The Breakfast Club - Conversations with Unc: The Dynamic Trio with Gizelle Bryant and Robyn Dixon

Episode Date: April 21, 2024

The Black Effect Presents... Conversations with Unc hosted by Lil Duval! On this episode, Lil Duval sits down with special guests Gizelle Bryant and Robyn Dixon of the Reasonably Shady podcast and The Real Housewives of Potomac reality TV series. They share personal experiences and opinions about relationships, cheating, interracial dating, oral sex, grooming, age gaps in dating, spending habits, the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and much more. Tune in and join the conversation in the socials below.  Rate, subscribe, comment and share. Follow Conversations With Unc on IG @LilDuval @GizelleBryant @RobynDixon @ReasonblyShadySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own? I planted the flag. This is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God.

What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. We need help! That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay.

Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best. And you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Marie. And I'm Sydney.

And we're Mess. Well, not a mess, but on our podcast called Mess, we celebrate all things messy. But the gag is not everything is a mess. Sometimes it's just living. Yeah, things like J-Lo on her third divorce. Living. Girls trip to Miami. Mess.

Breaking up with your girlfriend while on Instagram Live. Living. It's kind of mess. Yeah. Well, with your girlfriend while on Instagram Live. Living. It's kind of mess. Yeah. Well, you get it. Got it? Live, love, mess. Listen to Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Faustin on iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Hey, y'all. Niminy here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Executive produced by Questlove, The Story Pirates, and John Glickman, Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Flash, slam, another one gone. Bash, bam, another one gone. The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap, there's another one gone. Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history.

Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. And it began with me. Did you know, did you know? I wouldn't give up my seat. Nine months before Rosa, it was called a moment. Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Welcome to Gracias Come Again, a podcast by Honey German, where we get real and dive straight into todo lo actual y viral. We're talking música, los premios, el chisme, and all things trending in my cultura. I'm bringing you all the latest happening in our entertainment world and some fun and impactful interviews with your favorite Latin artists, comedians, actors, and influencers. Each week, we get deep and raw life stories, combos on the issues that matter to us, and it's all packed with gems, fun, straight-up comedia, and that's a song that only nuestra gente can sprinkle.

Listen to Gracias Come Again on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. live and direct that you brought a little dude ball tapping in, you know. Vibe is decent. We over here chilling, you know. You know what we do over here. We just reflect about life and talk shit. This episode, I got two people with me, you know. You know, it's a threesome on this motherfucker that they got there.

That's how we do. That's how we do. Threesome motherfucker, you know. And they gonna teach me about certain shit because I don't know shit about this about what they do, you know what I'm saying. So they're going to tell it. Matter of fact, y'all introduce who y'all are right now because I don't know shit about

shit so my audience don't know shit about shit neither so y'all let them know. Oh, shit. You know what? This is some nonsense, okay? How on earth do we get invited onto a podcast and he starts by saying I don't know shit about y'all. But anyway, we love you. No, that's not a bad thing.

It's just like, I'm trying. I'm just like the audience. I'm new to everything. So you got to see. I'm not one of them fake. I'm not one of them fake interviewers. I'm not going back and forth with you. Okay.

You got to, baby. You got to on the podcast. Okay. So I am Giselle, and this is Robin. We are half, or the whole thing is reasonably shady, so I'm typically the shady one. She's reasonable. We are also Housewives on the Real Housewives of the Potomac, which airs Sundays on Bravo, 8 o'clock.

Get your entire life. Yes, so we've been on reality TV for eight years, sharing our lives. I have a question. Enough about us. Are you in your kid's room or something? Why do I see toys in the background? Those are Legos. Those ain't toys. Those are gross. Oh, you don't like my Legos? I mean, what is this? You're in the kid's room smoking weed. What is happening? I be building shit. You know, when you get older, you got to do shit to keep your brain going. You know, so this is one of my things i'll be building shit you know when you get older you gotta you

gotta do shit to keep your brain going you know so this is one of my things that i do i'll be building off you want oh he built that so you built those okay let's keep it i build all type of shit you know i'll be building shit now i just that's been my new thing since since i've been up back on my feet i've been building shit so It's been helping me better on the road and helping me on stage and shit. Believe it or not. Okay. So, Robin, you might not know this, she's been with her guy forever. She's married.

She married the same guy twice. Okay? Okay. She realized, I'm fucked up. Let me get back with this nigga. Okay. Or she might have just forgave him for whatever he'd been done in his life. Okay. Or she might have just forgave him for whatever he done in his life. Okay. So, um, so at this

point, if you marry somebody twice, is that it? Like, whatever they do, whatever one person does, you just gotta forgive the other person. Don't matter. I think honestly, if you married the same person twice, you realize what you got. You realize, nah, this motherfucker's a good person through thick and thin. Even though he got some fucked up ways, you realize what you got. You realize, nah, this motherfucker's a good person through thick and thin. Even though he got some

fucked up ways, you realize it ain't gonna get no better than this nigga. Ain't nobody gonna love me like this nigga. I ain't gonna love this nigga. You know what I'm saying? Ain't nobody gonna love this nigga like I love him. We stuck together. You realize there's some bullshit out there. We all know there's some bullshit out there.

True, true. It's a lot. Would you consider yourself part of the bullshit? In a way, yeah, because I kind of molded most of these young motherfuckers to be how they is, so I'm kind of the problem, but at the same time, I make a method through my madness, you know what I'm saying?

