The Breakfast Club - Can A Straight Man Call Other Men 'Sexy' ?

Episode Date: March 10, 2023

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Our guest co-host, Tamar Braxton, is here. Hello. And it's Friday, so you know what that means. It's Freaky, Freaky, Freaky Friday. And this Freaky, Freaky, Freaky Friday. And this Freaky, Freaky, Freaky Friday question comes from a young man that finds Charlamagne sexy. Let's listen. Charlamagne, I think, kind of have a, he seem like, oh, he have a little bit, he seem like a, he have a kind of a womanly look. He's beautiful.

Yeah. Dude, you tell me Charlamagne ain't fine, bro? Come on, dog. Oh, you put him in a wig, dog. Some basketball player is going to f**k him. And then not only that, yesterday after the show. By the way, that's Theo Vaughn, by the way. Salute to Theo Vaughn.

I don't know Theo Vaughn, but you know, I appreciate you appreciating me. Okay. And I agree with everything you said. I am beautiful. I don't agree with the NBA player part. Ain't no NBA player smashing me. I'm a faithfully married man. Okay.

All right, whatever floats your boat. But yesterday we were talking behind the scenes and you were saying that you think that certain men are sexy. I did not say that. Yes, you did. I said that men just need to admit to themselves that these women find people like Jonathan Majors and Michael B. Jordan sexy and that's okay. You said you found that guy sexy and attractive.

No, I did not. Attractive is different. Yes, you can look at a man and say, yo, that's a good looking brother. You can do that. No, attractive is different. Yes, you can look at a man and say, yo, that's a good looking brother. You can do that. No, attractive is different than good looking brother. If Charlamagne was a man that you were dating, right?

And he said that another man was sexy or another man was attractive, how would you feel? We're definitely having a conversation. What do you mean by sexy and what makes him sexy to you?

Charlamagne? I don't know. I never had these conversations. Yes, you did. You're a liar. I never said these things. Y'all keep playing these clips. That's clearly AI. No, that's you. That's not me. That's AI, bro. That's not me. I never had these conversations. Yes, you did. You're a liar. I never said these things. Y'all keep playing these clips. That's clearly AI.

No, that's you. That's not AI. That's AI, bro. That's not me. That's not artificial intelligence. It's you. I don't find another man sexy. It's not something that's going to come out of my mouth for us.

You can say a man that looks good. I can say... Y'all are so insecure. I can say women like him. Why can't he go so fragile? He looks good. He's on the line, though, Charlamagne. What did he say?

What did he say? What did he say? Say it again. I can say I think women are like him. You might as well just say he's sexy. No, that's not. Women like him. I can see why women would be attracted to him. By the way, that sounds more gay.

Is it? Yes. You might as well just say, yo, he looks good. He's attractive. I can see why women like him. That's why. Women like him. He could have like him he could have like you know like regular attributes like you know muscles he's successful yes you know what i mean like

things like that i just find it hilarious how men are so intimidated by michael b jordan and jonathan magis with their shirts off like these dudes be on social media straight up hating on these brothers those brothers should just motivate you. They're not doing nothing that you can't do. You can go in the gym. You can do some push-ups. You can go get some HGH. Whatever it is, you can achieve that too if you truly want to.

I just won't find them sexy or attractive. You'll find them attractive. No. Hello? So time out. You don't think Michael B. Jordan look good? No, he's not my cup of tea. He's mine.

He's yours? Not my cup of tea he's mine he's not my cup of tea hello hello Janice no this dress how y'all doing oh my bad bro you identify as a Janice no no that's my mom's name isn't it oh okay

alright so we asking can you say a guy is sexy or attractive, bro? Nah, not at all, man. Like, that ain't it. Like, if you with your homie and y'all get ready for something, he asking how I look and all that, you can say you look good, bro. I look hardly sexy or something like that. That's just too far.

What's the difference? I know, not sexy, but you can say a man look good. Like, sexy is like when your girl from Laundry, like, oh, you look sexy, babe. But when your homie in a suit or something, he asking if you look straight. That's cool. But like sexy, I'm like, sexual, you do. I'm not asking nobody do I look straight.

They're going to be like, no, you look gay. Yo, shut up. That's just your friend. That's just your friend. Hello, who's this? Hello? Hello? Hey, what's up? Take us off Bluetooth for speaker, bro. You breathing friend. Hello, who's this? Hello? Hello? Hey, what's up?

