The Breakfast Club - FULL SHOW: Is Taylor Swift Bigger Than Fortnite?, Ice Spice Accused Of CHEATING On Her Man With Lil TJay + More

Episode Date: April 30, 2024

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Starting point is 00:00:00 You guys, this is history. What you've done, what you've done. You guys have built a platform that influences. You gotta break this club. Man, it's the world's most dangerous morning show. Wake the f*** up, Breakfast Club. DJ Envy. Envy playing my record, I made it.
Starting point is 00:00:14 Jess Hilarious. Jess be with the f***ers. She don't spare nobody. Charlemagne Degas. What made you think the liking of controversial questions would take this far? I like this show. Thanks, Breakfast Club. Good morning, man. No, is this the last day of April? Yes, it is. Tomorrow's May 1st.
Starting point is 00:00:45 Tomorrow's May 1st, man. Another day to be here to serve the listeners. And listen, let me tell you something. Remember I told you I went to Magic City Saturday, right? Yes. Drop on the Clues Bonds for Magic City. Salute to Magic City. Had a great time. Mr. Magic. La La, our server. And remember I tell you
Starting point is 00:01:01 I didn't get my chicken wings, right? They sent it to you? Well, they are. That's number one. All right. But number two, salute to the guy who went to the kitchen window and said he was with us
Starting point is 00:01:12 and wasn't with us and took the damn chicken wings. Oh, that's smart. That's genius. That's not genius. That's freaking theft. You're always encouraging the wrong stuff
Starting point is 00:01:19 and that's stupid of you to do that because somebody's going to do the same thing that you want. It's very dumb. He's probably hungry. He probably didn't pay for them. Well, I don't know if he paid for them or not. Somebody had to's probably hungry. He didn't pay for them? Well, I don't know if he paid for them or not.
Starting point is 00:01:27 Somebody had to pay for them. You didn't pay for them, so he paid for them. I don't know if I, I don't remember. I'm sure we did pay for them. Nah, because you got to put your order in.
Starting point is 00:01:33 That's that. Duh. But you know, and he went to the window and said that he was with us and he was acting really rude with the people, which is very disrespectful.
Starting point is 00:01:40 You never act rude with people in the kitchen. You shouldn't act rude with nobody. So that was on you. That's on you. Number one, you shouldn't act rude with nobody, but then you don't act rude with the people with people in the kitchen. You shouldn't act rude with nobody. So that was on you. Number one, you shouldn't act rude
Starting point is 00:01:46 with nobody, but then you don't act rude to people who are in the kitchen with you because they can do things to your food. But he was being very rude and he said he was with us
Starting point is 00:01:53 and he took our chicken wings. So it wasn't that Magic City didn't give us our chicken wings. We just got finessed. All of us together. You see that a lot during like an all-star
Starting point is 00:02:04 or an essence festival or Lovers and Friends. Anything where there's Finesse all of us together yes you see that a lot during like our all-star or essence festival or lovers and friends anything with his hair what is a lot of us and people are hungry terrible they just wait in the lobby and they be like oh yeah we got an order for John they be like yeah I'm John and they take your pizza take your wings or whatever maybe they're gonna send you some wings yes and salute the Loma Loma who does the kitchen at Magic City and ATL everybody who loses us on ninety six.1 The Beat in Atlanta. Yes.
Starting point is 00:02:27 Great establishment. So they're going to send you wings? Yes. And I will accept them. So you will accept them? You're going to send them the next day? I don't know how they're getting here. Well, they actually did tell me how they were getting here.
Starting point is 00:02:37 I didn't know they had like a national Uber. Same day service? Yeah. It's called Gold Belly or something like that. Am I making this up, people? I don't know. Yeah. That's what I was told. Wait, so are they going to? Well, okay. All right. When they get here, It's called Gold Belly or something like that. Am I making this up, people? I don't know. Yeah. That's what I was told.
Starting point is 00:02:46 Wait a minute. So are they going to? Well, okay. All right. When they get here, you got to air fry them or something. I don't know. Okay. All right.
Starting point is 00:02:50 That makes sense. Listen, it's the thought that counts. That's right. Whatever it is. All I'm simply saying is, boy, what a time it is. Why don't you just tell them you ain't got to send the wings and next time you come, you just hook me up with the wings. You're going to make them send the wings all over the place?
Starting point is 00:03:01 I'm not making them send the jerseys. That's what they want to do. I'm not tripping off that. I'm just more concerned about the fact that we live in a world where people are that hungry to where they might can afford to get into a strip club,
Starting point is 00:03:11 might even afford a little lap dancing too. But man, what kind of world do we live in when a man can't afford wings when he goes to the strip club? That's all part of the strip club experience.
Starting point is 00:03:18 But he probably does that a lot. He probably goes to the strip club and he says, yeah, I just ordered wings, table three, and then he takes the wings and keeps them over. But that's not going to always work because what if the people are there? What if the people are still there? But most people would be like club and he says, yeah, I just ordered wings, table three, and then he takes the wings and keep it moving. But that's not going to always work
Starting point is 00:03:25 because what if the people are there? What if the people are still there? But most people would be like you and be like, you know what, it took too long for my wings. I'm about to hit. No, I just forgot about them and I left. You know? But, you know, whatever.
Starting point is 00:03:36 All right. But you're going to get your wings. It's terrible that we live in a world where people do things like that. But you're going to get your wings. It's a damn shame. A man should be able to go to the strip club, have a couple of drinks,
Starting point is 00:03:43 get a couple of lap dances, and be able to afford some wings. That's when you know the economy isn't what people are saying it is. Well, you did three to four, so you just didn't get the wings. No, no, the wings is important, bro. Okay? All right. Very important.
Starting point is 00:03:56 All right. Well, Sarah Jakes Roberts will be joining us this morning. Yes, from the strip club to the pulpit. All right? That is the breakfast club in a nutshell. Oh, man. I'm holding her new book in my hand. It's called Power Moves, Ignite Your Confidence, and Become a Force.
Starting point is 00:04:08 You know I love Sarah Jakes Roberts, so she'll be here in a second. And Jess Alaris has walked in, too. Jess got on all black like she's about to scale a building. Yeah. How you feeling? So we're about to have two Bobs in the building. Because Jess Alaris is in here with her little Bob. Okay?
Starting point is 00:04:22 Sarah Jakes Roberts is going to be in here with her little Bob. Okay? How do you know she got a Bob? Because I'm looking at her picture rightop. Okay, Sarah Jakes-Robbins is going to be in here with her little bop. Okay. How do you know she got a bop? Because I'm looking at her picture right now. Oh, she just took it this morning? And I saw her yesterday, well, Sunday, when I saw her preach. Unless she changed her hair. And we pre-taped all our interviews, so I saw her.
Starting point is 00:04:36 So you know what it is. How you feeling, Jess? I'm all right. You good? It's getting hard to get up. She's pregnant. It's getting hard to get up. She's pregnant.
Starting point is 00:04:44 Yeah. Yeah. Baby kicking that ass. Don't even ask how she's doing. She's up. She pregnant? Yeah. Yeah. Baby kicking that ass. Don't even ask how she's doing. She's pregnant. How pregnant are you today, Jess? That's what you should say. Right.
Starting point is 00:04:53 I'm six months now, so. Okay. All right. Yeah. Do we know the sex of the baby yet? That ain't none of your business yet? Yeah, but I'm going to tell y'all. You're going to tell us?
Starting point is 00:05:00 All right. All right. All right. Well, let's get the show cracking. Of course, Sarah Jakes-Robbins will be joining us. We got front page news. We got to tell you what's going on in these colleges. And also, there was a deadly shoot in North Carolina. We'll give you all the details.
Starting point is 00:05:12 So don't move. It's The Breakfast Club. Come on in. Morning, everybody. It's DJ, Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Snooze first thing in the morning makes me want to hit the snooze button. I love SZA, but I don't want to hit her every day.
Starting point is 00:05:24 Same bad time, same bad channel. Okay? Don't we see this coming every morning? Well, we can change it. Well, do it. That's my whole point. Jesus Christ. We be forgetting, though.
Starting point is 00:05:31 Don't you see it every morning? We forget until the song comes on. My God. It's too late. But let's get into some front page news. Now, the Nuggets finished the Lakers 108-106. All right? Now, they asked LeBron yesterday, is he going to return as a Laker?
Starting point is 00:05:45 Was that the last day? He said he won't answer the question, but the Lakers have said that they are in fulfilling LeBron's dream of playing with his son. So, sounds like they're going to be drafting Bronny. I saw the homie carry champion post. She's a big Lakers fan. She's from L.A. I saw her post that a friend texted her and said that that was LeBron James' last game. Really? With the Los Angeles Lakers. She said this before
Starting point is 00:06:08 the game, though. Really? Yeah. By the way, if the Lakers drafted Bronny James, that would be nepotism at the highest level, and I'm not mad at it. Bucs do it. What do you mean the Bucs do it? The Bucs. Giannis' brother plays for the Bucs. What are you talking about? It's nepotism. It's family.
Starting point is 00:06:24 No. Here's the difference between Giannis' brother and Bronny James. What? Giannis' brother is ready for the NBA in some way, shape, or form.
Starting point is 00:06:34 They call him the worst player in the NBA. Sure. But still, even physically, he's ready for the NBA. Bronny James is not physically ready for the NBA in no way, shape, or form.
Starting point is 00:06:43 There would be no reason for the Los Angeles Lakers to draft Bronny James except for LeBron James. To make LeBron happy. So it would be nepotism at the highest level. And I'm not mad at it. Well, the Celtics beat the Heat last night, 102-88. And the Thunder finished off the Pelicans, 97-89.
Starting point is 00:06:59 Travis Kelsey, he is the highest paid tight end now with a two-year deal uh with the chiefs uh he signed a four-year 57 million and now he has two more years reportedly at 34 million dollars and you know what else is interesting going back to brony and bron uh bron's a free agent right yes cleveland cavaliers should draft brony james make lebron come home finish his career finish his career i was thinking the knicks should just draft no finish his career finish his career in Cleveland. I was thinking the Knicks he just drafted. No, finish his career in Cleveland. All right, now let's get to some sad news. There was a shooting in Charlotte, North Carolina yesterday that ended with four law enforcement officials dead.
Starting point is 00:07:35 Four law enforcement officers were shot and killed yesterday while serving a warrant to a convicted felon. Four other officers were injured during that confrontation. The suspect was shot and killed by police. Gunfire erupted in a neighborhood in Charlotte, North Carolina around 1.30 yesterday afternoon. Authorities say the shootout started as members of a U.S. Marshals Fugitive Task Force were serving a warrant on a convicted felon they say was in possession of an illegal firearm. According to police, as officers approached opened fire police say eight officers were shot four have died one deputy u.s marshal two officers with north carolina department of adult correction and one charlotte mecklenburg police officer you never want to hear that all right to those uh officers yeah absolutely yeah they said gofundme has been started to help the families of the slain officers. But just very sad. And again, praying for those families and sending hella energy, of course.
Starting point is 00:08:31 Why do those officers need a GoFundMe? Shouldn't the police department down there be taking care of them in some way, shape, or form? Don't they have like a union for stuff like that? I would hope so. Don't they have insurance? I would hope so. That's actually sad that they got to start a GoF like they did the police department down there should feel stupid if they have to start a gofundme well the sad thing is if if one of those if those officers were the the
Starting point is 00:08:55 primary caretaker of the family and they pass away you got to think for the next if that if they have children or if they have families for the for forever they don't have that anymore but don't they have pensions and insurance i don't know i don't have that anymore. But don't they have pensions and insurance? I don't know how this works. I don't know how long these officers have been on the job or how it works. If they have been serving their community and they've been putting on their uniform, I would think that they would be getting taken care of. I agree. All right.