I don't think most men are that bad. If you take out cheating, what else can you do? What else is there fucked up that we could do? Okay, some are deadbeats. They don't want to men are that bad. If you take out cheating, what else can you do? What else is there fucked up that we could do? Okay, some are deadbeats. They don't want to get off the couch. Well, see, I'm not talking about them baby boy ass niggas. I'm not talking about these sorry ass getting taken care of by other motherfuckers. I'm talking about this regular, if they taking care of the bills,

if they taking care of the kids, what else left is there to do? Shit. He might be fucking off every now and then, but he don't have girlfriends. What if he gambles all of the money away? He got a gambling problem. That's a problem. Is he still being responsible? Do y'all still got a roof over y'all head?

No. Every three months, we got to move. Every three months, we got to move. every three months oh no that's tripping he tripping there y'all that nigga that's tripping like he's a crap so so am i hearing you're like okay as long as the house is taken care of the kids are taken care of so what if he's out here in the streets cheating is that what i'm hearing no i'm saying if that's the worst that it is i mean and i'm not saying out here cheating i'm just saying you caught him fucking off same thing okay no it ain't no it ain't no it ain't it's not it's not because of my situation

so i had a situation my husband recently before we got married the second time he got caught up communicating with somebody on instagram and then that is so petty bro she's not done she not done okay i'm not done okay okay so communicating with somebody on instagram and then and then that's how the rest of the story goes so she ends up flying herself to where we live claiming that she was visiting some other dude that's the story okay and and uh and and but it's it is still communicate you know, somehow reaching out to my husband. Oh, I'm coming to the area. And he's like, okay, whatever. So what?

So then she gets here and is reaching out to him talking about, I lost my wallet. I went to the casino. I lost my wallet. I can't pay for the rest of my nights in the hotel. Can you help me out? So he pays for the hotel. It's on his credit card. I'm listening.

It's trick off. This is trick pussy. So. That's what she sounded like. She sounded like some trick pussy. But go ahead. Okay. Okay.

Okay. She's pretty much an escort is what I kind of deduced. Anyway, she was trying to, yes, trick some things off. So he got, he was caught up for a second. However, he says he did not spend any time with her he didn't he felt bad for her she didn't have no wallet he sent his friend to hang out with her and take her places and whatever and friend ends up doing something with her so then she gets mad and then she goes and tells the world and she had the receipt with his name on it however my husband is like i didn't do nothing with her she literally reached out to me she was fine you

know whatever he got caught now he oh are you finished because i was yeah he got caught up with some pap he got caught up with some basic pussy that bitch want to troll and come up he just fucked up and cheated with the wrong bitch he wasn't wrong he just fucked up and cheated with the wrong bitch he wasn't wrong he just fucked up and cheated with the wrong girl that's what it sounded like to me she but okay tell me this all right tell me this what do you believe number one right what do you believe happened do you believe his story do you believe yes okay so so is so if he didn't do anything physically with her if he just felt bad because the girl didn't have a wallet and he went and helped her out, whatever, felt bad for her and rolled out, and he communicated with her because she reached out to him, is that cheating? Is that breakup worthy? No.

I don't think it's cheating I don't think it's cheat. I mean, I think it's fucking off. That's what I said. He was fucking off his side. I don't even know what that term means. What does fucking off mean? What's that term? Fucking off means it's just a little bitch you're kicking with on the side.

Like, your little young little tender that you're fucking here and there. And you pay her to shut the fuck up, but he just picked the wrong bitch to do this with. That's cheating! Well, look, she tried to get him to pay her to shut up and he wouldn't and that's why she went and came running telling me and then... Well, that's why she fumbled her bag so now she ain't getting no more money.

She the dummy. Yeah, she's the dummy. She the dummy, you know what I'm saying? And in no shape and form are you stupid at all because you playing your part the right way. She the one fucking up and he fucked up. You got to tell him, hey, man, you need to check your bitches because these bitches is fucking up. You need to know how to pick a better side bitch. Pick better ones, right?

Because truth be told, every time I got caught cheating, it's only because my old lady was searching for shit. None of my side bitches called me out. I've never had a side bitch ever call me out. Okay. But that's what it is now. Now it's like these girls are... Because I'm on a TV show, my husband is a target. Yeah.

Yeah. I see what you're saying. I get it. You know what you're saying. I get it. The side bitches, they're not regular side bitches anymore. They're thirst buckets. They're not regular side bitches like this. It's hard for y'all because y'all got

competition. These bitches ain't playing fair. No. No. They want to meet me. Yes. They already reached out to him. Yes. They DMing him talking about, when can I meet Robin? You can't. You can't.

But see, my old lady, she like girls, so it makes it a lot easier for me. Oh, wow. Okay. What? Moving on. Moving on. So, just to give you a little backstory on me. Y'all cool as fuck with me. I didn't know y'all was this cool. Moving on. So just to give you a little backstory on me. Y'all cool as fuck with me. I didn't know y'all was this cool.

Go ahead. I was never about to cancel. I ain't going to be your friend. What? Dang. Let me tell you something. You ain't going to go back and forth with me. I'm going to go back and forth.

Stop it. Okay. So a little backstory. I was married to a pastor. Oh, yeah. This is going to be good. Okay. What we're not going to do is we're not talking

about the pastor. I'm just giving you a back story. Okay. Go ahead. Yes. He's doing his thing in Atlanta. Kudos to Jamal Bryant. All right. Nigga, that's your pastor? Hell no. I ain't doing that.

