The Breakfast Club - Deeply Well: Anchoring Integrity: Self-Care, Healing, and Personal Power

Episode Date: November 2, 2024

The Black Effect Presents... Deeply Well! Today, is the final episode exploring the theme of integrity and its profound impact on self-care and personal growth. Through personal anecdotes and practic...al exercises, Devi emphasizes the importance of self-care practices, emotional expression, and the journey of healing. The episode also includes a guided breathwork practice aimed at anchoring the concepts discussed, encouraging listeners to reconnect with their integrity and personal power. Connect: @DeviBrown  Learn More and visit the Merch Shop: DeviBrown.com Subscribe: Devi Brown’s YouTube ChannelSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hey, everyone. This is Courtney Thorne-Smith, Laura Layton, and Daphne Zuniga. On July 8, 1992, apartment buildings with pools were never quite the same as Melrose Place was introduced to the world. We are going to be reliving every hookup, every scandal, and every single wig removal together. So listen to Still the Place on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts. entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast
Starting point is 00:00:46 Post Run High is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, everyone. I'm Madison Packer, a pro hockey veteran going on my 10th season in New York. And I'm Anya Packer, a former pro hockey player and now a full Madison Packer stan. Anya and I met through hockey, and now we're married and moms to two awesome toddlers, ages two and four. And we're excited about our new podcast, Moms Who Puck, which talks about everything from pro hockey
Starting point is 00:01:28 to professional women's athletes to raising children and all the messiness in between. So listen to Moms Who Puck on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, y'all. Niminy here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Executive produced by Questlove, The Story Pirates, and John Glickman, Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Flash, slam, another one gone. Bash, bam, another one gone.
Starting point is 00:02:03 The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap, there's another one gone. Bash, bam, another one gone. The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap, there's another one gone. Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. And it began with me.
Starting point is 00:02:26 Did you know, did you know? I wouldn't give up my seat. Nine months before Rosa, it was called a moment. Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Muhammad Ali, George Foreman, 1974.
Starting point is 00:02:57 George Foreman was champion of the world. Ali was smart and he was handsome. The story behind The Rumble in the Jungle is like a Hollywood movie. But that is only half the story. There's also James Brown, Bill Withers, B.B. King, Miriam Akiba. All the biggest black artists on the planet. Together in Africa. It was a big deal.
Starting point is 00:03:54 Listen to Rumble, Ali, Foreman, and the Soul of 74 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your nose. Hold it. Now release slowly, again, deep inhale, hold, release, repeating internally to yourself as you connect to my voice I am deeply well I am deeply well. I'm Devi Brown, and this is the Deeply Well, a soft place to land on your journey. A podcast for those that are curious, creative, and ready to expand in higher consciousness and self-care. I'm Devi Brown. This is where we heal. This is where we transcend. Welcome to today's episode, our final installment of our Integrity Teaching Series this month on the Deeply Well podcast. So we've really been exploring in this new season, a little bit of a new format on how we're going to go through some themes, some understandings, and some of the deeper conversations
Starting point is 00:05:50 that we get a chance to sink our teeth into here on this show. So today's episode is really going to be rooted in some practice. We're going to get into some self-inquiry. We're going to go a little bit deeper into some of the ways we've been categorizing how integrity shows up in our lives. And we're going to have a felt practice. So if you are not driving, I highly recommend grabbing a journal, having it nearby if that feels good, getting comfy, maybe getting something a little savory near you, a little sweet treat.
