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Episode Date: April 12, 2021

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And now Lauren Everts and Michael Bostic are bringing you alone for the ride. Get ready for some major realness. Welcome to the skinny confidential, him and her. It was actually in that moment. I was sitting there and I was like, I'm 26 years old. You know that I've been treated like absolute shit on this team. you know what I've gone through here. And you're telling me that there is certainty that I'm going to fail at this path.

Like, I don't want to be anything like you. And you've got to be in a pretty sad place or justifying something really aggressively that you regret to do that. And that was my moment where I was like, yeah, I'm done. Howdy, everybody? Welcome back to the skinny confidential him and her show. I just sounded like Woody from Toy Story. I'm fucking sorry. I'm really fucking sorry.

That clip was some of our guest of the show today. Carly Stein, she is the CEO and founder of Beekeepers Natural. And this story packs a punch. It's one of my favorite stories that's ever transpired on the skinny confidential him and her show from an entrepreneurial standpoint. This is, you know, this founder, Carly, she really has it all. It was one of my favorite conversations. Lauren, what do you think? I think that this podcast is so amazing for anyone who is an entrepreneur wants to start their own endeavor and also for someone that's having a struggle because she was struggling with something and she turned the struggle into lemonade. And she got a lot of nose along the way. A lot of nose. And I just, I think that she took

what was bothering her and she created a solution to it. And I have so much respect for it. She's so honest in this interview and so open. And what I really, really love about Carly is that her brand has such a strong story. I'm so attracted to storytellers and someone that has a journey that they launch a product that has to do with it. I mean, it just was so inspiring to me, especially because I just launched product. She's eloquent. She's well-spoken. And she is smart as fuck.

And spoiler alert, and not to ruin the punchline of the show, but Carly convinced me to quit the show and become a beekeeper. So this will be the last episode that you ever hear us. I could literally see you buying a whole beekeeper situation on Amazon. Honestly, she was telling me about beekeeping. And nothing has ever called to me so much on this show. I was like, what the hell am I doing? I'm doing it wrong. I could quit all of this chaos. I could quit doing this show. I could quit dealing with the chaos of the world. I could just go deal with bees.

Also bees, and she mentions this in the podcast, there is so many benefits to taking Propolis and consuming the products that she's created. I just have to say, if you're going to start with one product, I would definitely start with the energy shots. There are these little tiny shots. I've been taking them during the day. She gave them to him the first time. during this interview. Yeah, she said we're not allowed to say this, but I'm just going to say it one more time. They're kind of like a liquid adderle. They like wake you up. And you're not compliant. Listen, this really is a great interview. It's got everything you want from an entrepreneurial story. It's got a great person at the helm of that, which is Carly.

It gives inspiration for people that are thinking about leaving their jobs or trying something new. It really packs a punch. I'm not kidding. It's one of my favorite episodes that we've ever done. And Carly's a rock star. And also just to really hate you. your point home, Cameron Diaz is an investor. So if Cameron Diaz is an investor, she knows her shit when it comes to wellness. She is obsessed with this product. And I do think Michael should become a beekeeper. That would get you out of my hair. I feel like it's a great therapeutic way for you to unwind. Yeah. Beat your meat and raise some bees. Yeah. And instead of wearing those baggy sweats, you could just get a beekeeper suit and just really like solidify the whole deal. I'm wearing my pajamas.

By the way, I should say the shot that I was talking about if you're going to get it is the BLXR brain fuel. That's the one I'm obsessed with. Yeah, well, I just introduced Carly. She's obviously the founder, CEO, Beekeepers, Natural. She's got an incredible story. With that, I'll let you guys decide for yourself. Carly, welcome to Skinny Confidential, him and her show. This is the Skinny Confidential, him and her.

All right, Carly. So I was telling you, my dad, he's 76 years old. I think I said 67 because I'm dyslexic, and I fucked it up in the beginning. But he's 76, and he came to Austin the other day. And he's like, hey, have you ever heard of this beekeeper stuff? And he had it in his hand, and he's carrying this. And I was like, yes, of course, but he swears by it. And I was so surprised because, like, this guy- He doesn't eat healthy. He told me that Diet Coke's healthier than orange juice. This guy is like the poster child for Pepsi for Pepsi. And he's like, showing me the beekeepers. I'm like, on one hand, super like poster child for Pepsi. On the other hand, beekeepers. He's an influencer. I love that. That's our goal, like, is really giving people tools to stay well and going beyond the sort of like elitist aspects of the Wu-W-W Wellness Community and just sort of reshaping medicine. So that is sort of mission accomplished there. I love that. He's been converted. Perfect.

I want to go way back to 2012 when you were visiting Italy. Tell us about that. Yeah. So I did a semester abroad when I was in college. And I'm autoimmune. And growing up, I had chronic tonsillitis. So I don't know if either of you have had tonsillitis before. It feels similar. I guess the closest thing would be like strep throat. It's just really painful. And because of my autoimmune, I can't take antibiotics. So I grew up in this situation. No. Like it's pretty risky. So I couldn't get my tonsils out because of that. And I was always sick. And when I was in college, I did a semester abroad. And I like busted my butt waitressing to get out there. And it was this whole big thing. And of course, when I landed in Florence, I got very severe tonsillitis. So I was having a hard time breathing. And I was basically going to have to come home because I didn't know what else to do. And I At that point, I was just like, no, I'm not missing out on another thing. And I'm going to find a solution. And so I went into a pharmacy in Florence. And I spoke to the pharmacist, gave her my laundry list of allergies and my whole issue. And she looked at me like, I was crazy. And she's like, oh, you need propolis. And I was like, okay, what's that? And she's like, you know, the bees. And I was like, so honey? And she's like, no, no, no, completely different thing. Propolis. This is what you need. She told me how to take it. I bought this little bottle. and I started using it. And in five days, I made a full recovery. And that had never happened to me before. So what is Propolis exactly?

Yeah. So maybe I'll give you guys like a B-101 really quick. Yeah. A B-101. I don't think we ever had a B-1-1-1-1. Give me all the details about the bees. Okay, I'm going to break it down how the bees use it in the hive and then how it can help us. So we'll start with honey.

