The Breakfast Club - 'Don't Call Me White Girl' Didn't Shout Out Her Hair Stylist

Episode Date: August 30, 2023

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it's topic time call 800-585-1051 to join into the discussion with the breakfast club morning everybody it's dj envy charlamagne the guy we are the breakfast club we got our guest co-host don't call me white girl here now if you're just joining us yesterday uh we started discussing don't call me white girl Girl Mona's name, her hair. And we said it looked nice, and she told us it took 16 hours to get done, and it cost $1,500, and it lasts two hours. And yesterday— 16 hours. I said 16 hours, did I?

You said it lasts two hours. No, it lasts two months. Two months. It lasts two months. So yesterday she had an opportunity to shout out the braider, and she didn't shout out the braider. She said, don't call me for a shout out of her new name so people were mad they were uh you know spamming her comments and really upset about that oh god they were pissed so we're asking 800-585-1051 should she have shouted out the person that braided her hair so uh charlamagne says no and

then what mona what do you think um ultimately i feel feel like, you know, first of all, I'm into promotion and advertisement. I am an influencer. I'm a self-built influencer. And a part of what I do is I promote people and I shout them out and I market. I don't think people understand how important it is to advertise. We got this huge boom of black boom of entrepreneurs, and I love it. But I don't think people understand that you have to allot some kind of budget to promotion and when you do you might pay somebody like me to promote your services long story short if I get your services and I pay I typically do not shout you out now if I have a

super califragilistic espialidocious experience and I want to talk about I will do so but I do not owe you that and that's the conversation I had before i get said service whether it's a maid service cleaning the crib or it's a massage we have a conversation and to be honest this is the first time of me paying my for my hair in four or five years people don't really charge me for anything people pay me to do my hair to get their name out there a little more for the most part a lot of y'all speaking on stuff that you just don't know i understand ignorance is bliss but in the game i'm in that's just how it goes baby it's either or if ignorance or bliss how come more people

ain't happy then cause there's a lot of ignorant mother f***ers out here but everything she said is absolutely right Mona you don't owe them people nothing you don't owe that woman nothing

you paid her full price as you said if you like her services if she made you feel good and you feel like shouting her out you do it but this sense of entitlement

where people are doing things for folks and expecting shout outs on Instagram or social media. If we on the radio or podcast and they're expecting that, I don't respect that in any way, shape or form. And the services I tend to shout out are services I know that can be beneficial to other people. Right. You know, at this point in my life, it's cardiovascular testing,, you know. Mental health stuff. Mental health and colonics.

Not colonics. Colonoscopies. Colonoscopies. Colonics too, though. I had a good colonic a couple years ago. I did. I want to get a colonic. You never had a colonic?

I never had a colonic. Oh, it's good. It's good. I don't know if it actually, is there any health benefits to it? No. But boy, after you get off that table and you sitting on that toilet and that first dump. Okay.

Charlamagne sent the Dr. Flowers after. All right. He's so into it. Well, you know, that toilet and that first dump. Whoa. Okay. Charlamagne sent the doctor flowers after. All right. You're so into it. Whoa. You know, whatever. You know, thanks for that. You know what's interesting though? What?

You know what feel better than the colonic? What? I don't want to know. That prep the day before the colonoscopy. Okay. It's rough.

Oh, oh, oh, oh. But don't nothing empty your stomach and flatten you out like that prep before that colonoscopy. This is more love. I think we should

circle back around. How about the butts? We've been talking about your hair. One thing I will say is the braider, I want to make that clear, the braider was happy with whatever happened. She was happy her braids were even on the show. She does really well. She's a huge follower.

Of course, and you know, like I said, she's a business woman we discussed before. Her books, she's booked in me, so me shouting her out probably could have gave her influx that she might have couldn't handle or didn't even want right now so i want to make that clear she didn't feel entitled she was okay with everything she even caught the joke or the laughing part about it it was the people especially you breakfast club followers on instagram y'all were grinding the girl up did you shout her out you said you shouted her out on

instagram i'm gonna shout her out a little bit go ahead and shout her out? You said you shouted her out on Instagram? I might have shouted her out a little bit. Go ahead and shout her out. Braids by Nay out of Philadelphia on Germantown Avenue. Shout out to my girl. Shout out to my girl. She's a beast. And y'all can't get in anyway.

