The Breakfast Club - Carefully Reckless: Frenemies & Fetishes

Episode Date: February 23, 2025

The Black Effect Presents... Carefully Reckless! Hey y'all! Jess been fixing your mess for years now and y'all still surprising her with new scenarios. Does sending feet pics qualify as cheating? Is y...our homegirl hating on your relationship? Tap in!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcript
Discussion (0)
Starting point is 00:00:00 What would you do if mysterious drones appeared over your hometown? I started asking questions. What do you remember happening on that night of December 16th? It actually rotated around our house, looking as if it was peering in each window of our home. I'm Gabe Lenners from Imagine, I Heart Podcasts and Lenners Entertainment. Listen to Obscurum, Invasion of the Drones, wherever you get your favorite podcasts.
Starting point is 00:00:30 Hey, Brooklyn Nine Niners, it's a reunion. The ladies of the Nine Nine are getting back together for a special episode of the podcast, More Better. Host Stephanie Beatriz and Melissa Fumero welcome friend and former castmate, Chelsea Ferretti. Remember when we were in that scene where you guys were just supposed to hug and I was standing there?
Starting point is 00:00:47 Oh, yeah. I was like, can I also hug them? Listen to More Better with Stephanie and Melissa on America's number one podcast network, iHeart. Follow More Better and start listening on the free iHeart radio app today. Black History Month is here, and we're excited to kick off season four of I Didn't Know Maybe You Didn't Either.
Starting point is 00:01:08 This season we're shining a spotlight on revolutionary women who redefined excellence. Give Grace Wisher her flowers. Next time you see the American flag, you just remember a 16 year old black woman helped to make it happen. Listen to I Didn't Know Maybe You Didn't Either from the Black Effect Podcast Network on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or simply wherever you get your podcasts. This is John Cameron Mitchell and my new fiction podcast series, Cancellation Island, stars
Starting point is 00:01:42 Holly Hunter as Karen, a wellness influencer who launches a rehab for the recently canceled. In the future, we will all be canceled for 15 minutes. But don't worry, we'll take you from broke to woke or your money back. Cancellation Island's revolutionary rehab therapies like Bad Touch Football, Anti-Racism Spin Class, and Mandatory Ayahuasca Ceremonies are designed to force the cancel to confront their worst impulses. But everything starts to fall apart when people start disappearing.
Starting point is 00:02:15 Karen, where have you brought us? Cancellation Island, where a second chance might just be your last. Listen to Cancellation Island on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect. ["I Heart Radio and The Black Effect"] And just like that, we're back with yet another Carefully Reckless episode with your girl Jess Hilarious.
Starting point is 00:02:54 What do I be doing? I be fixing my ass so we're going to jump straight in. We got Taylor here, y'all. She going to be in and out because she got some stuff to do today. She a little bit busy and pregnant over there. So say hey, Taylor. Hey. All right, y'all. So say hey Taylor. Hey. Alright y'all so I'm gonna read. I'm gonna start off reading and then I'll fill you in
Starting point is 00:03:11 when you come back. Okay. Alright. What's poppin' Jess? I'm gonna start off strong. I'm a 27 year old lesbian who has damn okay. Alright she did say she's gonna start off strong. I'm a 27 year old lesbian who has a girlfriend who sells feet picks. Okay. She hasn't always done it, but she's definitely doing it now.
Starting point is 00:03:31 About three months ago, she lost her job and I've been carrying her. We also live with each other, by the way. Recently, things have been getting kinda slow because it's only one working person in the household. And all my income is going toward bills and etc. So that means no extra shit been going on. Yes, she was looking for jobs but no luck.
Starting point is 00:03:50 One day out of nowhere she just deposited $3,500 in my account. She told me this was from the last two months rent and she'll have another $3,000 next week. So now I'm like, okay, you found a job and she's saying yes, she's doing paid partnerships and collabs and it's turning out well for her. I didn't really question it too much. I was just happy that things were turning around. So a few days ago I had to pick up her phone for something and I seen a message that said, you ready? In my head I'm like, you ready for what? But I just let it play out. She didn't go nowhere. So I'm like, who could this be? That night I decided to pick
Starting point is 00:04:24 up her phone again and see who texted her. I looked through the thread, and she's been sending feet pics and videos of herself to this number for the past two months. When I say this nigga paying hundreds of dollars for this girl's feet, he really is. And her feet not even all that.