We all know and love honey, full of antioxidants. It's really great for relaxation. It's actually really good to have honey before bed. For the bees, honey is their main food source. It's their carbs. It's their energy source. And they collect the base materials from flowers. So they collect floral nectar, bring it to the hive, let it ferment, and have honey that we all know and love.

So it's the food of the hive. Propolis is the medicine of the hive. So while honey, the base ingredient is flowers, floral nectar. The base ingredient for propolis is plant and tree resins. So think of like sap from a tree as the base ingredient. So how the bees use it, they collect the plant and tree resins, mix it with their enzymes, and they create this amber-colored substance that they use to line the entire hive to keep it germ-free. And it's literally how they defend themselves against germs and pathogens.

And then for humans, Propolis has over 300 beneficial compounds. It's an immune booster. It's antiviral, antifungal, anti-inflammatory. So the same way it's used sort of to protect the hive, we can use it to protect ourselves to help to recover quickly if we do get sick and help to prevent and protect in the first place. So Propolis is the medicine of the hive and my favorite thing ever because it changed my life. And then Royal Jelly is another big one that people are very confused by. So Royal Jelly you can think of as the brain food of the hive or the superfood. It's given to newborn baby bees for the first few days of development the same way.

Our babies get breast milk. And for humans, Royal Jelly has been used for everything from hormonal balance to supporting energy levels. But Western science has really focused on its effects on the brain. So it's great for focus memory concentration. And then bee pollen is the bees protein source. And for humans, it's, you can think of it as like a broad spectrum multivitamin. It's full of enzymes. It's amazing for boosting energy levels. And there's some protein in it. Wow. I've been sneaking Royal Jelly. and be pollen in your smoothie since 2012. I love it. So how did we figure all this stuff out, I guess? What is this, what is Propylist used in before?

I mean, it sounds like you were able to get it in Italy, but what else had we humans been using it for? So it's really interesting. The first recorded human use of Propolis dates back to 300 BC. It's not new. Like this is a lot of people talk about Propolis is the OG antibiotic. Because this is really what we were using in different cultures before we kind of, have moved to some of the medicinal tools that we use today. But yeah, in other parts of the world, it's very well known. In North America, it's really lost on us. And if you look at just our relationship with honeybees, honeybees were brought over to North America by European settlers. And they were mostly used for honey and pollination. And so people just stopped using

things like Royal Jelly and Propolis or didn't know that they could. And in other parts of the world, these things are common. Like if you look at Korean skin care, Propolis is in everything because of its anti-inflammatory effects and, you know, royal jellies being used a lot for anti-aging. And in Europe, this stuff was like very available. Every pharmacy and not like Arawan, health food stores, but every just like basic pharmacy. For the most part, I was able to find Propolis for immune support. And so- No doctor here ever recommended it for the condition. No, no one ever recommended it at all. Or even told you about it. That doesn't surprise me, though. No, I had no idea it existed. So it's fair to say, if you wouldn't have gone to Florence,

and discover this. Well, one, we probably wouldn't be sitting here doing this, but two, like, you would still be suffering from a hundred percent. I mean, I hope I would have found a solution, but I imagine I still would have been suffering, and I would have been, I would be living a very different life. Can you walk us through the benefits and the microbenefits of B-Pollen, Royal Jelly, and Propolis? Like, little random facts that maybe we don't know that it helps with. Yeah. So Propolis is really the immune booster of the hive. So right now, with COVID, we've seen so much adoption of propolis. And we're starting to see, you know, more of these famous practitioners and doctors who have a following people like Dr. Mark Hyman talking, being very vocal about propolis and how it can be

used as a tool on a regular basis to just support your immune health. So it's been an interesting time to kind of see how propolis is becoming mainstream. So yeah, I like to think of it as the immune booster. It's also so good for inflammation. So I use it every single day for a few reasons, but inflammation is a really big one. For me, it's full of antioxidant. It's got more antioxidants than blueberries, according to the ORAC chart. And it's really great because it tends to work really well with your system. The same way adaptogens work with your system.

Propolis and B products are immunomodulatory agents, so they work really nicely with your immune system. So for people who are autoimmune like me, they, it don't blow up and have a crazy reaction with Propolis the way they may with other immune boosting tools. So that's Propolis. And then Royal Jelly, so I mentioned that it's really good for the brain. It contains these two fatty acids that are only naturally occurring in Royal Jelly. One's called 10HDA and the other is called AMPN1 oxide. And they basically promote brain-derived neutropic factor. So they act as a catalyst for neurogenesis, which is a lot of sciencey words for saying they help your brain to create new, clean, fresh neurons. So this is a process that slows down

with aging. It can be impaired by stress, by carcinogens, you know, a variety of things. So a lot of people will use royal jelly for memory, brain fog, concentration, that sort of thing. And then pollen, it's, I really, for me, I use it as nature's multivitamin. Like, I don't love taking, it's funny because I make supplements, but I don't trust most supplements, given my experience growing up and pollen, it's super bioavailable, broad spectrum vitamins and minerals. There's actually been studies that found that taking bee pollen improves your endurance. So it's a really great thing to have as like your fuel up smoothie before a workout. I do a teaspoon of bee powered before I work out all the time. So those are sort of some of the less known benefits of these

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items. I highly recommend checking out the throw in Lunar Grey. Like I said, it weighs eight pounds, and it gives me the most delicious, comfortable sleep. And how do you use the three products in front of me together? I just had the honey loggin. Lawson. How do you say that? Losingen. How do you say it? Lousengines. How do you say it? I'm just not going to try it. I'm How do you use all these three products together to support your immune system? Yeah. So the propolis I spray pretty much all day, every day. Recommended is three to five sprays a day. I go way over that. And propolis for me is really what stabilized my immune system. It's the reason I still have my tonsils and don't have tonsillitis. And it's the reason I don't really get sick anymore or very rarely.

Can you overdo it? Can you take too much? So the studies found toxicity equivalent to drinking 200 bottles, and that's if you're the size of a rat. So I think we're all good. So no is the answer. Yeah. So provolus, I just, I'm spraying that all the time. The lozenges, I'll usually have, we just launched those. So it's pretty new, but over the R&D process, I've just been like going through them. But I'm now having maybe three or four of those a day. And those are really great because if you think about lozenges on the market, It's like halls and ricola and then even on the natural side, it's full of like cane sugar and there's just not a lot of medicinal ingredients. Yeah, it's crap. Now they're never going to sponsor the show. Fuck that up. But yeah. It's candy.