Starting point is 00:09:17 Well, that is front page news. And now the police needed another reason to be on edge. Jesus Christ. All right. When we come back next hour we'll tell you about columbia university how they took over a building and also we got to discuss a mamala you know mamalas no that's so corny well we'll tell you who mamala is you should be ashamed of yourself yeah mamala that is kamala harris mamala drew i love you drew but you should be ashamed
Starting point is 00:09:41 of yourself who wrote that we'll explain the next hour, all right? Everybody else, get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you need to vent, phone lines are wide open. Again, 800-585-1051. Get it off your chest. Whatever you're going through, it's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club.
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Starting point is 00:10:13 Hello, who's this? Hi, oh, hello Hey, we can hear you Good morning, get it off your chest Thank you, Jesus It's Ty from Hood Talk Podcast Hey, peace time did you make it out to the podcast festival yes it's so amazing y'all learned so much um solomaine you
Starting point is 00:10:33 got my rug i did thank you very much i got it at the house right now really appreciate it yes i'm glad i was so happy when i got to give it to you. My crew came to get me. Y'all were sitting down, actually, like, paying attention to the segment. And it was so amazing. We're excited to go next year. Y'all, I'm so excited. My heart is beating. I was so glad to give it to you.
Starting point is 00:11:01 I was glad to receive it, and I'm glad that you came out to the second annual Black Effect Podcast Festival and had a great time, and we can't wait to do it again next year, man. Yes. So y'all, if y'all can follow D-R-U-G-Z that's D-E-E-Z R-U-G-Z that's on Facebook.
Starting point is 00:11:17 On Instagram it's D-E-E-Z dot R-U-G-Z. And the rug is dope. Like she actually made a rug and the rug is just my head. Pause. And it's not like my head
Starting point is 00:11:30 with a backdrop. It's literally just in the shape of my head. It's dope. Thank you so much, mama. You know what I was thinking you should do? When I saw you, you should make toilet covers like that. Yeah. I'm serious. Toilet covers? Yes. Make make toilet covers like that. Yeah. I'm serious. Toilet covers?
Starting point is 00:11:46 Yes. Make a toilet cover like that. Okay, I'm looking to that. I'm learning. Well, thank you, Pa. My bad. You meant to hang up on her, that young black entrepreneur. Why are you so disrespectful as a Dominican?
Starting point is 00:11:58 It would be dope for you to make toilet covers, though, because you'd be like, yo, I'm going to go sit on your face. You know, you'd tell your significant other. It'd just be funny. Like, I think it would be dope. I think you should bring your rugged ears. We can step on you
Starting point is 00:12:08 every time you come in here. No. Hello, who's this? Yo, it's Jay from Jersey. Jay from Jersey. What up? Get it off your chest. Good morning, good morning.
Starting point is 00:12:17 I really just called the Master Sergeant Lane this morning, man. I really want you guys to get dunked in the day with Mr. Terry Jones of the Dallas Cowboys because he had a terrible offseason.
Starting point is 00:12:27 Yes, we did. You did not offer Derrick Henry a dollar. You paid Tony Pollard a couple years ago to be at number one, and now you come all the way back. To Ezekiel Elliott. That's terrible, Charlie. Come on. Listen, you ain't got to tell me.
Starting point is 00:12:42 I don't know what Jerry Jones is doing. I really don't. If this is how he wants to spend his last days, God bless him. No. So do you still think the Cowboys are going to make it to the Super Bowl? Yes. Oh, my goodness. Why do you keep hanging up on people?
Starting point is 00:12:55 He was gone. No, he was not. You don't even say bye, no nothing. You just hang up. That's rude. We got so many people on the line we're trying to get to. Hello, who's this? Have some respect.
Starting point is 00:13:04 I said bye. Hey, this is Shamai calling from North Carolina. How you doing, DJ? Hey, I saw you guys went
Starting point is 00:13:13 to Clark, Atlanta, and props to you guys, but you guys should go to all the HBCUs. Do an HBCU
Starting point is 00:13:19 tour. That would be so dope for college students at HBCUs. What about that? We playing,
Starting point is 00:13:24 too. I've been trying to do it for the longest, but hopefully we can get it done this year. Yeah, that would be so dope for college students at ACU. What about that? We play it, too. That's what's up. I've been trying to do it for the longest, but hopefully we can get it done this year. Yeah, that would be so dope. I usually, guys, I'm calling from North Carolina. I usually call from North Carolina Central, but I'm about to transfer to Fayetteville State. So props to you guys. Thank you guys so much for inspiring me to be a radio host.
Starting point is 00:13:46 Are you a mass communications major? Yes, sir. Yes, sir. What are you doing right now to further your broadcasting career? You got your own podcast. You got a YouTube show. I have my own radio show. I just finished my last show at NCCU. I'm transferring to Fayetteville State.
Starting point is 00:14:01 I just got a fellowship at NYU. I'll be there in July For a week Oh nice Congratulations At Duke Magazine So I'm doing big things For my career right now
Starting point is 00:14:12 I love to hear that Black man Well thank you for calling Thank you so much Props to you guys Yes sir Breakfast Club Memorial He did it for me He sure did
Starting point is 00:14:20 Get it off your chest 800-585-1051 It's The Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club. This is your time to get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this?
Starting point is 00:14:41 This is Katie. Hey, Katie. Good morning. Get it off your chest. So, my time spent this morning is pretty simple. I'm an Uber driver. I'm in Virginia. And I've been experiencing picking up children.
Starting point is 00:14:52 I've been picking up adults. My thing lately is I've been like, people forgot about integrity. They forgot that integrity means doing the right thing even when nobody's watching and i feel like we've gotten too far away from what our ancestors set the standard for and as parents it is our job only our job not the teachers not the schools it is our job to make sure our children are equipped with what they need to be progressive emotionally mentally mentally, and spiritually. So besides integrity, we need to also remind our children to be trained and give them an example of what that training life looks like. Give them examples of what it looks like to move with integrity.
Starting point is 00:15:35 I want to big up Sarah Jakes because she is the reason why I found my relationship with God. I have five children. Now I have two because I'm raising my best friend's children that just passed away. And those across the board, girl or boy, you can move with integrity. You can wear a crown, even when it feels like it's tilted because you are still a king and a queen. And I just wanted to remind people that you are responsible for what your children do. If you just look up and your children are in a car that is now flip side because they went on a high speed chase. Because you look at what your children were active in.
Starting point is 00:16:10 And that's your responsibility. Nobody but yours. I agree with everything that you're saying. Even though I do feel like, you know, children still are going to make their own choices. Yeah, they're going to make mistakes. Even if you instill all the goodness in them, you instill all the values in them, you teach them right from wrong, they still going to make their own choices. And if they make a poor choice, that doesn't necessarily reflect on the parents. Nor does that mean that they're a bad kid.
Starting point is 00:16:33 That just means they made a bad decision. And I think schools should have social and emotional learning in the schools. I agree with her that, you know, a lot of that, majority of that is the parents' responsibility. But I do think things like social,emotional learning should be in school. Okay. Hello, who's this? Envy, what's going on, man? It's Judy.
Starting point is 00:16:50 I'm your president. Hey, what's up, brother? Get it off your chest. All right, first off, KLOK, my fake Dominican brother, Charlamagne, what's good? Jess? What up? I'm happy and proud for you having that baby, but I'm with that Mexican man and not me. Dang!
Starting point is 00:17:04 Jesus. I'm sorry. I don't know what to tell you, brother. That's all right. I'm with that Mexican man and not me. Dang. Jesus. I'm sorry. I don't know what to tell you, brother. That's all right. I'm going to find you, baby. I'm going to come to one of these shows. You can come to the lab back there. I'm going to pop up for you.
Starting point is 00:17:14 Respectfully, of course. I was about to say that because you just got beat with security guards. Yeah, I don't want no smoke. I ain't trying to get the drop like this, probably, man. Okay. And what's your name? My name's Shooty. All right, bro.
Starting point is 00:17:27 Shooty? Yes, sir. Oh, yeah, you got to get searched. Dope. Hey, y'all have a great day, fam. You too. Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051.
Starting point is 00:17:39 Now, we got Jess with the mess coming up. Yes, Taylor Swift is sweeping the charts. She got 14 spots on Billboard. That's right. All right, and we'll talk about it when we come back. It's the Swift is sweeping the charts. She got 14 spots on Billboard. That's right. All right, and we'll talk about it when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:17:53 Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Let's get to Jess with the mess. News is real. Wes Hilarious, Jessica Robin Moore. Jess don't do no lying. She don't spare nobody.
Starting point is 00:18:09 Row I Jess, Row I Matt. On The Breakfast Club. She's a culture shift. She was able to get y'all to see something and understand something that nobody could get you to see. It's time to set it off. Yo, Taylor Swift claimed the entire top 10 of the Billboard Hot 100 chart. And then some. The first 14 songs on the Hot 100 belong to Taylor Swift.
Starting point is 00:18:33 But number one is the one that I want to play because this is strategic. This is strategic. I think I know how she got the number one. Other than her just being Taylor Swift. This song is called Fortnite. That's featuring Post Malone. Yo, it's called Fortnite. One of the biggest games
Starting point is 00:19:10 everybody can't play, Fortnite. Like, this is really be crazy. I'm gonna be honest with you. Yeah. Taylor Swift's probably bigger than Fortnite. Taylor Swift is bigger than Fortnite. Taylor Swift is the biggest musical act in the world. She is.
Starting point is 00:19:21 Not even close. I don't know about bigger than Fortnite. Nah, I think she's bigger than Fortnite. No, I don't think she's bigger than Fortnite. Nah, I don't think she's bigger than Fortnite. Nah, I believe she is. Nah. Like, what makes this
Starting point is 00:19:29 more impressive is she's not a newcomer. Taylor Swift's been out since 2006. Not only is this her new number one album, she's had 14 number ones. She ties Jay-Z
Starting point is 00:19:38 as the solo artist with the most number one albums ever. Two million albums in a week? But I would say her fan base is ridiculous. They really support. They go listen.
Starting point is 00:19:49 They go stream. They go buy her merch. They go to her concerts. I know. It's like no other. But I don't think she's bigger than Fortnite. I think Taylor Swift is bigger than Fortnite. Bigger than Fortnite?
Starting point is 00:19:56 Yes, bro. She's been around since 2006. Either way, kids that never listened to her before in the Fortnite world is going to be listening to her now. And then the game is definitely putting the song on the game. Like the actual makers of Fortnite. That's big to tie this song to Fortnite.
Starting point is 00:20:17 Because that's a big contract for them. And then the kids are going to listen to it. Little kids who are not listening. Like my son. Probably going to know this song. His little sister is going to know this song. And they don't listen to it. Little kids who not listening, like my son, probably gonna know this song. You know, his little sister's gonna know this song. And they don't listen to her, guarantee you. But she ain't big into Fortnite.
Starting point is 00:20:31 27.1 million hours have been broadcasting in the last six days of Fortnite. That's what I'm saying. It's like, it's two big entities. And they're colliding. I think that is what's going to make her fan base even bigger. And it's doing good for Fortnite, too.
Starting point is 00:20:47 Because then it's a collaboration, basically. Taylor Swift is different, bro. Crazy. She is different. Yo, the second song is called Down Bad. We ain't listening. We're not doing a whole album sample. But Down Bad, that's funny to me.
