The Breakfast Club - FULL SHOW: Drea and Lex P Cohost, Nedra Glover Tawwab, What's One Thing You Regret Doing To Your Ex? and More!

Episode Date: February 28, 2023

Today we are once again joined by our guest cohosts Drea and Lex P.  We are also joined by Nedra Glover Tawwab to discuss managing unhealthy relationships, cycle breakers, fostering your kids and more. Finally we open the phone lines to our listeners to ask, What's One Thing You Regret Doing To Your Ex?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning, ladies. Good morning. Dropping a kook bomb for the Paul Mons podcast. We were just in here talking about morning routines. Like, what's your morning routine? Are y'all ready to leave here with all this snow? Are y'all tired of this snow already? Oh, I'm gone. It's a little behind the scenes. I'm gone. When y'all leave tonight?

No, we leave in the morning. First thing. I'm the first one on the flight. Yeah. Surprisingly, though, I'm kind of used to the snow out here. I used to be out here like... You had a boo? No, my best friend went to St. John's. You messy!

It's too early to be messy! I just had to eat at the boo! I mean, I did but that ain't why I used to be here. Okay. But yeah, New York, New Jersey got hit with a little storm. This is probably the first storm of the year, right? Or the winter, I should say. Winter season, yeah. There was no storm. The kids are off school. My kids don't have school

today. Mine have late What's that thing called? Late arrival. Yeah, there was no storm. The kids are off school. My kids don't have school today. Mine have late... Oh. Late... What's that thing called? Late arrival. Late arrival. Nah, they closed the school. Because they had bad snow days

because they never used any in the snow days. So they just closed the school today for the kids. Oh, okay. And isn't it like snowing in LA and stuff? It was snowing in LA, yeah, early this week. It's weird. Yeah, early... At the end of last week, it was snowing in LA.

So it's pretty messed up. It's nasty out there. Did everybody do their daily routine this morning? Did get to do yours I did what's your daily routine I stretched a little bit stretch yeah I get up I have this book called master your emotions that I've been reading so I usually get up read something from that okay cook me a little breakfast you know I'm saying but no breakfast this morning right absolutely not yeah I've been it's been out of whack because I've been waking up at four to get ready to be here so waking up at four that's what usually when i get in yeah so i'm backwards no you're backwards right now yeah i didn't get to do my whole little routine but you know i listened to

a little gospel i prayed okay i didn't drink my tea but you know charlamagne i definitely did my routine this morning my routine is simple i get pray, shower, then read out of my daily affirmations book, you know, and then we off to the races. We on the way. What about you? You did your hookah this morning?

No, I didn't. The bad Dominican bitch you are. Huh? I didn't do my hookah this morning. Now, I'm just posting my hookah pictures because y'all straight.

He had the bait. Y'all straight man shaming right now. I'm not straight shaming. That's y'all law. Y'all straight man shaming. Y'all straight. I can Y'all straight man shaming. I can't be a straight man in peace. You can go listen to the Surgeon General or Saucy Santana, okay?

Both of them said hookah ain't good for you. They did. But they did it for different reasons. Y'all can't straight man shame anymore. I want to be a straight man in peace. If I want to put something in my mouth that's plastic and blow in it. You know what? That's on me. That's on me.

That's on me. He talks great without crooked. You feel what I'm saying? Well, we got a guest joining us this morning. Najra Glover-Tawab. She has a book Drama Free out right now. A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships. Let me tell you something about Najra Tawab. Y'all know I talked about her book

Set Boundaries, Find Peace, quite often going into 2022. And now, Drama Free is setting that tone again, bruh. Okay? Because you got to manage these unhealthy family relationships. You know what I mean? Because I'll just be cutting you off. You still got to say. It don't matter.

Family can go to you. You ain't got to tell me. Okay? All right. Well, don't you got an event with her, I thought? Yeah, tomorrow, but it's sold out, so no need to mention it. Okay. Talk that talk.

Talk that talk. Big place. Talk that talk. I'm going to tell it this morning. All right. I'll mention it later, man. Let's get into some front page news. We got to talk about your president, Joe Biden.

He said, I'm a white boy, but I ain't stupid. You could have fooled me. We'll talk about it when we come back it's the breakfast club good morning everybody it's dj mv charlamagne the guy we are the breakfast club we got our co-host dre and lex p from the poor minds podcast with us this morning and let's get in some front page news now joe biden was uh speaking out of black history month reception today is quote unquote the last day of Black History Month, February 28th. Yeah, but you can teach black history year-round.

That's what I said, quote-unquote. And he was talking about black history and what the schools should be teaching and how he feels about it. It's important to say from the White House for the entire country to hear history matters. History matters and black history matters. Look, I can't just choose to learn what we want to know. We learn what we should know. We have to learn everything, the good, the bad, the truth, and who we are as a nation. That's what great nations do.

That's what great nations do. And we're a great nation. I still think it's wild we're having this conversation. Right. The fact that we can't teach kids what black history, like, you know, certain kids feel a way because of how we were treated. Right. And how our ancestors were.

No, no, same. Wild. Yeah, and coming from the president, black history matters, but so does black legislation. So does black equity. That's what I want to hear you talking about. Right. No?

Well, he also says he's not a stupid white boy. You know, I'm not smart. I may be a white boy, but I'm not stupid. I know where the power is. You think I'm joking? I learned a long time ago about the Divine Nine. That's why I spent so much time at Delaware State campaigning and organizing my campaign in Delaware. Not the Divine Nine i bet you if you

told him the name the divine nine you heard i mean like i said it sounds good but i kind of get over like all the politicians trying to be relatable and be funny and being all right it's just it's too much like it really don't take much to impress us at all right a shout out yeah and we'd be excited. Invite them to the cookout. Man, ready to run through the wall for them. Right. Now, also, DeSantis is taking over the Disney district.

Now, I was really into this because every time I go to Disney, of course, I got six kids, so I go to Disney a lot. And I'm always intrigued how Disney ran its property. So if you don't know, Disney owns hundreds of thousands of acres in Florida, but the way they got the acres were they controlled the land, meaning they governed the land, they governed the power, they governed the water. Everything was controlled by them. Well, I guess, you know, the scientists

pissed them off with the don't say gay law, and now the scientists is taking everything over. So they're controlling everything. that's an overreach of power government shouldn't have that kind of control over over disney right and that's this was a this was something that was supposed to be like hundreds of years so the fact that they pulled that after 50 years is really crazy whatever he's trying to keep mickey from being with goofy what's going on oh my god what's going on here like what's happening here what's going

on what bothered him about disney that he felt like he had to overreach his power to get that kind of control? And that was part of the reason why they actually built Disney in Florida, because they can control their own stuff. So I don't know what that means. Disney invested too many billions and billions of dollars to move, but I don't know how that affects everything now. Yeah, that's crazy. Yeah, that's an overreach of government power, if you ask me. All right. Well, that is your front page news.

Now, next hour, I got to tell you about this white student who is suing Howard University. Oh, brother. Yeah. So we'll tell you about that next hour. How did y'all get from being so accepting? Racial discrimination, right? We'll talk about that next hour. Does he go to Howard?

I'll talk about it next hour. But he did go. He said he didn't like the way y'all were treating him. Okay. Well, I mean, it makes sense. Does it next time. But he did go when he said he didn't like the way y'all were treating him. Okay. Well, I mean, it makes sense. Does it? I mean, I'm saying it makes sense considering that he was probably one of the very few. Could you imagine him going to class every day?

What you mean? I mean, but if you're a white person going into Howard, you're accepting the fact that you're different. Right. But he also sent out some tweets that weren't a little racial. Were you tweeting YG lyrics? And then that's what I was saying. My nigga, my nigga. I want to talk about it next time, but he threw out some tweets

and then when he went to class, it was crack. Oh, people pressed him? Yeah. All day long. I gotta hear more. But get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you need to vent, phone lines are wide open your chest. 800-585-1051 if you need to vent. Phone lines are wide open. Again, 800-

585-1051 if you live in New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Boston, or any of those areas. Give yourself a little extra time because the roads out there are disgusting. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Now they wanted to see where it was going first. You know what I mean?

So these two beautiful black women that live next door to you, what happened? Now they wanted to see where it was going first. You know what I mean? Because you're saying Lex. Okay. So these two beautiful black women that live next door to you, what happened? And they tried to hit on me. I got a girlfriend, a queen at home. And they just tried to hit on me while I be taking the trash out. I be trying to go down the street. The store didn't come out. The TV's on.

Going to the pool. And I'm like, oh, what should I do, man? My girl is just a beautiful black woman. I don't want to do anything to her, but they be tipping me, man. No, no. You should be faithful. Go ahead, tell him. He should be faithful, brother.

It ain't that hard. I mean, if you're an attractive man and you're doing what you're supposed to be doing in life, of course women are going to be attracted to you. Of course. So you just asking that question because you want to get a low-key pass. He thirst-trapping the women. He walk out with his white feet all on John. My brother,

my brother, my brother, they're four words. They're four words that the great Carlos Miller There you go. Right. I was about to say the great Carlos Miller made four-word famous. I knew Charlamagne was about to say that. It's the truth. Black men don't cheat. I don't cheat. I know a lot of black boys that cheat

But the black men I know in my life We don't cheat Hello who's this What's up brother Get it off your chest bro Go ahead For real Where you read that at

The same place you read Bill Cobb You was trying to buy NBC? Yes, sir. Actually, no. Look it up. I'm being completely honest with you. Let me see. The CIA helped them buy it

at a cheap price. So it's not surprising that they're not going to come back to grab that. The CIA helped Disney? Get that land in Florida, yes. I got to look that up. I don't even know where to begin

to look that up. So what's the point on it, brother? What's your point on that? I'm just saying, like, the government is going to take whatever they give, no matter what. So it's not surprising. Oh, I do see an article on the Daily Beast that says, How does CIA help Disney conquer Florida?