It's candy. So the lozenges we made, and this is, you know, before we started recording, I was telling you how long it's taken me to make them. They have propolis in them, zinc, vitamin D, no refined sugar. They're really clean. So they're made so you can really take them to find relief whenever. And then if you don't have a sore throat, you can still take them to help support your overall immune health. So I'm having a few of those a day. Be powered, which is our superfood honey.

So that's a honey that has all of the superfoods from the hive in one in medicinal grade dosages. I built that because I was learning a lot about manuka. And I was like, okay, this is overpriced and I can make something better. And so be powered, I do a teaspoon every morning. And then pollen, I put on my smoothie. I'll put it on like avocado toast. I put it on everything. The Be Smart, that's for...

That's the brain shot. Yeah. So BeLixir, we just changed the name from BeLixir to Be Smart with our rebrand. So Be Smart, I took one before we started recording, but I use any time I need to kind of be in the zone. My friends call that one Liquid Adderall. I'm probably not supposed to say that. But it's really great for focus memory concentration.

And that's what I use. I try not to have like coffee in the afternoon. And I am a major workaholic. And so I just take those in the afternoon, helps me. I kind of sit down and then I get up hours later and I'm like, okay, I've done a lot. Like it just gets me in the zone. You probably can't say anything, but let's just talk in general terms. COVID.

Have you heard anyone using this if they have COVID? Quite a lot. And we did something interesting at the start of the pandemic. So we were just like a lot of companies trying to. to figure out how we can support first responders. And so we created this discount for first responders. We now opened it up. We've now opened it up to like anyone on the front line. So front line workers, anyone. And we didn't just like issue a discount code online. We let our network know that we have a discount code in order to get it. It's for 50% off. You have to email the company with a bio,

show that you're actually a practitioner, and then we'll give it to you. And so I was like, I didn't really know what would come of that. My team thought it would be fine, but I was like, guys, doctors and nurses and first responders are busy. Is anyone going to take the time to do this? And we have had thousands of practitioners, first responders all over North America. Like at one point, I think it got to like the HR department of like a San Diego hospital and everyone was ordering it. And it's been really cool because they've sent in testimonials. And these are people from a Western background who are really benefiting from these products. What about allergies and Austin? I know there's something called Cedar Fever. Have you seen

this helping with anything like that? Propolis is amazing for allergies. So Propolis actually reduces your histamine response. It's anti-inflammatory. So it's really helpful. So if I, my friend Weston was staying with us for a little bit and he brought his cat whose name is Winston. So Weston and Winston were staying with us. And I was a mess. If I had had this at the time, it would have helped. Definitely. Propolis is really great for allergies. It's really interesting because sort of like an old tail to use local bee products.

Because, you know, in the olden days, if you use local bee products, you'd be exposing yourself to local foliage and like microdosing with the allergen and reducing your allergic response. But today, local farms, for the most part, are not like free flowing with different local plants. They're sort of focused. It's more economical to be like a blueberry grower or an avocado grower. There's not just this variance. And so local bee products today don't necessarily mean that they have the allergy benefits. They still are super beneficial. But they're not giving you the allergy benefits in the way that you think because you're not

microdosing with the varied plant life that may be causing your allergies. So I always tell people, rather than go for honey for allergies, go for propolis. because whether you get propolis from Japan or North America, it's going to be really powerful when it comes to inflammation, and it's going to reduce the histamine response. You've got to try that. B shot, I just tried it. Are you wired up?

No, it's so good. I'm really, really, really impressed with that. I use the spray all the time, but today is the first day that I've tried the B-smart and the lozenges or however you say it. And they're both amazing. I've got to get on Ari, because Ari, Ari, you haven't sent this to me yet. I haven't seen this, and I should have taken this before. I would have been much smarter.

I ought to been way smarter on this podcast. Take it right now. We need you to be smart. I had a side question. Speaking of allergies, and you're the person asked, I think, bees, why do people have such extreme, like some people have such extreme allergic reaction to bees? Yeah. So that's bee venom. And some people have it. You can actually go through a program where you get stung with a doctor on a regular basis, and that can reduce the allergic response. But just because you're allergic to be venom doesn't mean you're allergic to honey or B-Propolis or Royal Jelly, all these different things have a very different profile. If you are seriously allergic to bee venom, I always recommend ask your doctor just to be safe how you're

going to tolerate other bee products. But B venom is its own different compound. Bees are kind of bossy. Bees are like, bees are, I get the saying queen bee. They're queen. Yeah. I mean, it's a lot of benefits. It's a matriarchical society. It's really cool because you don't see this that often. We're seeing it more and more. But in the animal world, it's a society that's just like completely run by the female creatures. So there's the queen bee who like runs everything. And then all the worker bees who get everything done, who literally do everything from like foraging for pollen and nectar and all these things to being bouncers at the front of the hive to make sure that intruders don't come in. Those are all women. And then there's male bees.

called the drone. And the drone's job is literally to mate with the queen. And after that, he dies. Like in flight, they have sex. And then he will die. And then all of when it comes to like winter. So he only gets to get it off once. One time. And that's kind of a miserable existence. I mean, at least he, I mean, at least. So he beats his meat in the queen and just passes out. Exactly. And then she actually like rips his dick off. It's kind of. Oh my God. It's kind of a turn on in a way. And then it's interesting, when it comes to winter for hibernation, the bees will kick out all, or the worker bees, the female bees will kick out all the drones because they're just a drain on resources. Like, they're not doing anything. So after the Queens made it, if it's hibernation time, if it's winter, they literally get, like, thrown out to die. We're saying all this smart stuff on the podcast. And I can only see the headline, like, podcast. I was excited about Dick being ripped off by pain. Sorry, we're going to go on attention. Speaking of being the Queen Bee, you are a female founded company, and I'm sure this has not been easy to build. So I would like to go back to when you started this journey.

