The Breakfast Club - Decisions, Decisions: Baby Makin (Ft. Jacquess)

Episode Date: December 29, 2024

The Black Effect Presents... Decisions, Decisions! This week Mandii & Weezy are joined by the King of R&B Jacquees. First of getting into the first time Jacquees and Mandii met, celebrating his first child, and figuring out why his wife was “The One.” Then the ladies get into the problem of regifting, being jealous of your partner, and showing up in a relationship. Finally we get into the music with the latest realize by Jacquees and much more!   Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say Decisions Decisions. It sounded like you was talking to... It's cursing. You definitely say to welcome. Welcome to the new podcast. Oh, wait, you want to say it together? Decisions Decisions. All right, y'all, we are just going to jump right into this shit.

Uh, we are joined... Girl, this is so... This show, one of my best friends, Baby Daddy, this is so... Uh-uh, don't... I ain't gonna hold y'all. This is probably crazy because I normally don't bring people like that I know like this, I think. Tell the truth. They be fighting for the camera.

Uh-uh. We not going to do that. We not going to do that. Y'all, we have Jaquice in the building today. And I am really excited because, yeah, I had a pre-pro call with your fiance. Yeah, I heard y'all. First off, I ain't gonna hold y'all. Let me tell y'all how I'm sitting here,

like, letting her know kind of the questions and conversations we're gonna have on the pot. And here goes Jacquees in the background. Man, I done heard y'all shit. Y'all better not make my episode boring. I'm like, man, don't give me all that other shit now, man. That's funny. She want right back out there.

Yeah, but see, we have to now because now we can't dig into the holes, because if we the ones who dug into the past, we're going to be like, why the fuck would you put my man on perfect? Just know, we're going to get to the sexiness of it all, the baby making of it all. Before we get to the sexiness, can I tell you, every time I hear your name, I think of one thing. You know, just as like a fan of listening to songs for years, my favorite song is a song that I would have to go through hell and high water to listen to.

And I get so excited any time I hear the beat. Because all I want to say is, I got a ride with my gun on safety. Yeah. And then, oh, that's my shit! You don't play so pretty to me. I can't play. What is it? You said the gun off safety.

Oh, this is when you liked fucking niggas who had guns under the pillow. No, I just said I resonate with the lyrics. Oh, damn. That show that? Okay. Bro, that's my shit. It's already turning up. I get so happy when a DJ just takes it off track.

Please. Yeah, really? You know, I really hate remixes, but fuck, when it's better than the song. Here we go. I'm sorry. I love LMA too, but like honestly, I was really upset. Like the DSPs, it was killing me. Right.

Bro, I had to listen to it on YouTube. I bought YouTube premium for the day. So you swear? Swear to God. Oh, that's real. Love, love, love your voice in that song. It was really fun to listen to. And it's like, just, it was such a good song.

Thank you. But yeah, like I can't hear you. That was a fun time. Right? Yeah. And also, you know what I wanted to add? And you stole the thunder from her again. Not y'all having babies around the same time.

Oh, for real? She having a baby? She had her baby as well. Oh, that's hard. Congrats to her though. That's fat. No, she is. She used to be cool with me back in the day.

When you were singing that song, because the clip I remember, did you really, the audios from you singing in a car? Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, so that day I was out of the country. I was in London. And it's crazy because her best friend used to run around with me, you know what I'm saying, in London. Like she had worked for like Cash Money and Republic out there. It was like they had like a second part out there or whatever out of the country. She used to run around with me or whatever. So I was like, man, one day I was like, man, I'm going to make this video to Tripp. You know what I'm saying? I was like man I'm finna make this video to trip, you know I'm like I'm finna make it in the car my manager was like man don't do that whatever you shouldn't do it whatever Alright, I'm gonna do it. So I just recorded on the phone and that's the little clip

I was just lip-syncing what I had already recorded and I just threw it on the gram and when that went viral That same day. I was already shooting a video to it. You know, I was like, you know, I always do quick mixes I didn't know it was gonna be be that crazy. When I put it on the ground, it had got like, it had got like 10,000 plays, like in a minute or something crazy. Something ridiculous had happened in like 10 minutes, I remember. Because we got the hood version of the song. That's why. Yeah. Like I remember, like I ain't even going to cap. Like I remember when I dropped that stuff, like I remember like, like they had called me from Cali, like, you know what I'm saying, like, playing it, like, what was this, like 2018 or something like this?

Like, I remember they were coming from California, like in the neighborhood, like just everybody in the neighborhood of California just out the windows, playing trip, like it was crazy. Like that was a crazy moment. If Queen Mix is still something, especially like with everyone using samples or remixing and doing all that shit, but also it not being money out of it, because shit ain't get cleared,

is that something you still doing? Does it make sense to do? I mean, y'all still do it. I just dropped the Queen Mix project at the top of the year. Okay. You feel me? I did it because I'm like, man, my fans be asking for it. And that was what was going viral.

If you see like the little shit that was like, damn girl, you been like, everybody was doing the little dances and shit. Oh yeah, that was what was going viral, if you see the little shit that was like, damn girl, you been like, then then then, everybody was doing the little dances and shit on TikTok. So it's like, I always do something to end up going viral. I actually had a really interesting conversation about that moment in time with, I was in this meeting about, it was a TV show that I was working the EP, and they wanted to hire this influencer

who was popular for copying something from another woman. And the conversation was like, yo, but like this is kind of fucked up. I'm like, yeah, but they're two black creators. Like all TikTokers do the same thing. They just remix it. I'm like, what about Joc Queen? Think about that moment in time.

Like, I feel like we all agreed that like, okay, I understand why you perform this. It's not like people are paying the ticket to see you do this one thing. Exactly. Can they not do this? I will say that is another thing about, I think, our first time meeting.

Go ahead. Deondrean shit. I gotta share this, I gotta share it. So I find out that one of our best friends is dating Jacquees and she calls me and is like, listen, Jacquees, my friend be talking about music and I don't really know if she listens to your music that well and she say that you is not the king of R&B. So when we come to New York, I swear to God, when we come to New York, I'm to God, when we come to New York, I'm going to bring her to your show

so she could see how you get down, baby. And I went to the show and the visuals in the back, the dancers, and literally he comes backstage and he was like, I did that shit, didn't I? Yeah. Yeah. I realized that. That was on the system for you too. That was like our first time meeting.

And I did want to get into, into so you know decisions decisions, you know We talk relationships. We talk sex. We don't get into baby making the new project. Let's do it But before getting into the project, I wanted to bring up just a very real topic about our our interaction Maybe something that people often go with or deal with. And I'll be real with you, because you already know I wasn't a fan of you personally at first. Of course. There was a lot around the pregnancy, the announcement of it, what was going on with

your previous relationship as it intertwined with this previous, with this current relationship. Right. And I will tell you, I don't know if you know, there was a decision whether she was going to keep the baby or not, and I sent her flowers that said, real ass bitch give a fuck about a nigga. That's right. I support whatever decision you make. Of course. This stuff, you know. And so, oh, but it happens. I'm not going to lie. As a friend-

Of course, you got to support your friend. Because that took place during your relationship, I do wanna commend you in having to go against and earn the trust, the love from her family members, her brothers, the mama, her best friends, and everything around because I think it's been a lot for y'all to go through a high-risk pregnancy, but also for you as a man, a first-time father,

having to go against everything and also really being excited about this moment. And I did want to commend you, because I do think it's hard. Like, a lot of people out there have, you know, get pregnant with eight shit niggas, not saying that you are, but those men, there is a battle in wanting to be excited,

because this is a baby that's coming into a battle in wanting to be excited because this is a baby that's coming into the picture. Wanting to stay with this woman though, there's been some ups and downs. And then also fighting to prove that I'm going to be the man that I know I can be in this relationship. And I do want to say from a personal standpoint, y'all, every time I have seen you,

you have done nothing but show up as a partner, as someone embracing the family, even though you knew we hated you a little bit. Yeah. Real talk. And I did want to ask you, how was that moment of wanting to celebrate your first child and then also as the man trying to just give advice to maybe other men dealing with this? Like how you let them know, like, I be here and I'm gonna be a good father and I'm gonna be a good partner to this woman. Well really it's like it's just a decision a man gotta make honestly.

That's what I think you know I'm saying because like us as dudes like it come a time where it came a time in my life where I'm like, man, I gotta stop really playing with fire. You know what I'm saying? I was always the type of dude to like play with fire. You dig what I'm saying? I would always think I could have it my way, period. That's just how I was thinking. I was just like, man, I'm Jacqueese,

I can have shit my way. You know what I'm saying? And it just came to a halt because when I was thinking that it's like everything started to fumble. You dig what I'm saying? Like other places in my life started to fumble and I'm like I ain't got no discipline nowhere you know and if you ain't got no discipline nowhere then everything will start to fumble. So once I got discipline with myself and I stopped drinking and doing different things like that.

Can you share how that discipline happened? Yeah like my girl was big on that you know I was big on drinking you know I was just really like a Drinker you feel me like a nigga that just liked to drink but it was taking me somewhere that I had never been and I was like starting to lose myself in a way But then I had somebody like Deandre that's right there that seen me in such a light That was seeing me go down like that that she really just couldn't believe it type of thing Well, she couldn't drink during the pregnancy. So they kind of went on that sobriety journey together.

You know what I'm saying? So it was like that. But see, while she got pregnant, I was still turned. You know what I'm saying? So I didn't turn down until like three months after. Do you think that men need a moment of like, I feel like to any man that's ever dated me, there was a moment where they had to almost lose me to be like, oh, okay.

And for you, I don't know if that moment was just, you know, drama online and an ex or whatever, but do you think that it takes that? Like, do you think if you didn't have that moment, you could propose? Like, is there a moment? Oh, yeah, yeah. Without the moment, I could have still proposed. Do you think that that really showed you the value, though?

I'm not saying obviously you don't look at this woman like the future, but it doesn't make you feel like, oh, no. It's like all the BS did for me really was just show me that she believed in me to be someone better. You know, she gave me an opportunity to be better. From forgiveness? Yeah, it's like, it's like she's she like, you know, when somebody know like, nah, that ain't you. You know what I'm saying? They'd be like, nah, I don't believe that's you.

You know what I'm saying? They could see the good in you, like, like the real greatness in you. Did you also feel like the liquor was turning you into someone that you weren't proud of? Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like, because I would use it for like a coping mechanism for different things that I was fighting myself. You know what I'm saying? Like, so if I wanted to be at a certain place in my career, like you feel me? If I done got mad at motherfuckers for stuff I could control and not knowing, I would just sit there and just drink. And then I would just drink till I fall asleep.

You know what I'm saying? Wake up the next day and just like... Drinking the day? Yeah, I'll just wake up. You feel me? Go do something. Then I figure out a way to be like, oh, I got a flight. I'm going to go to the bar.