I got to read it, though. Read it, though. Hello, who's this? What's up? This is R.B. from Indianapolis. What up, brother? Get it off your chest. Hey, I just want to say, man, what's up this is rb from indianapolis what up brother get it off your chest hey i just want to say man what's up to you man charlamagne the legends in the building peace king hi so i'm i just turned 40 and i just had a baby right okay congrats brother

thank you man it's my third son man i got an 18 year old 11 year old and a newborn so that's a big gap there okay thank you and i just realized man it is i'm tired man like oh my god man like getting up in the middle of the night changing diapers making bottles it's a lot yeah it's a lot you ain't gotta tell us we know brother my one-year-old beat me up and i, and I couldn't do nothing about it. She grabbed my face so hard. Like, I wanted to punch him. Like, she grabbed me. And I'm looking at her, and I'm like, oh, I was almost screaming. Like, let go.

I know, man. I love that. It's a lot, man. But I want to just say, like, I found out at my job that they had, like, this parental leave thing. And the men don't get paid for it but the women do and i just think that's crazy oh it's different up here up here they get maternal leave for guys yeah paternal paternal yeah i'm bored i've got it red had it yeah them just those

business out there oh i'm sorry my bad what's wrong with that's a good thing to have ryan you you go to the gym bro it is it is a good thing to have. Ryan, you go to the gym, bro? It is a good thing to have, but, man, we don't get paid for it, man. Can't nobody take their time off, man, and not get a check. Yeah. You need to go to the gym. You go to the gym. You take your vitamins.

That'll give you the energy you need, brother. Man, he talking about money right now. I'm talking about money, man. You talking about some dick. You and your woman. You say he want to take off, and you don't get paid. I'm trying to bond with the child like the mama is.

I can't take off that long without a chick. Not you trying to do skin to skin. I'm trying to do all that. Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051 if you need to vent.

Hit us up now. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. What's up, y'all? This is Questlove, and I'm here to tell you about a new podcast I've been working on with the Story Pirates and John Glickman called Historical Records. It's a family-friendly podcast.

Yeah, you heard that right. A podcast for all ages. One you can listen to and enjoy with your kids starting on September 27th. I'm going to toss it over to the host of Historical Records, Nimany, to tell you all about it. Make sure you check it out. Hey, y'all. Nimany here.

I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months

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Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Ray, Ray, Ray! Yo, Charlemagne, Nancy, what up? Are we live? This is your time to get it off your chest. I got an indoor pool, an outdoor pool. We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. We can get on the phone right now. He'll tell you what it is.

We live. Hello, who's this? Hey, J-1, man. Florida, how you doing? What's up, Florida? Get it off your chest, brother. Man, I just want to say a couple words, man. I just feel like everybody should believe in it.

You know what I mean? Walk out the house happier than you did yesterday. If there are a couple good people out there, you got to hold your head high. That's all. Amen. All right. Amen, brother.

Yeah, that's all you got to do, man. You're coming from a dude up there who's a little bit up there who's a lot, but I don't know. You definitely can't do that. And you got to go with the universe. If you don't do that,

you're going to always be on the universe. There you go. All right, brother. Spread the word. Hello, who's this? Yo, what's going on, Breakfast Club? This is Dingo.

Dingo 0925. What's going on, y'all? What up, bro? Get off your chest. Hey, how you doing, ladies? Good. How are you? I'm good.

Yes, how are you? Okay, cool. I'm good. I'm good. I like y'all's show, man. I'm Jomaine. The fact is, it's pretty dope, man. You better sound crazy, brother.

Hello, who's this? He be going bang on you now. If your phone sound crazy, I'm going to let you go. Hey, how you doing? I'm going to just tell everybody. No warning. When you call up here, you got to take us off Bluetooth. You got to take us off speaker because if it sound crazy, we can't hear what you're saying.

What's going on, guys? What's going on? Hey, JV, what's going on, Charlamagne? What up, brother? Get off your chest. What's going on? DJ Envy, what's going on, Charlamagne? What up, brother? Get off your chest. What's going on? It's Joey, man. I'm from Oak Ridge, Florida.

He was doing good. See, what he said? My name is Joey. I'm from Oak Ridge, Florida. All right, get off your chest. Hey, man, I just want to... I really ain't got nothing big to get off my chest, but I just want to say I've been listening to you guys

for so long already. And you guys are great, man. You guys make my day every day. Charlamagne, man, you've been a big help for me in this mental health space, man. Since I've been listening to you, man, I go and I listen to you for just like advice on life and things like that. Because when I'm going through something, I try to listen to you and see if you went through the same thing, man. And a lot of the words you speak, a lot of the positivity that you put out in the world, man, really helps people. That's a lot, brother.

So I just want to say thank you, man, and God bless. Thank you, King. That's great. Yeah, man. And that's all I got to say, man. I appreciate y'all. And I hope you guys have a great day man Be good brother Thank you

Go ahead Charlamagne I'm just doing my part Get it off your chest 800-585-1051 If you need to vent you can hit us up Now we got rumors on the way We gotta talk about Drake and how he feels about putting his exes in his

songs. We'll talk about it when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne the guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Yes, ma'am. We got our co-host with us this morning, Drea and Lex P

from the Poor Minds Podcast. Yes, indeed. And let's get to the rumors let's talk cardi b through my hazard through my room i has it call out a name or you gossiping or you chatting i'm gossiping this is the rumor report i mean i guess we on the breakfast club this is where the tea spills right right on the breakfast club now uh cardi b she has to be doing, I'm not sure how many hours of community service. Actually, it says 15 days of community service. This is from a 2018 brawl she was involved in in a strip club in Queens. Yesterday, she said, community service has been the best thing that has happened to me. Almost like a spiritual journey because sometimes I leave these centers in tears.

Those people that we leave behind, they just need somebody to talk to and a little push, and you might be able to change their life forever. Dre lxp you ever had to do any community service you oh yeah you did uh but you know i lived a thug life you saw the feed too i had to do community service for fighting yeah when i was in high school like body yeah okay and then i had to do community service again in like 20, when was it? Oh, yeah. 18. What? Because they had tried to give me a DUI.

Oh, okay. But I got reckless driving instead and then I still had to do. What'd you have to do? What was the community service? Pick up trash off the side of the road in a little orange suit? You could pick the place. You could pick this. So I did Boys and Girls Club.

Oh, okay. I didn't know you could do that. A leader. Did you have to do any? No, I never did community service. I just went to jail. Where? Oh.

You just took the charge. I mean, you gotta take charge. See, I'm not usually a leader. You can plead out. But that could be part of the plea. Part of the plea

could be community service. Well, that's what usually what it is. I always ended up getting probation. Oh, no. I had to do the pick up the trash.

Oh, my God. So, I'm not only that's what I had to do in high school. I had to pick up the trash. I did that in college. I had to go pick up the trash. You did? Oh, my gosh. So I'm the only law-abiding citizen here? That's what I had to do in high school. I had to pick up the trash. I did that in college. I had to go pick up the trash. Y'all are not good people. Well, congratulations.

I follow the law. Did community service do for y'all what it did for Barty? No, because I had to pick up trash. Yeah, I mean, that's all I was doing, too. I was picking up trash. But when I did Boys and Girls Club, you know, it was nice. Yeah, that's got to be a touching feeling. It was.

You know, kicking it with the kids. You know what I mean? And I think that's good for Cardi, because I feel like, you know, in 2018, she was still Cardi B. So this is kind of like letting her know, like, you know, you don't have to do that no more. Right. You know what I'm saying? Beat people up?

Yeah. There's never really a statute of limitations on beating people up. You might get to a point where you pay people to do it. I'm weak. You got to chain check them. Every now and then. It's a little note. I'm playing with you.

I'm happy for her. I think that this is good for her. You know. Well, congratulations to Kiki Palmer as well. She gave birth yesterday. Welcomes her first child with her boyfriend, Darius Jackson. So, congratulations. The baby's name is Leotis Andrelton Jackson.

I know I said that all the time. A good black name. Yeah, I like Leotis. That's super black. I love Kiki. That's very black. I know I said that all the time. A good black name. Yeah, I like Leotis. That's super black. I love Kiki. That's very black. I love it. That's a Black History

Month name. They're going to be honoring that young man in about 2030. His first step's going to be a march. That's a civil rights name.

His first step's going to be a march. His first step's going to be a march. He's stupid. And lastly, Drake says he regrets name dropping his ex-girlfriends in his songs. I think like sometimes when I've like said girls' names in songs, maybe those are the two things that I look back on.

I'm like, maybe I could have done without like shitting on people for age or like disrupting somebody's life. I never, like the lyrics are never with ill intent but like i had somebody one time be like you know it's not necessarily what you're saying about me it's the fact that you've said it like you don't know what it does to me like you don't know who my boyfriend is at the time or you don't know who like what my family knows and doesn't know you know and if you did express like any form of discontent for me in a song and call me by name, then all of a sudden, like, I'm left to kind of, like, pick up the pieces in my own life that I've, like, tried to build up for myself.

I've, like, tried my best to stop doing that, but I like to be honest in music. That's real. I mean, what he's saying is, you know, I mean, if he wants to keep his own piece, he don't want to disrupt the piece of others. But there's been times Drake has name-dropped people's girls' names and songs on purpose. There's been a couple. There's been a couple. You know what I mean?

I feel like it's okay to talk about your experiences in music, but to name-drop, you're taking it a little too far. Yeah, he definitely say names a lot. But you know what's crazy, though? I don't think he ever would say anything that crazy, though. Because he's slick with the bars. Yeah, he's that crazy though. Because he's slick with the bars. Yeah, he's slick with the bars. He's slick with the bars.

He said some crazy stuff. But also, no man wants their woman to be rapped about, especially in a Drake song. You know what I'm saying? Hell no. Especially when it's a double entendre metaphor. That everybody's singing in the club, but you know that's directed towards you and yours

my god but i mean that gotta be good for some of the women though right because it means what you mean some of these women got they got them lit i agree i'll pipe you up for sure i ain't naming none of them i can't which one he got lit i don't know i can there's a few in my mind right now but i ain't saying yeah okay y'all go ahead and rattle some names off well we gotta do it because y'all are for my podcast i can think i mean i put it like this i don't know how lit they got i just know that i never heard of them until that happened but there was a couple of uh strippers yeah in houston that people knew already and i'm sure after that name dropped people started going to those clubs just to see them in particular even

more i didn't think about that i was only thinking about kiki that's what i was thinking about i don't know kiki that's the girl from canada right yeah that's the only one i don't think i was thinking about the scribbles. I was thinking about a few. The last woman he dated, all of a sudden she was getting the little Fashion Nova deals. The light-skinned one. Oh, yeah.

