The Breakfast Club - Broadcasted Hate, Expected Grace (Racial Slur at Michael B Jordan and Delroy Lindo)
Episode Date: February 24, 2026Fresh off the Femme It Forward “Femmeland at Sea” cruise, Loren LaRosa checks in with a full heart and a fuller perspective. Surrounded by over a thousand Black women celebrating joy, rest..., and sisterhood—with unforgettable moments from Keyshia Cole, Monica, and SWV—Loren reflects on what it means to pause, receive, and understand that out of sight does not mean out of mind. But while one space poured into the culture, another exposed its wounds. Loren unpacks the disturbing moment at the BAFTA Awards when a racial slur was shouted during a live broadcast as Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo stood on stage. She breaks down the apology, the burden of “professionalism,” and the exhausting expectation that Black people must always respond with dignity in the face of disrespectYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakfastClubPower1051FMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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There were over 12 to 1,500 black women sailing a sea and just honestly filling up our cups.
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my friends reached out and was like hey what's up with the crews I want to come and I'm so happy that
it was like a friend circle there and I wasn't just there just with Bree I mean me and
brie would have had a great time too but it felt like a girl strip and I'm always so like work work
work work out of sight is out of mind you got to keep showing up or anybody going to want you to show up
at all like the way that I think and talk to myself I realize this weekend is not only very unfair
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and accuracy that goes into that.
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So during the BAFTA Awards, there was a man in the audience who was a subject of a film that was also, you know, being honored at the awards.
This man's name was John Davidson.
And John Davidson is a man who suffers with a version.
of Tourette's. I'm not even going to attempt to say the name
because I can't, but I will insert
how you said here.
And he, during
the broadcast, shouted out the N-word
while Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo were on stage
presenting
Best Visual Effects Award to Avatar
Fire and Ash. Let's take a listen to
the N-word being shouted.
Delaware and I are delighted to be presenting the first
BAFTA of the night for a vital part of movie making.
So after this, you know, BBC got a lot of backlash because y'all are airing it and you guys don't even take the time delay to like edit it out before it's put out on your platform.
BAPTA got a lot of backlash because they came out and apologized.
But their apology also included a look, let's just have a conversation about the disability and what the disability does.
But they had no conversation about what two black men standing in a room full of people or anybody,
watching any black person watching uh has to endure when you hear that and and hear it shouted
in a room for the people and having to watch michael b jordan and delroy lindo basically like
just eat it like they took a pause they continued but you could tell the restraint um that they
had to show in that moment um and and if i'm just having you know an honest conversation i remember
when conier west was doing things like the white lives matter t-shirts and saying different
things in song and against different communities and, you know, the swastika t-shirt.
And the conversation around Kanye West at the time was not only about what he is doing, right?
And Kanye West doesn't have Tourette's, but we all know Kanye West, you can't control him.
But I mentioned him and I mentioned those moments because I remember the conversation
around or for the Jewish communities was about the hate.
that would happen after that moment, right?
So there were then reports about, you know,
random, you know, Jewish hate movements happening
in the uprising of them and signage being showed different places
following Kanye West's moment.
And everything was pointed back to the moments where he chose, you know,
wrongfully too.
I don't agree with anything Kanye West did or said, you know,
against any community.
But everything pointed back to those moments.
where these things were put on a platform, regardless if you agree with them or not,
regardless if he was mentally in his right mind or not, these things were platformed through music,
through fashion, through media covering it.
And the conversation was about how can we protect, you know, this group of people because
this will spark hate.
I read the BAFTA apology that they put up where they apologized to, you know, Michael
B. Jordan, Delver Lindo, you know, everyone that was, you know,
that had to endure this.
They talked a bit about, you know, his type of Tourette's and how, you know,
basically what he is saying is not reflective of how he actually feels.
And, I mean, look, you can argue that all day and that's what's happening right now.
But no one has said, like, no, Bafta, no one from any official committee has said,
well, what about the hate that this will spark moving forward?
Like, there has been none of that.
And the fact that there is a huge platform that could have been responsible enough to remove it.
They removed other things.
Like, what about that?
That didn't happen.
So I'm on this boat and I'm looking around at all these black women, generations of black women, little girls, you know, women my age, college students, recent college graduates.
And we're, and black women, women of color, like, we all there and we vibe it and we having such a good time.