Sit down to the flight. Like, oh, the flight got two more minutes to board. I'm going to go to the bar, sit down to the flight. I go to the flight, got two more minutes to board. I'll run down there. If he even get on a flight. Oh, they got something to drink on this flight. All right. I'll just drink, go to sleep, wake up, then just do a show.

Then niggas be like, how the fuck did he kill the show? Like this nigga was just backstage. Like, like niggas thought I was crazy. Oh wow. Cause I'll be fucked up. But then I get on stage and be like... Functioning alcoholic. I mean, I'm not going to lie.

Straight up. You know what I'm saying? I'm currently going through my sober journey right now, too. And it awakens you in so many of your relationships, how you show up with the dependency of liquor to either ease stress, anxiety, just being codependent also as being an artist. Yeah. You're constantly around drinking and things like that. Oh my God, y'all make me feel that.

But it wasn't even me. No, I was really drunk last night. I did Ecstasy last week. No. I feel like the... But you can turn the fuck up. I like when folks turn up. Like, I hate when folks come around me and they be like,

like, if a motherfucker came around me that drinking, don't drink, I'm going to be mad. Like, damn, why you? I know. Oh, I ain't going gonna lie, I sneak to the bar now and be like, give me a seltzer, put a lime and mint in that hitch. So it looked like a mojito, but it ain't. Or I get like the 0% Heineken's.

Exactly. Because it's still in a beer bottle. You know what I'm saying? So I be looking like I'm drinking. It tastes like it. It's just a vibe. Like I swear, now that I done started getting the mocktails and shit, I promise you,

sometimes I'll be feeling like I'm drunk. I'll be like, boy, this shit gets a mind on. I'm like, this shit might be in my head for real. I told my aunt the other day, I'm like, bro, I don't think I like, I'm really the same nigga, regardless, you know what I'm saying? Then I had got to a point where it's like, liquor be fun, you dig what I'm saying?

And then I was like, you know, you be in some shit where it's like, you know, both of y'all do that shit. You know what I'm saying? I was I was like, you know, you be in like some shit where it's like, you know, both of y'all do that shit. You know what I'm saying? I was in stuff like that, like where we both, I was in relationships where we both enjoyed drinking. And then I was the one who couldn't like grasp hold of it. Like I even look back on like past situations now and be like, damn, like, you know,

it was certain things that people were trying to tell me in the past that I understand now though, you know what I mean? Like God make no mistakes, you know what I'm saying? But I be thinking like my whole life, like a lot of times in my twenties with different relationships I was in, it was like, a lot of times liquor was always the downfall. But you know what though? You know what I'm saying? Everyone.

I think dating somebody famous, women feel so much pressure to not be the fun girl. You want to be everything. You want to be the fun girl. You want to do this. You want to let them lay you down. Like, I feel like I've... But then the dude'll let you know you ain't gotta be. Because then sometimes the nigga will be like, no, I don't want that from you.

But I don't think women are leading with that. I don't think that most women that famous men meet are being their real selves. I can believe that. I think they being the woman that they think that you want. That's a fact. It's going to take, it probably take the dude to break down or something to form and show their real self.

For you, I think, I'm curious because we have this conversation, we've had dating coaches on here and they say how long someone should be with somebody before the question is popped, before you make it serious. Do you remember the moment that you were like, I'm gonna go buy a ring and propose to Deondra? Yeah. We knew you had the gender reveal, the baby shower, which is where you proposed. But what was the exact moment where you were like, I'm gonna propose to this woman? Like, well you got to think at a gender reveal I wouldn't even think about getting married. You know like I was only two months apart from each other damn. Yeah, I was just like

Now just like one day we'll get married, but I was just like, you know how niggas be like, you know one day We'll get married, but you never really know when they always say it. It just come to you You know, I'm saying how long had y'all been dating before you proposed. Let's see if Ann Warr is right Me and Deon she came on the tour last year before you propose. Let's see if Ann Warr is right. Me and Deonna, she came on the tour last year. She came on my tour. We went on tour about October. Add this up because we had a dating coach save from Ann Warr. This is different because she was pregnant in three months.

No, so now we're not. Yeah, she was pregnant in three months of dating. So she was pregnant in January. Yeah, facts. So it's different here. The timeline was different. But you don't have to marry a woman just because they pregnant. That ain't why I married her. You got to think. So gender reveal was April. You didn't know. In April you didn't want to propose.

But the baby shower was in June or July. Between April and the summer, what moment or what did she do or what happened to where you were like, this needs to be my wife? Well, it's like really we started going to church and stuff. You know what I'm saying? So we started going to change churches. We gotta get in that motherfucker on Sunday. We gotta get in there. I mean, he can play it on the laptop on Sunday.

Yeah, we started going to church. Is that TDJ's, baby? We started going to church and stuff. And then honestly, I had started like, after the general reveal, you know, I'm watching them, seeing what we doing and stuff like that. I'm at the crib, like I got a schedule, I'm working out in the morning, you know,

making my smoothies, we'll come back, then I'm doing what I'm doing now. So I'm like, okay, because I'm like, okay, I can like, you know, first you try to see the routine first. You be like, okay, can I do this every day? You know what I'm saying? Like, so I'm asking myself that. I'm like, okay, I like waking up over here, making my smoothie, going to the gym, coming back, shouting right here. I do this, I do that. Okay, do

I waking up? Okay, now I'm doing this shit too much straight. I still feel straight. Like, you know what I'm saying? I'm like, okay, like, okay. Just like it feels easy. You know, I'm just like adding it up. I'm trying to see like what I'm going to be missing. You know what I'm saying? Then I'm working... And you started thinking. Yeah. Then I'm working out one day, and I'm working out, and I'm running on the treadmill, and I'm looking at this dude. It's this black dude in the gym.

So every time it's like black people in the building, I always be like, oh, this dope. Like, I'm going to have a conversation with him. You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? Yo! So I was like, man, what's up, man? Like, you know what I'm saying? Wu was in the gym, I was like, man, what's up, man? Like, you know what I'm saying?

Wu was in the gym. He was like, man, what's up, Doc? Wu, whatever. And I was talking to him, and he was like, man, I'm a pastor. I couldn't believe he was a pastor because he's swag. I was like, well, that what's up. Not pastors. You expect pastors not to be swaggy?

I was saying he was swagged up. You feel me? Really? Yeah, you know, you just- Like, are you the swaggy mega church? I'm saying, but he just had sauce. Like, you know, he looked like the aunt you just talked to at the crib, like church? I'm saying but he just had sauce like you know he looked like The you just talked to it the crib like the one that got some money or something you know

It wasn't the one married that was married to Gisele Bryant was it? I know he got the the church in what where the church at? Hold on tell me where the church at first. Hold on it's in Atlanta. Tell me where it's at. Hold on see can you look up Jamal Bryant. No no. You birthed Jamal Bryant? Look up New Birth? New Birth is Jamal Bryant's church? No, not him.

It wasn't him? No. So I remember he was- See? Swaggy, bro. Let me see. Yeah, that nigga look like he got a- Oh, no, that ain't him. He look like he fucked hoes.

You know what I'm saying? That ain't him, bro. You maybe, probably Victory. That's the other big church. It wasn't Victory either? No, it was a small church. Oh, okay, okay. So he was just basically in that time of how,

people talk about marriage just random. You know what I'm saying? And I was like, man, you know, I was just listening the first day. I was okay then he came back to the gym and uh He's just other white guy super cool who been in the gym with us and stuff He always be like hey Jacque's man you dating um, you know Sanders, you know, I'm saying I was like, yeah, man, you know saying yeah, they're my girl. What else you know saying like young man's dope man Stay focused man. Do you know what I'm saying? Yeah, that my girl, whatever. You know what I'm saying? He was like, yeah man, it's dope man, just stay focused man. You know what I'm saying?

So then, the pastor, you know the one we call Doc, he like, hey Doc, he just giving me some game or whatever. So I'm like, man, I might get married. You know what I'm saying? So he was like, oh for real Doc? Woo woo, giving me some little games. So I'm like, yeah yeah, I might do it. I'm just really throwing it out there to see what the OG gonna say for real

Say like yeah doc, that'll be good for you. You know what I'm saying? He don't even know me for real They're telling me that'd be good for you. So I'm like, okay, okay, so I'm just sitting around so I start writing this letter You feel me? So I'm like, let me start writing this letter. Let me just see what's going down So I start writing a letter then I start writing then I call my mom. I'm like a letter to who? Deandre. Okay, you know The eight minute letter? Yeah. Yeah So I start writing a letter, then I start writing it. Then I call my mom. I'm like. A letter to who? Deandre. You know what I'm saying? The eight minute letter? Yeah, yeah. Yeah.

I was writing that letter for four days. You feel me? Shut up. Yeah, and I remember when I was writing the letter. I remember. Wow. I would be on the balcony. And this one, we was in the condo in the city when I was over there standing at her spot.

And she would be on the sofa. You know, the sofa right here, the balcony right here, and I'd be out there late. And she would be like, I don't worry about you. I'm like, what you worried? You know Deondra liked that. She was like, they don't worry about you. I was like, what you worried about?

I'm right here. You know what I'm saying? But you were writing a lot in your phone. But she know I always write down stuff anyway. So I'm making it seem like yeah, I got a lot of ideas. That's what I'm trying to add. I'm making it seem like yeah, I got a lot of ideas and stuff. Like I'm trying to say. I'm making it seem like, yeah, I got a lot of ideas and stuff. Like, I'm just writing some ideas and stuff.

I'm thinking about some lyrics and stuff. So she was like, OK. Then it went on for days. She kept saying, like, I'm just worried about you. So then I asked my mama, like, hey, mama, I think I'm going to marry DeAndre. She's like, OK, cool. She's like, well, you need to ask her her short-term goals and her long-term goals. Oh.

You know what I'm saying? This wasn't a conversation y'all had already? My mama? No, you and the short-term term and long term goal conversation. Oh I guess Kind of getting to know each other you got the new thing going on like yeah. Oh wow we didn't it was fresh So uh my mama like make sure you know a short term goes and a long term goes cuz my mama had already told me She was the one on tour. You know saying really what major?

Oh, yeah, I mean Deandre and came on my tour. she was the one on tour. You know what I'm saying? Really? What made you want to say it? Oh yeah, your family loves you. I mean, DeAndre had came on my tour. She really snuck on tour with us. For real. Like she came to a show. Oh, that's what I got to do. I got to sneak on tour with her.

You got to come to a meeting. Okay. Tired to sneak on a tour. I see you, Dee. I'm going to do it too. Shawty came to a show. She brought her brothers to the first show she came to. She brought Shadour and Bucky.

