know, money falls into play sometimes and there were a lot of, you know, children, there were a lot of issues that come into play. But at the end of the day, working through, you know, communication clearly, I mean, as Carrie would say, I was like, she got a degree in spiritual psychology about 15 years ago. And that sort of changed everything. But wait, I want to say something. A friend of mine, this really changed it for me. A friend of mine said a few years ago, she said, Carrie, you married a coach and a private trainer. you are now with a king.
Starting point is 01:22:59 You treat him like a coach and a private trainer. Treat him like the king he is. And I was like, oh, wow, that rings true. That's great advice. Wait, I want to know, I might go off on a tangent here, but I want to know why you getting a degree in spiritual psychology 15 years ago changed the game. What does that mean?
Starting point is 01:23:18 Explain more. Well, I learned to take responsibility for my upsets and not blame him on him. And I learned to... Oh, that's so hard. Like if I'm upset about... Here, I'm going to keep you around a little longer. If I'm upset about something he did, I'm only upset about the thoughts I'm telling myself about what he did. It's not really what he did.
Starting point is 01:23:41 Like if he forgot to, I don't know, open the door. Oh, he's not a gentleman. He's this. He's that. How could he do that? It's just, it's like what I'm thinking about him. And I remember one time I came home, my friends and I were talking about, oh, beautiful. beauty, beauty, this, that. I go, God, Mark never says I'm beautiful. I wonder if he thinks I'm not beautiful or he just doesn't voice his opinion. And so I came home and, you know, not being angry or anything, just asking him, do you not find me beautiful or do you just not say it? He's like, well,
Starting point is 01:24:14 I tell you how hot and sexy you are all the time. What do you mean? I go, oh, that's how you say, I'm beautiful because that's how you say you're attracted to me. Anyway, so the next week, I got flowers to the most beautiful girl in the world. And the next week, I got flowers, the most smoothie for three years until we left Malibu and moved to Miami. I got flowers every week. I have told you 15 times in a subtle way that I like Austin Flowers. I said Austin Flowers is really cute, giving you 600 hints and you just go, uh-huh, and change the subject about your hair line or something. You need to pay attention. I would like flowers once a week. I'm treated like a king and he'll give you flowers.
Starting point is 01:24:54 I treat him like a king, but I can't give it the whole. It's not full king. It's like 50% king. Well, let's see what happens with full. No, but I think, you know, like, I think what resonates true there, we haven't been together as long as you guys, but Lauren and I are committed to working. I mean, we've had, you know, we've been together now almost 20 years and we're, you know, but like we've had the ups and downs.
Starting point is 01:25:16 But I think we always get back to the point. We're committed to working through the issues. And even people are, actually, we see so many people kind of like throw away a good thing because they get. their egos bruised and they're not willing to sit down and like talk it through and communicate and meet on equal ground or come to the other side of the table. So what do you think though? You said you have a lot of couples friends that wish that they had stuck it out. Like when you see someone who's single later on in their life, what are other things that they wish they did? What are
Starting point is 01:25:42 things that you hear all the time? You have most of the single friends. Well, I think they they really don't think they chose wisely. I think a lot of women want to get married, but they don't think about staying married. And they just didn't have a good picker. They really, they sort of went with their emotion instead of going, what are the things that really work for me?
Starting point is 01:26:05 Or they just settled for what they could settle for because they wanted to check the box of being married. Yeah, or they were getting to that age. They wanted kids. You know, I told him after dating for six months, If we're not moving in the direction of getting married after a year of being together, I'm gone because I'm 33 and I want a family. He acted.
Starting point is 01:26:29 He ran. He would have run quicker if he had these shoes. No, but to her point, I mean, I'd been in several, you know, monogamous relationships that got to that point, but none of them ever went, none of them ever grabbed me by the lapels and go, look, motherfucker, we're like, we're going to like we're either going to do this or I'm out I was usually the one that was out so it was you know to her credit she's like yeah this is this is what it's going to be you guys all like a woman that knows what she wants let's be honest you guys all like you guys like a little dominance
Starting point is 01:27:00 you know you you really do I know Michael does that's not good I mean there's a lot of issues that I probably have to work through myself who doesn't like a strong confident woman no I personally I personally I mean like I wouldn't want to not be with some like that because I feel like it would just I would just kind of run through it, right? Yeah. For lack of better words. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:27:23 Run over it. Okay. Code Skinny. You guys go shop on P-E-L-U-V-A. Heluva.com. Haluva.com. You both are lovely. Where can everyone find you on social media personally
Starting point is 01:27:35 if they want to reach out to each of you? I'm Mark Sisson primal on Instagram. And follow them on Twitter too. Twitter's good. And then Carrie, what are you? Carrie Lynn Sisson. Perfect. You guys are great.
Starting point is 01:27:45 Come back anytime. We just got some marriage advice. I love having people on like subtly manipulate Michael with like the your beautiful flowers each week. And then it's like waiting for my flowers. And he started it up again last month in Miami. I'm waiting for my crown on my pillowcase. Thank you. Thank you for coming on.
Starting point is 01:28:04 Thank you so much. Mark was kind enough to do a giveaway with Poluva. We are giving away five pairs of Paluva shoes. All you have to do is follow at where Paluva and tag a friend on our latest post. You guys, on that note, I hope you love this episode. Go back and definitely listen to Mark on the skinny confidential him and her show. It tells his whole story about launching a primal kitchen. That is episode 208.
Starting point is 01:28:30 With that, we'll see you on Friday with a totally different kind of episode. So stay tuned. Quick pause on the show to talk about one of our new partners, one that I am so excited about Masterclass. Lauren and I have been huge fans of Masterclass for years now. We both actually take in multiple classes, which I'll share in a minute. But for those of you that are unfamiliar with Masterclass, let me share a little bit more. Masterclass is accessible anywhere you get your online content, your phone, your computer, the web, smart TV, basically everywhere.
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