Nigga, that's your ex-husband Yes We have three kids together I did not know this shit Nigga this is a small ass celebrity world Okay alright So we're moving away from that Again back. We got three kids together. They're amazing. So, um, I, you know, I'm now on this show and I have my own

little platform and I have my little businesses and I, you know, I'm excited about my little life. So mentally and emotionally, it's very difficult for me to take any of these dudes seriously because I'm just like, I don't got time. And I didn't get through, you know, the past to put me through a little bit. So, you know, at this point in my life, I'm just like, oh, I just want some fun. OK, you here for the fun. Let's get it. Is your country falling apart? Feeling tired, depressed, a little bit revolutionary? Consider this. Start your own country.

I planted the flag. I just kind of looked out of like, this is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. There are 55 gallons of water for 500 pounds of concrete. Everybody's doing it. I am King Ernest Emmanuel. I am the Queen of Laudonia.

I'm Jackson I, King of Capraburg. I am the Supreme Leader of the Grand Republic of Mentonia. Be part of a great colonial tradition. The Waikana tribe own country. My forefathers did that themselves. What could go wrong? No country willingly gives up their territory. I was making a rocket with a black powder, you know, with explosive warhead.

Oh my God. What is that? Bullets. Bullets. We need help! We need help! We still have the off-road portion to go. Listen to Escape from Zakistan.

And we're losing daylight fast. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia Keys opens up about conquering doubt, learning to trust herself, and leaning into her dreams. I think a lot of times we are built to doubt the possibilities for ourselves. For self-preservation and protection.

It was literally that step by step. And so I discovered that that is how we get where we're going. This increment of small, determined moments. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Like grace. Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best. And you're going to figure out the rhythm of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Like, grace. Have grace with yourself.

You're trying your best. And you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What's up, y'all? This is Questlove, and I'm here to tell you

about a new podcast I've been working on with the Story Pirates and John Glickman called Historical Records. It's a family friendly podcast. Yeah, you heard that right. A podcast for all ages. One you can listen to and enjoy with your kids starting on September 27th. I'm going to toss it over to the host of Historical Records, Nimany, to tell you all about it. Make sure you check it out. Hey, y Historical Records, Nimany, to tell you all about it. Make sure you check it out. Hey, y'all. Nimany here. I'm the host of a brand new

history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Flash, slam, another one gone. Bash, bam, another one gone. The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap is another one gone. Each episode is about a different, inspiring figure from history.

Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. And it began with me. Did you know, did you know? I wouldn't give up my seat. Nine months before Rosa, it was called a moment. Get the kids in your life excited about history

by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, what's up?

This is Ramses Jha. And I go by the name Q Ward. And we'd like you to join us each week for our show Civic Cipher. That's right. We're going to discuss social issues, especially those that affect black and brown people,

but in a way that informs and empowers all people to hopefully create better allies. Think of it as a black show for non-black people. We discuss everything from prejudice to politics to police violence, and we try to give you the tools to create positive change in your home, workplace, and social circle. Exactly. Whether you're black, Asian, white, Latinx, indigenous, LGBTQIA+, you name it. If you stand with us, then we stand with you. Let's discuss the stories and conduct the interviews that will help us create a more empathetic, accountable, and equitable America.

You are all our brothers and sisters, and we're inviting you to join us for Civic Cipher each and every Saturday with myself, Ramses Jha, Q Ward, and some of the greatest minds in America. Listen to Civic Cipher every Saturday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. On Thanksgiving Day, 1999, a five-year-old boy floated alone in the ocean. He had lost his mother trying to reach Florida from Cuba. He looked like a little angel. I mean, he looked so fresh.

And his name, Elian Gonzalez, will make headlines everywhere. Elian Gonzalez. Elian. Elian. Elian. Elian. Elian. Elian Gonzalez.

At the heart of the story is a young boy and the question of who he belongs with. His father in Cuba. Mr. Gonzalez wanted to go home and he wanted to take his son with him. Or his relatives in Miami. Imagine that your mother died trying to get you to freedom. At the heart of it all is still this painful family separation. Something that as a Cuban, I know all too well. Listen to Chess Piece, the Elian Gonzalez story,

as part of the My Cultura podcast network, available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. So, when do you think I should be serious about somebody? To be honest with you, I go through this with a lot of my friends as girls a lot, because I honestly don't know what to tell y y'all because there ain't that much dick out here that's safe and mature. Like, I don't know what to tell you. So we screwed. So pretty much... So wait, wait, I decided... She's still the same with

the pastors, what you saying? Yeah, you should have did what she did. Got back with the last one. See? Well, the pastor it may have made it very clear. No, I am the one and only, even though he's doing God knows what. But, you know, we are very good friends. Okay. Yeah.

So I have decided that when I'm ready to settle down, I think I'm going to venture out into other ethnic groups. Oh, you haven't messed with other colors yet? Not seriously, no. Have you had sex? Let me ask you because I want to ask a woman that's willing to come to different races when it comes to sex. Is the sex different fucking with from black to white to Asian?

Or have you messed with those different races? Okay, I've had sex with a white and it's pretty much the same as a black dude. and it's a myth that white men got small dicks yeah that was the myth mine was good mine was very nice size okay um asian no because i have a very good um gay friend he was like them asians don't have nothing in their pants nothing so i don't even want to waste my time. So that's a no. But I'm here for any others.

I'm here for others. Have you tried to date any others? Have you even tried to date? Besides sex, is there something like a cultural difference conversation-wise? Yes. I've dated

an Asian. I mean, I've dated like, I've dated an Asian. I mean, I fucked all of them, but I mean, I've had a relationship. I've dated like black, white. No, I ain't dated no white yet, but I've dated Asian and Latino. We didn't say

date. We said, we're just talking about sex. Yeah, but as far as, the reason why i said as far as like dating as far as dating as far as i think i don't know if it's different because when you were the man you kind of fall into whatever you're into so it ain't wasn't that much difference but as far as culture shit there was a little difference with up and north because i dated the girl that's from up north that was totally different right so i find with white guys they come at me differently.