And then she was like, I want to come to another show. I want my friends to see you perform. You know what I'm saying? And she had us pull up every city. She was like, I got friends in this city. But you know, it's really nice to see. Every friend was coming to the city.

And I was mean. Coming people up to be proud. And then she was telling her mama for real like, I think he the one. Like I caught with them saying like, oh, he the one. Like you feel me? I'm hearing that.

You feel me? So I'm like, oh shit. Like they think I'm the one. Like I caught with them saying like, oh, he the one. Like you feel me? I'm hearing that you feel me. So I'm like, oh shit. Like they think I'm the one. Like what is it? What type of things do you think mean the one we had wrote to me on? Yep. And he talked about and said specific things. I'm just curious.

Like, what is... Hold on, hold on. Did she pay herself to come on that tour? That's what Bro Timmy said. Bro Timmy said he knew her. Oh, yeah. His woman was the one. She flew herself from Africa.

She flew herself from South Africa to LA. Yeah. Because she wanted to see him and then... Nah, she was paying to get there. Tanzania. God damn it. We all got to pay to be with these niggas? No.

She was paying to get there. I think I paid for her to get there probably one time, but she was paying to get there. Wait, how many shows she went to? I need to know. De'Andra started out on one show, and then she finished the tour. Like, before Halloween, De'Andra was there with us on Halloween.

We all had on costumes. She had her friends with us in costumes. Then she was there with us the whole tour. She was on the whole tour. Like- And she just popped up every city. She brought herself. No, she stayed on the bus. She organized my room. She had hers. She said, I us the whole tour. She was on the whole tour. Like she just popped up every city. She brought herself. No, she stayed on the bus.

She organized my room. She had hers. She said, I'm a workman. She had everything organized, like living. She came and changed the whole game. Let me ask you this. Damn. Somebody is going to watch this and people are enjoy hating on what you have, right?

Or happy people, whatever. It's like even Deandre's post about pregnancy. I have fibroids. I couldn't believe the comments. That shit really triggered me. And I don't even know Deandre like that. I know her through Mandy when she comes to a show. I was fucked up reading this.

I'm like, bro, you can't even make a choice for yourself because people just wanna be angry about a nigga with you. The choice is ours. So people I feel like will be excited to hear that Deandre paid to come because they wanna, I really do, I feel like this. Someone to hear that De'Andra paid to come because they wanna. I really do, I feel like this. Someone's gonna watch this and be like,

see, tell me why. I gotta put a little piggy bank to the side to spend on some niggas in 2025. Tell me why De'Andra doing this on her own taught you that she was the one. Or spoke to you. What did that show you? If anything? I mean, you got to think we was friends first anyway.

So the Andra always be in my birthday parties and all that type of stuff. Anyway, so it's like, like I was with her on her 33rd birthday. I remember she was telling me when she turned 33, she was like, Oh, this is my Jesus year. You know what I'm saying? Like, as soon as she turned 33, I think that's the same year she got pregnant. It is, you know what I'm saying? And she was like, this is my Jesus. Y'all like, what does that mean? She was like, you know, this just, she turned 33, I think that's the same year she got pregnant. It is, you know what I'm saying? And she was like, this is my GZ.

I was like, what that mean? She was like, you know, she was explaining it to me. And I think I just got lost. What you ask me? I'm saying like, with her spending money to come. Oh yeah, you're saying what did it mean? Yeah, did that mean something? I mean, like I said, we was already friends.

And just going back to her telling me it was a GZ year and stuff like that, it was like, we already had like a special connection. You know what I'm saying? We was already connected. So for her coming to my shows me it was a GZ year and stuff like that. It was like we already had like a special connection. You know what I'm saying? We was already connected. So for her coming to my shows, it was really like where her coming to see me is like, yeah, my like DeAndre pulling up on me. OK, so hold on. How do you start fucking your friend? Because I feel like nobody's going to let us.

Nobody's going to let us have a homeboy ever again. I'm saying you. Did you always know? You did go from homie to lover. No, no, no. Yeah, we did. Was it really? How do you go there? How do you go from homie to lover. No, no, no. Yeah, we needed it. Was it really friends? How do you go there? How do you go from homie to lover?

I feel like when a nigga get, when a nigga get, when a nigga either got problems in his spot, for real, when a nigga got problems in his spot, a nigga just tired of what he got, and a nigga just ready to just explore. Like, when you ready to risk, when you ready to jump, you got to be ready to just risk it all. I don't know if I like this.

I don't like this either. I don't think I like this either. I don't like the answer. I mean. You sound like, what? I mean. I mean, okay, well let's rephrase it. That's what it is. Okay.

No. I think we need to go back here. Rewind it. Can I just tell you how you made it sound? How? Kind of just like. I made it seem like she's a home wrecker or something? No, you made it sound like she was just there.

Oh, no. I mean, you got to think we were friends. We met probably on one of those days, like not one of them days, like she was just there. Oh, no. I mean, you got to think we was friends. We met probably on one of those days, like not one of those days, like one of them times. You know how you're in a relationship with someone, you not with someone for some time. Like you might have been dating somebody for years, right? But y'all might have not been in a relationship for like three months. You know what I'm saying? You might have met someone that became your friend. That's how you met somebody.

Like I met her in a period like that. OK. You know what I'm saying? I met her like when she turned 31. Like Pac-Man Jones had called me to sing her happy birthday. I didn't know nothing about it. You feel me? He was just like, man, I'm with Deandre. I'm like, who is that? He's like, man, it's Deandre's daughter.

You feel me? He's like, my little sister. It's her birthday, sing to her. I'm like, what? I don't be singing to folks on the phone. You know what I'm saying? Y'all meeting through Pac is crazy. Yeah.

And he like, bruh, just sing to her. I'm going to put on the phone. He put on the phone. And when I seen her, I'm like, oh, she's super pretty I start saying I ain't no never seen The people on the phone, you know saying I just started singing and she was just like, oh, thank you And I was like, oh, I like And I just started the eminent and I met her in Miami and then We just started kicking it.

Like, we was kicking it so hard, I couldn't believe she was Deion Sanders' daughter. You feel me? Like, we was just kicking it. Yeah, I ain't gonna lie, that's a risk to your life. Like, I was just like, dang, Shaudrie really like, cool as hell. Like, you feel me?

She was so real, I was just like, damn, like, this shit crazy. You feel me? I was really blown, like, this don't make sense. Like, shawty too real. I love that it's gotten to. I haven't talked to a nigga from Atlanta in so long. Oh, my god.

You hear that? I'll be with shawty. I'll go get my smoothie, come back for the gin, woo woo. Shawty sit on it. I'm like, you want a Joe Biden in the Migos? Don't do that. That's crazy. That's crazy. That's crazy.

I want it because the holiday season is coming up. And again, digging into relationships and how to navigate them. I have a hypothetical that I want to throw with you. Because we are in the season of gift giving. So I want to see how you would react to this incident happen. And feel free as well, cause you a dude. And so sometimes I know it could be seeming like we gangin' up on shit.

So if you gotta step in, you gotta step in. So, so Kwee, you get your partner a gift for the holidays. Let's say you buy her a bag. She absolutely hates the gift, but doesn't tell you. Two months later, you see her wrapping it to re-gift it to one of her close friends. Don't you? How do you respond to this? I'm hurt.

I done been hurt before like, like, I'm like hurt, yeah. Because you gave a gift to someone and they didn't like it? And you re-gifted it? I mean- No, re-gifting it is crazy. Because it's like,'t like it? And you regifted it? No, regifting it is crazy. Yeah, like you regifted it. Now if it's like, you would have told me like, alright, I don't like these. What is it? Now hold on, we gotta help the audience. It's the season of giving. I really think men have an awful, awful time getting gifts that women actually like.

Facts. Weezy and I have come on here on Patreon and had to share how niggas spent money and we ain't like that shit and then Oh, I'll never forget mine bitch. I need to tell you she wallet. It was just as red as your pants She hated it she had to come on it was like I know it's tough. It's tough to buy women gifts I tell Deandre that all the time I come in the house with stuff. Oh, no, she told me I come in the house with stuff. Oh no, she told me. She told me you're scared as hell to buy her again. Yeah, I tell her because I be like, I'm not going to buy nothing.

So you know, I wanted to ask you something before. So how did you pick out the ring? Oh, so I had my sisters with me. But did they know what shape and stuff? Because I realized, I'm like a homegirl, that's a big thing. I knew. I'm like, I want her ring to be like my earrings. Oh wait, you knew what you wanted her to wear, but did you know what type of ring she wanted?

I know what she wanted, but I ended up buying her dream ring. Oh, thank God. You got lucky. You know what I think about when I think about a bad ring? Sex in the City when she threw up. You remember that moment?

Mm-mm. She found a ring in the closet and threw up. Oh shit. And everybody was like, what made you throw up? She was like, it was pear shape and it's this kind of thing. It was all sick to their stomach.

And I'm like, yo, I would be so happy. I would just live with it, bro. Nah. Nah, I feel like that's what I want it. Wait, wait, wait. How ugly? I want one that makes my hand go like this. You got it.

You got it. Are you singing Shaudrie? Oh, no, it's not. No. Girl, that thing was glistening. I told my friend, girl, let me sing. Put it up like me. You know, I will say this, though.

If I'm dating, I mean, you're R&B singer with rapper energy, my ring can't be made. I'm sorry. No, it can't be made. You telling me my nigga can't go through TSA without just taking everything off, and I have to be sitting here with a normal ring? But to be fair, you also just brought up not liking my ring.

My jewelry don't ring in TSA. My jewelry don't go off in TSA. No, I'm saying, like, I just thought you have to take off everything. Because you got so much. I had to throw that out there. I don't take shit off.

He said, this ain't metal, bitch. And my crew was on it. Do it. Hey, y'all ain't pissed at no one. I was like. He said, nah, I don't have the experience. Sorry. I honestly, when I said it, it didn't come out of my mouth.

It was bad. So then you... So as men who are thoughtful and gift-given, if your partner doesn't like it, it does have an impact on you, but then how would you want your partner to say, hey, babe, don't really like this? It only got an impact on you by the reaction of how they do when you give them the gift.

Like, if I give somebody something, they're like... Thank you, but I don't, it'll make you, it'll hurt your problem. What if I fake it out of the moment and then come to you at dinner like, hey babe, that's you. Yeah, I think it hurts regardless. Because you could either be ungrateful. I mean, it depends on how you say it. Like, if you say it on some cool funny shit like that, I might laugh and be like, you

know, like, damn, what the fuck. I got to make a joke of the gift you gave me? Tell me how to tell a nigga I don't like what they got me. Because you never know how hard a nigga went to get it. Can we role play? OK. Can we role play? Can you give her a gift real quick, and then she tells you?

