The Bossticks - Sophia Stallone & Sistine Stallone - Dating In The Modern Age, Growing Up Stallone, How To Attract, & Dating App Issues

Episode Date: October 28, 2024

#769: Join us as we sit down with Sophia & Sistine Stallone – an iconic sister duo & hosts of the Unwaxed podcast. Growing up in a well-known family, they share insights on carrying the Stallone legacy as daughters of Sylvester & Jennifer Stallone. In this episode, Sophia & Sistine open up about their experience in the spotlight, their journey as sisters navigating their twenties, & get real with modern day dating realities!  To connect with Sophia Stallone click HERE To connect with Sistine Stallone click HERE  To connect with Lauryn Bosstick click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE To Watch the Show click HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) This episode is brought to you by The Skinny Confidential Head to the HIM & HER Show ShopMy page HERE to find all of Michael and Lauryn's favorite products mentioned on their latest episodes. Visit shopskinnyconfidential.com to learn more about The Skinny Confidential Non-Toxic Beauty Candle. This episode is sponsored by Good Ranchers Use code SKINNY at GoodRanchers.com to claim this Presidential Promo worth up to $1200 and bring 100% American meat to your family meals. This episode is sponsored by Farmacy Beauty Visit farmacybeauty.com and use code SKINNY for 20% off your order. This episode is sponsored by Cymbiotika    Go to cymbiotika.com/theskinny and use code SKINNY to save 15% off on your subscription order. This episode is sponsored by LMNT Get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at drinklmnt.com/SKINNY. This episode is sponsored by Masa Chips Just visit masachips.com and use code SKINNY at checkout for 20% off your first order. This episode is sponsored by SquareSpace Head to squarespace.com/SKINNY to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code SKINNY. Produced by Dear Media  

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Skinny Confidential, him and her. And I think the biggest thing was that my mom's like, be confident in yourself and your own life, but you don't have to feel like you need to act a certain way to make people believe that you are that. Like, just be that. If you're already satisfied with your family, your friends, yourself, your career,

you're not going to feel like you need to judge or treat anyone poorly. What's the saying they say, the super wealthy? You don't even know they're wealthy. And then the ones who aren't as wealthy, they flaunt the most of their wealth. It's sort of the same thing.

Oh my God, we have the Stallone sisters, Sistine and Sophia on the show today. We went to New York City and had the best time interviewing them. This is a super thoughtful, fun discussion that's real. It's just a real conversation. I personally really enjoyed them. I think that they're so down to earth, especially given the family that they come from. It's so refreshing to meet them in person. I'm inspired by them as a mother.

I wanted like their parents' tips. I wanted to hear their experience. I just wanted to hear all the different layers of what it was like growing up as a Stallone. I also do want to say I was incredibly impressed by both of their resumes. They're intelligent, they're curious, they're readers, their writers, and I think you guys will really enjoy getting to know them. They're also the co-host of Unwaxed Podcast.

With that, welcome to the show, Sophia and Sistine Stiller. This is the skinny confidential, him and her. Taylor is very excited for this one. He was wearing a gray trench yesterday, and he tested it out. He tested the waters. But I told him for you guys, he should wear something different. So this is a pre-planned look. What do you guys?

What would you rate it? It's definitely different. And it's a little bit of ironing. You know what I don't? I don't love a man with a lot of patterns on a shirt like that. Another miss. Another day. But you guys, just keep it simple.

That's the secret. That is the secret. Michael's keeping it simple. Michael's really into Navy right now because I told him Navy was school. I love Navy. Lauren thinks she discovered the colored Navy. I get. It's insane.

I honestly think you're rebooting it. I'm rebooting me. It's true. What is the saying Navy is the black of the wealthy? Is it? Yes. She's thinking that she can't wear black. I love black.

I wear black all the time. And now he's like, so wealthy people don't wear black they wear navy. Yes. It is given old money. Apparently. It's insane to me that she thinks that she discovered navy.

I'm like, this is like one of the most common colors. I don't see it a lot. Come on, guys. I don't either. It's great. Navy's amazing. I just got a Navy phone color.

Welcome to the show. Thank you. Thank you. We're so excited to have both of you guys here. We've wanted to interview you for a while. Yeah. Well, same. I cannot believe we're actually sitting here

because we go back a little bit. Yes. But you guys were just the podcast that was our Mecca, our God. Like we looked up to you guys when we were starting our show. So it's really crazy to be. Yeah, it's a little circle. How long ago did you guys start your show? Oh, God, four years ago.

2020. Yeah, it was really during COVID. We had this idea. I had this idea. I wanted to interview authors and all these very serious people. Boring. And then so she came in and it kept saying boring until the point where locking down with her was the only other option was to have her on the show.

Well, Sophia, you need me. I do need each other. I'm not going to lie. She definitely balances me out. Yeah. I'm more of the serious older sister and she gives off like the young fun vibe. How many years different? 28 and 26 of two years. Yeah. One thing that strikes me is so interesting about both you guys is you seem like really hard workers who are willing to put in the reps. And I feel like you guys almost, you know, both of your parents, you could sit back and sort of relax a little bit and you don't. Is that instilled in you from a young age from both of your parents to be so disciplined? Absolutely. We definitely. We definitely. have a lot to prove, I think, with the name that we were born into. And Sophie and I always say, we were so lucky, and we are so lucky to be given this beautiful, amazing life. And parents that are such hard workers and put so much into raising us, that it would be such a waste if we didn't do something, at least to make them proud and show them that we work for. So we feel kind of in debt to make sure that they know what they've done is actually paying off, like all of our education,

all the time spent with us. And also having two parents. My mom is also one, a second, didn't grow up with a dad. She had nothing and made a huge skincare company when she was 26. I made a billion dollars in sales. So we've had two very ambitious, hardworking from the ground up parents. And I think that was also very different in comparison to a lot of kids. I think that were kind of raised sometimes with money where our parents are like, you have to understand. You have to earn it. You can't say you're no pleases and thank you. You have to be courteous. So we're very much heading in terms of when it comes to career. We're very, very, very passionate about it. Yeah. wrong. I think if my daughter Zaza grew up like you guys, and I told you this at dinner too, I would be so happy. So I'm really interested in the things that your parents did to make you guys like this. Like when you go, when you look back when you're really young, besides like manners and the obvious things, what are things that you look back on and you're like, oh my God, I'm so happy my parents did this. Oh my God. I think it's really important to have a good balance. Yeah.

My dad was super funny, super goofy. He kind of felt like another sibling a lot of the time. Like he wasn't very strict on homework or school or anything like that. The only thing he was very strict on was boyfriends and curfew. My mom was the military leader in the household. She was making sure every single night for the last 20 years, 5.30 dinner. Homework, I mean, it was a lot to try to keep us well-rounded with like the sports and this and that. But looking back on my child, that it was very fun.

But I will say it was a lot of routine. I would say the biggest thing that they did for us was my parents are in the industry. And I think a lot of young kids, when they have parents that are in the industry, they end up going into it very early. They kept us pretty much under wraps until we were 18 or even going to college. Like, I didn't really start this until I graduated. And I think having dinner every single night together at 5 o'clock, being super open and vulnerable about everything. Like, we talk to our dads about boys, especially we talk to our mom about boys. And I think having that very big transparency with each other and honesty and keeping tabs is been the biggest help for us, honestly.

What was the routine? Like, okay, what do you mean? There's two routine. Yeah, there's a sly routine. Sly routine. And a Jennifer routine. I want to hear each routine. Sly's is, I don't even know if there's a word to describe how unusual it was.

I won't, we'll get into diet after, but I'm not kidding when I say this. Literally. We would wake up before school. He'd probably wake us up around 6 a.m. Maybe like 5.45 in the morning. And we're like in second, third, fourth grade. Did he ever wake you up to the Rocky soundtrack? No, but he would come in our room and do the loudest rooster noise on the top of his lungs.

Yeah, scream. It was awful. And then he would make us do clean and jerks with like a bar. Oh, that's rad. Yeah, we would do. I'm not getting some inspiration here. I'm going to start proling like a rooster and making a little of clean. We had a six-pack when we were in third grade.

We did clean and jerks. We would have to throw a shot put. Yeah, 12 push-ups, 12 sit-ups, eggs with, what was it, ketchup. Cetsup. Disgusting. We had to do a pool table a little bit, run outside. This is all before school, I swear to God, for five years. And then when we got home from school, it was we had to read for an hour into a tape recorder every single day.