The lady with the son. They play basketball. The lady with the son. They play basketball. Because I forgot her name. The lady with the son. You really narrowed it down, huh? With the son, they play basketball.

Yeah, I know what you're talking about. I think her son is actually, I think, top 10 in the country. Yeah, yeah, yeah. He played big ball the country. He played b-ball for California. He's busy. All right. Well, that is your rumor report. Now, when we come back, front page news.

We got to tell you about this Caucasian that is suing Howard University for racial discrimination. We'll talk about it when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. Our audible pick of the day is Reinvent Your Life. Mel Robbins is back to help you dream big and take more control over your life.

Start listening when you sign up for a free 30-day trial at audible.com slash breakfast club. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Good morning. We have the ladies from the Poor Moms Podcast, Drea and Lex Peace, joining us. They're our co-hosts today, let's get into some front page news. Now, we have a white student that is suing Howard University School of Law. He is seeking $2 million in monetary damages. He don't got a name?

For pain. His name is Michael Newman. He's suing for pain suffering emotional anguish and the damage to his reputation he uh suffered depression anxiety and suicidal thoughts he planned this out he had this plan for a long time i'm gonna go to this hbcu and i'm gonna claim emotional distress he's saying vilification and uh humiliation the lawsuit of the lawsuit alleges that howard breached his contract with Newman, who says the university gave him a scholarship of $26,000 per year for three years.

What? After a series of incidents that led to him being expelled. A scholarship for what? I don't know. It ain't basketball. What do you do? I don't know what basketball is. That's why he's on them right now.

What does he do, damn it? I need to know why he got all that money from HBCU. Now, this is, we got a news report? Go ahead, because I want to read some of these. Go ahead, go. The plaintiff, Michael Newman, is asking for $2 million in damages for his alleged pain, suffering, and emotional anguish. He says he became a target for discrimination following his comments in a group chat with other students. After showing a picture of a slave beaten and bruised back, he said, but what did the slave do?

Come on now. Newman says he repeatedly apologized. He also says he faced hostility on campus. With students calling him Mayo White Panther. In a statement, the school says the school is prepared to vigorously defend itself in this lawsuit as the claims provide a one-sided and self-serving narrative of the events leading to the end of the students' enrollment at the university. This was a setup. All my brothers and sisters who was in that group chat, y'all got set up. Ain't no way that man, I know the picture he sent out,

that's the picture of the brother that Will Smith just played in Emancipation, I'm sure. You sent that picture to a group chat full of black people

and said, now what did the slave do? You're trying to get a reaction out of people. What did the slave do is wild. That's nuts. You got what you deserve.

I agree. Fair game. What'd they say to him? As he was walking to class, they said, what'd they say? Called the Fair game. What they said to him? As he was walking to class, they said, what'd they say? Called the Mayo King. Mayonnaise King?

Cracker. Allegedly, Cracker Ass Cracker. Let me hear how they said it. And Cracker Ass Cracker Ass Cracker. Fair game. Allegedly. I like that.

Fair game. I mean, I said that earlier. Well, you know, they had a list of like, now that I just feel like, especially now that we know more context, yes, he got what he deserved. Fair game. There was had a list of like, now that I just feel like, especially now that we know more context, yes, he got what he deserved.

Fair game. There was like a list of like, something happened at a university and black people were like in the chat and they were like calling white people different names. And one of the names was Milk Cricket. Milk Cricket is fire. Drop on the clues box for Milk Cricket. Milk Cricket is fire. Milk Cricket is fire. Yeah, I really like milk cricket.

Listen, you get back what you put out, okay? I agree. To me, that's like a slur for a slur, all right? Not everybody subscribing to Michelle Obama's when they go low,

we go high mantra. Some people, when you go low, they gonna meet you with the flow, all right? So you want to put those type of pictures in a group chat, you got exactly

what you asked for. And you thought you was gonna be safe on campus? I still think this was a setup. Yeah, it has to. He had this in mind. He was like,

I'm going to put this in this group chat and then they're going to attack me and then I'm going to play victim. You know what I mean? And then you go into like an all black school. Like, everybody know how black people are

with each other anyway. Like, we get on each other. We don't joke on you. That's what I'm saying. You could have thought she was going to be safe after that. And what was the screenshot? I know somebody got

the screenshot for that whole thing and I hope that the brothers and sisters in that group chat didn't try to explain to him you know

anything about slavery there's nothing to respond to after somebody does something like that there's only one accurate response and that response is indeed

crack ass crack period milk cricket milk cricket milk cricket is crazy alright milk cricket is crazy. All right. Milk cricket is nuts. There's a noisy ass milk cricket.

It's making all this noise at night. We can't even sleep. Yes. That's exactly what they do. Just be a rowdy. All right. Causing a rookie. Well, that is your front page news.

Now, when we come back, let's open up the phone lines. 800-585-1051. This comes from the Drake conversation. That's right. We're asking, you know, Drake said he regretted name dropping his ex-girlfriends in song. So we're asking, what do you regret doing to your ex? Yeah, what's something you did to your ex you absolutely regret doing now? Look at them two.

Amy, why are you looking at me? Look at Dre and Lex P. Just look at them. Just look at y'all. Do I look like I and lex p let's look at them just look at you i look like i've done things i regret yes i look full of regret yes we'll talk about it when we come back a couple milk crickets on you probably regret being with especially after the blm movement 800-585-1051 let's talk about about it. It's The Breakfast Club. Come on in.

The Breakfast Club. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join in to the discussion with The Breakfast Club. Let's talk about it. Good morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Let's talk about it. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us, 800-585-1051.

We're asking, this comes from the Drake Conversation. Drake said he regrets name-dropping his ex-girlfriends in his song. So we're asking, what do you regret? Anything that you've done to your ex. We have Dre and Lex P from the Poor Moms Podcast. They're co-hosting with us, so let's start with you ladies. but you know the question i would want to ask drake just before we go to them like you regret mentioning your exes in songs but do you regret mentioning other people's girls in songs do you regret other people's girls who now they exes because of you i'm sure he doesn't go ahead ladies so so do you regret doing anything to any of your exes you know i haven't really done a lot of crazy things to my exes no i swear i don't listen to

poor my podcast i don't really be caring enough to do crazy stuff i really don't but when i was in high school my high school boyfriend he broke up with me and i thought he was cheating on me and i went and tp'd his mama house damn tp means toilet paper right yeah okay me and my home girl and then we used like silly string and stuff and And his mama knew it was me, and she called the next day. Like, I know you came and TP'd my house. And you telling me that that didn't escalate. You had the mind to do that in high school. Yeah, come on.

That's where it stopped. And so you mean to tell me future exes didn't get worse treatment than that? I did, but it wasn't an ex car, though. It was a stranger's car. They stole my parking spot. Oh, Lord have mercy. Jesus Christ. I was like 22.

What about you? Honestly, I'm going to keep it 100 this morning. Okay. The coffee kicked in. I'm ready. You was ready to lie before. I was. This is crazy because I was with my ex and I was was not a great partner okay and i used to do things

um i've done some things where like he well we he would make me mad and i would just go off and just you know not cheat because we were kind of like on and off and i regretted for so long but honestly i found out some tea last night that he did recently and i'm just like i don't regret nothing everything i put him through he deserved it everything he is just not a good person so what did you do um you know like for example one time uh he had made me really mad and we weren't together at this point we were still dealing with each other and um i was like you know what i'm leaving and i'm never talking to him again so i left and the next day i flew out and i went to cabos with somebody yes and I had a ball.

I had a great time. I don't know why you're just leaving out all this cheating you be doing. I wasn't cheating because we weren't together. You know what I'm saying? But it's like, you know, I used to play games because we were never really like together, together. But like when we got together, I was trying to be a good person and make up for the things I had done in the past.

But now, do I look back and feel bad about it? No. He deserved all that. All that stuff. I did that and I didn't regret it though. Yeah, I thought I regretted it. I thought I regretted it before yesterday. Don't play. I don't feel bad. Alright, well.

Period. I'm so disappointed in you. And I do it again. Hello, good morning Hey, what's your name? Angelica Hey Angelica, what did you do that you regret? Well, I kind of really don't regret it

But I carved my name into the side of his pretty little four wheel drive And it was daddy's truck, his dad just had us away Are you saying that you carved your name into that man's paint on his truck? Huh? You keyed his car is what you're saying? I did, but it was his dad who passed away's car while he was still driving his truck. He said he did what he did.

Now, why you did that to Herbert's truck? You need to go to jail. Dre, you better not say nothing. He forgave me for it. I did it twice. You did it twice? I was. We were supposed to go on a trip together,

and he decided not to come and I had to drive myself down there crying by myself. So I did it before the trip and when I came back, I did it again. And you sound so happy. I hope that man daddy is haunting you from the grave. Got one more year of edges. I know that much. One more year of it? I feel like you projecting.

You are projecting right now. I ain't projecting. I ain't never had no ex to do nothing bad to. He definitely had no edges. Look at his head now. ain't projecting I ain't never had no ex To do nothing bad to He definitely had no ex Just look at his head now That's what I'm saying Hello who's this? Jaleesa from Harrisburg PA

Hey Jaleesa What's something you did To your ex that you regret? I found his phone On top of the fridge And I saw a text message To someone for the girl So I popped up at his job

What are you working? What you do at his job? I call his a thief I was trying to embarrass him And I ended up at his job. What are you working? What you do at his job? I call him the thief. I was trying to embarrass him, and I ended up embarrassed. Why? What happened? You slipped on the floor at McDonald's? You're stupid.

What happened? Oh, my God. What happened? It was a warehouse, and everybody could see us arguing through the glass doors. It was all bad. At a birdhouse? A warehouse. A warehouse.

Our warehouse. Not yours. Y'all still together now? I'm sure. oh absolutely not i'm sorry not that i think about it i'm not i'm a little crazy what'd you say dre i said you know i'm a little crazy now that i'm thinking about it because i forgot i did pop up on somebody one time okay tell us this was recent how recent like 2020 recent was it an ex yeah what happened where you popped up it wasn't on purpose

so I ran into him outside the club and I seen him and I ran up on him. Like I started going off. I was like, you got me messed up, dude.