OK, you respond, Weezy. You don't like the gift. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, she gonna like it. Oh my god, you got me. Oh my god. Yeah, she loves God. Oh, I'm so happy.

Okay, so wait, as a man, would this reaction be okay? Even though it's obvious? Even though you know it's a little bit of a lie? Uh, yeah, I would be a little sick. Then my partner would be like, You feel me? Bro, you know when my grandmother says to me one time, God rest her soul,

I got her a fucking sweater, I'll never forget. She opened the box on that. You feel me? Bro, you know when my grandmother said to me one time, God rest her soul. I got her a fucking sweater, I'll never forget. She opened the box on Christmas, doesn't mean like 2015. And she went like this, oh. I was like, what's wrong with it? And she was like, I don't think I like it.

I said, damn, grandma's the thought that counts. She said, don't think about me. Damn. I was like, that was my line forever. That's real though. Don't think about it. No, for real. line forever. That's real though. Don't think about it. Not for real.

So can we bring that up though? Is there a moment where it actually is the thought that counts? I think that's a bullshit ass line. I have to hold you. It's like this. I feel like what a gift you should be thankful regardless. So I disagree. Oh girl, I'm going to bring up the flowers.

Hold on. I'm not going to bring up the flowers, bitch. Damn. I think that's a valid point too. Shut up. So. My nigga and I argued over Mandy. I thought she was wrong. the flowers, bitch. Damn. I think that's a valid point. Shut up. My nigga and I argued over Mandy. I thought she was wrong.

He showed me right. Okay. Okay. So to me, the thought that counts, A, brings it down to being something bare minimum. We all have thoughts. When holidays come around, it's almost like second nature. Fuck, I got to get a gift. When Valentine's Day come around, birthdays come around. When there's moments that come around

where technically gift giving is a part of it, the thought that counts actually is the bare minimum because you already know there's going to be an exchange of something. So to me, being intentional with a listening to me or getting me something that you know will enhance my, whatever, my life in whatever way or that I've actually asked for so yes I'm okay I'm not gonna bring

up the flowers but I'm gonna bring it up so he can hear I'm gonna bring up the surprise party so when I was so when I was in my previous relationship I'm not big on celebrating birthdays I don't want big on celebrating birthdays. I don't want to do birthday dinners. I don't want everyone around. And in the moment, I just wanted a spa day with my nigga. That is it. I was very adamant. Let all my friends know I don't even want nothing but a spa day. There was a lot going on with work. My birthday, he gives me a surprise party. All my friends are there. There's a cake, there's food.

I'm surprised with a surprise party. I roast that nigga on the podcast the next week. You will see. And bring up how much I absolutely hated it because I thought, you know what? This nigga didn't even listen on what I wanted. Wait, you didn't tell him to his face you were on it? No, I told him that following week. And then we got into an argument, which is why I brought it up on the podcast.

I brought it up on the other pod, but I ended up being upset because in that moment, me telling him I didn't like it, he said, I've never done that for anybody. And he made me feel like I was ungrateful because he went out of his way to get me something I didn't want There is a problem there. There's an intentionality of you Literally going out of the way to give me something I don't want and now you're trying to make me seem ungrateful Because you got me the one thing I said I didn't want you don't get a pat on the back for the thought of Doing something that meant something to you and not to me. And so I think it's the same thing. Let's bring up the example. No, but don't do that.

Wait, is that wrong? No, do you know? Hold on. I want to bring up pop culture. I don't know. Did y'all see this year even, Swizz Beatz went on an interview and said, yo, I got Alicia a one, I think there was only seven cars made, uh, this certain type of car. Look up the car edit if you can. And he went on and he was like, man, there was only like seven of these made. I got it for her birthday and that shit collecting does she ain't even drove it.

She don't like it. I spent all this money on it. Well, it's a, it's Virgil's $300,000. Is it Maybach? Yes. Yeah. I'm not saying I hate rich people because I want to be one but like, but literally, and what he what he even came to realize in that moment was, I bought her something that I wanted myself.

I'm sorry, $500,000. $500,000 car. She hated it. Didn't drive it. And he was like, damn, I realized in that moment, that's not even what my wife wanted. And he did feel like she was fucking awful for not being excited about this goddamn thing. Hold on, hold on, hold on. What? The only coffee I would just try is party. I ain't hard. Give me what I like, nigga.

Now, I got to say to somebody what you said. So, boom. So you had told Bloody like, Woo woo. You were like, No. No, I'm saying. No, I'm saying you really had told. Woof, da woof, da woof.

You told Bloody basically like, damn, it's my birthday. You know what I'm saying? Like, I really don't want to do nothing this year. I just want to have a spot day, right? But I'm going to tell you something, how dudes think, how niggas think, right? Uh oh. Niggas think like, just wanna have a spot day, right? But I'm gonna tell you something, how dudes think, how niggas think, right? Niggas think like,

cause then especially who you are, right? Niggas think like, damn, okay. Shadi said she didn't wanna do nothing for her birthday. Okay, I'm trying to wow Shadi. Whenever a nigga hear a girl say she don't wanna do something for her birthday, a nigga instantly get the thing like, nah, we doing something for her birthday.

Cause I know she wanna do something for her birthday. Maybe Shadi ain't got it. Or maybe Shadi like, trying to we doing something for a birthday, because I know she want to do something for a birthday. Maybe, maybe, maybe Shadi ain't got it. I totally get it. Or maybe Shadi like, or maybe Shadi like, trying to figure it out. So I'm going to figure it out for a boom. Hey, you know Shadi like to be lit. Hey, let's have a surprise party.

Boom. You know what's crazy? I'm not a bitch that even fake reaches for my wallet to pay for a date. You know exactly what you getting with me. So that me saying what I wanted to. Because it was your birthday. I get okay. Did you still get I wanted. It was your birthday.

Did you still get the spa? It was your birthday. Did you get at the spa also? Oh, three breakups later because I had a coupon. Thank you, Eric and Mila for that. OK, wait. Let me just say just one thing. From him, no.

I got it from my friends. Now, if I was him, though, I got to say. If I was him, though, out of it, sick. My friends got me a $200 Sojo spa gift card because my friends listen to what I want. But, Mandy, hold on. Wait, wait. But, see, he trying to wow you. You go to the spa already and do it, right?

This is... I didn't really think of it like this, but now that you said this, a lot of niggas that date me feel like it's hard to get me anything because I always get it myself. My nigga said to my face, like, when he took me to Sojo, like, thank God you ain't fucking been here. You don't think I could have threw myself a surprise party? No, I don't think you can throw yourself a surprise party.

I mean, it's the effort. But that's the point. But see, so that's, so this is my point. For men, it's the effort. To me then, the gift in what you do, the gesture becomes about you, not about your partner. Why do you think that though? Well, that's because, because literally, yo,

I'm going out of my way to do this He brought up that he'd never done it for a woman before that's different He felt proud of that moment and so it did something for him But you literally went out of your way, but it's like you made him feel like that Oh, wow. It's like you made it's like yeah, you made him want to go out of his way Yeah, i'm not gonna lie to you. You did what i'm saying. It's like you made a nigga It's like it's like I like you so much You make me want to go call all your friends and go out my way to celebrate you. Like I like you that much. Like I heard you say that you ain't want to do nothing

for your birthday, but I know you Mandy like it. So it's like, I heard you say you ain't like, but it's your birthday though. Like we celebrating you. Like that's how the nigga was. You know, I did not think I was going to be team red pants instead of a shirt. That's crazy. But, okay, okay. I'm not gonna lie to you, I see it. He really fuck with you. So you'll say overall, because this is the consensus I'm getting, are we saying then in gift giving, women should just literally, it's the thought that counts, and to not share whether they hate something or not. Should we eat that then?

To not? It just depends on? Hold. Should we eat that then to not? It just depends on? Hold on, we got an audience today. She said no, but that's what I'm hearing because of the effort that the man puts in. So then how can we be honest in a relationship where ego is not involved, where we can share whether we dislike something?

Well, I mean, it's like this. My girl can tell me she don't like something. I'm not going to just be hurt. You know what I'm going to be like, just say I came in the house with something. I went to Louis and I brought the arms or something. And then she was like, oh, man, I don't like that. I'll be like, well, let go return that shit.

Right. That's what I would say. No cap. Just like that. I'll be like, well, let go return that shit. Right. OK. That's me, though.

I wish I would have told the truth about that one gift that was the stuff. Yeah, because, bitch, you did you? But then if I see her wrapping it up, trying to give it to Mandy, I'll be like have told the truth about that one gift that was the best. Yeah, because bitch, you, did you, you just never. But then if I see her wrapping it up trying to give it to Mandy, I'll be like, why the fuck you giving Mandy my shit? Right. Oh, well damn, let me get that shit. Baby, I like this shit. That's why. God damn.

That's how I'm going to be. Fizz will let it go to you somewhere, God damn. I think there's a thin line of like letting someone know that you're grateful. So let me tell you something Mandy just said her homegirl did, and I was like, this bitch is insane. So. This episode comes out beforehand. Just so we know.

That's why I was gonna try to go at it too, but. Whatever, fuck it. So, because this is in the same kind of family. Okay. Her homegirl just started dating a nigga. Okay. Three, four months. Asked him to get her a tote bag.

What's a tote bag? A tote bag. Okay. Sorry, my braces. Asked him to get her a tote bag. What's a tote bag? A tote bag. Okay. Sorry, my braces are in the way. Oh, she asked for one. Yes. She asked for a bag. She asked for a tote bag.

Her never fool was old. Like, I need a bag. Can you get me a bag? I don't like how you break... I'm sure it wasn't praised that way. I'm sure it wasn't praised that way. So, the dude gets her. We don't like that shit.

Don't do that. And this is why we gotta buy our own money to check these niggas. I'm gonna be honest with you though. The shit that you said, I really think it's funny. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. So the dude gets that. Don't do that. And this is why we gotta buy our own. I'm gonna be honest with you though. The shit that you said, I really think is crazy. I'm gonna tell you some real shit. When I was first getting with De'Andra, right?

Like just before we was dating or anything. Like we was first kinda liking each other. I was going to the Louis store, right? And she would always be like, buy me something. I never would. I just never would. You know what I'm saying? I remember she buy me something. Like, no, no, no. I never would. You feel me? I just never would. You know what I'm saying?

I remember she bought me a Louis hat, right? But she would never give it to me because I never bought her shit off the Louis. That is funny. I'm a dang good as being. Wait, so she just took a picture of me with like, got this for you, babe, but never gave it to you? She still got it.

She rocked it. She just, she just, I never wore it though. No, she wore it. She said, I'm going to wear this shit this week. Yo, that's actually really funny. That is funny. You know what that is? Have you ever seen that little meme when a bitch get a gift? She be like, he's not your nigga. He's not this week. That's actually really funny. That is funny. You know what that is? Have you ever seen that little meme

when a bitch get a gift, she be like, he's not your nigga, you're not your nigga, you're not your nigga. That's me. That is funny. OK, so the friend asked for the bag, right? He gives her a bag, a tote bag. It's Marc Jacobs.

