The Breakfast Club - Has A Relationship Ended Without Notice?

Episode Date: July 24, 2023

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out today if you didn't know the story we'll get back into that story later on there being one of those rumor reports but we're talking about Tiffany Haddish. Tiffany Haddish sat down with the Washington Post, and she was talking about her relationship with Common. She said it was healthy. It was funny. It was probably one of the funniest relationships she's been in. It was safe. And then all of a sudden,

it just didn't work. And it's not because of her. She said the feeling wasn't mutual, that they were together. And then all of a sudden, commented with a text and said the relationship ran its course. So we're asking 800-585-1051. Has that ever happened to you? You thought your relationship was good.

You thought everything was good money. And then all of a sudden, it wasn't. Now, Lauren, has that happened to you before? No. Same answer, no. Not at all? Uh-uh, no. I'm not going out like that but what do you mean you're not going out like that what does that mean exactly lord because that's so hurtful like for you really didn't don't care much about that person if you just wake up one day and you're like this isn't

working for me i'll call you back but what what and i'm not saying tiffany is this person but what if you know that the person in your date is kind of crazy like kind of the one that will put hands and feet on you looking at your eyes right now because you see that you know you would have got a text message maybe a dm i have learned in my adult life that women cannot put their hands on men is the best violence i would not do that but don't know i just feel like there there should be a level of respect decency yes a phone call is not especially when you're very like they're at that age but also too at that height of celebrity it's like it's embarrassing she was so happy so excited about the relationship and to know and also too i don't know like the the me i just feel like I expected just a little bit more smoothness from Common.

Like, it really makes me look at him in a way that I don't want to look at him. Now, I don't know nothing about Common and Tiffany's situation, right? But what if I spoke to you prior face-to-face and we decided that this wasn't going to work? And I told you this face-to-face, but you couldn't let go. See, that's different. You know what I'm saying? That's different. That's really different.

That's kind of like with the whole Scandival thing you guys watch. Vanderpump? No. Okay, never mind. That's a lot different because there's a forewarning.

It's kind of put out there that regardless of how anybody feels, it's not working for at least one person and the person's not willing to work through it. But it doesn't seem like that's what was given to her. It's kind of like

she didn't even have the are we gonna fight for this is this a thing like type of conversation like it was just like no this doesn't work for me I'm good she said she responded okay cool so you just gonna be this single man at 50 like but like I'm thinking about it with you that's what that's technically what he's saying i hate that comment as a love bomber like that damn it's a love bomber it's a person that like comes into your life they fill you up in all the ways that you need do everything right and the love is there the passion is there and then it's just like i'm gone hey and can you imagine like you know what i mean like you're it's common and he didn't about the, you got the voice on top of it.

Yeah. I want a hug. I would have definitely been a love bomber. Back in the day. Because I'm a cancer. I'm a sensitive cancer. You know what I'm saying? Oh, yeah.

Y'all are the ones. There's so much emotion tied up into it so fast. That's right. That the other person feels like, okay, this is going somewhere. Because I got them. I got that emotion. When some people just are emotional people. And you come, you drop it, and then you dip.

You love bombing you. That's right. Chrissy! Yes? Now, talk to us, Chrissy. You was with somebody for two years. What happened? Yeah.

I was with him for two years, and they just... After one, they never said anything. You never said nothing? Not even a phone call or text? Nothing? Nothing. Just nothing. Is he in jail? Was it a he or a she? Not even a phone call or text? Nothing? Nothing. Just nothing. Is he in jail?

Was it a he or a she? It was a she. Oh, she left you. Damn. Is she in jail? Is she alive? Yeah, she's alive. I saw her a couple days ago.

