The Breakfast Club - Could You Live Across The Street From Your Ex-Spouse?

Episode Date: August 21, 2023

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It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join into the discussion with the breakfast club morning everybody it's dj nv charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club now if you're just joining us we're talking about joe coy he was here friday comedian joe coy you know the one that charlemagne doesn't go to any of his shows yes he was here friday talking about his relationship with his baby mom, his ex, and how he bought her a house across the street.

Let's listen. We were divorced for a reason, but we're great friends, and she's a great mom, and I'm a great dad, and together we're raising a great son. He bought her a house

across the street? Yeah, a house right next to mine. You ballin', Joe. You ever look out the window to see what they're doing? Like, what are they doing? No, I don't care, man. And every great moment

that happens with me, I fire out. You know what I mean? When I did Madison Square Garden, of course I'm not just gonna share that moment with my son. I want his mommy there as well. That's so dope.

Is it a deal breaker if you're involved with another woman and they are like intimidated by her? Done. Bye. Wow.

Yeah, the minute you give any type of hate or anything on my son's mommy it's like gone take care have a nice have a bad day so we're asking 800-585-1051 uh could you do that i'm not that mature i told y'all that there's no way that my ex somebody that i've had a relationship with or a child with or somebody that i love lives across the street I'm not there yet thank god I don't have to think about that but I just I don't think I could look out my blinds and see somebody walking in the crib like I couldn't do it Charlamagne you said you could um if it was about the kids yeah because at the end of the day nothing comes uh before me being a great parent and you you know as well as i do when it comes to children man you have to micromanage kids you know you have to you know be on top of them every moment of the day especially

when they're when they're younger so for me i don't personally have a problem if him and the mother couldn't work out and joe coy has the money clearly he does because i spent i bought four items off his website and it was three hundred dollars for his merchandise so clearly he's making the money. So if you got the money to where you can have the mother of your child in the same neighborhood as you or right next door and it's all about raising the kids, I personally don't have a problem with it. Hello, who's this? TJ from Atlanta. Hey, TJ from Atlanta.

Talk to us. Hey, man. I think he said that because it sounded good on the radio. What do you mean? To keep his wife happy. You say something good, you know, keep your wife happy on the radio. That's not his wife. That's not his wife.

That's his baby mom. That's not his wife. Well, his baby mom to keep her happy. Sometimes you got to keep the female happy. Would you do it, TJ? I couldn't do it. I don't think you can do it in 2023 like that. I know y'all gentlemen

Be married for a minute So The same females ain't They ain't the same these days Listen I don't even know how long Joe Coy and his baby mama Have not been together Right

You know what I'm saying Like they could have been Not been together for a while And you know those feelings of love And romantic stuff Is over That's true And it's all about the child.

That's true. And if that's the case, I respect it. John, what up, John? Yo, what's going on, fellas? How you doing? What's up, brother? You said you're living that life right now. I'm living that life right now, man.

I think that's the greatest thing. I think it's very wise for you to be next door to your baby moms, man. Any opportunity to be around your kids closer is the way to be. How long? I'm not as fortunate enough to have that opportunity to have a living next door, but if I did, man, she would be. How long have y'all been broken up? My son is 15, so we've been broken up 15 years.

We went through the turbulent in the beginning, but then we realized that it ain't worth the headache, and ever since we clicked in and figured it out, parenting's the way to go. I mean, ain't no stress. But you live across the street from each other, you said? We don't. We live like two minutes away from each other. See, that's the difference.

Two minutes away, I ain't mad at. But right across the street, you see everything that's going on. I don't need to see everything. Don't mind your business. And you do need to see everything in regards to your children. Not your baby moms, though. But you ain't paying attention to her because that's not what your concern is. Your concern is the child. I ain't that business. And you do need to see everything in regards to your children. Not your baby mom's, though. But you ain't paying attention to her, because that's not what your concern is. Your concern is the child. I ain't that mature. Margarita.

Dina. Hey, good morning. Good morning. So we're talking Joe Coy and the fact that he purchased a house across the street for his ex. Could you do that? What's your thoughts on it? Honestly, I couldn't do it, right? But if I'm in a relationship, But if I'm in a relationship

Or if I'm in a situation Where my ex-husband We're broken up And it's not like a bad breakup It's amicable We're both mature about it I don't see a problem I wouldn't do it that way for him to do it

Y'all do realize This ain't about y'all And y'all little ashy relationship y'all had This is about that beautiful little child That y'all do realize this ain't about y'all and y'all little ashy relationship y'all had. This is about that beautiful little child that y'all created. I got a little ashy relationship. No, no, no, because if there's an issue between me and this person, then I now, you know, divorce is for that, right? So if there's an issue, I don't want you to be directly across the street from me if we're going to be, you know, ridiculous about it. If we cannot be, you know ridiculous about it we cannot

be you know mature then no and then on another note nobody said it was mature when kanye did this no one was throwing around that word when kanye did it well kanye's not mature yeah i don't think kanye did it for to raise the kids i think he was doing petty yeah i don't yeah i don't think i mean listen i can't i can't say why kanye did what he did but I know Kanye was attempting to do it and I think because of the fact that we saw how volatile it seemed like that relationship was being on social media

that's my point so when he did that it seemed like okay this is stalking this is going too far it's not like we saw them having a pleasant relationship amongst each other in the media 800-585-1051. If you're just joining us, we're talking about Joe Coy, comedian. He stopped through Friday.