When a black guy approaches me, it's very direct. It's very much in your face. It's very, you know, what you doing? Can we talk? They're very direct about what they want. White men will come at you very passively. They're like, hey, if I'm at the gym, hey, I see you have on new tennis shoes.

And from that, I'm supposed to figure out that he's... So if you understand that, why don't you just take that check? I just understood it like three weeks ago. I'm just... Three weeks ago, nigga. I always

understand it. You did date a white guy though, right? Or you hung out with a white guy? Yeah, years ago, nigga. I always understand it. Wait, you did date a white guy though, right? Or you hung out with a white guy? Yeah, years ago. Okay. So culturally. What happened with that? What happened with that? How was it culturally?

Like, did you feel like, man, I need a black dude right now? I'm being honest. I can't have this conversation. Right. Well, I'll be honest. I was always scared he was going to say something racist. And I just was like on edge all the time. And then he ended up kind of saying something racist. So I was like on edge all the time and and then he ended up kind of

saying something racist so i was like i know it my old lady said her family said something racist because she dated a white guy before me and she said her family his family said something racist that made us cut them off and not fuck with them right right because if the family feels like that then then you probably feel like that too yeah so don't know. It's kind of tough dating outside your race because not only do you have... What do you do when the family bucking on you and you can't just get easier said than done.

I haven't dealt with that situation. For me personally, I think it's just try that shit because if you can deal with a nigga for so long, white people should be a breeze for you, man. Okay. I got a question for so long, white people should be a breeze for you, man. Okay, okay. I got a question for you. So, do you always

go down? Like, okay, let's say you just meeting a woman. No, no, no. I can answer that real quick. Fuck no. Like, did you have to work up to that? Alright, let me tell you about me. I've only, I started eating pussy late because eating pussy wasn't like, y'all know, we older. Eating pussy wasn't no big thing back in the day.

Like, shit, it wasn't like that like it was now. All right, so what's late? What's late? I just started eating pussy with my baby mama. My daughter's 15, so I'm 46. 15 years ago? Yeah, about 16, 17 years. Yeah.

Probably like 29, 28, 29, I started eating pussy. Okay. And I can count on one. I've done a lot of fucking in my life. I count on one hand how many girls I've ate in my life. I learned quick, like, because once I started eating eating, I was like, this shit I ate. So I tried real quick. And I realized real quick, you just can't eat everybody.

So this is my question. What's the criteria? No, this is my question. If you just meet a woman, you have to work up to that? You have to be my old lady. You have to be my old lady. OK. You have to be in a relationship. OK. You have to be my own lady. You have to be my own lady. You have to be in a relationship. You have to be in a relationship.

I have a question because this is something on our reality show that we talked about amongst the ladies. Oh, this is a good question. This is a good question. You ready? Mm-hmm. Okay. Y'all got a bunch of questions. I like y'all. Okay. How do you feel about when you're receiving oral sex, whether they swallow or not?

I like swallowing because it's less messy. Especially if I'm laying down because I get hit right before I go to bed. That's up to her. Shit. That's not messy. Okay. Is it a turn off? Let's say she

she doesn't swallow it she kind of like you know like she goes to the bathroom and spits it out or not she don't have to go to the bathroom she could just like she just I don't know she just gets rid of it I'm a little different I don't really be caring that part is up to her

okay so it's not I don't really be caring it's up to her like See? Really? I don't really be paying this up to her. Okay. When I do the facials and shit like that, it probably be threesomes and shit, but I don't really... Okay, Robin is a swallower. I'm not. Okay? Why not? Why not?

I don't know what you've been eating. It's sometimes... You cook for the nigga. What the fuck you mean you don't know what you've been eating? Okay, I don't really cook, mean you don't know what you're eating I don't really cook I don't know what you're eating It's too thick It might get caught in my throat

It's just too thick for me See I'm Bahamian We got these things called Gneps It's like fruit Fruit make the nut taste better Okay so this is my thing. I'm not going to... You're not going to sit there and...

It's not like you... I'm not going to get you to a point where you're going to... We're going to change positions. Then you can... You won't even let them come in your mouth. I mean, sometimes, but typically, I would rather change position. Change position and come like...

So like I jump on top of it. But then what? He going to nut in the condom? Because I wear condoms. So she sucking your penis with a condom on? No, fuck no. But I'm talking about usually when I get, like, when I get, I even wear condoms with my whole life. Because I don't want no bokehs.

Like, I'm with them. Really? Get your stuff tied. No, fuck no. I don't do that. I'm old fashioned. Let me ask y'all this, too. Because, like, because I tweeted this the other day.

I got, people went crazy for me. And I didn't know this was know this wasn't normal no more. Niggas don't shave their dicks. Niggas shave their dicks now? I didn't know you. Yes. Are you hairy? Yes.

Oh, God, no. No. Go manscape. It's called manscape. Okay? What type of niggas is this? When did this change? Like, I could've swore... Like, I've been...