What were some of the struggles in the beginning that you look back on that you were like, shit? So I had a lot of challenge starting this company, and I took a very indirect path here. So I started after my time abroad, I started beekeeping when I came back to finish up college. I became, if you can't tell, obsessed with the bees. I still am. And I was just like a hobbyist beekeeper. Did you get stung a lot? Oh, all the time. I'll show you a picture after this. My face looks crazy. One time I got stung. Can we have it for the podcast? Can we put it on the podcast? Yeah, yeah, it's wild looking. It's going to scare people. Why didn't you wear the suit? Oh, I just don't always be keep keep with a suit on. And the reason I got stung like crazy is because I had hair product in that

pissed the bees off because they communicate. One of the ways they communicate is through scent. Oh, Michaels would really piece the bees off. He has so many products. on. I can't get close to the high. Your paste would piss those bees off. That queen would

rip your dick off. Yeah, I kind of stuck my face in there too. It was fully my fault but I've been stung before. Did I read this whole thing? Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

So I started beekeeping in college. Now it's like a cool hipster thing in 2012 when I started beekeeping. My friends were like, I'm sorry. What are you doing? It was so weird.

I remember I had my beekeeper's uniform cheerleading uniform in the same bag and one of my friends went into my bag bag and pulls out this white hazmat suit And she's like, do you need to tell me something? Why? What is this?

And so it was just like very, very weird to everyone. Oh my God. Cheerleading outfit with your beekeeping suit. So now it's a thing to do is to be a beekeeper. What do you mean? When my daughter gets older, I might need to send me that beekeeper suit. I can do that. That will help you.

Now it's a hipster. And it's great. The more, I want more beekeepers to come out into the environment. We need more people creating a clean, safe habitat for bees. This may be a stupid question. You know what? I think I would be very relaxed beekeeping. I actually think you'd be good at a James Hetfield from Metallica is a big beekeeper. Yeah, it's a lot of people do. It's very meditative. I love it because it's the one place where I can just kind of like calm down. You hear the hum of the hive.

You're in nature. Can they sting you in the suit? No, they can't sting through the suit. Lauren wanted to get this chicken coop, but I know she's not going to take care of it. Yeah, I am. You can't do that. No, you won't. Get a hive. Get a hive. Yeah, maybe just get the hive instead. Someone can help you manage it. I don't know about me around bees. I don't know. I don't know if that's a good mixture. I'm a little bit oblivious when it comes to stuff like that. Honestly, if this dear media thing doesn't work out, I might just go become a beekeeper. I'm about there. Okay, but I have a stupid question. Do bees have personalities? This is such a dreamy product, especially if you are at home, okay? I talked about this before, but Olive and June has this situation called the Manny System,

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manny system with my code skinny. Your new day of life is here. I'm telling you, you get 20% off your first manny system. Like I said, when you use promo code at skinny at olive and June.com. We're done with expensive bad manis, okay? This is the new us. Let's do this. So the queen can have a personality that dictates the environment of the hive. So I've had like a braddy queen before and it riles the hive up. And I've had to like place her in a new high and re-queen the hive and that sort of thing. You re-queen the hive? It's just sending her to a new household and getting another queen in there.

Oh my God. Letting them create another queen. So the queen has a personality. Totally. I love that. Okay. So you're beekeeping and then what? Yeah.

So I'm beekeeping. I never thought I would become a beekeeper. That was not in my vocabulary. It's true. It's going to happen now. And I thought I was going to go into pharmaceutical research. I've always liked sciences. I never saw myself as a doctor.

And from an early age, I had to do a ton of research on everything. So I thought that's what I would go into. But then I started beekeeping. And it was my final year of college and I was making all these products. And I had this dream of starting a company around it. But I also was very fortunate. I had a good job offer out of school at this hedge fund to join them as a pharmaceutical researcher. And everyone was like, why would you not do that?

That's insane. So I didn't have the confidence at the time to go against that. I was graduating like most college kids with negative funds. So I took this good finance job. And I was there for about 10 months. And then 10 months into that, I got recruited by Goldman Sachs. And I joined them as an equity and derivatives trader. And that was like the beginning of the end of my mental health.

I heard this from so many people. Can you talk about that? It was a really tough environment. So there was a lot of good that came out of that experience. My work ethic, just, you know, what I kind of had to learn about and navigate, and I have a ton of friends that are still at Goldman Loving Life. But for me, I never cared about finance ever. I never even took a business course or a finance course. And I just wasn't driven by that. And I was also on a really tough team. So the trading floor generally,

at the time I was there, there were 300 traders. Under 15 were female. I was one of them. What year was this? Sorry? This is 2014. Okay. Yeah. And I was on a specific team where you know, due to a lot of factors, my gender, my age, my performance, I had a target on my back. I was really threatening to someone who was senior to me. And it amounted to me having just like a pretty horrendous experience there. So I was really unhappy. I was working all nighters. Again, I was on a team that like, it just was really a tough situation for me. And I was really unhappy. And so I did something I'm good at, which is making a spreadsheet. And I made a spreadsheet about my happiness, trying to figure out, like, when was I the happiest in my life? And the things that I kept coming back to. Can you get micro on that spreadsheet? And like what actually goes into a spreadsheet? Like, I don't think I've ever heard someone. Yeah. So I basically was just looking at periods, like points in time in my life and different activities that I did for some, I can't remember the time period, but like for a specific defined time period. And. And, And how fulfilled I felt by these activities.

And the two things that were massive for me were beekeeping, which at the time I was living between, I was splitting time between New York and Toronto. I couldn't keep bees. So did you just literally like make a year, like the year and then the activity in the year? And then like, I did it for the past three previous three years. And then was like a scale one to 10? That's very you. Well, no, the reason I'm interested, I think one thing we talk about a lot in the show,

and I don't want to sidetrack you at all. But a lot of people are trying to find their purpose. And it sounds like this is something that helped you find your purpose. 100%. And that's why I mentioned the exercise itself was like you did this. So on one sheet, it was like the year, the activities. Yeah, stability of the activity. So looking at did I persist or was it just like a one-off fun thing? All of these different metrics. And the two things were beekeeping and building products. And so the beekeeping I couldn't do, I could order some basic lab equipment to my studio apartment in New York and play mad scientist and order bulk bee product from my mentor out in British Columbia and

start making these products. And I wasn't, I don't know if I was like too insecure or just too, like I didn't want to put a label on it. I wasn't thinking like, this is my side business. This is going to be something. I was like, this is my hobby. And the same way you, someone maybe has a friend who's really good at baking who brings them cookies for Christmas, all bring people beat products. And it'll be fine. And so I started doing that on the side and on weekends going to farmers markets and I was selling out. Wow. So you're selling out of farmers markets. How do you take that with creating a deck to having Cameron Diaz involved, to having, I think, a lot of different, very amazing entrepreneurs involved to where it is now? Yeah. So it was an amazing time because