Starting point is 00:04:41 Ay yo! Ay yo! You better fucking chill. Anyways, the messages weren't crazy. It just seemed like she just sends what she sends and he sends the funds and that be it. Okay, all right, so it's kind of platonic a little bit. Like, well, not platonic,
Starting point is 00:04:59 because he beaten off to her feet, but in a way, I mean, I ain't really doing them. I honestly don't really know how I feel about it, but I do want to say something, not gonna lie. I feel like the only reason she hasn't said anything because she may feel embarrassed, and I mean, I don't prefer her to do that, but until she can get to where she wants to be,
Starting point is 00:05:17 I'm not gonna knock her, but yes, there are other ways to make money. How would you approach this situation, Jess? Honestly, it's so much other shit to trip about, y'all. I mean, this is not one of them. I'm just gonna be completely honest with you. Y'all come to me so I can help fix y'all mess, and not only fix y'all mess based off of my experience, right?
Starting point is 00:05:42 And I just don't really feel like it's that serious for you to, you know, I mean, you didn't say you were gonna break up with her. All right, so Taylor just joined us again. All right, so basically his girl, oh no, she's a 27 year old lesbian. Yes, she came on strong. Yes, all right, my bad.
Starting point is 00:05:59 So her girlfriend, you know, she's been, them two live in a house together, right? And so she had lost her job. The girlfriend lost her job. But the girl that's writing us, she, she been working and she been taking care of the household and everything. But shit, just getting a little tight
Starting point is 00:06:16 because it's only one person making money in the household, right? So out of nowhere, her girlfriend just dropped $3,500 in her account, right? And she like, fuck, okay, cool. She ain't never asked where it came from or nothing. And she was like, I'm gonna give you another $3,000 next week, and so she like, oh shit, all right, cool.
Starting point is 00:06:30 So she just dropping money, paying bills and shit. So she goes in her phone and she see that her girl been sending videos of her feet and pictures of her feet to this guy who's paying hundreds of dollars. She went up and down the thread. She felt like, is it cheating or is it not? And then also, while her girlfriend didn't say anything to her, she felt like she may be embarrassed and shit.
Starting point is 00:06:57 But she was like, I don't wanna knock what she do, but there are other ways to make money. Did she confront her already? No. No, she hasn't. She said she wants to because she want to know how she she approached the situation She's not mad about it. I mean just be like She said they ain't talk about nothing else literally she sends the feet the niggas send the funds So just feet funds feet funds feet funds. You know I'm saying
Starting point is 00:07:23 They talk about no, I love you, I can't wait to see you, I wanna suck on your feet or whatever, he just, yeah. That's a fetish. And this is not the first time I've heard of some shit like this, like niggas pay big bread, 2C bitches play with they feet on OnlyFans. Like, yes, they do that.
Starting point is 00:07:40 That's so weird. Hold up, hold up, I know this shit getting good, but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. Have you ever looked into the night sky and wondered who or what was flying around up there? We've seen planes, helicopters, hot air balloons, and birds, but what if there's something else, something much more ominous that appears under the cover of night,
Starting point is 00:08:06 silent, unseen, watching? They may be right above your car late one night as you cruise down the road, or look like mysterious lights hovering above your home. Drones, or are they? We used the word drone because it was comfortable to other people
Starting point is 00:08:26 One minute was there and one minute it wasn't Be on Creepy do you feel like this drone was targeting you specifically? Yes, absolutely Listen to obscure them invasion of the drones on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The more better the merrier, title of your podcast. All your old Brooklyn Nine-Nine friends are appearing on your favorite podcast, More Better.