Take us off Bluetooth for speaker, bro. You're breathing hard. This conversation got hot and heavy. Yeah. Can you say another man looks sexy or attractive, bro? You can say another man looks attractive or good looking, but sexy is kind of pushing it. You feel me?

Like if I'm putting my homie on to a female, how he look? I'll be like, yo, he's attractive. He's good looking, but sexy is kind of pushing it. You feel me? Like, if I'm putting my homie on to a female, how he look? I'll be like, yo, he's attractive. He's good looking. But once I say sexy, that's kind of awkward. You know what I mean? What if you say you might find him sexy? You can say that, too, because it depends on the context. Like, I'd be like, all right, if Michael B. Jordan was my homie,

I'd be like, yo, the woman think he's sexy. I don't, but the woman do. See? That's a different context. Yeah, he adding that I don't. But the woman think he's sexy. I don't, but the woman do. That's a different context. Yeah, he adding that I don't. But you know you lying about that I don't. You know what I'm saying? Hello?

Yo, good morning. What's up, man? What's your name? Chris from Arizona, baby. Chris, you Caucasian? No, sir. I'm Mexican. Okay. So, can you call another man sexy to your girl? Chris, you Caucasian? No, sir. I'm Mexican. Okay. You got him. So, can you call another man sexy to your girl?

Or to anybody? Yeah, bro. Look. So, like, my girl was talking about this the other day with her cousin. So, they were talking. We were watching the Zac Efron movie. And my girl was like, my man's not good enough to, like, you know, say it out loud. And I tell her straight up, I'll be like, dude, like, Zach Efron's a good-looking-ass man.

Like, you know, and it's not even about being gay, bro. It's just you're giving this man his flowers because you're a good-looking-ass dude out there. Yo, Zach Efron got swole, too. You seen Zach Efron lately? Bro, yeah. Come on, man. Come on.

What? No. He got swole. No lie, Tyler. What? He got swole. He playing some wrestler in a movie. I forgot what wrestler, but he done got

Diesel. Hey, you talking Diesel, baby? Let's talk about Logan. What's up, man? It sounds like he's flirting with you now, Charlotte. You call it behind, Envy. Come on, bro. So you and Charlamagne want to fight over Zach Efron? I don't like white men. Hey, Charlotte. You leave Zach Efron alone, Charlotte. I would never. If I was that way, I would never date a white man okay I'm still

following dr. Lamar's principles me look how beautiful I am you know what that man said and man said I'm beautiful okay so hard for for a man to give another man a compliment. It's not, but if I don't find another man sexy. Sexy is somebody I'm sexually attractive to. Okay. Attractive is somebody I feel like I'm attracted to. You want. Okay. I don't get those feelings from men.

So you can say attractive, good looking. I just told you I can't say attractive. But why is it okay for a woman to say another woman is sexy? Because we say that a lot. Yes. I don't see the problem with it. Is there a difference? There shouldn't be. It's okay. I mean, if you find another woman sexy. I don't find men sexy.

Men are not sexy to me. Charlamagne? I'm not attracted to women, but I've said that before. Men are good looking. Men are good looking. It's okay to say that. We're going to tread lightly on that line. Okay. 805-85-1051. Is it okay for another man to call another man sexy

Or attractive You said sexy You did say sexy There was seven people in here that heard you say sexy That's what they said you had to say now You shooting your shot with Jonathan Majors 800-585-1051 We'll take your call when we come back

It's the Breakfast Talk of the Morning it's freaky friday goddamn call in now 800-585-1051 we want to hear from you on the breakfast club morning everybody it's dj envy charlamagne the guy we are the breakfast club it's friday so you know what that means it's freaky freaky freaky friday and the freaky freaky freaky friday question is uh you know charlamagne was talking behind the scenes yesterday and he was talking about different men with sexy he was talking about jonathan magis he was talking about michael b jordan talking about how attractive they were and all the things he would think about when he seen them i did not say any of that yes yeah it's true all of this is a lie by the way y'all so we're asking you know can a guy feel i don't think. Unless you find a man sexy. I just don't find

men as sexy. I think it's okay to tell a man that, uh, it's okay to say a man is attractive. I think it's okay to say a man is good looking. I think that you should look at people like Michael B. Jordan and Jonathan Majors instead of hating. You know, take your ass to the gym. How about that? How about it? How about that?

Hello, who's this? This is KK from Brownsville. Good morning, breakfast club. What's up, bro? Talk to us. Uncle Charlotte, Uncle Envy, pretty face. Thank you, sir. Let me tell you, I feel like you shouldn't call the next man, boy, they're beautiful, right?

