The Breakfast Club - Emotion vs Logic: Loren Lorosa Breakfast Club Drama and Cardi B vs Offset
Episode Date: March 31, 2025Welcome to the first episode to the Latest with Loren Lorosa, the homegirl that knows everything and everybody, and on this episode she is giving an exclusive on a story starring herself and the Break...fast Club! Loren gives her thoughts, feelings and debunks the rumors about the drama between her Jess Hilarious and The Breakfast Club. Later on she also gives the latest details on Cardi B and Offset relationship, which includes invading personal space, privacy with no respect. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakfastClubPower1051FMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Let's get, let's get, let's get to it. Time to do it.
I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything and everybody.
You hear that exclusive?
You don't feel alive about that, right?
Lauren came in hot.
OK, let's get it going.
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Yes, we are here.
Welcome. This is the first episode of The latest with Lauren the Rosa, which is a podcast
where we are doing all the things. So I'll be here as you guys have heard in the trailer
and we talk about every day, Monday through Friday, breaking down the latest, the hottest,
the trending in exclusive celebrity news and pop culture news. Also, I'll be bringing you
guys exclusives here.
So it'll be like a hear it here first,
talk about it here first thing.
We'll be doing an extension of what you will also be seeing
me do weekdays on The Breakfast Club right here, okay?
So this very first episode, you know,
I just wanted to open it up with something very, you know,
personal and near and dear in the headlines.
If you guys are listening to this, you're like, oh wow, I'm so excited for her. I've been watching
her or you're tuned in because you've recently just I don't know, began to learn to hate
me or whatever the case may be, because you think I stole Justice job. So we are going
to talk about it right here right now. For the first time ever in my life, I wasn't reaching out to break the story. I wasn't detailing the story. I
wasn't regurgitating a story. I was the story. And in me
talking about this today, it's not to conjure up anything or
stir up anything. Because when I tell y'all, me and Jess are good,
we're good. And when I tell y'all as things come, because
it's a team of four very opinionated people, and it will, we're gonna be good. We're gonna figure it out. I think that this and a lot of the other
things that led up to this have helped us really understand, you know, what communication should
look like. And you know, we're good. But I wanted to talk about just kind of like what my point of
view and my perspective and just my experience was there. And the biggest thing I kept telling myself is like,
dang, Lauren, I'm so proud of you.
Because Lauren, a year ago, Lauren, two years ago,
Lauren, three years ago,
would not have been able to kind of remove herself
and be empathetic to a woman who just had a baby,
trying to figure things out on a platform
with eight to nine million listeners
in all these homes and all these markets and you know, you have social media. But even stepping outside of her and
just bringing it to myself, me a few years ago wouldn't have been able to, you know,
just see everything that I worked for and everything that I had on the table and how
important that was, and how important maintaining a certain composure, a certain level of professionalism,
and just knowing like, girl, it's rough,
and this ain't what you imagined, you know what I mean?
And you coming in here and you have no ill will
or no ill intention, but it's not about you.
There's so many other things that are bigger right now
that are above you.
You gotta sit back and do your thing,
put your head down, do the work, and let it stay above you.
And you know and just stays true
to what your intentions are.
And I think nothing could have prepared me for that
more than my relationship with God that I have right now.
And I was raised in a church.
I've always had a relationship with God.
That's my family and all of that.
That's just how I was raised.
But I think when you're grown
and you establish that relationship yourself,
it is so different. And like a year ago when I decided to like get my apartment in New
York and I was trying to figure everything out, one of the things that I did was I was
like, you know what, I'm gonna give my life to God again. When I did that, though, I knew
that it was a conscious decision and I told myself, I told myself then that I was like
farming myself with everything that I was gonna need
to go to this like next level of thing.
And when I tell y'all, I had no idea
everything that was going to happen.
And this is not about like the just Instagram Live.