I had no pressure. I wasn't even calling it a company. It was just something I loved. I was able to amass this meaningful customer base just because the products were working for them. And I started to realize, like, there's an opportunity here and I can help people. And there's other people who are probably going through the health issues I went through. And there's also, it's just the reality that, like, everyone deserves to feel well. And we have a lot of tools, but we have tools that are very polarizing. It's, you know, our healthcare model generally is one size fits all. And that shouldn't be the case. And I've stumbled upon something that could actually really help people. And so I started to fantasize about leaving Goldman to start this business. And I ran it by a few of my mentors and people I look

up to. And across the board, everyone was like, that is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. If you leave Goldman Sachs to pursue this weird B medicine company, you will wind up in your parents' basement, like sit down, keep your mouth closed, stay the course, you're on a good path at Goldman. Who is telling you this? They got to go. Oh, one of my bosses at Goldman. He literally took me into a boardroom and broke down for me what my financial outcome would be if I pursued this like stupid project versus if I made partner a Goldman. And I was like, it was actually in that moment. I was sitting there and I was like, I'm 26 years old. You know that I've been treated like absolute shit on this team. You know what I've gone through here. And you're telling me that there

is certainty that I'm going to fail at this path. Like, I don't want to be anything like you. And that's, you got to be in a pretty sad place or justifying something really aggressively that you regret to do that. And that was my moment where I was like, yeah, I'm done. What can you, can you get really, like, can you tell us a story of how you were treated shitty? Like, give me an example. Give us their names. As a traitor, you're meant to spend a lot of time with the clients of Goldman. And so I had this client who was like a really big hedge fund person who we went out to a work event and he was incredibly inappropriate with me. And I addressed it. And then I was kind of like, you know, Goldman has really evolved. It's not

like this anymore. And I don't believe it's like this anymore. And it's also you're really sort of split into different teams. So my experience had a lot to do with the specific people I was reporting into. So that situation wasn't really handled. And then I had other situations, which were kind of the reverse of that, where I really hit it off with certain clients. And, you know, like one of the clients I can think of, he had a daughter around my age, and he just thought I was like a badass. And he sent me a lot of trades. And how it works on the team I was on is very commission-based. So all of a sudden, I'm like a massive revenue generator for my whole team. And that, when I start to outpace one of my bosses, all of a sudden, he's got job.

security issues. You outshine the master. Yeah. And so I started, I was sort of, that was the craziest thing. So I think I'm like crushing it. And all of a sudden I'm contacted by HR being told that I'm going rogue with clients. I don't even know what that means. And I was like blocked from certain client interactions, which cut my commission aggressively. And then there would be events that I was supposed to be at with clients where I'm like getting ready to go. It's like, it's like after market close. It's. It's like after market close. It's. 5 p.m. I'm doing like my end of day notes. And then someone on my team comes to me and he's like, oh, yeah, that event tonight, I actually need you to do a deck for this big client. And I need it by 4 a.m. tomorrow morning. And I was like, oh, cool, cool, cool. All nighter for me. And then like didn't even use the deck. And so that would happen all the time. And it was just, it was just a really tough experience. I've heard a lot of women talk about how tough it is there. I've read a lot of about like everything that goes on there and it seems like for women especially it's difficult. Yeah. And again, I think that is really changing. And I have a lot of friends who are still at

Goldman and they have a real mandate to change that, which is great. But I had a really harsh experience. And then it was this weird thing because on the outside, I have this great job. Like if you're in New York working on Wall Street, you're seen to be successful. And I had more. People are like, what are you complaining about? Yeah, I had more financial abundance than ever. I had a lot of my people who were senior to me be like, just because you're a girl, you're going to get promoted because we don't have enough of you, like, that sort of thing. So there was, I was so miserable and everyone around me was like, what the, what are you complaining about? Like, suck it up.

And then, you know, people would assume, oh, you can't handle the stressful environment. That's what it is. And I'm like, no, I'm good with handling stress. I don't like being treated like shit. I don't know why people think it's so commendable to work in a stressful environment. For me, like, I would never want to work in a stressful environment and you bring it home with you. You don't have peace of mind. Peace of mind is the most important thing in my life.

I can't imagine going to work and being miserable and stressed all day. That sounds horrible. It's terrible. And there was so much at the time I thought social reward to being there. Like, people recognized me as smart when I said what my job. when I told people about my job, they were like, oh, you must be smart. And that was completely feeding my insecurities. And I was keeping my, I felt really trapped. I was like super isolated at that time in my life. And that's why I made that spreadsheet. Because I was like, this just,

something's got to give. Like, this isn't working. So when you went in and your boss is trying to convince you not to do the business that you wanted to do, you had the epiphany. How quickly soon after did you leave? I believe it was like a couple days that I. And so you leave, are you like on the ground? running, like, are you preparing a deck? Are you getting investors? Are you trying to do it yourself? No, I was bootstrapping. So literally, I blew up my life. I had this, like, good on paper boyfriend. I had this whole life, and we are part of this, like, New York finance world. And I, everyone just thought I was having a full mental breakdown. I now refer to it as my mental breakthrough. But I literally blew everything up. My close friends were supportive and just wanted me to be happy

and could see the toll it was taking. But most people thought it was across the time. the board of bad decision and I was making bad decisions and being reckless. But what I did was I saved up, I had saved up some money from the Goldman time. And then I put all of the money that I had into this company to the point where I couldn't pay rent. And I moved into my best friend's apartment and lived on the couch. That stayed, I lived on his couch for a year. Shout out to Adam, who I shout out on every podcast ever. Hey, Adam. I lived in his house for a year. I want to hang out with Adam. He's the best. He's going to be a bridesmaid at our wedding. But anyways, it was a two-bedroom apartment with four people living in it. And I literally had no money. Like I put myself on a crazy

food budget where I was just really having to track everything. And I put everything that I had into this company. And I just continued trying. I continued going to farmers markets. I started going with a backpack to different sort of small mom and pop health food stores and asking them to sell my product on commission. This is such an inspiring story. because you didn't take no for an answer. You went against the status quo. You did what you wanted to do. And you just bootstrapped it.