Yes, and sexy. Absolutely not. Absolutely not. And Uncle Charlotte, man, I'm going to stop calling you uncle, man, because you keep pushing the envelope, man. Well, call me auntie then, but let me tell you something. What's TT? TT.

TT. TT Charlotte, man. There's nothing wrong. I can walk up to a brother and say, beautiful black man, and give him a pound and give him a hug. Why can't you do that? Why not? Hey, y'all are so good. Absolutely right.

Beautiful black man. Let's see how I feel about that. You want the third to be in school calling the next bit? No, the little boys. Yo, you're beautiful. What's up, beautiful? Now you're one of them. Beautiful black man Let's see how I feel about that You want the third to be in school Calling the next The new boys Yo you beautiful What's up beautiful Nah you don't want none of that I ain't saying like that

But I'm saying If I give a man a pound I give him a hug Is it beautiful black man But that's what it's gonna lead to Uncle Charlotte Black is beautiful That's what it's gonna lead to brother

Black is beautiful man Yeah black is beautiful But that's just like An overall statement You know what I'm saying We got our egos Gotta stop being so fragile bro That would make me

Hold on hold hold on. And Diddy, he called the guy from Snowfall beautiful at one point too. We got to fight. We got to set that up. Jay-Z the only one

that can make that fight. Who said that? Oh, oh, oh. That boy Diddy. That boy love. Oh, Diddy said the dude from Snowfall was beautiful? Yeah, you already see that?

No, we missed that one. Nah, I didn't hear that one. Oh, man. Do your Googles, man. Google it. I don't see anything wrong with that. Salute to Diddy, though. And by the way, Diddy will make you feel good with them compliments.

But Diddy gave you a compliment. What did he say to you? I did. I saw it. I mean, we see Diddy a lot. But one time, it was last summer at Bishop T.D. Jakes' birthday party. And Diddy walked up to me, and he said, the sexiest man alive. And this was literally right after that Young Miami interview.

So he walked up to me, and he goes, the sexiest man alive. And I go, Mr. Act Bad. You acting bad tonight? And my wife was like, that's all y'all can think to say to each other? I mean, I'm with the wife. Wow. Your wife should be upset about that. You taking it too far now.

It's a joke. And y'all said that at the Potter's house, huh? Wow. It's a joke unless I... This is getting interesting, right? What did that one listener tell you that day? Oh, man. It ain't got nothing to do with that. Okay.

Hello. Hello. What's your name, mama? My name is Shawna. Hey, Shawna. Where you calling from? Good morning, Shawna. I'm calling from Georgia.

You know what I'm saying? All right, Georgia. Now, Shawna, would you be, how do you feel if another man says another man is sexy? Okay, so my take on it, I just feel like you don't uplift each other enough. Like, it's okay for a female to be like, yes, girl, yes, you're doing that. But it's not okay for the men to give the same energy

to other men no you that's Atlanta talk sis no ma'am no ma'am pack your bags see but it's a difference

when I don't know like if my man had friends and he called them sexy I don't think that I would feel a type of way about it

cause it's that Atlanta stuff it's. Because it's that Atlanta stuff. It's the culture. It's that Atlanta stuff. Men be calling other men sexy in all kinds of different ways. When they be like, yo, you got swag. He got swag. Swag is just the acronym for sex with another guy. So it's literally like if you saying that to a man, you saying he sexy. Alright, well what's

the moral of this story if there is a moral? Say him I don't like it. I don't have a problem with it. What do you think? I think it's the over complimenting. You know what I mean? It's cool to be like, oh, well, most women find him attractive, but once you started giving your opinion on how he looks to me,

we got to, you know, look at the glass a little bit more closely. Well, you know what I'm saying? I'm different. I'll take compliments from anywhere I can get them. Compliment me. I don't care what you identify as. If you think I'm different. I take compliments from anywhere I can get them. Compliment me. I don't care what you identify as. If you think I'm beautiful, tell me. Oh, he's texting me and you're watching.

Period. Tell me. Okay? All right. Well, when we come back, we got Past the Aux. Past the Aux is a segment we do with Nala Simone when she comes up here. And she tells us what she's listening to on her playlist. And we're going to go through that today. All right? So don it's the breakfast club good morning the breakfast club hey guys I'm Kate Max you might know me from my popular online

series the running interview show where I run with celebrities entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Bash, bam, another one gone. The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap, there's another one gone. Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history, like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it.

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