And we tried to hack the system, and we got caught. So he does listen. Why tape recorder? So that you could prove to him that. And he really wanted us to enunciate because he was born with a, So he wanted us to really use our voice. And we'd have to recite like Edgar Allan Poe in fifth grade. Like it was so ridiculous. But yeah, I think those are kind of cool flexes to have now. Yeah, I think it was after the fact now getting older, I respected a lot because it's made me a

very disciplined person. But it was at the time we hated it. But I think a lot of the things we do well today are because they really told us, we have to read out loud. Now we are very chatty. We can come back and be sharp-wooded. We are super active. It's funny because, my dad, you would not expect him to like love having daughters, but he loves being a total girl dad. And, you know, him just wanting us to be professional shot putters is I feel like such a male random thing to do. I could see him loving having daughters. I mean, listen, we were joking when we went to dinner about, you know, guys and dating you and with the, I imagine, I mean, your dad is one of the poster people for masculinity. Like, it might be nice to have some feminine energy. I mean, he's Rambo.

Yeah, but super masculine men are so confident and so comfortable with themselves like him that I feel like it makes sense to me that he loves having daughters. And I have to say something, my mouth tape is stuck to the bottom of your shoe. So could you put on stick? It's ridiculous. She leaves these things around the bedroom. The best thing in the world, it's changed everything. I know it's about it.

That's really funny. But I can, but I think that because he is so masculine, there's probably a confidence that comes along with that. The daughter thing makes sense to me. Yeah, and I also think him being an artist makes him emotionally available for, you know, speaking with his daughters about deeper things. You know, he is a macho man on screen, but to be on screen, you have to be a bit artistic. And I think that was another really fun side of him was having this very macho father,

but who would make us do sit-ups and push-ups. But then he was very artistic where he would teach us about Agrell and Poe. We would sit every Sunday night watching films from back in the day, and he would dissect it from directing to producing to editing to music. And it really made us like love this industry. And that's why people are like, why do you want to follow? The best thing about having daughters is they don't shut up. Because, you know, when a boy gets to a certain age, how is school?

Fine. Was it fun? It was okay. He's like daughters. They'll just talk to you about, oh my God, I chipped my nail. And then Becky told me, and he loves it. He loves the drama. Oh, he likes the juice. Oh, he loves it. He calls sweat dates. He wants to stay home with a book and be left alone, but this guy loves the juice.

I like to know what's going on. Exactly. You guys have a similarity. What's the Jennifer routine? Oh my gosh. My mom, honestly, we always say, like, if I could be half the mother that she was to us, I would be so happy. I don't know how she had her, I don't know how she had that many hours in the day to do everything. She was always carpool, drop off pickup, ruin mom, always showed up.

I mean, we'd have volleyball practice from school like four to six. And then we'd go to another club eight to ten. And she was always there. And she was out of town every month shooting her, um, HSN for her, what was it, her skincare line. She would drive us to school every day. She was room mom. She was so involved to the point where I only think there was a moment growing up where she wasn't there.

And how did she travel and then also show up like that? She, I'm having like, like, I know. She was gone once a month and she would just like book out work. she always worked from home. There's an office, but she stayed home if she had the option. And she just, anytime she was home, she was there 100% of the time. And there would just be like five days in the middle where she wouldn't be there. But she'd call every single morning, every single night, call throughout the day. She really did sacrifice us until we were probably 20, like her own life, because she just poured so much into us. And now she's sort of in this mode

of rediscovering what her life looks like without kids. Which is probably almost kind of a little bit of a mind fuck. Yeah, she bought three cavaboos and were. placement of all three daughters. Every time one moved out, she bought a new dog. Yeah. Oh, I thought, I thought this was like a cow. No, she would love to get a cow. No, she bought three dogs. Three different dogs. Okay, so each time you guys moved out, she got a dog. Yeah. Got it. First them and take care of them like their own children. I mean, that's actually pretty genius. It is. She's obsessed with them. She loves them as much as she loved the house. How did you guys manage to stay so grounded around the celebrity culture of L.A. and Malibu? And I asked you this at dinner, too. It's so interesting to me because you, you almost

like would expect you guys to be a certain way. Yeah. And you're not. Right. And it's like, it's, it's kind of like shocking the way you guys grew up. I don't know if it was because we're nerdy growing up. I was just going to say, that's I really think what it was. Truthfully, we weren't we weren't invited. Yeah. Why wouldn't they invite you? Because we never went out. I would have invited you. No, no. No, I thought we were cool. Honestly, we weren't ever mingling with the other celebrity kids. Like, we honestly just stayed home, did home work. It was honestly, I think staying home so much. I I think it was on the family forcing us to be together as a family with sisters. My mom every day would say, this is your best friend and that's it.

If you want to trust someone 100%, it's going to be your partner and your sister, and that's it. And I think growing up, I never felt like I needed to be in the crowd because I was so fulfilled otherwise. And so I do think that that was a big thing is that when these kids are growing up with things. We were never tempted to do the drugs and the drinking. But we were never given so much things like the biggest best diamond bracelets that these kids would be. We would come to school. We wear the same jeans.

and kids would be like, oh, are you wearing the same jeans as last week? In ninth grade. And it was just baffling. And I think that's the problem is that they were noticing the wrong things. And we just were so oblivious. We just knew life was going to get better as we get older with friends and everything. Yeah. Yeah.

It's pretty cool that she instilled that you guys are all best friends. Are you also best friends with your other sister? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, my gosh. It's just different dynamic. It's six years apart from me. What's the dynamics?

She's like the little Tasmanian devil. Yeah. She's the youngest one. that causes the most trouble. But trouble in a way where she's not doing anything more concerned about her. But she really is the contrarian. Like if we're all saying we're wearing white today, she'll purposely show up in black. Like she just likes to be a little bit different. She's a Gemini. She's a little bit spunky that one. She's a boyfriend. I would say I'm more of them like the boyfriend. We love her boyfriend. Actually, Sly loves the boyfriend. He never likes

her boyfriend. He's never called any of our boyfriends before in the past. He's calling him, asking for advice. What is it like when your dad doesn't like the boy? boyfriend. I feel bad for the boyfriend. It's a daily reminder about what he doesn't like. He'll say one joke about him and he'll be just like nagging it over and over. Sometimes he'll call me and be like, did you dump him yet? I mean, listen, in these guys' defenses, that's a, that's an intense potential father-in-law to. Oh, it is. That's not a, you know. That's a lot of pressure. It is a lot of pressure. Yeah, that's a pressure. Our favorite story is Sophia's first boyfriend from high school, came over to meet the family for the first time. And he went up to shake Slie's hand. And my dad grabbed his hand,

pulled him in and said, next time, shake my hand like a man. Oh, geez. And I wanted to kill him. Because I'm the old. It was awful. And by the way, from then on out, every single day, he would grab my dad's hand. He would grab my hand just to practice. I mean, we're not together and more clearly.

Yeah, but I feel like a guy that's going to be with one of you and potentially enter the family. Like, it's almost like trial by fire. Like they kind of, in order to get the respect of everybody in the family. Yes. I'm curious why he likes your younger sister's boyfriend so much and why he doesn't like your other boyfriends. Is there something? Is there a confidence situation? I think it's a confidence thing. It is honestly a confident thing. He's what, 21 years old, but he's more confident and more of a man than any guy I've ever brought home. He shows up and he has facts. He's really smart. He's worldly. Yeah, and he also helps out. He kind of satisfies all five of us in the family because I think we all require a different thing.

Like my dad wants someone to talk about sports and art. My mom. mom wants someone that just like offers to help clean the dishes and super sweet the daughters. So you want someone funny. I want someone that's deep. And Scarlett, who knows. But it's, I feel like he's been able to tackle all four of us, five of us that we've all just adopted him to the family. Do you know what would be a red flag for me if I was one of you guys?

I don't know. If a guy took me on a date and you, your dad, mom come up and they pretend like they don't know who it is. No, we talked about this at dinner, right? I know. I think we did talk about it. They actually bring them up more. And that's when it goes downhill. I've had both the pretending to not know.

I can't. And then they're like, wait, what? And then the other. What was the thing you said? It's like either they pretend they don't know who he is, which is insane because it's like that's... I mean, you met me on Hinge. Like, you know. Come on.

And also, you looked at me on Instagram. Exactly. Exactly. Like, Sistine is a pretty unique name. I think you can find that online very easily. Or they start rattling off like movie facts and timelines. That's wild too. Yeah.

What do you mean movie facts in him? Well, they'll just go. on and on. I went to dinner with one guy. So much potential. Such an idiot. Yeah. He, he the whole time didn't ask me one question and then told me my dad's entire like underdog story as if I don't already know it. And I was like, yeah, I know. Yes, I know. And it was just painful. But you know what it is is that we we totally understand and respect people for loving him. Like we love the fact that people love him. And we love him. Like we obviously he's given us the life that we've had. But, you know, when we're trying to find a partner, especially as we get older, it's been just so hard to find

someone that isn't intimidated of him, but also of us. It's a weird thing because, I mean, he's our dad, but to everyone else, he's an icon, he's a hero, whatever it is. So when someone brings up our dad on a date, it's just our dad. It's not like I'm asking, like, what is your dad's a dentist? Tell me about that. Like, it's never the same. But we have to always remind ourselves that, okay, they're just a fan. Yeah, exactly. It's fine. So what's the right move then? The right move is to just be normal. normal. It's being normal. You can't say anything? Well, no, like, if it comes up, we love talking about it. But not in the first state, I think. I think in the first state, try. I mean, you can, if it comes up, have it be a natural reason for why it came up. Like, it's just weird when they go, so like, what's it like, like that? Then I feel like you're a fanboy over him. It's like a brief acknowledgement of like, hey, let's get this out of the way and now get back to you. Taylor's fingers are typing. Taylor. Oh, he's trying to play. Oh, you're the red flag. It's. you. You're the red flag. It's you. Well, Sly will definitely not like you now. Yeah. I'm sure you are.

