The Breakfast Club - DONKEY: High School Basketball Student & Brother Arrested For Assaulting Coach After Being Benched

Episode Date: December 12, 2023

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What's wrong with you, bro? Did you see that? He's a Grinch. I don't think that you just took an aspirin. I think you just took something else. Oh, man. Donkey, today for Tuesday, December 12th, goes to 17-year-old Jevin Allen and his older brother, 22-year-old Jarek Allen.

More so than Jarek because Jevin is only 17, but actually the both of them. Okay, but Jarek, you're 22. You're supposed to know a little bit more than Jevin. Just a little bit more because we all know that the prefrontal cortex doesn't fully mature until 25 years old. But here's the thing. Jevin is a basketball player. He got

benched by his coach. His coach benched him because of his behavior toward an opposing team player. I don't know what jevin did to the other player but whatever he did uh warranted his coach benching him or his coach thought it warranted a benching all right cool trust the coach all right the coach is the coach for a reason the coach is someone who tells you what you don't want to hear who has you see what you don't want to see so you can be who you have always known you could be. Well, Jevin didn't see it that way.

Neither did his family. Because when the team returned back to the high school, Jevin and his family were waiting in the parking lot for the coach. And this happened. Let's go to KHOU11 for the report, please. A Willis High School basketball player is out on bond, accused of attacking his coach. According to the Montgomery County Sheriff sheriff's office 17 year old

jevin allen was upset about being benched during tuesday night's game against conroe he and his older brother jarek are accused of then waiting for the coach outside the school then attacking him in the parking lot both are charged with assaulting a public servant willis isd telling us the coach is recovering well tonight. The district goes on to say they determined the student's address was no longer valid, so he has been withdrawn from the district. And they are deeply saddened by this incident and will not tolerate this behavior from students. And they shouldn't tolerate it.

Okay, everybody can't be crazy. You and a brother? I expect the 17-year year old to bug out i expect the 17 year old to have low emotional iq but where are the adults where are the ogs where are the older people in the family to say no jevin the coach is right or even if you don't think the coach is right knowing you can't resort to violence jarek you're 22 years old you gotta tell your little brother you can't resort to violence. Jarek, you're 22 years old. You gotta tell your little brother you can't resort to violence just because he didn't get his way. This sense of entitlement

that exists amongst people in this era is insane to me. And the fact that nobody is telling this 17-year-old this isn't the way to handle this and instead they're saying, yeah, you right, we gonna whip his ass with you

is insane to me. Now, I know 22 ain't the old, this was damn. Also, Allen, you know, Allen's, since it's Jevin and jarek tell me what college is jevin gonna get in what college team is gonna want jevin to play for them when they know this is what could potentially happen when things don't go his way just because he didn't get his way you know him and his brother decided to whip the coach's ass not to mention now you have an assault on a public servant charge on your record which is also going to make your life more difficult all because you made an

emotional decision this is why i don't understand when men talk about women women don't know how to control their emotions humans don't know how to control their emotions okay by the way this is why social and emotional learning needed to be taught in schools kindergarten through 12th grade because jevin and jarek absolutely needed to exercise emotional control take a deep breath instead of reacting right away okay whether positive or negative give yourself a moment to process what happened okay find out what you're feeling replace negative thoughts channel your energy explore your emotions there is a plethora of things you can do before you resort to violence, but my biggest issue in this situation is nobody is leading this young man or young men correctly.

Jarek, you the big brother. You not an OG by any means. I'm 45. I was born in 1978, so to me you a baby, but this news report said Jevons family was in the parking lot. I don't know. I just know that there was nobody there to tell these young men, this is not the move.

Old men for counsel, young men for war. But when no counsel is being provided by the older folks, what are these young people to do but go to war? Because the biggest war they're fighting is with themselves. Please give Jevin Allen and Jarek Allen the sweet sounds of the Hamilton's. Oh, now you are the donkey of the day.

You are the donkey of the day. Yee-haw. The president of the Fat Lines Matter Committee pulled up his stats for the 23-24 season. 15 points per game. Okay. Three assists. Three steals. Games played one.

Okay. That's a decent stat line for one game. Games played one. That's a decent stat line for one game, Young Jevin. All right. Okay, but you got to learn some emotional intelligence. Okay? But you got to learn some emotional intelligence. Okay? Your emotional IQ has to be way higher than that

because in life, things aren't going to go your way. Okay? All the time. And if the coach benched you because you made a poor decision, the coach knew exactly what he was doing.

That just gives you an opportunity to think about, you know, the decisions you make moving forward. If you indeed want to play. But now you ain't playing for nobody. Because you made an even worse decision after the coach bitched you

for making a poor decision. Destiny is not a matter of chance. It's a matter of choice. Always remember that. Did the coach fight back? They said people came to help him out. He would have got in trouble if he fought back. I don't know. No, it was self-defense.

Because he's a 22-year-old brother. He ain't in school. He get his ass whipped. Lucky he didn't get shot. He had the right coach. That's right. And he was in Texas. Lucky he didn't get shot.

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So that is the question. Will y'all delete your social media for a healthy relationship? Let's discuss. It's the Breakfast I see people ruining the most. The relationship they have with themselves. So that is the question. Will y'all delete your social media for a healthy relationship? Let's discuss. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own?

I planted the flag. This is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God.

What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper

into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, what's up? This is Ramses Jha. And I go by the name Q Ward. And we'd like you to join us each week for our show Civic Cipher. That's right. We discuss social issues, especially those that affect black and brown people, but in a way that informs and empowers all people. We discuss everything from prejudice to politics to police violence. And we try to give you the tools to create positive change in your home, workplace and social circle. We're going to learn how to become better allies to each other. So join us each Saturday for Civic Cipher on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, I'm Jacqueline Thomas, the host of a brand new Black Effect original series, Black Lit, the podcast for diving deep into the rich world of Black literature. Black Lit is for the page turners, for those who listen to audiobooks while running errands or at the end of a busy day. From thought-provoking novels to powerful poetry, we'll explore the stories that shape our culture. Listen to Black Lit on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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