I don't change. Like, I'm a hairy nigga. I'm not a hairy nigga. Okay, any dude 40 on down. I'm just gonna speak for myself. 40 on down. It is handled. Okay? That don't look weird to y'all? That don't look like... No! It looks bigger. No, we appreciate it. Yes. We

appreciate it. I don't want all that hair. No. And then the hair sometimes is smelling. No. So that's a turn off for y'all? Like hair? Like hair turn off for y'all? Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. Y'all tripping, bro. I've been with my husband since 1996. He probably been shaving since 2000. But he don't be scared of getting ingrown hairs and shit. That shit just... How do you

shave? How do you shave when I'm looking weird? You use one of those... Don't use a straight razor. So I'm going to cock my leg up like this here. Yes. Yup. You are. There ain't no fucking way to hell, man. I'm not doing no shit like that

Get one of those electric Paws Paws At least like trim it down No, bruh, no It's not attractive No candy Have your lady do it

That's even there So I'ma cock my ass up And let Hutchins... Let's get into it. Look, your producer, Aaron. I didn't even see that, bro. That's a monthly

subscription. You can get that. Get your little razor. Get your little electric thing. Every woman I've been with, they like playing in my nut head. Oh, no, they don't. No, they don't. No, they don't.

They don't. They don't. Yes. But see, they like my nut head. Don't make me call them all ladies. Better head. And even like men with all of that beards, I hate all of that beard stuff going on. That's been a trend. That's got to go.

So you don't like my face yet? I like it because I'm just No, that's good. What you have is fine, but anything longer if it's like super long. Oh yeah, like slim thug. Slim thug has a long beard. Yeah, no. It's got to go. Do y'all like that paint in niggas head? The what?

The paint. No. What do you mean the paint? The, uh, the Beijing. Oh, Beijing. Beijing. No, cut that shit off. Listen, listen, listen, Jamal.

Let me tell you, let me tell you about that pastor, Jamal Bryant. One day he got a baby. Don't you talk about that, man. Don't you talk about God's child. Wait, he went to go preach and this Negro started sweating. That Beijing did not hold up.

Oh, God. Wasn't dripping down his head. It was a disaster. Them church flights wasn't playing. This was about 30 years ago before Beijing was... This was when Charlie Lowe first started wearing Beijing.

Yes. It was a disaster. He said, I can't believe this happened. You look crazy. I just can't do it because I just like the gray hair. I think women like gray hair,

honestly. No, I like it. It makes you look very uncle-ish. Is your country falling apart? Feeling tired, depressed, a little bit revolutionary? Consider this. Start your own country. I planted the flag.

I just kind of looked out of like, this is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. There's 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Everybody's doing it. I am King Ernest Emmanuel. I am the gallons of water for 500 pounds of concrete. Everybody's doing it. I am King Ernest Emmanuel. I am the Queen of Laudonia. I'm Jackson I, King of Capraburg.

I am the Supreme Leader of the Grand Republic of Mentonia. Be part of a great colonial tradition. The Waikana tried my country. My forefathers did that themselves. What could go wrong? No country willingly gives up their territory. I was making a rocket with a black powder, you know, with explosive warhead. Oh my God.

What is that? Bullets. Bullets. We need help! We still have the off-road portion to go. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. And we're losing daylight fast. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia Keys opens up about conquering doubt, learning to trust herself, and leaning into her dreams. I think a lot of times we are built to doubt the possibilities for ourselves. For self-preservation and protection, it was literally that step by step. And so I discovered that that is how we get where we're going. This increment of small, determined moments. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Like grace. Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best and you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. a podcast for all ages. One you can listen to and enjoy with your kids starting on September 27th.

I'm going to toss it over to the host of Historical Records, Nimany, to tell you all about it. Make sure you check it out. Hey, y'all. Nimany here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Flash, slam, another one gone.

Bash, bam, another one gone. The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap, there's another one gone. Each episode is about a different, inspiring figure from history, like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing.

Check it. And it began with me. Did you know, did you know? I wouldn't give up my seat. Nine months before Rosa, it was Claudette Colvin. Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise.

Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. On Thanksgiving Day, 1999, a five-year-old boy floated alone in the ocean. He had lost his mother trying to reach Florida from Cuba. He looked like a little angel. I mean, he looked so fresh. And his name, Elian Gonzalez, will make headlines everywhere. Elian Gonzalez. Elian. Elian.

Elian. Elian. Elian. Elian Gonzalez. At the heart of the story is a young boy and the question of who he belongs with. His father in Cuba. Mr. Gonzales wanted to go home and he wanted to take his son with him. Or his relatives in Miami.

Imagine that your mother died trying to get you to freedom. At the heart of it all is still this painful family separation. Something that as a Cuban, I know all too well. Listen to Chess Peace, the Elian Gonzalez story, as part of the My Cultura podcast network, available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, what's up? This is Ramses Jha.

And I go by the name Q Ward. And we'd like you to join us each week for our show Civic Cipher. That's right. We're going to discuss social issues, especially those that affect black and brown people, but in a way that informs and empowers all people to hopefully create better allies. Think of it as a black show for non-black people. We discuss everything from prejudice to politics to police violence, and we try to give you the tools to create positive change in your home, workplace, and social circle. Exactly.

Whether you're Black, Asian, White, Latinx, Indigenous, LGBTQIA+, you name it. If you stand with us, then we stand with you. Let's discuss the stories and conduct the interviews that will help us create a more empathetic, accountable, and equitable America. You are all our brothers and sisters, and we're inviting you to join us for Civic Cipher each and every Saturday with myself, Ramses Jha, Q Ward, and some of the greatest minds in America.