And then I'm looking at the news and I'm like, dang, like, I hate the fact that black and empathy and bullshit always have to live in the same sentence.
Like, why do we always have to be empathetic?
Like even in BAFTA's apology, and I'm going to pull it up.
And at the end of the statement, they say, we take full responsibility for putting our guests in a very difficult situation and we apologize to all.
We will learn from this and keep inclusion at the core of all that we do, maintaining our belief in film and storytelling as a.
critical conduit for compassion and empathy.
Now they also, when they talk about Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo, they say early in the
ceremony, a loud tick in the form of a profoundly offensive term was heard by many people in the
room.
Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo were on stage at the time and we apologize unreservedly to
them and to all those impacted.
We would like to thank Michael B. Jordan and Delroy for their incredible dignity and
professionalism.
Oh, and I get it.
I mean, they're trying to make it right, right, right?
They're trying to make it right.
They're apologizing and they're doing all the things.
The press release is here.
But it pissed me off that they, in this, mentioned their incredible dignity and professionalism.
Because who would be expected to remain professional and have dignity in a moment like that?
And it's crazy because I was thinking, too, like, all right, if in that,
moment delroyland dough or michael b jordan had responded in any way i mean they didn't even it's like
they knew and i know like we on the podcast here at the latest with lorna rosa we've talked about as like
black women like all of my black women listeners i always talk to you guys directly even without
knowing it because there are little things that we do like the clock it and all the things and
like mm-hmm like like girl like i could just say girl and you know what's about to come next right
we have this like these things these the body language the the words that we use that you just know
when i looked at michael b jordan and del row lindo in that video and i saw their bodies and i saw
how they tightened up in that moment i'm like they know they can't even blink the wrong way right now
literally because then the story becomes about their reaction and not about what was done so it
it takes them from being a victim of a moment they should have not had to endure
to anything else that people would have wanted to put on them
depending on how they reacted.
And I was so happy that they handled it the way that they did
only because I'm like,
the world needs to respond for them.
But I was so, it broke my heart that they had to do that.
And Del Rilendo gave a statement to a Vanity Fair
and he talked about, you know,
how after the award show,
he just wishes someone from the BAFTA organization
had come and talk to them about what it just happened.
And that I know of that has not still happened yet.
I did reach out to Bafta, and I plan to reach out to Michael B, Jordan,
and Delroyland those teams to see if there's any update there,
because I can't imagine they haven't reached out at this point.
If they haven't, someone over there is just very culturally incompetent
and just not a good human being.
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The nurse who should have been in charge of caring for tiny babies is now the most prolific child killer in modern British history.
Everyone thought they knew how it ended.
A verdict, a villain, a nurse named Lucy Letby.
Lucy Letby has been found guilty.
But what if we didn't get the whole story?
The moment you look at the whole picture, the case collapses.
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of the British establishment of this is wrong.
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China's Ministry of State Security
is one of the most mysterious and powerful spy agencies in the world.
But in 2017, the FBI got inside.
This is Special Agent Regal, Special Agent Bradley Hall.
This MSS officer has no idea the U.S. government is on to him.
But the FBI has his chats, texts, emails, even his personal diary.
Hear how they got it on the Sixth Bureau podcast.
I now have several terabytes of an MSS officer, no doubt, no question, of his life.
And that's a unicorn.
No one had ever seen anything like that.
It was unbelievable.
This is a story of the inner workings of the MSS.
and how one man's ambition and mistakes opened its fault of secrets.
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Derbri Lindo said to Vanity Fair about the moment, we were just doing what we knew we had to do.
And we always are just doing what we got to do.
Like we always are.
And that's never, honestly, I don't have hope that that will ever change.
You know, and I can't speak for anyone else or any other.
other races. I've always just only been a black woman. But it's always, well, you got to do what
you got to do. It's always that. And it's frustrating because I look around and I think about,
you know, everything I experienced on this cruise. I mean, Keisha Cole and her beautiful ability to
sing and all the support she had in the room. Monica and just her storytelling and how she's been
a part of our lives telling these stories. Literally my whole life, I'm 34 years old.
SWV went completely
Acapella, y'all, on that stage,
mid-sea, because their sound wasn't what they needed it to be
and delivered.
Motivational speeches, the conversation I had with Crystal
Renee on Keep It Positive, sweetie,
not only did, I feel like everybody in the room
got to, like, know me a bit.