Starting point is 00:06:23 And if you're driving, of course, you know how it goes. You can pop back in anytime you wish to join in on the soul work. Also, quick reminder, if you didn't know, every single month, we're going to have a little bit of a practice worksheet that goes along with the episodes we're exploring. So on my website, debbiebrown.com, and also through our newsletter, which you can sign up for on the website, you'll get a link to our little PDF packet, which will be the sole work that goes along with each month's drop of episodes. So if you get a chance, it might feel really supportive to utilize that as part of your practice. So let's do a little catch up first. I want to fill you guys in on what's been up since we've last talked. I've had some really special teaching experiences. So
Starting point is 00:07:11 a lot of those that listen to the show may know, but I am on the board of the Omega Institute for Holistic Studies. And it is a campus. It is an institute that is incredibly close to my heart. It's been in existence, teaching and raising consciousness for over 48 years. And it's located in Rhinebeck, New York, which is upstate New York. And I typically go a couple times a year, but this is one of the first years in a little while that I didn't do a retreat. And so I didn't get a chance to go up, usually in some of the months that I do while the campus is open. But they just created this incredible program there that we got funding for that is so amazing. It is the Women's Wellness Collective. And we are working with a cohort of 20 women nationally and globally. We have a few out of the country
Starting point is 00:08:07 doing incredible work who are going to be deepening their understanding of self-care practices and nervous system regulation and supportive mindfulness in a cohort throughout this next year. So this incredible cohort kicked off with a week-long rest-intensive retreat that took place at the Omega Institute. And so I was really excited about this. It means so much to me. And the chance, I think, for these women to deepen in practices over the next year especially is so exciting for me because something I always share is, you know, none of this work gets done in a weekend. We can get our burst of profound inspiration and motivation for our path and for our calling in a weekend. Absolutely. We can have the breakthrough thoughts that change our lives instantaneously. But then we get a chance to deepen our path of mastery by connecting to practice. And practice takes really beautiful, slow time to unfold in our lives, to take us past the point of intellectualization into a life experience of embodiment, where you are living and breathing who and what you say you are with a lot of ease, a lot of grace, a lot of joy. And so being able to really support this beautiful group as they are on their pathway of embodiment, which is all in support to their higher purpose and to the community service they do in the world is really special. So I didn't want to miss it. But the way life is set
Starting point is 00:09:45 up and scheduling is set up, I couldn't get away to really do a deeper teaching there for the whole week. So I did a very fast New York turnaround trip. So caught the flight from LA to New York and then took a really gorgeous three-hour drive through the leaves changing and falling and the season changing from JFK to upstate and did that travel back. And I was able to stay on campus for about 24 hours, taught for a few hours, a workshop on trauma-informed meditation. And it was just, I love getting into the fibers of doing deep teach on meditation. It's just such an extraordinarily powerful subject matter, not just for expansion of consciousness, but for truly, truly deep, deep, deep healing on a mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual level. So that's my jam.
Starting point is 00:10:43 So that's what I was doing for the last week or so since we've been together. And one of the things that I loved that I think really ties into this episode especially is I've been trying to find ways in this season. This is a it's a pretty full season for me in a lot of a lot of ways. It's a full season career wise. It's a full season in my motherhood and in the spaces that my son is now moving into and his development and full season with friendships and with family. And so being able to find more time to reset my own nervous system, I've had to get really creative with that. And so when I went to upstate New York, something that I knew I only
Starting point is 00:11:25 had 24 hours and I would be working for some of that time. But I also knew that like, listen, there's no service up here. So let me not even try to like do anything that has to do with the internet, with my phone and really soak up every free hour you get here before you get on this nine hour journey and feel good. And so I was able to get really full nights of sleep in my little cabin, slept the whole night through, which my dear God did my brain and soul need that. And then after I taught, I just took a walk. I just walked and walked and walked. And I had some somatic and kind of sensory practices going where because all the leaves were falling, I would slowly walk in piles of leaves to hear the crunch underneath my feet. And I just kind of walked myself in a circle over and over for like 20 minutes, listening to that slow crunch and you know, like that forest medicine. Oh my God, delicious. And pink noise, which is one of my favorite sounds to work with, especially when I