Starting point is 00:08:59 Don't miss Brooklyn Nine-Nine stars and show hosts, Stephanie Beatriz and Melissa Fumero, as they welcome their friends and former castmates back to laugh about old times and swap some stories. This week, it's Gina Linetti herself, the talented Chelsea Peretti. Remember when we were in that scene where you guys were just supposed to hug and I was standing there? So I was like, can I also hug them?
Starting point is 00:09:22 Then next week, the Nine-Nine nonsense continues as the more better amigas sit down with Joe Lattrullio, aka Detective Charles Boyle. There'll be more laughs, more conversation, more stories from the set, and more, more better. Don't miss a minute. You felt safe enough to throw out a bad idea, right? I mean, that is the key because you're definitely not throwing out good ideas all the time. I mean, that's just not how it works. Listen to more better with Stephanie and Melissa on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Starting point is 00:09:51 Do you remember what you said the first night I came over here? How goes lower? From Blumhouse TV, iHeart podcasts, and Ember 20 comes an all new fictional comedy podcast series. Join the flighty Damien Hirst as he unravels the mystery of his vanished boyfriend.
Starting point is 00:10:06 And Santi was gone. I've been spending all my time looking for answers about what happened to Santi. And what's the way to find a missing person? Sleep with everyone he knew, obviously. Hmm, pillow talk. The most unwelcome window into the human psyche. Follow our out of his element hero
Starting point is 00:10:23 as he engages in a series of ill-conceived, investigative hookups. Mama always used to say, God gave me gumption in place of a gag reflex. And as I was about to learn, no amount of showering can wash your hands of a bad hookup. Now, take a big whiff, my bra.
Starting point is 00:10:42 Listen to The Hookup on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Hi, I'm Arturo Castro, and I've been lucky enough to do stuff like Broad City and Narcos and Roadhouse and so many commercials about back pain. And now I'm starting a podcast because honestly, guys, I don't feel the space is crowded enough. Get Ready for Greatest Escapes, a new comedy podcast about the wildest true escape stories in history. Each week I'll be sitting down with some of the most hilarious actors and writers and comedians to tell them a buck wild tale from across history and time.
Starting point is 00:11:18 People like Ed Helms, Diane Guerrero, Joseph Gordon-Levitt and Zoe Chow. Titanic. Charles Manson. Alcatraz. Asada Shakur. The sketchy guy named Steve. It's giving funny true crime.
Starting point is 00:11:29 I love storytelling and I love you, so I can't wait. Listen and subscribe to Greatest Escapes on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. So... Um, I don't feel like it's cheating. What I said, I feel like this. I honestly and truly feel that it's other shit to trip about in relationships. You know, Shodi getting the money and she's getting it on her. She's not, it's not illegal. She ain't gotta watch her back, she ain't selling drugs.
Starting point is 00:12:06 She not cheating on you, you know what I mean? She don't even know the guy, never met the guy. I mean, you know what I'm saying? If you do research to find that out, you probably would find that out. But. I mean, unless she's a deep thinker, like what else has she done behind my back?
Starting point is 00:12:22 Since I was doing that. Overthinker, yeah. Yeah, overthinker. Shorty just trying to find a way to get some bread. After trying to look for a job and... Yo, and then, hold up. The girlfriend said, and this is just crazy because like her feet ain't even all that. Hey, yo. Damn, why he...
Starting point is 00:12:39 Yes, like why would you even do that? Like, that's fucked up, you know? Honestly, maybe they could go in together and be like, I got another feat for you. And then he gets double and he pays more. What if her feat fucked up? What if she got stud feet? I don't know what stud feet is.
Starting point is 00:12:59 Oh, okay, okay. Hey yo, I mean, I don't know what stud feet is, but what if Shodi that's writing this, what if her feat ain't all stuff you know, what if what if what if surety that's rightness What if her feet ain't all that? What she gotta get it right then? Yeah, he'll say just tell him I got some more feet Yeah, and he'll pay double You are dumb yo, that's not how that go
Starting point is 00:13:19 I got some more feet for you How can we get more money out of it? Right, right, Well, yeah. But how she should have approached the situation, yeah, just sit down and talk to her about it. Honestly, I would tell her that your sneaky ass went through our phone. That's it.