Listen to Civic Cipher every Saturday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Let me ask y'all another thing. What do y'all think age is a problem? Like, what's an age gap that's too much for y'all another thing what's what do y'all think do y'all think age is it is a is a problem like what's the what's the age gap that's too much for y'all dating so the guy that i'm fooling around with these days is how old is jason 36 37 he's 37 so he's 15 he's 15 years 16 years younger okay yeah and we don't have,

we have great conversations. I don't ever feel like he's super young. So I think. Is this the first youngest person you ever dated? I mean, seriously? Yes. Like, David,

seriously? Yes. He's the youngest. But he's not. Well, the dude, the Miami dude. Miami dude was like,

not, 10 years. 10 years. Yeah. So, but, okay. All right.

Yeah. So this is the young. And I think because of who he is, he's been through a lot in life. He's got an amazing story. I think because of that, I don't feel like I'm talking to a teenager. Yeah. But I think if it was in the reverse, like if I'm talking to an old man who's like 16 years older than me, yeah, no. What's the oldest you ever dated? I'm older than you. I mean's like 16 years older than me. Yeah, no.

What's the oldest you ever dated older than you? I mean, not even now, maybe younger. Have you ever dated somebody like 15 years younger than 20 years older than you? I mean. He was like 12 years older than me. And I was young. And I was hot. I was a hot girl.

So I was like, you're just too. You're moving. You still look good now. I ain't gonna front. Thank you. I just felt like he was just moving too slow. And sex was a little strange.

Okay, so how old was he at that time? So he was in his 40s. Damn. We're 40s. Which 40s? I'm 46. Which 40s? Damn. He was probably like 45. And this probably didn't have anything to do with 46 which 40s he was probably like 45 and he just and this probably didn't have anything to do with his age but he just was like he came very fast and i didn't understand okay yeah okay so wait a minute let's talk about coming fast okay wait so how i i come fast i'm gonna come fast. Give me a time frame.

Three minutes, seven minutes, 12 minutes. You went too far. You went way too far. Give me a time frame. The first round, I don't even know. My first round,

I'm always going to quit. That's just me. What's quick? Two minutes. Like, my first round, I'm going to always neck quick. That's just me. I can't help it. What's quick? Gimme, gimme, gimme. What's quick? Like, two minutes. Shit. Yeah, sometimes. It all depends on, yes.

What? I like pussy. I really love pussy. So, you come in two minutes, and then what do you do? You have to sit there and, like, recharge yourself? Yeah. That's why I like threesomes. People think I like threesomes because just to have more girls.

It's because my girl can keep it going until I get backreesomes. People think I like threesomes because just to have more girls. It's because my girl can keep it going until I get back hard again. Stay woke. Wait a minute. Wait, wait, wait. Don't tell me to stay woke because you can stop. You're trying to deflect from the fact that you're

a two-minute man. No, I am. I'm the one who told you. Okay, so wait. So she's then like doing stuff to you or doing stuff to somebody else while you're getting yourself together for round two? Yeah, and I'm enjoying the view.

Oh, okay. So then, once you get yourself together for round two, round two ain't no joke. Like round two, I ain't no ho. I can go. You know what I'm saying? I can go. How long?

Ain't no time or shit. I don't know, but I'm going to go until you good. Well, sometimes y'all be tripping because that Rose got y'all fucked up. She turned me on to the Rose. Hey, man, leave that shit alone, man. Yeah, we don't need you anymore. Yeah, leave that shit alone, bro. That shit fucking to the ropes. Hey, man, leave that shit alone, man. Yeah, we don't need you anymore. Yeah, leave that shit alone, bro. That shit fucking up the ecosystem.

Okay, wait. You have to use it while she got to use it with you while you're inside of her. Do you do that? I'm not bringing that shit in the party with me. I'm telling you to do it. I'm telling you to try it. No, no, no, no.

I'm just telling you to try it. So can you not have one-on-one sex because you're used to threesomes? Yeah, we do all the time. I do it all. When I say, like, I don't think people think threesomes, like, that's all you just round, that's just fucking round. I'm just saying, my girl, she really like pussy. You know what I'm saying?

She don't like girls, but she like pussy. She just gay like that. So if we get round, like, I'm one of those people it ain't no fun if the homie can't have none so if the girl knows she fuck with me she gotta fuck with my girl so that's just all of it but in the meantime it's like we don't give a fuck if you fucking or not we gonna fuck each other you know so oh okay so y'all have like a like girls y'all just call and be like come over or do you just like meet people out on the street like how does that no no honestly especially Oh, okay. So do y'all have like girls that y'all just call and be like, come over? Or do you just like meet people out on the street? Like, how does that work? No, no.

Honestly, especially the older you get, you want to find your little clique that y'all cool with and stick to that. How many on the roster? How many on the roster? Four? I don't want to fuck it up for me. No. Okay.

Okay. I don't want to fuck it up for you, man. You don't get this far this long from being high M. You got to be quiet sometimes. You got to know when to shut the fuck up. Okay. I know when to shut the fuck up. We understand.

You ain't never seen me in the blog about none of my shit. Okay. So on your Instagram, you put that you said a woman will put up with anything except embarrassing her. Mm-hmm. Do you stand by that? That's what I just said. There's a reason why I got this far. I never got caught up because I don't embarrass no woman.

I don't know if y'all know anything about me, but any old lady I've ever had, I've never posted her. I never show her. I never promote them. You know what I'm saying? And it actually works in your favor because when we break up, you ain't got to deal with the bullshit. Okay, but do you take her to dinner? Are y'all out and about? Do people see y'all?

Yeah, we usually go. And see, that's the only thing that people don't realize that it's a big thing, but it is, especially if you deal with a woman. I don't eat that much. I'm not a eater. We know. You told us earlier. You just started. I'm not an eater, so I'm not like a restaurant-type nigga like that.

