The Breakfast Club - Does A Compliment From A Stranger Mean Flirting?

Episode Date: June 29, 2023

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that he calling my phone tell him I made it it's topic time call 800-585-1051 to join in to the discussion with the breakfast club morning everybody it's DJ Envy Charlamagne Tha Guy we are the breakfast club

now if you're just joining us we were talking about a topic we were talking behind the scenes now behind the scenes this actually started from Charlamagne's donkey yesterday yes because during donkey of the day a young man robbed a woman at gunpoint and while he was robbing her he made her follow him on facebook and actually hit her up and they were going back and forth and he you know wanted to go on a date with her and told her she he was he's sorry he had to rob her she's too pretty to be robbed and i'm sitting there thinking like he's only thinking she likes him because he

she replied to him on facebook he's too stupid and clearly too arrogant to not realize he's getting lined up to get uh get arrested but it made me think like why can't men you know why can't a woman give a man a compliment uh just look in a man's direction without the man thinking, hey, man, that woman wants me? I mean, I just think that's how society is and how people people see things. I feel like if a woman compliments a guy goes out of her way to say something looks nice or something looks good or I think that is, you know, I think that leaves the door for, you know, maybe a conversation. I highly disagree i i you know what i think a compliment is what a compliment like simple as that if i tell you i like your shirt if i tell you i like your sneakers it's because i like your shirt and i like your

sneakers like simple as that like it has nothing to do with anything else and i don't know why men uh don't understand that i disagree and i think the same thing with men i think if a man compliments a woman it's not because he's just like oh that's a dope shirt i think a lot of times it's because he wants to kind of just holler and see if the door's open i remember that mr married man remember that remember that next time you tell a woman you like her sneakers you know what i mean i don't you don't tell a woman you like her i don't only if i compliment somebody somebody that we all know i don't i don't i'll never say my blade hey ma you got some dope kicks on i don't do that no that's not true because like sometimes you might see a girl with a nice hairdo like i love dreadlocks you know i mean i'm like y'all like your dreads now i will say that

if i do see a nice head and i and i might say hey uh who did your hair because i would love my my wife would probably love my daughter's hair to look like that it's the truth it's the truth it's just still a compliment. There's nothing wrong with giving people compliments, man. Intention matters. Brandon, Brandon, step to the mic for a second.

Intention matters. Brandon, step to the mic. Brandon. Brandon is our Ghana connection. If a woman pays you a compliment, does that open the door? What I said was, you better not pay me no compliment

because I'm going to go for it. Brandon, how old are you, Brandon? I'm 27 years old. Brandon is 27 years old. He don't know no better yet, okay? He's young. he's hot, he's horny at all times. A woman can look his way, and he think the woman want him. You know what I mean?

There'll be women that be coming in this building, they ain't paying Brandon no attention. He be like, I think I got a shot. Rubbing his chest. I think I got a shot. Janelle Monae. I think I got a shot. Who was it that he really said he had a shot with, Ray? Chloe. Chloe Bailey. I think I got a shot with your cousin. I think I got a shot Who was it that he really said He had a shot with Red? Chloe Chloe I think I got a shot With your cousin

I think I got a shot With your cousin Somebody put me down With his cousin though But now Brandon If you give a woman a compliment Are you opening the door For maybe trying to holler as well?

Yeah If they're not a friend Or a co-worker If you see a woman in the street And you're like nice shirt You're not saying nice shirt Because If it's a stranger

Yeah I'm Yes He's 27 He don't know no better You can give people compliments and nothing be behind it take it from somebody who's a sex symbol bro I've been unbelievably handsome my whole life ever ever ever since I was a little kid older women women my age oh you so handsome you so cute isn't that I thought about it it's never been anything I can't believe anything you say. That's a goddamn lie. Hello, who's this?

Geechee. Hey, Geechee. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Now, Geechee, what do you think? If a woman pays you a compliment, is that opening the door to have a conversation at least? Now, we all know nowadays these women are stuck up.

They don't want to talk to nobody. So if a woman pays you a compliment with your outfit or your appearance period, that's opening up a lot. Man, if y'all don't see that. Tell the man he's married. So he out the game. He can't really even speak on this. And be out the game too. He should be.

I am out the game. He married too. I am out the game. I just think y'all sound ridiculous thinking that just because a woman says you, gives you a compliment that she wants you. I didn't say she wants you,

but she's opening the door for a conversation at least. No, she's not. Minimal. No, she's not. Yes, she is. Let's be real, man. You didn't say she wants you, but she's opening the door for a conversation at least. No, she's not. Minimal. No, she's not. Yes, she is. Let's be real, man. You go to the club these days,

women aren't even trying to say two words to you. So if they look at you and pay you a compliment, I think that's opening the door that leads to a conversation. You know what a mistake y'all making right now?

What? Talking n***a. Go to the women. Are we going to go to women when we come back? Go to some women. Ask the women. How are we talking

about what women mean? But I'm also telling you what guys feel like when you pay them a compliment. I know guys feel that way, but we stupid. You're right. Go to the women. 800-585-1051. We'll take your calls when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club.