Starting point is 00:12:37 need some extra rest is really rooted in one of the, one of the layers of sound is the sound of leaves crunching. So that was really yummy. Another thing that I love to do while I'm out there. So this campus is about 250 acres. It's like in the forest, you got cabins, it's the trees, all the things. But because I live in LA, I don't really get the chance to go take long walks in the dark, right? It wouldn't necessarily be the wise thing for me to do in my neighborhood late at night is to walk around alone in the dark. So it's not something I really get to do, but it's something that I love. So when I'm a place that I can do that, a personal practice I have with myself is noticing how I feel within my body and within my sense of protection over
Starting point is 00:13:29 time by monitoring, kind of taking these slow, dark walks by myself whenever I get the chance. So that was something that I love doing on the campus. So before I went to bed, walked outside, laid on the grass, stargazed, prayed, meditated, listened to the crickets and the ambient noise, took really, really, really deep, beautiful breaths, and then walked around in kind of the pitch black on a trail and noticed how safe I felt and it was really special. And instantaneously, I felt my shift back into peace. And I felt just so many weeks and weeks of a lot of high intensity and day-to-day life stress just really roll off of my shoulders. And it's carried me through and it just carried me through, and it just reminded me of the power of even when you have limited time to take care of yourself, if you choose to have deep presence with yourself as you're caring for yourself, even those little moments can really ring throughout your life for days, for weeks, and I'm like a week removed from that experience and I'm still feeling like really high energy. I have a lot of vitality. My brain feels super clear. My heart
Starting point is 00:14:52 feels really open. So if anyone needed that, just a reminder, even if you only have 30 minutes every two weeks, do it, do it, do it. You'll have a response, but it's important that you stay deeply present in it. So don't get distracted. Don't let yourself pour into other thoughts that you could think at any other time. Just stay with it, stay with it and let it really serve you. So one of the things that I noticed after we released some of the clips of this episode, we have been getting such amazing feedback. And it's been really dope because a lot of you that have been connecting to these episodes are giving a lot of detail on how you're experiencing it, which for me as a teacher is so helpful. I'm always like, oh, wow. Yeah. So that's where it took you or that's, you know,
Starting point is 00:15:42 where you were able to take yourself. And so one of the comments that I was reading on one of the clips that we posted, I just loved because I would have never even thought of it this way. But someone shared that from listening to the series so far, they had this kind of click, this aha moment around they had previously always looked at integrity as who you are towards other people. So maybe a little bit of that kind of martyrdom program that we see all things or that bigger person programming. It's how you were showing up for others powerfully and with dignity, with your integrity. And they shared that from listening to the episodes, their understanding, they're making that bridge of connection that choosing to work on yourself, right? Choosing
Starting point is 00:16:35 to regulate your emotions, choosing to break your patterns and your systems, choosing to heal, choosing to really dedicate yourself to a daily practice like meditation or self-care, that is what is having integrity for yourself. And so the loop of integrity is not complete if we're only showing up with it for others and we're not showing up with it for self. That in fact is avoidance. That's the way that we continue to feed this loop and this false belief that there is somehow this righteousness or this reward that is coming for always exasperating yourself for others, but not looking to meet your own needs in the same way. And it's a very sophisticated way that especially the best healers can avoid themselves, right? It's this idea that,
Starting point is 00:17:26 no, it's because I do for others. But it's really because it might be triggering that you haven't learned how to be slow and patient with yourself. Or it's triggering to realize that maybe no one has met your needs yet. And so you're still having to meet your own. And that's so understandable. It's just so understandable, but it's not the path to full wholeness and healing. And I think each of us deserve that. And so just reading that, reading that connection and reading that feedback was really special. So I thank the beautiful soul that shared it and everyone else that's been sharing feedback. And especially from a community standpoint, it's so helpful as a group for us all to be able to hear a multitude of experiences and a multitude of breakthrough thoughts.