You're one big walking red flag, Taylor. Yeah, Taylor's a walking red flag. I am so intrigued as an entrepreneur and a mother by the way that your mother raised you. I think that she was able to balance both really well. What tips have you guys picked up from not your dad, but her? Well, my mom always said when she was raising us the best advice you can give any parent is just to always be there. And that's all that kids need. It's just like time and energy and affection and love. And like that I think really helped us grow up and helped us realize that there's going to be mean people in the world. I remember your halled your daughter. She's four. She's four. So like by the time we were eight or nine, we started to get bullied really bad. And I think just having that comfort of knowing that like she will

always have your back was really helpful in terms of career-wise. She gives a lot of really good career advice. Well, I think it's always be the first to show up, be the last sleep. But I think my mom's biggest thing was that everyone's here isn't working for you. Like everyone's a person. Be always so humble, so kindly. Don't think that you're ever going to be better than anyone else. I think a lot of people in the industry have a hard time remembering like you came from somewhere. You are a person just like everybody else in this room. And I think that's why we've ended up growing the way we did was because we don't think we're better than anybody else. My mom always said this to us,

and I think it's hysterical because people can't really wrap their head around it. She always says, you're not special. That sounds like your mom. But she goes, you're not special. Mom tells me every day. Right? But she goes, but listen, you're special to me,

your dad, your siblings, some of your friends, but to the world, you're not special. So do not act like you deserve more or entitled to more, can treat people any sort of way because everyone's unequal here. I mean, I think that's very, very important advice. I will tell you one of the biggest celebrities we'd ever have on this podcast was Michelle Pfeiffer.

And the way she came on was so down to earth. She was alone. She wasn't wearing a ton of makeup. Kind. Low-key, kind. Treated everyone well. And then you get someone else who's nowhere near her level of fame. And it's like they show up with 15 people.

And it's like there's like the hair, the makeup, the PR, the publicist. and there's like this air where they don't even acknowledge the producers, they don't say hello. And it's just the just deposition of it is just so wild. Yeah. They're trying to fulfill something that they lack. And I think the biggest thing was that my mom's like, be confident in yourself and your own life. But you don't have to feel like you need to act a certain way to make people believe that you are that. Like just be that.

If you're already satisfied with your family, your friends, yourself, your career, you're not going to feel like you need to judge or treat anyone poorly. That's the saying they say the super wealthy. You don't even know they're wealthy. And then the ones who aren't as wealthy, they flaunt the most their wealth. It's sort of the same thing. And they were Navy. Also. And they were Navy.

You never know how far people are going to go. Caitlin Jenner, who at the time was Bruce Jenner. When she told us the story on the show, she was telling the story about how she would check into the hotel. And there was a Belman that would help Bruce at the time every day or every time he was there. and would always treat the bellman nice and, you know, had a good rapport with person. But that bellman turned into Bob Eiger. So it's like, you never know how far people go. And you think that someone that is maybe quote unquote beneath you or help.

So you never know, like you just got to treat everybody well along the way. Isn't it just easier to just be cool to everybody? I don't understand like you're going to go out of your way. It's like it's giving insecure. Yeah. And that's why when we used to get bullied growing up a lot as kids, we never honestly took it personally. Why did people bully you? We were, okay, because Sistine and I really weren't

cool. Growing up, I was pretty much a loner. I was a nerd. I was an uggo. I was a big re- I was not a looker. I was not a looker. We were very, we're awkward. We definitely had an awkward face. We were just, we were just quirky. And so I would be hiding the library. We would have people literally walk up and leave the table. Sissan's had someone throw paint on her when she, like, because I don't remember what the reason.

Because I had new white jeans on. Yeah. Are you sure it's not that people were jealous of the way you looked or your family. I promise. I was going so bad to the point where the school was like, I actually want to suspend these kids, but the parents are too high of donors. So we think you should leave. So that's why- These people that are known, like celebrity, actually ironically, yeah. What are their names? But what sad was that I never grew up ever feeling horrible about myself, worse about myself. It took it personally because my mom always said, it's not the kids, it's parents. And so she always reminded me when I got home, she goes, think about how hard it is

probably in their own house that they have to be so mean to someone else outside of it. And I think growing up, that's why we did end up being the way we were because we realize how important it is to keep such love and deepness within the home. I don't know what I'm going to do if one of our kids gets bullied. Oh, well, that's why Sly taught us how to fight. He said when they hit, you hit harder. Yeah. He did teach us out a punch for that reason. So my mom said don't, but my dad said punch next time they do it. I'm going to say do it. I think next time I actually always said I wish I did. He probably wouldn't even care if he goes suspended. I'd probably have to go beat up the person's father

just to be like, listen, I can't, you know. Sometimes the parents are even as proud as the kids. They're scary. A girl punched me in the face in high school, and I punched her right back and knocked her on the ass. And she was two grades older than me, and guess what? That's true. That's what you got to do.

Sometimes you really got to. Yeah. She was keying my car. She was riding shit on my car. You bought your car key, too. It's awesome. No, I remember in college someone was kind of bullying me, and it was the first time I ever really.

for myself because I'm not confrontational at all. I remember I chewed this girl out and she never ever came up to me, disrespect me. She actually said, I respect you. I've said it on this show a few times and you know, the headline will be we're advocating violence here, which I think, I think, you know, people have lost the art of getting punched in the face. I think the reason people are so mouthy these days is because most of people don't realize that that's a reality that can happen. You know, I couldn't agree more. And sometimes that is as weird as it sounds, a quality that I look for in a partner. Someone that can take a hit. Yeah, when I was a kid, like, you know, if you pop off the wrong way, someone's getting hit.

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Oh, I agree. Let's do it. Yeah. Let's do it. Sophia go for it. Okay. So put it out there in the ether. Your list is working. The show is going to work. It's magic. Someone that is, am I talking physically or both? Okay. Let it rip. Someone that is taller than me. Okay. That is very ambitious and proud of their career. That feels very confident and fulfilled in themselves, that they just want to have me there to make their life even better. Someone that's kind and lawyer and also conscientiousness. Like I would love someone that if I don't remember something, they would just do it for me. Like they just, like, I want to get her coffee. You might need to be a lesbian. Oh, no.

That is so not Sophia. Good luck fighting that one, but keep going. See, am I choosing like the perfect person right now? Go ahead. Keep going. Wait, I thought this is my list. You can do it. Don't interrupt.

No, they don't exist, but go out there. Well, someone that if I'm like, if they just bring coffee the morning. It's been 10 years and he just started having you like yesterday. Go ahead. I just required a little training. Also, someone that's fun. guess someone that's funny. They don't need to be the loudest person in the room, but I need humor. But it can be sharp humor. It can be like they look at something and they'll make fun of it.

It doesn't have to be a stand-up humor. It's just they're so funny and they're so smart. I think it's the intelligence I need. Like witty. Yeah. Yeah, I need someone that's so intelligent that they're very humorous about everything in life. Well, I always say like if someone's funny and can make a room laugh, they're actually the smartest person in the room. Yeah. Because that's hard to do and a lot of people can't do that. I mean, I would say a few similarities. For me, I just want like a man. I want like a real man. I feel like I've been dating a lot since I've lived here. And just the art of chasing does not exist anymore. The art of proper courting a woman does not exist anymore. And I just want to feel like like a girl feminine. I want to feel like the feminine energy, not the masculine energy. And I'll tell you this. I want to feel like if he has me, his eyes aren't wandering if there's something better. I wanted to be like, whoa, you are it. That's fucking. amazing and that's it. You know what I want? My type of guy? Call me back. That's all I want. They call you back. I'm actually writing a book about a lot of the things that you just said.

And the energy, I think, to give off to get that, because it is rare, but it's out there, is you are lucky to be in my presence. I'm too humble. I'm like, you have to get that energy off that they're so lucky to be in your presence. And I still, we've known each other since we were 12, give off that energy. Like, if you go away from me, like you don't get access to this. Yes. You don't get access to this personality.

You don't get access to these boobs. You don't get access to this witty, funny, charming personality. You go, like, you have to go find it somewhere else. Because they are lucky to be in your presence. Well, I do think men. I know. It's true. And like the hunt.