Why? Because he wasn't calling you back? You know, we were going through some things. He definitely had blocked me. You deserved it.

Why do you, you don't even know, you don't even know what happened. Why do I deserve ah ah whatever he said

Dre did she did he was like do I need to get her 800-585-1051 we're asking did you ever do anything to your ex

that you regret call us up right now it's the breakfast club good morning I ain't no way man I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way

I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way I ain't no way Right now, it's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. We got Dre and Lex P from the Paul Mons Podcast here. Why is somebody on line three saying Lex P lie? Because I do. No, it's some guy saying Lex P lie.

I do lie. She always say it. You think that's your ex calling in? Oh. What's your ex name? It doesn't even matter. It don't even matter.

She got scared. Hello, who's this? She got scared. Hello? Hi, this is Dexter. Yeah, hi, this is Dexter. Hello What you do to your ex that you regret As soon as I said my name I said I should have said it was anonymous But I regret cheating on him That means you're still with him

No no no I'm with my husband that I cheated on him with Oh my goodness Queen So you regret having a husband Some of my things worked out for you see with my husband that I cheated on him with. Oh! It was happening. It is crazy. So you regret having a husband? It's not like things worked out for you, see? Right. Could y'all stop?

No, but he was such a nice guy. She just said she regrets her husband. So I think it's better, like, broke up. Now, if I'm your husband, I'm mad.

You regret that? That means we not together anymore. No. No, that sounds bad. See, I should've never called them for this topic. You shouldn't have called them. I'm gonna tell you something.

You don't deserve happiness. You know what I mean? going to tell you something. You don't deserve happiness. You know what I mean? I'm going to tell you why you don't deserve happiness. She says she regrets being married to her husband now and talking about she missed her ex. And he's a good guy. He's a good guy. Come on, man. First of all, don't be over-shouting.

Don't be moving the fan out here. That's not true. What happened? What happened was I feel bad because he's a nice guy. We were friends first and I cheated on him but I love my husband. I'm happy. You still thinking about him? Go see him one more time, girl.

Heck no. I don't think about him at all. So what made you marry the husband? Oh, because he's amazing. You know, nice guys finish lives. My husband is like he's rock. You know, I like that. If you get married... Damn, that's so foul if you if you cheat on me and marry the guy you cheating on with me we don't ever think about me ever again

word i don't want to ever hear you i don't think about him i don't i just don't know you all thinking about him you gotta take something sorry yeah that's what's our full name What's our full name What's our full name Tell me Cash at me $100 right now Or I'm putting your full name out there

Uh oh What Alright Ms. S*** You're all good to go Ms. S*** Ms. S*** All right, Miss ***, you're all good to go. Oh, my God. Miss ***. Miss *** is wild. That's what she get. That's what you get, Miss ***.

Nope, I'm not messing with y'all this morning. Hello, who's this? This is Kiesha. Kiesha, good morning. What's something you did to an ex you regret? I don't regret nothing I've ever did to any of my exes. Period. And I did a lot of things. Period. You don't even know the story. What you did to an ex you regret? I don't regret nothing I've ever did to any of my exes. Period. I did a lot of things.

Period. You don't even know the story. What you did, Kiesha? Well, I put a twix in my baby daddy's gas tank. A twix? I put tires past windows, threw a brick through his mama window. Oh, not the mama. You need to stop listening to the Paul Maude podcast.

They're a bad influence, clearly. You put a twix. What does a twix in the gas tank do? Same thing a banana do, I the mama. You need to stop listening to the Poor Minds podcast. They're a bad influence, clearly. What does a Twix in the gas tank do? Same thing a banana do, I'm sure. Banana? No, the same thing sugar does. Oh, yeah. Okay, yeah. You are ruthless.

You need to be in jail. So, hold on. You did this to one man or multiple men? No. Well, two. Two? Jesus. Oh, you a baby.

I was talking to you. When when your lifetime movie coming up oh it's not were you from florida i am miami you single yes yeah you ever wonder why you ever look in the mirror oh my god no actually i'm nice but i'm one of those people, my actions are reactive. So do unto those who are done to you. Okay, well tell me what some of those men did to you. My heart is very precious to me. You ain't answer the question. What did the man do to you?

She. She's like her heart. It's in the mama's house. So if the mama want to help. God damn She's like her heart. And then the mama helped. So since the mama wanted help. God damn. Period. Yeah, you going down too. I feel that. These mamas be messy. You going down, Mildred.

Very messy. What's your name, ma'am? I already said it. It was Kiesha. Yeah, Kiesha, I don't want to talk to you no more. I try not to have conversations with people I know going to hell. So I don't want to talk to you. Okay, talk to you later, Stella Mane. See you in hell. Jesus.

Jesus. You people are crazy. Y'all going to be in a section right across from the milk cricket. Y'all going to be in hell with the milk cricket. Stay away from me what's the moral of the story what's the moral of the story ladies men deserve

the worst treatment I don't regret anything I don't regret nothing when you do something to me first I'll say that do stupid things but she made a point

every every time it's been a reaction to something I don't just jump off of the deep end and just do things just because it's always a reaction to something, I don't just jump off of the deep end and just do things just because. I got you. It's always a reaction.

So we all just need to do better. So it's premeditated. I wish nothing but happiness for the men who've done Lex and Dre wrong. Okay? I hope. I wish nothing but the best for y'all Lexes. Why? Oh, they're going down.

I won't. Listen. I'm going to make sure he never sees success. Jesus. All right. I'm blackballing. Oh, I'm blackballing. I'm blackball make sure he never sees success. Jesus. All right. I'm black bombing. Oh, I'm black bombing. I'm black bombing.

All right. When we come back, we got your rumor report. We got to talk A.G. Azalea. Do y'all have an OnlyFans by any chance? No. Maybe. What's the craziest thing somebody asked you guys to do? The craziest thing?

Somebody asked me to shame them. Yeah. Yeah. I think it's people wanted to see. I had a guy, he was constantly in my DMs asking me to eat food. Like he wanted me to eat food, like an ASMR thing. Yeah. It was very weird. Okay.

Very strange. We'll tell you what's up. Listen, Iggy is your only fan. 8 a.m., I got a special announcement right before donkey of the day too. Okay. And Charlamagne has a special announcement after the rumor, don't move it's the breakfast club come on nobody put in baku from black panther on this song here anybody did it yet yes does anybody realize he's not rapping on this i you know he don't need to yeah i just want to rock i remember when we used to clown

people for having stiff hips now it's a whole whole TikTok challenge. Ain't the whole point to have... You're supposed to have stiff hips with this song. Yeah, now it's my time to shine. Let me see something. It's your time to shine. See, this is the benefit of going to an all-white school. It's my time. I was with the Milk Cricket stiff as hell.

If I ever seen you do at the club, I might call the police. I might think something's up. I know you're having a seizure or something. I'm like, oh, is that the name of that dance? The Milk Cricket stiff as hell. If I ever seen you do at the club, I might call the police. I might think something's up. Maybe you're having a seizure or something. I'm like, what was... Is that the name of that dance? The Milk Cricket? The Milk Cricket. That's what we're going to call it.

That's why it's so popular on TikTok. All them little white kids doing it. All them little white kids with no rhythm. Jesus. All right. Well, we are The Breakfast Club. We have our guest co-host, Dre LXP. Of course, from the Poor Minds Podcast

joining us. If you haven't subscribed to the Poor Minds Podcast, you need to. Yes. You need to. Now, when we come back, we got to talk Iggy Azalea.

She talks about some of her weirdest requests on OnlyFans. Interesting. And I want to hear some of you guys' weirdest requests. I can't believe y'all

don't got an OnlyFans page. I would think that Poor Minds would have an OnlyFans page. Why would we need that? Now, why would you think that? We are classy ladies, Charlamagne. It doesn't have to be sexual.

You know that. Yeah. People like y'all. I mean, you're right. Well, you know what? We do have Patreon. We have a Patreon. So we do give bonus content of us talking.

Oh, talking. Okay. Okay. Okay. And I see. What? That's crazy. Nobody want to see that. Nobody want to see that.

Nobody want to see that. I enjoy hearing y'all talk. All right. We'll get to the rumors when we come back. And listen, I got a special announcement at 8 o'clock right before donkey tune, man. All right, so don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got our co-hosts, Jaya and Lex P from the Paul Mons Podcast. Let's get to the rumors. Let's talk Omarion. Rumor has it. Rumor has it. Call out a name or you gossiping or you chatty patty. I am gossiping. This is

the Rumor Report. I mean, I guess we on the breakfast club. This is where the tea spills, right? Yes. On the breakfast club. Ah, man. Shout to Simone and Rachel from the Bronx. Now, Simone thought that she was in a relationship with Omarion.

She was being catfished. She even paid the gentleman or the person's phone bill and everything. She had no clue that it wasn't. Why you laughing? Come on now. Why would you pay a millionaire's phone bill? Y'all gotta

think. Hey, man. You should discern me. Stop hating on the city boys, man. Oh, my God. I knew you was going to say something. I don't understand the hate for the city boys out here getting bills paid by any means necessary. Okay.

Let's listen. She was on Dr. Phil. Why have you never met? His manager wants me to pay $3,000 to meet him. His manager wants you to pay $3,000 to meet someone that you're engaged to. He asked me to marry him last year. Right. Does that sound logical

to you? No, it doesn't. That's why I want to find out the truth. You live where? In the Bronx. And he rides his bike and goes to the mall. Why have you never met? His manager. What did your uncle get on his radio and tell y'all every other day?

The craziest people. The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. Oh, my gosh. You know what? Whoever took advantage of that lady because she didn't sound all the way there. Yeah, that sounds fair. It sounds like somebody took advantage of her y'all should be ashamed you think all the men that y'all um got money out had it all together i don't have to take advantage and emotionally they had it all together yeah

yeah and they deserved it okay see she didn't deserve that i mean i think like a sweet lady i do agree with you that's you know probably something, you know, mentally that's a little bit off. But I also feel like people that believe those type of things want to believe those kind of things. She wants to believe that fantasy. That probably is what got her through the day. She probably woke up every day happy to be talking to what she believes to be Omarion. Well, Omarion did a video for the young lady. It's crazy how far these people will go to convince and manipulate my fans to think that they are actually speaking with me.