It was the money. We don't talk about how toxic lesbians are to each other. We really don't. Y'all are some cruel people to each other. I've seen it happen. I was cruel. I was pretty nice. Yeah, but i'm talking about the person you was dating so she loved you she she she caressed you she held you she ate the box right and then just left you one day you're funny but i feel like you said two years right yeah two years i feel like the first two years of a relationship

and i'm sorry to have to say this to you, it's not, you haven't even fully cut off everybody that you were dealing with before the relationship. Damn. I could win. I actually did. Well, she might not have. What's she doing now? She with somebody? I don't know.

My belief is. You haven't, like, looked at the Instagram, Facebook, nothing? I don't have Instagram and Facebook. Let's be in relationships is so complicated because whenever you play paper, rock, scissors, it's always scissors. No, shut up, man. Shut up, man. What shut up man what's wrong with you and you are making jokes what's wrong with you she's obviously hurt she can barely get the words out karen corinne hello what's your name hello karen or corinne corinne okay corinne what happened with you corinne um March, my boyfriend of eight years just broke up with me. Like, that he was moving to New York.

Damn. Did he just text you? Was that a cry or a deep cough? I don't know. Hello? No, it was face to face. Oh, no, I thought you was crying just now. I didn't know what you was doing.

Oh, no, I was laughing. Started to laugh. So, were there issues leading up to the conversation of our move into New York? No, it was a perfect relationship. I thought it was. Y'all got to stop this, man. I never believed that. It's no way. Y'all not being honest.

I love you no more. You're not being honest. Something happened. You just don't wake up one day and say, it's over. I swear, I thought the same thing. Were you perfect relationship like, I don't go looking so it's not happening? Like, something had to happen.

There had to be something. What did he move to New York for? A job or like a person or? A job. Not after eight years, though. Eight years. Something must have changed in the relationship. Yeah. Maybe he finally decided.

I was 12. Damn. Like, long time. Maybe he finally decided to do right by his wife yo shut up goodbye i'm sorry corinne what's wrong with you man what's wrong with you 800-585-1051 if you just joined us yo you a fool man we're talking about tiffany hatter she sat down with the washington post she was talking about her relationship with common and said it was the healthiest funniest relationship ever she felt safe everything was good And then all of a sudden, you know, Carmen hit her with a text and was like, uh, the relationship run its course.

She was hurt by it. Has this happened to you? Let's talk about it. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody.

It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us here with our guest co-host, Lauren LaRosa, formerly of TMZ. And the reason I say formerly, we'll explain in a little bit. But we're asking, this comes from Tiffany Haddish. She recently sat down with The Washington Post. She was talking about her relationship with Common. She said during that relationship, it was the healthiest, funniest relationship.

She said she felt safe. And Common, well, just didn't think so. The feeling wasn't mutual. She said Common hit her with a text like, this relationship has run its course. What you about to get into? Jesus Christ. So we're asking 805-85-1051. Has that happened to you?

Lauren LaRosa said no, that hasn't happened. And it won't. Nope, it won't. Lauren brought up a good point and a good term that I never heard before, which is called love bombing. Right. And I think that guys who love bomb, you know, really have to learn how to pull back on that. Because you can't approach every situation like that person is the one. Or they need to not date until they can emotionally mature very true because for me i feel like you love mom and you run away from

something like that because anybody that keeps getting this serious because this is a common pattern with common and you keep stepping away from it though i i just there's something like he's not getting over that hump for a reason what What if it's the fact that he maybe he might think that he's in love or thinks he's in that situation and then something he sees turns him off. But that's something with him, though. How many times you want to do that? That's something he got to fix and he got to correct. Because how many times are you going to do this with people? I just hate this.

It makes me feel like he's an F boy. Like, damn, I hate to think about him that way it's always just been like melodies and great lyrics and like i'm just there i promise you guys us women live in like a a fantasy state of common really and i think what yes okay so listen that's a good point you just brought up lauren so maybe it's the women's fault because maybe the women have this now just blame us no i's fault. Because maybe the women have this idea. Now just blame us. No, I'm just saying,

because maybe the women have this idea of common. And maybe it ain't even like that. I mean, I... Maybe common just dating and kicking it. But these women are like, no, it's going to be my husband. This is what I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. That's true, too.