I mean like everything, I just mean like,
me being blessed with the opportunities. And when I created my production company brown girl grinding when I decided to leave TMZ
It was a big that that was my like focus. It was like, okay
I want to cause create conversation that matters, but that really shakes the room for real
so
When I got on the other side of that and now the conversation that's shaking the room is about me
following Jessica on live on Instagram, I was like, oh shit, this is crazy. Behind the scenes,
I knew that like, things weren't perfect. I knew she wasn't the most happiest person. But I think
in my role, I can only speak for myself,
I was trying to do as much as I could
to make sure that thing worked out well enough
where she could at least show up and do her job comfortably.
Like that was my job.
And it wasn't about me as talent at that point.
It was like, okay, me and my producer role,
the show has to work.
Like this full product has the product
and how can I make that happen?
So I was doing everything I could,
but I think it was obvious that she wasn't happy
and she was trying to figure things out.
And I had to learn that there was nothing,
again, it was so much of me learning,
Lauren, that's above you.
That had nothing to do with me or her.
A lot of it is something that,
and I can't speak to her experience and I don't want to. I think she'll, we've talked about it on air. I don't know if she'll revisit this or not.
But a lot of her figuring out her voice in that space is a her thing. But coming in, I wanted
things to work so well that, you know, I was just like, okay, if I got to lean, if I got to bend,
if I got to get off air, whatever I got to do, it's do, it's like, okay, bet, I'm down for the team.
Like this is home team, like let's do it.
So to see it not work out the way that I wanted it to,
and then to see the big explosion on Instagram Live,
I was like, all right, like, woo!
You know, and this is not, we've,
me and Jess have talked about this,
but I think my biggest point was just like whoa
Hold on. It's not us versus you
We all in this trying to figure this shit out as crazy as this is going to seem
When I came into this I remember feeling like all right is us against the world because you've never seen this
You've never seen two black women on a mainstream platform that picks up across so many different, you know
I mean, I mean, Fox,
Shave Room, CNN, TMZ, Hollywood Unlocked, all of the things,
right? But in you never seeing it, it's like, number one, we
don't really have like a guy, we're figuring it out. But
number two, so many people are gonna like want to put their
hand in it, stir it up, the noise is gonna come. And I was always like, all right,
fuck all that outside shit, like it's us.
Like forget everything outside, it is us.
And I think like our program director,
her name is Diya Mitchum,
one of the things she always says to me is like,
and I had to learn it,
cause y'all know I come from TMZ,
I come from like instant, like this working that's not,
what's the story, What's the headline?
To just let things breathe.
And I think that that is what this whole experience
has taught me on another level.
Is to let things breathe because what is supposed to happen
will happen.
Moving forward, we did the Boy Is Mine remake.
We called it The Job Is Mine.
Jess wrote the lyrics to it, we recorded it,
the whole team jumped in and just to see like
how it was received and it just felt good.
It felt like, okay.
Like you know you have an argument with your sibling
or like your mom, your dad, whoever,
or your boyfriend, your girlfriend,
whoever your partner is, however you identify,
whatever you do.
And then y'all get through it and it's like,
okay, I'm glad we might have needed
that because that that that communication needed to happen. It felt good. It felt like,
okay, we are through it, it happened. It taught me a lot about being the actual story and
how to handle that. And you know what I mean? What to do, what not to do. I think that people
received it well, because they could feel that genuinely we both were like
It's not a competition like you do what you do. I do what I do and you're here granted
Again, it's four people for the first time figuring this out together. This is my first time ever working with any of these people
We're going we might rub heads again, you know, I mean bump heads again But we are in a space now where we will figure it out and make sure
I go check out the job is mine and listen to the song and let
me know what you feel about it. But no y'all this was not a
gimmick. This was not promo for the podcast promo for the
Breakfast Club. This is me addressing that and shutting
that down debunking that story.
That was not fake. Just went
live. It was real. It happened. We're moving on. It is done.