But I think sometimes... Too much soy. The hard keeps saying is too much soy. But people are getting... Do not drink soy. Look if you're a guy. Yeah. There's a, there's a, like a, it's interesting.

I mean, we're, we're not going to put anyone on blast, but we, we were talking about you in particular and a guy that you went on a few dates with. Yes. Be careful here. And I was just like, blew it, man. Like, but I think like, I think maybe, especially with you two in particular, people are like trying to kind of play it cool and not be too hungry and not be too thirsty about it. I'll tell you off air, my assessment. It's actually, I, I agree that, that, uh, that men need to hunt. and women want to be hunted. And I don't, not everyone's going to like that in this day and age,

but I have not ever met a woman that I've talked to one on one that does not want to be hunted and desire. Okay. I said this on our podcast and we got a lot of hate for it, but I don't care because I believe it. You don't have to agree. I said, men are born hunter gatherers. They are literally the lion looking for prey. And if you're just the gazelle that walks into his mouth, he's not going want it because he didn't have to work for it. He didn't have to try for it. There's no effort that he had to put in. And I want to be a sprinting gazelle. I don't want to walk right in there. And this is the thing. I have to say that Sistine and I were very masculine in our career. So we're very much someone that loves to be go-getters. We love to plan things. We are the loudest,

usually in the room with our friends. We have the most jokes. We like to just hold an audience. But when it comes a relationship, we want that to be taken away from us and have a guy be in control. And so I think that's been the hardest part is a lot of these guys that we go on dates with, they forget the balance and the dynamic and they kind of give it to us. And unfortunately, it's easy for us to take it. Let me ask you guys this, because we, my mom said that we're too much on dates. Like, we talk too much. I thought you were great. We're too assertive. Thank you. I thought you were great. Thank you. I will say that I, we three need to go for a drink one time because I really, really relate to you guys. I'm obviously older than you guys,

but I am so masculine in my career. Yeah. But if you saw me at home, which a lot of people don't because I don't post it on social media all the time I am a mother I'm like in my soft romantic I like the house a certain way like I want to be sort of like a homemaker without the cooking if one more organizing bin shows up

from Amazon I'm gonna lose my shit and it's funny because yesterday Daniel Bernstein came on and she is super masculine in her career with We War What and she said the same thing that you guys said she said she wants to feel feminine by a man and I think you guys are right and you nailed it,

that the man thinks because you're so masculine in your career that you don't need the femininity. Well, no, okay. Maybe I was like the only guy in the room, I might say something. I would love to hear from the other. I think it's a rare pool of men that are able to be confident around women as successful as the three of you, right? Because the dynamic, if you just think about historical dynamics,

a lot of men are used to growing up in households where the man is the breadwinner and the woman is, is at home and that's obviously changed and great that it has. But I think the dynamic of dating any of you is like if they are not maybe as far along as you are in your careers, like that and also the family have. I think it's it takes a very confident, self-assured guy to enter into that world and be okay with that situation. Yeah. Not saying they don't exist, but it's rare. And I think the guys that I know in my life sometimes struggle with that dynamic as they start to be with women that have had the success. You know. And I think,

the Adelaire of being a Stallone was another huge obstacle we've had to overcome because it's not only that are we very passionate about our career and we have this very masculine energy in our work, they also are very intimidated by the blur of a Stallone. And I think also the fact that we have that as our backing, they go, oh, like, not only is she like known and her father's famous, so she also works a lot. And so it's been hard to find someone that doesn't take that into consideration go, okay, I, I, I can't handle her because she's too much. Like, oh, I want to bring her into my life because it's so exciting. And I'll tell you, the problem is right now we're very happy being, I'm not going to say very happy. But we are. No, we are very satisfied being in our life right now.

But the problem is people keep saying, you guys don't need a partner because you'll just marry each other. Yeah, we're very good. We've become so codependent and yet so independent in our own ways that we almost are struggling with the idea of letting someone in and kind of messing up the routine that we have been doing. It's got to be the right person. You're not going to settle. I will tell you, though, if take away your parents, like pretend your parents don't exist. You guys are just as impressive without your parents alone. Like, like, I think that, I'm sure guys make it an issue. But I think that that's what you guys should also lead with.

You're just as impressive without your, it's not like you're sort of riding on their coattails. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, no, I really appreciate it. This sounds. Yeah, I wasn't even making a comment about the family as much as just you as two successful women, a lot, you know, being public, having, like, doing what you do. I think a lot of, it just, it's going to filter out a lot of guys that aren't confident enough to deal with women in your situation. 100%. I think that if I were you guys right now, I would, this is really weird,

I would look for a guy that has a really strong, maybe entrepreneurial, go get our mother. Older. That's a really good point. Because then he's used to that kind of woman. You guys are used to seeing a dynamic where your mom was at home and there was this beautiful balance, but she was also super entrepreneurial. So that's very natural for you. But I think if you date someone, you got to find the guy who has had this strong mother figure that has done her own thing. Because then the guy is used to that. Because if you get a guy where maybe the mother was not as strong in her career, there might be a little bit of a pushback. I'm just going to say it bluntly.

You can't date a guy that was babyed by his mother his whole life. And by way, we have. We did their friends. And I think that was probably the worst thing we decided to do. Dating best friends? Yeah, that was pretty awful. That was one bad thing. But they were very close. And this is not a bad thing. Close to their mothers. But their moms basically still ran their life as an adult. Well, I'm going to breastfeed my son until I'm, he's about 35. So I think they're still breastfeeding their mothers. Yeah. They didn't cut the umbilical cord. No, it's so attached. No. I see it. Yeah. I think a lot of the influence on our relationship was through the mom. Mm-hmm. You could look at the mom. Yeah. I'm telling you. That's my time. That's my hot take. What does a day in the life look like with you guys running your businesses? Tell us the behind the scenes. Oh, interesting. So we normally start in the morning with editing our podcast. And if we're not shooting an episode later during the day, I, Sophie and I have like separate endeavors and the ones that we have together. Right now we're creating something. I can't say just yet, but we're creating something bigger than our podcast based off of our podcast. So we're doing a lot of pitches and work with that. On the side, I like to write horror movie scripts. So I'm enjoying that.

And then as a hobby, I like to sew. So that I'll sew. Yeah. That's so cute. So other than the podcast and what she explained, I just finished my first romance novel. She finished her book. So I'm a big, I have my own book club. Congratulations.

Thank you. So I have my own book club and I've been running it for three years. I want to be in your book club. Thank you. It's actually really good. So people can decide what they want to read. And then I've always wanted to be an actual author. And so I just signed with my first.

agent. So I'm yeah, hopefully that works out. Congratulations. So what's really fun about this period of our life is not only are we getting to do all these really crazy exciting things to our podcast, the book, the script, but it's just the start of it. And we're always constantly thinking of new things to do. And we're constantly reinventing and changing it up. And I think that's why we're so happy where we're at in our life right now is because this is the most fun part is like developing it and building it and growing it. It's funny because if you look at your dad, people would say, oh, he's a movie star. He's creative like you too. Yeah. He's super cool. He's a writer too. It makes sense that you guys are doing what you're doing. I'll tell you right now.

Tell us. All right, here we go. How much time do you know? Let me pull out my... No, but that's interesting that you guys are doing that. It's very much, it makes sense. Like, I don't think people maybe see you, and you mentioned earlier about he was looking at the directing. He's creative. He's really, everything in our house even growing up was just so artistic. Yeah. Everything was artistic. For you guys to write, makes total sense. Yeah, it made sense. I mean, he always tells us being a writer's the worst job you can ever do because we would watch him sit in his office for eight hours a day from like two to nine a.m. or later or earlier. I used to come home from school and then do our homework on the editing room floors. Yeah. So we were always around it. Yeah. But there is, again, like some added pressure of

okay, you're trying to do what your father did, but have it in a way that isn't judged based off of who your dad is. And that's kind of a tough thing to do. But I feel like finally we're earning some respect for people. But it's different. Like, he doesn't write horror scripts. Like, Stasian's a huge horror movie fan. Like, I'm a, that's why we work. We're ying and yay.

I'm like a romance person. What's the best horror movie? Well, that's so subjective. It depends. Like, I don't like, I like things that are realistic, scary. Like an actual murder. Like Saw? No.

Saw's cute. Oh, cute. No, no, cute's the wrong word. Saw's good. But see, I have. No, after the seventh one, I was like, okay, we need something. I can't even.

The one where they fell into the needles, scared me more than anything's ever scared me. That's why I'll never do acupuncture. Is that final destination? Oh. I think like the floor open. There was the floor that. I don't know. I'll never forget that. That was scary. They literally fell into a vat of like youths. Why do you guys like this stuff? I don't know. I'll tell you right. I like.