What was her response? I don't wear Marc Jacobs. Do you have Marc Jacobs in your closet? Why do you think Marc Jacobs? Look at the jaw drop. I got Marc Jacobs. Me too. But he didn't. I already wear Marc Jacobs.

So she felt like if you don't have Marc Jacobs in your closet. Why are you buying it from me? You have Goyard, you have Gucci, you have all these other things. Why are you doing this for me? Do you think I'm less than what you think I feel? It's three or four months that you asked.

No, no, no, it's just like, does this bag show how much I value you? Does this bag show your value? You asked for it. If you wanted something, bitch, you should have been specific. I mean, yeah, you asked for a new bag. I didn't know it had to be Gucci. Like, she would have threw me off.

OK. Went over to dinner. I can't believe he went over. I would have been like, yeah, I'm screwed on you. You trim. Because this ain't even about none of this shit. You asked for a bag. Like, I could have bought you a

Jam sport Hold on we got gonna let you get that off you need a new Sport does how we come you need to walk around with This port does how we cover you need some rock This is I got you to try to make but you're not 1000 like if I buy you fruit of the looms when you say you I want some nice boxes You'd be like you went to Walmart. Are you got it? Oh, I promise you all they got to do for me is be all black Only only you know what? I believe him. But this, I guess I'm not. But you know what? Like...

I'm a different type of nigga. So I thought the Toe Bad comment was crazy. I honestly was like, yo, this is some bird shit. Like, but I think... She looking for something else. But I think the... What did I just say? But I think the main thing about it that shocked me was...

She looking at that nigga bags like, okay, if I get with him, instantly, I'm gonna get what he get. You can't think you get what a man and getting what he get. But you said he's a mortgage broker. You said what? You said he's a mortgage broker. He made like 400, he does real estate. But it's like what a nigga make don't got nothing to do with a woman. No no no, he owns properties to, I mean but he make like 400. But I feel like what a man make don't got nothing to do with a woman.

Nothing. It's like I can have a- What a man make. I just feel like I can have a- Has nothing to What a man makes. I just feel like I can't. Nothing to do with a woman. No I feel like I can make a million dollars and you can work at Marshall's. I don't have to give you my money. We're not going to break up. We're not going to do it. We're not going to do it. We're not going to do it. We've not talked about the Marshall story enough. The audience knows about Marshall's bitch. People did not believe it. He makes in the hundreds millions right? This nigga started dating a girl. Was it TJ Maxx? It was TJ Maxx.

And literally he was like, she cut it off with him because he was trying to give her money to go to school, do different shit. And she was like, I like managing in retail. Like I went in retail. So why? I mean, why did they break up? He was trying to, he was like, I'm not going to deal with it. She said that he wasn't happy with being with her. She believed it. And literally he met her in the airport. She was going on some solo trip. And when he called me about her, he's like, yo, this bitch is so dope. Like she's about to go backpacking the jungle by herself. And when he found out she met TJ Maxx, he said it was slightly embarrassing. But like he was-

How is that embarrassing? That should have turned him on more. He's not a real nigga. I think it's more so like, I want the woman I'm with. He's not a real nigga. Hold on. The woman- He's not a real nigga. You only thinking of it because that's your friend. But let him talk.

Let him get his shit out. No, but how? He's not a real nigga. Hold on. The one you only thinking of because that's your friend but let him talk let him get his shit out. No but how? He's not a real nigga this man just said shawty working at TJ Maxx I was embarrassed. Let me tell you some real shit Deandre that's my girl regardless we just talking out we just talking right if I was John Keyes and my girl worked that fucking TJ Maxx but I would be I would stand on that shit like yeah my girl like she love that shit fool she the manager down there at TJ Maxx and hey I ain't gonna tell y'all which one, but Shadi love that shit. That shit will turn me on more. Okay, hold on. I would want to go buy Shadi everything. So,

I didn't think anything was wrong with him dating her. No, no, no, no. But I started to understand. I would want to buy everything that she ever wanted. Because it's like she's not looking for a nigga for nothing. He should have married her. You feel me? Well, she broke up with him because he said he was making a lot of gestures to like start a business, give her money to do different things. And she was like, yo, you really don't fuck with me and cut him off. I would have. He was trying to buy her. Or you want me to be. He was trying to buy her.

You want me to be something that I'm not. Are men not allowed to want women in a different bracket? I can want you in a different bracket, but is that what you want for yourself? I'm going to ask a serious question now, right? Oh. I gotta be honest. While I agree, you make a hundred million dollars, it really don't matter where your bitch work,

there was a point in time where he started to be like, I don't know if I could be with someone that don't really want more than a TJ Madness. That's a real, but that, I'm not gonna lie. I don't think that's wrong. Now, that's not wrong. That's not wrong. Maybe he wasn't trying to buy her.

Maybe he was like, bro. Now, I ain't gonna lie. The only part why I say they's not wrong. Maybe he wasn't trying to buy her. Maybe he was like, bro. Now I ain't going to lie. The only part where I say they weren't real because he said he was embarrassed about her job. Now if he want a woman that want a thing, hire it. Now that's cool. Ain't nothing wrong with that. He just that type of nigga.

You know what I'm saying? It's different types of guys. You know what I'm saying? He just like, ah, well shorty, I want a girl that want to be the president of the United States. You get what I'm saying? I don't want a girl that just want to think at TJ Maxx.

I want my girl to be the president of the United States. Now you want Kamala. You know what I'm saying? I mean and honestly, I went back and forth with how it's done. Most niggas don't care about all that. Most niggas just want a girl that's gonna be with them. You got my back. That's not true. You're gonna make sure I'm good. No it's not. Niggas want teammates. He's a man. What I want is someone that got my back. Someone I can depend on. Someone who loves me, someone who puts confidence in me, and someone that I can build with. But sure, it takes a thing.

Would you say that if you worked at TJ Maxx? What you mean? Tell me the truth. Would you be just okay with someone that just supports you if you worked at TJ Maxx? If I worked at TJ Maxx right now, hold on, wait, wait. You're already at someone that can be a provider. What you mean? If I worked at TJ Maxx, ask me the question.

What I'm saying is I think it is very easy for a successful man to say it doesn't matter. That's it. What's the question? That is it, I'm not is I think it is very easy for successful men to say it doesn't matter. That's it. That is it. I'm not asking a question. Before you said that, I said rich niggas talk like that. She said, she said, if you worked at TJ Maxx for maybe the men listening that have just the nine to fives.

You would need a teammate. You know, you would care. One moment. I disagree with that too. Um, the question is, if you were not this super breadwinner or this famous person and you were just a regular nine-to-five worker, would the woman you want, would you also still just want her to be your, your, the person that supports you that is there for you, or would you want a partner? It depends on what position I'm in.

If I just got this million dollar plan and I'm like, baby, all I need you to do is ride with me. You ain't got to do nothing else. I just need a, you just need to support me right now. I got everything else. Then I don't need her for nothing. And Ed and his, and that's my point. But it's a plan. And then if I'm a nigger that's just sitting on my ass, you know, working at TJ Maxx, I'm like, shit, I do want a new house, but I don't feel like putting in that much work. I am gonna need it though. Oh. I am gonna need some money. It has to do with the work ethic, but she was a man.

Yeah, it's gonna have to do with the work ethic because a woman is just extra. But then when a woman, when a man do get a woman, it does need to be a team. This is like my girl. I like to depend on her for certain stuff. You know what I'm saying? I told her that before we got married. Like I mean before we got engaged. I'm like I'm gonna have to lean on you for certain stuff. You know if I ever need you, you know, I'm saying you got the beta I remember it was certain stuff we had to pay for for the baby shower this one I knew I could marry all right when we was going over the list I'm looking at the expenses. So I see some shit for like 13 hundred and it say pay

So I'm like, oh shit But I'm thinking of my hair like I didn't pay for this shit, but I'm thinking I'm like, okay I'm like everybody this shit's a fish. Oh, yeah, I pay for that. I was like, oh shit, I'm thinking in my head. But I'm thinking in my head, like, I didn't pay for this shit. But I'm thinking, I'm like, okay, I'm like, everybody, this shit's on pay. She was like, oh yeah, I paid for that. I was like, oh damn, thank you, man. I was like, that was dope. I was like, this the marriage conversation I'm having, but she don't know.

I'm like, I'm like, bae, that was dope. She was like, I'm like, see, I'm gonna need you to, I'm gonna need you to be doing that type of stuff. She was like, I only paid for that because I knew you was gonna get it back. I'm like, what you mean? She was like, oh yeah, I'm not paying for nothing else, right? So that's when I was kind of scared.

My heart dropped like, fuck. So then I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, man. I'm like, nah, look, I ain't gonna be working hard for you to just, like, I'm not putting everything in the pot for you to just be pulling out of it. I'm like, just imagine if I put in the pot, you put in the pot, and then now we got $10,000 in the pot, we want to go to the mall, we put in a pot, and then now we got 10,000 in the pot, we wanna go to the mall, we take our 5,000, we got 5,000 left, you deal with what I'm saying?

I'm like, you know what I'm saying, you bring 2,000 to the pot, I bring 3,000 to the pot, we got 5,000 in the pot, you know what I'm saying? She's sitting there listening, I'm like, yeah, just imagine I go make 15, you go make 3,000, we got 18,000, you deal with what I'm saying? We wanna take our 8,000, we got 10,000 in the pot. She like, yeah, I'm like, you know, we could just play up, like do it like that. She like, oh yeah, that makes sense.

I'm like, yeah, so I'm going to be needing you. You know what I'm saying? I'm like, because I can't be out here hustling that hard, then I'm making all my money and you just taking for the pot. That's not going to add up. We ain't going to look in the pot, and we ain't going to have nothing. She like, oh, okay, that makes sense. Okay, well, you can keep that on there.

You don't got to give me that back. That's why I'm like, oh, I can marry. Thank you. I love that. I want to play a quick video. We like reactionary. And then after this video and after this conversation, we're gonna get into the nasty talk. Let's do it. Okay. But for this one, this still has to do with a little bit of pop culture. Not sure if you saw a couple weeks ago, Nick Cannon was a guest on The God Show. Shout out to Ray Daniels. And Ray Daniels, that's my name.

Yeah, that's my Nick. I feel like Charlamagne is the only person to have showed that name. The God Show. G-A-U-D-S. The God Show. And so he went on there and pretty much spoke about his relationship with Mariah Carey and how he felt as a man in that relationship. You want to go ahead and click that video?