Starting point is 00:18:15 It also led me to realizing an area where I had to tighten up in my own integrity, my own personal integrity and self-care in the last couple of weeks. And that has been around. So I'm someone that for the vast majority of my life has lived with chronic illness and chronic pain. And to varying degrees, I've been in a season in the last several years where it has been the lightest load I've ever had. And I am extraordinarily grateful for the way my relationship to a very high pain tolerance has changed. And I also think as someone who's just always been a leader in my own life and incredibly independent, I have a very high tolerance for emotional and physical pain. And so I have to really stay on myself to take good care of myself, or I just won't notice
Starting point is 00:19:07 when I let myself slowly fall apart. And so something I've been working through is that in the last few months, I've been having a little bit of flare ups and I've been moving through them, but I've also just been really busy and everything else in life has been really good. And I got in this last couple of weeks, I found out that I have tendinitis in one of my shoulders and I have never had tendinitis before. I don't know if anyone else has ever had it. I don't like it at all. Like I am not effing with tendinitis. I am offended by tendinitis. It is so painful and not having use of that limb for myself has been eye opening and incredibly challenging. And so I'm just kind of walking around and my arm
Starting point is 00:19:56 is in like true chicken wing fashion. Like I've just been able to kind of hold it pinned to my side and kind of like hold my solar plexus. But it's interesting, you know, trying to do all the things that you need to do. And so I found myself, you know, a little bit frustrated with that and just kind of frustrated at having to plow through the day being in so much pain because I was taking, you know, the ibuprofens and all the things. And I wasn't having a change. So I was just feeling frustrated. And I got back home and I looked around my house and I looked at the life that I created for myself, a life that really supports my nervous system and supports my health. I have a lot of biohacking stuff everywhere. I do constant self-care. I cold
Starting point is 00:20:46 plunge. I sauna. I use PMF. I use infrared lights. I have frequency sounds. And I kind of had to just take a deep breath and laugh at myself because I realized that I have all of this at my disposal and I hadn't yet used any of it to care for this injury. And so it was just a reminder at how even when we have gotten to places where we are so diligent with ourselves and maybe so much in our personal integrity or in deep alignment with our bodies and the way that we care for ourselves, sometimes we can get distracted and blink and forget. And so I hope this episode also serves as a reminder to reconnect to a practice that maybe you just haven't had time for lately and consider if it would serve you or not. So I spent an evening after I put my son to bed, a couple of hours where I did my sauna. I did Epsom salt bath, of course,
Starting point is 00:21:46 did infrared light directly on my shoulder, did a little bit of cupping and the pain like went away by 50% immediately. So yeah, that was my beautiful reminder of making sure and evaluating and bringing up for review that I stay in integrity with myself and with my own body as I share practices for you to do the same. So y'all, this is Questlove and I'm here to tell you about a new podcast I've been working on with the Story Pirates and John Glickman
Starting point is 00:22:19 called Historical Records. It's a family-friendly podcast. Yeah, you heard that right. A podcast for all ages. One you can listen to and enjoy with your kids starting on September 27th. I'm going to toss it over to the host of Historical Records, history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. And it began with me.
Starting point is 00:23:17 Did you know, did you know? I wouldn't give up my seat. Nine months before Rosa, it was Claudette Colvin. Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running
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Starting point is 00:24:29 and get into the heart of it all. It's lighthearted, pretty crazy, and very fun. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey there, I'm Dr. Maya Shunker, a cognitive scientist who studies human behavior. On my podcast, A Slight Change of Plans, I marry science and storytelling to better understand how to navigate the big changes in our lives. It was like a slow nightmare, you know, because every day you think, oh, surely tomorrow I'll be better.
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Starting point is 00:27:44 Deeply. Wow. All right, let's dive into today's episode. This is our final episode deepening in our understandings of integrity. We are gearing up for a moment in American history, global history, where we're going to notice that more and more in the world. We're just a couple weeks out from election. I really want to encourage anyone who isn't to please register to vote. Please, please, please register to vote. Please vote. Please vote. Please vote. I'm very, very, very excited to cast my ballot for Kamala Harris. That is my personal decision. That is what feels most closely aligned to my beliefs and to what I think can bring about what is necessary in the world right now. And I'm so excited to do it. So grateful to be alive in this time. And I think no matter what happens in the world, no matter what happens with any of this, no matter what, no matter what happens in the
Starting point is 00:28:56 greater government or the things that we watch on TV, it's still about who we are individually and as a community in smaller action and smaller detail in every day of life. And I think integrity is a profound guiding point for that. So let's talk about some of the ways that integrity is actually an agent for deep healing and for change. We've already explored kind of definably what it can be in the various facets of who we are and in our lives. But let's talk about integrity as a way to actually reclaim your power when you're on a