But also, too, I think when you meet, you know, a man who is successful, he's attractive, he's going to speak to you the right way, he's going to speak life into you you know what I mean she said she felt safe you are instantly

whether it's coming or not going to feel like I love it here I want to you know what I mean like I'm honestly thinking now like cause you know he's allegedly

with Jennifer Hudson now I'm trying to figure out like where that's going what if that's just his nature though what if he's just that kind of person that makes you feel that way that pours love into every relationship that's going send you to maya angelo poems in the morning just because that's him just because he is a protective person like maybe i think i don't i

don't know how he goes into these things then because i don't what tiffany had it just seems like she was very caught off guard and i think if he is just that person there's nothing wrong with that and i don't even know if i would call him a love bomber then if you go into and you're honest and your friend that's just how you court one of my friends just Mike the poet Y'all know just Mike Okay, so he talks about that a lot the fact that he courts women so well even if he doesn't want to be long-term with them and makes women hate him and It's because women are not used to being quoted a certain way or treated a certain way So the minute they do they like latch on so if So if it's that, I can understand that.

But Tiffany had it seemed very well caught off guard. Like it was given, he might've proposed one day and said, is your Uber here yet the next? Damn. Well, let's go to the phone lines. Hello, who's this? This is Terrell from South Carolina. Hey Terrell, what's going on?

What's happening, brother? Nothing much, man. Tell us your story, Terrell. So me and my girl at the time was together for like five years and um we got engaged on st thomas the island or whatever and um when we came back she broke it off with me and um she was dating her girlfriend at the time i didn't even know nothing about it oh she cheated on you with a girl? You see what I'm saying? We just was talking about how toxic these lesbians are.

You see? One done stole your book. One done stole your book. I'm just saying, man. But does it hurt more that she cheated on you with a woman or no? No, it really don't. It is whatever. I mean, getting your girl stolen is getting your girl stolen.

Ain't nothing you can do about it. But I did get my get back though with her. How did you get your get back? The girl that used to beat her up in school, I ended up sleeping with her. Was it good? What? The girl that used to beat her up in school? What was that low vibrational response you just gave us, sir?

What? I thought you was going to go for like the sister or the aunt. Oh, yeah, something else. The girl that used to beat her up. Beat her up when? In elementary school? Middle school? High school? High school. Goose Creek. So where you from? Goose Creek.

Let me ask you a question. So you must know that that triggered her. She must have used to talk about getting beat up by that girl a lot. Yeah. And how old are y'all? 30. So this is about 12. Y'all about 12, 13 years removed from high school. 14 years removed, yep.

You just did it because you knew that was going to traumatize her. She must have got beat up in front of the whole school. She must have been talking about that for years. Multiple times. Yeah. So you had sex with her bully? Yep. Multiple times.

Drop on a clues bomb For this young man How does the bully look though Cause if the bully Was beat up It don't matter Also The girlfriend don't care

If she can fight now Like if she can fight now She good Yo having sex with A girl's bully Is crazy What the bully look like I'm just curious

What the bully look like On a five One to five About a five Okay There's five, about a five. Okay. There's no way. No, I don't think so. That bully, there's somebody beating him to get in like that.

Don't look like that. It's Ruth Everybody and Goose Creek, man. All right. What's the moral of the story? I don't know. What's the moral of the story, Lauren? Don't tell your man about your bully. That's the moral of the story.

I'm not telling you nothing. All right. Now, when we come back, we got your rumor report. Lauren, you doing these rumors? Yes. What are we talking about? Give us a little tease. We are talking about Coil Array, and we are going to talk about Elliott Wilson.

Yes. All right. We'll get into all that when we come back. Keep it locked. This is The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own?

I planted the flag. This is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. There are 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God.

What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zaka-stan. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-a-stan. On the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about. It's a

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