Starting point is 00:21:00 Down Bad? Down Bad, yeah. That's the name of the second song. I resonate with Down Bad because... It's like Ag Bad? No. Down Bad is that's the name of the second song I resonate with Down Bad because that's like it's like act bad act bad
Starting point is 00:21:06 no Down Bad is like a hood phrase but you know she been ice spice been ice spice ice spice been cool she probably gave her
Starting point is 00:21:14 that like girl I'm Down Bad you ain't never hear that like oh that bitch Down Bad you ain't never hear that they say that in Miami Baltimore
Starting point is 00:21:20 I never heard it said in New York does she have any hip hop-ish songs the album is a rap album. It's not a rap album. It's called the Tortured Poets Department. She on there rapping.
Starting point is 00:21:30 Even Down Bad, it sounds like number one. But it's... I ain't gonna lie. I kind of like the first six songs. I listened to them last night. But none of them even replicate hip-hop in no type of way. She's still very much Taylor Swift like all the songs
Starting point is 00:21:47 but Daddy I Love Him is a title Fresh Out the Slammer is a title I'm telling you Who's Afraid of Little Old Me is a title alright well
Starting point is 00:21:57 if you like it I love it the smallest man whoever lives she's sending shots to somebody Charlamagne but yeah so congratulations Taylor I don't know
Starting point is 00:22:06 how you doing well I know how you doing it but I don't know how you doing it but you're doing it she's been around since 2006 this is her 14th number one album that's insane how old is Taylor Swift I don't know I don't know she's older I think she like she's older she's in her mid-30s but she look good she still look good to me she look exactly how she same when she to me. She look exactly how she look when she first came out. She look exactly how she look when she first came out. I don't know what she doing, but keep doing it. RBO Day claims Diddy tried to buy her silence with publishing rights.
Starting point is 00:22:34 This audio is so dramatic. The music that she put behind her voice because I think she did this herself. Play the audio, please. I received the publishing deal. I know how much money it was giving me. I'll tell you, $330. $300.30 for a full release of all claims against Giddy and many other players. I think you would probably be making moves to keep as many people quiet as possible. When I went to look at the publishing deal, it asked me to not be able to have access to my story and my experience anymore.
Starting point is 00:23:10 It asked me specifically to stay silent and never speak poorly about a human. So then I realized something really bad is coming. If all I'm offering you is well, how much was it? $300. Yeah, I don't care what you got to
Starting point is 00:23:25 say that I mean you ain't got nothing on me yeah take the $300 and 30 cents offer somebody that though hey go grocery shopping that's what it's worth? That's what I'm saying. Maybe that's what it's worth. What if that's what it's worth? Yeah, but she's been trying and trying for years, so good luck, Aubrey. Ain't that from that TMZ documentary they got coming up? Yeah, it's already out. It came out Sunday on Tubi. I ain't hear nobody really talking about it, though. Neither have I, but yep, it came out April 28th on Sunday.
Starting point is 00:23:59 A restaurant owner speaks out after former employee is arrested. So Marcus Davis is the owner of a restaurant named culture in houston fellow homes is facing five counts of possession of child pornography and this comes after the manager of a restaurant called culture showed police videos of homes sticking his penis in a jar of jelly that uh houston streets are safer tonight because we took a pedophile off the street. Those words coming from restaurant owner Marcus Davis after his former employee was caught on camera sticking his genitals in jelly. And what he was doing on the video was placing his genitals in a plastic jar in the kitchen,
Starting point is 00:24:39 and he was a cook. The former restaurant employee, 28-year-old Othello Holmes. According to court records, Holmes confessed to the crime and told investigators he had frequent urges. And after they arrested him, the investigators went to his phone and found child pornography on his phone. Lord have mercy. So, yep. He probably was tearing that kid's menu up. He probably was putting his penis and everything on the kid's menu.
Starting point is 00:25:02 But the restaurant wanted everybody to know. They released a statement that they got rid of all the kids menu but the restaurant want everybody to know they released a statement that they got rid of all the inventory like the current inventory and they cleaned everything and they wanted everybody to know that
Starting point is 00:25:10 all the jelly is good now all the jelly is good yeah the new jelly did they say if he finished off in the jelly or they don't know
Starting point is 00:25:17 how long he's been doing it yeah they didn't say how long he was doing it or if he finished off but what does that matter that sounds like a question you would ask if he's been doing it for nah if he's been doing it or if he finished off. What did that matter? That sounds like a question you would ask.
Starting point is 00:25:26 If he's been doing it for a week or two weeks or three weeks. Because people have been eating there for a while. You want to know if you had some. You look hungry. You want your little penis, butter, and jelly sandwich. I'll pass. I'll pass. You look hungry.
Starting point is 00:25:40 But you know, the sad thing is we really got to support that restaurant. Why? Oh, my God. Not like that. got to support that restaurant. What? Oh, my God. Not like that. Go to commercial, Ray. Go to commercial. I'm going to tell you why. You're checking out The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:25:52 I can't believe you guys cut me off. I didn't cut you off. Good morning. We are The Breakfast Club. It's DJ Envy, Jess Alaris, and Shalaband the guy. I know exactly how you be doing people when they call up here on the phone. I can't believe you cut me off. Now they be calling up here.
Starting point is 00:26:03 So now you know how our listeners feel. Yeah. Let's get some front page news. Well, last night the Nuggets finished off the Lakers 108-106. The Pelicans lost to the Thunder 97-89. And the Celtics beat the Heat 102-88. Now, LeBron James spoke after the game, after he was finished, and this is what he said.
Starting point is 00:26:24 You know, my son, one of my boys is just trying to decide if he's going to, you know, enter the draft or go back to school. I've got another kid that's playing AU ball right now. My daughter's playing volleyball, and my wife is doing so many great things. So it's about family right now. And then in a couple months, I've got to go to Vegas for training camp. So, you know, I've got to rest my body for USAB. But that's kind of the initial thoughts. I got to go to Vegas for training camp. So, you know, I got to rest my body for USAB. But that's kind of the initial thoughts.
Starting point is 00:26:50 By the way, LeBron James is already home. You know what I mean? So it don't even matter that he get a first round exit from the Denver Nuggets. The man is Morgan Freeman age and still playing in the NBA at a high level. Like he's done it. If you could be in the Hall of Fame and still play, LeBron James would be a first ballot Hall of Famer and still be, you know, he's home already. He absolutely is. And I don't mean home like he's out of the playoffs.
Starting point is 00:27:13 That's the Jay-Z term. He's already home. He's the guy already. Yeah. Yes. Now, also, Columbia University starts suspending students after more protests are actually messing up with the campus and messing up with the classes that they're doing. Police stand guard outside Columbia University Monday night. We're inside.
Starting point is 00:27:33 Hundreds of students rally throughout the day in support of Palestinians as well as their classmates, who have been camped out on the campus lawn for nearly two weeks. They're standing up for what is right right and I'm standing up for them. After days of negotiations, the school administration will not divest from Israel, which was the protesters' main demand. Student negotiator Mahmoud Khalil. This is the new floor to us.
Starting point is 00:27:56 This is the new floor to this movement and the university should understand this. In a letter to students, the administration told protesters they had until 2 p.m. to clear the encampment and sign a form committing to abide by university policies in order to finish the semester in good standing. Those who do not, the letter warned, will be suspended indefinitely, not allowed to finish the semester or graduate for seniors, and be banned from campus and residential housing. I respect all kids' right to peacefully protest, but they have to deal with the consequences of the protest. You know, whether it's getting arrested, suspended, you know, failing classes. That's the choice that they're making. Yeah. Yesterday, protesters took over a building, Hamilton Hall.
Starting point is 00:28:37 Well, actually, it was last night into early this morning. They took over the hall. They raised the flag out of one of the windows and they had Ziplocs closing the door so nobody else can come in. The school has not responded to the takeover as of yet. Yeah. And like I said, you've got to be able to deal with the consequences of your actions. You know, like like I said, I respect all kids right to peacefully protest. I just hope that they know what the consequences of that protesting will be. It might be arrest, might be suspension, might be failing classes. But if you make that choice choice it is what it is now yesterday i found out that kamala harris's nickname is mamala harris
Starting point is 00:29:10 after she did an interview with drew barrymore and this was drew barrymore calling her mamala harris i keep thinking in my head that we all need a mom i've been thinking that we really all need a tremendous hug in the world right now but in our country we need you to be mama law of the country okay protector sadly over the last many years there's been this kind of perverse approach to what strength looks like which is to suggest that the measure of one's strength is based on who you beat down instead of what we know the true measure of your strength is based on who you lift up yes now okay when i heard drew barrymore say that i thought it was uh corny because i thought her writers wrote it but there's context to it right she didn't just
Starting point is 00:30:00 right pull mamala out of ass well mamala that's why you need to mind your business until you hear everything well i know you ain't talking all right jess with the mess and her news might be real here's what mamala came from we kind of don't use the term step because i just think i'd love disney however disney kind of messed that up for a lot of us over the years you know the evil step parent um and their word for me is mamala and so they call me mamala i guess talking about her stepchildren call her mamala and that's where the term mamala came from i don't know if i like those white stepchildren saying that oh my god there's one little slip of the tongue it could be mamala and then that wouldn't be good you know what i'm saying you know what i mean mamala that's what i'm i don't know if i like
Starting point is 00:30:43 that you know what i mean i don't know i don mean? Mamala? That's what I'm saying. I don't know if I like that. You know what I mean? I don't know. I don't know. Well, that's where that nickname came from. Also, let stepchildren use that nickname. It sounds crazy when a grown-ass talk show host is calling you Mamala. We need Mamala back. We need Mamala. We need hugs.
Starting point is 00:30:56 We need a hug. Leave Drew alone. I love Drew, okay? But just, no, that sounds crazy. Let the stepchildren. There's a reason you have family nicknames. Family nicknames family nicknames are for family
Starting point is 00:31:06 yeah okay mouthful of what's your family nickname raccoon none of your business no raccoon
Starting point is 00:31:12 what about yours because he was always dark brown eyes until just three years ago I got you what was yours my is boo boo
Starting point is 00:31:17 boo boo yeah they call me boo boo mine was bear my mom my dad oh my god I'm talking about
Starting point is 00:31:22 your family man I ain't talking about your parents what your parents call you I'm talking about your children, man. I ain't talking about your parents, what your parents call you. I'm talking about your children and stuff. Oh, Jesse. Just Jesse.
Starting point is 00:31:28 Your children? Your children? Your mom. You said your family. Like her stepchildren call her mama. I'm talking about like what do your kids. What is your kid? Mom.
Starting point is 00:31:39 Mom. What are you talking about? Mom, dad. All right. What do your family call you? Dad, right? No, actually. They have pet nicknames. What your family call you? Dad, right? No, actually. Pet nicknames.
Starting point is 00:31:46 What do they call you? What's one or two of them? Papa. What? One of my daughters call me Papa. No, they won't be Dominican. They're crazy.
Starting point is 00:31:55 They're so crazy. But all of them I wish y'all could pay attention. No, I'm just saying they call her mom-less. When I say family, I mean your kids. What do your kids call you?
Starting point is 00:32:04 Your kids just call you Daddy? Yeah. All of them? Yeah. Dad, Pops. Pops, thatless when I say family. I mean your kids. What do your kids call you your kids just call you daddy All of them Pops that's what I'm saying. That's a nickname. Yeah, yeah You can't tell them what to call their mama look if they want her to be mama look cuz she's the vice president And that's I'm fine. Y'all ain't listen nothing. I said I am to be Pete muscle day listen nothing I said I am fine with the kids calling her mama I said drew the other people shouldn't be calling you what your kids call you. It sounds crazy.