Good morning. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join into the discussion with the breakfast club talk about it morning everybody it's dj envy charlamagne the guy we are the breakfast club now if you're just joining us uh we're talking about compliments and we were having this conversation behind the scenes saying if a woman compliments a guy does that mean she's opening the door for at least a conversation such a ridiculous train of thought that men have and this whole conversation is just confirming what i already knew a woman can't even look in a man's direction without the man thinking she want me you know one of the stupidest things men say but i'm gonna have her how you know

you know what i mean like how do you know this, how you could just look at a woman and say, I'm going to F her. How do you know? Hello, who's this? Hi, this is Christy. Hey, Christy, good morning. Hey, Christy, the bus driver, good morning. How you doing? Happy birthday, Solomon. Thank you, queen.

Appreciate you. Now, Christy, if you compliment a guy, right? A compliment a guy's outfit, clothes, sneakers, kicks. Are you opening the door for at least a conversation? No. Thank you. I'm a bus driver, and I interact with people all day. And I may compliment a woman.

I'm not gay. True indeed. Okay. But if you compliment a guy, let's say you see a nice, handsome guy walking on the bus, and you say, hey, that's a nice shirt. You don't think that's opening the door for at least a conversation? It might open a conversation. He might come back tomorrow and be like, oh, you was the one that said I had a nice shirt on.

So he's going to wear a nice shirt again the next day. You see? He might wear the same shirt again. He might wear the same shirt again. But you complimenting him because, you know, you think he's handsome right why are you trying to sway the jury thank you christy all right y'all have a good day tabitha hello how are you how you feeling this morning tabitha i am so blessed all right now we're talking about if you compliment a man right does that open the

door for a conversation um i don't believe so i'm a real estate broker and i was complimenting a builder on his work we went and we um purchased the property from the dirt and then he built the property in three months and i complimented to his wife who was the other agent on the other side. And so the product was sold, and then I needed her again. And she's like not responding to me because I complimented her husband, and I said he did such a good job. He's so awesome. He's great.

And I really would mean it, you know, in no way just complimenting this product and he won't call me back i'm gonna tell you exactly what happened in that situation that man went to his wife and said you was flirting with him i guarantee it i guarantee it yo man your girl that show she was flirting with me yo all you did was compliment him on his work but he took it as oh she want me and so he want to look like the man to his wife when he went to his wife and told his wife you was flirting with him guaranteed oh man i mean that is totally not it and i really need him for another client see what i'm saying thank you mama yes thank you men gotta stop leaving with their ego this is ridiculous hello who's this? This is Ronnie from Chumtown.

843, what's happening, my brother? Ronnie, talk to us. Yeah, man. I don't feel like a woman. If she give me a compliment on my shirt or give me a compliment on my clothes, I don't feel like she's actually flirting. I just feel like she's like my style,

like my swag, how I come in. But I do feel like if I come back with a compliment and she kind of give me that laugh, that smirk, I can kind of get in the door, man. See? It's opening up the conversation. No. He took it somewhere else.

Like, meaning that she complimented your shirt and then you replied back with something probably flirty. And then when she replied... Come on, man. You know I love to talk down, man. You give me that little smile, that little talk. I know. That's what I'm saying, but you replied back with something flirty.

That's right. When she replied to that energy, that's different. That's different. Just give me a compliment. I get that all the time in Chelsea. I mean, I appreciate it. I give it back. You know, you're from the South, so do a good compliment. You know, you're from the South, so kind of do good compliments. Listen, man, you know the most handsome men in the world come from the low country.

This is a fact. Cat! This is a scientific fact. The most handsome men in the world are born in the 843. Lulu! Yes, good morning! Good morning, Lulu. It's Lula from Miami. How are you guys doing?

How are you feeling? Talk to us. If you see a handsome young man and you like his shirt, right? And you say, hey brother, that's a nice shirt that you're wearing. It fits well. Is that opening the door for a conversation, Lulu? Let's be honest. Yes, it is. It depends on the

environment, but it could be flirting. It could be breaking the ice, but it could be flirting. It could be breaking the ice, being approachable towards the person. See? Thank you. Carla, I want to say happy birthday to you, a big fan from Miami. And you're right. Everybody from Florida is crazy.

Everybody from Florida is crazy. And you crazy for thinking that every man, whether you like the person, we're just talking about random walking down the street lulu you got on something from lulu lemon hey i like what you wearing bong that don't mean i want to holler thank you you say thank you that's it simple as that now if he's handsome then you go back and double back and be like thank you so much and then you start talking yeah yeah see yeah thank you he's not handsome so he don't get that he don't understand that that's all i've been getting my whole that is hot i came out the womb handsome man i got that look bro okay i'm a handsome individual man what's what's the moral of the story man the moral of the story is you stupid ass men women don't want y'all just

because they compliment your shirt women don't want y'all just because they compliment your shirt. Women don't want y'all just because they tell you nice sneakers. Alright? Stop it. Knock it off. Oh my Jesus. Alright.

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