I want you to listen to what he had to say and then we'll respond. I got married in my 20s still, you know what I mean? To the biggest star in the world. My trajectory was here and then hers, she's already in a different stratosphere. I would lay up at night thinking like, is this who I am? Yeah. Am I Mariah's man? Yeah.

Is that what my life is supposed to be? There's nothing wrong with it. But I'm like, ah, this ain't the Hustler. You're being a different version of yourself. And then when you have children, your man shit is like, wait, I'm carrying a purse, the diaper bag, you know? I'm standing on the corner. She rocking being all the alpha that she is.

Well, by the way, she deserves it, by the way. I believe she needs a dude like that. I'm just not that dude. Her and I never had problems. Never argued, never, even with me struggling in this space. She's so understanding and so evolved and lives in her own world. That's the thing, when someone has their own world

and you gotta be a participant in that, you know what I mean? Like, I'm main character. It was like muscle atrophy. I'm not being the dude that God put me on this earth to be. The love kept me there, even made it work so well, because I was like, oh, you need somebody. You need a support system.

You need somebody that don't want you for your money. You need somebody that's sincere. You need somebody that's willing to build a family, raise some amazing kids together. And that was my goal. But then there was just something constantly in me like... I got it. When I tell you, I hated everything about this clip. Because, A, and also the fact that he left this relationship

just to put babies in six other women, that's a whole nother topic. But he was only six? I mean, but he has, yeah, he has twins. He has like two sets of twins. He got a whole bunch of, I don't know, he got a lot though. He got like 12 or nine or 35. I don't fucking know. He got a lot though. There was a few, I would say red flags about this, and I do want to bring it up to you as someone who is now coming into a relationship as a father,

but also with a woman who has her own life. And you entered her world, right? There was- Did I? So, and I wanna talk about it. Because I do think we all have our own worlds. I think she entered your world in going on tour, and I think you entered her world in- Thanks.

In the way her family moves. That's true. In the way they celebrate holidays, in her dad being on the pedestal that he's on and her name carrying the weight it did. I know there was a conversation even about the last name of the baby for a long time, right? So in this thing, he talks about needing to feel alpha, needing to be the main character in a relationship. How do you think, what is a healthy way for a man to show up in partnership without feeling like his manhood is attacked when maybe he has to carry the diaper bag?

Maybe he has to play the role of the quote unquote woman. Maybe he has to be more of the submissive. I think that's what Nick Cannon had the biggest problem with, being with someone that was alpha. He mentioned that. How does a man show up being a man while also leaning into his feminine in a relationship or not being the main character all the time? Like the main character in a relationship I don't really know about that.

You know what I'm saying? So you didn't like that? Yeah I just don't know about that. You know what I'm saying? What did you think when you watched it? Did you feel like him saying he was in some kind of a No what I just took from it and Nick Cannon my nigga you know we just talking I feel like you know just from watching that from a man's perspective of like just about me trying to get married or whatever I'm just listening you know what I'm saying and I'm just thinking like okay Nick seemed like Nick seemed like okay Mariah Carey like he said like she already who she is you know what I'm saying he got this woman she already who she is you know he's alreadyiah Carey, like he said, like, she already who she is. You know what I'm saying? He got this woman, she already who she is. You know, he's already who he is.

But like he said, he dealing with somebody up here, he still trying to get up there. You know what I'm saying? So her world is automatically, her system automatically bigger than his system. You know what I'm saying? So it's like, he couldn't, he, it sounds like he like, man, I ain't all the way where I need to be in life. You know what I'm saying? So-

Do you think it was him projecting his insecurities at the time? Like. I mean, I don't know. Like from me listening, it just sounded like, damn, he felt like, damn, I got this lady. I'm locking myself down. She already got her millions. I ain't got mine yet.

Like, I need to go get my millions. He definitely has them now. I want to ask you, is there a difficulty, and let's generalize this. Is there a difficulty for men to be with women who are more successful? Or more accomplished than them that you know, even with your friends and and what conversations are normally had I don't know. I mean shout out to the ladies, you know So I love the women, but I don't think I've ever dated a woman that was more accomplished to me. Oh

That ain't no disrespect. Okay women should want a man that's like doing their thing. You know what I mean? But I never. Women should want a man that is more accomplished than them. No, they should want a man that's accomplishing things, period. But if it just so happened that your man is accomplishing more than you, you should be jealous or anything.

I'm just sitting down saying I've never known. I've never had that experience. I've never dated a woman with more than me. When I was young now, I do know how I feel to like somebody and be around somebody with more than me. Like when I was a young nigga, when I was coming in the game, I was around a lot of females that had paper. You know what I'm saying?

Like I used to be around females, like 30,000 in they pocket, I had a thousand. Like I know how that feel. How did that feel? That just felt like I ain't made it. I'm like, damn, shot in a ball. And like this is how it feel to be around a star. Because I think now it's making me wonder,

when you're around with men that are more accomplished than you or have more money than you, does that make your manhood feel? It just depends. It just depends. That's some real shit. You know what I'm saying? Like, it just depends. You have to like, you have to get yourself in a state where you don't give a fuck about that. Like, when you're a young nigga, like when you just in this shit, like for real,

like you could come around some niggas and you like, man, like, you know what I'm saying? Cause either your, who you done been with that made you feel insecure about something or, you know, you just don't feel like you ain't where you supposed to be. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, I feel like I ain't never been a hater.

You know what I'm saying? So I never hated on what another nigga had. You know what I'm saying? But have I ever felt like it was places I was supposed to be, you know what I'm saying? So I never hated on what another nigga had, you know what I'm saying? But have I ever felt like it was places I was supposed to be, you know, or wanted to be? Yeah, you know what I'm saying? But you know, I had that. I think that what you're saying though

is interesting because it kind of shows, whether you're in the Canada school, how it is fucked up that when it comes to somebody you're with, a woman, your masculinity is taken by their accomplishments. Mmm. Not me, though. Not you. Based on what he said. Oh, no, I love, I love, like,

I love, like, women that's accomplished things. Like, I remember when I first started dating women that was in the industry, I thought it was, I was fascinated because I was like, wow, like, they, like, look how these people dressing them up. Like, they got to get their makeup, like, they getting their hair done, somebody doing their hair and they make up at the same time, like, these folks. I was, like they getting their hair done, somebody doing their hair and they make up at the same time.

Like these folks, I was like blown away. Like this shit cool as fuck. Now you being blown away by the hair and makeup duo. I had never seen that shit. Like I was just a nigga like coming from like all the camps I was with in the industry. It's just been like real camp. So it was never like no females in our camps. You know what I'm saying?

And even if it was females in our camps, they wouldn't get their makeup and hair done and shit. You know what I'm saying? So when I first seen females in our camps, they wouldn't get their makeup and hair done and shit. You know what I'm saying? So when I first seen that shit, I was just like, damn that shit dope. I will tell you this, watching somebody go through glam, like when, you know, like famous, famous people, you're like, oh shit. Like when the stylist is changing the clothes

and they're not even touching their own body, like oh good, you lit. You're like wow. Especially when you, I was just coming up. Right. You know what I'm saying? So it's like, but just with anything like Even with D. I'm happy for like I'm trying to figure out a way to get in there to make some mode You know a question and and editing if you want to jump in on this too, and we see you, too

I think we we use this word a lot Jealousy is a human emotion right do you feel like it's healthy or natural or wrong to be jealous of your partner? Wrong. Wrong. Yeah. Okay. Even though it, okay. Because I know we talk about it in friendship. Like what would be an example of being jealous of my partner? Maybe your partner makes more money than you. Yeah, that's terrible. You know, partnership, I think it's wrong. In jealousy, we've been having, in friendship, we've been having this conversation. I think there's a malicious jealousy. And then, for example, let's just say we sit in here

and Mandy's like, bitch, Basha Nova just about to take me on a trip to Troye Sankate goes, fuck you. I don't not want her to have this, but I'm going to be a little jealous. I'm not on the beach. Or a little jealous that I didn't get chosen. But you ain't got to be a little jealous. You can just be like, ah, damn,, like damn, that shit would have been five.

I would have came, but you could really have no emotion. But that's the thing. That jealousy that I'm talking about for something like this. Yeah. I think that's a real emotion that can be naturally human. Yeah. Like you would want that, but not at the expense of her losing it. Exactly. I want you to not get it. But I wish I could have. I wish I could. Yeah. Like on a peer level.

The reason I think romantically it gets tough is because partnership is sharing a bit. And if you can't share in this pleasure that I'm getting, you can't be excited for me because you want this thing too when it gets there. That's me. Yeah, that's very tough. And that happens in relationships,

especially when y'all both do the same thing. You know what I'm saying? Ooh. You know what I'm saying? That's why I don't want no podcasting. Yeah, like that's Do you know I always used to think about jealousy with kim and kanya? I mean like when you yeah, that's I always thought like you got the biggest of each thing right b and j I don't know. I feel like b and j they don't care not e and j. No b and j i'm saying like Why they don't count. Not E and J. No, B and J. I'm saying like- Beyonce and J.B. Nah, they don't count. Why they don't count? They do the same shit.

E and J is hilarious. I thought you said E and J. I was like, no, I just thought about it. Yeah, but you know what it is? They're both really the best that they own artistry. Yeah. So I think with Kim and Kanye, it's like Kim's kind of famous for nothing.

Not saying she's not a business woman, but it's like she's so fucking famous. Everybody's on her dick. Kanye literally makes art. I hate this nigga.. Kanye literally makes art. I hate this nigga. But like literally makes art. You gotta love him.

I know. Damn. Look at what he did. He done burst the fucking maccups. Speaking of birth and shit, you had some baby making sex to Become a Father. Yes, I did. And I'm gonna get into your new project.

We gotta get into baby making. Come on. We gotta get into it. This is where y'all, if you were ready to hear how nasty and freaky this motherfucker be getting in the bed He is not on the market y'all. So just sit in your puddles at work. You cannot have this man But let's talk about baby making. All right, let's get into it I just like to ask this question to all artists before we get into the music do you fuck to your own music because

Yeah, I got hold you Deandre already told me she sneaks you into the playlist and I'm like, bro Why would you do that? Yeah, why would you sneak your nigga into the playlist? They maybe he don't want to hear him. So you got a song she like for me. Yeah, what's the song that ends up coming off? It's a song called always is me and my my cuz she love that song and it's on the It's on the playlist. It's on the playlist. Yeah, but I got yeah like it play You feel fucking the dick to the song to the song that I made that ain't nothing though. That's fine That's so you like fucking your music. Yeah, I mean, you know you make it the fuck too. I mean, yeah Like, you know, you know, yeah, that's how you know it's lit.