Starting point is 00:32:27 All right, Papa. Thank you. Imagine you're on a talk show and somebody says, that's how you be sounding. Remember I told you the other day at the school when you were telling little girls, come on, mama. Mama. Come to the microphone. That's a New York.
Starting point is 00:32:35 Mama. That's a New York. It sounds stupid. To you. You call women, not college, young college girls. They're 22 years old. I call everybody mama. Mama.
Starting point is 00:32:43 Mama. Mama. Mama. Mama. Mama. Mama. Come to the microphone. It's not mama. It's mama. Mama, mama, mama. It's mama. Mama, come to the microphone, mama. It's mama. No, you sound like Amigo. What are you talking about?
Starting point is 00:32:48 Shut up. He's Dominican. That's why he sounded. You sound like Amigo. No, like one of the Amigos. You sound like one of the Amigos is what I'm saying. Moral of the story is don't call grown people what their kids call them. Okay, and that's your opinion.
Starting point is 00:32:59 And everybody else got theirs. Hey, by the way, when women call a guy's daddy, it sounds crazy too. If it ain't your pops, these girls that be out here, what's up, daddy? Hey, daddy. That sounds stupid, too. That's goofy, bro. Exactly. That's my point.
Starting point is 00:33:12 It's not the same. Let's go to commercial, right? We got Sarah Jakes Roberts coming up. Sarah Jakes Roberts will be joining us next. We got Sarah Jakes Roberts coming up. We got a new book called Power Moves. We're going to talk to her when we come back. Papa, Jess and Larry, this is The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:33:24 Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Shut up. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha God. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building. Come on now. We have Sarah Jake Roberts.
Starting point is 00:33:37 Welcome. Thank you. How are you feeling? I feel good. I'm a little tired, but I'm glad to be here. Okay. But the new book power moves ignite your confidence and become a force what did the inspiration for the book come from it really
Starting point is 00:33:49 started about five years ago whenever I'd finish speaking people would always tell me like that was so powerful you're so powerful but I didn't really feel powerful like I'd be in the fight of my life up there and I started just asking God like what does it mean to truly be powerful and I feel like God just revealed to me that it has so much to do with obedience and authenticity. But not only that, that power is a flow. And so what makes me powerful when I'm preaching is different than what makes me powerful as a mother. So I started digging into the fluidity of power and this notion that power moves and embracing that from season to season really started resonating with me. I do have a question.
Starting point is 00:34:26 This is going to sound stupid, but I just want people to understand, you know, where you came from and how you got into faith. I know you were here last time. So for people that don't know that they automatically assume that your dad was in it was into religion. That's what got you into it. But you had a different start with you. So let's talk about that a little bit first. How did you start and how did you get to where you at now and the fact that you had your first child at 14 and let's let's break that all down and he's in the studio like a grown man that's right he's a grown man
Starting point is 00:34:54 that's a child over there um yeah so my dad has been in ministry my whole life and growing up when i was growing up in church like we were at church every single day of the week and you either found a spot you were in the choir you were dancing you were doing something or you were like me and you were sitting in a corner somewhere and i can remember my siblings telling me like you won't go to hell like you can't shout on beat you can't clap like you gonna go to hell and I was like you might be right because what I'm listening to on the radio like was resonating with me it doesn't align with what's being preached and so I never really felt like I had a sense of belonging within faith and then when my father's ministry kind of took off I didn't know where I fit within
Starting point is 00:35:40 the dynamic of our family at all and so I tried to find myself a 13 year old trying to find herself is going to be open to anything and so I got pregnant at 13 I had my son at 14 which just further confirmed to me like you not wanting the good girls and so I spent probably 10 years of my life just being like alright faith isn't for me you guys not for me I'm gonna figure out what's happening outside and I got to this space after this traumatic experience in my first marriage where I almost got arrested and I was defending the right to keep my kids. And I was like, I have tried literally everything. I might as well just try faith. And I wasn't trying to build a platform.
Starting point is 00:36:21 I was trying to build myself. And I started blogging about all of my experiences. And it turns out that there were other women who felt maybe forgotten by church. But because they didn't feel... Did you feel that way? Especially because your dad was in ministry. Did you feel like his church forgot about you? Especially that being your dad?
Starting point is 00:36:37 It's hard. Knowing what I know now, it's hard to say. Because I felt so much shame from having a teen pregnancy. That I'm sure that there were people who were like still loving on me but I couldn't cut through the idea of like during purity culture the height of purity culture you didn't got pregnant like this it just doesn't align and I don't know because even my father is surprised that my life has turned in this direction so I'm not sure if anyone thought that I was going to be the girl talking about Jesus
Starting point is 00:37:02 but um I tried it for myself and I started sharing it with like these other misfits and it turns out there were a lot of us like back row church goers who were there because we had to be but didn't fit in and I was able to give them a voice and a language through trying to find my own voice and language and it's resonated with them what level of ratchet were you on a scale of like one to four well at the end of the day the day's got to end I don't know I don't know how to answer that question but I mean I I was not outside like I was not trying to be the good girl at all like I embrace this idea of like you can just do your own thing
Starting point is 00:37:45 and try anything so I mean I did quite a few things it's interesting to hear you say uh the bishop was surprised to see how things turned out because I'm sure him and you know the first lady was praying over you and asking God to turn you around it would make sense right yeah but I mean I have always been very strong-willed I've always been my own person and so I think that they were praying but just like we pray and we like I don't know if you answer this prayer we'll see how it happens I don't think that they were for sure knowing that things were absolutely going to turn around even if they did turn around I don't think anyone anticipates like oh she's going to be in ministry because that's not necessarily a turnaround like maybe she'll
Starting point is 00:38:22 figure out who God is but this fact that she's also going to be in ministry and helping others that was a wild card nobody saw coming i feel sometimes when especially when people play with the church right and i'll tell you why i say play with the church they come off like uh very church holier than thou right so when they speak a lot of people actually believe it and listen because they feel like they study they go through it they read the bible etc etc etc but also you realize that person is not a good person so where do you cross the lines of somebody taking on an assignment doing something positive i think you spoke about it earlier somebody giving a message opposed to who they are as a person like can somebody give a message and be an effed up person yeah i mean a broken clock is right twice a day you know what i mean you don't even have to
Starting point is 00:39:02 be a christian to say something that could be profound and deep. But that doesn't change the fact that you have an opportunity to be more fully integrated in your character. But I think that the messages that resonate the most are from people who are literally walking it out, living it out. And so it does discredit the message. Sometimes when you're telling me something that you don't live by. But I think about it like this. So I'm a parent and now that my children are moving into adulthood I recognize that many of the things that we have told them growing up they're also realizing that I am figuring it out with them
Starting point is 00:39:34 as well and I don't know that it's a lot different in ministry like this is where the goal is I think we all know where the goal is but I'm still working it out too I think where people get in trouble is that they're not actually doing the work like I'm telling you that this is the goal and I'm doing the exact opposite of it which is why I've tried to be really intentional about being authentic like I'm going through depression I'm going through an anxiety this is what I'm learning in the midst of that because it doesn't serve me for me to come off as your God when we all need the same one so I try to really make sure that I'm not on a pedestal I try to kick the pedestal down like you see a preacher a preacher will be preaching right and then he's cheating on
Starting point is 00:40:09 his wife yeah a preacher will be preaching and then he's hitting his wife you know I mean so when you see that it's kind of difficult to uphold a preacher and you'd be like are we just playing this game or or do you really feel that way and really made a mistake you understand what I'm saying well I mean I can't judge someone's heart and I can't judge their experiences. So I'm a little hesitant to really make a judgment on situations. I'm not saying anybody in particular. If anybody's listening, there's nobody. Yeah, well, you know, people, I don't, I don't know anyone either who's going through this,
Starting point is 00:40:37 but I think people infer a lot. But I will say this, like preachers are human. So if you are who you are and you can cheat on your wife and a preacher can cheat on his wife like he's a man too she's a woman too and so you guys are still going to have the same areas of temptation that you need to overcome i think your response to that like what is my response how do i grow from here how do i create boundaries do i need to sit down do i need to heal like i think how you handle your humanity in the face of this divine call is what's most important i am careful that pastors don't have
Starting point is 00:41:11 a license to do whatever they want to because of the power they hold i think that you can be human but all of us need to be trying and stretching growing to be more like jesus or we are up here playing i'm not asking you to be perfect i'm asking you to really be on this walk for real. That's right. Who's this white pastor you talking about? Black pastors don't cheat. And does he listen to the Breakfast Club? That's right. Alright, we got more with Sarah Jake
Starting point is 00:41:36 Roberts. When we come back, so don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We still have Sarah Jakes Roberts in the building. Jess. I want to, because you are a mother of six. Yes.
Starting point is 00:41:49 And you're busy, extremely busy with your podcast and then writing a book and then traveling. How do you balance that? Like, mother, I know you said your children are growing into adulthood, but how do you balance that? Well, yeah, and I feel for you because you got a lot going on. Yeah. I think it's the message of this book I think it's really allowing myself to like flow in a different definition of power based off of each of those roles because as much as I want to bring the same intensity to everything
Starting point is 00:42:16 I do if I do that I may end up damaging my children because I'm talking to them like a business partner and so really defining for myself what does it mean to be powerful in these specific roles? And how much capacity do I have to show up in that space? Asking for help, you know, changing and modifying my life to really fit my priorities has done a lot. And then also just making sure my kids know, like, I'm tired. So my daughter is eight. She was devastated when I left yesterday. She was like, please don't leave me.
Starting point is 00:42:45 Literally, she's like, can you please come home? And I'm like, I just need this one week to get this book in as many hands as possible. And then mommy will be home. But I'm packing to her like, you know, you do this while I'm doing this. So she understands that sometimes absence does not mean that I don't care. Yeah. And it's a balancing walk, especially I think if you have mom guilt like I do sometimes yeah but I also want her to see a woman walking in her purpose and being excited
Starting point is 00:43:10 about it and changing lives so I share testimonies with her too I'm like let's sit down and read these comments from this weekend thank you for being a part of this so she feels a part of it as well okay because my son is 12 now yeah but I miss a lot of him being going from grade to grade you know because my mom between my mom and his dad that's who has him I was touring a lot before I actually got to do this and I just feel so guilty a lot sometimes like oh and now I have this new baby and I'm like I'm bringing him up to Jersey with me and he wants to grow up in the house with the baby instead of me being in Jersey with the new baby with you know and then him still being with my mother like and i don't want to repeat that right i don't want to do that again so i feel good so i had my son at 14 and i think one of the things
Starting point is 00:43:55 that makes me feel most guilty is that i know that i was growing up while he was growing up and so the way that i'm able to be present even for my younger kids I know that he didn't have that so I think one I don't know if you have to deal with this but I had to really forgive myself for what I didn't know when I was raising him yeah you know I just I didn't know I did the best that I could and to trust that I still have opportunity if you think about adult children who are wounded from relationships that didn't go well with their parents there's still a little kid inside of them that wants their parents to show up that wants to experience healing in that space and so it reminds me too that I'm never out of time so I'm constantly still reparenting him even at 21 years old. You know in the clamp down chapter you start by saying if you're one of those people who know better and instantly do better i'm probably going to be the friend who you roll your eyes at constantly why why are you that friend
Starting point is 00:44:48 uh because things need to marinate for me like i don't just activate things like you could tell me like you need to be vegan and i will i'm going to let that marinate for a year or two before that actually activates because i don't do things just because someone says that i should do them it has to be real i have to have a conviction about it but I will marinate it so I can figure out like how does this revelation actually fit within the context of my life so in the back of the books each book has like something to marinate on something to activate and something to pray on because I know everyone moves into change differently I love the marinating before activating but I feel like that's probably how the majority of us move but is there ever a time we shouldn't marinate before activating like the spirit says do it we just go
Starting point is 00:45:30 i mean to each his own i think if you feel i'm not into telling folks what they should do you know what i mean like i think if you feel like there's a now on it you should do that you should move in it now and a lot of times when we move in it now we learn the marination lessons afterwards you know but um yeah what about the spirit though like the spirit says move like the spirit always tells you to be patient and marinate i'm in relationship that's your wig off on stage you didn't marinate on i didn't have a choice i didn't have a choice i didn't have a choice that oh lord yeah no no i had i was in the spirit in that i had a mission to accomplish and i didn't want anything to distract me and my husband wasn't there my parents weren't there so it wasn't like i was gonna be able to
Starting point is 00:46:16 toss the microphone i was the you know senior leadership person that was present in that room and so i had to take it off i didn't't love it. I didn't enjoy it, but I stood up to it. And I think it was really interesting because I was going through something at that time where I was wondering, could I be in Dallas, a part of senior leadership, like with my past, with the way that I preach, with the way that I'm a little different than, I guess, traditional pastors. And I really did feel like God was trying to tell me like just be authentic just trust yourself in that season of my life and so that Sunday when I'm sitting there with a wig cap on and then other women start taking their wigs off on the altar
Starting point is 00:46:55 I was like you know what I think this may be God trying to tell me you gonna have to show up as your full self in order to get this done and I know a lot of people made fun of it. But there were so many people who were like seeing you stand there, being courageous, stepping into that moment helped me so much to just embrace who I am. And so I really feel like God took something that would have been very embarrassing and at least allowed there to be a buffer from the people who were moved by that moment. Well, at least for me, I was like, that's why we rock with her. A lot of people said that. Because you just always wanted to be your true self at all times. Well, I mean, like, y'all know this is in my hair.