And now look what it is now. So after you started selling at the farmer's market, living on your best friend's couch, when do you start to realize, oh, I need investors? Or was that not until way later? Or was there a time like, this is actually something?

That was the moment when I was like, this is actually something. Because there was a part of me that was still scared and what I was doing was so uncanny. I mean, it still is very unconcern. conventional. We're just in the early days of teaching people about the benefits of Propolis and these different B products. But I was really nervous. And I started from these mom and pop health food stores, the following grew. I started just like LinkedIn creeping and

emailing every buyer of Whole Foods I could get. And it got to a point where someone was interested. And they were reading reviews. I had set up a website and a big account reached out to me. And I needed to fund a purchase order, which was a couple hundred thousand dollars that I did not have. And that was the time where I was like, okay, I need to raise money, but I have meaningful sales. I have product market fit. I have like a customer, a big customer base with like success stories that I can turn to. And is this starting with just the throat spray? It started with just the throat spray. I was making like I love making products. So I had little different things. I would bring to me to farmers markets and this and that. But the farmers markets were amazing because that was like

my customer testing. Like I look back. it. And I was like, that was the best customer testing feedback ever. You were Bethany in Bev Mo selling your skinny girl. But you were selling your throat spray at the farmer's market. Pretty much. I love it. Oh my God. Let me tell you about versed. I love this skincare brand for multiple reasons. But what I love most is that it is affordable. It is the cleanest drugstore skincare brand that's out there. They're also vegan, sustainably minded, and hyper-focused on bringing you real results with proven ingredients that your bank account appreciates. I'm telling you, you guys, their packaging is so chic. You want it on your Instagram.

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and now they're giving you 10% off for first-time users, like I said, with promo code skinny. Available at verskin.com, spelled V-E-R-S-E-D-S-K-I-N dot com with promo code skinny. Enjoy. Were you bringing on investors for just capital or did you bring on strategic investors? So both. Originally, I was just like, oh my God, I need capital. And because of the reception I'd received when I told people I was leaving Goldman to do this, I was like, no one's going to believe this. But then I reached out to my contacts. A lot of them were from the finance world and explained what I was doing. And they were like, oh, yeah. And then a few of them were like, let me talk to my wife and see what she thinks. And then call me at like 12 midnight being like, oh, I just spoke to my wife. And you need to do this. This is a good idea. We have this issue with our daughter. And so it was cool. I had this really great group of early investors who had different skill sets who ended up being great mentors to me. A lot of them I really lean on to this day. Cameron Diaz, you did a live with her recently. She's obsessed with this product. I've seen her talk about it everywhere. She is a huge fan. How did that happen? She's amazing. So it was really interesting. I had, I feel like I frontloaded the hardship because people talk a lot about fundraising being challenging.

women are underfunded, period. We need more women getting financial backing and we need to make it easier for them. But I had people who were so aggressively against what I was doing at the start that when I went out there. The process of the actual, like what some of those conversations looked like? It was really, it was really like at the start when I was thinking about leaving Goldman for this. Like when I shopped this idea around, people honestly told me that the amount of things they told me were wrong with me was insane. And so by the time- not the business. All of it. All of it. They just, well, they, they were trying to look out for me. They were like, you have this great thing. Just suck it up. Like, just stay there. And I had so much of that at the

start that when I went out there to raise money, I was kind of like, say whatever you want. Like, I know this is working. So you can get in or get out. This is a perfect example of what's best for you. Other people don't know what's best. You are the one that knows best for you. You have to listen to your intuition. Go on. Totally. So I started fundraising and, you know, smart people started to, become interested. They saw my sales and they were like, whoa, this is a one woman show and you've done this. Okay. And it's not that I'm extra talented. It's that our products work. And so that's really, that's kind of what happened there. And it started this, this story of this like girl with the bee medicine started to get told and it got to one of Cameron's financial advisors. And she is really

into wellness generally. She has her book, which is amazing. And she's like, I want to meet this girl. And we really connected. We met at this like, I think we met at like a grocery store. I was so nervous and I was also in between meetings. And the only time that I could meet her was at this like little grocery store that was around my house at the time called Forager's Market. And she came and she was like super chill. And we sat down and we were just talking about the trajectory of this business and how the products work. And then she's like, I like this.

Let me go use these products and have an experience and see if they work for me. And she did. And she came back and was like, this is legit and I want to be involved. And she's just been an incredibly supportive investor. Do you have any other strategic investors that you can shout out? Lily Collins. Love Lily. Love it. How did that happen? Similar thing. Lily was looking for investment opportunities, really interested in female founders and supporting them and has her own wellness experience and cares a lot about this world. And she started using the product. She was using. Our Propolis, for a year before I met her, she was using the Propolis the whole time she was filming Emily in Paris. And it helped her stay well. And it helped her not lose her voice and just feel good. And when we opened the round, she was like, oh, I love these products. I want to be a part of it. And she's been amazing. That's so interesting that you say that because back in the day, I used to like do auditions for plays. I remember this. And I was in like CYT. I don't know if you know what that is. It's like a theme. not like a little, like in my town, tiny. And I remember all the really amazing singers would always be sucking on candy before they went on. So it makes total sense that actors and singers want to be a part of this because it does calm your throat. I feel like you need to get like Lady Gaga or someone who's

constantly singing. Nause is another cool one who's an investor. He got involved. So I'm a huge fan and so that I kind of like lost that, but or lost my mind over that. This is not where I thought this was going. But this is rad. I love no shit. But he got involved because he felt that wellness was really kind of one-sided. And the thing that he's really passionate about is bringing natural, cost-effective alternatives to different communities. And so for us, our products have all different price points, but we use premium ingredients. We do everything sustainably. And we work really hard to not price people out.