I like to romanticize everything. No. When I watch a comedy, I don't really laugh. When I watch a rom-com, I don't really feel anything. At least with horror, I'm like, ooh. Well, that's different for me. Like, that's her escapism. Mine is watching someone fall in love. I'm like, oh, life can be so beautiful. So different.

Yeah. How dare you charge into this interview? I love the old ones. I mean, my dad, like, he grew up, he showed me silence the lambs. But is that like a horror? No, but I'll tell you, it's not scary, but cinematically, it's really good. And, like, I love just the simplicity of, like, a Blair Witch project, where it took nothing to make, but it's you're terrified. I'm trying to think new horror.

You like your cortisol raised and then you like to sew. That's very different. scary when it came out because they market it in a way. Remember, when we were younger, at least, I had to date myself too much, they like didn't tell you that it was a movie. They kind of almost acted like it really happened. I was freaky when that happened. That's what I love. What's your favorite romance novel? That's so tough. I mean, lately I've been just obsessed with Pride and Prejudice, but one of my favorite romance movies that's so random, but we love country strong. Like I do you remember that one with Gwyneth Paltrow? I've never seen it. Oh,

that one's a really good one. She sings country music with Liedie Lyser and gorgeous. Yeah. The King, gorgeous. That one's really good. I love also. I'm a huge oldies fan. Like, I'll watch How to Catch a Thief. I love singing in the rain. I love, I'm trying to think of the one I just watched recently.

But yeah, I just like anything involving just simple romance. Do you guys play tennis? No, but I think we need to learn. Okay. We play golf. You play golf. Maybe you need to date a guy a little bit older. Like an older soul.

By the way, everyone has always told me to, I'm an old soul. Yeah, I know. I think that you need maybe like a 37-year-old. I would go as old as 45. Like that's because I'm 28. I'm 29 next year. And so I don't mind. My parents are 22 year age gap. So we're pretty used to an older guy around us. And this is not daddy issue thing. But I just, I just, I feel like I respect them more because they just have their life more figured out. And I think that with my mental mature, even her, like she should date a little bit older as well. And there's no 27 year old that's going to give me what I need. No. You guys have a mature energy. Also, I was saying, Lauren and I, you guys are younger than us, but we were the kind of last generation to grow up without phones, smartphones. We never even were on the dating apps.

We missed that whole. So nice. Lucky you. But I think like guys, my age and older, same thing. And so what you're describing is maybe a person that kind of thinks with a little bit more mature way. Because I didn't start having Instagram until I was in 10th grade in high school. Like that, which was so cool because even then it took a couple more years. for it to even become what it is today.

So yeah, definitely someone that has been disconnected to that. It's weird because, as you're saying with the dating apps, you'll go on a great date with a guy, thinks it went fantastic. He's going to go home the night. And just in case, he'll check Hinge or Raya if there's something better. And that's the problem. The amount of times we've been with guys.

My mom says this issue, she's like, there's always going to be someone younger, prettier, more his type, more blonde, whatever it is. And I'm like, damn. But it's funny because most of my friends are now engaged or married and some of kids. And it's been very interesting. and also, I've questioned a lot, even just becoming older and working. And am I doing it wrong? Am I supposed to be at a certain place in my life? I'm constantly, like, Sistine and I are always

thinking, like, are we behind? But I feel very behind. I'm really happy that I've waited this long and I'm willing to wait even more. I'm even like starting a little bit more of a fertility journey, just thinking about like that as an option just because I don't ever want to sacrifice something that I find so important, which is like I want to be like a homemaker. I want to have a family. I want have kids, but I want to find the right person to do that with. So I'm, like, it's a very, it's, I think turning 28 has been probably the most transformative year and thinking. You have time. I don't even think I got married until I was 28. But see, you got married and that's the problem. And so my mom found it like around our age too. So we're like, are we behind? It's, it's been very, it's,

it's been very different. Yeah, but I didn't have kids until way later either. Yeah. Yeah, that's true. I mean, that's the thing. It's like, I'm also willing to wait to have kids as well. And so that's why I'm like, do I, I start freezing? Like, do I start, like, looking into that? So it's been, because no one in my friend group is doing it. So I like the idea of freezing your eggs as young as you possibly can because it gives you leverage and insurance. Should I do? And what, what freezing your eggs really does is it gives you peace of mind. Exactly. And I'm someone that I'm a very anxious, heady over one person. And so I need to kind of have that security of going, I don't have to worry about this, because that is something that's super important. It's probably like, probably the

most important thing to me is to make sure I have a family eventually. And so. doing that and just having that insurance of, okay, I'm good, even if I have it at 35. Like, we're still good. Like, I got my eggs. They're 28 years old and they're cute. But yeah, I know it's, it's been fun because Christine and I definitely, even though we're two years apart, it's nice to have her alongside me because we are in different spaces. We're single and struggling together, baby. Daniel Bernstein said yesterday that she froze her eggs in New York City with Dr. Lucky. Oh, everyone's going to remember Dr. Lucky to freeze your eggs, right? I believe that's a real name.

You're lucky. That's who I would want to freeze my eggs. Me too. If I was in New York. I've met a few people have done it and it's not as daunting as people. There's so many girls are doing it now. I think there's such a bad stigma behind it. I don't think it's as daunting as people or me. No, I heard it's really not as, but I think everyone thinks that your hormones are going to go crazy. You're going to gain a bunch of weight. Someone said it's almost like you just ate a big meal. And that's it. Everyone reacts differently. But I think that I think the idea of like freezing your eggs, getting injections.

It sounds scary. But I think if you think about the reward you get from it, like, like, beauty is pain like things good things come to those who wait and you know you have to put a little bit an effort in and like if you want those eggs that you have to put it a little bit of work and so it's it's worth it for me like I don't like needles either I have a fear of us so I'm still I feel like that I'm putting it out there that it'll be so easy for you to do it if you do it and it'll be so great do you guys live together and work together how's that you know what do you find about oh everything but we really don't fight about work we fight about everything We never fight about work. That's the problem. I think Sophie and I really had to understand balance because we literally wake up at the same time. We work out at the same time. We eat at the same time. We have dinner together every night. We worked at. You guys are like twin. No, everything. But so when we do fight, I think one of us is either just hangary or moody or on their period or hormonal. But what was the last thing we fought about? It was like. I think I was overthinking something. You were overthinking like a guy maybe. Yeah. It was like so silly. So you don't fight a lot. We really don't fight a lot. We really don't fight a lot.

It's mostly like we bigger. We have our tones sometimes. We can get a little bit sharp with each other. But it's the type of fighting where we'll leave the room for 10 minutes, come back. Okay, what should we get for dinner? Yeah. It's done. But it was, I will say.

So we've been living together, like five years, yeah. That is going to be very weird when we're not living together. And we've always talked about, do we separate, but they are like, no, not yet. She wants to leave me. Maybe you just find husbands that are brothers. That's what the plan is. Oh my God, that's terrible idea. No, that's the best idea.

We can go trips together. We always, this is what we've been manifesting. We want our best friends together. Sometimes I hear Lauren give it, Lauren, we can't. The Harvey brothers. Do you guys know who that is? No. The Harvey brothers.

What are you paying attention to the fucking Harvey brothers? There's a Harvey brother. They're from the 60s. Google the book. It's a book. It's like Nancy Drew, they're two detective brothers. I was gonna say, oh, the Hardy boys.

Oh, the Hardy was like, the Harvey. I was like, how old are they alive? Are they alive? Oh, let's not. There are cartoons. character. That's fun. I don't think your dad wants to come home. I'd be like, I found the Harvey brothers. The Harvey brothers. Like, I've gone. Who's the most famous person that casually was in your home when you guys

were young that, like, was nonchalant? Oh my God. There was a lot. There was a few. And I didn't appreciate it because I also didn't understand why people like them so much now I do. Wait, what about, remember the planet Hollywoods? Oh my God. Didn't you guys have, I feel like all the, well, you know what it was? Because it's We had a lot of action stars. I think the coolest person that's ever, like, sat with us. It's iconic is, um, uh, what, why am I forgetting his name? We always say, Al Pacino was really cool at our house. So that was a great one.

Every Saturday for 20 years growing up, the boys would have a fight night at our house. We'd order a takeout. It would just be him, Arnold, Dolf Lundgren. Yeah. Um, it would be sometimes like random to me to come. It would be like Michael Stranier. Like just ran. One time Guy Fierreierre, I came downstairs at 10 in the morning.

He was just in the kitchen. I was like, how did you get? Did you guys think it was a big deal or was it just dad's friends? No, now I was, as I got older, I was like, this is insane. It's not normal. I feel like we're in a simulation. But I think younger, we were really excited when we had James Marsden over one time. That was like the notebook era.

We were really excited. What my dad would do. Oh, Liam Hemsworth came over. Yeah, when my dad would do is he was casting. We'd say we had big crushes on people. So typically they would come over to the house and they would just discuss the role. And so we'd be like, wait, can you have Liam Hemsworth come over? And he's like, okay.