From sending fake driver's license and passports, even FaceTiming them, claiming that there was a bad connection when they never even seen me. I'm so sorry, Simone. I haven't been speaking with you or not in the relationship. You haven't sent me any money I want everyone to be aware that if someone is online claiming to be me and asking for money That you are not speaking with me. I will never do that Poor young lady man You think you should and it's not no I don't want to worry to throw it I'm gonna say you think he should have... No, I don't want to throw it. I'm about to say, do you think he should have given her the money back? That would have been nice.

That would have been a nice gesture. It's not his fault in any way, shape, or form. But it would have been a nice gesture to say, here, take the three grand. But something in him might be like, well, maybe she really didn't give him three grand. Maybe she's halfway. Halfway what?

Faking and lying as well. You feel like she might not be telling the truth. Capping a little bit. I would do a set of videos, but how I know she really sent three grand and i mean maybe she's halfway you know halfway what faking and lying as well you feel like she might not be telling a little bit i wouldn't you know i would send a video but i know she really sent three grand that's real you know that's true i don't know it's not my situation i'm sorry for it but that's true right i did the video i need a screenshot of the wire and sometimes you know dr phil be making stuff up too he might have just wrote that why would you think he made that up because Because he trying to make a good show. I done seen some stuff I'm like,

Dr. Phil. She got a point. Nah, she right. I'll give her tickets to the next show. Yeah, something like that. Backstage passes, we take a shot

for the Instagram, but other than that. Boy, that young lady lit, man. It's the final episode of Dr. Phil. Okay, you made it. She did. She made it.

She hot in the Bronx right now. Exactly. She hot in the Bronx right now. Her hometown hero. Now, Iggy Bronx right now. Exactly. She hot in the Bronx right now. Her hometown hero. Now, Iggy Azalea, you know, she has her OnlyFans account that she started, I think, like a month ago. And she's making some money.

And she's talking about some of the weirdest things people ask for. Tell me I'm worthless and my s*** doesn't work. Oh, okay. Do you want to hear a little bit of, like, some of my stuff? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. They'll be like, um, goddess Iggy, please, please, please. I know that you don't have time for my tiny little thing,

but please, can you just tell me what you think about it? And then I'll be like, that's disgusting. Is that even a ****? You call that a ****? That's not a ****. Why are you wasting my time with this? Send me $50 right now. Don't you **** message me again unless you give me $50 next time. Don't waste my time with this. Send me $50 right now. Don't you f***ing message me again unless you give me $50 next time. Don't waste my time

like this again. They really like it. But also, sometimes I just talk to them about what the f*** I'm watching on Netflix and s***. I'm a bitch that likes to talk. I'm a chatty bitch. All my chatting I do on Twitter, now I just do it on f***ing social media.

Do micropenises get that same type of treatment from y'all? I have been fortunate enough to not have to deal with it. Okay. You know, I had a situation where I encountered a micro penis.

How small is micro? Do it with your fingers. It was like these. Milk cricket.. It was really, it was like this. Milk cricket. It wasn't a milk cricket either. I'm just talking about the size. Yes, it was. And it's crazy because me and my homegirl actually found out that we both had messed around with him, so we started

calling him LD. For little. You know how LD stands for. You've called that before. Not for that. Learning disability. Why is that funny? You know what I'm saying? But I think it's $50. You doing all that for $50?

I feel like you're Iggy. I think you need to charge a little more. Yeah, she can charge more than $50. I don't know. I agree. You don't know her financial situation. I don't, but I think it's good. I think OnlyFans is really her lane.

Like, she's really attractive. Yeah, she is Yeah, she's the artist guys. She's talented Yeah, I mean, I mean she's good at like degrading them I'm not gonna lie to you. When was the last time somebody got in the car and was like man put on that new Iggy, bruh Well, we don't know if it has there been new Iggy. Yes See? I don't know. Let me look up some Exactly. It has been. That's what I'm saying. And I'm not dissing her music. I'm not saying that. No, I'm not! You just said nobody gets in the car since put on that new wiggy.

No, I didn't. I'm from the South. I listen to different, you know, type of music. But I'm just saying like me and my friends, we don't get in the car. Dre like, mm-hmm. We don't! But I feel like OnlyFans is good for her. She had her way. Damn it, man. You doubled down. All right, let me see. Last thing she put out was 2021. It was called The End of an Era.

Did you listen to it? Did you listen to it? Uh-uh. I didn't know it came out. All right, exactly. No. August 13th, 2021 on Empire.

I don't think, I mean, I feel like she's obviously making a killing on it. Like I said, she's very attractive doing thing only fan a lot of a lot of the grab girlies are Starting to do that and they get money. Yeah, Erica banks just started only fat only fans

I don't know why y'all keep trying to clean this up John haven't heard Iggy is a in in a long time, we're going to play some now. Who are you giving your donkey to? Hey, four after the hour, we need a brother from Chicago named James Taylor to come to the front of the congregation. We'd like to have a word with him. But before donkey, I got a special announcement in a couple of minutes. Can we do it after Iggy?

Go ahead. Let Iggy rock. Turn Iggy back up. Come on. So, y'all, this is Questlove, and I'm here to tell you about a new podcast I've been working on with the Story Pirates and John Glickman called Historical Records. It's a family friendly podcast. Yeah, you heard that right. A podcast for all ages. One you can listen to and enjoy with your kids starting on September 27th. I'm going to toss it over to the host of Historical Records, Nimany, to tell you all about it.

Make sure you check it out. Hey, y'all. Nimany here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Historical Records brings history to life through hip hop. Flash, slam, another one gone. Bash, bam, another one gone. The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap, there's another one gone. Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing.

Check it. Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hold up. Every day I wake up. Wake your ass up.

The Breakfast Club on Power 105.1. Is this thing on? It's on. Listen, man, we told y'all last year we was rescheduling, and the time for rescheduling has come okay saturday april 22nd we shall all come together as a family at pullman yards in atlanta georgia for the first ever black effect podcast festival okay okay yes sponsored by at&t blue moon cause light nissan simply spiked and state Farm. You know the Black Effect has a very diverse group of podcasts, everything from mental health to comedy,

and this show will reflect that, okay? Hitting that Black Effect podcast festival stage will be Carlos Miller, Chico Bean, and DC Young Fly, the 85 South Show. Dropping the clues bombs for the 85 South Show. The 85 South Show. Your lips is messing us up. 85 South. I'm trying to messing us up. 85 South.

I'm trying to get through this without spitting. I got my new Invisalign in. Mandy B and Wheezy. Horrible Decisions will be hitting that Black Effect Podcast Festival stage.

Yeah. We in ATL, so you know we can't do ATL without having DJ Scream, Big Bank, and Baby J, the Big Facts Podcast, and one of our podcasts

that stays in the news, Giselle Bryant and Robin Dixon of the Reasonably Shady Podcast will be hitting that Black Effect Podcast Festival stage. And you know I will not do an event like this without checking in on my folks' mental and emotional well-being. And nobody does that better than Michelle Williams from the Checking In Podcast, okay? And this event will be hosted by me and my dear good sister, Ms. Jess Hilarious. Drop on the clues box for Jess Hilarious. Saturday, April 22nd, Bowman Yards in Atlanta, Georgia.

The first ever Black Effect Podcast Festival. It's not just a day of entertainment. It's a day of education because we have a woman in business, a woman in podcasting, in business of podcasting panel with Colleen Witt, Teslin Figueroa, Tameka Mallory, Weezy and Alex, the owners of WTF Media, and my good brother Chad from the 85 South Show. How do I say Chad's last name?

Chad Oubre from the 85 South Show. Okay? Soundtrack will be provided by my guy DJ Louis V. That's right. There's going to be food, a gaming area, and a Black Effect Marketplace featuring local Atlanta businesses. Tickets go on sale tomorrow. Okay?

Tomorrow, March 1st at 12 p.m. I said tickets go on sale tomorrow at 12 p.m. To learn more, visit blackeffect.com. And thank you to our sponsors again. AT&T, Blue Moon, Coors Light, Nissan, Simply Spiked, and State Farm. We'll see you Saturday, April 22nd at Pullman Yards in Atlanta for the first ever Black Effect Podcast Festival. Drop a bomb!

It's lit. Hosted by myself and Jess Hilarious. Louis V, let's set up some after parties, Louis V. That's my birthday, so I'm going to have to pull up. That's your birthday? No. If I'm in Atlanta, I'm going to have to pull up. Pull up then.

Yes. Pull up, Dre. The 22nd. Donkey the Day up next. Pull up then. Yes. Pull up, Dre. For 20 seconds. Donkey of the Day up next. Let's go. Charlamagne, say the game. Donkey of the Day. Charlamagne.

You are a donkey. It's time for Donkey of the Day. Donkey of the Day does not discriminate. I might not have the song of the day, but I got the Donkey of the Day. So if you ever feel I need to be a donkey, man, hit it with the heat. It's a breakfast club, bitches. Who's Donkey of the day where i got the donkey so do you ever feel i need to be a donkey man it's a breakfast club bitches who's donkey of the day today wow donkey of the day for tuesday february 28th is going to a young man from chicago named james taylor okay he's 20 years old and i'm highly upset i'm just finding out about this story but some people amongst us might feel this is the perfect way to end black history month see james taylor allegedly

robbed a man at gunpoint okay now i have fully embraced the fact that i'm old school okay i was born in the 1900s 1978 to be exact so the way 20 year olds do things is not the way we did things the people i knew who committed armed robberies actually tried to not get caught i mean believe it or not kids that was the whole point of an armed robbery to not get caught probably only second to you know what you were stealing from the person all right not getting caught is the 1b to the 1a of the armed robbery but this generation is a little different okay this young man 20 years old from chicago allegedly robbed a 35 year old man who was parked in front of his house around 1 30 a.m now listen you pull up to your place of residence around 1 30 a.m you might you know be a

little high had a couple of drinks you know it's a saturday night i know it's freezing in chicago you just want to get in the house right not only do you want to get in the house this 35 year old man had just gotten some fried chicken now i don't know what kind of fried chicken it was but i'm gonna just assume on a saturday night in chicago it had to be har's. You know what I mean? Correct me if I'm wrong, Chicago, but don't one of the Harold's stay open until like 5 a.m. Am I making this up? I feel like one of those Harold's in Chicago stays open until 5 a.m., but just imagine

you got a four-wing, four-shrimp combo. Very mouth-watering. You know what I'm saying? Some hush puppies. What if you got a 10-piece wing and a mac and cheese bowl with chicken mixed in? I'm just trying to paint the picture for you okay you got this fried chicken from harold and you just want to get in the house on a saturday night be high full and happy and go to sleep but no here comes james taylor just disturbing your peace all right asking for a

light 1 30 in the morning you walking in chicago and some man with dreads walk up to you asking for a light. You might want to run, okay? But the man just said he ain't got no light, all right? But then this 20-year-old tapped the man on the shoulder, okay? Tapped the man on the shoulder and, you know, put a gun to his face, okay? And when the man turned around, James put a gun to his face and told the victim to run it. And all the victim had on him was his keys.