She booked. But at the end of the day, I'm with y'all. If I pay for a full service, that doesn't entitle me. I don't have to shout you out. I can if I want to, but if I pay full price,

I'm paying for full price. And like you said, people pay for you to shout them out. That's what we do, baby. They pay for you to shout them out on Instagram't if i want to but if i pay full price i'm paying for full price and like you said people pay for you to shout them out that's what we do they pay for you to shout them out on instagram they pay for you to visit their store they pay for you to do a lot of those things and unless you're giving me a discount i don't owe anybody anything that's how i feel but let's go to the phone lines hello who's this hey good morning this is constant hey you think don't call me white girl should i shout the lady out? No. My thoughts are the $1,500. Is that what she paid?

Yes. That's the shout out. First of all, you paid way too much money. I don't know what's going on with these stylists and these prices. That's freaking crazy. But if you bow down and decided to shout out Because a bunch of strangers Then you the fool No offense

That's right Tell her again Because she did it twice If you bow down And you shouted her out Then you the fool Tell her again I'm with you

She didn't call me a fool twice Don't let Charlamagne gas you now Slow down with that fool being Hello who's this? Oh this is TK How you doing? Good TK You think Don doing? Good, TK. You think Don't Call Me White Girl

should have shouted out her braider? Yeah, she should have shouted out, man. Why? She should have shouted out. Just for the strength that it could change, it could have really changed her life. It could really help her. Not like $1,500.

What she's doing. Not like $1,500. The money gonna run out, though, Charlamagne. And that's her fault. If she tried to do $59 Which I'm hearing Is too much

It's not too much It's not too much Don't talk too much For 16 hours a ride Look at these braids though For real Come on So $100 an hour

Basically On your feet So how many of those She probably do a day No she gonna do one a day One a day That's a lot of money That is a lot of money

She talking about I can't even do math It's 2023 These braids were $2300 back in the day It's 2023 That's a lot of money. That is a lot of money. What you talking about? I can't even do math. It's 2023. These Braves were $2,300 back in the day. It's 2023. That's about right. $1,500 seems like a lot.

Now that you're talking to me. 16 hours straight team. That's $9,000 a week. If she do four. Five heads. My girl is living good, baby. My girl is very successful. If she does four a day, that's $6,000 a week. She can't do four a day. Mommy said four a week, I said. Okay. Okay, let's just say she do five. That's $ good, baby. My girl is very successful. If she does four a day, that's $6,000 a week. She can't do four a day.

Mommy said four a week, I said. Okay. Okay, let's just say she do five. That's $75,000. Wait a minute. She has a person that braids them down, so it's two of her, so she has to pay that person.

She has an assistant, and she needs that help. Count that in two. Either way, if she do one a day for six days... She can't do one a day. She'd be beat. She'd probably take Sunday off.

That's $9,000 a week. She do four a day. That's $6,000 a week. Charlamagne, the girl living well. She's a very successful black woman. She can't do one day. She'd be beat. She'd probably take Sunday off. That's nine grand a week. She'd do four a day. That's six thousand a week. The girl living well. She's a very successful black woman. She'd do four a week. That's twenty-four thousand a month. Has a beautiful family. See? You know, she doing well. And she knew. We had a conversation. She knew

full well what was going on. And she was like, oh, that's cute. Breakfast. Oh, that's great. I want, um, you can pay me by Apple Pay. And I respected it and played with her and paid her before she even started. Jessica. Yes. Good morning.

Good morning. What do you think? You think Don't Call Me White Girl should have shouted her out? Okay, I respect that she paid $1,500. But I feel like because she said, yeah, I'm going to be on a breakfast club and the girl was hard to get into, then maybe she should have said something. But I still respect that she paid $1,500. And she took no breaks. So, yeah, I feel like she should have called something. But I still respect that she paid $1,500. And she took no breaks.

So, yeah, I feel like she should have called her out. Man, please. She paid for a service. So basically what they're saying is every service that we pay for throughout the day deserves a shout-out. Correct. Like, what service did this woman provide that's any different than any service that we're going to do today? Carwash guy, Chick-fil-A person, takeout guy that no people doing services we paying our money that's that you know i'm sorry you know what else i feel i feel like what's that when you want to come up like i was

as far as building myself on social media people watch you and they feel a part of that and it's like for me a lot of my appeal is that i am relatable so it's almost like don't forget about us we put you on which i could kind of understand but i think the part that they don't understand is i can remember distinctly not asking like i'm not in y'all dm saying hey give me a shot i waited my turn i did my thing because i know that i would be visible if i did well you manifest things you pray you do right by people good things come to you i am an example of that but i owe no one because nobody put me on nobody all right you know what i mean 800-585-1051 people are upset

with don't call me white girl yesterday because we were talking about her braids and she didn't shout out the braider now the braids took 16 hours uh she paid 1500 and she didn't shout out the braider people like you should have shouted out that braider girl that's not right we upset with you we'll talk about it when we come back it's the breakfast club it's topic time and she didn't shout out the braider. People were like, you should have shouted out that braider, girl. That's not right. We don't say what you mean. We'll talk about it when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join in to the discussion with The Breakfast Club.