Did you ever want to hang out with those guys or no? I was like, I was too young. I was too young. If you see us with our dad, you're just going to see this as like daughters. And so, but we are also like too young. Yeah, he cock blocks us. We can't. Yeah.

He's a cockbox. Yeah. Everyone's going to be too afraid to make a move if he's next to them. What has it been like filming your show with your entire family? Oh, that's been weird. So wild. And it's funny is hearing from my dad, he said, shooting a reality show is harder than shooting an actual show. He said it's the hardest job he's ever done.

Yeah. Clock it. Michael's speechless. Clock it. Well, is it because you have, is it? Maybe because it's his family. He cares so much about you guys. It's insane hours.

It's hours. So it's literally, because we'd have to get, we'd get up at 5.30 because we'd only have one hair and one makeup person, so everyone had to rotate. So it'd be from like 6 a.m. until you're brushing your teeth at 8 p.m. It is all day, sometimes seven days a week. And when you're doing a reality show on just your family, it's all your storylines. Like if you have a housewives, you have five different families you can follow. So when they came into our homes.

So when they came into our homes. Yeah. So when you came into a home. our home, which we never have had cameras this much in our life, first off, that was very intimidating. And second of all, you're shooting 12-hour days. We shot for eight months straight. And it would be maybe you get a minute or 30 seconds because it's only 22-minute episode. So that reason why you was saying it's a lot harder than shooting in actual show is because you have a script. You have time restraints. You have a scene and it's done. It's cut. And you basically have no social life for

like no. Yeah, you have no structure. Do you guys like it? I like. I like. I liked it because we got to be together a lot. So that was fun. Looking back, it's just a lot of time. We weren't able to focus on any of our other endeavors. So like since we've taken this mini break from filming, because we haven't had a family vacation in over six years. We haven't, I mean, we've had two summers of straight working,

so we're like, you know what, let's just take a break for a few months, and now we've actually enjoyed developing other things. We actually loved the final product. So after all the work, it was really, especially season two. was probably my favorite thing we ever saw. I mean, we met the Pope, which was like crazy to see. I like it. It's just very hard to present an authentic self to people and give, you know, producers what they want. Because when you think of reality, you think of a little bit chaos, drama, like you think of Osbournes and Kardashians. Like, they just let it all out there. There was

nothing to hold back. For us, you know, we're thinking like, hey, we want to be moms one day. So we're not going to do anything that's going to be detrimental later on. So it was really hard to find that balance of giving people something that was entertaining enough to watch, but also still being ourselves. Well, that's what we call it a dokey series. We'd call it less like a reality show. And I know it sounds stupid because everyone makes fun of that. But it's like an inside into our, like our life. Did you have to convince your parents to do the show or did they have to convince you? Like what was the talk behind this? Why did you guys decide to put yourself out there like this? So I would say the people that wanted it the most was sly and myself.

I can't how you call him sly. That's so funny. He's my contact with a sly. Well, you actually call him sly more than I do. I just don't know why. I feel like because I talk so much about him to people to say dad is weird. Zaza grows up and she's like, Mike really wanted to. It's so funny.

It's different though. It's different. He's just sly. He's just sly. So him and I really wanted to do it. And we pushed everyone else. Scarlett, our youngest sister was probably the hardest to convince because she's in college. And she also is going to wear the other color when you guys are all wearing white.

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But yeah, I think we hit all the spots because we never had a fight about the show about anything we were shooting. We never broke up. Like, there was nothing that happened within our family while we were shooting that was like really bad, especially season two, I'd say. I think you guys are fortunate too

because because you guys kind of understand the industry, you're able to kind of go into it with open eyes. You know, we have a lot of people that we know that do those kind of things. They sometimes don't realize what they're signing up for. In some cases, it ends up very well, but in other cases, not so well. Yeah.

It was one of those things where we could do it. It'd be great. We didn't do it. Also great. So we're like, you know what? We're all kind of free with our schedule right now. Let's just try it and do it happen. I mean, like, this is the thing.

We're like, why don't we just try another avenue? Like, why don't we just try? I understand that. And I think that people are like, why are they doing a reality show? Like, he's this. He's, I mean, why not? Like, some actors go from movies to TV. Some people go from football to commercials.

My dad said it was interesting because he said a lot of people typically do reality or do some sort of game show thing at the downfall of their career. And he's like, well, I feel like I'm at the height of my career. What is he? 78 or 79 now? And he's working now more than ever. He's like, wouldn't that be exciting to show people that? So I was like, okay, fair enough.

I think it's cool. And people love peeking behind the curtain. Yeah. Yeah. Your mom has beautiful skin, beautiful makeup tips. What are the beauty tips that you've learned from her? And what are your own beauty tips? Oh, my God.

Sunscreen was huge. Yeah. It's funny because she has her own skincare line. So I've been using her product since I was 12. Can put the favorite products out too. So she has a glycolic cleanser. Her company is called Siri Skin Care. You can get on her website.

It's also on Amazon, I think. So she has a glycolic cleanser that I love. She has a drylo, which is a spot acne treatment, which is the same as Mario Bidesco. Yeah, his spot. But she was the first. She was before proactive. So she did it all. She's the OG.

Yeah. That's like a step to septic. She was on QVC? She was on H-O-SN. She was on H-SN and then E-Vine. And now she does, I don't, actually, I think they're still on streaming. I'm trying to think what else did she teach us? Vitamin C a lot.

But I think the biggest thing was just preventing getting in the sun. I think diet was a huge thing, drinking a lot of water. My mom also, though, is just the most gorgeous human being. Like she. Yeah, honestly, she's stunning. It just freaks me out. She's like an Icelandic princess. I know.

Yeah, her genetics are ridiculous. So honestly, genetic. I don't want to say, like, drink water. I wish I had better stuff. Literally, she has always, she's never been ugly. Like, she's been perfect, and she still looks perfect, and it's confusing. I know. This is maybe sounds messed up, but Sophia and I always say all of the good qualities

that we have is from our mom and everything we don't like about herself. Because we're like, because we don't look like your dad. They're like, no. When someone says you look like your father, we're like, that is the meanest thing you could say. No, I know, he's handsome. You guys. But my mom. You don't want to be called like, oh, you look like your dad.

No, but Sly's a handsome guy. I'll give him that. He's a handsome guy. He's a good. Jennifer. Oh, God. She's got the high cheekbones. She's got everything. The green eyes.

It looks like a hot bloodhound. I know. Like a Doberman pincher. She's like a Doberman pincher. Yeah. My dad calls her like, what's it called? What's the dog? What's the dog?

Afghan? Is that Afghan? Is it an animal? Is it? Is it a dog? She's like a beautiful Afghan. Okay. It's probably a beautiful dog.

A beautiful dog. I mean, you don't want to say she's like a raw while. Well, I'll tell you. My dad is the most funny person you'd ever mean in your life. He actually is the reason why I would say Sistine and I are very funny in a lot of ways. The sense of humor. The humor is the biggest thing.

It's because we were raised around it. Like, he has such, like, offbeat humor. And that's why he calls my mom like a hot dog. Like, she's really, we're really honest. So there's pretty much nothing that anyone can say to us at this point that's going to phase this. No, I know. It's like, you think you're hurting my feelings. My dad told me that last week, so nothing's hurting.

Oh, we shit on each other so much. I think that's another thing. Like, we don't care about hurting each other's feelings. It's just like, get over it. It's funny. Sounds like your mom a little bit. It's good. Good to have a little bit of resilience.

You got to shoot the shit. You had to prepare for me. I mean, I think people have to not take themselves too seriously. That's the biggest thing. You got to learn how to scrape your knee. And I will say, I think that was a big thing about growing up, was that we were all able to call each other out. If someone had a bad outfit out and be like, get here.

That's going to be another thing, though. Like I tell, you know, sometimes Lauren. and I will banter. Again, we've known each other since for 12 years old. So imagine like knowing someone that long you're going to have a certain dynamic. And I will see people in the comments like getting offended for me or for her. And I'm like, you guys got to take a joke. You take yourself so seriously. But if you date a guy that can't take a joke and you like to do it. No, you can't do that. You can't. Yeah. Are they that sensitive? There's a lot of sensitive. Guys, there's a lot of sensitive people out there.