Starting point is 00:13:33 And this is how I would do it. So you sit her down and say, look babe, I've been carrying us and everything and I really, really appreciate you just dropping that 3,500 in the account. I did have some questions about where it came from and maybe I should have asked you right then and there, but you know, I just, you know, let it be.
Starting point is 00:13:54 You know, you gained some independence. It was cool, it was cool, but I did go through your phone. I got a little couriers, went through your phone. I seen that you be sending feet pics and shit. And don't tell her her feet ain't all that. Just leave that part out. But tell her, you know, be honest with her. Like, yo, it bothered me.
Starting point is 00:14:18 It kind of bothered me a little bit to see you send the pictures and videos to this guy who's paying you all his bread. I mean, I don't know how, and you can even be honest and tell her, I don't know how I would feel about it. I don't know if I feel like you're cheating. I don't know if I should be mad, angry, insecure, betrayed,
Starting point is 00:14:34 whatever, I don't know how I feel. I just want to talk to you about it. And then y'all can just hash that shit out. That's just what 90% of a fucking, no, 80% of a fucking relationship is, communication. You have to have communication. And then, you know, have sex and chill out for the rest of the night.
Starting point is 00:14:55 Hey yo, for real. So I'm moving on to another story. Taylor, you can read this one. Okay. Okay. Hey Jess, what's up? So I'm gonna get straight to it. I think I finally Jess, what's up? So I'm going to get straight to it. I think I finally found the love of my life. I'm so happy with him.
Starting point is 00:15:08 He's a gentleman, a family man, and romantic. We've only been together for almost a year, but I really think he's the one, like I said. But the issue is I have a best friend who seems to be jealous of him. Now, me and my best friend have been friends for about eight years. That's my sis for real.
Starting point is 00:15:22 But ever since I've been dating this guy, she seems to be a lot more protective. And even said when she met him, she didn't feel she would get along with him. Which is crazy, because he's been nothing but nice to her. And I'm happy with him, so I would think she would be happy for me.
Starting point is 00:15:36 Plus, she got a guy of her own that she claims she's happy with. But trust me, they got issues. But that's a story for another day. Anyway, she ended up ruining a surprise gift for my boyfriend and claimed she told me to make sure I would like it. Like what the fuck? It's a surprise.
Starting point is 00:15:52 Why would you ruin that? And she's not even being apologetic towards it. I'm upset with her and my boyfriend definitely is too. I just don't know what to do because I want everyone to get along. Hmm. Yeah, that's crazy. It sounds like there's a bit of jealousy there. Actually, which is worse? I think envy is worse than jealousy. Because envy is when you'll start being like, like.
Starting point is 00:16:19 Isn't that the same thing? Well, kind of sort of, yeah. I mean, because being jealous is just, yeah, like envy is, I want what that person got and I'm going to get it type shit. Oh. Envy is more revengeful, I think. Or I want to sabotage it, yeah. Yeah, I want to sabotage it.
Starting point is 00:16:32 OK, I think, I mean, it sounds like your friend is jealous. I won't say envy. Jealous and also, it is a little bit of envy there, because maybe she wants what you have, you know what I mean? And that two things can be true at one time. All right. So like she loves you. She is your friend. Yes. Because I've had a situation similar like this before.
Starting point is 00:16:58 But when you were single, I bet you there were no problems like when you were single and shit. I mean, that's kind of what you hinted to like, you know, since you've been with this new guy. She's been acting out in a way that Is just like like she's never acted out this way before so that tells me She's used to you being one way like sometimes your friends can't take to see you happier than they are Or if I'm saying it right, you get what I'm saying? Because when I got into my relationship
Starting point is 00:17:30 and my boyfriend slash fiance, like he's now my fiance, when he proposed and everything, it was a lot of people that I thought would be happy for me that was not. And this is close friends, like close friends, close family, like, oh, I wasn't there and all that type of shit. But this is also the friend and family that's like going through shit in their own life.