Starting point is 00:47:31 And, like, no, it's not ideal. But it's not more important than what I'm here for. So, like, I'm going to take it off and we're going to move on down the road. When I got back behind the platform, I was like, oh, Lord, I have desecrated the Potter's. There are bundles on the altar. I have desecrated the potter's there are bundles on the altar i have desecrated this place but yeah it just turns out it wasn't that way i love uh chapter 16 to know your harm oh yeah
Starting point is 00:47:54 what is knowing your heart uh well i talk about the oath that doctors take where they say you know that they'll do no harm but they're also recognizing that they're practicing and when we move in power part of the reason why so many of us don't move in power is that we're afraid that we won't do it perfectly or that we'll make mistakes. But if we can embrace the reality that I'm going to be powerful and humble, I'm going to be wrong. I'm going to have to apologize. I'm going to mess up. I may say things too sharply. Then that doesn't make me any less powerful. As a matter of fact, it makes me more powerful because i recognize that my position of power could disrupt my relationship sometimes but i value these relationships enough to learn how to be powerful in a way that honors the spaces that
Starting point is 00:48:34 i'm in next time what's your what's your thought on the way that church is now right as a kid you had to go to church every sunday you had to be in the building you had to sit there and if there was a a baptism, you was going to be there all day. Now, a lot of people turn it on Sunday morning and it's a lot easier. So what are your thoughts on people not actually attending the institution of church?
Starting point is 00:48:54 First of all, you're not about to tie a trip in me. We got to ask you about time. No, you don't. No, you don't. Let's be very clear. Let me see. I mean, I think that the world is changing. And as the world changes, I think people are finding things that are more convenient for them. And I do think that you are able to have intimate encounters with God from this comfort of your own home. And I think it's powerful that that's game at home. You can get hype. You can be excited for your team. But there is something about being in the room with other people that makes you just take things over the edge.
Starting point is 00:49:32 I was surprised that in a world where people aren't coming to church, that we have 40,000 women at the Women Evolve Conference. Because I'm like, I don't know that this is a thing that people are going to really be into when they like virtual experiences. But there is something that happens in healthy community and connection that allows your faith to really be strengthened i've had people come into rooms and like they didn't really want to be there somebody drugged them in there they were going through a depression they don't know why they were there but just being in the space sitting next to someone who was able to care for them and just being surrounded by worship lifted their spirits when they couldn't lift their own hands and i don't think that there's any substitute for that but you also keep it tight though one hour that's let's go i don't yeah it's it's finished he said it everything
Starting point is 00:50:15 everything he said has been said to me and so now we can go home and have brunch yeah i do think we have to honor people's time because people do have options and so being really intentional about making sure people feel like i can go get out and have the rest of my day is part of what we should really lean into all right we'll keep it locked we have more with sarah jakes roberts when we come back it's the breakfast club good morning morning everybody it's dj nv just hilarious charlamagne the guy we are the breakfast club we're still kicking it with sarah jakes rober Charlemagne? Is the church whack? That's the question.
Starting point is 00:50:47 That's the question. That was the question. That's what Ty got smoked for. He said that he thinks the church has become whack. I heard in context what he said made a lot more sense, but I heard the sound bite was trash. I think that everyone has a different experience of church, and I think that there are some people who have probably had an experience that has disheartened them in that way but I love the church I mean as much as I went through my own church hurt and trauma the church was also really beautiful to me in times where I didn't have anywhere to go and I could sit in that presence
Starting point is 00:51:22 and experience God and sometimes to really experience God in church, you have to look past the people. And maybe that's why, maybe it's not, because maybe it keeps our focus on what should really matter. I love what you said too about in the Know Your Harm. You said deflecting from the way that you harm someone and highlighting the way that they harm instead is a sign of immaturity that keeps you from truly being powerful.
Starting point is 00:51:46 Well, a lot of times we will not embrace what we did to someone because of what they've done to us. And it keeps us from owning our stuff and growing. And so being able to say, even though my teacher may not be perfect, like my teacher may have failed in chemistry, but they get an A plus in this history class. That means that I need to at least be able to receive from them this opportunity to grow. And I feel like in relationships, that's hard, especially if you marry, because when you're married, your person brings up something and you like, oh, but last week you did X, Y and Z. But what did you do today? You know, and how can you own that? And I think when we own our stuff, we give other people permission to do it as well sometimes we want to be the person who receives the apology but not the one
Starting point is 00:52:30 who gives it but we have to lead in humility and vulnerability you said that's how you and torre were initially right where you weren't listening oh no yeah no throwing everything throwing yes his stuff at him all the time well i don't know if i was throwing his stuff at him as much as i was maybe reciting it in my own head. But I think I will say that when I was single, after I went through my divorce, I finally got my life together with me and my two kids. I you really could not tell me that I was not Miss Independent out here. So I really went into our relationship with a certain level of pride where I was like at the end of the day, I got my stuff together. I finally love who I am and embracing it.
Starting point is 00:53:06 And so when I was in relationship with him and he would just ask me the simplest of questions, we weren't even fighting. It would just be like, why did you do that? I didn't like that because I'm not used to having nobody question my decision. And it was a simple, harmless question. And so I think that I went into a defensive one
Starting point is 00:53:22 because I wanted to protect my healing. And when you're in a marriage and you go into it trying to protect yourself and make sure that you don't get done the way that you were done in the past, I don't know that it's fair for creating intimacy. And so I had to do a lot of work of receiving his perspective and finding it valuable so that I could become better. And I have become better as a result of it. What is what does power look like in a relationship? Those dynamics are always changing. I think especially now that we see, you know, hyper masculinity has been beginning to be interrogated. We're seeing women move into positions where sometimes they're the breadwinners and men are at home being more comfortable taking care of the family I think power in a relationship is recognizing the strengths of what your person carries and how that strength builds you in your
Starting point is 00:54:11 area of weakness without feeling like they have to be strong or stronger in the same area that you're strong I think it's like this symbiotic relationship this flow where you're able to build a life together because both of you bring something different to the table and to honor that to really honor it is important you said something else in the book you said when you are unable to connect the dots between who you since you could become and who you presently are it doesn't just cause internal frustration it renders you powerless and one of the examples you use is you don't defend yourself when misunderstood. Yeah. And to me, not feeling the need to explain yourself is power. Well, I think not explaining yourself and not defending yourself. And I think it's different because you have a platform.
Starting point is 00:54:54 And so you can't defend yourself 24-7. But when we're in intimate relationships with someone and they have an expectation of who we are or this idea of who we are. And we don't change that. We allow them to believe it. We do end up powerless because I'm not even bringing the full version of who I am into this friendship, into this parent child dynamic. And you end up robbing yourself of the ability to really show up in your power and allow them to believe something about you that's not true. And so it is powerful to be like, you got me messed up. Like, that's not what I believe. That's not true and so it is powerful to be like you got me messed up like that's not what I believe that's not what I think and if we're going to walk this thing I want you to know who I am for real so that you can know what to expect from me okay guys are you talking intimate
Starting point is 00:55:34 relations yeah it's hard it's hard for me is telling them the book they're not gonna buy if you ask all the telling them the book they're not gonna buy if you ask them all the questions about the book making her basically recite the book you should pray that your Bob
Starting point is 00:55:50 looks like hers that's what you should do wow now why is my Bob in it now my Bob is in here minding her business now why my Bob
Starting point is 00:55:57 tell him he should pray he can get here now why that's why he like when she pulled her wig off because everybody had him in the face got you
Starting point is 00:56:03 got you I see I do like your Bob though can wig off because everybody had to hang up. Got you. Got you. Oh, I see. I do like it. Can you leave? I was living in the dressing room. You just keep on answering questions over and over. So you forcing me to see. It's got a little swing on it.
Starting point is 00:56:16 Hey. What can you leave us with a prayer? What message are you hoping people get from the book? Oh, the message that I am hoping people get from the book is that power is a flow and that power that you have experienced in your past is still present in your future it just must it just might be taking on a different form so to be open to how power is being redefined in your present well now can you leave us on a prayer? Thank you, God, for this opportunity, for this platform. Thank you for using these voices at this stage in their life.
Starting point is 00:56:50 And I'd usually pray for the listeners, but God, I'm going to pray for them that you would stir up the gift of God that's on the inside of them, that you would highlight the areas of their life where you want them to experience more of your power and to show them the power that you've placed inside of them. I thank you, God, for giving them wisdom, strategy, not just for their careers, but for their family, their emotional health and wellness. And God, I pray that you would continue to show them your light, that they may lean into it. In Jesus name. That's right. Make sure you go get Sarah Jake Roberts' new book, Power Moves, Ignite Your Confidence and Become a Force and subscribe to her podcast, it in Jesus name. That's right. Make sure you go get Sarah Jake Roberts new book power moves ignite your confidence
Starting point is 00:57:26 and become a force and subscribe to her podcast the woman of all podcasts on the black effect I heart radio podcast network. That's right. We appreciate you for
Starting point is 00:57:34 coming Miss Roberts. You need to come more often for people who think church is whack because you the person I feel like is going to bridge the gap between you know church
Starting point is 00:57:42 in this new generation. Yeah, I really feel that way i hope so thank you that's that's a tremendous honor a lot of responsibility but i'm committed to you know holding down my square that's right all right sarah jakes roberts it's the breakfast club good morning morning everybody it's dj nv just hilarious charlamagne the guy we are the breakfast club let's get to just with the mess. News is real, brother. Jessica Lawrence, Jessica Robin Moore. Jess don't do no lying.
Starting point is 00:58:07 She don't spare nobody. Worldwide Jess, worldwide mess. On The Breakfast Club. She's a culture shift. She was able to get y'all to see something and understand something that nobody could get you to see. It's time to set it off.