Yeah. Very sensitive. Beyond sensitive. I know. Like one time, guys said I love you and granted, we're dating for a while. And I just said, love you too and he's like you didn't say I love you and I was like oh my god we're not having a fight about this right now yeah yeah it's just you see what I mean it's like oh yeah oh my gosh it's intense it's tough out there guys it's real time we did a whole thing yesterday I think the dating apps and we had a woman that's involved in a dating up so I think she had to be careful and great and everything but I just think that it creates a situation where people don't have to focus anymore and there's this endless like okay something got hard or something upset me or something got a

little bit too deep for me or a little uncomfortable. So I'm going to swipe and go to this. Or I'm going to go on Porn Hub and beat my meat three times a day. Well, porn's not so great either for people. Again, I think it all comes down to a focus thing. And it's also the idea that there's another thing out there that's readily available. So people don't want to put in work. I think dating apps have absolutely ruined dating. I haven't been on a dating app in like four years. I mean, even prior to that. I think we've lost the art of communication. I think we've lost the art of courting someone. And also having the the ability to approach someone because you just have a natural connection because you see them

across the room. And there's something about them. Especially living in a city like New York. Yeah. It's so condensed with so many people. Did you see that article that came out that New York City is rated the worst city to date in the country with Los Angeles at number two? I am a believer though. If I read that, I would flip that. I would go into my day every day. And I would say New York is the best city to date in. Everything's coming to me. I'm having all these guys lined up. They're lucky to in my presence. Don't get sucked into the negativity and the frequency. This is taught to me by Louise Hay. I love her. I'll send you the link. You're so right. I'm like you can't let those articles dictate. And also, I will say to your point, the frequency's off. I know this sounds

really weird on dating apps. It is off. It's off. It's weird. The frequency's off. And I hate to say that because I know that's how a lot of people meet. But there's something that's off. But I can tell you, I haven't had a dating app since forever. And I told myself, I would be okay. And I think I've had more dates than most of my friends that are on dating apps because I've just accepted it and gone, I will find someone in public. I will find someone through a friend. It's going to work. So honestly, I've had that positive mentality.

And you can ask this scene, I find guys everywhere. Like, it just works. But we need to throw away our world's smallest violin for ourselves. I mean, we play it all the time. Like, what is me? I would just flip any narrative. Like flip any narrative on it and just say that everything's happening for me. There's a line out the door.

everywhere I mean I think even some of these like matching things that these apps do like the woman that was here yesterday was saying like there's filters where you can like filter people's heights yeah like think about like how much you're missing potentially by just putting these from going from five 10 to six foot like also the shorter ones have the bigger and they're funny and they're funnier they've had to work a little harder a little more elbow grease in there they're bigger penises and bigger personalities honestly and they are funnier There's nothing wrong with a shorty. All you girls that are doing this over six foot, I'm telling you guys, I don't need it.

Don't focus on high. I agree. I used to be me. I've dated tall, tall, tall, impressive. And the shorter ones are always, like, they almost had to work harder. It's actually true. Honestly, I think physically, just take your physical idea out of your brain. Like, you really can't get some.

You can have the core values. I think it's important to have the morals, like, aligned in things that you genuinely want in someone's heart. Having a type is like overrated. Yeah, it's so overrated. Like I dated someone that was six, seven. So I think, oh, for a while. And so is my theory, right? No.

Don't put the guy on glass like that. I didn't see it, so I don't know. He was a good guy. Oh. No, no, no. No, no. He's a good guy. This is equivalent.

He's nice. No, no, no. He's a great person. He's a great person. Martin, if we ever break up when you describe me as he was a good guy, it's the first descriptor? No, I just, yeah. You know what I just think of the dating app?

We're not ordering a sandwich. This isn't like, I, I want a side of lettuce with some pepperosini's and a little bit of red onions. This is this idea that you can order up this person is so fucking wild. Exactly. I don't know if I'm just not in the, like, in the energy, but it's just like. It's not the problem that you can order with the person. It's the problem that you can then order up five other people after you've done the date.

And you think, and not that you got all these matches, like these, a lot of these salty guys got mad at me for saying this. But it's, it's, it's this idea that like, okay, that one that I was pursuing, maybe they didn't text me quick enough or there was something that I didn't like. It's like minor thing. And so now I'm going to jump to the next. It's just this constant thought that like something is better out there. Yeah.

And I think that I think actually I do struggle with that a lot. I have this idea that things have to be perfect. And the sign of boo, I'm out if they mess up a little bit. And I've had this problem where I'm almost like flight or flight I fly. And I think that it's because I've waited so long for the right person. I've had this idea that there is that perfect person for me. I mean, she's literally looking for a meet queue in a coffee shop while she's reading her book. Like it's not going to happen, babe.

Why? I think it could. See, negative. I could have that in a library. It's not. But I think... Barnes & Noble? No, I've been there many times. No one cool. I'm going to hang out of Barnes & Noble here. I'm always there. We give the worst dating advice. We've been there. No, you don't. Actually, this is really helping. I'm not going to throw myself a pity party. My advice, I haven't going to go against the grain of this generation a little bit. But listen, take a, Anna Corinna and I told this to Michael, beat the book up, put a couple bookmarks in it. Go sit out at a cafe. maybe in Santropay, if you can. Buy the odds. Put on a short dress and let someone approach you.

There's an energy that you give off to let people approach you. It's an open energy. I do agree. I'm sorry. No, it's so true. It ain't it. I will tell you, the times I'm like, I don't want to go out. I don't feel like doing it.

It's always when I meet someone. It's always when I'm so against it. That's when the person comes up to me. And my mom actually said this to me because I had this period where I like was really attracting a lot of guys. Like a lot of them were coming up to me. Okay. But my mom, no, but my mom said it's because when you walk out of the house,

you give off this aura that you have to open to it. And because I'm such a hopeless romantic, I do. I'm constantly envisioning a neat cue. Like I'm constantly envisioning someone's going to walk up to me. And hopefully it's not like a scary guy, but I'm always envisioning it's going to be that person. And so I think that even if they aren't my person, I think you have to filter through all those guys and get comfortable with the idea of someone, you know, courting you're trying for you. Like don't hate on someone for having.

the confidence to do. I think honestly, it's kind of ballsy. It's nice that someone's like trying to say, hey, you're beautiful. Let me, you know, take you out. The hot six foot five dude is going to be the most boring guy you'll ever waste a deal dinner with. It's just not worth. Man, the tall guys are getting nailed this episode. Listen, I'll take it. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on a tall guy. Boring you don't want boring. You don't want to want boring. You don't want to go on a date and have it be a staring contest. That's a good one. Yeah. But see, we feel the awkward silence. Oh, we do.

That's the thing. We always leave a date and Sistine will ask me and I'll ask her, did you have fun because he was fun or did you make it fun because you talk the whole time and ask questions? And normally it is the latter. I mean, how many times do you go on a date? I don't remember. But you go on a date and you feel like you killed it. You gave off the energy.

You're doing all the things like, oh my God, I was sexy but also respectful and I was smart and witty. and I was doing all the things. And you tried really hard and we go back and we're like, wait, did I even like him? Like, I don't actually think I liked him at all. And I think that's a question we're starting to ask ourselves because when you want something so bad, you start to force something. And we've caught ourselves forcing a lot. I also think as an interviewer and you kind of, and I do this all the time in my own

personal life, you bring the interview e or you bring the interview aspect to, I would think, the date. We do that all that. And it ends up like it's an, it's, and I do this even like, like, I'll go out to dinner with my friends. And I'm like, oh my God, I just interviewed them. We'd say that all the time. I've actually had a guy told me that a few months ago on a date. I feel like I'm on an interview process.

So bad. And I had no idea. Yeah. I think that would be my problem is I know. I'm just a curious person. I'm like, what's your childhood like? Yeah. I want to know.

Exactly. What attachment style are you? I know. I always. You start interviewing. Yeah. We do ask some certain questions to see if we can get it. You can kind of tell someone by like,

how their relationship is with their mother. We'll ask that question. Like, are you close to their parents? We'll talk about like, what was last time you were in a relationship? If they speak bad about their ex immediately, that's another red flag. Yeah.

And they say, I have a ton of female friends. That's another red flag. Which I didn't think was a red flag until I found out it wasn't. Yeah. A ton of female friends. A ton of female friends. Yeah. Which, by the way,

I have a lot of guy friends. So I don't think it's a problem. But when they all look like, I don't want it, only fans models, and they're flown in. I don't think they're your friends, no. The women are not going to like this.

They're going to shit on me all over the internet. It's going to go. I have sisters. I have two younger sisters. And I told them when they start dating guys, I said, don't talk to any of your friends about these guys. Don't go and start sharing these ideas. Don't ask their advice.

I watched my sisters and their friends, they would ask their advice and they would do with all the, and their friends would sabotage the relationship. And it would almost ruin the thing with the guy. And I watched this with women. Sometimes, like, I don't know what it is. I don't think the greatest idea is for, I mean, listen, you could talk about certain things.

But I think going to a large group of women to talk about your relationship, and I've said this on the show and I get shit all the time, is not a good idea. I actually could not agree more. And my mom says this all the time if we're starting to talk to a new guy and we're excited. We want to tell of our friends. She goes, keep it to yourself because, you know, you don't want to say too much. And then they're going to ask questions. And especially if you're dating someone and all you do to your friends is tell them the bad things that this guy did,

then they're going to hate him. And then the whole time it's going to be trying to make them like him again. We talk about this all the time. So you don't need to go. Yeah. So we'll talk to each other about it. Even then, there's sometimes like, I'll talk too much about a guy. And it seems like, it's been two dates.