Starting point is 00:17:59 You know what I mean? When I was single, everything was cool. We was kicking it and shit. Or when Chris was just my boyfriend, and before I had my daughter, before I was single, everything was cool. We was kicking it and shit. Or when Chris was just my boyfriend, and before I had my daughter, before I got pregnant, like when he was just my boyfriend, it was like he was no threat. You know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:18:14 But he out of nowhere became a threat once I got pregnant. Then I'm spending more time with him, then we got the baby and I'm not around as much and I live in Jersey now. And it's from the outside looking at it, it's like, oh, you up there with your perfect fucking family while I'm down here as much and I live in Jersey now and it's from the outside looking it's like oh you up there with your Perfect fucking family while I'm down here, you know still fucking with this nigga who cheating on me who not you know I think I don't even have you to talk to you no more because you're so fucking happy that is
Starting point is 00:18:37 Projection yeah like shit and friends will do that and that's how that's why I had to kind of explain it because I think That's what I think that's what she's going through. You know what I mean? Especially because I've been in situations like that and versus like where I didn't like my friend's boyfriend because he wasn't good for me. He wasn't a good, yeah. That was you being a good friend though. Yeah, but I would never try to like, necessarily sabotage their relationship. Especially if this person really makes her happy.
Starting point is 00:19:10 Right. You know what I mean? Like, if this person really out here making you happy and shit, why would your friend hate on that? And then telling you about the fucking surprise, that is just so wrong and insanely annoying. Like, why would you do that? I wanted to make sure that you liked it.
Starting point is 00:19:25 That's so fucking weird. And then I wonder if she's the type friend that is used to, like, she has to be a part of everything. You know what I mean? Because that's how, I don't know, man. He told your friend in Confident to... Mm-hmm. He even included this bitch. And, like, that's so weird.
Starting point is 00:19:46 I wonder if she's had a conversation. If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial, and then we'll be right back. Have you ever looked into the night sky and wondered who or what was flying around up there? We've seen planes, helicopters, hot air balloons and birds. But what if there's something else, something much more ominous that appears under the cover of night, silent, unseen, watching? They may be right above your car late one night as you cruise down the road or look like mysterious lights hovering above your home?
Starting point is 00:20:25 Drones. Or are they? We used to work drone because it was comfortable to other people. One minute it was there, and one minute it wasn't. Oh, that is beyond creepy. Do you feel like this drone was targeting you specifically? Yes, absolutely. Listen to Obscurum, Invasion of the Drones
Starting point is 00:20:48 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The more better the merrier, title of your podcast. All your old Brooklyn Nine-Nine friends are appearing on your favorite podcast, More Better. Don't miss Brooklyn Nine-Nine stars and show hosts Stephanie Beatriz and Melissa Fumero as they welcome their friends and former castmates back to laugh about old times and swap some stories. This week, it's Gina Linetti herself, the talented Chelsea Peretti.
Starting point is 00:21:17 Remember when we were in that scene where you guys were just supposed to hug and I was standing there? Oh yeah! So I was like, can I also hug them? Then next week, the 9-9 nonsense continues as the more better amigas sit down with Joe Lattrullio, AKA Detective Charles Boyle. There'll be more laughs, more conversation, more stories from the set, and more, more better.
Starting point is 00:21:40 Don't miss a minute. You felt safe enough to throw out a bad idea, right? I mean, that is the key, because you're definitely not throwing out good ideas all the time. I mean, that's just not how it works. Listen to More Better with Stephanie and Melissa on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Do you remember what you said the first night I came over here? How goes lower?
Starting point is 00:22:01 From Blumhouse TV, iHeart Podcasts, and Ember 20 comes an all new fictional comedy podcast series. Join the flighty Damien Hirst as he unravels the mystery of his vanished boyfriend. And Santi was gone. I've been spending all my time looking for answers about what happened to Santi. And what's the way to find a missing person? Sleep with everyone he knew, obviously.