Starting point is 00:58:26 The weekend's manager, Cash XO's security guard is in critical condition. He was shot multiple times during a run-in at XO's home with three males wearing hoodies and masks. TMZ reported that the security guard heard gunshots and realized he was wounded shortly after engaging the suspects around 2.25 a.m. The security guard, whose identity has not been made public yet, was rushed to the hospital to treat his injuries. However, he was taken into surgery and is expected to survive. Cashow was left unharmed. I've been wanting to hear more because I want to know how wild people are. Did they see the security guard and say,
Starting point is 00:59:00 F it and shoot just to get in? Or did the security guard see them coming and confront them, and then it was a shootout? Because he has a security booth in front of his house, though, so I'm sure they seen the booth. But, yeah, that's very scary that regardless of seeing the security guard, they still wanted action, which is very scary. That's why L.A. is very scary.
Starting point is 00:59:18 You hear so many home break-ins, and I seen Kyle Richards. They just took, you know, a million dollars worth of stuff out of her house. It's serious. It's scary. Yeah, it is. It is. Moving on. Ice Bice accused of cheating on her boyfriend, being colorist and fat phobic.
Starting point is 00:59:34 So Ice Bice ex-best friend attempted to expose her for being a bad person in the series of posts that she made on Twitter. She alleged her ex-best friend. No, the ex-best friend is a singer named Baby Storm. She claimed that she was Ice Spice's real best friend and that the rapper Cleo Trappa is just her industry best friend.
Starting point is 00:59:56 I don't even know that Cleo Trappa and Ice Spice was considered best friends. I mean, but they're both two rappers in the game or whatever. Alright, they may be hanging around each other lately. She claimed that Ice Spice actually hates Cleo and pretends to be friends with her so she can seem closer to blackness. Whatever that means.
Starting point is 01:00:12 She also claimed Ice Spice was fat phobic and that she cheated on her boyfriend and produced a riot with the rapper Lil T.J. She supported all of her accusations with screenshots of text messages and that she alleged that she had with Ice Spice and some of the texts that she posted on Twitter shows actual conversations with ice spice one mocking a dark-skinned woman
Starting point is 01:00:32 claiming that the woman is looking for sympathy by saying that she has to work harder because she is a dark-skinned woman and she also referred to a fat person as why body like don't be all like so I was just mad like she's upset something i mean i did something to her and she's i hate that so much we're friends we cool you know whatever it may be but now we're not cool no more and you indulge you talk about everything that we've discussed she called a fat person wide body and you probably left and wide body not a dish that's not you envy you in the cars people like the wide body bins right they do they like the wide body bins the wide body challenges that's what i'm saying charges like that's what people
Starting point is 01:01:09 want they want the wide bodies yeah honestly um baby storm continued to tweet that riot was one of the only people that was in ice spice's corner and um continually continuously pushed her and encouraged her by ice spice betrayed him by sleeping with little tj and then rapping about it in a song which was produced by the little riot i mean it features little tj um and we got all these people little but she wide body yeah that's just a friend so the friend that's the no the friend don't rap she sing but she wanted to rap first got you got and then she said that ice spice actually just hung around her to steal, like, her thing. Like, steal what she wanted to do. But this is the song.
Starting point is 01:01:48 I got a man, but I hope he don't care. When I'm with him, I wish he was there. Like an average man, you know I'm not scared. When he think he know some shit, fair. Pull up with my wild body men. With my wild body friend. I think Big Bang is worse than wild body. I think wild body is okay.
Starting point is 01:02:02 I think big back is cute. Oh, my God. I think wild body is worse than big back. Really think wide body is okay. I think big back is cute. Oh, my God. I think wide body is worse than big back. Really? You think so? Wide body? Yeah.
Starting point is 01:02:10 Big back means... You can be wide without being big. By the way, if you got a wide body, you got a big back. No. Yes, it is.
Starting point is 01:02:18 The wide go this way. No, because some bitches got broad shoulders. That's true, too. But they not big. But you still big back. But like I'm saying, even when you say
Starting point is 01:02:24 big back with broad shoulders, that's what I'm saying. Big back is not insulting all the time. Yeah. Wide body is wide. That's true, too. But they not big. But you still big back. But like I'm saying, even when you say big back with broad shoulders, that's what I'm saying. Big back is not insulting all the time. Yeah. Wide body is wide. That just makes your hips wide. Everything is just wide. Wide.
Starting point is 01:02:33 Wide. Wide is all outdoors. Now, that's where you're taking it to a whole nother level because I hear that a lot at cookouts. What? What? Wide is all outdoors. Wide is all outdoors.
Starting point is 01:02:44 Yeah. That's what people aren't to be saying when they're trying to say somebody's fat. Wide as all outdoors. Yeah, that's what people aren't to be saying when they're trying to take somebody's fat. That's not cool. So you're saying I'm somebody's aunt?
Starting point is 01:02:49 Yes. Definitely. First of all, don't you ever do your little bob like that when you look at me? Yes. No.
Starting point is 01:02:54 The bob started bouncing and everything. So what? All right, look. So listen, this is the last part that she said. She said,
Starting point is 01:03:01 we weighing fat, but so basically, yeah, I know, I'm a little ice but she she clearly is talking about her and little tj or whatever but yo if if your guy if your man is the producer of the song and he hear you say damn minefield is waiting forever and he been your boyfriend for for a while i'll be like hold What you mean? But the fans aren't really sold on Baby Storm's accusations because when she shared the history of their friendship with Ice Spice,
Starting point is 01:03:30 people realized that they weren't really friends. Like she said, in high school, she was bullied by Ice Spice. And then Ice Spice started being nice to her and supporting her when she seen that Baby Storm was doing music. So, yeah. Well, I do think, and don't quote me, but I do think Riot, who actually makes the beat with her, who is the alleged boyfriend,
Starting point is 01:03:49 I think they write with each other, too. So I think that's part of their whole writing. They did it together. Let me tell you something. I don't know none of these people except for Lil Tjay and Ice Spice. Okay? No Baby Storm and Riot? You don't know them?
Starting point is 01:04:01 Nope. God bless them, though. Yeah, God bless them. You're right. But this is some New York news, you know, because we're in new york so i'm pretty sure people up listening wanting to know about this little beefy and if you if you didn't know get anything from it at least you got a new term today why why why right okay keep that in your group chats though you know you can't be sharing that outside of your group chats everybody's so sensitive yeah
Starting point is 01:04:23 okay right somebody changing somebody naming their phone right now to Widebody. That's a good one. Especially if you got a first name that starts with a W. Widebody Walter. Oh, my God. Widebody. Widebody Wanda. No.
Starting point is 01:04:35 See, I said a man. See, you're so disrespectful. That's the problem with you. But Walter, that's giving like Uncle Granddad. There better not be no young people named Walter. Uh-uh. Or Wanda. All right. Donkey today. We're giving it Uncle Granddad. There better not be no young people named Walter. Uh-uh. Oh, Wanda. All right.
Starting point is 01:04:47 Donkey of the Day. We're giving a donkey to you. Listen, four after the hour, we need another old man, a young man with an old name, Othello. Othello Lorenzo Holmes needs to come to the front of the congregation. We'd like to have a word with him. All right. We'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 01:04:59 Good morning. You're checking out the Breakfast Club. Your execution on the donkey of the day is something to behold is it a reason i gave me donkey of the day and i deserve it people need to know what you need to tell them i am you have the voice tell them tell them it's time for donkey of the day it's a read but you're so good at it you're trying to be a fake ass charlemagne damn charlemagne who you give only one Charlemagne to go. Damn, Charlemagne.
Starting point is 01:05:28 Who you give a dust the other day to now? Well, Sexy Red, don't get it. April Tuesday, April 30th goes to 27-year-old Othello Lorenzo Holmes. Young man with an old name. Okay, Othello was accused of putting the D in dessert. Literally. Okay, he was caught on video placing his penis into
Starting point is 01:05:43 open food items at the culture restaurant in Houston. But not only that, he was accused of possessing several videos of child pornography on his cell phone. I can't make any of this up. Let's go to Fox 26 Houston for the report, please. It's a very sick and disturbing story. Othello Holmes is facing five counts of possession of child pornography and this comes after the manager of a restaurant called culture showed police videos of Holmes sticking his penis in a jar of jelly. Houston streets are safer tonight because we took a pedophile off the street. Those words coming from restaurant owner Marcus Davis after his former employee was caught on camera sticking his genitals in jelly. And what he was doing on the video was placing his genitals in a
Starting point is 01:06:27 plastic jar in the kitchen and he was a cook. The former restaurant employee, 28-year-old Othello Holmes. According to court records, Holmes confessed to the crime and told investigators he had frequent urges. I can tell y'all this individual is a predator. The incident leading investigators to search his phone where they found more than 100 images and videos of child porn. Othello is accused of allegedly creating and sharing child pornography and he's accused of sticking his penis in some pudding. Oh, excuse me, it was jelly.
Starting point is 01:07:01 Othello said who ain't ready for this jelly? Othello was out here adding new items to the menu like penis butter and jelly sandwiches penis butter cookies spicy peanut butter noodles listen this guy has a problem man he said he had a sexual urge but he stopped himself before he ejaculated he also admitted to having these urges frequently and has a history of sexual offenses saying he has a problem with these sexual urges and he says he needs help now when this man is in jail Cuz you know you do the crime you got to do the time, but while you're doing the time Can he get some help is he gonna get the help he needs or is he just gonna do some time and then get put Right back on the streets with the same urges where it's only a matter of time before he commits the same offense
Starting point is 01:07:42 The man had several videos of child pornography on his cell phone and he's got a sexual fetish for food. So he's a pedophile. And when you have a sexual fetish for food, it's called a cytophilia or cytophilia, cytophilia, cytophilia, one of the two, a sexual fetish in which participants are aroused by erotic situations involving food. Between that and the child pornography, this man will probably lose his mind at a Chuck E. Cheese. Can you imagine the sick thoughts that go through his head when he sees a kid's menu? This man would take some chicken nuggets to pound town. He would absolutely try to mack on some mac and cheese. And if
Starting point is 01:08:17 you think you won't fornicate with fish fingers, you're out of your damn mind. The irony is kids' menus offer smaller portions for smaller appetites, but this man doesn't have a smaller appetite. He has a huge sexual appetite and going to prison not going to change that because if he's already into child porn and he's down to do a hot beef injection and some jelly, he's definitely down to do a two person push up with his celly. And what does celly rhyme with? Jelly. All I'm simply saying is we repeat what we don't repair. Please give Othello Lorenzo Holmes the biggest hee-haw.
Starting point is 01:08:53 This man needs some type of help while he's in prison. There's got to be something that they can do. Because why do you keep putting somebody like this on the street just to commit the same crimes over and over?
Starting point is 01:09:03 Like you said, he admitted to having urges, those urges and he said he needs help he's begging for help they got to do something for this guy while he's in prison i don't know what you do but it's got to be something yeah all right well thank you for that donkey today hello though like what oh hello that's old that's an old that's an old school name for old oh my god I think that's from a play or something
Starting point is 01:09:27 yeah it sounds like Shakespeare-ish like it's giving a little Shakespeare Othello yeah a play about William Shakespeare Othello
Starting point is 01:09:33 damn y'all a black Othello alright well thank you for that donkey today now when we come back let's open up the phone lines 800-585-1051 mac and uh jess
Starting point is 01:09:49 hilarious we're having this conversation over something that lotto tweeted wide body mac lotto asked uh do you uh she said when she poops in front of her man she actually goes downstairs so her man doesn't know what she's doing she does not poop or pass gas in front of her man so that is the question 800-585-1051 ladies what are your thoughts on using the bathroom around your partner whatever i hate this conversation is interesting to me because i'm like okay how big is the apartment how big is the trailer how big is the house where is the bathroom the trailer is crazy I grew up in a trailer oh my god oh my god I'm so sorry
Starting point is 01:10:27 that's not a sorry that's how you grow up sometimes nothing wrong with mobile homes mobile homes are great so where is the bathroom cause you can go in the bathroom and close the door what do you mean
Starting point is 01:10:37 when you're pooping in front of your mate like you a cat well some people won't even poop with their I was gonna say mate where their spouse
Starting point is 01:10:44 is not even in the house so they wait till their spouse goes to work and then they use the bathroom oh even poop where their spouse is not even in the house. So they wait till their spouse goes to work and then they use the bathroom. Oh, that's ridiculous. They wait till their spouse is outside and then they use the bathroom. Some people do that. Some people do that. That's not just for me. I don't.