And our early conversations were like, hey, if this is available to people in this community where, like, wellness isn't a big conversation. and it's like 13, 1499, and people can use this to stop having sick days and feel better. Like, it can really spark a revolution in health. And that's a massive part of our mission. What's something that you didn't know when you started this that you know now that you wish you knew? How fulfilled I would be by leading a team. Okay. What about something that's something that you maybe struggled with that now you don't struggle with? I mean, I was so, insecure. I mean, I've always been a perfectionist. I've always been like under a certain grade is a fail and I need to be perfect and I need to get this right and I'm not smart. I'm just like tricking

everyone because I do extra time on my homework, all that stuff. So I grew up with like this real need to be perfect, need to prove myself idea. And I never thought I could run a business. I just, I was like, yeah, that's for smart people. That's not for me. I'm like a good get shit done person. But I'm not like an innovator or anything else like that. And I had this really unhealthy internal dialogue and pushing myself and putting myself in a position where I had no choice, but to let go of that completely changed everything. So you changed your inner narrative? A hundred percent. And it's still something that I work on every day. I want to talk about it more. We were just, right before we started doing this interview, we were in another interview talking about people that are perfectionists and how it really like ultimately holds that individual back. What were some of the things that you did to get past some of those feelings? So, I mean, I put myself in a position where it really was do or die.

And I put myself in a position. I sort of set myself up for success in that I took the time to really think about what I care about, what gives me purpose, what problems in this world do I want to solve. And then I went after them. And doing that takes the pressure off to some degree because it goes from how is this external thing going to reflect upon me? was like the success of this going to make me look to this is a problem that needs to be solved in the world and either I'm going to have a hand in it or I'm going to try really, really hard and fail at having a hand in it, but I'm trying to solve it. So just sort of removing yourself a little bit and making it more about what you can contribute really took the pressure off me in a big way.

What's your daily routine? We always talk about routines on this podcast. I would love to know how you start your morning. Are you methodical and planned out about it? Or is it just kind of, you just wake up and start working? And I would love to know how you wind down. Yeah. So I try to be methodical about it. And someday, it depends what's happening at work. Sometimes it's just like crazy and can't do my morning routine and everyone around me can notice that. But what I try to do is journal every morning. I like to write. I have a lot of ideas and information in my head at all time. So getting it out of me onto a page is just a huge way for me to kind of disassociate from outcomes and think things through. So I try to write maybe two to three pages a day, just sort of freeform

write. If I'm really feeling kind of blocked, I'll write letter. I started doing this recently, writing letters to my anxiety or a letter to my fear, something like that if something's really blocking me and that's really helpful. So I do that every morning. I do, I don't know if you guys are familiar with the Hoffman process, but I do Hoffman quad check, which is like checking in with different parts of yourself. A lot of people swear by that. What's that? I've never heard of that. How has I never heard of that? No, we talked about it. And I didn't recently just burn down. Yeah. It's really, yeah. I'm what we talked? We talked, we talked, we've done too many podcasts learned. We talked about it. No, can you tell me about it? I don't know. Yeah. So the Hoffman process is,

it's this organization that tries to help people really kind of undo the patterns that we've grown up with. Did you actually go to Hoffman? Yeah, yeah. I did it. I did a week at Hoffman. It was awesome. I went in being like, okay, a lot of smart people have told me this is a good idea. I don't have a lot of work-life balance. When I got there, I was super pissed off because I knew that you had to turn in your phone. Like I knew that, which was hard for me for seven days. But I brought, I'm not joking, like a suitcase of books. Wait, is this what Katie Perry did? Yeah, Katie did it. And also, yeah, we talked about it with Jen Adkin. Okay. Yes. Yeah. I didn't realize it was called it. Go ahead. Yeah. Jen is a big Hoffman person. She's amazing.

Tell me what you do that. So you have to give your phone? You have to give your phone. And then I went with all these books because I was like, great. I'll catch up on stuff. I'll do some reading. And they're like, yeah, you can't read. You can't have any distractions. And you just go through. And I can't really tell you what specifically happens. But it's basically this, it's like really intense therapy in a group setting. It's a lot of people from different backgrounds. A lot of them happen to be high performers. You can't talk about what you do either. So you can't network. I mean, you can. Oh, no, yeah. No, no, no, no. You can't talk about what you can't talk about what you. do until the end. People say, and tell me this wrong, the people that have told me about it, say you like kind of in a weird way, like reconnect with your childhood. Totally. You reconnect, for me, I really reconnected with my childhood and I began to understand the origins of thought patterns and behaviors that just weren't serving me that I've seen as toxic that hold me back. I started to see the origins and then I was able to kind of let them go. do you really think it helped so much like looking back like you think it was life-changing i do i think i think it was life-changing i think that with introspection with therapy you know with whatever

sort of form you want to take that introspection you can solve a lot of this yourself like we all have bad habits we all have patterns and i think the one of the big takeaways for me was like we're not our patterns being late could be a pattern you see yourself as late me too but what's the stuff, like what's the mental dialogue that comes with that idea? Like, I'm late. Is it, I'm sloppy. I don't respect other people's time. Like all of these sort of side subconscious ideas we have about that. And so just getting sort of aware of your patterns, where they come from. And then it empowers you to make the choice. Like, do I want to define myself as being this sort of person? Or, you know, maybe that's a way I've behaved for a long time. And I don't want to define myself by that

anymore and I can stop behaving like that and thus I'm not that. And so it's really an empowering process. So what are some things that you went in with besides being late? Like you said you were insecure. What are some little things that were that you went in with and then you came out with? Yeah. So really critical of myself. It's so funny because I'm like a super, I couldn't be less judgmental with my friends or people in my life. And I'm so judgmental of myself. Like it's wild. I'm still a little bit like this, but I'm getting better. And I have an amazing team around me, so they help. But if something isn't perfect, I will stay up all night trying to fix it. Do you agree with this? No. It's a problem. I'm so hard on myself. I can relate to that. I think I'm similar in that way.

I always tell people like, nobody's ever going to be harder on me than I am on myself. Yeah, that's why whenever he does something wrong, like he has been feeding my our chihuahuas for the last 13 years. And last night we went out to a 5 p.m. dinner and he forgot to feed our Chihuahua Boone. And Boone woke up in the middle of the night

and he was licking me and like trying to wake me up. We thought he had to go to the bathroom. He figured out he forgot to feed him. You were so hard on yourself that I couldn't even be mad at you. It was like you did it all for me. Yeah, yeah, I felt bad. He's crying about it right now.

