The Breakfast Club - DONKEY: Ray J Apologizes To Sexyy Red After Claiming They ‘Slept Together’

Episode Date: June 9, 2025

Charlamagne Tha God gives Donkey of the Day to Ray J after he apologizes to Sexyy Red for falsely claiming they ‘slept together.’ Listen for more!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakfastClubPower1051FMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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I'm Clayton English. I'm Greg Glott. And this is Season Two of the War on Drugs podcast. podcasts. Stories matter and it brings a face to it makes it real it really does it makes it real Listen to new episodes of the war on drugs podcast season 2 on the I heart radio app Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast I'm trying to be donkey today no more. professionally known as Ray J. Now, if you know anything about the history of Breakfast Club then you know once upon a time Ray J was woven into the fabric of this illustrious Hall of Fame radio show. Ray J was our first guest ever. Okay the first person who ever stepped foot into the Breakfast Club studio and sat down with us for a conversation was Ray J. That is the answer to a Breakfast Club trivia question if anyone needs it. The first ever huge viral moment

We ever had was when Ray J called in and threatened to put the booty goons on fabulous. Okay? These are all facts. Nobody up here will ever deny the history we have with Willie Ray Norwood, Jr But Donkey today does not discriminate and I saw something this weekend That should be a teachable moment for us all see Ray J was on his live stream this weekend, and he had this to say about sexy red. Let's listen. I Slept with sexy red Sexy red I slept with sexy red ask her that's on the dead homies I slept with her dead homies. I slept with her. No one man. On the dead homies though. Yeah. Yeah. No one man should have all that corny. Okay Ray J you are 44 years old getting

online bragging about people you slept with. You going the superhead route in 2025? Are you that desperate for relevancy? Ray J you should be way past to do anything for clout era. I remember Ray J calling me one time and expressing how he has the desire to be seen as a businessman. He said that we should be focusing more on what he's doing in the tech world. And I agree. Okay, Ray J has had some success with those scooty bikes. When Ray J was with Raycon, they had a valuation of like 85 to $100 million. That's no small feat.

That's big business. Okay, it's an amazing thing to see a black man be a part of something like that. Then he sold his stake in Raycon and opened up the Tronics Network. He allegedly put like $5 million of his own money into the Tronics Network. That too is big business,

but I don't even hear him talk about the Tronics Network anymore. Okay, my point is Ray J has done incredible things in the world of business, but his antics like this always overshadow it. Okay Willie Ray Nowa Jr. you will never get your just due for what you've done in the business world if you online still moving and talking like we were in our 20s. Now what did sexy red have to say about this? Well she took to Instagram to say, calm ball ass lying on your meat is weird. Playing your ass, not with me.

What? Ah! What? Then she said, even to be saying we slept on the plane together. I said hi and kept it pushing, is you cuckoo? And she reposted a screenshot of her sending Ray J the video saying, so this what you doing?

Playing with people's name on the internet. Ray J replied, I said, right after we slept on the plane together, you know I'm playing, I'm always trolling and you know I love you, I'll make it clear right now on my main page, sorry if you mad at me, I'll make it right now. The problem with the apology though, is the apology is never as loud as the offense, the truth is never as loud as the lie. The lie that Ray J slept with Sexy Red went around the world twice, while the truth is never as loud as the lie. The lie that Ray J slept with Sexy Red went around the world twice while the truth is

still putting on his shoes. Ray J did do a more formal apology. Let's listen. I want to apologize to Sexy Red because Sexy Red is one of my favorite artists and Sexy Red and I was on a plane and we were both flying somewhere, randomly saw each other. She was sitting by me, she had her space, I had my space, she had her own blanket, her own pillow, I had my own blanket and my own pillow. And we had a long flight and we both were tired, you know what I'm saying?