Starting point is 00:22:22 Hmm, pillow talk. The most unwelcome window into the human psyche. Follow our out of his element hero as he engages in a series of ill-conceived investigative hookups. Mama always used to say, God gave me gumption in place of a gag reflex.
Starting point is 00:22:36 And as I was about to learn, no amount of showering can wash your hands of a bad hookup. Now, take a big whiff, my brah. Listen to The Hookup on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium
Starting point is 00:22:59 and the host of the Ghost Therapy podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. Join me on the Ghost Therapy podcast. Whoa, my lights in my living room just flickered. I'm a little nervous. I'm excited.
Starting point is 00:23:20 I'm excited, nervous. You know, I'm a very spiritual person, so I'm like, I'm ready and open. That was amazing. I feel so grateful right now. I got to speak to my great grandmother, Abuela, and she gave me a lot of really good advice that I'm gonna have to really think about.
Starting point is 00:23:37 Wow, okay. That's crazy. Yes, that is accurate. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast as part of the MyCultura podcast network available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. So wait, what was the question? Like, what should she say to the friend?
Starting point is 00:24:00 She wants everyone to get along. She's not apologetic about it. Like she's. Oh, the friend. Okay. She don't think she did anything. Oh, the friend. Okay. She don't think she did anything wrong. So the friend don't even care. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:24:09 And the boyfriend's up, like, it's causing a rift. Set up. It's like, come on, yo, this is too much. Shorty is weird. Sometimes you gotta fall back from people, babe. Like, fall back. If it doesn't align with your happiness and the path that you're on.
Starting point is 00:24:25 Sometimes you gotta be a little selfish and I know that seems wrong to say, but nah, like you sure do gotta grow up. Your friend has to grow up and she has to do some inner work because that is all projection. Like she's supposed to be happy for you, you feel me? But sometimes people can't see past their own misery. Especially if she has, I mean, like she says, they got issues, but you have a whole other
Starting point is 00:24:50 relationship to worry about. So why the fuck are you over here? Because ain't shit going on over there. She probably been cheated on or, you know, whatever, or emotionally betrayed or just whatever. They're not communicating. She's probably sexually frustrated, anything could be happening.
Starting point is 00:25:07 So projection, she's fucking projected. And then the fact that she's not apologetic about it, that's really a slap in the face of somebody who's been your friend, you feel me? So that's the reason, cause you know, it's principles to this shit. And the principle is, you're not a friend if you don't even feel any remorse
Starting point is 00:25:25 for what the fuck you did. I just wanna say if you liked it. Nah, bitch, this makes you feel good. Causing havoc makes you feel good. I feel like that was just bullshit for you to tell, you to tell your homegirl about the fucking surprise. Even how she said she's been protective over me. She's still trying to Make her friends sound like she's being a good friend. I know and that's why I'm like no you can't do that.
Starting point is 00:25:53 And your boyfriend, trust me, your boyfriend definitely sees that there's some type of manipulation She you know I mean like that shit is no no don't let her play on your heartstrings. And right now, yo, you happy with somebody, so I wouldn't let nothing fuck that up, you know? Not even a jealous ass friend. Because it's room for both. Their roles should never cross. You know what I mean? That's your friend, that's your man.
Starting point is 00:26:17 It should be nothing, she should never even feel a certain way about him unless he is not good for you, but the way you are putting it to me is he's great. That's the best thing that ever happened to your ass, so stick with that, because it's very seldom that you find somebody out here for you, that makes you happy. You wanna have a family, you trying to, you know.
Starting point is 00:26:38 Man, you got shit to do, got shit to work on. Do you think they just stop being friends? I think she should fall back. I wouldn't say throw away the relationship, the friendship, you know, obviously, the girl do love her, I'm not going, you know, even the jealous people, you know, even jealous friends, because sometimes you gotta knock some sense
Starting point is 00:26:57 into them motherfuckers, they don't know all the time. And I'm not saying go beat your friend up, I'm saying sometimes you have to show a person a mirror because she don't know what she doing. Like she know what she doing, but she don't really realize how fucked up she is. And this is a reaction to how she's reacting to what the fuck is going on in her life,
Starting point is 00:27:20 but she's projecting at the same time. But she don't see it like that. You feel me? She know what she doing, but at the same time, she don't realize why she doing this shit. And sometimes you gotta turn the mirror on a person, but I think that's not your job. That's a therapist's job to do that for her, you know?