Starting point is 01:10:54 I really don't. You don't do what? No. I go to the bathroom with the door open. You can come and talk to me. How do you feel today? What happened? How was today?
Starting point is 01:11:02 You up all in. I don't care. Now, it's different when you got gas. You got gas. Like, if we land in a bed and we watching a movie and I have gas, and this pregnancy gas is crazy. I will get up, because I'm not a big fan when somebody, when they pass gas under the covers. Respectful.
Starting point is 01:11:18 And then, you know what I mean? The next person got to be trapped under the covers with that. I respect that. Yeah, so I'll get up out the bed and walk a couple feet over, out you know i'm saying fan my booty and all that but pooping is whatever it's in the bathroom it's like whatever and i'm okay with like if he's in the tub oh yeah i'm coming to the bathroom i'm using the bathroom yeah well gil will not poop while i'm in the bathroom like she wants her privacy when she wants to use the bathroom she wants to use the bathroom she's closing the door she does not want me in there at all she wants her privacy and she's not passing gas
Starting point is 01:11:46 in front of me either me I'm different I'm all day I'm putting it under the covers I'm holding the covers and then letting it pop out
Starting point is 01:11:53 let you smack it right in your nose when Gia's using the bathroom I'll kick down I'll bust in the door like hey make her feel uncomfortable start having conversations
Starting point is 01:12:02 what if she hates it I don't know so you do things purposely that you know your wife don't like. Yeah, a child. I'm the one that's going to fart in front of the kids. Hey, London, that's me. Let's keep this thing together, man. Come on, it's time for you to tell us.
Starting point is 01:12:15 Let's keep this together. That's me. I don't see this. I'm like Madison, crack my knuckles. That's me. I'm that guy. Yes, I am. I'm that dad.
Starting point is 01:12:22 I'm that dad. Stinking ass father. I'm the one that locks the windows. Somebody's stinking ass father. I'm the one that locks the windows. Somebody's stinking ass father. I'm the one that locks the windows in the car, pass gas. Hey, hey. Your name should be Walter. Ew.
Starting point is 01:12:33 Walter. He is too light to be a Walter. Uh-uh. Let's open up the phone lines. 800-585-1051. Do you use the bathroom? Do you pass gas in front of your spouse? That is the question.
Starting point is 01:12:44 All right. We'll talk about it when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join into the discussion with The Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody.
Starting point is 01:13:04 It's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us, we're talking about, this conversation comes from a tweet that Lotto put out yesterday. Big Lotto. She said, y'all ish in front of y'all man? I sneak downstairs. So the question is 800-585-1051.
Starting point is 01:13:21 Ladies, what are your thoughts on using the bathroom around your partner? Jess says she doesn't care. Somebody has to define in front of. You saying around. Lotto said in front of. What does that mean? In front of. So, I gave him the sample. If he is... Damn, Ari Enby. Sorry. So, like, when he
Starting point is 01:13:37 is in the bathroom, like, when Chris is in the bathroom, brushing his teeth, or if he's in the tub or in the shower, I'll come. We have a very big bathroom. You know, he has his own like side, like we have his and her sinks and stuff, but it's one toilet. And yeah,
Starting point is 01:13:48 I will use it no matter what I have to do. Number one, number two, whatever. Now he's not the same. He ain't ready to do that. Like,
Starting point is 01:13:54 you know what I mean? He closes the door. I've never been a person that closed the door or whatever. So yeah, I'll poop around him. I will.
Starting point is 01:14:01 I said it was different for gas, but you just said pooping. So yeah, I poop around him. Gas, you don't care use what it is what it is no listen you know his levels the gas you know when it's ready be I win and you know is when it's gonna be okay one like a little mediocre one you can just pass you know I'll do that around mediocre once you do around them but a hot one you you know i'm all right on my bed i still let them know look i'm ready let one off and i'll move yeah charlamagne uh i have no desire to see my wife poop and she has no desire to want to see me poop like if i'm taking a shower and she in the bathroom
Starting point is 01:14:35 i'm just taking a shower while she in the bathroom if i'm brushing my teeth while she in the bathroom i don't care but that's because we got a door on the back so I don't even see what she's doing My question would be why is a mate? Do you want to see that? Why is that something you want to see? Well, nobody said you want it. It's just sometimes If you I just joke with my wife I like to make her feel uncomfortable at times I just Cuz I'm stupid That makes no sense. I'm beyond That's just me, but I'm that I want to make your wife I'm going to be honest with you. That makes serious sense. That's just me.
Starting point is 01:15:05 Why would you want to make your wife feel uncomfortable? It's funny to me because I know she hates it and I just walk in and start having questions. So you do things you know your wife hates on purpose. I just saw y'all do that. Yes. That's stupid. That could have been a topic. What?
Starting point is 01:15:17 What dumb-ish do you do just to make your spouse mad purposely? Tammy. Good morning. Hey, Tammy. Good morning. Hey, Tammy, good morning. Hi, DJ Envy. Yeah, without a doubt, I'm not just, I'm Charlotte Mayne.
Starting point is 01:15:32 Peace, peace, peace. And I would not pass gas in front of my man. Say it again, you don't wobble? I would not pass gas in front of my man if I had to go for a foul movement. I'll go to the opposite bathroom
Starting point is 01:15:43 of wherever he is. If he's in the bedroom, I'm going in the living room. If he's in the living room, I'm going in the bedroom. Okay. And if we're on vacation in a small area, I'll twist up a paper towel, light it, blow it out, because the smoke will take away the smell. Damn, that's a lot.
Starting point is 01:16:01 I respect it. Okay. It's really not. I just think that a man don't want to smell you smelling like a man. Because I've got that stink. I walk up to the bathroom with stink. You don't need to smell that. I'm with you.
Starting point is 01:16:12 I don't see the desire. That's what I keep asking. What's the desire for a man or even a woman to want to be in front of you while you pooping? It's not even a desire. It's if people think that you should be so comfortable with your spouse that if you got to go to the bathroom, you go to the bathroom. Whether your spouse is in the bathroom or whatever, baby. not hurrying up lighting up stuff like nah it's gonna a out open the window do your thing maybe we talking about bathrooms that don't have doors like you know you go in some bathrooms and it's the toilet and the shower they all out in the open if you go in the bathroom in the bathroom
Starting point is 01:16:42 if you go in the bathroom with the sink and the shower on the outside But then the bathroom has a door. I don't see the problem with it. Hello. Who's this? Hey, good morning The poop You have a conversation cuz you know he can't move. Yeah. He can't move. He ain't got no place to sit there and listen. Like, hold up now.
Starting point is 01:17:11 You can sense me. So, he don't mind. You know, I'll get the sense out of him. Why can't you do that while you on top of him having sex or something? Why have a conversation? No, no, no. We ain't doing all that.
Starting point is 01:17:22 That's the focus. Exactly. That's the focus. That's beauty. Her husband right there in the car with her. What's Walter talking about? Yeah, yeah. Good morning, Walter.
Starting point is 01:17:32 Hold up. He got to take his own thing. They're like, hold up now. Good morning, Walter. You and Shirley have a great day. You stupid, man. Have a good day. 800-585-1051.
Starting point is 01:17:43 We're asking, do you poop or pass gas around your spouse? Let's talk about it. Let's have a conversation. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Call, call, call, call. Tell her. Tell her.
Starting point is 01:17:52 Made it. Just for some conversation. If y'all talking about it, you know we talking about it. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join in to the discussion with The Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 01:18:12 Now, if you're just joining us, this conversation actually comes from Lotto. Lotto tweeted yesterday, Y'all ish in front of your man, I sneak downstairs. So that is the question. 800-585-1051. Ladies, what are your thoughts on using the bathroom around your partner? And we have Tanika on the line. Tanika, good morning.
Starting point is 01:18:29 Good morning. Hey, Tanika. Good morning, Tanika. Where you coming from? Hey, y'all. Charlamagne. Just don't do no mess. Peace, Tanika.
Starting point is 01:18:36 Hi. Good morning. What up, girl? What's your thoughts? My thoughts on that is that I went through the same exact thing with my husband now 18 years. But in the beginning, man, I couldn't wait till he leave the house. Oh, wow. So that I could use the soundproof.
Starting point is 01:18:51 But now, I take him out. Take him out. What kind of bathroom y'all got? Is y'all toilet and shower like all in the same place? When we first started, it was a studio. Okay. So I had to wait till he leaves now we have two restrooms i don't even care okay like babe can you go back to waiting till i leave
Starting point is 01:19:12 does the toilet area have a closed door yes okay okay see that's all i'm talking about if the toilet area got a closed door it don't matter sometimes that smell come through that closed door i don't care i don door okay hello I don't close the door hey what's your name mama hey Taisha do you poop in front of your spouse and pass gas You still got a lease. A lease? A lease. I can take you back. Okay, as soon as this lease up. Two years ain't nothing. Oh, my God. You better stop being nasty. I can take you back.
Starting point is 01:19:49 It's crazy. Stevie! Yo, what up, baby? Stevie, what's up, brother? How you feeling? Man, I'm feeling good, man. What's up, uh, dancing, uh, Salome? What's up, man?
Starting point is 01:20:01 Hey, my wife what it is. I do that too. I'm that dad. I'm a father of my kids. When they give me a hug, it's just... You know what's funny If y'all ever got Y'all wives journals
Starting point is 01:20:29 Or diaries Or talk to your wives Therapists You would see how much She don't like that Oh She loves it You think she love it
Starting point is 01:20:36 In your mind She loves it You think you being so funny You so cute When all she wanted was a fart-free husband. Well, that is not ever going to happen.
Starting point is 01:20:49 You're not going to ever get a fart-free nothing. But when you clowned out like any. Stevie, how old are your kids? My kids, my son, nine, and my daughter is 14.
Starting point is 01:20:58 You know what you do to your wife next time? You put a little chocolate on toilet paper and you chase them around the house with it. I've done that before. I've done that before it i've done that before i've done that before i've done that before i want divorce i'm looking at this article right now that the guardian wrote it said farting in front of anyone
Starting point is 01:21:14 is not a symptom of societal collapse but it is morally offensive and kills the romance when you do it in front of your partner it also signifies a breakdown in respect. That may sound extreme, but farting is just gross. Tessa. What's up? Hey, good morning. What are you calling from, Tessa? Good morning. Good morning.