I go if you want to go, but I don't go out like that. And if I do go out, it's out the country or some shit like that. So it works in my favor as far as being up at the same time. A woman that likes to eat, they think that's cool until they get with me. Like, this nigga really don't eat. Yeah, that wouldn't work. That would not work. Okay, even if you don't eat a lot and you don't necessarily love restaurants, if she does, you got to like. And I do do that, but

naturally for a woman, from what I've experienced, they do what you do. You know what I'm saying? Even if I say let's go out and eat, y'all never just start cooking for a nigga and just want to cook, cook, cook. Okay, so you think that depends on the woman and what

she has going on in her life. Yes. You know what I'm saying? Like, who? Not everybody wants to live your movie, okay? You're right. You're right. You're right. They don't.

Yes. But naturally, when a woman gets in a situation, if they love the situation, y'all naturally conform into a relationship type shit and say, fuck the world outside of that. And that's what happens a lot when they get with me. Because I'm a great nigga. I don't know if y'all know this, but I'm a great guy. And it's easy to perform. But it works against me sometimes.

Because trust me, I hate when they get too couple with me because then it's like, I need you to like something else because I don't want you to always be under me 24-7 because then you're going to start going crazy. I don't be wanting that. Do y'all live together? Yeah. Okay. How long you been cohabitating? Shit, with this one, we

three years in. Oh, that's nice. Congratulations. Is this the longest? Yeah, it's cool with my mother. It's just you just got to figure out, all right, now that y'all been in this situation plenty of times, now that you're in a situation where, all right, you ain't got to worry about nothing. Now you got to worry about just being happy and being at peace and just being happy. And that's where a lot of times getting in a situation where me happens is like, all right,

how can I just be happy just chilling with life and not have to worry about the problems? Do y'all share a bathroom? Yeah. What the fuck? What type of house you got? Yeah, well, I'm never sharing a bathroom with a man again. He got to use another one, okay? Why not? Because I want my own bathroom

space, okay? And I don't want to smell what you're doing. I don't want to smell it, so doing. I don't want to smell it. I mean, even if y'all are in the same bathroom, you're not going to smell this shit if the bathroom got a door on it. I mean, this is true, but I don't want your hairs all over the bathroom floor and in the cell. Oh my God.

Don't you got a maid though? That's what you got a housekeeper for? Yes, but still, I just want my own space. Can I have my own space? How much space the fuck? You must want a whole other house then. What the fuck?

I want my own bathroom space. You a lot. I'm not. See, I can tell the difference. I can kick it with her more so than with you because you a lot. What? You're just mad because I told y'all I was married

to Jamal. That's why. No, I don't give a fuck about that. I don't give a damn fuck about that shit. That's not my homeboy. I'm just saying I can tell she more understanding to relationships and shit like that where

it's your way or the highway type shit. And I'm the same way like you. So I need balance. Like, I need a motherfucker that's kind of like her personality where you need a motherfucker that's shit.

You need a motherfucker like her too because people like her. That's why y'all good with each other. That's why y'all good with each other. Yes.

Very much so. Very much so. Okay, so do you feel like you're well endowed? You know, all this sex that you be having. That's why y'all good with each other. Yes. As far as friends. Very much so. Okay. So do you feel like you're well endowed? You know, all this sex that you be having. You feel like you're well endowed? This is our last question. And we're going to let you go.

I feel like when you get to this age and being as popular as I am in social media, somebody would have told me if I wasn't. I don't even know if I'm well endowed. I think I got good dick. Shit, that's what I think I got. That's a good answer. That's what matters. I haven't had nobody tell me even if we broke up, I haven't had nobody say, oh, little dick-ass

nigga or no shit. Only thing I've had is this nigga neck quick. That's it. I'm cool with that. Did you go to college? only thing I've had is this nigga neck quick. That's it. And I'm cool with that. Okay. All right. So did you, did you go to college?

Nah, I think like I went to college when I came from, I go from Florida and I lied and said I went to Morris Brown, but I didn't. I went to Hampton and if, if at any point there was a dude that was very small, listen, his girlfriend was going to tell it. Like, once they broke up, like, the whole thing.

Like, that's a small dude and just don't even waste your time. So that's why I asked. Okay. I think you feel, you know. Y'all done messed with little niggas before. You done fucked little niggas before. Have you had a little nigga that was small? Yes.

And I sent him a packet. A short nigga? No, I'm saying have you had a short man that was small? Oh, a short man that was small. I'm 5'7", so I really don't date super short men, no. You are so fucked up. But wait a minute, DeVore, I have had a man that came really

fast like you. He did that two minute. I told him, get your clothes on, player, and get up out of here. I am not staying around. Do your pussy stay wet, wet? Do your pussy stay wet, wet? Yes. Yes, it's wet over here. I'm talking about on sight.

Like, soon as you, bum, even at this age, bum. Yes. It's on high pop. And just like you, I've got no complaints. Let me say this. In this one, I'm proud of too. I can get hard as soon as a bitch touch me.