Let's talk about it. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. If you're just joining us, people are mad. Don't call me white girl. Yesterday, we talked about her braids. 16 hours to do these braids. She cost her $1,500. They last two months long, but she didn't shout out the braider.

And people are upset about that. William, what up? Hey, what's up, y'all? Can y'all hear me? We can hear you. What's your thoughts, brother? Hey, I ain't know. I'm sorry. I'm dropping my phone off. Hey, look, nah, she not wrong. She not wrong at all. First of all, let me say that.

She not wrong. The head wrestler should have been more business-minded and took that 16-hour L for the free. No. For the shout-out instead. I disagree with that, too. Why not? Because, as Mona said, you know, the woman is in high demand. You know what I'm saying?

She's a very well-known braider. She's hard to even get into. 16 hours, I don't want no damn shout out. I want my money. Hey, that's cool, too. But that's for the people talking, though. So she wanted her money. That's cool.

But for the people talking, They just talking To talk fake anyway That's right And we gotta stop Listening to them Put young Miami's Daddy's f*** in they mouth What? F***

That's what we gotta Start telling these fools On social media What is wrong with you? I like his energy You real kinky this morning Yeah colonics Butts, mouths, penises

Hello who's this? I like it Hello Hey what's your name mama? Hi this is Misha Hey Misha Don who's this? I like it. Hello? Hey, what's your name, mama? Hi, this is Misha. Hey, Misha. Don't call me white girl. Shout it out, the hair braider. No, I think that these hairdressers need to relax. Like, if I pay for a service, you give me a service.

I didn't pay to be a promoter. Now, if you're going to give me a discount, then yeah. Well, it wasn't the hairdresser. The hairdresser wasn't asking for a shout out. She was good. It was the people, Misha. It was the people more. I'm pissed Jade Yeah, hey good morning Jade. Yeah, good morning. Do you think she should have shouted out the hairdresser? No, she paid full price Um, so she's not obligated. You see what I'm saying? I'm beyond you. This why I love doing radio The reason I love doing radio is different. It's real people then people on social media ain't real people. Charlamagne think y'all robots.

I really do. Hello. One second, right here. What's going on? Who you talking to, Elroy? Who in the background? I was talking to my granny. Taking it to the hot dog. You sound like you smoking.

You sound like you smoking right now. He's smoking with his granny. I hope he ain't smoking with his granny. No, definitely not. Definitely not. So, Elroy, what you think, brother? No, I don't think you was wrong. For once, he saved $1,500 for a head.

Most people ask about it, not even going to pay $1,500. That's the first thing. Yeah, most people ain't paying $1,500. I wish It was $1500 He out there Worth it And I might pay

To be honest Tiara Good morning Tiara Hey how y'all doing Hello Hey mama How you doing

Hi good morning Tiara I love you girl Thank you I love you too baby Okay So this call With the

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I'm not saying you should pay her one more price. Y'all understand what she said? Kinda. She said if my shout- could change her life then you should have shouted her out. Basically yeah. Yeah but this

hairdresser up though based off what don't call me white girl Even if she wasn't even if she wasn't what I want you to know

Tiara is that she had that option so let's say she wasn't there if it was a life-changing thing maybe she should know that and she would make that

decision by you know just willing and dealing. You could have went half. Jay. Yo. And what you think? You think don't call me white girl should have shouted out that head braider, bro? No, I don't think she had to.

I don't think it was her responsibility to shout her out. But what I do think is that you guys probably kind of set her up and made it seem like she had to. Because when she picked her up there, she was on her feet for 16 hours, no break. And the situation is that y'all asked her, well, do you want to shout her out? Her response to, yeah, no, I don't need to shout her out. That's what I think people got mad at.

She ain't got to shout her out, but it was the response. I thought that response was very valid because Mona said, she didn't say, hell no, I'm not going to shout her out. She said, hell no, I paid for this. Right. You know what I mean?

Being that she paid full price, she understands her value and her worth and what her words mean. And she knows that shouting people out is an endorsement. Why is her product more special than mine, important than mine? If my product is promotion and her product is braiding, then why should her product come before mine? We both have children. We both have families. We both have goals. That's right.

All right. Well, what's the moral of the story? That is the moral of the story is gratitude begins where a sense of entitlement ends. Mmm, that's a good one. That's what the moral of the story is. Oh, that is extraordinary.

Put that on a shirt. Put it on a shirt. All right. When we come back, we got your rumor report. We got to talk about plies. Plies is mad at somebody. We'll tell you who when we come back

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