He's tearing up. He's so upset. In 13 years, he's fed the dog in the morning and the night. He missed one day. It was an accident. I feel worse about not feeding the dog than I do like my child because the child will figure it out somehow. The dog, the dog stuck.

He can't, he can't open the fridge or do anything, you know. Maybe the one year old won't figure it out. But you know what I mean? Like I think that's a minor example. But I think if I screw up and anything like no matter if the criticism is one thing, but I will be tougher. I don't know what that's from. Maybe I got to go to Hoffman. Who knows?

Yeah. I think a lot. You can find a lot of stuff from Hoffman. But so many of us have that where we take sort of one external moment and take, take, take, it to like tell us who we are. And that can be really, really toxic. It can be really self-defeating, really limiting. And so I'm really hard on myself. I'm not really great with work-life balance, all these things. And the catalyst for me going to Hoffman was just like I was really stressed. And I didn't need to be that stressed because I had hired a team at that point and I just like still

wasn't delegating. And I ended up finding a lot more from that experience. But it's really about stopping this structure, this like schema we have about the world and how we like super associate with outcomes or patterns or like a particular behavior in point in time and are able to just like move forward from it. So what advice would you give to someone who say we're going through COVID? They have an idea like yours. Maybe they're getting push back from family or friends. What advice would you tell them? Okay. So the first thing is starting a business is as you guys know really hard. It is. And you have to like, I feel like entrepreneurship is so sexy now, which is ridiculous because you work, like I work my ass off. And I love it. And I am the happiest

I've ever been in my life. But you have to really love your baby. Like if you're going to raise this company, it has to be something that you are really committed to. It's not just like, in my opinion, I don't think you're going to have the best experience if you're just like a billion dollar idea. I'm going to make it happen. I'm going to flip it. People do have positive experiences in that area all the time. Rarely, though. Yeah. Yeah. But they definitely don't have the level of fulfillment that is attainable if you're really thoughtfully choosing something you care about. So my first piece of advice is like for me, it was a happiness spreadsheet and then like going through hell for a while in a toxic work situation that brought me there. But really get clear on what it is you want and what's going to make you feel fulfilled.

and then from there, create a plan. Like, yes, I just sort of was out of Goldman and doing this thing, but it wasn't really like that because prior to leaving Goldman, I was making this stuff in my apartment for months. I was going to farmers markets. I had customer feedback. I had feedback on what price points are working for people. I had an idea, and you never really have any idea, but I had done the testing and put in the work in the little ways that I had accessible to me to be able to make focus next. steps. How many years has this been now? Really, 2017. Before that, I was kind of like low-key farmers market. I'm saying like from the time you got into bees, farmers market, like,

making your own stuff out of your apartment. Because I think that all counts. And people see that this result, right? Yeah. That was quick. But I'm talking about like, a hundred percent. So people see the company and they see it as like something that launched in 2017 and is this like overnight success. I really started doing this in 2012. Like in 2012, that's when I hit rock bottom with my illness. That's when I started beekeeping and found a love there. That's when I started, I was a TA for my chemistry class in college. So I was making all these products. That's when I started really doing this. And it took me a lot of time and self-work and different experiences to dive in. Well, I think it's important for people to hear because that's almost 10 years, right?

Yeah. And that's another problem is people want these things and they want them right now. And if you don't really love something, I don't think you can, if you didn't love this, you could not have done this for 10 years. There's no way. No chance. You mentioned you do Hoffman in the morning. What does that look like? Yeah. So I do the quad check in. That's what it's called. There's a Hoffman app. So for people who didn't go to the Hoffman process, you can still. And their Instagram too, they lead this over like a meditation thing on, they do it on lives every day. But I like to use the app. I like to write things down. And it basically asks you, it has you check in with the different components of who you are. So your emotional self. How do I feel? What do I need today? My intellectual self. How do I feel? What do I need today, my body. How do I feel? What do I need today? And then higher self, which is like your spiritual self or evolve self or whatever you want to call it, the best version of you. And it's what's one word that describes how I'm feeling right now and what's sort of the advice or feedback. So I write that every morning. And sometimes it's like a word per each one. Sometimes I'm like, I sit down with like five

minutes thinking I'm just going to write a word and all of a sudden I've written like six paragraphs. I love it. I need to try that. The Hoffman app. So the moral of the story is, if you become a beekeeper, you'll create a massively successful business, you'll be super healthy. I want Carly to tell us how we can all be more like the queen bee. I think the moral of the story is really be thoughtful about finding your purpose and really be kind to yourself in giving yourself the tools, whether that's going to Hoffman or journaling or whatever it is to get yourself into a place where you can be kind and patient enough with yourself to let yourself get there. To be the queen bee to cut the penis off. Exactly.

Don't get any ideas. Where is or what is a book or resource or podcast that you turn to that you think would bring our audience value? Yeah. So in the beginning, I did a lot of reading podcasting just to try to learn about business because I was like, yeah, I'm coming from finance, but like I don't know how to start a business. And a podcast that I really learned a lot from is entrepreneurial thought leaders. I think it's the Stanford Business School podcast and they just have different entrepreneurs on. But they have really candid conversations. Like I love how I built this. But when I listen to entrepreneurial thought leaders, I feel like I get more like takeaways and ideas versus the kind of inspiration that I get from how I built this. So that's a really good one. I'm going to listen to that

entrepreneurial thought leaders. Where can everyone find you? Where can they shop the bees? And if they're going to start with one, which one would they start? Do you recommend they start with? So I say probolous, just because it's a good overall immune booster, protector, it's safe to use on the regular basis. You can find me and us at beekeepers naturals.com. Our Instagram is beekeepers underscore naturals. And we're available everywhere at Whole Foods. And you can also now find us at Target. Amazing. I want to say to the audience that I have tried the properless spray many, many, many times. I use it all the time. So that's the one that I'm going to recommend since I've tried it so much. It's amazing. It's the most amazing throat spray, especially if your throat hurts. I find it very calming. And I love it. So I'm going to recommend that one. And if you want, I'd love to do a giveaway for our audience. Definitely. Okay. So let's do like a little basket of your products. All you guys have to do is follow Carly on Instagram. say the handle one more time. Beekeepers underscore naturals.

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