Starting point is 00:29:32 healing journey. I love this. When we find ourselves in challenging situations, when we're triggered, especially when we're on a healing journey and we're redeveloping our relationship to self and others, it can be really easy to feel sometimes like our sovereignty or our autonomy is being challenged. As we grow that self-confidence, as we grow that personal autonomy and the sovereignty, which is you being the leader of your life and of your soul, the triggering aspect of recalibrating our life and inviting in new relationships and new people and shedding other ones can sometimes really affect the way we come into personal choice. And so with integrity as the guiding post, our personal values, it becomes a really powerful way to actually grow our aura,
Starting point is 00:30:26 grow our personal power, grow our magnetism, grow our healing, and also grow our boundaries and our protective forces of the BS that we get to keep out of our lives. Because we have this force field of personal integrity around us. So staying true to our values is what really helps with that. It's one of the most powerful ways to reclaim a sense of control in our lives and to rebalance and harmonize the way we're experiencing other people and the way we're experiencing our work. So when we're in integrity, we reclaim the power to navigate life on our terms, even in situations that can feel disempowering, right? Because in life, that's not necessarily going to cease. We're on a planet with 9 billion
Starting point is 00:31:13 people. We get to do as much to stay on our path as we can and keep our connection to God really strong and pure. But we're also interacting with 9 billion other incarnated souls who have all of their own spiritual curriculum. And I don't necessarily know that any of that will ever get less challenging, less irritating, less confusing. But we are in command of self. And so that is always a great equalizer for our experience. And so when we're in integrity, we can really reclaim the power again to navigate life on our terms, even in situations that feel hard, that feel disempowering. We can stand firm in our personal truth and we can stand firm in our authenticity. So a way to kind of ask, invite that in to this
Starting point is 00:32:09 lens of what we're discussing is consider asking yourself, where in my life do I need to reclaim my power? And when we're using the word power, it's important to see how you even view and define that because it doesn't necessarily mean aggrandizing power or dominating power. It means dignified power. It means honest power, integral power. So where do you need to reclaim your power, your true authenticity and sense of self and self-respect in your life? And how can you do so in a way that's in alignment with what your deepest values and desires are? So I hope we're kind of like really tracking this thought process, right? So we have our deep values, our core sense of belief, our desires to belong. Then we have our desires for what we want in this life and who we want to be. And then we bring that thread over to the way we live in integrity and utilize our wisdom.
Starting point is 00:33:26 And all of those things happening at one time is what brings us into a state of personal mastery, a state of wholeness, a state of transcendence of our life circumstances and our wounds and our traumas, but it's kind of all of that in a multifaceted way moving through you to have the intended results and the intended experiences and purpose. So thinking about integrity from the standpoint of our healing process, healing can be a really fragile and tender thing. It is not at all uncommon to feel bitterness or disappointment along that path. In fact, I encourage it sometimes. Give yourself a chance to feel angry when it naturally arises. Do it in a way that keeps you safe and keeps other people
Starting point is 00:34:24 safe, but do it in a way that it you safe and keeps other people safe, but do it in a way that it can be felt and expressed, especially if that is something you historically have not been allowed to express or have not allowed yourself to express. Now, if you're on the other end of this spectrum, and that is an area where you may have been leaning into a lot more and getting angry a lot more, that may not be what you need to do now. But if you haven't, you might want to consider that. And integrity personally is about allowing ourselves to feel those emotions without letting them dictate our actions, harden our hearts. It helps us build emotional and spiritual bandwidth in our lives. So rather than striving for
Starting point is 00:35:05 perfection, it's really important, it's impossible, don't attempt it. Remember that healing is a journey. Of course, it's not a destination. And the more that we can hold space for our own humanity, the more that we can stay in alignment with what our truth is, stay on mission, stay on assignment. And as we heal, we strengthen our capacity to live even more deeply in integrity and have even more depth of intimacy with the people that are in our lives. A little soul work for today on this episode. And again, you can download that PDF in our newsletter and also on my website in the podcast tab, debbiebrown.com. A little soul work that I would love to share with everyone today, I think could really be rooted in a beautiful
Starting point is 00:35:52 breathwork practice. We have shared quite a few promptings around integrity on this episode, on past episodes, and also in our soul work journal and a way to integrate what we're thinking about, what we're writing down and how we actually live it is by bringing it into our bodies. And so breath work can be a way to really anchor everything that you may have been exploring internally in this last month. So I want you to set a timer on your phone, or you may have like a little clock in the kitchen, however you like to do it, for about five minutes to focus on and really lose yourself in a conscious breath work practice. Create the container for yourself before you settle into doing this. So
Starting point is 00:36:38 before you lock into that five minutes, I want you to make sure you come into a space that maybe feels a little more quiet, a little less distracting. Having access to a low lit area or a place with more natural light could feel great. If it's possible, stay away from fluorescent lights, stay away from bright lighting and find some place that feels a little more soothing to your body and your brain and your heart. If it feels good, maybe invite some other elements in and light a candle, maybe light a piece of sage to really cleanse the energy in that area. I would say I wouldn't necessarily recommend lighting a piece of incense because doing the breath work and taking in all that smoke, if you don't have a lot of ventilation, it could actually create a little hardship in the practice and, you know, give you some coughs.