Because, you know, like, Breakfast Club,
like, I'm sitting with, like, four other people
and they might not listen to my podcast.
But I feel like I got to, like, see me.
myself differently after that conversation.
Like completely differently.
Like, it was just like, oh my God, I don't want to sound so cliche, but it was, there was
such an awakening.
There were so many awakening moments for me this weekend where I felt like I don't have
to just be.
And if I do choose to just be, I choose to exist, not just be, not get along to get along.
And then you see something like this to two very established actors, very successful men who
we're leading to charge and storytelling and television.
And it's like, dang, like, do we ever really get forward?
Like, is that a thing?
It was just crazy to me, the irony.
And I've been thinking about that all yesterday when I was preparing for the podcast
today and the show yesterday.
Like, all yesterday, I was thinking the irony of you have all of us black.
And I mean, it was like, you had Milano DiRouge,
you had
I saw B Simone
Pretty V
Haddor Lowry
Well she did the cruise
Ashley Christopher from
HBCU Week
Scotty Beam
and Sylvia Bell
did their podcast as well too
Shout out to my girls
There was just so much
going on on the podcast
I mean on the boat
And so many women
successful
astutes like you know
bomb fire women right
And all of this is happening
I'm like
At the same time in the world
somebody somewhere who has worked their asses off to have respect
is being disrespectful because they look like you and me.
And that is insane.
So, I mean, I hope that there will be more from, you know,
BAFTA on what else they have done to, I mean,
you can't make up for something like this,
but I do think that there's a right course of correction.
And I don't think that they've done everything,
in my opinion, that they could have done for these to be two
very established world-renowned artists, actors
who are leading to charge on not just black storytelling,
but storytelling in general.
Some of the biggest celebrities in the world
just sat and got called the worst racial slur
you could ever call them to their face
and you broadcasted it.
And all they got was,
I love your professionalism and your dignity, we are sorry.
And from what Del Rolindo says,
that wasn't even said directly to them.
So we'll keep you guys posted as things update there.
Yeah, I want to get in now to
just, you know, what we didn't get to play
from the crew, some of the conversations,
you know,
the live performances, we got
Keisha Cole on stage tearing
it down.
Baby, Monica gonna take you to Atlanta
with her and make you, I'm always
down to go kick down the door and smack a chick
because Monica said so. And I
gave that up a long time ago. But when Monica
get on stage and see that part, it'd be like,
all right, girl, where's she at what you need? Because stop playing
with Monica.
SWV on stage.
I definitely want to do the part where they are just completely A cappella.
They sounded amazing.
Shout out to SWV.
This has been another episode of the latest with Lauren LaRosa.
I'm your host, Lauren the Rosa.
And I tell you guys every single episode, and I really do mean it.
I love seeing y'all in person.
I love talking to you guys here, and I tell you whether we in person and we outside jump with Double Dutch or be right here on the podcast that y'all could be anywhere with anybody talking about all of the things.
And the fact that you guys choose to be here with me every episode, I appreciate it so much.
It has literally changed my life, period.
So I'll see you guys in my next episode.
I'm about to go catch just flight and drink some tea because that cruise ate my voice up.
Talk to y'all later.
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one of the most mysterious intelligence agencies in the world.
The Sixth Bureau podcast is a story of the inner workings of the MSS and how one man's ambition
and mistakes opened its fault of secrets.
Listen to the Sixth Bureau on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your
podcasts.
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butter disappears from school, Ella, Scout, and Layla launch a full detective mission.
Their search leads them back in time to meet a brilliant inventor whose curiosity changed
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And this Black History Month adventure, asking questions, thinking creatively, can lead to amazing
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You can scroll the headlines all day and still feel empty.
I'm Ben Higgins, and if you can hear me, is where culture meets the soul.
Honest conversations about identity, loss, purpose, peace, faith, and everything in between.
Celebrities, thinkers, everyday people, some have answers.
Most are still figuring it out.
And if you've ever felt like there has to be more to the story, this show is for you.
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I'm Amanda Knox, and in the new podcast, Doubt, the K-Hart
of Lucy Letby, we unpack the story of an unimaginable tragedy that gripped the UK in
2023. But what if we didn't get the whole story?
The moment you look at the whole picture, the case collapsed.
What if the truth was disguised by a story we chose to believe?
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