So we just, we went to sleep. Just like we would sleep with anybody else I was sitting next to us on the plane I went out of control and I said that I slept with sexy red and that's just us as Insensitive and it's not okay, and it's trolling at the highest level and I want to say sexy red my bad Here's the teachable moment. June is men's mental health month. If you feel the need to get online and be a chronic and compulsive liar at the age of 44, okay, lives that are manipulative and damaging

that could hurt relationships with people, could hurt careers, even yourself, then you might be dealing with an underlying condition that you need to sit with a mental health professional about. I'm serious, my brothers, we gotta do better. Okay, Ray J is 44, Sexy Ray is 27. At this point, Ray, you should be teaching

the next generation how to move. They should be looking at you to know how to move, but instead, you got them looking at you like you washed. You moving like you on the corner with a Starbucks cup in your hand, dancing to wait a minute, hoping somebody gives you a couple of dollars. And you can't tell me you just doing this

to build up your chat, okay? You can't just tell me that, because in the screaming world, I don't even see the streamers moving like this, okay? Not the ones I watch. The ones I watch got very high emotional IQs, Kai's and not of course, and little Reggie, Duke, Dennis. I don't see them resorting to lying on their beef whistles,

saying they slept with certain celebrities to garner attention for their chats. Ray J, you got a daughter, you got a niece. Would you want somebody playing with their name like that? Would you want somebody playing with your sister's name like that? Huh? The answer to those questions are no, okay?

Ray, I know you wanna be down with this new screaming world. Okay, you be sitting up in your room in front of that laptop trying to keep up with them youngsters. But if I had one wish, Ray, that wish would be for you to grow up. Okay, I'm not saying anything right now. I haven't told you before. Grow up at 44. There is a level of emotional maturity you're supposed to have. Okay, you need to sit with a therapist or some mental health professional and ask, what is this attention seeking behavior you constantly display? Is it learned from childhood?

You didn't grow up in a toxic environment as far as I know. What is it? Okay? Look, I'm no mental health expert. I've never claimed to be. I'm just a man who's had some experiences and I'm a man who had to confront my own emotional immaturity. And it comes to a point in our lives when we have to look in the mirror and stop avoiding

accountability our uncomfortable truths about ourselves. emotional immaturity. And it comes to a point in our lives when we have to look in the mirror and stop avoiding accountability, our uncomfortable truths about ourselves. And the truth is, if a man is 44 years old, still lying for attention, it might not always be a clinical diagnosis, but it's almost always a sign that he hasn't healed something. Was it his fear, insecurity, or trauma?

Something deeper is driving the behavior and Willie Ray Norwood Jr. I sincerely hope you heal. Please let Remy Ma give Ray J the biggest hee-haw. Hee-haw, hee-haw. You stupid mother-fucker, are you dumb? Now, Jess Elias, has a man ever lied on your poom-poom? Oh, absolutely, yes.

And said he hit when he didn't? Yes, absolutely. And I don't know why the gentleman did that, but he did that. That was recently too. Yeah. Oh, recently? Absolutely.

Damn. It's been like a couple months ago. What? A clown. Wow. Somebody that I wouldn't even think would be a clown. Somebody that y'all know. We know?

And we talk about this person. Don't push it. Rather frequently. Please don't push it. Really? Don't do it. Don't push it. In the world of entertainment? No, don't push it, please. Please. Comedian, musician? Just don't push it rather frequently please don't push it don't do it don't push it in the world of entertainment no don't push it please please no just just don't stop no not a comedian not a musician lord please don't let just say no names a spiritual leader

a pastor lord please don't let just say no names we'll get back all right 800-585-1051 has somebody lied on you before lied on your poom-poom? Lied on your meat? Let's discuss 800-585-1051 We'll do it when we come back. Don't play with just please this morning, please. I'm begging you. I'm begging you All right. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club Donkey of the day is sponsored by renowned personal injury attorney Michael the Bull Lamisoff Don't be a donkey when you need a fighter on your side. If you're ever injured, go to michaelthebull.com, that's michaelthebull.com, and when you mess with the bull,

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Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Why is a soap opera western like Yellowstone so wildly successful? The American West with Dan Flores is the latest show from the Meat Eater Podcast Network. So join me starting Tuesday, May 6th, where we'll delve into stories of the West and come to understand how it helps inform the ways in which we experience the region today. Listen to The American West with Dan Flores on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Clayton English. I'm Greg Glott. And this is season two of the War on Drugs podcast. Last year, a lot of the problems of the drug war this year,

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