Starting point is 00:37:28 And then I want you to sit down and really center in to a comfortable seated position. Let the seat of your body melt into whatever is beneath you. Let your shoulders relax and fall. Let your jaw feel really loose and relaxed. Taking a few deep breaths to get grounded. Just start letting it all come down your shoulders. And as you do this practice, I want you to let any emotions arise as you really think about and connect to the way
Starting point is 00:38:12 that you have observed integrity or not in others and any of the ways or examples or circumstances that you have observed integrity or not in yourself and anything, any particular curriculum that you have observed integrity or not in yourself. And anything, any particular curriculum that is uniquely your own that comes up for you when we have this conversation. Just let yourself open that container here. You don't even have to think about anything specific,
Starting point is 00:38:39 but just let yourself open the door and let it in the room with you. So whether grief, joy, frustration arises, notice it. It's up for review. Gently feel it. Breathe in it. Release it. And then after you do this session,
Starting point is 00:38:59 I want you to journal about what came up and how you want to look to be with what you observed moving forward. It's a process. Explore these thoughts over the next week, the next month, the next season. Maybe give yourself the fall and the winter, the next year, couple of years. However long it's present till the charge really lessens, be with it, review it, experiment with it. And in this five minute breath work practice, let yourself connect to a releasing breath. So that can look like deep inhale in through your nose if it's possible. You'd hold it at the top for a few seconds.
Starting point is 00:39:54 One, two, three, four, five. Release through your mouth. Let your body fall as you do. Really let it be fully expressed. And do that over and over and over again for a few minutes, and then connect to the peace that begins to emerge after that. Sigh. Sigh. Sigh.
Starting point is 00:41:04 Sigh. Hush! Hush! Hush! I love you. Thank you. Thank you. As always, thank you for joining me. This episode can be listened to in all the places you listen to podcasts, and it can also be viewed on YouTube. Go to Debbie Brown Wellbeing, and you can watch videos for every single episode. I'm in my beautiful workshop where I work out of, I create out of, I see some beautiful souls out of. So you'll see me in this room if you connect that way. And another thing, our merch is officially live. Big shout out to everyone that's already been sending in
Starting point is 00:45:17 photos, wearing our shirts. Our healer shirt has been a big fave. We have our deeply well shirt. We have our surprise me God t-shirt. We have our healer hat and we also have our seeker hat. So if you haven't yet, I hope that you fall in love with it and connect to a few pieces from this limited collection to rep the Deeply Well podcast. Make some great Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas gifts too. All right. Until I see you again, thank you so much for joining. I'm Debbie Brown. This is Deeply Well. Namaste. The content presented on Deeply Well serves solely for educational and informational purposes. It should not be considered a replacement for personalized medical or mental health guidance and does not constitute a provider-patient relationship. As always, it is advisable to consult with your healthcare provider or health team
Starting point is 00:46:13 for any specific concerns or questions that you may have. Connect with me on social at Debbie Brown. That's Twitter and Instagram. Or you can go to my website, debbiebrown.com. And if you're listening to the show on Apple Podcasts, don't forget, please rate, review and subscribe and send this episode to a friend. Deeply Well is a production of iHeartRadio and the Black Effect Network. It's produced by Jaquise Thomas, Samantha Timmons, and me, Debbie Brown. The beautiful sound bath you heard? That's by Gerilyn Glass from Crystal Cadence.
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