At 46. That's good. Very good. Ask more later. We believe you. We believe you. You've been very honest. we believe you we believe you you know we believe you you've been very honest we believe you okay all right wait i have a question okay this is the last question i i'm totally never mind don't worry about it don't worry about it all right i'm totally changing the channel off

the sex stuff what what what do you think of like guys that really have no money that's living off of their ladies like bro that is i've been talking about that this whole week it's funny because i really think it's y'all fault y'all fucking up the ecosystem y'all taking care of these grown-ass motherfucking men out here it's like y'all it's it's a whole generation of baby boys out here i don't know if y'all didn't know y'all got any sons i do i have two are they living with y'all y'all taking care of these niggas well i mean they're teenagers they're 15 or 14 okay those don't count but i'm talking they have grown niggas in their 30s no no that's living with their parents and it's a problem out here and it's like i didn't realize this until

like lately like it's a lot of motherfuckers my homeboy was telling me his his um his girl he broke up with he no he moved out the house because she moved her son back in the house and he's staying there he's 24 years old like right okay so how long we get out of this cycle though no but like let's say let's say you have a dude and then he's not working anymore so how long do we get out of this cycle, though? No, but let's say you have a dude and then he's not working anymore. How long should you give him to get his shit together and make it happen? Man.

I'm the grown person, Eric, because in my mind and I've always did for myself since I was like 18, 19, I jumped off the porch and took care of myself. I ain't never... I don't, I don't fuck nobody that got, that get fucked up and got to go home and start over.

But if you ain't doing shit, I think you just got to kick them out. Like, if you don't see nothing, if you don't see they ain't doing shit, then kick their ass out. Like, you got to give them an off top. Like, you can't leave no room for, because motherfuckers be,

I think nowadays people just assume he's going to do better. You got to set ground rules off top. You got to say, look, you got a month to get your shit together and you got to move the fuck up out of here. I do that with my shit in my other houses. I don't rent none of my

houses out, but I let people stay in them. They're like family and friends, but I let people stay in them. Yeah. But they're like family and friends. But I let them know, hey, you got a certain amount of time. Boom, boom, boom. You got to get the fuck out. Yeah, that's fair. So that's what I think you got to do even with friends, family, kids. And I don't think a lot of people are doing that because we got that

survivor's remorse or some shit like that. But you got to say, fuck this shit and kick them motherfuckers out because it's fucking up. It's making a lot of weak-ass men out here and they getting raised and they raising... You got girls that's just taking care of men. This shit fucked up

out here. It's crazy, but it's like I feel like women, because of the dating, the lack of men out here to date, they just settle. They take whatever is out there. No. That goes back to what I was like. I don't know what to tell a woman that's looking for

a man like this. Okay. This is the last question. We got to go. Now, listen. What is your max on your club spin? When you go to the club and you ball out, what's the max spin? Well, clubbing ain't the thing like it used to be.

I don't know if you know that. Okay, but back in the day, what was your highest? I never really had to pay because the bottles was always, they was always given. Yeah, they gave. Like when I'm in the club, you know how the club if you hosting the party or doing something to you, somebody, they giving you bottles. And I don't drink. So usually when I have my bottles,

it's for everybody else. What's the max that you'll blow on strippers? The max I ever blew on some hoes was a couple thousand. Okay, fair enough. But that's just for the that's not really for me that's just to get the vibe right because it's just a culture thing like i

don't really spend for pussy like that i don't really have to trick off like and then like as far as with bothers and clubbing like i've i came up in the era when this shit they were spending money like that but i never had to because who I was. Because you're that nigga. You're just that guy. I ain't going to say I'm that nigga. It's just if I wasn't that nigga, the section was good. It was just like I never had to worry about that type of shit.

I was a nigga. I always made the jokes about these niggas spending $20,000 on a section of a table. Right. So I never had to put it. That's crazy. Yeah. That's crazy. Yeah. That's not to say. So one thing that is your thing,

how many blunts do you smoke a day? Yes. That's the last question. I don't, if I knew that mean I ain't smoking enough. Like, look, this,

this, I mean, I just had so far. Yes. I know this. I've been, you know, I just started smoking like at 40. What?

What? Yeah, I never smoked a drink. Listen, you making up a lost time, honey. You are killing it, making up a lost time. Yeah, I didn't smoke a day before. Maybe 39 I started smoking like. So I didn't smoke a drink. I just started doing shrooms by a couple years ago.

All right. Well, we appreciate you and wed by a couple of years ago. All right. Well, we appreciate you and we wish you the best of luck on this new podcast. You started this by saying you don't understand or know anything about this podcast shit. Clearly, you know what you're doing and you're going to be nothing but super successful. You already know that. I appreciate y'all, man, because y'all made a lot easier for me because a lot of people, they don't know how to talk, especially when you're dealing with young people.

They ain't going through shit. You just got to pull it out their ass, but shit, y'all had a lot to say, so shit, y'all made this shit easy for me. Good. All right. Well, we appreciate you. Well, I appreciate y'all.

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Bishop and produced by Aaron A. King Howard. Five gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God. What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan. On the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best, and you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Hi, I'm Marie. And I'm Sydney. And we're mess. Well, not a mess, but on our podcast called Mess, we celebrate all things messy. But the gag is not everything is a mess. Sometimes it's just living. Yeah, things like J-Lo on her third divorce. Living. Girl's trip to Miami. Mess. Breaking up with your girlfriend while on Instagram Live. Living. It's kind of

mess. Yeah. Well, you get it. Got it? Live, love, mess. Listen to Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Faustin on iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, y'all. Niminy here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Executive produced by Questlove, The Story Pirates, and John Glickman, Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop.

Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history, Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. And it began with me. Did you know, did you know? I wouldn't give up my seat. Nine months before Rosa, it was Claudette Colvin.

Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Gracias Come Again, a podcast by Honey German, where we get real and dive straight into todo lo actual y viral. We're talking musica, los premios, el chisme, and all things trending in my cultura. I'm bringing you all the latest happening in our entertainment world and some fun and impactful interviews with your favorite Latin artists, comedians, actors, and influencers. Each week, we get deep and raw life life stories combos on the issues that matter to us

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