Starting point is 01:21:32 Back in La Florida. Okay. We're asking, do you poop or pass gas in front of your spouse? I'm not pooping and I'm not passing gas. That's a no. Not at all? No. When I was pregnant Maybe
Starting point is 01:21:45 You know what I mean But I was with that man For like 18 years But It's just a Type of situation But not just On the OGP to be
Starting point is 01:21:52 For For For Word Literally I don't think It's what he's like You know what I mean
Starting point is 01:21:58 At all I don't think it's cute Okay Well thank you mama What's the moral of the story guys Do what you wanna do I mean yeah You gotta story guys do what you want to do i mean yeah you got to do what works for you and your uh significant other but just make sure it does work for your significant other like you know i mean you should probably ask questions and
Starting point is 01:22:14 don't be like envy and think just because he's funny you know what i think because he being cute because the other people might actually hate it for all you know yeah and you know i don't fart in my clothes and i don't want to be in front of nobody pooping and please always remember that if you a man farting around another man that's a form of flirting because why would you want that man to know what your ass smell like you have been through some things all right we got just with the mess coming up what we talking about um can I read your notes to the people out there? Oh my God. Can I read your notes though? Jess, she has these notes that she writes down, right? And these notes are under her rumors and her reports.
Starting point is 01:22:53 So she writes, Envy Charlamagne, jelly, jelly, jelly, jelly, jelly, balls and testicles, jelly, jelly, jelly. Then she writes her full name and jelly, jelly. Then she got numbers, 35 minus 14, 21. It's 21, I'm doing math. You just put everything she got numbers. 35 minus 14, 21. It's 21. I'm doing math. You just put everything on this paper. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:23:08 Oh, my gosh. My brain works so crazy. I don't know what I'm bored I have to write. But coming up in the news, it's even beef with the Africans. It's beef and Afro beats. Okay. Yes. So the Africans beefing.
Starting point is 01:23:20 The Africans is beefing. All right. I'm going to tell you all what you see when we come back. All right. We'll get to it next. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Come on. The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 01:23:31 Let's get to Jess with the mess. The news is real, brother. The headlines, Jessica Robin Moore. Jess don't do no lying. Don't do no lying. She don't scare nobody. Worldwide Jess, worldwide mess. On The Breakfast Club. was able to get y'all to see something
Starting point is 01:23:49 And understand something That nobody could get you to see It's time to set it off Okay So first there was a rap beef Then Taylor took a shot at Kim K Kim K didn't see nothing, thank God And then now DeVito and WizKids
Starting point is 01:24:04 They hit the blogs after they had a back and forth on X. Alright, so the internet beef started when WizKid posted a subliminal tweet saying that an anonymous artist and his washed up crew
Starting point is 01:24:14 go to sleep at night believing they can compete with him. Then he followed up with another tweet saying that there's no point in addressing delusional niggas. He said,
Starting point is 01:24:24 there's no point in addressing them any further and that he just pray for them devito cleared all the speculation when he responded to whiz kid directly and he reposted his tweet about delusional niggas and added we not delusional you're sick man whiz kid responded with a video mocking devito crying for help i don't know when this was but there was a parody um video of devito crying for help when don't know when this was but there was a parody um video of devito crying for help when he was trying to get his girlfriend back after she had found out that he was with a side chick so devito responded again by roasting with his kid now he said that's what
Starting point is 01:24:55 i thought nothing to say exactly why i stopped wasting my clout and jeopardizing my millions of u.s dollars on you know he ever ran he put usd of endorsements on somebody whose career was resurrected a few years ago and just died again next he said the next week he said size size seven shoe nigga shop at footlocker kids you know everyone because you know they say stuff backwards it's kids for like i got you but you know they understand each other drake drake just said that too by the way whoever said i know that i know devito said come on right right so when shaver reported the story devito hopped in the comments and kept going he said he got beach coke head and then he said he shop at footlocker kids again and then he said he got to get his
Starting point is 01:25:42 designer retailed beach and he he was going in now if one of them puts hands on the other you know what they're gonna call it what what afro beach that was a good one but listen he's waiting for that one he thought about that the whole thing he's waiting for that one and look he even got his head down laughing because he laughed himself but it's not that that funny you gotta put your head down with it. But, because I actually said that when I teased the rumors. Oh, you said it first. So, he stole your joke.
Starting point is 01:26:10 That's my manager. See, he don't listen. He don't listen. Look, they had beef for years, though. And it was a rumor that DeVito slapped his ass backstage. They had a concert in Dubai in 2017. DeVito slapped him on the ass? No. I'm sorry. See? He slapped him across his face. Now Did DeVito slap them on the ass? No.
Starting point is 01:26:25 I'm sorry. See? He slapped them across the face. Now when one of them jump on your ass. That's what she said. She said slap his ass. That's not what she said. She just said slap his ass.
Starting point is 01:26:33 We all knew what she meant. I didn't know. So we need to know DeVito slapped them in the face in Dubai back in 2017 when he had beef behind backstage at a concert. That's what I don't like to see though because African artists are the ones making the music that makes us all feel peaceful. The best music. What y'all beefing for? I know. Diddy's daughter
Starting point is 01:26:52 goes to prom. So Diddy's 17 year old daughter Chance went to prom with Chloe and Halle's little brother Branson. You knew you had a little brother named Branson? You didn't even know. That's crazy. But yeah so. After 50's liquor? It's called Branson. But he's so cute. you didn't even know that's crazy but yeah so maybe after 50's liquor no 50 got liquor yeah yeah
Starting point is 01:27:06 it's called Branson yeah but he's so cute he look like both of them put together who little brother is that that's your little cousin that's Chloe and Haley little brother
Starting point is 01:27:12 his name Branson oh I didn't even hear what you said he don't know them he don't know them no he don't know them he don't know them but it's alright
Starting point is 01:27:19 Branson posted a picture to his social media with the caption take a chance 2k24 which obviously is a play on her name, and then Chance commented on the post saying, I love you. So they're together.
Starting point is 01:27:31 Wow. Getting in a relationship. And you just never realize, like, I remember these little girls being, like, even Diddy's twins and Chance being so small. And now, like, they're at prom. They're 17 years old. That's crazy. Time flies.
Starting point is 01:27:43 Yes, it does fly. That's crazy. That's what people be saying about Ash. We used to see him when he was little was diddy there was diddy there at the prom um taking pictures you know what you know no no i know but don't say that this fall down fall was there but um i don't even think parents can come to prom no no but you you know you watch them off when they get the limo okay take pictures and all that stuff you know no no but ch Khloe and Halle show their approval of Chance by commenting heart eye emojis on the post. They're so cute together. It's prom season already? Yes.
Starting point is 01:28:12 Yes, it is. It just kicked off about a week ago. In Atlanta. In Atlanta. It is. In Atlanta, yep. Quavo raises $50,000 to support gun violence prevention. This past weekend, Quavo hosted
Starting point is 01:28:25 the 7th annual Honcho Day in collaboration with Quavo Cares and the Rocket Foundation. He had his celebrity friends come through to participate
Starting point is 01:28:34 in a 707 flag football, basketball game, and a full day of events. Some of the celebrities that showed up was Drewski, Steven Jackson, Flagey Johnson,
Starting point is 01:28:44 King Harris, and a couple more people. The event sold out with over 4 000 attendees nice and they raised 50 000 for the rocket foundation in support of gun violence prevention that's dope you said he wants to make it bigger and bigger every year and to donate even more money next year so yes and of course the rocket foundation was established to honor the life and legacy of takeoff so i thought that was pretty good. And real quick, I want to send out healing energy and my condolences to actress Natori Naughton and her family following the news of her father passing. And I just saw her on a flight back from Atlanta when we came back from the podcast festival and, you know, being at Clark. And she was a high spirit.
Starting point is 01:29:22 She was just energy was high. She was nice. And she was a high spirit. She was just, energy was high. She was nice. And she saw me on a plane. She was talking to me, pouring into me and all of that, giving me advice on, you know,
Starting point is 01:29:31 because she just had a baby, you know, and working and having such a busy career and hugged me and everything. And she just got the devastating news that her dad passed.
Starting point is 01:29:40 Wow. Definitely sending healing energy to Tori Knott and her family. Yeah. So that is Jess with the mess for the third hour.
Starting point is 01:29:48 Thank you, Jess. Appreciate you. Up next, we got the People's Choice Mixer. Get your request
Starting point is 01:29:52 in and it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. You're checking out the Breakfast Club. Morning,
Starting point is 01:29:56 everybody. It's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, salute to Sarah
Starting point is 01:30:02 Jakes-Roberts for joining us this morning. Yes. Make sure you go get her new book. Power moves, man. It is available everywhere. You buy books.
Starting point is 01:30:10 Now, uh, I actually listened to it. Uh, well, I'm listening to it now. Um, on,
Starting point is 01:30:14 on audible, but, uh, it's called power moves, ignite your confidence and become a boss. And that's what Sarah Jakes Roberts is, man. She's definitely a force.
Starting point is 01:30:22 So salute to her. All right. And when we come back, we got a positive notice to breakfast club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. She's definitely a four, so salute to her. All right. And when we come back, we got a positive notice to Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy,
Starting point is 01:30:29 Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. All right. Well, it's time to get up out of here. It is. Real quick,
Starting point is 01:30:36 before we get out of here, this weekend, y'all, your girl Jess Hilarious will be on that stage in Louisville, Kentucky at the Louisville Comedy Club. Get your tickets at JessHilariousofficial.com
Starting point is 01:30:47 or louisvillecomedyclub.com. We got four shows, Friday and Saturday. So make sure you get your tickets before they all sell out. That is dope. And where can they get the tickets again?
Starting point is 01:30:56 justhilariousofficial.com or louisvillecomedy.com. Sorry. And salute to everybody who listens to us on Real 93.1 in Louisville. And also, I want to tell y'all, man, make sure you go out there and pre-order my new book, Get Honest or Die Lying, Why Small Talk Sucks, which will be out May 21st.
Starting point is 01:31:13 But it's available for pre-order everywhere you buy books now, man. You can go to WhySmallTalkSucks.com to see my upcoming book tour date. So I'll be coming to a city near you real soon. That's right. In a couple weeks, actually. Yeah. We're still on radio to a city near you real soon. That's right. In a couple weeks, actually. Yeah. We're still on radio in Vegas, too, right? Salute to Vegas.
Starting point is 01:31:29 I know we did it a couple times when we were out there. Right? I have no idea. Yeah, we're still on radio in Vegas. I'm going to be out there this weekend for the Lovers and Friends Festival. Oh, that's going to be lit. That's a festival.
Starting point is 01:31:38 So I'm going to be out there. I'm going to be doing a day party, the day before, an R&B day party. Then I'm going to Hardeen, which is the smoke shop. And then the concert. So it should be a lot of fun. It should be a lot of fun. So salute to everybody heading out there.
Starting point is 01:31:51 Y'all be safe. And I'll see y'all in Vegas this weekend. And salute to Magic City, man. You know, Magic City, they heard me talking yesterday about how I didn't get my wings. So they're going to send me some wings via Gold Belly. But they also sent me, well i was shown well edit this but salute to the guy who went to the window and lied and said he was with us and that's why we ain't get our wings because he he ended up getting all the wings now salute to him clearly he needed it more than we did but if you're gonna go to the window the kitchen window
Starting point is 01:32:26 and tell loma them that you know uh you you was there with me and you you wanted to get your free wings clearly you needed it more than i do my dear you'll say man we got charlemagne hungering here man what's up where his wings at man where his wings at i need them lemon peppers right now and they gave all the boxes all of them literally All of them. Literally all of them. All of them. Salute to Loma though and everybody in the kitchen at Magic City.
Starting point is 01:32:49 And salute to you, La La La La. You were a great server. I said that yesterday, but I'm repeating it, okay? That's dope. We'll leave us on a positive note. The positive note is simply this.
Starting point is 01:32:58 The people you meet are either reflections of a repeated cycle or guides toward a new start. Notice the difference. Have a blessed day. Breakfast Club, bitches! You all finished
Starting point is 01:33:08 or y'all done?

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