Ooh. Wait, you telling me when it don't randomly come on, you don't be like, oh shit, what the fuck? Nah, I mean, you know, sometimes you be like, there, here I go. Yo, I'm not a lot of you. You know what I mean? I've had a song come on to a nigga I fuck,

and I was fucking someone else, and I was like, ooh. Okay, no way. Oh, you heard a nigga, oh no way. I do you heard a nigga. Oh I do have a question because I know you was working like I don't know how long you've been working on this project but You know how they be talking about there ain't no baby making music now Happening and the R&B niggas is just toxic and they not making it to where you want to fucking love anymore. So Is there a time where you go into the studio you record song, and then you you put it to the test in

the bedroom to see if it hits like it should in the bedroom? Yeah I think this baby making project for real got put to use. Not put to use. Yeah. So wait you tested it out in the bedroom already. Yeah, she loved this project. Okay. Yeah, she loved this. And so what can we expect from it? And I do also- It's one of them. It's like if you're talking sex with your partner with this album-

We about to have a baby boom in 2025. Yeah, it's like, because you can go for the ride. You know what I'm saying? It's like, you can go for the ride. Like, you can go, you got your shit. Like, it can start off how you want it to. Like that's just a, like honestly, if you, like I think this me, this just me, right?

If I'm doing this shit, I'm gonna already be in it before I press play. Cause the first song touchdown. You get what I'm saying? I'm not, I'm gonna be honest with you, it kinda makes me wanna play it and have a plan B right there. Not a plan B on the side of the page.

Yeah, but you need to be already, like have it on your tongue. Like already going. You know what? Can I ask you a question in terms of you got baby making, right? I want to ask you, what is the difference between good sex and love making? Or do you feel like there's a difference? I know. That's a difference? I know-

That's a real question. I know we talked about our good engineer, Wolf. He don't even like eye contact. So I don't think he's ever made love. Yeah. But I'm- Is that true, Wolf? Have you never made love before?

Have you ever made love? Wolf, you ain't never looked at that one, I'm telling you. Not in their eyes. You ain't never looked at that one up. So what is the difference to you between just a good round of sex and actually making love to somebody? I think like sex is like, that shit could just like,

feel good. You know what I'm saying? Like sex just feels good. You know what I'm saying? And then after you're done, it's like, fuck it. Like, fuck you, fuck this. No, fuck it. You know what I'm saying?

OK, and if you laugh way too hard. Like, you know what I'm saying? Because I get it. You get what I. OK, Edith, you laugh way too hard. Right. Because I get it. You know what I'm saying? We get that too, though. It's like, so, but it's like, when you making love, it's like, damn, I love you.

You know what I'm saying? You might roll over. You sit in it. Like, yeah. I can't wait to get my smoothie in the morning with you. Like, you ever just got done and looked in the sky, just like, damn. We did that.

That's how I be, fool. I never be like. That's how I be, fool. I never be like. That's you looking at the sky. Then I always get something to eat. Honey, you want something to eat? Hell yeah. Hell yeah.

Yo, I don't know why I was feeding a dude after we fucked. And it's specific to Love Make You. It'd be like the extra little layer. Is that intimate? Do you want food from somebody you just fucked? You see this thumb? I mean, yeah, it's like, for sure. It's like, you got to have the food. You feel me? The food just, yeah, it's like, I mean, yeah, for sure. It's like, you gotta have the food.

You feel me? The food is just a part of it. You either gonna eat before or after. You get what I'm saying? You gotta have the food, it's a part of it. You gonna eat before or after? I can't see what I'm saying. You gonna get a wet rag.

Warm. Girl, you know what's my favorite thing? After you get that good ass session, and a nigga just be like, ah, like they can't move. I love when a nigga can't move. I love seeing a little weakness. I'm not saying I'm a dog or anything,

but I love when I just see a limp body. So you like a nigga to go to sleep? I just want to know that like. I want a nigga to say his knees is out. Like, yeah. I want a nigga, he can't walk. He get off the bed and he almost stumble because he don't know how to work his leg.

Oh yeah, look, that's my ego. Like, I need that. I don't know, if I could leg. Oh yeah, that's my ego. I mean that. Oh yeah. I don't know. If I could put a picture of my ass on Instagram and get a million likes or that, that's it. It's the same feeling. No, when a nigga like smiles after sex, I feel empowered. Yeah. What is that for men? What can a woman do...

The smile. ...that makes you know you just did your... Don't ask her did you come back, no words. What actions happened to let you know you just laid it down? For a man? Yes. She can't move. She can't move. Yeah, it's like something going on.

Maybe the AC was off. Nah, nah, it's like either, I think either, I think either she like go to sleep, you know what I'm saying she like go to sleep, you know what I'm saying? She go to sleep or she like, you know when she like look at you and then like. Look at the day, yeah, yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's one of them.

It's one of them. It's like, it's them. Bro, you know what I'm doing? It's so bad, I'll start crying. What did you do? You cried. Oh my God, but then literally, it's just some- You been crying and shit. You're like, hey, get your shit, man.

Get up, I'm not even, man, you cry. So, when the tears come out, though, it's not even super emotional. It's just like this crazy, I came so hard. The first time I cried with a dude that I wasn't like close to anything like that, in the middle of crying, I was like, it's not you, it's just a release.

I was like, like, Sh you, it's just a release. You know what, I need to, I need to get, I think I need to lean into my feminine. Cause I'll be like, you ain't never cried, bitch. I'll be, when it's done, this is how I act. I'll be like, you did that. You did that? You just felt like, like, you just felt like that. Yeah, that's why you cussed him out by that point. That's really bad.

I gotta be a little bit more fitting. I'll be like, nigga, you did that. All right. I cried in that threesome, y'all. They don't know it, because I was like, I can't cry in front of this whole, we just met, but I came so hard, I started crying. And I know Sean is looking at you. I tried to do one of these with the hair so they didn't see the tears.

I was like, ooh. I gave a nigga a high five one time. Like, boy, that was it. See, you a gangster. I'm working on it. I'm working on it. I'm working, ooh. I gave a nigga a high five one time. Like, well, that was it. See, you a gangster.

I'm working on it. I need to be a, maybe I got to get my eye drops to dry. You know what he just made me think of when you say he's a gangster? You say what? The text that you were sharing on the tour where you said, gang this dick in your mouth. Oh, yeah, no, no, no, no. So last tour, I shared a tour.

What tour was you on? OK, hold on. So last- You know we do our podcast tours. Last year, we were on tour and we decided to share text messages with what our booty calls look like. Right. And my booty call, I text this nigga,

like where you at? And he was like, or it was like, I said, what's up? And he said, what's up gang? And I was like, come gang that dick in my mouth. Yeah. That's kind of how we talk. and that was how we set it up and That's your lingo you feel me I mean that shows that's how you coming that's the yo niggas know right Maybe I could be more feminine and get these niggas be like

But then your niggas ain't go y'all gonna lose y'all fun this that's y'all thing. Okay Don't do this. I'm serious. Bitch, I make love. I did. In my last relationship, we made love. We cried one time. Together?

But we were on shrooms, so I don't know if that helps. I used to cry all the time. Wait. When I first got with De'arza. Wait, you cried? I'd just be out of town, some shit. I'd probably just think about shit, I'd just. No, have you you cried? I'd just be out of town, some shit. I'd probably just think about shit. I'd just, ah, ah, ah.

No, have you ever cried? I was trying to see how much she loved me. Have you ever cried, D'Arzoo? Wait, wait, wait. You were doing a little fake cry? I was just trying to say, I faked an injury and everything one time. Oh, my God.

Wait. It's like us with pregnancy. Hold on, hold on. You know I'm triggered, and niggas send me an old picture in the hospital. So what you mean you faked an injury? I had the wheelchair and everything. No. They had the folk pushing me and everything. Wait, wait, wait, then I just hopped out the wheelchair

Man, I ain't hurt. I just want to see how much you love me Okay, don't test me you really in love You know what when you get in love like that you start doing dumb shit Oh, I might have to cut this, you know, I mean my nigga did the other day Answering the phone right and I was like, oh my god When you get in love like that, you start doing dumb shit. Well, I might have to cut this. You know what me and my nigga did the other day? Oh, what? No, keep it in. We not editing that. He wasn't answering the phone, right? And I was like, oh my God, answer the phone.

He's like, damn, man, I was on the toilet. I was like, I wanna be in there with you. Oh. I wanna be in there with you when you shitting. Girls do that. I wanna see it. Girls like that. Wait, you wanna be in the bathroom while he shitting?

But girls do that when they really into you for real? Take the FaceTime, put it down. I wanna see it. Wait, wait, you wanted to, you asked him and you wanted to be in the bathroom while he was taking a shit. Man, girls be wanting to do some crazy shit when they love you. I mean, calm down, calm down. He be doing the same shit now, bitch. I locked the door and he be like, uh-uh, I don't see that. You want to see the turd? You want to hear it plop into the toilet?

I'm fucking crazy. I'm in love with this name. Okay, you know why I don't want to see that? Because I really eat ass. I eat ass. I don't want to be in the bathroom. You should see me on my period. Smell your shit. I actually want to believe you never shit. I don't want to be in the bathroom. You should see me on my period. Smell yo shit. I actually want to believe you never shit. I can't believe I'm here. I cannot wait to get past this thing. I eat ass way too much to want to see that a nigga sit on the seat. I know that you use the bathroom standing up, sir. I want to keep that in my mind.

I'm gonna be honest with you, my love done gone too far. It went too far. Like literally. You about ready to be two girls, one cook. Bro, we was talking about doing some shit under the full moon. I was like, let's cut our hands and do some blood brother shit. Oh hell nah, y'all lost some white boy shit. No, I'm in love. He got great... WBF, white boy shit. No, I'm in love. He got dread. Let me be a white people shit.

Nah, see I got a different type of dread. Yeah. He the wolf type. He the hotel type nigga. You know what I'm saying? He like a hotel. He wants to fast in the morning, only eat raw fruits and shit. So he already on that fucking crazy ass shit.

Like you really connect with people when they're that spiritual. It be feeling like they don't have a limit. Like what we going to do next? Yes, let's talk to Yai Myla. Like who's out there? Soon y'all going to be sparing each other's shit on each other like symbols. Wow. Put that shit across the whole thing.

Once we peed, once I peed in the whole like once we did the pee then I knew, oh yeah. What's the pee? Oh yeah, you don't know that. Like she peed on him. Oh you peed on your boyfriend? Or he peed on you. Each other. And what that mean?

I just felt like I marked my territory. Like that's my nigga. I just, bitches can look at me. He just like, yeah, like drenched her. Bro, like drenched her. Like for real? Yeah. We were in Tulum, it doesn't count. No.

The wall, because we were in another country. Oh no, I did it during that Vegas trip. Your bros were like, hold on, I got to pee. You know what's crazy? I used to think this was so much, I thought it was crazy, but then I was like, oh no, you really got to love a nigga. So how you do it? So we was in, I be asking questions like this too.