Okay, $2 in cash, a debit card, and the fried chicken. Now, I've told y'all before that fried chicken is a symbol of freedom, all right, for black people in America, especially black women in Virginia. Because after the Civil War, black women understood their freedom meant they could fully grasp some agency over their lives, all while creating and sustaining economic freedom for themselves through their culinary talent. So sisters used to carry fried chicken and other baked goods on their heads, waiting around at the train stations.

And when the trains would pull up, they would sell their fried chicken and baked goods. And since so few jobs are readily available or even accessible to black women, that's how they made their money, using their culinary talents to provide for their families after the Civil War. So once again, stop letting white supremacists fool y'all into thinking fried chicken is a negative stereotype for black people, because it's not. It's a symbol of economic freedom. What does that have to do with today's donkey of the day? Absolutely nothing.

Okay? Because in this situation, fried chicken didn't lead to someone's freedom. It actually led to James Taylor's arrest. James Taylor right now is charged with armed robbery with a firearm, aggravated unlawful use of a weapon, aggravated possession of a stolen motor vehicle, and illegal possession of a debit card. The judge ordered Taylor to pay a $15,000 bail deposit to go home on an electric monitor, and the judge told Taylor, who has no criminal background, that he faces a minimum of 21 years in prison if convicted of the armed robbery charge. Now, I know y'all like that. For some chicken.

For some chicken, right? Now, I know y'all like, damn, that's criminal For some chicken, right? And I know y'all like, damn, that's criminal. Okay, and being criminal is corny, so I understand why you're getting donkier today. But you know donkier today is all about giving people the credit they deserve

for being stupid. So, of course, armed robbery is stupid, but it's a little bit more than that, okay? How exactly did James Taylor get caught? What y'all think? What y'all think? He used the debit card. He used the debit card he used the debit card to stop and get gas yeah okay well according to the prosecutor uh after james taylor took this man's keys his debit card his two dollars in the fried chicken james taylor got into the victim's car

he didn't start the car he started eating that devil's damn fried chicken literally got into the victim's car and started eating the chicken why wouldn't you drive away you gotta eat it hot you gotta eat it while it's hot you got you got to eat it while it's hot come on now this makes perfect sense under normal circumstances yeah but when you just committed an armed robbery and you sitting in the car the person you just robbed you don't sit there and eat the chicken okay this man sat in the car so long eating the food that the victim had time to dial 9-1-1 and the police pulled up a few minutes later okay i'm really sitting there thinking to myself was this man committing a crime or was he just hungry all right you know i mean of course it's a crime but damn for you to not even think of

getting away you had to stop and eat right then and there. It might be some nuance to this niggertree because maybe just maybe this man really needed a meal. But that won't stop him from getting the credit he deserves for being stupid. Please give James Taylor the sweet sounds of the Hamilton's. Oh, now you are the donkey of the day. You are the donkey of the day. Yee-haw. I like that.

That sounded like fried chicken. That's the hammer Thomas. You got a picture of the guy? Yes, I do have a picture of the guy. Come on, he's from Chicago. You know what he looks like. What does that mean? You want to play a game? I can't believe he sold the chicken, too.

You want to play a game? We don't need to play a game. Why? You want to play a game? Yes. Oh, God. Okay, let's play a game of Guess What Race It Is. All right.

James Taylor, 20 years old, of Chicago, 1.30 in the morning, robbed a man of some fried chicken, $2, a debit card, and the man's car keys, and did not even try to get away. Sat in the car and ate the fried chicken. DJ Envy, guess what? Racism! Most people are going to think black, right? Because it's fried chicken, it's Chicago, and it's 1.30 in the morning. Right?

But I'm not thinking that way. What you thinking? See, I'm thinking heroin addict. Oh. R. R. R. R.

Could be two MAGA guys with MAGA hats on. Exactly. You remember what happened before? Remember what happened before? Justin. That has happened before. Not exactly. And because of that, I'm going white. I'm goingucasian going caucasian okay uh lex james taylor 20 years old from chicago

all right robbed a man of two dollars a debit card his car keys and some fried chicken and didn't even try to get away sat in the car and ate the fried chicken guess what racey is i don't want to end black history month like this but i'm sorry anybody that's sitting in the car they smell that chicken and wait they can't even start the car it's not giving milk cricket it's tonight it's definitely giving a black man. Okay. Damn, damn, damn! Okay, okay. Drea? I would have to agree. I'm gonna say black man for $5,000. Damn, damn, damn!

Come on, please. Please don't be. I'd like all three of y'all to know that y'all are absolutely, positively wrong. Ooh! Okay? And the reason that y'all are wrong is because okay, y'all forget it's another option This is not a black person This is a nigga

I cannot believe That y'all would pin this on a black person I didn't know I could say that word Chris Rock told y'all the difference Oh wow He look hungry in that picture He look hungry Well I'll tell you one thing,

he wasn't hungry no more. No. Can this nigga evolve to a black man? Yes. Okay? But right now, yeah, nigga. Nigga's nigga.

Okay. I hope he don't get the full sentence. No, I hope he's, this is first charge. All right. This is first charge. Well, thank you for that donkey today. Now, when we come back,

Nidra Glover Tawwab will be joining us. She has a new book, Drama Free. We're going to kick it with her when we come back. So don't move. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club.

Your mornings will never be the same. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlemagne the guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building. She's back. Najah Glover-Tawad. Welcome.

How are you, first of all? New book coming out, Drama Free. Drama Free. Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships. You have no idea how on time this book is. What does the title mean? What doesn't it mean? What is an unhealthy relationship?

It's anything that is problematic and persistent. You know, it's not just childhood trauma. It's also issues with in-laws and blended families and some of these cousins and all sorts of things. So what made you write this book? Do you get some problems in your family that you had to sort out? Oh, well, you know, I'm a therapist, so I help people with problems. And I think we all, to some degree, have something. Why are boundaries always such a focal point for your book because I think it is a focal point for relationships we have to create new expectations and with family we do give a lot of passes it's like well this is so and so so they should always answer the phone when I call well that person has a job that That's right. And the thing that they're doing right now is more important than hearing about your court show or whatever that is.

You know, I think sometimes we have to set a new standard within families, especially with the level of awareness we have now. I think this is now the time when people are more aware of, oh, I don't have to call them back. I don't have to visit them. We are woke and we are aware of where we want to be and where we don't want to be. How can you tell the difference between like family dysfunction? And that's just how we've always been. Well, the norm can be normal for you. It can still be unhealthy.

There are a lot of things that I hear. Oh, we used to get beat or, oh, you know, this is how my mama talked to me. And it's like, well, cussing you out, it can be the norm in your family, but it's not healthy. And so some of those things we have to think about in general, is this behavior that should be tolerated by anyone? Is this behavior that I would, except from a friend, is this behavior that I would see as suitable from a partner? What's the biggest misconception you see when it comes to family? That you have to like people.

There you go. I think of family as like a class, right? Like when you start a new grade, but it's 30 people in your class and maybe three or four you vibe with, right? I think it's the same with families like it's some people is whatever their personality your personality is like this cousin this aunt and this uncle come on y'all and the rest of them it's like oh no they're all cool i really like them but there are just certain people personality wise and that's the part we're not considering that there are people even with your children there are certain you know certain kids you, there are certain, you know, certain kids you're like, this is my guy, you know, based on personality, based on how much

they seem to be like you or interested in your life. My oldest daughter likes to tell me that my third daughter is my favorite and that bothers me. Is it true? I don't think so. You know, but it's like, I don't like that. If you don't think it's true. No, I don't think so. i don't because i don't feel like i have a favorite child and i'll be trying to explain that to her does your third daughter remind you of yourself no actually my second daughter does okay so i wonder i wonder why they're seeing this allegiance i don't know well something is happening i find that with parents sometimes they will deny no i don't have a favorite or no i treat

everybody the same when clearly they are not and that's okay because we don't treat all people the same and it's okay to recognize that like hey i am giving this person more attention because of x y z or i noticed that too and you know maybe try to be fair or maybe not you know but i think to deny it sometimes can be problematic for the sibling relationship. I just feel like that could lead to an unhealthy family relationship amongst the siblings. Absolutely. Because they think I'm playing favorites and I'm not. I think that's in everybody's family when you have a bunch of kids.

It's like I cater to my daughters more than my sons. Why? Because my daughters cater to me. They're loving. They're cuddling with daddy. If I get sick, they're going to lay in bed and rub daddy's back. That might be it. That's what my third daughter does. That lay in bed and rub daddy's back. They're going to make daddy's juice. That might be it.

That's what my third daughter does. That's what they do. That's it. You know what I mean? The rest of them are like, dad, you're good. I see that. But the rest of them, they're going to lay there. They're going to come for dad and take a liking to that. Yeah.

But do you acknowledge that? Do you say that to them? Like, you're right. And this is why. So here's an opportunity for you to come cuddle with me. Yeah. But you know what? And this is going to sound crazy. an opportunity for you to come cuddle with me. Yeah. But you know what? And this is going to sound crazy.

My son is a 19-year-old football player. If he got in the bed and cuddled with me, it would just feel awkward to me. Look at me like that. That's wild, bro. What? You got six kids. Yes. Three of them are cuddle age.