We're in a good space. And that's it. That's all. I want to
talk to you guys about Cardi B and offset. So I was very
disappointed. When I say very disappointed, I mean, extremely
disappointed by what I heard over the weekend from Cardi B
about offset. So Cardi B went on Twitter spaces and she accused Offset of threatening to kill her and himself and she also said that Offset had actually
sent videos of Offset and Cardi engaged in sexual activities to the new person
that Cardi was dating. If what Carti is alleging is true,
all of that is trash.
That is such trash behavior from a man.
Grannie, I don't know all the details of their breakup.
I don't know all the details of who did what when they did it, who they did it with, where they slept at, who they slept with, whatever.
I don't know any of that.
But what I do know and what we all do know is that
Cardi B has children by Offset.
So that means that everything she is alleging
that Offset has done,
he is doing this to the mother of his children.
These children are, yes, they're babies, right?
But these children are
Old enough and they're human beings so they'll feel what their mom is dealing with they'll feel what their mom is going through and I and I I think a lot of times in situations like this like
Men are quick to say well
Everybody always thinks about the woman in a breakup everybody always always thinks about, well, what did the man do?
Especially in situations like this,
because Allstate has such a history
of being the cheater in the relationship.
I mean, I remember the DMs from Jay
that he came out at one point and said,
his page was hacked.
It's up to you guys to believe.
I just think that regardless of who's doing dirt wear, right?
Like whether, wherever the blame is gonna be,
I think that there's a certain level of respect
that you should carry about somebody
that you once were in love with,
that you, you know what I mean?
You dealt with, you had kids with,
you publicly had a relationship with.
There should be just a certain level of respect.
And from my observation,
that level of respect has never been there from offset to Carti
At all
Because some of the things that we've had to publicly hear her get online and cry about and break down about
for her number one for her to be who she is as Carti B, right this
huge force in
Cardi B, right? This huge force in entertainment, right?
This celebrity, this woman that people are looking at,
that people are seeking after, idolizing.
There should be a level of respect
for what she's built career-wise,
where you didn't wanna do that to her.
There's the video of,
also I reached out to Dr. Cheyenne Bryant,
the screenshots of the DMs and they te tease it and people thought it was a whole thing
Well, really he was reaching out trying to get I guess trying to get help like trying to figure out
You know one to talk to somebody relationship wise
I think that's a good idea. I really do think that's a good idea because I think if what we're hearing
You know from what Cardi is alleging is true
you know, from what Cardi is alleging is true.
All set should definitely figure that out because not even just for the sake of him
and Cardi getting back together,
that might be done at this point.
If I was her, it would be done at this point.
But again, I don't judge if not,
because it's not my business to judge,
this is my business to report about it and talk about it,
but I wouldn't go back at this point.
I think he is demonstrated where his level of respect stands.
I think his insecurities and his respect for himself
are very low.
And if you don't love yourself, he can't love you.
That's what I look at, and that's
what I take away from this.
But again, people gotta learn on their own,
according to their own time.
But I think that him getting help
and really sitting down and talking to somebody,
might can help him a lot, like a whole lot.
Because this is just sad to hear.
And I did post a tweet,
and because I knew I was gonna be talking
about Cardi being offset,
I was asking, you know, the ladies,
like, as women, we take so much shit
for the men that we love in quotation marks
Dot dot dot why ladies love music on X said because we understand their struggle
We want continue to love on them by enemies necessary. So she's talking she's saying, you know as women we understand men struggle
Ezra RGR on X says emotions the lesser sign logic
Basically, once you get in your emotion logic goes out the window and
I think we've all been here. So thank you guys again for tuning on in and again connect with me
on social media I'm Lauren LaRosa everywhere, Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube. I'm also
on Instagram under the brown girl grinding account which is where we have these conversations like
this as well too in real time throughout the day.
Thank you guys for tuning in,
and I'll see you in the next episode.
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