We was in Vegas, we went to the porn awards, we were up for a podcast award. We drunk, we went to GZ with Mandy, whatever, uh-uh. I'm in the bathtub. Don't do the whoop the whoop, uh-uh. Just cause we here. Uh-uh, New York. So I'm in the bathtub, he in the,

we had to go to the bathroom, I was like, wait, wait, wait. Cause you was in the tub? But you like, let do it on me. What you gonna mean? Each feet on your face too. Wait, wait, wait. Hold on, let me tell you what made me mad. So the first time, right, it was just the chest. But for some reason, cause I asked for it again.

For some reason. She was like, no, no, open your mouth. That was the, hold on. But you gotta kiss me. Oh, you disgust me. Oh, you uh, you've been yelling at me, turn. I didn't do it. I, I, I, I. Not me, I'm celibate. I don't't even have sex I'm not ready to drink the beer Boy, sir. No, no liquor and no sex for real. What the fuck happened to you?

No, for real I'm going for 90 days. Okay He was like, yo this shit ain't funny, but that was really funny I'm sorry I got the laughs and Mandy was like, yo, this shit ain't funny, but that was really funny. This not funny, you all working for some shit. Because you know what? We all do this. Fuck these niggas. Every time I meet somebody that tells me they haven't been drinking for four years,

I'm like, did they kill somebody? You know, just going through sobriety and then fucking hit it right. But that's beautiful, though. It is, thank you. It's tough, but, you know, I'm getting through it. Back to the album, what is your favorite? Yeah, back to the album. What's your favorite on the album?

Oh, my favorite. Pee Pee Love. And not Pee Pee Love. You crazy here. Pee Pee Love is not on the album, by the way. My favorite song probably, honestly, to be real, probably Middle of the Night and Sex Like This. Ooh.

Mm-hmm. Metal Like This sound good. I'm like Middle of the Night. Now we both went with the different. But I really love all of them. It's like tomorrow I might have some more favorites. Mm-hmm. It's one of them type of albums. Deondra said her favorite was Drip.

OK. Now, I know I like to be able to think of what things are about. I assume it's about the dripping of a pussy. Of course. Yeah? Yeah. The whole song.

It's like she got that drip. Not the P-drip. It's like she got that drip. Not the pee drip. It's like when they ask me why I fuck with you I say it is what it is she got that drip. Was the pregnancy drip crazy? Yeah it's like super crazy now. It's extra crazy. Like I thought it was crazy, now it's crazy. I didn't know babies make it better. Oh. You ain't got no kids? Neither of us do. Oh man. Y'all gotta go have one. Whoa. Whoa. Yeah, I'm gonna be honest with you I like I started taking my hair. It'll be I wanted my hair to grow My pussy was so crazy and I literally thought I'm gonna get pregnant if I keep this up

Yeah, but it was like I was peeing on my it was crazy. No, so what your man say he get you pregnant Man, we had to step we had Bro, we had to take a halt. Calm down. We have a tour coming up, sir. Jesus Christ. We have work to do. No, we're planning on kids. Play this album, you're going to get pregnant.

Nope. I'm now going to ban it from her home. No, don't ban it. OK, no, you ain't going to get pregnant. Do you know Mandy met my nigga? We all got drunk. We had a good time. We went out.

And I said nigga. I could hear her telling him, no, I'm glad y'all happy and shit, but me and this bitch got a tour to go on and I ain't got to have this whole pregnant like our family planning. OK. But you're lucky this fire boy trick is slow. We got a couple of years. We got shit going on. Real talk. Don't take her out. You want to get pregnant though. I see it in your eye.

No, I'm going to tell you why. The other day we was out, we was dancing. We was out till four in the morning, we was having fun. We love going out to like piano shit and like Afro beast parties. Y'all are different. I fuck with y'all. Like we love a dance party, disco party, like he loves Soul Train type shit. Y'all like Soulmates. Oh yeah.

Yeah, y'all peeing on each other and shit. No, we woke up and he was like, bro, imagine if we had a baby right now. Who wants to do that? Because it hit like, yo, I just had a bad day. We ended up, you know, it's New York shit though, five in the morning. He was like, I don't know, we were saying two years, maybe three. And I think there's a lot of things that get scary. So y'all use a condom every time y'all fuck?

No, I'm on birth control. Do I not look like a creeper girl? Oh, that's so boring. You on birth control? You got to get off of that. It's boring. What are your thoughts on birth control. Do I not look like a creeper, girl? You on birth control? You gotta get off of that. What are your thoughts? Wait, what are your thoughts on birth control? I think y'all should have a baby. No, no, no, no. Calm down.

Do you have general thoughts on women being on birth control? Nah, I just like heard it got like... There's a lot of bad side effects. Yeah, like you know what I'm saying? Now it's like, alright like, all right, everybody grown, like just tell your boy pull out. Yeah, no. We are grown. The pull out method does not work. That shit works.

But did you just hear this ACL nigga love you? Everybody grown telling the pull out. Oh my God, the pull out method does not work. I'm saying, if you with your man. Now when you got that drip. Ah! Ah! Ah!

Ah! It's time for him buddy. Bruh, let me tell you, when we were in Atlanta for the Black Effect show, I wasn't on birth control, right? He didn't pull out, and he literally, after he came, it's still inside of me, I said, are you about to, are you telling me you, he's like, I'm so sorry. I know you don't want to hear this, but that shit was so good. And I'm like, no, I got to be on Motherfucking Plan B.

No, after that, that was when birth control started cuz you know I have an ova You know what it is. It's the anxiety of not being able to plan I would love to have children with this person, but at the end of planet. Yeah, I really want to play I mean if you can I know that I was about to say if you're dealing with a nigga who believes the pullout Yeah, not really I mean, you're pulling out though Like that's the thing about it. All right.

Like some niggas just know like, yeah, I'm not pulling out. That was me. Just, oh. Yeah, like. And clearly you're swimmer swim. My niggas get up through there. You know what I've always wanted to ask somebody

in this podcast, not you. I've always wanted to ask a man, just like a whole ass thing, and they come on like, how many abortions have you had? Oh, dang it. It's such a hard question to ask somebody. Like, we don't ask women that, but like... But a man never had an abortion. But you don't know, how many you paid for?

A man never had an abortion. I had a whole boy tell me he paid for 11. Wow. Whoa. That's crazy. That's nasty. Yep, and you know what? He look good and in your rich and I bet every bitch be waiting on it He's like, yo, I'll be at the dough. He's like, I literally he's like

No, that's A lot of men have entitlement and they don't care about me. I mean, but he should be nothing in them knowing that he don't want a baby Yeah, I it's like it's like he put her through unnecessary ringer. Yeah my goodness Hello. Yeah, it's like the internet don't like you. Yeah, it's like, the internet don't like you. Yeah, it's like, why the fuck you blessing at a fool? You know what? I really appreciate you saying this because the selfishness of men being so detached

from a pregnancy, it exists. Yeah, but it's like, why blessing her, bro? If you don't want a kid. That don't make sense. That's the dumbest shit ever. Hello? Nick, sorry. Ha! No, he wanted 15 kids. That came from herest shit up. Hello? Nick? Sorry. No, he wanted 15 kids.

That came from her, not you. Hey, all of our opinions are ones of our own. No, what not? I'm actually, I'm not even going to say Nick Cannon. He does seem like he was intentionally having a bunch of kids. Who's the little young nigga that got 25 kids and he's still 22 or something? Young boy who might be going to jail. NBA young boy, is that it?

And Dirk. Free young boy. Sorry, and Dirk. Wait, is that Dirk? He said free everybody but he got a lot of kids both of them got a lot of kids. No I know one of them got like 10 at 22. Youngboy has yeah 11 at 23. Damn YB got a little kid. He just welcomed yeah. He just welcomed a new one right right? Well, in 2023, he welcomed a little boy. That's my son, though. Oh, sorry. Oh, yeah, I'm sorry. Yeah, 12 this year. Hold on, wait. Is this the dude that be like, I don't want to fuck me, too?

No, that's NLE Choppa. That's NLE Choppa. I don't know the young niggas. You don't know NBA Youngboy? YB, that my little bro. Sometimes I get confused with the NLE Choppa, the Youngboy, then the other ones. Yeah, a little bit. The letters?

It's a lot, but I know the difference. Hold on, 11? 12, sorry. Wendy's 12? Yeah, 12. He's only 22. Got to make it even. When did he, 12? He's only 22.

Gotta make it even. How many, how do you start? 24. Do you think he knows all their names? I mean, he just had one with Mayweather Daughter. Oh yeah, that's right. Now you know who we talking about. Anyways, BabyMakin' out now.

Where can everybody listen? By the way, I would like to say too, when we have artists, if you really want to support your artists, make sure you purchase, not just stream. So you can go into the app store. How much is it? $9.99? $10.99? $12.99? I think it's like $9.99. $9.99? Baby. Y'all pay that shit for Netflix and y'all don't even like all the shows on that bitch.

If you want to support artists, make sure you drop that tip, that 9.99 in the store. Let's just say it costs $50 with the Plan B. And you can go to the store and buy this album too on November 15th. It'll be in the stores. Okay. So you go buy physical copies. It's out now. November 15th, y'all can go get it in the stores. Baby making. Wait, for real? I'm not even trying to be funny. Yeah, yes, yes. Wait, where do people go buy albums now? Like at Target, Walmart? Well, I'm not sure. Where are they putting it in? Look it up online.

Yeah, you just look it up online. You can find it at a local store that sells CDs. Is it like a vinyl for fun? No, but I ain't gonna lie, at your local stores that sell like CDs or probably like selected, like Walmarts and Targets, you can get it. Like no kids. Yeah, I'm gonna buy this album,

but where are we gonna put it? What do you mean we're gonna put it? Oh wait, what are you gonna play? What do you play a CD in now? I got why I'm gonna lie I took I changed my seat mom my cause I had I had a car with a CD player. I changed Where do we play CD now? I played in the car. Did you have with a CD player? I'm out you got a thing my Lambo when I first got it. That was a Lambo. It was old John. My J.R.M.E. local office TSA. Okay. Let everyone know

where they can follow you. Support you y'all. Babymakin is out in stores now. Yes, it's out. Y'all can follow me at JackQueese if you haven't already. J-A-C-Q-U-E-S at JackQueese. That's on everything. Love y'all. Y'all know what it is. Hey, y'all already know, if you want to support us

and hear more whore ass stories, make sure you go to Patreon. That's patreon.com backslash horrible decisions. I'll tell you the Plainview story on that. And yeah, y'all make sure y'all have a good one and we'll see y'all next week. Same time, baby. have a good one and we'll see y'all next week same time baby