The Breakfast Club - Ask Yee

Episode Date: May 16, 2019

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Morning everybody, it's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy, we are The Breakfast Club. It's time for Ask Yee. Hello, who's this? Buenos dias, soy Jorge. Hola, Jorge. Hola, Jorge. Como estas? Muy bien, I'm your biggest fan, though. What's your question for Angela Yee? Oh, stop it, Envy. That's terrible.

What's up, girl? What's up, Charlamagne Tha Guy? I got my baby mama, She keeps DMing me. Me too. She doesn't have your phone number? She do, but I guess she's just like a messenger. And she usually don't even text me out the blue like that, but she always like, what are you doing? And then she'll cut me short.

I don't know what she want. To be honest, I give her money, and I'll take care of her, but I don't know if she's jealous. She's trying to get back with me. Well, what do you want, Jorge? Me? I mean, I want everything, but to be honest, I can't see it with her. That's why I don't really reply or bat like that. Okay, so then it doesn't matter what she wants.

What matters is what you want. That means true. So if you don't want to be with her, don't be with her. It don't matter if she wants to be with you, or you can't figure out what's her motives. None of that matters if that's not who you want to be with her Don't be with her It don't matter if she wants to be with you Or you can't figure out what's her motives None of that matters if that's not who you want to be with Alright well can I just shout out my Instagram It's Domingo underscore

Oh my god Slide in them DM's he'll answer them I seen that drink challenge yesterday I love me some you two Probably like three years ago You and Envy was on there talking about some eating booty Oh yes Envy was talking there talking about some eating booty. Oh yes Envy was talking about

eating booty. Y'all kill me man I love the breakfast club. Alright. I feel like sometimes y'all throw shade at me.

At you? We don't even know you. You might on Twitter. Man shut up. Okay Jorge. Thank you.

We appreciate you. That was a little shade. That was a little shade y'all. That was a little shade. It's the audacity

of these a**es man. Why you throwing shade at him? Alright take care. Alright Jorge. Bye. That was a little shade, y'all. That was a little shade. It's the audacity of these a**es, man. Why you throwing shade at him? All right, take care. All right, Jorge. Bye. Hasta la vista. Hasta luego.

We're in the middle of asking you what line you want to go to. Let's do Makita on line nine. Makita, good morning. Hey, how y'all? I'm good. So, hey, everybody. Okay, so me, I wanted to ask. So, pretty much I was in a relationship, and then I got pregnant.

And when I got pregnant, as I had my baby, everything pretty much just went left. Like, I was kind of being, like, a little abused. What's a little abused? So I have been, like, kid before in my face. But only, like, once we get in, like, a real strong argument and he just don't know how to control his temper. Okay. Makita, don't downplay what happened to you. You weren't a little abused. You were abused.

Okay. Okay. Makita? Yes. I was abused. I have a daughter with him, Okay. Makita? Yes. I have a daughter with him, and I don't want to take my daughter out of his life. And when I went over to his house to pick my daughter up, and he had a girl there, and it made me feel like I wanted him back.

So I kind of tried, but it was still negative and just negative energy. You know, I want to be positive and feel loved and everything. And I guess it's like, what am I supposed to, what do I do now? Like, how do I get over these feelings? Makita, baby, listen, first of all, it's okay for you to have these feelings. It's okay that you were jealous that he had another woman at the house. It's okay that you feel a way better. You're a human being, and that's fine.

But I would say you should be thankful that you are not with this man anymore, and I would say run and keep it moving. And just because you're all not together doesn't mean he can't be a father and that he's not going to be in your daughter's life. He can still do those things, but you don't want to raise your daughter around somebody that's abusive to you, that you're making excuses for. I think that right now you should be so happy that you're not with him anymore. I know that it takes a long time because only time can heal those wounds that you're feeling.

Right. But it's okay for you to mourn the death of a relationship. It's over. And then what if I i don't i'd be telling him like i don't want him i don't want my child around certain um people that he has around them because they just are enemies to me or just don't like me or whatever and he still feel like pretty much just forget what i say like there's no respect. So here's the thing. Do you feel like your daughter's in harm's way? No.

Okay, so it sounds like this is an emotional experience where you don't want your child around people who you don't like and you want him to respect that, but that's a hard thing for you to enforce. And if you feel like your daughter is safe and she's okay and that he's doing a good job as a father, you yourself are going to have to deal with those because you can't really tell him who to be around

you know and all those things I think it's a different question if it's a safety issue but if you feel like your daughter's safe and being treated well that's the top priority. Okay well thank you you definitely helped me clear my mind and just know which way to go. Makita

I can't wait till you find somebody who loves you and values you the way that you deserve to be valued in your relationship. And I think that sometimes certain things are a blessing. Like anytime you think, I want him back, I want to get back with him, just remember how abusive he was and remember that he has other girls that he's dealing with and don't go back and backslide because it's going to take you even longer to get out of that hole. Right. You halfway out of it now. Keep going. Okay.

Thank you. Okay, Makita, we love you. Love y'all too. Thank y'all. I listen to y'all every morning. Alright, thank you, mama. Thank you. Bye. Alright, well, let's go to another line. Hello, who's this? Hey, this is Nando calling from Virginia. What's up, bro? What's your question for you?

I'm about to go to jail and do three years. And, you know, my girlfriend, she said she's going to rock with me, whatever. But we had infidelities before. I caught her texting people and stuff. She said she's going to rock with me, whatever, through the day. But I don't know if I should go to jail with a clear mind or, you know, just try to hold it down with her. What do you think? Being that she's already had infidelity issues while you were home and not locked up,

and you've caught her texting and doing other things, I would say I wouldn't want you to be stressed out in jail thinking that your girl is going to hold you down. Right. That's what I was saying to her. I told her the same thing. Great if she does, but you have to be realistic with yourself. You know, you are about to go away. You're going to be gone for three years. She's going to have a lot of freedom. And imagine every day you're trying to call her wondering what she's doing. You know, you might have to just, in reality, either say, okay, I'm going to just give her this pass in my mind and know that whatever might be happening

might happen and I have to be prepared for the fact that she's not going to do this bid with me. Or you have to just let her know, look, I don't even expect you to do that. Yeah, true, true. I guess I might just break it off. But I appreciate it, Yee. All right, no problem.

Good luck to you and Jill. Thank you. Trying to keep it real. Good luck in jail. Yeah. Good luck to you in jail. Think you need a little more than luck. Geesh.

All right.