But you referenced a 19-year-old son? No, because my daughter's cuddling with me. Because there are two and three. My daughter is 21. The adults. The adults. Oh, okay, okay, okay. She's getting in the bed and cuddling with dad. My nine, my eight, my six, my one-year-old. my son my daughter they're two and three my daughter is 21 the adults the adults she get in bed and cuddle with dad my nine my eight my six my my one year old but my 19 it would just

feel a little awkward that's messed up man that's why men feel that's why we be so closed off and don't know how to show emotions you know what i mean get that man a little cuddle time my son with his armpit hair on me like that's not gonna that's that's not that's horrible bro now let's talk about cycle breakers yes now that's very important especially when it comes to our dynamical family right yes yes yes cycle breakers are people who are the first in their family to do a thing the first in their family to be rich to go to college to maybe not go to college to be rich, to go to college, to maybe not go to college, to be married, all sorts of things. And I think when you are a cycle breaker, there is a lot of pushback from the people who have not changed, from the people who are still in, you know, maybe some of those unhealthy relationships,

because, you know, it's hard to see people do something that you couldn't or do something that feels like a threat to who you are or do something that, you know, makes you think, gosh, am I supposed to change too? So being a cycle breaker, I think a lot of their support comes from people outside their family. Sometimes it comes from, you know, that chosen family. It may come from, you know, some of those other family members that you don't see as often it may come from watching tv shows and identifying with you know some influencer or all sorts of things but you know i think cycle breaking is important and it's also really tough because you have to figure out a way to be supported how important is chosen family oh my gosh it's everything you know and our families

we sometimes choose remember i said you know it might be these three people that you pick but you know when we are outside of that family system we have the ability to go to work and say okay i really like this person and i really like this person come on you're you're my family now and we can do that with our friends and it's just easier the relationships are based on not blood but just how we feel about each other they're more authentic and i think that is the really important piece with the chosen family now troubleshooting relationships with siblings yes let's talk about that sibling aspect because charlotte how many brothers and sisters you have five that i grew up with

and how are your relationships are you all good Is there something that you like more than the others? So how do you tell siblings to deal with that? You know, I think it goes back to that. You know, it's based on your personality. It's based on who you feel you can have that authentic relationship with. And we don't feel like that with everyone, even if they're related to us. And with siblings, sometimes I see impacting siblings is when the oldest sibling had to be a caretaker for the younger siblings. Absolutely.

And they have this idea of like, this is my sister, but it's my child. This is my brother, but this is my baby. You know, here it is. You're 40 and they're 35 and you mothering them. And then there's this issue of, well, they don't want your mothering anymore. Now they want a sister. So how do we transition out of that role and really into a sibling relationship? You know, we can redefine our relationships with people at any point and talk about some of the resentment if there is a favorite child situation.

Because you're right. It's not one child's fault that that happens it's you know really based on the parent's choice but it is easier sometimes for them to be mad at the sibling so those are conversations to have all right we got more with nidra glover to wobble we come back don't move it's the breakfast club good morning morning everybody it's dj envy charlamagne. We are the Breakfast Club. We also have our co-host with us, Portmante's podcast, Drea and Lex P. All right, Charlamagne. You know, you can't force sibling relationships, right? Like I'm the second oldest, but it's such an age gap between me and my oldest sister. And it's such an age gap between my two younger brothers and younger sisters. So I love them. We didn't necessarily have that relationship

growing up because everybody was busy doing their own thing. Like my two younger brothers and younger sisters so i loved them we didn't necessarily have that relationship growing up because everybody was busy doing their own things like my two younger brothers are super close because they closer in age so is it a parent's job to like force those relationships to happen no um i think sometimes parents think they're supposed to right you know this is your brother y'all have to stick together this is your sister you have to stick together but a lot of that is just natural you'll see small kids like i want to hold my baby brother i want and another kid might be like i'm going outside you know so how do we allow people to select their people so we shouldn't force them because i force my kids okay like i have a 19 year old and i have an eight year old and i would be like when you go to football practice take your brother with you to let him hang out with his brother you know man

and that's not like caretaking to me no no no, take your brother with you. Let him hang out with his brother. That sounds like caretaking to me. No, it's not because I want him to experience that because there's some things that I didn't experience. I didn't play football as a kid. My 19-year-old does and he's a good player. I can tell that my 8-year-old looks up to him as a football player. So I'd be like, go out with your brother.

Go play with your brother. Go play basketball. Go bring Logan in, man. Logan's going to college next year. How about it? You keep saying he's 19 in high school? No, he's going to college next year. His birthday keep saying he's 19 in high school no no you go to college next year oh his birthday december 28th but that's what i do even with you know with whatever it may be playing video games i don't play video games my 19 year old does so i'd be like go in the room with your brother i force

him to do it and i notice it keeps them close so now my my not my eight-year-old will come in my room but he dad can i sleep in logan's room like, well, ask him. But he's starting to develop that bond where it is close. So I kind of force him to do it. You help them foster a relationship by making these suggestions. And it sounds like over time they have both grown to appreciate that. Forcing is when you say, take this kid with you. And they're like, ugh, I don't want to do it. Right?

So you're helping them learn to have a relationship you. And they're like, oh, I don't want to do it. Right. So you're helping them learn to have a relationship together. And that is healthy. Now, when you're forcing your children to be close, I think that's different. It's not really closeness. It is, you know, we can do this while we're here. But when people leave your home, like, how do you want those relationships to be? And that's what you need to think about. Like when they leave home and they're out in the world, who's going to force it then? No one. Another question that people always ask is the closeness between mom and child. People say you can't be your child's best friend, right?

Because that's one thing people say. That's my best friend. My daughter is my best friend. My son is my best friend. I'm people. You're people. But how do you feel about that? When someone is a child, I don't think so because it's one sided.

You certainly wouldn't share with your child, girl, we went to the club. Not appropriate, mom. But you can listen to a lot of what your kid is saying and you can give them some feedback and hopefully they have a relationship where they trust being able to talk to you i wouldn't necessarily call that a best friendship as much as i would say that is a healthy relationship with your child you don't want to be in a best friendship where you're oversharing with your child your child is hyper focused on your needs because you have so much stuff going on that's where it gets a little murky it's like okay what is this what is the definition of this best friendship if it's you

caring for your child and your child is just being open with you okay cool that's best friendship for you but if it's you know this person is always here for me where they're eight you know they should not always they shouldn't always be there for you find you some friends at work knowing your daughter is sexually active i i guess that's okay details it depends on the father's comfort level yeah now you refer to family as a cultural system in the book drama free what does that mean so families have their own thing you know in your family it might be you know when you have a to baby, go live with your grandma for three months or, you know, whatever your program is. It is how you learn to be, how you learn to exist.

When we get married, we do this when we whatever. This is what happens. It is a whole culture. I think what's interesting is when we take our culture and we try to move that culture into the world, when we try to get married and we try to get into relationships and we're telling our partner was normal and they're like, no, this is what my family was. And now we have to figure out a new culture for ourselves. You know, the cultural piece is only problematic when somebody sort of breaks away from it and the others disagree. Because for a lot of especially our families, it's more the I told you so syndrome, right? Growing up as a kid is dad, can I go there? No. Why? Because I told you so. My wife is a little different.

It took me a long time to get to it because I was the same way. My wife likes to have conversations, right? I don't like the conversations because if I tell you something, do it. But my kids are like, but why can't I? But why doesn't that make sense? And she'll sit there and have conversations with them all day. I guess it's a better way because they understand the reason why and they don't leave being mad and don't leave being hateful. What is your suggestion when it comes to that? I'm a mom, so i do a little explain and i also over talk to my dog so you know

get off of there go in the it's like sit could have helped right sit is enough you're over there messing up stuff right i'm saying way too much so i'll give a talk back. Never. Thankfully. But yeah, I think with kids, it is helpful sometimes to give them some reason. You know, kids are people and it is hopeful for them to know why and how and what this means, because in the future, hopefully with that understanding, they'll be able to tap into that conversation and say, oh, this is why I shouldn't do that. Without that level of understanding, you may not know next time. So it can be helpful to just explain things. And that is a cultural shift, right? When you come from just because I said so. Well, all the because I said so's weren't healthy for us. We have some adults telling us stuff and it's like, she did not know what she talking about.

You know, so so if somebody can explain their why, sometimes it could be really helpful for them in the future and sometimes you'll hear them talking to their friends and you're like oh those my words so it helps i want people to go pick up the book drama free so i don't want to you know give too much away but i love the resisting the urge to operate in dysfunction chapter because sometimes i wonder i don't think people can help it if they haven't you know done the urge to operate in dysfunction chapter because sometimes i wonder i don't think people can help it if they haven't you know done the work to even recognize this is dysfunctional to them they just operate in normalcy so what does that mean resisting the urge to operate in dysfunction especially if you don't know it's dysfunction it's learning to be different i think

we have so many times in life where we are shown different things and it's up to us to pick it up whether that's visiting a friend's house seeing something on tv if we just process some of that information like wow that's what they do in their house and have those conversations even with our siblings with other family members with our friends you will learn that some of the things that you are experiencing they may be normal for you but they are not necessarily the healthiest all right we appreciate you for joining us this morning pick up the book drama free and listen this wednesday i'm gonna be in conversation with miss nadra to wab glover at the bell house brooklyn new york at 7 p.m it might be sold out already i don't know i think it's pretty sold out it is right okay, I guess for more information and tickets, visit NajraTawab.com.

If it's sold out, don't worry about it. But definitely go out there and pick up the book whenever you purchase your books. Pick up the book. That's right. Drama Free, A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships. Always a pleasure talking to you. Thank you. All right.

It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. What's up, y'all? This is Questlove, and I'm here to tell you about a new podcast I've been working on with the Story Pirates and John Glickman called Historical Records. It's a family-friendly podcast. Yeah, you heard that right.

A podcast for all ages. One you can listen to and enjoy with your kids starting on September 27th. I'm going to toss it over to the host of Historical Records, Nimany, to tell you all about it. Make sure you check it out. Hey, y'all. Nimany here. I'm the host of a brand-new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records.

Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Flash, slam, another one gone Bash, bam, another one gone The crack of the bat and another one gone brings history to life through hip-hop. Each episode is about a different, inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. And it began with me

Did you know, did you know I wouldn't give up my seat Nine months before Rosa It was called a moment Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise.

Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now we got our guest co-hosts, Drea and Lex P from the Poor Moms Podcast joining us. And let's get to the rumors Let's talk Zendaya Rumor has it Rumor

Rumor has it Call out a name Or you gossiping Or you chatty patty I don't gossip This is the rumor report I mean I guess we on the breakfast club This is where the tea spills right?

Yes On the breakfast club Now can we drop a bomb for Zendaya? Talk to me You know they're about to do season three of Euphoria. They're not. Well, I guess so. We're not getting into like 2025.

When is it supposed to come back out? I don't know, but I'll wait. Great show. I think it's 2024. Yeah, it's supposed to come out. Well, it looks like she's going to be getting a million dollars an episode for season three. She deserves it. Facts.

How many episodes in a season usually? She's doing her big one. I thought it was 10, right? Yeah, it's not that many. It's like eight to 10. Yeah, for Euphoria, euphoria i'm not sure jesus yeah i don't know but either way dropping the clues bonf is in dance he deserves it okay you don't you can't do that show without zendaya right and you remember we were talking the other day about drake and he was like i'm i'm you was i think he was saying like damn i'm surprised drake hasn't do much uh outside of rap but he's also

ep on the show right I mentioned that he EPs Euphoria and Top Boy on Netflix oh I didn't know that he was an EP for Top Boy because the music

on Euphoria is great right I don't know if he does the music well like picking the songs like it creates a vibe you know what I'm saying he's an EP

for the actual show oh his name is in the clip oh I see I didn't know that but it's not coming out until the second half of 2024. Okay.

Which is going to be weird because ain't they supposed to be in high school? They are. Right. They should have been graduated by now. College. Hopefully by the time they come back, you would think they graduated. And we got to wait that long to see if homie died? Yeah.

Oh, yeah. Yeah. That's crazy. It's a lot of things we got to wait to see. What else? We got to see if she's still on crack. She's still crack crack she was struggling you have to say it like you're smoking crack you're still on crack yes

my sister's going she was down through this you really can't talk to nobody on crack calmly like you really are you still on crack yeah no they don't understand unless you say it like that

you're on crack it's so aggressive and they be like yes like that man on the show that used to be trying to help her he used to be talking to her like that

yeah you gotta say it like that remember Joe I was about to say Joe Rogan remember Morgan Freeman on lean on me oh yeah smoke crack don't you boy smoke crack don't you smoke crack don't you boy I like that. Remember Joe, I was about to say Joe Rogan. Remember Morgan Freeman on Lean On Me? Smokey Craig, don't you boy?

Smokey Craig, don't you? Smokey Craig, don't you boy? Smokey Craig, don't you? Smokey Craig, don't you? That was a wild approach. That was a wild approach. Why are you telling this little boy to jump? By the way, that's how I used to be.

My dad used to talk to me just like that. For real? Because they feel like you're just throwing your life away anyway. And why was he Smokey Craig? The little boy. I mean, I don't know. Maybe no weed was around.

I don't know. No weed? No weed? That was during the crack era. And crack was big in New York. It was crack. It was big everywhere. But it was very big here.

You know, crack started off recreational. Yeah. So people were smoking crack because they didn't know no better. It was a party drug. I am weed. It's just fried cocaine. Right. But I'm just saying, like. You know too much saying, like, taking crack breaks at work is wild.

Crack breaks at work is wild. Yeah, that's sad as well. Lighten up that pipe. That's wild. Oh, and lastly, you know Carl Crawford, of course, ex, I was going to say NBA, Major League Baseball player. He also owns 1501 Certified. That's the label that Megan Thee Stallion assigned to. He seems like he regrets everything that they've gone through, Thee Stallion is signed to he seems like he regrets

everything that they've gone through and this is what he had to say unfortunately man Megan we haven't talked since you know since 2019 so like like I said that's unfortunate too as well because I never wanted to you know have a situation where I was you know um going back and forth on the internet you know I have to take responsibility for anything that happens over here at 1501. Like I say, I got a lot real, real fast, you know, coming from another lane and all that type of stuff. So a lot of things came at me real, real fast

and then I had to learn real, real quick. And in the process of that, you might make a few mistakes here and there. But I never had any problems with making the study. You know, it's just the social media stuff. It really just turned really, really sour. You take this social media part out of it, we don't have a problem. I'm done with that.

You won't hear me mention Megan Thee Stallion name in the media unless I'm doing something like this. Yeah, the sad thing about that, I think it's like too little, too late. I was thinking the same thing. They already had each other out. It's kind of like the relationship is done. Now it's to the point, it's business. i'm sure when she finished her contract she's out yeah for sure with that label because i feel like you know sometimes it's hard run you know being in the business and the contract and y'all don't like where things is going but things got taken too

far with that tori situation and that was your moment to really you know what all this is going on with us business wise but it's like her mental health there was a lot of things going on with her and that was his moment to be like you know what let me take care of this girl because we started from day one together right so like you said it's kind of too little too late but i'm glad the truth finally came out with everything and i really like prayers to her because she went through a lot she did like losing your mom and having to go through all this like the world really turned on her they so i'm glad that the truth came out and i just hope that her mental health is like good are they still in court i'm not sure i don't think so i don't know i don't know what's going on

with that as far as her 1501 contract i feel like they definitely it was a time to just not or you could have just not said anything right you know a lot was said it was a little people egos it gets it's the egos yeah it is it is interesting like you know you see everybody apologizing to me right yeah but we know that if the verdict had went another way it wouldn't be that in of course not right of course not but it's crazy because even though the verdict verdict was what it was people were still being like oh well it's not that it's not Like, some people just like to stand 10 times down being wrong. Like one of y'all,

who said it? I think Dre just said it. It's the ego. Yeah, it's the ego, for sure. Nobody wants to just admit, hey, I was wrong. You know what I mean? And sometimes people

just got to mind your business until all the facts come out. A hundred percent. Just be quiet. I don't know why it's so hard for people to do this. Because I got to get these tweets off.

Because I got to get these Instagram posts and these Instagram captions. Now, come on now. You know you know i wake up you know when people wake up in the morning they gotta feed their feed yeah that's all it is that's true and be loud and loud and wrong speaking on what you don't know loud and wrong a lot of people owe me an apology to bite you and that is your rumor report i want to uh shout out to atlanta university uh aucc they're having their career fair uh and you know i love going to talk to the colleges about, you know, what we do up here and how they can get into it. So I'll have a conversation with them later on.

And I just want to say one other thing. This. Why are you looking at me like that? You about to say something gay? This victim blaming of straight men has to stop. No, I'm serious. It has to stop. He's homophobic.

Saucy Santana. I spoke to my guy. Saucy, baby. Trav that calls in all the time. I think they gave you some sound advice. All Saucy said. Let me read what Saucy said

last night on Instagram. Straight men want to put a plastic piece in their mouth and blow. They should be able to do. A plastic piece? That's a hookah tip. A hookah tip.

That could go either or the way you're saying it. I'm talking hookah. Okay. And I know NB is Dominican so that's a Dominican thing tip a hookah tip but that could go either or the way you're saying it I'm talking hookah okay and I know Envy is Dominican so that's a Dominican thing you know what I mean like Dominicans in New York

love to smoke hookah I believe it so somebody posted a picture look at that tell me you don't like a little baddie right there you know what I'm saying you kicked the leg up

you had the leg kicked up but that was like a fire picture like that could be an album cover right DJ Shrimp so I was just saying Tanner reposted this last night and he said Envy not you blew the smoke out for the pic That was like a fire picture. That could be an album cover. Right. DJ Shrimp. Saucy Santana reposted this last night.

He said, Envy, not you blew the smoke out for the pic. I'm sick, bro. He said it like that? I'm sure he did. Okay. Y'all going to stop. Y'all going to leave straight men alone. Let straight men express and do what they want to do and allow them to grow.

You're going to listen to the Surgeon General. You're going to listen to Saucy Santana. Stop putting that little plastic tip to your mouth. It's not good for you. Why are y'all wording it like that? Why are y'all wording it like that? I don't know why they keep calling it the plastic piece. Look, Dreya, if you saw one of your homegirls, right? Let's just say putting her mouth on a vibrator.

Okay. I've seen that before. You think something's wrong, right? She said I've seen that before. She said no, I've seen that before. I mean, depend on, right? She said I've seen that before. She said no, I've seen that before. I mean, depend on what you mean by wrong.

I'm just saying, why would they be doing that? Why not? They might be making a video to send to somebody. You cannot compare a vibrator to a hookah tip. That's exactly what it is.

It's made out of the same material. You know what? Point is, the hookah just don't vibrate. Don't some of them vibrate. I think they got some tips that vibrate. With candy on them?

Yo, if you see a man shaking the vibrator, that guy is crazy. They got the lollipop tips. They got the lollipop tips. They got a lot of different ones. Imagine seeing a man shaking the hookah in the club in his mouth, just shaking it. To get that vibrating feeling. That's how I start shaming straight men. That's different. That's the Breakfast Club. People's Choice Mix is up next

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Season two, February 2023, 28 more episodes. You can find all 56 episodes on the Black Effect Podcast Network. So tap in. But I would like to leave you with this. Did you know the KKK had their own language? Yes, man. They be using words and acronyms and stuff. You can Google KKK glossary and find some of these words.

For example, Akiya, A-K-I-A. That's a password. It means a Klansman I am. An alien is a person who does not belong to the Klan Now I don't really know how to pronounce this next one But it's A-Y-A-K Is that I-Y-A-K? A-Y-A-K?

Either way it's a password meaning Are you a Klansman? You might hear two white dudes walk up And one say I-Y-A-K And the other one say I-K-E-A He just said are you a Klansman? And the other one said a Klansman I am said, are you a Klansman? And the other one said, a Klansman I am. And you had no clue.

Why? Because you're an alien. You're not part of the Klan. Man, they got inner circles, imperial wizards, all types of Harry Potter nomenclature. And they call themselves the Invisible Empire. Because they say they all over. But you don't know who the hell is a Klansman. That makes them invisible.

Until we meet again, y'all be safe out there. Because a lot of this stuff I didn't know. Maybe you didn't either. I didn't know. Good morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Shout out to our co-hosts, Drea andx p from the poor minds uh podcast for joining us this

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