Starting point is 00:27:37 So I will fall back. I will fall back. The no remorse thing is just, that's fucked up. So sometimes you gotta fall back from a person and let her come around, you know? Let her come around. The no remorse thing is just, that's fucked up. So sometimes you gotta fall back from a person and let her come around, you know? Let her come around and let her come around when she got some sense and when she ready
Starting point is 00:27:52 to have a real conversation and you're actually ready to sit down and tell her what I just told you. Like, yo, you've been projecting on me, I feel like, you know, like, you know, you really gotta have uncomfortable conversations with your friends sometimes and that's how you really stand to see if they your real friends or not, you know, you really gotta have uncomfortable conversations with your friends sometimes, and that's how you really stand to see if they your real friends or not, you know. Friends fuss, friends fight, friends make up, you know.
Starting point is 00:28:13 And friends keep it real with each other, so I just think you should fall back, fix what you got at home, you know, because it's starting to be a strain, I mean a drain on your relationship, it's starting to fuck up shit. You make sure your house is good. You make sure you and your significant other are good.
Starting point is 00:28:29 Fall back from her, let her come around, you know, and then y'all work to repair that relationship, you know? And if shit don't change, y'all just grew apart. You go your way, she go hers. That's how that shit go, you know? Never let nobody disturb your peace. Your peace is all you got, you know? So, I liked it.
Starting point is 00:28:48 I love y'all, catch y'all next week. Peace. I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a
Starting point is 00:29:18 I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm a little bit of a I'm out. Thanks for watching! Thank you. Can't Believe Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. What would you do if mysterious drones appeared over your hometown? I started asking questions.
Starting point is 00:30:46 What do you remember happening on that night of December 16th? It actually rotated around our house, looking as if it was peering in each window of our home. I'm Gabe Lenners from Imagine, I Heart Podcasts and Lenners Entertainment. Listen to Obscurum, Invasion of the Drones, wherever you get your favorite podcasts. Hey, Brooklyn Nine Niners, it's a reunion. The ladies of the Nine Nine are getting back together
Starting point is 00:31:15 for a special episode of the podcast, More Better. Host Stephanie Beatriz and Melissa Fumero welcome friend and former castmate, Chelsea Peretti. Remember when we were in that scene where you guys were just supposed to hug and I was standing there? Oh, yeah! I was like, can I also hug them?
Starting point is 00:31:31 Listen to More Better with Stephanie and Melissa on America's number one podcast network, iHeart. Follow More Better and start listening on the free iHeart radio app today. Black History Month is here, and we're excited to kick off season foe of I Didn't Know, Maybe You Didn't Either. This season we're shining a spotlight on revolutionary women who redefined excellence.
Starting point is 00:31:53 Give Grace Wisher her flowers. Next time you see the American flag, you just remember a 16 year old black woman helped to make it happen. Listen to I Didn't Know, Maybe You didn't either, from the Black Effect Podcast Network, on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or simply wherever you get your podcasts. This is John Cameron Mitchell and my new fiction podcast series, Cancellation Island, stars Holly Hunter as Karen, a wellness influencer who launches a rehab for the recently canceled. In the future we will all be
Starting point is 00:32:30 canceled for 15 minutes but don't worry we'll take you from broke to woke or your money back. Cancellation Island's revolutionary rehab therapies like Bad Touch Football, Anti-Racism class, and mandatory ayahuasca ceremonies are designed to force the cancel to confront their worst impulses. But everything starts to fall apart when people start disappearing. Kieran, where have you brought us?
Starting point is 00:32:58 Cancellation Island, where a second chance might just be your last. Listen to Cancellation Island on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

There aren't comments yet for this episode. Click on any sentence in the transcript to leave a comment.