I told her yesterday. I was like, you need, I can't hear this man's name again. Yeah, I'll ask too many questions. I think that that's the problem. It's like when you speak about it too much, you're going to overthink it. And then you're going to self-sabotage or your friends or your, even your sister. Like, you don't need to get everyone else's opinion. Like, the only person that matters in the dynamic between the two of you is him and you.

I also think that if you want to be. be hunted, you have to be, you have to let him hunt you. Meaning like pulling back a little bit. Yeah. Little absence. Yeah. Little. I love a little game. Yeah. I love a game. I said, she never agree with me. I said if you're not playing the game, we're already losing. You're losing I say that every single time. I'm still playing a game. I'm like, let them play time. I go to the football. No, for four hours and he's like, now I'll go to the market and I won't, I'll decline the call. Yeah. I won't text back. I said let them play checkers and you play chess.

I still want to be hunted. I'm sorry. I want to be hunted until the day I'm rigamortis. I don't care. Listen, the gender dynamics now is like a whole hot button issue, but I do think at the core of it as a man, I like to feel like I'm pursuing and then at some moment I catch what I'm pursuing. I love when I get a text that says when are you coming home.

It's like, oh, you miss me. And I don't know, I'm like desire. I think a woman, I think women want to feel desire. There's nothing I feel better is when a guy's like, I miss you or I love you. Like, let's hang out today. And I don't say it. And they still say it after because they're still thinking of me. Let him hunt you. I'm sorry. Even though it sounds childish, you cannot deny the fact it feels so good for someone to want you. We have so many girlfriends going through the same thing with guys in their life that they're just dating right now where they are trying too hard wanting him to call too bad. So that point where they just start spamming him. No, you got to be like a poodle. Like on. like leading him to say the thing like, oh, I want to date you. And then they do. And then the guy gets freaked out. And they're just not allowing any breathing room. And every guy that I've ever dated, I've told I don't want to date you. Should I start doing? Yes. That's kind of, I'm not interested in you ever heard Pamela Anderson says you say to the guy, I would never marry you. I used to do it all the time. In seventh grade, I'd be like, I don't want to date you. And they'd be like, oh my God. That's the trick. It doesn't matter what you look like. It doesn't. I had braces. okay and they were like Michael remembers they were like yellow clear braces oh man and I still was like you're lucky to be in my presence and I never am going to date you that's that's the mentality you were fully

developed I wasn't looking at your fucking braces honestly lucky that's amazing no but that's but that's mentality because you can have like I know people are thinking oh like why do you want to guide us to chase you chain but it's having that comment as a female to go he's lucky to be chasing me he's lucky that I'm even wanting to be with him like so you can kind of balance the whole like femininity and masculinity by being like, I can be with myself, I can be with him, I can be with someone else. I think what it comes down, like you don't want to play too much. I think what it comes down to for everyone, guys, girls, whatever, any gender. People don't like to feel desperate energy from anyone. People don't like to be around. I think it's like insecurity, desperate energy,

neediness, clinginess. It's a smell. It's guys, girls. With business. In friendships. Yeah. It's not even just in relationship and business. Like you just, you want a little bit of, mystery and you want to and you don't want to feel like this is somebody's only option. Right? Yeah. What's the quote if you can be easily had? What's that quote? If you can be easily had, it's not worth much.

I don't know what the point. Well, I read the book Why Men Love Bitches twice and I thoroughly think that hell and I think every woman should read it, especially if they're dating around our age. It's the games need to be played essentially. Game never heard of flea. Just a tag? Like, did we tell you guys that we were going to ask you what's in your back? Yes. Okay. Sistine, you go first. What is in your bag?

Okay. And you have to show the bag. Like, you have to tell us what the bag is. This bag is Raff Loren. Cute. Nice. I got it because I went to one of those shows a few years ago. Really cute. Yes. My phone, Case I got on Canal Street. Thank you. Some sunglasses. I don't know what the brand is. Those are you're lucky to be in my presence glasses.

Yeah, literally. Those are that. It's V-E-H-L-A. Yeah, you're lucky to be in my presence. These are cool. I have my digital camera always. Do you actually use it? Yeah. Like all the time. Okay.

Yeah. Oh my gosh. So, you know what it is? Whenever I go out with people and you're with your girlfriends, no one ever wants to take a photo on their phone, but everyone wants to be on this. So it just kind of brings people together. Okay. My keys.

Pepper spray. Oh, shit. Did Fly tell you to do that? Oh, we're not allowed to leave me about it. He actually will call us. I show me that you have it. Actually, it's so funny. Dual pepper spray.

Cheers. Cheers. I used to have a little knife. That's a good idea. Why don't you have me pepper spray? That's cute. Go on. Yeah, okay, good.

A little knife. And then makeup. So I have the makeup forever pressed powder, rify clear gloss, another lift glass, and makeup forever lip liner in the shade, anywhere caffeine. Love it. Yes. All right. Okay.

So, Sophia, what's in your bag? I love it. Okay, so first is my Kindle. Good red. Always reading. See, that's hot. If I was a guy, carry a Kindle. I was, I'm talking to a really cute guy right now.

That's hot. Like, very cute. And I told him, I was like, oh, yeah, I read three to four books a month. He was like, that's so hot. It is hot. It's hot. Thank you. That's a good one.

Librarian. Oh, my casual Kindle. I know. Oh, just my casual Kindle. Obviously, the pepper spray. I'm a big perfume person. I think smell. Like, if a guy smells really good, it's my biggest run on.

And for me, I love right now missing person. It's like this. It's a musky kind of vanilla-e. Sofia has the most insane nose ever. You need a wreck, go to her. I can smell your perfume and know what it is. I have my little gloss. I'm not as complex with like makeup.

Oh, I'll never leave without a hairbrush. Cute. Sophie and I will actually, I'll tell you this, everyone wants me to brush there. We go out a lot together. So strategically, she'll pack her bag with things that she knows I already have. So she'll have the hairbrush, the lip gloss. You guys might need the Hardy Boys. What are they called again?

Oh, the Harvey boy. The Harvey boy. It was Hardy boys. You guys might need brothers. Seriously. We love best friends. We've been saying our dream is to go on vacation with two guys that are best friends and we're dating them and we would go to some tropical place.

Like we haven't had a couple's trip ever. Get a house next to each other, build a tunnel. What about actually like a little separation? No. Are you out of your mind? It's so funny. I teared up the other day with her because we were saying, oh my, because we're every night we have this routine.

We sit on the floor. We watch reality TV and we eat our soup or eat our salad or whatever. No, but we have our routine after the like a long day. We like to watch our shows and we ate our dinner. What's the reality show that you're watching? Oh, everything. We've watched every single housewife. We've watched every single love is blind.

Love Island. Everything. There's not one reality show we've missed. But my point is, is that I was looking at her and I love this time with her. I started tearing up because we're like, we're not going to have this like in the next few years. Like we're not going to be able to sit here on this floor eating food in New York City as sisters working together. And it may be tear up because I cannot literally imagine being honest, like sitting here. What you guys should do.

I love your brothers. You guys should get houses next to each other. We say this. We're going to. We're going to build a tunnel underneath and we say it's going to be our girl plan. Yeah. Just build it underneath and you guys can live next to each other. What my mom and her sisters did is one of them got pregnant. She'd call and say, I'm pregnant and then they'd have a baby.

So all of our cousins are the same age. And we're going to do that. We're sick. We're not the only one that's going to be the offbeat one. We sound psychotic. No, I think it's cute. I love it. We sound like a lot.

I think you guys are adorable. You guys can come back anytime. Pimp out your podcast. everything. Tell us when your book's going to come out of your Instagram. Where can all the guys find you? Taylor's looking you up right now. Yes, Taylor, this is for you. My Instagram is at Sistine Stallone. And Sophia's is at Sophia Stallone. Our podcast is called unwax podcast on every social platform every Tuesday. People like slide into the DMs. Is that what happens? Oh, absolutely. Oh, we slide in as well. Is that a creepy move? I actually, I make first moves. Is that bad? Is that

bad? Is that bad I make first moves? Because they don't. It's working for me. Can we do like a, subtle first move. Does it have to be slide in the DM? Can we like a photo? See, I just go for it. I just literally will say what's your number. The only time... That's kind of hot, though. I kind of like that. I like that. I've only slid in if they're giving me incentive to. If they're likeing my photos

and watching my stuff and I know that they're kind of interested, then I'll be like, hey. See, Lauren, we don't even know anything. We have no idea of what's even like... Oh, you guys? But it's a rarity for us to slide in. Michael's for you page is watches and chihuahuas. Sorry, Michael. That's adorable.

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