And he actually purchased his ex, his baby mom's, a house across the street. Could you do that? Let's discuss. It's The Breakfast Club. Come on. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join in to the discussion with The Breakfast Club. Let's talk about it.

Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us, we're talking about Joe Coy. He was here on Friday, and he was talking about his relationship with his ex, his baby moms, and the fact that he purchased a home across the street. Could you do that? That is the question.

I'm not that mature. I couldn't do that. I'm looking out the window. Yes, you could. I don't know. You could for your kids. I don't know. Because that's the reason they're doing it.

Not across the street. You could for the kids. Because keep in mind, that's the main thing we got to keep in mind about this Joe Coy situation. They're doing this for the child. I get it. This is about the child.

You could do it for the child Hello, who's this? Hi, good morning This is Justine Hey Justine Good morning, talk to us I live in the same building with my ex So it's okay to live in the same building

If you guys get along Gotcha So you never had no problems Everything's been good You know where your kids are Your kids can go from floor to floor Yes, everything is fine We got five children,

13 grandchildren, so we do everything together. Okay. I respect it. Even though he has a gun strike. Don't get me wrong. Uh-oh. What that mean? That ain't your business. See, but you see the fact that she said it is her business. It's not my business. When she come over to visit, I do not go upstairs. I say hello to her

and I go about my business. I respect it. We've been together for like 30 years, and we broke up last year. But we live in the same building, so we good. Does the girlfriend look better than you? No, she's cute, though. I go loud. Okay. I give her a compliment.

Yeah, she's cute. You proud of him? Yeah, he's a DJ, so he's doing his thing. Yeah. He's doing his thing. He's doing his thing. See what I'm saying? See what I'm saying? See what I'm saying?

Is the girl cute? She ain't cuter than me. Hey, by the way. She cute, but she ain't better than me. When a black person say they doing their thing, they hating. You know what I'm saying? They hating. They don't want to make a scene.

They don't want to seem like a hater, but they hating. He a little DJ. He doing his thing. He a little DJ. Make a little money. Guy's a little girl. Hello, who's this? Hey, this is Blair from Temple.

Blair, what's up, brother? What's up, man? Hey, so on the subject, man, I feel like Joy Corey should let his big mama go. I mean, I feel like he still wants to be with her when they're having that close, you know? I don't agree with that. I really don't. It's all about the child, man. That's your child.

The child should come before anything. I don't care what happened in y'all relationship between y'all two. If y'all got children, children come before anything else. Onika. Hey, morning. Good morning, Onika. What's your thoughts on this, Onika? I'm just saying, if I had that type of money, I would love to get a house next door to my kid's father.

Oh, you just prefer the house from the kid's father. You don't care where it is, though. No, no. Like, I'm in a situation I've been with Ryan for 15 years now, and I just feel like it's not working out. But for the kid's sake, I still want them to be close. I don't want to be enemies. Okay. Well, thank you, Mama.

Hello, who's this? Name is John. How you doing, man? What's up, John? Talk to us. What's your thoughts, brother? Yeah, I think it's an awesome thing that he's doing that. I feel like if you have the means to do it, then why not? I mean, your family is important. You know, your kids. It's the most important thing.

I mean, and anybody that comes into your life after the fact, I mean, they have to fall in place. Okay. Thank you, brother. Yep, yo. So what's the moral of the story? Man, the moral of the story is everybody needs to have more emotional intelligence, man. And remember, it's not about you. It's about the goddamn children. Right. Okay?

This is not about you and how you feel about this person moving on and this person having people in and out of the house. It's about you and that child. Because that's the only reason you would be doing this to begin with. You're doing this because you want to micromanage Your kids And I don't have a problem with that

Alright so let's say Your girl has a house across the street And you're looking at the blinds And the real Morris Chestnut walks in the house How's that going to make you feel? I would wonder why Morris Chestnut is cheating on his wife I would wonder why Morris Chestnut Is all of a sudden stepping out on his long-time boo that he's had.

You know Morris has been married for a long time, right? Oh, my goodness. I don't even know why you would do that to that man. I'm sorry, Morris, that envy would just throw you in a hypothetical situation because we know black men don't cheat. So I don't know what his problem is. Oh, my goodness. All right. When we come back, we got your rumor report.

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What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, guys. I'm Kate Max.

You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post High is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you.

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